Signs My Ex Misses Me
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2024
- Coach Lee shares signs that your ex misses you and is open to getting back together with you. Get Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup Kit at myexbackcoach.com/emergency-b...
In this video you'll learn how to recognize the signs of your ex missing you and doubting their decision to break up with you.
This is an important video if you are wanting to know if your ex is finding themselves wishing you two were still spending time together and you want to know if your ex still misses you after the breakup.
If you are wanting your ex back, it can be helpful to recognize the signs of an ex missing you.
Videos mentioned in this one:
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What Is Limerence? • What Is Limerence?
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Sent a hundred dollar tip awhile ago. The knowledge is insightful and invaluable. A hundred is the least I could do.
Thank you so much Senator!! I’m honored.
It's sad that "sometimes the person we would take a bullet for, is the one behind the trigger" anonymous😭
Mann
That is so damn true
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Favour JayD it's true like my xbf we just break up 2 weeks ago..he just taking a small mistake to break me up and that is really hurt for me 😭😭😭😭
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SUMMARY ☘️
1. They misses intimacy with you 2:06
2. They can't stop communicating 7:03
3. They keep pictures on social media 10:52
4. They reminisce with others 11:50
5. They spy on you 12:54
6. They make excuses to see you 14:39
7. If your ex shows jealousy 15:48
@@emmanuelokkaka6369 Stop spamming on people's comment. I'm going to report your account.
@Suzie Smith For me no sign too. She blocked me everywhere, she took down our picture of us together in instagram instantly, and never reached in around 6 months until now. I feel hopeless, but want her back :(
@@Kampfhamster1992 😢💔. Go to the ocean- let the ocean breezes refresh your soul.. immerse yourself in God’s Word. Make your body healthy and strong . Make all the money you can. Educate yourself on something that interests you- work hard... stay out of bars and clubs. Connect with nature and fresh air. May God bless you and give you the desires of your heart . May He especially grant His most gracious mercy and strength.
I see the 5 sign 7
@@Kampfhamster1992 even try going to a rainforest, it can cleanse your soul. Mediation is great, your thoughts maybe looping over and over I know it all sucks
Sometimes people just get scared and run away even though they love you. It is sad yes, but it happens very much. Let them run. In time they will come back if they truly love you. And if they don’t then just know you are better without them. Focus on yourself.
I just sent a tip. You’ve helped me many of nights when my heart was broken. Thank you for all of your wisdom through my healing process!
To everyone on here that is heartbroken. Please know it’s only for a moment. I was there just like you. It’s been 9 months since my breakup and no (offense ) to this channel, but I can’t stomach to even watch these videos anymore! That’s how much I’ve grown as a person and love me. Over the pain, out of the dark space, I’ve let go! I’m living life. It gets better. You will be just FINE I promise. I just wanted to come back and uplift you. Oh and yes I did no contact. My ex said he never wanted to talk to me again. Low and behold he emailed me. I don’t even respond. I remember I wanted that so bad. Now I just laugh because I’m over it. You will have bad days, but don’t give up. No one and I mean no one is more important than YOU! Best wishes
And this channel has helped me tremendously. Keep listening. Thank you Coach
I wish I read this on the day I was heartbroken after I break up I went through. But I'm feeling better and moved on from my ex and dating someone else now But I still wanna say thank you anyways.
After how many days of no contact he reached you?
In my opinion once you get past the hurt you never want them back because you don't forget
I sure hope so!
Then you haven’t forgave them
I’m getting there! An I definitely won’t!!!
Oh I miss him and the great relationship we had. I'd reconnect with him as a good friend, but I am too afraid to feel too much again. He's lost my trust. He went over a year to start reaching out, and he did it by commenting on FB. After about five months of conversing on other people's posts, I sent him a friend request. He never accepted it, so I backed off. Not even commenting. I just don't want to be the object of a game.
My aunt and uncle split up during dating, he dumped her, she went on with her life and a year later he came back. They’ve been married over 50 years!
This is painful. I miss my best friend. 😞 it’s been 133 days
Dana Bacon hang in there. It took six months of no contact with my husband for him to come running back out of nowhere. It’s true if you’re sitting around waiting, they can’t come back.
@@Taran532 what do you mean by that?
