Will My Ex Come Back To Me? How To Know.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ย. 2020
- In this video Coach Lee answers the question, "Will my ex come back to me?"
If you have been broken up with and are wondering how to know if my ex will come back to me and what the chances are of your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend coming back to you wanting to get back together, this video will give you some indications of the likelihood of their return.
Find out how to know if your ex will come back to you by watching this powerful video by Coach Lee.
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She's back! After 3.5 months. Plus she was in a rebound relationship. There aren't enough words in the English language, to thank you enough sir. No contact works. It was hard, it was difficult, but she's back with new insight altogether. I do believe we're gonna have a better, stronger relationship after this ordeal. Everything you taught was spot on. I watched your videos repeatedly. It calmed me as well as guided me. Thank you once again.
Awesome news
Did she block u at all?
@@canyoudothis556 She blocked me for 2days, but that was after i blocked her. I unblocked her, then she unblocked me. But dont do the blocking game, its immature. Coach Lee is right about this.
I just want to add that she initiated contact frequently. It's not that we didn't talk, I just not initiated contact.
She gradually lost that dumpers arrogance, became more humble and then eventually became emotional, saying she misses me.
So, she texted me, then 2days will pass, sometimes 5 days, 10 days.... But I held my ground, I didnt initiate contact.
I really hope I have this same result im really struggling at the moment its nearly a month since she broke up with me and im really struggling to find the will to live 💔 😭😭😭
@@christopherlemarchand1715 I really feel for you my friend.
don't chased a person who doesn't value your worth
Sakit naman yan.. nagkabalikan ba kayo?
Ako pnalit ako sa pangit. Dugyot. Grabe
what sucks the most is how you guys turn into complete strangers. like you never knew who that person was.
Itz Crash crazy right!!!
💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
So true
Damn right you are. My ex of 10 years told me that if I happen to see her on the streets, I must pretend that I didn't know her. Can you imagine that!? And guess what!?? I've done her nothing wrong. She just got up one day and told me that she's seeing someone else, and she needs her space. She is certainly NOT coming back!!
I agree, that is the worst part.
Today is 6 weeks since the breakup/no contact. Its gotten a lot easier and I've pursued new hobbies and financial stability.
To those struggling with no contact, you are not alone, we are all going through this. Don't contact them, don't let your time be for nothing. Focus on yourself, pursue others.
I will update this comment around week 12.
Update 21 Oct: she texted me last night about something she saw on Facebook, should I respond at all??
Update 15 November 2020: she finally did it. She broke down crying and calling me wishing that I'd take her back. She said it was the worst mistake she'd made and how her life was fucked up without me.
Moral of the story: wait long enough, they'll come back. When they do it'll be up to you to take THEM back. If they don't ever come back, its okay to move on :)
I like this.. This is inspiring
Wow this is awesome!!!
Man I hope this will be my case
how long in total did this take?
@@Nimbus3690 in total we were separated roughly 10 weeks, so about 2.5 months. Don't count the days, just try to look ahead and build YOUR future. They'll come back eventually. If they don't, thats not a big deal, because you're building YOUR future.
After 3 months of no contact.....
Ive lost 50lbs
train 7 days a week
Put my heart into something else ( sport or hobbies) not someone else
Be ok with being alone.
Take them off the pedestal the relationship wasn’t as good as you thought and neither were they. I was broken but I have made myself better. No one is coming to save you but yourself. Never rely on anyone for anything again. I’ve learnt a lot in the last 3 months.
Dude what is up with these bots.
Hell yeah man that’s an amazing testimony. Thank you so much
Jay T you’ll get there man it’s hard but don’t dwell I don’t agree with everything these love gurus say but no contact works 100% but just don’t be expecting your ex back. And when they come back its not because they miss you it’s because someone has made them feel bad so they come back out of pity and for validation
Kyle Stewart yeah man. This is really hard. The girl I thought I was going to marry left me OUT OF NOWHERE. She started antidepressants and changed as a person. Became super disconnected. I fought for her for a couple weeks just getting my heart tore out and pushing her away further. Then I do no contact and implement all of coach Lee’s breakup kit and she reached out. We started talking again, hooked up, and it was “I love you, I missed you” etc etc super emotional, and then boom... back to her saying “I don’t want to be with you right now, maybe down the road but right now I don’t want you setting expectations” and then she pulls away, texts rarely, doesn’t offer to hangout etc. man I just can’t do it, it’s tearing my heart out and starting to become a major health concern. It’s 3 days now since I told her I can’t do this it’s not good for me, and she said well take all the time you need, I’m sad, but I understand. Man she’s just in a different place to where she could take or leave it, I am just not there. I’m still in love with her. So, anyway... I can’t stop thinking about other men being with her.
