Will My Ex Give Clues They Want Me To Contact Them?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- In this video, Coach Lee answers the question, "Will your ex give clues that they want you to contact them?" And should you?
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If they want to be with you then they will reach out and be with you. If you don't hear from them then the silence speaks volumes.
True but dont forget that everyone as a diferent case
What if they just text to wish you a happy birthday?
ChrisSoCalm true , I just found out that he unblocked me on whatsap and saved my number back cuz now I can see his profile pic hahahhah as before he deleted my number before blocking me , 2 months he’s blocking me but I don’t want to reach out first , let man choose u not u choose them 😊
Mrs. L Google you should not initiate anything at all, do not reach out until they reach out to you then you slowly move to the next stage how to reply to them. However, if you the one that made the mistake and they left u then just say sorry and then go no contact and Improve yourself to show them u have changed.
Makki ò889jmnjmmmmm mboop
If they left you, they need to come to you; don't contact them.
I agree with you
If you do their ego has been lifters again , they did the dumping at a minimum they should contact you
@@mariatorres8997 Now that more time has passed in my life, I have changed my thoughts on that position. If they leave you, they don't love you. If they come back, it's because their other plans failed; it's not because they love you. DO NOT TAKE THEM BACK!!
Don't contact them at all, and don't take them back. They left you for a reason; they will leave you again on their next attempt to try do better than you. You will be a temp until they get what they are looking for.
Don't waste your time waiting. Heal up and find somebody who can really love you.
@@ianbrown5955 It’s terrible feeling rejected, it hurts, it scared us. It’s my first experience of someone packing and leaving, the worst is when they have left while you not home and you receive a message it’s over and they want space. Not communicate to mend and thereafter being ignored. It rips your heart out.!! Listening to couch Lee has put so much into perspective. I’ve embraced his words. I’ve taken time to consider my ex partners past life experiences, they run..instead of facing reality and we don’t live in a fantasy world. They were insecure and dropping us like a hot potato implements us to find reason and insecurity has passed on to us.
I agree with your comment if the person follows this patten of immaturity, it WILL happen again.! How can that pattern be broken?
I know love can’t fix everything and letting them go is tough when you know they have personal issues, but in truth we can’t fix them, but we can fix ourselves.
Abandonment and previous Betrayal is more complexed, they flee... even from us.
Do we take them back in this instance? I’m not sure
Will we in time lose hope and let go?
Probably
Is that what they want? Probably not
In agreement with you, save ourselves from getting hurt again.. we move on.
As much as it hurts.. time heals all 🌸
It all makes sense.
Everyday I watch atleast 2-3 videos by Coach Lee. I don't why but it feels like somebody's got my back and I can last through this tough time. Thank you very much Coach Lee!
how are you doing now? Any update? Lol
@@twigzter8684 hi, it's been 10 months since our break up. We've not met for around 9 months now. We don't talk like we used to but she seems a bit comfortable to msg for some work related things as we work together in the same company. But whenever we have our little conversation, we don't talk about the relationship but still keep it somewhat casual. It's actually her birthday tomorrow. I don't know if she ever will reconsider our relationship but I'm certain she does not consider me a bad person. I still remember the time when we broke up and I was around her all messed up, she wished that I'd change my organisation. Covid lockdown and WFH actually helped me to religiously follow NC. And with time and NC I don't think there's bad air between us which very important. So, I'd suggest you to follow coach Lee's advice and be sure to not defame or insult your ex in front of anyone even impulsively bcz that will make things worse in a long run. I hope you'll get your ex back.
I feel supported too.
Gee they think men can feel regected if we say the wrong thing or get too needy we can get dumped or have our little outbursts men cant handle it and leave we are women and its what men do that causes us insecurities its not all womens fault.
Agreed
Short answer:yes
But if they broke up with you, be cold. Let them chase. They will break eventually. Mine is breaking after almost 3 months of no contact.
Tech Master what do u mean be cold if they broke up with you?
@@yswen828 be cold not rude. Say hi, say bye. Show ur strength stand ur ground. Show uve lost interest. Don't reconcile with someone who wouldn't do it with you. Let them chase, let them want things to go back to the way it was. They will miss the old you when the see the different you. Show them things aren't the same... Until they start pushing for the old you.