@james anonymous thank you :)
He is not your best "friend" if he is your boyfriend and you are in a romantic relationship
I know
It’s been about 3 months and still in no contact. However, I’ve moved on because of YOU. Thank you so much for these videos and break up emergency kit. After 3 months, I’ve realized that I love myself and happiness is right around the corner. To anyone who is going through a breakup, especially during a time like this, you aren’t alone. I am here if you need someone to talk to. ♥️
Its been 15 days since my girlfriend broke up with me. Idk what did wrong, I thought i was the best thing in her life, I worked long hrs 7 days a week, on days off or when i get half day off i lounge on the couch watch Netflix and i try to help out around the house. She used that as an excuse to break up. Something so petty. Never had a huge argument just little small differences. I cant figure out why she left me.
One more thing, im in no contact right now, how do i know if they are spying on me or if they have old pics of us if we dont have no contact?
I need to talk to someone because I feel so very lonely and depressed after breakup 🥺🥺
Be strong Nancy!!
@@somchaykethkan5352 ya I'm trying to be
Legends from the future tales will say that Lee had the wisdom of ten 90-year olds. For he has seen much and heard much.
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Hahaha brill comment. X
Yes.. but at 101 yrs, my mother is correct..
Leave him alone, and he'll come home ,,,,,dragging,,,,,
not wagging.... his tail behind him. I'm 77 and at this age, well...not a lot of time left....love yourselves and prayer is another tool....
I've been binge watching these videos so much I think I'm starting to fall in love with coach instead.
Just kidding.
Me too😂
So full of wisdom and patiente
I absolutely love this man.
.... Or 👀👀
Yes...I'm an old lady....and i still love him,,,,his wisdom,,,i am going through all this,,,,its not just for the young...77 yrs old. I feel so foolish....
Currently binging myself 😂😂😂
I dont want her back anymore. Wish her all happiness and good life. But i like to watch your videos.
it works great, either they come back or you realize you dont need them and are stronger.
after 3 months of no contact my ex reached out, now we shall see where life takes us from here. I will keep watching these videos for guidance. trust no contact guys, have patience and remember to focus on you. thank you Coach Lee
I hope yall back together ❤️ good luck.
Update ?
Coach Lee is the man. Almost 6 months of NC. Haven’t heard from her. No bread crumbs. I’m a better person since the first month since we broke up. But still have My Coach. Love you man.
You're doing NC the right way.I'm happy for you & your progress.
As for me,7+ months since being dumped.6+ months of NC(she blocked me just before I entered NC).
Like you too,I worked on myself.Also,I didn't check her social media,etc.etc.I fully committed to100% no contact.
@ 3+ months of NC her sister messaged me asking an obscure question.
The next day her mom messaged me as well.
I didn't reply to either.I didn't feel the need to.
5+ months into NC her best friend sent me a friend request ON MY EX's b-day.
I only accepted it last week,3 weeks later.
The next day,my ex finally reached out. EXACTLY 30 weeks since break up. She just messaged : How you doing?
I replied 2 days later: I'm good.
A few hours later she sent another message,this time more inquisitive and playful.Asking how I was so happy.
That was a week ago.
I haven't responded to it.
I have decided to stay in no contact and continue working on myself.
Thanks Coach Lee. Your videos were helpful since I started viewing them @ the time of my break up.
I'm taking it one day at a time.
This has been a weird and tumultuous year esp.with the ever prevalent virus and quarantine.
Good luck to everyone.
P.S. As I'm writing this,i have kept really busy. Started a promising home business just last month. I'm also helping/hanging out with my cousin & friends with his essential goods business.
It's quite ok to grieve and process your break ups.
The key is to keep busy(it works for me).
Eat healthy.Sleep well.Exercise ALOT(!).
Meditate(or pray).
Take up hobbies.
And finally,appreciate friends and family. The little things.
Kids playing.The blue sky,your pets,etc.
@@benjunior1678 Nice work! Stepping back really allowed you to see the chess moves being played..very intriguing! Just curious...why are you continuing with the no contact now that she has reached out? How did your ex know you were happy?
@@granite99 thanks for your kind words. It's weird. For the month prior to her reaching out(@ her bday too to which I stayed silent)...I got really BUSY with multiple business ventures. Sold a lot of different products. There is opportunity despite this pandemic.
I digress.
Anyway,my buddies set me up to chat with/hang out with 2 different girls. Just across the street from my house & business,lol.
