Agree with you 99%. I am married to a Filipina 18 years younger. Personally, 20 years would be my cut-off. She's here with me in Australia and is the hardest worker out there. I could not have gotten a better loving lady.
Nice you scored. Most are good I have been in my life chat community that are amazing and have met their boyfriend through my community I simply have to warn guys that are thinking it’s burning desire between 19-year-old and a seventy year old
Yeah, guys. Please don't remain a slob or degrade while in the Philapines. If you're going over there and you're an overall only a 4 out of 10 in all dynamics, become a 4.5+ please. You put on those elevator shoes, hit that gym, whiten those teeth, join a Toastmasters, cut your hair, take a shower, trim your nose/ear hairs, whatever, keep improving. Don't be sad. Even a Philapina has her limits.
There's so much of that going on guys need to listen to this video another thing to be careful of check to make sure she doesn't have a Filipino boyfriend, You can only do that by meeting the girl in person and living with her A lot of the girls online aren't single if you start sending money even when you do meet in person the girl and her family will go to great lengths to hide the fact that she is in a relationship with a local guy. It's a developing country poverty is still bad in the country guy's really need to take their time if you don't there's a very good chance of getting scammed. Good video jasper thanks for sharing 👍
Thank you so much, also when you send a woman money, she loses respect for you. If you’ve never met her, that’s the honest truth I have a lot of Filipina friends and just dated a lot of women on this planet.
Another informative video Jasper. I know exactly what you’re talking about. Thats why I got off dating sites because so hard sorting through women to find a good one. Lots just looking for a hand out for sure. Keep doing what you do.
Yeah, just get boots on the ground and be realistic. I know my videos are not that popular with people because nobody would ever dare speak this boldly but if I save a couple of guys from losing their life savings and just get them on an airplane, my work is done.
@JasperinthePhilippines Yes, most guys come over to Asia blinker eyed. Some without experiencing life there. Myself, have visited good, and bad in Philippines and Thailand. Some vloggers bullshit the reality, life is hard there if you do not have enough renewable income. Living the dream on $1500, come on get real. Philippino can, not expat. Thank you for you input.
@@JasperinthePhilippines No sugar coating the elephant in the room here. Good stuff, man. This is the advice you won't get in that Lonely Planet guide to the Philippines. 👌🏻😂
In the meantime if you're already married to a Filipina, the single ones will try to steal the other Filipinas husband. Know matter what country there in.
YEP!! Yep yep, exactly. I have experienced this numurous times online dating. Probably 90% eventually start talking about financial issues. (I don't send money PERIOD). But they try to wrap you up quickly! Everything Jasper says is so true. I think many of these women would be very good (if you live here). But I would NEVER take her back to the states.
Real talk I really like your straight up blunt commentary I am 43 in California And even here I am just not interested in someone more than 20 years younger . I just wouldn’t think there would be much chemistry or anything in common with extreme age differences.
Thanks a lot Jay jay. Yeah right around the 20 year mark is probably good I was dating a girl that was about 20 years younger than me in Los Angeles about nine months before I came here and probably a girl in her late 20s would be a good fit for me in the Philippines.
It is so cool you wipe the smoke off the mirrors and let the guys know to be careful and be realistic a lot of channels promote a fake reality and a lot of guys get a rude awakening!
Thank you so much man I’m just trying to be brutally honest. Sometimes my Delivery is a bit rough, but it snow fluff. Just be careful if I can save one guy from losing his life savings. It’s worth it.
While it’s not impossible to find a genuine, good honest younger Pinay online, it’s very difficult to find. I think it takes way too much effort to find them. For this reason, I think it’s better to somehow meet Pinays in person.
I agree. It’s like sifting through 1000 people to figure out who is the lady boy who is in your area who is married who has children who is qualified for you looks wise who can transport themselves to you and then who’s a decent human being 🤣🤣 just meet a to Girl Uptown mall are walking down the beach or something it’s way easier you know exactly what they look like. They know exactly what you look like you can feel the vibe.
Exactly. I’m a 64 guy online. In person my age is hidden. Since I look younger, in person works much better for me. The problem is online is so easy that it’s intoxicating, while meeting in person requires guts.
I like your 25 year rule too. Guess what just happened to me? I was ghosted by a 28 year old for absolutely no reason after an 18 month relationship. To be honest, it’s both confusing and hurtful. But it was a 36 year age gap, so I guess I just have to attribute it to that.
I think one of the issues some of these guys are facing is that they've never experienced true interest from a woman where she is totally head over heels for him, so they fall for anything as genuine. They don't know what the real thing looks or feels like. Trust me, guys, they can't fake it! If both of you aren't laughing and having fun almost every time you talk, then you're probably being scammed or at the very least with a girl who has a low interest level. If she's not missing you before you even close the call, etc. I could go on.
Yeah, exactly when you’ve never experienced that genuine, burning desire, or than a way that a woman treats you when she’s absolutely enamored with you and basically worships you you don’t really know how to decipher you being employment from you been burning desire
I lucked out. I met my Filipina wife as a recommendation from her aunt who was my former babysitter when I was a kid. She thought we'd make a good fit and she's right. If I were young today? I'll most likely not go with a dating site. We have many Filipinos in the US who can make similar assessments like what my former babysitter did. After all, they wouldn't recommend their relative to just anyone. They're well aware of how loose relationships are in the US. So, they'll make doubly sure a scumbag isn't marrying into the family.
