Secrets Your Ex Does Not Want You To Know
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- Coach Lee shares secrets about how your ex handles the breakup that you very likely don't know. Your ex's mind and heart can be mysterious places after a breakup.
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What coach Lee saying is 100% correct. I am saying this as a psychologist. People listen to this man.
So your proof is?
@@MegaBrandon3 Trust me bro
@@MegaBrandon3Are u the police or sum💀
@@MegaBrandon3 Proof that he is a psychologist? Either way, you can do a simple google search and psychology will confirm that not contacting someone will cause them to miss you if you were significant to them in any way. It also is pretty obvious that chasing them indicates that you need them instead of it being mutual.
I no longer listen to coach lee to get my ex back. I listen to him because his words give me extra strength on the days I feel down. ❤️
Coach Lee is the boss! 💯
Manayer Mussaed I’m on the same page , I’ve accepted what’s best for me but every once in awhile I do get down , and he helps :)
I feel the same way. I gave up after a year and she has been through 6 boyfriends later
Agreed.
Lol me too
It really sucks when someone you gave your heart to becomes a stranger to you all of a sudden.
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2023 Update: I found Jesus..and everything fell into place. And after that He gave me a God fearing man, I love him so much and he loves me so much. I'll be forever thankful. And we're getting married next year. Praise God 🙏❤️
It truly does.
Its mind-shattering!
Yup. Especially after half a decade or more.
I feel ur pain brother
I agree
I'm no one's back up plan. The more of these videos I watch, the more I realize I'm going to be OK 👌.
Rosser Scott preachhhhh
That's right! You are the prize to win over.
@@MsThebeMoon Yes!!
I know a strong and spiritual one who can help you with a love spell
Never ever ever settle to be a backup plan! You are amazing, unique and you deserve your right match
I miss her a lot. But I am worthy of love. I am a catch. I am good looking. I am compassionate. I want her. But I don’t need her to be happy.
Well said! Believe it and stay strong!
Damn right you are!
Yes you are!!!
I am too... After 2 month in grief and sadness I now realize I have different options. In the darkest hours you just don't see all the cards on your hand. After what she did to me I don't see a way of getting back together. It's still kinda sad but I learnt to accept - it was so tough. She made me feel that way. Whenever I look back I now see her making me feel faulty, less attractive and most of all: insecure! How could I ever want that back? She never took over any responsibility for what she sad or did. Best is to move on quick! I sometimes cry, yes, but these are now tears for having wasted so much time trying to understand and love someone who simply didn't want me in her life anymore. Goodbye Ex!
Yes losing someone you love is hard!! But in all honesty mine did me a favor I was 350 pounds and on a road to self destruction!! We have been broken up for almost a year now! No contact at all! Yes I still have my bad days missing her thinking of her but I started working on myself I’m down to 269 pounds! To everyone who is new to this you got this I promise it does get easier! Hang in there! And thank you coach Lee!!
Keep going!
Keep up the good work! I too have lost weight, 270 to down to 240 and counting. Focusing the energy on yourself is way to go. 6 months of breakup and staying strong at NC.
Great. Keep going 😊
proud of you bro!!! keep grinding, each hard day is just another lesson that you can apply in the future
Keep at it!💯
Most important secret that they don't want to know: you moved on and not giving a crap about it anymore.
Then the are on you like white on rice!
Vandella Charles Right? When it’s just a little too late.
@@paolanatalia2000 ....I'm at the point where, I don't gave a damn if he comes back or not. Since I got to that mindset, NOW he's calling!....lol...smh
@@picachicaasmr260 That's the way it always is, like they feel the pull of your energy is missing. My ex, will wind up crying to me, when his life is so destitute and he is broke, then I will have to figure out what to do. Should I be mean to him?
@@picachicaasmr260 after how long your ex reached out?
You're the only one keeping me from texting my ex right now. We recently broke up and I feel so lost
Stay strong. Give your ex the opportunity to miss you.
Cool beans how old are you?
Coach Lee knows his shit inside out. Watch as many vids as possible, they are all full of wise words
@Trenton Doggett thank you
@@benjunior1678 thank you. I appreciate you sharing your story. I hope things work out for the best for the two of you 😊💕
You gave me more advice than my parents have in the 21 years of my life..