Jay T go cold as the saying god fake it til you make it my story is similar but never ever lower your self worth to beg for another human being regardless of how you feel about them show her you don’t care. Start not answering texts within reason she’s I singing you for validation and then changes her mind no one deserves to be treated like that and it shows the sort of person she is if she cared like you do yous would be together
I am going to to this
The one reading this
You are phenomenal my friend. you are not alone. You are Loved. You are beautiful, we are all connected through our pain, and in our pain we come out stronger. For all of you hurting inside, for all of you wanting to scream, to jump, to cut, to fall, to pull the trigger,- for all of you who can't do it anymore, I'm here and I pray for you. *Hug if needed - take care of yourself and stay safe❤.
I am not good. But people still like me. It is so darn annoying. Good positive point you make though I will say that. I am amazed by how kind some people are like you. I am grateful for you. Have an awesome day friend!
thank you so much😟
Thank you❤
@@SharonDollaseWorkout Hello dear I know very well that you lost your partner don’t tell me that you have not heard about mr Ose he can gat your ex back.. wh@tspp him
@@SharonDollaseWorkout +2347026399847
Every time i feel anxiety i always watch your videos
Same here am in pain diein inside
I feel you. I do the same. lol
Me too lol, I got broken up with last week and started using no contact and on Saturday she contacted me with “Heyyy, how are you?” We talked then it ended with nothing big, then on Monday she posted a picture on Instagram of herself with a caption “Your loss”, I don’t get how it’s my loss if I wanted us to stay together and I begged and texted me to why she was breaking up and to give me another chance but all she said was “I think it’s our time” and all this other bs like it’s not you it’s me and I need time. I’m trying to move on with thinking she won’t contact me, last time she broke up with me she came back in a week and I’m thinking she’ll contact me again around the 1 month mark but who’s to really know... so I’ve decided to move on with the motivation she won’t come back and focusing on myself and working out.... love to everyone who’s feeling this way and you will be happy again❤️
Same goes to me. Coach Lee video make me feel better 🙂
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Will do coach!
I really hope you see this and can help me out! I have been watching your videos like crazy for over a year now. I'll try to keep this short. June 2019 my ex broke up with me. I cried and begged for maybe 2 days. He is the one who insisted on friendship. He called and messaged me every day. So I never ignored him. We just became "friends with benefits" and finally 2 months ago he was talking about hanging out with one of his co workers (who is a female) and I just couldn't hold it in. I told him I still loved him and that I could not continue to be "friends" with him. He asked me if we could still talk every day. I said no because then we would just continue this cycle that we've been going through for the past year. I immediately went into no contact and he ended up coming to my house 5 weeks later with supplies because our town was affected by a fire. I was nice and polite and thanked him and we talked for about 30 minutes. Just about random things. Then I went straight back into no contact, and it has now been 3 weeks since we interacted. Anyway, I just want to know what your opinion and thoughts are.. do I still have a chance? Did I mess it all up by accepting "friendship" for almost a year?
For sure Coach Lee. A buyers remorse scenario video pleassse Coach Lee!! Xxx
Thank you Lee. Someone tried that with me, but I did not fall for it.
Mike Pacillo hi! Coach lee is the best his videos help so much. Can you tell me what’s the difference with his videos and his break up kit? Thank you! Glad you’re happy I hope we all hear the same good news! But only because coach lee!
Focus on improving yourself as a person not on whether your ex comes back and you will attract someone more suitable to the new improved you! Good luck and be happy
True that! lost 25 pounds, lots of ladies reaching out to me on line, and feeling better about myself.
Coach Lee stands for:
LEEve them alone
Give you and your ex reLEEf
Thats what im doing......BeLEEf in myself
Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
Haha nice one
Wtf so lame
The right relationship is not a brittle one. I hope that eventually we all find that person who will not run out on us and sleep with a random person the moment there's a disagreement. We all deserve respect, and a partner who will communicate properly in order to address disagreements.
Well said Darrell. You shouldn’t have to walk on egg shells in the right relationship,
spot on
I think every relationship is going to have hardships and trials, but naturally it takes two to tango and if someone's still immature and unwilling to work through those hard times, they need to learn and mature and grow. Sadly, sometimes that requires the pain and hurt of a breakup. But like any rough moment in life, we can come out on top and become better people for it.
@@Sorenthazi agree with you, every breakups are different, it maybe that you are the problem, and the cause of the breakup, but NC helps you to work on your areas of improvement and mistakes, so that when they came back. You know what to do and it will be stronger than before.
Best benefit on the no contact is perspective. After three months, I’m ok either way. I’m ready to move on. Thank you, Coach Lee
It’s been 6 weeks since break up for me. Is it normal to feel in utter despair at this point? It’s so painful! I’m 3 weeks in to NC.