Everything you said should just be common sense. I'm 70, but I know the deal. I won't send money overseas, but if I go to SE Asia and meet a woman who treats me right, I might do a little to help her and her family out, but only what doesn't hurt me financially. And I think a 70 year old like me should be looking at women > 40 years old. At that point, if they have kids they are adults who should be on their own and at that age they are mature enough to know that they are past prime attractiveness (although most 40+ Asian women are light years younger looking than western women) and are more likely to appreciate a man taking interest in them. A 40+ woman is likely looking for a serious, long term relationship and if that is what you are desiring, then that is a match and presents a greater likelihood of succeeding. Good video Jasper!
@@TravelingWithTheDon-xz8xb exactly. Just doing this for the guys that are may be doing their first trip for living in a dream world a little bit wasn’t trying to talk down to anyone I guess I just speak really decisively and strongly.
Jasper... I'm not trying to be mean but of all the blogger I listen to... your the only one that's going to Anxiety... many American blogger will go to the most remote place in the Philippines that I'd never been but they bring Joy and happiness, that location where you at is not good for you... those people your giving advice their not stupid, they know exactly what they get into... also look around you people might think that there's something wrong with you..go to the place where there's a peaceful environment and enjoy yourself....
I hear you speak about BGC and see different areas when looking for an apartment. Please tell me what part is the most upscale (Taguig). Then please tell me about the following areas to live in BGC and which one you think is best. (Bonifacio High Street, Grand Central Park, Forbes Town Center, and Uptown Bonifacio) Thank you
Uptown bonafacio is my favorite. I lived there personally for six months and it’s just the most convenient and most upscale area that I would recommend for you. High Street is also beautiful BGC as a hold is just the absolute top of the top 100% though uptown.
Again, amen brother. I’m now a subscriber. Also, if you retire in PI, never buy a house in your girlfriends name, because you’ll go out to the market and what you thought was her brother is her husband with thank you for the house and throw you out. Always rent!😅
I disagree, but perhaps my circumstances are different to most other people. My wife and I are around he same age and we have been together for 8 years, having met in person in HK where we lived for 4 years before relocating to the Philippines. We own a number of properties which are controlled through a holding company and we have a family and a decent income through business interests. I've seen people screwed and I lack sympathy. Caveat Emptor. My take is simply not to go on dating sites since they are fundamentally dishonest and a screen from reality
Never buy a house there, period! A foreigner cannot own more than 40% of the land. On top of that, courts don't have a lot of compassion for foreigners....lol
Like the song said , Will you walk away from a fool and his money? Badfinger - Come and get it 1970 In the USA I had a wife 16 years younger, and it was not all roses. I was trying to figure how I could retire early, and she was wondering what she wanted to do for a career. Her taste in music, or what she wanted to do for fun was different than mine. It reminded me of a neighbor couple that had an old cat. They thought it may be lonely as they both worked, so they got a kitten. At first the old cat had a blast reliving its youth playing with the kitten, but soon the old cat had enough. She eventually said she needed to move away to "find herself". She was very successful even finding someone else. It was sad for me, but I could see there was no future for us anyway. I hope that she has had a fulfilling life in the 25 years since we parted. Would I wish to make the same mistake again? I think I will pass. When the honeymoon is over the price to pay is too high. This old cat will find company with another old cat.
Just remember guys if you give her money, itll never end. She'll never stop wanting it, and once you stop youll see the truth. Harden your hearts. If you feel sorry for her, ask yourself would she feel sorry for you. (Hint: she WONT)
100%. It’s like a dog or a beggar on the street or your buddy that always needs a loan. Help them nine times and then cut them off or tell them no once and you’re a piece of garbage same thing with a woman that perceived as wealthy or that you put on an allowance or whatever.
@Jasper in the Philippines 🇵🇭 , I have, but many guys arriving in the Philippines will probably miss out on theirs. Some Filipina will probably eat it.
Anywhere countries have their own way to scam like her and be careful sometimes they are member of syndicate or human trafficking and most of them are from other countries
Putting up a couple of nice pics on several dating apps is one of the easiest ways for those girls to make some serious cash. Many of them are great entertainers and storytellers. On top of that, there are many many ladyboys who look like some of the most beautiful girls you ever laid eyes on. Deception is the name of the game and there are always a tone of gullible westerners who're sucked into illusions by the Dumaguete Gang and other female bloggers.
There used be an old formula where your youngest woman is 1/2 your age + 7 years. So a 70 year old would go 35+7=42. What are you really going to do as a 70 year old man with a under 42 year old woman? You can get a fit 42 year old Philippina at 70. You know? It's a solid formula, but you can still go a little younger in the Philappines. You start stretching that formula too much and like Jasper states, you're headed for likely trouble. 90 with 52 80 with 47 70 with 42 60 with 37 50 with 32
Expat John was 60 years old and went straight for the 18-20 year olds Filipinas, two years later he was sleeping on the beach with his life savings gone. Dont do go for the young Filipinas unless you were G back home that was swimming with women back home and can turn down P. If Expat John had gone for a more mature Filipina maybe a separated 40 year old with would ended up better for him.
Exactly or if he would’ve simply rented and not built the house and not started the Brother business he would’ve still retain some value because he would’ve had $1000 to dole out every months for 40 months instead he just went and broke the bank and then got sent to the beach to become malnourished
"I'm a handsome stunner." "Well, you're not." "I"m hot, I got it going on, the ladies love me." "Well, you're not." Man, Jasper the Dream Killer! 😩 🤣Seriously, though, you're spittin' facts. Guys need to keep all that stuff in mind for sure. Although, it's not a 100% equal situation between, say, the States and the PI. In the PI, women *in general* are less caught up on looks and age than in the U.S. Of course, even in the PI, being a young Chad with rippling abs certainly doesn't hurt vs. being a guy on a ventilator and a walker, especially with more Western-values-oriented Filipinas in the big cities. But from what I've heard, most Fils, particularly provincials, care more about whether you're kind and caring, can she trust you to take care of her, etc. Again, at least the quality, less western-oriented ones. There are gold diggers around the world, you just gotta watch for the signs as you're pointing out.