@@techmaster9539 You're right, but I think you can easily ignore their first messages just for an additional effect. You shouldn't just straight up respond 'hi'. Respond a few hours later, or tommorow. Or do not respond at all. Sometimes they write you only because they get a little bit emotional and they delete their messages later. To avoid that, ignore first messages or answer later.
@@wsbolivar6644 I think coach is right, dont totally ignore them, but dont act like a 5 yr old on Christmas morning either. Wait a few hours or a day.
In my situation. I had to see them again. Her fam invited my fam over to a gathering and there was a table for people our age. I didn't say anything but hi or bye. She sat beside me and our mutual friend tried to get me to engage first. Trust me, stand your ground, it will break them like they may have broken you and it will be justified.
I don't even care about getting my ex back anymore, I am just watching all his videos cause it is soothing and it make me feel better.
Me too!! Just like to know what they might be thinking. No one breaks up with me and then can play me back into their arms. No one!! :)
90 days no contact. I could reach out but I’m not going to. If she was interested in me at all she’d at least send a text. I will NOT contact her first. Thanks coach Lee!
2 months for me. Haven’t heard from him. I was ghosted pretty much. It’s a hard pill to swallow cuz I love him. But oh well
Yea I don’t get why he is saying you can reach out after 3 months .... Bc if they rejected again they will go over the emotional breakdown all over again plus if they care they will reach out ... and I don’t think they will find it hard to reach out Bc it was easy to break it it can be easier to get it back together
Love Family it’s not working???
Love Family I did ....-.-
Not working
confusing at hell since my ex is now including me in group snaps, something she hasn't done since we broke up late January. Likes several statuses of mine the past month, more than since before broke up, as well as a new profile pic. I'd say there's some clear interest in talking, but this is a person who hates to confront people (i mean, it had been a year since was engaged when we started going out and she hadn't picked up her stuff from her ex fiance's place who dumped her). To me, if she has grown up a bit, she'll talk to me first instead of hints lol
"You need to follow your heart"
Coach: No you don't!
Nailed it 😂😂🔥
Get lost scammers
Whether I get my ex back or not, these videos help me deal with the grieving.
@@marak.6178 still no contact, I feel forgotten🥺
@@TheTrueMariWho Update?
@@SJ-nw1ym It’s been just over a year, still no contact form my ex.
Yet these videos helped immensely.
To be fair, I broke the no contact rules a couple times. I kind of blew it.
It does help listening to you on a daily basis.
He just makes you look on the bright side and forget the bad things
i always listen to hin when things get tough
It really does
Agreed I've been doing it all week to stay strong
Truth
Just because he reached out doesn't mean they love you. Sometimes they're playing mind games.
I agree
Really? Like one second they just, "I'm gonna f*** with his head" and do it? Sounds illogical. Probably more about what's going on inside their heads...
It worked!!! No contact is a success. My ex after 4 weeks started texting back and said she missed me, that she thinks every day about me. She will accept what I deside! she gave me even the Position to deside. But I am still conservative and I want to answers to many open questions now. Every word Coach Lee is true. In my case I never took initiative and applied most of the thinking from Coach Lee on me. THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!
Good for you bro ! Congrats. Tell us how everything is going, did it work out in the end between you and your SO
I'm trying to figure out how to reply to the I miss you and think about you text. What do I say to that? I know he's still with someone soooo... ugh. So stressful.
congrats broo!
SadieNJ Sounds like a narcissist and he wants to use you as a backup plan while he pursues someone else. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Don’t give him the reassurance. Go no contact.
@@sadienj5341 same girl same, I don't see my relationship with him again. It's like I don't know him anymore.
I put ear buds in at night and fall asleep to your videos. It’s helps distract and encourage me. Thanks Lee.
Me too.
Me too
She got a matching tattoo with her boyfriend of two weeks. I’m out dawg.
I would be as well.
Dodged a bullet friend. Good luck 👍
Hahaha
@@rb879 it’s funny and then you realize it shows what she actually thought of your relationship.
Lmao
"We're dealing with people, not math problems. It's not as easy as 2 plus 2."-Coach Lee
U are a genius bro. Best comment ever.
Some logical people think of relationships as mathematical problems to solve 🙄
Everytime I get anxious because of the breakup, I always watch your videos and it makes me feel better instantly, thank you, coach lee 🥺 you helped me know my worth
Me too..