@@zeppelintheobserver2573
First month is very tough brother
Its very tough in the first month
After 2-3 months you will get used to it
@@zeppelintheobserver2573 yeah I’m not there yet(time wise 5 weeks for me) but I don’t see my anxiety subsiding anytime soon
@@Denimchicken. it’s day 60 since break up and 38 days NC. I’m still a fricken mess... anxiety like crazy. Just wish it would stop and I could let go of hope.
@@zeppelintheobserver2573 update brother ?
*Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around* ❤️
Vanilla sky
Still heartbroken here 😭
The problem is How..😢
@@gabbymontoya2085 *take some time to yourself and I’m sure the answer will come to you*
You got this✨
I have faith in myself and universe
I do no contact for two months and guess what my ex boyfriend reach out to me.Thank you coach lee you do help me a lot because of your videos 😁Now were back together for almost 2months ❤️
If you don't mind me asking but what caused the break up?
Can you tell us the story
awsum
Sana allll❤
Im so happy for you❤️ can’t wait for this day for me
Coach Lee deserves 1 million subscribers because he is just a legend and idk where we would all be without him
I went from texting every 2 days to 2.5 months no contact, I'm so proud!
Not interested in your 'doctors' ppl 😒
Update?
Any updates?
Only time will tell.
i'm very relate on this😐 well i give him, more time that he needed maybe that's true only time will tell🙏❤
@@mikepacillo8470 hi we are talking now again but somehow there's still bother me that our situation is still hard because of other people around him😔 but i understand he needs to work on himself and me either😔 but it's too hard for me cause i'm suffer with my anxiety and depression now😢 i hope we we're back together like before i missed the old him😔😭 by the way sorry i'm poor english sir😐
@@mikepacillo8470 i love him so very much with all my heart❤ but i really appreciate your kind words towards me sir, thank you for your advice and yeah i believe in god🙏❤ i will surrender everything to him, and i know god's make a way to fix our relationships🙏❤ i wish you all the best sir🙂 greetings from the philippines🇵🇭💕
@@mikepacillo8470 it's really hard😔 but yeah i need self improvement first and give all my trust and worry to god🙏❤ by the way i'm glad for you cause you make it no contact and improvement on yourself and it seems you get your ex back sooner or later🙂
@Guitar Man I know of a powerful man who can help you get your love back to you.... He also helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation....
Guys please trust in his videos. I know it’s hard but it works. I’m so grateful my ex came back to me after 6 months broken up 🥺🥺
Wow really?
How is everything going now?
Jessica …. I think I know me and that low key broke my hope… I’m not going to wait 6 months… did anything happen in between??
@@zairadosal9714 yes he would call me all the time
@@jessicag23100 I’m really loosing hope here then again… it’s not been that long it just feels like forever and all this scenarios play in my head.. Like she is definitely moving on ans going to find someone else very soon and 4 months down the line I’m going to see her holding hands with someone and that just hurts
@@zairadosal9714 me too man. I'm really starting to lose hope. Try to stay positive, if you think of negative things then only negative things will happen. Give her some space
All I did was love them. My bad, I guess.
Harley Quinn the right thing to do in your situation is stop responding her text or calls until she text you something substantial like , let's get back together or I'm sorry,we I want to see you. Otherwise you are feeding her ego by been there are responding each and every text. That's no no. By doing that, you are helping her to get over you because until she feels she lost you, she will never appreciate you or respect your presence. No contact means no contact her or no respond her until she come back broke down
Right!!
@@ethiosafezoneethio8688 will she come back broken down ?
After about 10 days of no contact my ex came back. I thank you for being here. For being there for me. Your videos are superb
So happy to hear a success story! Been a week no contact and praying I'll have the same outcome
@Bali Alley, probably had somemore wild oats to sow and the person didnt work out so came back. Good luck
@@mallorys6815 update?
@@khabibmcgregor3592 back in contact with my ex. Still not where it needs to be but there's progress
@@mallorys6815glad to know that. how long of nc? And who initiated the first contact?
She's burnt me from inside. But ,now I'm rising up like a phoenix . Blessing be upon all the aching hearts and may our exes come back to us with even more love !!!!!!!!