Why do you say to avoid more than a 25 year age gap? Since Filipina's don't have a family court to use to steal half (or more) of everything you own and your income and your pension, what's the problem? If she sticks with you until you die (hopefully of natural causes), you win. If she leaves, you're sad, but she cannot use a family court to rob you, so you just replace her with another a newer model. Just don't spend more on her (and her family) than you can afford to lose if she leaves.
some of them especially the really pretty ones have a very high opinion of themselves these types are just too expensive and hard work and are best avoided
Yeah especially if a girl has like a big following on TickTock Or something like that you’re kind of in a situation where you’re dating an American woman in the Philippines
@@JasperinthePhilippines If a girl has a very high opinion of themselves, "you’re kind of in a situation where you’re dating an American woman in the Philippines". All American women, if you ask them, are 10's.😂
I do the half my age + seven yrs. as a rule for a realistic approach to "long-term dating." I'm 57, so I focus on 30yr. old + women to weed out any bs.
A lot of girls make their living on date sites... A lot of them are living with a guy that drinks red horse with the money you send . She might have 3 or 4 guys sending her money....
Hopefully most of the guys who watch this channel are not so ridiculously dumb as to need this advise- especially older guys. But we know some are; w the horror stories heard about. I guess if they’re ego is that deluded then they deserved to be scammed. I even had a woman I dated w/in 10 yrs of my age here in the US that tried to pull this sob story stunt of financial woes. Dropped her like a hot rock. But some are cunning enough to play the long game too. Just learn to say “no” not in my budget when a date is asking you to buy anything. You will soon k here motives.
No, I’m a young good looking guy that lives here full-time that’s having it is why I’m trying to warn. Really someone in particular, but just the general masses of senior citizen. Etc
Yeah your right that’s why when I go I make sure I have family going with me that speaks the Fucken language that’s where the foreigners get all fucked up at when they go over there
I like 70 years old man, because I want to take care of him I am his nurse,wife best friend daughter and lover🤣🤣thats my dream 😂😂 if the 70 years old like to live in my small house he can save his money..he only buy his food 😂😂
Spoken like a young buck with few financial resources, and intimidated by older more affluent men that have tasted succees. Totally normal, and your not alone young pup!
Haha. The uploader is in his mid forties so isn't a young man. He also knows the age pill. Most women would prefer a 20-35 year old man forgetting about resourses
I'm 46 and I've no interest in the 20 year olds, outside of pure bedroom fun. I do want to give marriage with a filipina a 2nd chance, but not here in the US. I will never be married again in the US, to any woman. I would get married again to a filipina, but live in the Philippines. Bring her to the US and take a huge chance at her turning in to a western woman, which is what happened to me. Unfortunately, I can't just move there till my 12 year old is old enough to be on her own.
If you are a 60 or 70 yr old guy just pretend you can be used but use her instead , once you get her in bed leave her then get to another Filipina . Enjoy life , it’s an adventure in the Philippines. Live like Hugh Hefner. Good like guys.
I never sent money. Even the one sneaky Filipina here in the States always insisted on paying for herself. They start getting pushy about money I have nothing to do with them. A little common sense can go a long way.
@JasperinthePhilippines I was talking to one on video chat. She was beautiful. She kept asking me to send her money. I told her if she sent me a picture of that ass I would send her money. It was nice 😍 Hell no I didn't send her money.
I was on P Burgos in November... All Ladyboys there at the time.. Didn't see any girls. Took my Pinay with me..Maybe too early in the night.. 9pm.. Went there in 2019 and ended up with three girls for the night 😁
In the past few months, I've met quite a few Americans in Cebu who were lured to the Phillies by the Pea and the Dumaguete Gang. I hear similar stories about LDR online relationships and it often ends with "getting taken to the cleaners". Guys lead with their wallets and are shocked when someone takes advantage of their stupidity.
Why the hell are you getting the girl before you're even there??? Get to the Philippines ---> Get settled in ---> THEN slow the roll.... She's out there, don't rush it
I was talking to women there i was 32 she.was 27 ,she wanted me to go there to inpregnate her because her morher was stage 4 cancer , i met her mother online , it was true , her father worked overseas , she had money and a. Passport , what do tjink about that man
Its always been pay to play, from the cave era where you came with a side rack of meat, or a wallet with green backs in it, women will gladly trade her body for what she wants, your cash, house, car. To test them tell them you just lost your money in business deal and watch her walk, maybe a good one will stay.
LOL, this dude is clueless. Filipinas gravitate towards older stable men with resources. Few young men have the kind of money needed to visit often or live there and they know that the younger men cheat, they know they are broke. What really pisses off the young bucks like this is that they have much less value and that 21 year old they have would have happily hooked up with one of those well off 70 year old men. His spiel of not spending money on Filipinas is just cover for his inability to provide for a woman and a bit for their family. So he goes over there and stays until his money runs out to chase vulnerable women then has to leave to go back to his miserable life and low wage job.
Bless your little heart. No one set a 21-year-old older and 70 are two different things. I’m older at 45, 70 from an aesthetic perspective is just not gonna work chief. By the way, happy 75th.