Every morning
Him reaching out constantly sends me back months of progress. Because he doesn’t want a relationship. He just wants to use me as a backup plan, while he does whatever he’s doing.
I knw dat feelin
put him in his place. tell him that will not happen, you two will not happen unless you see real changes and real motivation and interest towards you
Forget him and move on,enough with games
Coach lee says after NC we aren’t supposed to bring up being an a relationship but to concentrate on being a lover and good friend and work towards it..
I am someone's back up plan too.
No Contact fòr me is like FASTING. It is really very difficult in the beginning but it get all the toxication out of your mind about your own self and creates the sense of self respect and love for your own self and eventually it makes you happy. For me No Contact is a spiritual and holy action and you get spiritually very strong.
When coach Lee says I have enough experience , over 2 decades of experience just give me the motivation to trust his advise more and more each day.
OMG your videos have stopped me so many times from making a mistake. I wake up, listen to a video and then approach the day correctly. Thank you!
Your videos have truly helped me get past my anxiety.these days I can sleep through the night.thank you Lee
I cannot tell you how much you have helped me to navigate the break-up and go no contact. I feel better every day just listening to you. Your guidance is keeping me strong, hopeful and focused on me. It has raised my self-esteem and self-respect. Thank you, Coach Lee. So glad I discovered you.
Coach Lee videos have healing power. Watching them will let you heal eventually. Trust me it works.
Thank You Coach Lee ☺️ It helps me a lot handling break up situation Ive been through 😌 Its almost 4 months I feel sign of relief on myself, your videos gives me enough knowledge about the situation.
Watching Coach Lee videos just makes it easier to deal your situation. I am in NC with my ex for a month now, and everyday that passes it gets better, less anxiety, you focus more, and value yourself. If she has moved on and May not contact me ever again, On my mind I am also ready to moved on. Thank you Coach Lee👍👍
I don't care if this works but I get tones of strength from your videos. I think it boosts the energy of thinking outside of my breakup situation.
I have done all the DONTS mentioned in this videos but I still have good hope.
Coach Lee, you are like a healing balm to all the broken hearts. Just by watching your videos I am calmed and soothed. It's a nice human gesture, money and business aside. The lonely hearts came, and you offered them a free refuge. Perhaps your greatest prize is that little piece of gratitude from an aching heart. When they were alone in the darkness you offered them a caring touch, extended belief, and actually gave them a good advice.
I binge watch Coach Lee’s videos, morning and night, driving in the car, you name it! I had a really tough week this past week, and I did hours of binge watching. I felt strong, and then I almost broke down. Coach Lee’s videos have been so helpful in keeping me on course. I think I could write a paper on Coach Lee’s videos, citing direct quotes from heart. That’s how much I’ve watched and rewatched the videos. Thank you, Coach Lee. ❤
You are absolutely amazing! You have changed my perspective & opened my eyes to a lot . I’m in the middle of the no contact and am staying strong! Excited for the opportunity to see him again and inspire others on a good and healthy relationship! Thank you!☺️👍🏼👍🏼
THIS VIDEO IS SO TRUE!!! Coach Lee I cannot thank you enough for all your videos and guidance!!!
My boyfriend broke up with me after 5 months and I went into no contact --- he came back after 3 days BEGGING me to take him back and he was sorry. I said I would consider it but wanted to take it very slow....However, literally the day after he came back to me, his father passed away and I immediately jumped back into the supportive role and being the "at your beck and call' girlfriend.
Then 9 months later, he said he didn't know if he saw a future with me and he broke up with me AGAIN. I made the huge mistake of calling him the next day crying and pleading for us to stay together and he agreed.
Then 6 months later, he broke up with me AGAIN... This time, I immediately started no contact (it has been 1 month of NC).
My point is that he NEVER had to experience the break up! He NEVER had to realize the consequences of his decision and NEVER had the fear of loss. I didn't allow him the opportunity to miss me - EVER. I didn't allow him to live life without me and realize my place in his life. Therefore, he didn't value me. He took me for granted because I never left his life when he 'broke up' with me. I learned that immature people will 'break up' with you frequently if 'breaking up' always remains a concept and never a reality.
This time - I AM GIVING HIM THE BREAK UP.
Update?
Nothing yet... however on day 51 of NC my ex’s best friend called me out of nowhere asking me how I’m doing??!!! I think he might have been doing spy work on me (I’m mixing NC with radio silence so there is no update with me on any social media platforms).