Ranasinge arachichi, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which will help you immensely. It has EVERYTHING including strategies for every situation.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
One thing is for sure .... Your voice, your analogy, your advice, your suggestions, your content is very calming. You will see alot of people claiming they watch your videos on loop, and that's a fact .... Thankyou Coach Lee ♥️
It's so nice to know I am NOT the only one going through this shitty time in my life 💖
❤BE STRONG EVERYONE!❤
After my ex broke up with me, I went into no contact straight away. It was really hard and i wanted to break NC so many times.. but watching coach lee’s videos really helped me feel like and know that what i’m doing is the right thing. After 37 days of NC my ex texted me out of the blue yesterday. The texting is kind of slow but at this point i’ve been doing amazing by myself and NC has helped me realise that i really dont need anyone elses validation but my own! My ex and I are planning to meet up some time soon, which will be nice to see him but NC has helped me realise that whatever happens if we end up together again or not, I’m pretty content with where i’m at in my journey now of self-love! So trust no contact guys~!
hello, any update? :)
Please listen to me. I've chased my ex for over a year! Sent him gifts, writting letters, coming to his house. He ended up hating me. I lost all respect for myself. Never chase! Please listen to coach Lee. Even if your won't come back, at least you will have respect for yourself. Maybe I wrote it before, but. I want you to learn from my mistakes. If you will reach out to your ex, you will feel worse. They will ignore you or feel sorry for you.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!
Been doing No Contact for almost 2 weeks now. keep pushing through everyone! We got this! My ex has refused to talk about the breakup and didn’t even want to talk to me in person after he walked out on me. He kept his favorite photo of us in a frame even though I got my other stuff back.
Let them miss you b/c the dumper chose to walk out. Not the one who was dumped, be determined and keep pushing forward. Like Coach Lee has said- “Time is part of the equation”!
How is it going now?
update
UPDATE sorry
Like i am studying so much i dont even think about her
I am impressed with myself
Same!
Just feels like a gamble. From my experience being dumped, none have contacted me back. NC is just a means to heal yourself rather than to get an ex back. The results may vary depending on what relationship you had but this is just my experience. One should never attempt NC to get an ex back. Getting them back might as well be a happy side effect of it. NC is meant for self healing
No.
No offense but you're wrong! It's not a case of one or the other. No Contact WORKS FOR BOTH. Lee never said it works every time because nothing works every time. But when you're the one hurting, loving, aching, and wondering what happened and they're the one doing the leaving then NO CONTACT ABSOLUTELY DOES WORK better than any other approach. Namely because if you were the overly emotional one in the relationship it's a HUGE sign that you overinflated their ego while minimizing your own worth. NO CONTACT can be a very important shock to their system that jolts them back to the reality that YOU DON'T ACTUALLY NEED THEM to have meaning and purpose. It also recalibrates their own pompous delusional feeling of superiority that you likely played a huge role in building up for them by tolerating disrespect and making them the center of your rather empty universe. BUT when you go cold NO CONTACT you force them to suddenly be without a massive source of their own self-love - and you regain a large portion of your own dignity and self respect which not only makes the loss easier to endure - it makes you instantly more attractive to the other person who in many cases is learning that life without you and your constant worship isn't as easy as they imagined back when they were convincing themselves over time that they were way too good to be with someone as hopelessly pitifully in love with them as you were. Most of the cases when it doesn't work involves there being another person who was in reality the main motivation for them leaving to begin with regardless of what they told you at the time. Sometimes - not always - but sometimes when there is someone else it can take longer for the limerance to wear off the new relationship so No Contact might appear not to work - but in those cases - there was nothing you could have done anyway, but at least if you follow Lee's advice you'll have rebuilt some self-worth and be stronger and wiser next time. No offense - but you do no one any favors getting on here and making a comment about No Contact not working or not something you'd recommend. Because it's been proven to be the single best chance people have if there's any chance at all. Wish you the best of luck though.
@@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO great argument man. Agree with you a ton. I stalk my ex on YT and know she is unhappy now for sure. I had the same suspicions as you that i made her feel very special yet she thought she deserved more: she thought she could get a man who would be head over heels to her and expected me to bring down the mountains for her.
I tried to explain to her i'd do everything for her only if she reciprocates but to no avail. Finally she dumped me supposedly for another man. Idk if she lied r told the truth but i know for sure she is learning the hard way how good it was when i made her feel beautiful and happy and how miserable she is now. I hope she decides to come back to me soon. Man. It's been 8 months and i can't get over.
@@NomadUrpagi you sound too good for her but I hope you get the happy ending you're looking for!
NC isn’t the only thing you have to do to get them back
I can't stop crying. 5 days of no contact.
@@coachlee728 I'm doing better thank you for asking. He is coming over tomorrow with steaks and bake potatoes. We shall see.
When did he answer? How many days in?
You are the best relationship coach around. Clear to the point, no fluffing, no selling..GREAT
I do want my ex back, but by dumping me he gave me the gift of time to focus on myself! It hurts like hell sometimes, but I know I’m gonna be better on the other side, with him, with someone else, or all by myself. Love to everyone else in the same boat right now. 💖
I have to thank you for giving the insight into the mind of my man. Everything you said was spot on. It didn’t even take a day for him to contact me as I knew he would. We had a great relationship. He didn’t realize what it would be like without me. He hated it. Now we’re working on a new relationship living separately. Doing everything you told me to do got me what I want. Also telling me how to rebuild from the ashes of our old relationship. Thank you coach!