Totally get you. But hopefully, I am the exception Way bigger age gap than even you say. Me, Slim athletic, with no beer gut full head of hair, and no grey hairs at all Going to the Philipines to see an online girl in 2 days Facebook government Id all checkout. We are on WhatsApp 24/7 So I know where she works sleeps etc. No money has changed hands in fact she has paid the deposit on the resort in the Province because I refused to do a GCash transfer she has taken herself off the dating site and I have checked this and every other dating site. She speaks good English but is not sophisticated enough to set up such a complicated long-game scam in my prejudiced opinion! Obviously, in any relationship each person has an agenda she will be looking for stability, I will be hoping the physical side will be great and if the companionship is there I will be happy.
@@JasperinthePhilippines 28 years old have been talking 6 weeks My last girlfriend was a university student 23 years old there was a certain spark missing she said she loved me but I always had doubts so I ended the relationship
@@JasperinthePhilippines I agree in that age range I am hypersensitive about whether my partner is really into me or not. She will be meeting me at the airport with her sister. I will make sure to drop into her place of work to check that out. My main concern is that I won't be into her as much as she seems to be into me. Viagra was not needed in my last relationship and I don't want to start now
Women will be women no matter where you go. I’m 60 but I look 40, I’m in great shape and I’m good looking. Never had a problem getting women, in fact, fending them off has been the challenging part. I can smell a gold digger from a mile away and I shun them like the plague. Looking forward to going to the Philippines, NOT going for the women but for the travel experience, hiking, diving and to learn about the culture.
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Agree with you 99%.
I am married to a Filipina 18 years younger.
Personally, 20 years would be my cut-off.
She's here with me in Australia and is the hardest worker out there.
I could not have gotten a better loving lady.
Nice you scored. Most are good I have been in my life chat community that are amazing and have met their boyfriend through my community I simply have to warn guys that are thinking it’s burning desire between 19-year-old and a seventy year old
You might be right about the 20 years I think I’d be good with someone in their late 20s as a 46-year-old
Yeah, guys. Please don't remain a slob or degrade while in the Philapines. If you're going over there and you're an overall only a 4 out of 10 in all dynamics, become a 4.5+ please. You put on those elevator shoes, hit that gym, whiten those teeth, join a Toastmasters, cut your hair, take a shower, trim your nose/ear hairs, whatever, keep improving. Don't be sad. Even a Philapina has her limits.
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Good point ,
I hope those guys who are now listening to you are using this piece of good advice. Keep up the good work, and be blessed.
Thank you 🫡
Brutally Honest Jasper... Strikes again. "Welcome Young Man" Here comes the Mine's Different Crew from Dumaguete. LOL I can't stop laughing
🎯🎯🎯 ofcourse theirs is always the exception. 😂😂😂😂😂
I am wondering is Dumaguete so Full of expats, so not really leaving the west?
💯There were no lies told here. This is true for the majority of women regardless whether she is Filipina, Thai, Latina or Western.
There's so much of that going on guys need to listen to this video another thing to be careful of check to make sure she doesn't have a Filipino boyfriend,
You can only do that by meeting the girl in person and living with her
A lot of the girls online aren't single if you start sending money even when you do meet in person the girl and her family will go to great lengths to hide the fact that she is in a relationship with a local guy.
It's a developing country poverty is still bad in the country guy's really need to take their time if you don't there's a very good chance of getting scammed.
Good video jasper thanks for sharing 👍
Thank you so much, also when you send a woman money, she loses respect for you. If you’ve never met her, that’s the honest truth I have a lot of Filipina friends and just dated a lot of women on this planet.
Another informative video Jasper. I know exactly what you’re talking about. Thats why I got off dating sites because so hard sorting through women to find a good one. Lots just looking for a hand out for sure. Keep doing what you do.
Yeah, just get boots on the ground and be realistic. I know my videos are not that popular with people because nobody would ever dare speak this boldly but if I save a couple of guys from losing their life savings and just get them on an airplane, my work is done.
Many many scammers, golddiggers and tons of ladyboys!
@JasperinthePhilippines Yes, most guys come over to Asia blinker eyed.
Some without experiencing life there.
Myself, have visited good, and bad in Philippines and Thailand.
Some vloggers bullshit the reality, life is hard there if you do not have enough renewable income.
Living the dream on $1500, come on get real.
Philippino can, not expat.
Thank you for you input.
Word brother! Don't ever send money to someone you've never met in person
Facts
I'm at the age where women would only be interested in my bank account, I will smile say thank you and walk away.
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Love your brutal honesty bro...f*%k the haters!
Thanks Mikey!
That's right gentlemen don't fall for the Oke Doke. Don't be a sucker MC 😂😂😂
Boss
“Don’t raise her up to the level you guys are going to live at without you even being there and her having to suffer through having sex with you.” 😂😂😂
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@@JasperinthePhilippines No sugar coating the elephant in the room here. Good stuff, man. This is the advice you won't get in that Lonely Planet guide to the Philippines. 👌🏻😂
Salute 🫡
In the meantime if you're already married to a Filipina, the single ones will try to steal the other Filipinas husband. Know matter what country there in.
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Good advice, although western women also want your money and the only "gap" I've had in the US wasn't age, it was weight.
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Weight and attitude for me.
Just found your channel... Definitely 100% Right!🎉
Thank you my friend
True all basically true but I still love my filipina she is absolutely gorgeous and true.
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Jasper my boy, Congrats on the 19k See you in the next live..
Yes sir thank you bro!