I'm well over my ex, thank you though
🤣🤣 too true
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5 months no contact. Checked his social media last week and he already moved on to another girl. Bye forever to him now. Once I see they have a connection to another woman I cry one full day and then get super turned off. Wouldn't take him back now even if they paid me.
Be strong. You'll get someone better.
Igor Oliveira Thank you!!
He his actually hurt himself because he will know your value after loosing you
Kevin Rally I hope he does see that one day. Thank you🙏🏼
Manayer Mussaed that's right! haha
“when you stay away they have to re create you to feel your company” this is a really hard hitting one. and with the effect of time discarding all negative thoughts of you it’s genius.
"And if you could stay away, you could move on. What a wonderful message for your ex to get from you instead of a text message." This got me cracking.
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Awesome mantra to repeat to myself!
Lol
LOL! me too.😂😂
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Don’t ever be someone else’s back up plan.
Great video Coach
Your silence is powerful! That to me is the biggest one and speaks volumes to me. How can someone miss you if you don't let it be silent?
what’s your story? did he reach out?
My situation is weird and complicated. He is being forced to stay away from me by his father (hes almost 18, still living at home) and I can't really talk to him. His dad is controlling his feelings for him right now, he's not allowed to text or call me. I am still in NC and it's been a month and I decided I'll reach out another month from now since our situation is a bit unique and we were forced apart by a third party. I also need something back from him that belongs to me. I'm keeping it casual and doing the best I can not to pounce and bother him because silence is power! I've actually been working on myself a lot and doing better without him, but I still love and want to be with him.
@@rachaeladeline how old are you
Listen to him. I followed his advice and got my ex back September of last year and we are still together.
After how long you both get together?
Was wondering the same thing
Lola G we were no contact for around 2 months . But like Coach Lee says, this is what makes them miss you . So it’s worth it .
And within 2 weeks of reconnecting, I acted like I did when we first started dating so I wasn’t rushing into anything and then the talk came about getting back together. I was sooo happy .
@@lourdesandzachary13 that's great to hear, I'm happy for you two. I'm just about at 2 months myself, one day at a time.
I still watch your videos even though I’m back with my girlfriend
Congrats bro
Congrats
advice us what you did?
You have the same name as my ex gf which is kind of what psychology drew me to this comment. Maybe it a a sign that I’ll get back with my Jordan (sure fucking hope). But Jesus man what did you to make it happen?
He's got this calming reassuring way about him.
It's been 3 weeks no contact. And I'm slowly regretting this relationship
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He contacted me after two weeks to ask if we could be friends, and I said we are not enemies, but I am not interested in friendship with you either. Thank you.
was that it? did you say you want romance? So is it over?
@@lovefamily8227 You are in a far away country? All those digits...
My current ex said to me in her previous message which I’ve added this a few times, she said we could remain friends but for now she wants to be single for a bit to look after her elderly dad who has pressure sores and her mum is becoming poorly, I told her in my final communication that I couldn’t just remain friends as I only want a relationship with you as I know my worth, my value and I’m irreplaceable, and when we get back into work that I’ll just be professional around you so there will be no kissing or cuddling. Her final communication with me was , it’s my loss that you cannot remain friends and it’s a decision that i’m going to have to live with for the rest of my life, I read what she had to say and I went straight into NC which was 9 days ago , not sure how it’s going to be when we finally get back into work and we get to see each other again..
@@1Andrea yes its over, better to move ahead, I feel so better right now.
@@adetilda5486 💞💞💞💞💞🕊
45 days no contact after being with her for four years. Christmas will be a tough day as I was going to ask her to marry me. my heart is crushed but thanks to coach Lee maybe just maybe I will be okay not today or tomorrow but one day stay strong everyone
Your loyalty is being used as a license 😩
I've been in NC for about a month and I'm doing much better. I have my moments but these videos and a lot a prayer have really helped me. I have a daily routine of listening to gospel music, praying for my ex and praying for MY strength! Thanks Coach Lee!!
I have been on NC since January 1 but yet to hear from her...I don't think I need her anymore...have healed from the break up
Erica update ?