I didn’t give his best friend any updates on me either - I just said I was doing good and put the focus back on him. I DID NOT mention my ex at all - but neither did he.
Today is day 56 of NC. Gonna keep going!
@@newleafgold4486 updated ?
I know... I miss him everyday. But these videos are helping.
I broke NC after 2 1/2 months and called my ex saying we should catch up. He agreed and asked to see me 2 days later. However, as excited as I was, he had no intention of getting back together... he even went as far to say that he thinks we are through but he doesn’t want to cut me out of his life. I was devastated. It felt like I was being broken up with all over again. I was calm and told him I didn’t want to be friends and will not intrude in his life. Then I got in my car and drove away in shock. My story isn’t a success story.... it’s been 1 month since that happened so I guess we are over. (3 months total since he originally broke up with me) ... idk if I reached out too soon or if he was never coming back. But... the shock of our meet up made me unfollow him and deactivate my FB for awhile. I miss him everyday, but I need to concentrate on myself right now.
That's exactly what I'm doing to keep sane. Kept binge watching your videos. It keeps me on track
Thank you Coach Lee. Your videos are the only thing keeping me sane and not feeling dead inside. I fall asleep watching your videos cause it's the hardest at night when she's not there.
Same man, Son of a gun, I just cant stop thinking about mollys lips, where did she sleep last night? I hate myself and i wanna die, i might aswell just sit home and drink pennyroyal tea and forget this beeswax
I Hope God rewards you for making these videos as it really helps us when going through heartbreak. I’m still hurt months after. It’s been 3 months and your videos have really opened my eyes ❤
Thanks coach Lee!! What precious suggestions...we don't think about these matters though we kind of know them... So very important to know what direction to take... Thanks 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻
The binge-watching your videos part was sooo true! You have actually helped me a lot and helped me remmember why I started no-contact in the first place... We actually work together and I have seen my ex use my old sweaters to work, but your videos have helped me so much!
When my ex and I broke up, I found Coach Lee accidentally on You Tube. I BINGE watched him for days! It took me nearly 2 weeks to write to him, and now I feel like a million dollars. He's the BEST! I STILL watch him now and then bcse he reminds me of the difference he made in my life. I'll ALWAYS be grateful for what he did for me. Listen to him. He will guide you down the right path...
Ok, wow, this was my absolute favourite video of yours. This helped me enormously, it was so much of what I needed to hear. I'm going to stay strong!! Thank you so much!!
Yes this content is what I will love my kids to watch…I haven’t had any kids yet, but it’s so encouraging.. kudos to you 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Even though you say the same stuff every video, just listening to you helps with getting over the pain of the breakup. Thank you.
Coach Lee I can really see that you are a man of GOD full of wisdom and power may GOD bless you for what you are doing🙏🙏🙏
Her birthday was yesterday. I didn’t call her. I’m on 3 weeks of NC. I’m feeling strong. Watching your videos on a daily basis keeps me strong. Thank you!
Hey can u update cause I've been for a month of no contact and her birthday is like in a month and Idk whether I should or shouldn't contact
God bless you for this video coach, really helped me once again. God willing I’ll be in a position to support you soon. Thanks.
Hi coach lee, i hope you are safe. Take care of your health!
“My heart says ‘snickers!’” 😂 I adore you Coach Lee! Thanks for existing...learning so much and feeling more confident in love and life.
🤣🤣
I'm constantly texting my ex. Because I'm alone and he didn't initially text me, only me texting him all the time like a fool mainly because I'm all alone and I want him back
Coach you absolute legend. I have been binge watching your videos to help me through ages of pain, i'm just starting to feel better (day 67 no contact) she has been positng lots of bikini pictures on social media and I've not reacted to anything but naturally I've just been curious over whether it's for me or not. Anyway, today, I got confirmation she is thinking of me because she viewed my tiktok profile! (On tiktok you have to go out of your way to look directly at the profile and it's a new feature being told someone looked so she probably hasn't realized) Obviously this doesn't mean she will come back and i'm not going to do anything in return or react as she needs to reach out but it's a sign no contact could be working on her. I will keep this updated, i'm already half moved and am not expecting a reach out yet but it at least shows that she still thinks about me which after being dumped like you were nothing is a nice feeling to have, nobody wants to be forgettable it's a horrible feeling.