YEP!! Yep yep, exactly. I have experienced this numurous times online dating. Probably 90% eventually start talking about financial issues. (I don't send money PERIOD). But they try to wrap you up quickly! Everything Jasper says is so true. I think many of these women would be very good (if you live here). But I would NEVER take her back to the states.
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Real talk
I really like your straight up blunt commentary
I am 43 in California
And even here I am just not interested in someone more than 20 years younger .
I just wouldn’t think there would be much chemistry or anything in common with extreme age differences.
Thanks a lot Jay jay. Yeah right around the 20 year mark is probably good I was dating a girl that was about 20 years younger than me in Los Angeles about nine months before I came here and probably a girl in her late 20s would be a good fit for me in the Philippines.
It is so cool you wipe the smoke off the mirrors and let the guys know to be careful and be realistic a lot of channels promote a fake reality and a lot of guys get a rude awakening!
Thank you so much man I’m just trying to be brutally honest. Sometimes my Delivery is a bit rough, but it snow fluff. Just be careful if I can save one guy from losing his life savings. It’s worth it.
Fake reality earns those bloggers a ton of YT money
STRAIGHT FACTS
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While it’s not impossible to find a genuine, good honest younger Pinay online, it’s very difficult to find. I think it takes way too much effort to find them. For this reason, I think it’s better to somehow meet Pinays in person.
I agree. It’s like sifting through 1000 people to figure out who is the lady boy who is in your area who is married who has children who is qualified for you looks wise who can transport themselves to you and then who’s a decent human being 🤣🤣 just meet a to Girl Uptown mall are walking down the beach or something it’s way easier you know exactly what they look like. They know exactly what you look like you can feel the vibe.
Exactly. I’m a 64 guy online. In person my age is hidden. Since I look younger, in person works much better for me. The problem is online is so easy that it’s intoxicating, while meeting in person requires guts.
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I like your 25 year rule too. Guess what just happened to me? I was ghosted by a 28 year old for absolutely no reason after an 18 month relationship. To be honest, it’s both confusing and hurtful. But it was a 36 year age gap, so I guess I just have to attribute it to that.
@@MakatiMazz It's "easy" for a reason! Easy makes a lot of money for scammers, golddiggers and ladyboys.
I think one of the issues some of these guys are facing is that they've never experienced true interest from a woman where she is totally head over heels for him, so they fall for anything as genuine. They don't know what the real thing looks or feels like. Trust me, guys, they can't fake it! If both of you aren't laughing and having fun almost every time you talk, then you're probably being scammed or at the very least with a girl who has a low interest level. If she's not missing you before you even close the call, etc. I could go on.
Yeah, exactly when you’ve never experienced that genuine, burning desire, or than a way that a woman treats you when she’s absolutely enamored with you and basically worships you you don’t really know how to decipher you being employment from you been burning desire
Good video bro you're killin it
Thanks bro
I lucked out. I met my Filipina wife as a recommendation from her aunt who was my former babysitter when I was a kid. She thought we'd make a good fit and she's right. If I were young today? I'll most likely not go with a dating site. We have many Filipinos in the US who can make similar assessments like what my former babysitter did. After all, they wouldn't recommend their relative to just anyone. They're well aware of how loose relationships are in the US. So, they'll make doubly sure a scumbag isn't marrying into the family.
Yeah, best way is a personal introduction and to try to keep the age gap out of the you know three decade range
Congratulations to you my friend
Everything you said should just be common sense. I'm 70, but I know the deal. I won't send money overseas, but if I go to SE Asia and meet a woman who treats me right, I might do a little to help her and her family out, but only what doesn't hurt me financially. And I think a 70 year old like me should be looking at women > 40 years old. At that point, if they have kids they are adults who should be on their own and at that age they are mature enough to know that they are past prime attractiveness (although most 40+ Asian women are light years younger looking than western women) and are more likely to appreciate a man taking interest in them. A 40+ woman is likely looking for a serious, long term relationship and if that is what you are desiring, then that is a match and presents a greater likelihood of succeeding. Good video Jasper!
Thank you my friend I just feel like common sense. It’s not so common these days.
@@JasperinthePhilippines True dat!
Yep that's me also. I'm 61 and I will date some in their 30's but if I was looking for something serious it's 40 plus.
@@TravelingWithTheDon-xz8xb Well said and good plan!
@@TravelingWithTheDon-xz8xb exactly. Just doing this for the guys that are may be doing their first trip for living in a dream world a little bit wasn’t trying to talk down to anyone I guess I just speak really decisively and strongly.
😅 you're totally right in all the ways , I appreciate you are posting all those videos , this a very good information, thank you
Yes Salamat
Jasper... I'm not trying to be mean but of all the blogger I listen to... your the only one that's going to Anxiety... many American blogger will go to the most remote place in the Philippines that I'd never been but they bring Joy and happiness, that location where you at is not good for you... those people your giving advice their not stupid, they know exactly what they get into... also look around you people might think that there's something wrong with you..go to the place where there's a peaceful environment and enjoy yourself....
I live in Boracay island
I truly appreciate your videos 😎👍🏾
Thank you
I hear you speak about BGC and see different areas when looking for an apartment. Please tell me what part is the most upscale (Taguig). Then please tell me about the following areas to live in BGC and which one you think is best. (Bonifacio High Street, Grand Central Park, Forbes Town Center, and Uptown Bonifacio)
Thank you
Uptown bonafacio is my favorite. I lived there personally for six months and it’s just the most convenient and most upscale area that I would recommend for you. High Street is also beautiful BGC as a hold is just the absolute top of the top 100% though uptown.