I’m so happy for you. Good luck!
Who cares if they come back! Let them go , so you can grow and be a better person, & you’ll leave them wondering guessing on how great you’ve become❤️
I started no contact after I sent a polite goodbye text to her, upon discovering her moving into her ex's house. She didn't have the cheek to tell me that she was back with her ex. Just ghosted me during the lockdown period. 18 months of romance and affection.went down the drain just like that. One month has passed since NC but for me it still hurts like hell. On some days, I felt better and other days I just relapse back to pain. Working out has helped, getting busy has helped. Reminding myself of how cheap and selfish she can be towards me gives some relief. Listening to Coach Lee has been helpful to know exactly what to do. Whether she comes back or not, I am determined to have a better version of me, physically, financially and emotionally. Being dumbed by her can be a blessing in disguise.
Coach Lee is absolutely right that jealousy and dating right after a break up is NOT the right way to go!!!! I did that after 2 weeks of splitting up and it was a terrible idea! I went insane begging and pleading for 2 weeks, didn’t do it right at all. This is the first day of no contact. We have children together, he helps me with certain things as well, so I have no idea how this is going to work. I just pray so hard that it does!!!!!!!
You don’t cease to amaze me, coach Lee. Your words are very comforting. Thank you.
Coach Lee literally deserves million subscribers ❤️ !!
Just cuz it smells good.. dosnt mean its ready "Cake in the Oven" probably ur best analogy u ever said :)
Hi Coach Lee...youre looking sharp, as always you contribute with understanding in the dynamics and words of wisdom 🙏
Coach Lee, you make a lot of great points. The one very targeted case that your videos do not explain, is the case when the dump occurs due to cheating. It would be great if you could do a video of no contact, and how it applies to the person who got broken up with due to cheating. That is going to help many guys, because frankly, a lot of the breakups guys are experiencing may be due to that case.
I noticed many dumpers after a breakup will try to keep the contact, maybe pull the other side into a friendzone. They need them but don't want them. So the power of no contact is to take them such opportunity away.
Rightly said!
Man, coach is getting better still with every video! God send 🙏
Long time no hear from you Lee. Been waiting patiently for your new updates. Still a big fan of yours. Thanks always for a nugget of wisdom and advices even if I'm not in a a relationship but it's helpful for the one who needs it... 💙💙💙
About to watch the video but leaving a comment before doing so. Just wanted to thank you Coach Lee for being so awesome and helping us all out! Lots of love for you and your work! So excited for this video, you're the only channel I turn my notifications on for lol.
Coach lee is the best! Always coming back for more. Thank the Universe for TH-cam!much appreciation from Kenya!
Words of wisdom, thanks. There's always a tip of info that keeps me amaze, 😲 your predictions are like sorcery.
You're awesome. Entire life is a house of cards, accepting it is empowering. Beautiful.❤️
hahaha @ your reaction to "an ex is an ex for a reason".
You are the most rational coach ever! Your kids are going to love having you around when they're dating!
More than just your input and research, you have a realy honest,mellow calming voice that commands sincerity. Thanks for just being YOU.
Yeah, thank you. Your content helped me through the breakup. I decided not to pursue getting back together. Thank you for your help
These are all hopeful scenarios. Let go of hope. It only serves to consume you and prolong your suffering by keeping you comfortable. Focus on yourself and make yourself attractive (again), to your ex or another person. Stay strong.
Thanks for all the videos Coach, they have helped me over the last month after a breakup. I immediately went into no contact after giving a bit of push back, that was for 34 days ago. I've decided to give it a full 60 days of NC and if I don't hear from her I will consider the relationship a lesson to improve the next.
Going thru the same. No contact since mid August. Every day I start to be more indifferent and give a shit less and less. I definitely learned something
@@jellymedina I think the thing I have learnt most is respect for yourself is key... I was emotional and stated the fact that I didn't want the breakup for a couple of days but when she said that she didn't think she wanted to make a go of it I backed away. No begging or pleading, no late night phone calls or texts, I just walked away with her looking at me from the window waving me goodbye. It's been hard but I'm proud of myself for the way I have managed NC. I think she will have been missing me more for it and the way I see it is that I deserve better.
how did things turn out?
hi just wanted to say that all of his advice are legit and it works... its amazing.
It’s like breaking up with them right back” so well said
I love you Lee.
I'm not quite sure she'll come back, but your videos and advises have been priceless...