@@AminataD26 we haven't gotten back together but I'm dating someone else now... it's for the best. I found out alot of disturbing things he was doing while we were together
Stay strong
No contact is the way to do it regardless of whether they come back or not.
You finish with dignity or you reconnect. Either way you win
My ex told me that he wanted me to move on, that I “deserve better”. I asked him if he really wanted me to be with another man, he said he wouldn’t like to see me with someone else but if I’m happy then he’ll be happy for me. That’s how I knew it was over for good. An ex wanting you with someone else is a huge sign that they’ll never try to get you back.
That isn’t true at all. I want my ex back, it’s been four years, and yet what I want more than my own selfish desire for her to be in my life is for her to have what she wants in her life, even if that’s someone else, of course it would hurt but I would support it if it meant she was happy and felt loved. I’d like it to be me because I can see and trust my love and intentions, but as uncomfortable as it makes me to imagine her with someone else that’s only because I want her to be loved properly. I’d accept the life of misery, I already have.
I absolutely love this ! Turned all my emotions into myself! Got my dream job/career, moved into an amazing new place, bought a new car, working out helps a ton(boosts confidence), learned to cook, saving a ton, and going back to school to acquire additional certificates/degrees. Best thing you can do is give it time, and in that time love yourself and work on yourself, you will eventually get to a point where it does not bother you!!! P.S. Coming back after over 8 months, just know I was in that dark hole with no idea of what to do for a month straight. I Cried myself to sleep every night for the first month, but after 8 months of working on myself I can promise you it does get better!!
I go to sleep with you in my ear. You're the only comfort when I'm about to give up.
Wow... after a year of no contact , he reached me out and saying how much he misses me.... I immediately thought of you Coach Lee.. haha 😅😍 Thanks for your amazing advises..🖒
What happened?
A year? Did you guys get back together?
Update
Your hair is on point coach lee.
Coach Lee is the most positive person in my life. If my ex was even 1 percent of Coach Lee, I would chase her forever.
Coach Lee was the dude that your girl left you for!!!
I swear to my mom Coach Lee is a life saver I’ve listen to his videos over and over or I can say I’m addicted , fall in sleep I’ve to listen his videos and I’m gone. There is 100 of videos out there but Coach Lee has a very different style very genuine he is so talented for his professional, his speech give us so much strength, confidence, hopes and positive energy❤️ I highly recommended his advice also who ever listen to his new videos let’s make some contributions if we put $1.00 and there’s good amounts of people for him so beneficial and for us is only a $1.00.. God bless you coach... Josh...(how we can donate please advise)🙏
Well my tip jar is at myexbackcoach.com/tip-jar/ or you could buy the Emergency Breakup Kit. Thanks for your kind words.
Thank you so much for sharing your ideas with us, I finally get a call from my ex after 3 months of no contact, and I fallows exactly your advices tnx, I finally get her back.
Awesome One Black! Happy for you!
This hurts so much. But he left because I had a temper tantrum that led to horrendous consequences. It’s harder knowing it’s my fault. But it still hurts so damn much. Thank you for these videos. 🙏🏻
Another great video from Coach Lee, although my no contact is way past 4months I am choosing to stay in no contact as Coach Lee suggests. Awesome to see you.
By far the best video on the net for the dumpee regarding a break up... when you are going stir crazy come back and watch this over and over !
I feel like coach lee is that one friend I can talk to and is always there for me thx coach lee😊
Lee, I have watched most of your presentations, not even only like them but also i love them amazing. They are so hopeful and educational. I followed them and I am a lot more stronger than I used to be. Thanks man
You’re the man Coach Lee! You’re helping me in the most darkest time of my life.
Coach Lee, you are on another level when it ones to relationships. I've searched all over TH-cam for similar videos and so called relationship or dating coaches. They simply do not compare with their advice and knowledge that you have. And I still come back to your videos for guidance. You are a constant voice of reason for many of us. Keep up the great work and I look forward to your next video.
i have been watching your videos almost all the time during my no contact period and it gives strength, God bless you
Pretty sure I’ve watched all your videos through my breakup and this one is definitely my new favorite. Thank you for continuing to remind people of their inner strength and helping us through some of our darkest days.. Your a blessing Coach Lee 🙏🏼🇺🇸
This is really coming from a straight up comforting point of view. Words are very comforting, and also humourous. You are very clear and precise and I know this is because you know what you are talking about and you are fair and say "in most cases" These videos are so helpful and I just wish everyone love and success because these videos are a tool for this.