Access to your video has been a healing thing.
Hello King Coach, your words spoken like the genius you’re . Thank you . Be safe . 😘
Hello Coach Lee 😊
A day before 3 months of no contact rule with my ex. I got him back coach Lee I am happy and we had date last Sunday (3-15) hang out, spend time together in a whole day.. My ex tried multiple indirect move to me, casual response of course and I made smart contact too during no contact. I never mention our relationship I just keep silence.
And hang out with my friends posting in social media that I am good and happy in my life.
Thank you very much Coach Lee and thank you for all your videos specially the one video that I remember and apply to myself about "the cup" hold on to no contact. I remember that part. 😊
May the Lord bless you more
And more clients to get their ex back too 😊😍
Thanks for sharing) what's the "no cup"?
And congrats!!
Hi can you tell me how you did it?
I fell OFF the Wagon ...I re read some of the comments just now and realized its no problem at all I CAN JUST COME TO YOU ALL HERe NOW and NOW is NOW....now is all that matters ...nothing has changed really all roads lead back to i must connect wtih this Channel Daily ...its connecting with MY HIGHER SELF when i do
Coach lee is very comforting I feel like he’s talking to me 🥺
You are helping me be stronger. These videos are invaluable!!
I’ve been watching your videos daily to give me strength in keep NC going. I’ve tried it before. We split 1/4/20. He wanted to remain friends. I started it multiple times he used to reach out every 48 hours. Then every 96. Now it’s been a full week. It’s getting harder. I’m so sad & miss him sooooo much!!!!
Stay strong Amy god will provide
This is the best advice and video I have ever heard. You are so talented my friend. I thank you so much.
Coach Lee, I want to say that I get so much reinforcement to remain strong from your videos. For some reason after more than 45 days, I cannot shake this man. You have no idea how hard I have tried! Crying myself to sleep still. I feel strong for a while after I watch one of your videos. THANK YOU 💚
Thank you Coach Lee!!!! I have totally F...up and done all of the wrong things...the begging, the pleaded, etc. I have finally begun to let him contact me. And when he responds, I respond. I wish I could schedule a coaching call. Ours was a 14 year relationship that I hope can be salvaged.
Update?
Thank you for the content, I have been in NC for 2 weeks and now I feel the power of mine back in me. I’m ready to live alone, adventure alone and enjoy all the moments alone :) Thank you...I feel loved again by me myself.
Definitely binge watching on repeat all videos lee haha ....im currently phase 2 ...he reached out a few times but I'm not initiating! Now he ran out of excuses for Christmas valentines and bday .... so let's see what happens next
You are the best coach i ve ever watched,yr words are just real from the heart of us not like others,way to go coach
Ladies cant put coach lee down
Coach lee puts the ladies down
Great advice Lee.....
You're saving the world!
Just glad I found your videos. I'm hurting so bad. He pulls me in to push me away. Now I think he has found someone else. .
This guy is bang on with his advice.
I've been benge watching your videos since the night she broke up with me and it is helping a lot, it's helping me get her off my mind by focusing on what you are saying and how you're saying it, it's helping make me stronger, it's helping me build patience, understanding, and knowledge, thank you coach lee, I tried to book a call but your website said you're taking a break from calls but when you're accepting calls again I'm still gonna book a call to share my experience rather I get her back or not
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You can book a coaching session with one of our Coaches on his staff
They are excellent.
wish I could fully addresses your specific details, it may be beneficial to seek a more professional approach. I highly recommend booking a coaching session with Coach Lee or one of his staff coaches. They will be able to provide the necessary expertise and devote time to address your unique situation. You can schedule a session by visiting this link: myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/. This way, you'll receive personalized guidance.
Mine reached out just shy of 2 months after I went No Contact on her, and I must confess the conversation ran long. She wanted to talk. It flowed. And she raised points that I myself had wanted to berate her about, which saved me from having to be a scold because she answered them herself. I'm glad to hear responding courteously (if coolly) was the right thing to do at 2 months. Sounds like by 3 months one might have to admit she's gone.
Thank you for your videos..you really helped calm my nerves quite a bit..
Hyy coach lee i must say u r God Sent For broken ones..i really respect u....today i thought i vll say out of my sylabus just appericiate u cox u deserves mch more dese words........stay safe tc
My heart says snickers too. My ex can wait...