Great Guidence from the Professor
Peace ✌
Coach lee, you and a few others helped me immensely during one of the emotionally hardest times in my entire life. Im in such a good position now and thinking about it doesn’t hurt nearly as much as it once did. Its been almost a year 1/2 no contact and i miss him still sometimes but i wont ever chase someone who made it clear they dont want me in their life. You can only win with no contact
Your MESSAGE IS SPECTACULAR!!! Thank YOU SO GLAD I FOUND YOU!!! The other one I watched was Ridiculous! But I found you through them!!!! And I am always telling others on other sites to go to you!! I rate you The Highest of them ALL!!!!!! I just about have my EX BACK .. I just Keep watching you because I Absolutely LOVE YOUR MESSAGE.. Your videos and YOUR BREAKUP KIT!!!😃❤️
nice to see you after so many days❤️
Thank you coach Lee. It is great that you give a message to dumpers. There are many videos and blogs that encourage dumpers never to go back reminding them that "there should be a reason" you broke up so stay where you are and keep strong. Real BS!!!
Yes, Coach is realistic, and wants us to be sucessful.
What is "real BS"? real bullshit? 😂
@@NomadUrpagi lol
Do you really want someone who will leave you and sleep around? Thats called sloppy seconds. She will feed your heart to you again.
Thanks man needed this I sent flowers like a dumb ass .. gonna just back off now and wait but I miss her
You helped me 2 years ago when i needed to hear these things. Keep on going, thanks man.
The Lord reward you, Coach Lee for your service to humanity !!
God bless you
Hey Coach Lee !😁...thanks for brightening up my saturday!! Been watching you and Craig Kenneth...been no contact almost 4wks..im honestly trying to now just move past my breakup and keep working on myself ❤❤ which is what i was doing b4 and during my relationship❤..i dont think my situation is hopeless w him reaching out..but its easier to just tell myself this is DONE and OVER WITH.
Stay strong
@@antoniogreen9255 Thanks Antonio❤ you too!
you can lose anything anyway. freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose (janis joplin quote)
Guys and girls be strong.... focus on yourself and when your sad lean on your faith. Godspeed.
Your videos are very soothing and comforting. Your voice is like ASMR to me. You have helped me through my biggest heartbreak. I feel stronger, I do break down at 2am some nights, but every new day I feel more in touch with myself and more empowered.
Me too
this guys is so good! A real testament that you can literally make a business/career out of absolutely anything if you invest yourself in it! So cool and he really provides value to viewers/clients.
Was in a four year relationship and after 5 days of no contact I got a very negative response knowing I shouldn't of reached out I am going right back into no contact. Hopefully it all will work out! Coach Lee your advice is amazing and I watch every video you post to help guide me through this breakup! Thank you!
Wish you the best! It has been 5 days for me as well, this is horrible. Also he has blocked me on everything. We're in ldr, and with him cut me off like this it leaves me no options but wait for him to return.
@@jejayaba i think it is for the best. We overstepped their boundaries, we just have to wait for the change of heart.
@@jejayaba also my relationship was over the years of 18-22 and we were just getting out of college. She went to a college in Ohio and i was in Maryland, im still in college and she just graduated, she had a loss of attraction towards me because i became very angry and rude towards her a lot due to my problems coping with learning I had crohns disease and was trying to overcome it. I really hope the stars align and she can see that I was in pain and worry for myself... It may be best we broke apart to begin a new book with each others, or it could just be another chapter on its way.
I got told that she wasn't happy and wants me to be happy and to let her go I'm blocked everywhere as well after 7 years together really want her back :'(
I am now back on day 2, stay strong, first two weeks are the hardest. I will keep everyone updated on what happens.
thanks coach, i'm having a really hard time. I'm going to try to move on while using these strategies. You've helped me so much.
i'm very relate😔 but i still have keep faith🙏❤
long time no see Coach Lee! hope you're doing well, I'm still a big fan of you
I found brad browning first and stuck to him cuz he seemed reliable and never bothered with your videos or other people... But listening to you and your thoughts about jealousy and ignoring ex speaks to me and makes sense. Now I watch only your videos because they actually make sense to me and you give good tips. I was always skeptical about ignoring ex etc and for a good reason just like your mindset. So thank you very much
Omg same
Tht guy DOES NOTTTT compare to Coach Lee...Everyone else in this field is secondary or whatever...but Coach Lee..is by far the smartest of them ALL
@M Chap COACH LEE IS THE BEST!!
I come to your videos as inspiration. It has been one month since she broke up with me. I did the wrong thing be begging her back. I have now 2 weeks of no contact. She has reached out to me one time every week. I didn't ignore her. But I respectfully talk to her without bringing up the relationship. While I have hope on being with her. I have put myself into counseling to work on my faults that I brought to the relationship.
Now do one things. Meditate and love yourself. Stay away from her. She will be back. Note it
You the best coach on the net i promise you answer all the questions without Even being asked love you coach
Thank you about that video! It's very helpful and Confirms my thoughts! I like your Chanel and your videos. Thank you very much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Nice hair Coach Lee!