Then her best friend spied on my account 1 1/2 weeks ago.
And I'm really ON MY PURPOSE NOWADAYS.
There's a saying: " You will always lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing money".
Her 2 brief messages didn't move my heart and mind.
It didn't warrant a reply imho.
I'm using my brain this time.
Not my heart.
We had a toxic relationship at times tbh. I supported her and was good to her. Yet,I acknowledge my mistakes now too. I was willing to work things out during BU but she chose to leave. During no contact,I did a lot of self reflection. Trying my best to change/improve for the better. Hindsight is 20/20 and I now see the several things that my ex did, to hurt me. Out of anger or unresolved issues from her past or frustration with her career? Who knows.
To answer your question,
self improvement is a process. I chose to remain in NC to continue that process.
I'm just stepping back and being careful. She can approach the centerline a little bit more then maybe I'll respond.
If not,I'll stay in no contact. I was feeling great just before she reached out. Her messages kind of threw me off balance a little bit,LOL.
But I'm remaining stoic and chill.
Miss him terribly ,but he never replies
You dodged a bullet. Better she leaves now than after wasting years and years more of your life.
Coach Lee knows best about No Contact and relationships. His knowledge is truly key to getting over an ex or getting your ex back . Thank you Coach Lee for everything that you do for us.
Very good. No nonsense. No word salad. No false promises. A lot of credibility here.
Your videos saved my relationship. I can never thank you enough...
Wow. I'm amazed. He is very straight forward to the point. He is honest. I like him. Very professional. 💯
Guys JUST FOLLOW THE NO CONTACT RULE. Focus on yourself. Focus on self-care. Take it one day at a time. Your ex will come back the day he/she realizes that you can live without them.
What if it's two breakups... I think it's less likely for them to come back😢
If I had a spare million I would, I'm so blessed to find your videos in this confusing time, with everyday day that goes by I get stronger and stronger, can't seem to shake the being in limbo feeling though but I'm getting there
I'm glad you mentioned briefly about the "flick-of-a-switch" when it comes to romantic feelings Coach Lee. For some time now, I've constantly thought how it was possible for my ex to just be able to do that (or at least that's what it seemed like), but now I start to wonder if she is emotionally and mentally unhealthy
You are awesome coach! Everything you said is true! My ex txted me after 2.5moths of NC! But sorry I'm in a better place now..I realized my life is way better without him. God bless coach!
You really calm me down, love you man 🙏
My ex reached out and ask how I was doing. I said "I knew you'll be back!!" That was the last time I spoke to her 🤣🤣🤣
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Probably should of said something different, but it's all good ,we learn from our mistakes, Good luck to you,🙏
I listened to and followed all the things that you said, and now, everything that you said in this video is happening to me now. Thank you so much Coach lee! Sure I'll find a way to leave you a tip, thank you so much!
Thank you Coach Lee,
Your videos are so comforting at this time.
Ur my one in the million coach always telling the truth about ur broken relationships and u have really helped me from making mistakes during the process thanks
You left me with somewhere I can go to get some hood advice. Before I found you I had done many of the mistakes that you had clearly said not to do. But I still tried and although nearly 8 months had passed since the break up and I have not heard, spoken or seen her in many months you coach Lee have done something that is far better than my getting my ex back you have opened my eyes, taught me lessons and made me into a better person. So thank you very much you have been a blessing. Good luck to everyone going through the struggle right now it may seem hopeless but remember pain is only temporary.
@@ituachristopher5292 that's not very right spelling a "cast" on someone that's just morally wrong but thank you for the suggestion.
@@florencepasca1569 thank you but I am happy how I am do not want them anymore
Thank u
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Great tips coach lee 👏 I love it hope all is well with you and be safe coach lee 👍
Am in NC with my ex but am always calm and find purpose in you and Coach Ken's video clips. Thank you.
No contact is hard. I feel I need a daily push from coach Lee to refocus after slipping a couple times.
stay the course. it works
Coach Lee ,you are very inspiring and you even give us hope.