I like Coach Lee's no bullshit style of saying things. "They broke up with you because they've lost an emotional attraction to you, they feel they are better than you and can do better than you." I was like, shit, Lee isn't sugar coating this stuff. Lee said your ex had been thinking or may have been even planning this break up a long time. Today I spent the day just thinking back and realized it was 8 months ago my ex began to pull away from me. We lost our intimacy, we began to lose our connection. I realized I have taken my ex for granted and forgot to develop our love. Hard to think about. I am angry she didn't sit me down and tell me, "Hey, you need to change or I am walking out" Rather, she just up and walked out. Its been 5 days and I have been doing the NC and listening to Lee tell it like it is. I feel stronger already. We both took each other for granted. Don't do it if you still have that person in your life.
I feel this. Update?
How's it been the last 3 years?
hey coach lee, i appreciate you more than you’ll ever know. you give me strength and reassurance when i need it most. keep going for all of us ❤️
At any rate, this is the best coaching video ever made. Wow! The rubric of the dating game must implement this acumen at all costs. I love it, man!
Coach you blew it up with this video so much passion! You should know your giving me and many others the strength to stick to the no contact rule in an effort to get our X back....Thank you Coach!!
I love how passionate you are in this video, the level of conviction in your voice. Thanks so much for all that you do. I have tipped once, but I am going to keep doing so periodically because you deserve it.
How can I miss you if you won’t go away...?!
Please Coach Lee, release more videos, your timing is always on point whenever i feel i want to breakdown and call her or message her you end up releasing a video that calms me down for another week.
Coach Lee you’re such a remarkable man. Listening to you and how much care you put into your craft takes your effort to a whole other (level) aspect of respect!⭐️💯
I don't know if you would be able to read this coach lee but I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all these super helpful advices that helped me get back from my feet after my ex broke up with me the last few months and I cannot be thankful enough that I stumbled upon you to know all these things. You are literally the best thing that could ever exist for all the people going through a rough patch after a breakup coach lee!! Thank you so much for all of these!! Much love from a heartbroken fella from the Philippines!
Coach Lee, You're my best and favourite coach. Your videos really helped me a lot and played a vital role in my breakup and tough periods. Now my ex reached me out while pleading her faults. Even though we haven't yet met face to face.
Shocked he Coach Lee doesn’t have more subscribers. I could listen to these videos along with taking my daily vitamins.
Been watching your videos Coach since last year after she left me. Been doing 100 push ups a day since April 3 2020 til now. Thank you Coach Lee, You have answered all my questions. More power to You.
Almost 3 months of NC . Im doing my best concentrating on career and health.. Thank you for all you do.
I've watched tons of breakup coaches and got decent advice but coach Lee actually is more on the nail. i don't know if it's just me but he seems more specific and has touched way more that is like my current situation than anyone else. I feel like with his information I can navigate it all more appropriately.
Thank you so much coach Lee. Just listening to you everyday keeps me encouraged. 🙏🏻 God bless you! Now on my 1 month NC.
Once again great information. I have no doubt I would have gotten my ex had I access to this knowledge. I literally did everything wrong and made an utter fool of myself. Live and learn. Coach Lee is the man, love his honest and logical approach.
Your videos are so helpful. Just listening to your voice helps. My husband of 21 years walked out at the beginning of the month. He's out of state for work right now and won't be back until the end of the month. I haven't contacted him and it's been so hard. I know I'm going to have to see him when he gets back to sort through the business of this separation and I just hope I can keep it together.
Its amazing how we're all from different parts of the world but feel so connected by heartbreaks,thenks coach Lee
BOOOOM ! YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST COACH !
Facinating coach Lee, thank you bringing us back to our logical senses. Emotions amd impulsiveness can be tricky.