My heart says giant size Snickers, with a Hershey Bar chaser, I miss ex. Wish they would pursue me....I should be their candy bar!!🍫🍫🍫
Snickers icecream 😛
🤣
Nope. My heart says, Treadmill, weights, salad, education, Forgive, let go of anger or bitterness, love self, attract someone who appreciates me. I am not perfect, but I am worth it. At least I dont play games.
Oh man - Hershey Kisses!!!!
I miss her with my being, yet it has been nice not having her negativity around the house.
Wut about over a year? My heart knows it’s probably been more then long enough...but my practical mind says STAY STRONG. Most of you losing your shit after a few weeks...try being me.
Deranged Titan you should probably just reach out at this point. It’s been enough time
Been over a year? Get a clue... it's OVER. Find someone new. Search "who moved my cheese" on TH-cam and watch it.
great job, my dear friend
I am with you in "the shit"
I tell you one great truth
nobody wants to hear:
they will come back
different times!!!
1) ego time
2) sorry time
3) proud/bold time
4) lonely time
5) need time
6) you-are-the-best-pick time
ARE they?!?
(the best pick)
thank you all be blessed
Coach Lee, my respect
Reach out
Deleting the phone numbers is the only way. I got a friend to do it for me as I struggled to.
Got fed up with receiving contact then going quiet again then me contacting - via Versa.
It’s harder when they see you daily and act like they don’t give a sh*t about you, I finally believe they don’t.
The next step will probably be me changing my number -again!
Strongest piece of advice I can give anyone. Go through therapy if you so much as think you need it. Focus on building yourself. Life is always full of opportunities to improve. Try something new. Step out of your comfort zone. It doesn't take the pain away, it doesn't stop the memories flowing. But what you choose to do moving forward HAS TO BE for yourself.
100%.
Athanasius, I had 1 full year of weekly Therapy with a terrific PhD who helped me with a narcissistic relationship.
She is also a narcissist survivor, but she was great in all aspects of psychology. It sure does help. Then I discovered Coach Lee!
All you need to know is that your ex is literally thinking about you.
Feeling stronger every few days ups and downs but I’m sure it’s over . It was too dramatic and just wrong for each other so Toxic .. your voice seems to help me on my low days
I watched so many videos of yours and intuition tells me i know the answer before i watch the video.
Thank you coach lee you made me realize my worth.😇
This is one of my favorites thank you thank you 🙏🏼
Good Morning from Greece, another great vid, Lee. The thing for me is that I have no way of knowing what she's doing, whether she's dating some new guy (rebound or not). I just received a fb message the other day from a friendly couple - whom I've met from her - asking if I was still in Crete. I've moved in another city, some 90 miles away since breakup (Crete is a big island). That's all I have, as I didn't asked them anything about her.
Make sure to eat well and exercise. I had way too much to drink over the weekend vacationing with friends. Came so close to screwing up. Be sober minded folks. It's very important.
Just what I needed to hear Coach I'm on day 2 . No contact and she watches my social media . Ur right as soon as she texts I go over her house I need to show her I have a life also let reality set in and that's what I'm gona do when she finally texts me I love her I hope we get back someday thanks coach
Yo how did it go ?!?
I don't care any more, I enjoy my life with out them big time
This is absolutely powerful, useful stuff here.
Thank you sir...For giving me a hope ...and making me strong to stay in no contact mode.
Damn good video. I had the same "desperate" thing happen the past two weeks. I kept watching afterward for more likes but got too hooked on the little breadcrumbs for personal validation. My ex had liked a SERIES of profile pics I was posting, and I was confused as hell. She needs to fucking TALK to me if she really wants to talk. I agree, she probably still has some attraction or "liking" of me. But way before these likes I sent her a song I wrote about her, and MULTIPLE emails (ridiculous) most of them unanswered. If she wants to talk to me, then she can text me, call me, or email me on facebook. I am DONE.
Great advise. I feel like I took a solid stance and he was sad to lose me, but then I feel like I went soft, and I feel like I was very forgiving b/c I didn't want to lose our friendship so made nice...but kind of feel like that was a mistake. Do I just go into no contact, or do I have a conversation about this? I have the strength for no contact. I have also gone through your course and it's confirmed some solid beliefs for me and shifted my perspective positively.