The king Lee ...thanks for letting me know about this great signals🤘🤟🤟🤟🤟
Im done with dating woman now, since i split with my ex im just not even interested in anyone anymore. Your videos are brilliant by the way
At first I ran to few of my friends post breakup just to find out that all of them are struggling with their own life. And then Great Coach lee happened to me . Now I am looking forward if someone comes to me for an advice. I know the best of my situation and I know what to do if it goes either way. That brings peace. And peace is something more than happiness. Peace is when you know it hurts but that's okay too🤗
Thanks Coach, you never disappoint. 😊
This coach is an angel god bless him
I’ve been fighting and recovering from severe burn out since July. My GF couldnt handle me at my worst & dumped me 2 weeks ago, saying she needs time and space. She also lied about being active on Tinder for weeks before she dumped me. Guess she stuck with me until she found A replacement.
Today is day 14 of NC. Not expecting her to come back, but still hoping she will.
Either way, I’m working on myself every single day.
Thank you, coach Lee! Your videos really help me get through the day.
Stay strong brothers and sisters! Much love 💙
A little over 2 weeks of NC. She called me this morning. Told me how she didn't pass get a big promotion. She was devastated. She spoke on how the universe is maybe giving her signals. She mentioned the ideas we had. Family and kids. Even showed me upgrades to her house. I gave her support on her promotion. Told her she is a great employee and that I am proud of her no matter what. I left it at that. Will see if she Reaches out again.
Did she ??
@@m1ll1on4r3 no she didn't. I really worked on myself and got myself right. I don't need her. Focus on yourself and your emery ✨️.
Thank you coach. Your videos always keep me centred when I really miss them. You’re the best reminder to keep NC.
Honestly....... This IS THE ONLY COACH YOU SHOULD TAKE HIS ADVICE!!!! I GOT MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK.. It’s different because I worked on myself!!! When we were apart!!! Our Relationship is So secure because I am Secure with myself! However it took time , time, patience... and following my instinct and even my Heart.. I reached out after 4 months.... and watched and paid attention to if he really loved me but it took all together 7 and half months for our first date.... You can’t push them but when you know and sense and see the signs .. Only then did I tell him my needs... And waited to see if he met them... It’s A PROCESS!!!! It’s Time.. and you DO NEED TO BACK OFF DOING NO CONTACT...... It Will work if you love yourself and YOU ARE YOURSELF!♥️🙏🏻✝️
That’s so amazing!!! I’m on this journey!!!
So happy for you! Can I ask what you said when you reached out? I’ve been in NC for almost 6 months and I’m struggling on what to say when I reach out to him. (Or can anyone give me ideas on first texts after NC) 🙏
@@GooodGirlAsh I called him and I was nervous but I did it... I said I have invested so much time in this relationship.. I would really love to meet with you and discuss our relationship.. because I have strategies to make this work .. I have worked on myself and I fully understand why this relationship had to end and I have worked on myself and have the patience and the time.. So would you be willing to meet with me so we can discuss how we can make this work..His exact words verbatim .. were it’s Possible.. Then I said what time would work for you? It happened but time went by ..his medical problems got in the way because at that time he had Covid.. So it was a month later.. then he came sat down and I said would you like to try again? He said Yes .. Just give me time and don’t pressure me.. I kept in contact with texting 3 to 4 times a week and waited .. He called and as time went on he called more .. But it took Patience lots of it .. it wasn’t until 7 months and half all together.. since the day we broke up..
@@GooodGirlAsh I hope that helped you because it worked for me.. and when I texted and he didn’t text back right away , I couldn’t take it personally.. then I would wait and try again 3 days later.. Remember your Ex has feelings too .. He even admitted he was petrified .. Because he was hurt so deeply by his Ex’s .. He let his walls down but I had to wait patiently
Awh!! That's amazing! Congratulations! Mine is also a success story as well! I 1000% AGREE!!! Coach Lee KNOWS what he is talking about. He is Jesus when it comes to relationships 😂
I like how at the end you said if they get jealous, "they're not done yet!" I immediately smiled and repeated the phrase. Let's hope that she'll come back. I'm waiting patiently.....
Hi Coach Lee, great advices, thank you. Any advice for ex says there are things she mises and a lot things doesn't miss at all. Thanks again.