Coach Lee, I have been binge watching all your videos for months, honestly you are the best coach on TH-cam. Listening to your videos has a genuine calming effect and enables me to see things from a better perspective. Thanks for your efforts and the time to put out these knowledge and info out there. Wish you a long and happy life 😊
You're the best! Thank you so much for all your content❤ You keep us all strong while maintaining no contact. 💪💪😊 I appreciate your encouragement and your straight forwardness.
Thank GOD, you are saved from corona virus..we wanna hear alot more from you.please bring some other topics as well in your videos other than breaks up or no- contact..you have great convincing power coach lee
coach Lee, you are a rare GEM. you are simply heaven-sent. You may never in a thousand years know what your videos do to bring balance to many broken souls out here and especially some of us that are silent followers. may eternity judge you ever graciously.
Ex still asks my friends about me while she's in a rebound relationship
maybe the grass wasn't greener huh? ;)
Sounds like that grass might be less tasty than what they had. Just keep doing what you're doing and that should be no contact.
been 7months. How's it goes?
@@WiseTheSecretOne Well basically a few weeks ago she told me that she regrets everything and now we´ve been talking here and there.
My life is good though, and she´s the one chasing me now ;)
@@DatMusicGuyZ Thank goodness. So there really is hope.. My ex and I have been in a serious long-term, long distance relationship for around 2 years. We were friends for 1 year before that. But unfortunately I think the distance, and her mental health finally got to her. It's a long story but basically she left me for another guy, and I didn't really know about it. Two months later he broke up with her, they made up, had more sex, then he broke up with her again a week later (oddly enough for the same reason she gave me, in which he said he needs to "work on himself.") I thought it was all basically over and she was going to work on "us" again, her mental health, and to stay single to focus on herself, but I found out again (this time by pure accident) that she is with another guy only two weeks later. I don't really blame her because I'm also dating again, but it still caught me off guard. Especially because the guy (and even the guy previously) are nothing really like me, so I suspect it is definitely a rebound.
With that all said though I started no contact a week before Christmas, and so far she's sent me some mixed signals (a Christmas greeting, and asking me if I still wanted to watch an anime we planned to watch together when it comes out). I found out after I said yes, so I ended up asking her if she was dating anyone (cause I don't wanna watch it with her if she's with someone, but also to see what she would say). But I was met with no response, and a block on Facebook. She still seems to follow me on everywhere else though. Not sure if my number is blocked because I didn't say anything else after that, but I'm definitely not looking to find out..
Anyway, I'm just hoping she will one day realize what she let go of. I gave her my world, and I was genuinely ready to marry this girl eventually. We had plans to move in together, once we could close the distance. October was supposed to be the month we were going to meet for the first time, but sadly covid ruined those plans and we ultimately ended up in this situation.. I lost my best friend. She hurt me tons over what she did, but I still want her back. Our relationship was always really good before all of this, and it was never toxic. We genuinely had a good relationship.. It seemed like a huge waste that she would throw that all away, but I guess I do understand it. We'll need to have a talk, maybe therapy, and for her to give me a genuine apology. But until then, I guess I need to do my best to move on and keep up this no contact thing..
I just wonder how much longer it'll be before I hear from her again, or if our relationship/friendship is even repairable again. I can't imagine my life without her.. Even if we do happen to end up with different people. It's been since the end of September that this all started (when she met the first guy), and this honestly still feels like a dream. I honestly never thought I'd be in this situation. Hopefully over time I could at least get more closure, by seeing her in person one of these days. Probably won't be for awhile, but it's something I'd definitely like to do eventually.
Sorry that was longer than intended, but I'm glad to see that you're hearing back from them. No contact has worked for me in the past, but there's still so much uncertainty.. I don't wanna lose such a good thing permanently. I believe my ex is just confused, and hurting a lot mentally. I don't believe she hurt me intentionally. The stress of school, graduation, careers, family, financial concerns, getting her hopes up about seeing me/me in general, and her mental health are all likely what's been on her mind. I could say that I hate her for everything that happened, but truthfully I could probably always forgive her. She just needs to fix this, and I hope she does. I guess I'll see what happens.