3 months of begging and pleading then i came across these type of videos..currently day 6 of nc and im suffering..my bday is in december. I hope she reaches out...7+ yrs non toxic happy relationship.....my complacency and repeated broken promises got me dumped.... i hope we all get out partners back..
update ?
Ronmake no contact works she reached out after 7 days claiming she thinks she made a mistake.we are taking things slowly now,ive been invited round for dinner on thursday...... thank you coach NC really works.good luck guys...
@@undefeated7314 That good to hear hope success come for soon will work if was needy and begging after break up I am in 4 days of NC.
@@undefeated7314 did you guys get back together
@@droqlet yes we did get back together after no contact .good luck to you friend.
Great video I am trying all this very insightful
Coach Lee your videos are so helpful and encouraging. I was wondering if you could make a video on how to handle contact when it occurs. My ex broke up with me a month ago and I took it really hard as I was pretty much blindsided. I did all the wrong things (begging, crying). I had a turnaround last week and felt better about myself again. I have spoken to him once since then and it was a lovely conversation. It was like a reset and for our relationship I think it was worth the risk. I have started No Contact now and binged your videos. I am 100% sure we will eventually speak again. How should someone handle this? Thank you
Hey coach lee, my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We haven’t spoken in almost 2 months because she told me she wanted time and space. Not only have I grown so much but I finally stopped being so depressed about it. I still love her. I would take her back but of course only time will tell. Your videos helped me out so much. I appreciate it a lot.🙏🏽
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@noeramons did she ever return? How did No contact go? I am entering 2 months of NC and although feelings for him are still strong I am not holding my breath although my heart doesn't want to move on
@@ovigavril7191 I moved on lmao waste of time, forgetting about her was the best thing ever, lost 83 pounds and now I have the best and most supportive girlfriend ever☺️
@@elsitabebe she never came back! But keeping doing nc!!!! It helps you move on and better yourself! I promise you they are not worth it, just try to focus on yourself more 💚🙏🏽
@@noeramos7908 It seems to me like they rarely ever come back from NC tbh, mine hasnt come back in 5 months and I seriously doubt she ever will, which is fine too
My ex returned after 5 years, I said no ! Has spent 2 years trying to get me back & has not given up .....maybe hes the one 🤷♀️ but if they have not got over you they will come back
after 5 years?! Wow
@@winnmatthews absolutely & he said a day never passed that he didn't think of me ......after this I believe in love , honest
@@carolinekelly8481 Hm, why did he break up with you in the first place? And why did it take him 5 years to return?!
1. Did u break up with him?
2. Why did u say no? He hasn’t given up. That says a lot. Believe him when he says not a day has gone by where he hasnt thought about you. Most men are wired this way if they really cared.
If I was you I would be cautious. We (guys) dont really do that after so many years have passed. The only reason I can think of is maybe he sees sleeping with you or getting you enotionaly hooked again as some kind if a challenge.
Coach Lee u r simply a genius .... U r always 100% right♥️♥️
All I can do and the only power I have is to not contact her. I trust that what we had was special enough that time and patience will make her reach out again. She reaches out for a reason, and I know what I brought to the relationship is worth thinking back on from her perspective.
Got broken up with a little over a week ago. I feel devastated and hurt and frustrated. I really, really love this woman. I want her in my life, and I want to marry her. I am in no contact eith her and it is hard. I didnt beg or please her, but I did disagree with the breakup. I am trying to be patient but this is really hard. Pray for me yall! God bless all those who are missing their loved one.
nathansmith90, I am so sorry to hear about your breakup. From what you're saying, she broke up with you. You mentioned you're in NO Contact also. Why don't you give her more time, and see what happens. Stay NO Contact for the duration, and if she doesn't contact you, then I wonder if she really loves and misses you.
In the meantime, I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you.
I know it's very tough and I've certainly been there. I want to suggest that you consider Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It's such a good guide to help you so that you aren't just wondering on your own. It covers a lot of situations and has strategies that you probably haven't thought of. The link for it is myexbackcoach.com/ebk. I wholeheartedly recommend it and wish you the very best of luck.
Pray for me homies. 6 months at this point, have only managed 2 months no contact. I've had a few dates but still single, my mind goes back to her. 6 fucking months and I'm still back at square one sometimes.
Bro .. I'm in the same boat 6 months. She texts every month to see how I am and I reply but there's no actual conversation. Now I'm breaking down, I've lost hope, I really wanna call her and break NC
@@dobermadd maybe I'm lucky because she never reaches out. I'm at a point where I feel pretty good but still have some time before I feel confident 100 percent again. Only thing we can do is be happy on our own, do the things that make us believe in ourselves again.