Got my answer in this video. Coach Lee... bravo 💯
Watching your videos is helping me get by .I appreciate it and you...Thank you sir
What is a Coach Lee video without a Snickers analogy?
I'm making diet and working out, when he said "my heart says Snickers" I had to laugh out loud, I love Snickers!!! That made my day!!!
Wish you all good luck getting your ex back!
The coolest dating coach
"I need to follow my heart" "no! you don't" lol Coach Lee you are my hero!
Coach Lee thank you for your advice, my Ex broke my heart approximately 5 months ago , and I went through the emotions, such as disbelief, depression , anger etc. Came across your video on TH-cam, and I have been using no contact for about 1 month, now she contacted me out of the blue wanting us to have lunch but COVID-19 got in the way , she looks at my post , should I continue no contact ?
I listen to everything Coach Lee says except the 3 month mark. I’m sure it won’t work in my situation.
I’m going to wait until I move on completely and meet someone new.
well, even then in a way
NC will have worked
I think the same.
It's been 6 weeks since he broke up with me and I already feel better and can say I am slowly getting over the relationship.. As the time passes by I don't see my ex wanting to be back together. I do come to realisation that it won't happen and I shouldn't have false hope.
If me being dumped - accepting the situation, then the dumper is probably already over me.
Kornelia Wlodarczyk it’s great that you feel better. But remember people are complicated and you never know what are they thinking. Honestly be best advice for all of us is to live our lives and if we can, don’t think about our ex. Only then, we won’t care if they’re coming back or not. If they do, we’ll see how we feel then. If not, we already moved on.
You do you xox all of us are different
Here for my daily dose of strength.
Everyone story is colored with shades of aches, pain and joy but in the midst of winter there is a summer inside each and everyone , alive and kicking. Dig in , very deeply and get it out....
It's been about 4 months since my last text message. I've had friends know that I'm not over my ex. They suggested and only suggested that maybe I'm going to have to reach out to her if I have a chance. I keep telling them I can't reach out to her. I can't give her the validation I'm still here waiting or whatever she may think. I can't come this far and get rejected again and go through the mental heartache of her saying, "no".
I'm torn in this but I have a feeling it's honestly better to stay the course and not reach out
Don't reach out it'll only cause u more pain stay in NC
Don't reach out. Come on! You can do it!!
@@FueledByKass I didn't reach out. She actually reached out to me but only wanted to be friends. That was a hard pass and I respectfully told her not to contact me again.
You are stronger than me......
@@anthonyzybert3106 man I went 131 days before my ex contacted me and when she did, I committed the fatal crime of still seeming too interested. I should have just been cordial but semi distant, like I had stuff going on. Anyways, after she contacted me, we met up and she stayed the night (no sex) and all went well. However, because I was too eager, she began to breadcrumb me by sending a message once a week for about a month before I called her out on it. She told me she just wanted to be friends and was still madly in love with the guy she cheated on me with. I declined her generous offer of friendship because I didn't just spend 4 years in a relationship to be second place. Screw that. I told her to never contact me again. I'm the prize! It's been about 230 days since that last happened. It got easier to do no contact a second time.
You can do it. It sucks at first. Fake it until you make it. Don't play games. Don't leave you social media open or stalk them. Just focus on you and go talk to other girls and hit the gym. A day at a time.
My breakup was the worst. I not only lost her but her 3 kids I got attached to. I'll never date single moms again but I am dating and happy being single at the same time. It hurts right now for you because your identity got lost into her and you can never allow that to happen again.
My favorite line that makes a great point "My heart says Snickers" LOL!
Yeah Coach Lee, I followed your advice and when he reached out , it was a pure ego stroke for him and , poof! He disappeared. On my life, I will never respond again unless he comes with humility and a clear statement of intentions. And maybe not even then!
Sneakers part is Funny. Absolutely right Mind over Emotions.
@Coach Lee.. Day 11. Your videos are really helping me. My ex have said he NEVER goes back to an ex. But then one time texted that I went out with friends and he asked me weeks later oh so you're going out with friends now? So I am feeling only 10% thinking he might contact me again. I've always been the one initiating the contact for 3 montgs😔
By the way, we had a good relationship for 2 years & we’re looking at homes to join our families & get married.
Very helpful information! Thanks Coach!
Thank you
your advice is always on point. God Bless