Again, amen brother. I’m now a subscriber. Also, if you retire in PI, never buy a house in your girlfriends name, because you’ll go out to the market and what you thought was her brother is her husband with thank you for the house and throw you out. Always rent!😅
Thank you for subscribing bro. Yeah it’s always the brother that’s a good one but it’s not Brother it’s the Filipino boyfriend. 🤣🤣🤣🤝
I disagree, but perhaps my circumstances are different to most other people. My wife and I are around he same age and we have been together for 8 years, having met in person in HK where we lived for 4 years before relocating to the Philippines. We own a number of properties which are controlled through a holding company and we have a family and a decent income through business interests. I've seen people screwed and I lack sympathy. Caveat Emptor. My take is simply not to go on dating sites since they are fundamentally dishonest and a screen from reality
Never buy a house there, period! A foreigner cannot own more than 40% of the land. On top of that, courts don't have a lot of compassion for foreigners....lol
Like the song said , Will you walk away from a fool and his money? Badfinger - Come and get it 1970
In the USA I had a wife 16 years younger, and it was not all roses. I was trying to figure how I could retire early, and she was wondering what she wanted to do for a career. Her taste in music, or what she wanted to do for fun was different than mine.
It reminded me of a neighbor couple that had an old cat. They thought it may be lonely as they both worked, so they got a kitten. At first the old cat had a blast reliving its youth playing with the kitten, but soon the old cat had enough.
She eventually said she needed to move away to "find herself". She was very successful even finding someone else. It was sad for me, but I could see there was no future for us anyway. I hope that she has had a fulfilling life in the 25 years since we parted.
Would I wish to make the same mistake again? I think I will pass. When the honeymoon is over the price to pay is too high. This old cat will find company with another old cat.
Well said ! 🤝
"Speaking the truth"
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Just remember guys if you give her money, itll never end. She'll never stop wanting it, and once you stop youll see the truth. Harden your hearts. If you feel sorry for her, ask yourself would she feel sorry for you.
(Hint: she WONT)
100%. It’s like a dog or a beggar on the street or your buddy that always needs a loan. Help them nine times and then cut them off or tell them no once and you’re a piece of garbage same thing with a woman that perceived as wealthy or that you put on an allowance or whatever.
You're now a love 💕💕 coach/adviser to your subscribers looking for lovelife in Pinas
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Great content!!
Thank you
If you hear these words from any Filipina, don't walk away run.
Where you from, where you stay, how long you be.
It's probably a bar girl.
Have you had your lunch yet? 🤣🤣🤣
@Jasper in the Philippines 🇵🇭 , I have, but many guys arriving in the Philippines will probably miss out on theirs. Some Filipina will probably eat it.
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1. Earth
2. Here
3. Enough to touch bottom
Then "Please go away, you are ruining my evening "
I would disagree. Not always true. Arent these common questions? And not only Filipinas ask these, also Filipinos, to a visitor.
WoW!!!! You dropped a bomb 💪
Thank you brother
Anywhere countries have their own way to scam like her and be careful sometimes they are member of syndicate or human trafficking and most of them are from other countries
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Putting up a couple of nice pics on several dating apps is one of the easiest ways for those girls to make some serious cash. Many of them are great entertainers and storytellers. On top of that, there are many many ladyboys who look like some of the most beautiful girls you ever laid eyes on. Deception is the name of the game and there are always a tone of gullible westerners who're sucked into illusions by the Dumaguete Gang and other female bloggers.
100% Couple foreigners send you $100. You just replaced having to work 75 hours that week.
So true be careful
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There used be an old formula where your youngest woman is 1/2 your age + 7 years. So a 70 year old would go 35+7=42. What are you really going to do as a 70 year old man with a under 42 year old woman? You can get a fit 42 year old Philippina at 70. You know? It's a solid formula, but you can still go a little younger in the Philappines. You start stretching that formula too much and like Jasper states, you're headed for likely trouble.
90 with 52
80 with 47
70 with 42
60 with 37
50 with 32
Yeah, that’s a decent formula although that would put me at 30 as my beginning point, and I will entertain probably 23 and up at 46
@@JasperinthePhilippines Yeah you can definitely stretch the formula in the Philipines, but not other parts of the world, lol
Expat John was 60 years old and went straight for the 18-20 year olds Filipinas, two years later he was sleeping on the beach with his life savings gone.
Dont do go for the young Filipinas unless you were G back home that was swimming with women back home and can turn down P.
If Expat John had gone for a more mature Filipina maybe a separated 40 year old with would ended up better for him.
Exactly or if he would’ve simply rented and not built the house and not started the Brother business he would’ve still retain some value because he would’ve had $1000 to dole out every months for 40 months instead he just went and broke the bank and then got sent to the beach to become malnourished
Well, Expat John did seem kinda 'slow'... He was fed illusions...He didn't receive the Jasper briefing before embarking on his quest😂
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you just got a new sub bro
Thank you my friend
TIM K AND CHRISSY UNBAN ME 💯😂🤣 HARALD BALDERS WANT YOU TO UNBAN ME 👍👍
Wowww
Sana all
@4:10 mfer got sidetracked 😂
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Tell her that you know how she could earn a quick $10. If all she wants is your money, maybe all you want is a blowee.
Wo
"I'm a handsome stunner."
"Well, you're not."
"I"m hot, I got it going on, the ladies love me."
"Well, you're not."