Wow over 7 months after? That’s wild
Damn this dude looks so fly, best hair ever! I gotta up my game a few levels just in case my ex sees him in this video x-D
Thanks for giving me the right mind set to keep the no contact going. You made me realize that if he doesn’t come back he never loved me so I have to wait for him to come back. He had already been taking me for granted and contacting him again would only reinforce that.
I am so so so happy I ran across coach Lee! I was in a relationship for 2.5 years, my bf said we needed to take a break. Of course I was blindsided by this but I just said ok and left. BTW, we lived separately I would stay with him on weekends because of work. Anyway, I immediately listen to you speak of No Contact Rule and put it in motion. By the end of the first week he was texting asking about my family. I replied nicely but that's it back to no contact until he let's me know he wants back in the relationship. Thank u Coach Lee.
I don't want ny ex back, but these videos help me gain clarity for creating closure for myself without him.
I love all your videos coach lee.. Thank you so much for this.. You are motivating me to be strong and move forward.. I'm stuck for more than a month now crying and hurting but now I can feel I am getting there.. More power coach lee..❤️
I honestly no longer have a need for my ex anymore, i only watch your videos because they really help me out and put everything into perspective. And the need for her has only dissipated more due to realizing that she went back to her ex before me.
Coach Lee, You have allowed Me in gaining a better perspective in understanding My mission in recovering My broken relationship!.... May God Bless You!
Coach Lee just answered my prayers
Thanks for every video, they are all really helpful. I've been in NC for a month (and I don't have a problem with that) ever since the breakup. I haven't cried in three days(I used to cry every single day)and I feel much stronger. You wouldn't believe how far your words of wisom have travelled. Sending you a big hug from Serbia 😊🤗
How you doing now? Xx
Coach Lee every of your messages are so powerful, touching lives . It’s like fixing my solutions
I know that he won’t forget me right away. But the real question is what do they feel when they remember me? Do they feel nothing? Feel nostalgic?if yes, after a significant time has passed since the breakup, do they still feel desperate and nostalgic towards me? This is the question I’m dying to find an answer for.
Great stuff ! You are helping me right now. Me and my wife are somewhat separated right now. In the beginning I was doing all the things you said not to do and now I see it would have been catastrophic to my marriage. I have watched all or almost all of your videos. My wife is doing some things that I do not understand and putting me in a unique situation not covered in the videos I have watched. But I am applying your advice the best I can with the cards I am being dealt. You are a blessing to me. So far you have saved me from myself.
I hope things worked out for you!
I could tell he had something running in the background. Sketchy communication. Over and out.
Since I stared to listen to these videos it really helped me understand 😌 my break up, separation with my ex. Even though he's moved on with a new relationship I'm still going through it yet my mind now has really changed me and the effort I was doing to get him back I've put it towards myself love. ❤ Thank you Coach Lee
Any updates? Xx
Love u coach Lee. You are saving lives and minds right now. They're right, the more I watch, the mkr ei realize I'll be ok
Great advice, you're the only one stopping me from contacting her again. Been doing NC for just over a week, I do feel down some days but soon as I see myself falling back into a pattern. I come on here and listen again. I believe now that I've got the strength 💪 I used to attempt NC, but after one day she would contact me again just to start another argument, which didn't make sense because she broke up with me? Not sure about that one. I don't want to get back with her. That's not why I watch these, I watch to give me strength to keep going. Great advice though! Super helpful Coach Lee
I am in on and off relationship and seriously this man has helped me so much..I don't even bother anymore I just go straight to no contact and follow all the advices he gives, instead of overthinking and worrying. Thank you for saving my nerves!
Hi I know of a good and a very powerful woman who can help you to manifest back your ex within 2 days . I got my ex back through her love manifestations and it works effectively
Coach Lee i don't know the adjectives to qualify you rather than to say you are a genius far better than any other relationship coaches i have ever watched on TH-cam,thank you so much for your hard work
Thanks so much Bello! Take care of yourself man!
I agree🙌
Yay another video you’re the best coach lee! 11 days into nc and she keeps talking to me and that she likes how we are no label nice and slow.she keeps complimenting me and saying how much she misses me. I never reach out and make her initiate I’m excited for us working back to be a couple !