Superb video Lee, I really needed this with my ex reaching out 2 weeks ago after 4 months nc. Hoping it wasn't just a one-off to check I'm ok and he gets in touch again moving forward 🤞 Thank you
@Suzie Smith yes I did as Lee advises this, especially as I'd not heard from him in 4 months! I was friendly, light and playful but kept it short so 3 messages as it was quite late at night too. Lee says they should reach out again in 2-5 days but it's been two weeks but it's a step in the right direction. My ex jumped into a rebound relationship less than 2 weeks after we split...keep watching Lee's videos on no contact to keep your resolve strong! 😘
@Suzie Smith I've subscribed to most of the relationship coaches but Lee is the cream of the crop 👌 His experience and expertise is second to none and I trust it. Stay strong and build your confidence and life to a place that you'll know your ex would be lucky to be part of it again! If it's meant to be, the universe will give you the lessons then deliver what is best for you! Xx
Wow. What a coincidence. I guess love was in the air at the time because my ex reached out to me for the first time 2 weeks ago also, after 4 months of silence. However, he hasn’t contacted me again since. We need to be strong, it’s hard but I think it’s worth it. And we have Coach Lee to help us! ❤️ we need to follow his expert advice. It’s the best thing we can do. Good luck with your ex. Hope he realizes soon that what you two had was better than his current rebound. You seem like a nice person. All the best! 💝💝💝
@@Crazybcrazyb888 Wow! Thanks so much for your fantastic reply and wonderful support! I'm kinda excited for us both in being strong for 4 months and it paying off with a reach out! I'm a optimistic person but can't help but think one reach out could literally be them checking in on us but a second would really enable me to think they may be rethinking their decision 🤔 We may not hear anything else so close to Christmas but if he's reached out whilst having a new girlfriend, that's not good as she wouldn't be happy about that. Time will tell but let's stay strong and Lee's videos will keep us determined 💪 I value his guidance so much!
@@lisaofthelodge hi. Any updates? Would love to know☺️
Super duper Lee your awesome and you change me a lot and now more energetic than ever 😊😊😊😊
Wishing you a very Happy Holiday Season..dear Coach Lee..ur the best!🎅🎅🎄🎄🎁🎁💝💝😘🎈
Love you so much coach lee ❤️❤️❤️ your my comfort❤️ and so damm handsome which makes it so much more pleasurable to watch and listen😊 thanks coach lee.... my beautiful hero ❤️❤️❤️
Wow thank u for explaining so well I learnt lot from u nd always keep learning from u Thank u
You have the best voice on You Tube:)
Check the obituaries and if they're not there, they're OK.
Hahaha. You do come up with hilarious statements with a straight face 😂 Love it
One of the best on here ...best wishes coach Lee 👌🏻
Lee rocks as always! 😍😍😍
You forgot they show up at places where they expect to see you!
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Thank You Coach Lee ! Very Sensible Advice !
Coach lee you r the best
Your advice helps sooo much
My ex reached out but he pretended by accident
I think he was testing the water
In return I did excalty what you advised in the emergency brake up kit
Waiting for the next step ,
Thanks again coach lee,
Day 1 of no contact. Thank you coach for your calm, but direct approach.
Day 1 of no contact, I actually decided to block him because he never stopped contacting me after he moved out but I realize he’s just keeping tabs to see what I’m doing.
Update us
@@berniceopare9405 update us
Guyz.... Listen 2 this man.
@coach Lee- will you make a video about commitment phobes or people who say they don’t want to get married
Hello Coach Lee! Happy New Year and thank you soo much for your content. I’d like to ask if it means anything if your ex texts you Happy Birthday, and then Happy New Year (very early in the morning on Years Day) after two months of no contact (he broke up with me cause he felt he’s too good for me but claims he will always love me). I know for a fact he never keeps contact with his exes. Thank you and stay safe 🙏🤟🙂
Just follow intuition if the best solution to this time, better to think first.
The more I watch these the more I realize I don’t want him back.
Hi there reaching out today to say hi and thank you coach and Merry Christmas to you and all
Your words so soft to the heart
SUCCESS STORY!
My ex of 4 years broke up with me in September and I did all the right things, did not beg and immediately went into no contact. I contacted her mid-October to tell her that I love her yada yada and she told me she didn’t want a relationship with me anymore. Today, 48 days of no contact, she started blowing up my phone texting and calling me begging me to answer her. I let the phone ring 4 times and let her text a little bit. When I answered the phone she was sobbing about her new rebound relationship that’s going downhill - with him cheating on her and having lots of trust issues. I didn’t react, but responded and let her vent. I empathized with her and did not show any interest in getting back together. I was just kinda there for her to let her vent and she knows that I do not want to be friends. She asked how I was doing and told her of all the great new things I am doing such as running very successful businesses. I asked her how she was doing and she told me she was miserable with her rebound’s situation and that I was the only one she could rely or confide in which is why she called. What should I do at this point and frankly, should I even take her back?