Man, Jasper the Dream Killer! 😩
🤣Seriously, though, you're spittin' facts. Guys need to keep all that stuff in mind for sure. Although, it's not a 100% equal situation between, say, the States and the PI. In the PI, women *in general* are less caught up on looks and age than in the U.S. Of course, even in the PI, being a young Chad with rippling abs certainly doesn't hurt vs. being a guy on a ventilator and a walker, especially with more Western-values-oriented Filipinas in the big cities. But from what I've heard, most Fils, particularly provincials, care more about whether you're kind and caring, can she trust you to take care of her, etc. Again, at least the quality, less western-oriented ones. There are gold diggers around the world, you just gotta watch for the signs as you're pointing out.
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Why do you say to avoid more than a 25 year age gap? Since Filipina's don't have a family court to use to steal half (or more) of everything you own and your income and your pension, what's the problem? If she sticks with you until you die (hopefully of natural causes), you win. If she leaves, you're sad, but she cannot use a family court to rob you, so you just replace her with another a newer model. Just don't spend more on her (and her family) than you can afford to lose if she leaves.
For genuine burning desire it’s best
@@JasperinthePhilippines As long as she pretends to desire me, I won't be able to tell the difference. 😲
Very true brother ignorance is bliss
DONT NEED DATING SITES IN ASIA. THEY COMING UP TO YOU IN THE STREETS 💯🤣😂❤️👍
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Brutally Frank..but Bullseye!!
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some of them especially the really pretty ones have a very high opinion of themselves
these types are just too expensive and hard work and are best avoided
Yeah especially if a girl has like a big following on TickTock Or something like that you’re kind of in a situation where you’re dating an American woman in the Philippines
@@JasperinthePhilippines If a girl has a very high opinion of themselves, "you’re kind of in a situation where you’re dating an American woman in the Philippines". All American women, if you ask them, are 10's.😂
I do the half my age + seven yrs. as a rule for a realistic approach to "long-term dating." I'm 57, so I focus on 30yr. old + women to weed out any bs.
Smart sir
Truth😬
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another good video
Salamat
A lot of girls make their living on date sites... A lot of them are living with a guy that drinks red horse with the money you send . She might have 3 or 4 guys sending her money....
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Hopefully most of the guys who watch this channel are not so ridiculously dumb as to need this advise- especially older guys. But we know some are; w the horror stories heard about. I guess if they’re ego is that deluded then they deserved to be scammed. I even had a woman I dated w/in 10 yrs of my age here in the US that tried to pull this sob story stunt of financial woes. Dropped her like a hot rock. But some are cunning enough to play the long game too. Just learn to say “no” not in my budget when a date is asking you to buy anything. You will soon k here motives.
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You're a good man. Keeping all the way real. I'm subscribing
Thank you my friend 🙏
😂😅 Funny but it's the fair truth!! 👍
Lol
YOU ROCK !!!!
Thank you
How old are you? How long have you been in philippines?
46 almost a year
Fillipno girls are chasing for you. They want a half blood baby and of course a better life. Please pose the new vidos when you have the lucky ones.
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Keeping it real 👍
Yes sir
This 💩💩must have happened to you lol 😂
No, I’m a young good looking guy that lives here full-time that’s having it is why I’m trying to warn. Really someone in particular, but just the general masses of senior citizen. Etc
Yeah your right that’s why when I go I make sure I have family going with me that speaks the Fucken language that’s where the foreigners get all fucked up at when they go over there
A BIG ATM IN SOUTH LEYTE 💯 💵💰💵💰💵💰 MONEY MONEY MONEY 💵💵🤣😂
Wo shots fired 🔫
@@JasperinthePhilippines JUST HAVING SOM FUN🤣😂
Yes, you do the work, someone else reaps the benefits.
Ok
Thanks
You’re welcome.
well said. nobody's fool. if a 20 year old woman lives with a 70 year old man, there is a good reason for that on her side.
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There can be a good reason on his side too. He just needs to keep his head on straight and know the deal.
Facts
@@flyrodmike A 70-year-old with a 20-year-old "girlfriend" is already screwed up in his head. He deserves what's coming to him.
I like 70 years old man, because I want to take care of him I am his nurse,wife best friend daughter and lover🤣🤣thats my dream 😂😂 if the 70 years old like to live in my small house he can save his money..he only buy his food 😂😂
Wow
Sana all
@@JasperinthePhilippines 😂😂
There is like that filipina but its rare to find that kind of woman
Sana all
JUST LIKE TIM K. HE BELIVED EVRY WORD FROM CHRISSY 💯🤣😂🤣 AND COCONUTS BURNING 🔥🔥🔥 SEND MONEY 💵💵💵💰💰
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@@JasperinthePhilippines HIS COCONUTS BURN DOW VIDEO WAS EPIC 🤣😂🤣
Such is life 😎
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I lived here in the Philippines now over 12 years and thier God is money!!
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Women should be able to play the same game that men do
They do.
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Spoken like a young buck with few financial resources, and intimidated by older more affluent men that have tasted succees. Totally normal, and your not alone young pup!
A grandpa can’t compete with me.
Few resources? Are you sure????
Haha. The uploader is in his mid forties so isn't a young man. He also knows the age pill. Most women would prefer a 20-35 year old man forgetting about resourses
@@JackJones7556lol
I'm 46 and I've no interest in the 20 year olds, outside of pure bedroom fun. I do want to give marriage with a filipina a 2nd chance, but not here in the US. I will never be married again in the US, to any woman. I would get married again to a filipina, but live in the Philippines. Bring her to the US and take a huge chance at her turning in to a western woman, which is what happened to me. Unfortunately, I can't just move there till my 12 year old is old enough to be on her own.
Absolutely never abandon young children
I aagree with you Jasper
Salamat ma’am
THE QUICKY GIRL TYPE IS OUT..