@@thecheesburgler that's how I felt a few days ago I was okay but then this weekend I drank too much and everything fell apart I cried like a kid. Now I feel terrible I really want her to come back and say sorry. Bro this fuckin sucks
@@dobermadd I know what you mean man. I can honestly say I'm doing a lot better but still some moments get me. Seriously gotta focus on your life brother, do the things you dont want to do to be happy.
@@thecheesburgler yeah you're right. I need to be strong I needed to hear that. bro, we got this !
3 weeks no contact and I still feel like I’m dying everyday 😖💔 I hope this gets easier. I’m tortured right now
Update: broke no contact and my ex and I are briefly in contact. Have even spent 2 nights together 🙄 BUT I wish I didn’t break no contact because the fear and anxiety I have about being “used” or undervalued is there 💔
KEEP DOING NO CONTACT PPL. I’ve probably missed my chance because I’ve broken no contact
Same about to hit 3 weeks and it’s difficult 😭
it gets worse 🥺
Hit 3 weeks this week. Spent last night and this morning bawling uncontrollably. We just have to keep going in life...much ❤️
@@lisabaughn spent last night just thinking and crying about the old times…we goin get thru this together💯💕
@@brandonjackson6456 Thanks Brandon, that makes me feel a lot better. Thank you
Honestly I needed this video
11 months. We Are texting friendly. I still miss him. I am struggling to move on. Everything i want after the break up, hasn't come my way. Trying to move closer to my family. But haven't gotten the Job i want. I trying to move closer to my job now. But can't find any place i would like to live. Some says this is the universe that leads me to something. But i can't heal in the situation i am in. Feels like i have been a year on wait now.. and the pandemic situation doesn't help either. 2020 is not my year.
Hi anne same here , she left me just like that for a singer .... love was just fake after he came into he life he made her dump me in 2 days , and i am talented guitarist and vretaive person
She texts me as a friend its been a month now but She is 18 and i am 28 i hate 2020 aswell with all the pandémic and breakup .... i wanted to take my own life out ...but its just not worth it , do I want her back ? She told me i am pathetic if I use tinder now to date others and told me just wear protection and do what ever you wanna do ...she doesn't care anymore she is blinded
@@samerhannah5530 we had a stressful fall last year. We arguing a lot and we got so sick of it, than we broke in a arguing. He has shoot down his feeling. And i needed to move out as fast i could. Found a place were i feel isolated. Been hear soon a year. But i am not healing. Missing the life i had with him.
@@akmokk hey anna Can you tell me about your story on Instagram more please so i can learn something ...it helps me yo listen to other people stories @sam_hannah92
@@akmokk ann my x lives just beside me house i helped her moving her apartment today her new boyfriend doesnot play music in the Street he rests they are Having sex now in the apartment ..and tomorrow she will call me to help her with supermarket shopping , she doesnot care about me I am a took to her ..she need me to do her stuff only her new boyfriend doesnot help her shoping ..she dumped me as a rat .for him .. and she texts me everyday what do you want me to say ... I am lonley now i hate it and i move it at the same time because i am not with fake people i am not with a girl that i loved alot and she changed and replaced me its over .. she replaced me she is enjoying sex with the other guy now ...its over i dont wanna look back
That's impossible women usually move on much faster
Couch Lee do a video on why is the dumper not an adult and will not talk about the issues that they develop and fix the problems so you can continue with your relationship
Having dinner with her tomorrow. Thanks Coach Lee!!!
Top man coach lee
The best of the best!
Thank you, Coach Lee, for your wise, compassionate counsel.
They do come back just work on yourself
Man I wish I had stuck with these videos when I first found them. Guys and gals listen to me. I implemented no contact several times and she started to bite EVERY TIME. I immediately dropped no contact and started to pursue all over again each time and she backed away again and again. I have fully given up and walked away. I think about her everyday and every minute and still have hope, but I know that if I would have stayed the course to the exact detail there is no doubt we would be back together. I take this as a lesson and hope you all stick with it regardless if they come back or not.
Stay strong y’all.
You are a life saver. Slipped up a lot early on and have been blocked on social media and phone. Currently on day 4 no contact, but I really don’t have any choice.
Any updates?
Ugh! My wife left me, 5 months ago, and we have two sons, and we had a daughter who sadly passed away. I’m pretty sure I’ve made a lot of mistakes. 2 weeks ago she told me, she was thinking of dating someone. Absolutely brutal. I know I’m a good man. I’m not an asshole. Our problem was communication. I love her very much, and want her to be happy. Letting go is difficult, but the only way I can salvage any sort of relationship, is to step away. This is what I’m doing. Time to be strong.
Jason did she come back?
& did you have a spiritual foundation together?
Jason, I am so sorry to hear that, and my sympathy with your daughter. If your wife wants to go out, let her. She may be just "acting out." If it continues, let her go. Live YOUR life, and please stay 💪 strong. God bless you...
Great words lee
Thanks for the insight coach 😊