Thanks, Coach. I’m wishing all of you the best.
Hey man I had a similar thing happen. September was last contact unfortunately we were engaged and we were supposed to be married in December 2020. She made it very clear that she was done with us and me. Long story short I wish you luck with your relationship.
Just play it cool and time
Bro drop her, she doesn’t deserve you, your to good for her.
Don't do it man. Think about it, if her rebound hadn't cheated on her she would still be in bed with him. You deserve better, man.
She's just trying to keep you as her backup option who she can cry to when its not working with main guy.
UPDATE!
After my latest post she texted on three separate occasions asking for advice, one of which was through an unknown number flirting with me. I kept my cool and did not initiate any contact. Today she texted and called me again and asked me to meet her. I did and she vented and cried and cried and I let her do 80% of the talking. I was playful, charming and showed her my exciting new expanding business, which by the way, is skyrocketing! Apparently her rebound guy is a cheater and does drugs, which she almost fell into doing with him. And so while we were talking, I put my foot down and in a playful manner told her she could get lost if she’s expecting me to be her friend and told her I would never be her gay male girlfriend! She was wearing the ring I bought her on our very first date and told me how her mom said I was much better for her. She also told me how she recognizes her co-dependency issue and she even brought up the old happy memories. But in the end, I put my hand on her neck (she likes dominant behavior) and went straight for her lips and started making out with her (she reciprocated) - I backed off and told her I should get going and am now realizing I have a decision to make.
P.S. let them do 100% of the pursuing and let them chase you! They will crumble and fall eventually and just know that you really will get another chance. Just be careful and don’t let them deceive you.
She came back . Next step keep it cool and a bitttt reserved just a bit lol 😆
@@angelalawrencee6207 omg stfu
@@SAMEntalhealth lmaoo😂😂😂
@@Ali_Sky_Violin these damn spam messages are like 3 months long!!!
@@SAMEntalhealth ikr, so annoying. Do you have a NC story?
Great point of view 👏🏻
thank you Coach Lee! as always very helpfull
When are you taking coaching calls again?
Did they really love you, or just the way you made them feel? Once the limerence dies and flaws become prevalent will love endure uncertainty or was it purely convenience?
9.9/10 it's purely convenience
Great advice. Thanks.
Makes me laugh when coach says “ that is ridiculous “ 🤣
That new song from Justin Bieber, “Lonely,” has me in shreds.
Avoid all the songs it reminds you of your ex!!!! Try something new.
Nice new colors
Thank you so so much for your videos❤
Another great video!
My ex lives across the street. I have been doing NC for about 40 days or so. Last weekend, I accidentally (really) called her on the phone and she answered. I was so shocked, but thanks to Coach Lee's videos, I kind of knew what to talk about and what not to talk about, although I know I did I make some mistakes. We talked for over two hours about everything, but little about our old relationship. I just want to say that Coach Lee knows what he is talking about. I know I screwed up by breaking NC with the call, but by then I had no choice, so I had a pleasant conversation with her. It was interesting. She said she did miss me. She suggested going biking together sometime when I get my new bike, but I declined. Maybe I shouldn't have? Screwed up again, I guess. Towards the end of the conversation we did start to talk a little about our relationship and she said she was glad that we are still friends, but I told her I thought we had something special together and didn't want to just be friends. I told her I liked kissing her too much to just be friends (instead of saying the, "yeah, right," line). It was her birthday Monday and I also screwed up by leaving a rose from my garden at her door like I used to do every week (I put a note on it saying "Last one, just because. Happy Birthday"). I know I should not have. Since then, she texted me once thanking me for the rose and asking where to get Christmas garland, which I thought was strange, but I figure she is just trying to be friends. I'm back to NC again, but I think I messed up by #1 calling (which really was an accident), #2 by declining the biking invitation and #3 leaving the rose. Just wanted to share my experience and wish everyone else better luck. This sucks. Coach Lee, what do you think? I know this is a long post, but I wanted to share my experience. Thanks so much for these videos. You make such a difference in people's lives.