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It's like a 21 year old dude who dates a 70 or 80 years old grandma. It's not for love, it's a sugar momma...lol
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I came to the Philippines at age 22 and got married to a filipina one year later. I'm now 41.
Nice
LOL REALLY HANDSOME ALL OF A SUDDEN, MORE LIKE HANDSOME WALLET
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If you are a 60 or 70 yr old guy just pretend you can be used but use her instead , once you get her in bed leave her then get to another Filipina . Enjoy life , it’s an adventure in the Philippines. Live like Hugh Hefner. Good like guys.
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Wait I shouldn’t of said true that’s terrible LOL
I never sent money. Even the one sneaky Filipina here in the States always insisted on paying for herself. They start getting pushy about money I have nothing to do with them. A little common sense can go a long way.
Smart man 🤝
@JasperinthePhilippines I was talking to one on video chat. She was beautiful. She kept asking me to send her money. I told her if she sent me a picture of that ass I would send her money. It was nice 😍 Hell no I didn't send her money.
I was actually thinking 25 years age gap and no more😅. 39 year olds look out 🎉
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I was on P Burgos in November... All Ladyboys there at the time.. Didn't see any girls. Took my Pinay with me..Maybe too early in the night.. 9pm.. Went there in 2019 and ended up with three girls for the night 😁
Wow. I see some girls, but majority lady boys, same as Boracay.
Bubble Buster😂😂😅😂
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im a filipino but honestly speaking many filipina but not majority.. there are many gold digger
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you forgot to mention the scammers and ladyboys.
in other words, she's a player...female version
Could be
if you knew what is true love you will definetly enjoy here in philippines, but if youre a foolish guy you will going to be broke here 100%😊😊😊
Penniless 🤣
In the past few months, I've met quite a few Americans in Cebu who were lured to the Phillies by the Pea and the Dumaguete Gang. I hear similar stories about LDR online relationships and it often ends with "getting taken to the cleaners". Guys lead with their wallets and are shocked when someone takes advantage of their stupidity.
Why the hell are you getting the girl before you're even there??? Get to the Philippines ---> Get settled in ---> THEN slow the roll.... She's out there, don't rush it
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This issue is not unique to the Philippines. It happens all over the world. Especially in developing countries.
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I was talking to women there i was 32 she.was 27 ,she wanted me to go there to inpregnate her because her morher was stage 4 cancer , i met her mother online , it was true , her father worked overseas , she had money and a. Passport , what do tjink about that man
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Its always been pay to play, from the cave era where you came with a side rack of meat, or a wallet with green backs in it, women will gladly trade her body for what she wants, your cash, house, car. To test them tell them you just lost your money in business deal and watch her walk, maybe a good one will stay.
I’ve said that 1000 times
You don't want to send any money to a girl you have never met...
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LOL, this dude is clueless. Filipinas gravitate towards older stable men with resources. Few young men have the kind of money needed to visit often or live there and they know that the younger men cheat, they know they are broke. What really pisses off the young bucks like this is that they have much less value and that 21 year old they have would have happily hooked up with one of those well off 70 year old men. His spiel of not spending money on Filipinas is just cover for his inability to provide for a woman and a bit for their family. So he goes over there and stays until his money runs out to chase vulnerable women then has to leave to go back to his miserable life and low wage job.
Bless your little heart.
No one set a 21-year-old older and 70 are two different things. I’m older at 45, 70 from an aesthetic perspective is just not gonna work chief. By the way, happy 75th.
Some dudes are just simps by nature 😅
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you got a time machine that can take off some of my years? lol
Ha ha.
There are men scamers too.
Oh no
@@JasperinthePhilippines yup. That's the truth. I have experience that
@@ninacatalon8835 ok sorry ma’am
be careful on POK2 means a woman or girl the craves for a money
Pok2?
@@JasperinthePhilippinesmaybe porn woman he mean😂😂
in city or in province be careful lots of gold digger around
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Totally get you. But hopefully, I am the exception Way bigger age gap than even you say. Me, Slim athletic, with no beer gut full head of hair, and no grey hairs at all Going to the Philipines to see an online girl in 2 days Facebook government Id all checkout. We are on WhatsApp 24/7 So I know where she works sleeps etc. No money has changed hands in fact she has paid the deposit on the resort in the Province because I refused to do a GCash transfer she has taken herself off the dating site and I have checked this and every other dating site. She speaks good English but is not sophisticated enough to set up such a complicated long-game scam in my prejudiced opinion! Obviously, in any relationship each person has an agenda she will be looking for stability, I will be hoping the physical side will be great and if the companionship is there I will be happy.
How old is she and how long have you been talking?
@@JasperinthePhilippines 28 years old have been talking 6 weeks My last girlfriend was a university student 23 years old there was a certain spark missing she said she loved me but I always had doubts so I ended the relationship
Sounds like you’re 65-70? Always a risk unless you “know the deal”.
@@JasperinthePhilippines I agree in that age range I am hypersensitive about whether my partner is really into me or not. She will be meeting me at the airport with her sister. I will make sure to drop into her place of work to check that out. My main concern is that I won't be into her as much as she seems to be into me. Viagra was not needed in my last relationship and I don't want to start now
Women will be women no matter where you go. I’m 60 but I look 40, I’m in great shape and I’m good looking. Never had a problem getting women, in fact, fending them off has been the challenging part. I can smell a gold digger from a mile away and I shun them like the plague. Looking forward to going to the Philippines, NOT going for the women but for the travel experience, hiking, diving and to learn about the culture.
Smart man. I love it.
Phillipines will be perfect for you