Nice Corey! I had to go into NC knowing she would call and text non stop but sometimes putting your foot down when you aren’t seeing changes is for the best! I know it’s not practical to ignore your ex but no contact really works if it’s applied with the “giving us space to work on ourselves” talk before ignoring them for the specific time!
Update : I was scrolling through ig and accidentally called her and she made a joke about it like are you stalking my ig😂 but we went on and it seems like she’s being a little hot and cold. Should I be worried ?reach out to her? Or just chill give it time and continue no contact ?
@@coreybullard4441 did she come back?
I really needed to hear this. It hits all the points. Thank you Coach!
This has given me hope thankyou
Thank you so much for this valuable video, it makes me feel strong, yes, I am strong enough to stay away and love myself.
Thank you Coach just found you after a sudden breakup with GF after 1.6 years... Pretty much did a ton for her and her two young kids.... I'm 55. A few mistakes from both nothing earth shattering.....love your approach and delivery so much passion and sense... Early on day 4 no contact rule hating it but believe, thank you so very much...
With each day that passes you really start to not care abt them anymore!👌
Trust the NC, you’ll feel better very quick!💪
Coach Lee, I can't even begin to describe how watching your videos when I'm crying before I sleep help give me that piece of understanding or comfort, that's just enough to help me get through another day of pain. Thank you so so much.
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Hi Lee. I had to remark on this video because it does remind me of my ex, however, I no longer miss him. I was under the impression that I was engaged to a healthy, normal human being. I believe he was cheating, lying, and using me, but I found out too late. I was in love with him and I did want to get married. I listened to your videos non stop after I left him, then I found out he rebounded and married her 2 weeks later. WOW! After listening to two of your videos on Narcissism, I put 2 and 2 together. The FUTURE FAKING, the lies, and you know the rest about that topic. It took me 2 years to get over him. I listen to Dr Ramani a lot, and I ALWAYS listen to you, regardless of the topic. YOU HELPED ME! Love you...❤
This is all true. Listen to Coach Lee. It hurts but you will get through it.❤
In the end of the video you always say thankyou for watching and I always say, No Thankyou for sharing your understanding about this aspect you're really Great😇😊
I felt so good about myself now because of how you explain how our emotions work
There are Some days i really feel like giving up on my ex . Its been 2 moths now and she has stopped contacting me from 2 weeks. And deep inside i know there is still some hope left. But as i look back i see those positive and happy memories we shared together since last 5+ years and all that boosts my hopes and makes me aware of not giving up on her.
Whenever i feel low this channel is the one i reach out. 😇😇. You are doing a great work.
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I just started watching him today he's really helping me with my break up
Thank you so much for helping me I have a coaching call booked on the 19th you are the only thing that is getting me through!!! 🥺😭 breakups suck but I’m trying not to lose all hope!!! X
Thank you Coach Lee. Amen to all that!
Been broke up with my ex for 9 months and i still watch these just great info for the future
No contact is a hard things to do , but you give me more and more reason to do it
Awesome videos! I am still in NO CONTACT and it is been a month. She texted her and there but I do not understand indirect gesture. I came to a point where I realized I don’t have time for manipulation and games so I came to a point where I no longer desire my EX because i begin to believe - whatever happened, happened for the best reason and wouldn’t have happened in other way. So, I blocked her everywhere because that is exactly what she did when I begged and pleaded. Love supposed to be fun and 11 months in a relationship she never said “I love you” and she wasn’t even emotionally ready for a “relationship” I feel used. But I am grateful for a huge listen in my life. But I watch your video to educate myself and learn and grow. Thank you
Great advice. I am in a different position. I was obsessed because of trauma bonding with a narcissist who had gone no contact on me longer ago than I am prepared to say. I was the one that was messaging but watching your videos and losing a colleague to coronavirus helped me to come to the conclusion that today is a good day for a fresh start. No more messaging. Stay safe and all the best.
Damn! Stay safe. Not just from the coronavirus but the narcissist. Its a worse way to die than covid unfortunately
Stay away don't waste anymore energy and time. This doesn't apply to them. They are not even real.
Just got away from a similar situation it’s for the best, very traumatizing. I hope you find the love you need within yourself and through someone that will give you the love you deserve