I can recommend you to a man who help me bring my ex back he can also help you
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
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Almost 2 months since she broke up
I went in NC for a month then texted her in a nice way just like how some coaches tell ..
she was still defensive and didn’t want to talk to me
And since then i went into NC again .
TBH i don’t have hope .. and i have depression
Before i met her i tried to end my life and was rescued and went into anti depression
When i met her .. i found a reason to live for
4 years in collage i didn’t have feeling for any girl .. i just didn’t care .. it was my first relation
And for a year we spent all the time together and she always told me that i am everything she wants in a man and she could never leave or love anyone after me .
Now im just a stranger .
I tried to kill my self after that and was rushed to the hospital now im on anti depressions again
What sucks is .. i never enjoyed life
Never had a purpose or a goal like everyone else
No matter what i do or achieve .. i feel empty
I trusted her with my life .
Now .. i don’t think she even remembers me
Here i am .. sitting in the dark .. in grief and sorrow .. while she .. seem happy ..
at least she is happy without me .. and my pain wont case trouble for her .
Hey, I know this is a horrible situation, but believe this. She has NOT forgotten you. If someone was a big part of your life, you can’t just forget them. I still remember people from elementary school, so memory is not short. Maybe she just needs a breather right now, but there is still hope. Also, how do you know she’s happy? I have anxiety, so I do things like this all the time in my mind, but let’s think logically for a second. Sure, maybe she seems happy, but was it just a brief moment that you saw her in person or on an Instagram post? Maybe it was just a moment of happiness. However, that doesn’t mean that she’s happy. She’s still going to experience those nights alone without, thinking about the relationship and you! We can have happy moments and not be happy as a collective. We can try to guess and read our exes’ minds, but that will only be allowing ourselves to spiral down further. Let her get out of relief so that she has the ability to miss you. I believe in you, you got this! Most people begin to miss you at around the 45-75 day mark five or take, so take these months to really hone in on yourself. The 30 day no contact usually isn’t enough time, so she most likely hadn’t had enough time by then to really begin to miss you. Wait until she reaches out, then you know for sure that she misses you, even if it just seems small like asking how you are. All hope is not lost, just stick to no contact. Based on pattern recognition inside the human brain, it will be weird that she’s not hearing from you, and she will begin to think about you even if it’s subconsciously. I know these words might fall on deaf ears or might not help much, but try to focus on you. People always told me that, and it would just annoy me. But think about who you were in the relationship, were you happy (for the most part) and amazing? Think about what she loved about you and who she fell in love with in the first place. Become that person and more by being the best you, she will notice that and begin to miss you. You are worth being missed. You are worth it. Have hope and faith because you’ve got this!!!
@@destinygamergirlrock thank you for taking time to reply
While i agree with you on the mindset
But in this day and age social media ruined relationships .. i don’t think she will be able to sit alone and miss me while there is always more creeps to simp just waiting for you to get out of the picture ..
while battling with depression i was still the best man that she could ever find
I worked so hard on myself the last 6 years just so i don’t end up killing myself .. from gyms to mindset to whatever thought you think of while imagining what a perfect boyfriend would be ( yet i know no one could be perfect but i tried my best )
All girls wants this badboy guy that falls in love with them and disconnect himself from other girls and give them all the time and attention they need 24/7
While you love spending all the time with her from playing games to solving problems helping her with exams and anxiety etc
Now i start to realize it was wrong
Sadly .. when you show this much emotions to people .. you will kind of lose value in their eyes and stop feeling like you are a prize that they have to chase
And i think the day she realizes her old relation wasn’t “ Toxic “
She will regret her decision and wants to come back
By that time id either killed myself or filled my heart with hate .. because thats the only way i could get over her sadly .
I wish she would be here everyday .. but no my friend
Its funny all the girls i treated badly wanted to get in a relation with me and i still found a way to push them off
While the only person i cared about in this world and gave all my heart and soul into choose to leave me behind .
Check the obituaries haaaaaa my God! Good one! .
Whatever good or bad will happen to my life.but u r awesome.
i am delighted to announce that i see none oh this signs from my ex. you will all come again to these videos years later after your heartbreaks and you will smile in your new hearts
Coach lee..how about my relationship of my xbf was on and off and now he break me up again..and his going to move other places so he cannot see me again.
This just reiterates how I miss my ex
Coach lee, What about the pros/cons of still keeping contact with their parents??
Can you do a video on "ghosting"?
Simply put, there no longer interested at this moment in time, but not mature enough to tell you. Easiest way, to just disappear.
Well lee believe me i been watching a lots of TH-camrs videos, but to be honest your way deferent person with fantastic messeges .
Hey there Coach Lee, I was hoping there was a question you could answer for me. Is it okay to reach out after 3+ months of no contact if you're blocked? Thanks for your time.
$1M dollar tip 🤣🤣🤣 you’re the best coach Lee
Man! These ‘bots’ have no chill.
Dear lee,
It's been two year I have been following up with you
Very first falling love is too good just wanted to share my experience when I went through all of your rules
Very first I loved the girl and due to some serious family concern I told girl the situation which I am and we had break up than after since issue was on my side earlier we were in complete touch as well I told issuew has been resolved can work on relationship but she started dump on me so much I haven't experienced in my life and even I felt so much sorry my self that the girl who understood everything she is doing even after starting convience her so many times it does not she started cheating on me laid with many times even caught with red handed when she was other boy as well
So than after went so much depression to heel that earlier it was so crazy than one day on 2019 October I saw your one video got motivated so much and applied all your rules now it has one year she started coming on me to tell sorry but now completely self control full confidence on my and I have been move
It's all because you lee for creating such wonderful guidance guys like us when we lose control ourselves thanks lot keep rocking Lee
your great follower
santhosh
@@vivianella6701 thank you so much! But I don't want my x back to my life again after all knowing what she is now!! But thank you so much for your concern on me
love u coach❤️
BUT HER AIM IS GETTING BETTER!!!
we’ve only been in NC for like 2 weeks but he unblocked me on everything and has been trying to reach out, but tbh i’m over him lol. he told me that he didn’t consider us friends and i don’t have time for the confusion
Currently crying my heart out. He was doing the hot then cold game and now he just blocked me on Facebook tonight. We've been apart for 5 or so months and now this made me believe he is over it. I was hopeful but now I'm just confused. I wish you were still doing the coaching calls. He was still stalking my Facebook then he blocked me..
@Rachael McKenzie. Hang in there. Almost 6 months of NC and nothing. I don’t have her on social media since she doesn’t have it. So who knows...wish you the best.
Honestly, Rachael, if he was going hot and cold, it sounds like he was stringing you along. Some folks do that for very selfish reasons. From now on, be a ghost to him. Don’t let him see or hear anything about you. Give social media a break (hard, I know, but it will also keep you from going crazy). I say this with love: don’t be his puppet anymore. You deserve so much better. ❤️
Need some advice if she's my coworker. Day 10 of NC, and she's initiating casual talk at work. I already watched the Strategic Contact video. Any advice is appreciated.
Hey! My advice would be to continue following strategic contact. Dont ignore her, but don’t go out of the way to talk to her either. If she initiates conversation, just be polite and friendly, but keep it short. You most likely have something to do since it’s work, so don’t try to drag out the conversation. Keep her guessing on what’s going on with you. Even though you’re communicating a bit at work, she’s still losing out on the intimacy of your relationship and everyday conversation. Her initiating conversation with you at work could be a good sign that she misses you or can’t stay away from you. Maybe focus on exercise or dressing differently, she will notice the difference and be curious. Curiosity is a precursor to attraction remember. Also, don’t be afraid to have confidence. Confidence is attractive! Imagine this, if you could definitely tell and could see into the future that you and her would get back together in three months, what would you do in the meantime? What would you do in those three months? You would work on yourself, be happy, and confident because you knew what was coming already. So act like that. Be smart and excel, you got this!!!
Thank you couch lee!! Your helping me heaps!
@@hangingwithginevra4290go away
4 months still on no contact 😂 Quarantine is making this worse
My ex says things like we are never getting back together or why can’t you just move on and the problem is that this is out of the blue. I barely talk to her and am just doing my own thing. She’s probably projecting and I have zero interest in her but it’s getting annoying.
Your videos are very comforting.
Thank you ❤
Day 5 on NC. I posted a picture of me and a few friend’s feet by a campfire and my ex unadded me on snap because of it. I’m still not blocked on other social media platforms tho. Seems like a Jealousy response to me, but what do you think coach?