Escaping the Narcissist's grasp: Make the Decision to Leave
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 เม.ย. 2024
- If you're stuck in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, it's time to make the decision to leave. This video will help you understand the importance of escaping the narcissist's grasp and taking back control of your life.
If you're struggling to break free from a narcissist, watch this video to learn how to make the decision to leave. Don't let them hold you back any longer! - บันเทิง
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God doesnt want anybody to stay with an evil toxic narcissist...Never !!!
He didn't abuse me today? That sounds like breadcrumbs...what a sordid game these abusive people play. Beware!!!
Sordid is the word.👍
Listen to every word in this video… it’s true. After 25 years, I would know. Trust God to lead you with His love and His light to bring you out of this dark fog and into freedom, love, truth and healing. ❤🙏🏻🕊️☀️
Please pray for me. ♥️
@@smbrockie I am praying for peace and protection for what you need to do. God will see you through this ❤️🙏🏻
I keep replaying this as a counselor told me it can take 6-7 times of hearing this to get out of the fog and into the reality of what you are really living
❤❤yes, I'm out after 27 years. Waiting on the court system to make it legal.
I left my marriage with a nac husband. I feel free and happy 🎉🎉
❤😂🎉🎉🎉 NEVER ever go back, you will be so much happier and safer!!!!
Even if he was dipped in GOLD, I will never go back!!!😊
"dipped in GOLD." 😄
Thanks Dr. Clarke! I've been struggling with that feeling in my gut! I ask myself if I am doing the right thing by working on getting out of this relationship. I want peace so badly! I'm tired of being a verbal punching bag.
You will have that peace once you leave!
I thank our Great King tonight for watching this. My three young kids and I are going through this very thing right now. Planning to secretly leave and this video was a huge confirmation for me to just GO!
So thank you.
Be very careful & don’t tell him!!
My narc said the bad words about me IN FRONT OF the kids. Adamantly! I was frozen. My adrenals were shot at young age.
Thank God for you! My eyes are filled with years of tears. I made all these excuses as he dropped his ring in my hand. I have a girlfriend…you have a blood clot well….he sang…blood clot to the head and now you’re dead. He hated me! He didn’t love me! Gave me flowers and said I love you! Do not fall for this! No sex …on porn and cheating.
I am out 2 years. Order or protection and a hell anullment. God and these videos gave me courage. Please know healing is better than hurting❤
God led me directly to understanding that He really wanted me to leave the marriage. Hardest decision I ever made, but I was at peace once I knew that's where God was leading me. Enough is enough confirmed he is a narc. I left Nov. 1st and the immediate peace and calm I experienced was shocking, as he had me convinced all my problems were outside of him... but really, it all pointed to him. 19 years and he could never change the core narcissistic traits. Don't wait any longer. Leave. You will not regret it.
Just a comment on the education you provide. Without these youtube videos I don't believe my step-daughter would be alive. She went no contact 7 months ago and videos are all we have had to train us and support us and show us a way forward. I can't imagine the nightmare without such sage advice. Thank you and all the many others who are literally saving lives. 40 years of being used and abused by a master.
"...you can train a chimp to do that."😂
He cracks me up every video
Yes, you are always on guard with the narc. It’s a cycle.
Thank you so much Dr.Clarke! Your information and support is appreciated!❤🙏
It’s like you’re reading a page out of my life! I separated from him last fall, he made all kinds of promises…. Failed miserably and is right back acting like a delusion narcissist. Never went to counseling! We just got back from a week in Florida and I can’t explain the abuse I endured. I broke down today and told him I’m done. I can’t fake happy anymore. My family is cheering. I need to know what steps to take now. Bandaid finally ripping off after 15 hats and countless attempts to leave. Love this video and your advice.
One of the reasons I stayed so long was because of the affects of divorce on my childhood. I didn't want the same for my own children. Knowing my mother was very much like my husband I knew he would bring another partner into my children's life asap, I also knew he had been cheated and already had someone because he told me himself, which caused me to go ahead and just get a divorce already I was already done.
When my parents separated my hs friends informed me my mother was sleeping with the father of one of my classmates and the man was still married to his mother. My son did experience a similar event unfortunately when he became aware my husband was cheating with one of his hs baseball teammates mother. The kid went right up to him and told him. Just leave. It's never a good
Prophetic . You. 🙏🙏🙏
Oh he doesn't want you to be with that! You have every biblical reason to leave!
Pkease pray for me. I finally have found my safe boundaries. But it's incredibly intense right now because he's fighting tooth and nail to keep his top position and mine none. Every possible way he acts in a way that doesn't feel right, and there's no way possible that even each distaste doesn't leave a response in me, each "little" breach has a deep effect. And that does affect the body, the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system. It has affected mine in a serious way. His hits are a constant reminder or effect that he's not loving me, that i am isolated and alone. With him, that is .
I know the truth. I am not putting up with the lies, gaslighting, and abuse. I used to put up with abuse. Boy! Am I getting strength!
Stay strong because these narcissist partner's want you to die before them that way they get rid of the evidence of their crime. Narcissist's get much worse as they age, grey rock him in a not too obvious way and get yourself quietly healthier. Narcissist's want to break you down so you don't have the strength to leave them unless it's on their terms.
He is hitting you? Call 911 now
Mine is very passive aggressive. He will go in the kitchen and say bad things about me and then come back where I am like he never said it and try to be nice or hug me or something crazy! It'll be 11 years now we been married. He's only getting worse not better. So now I know I've got to get out while my children are smaller before he turns them against me.
Hi I ask 78 he is 81, I can’t leave… how do I get him to LEAVE. My handicapped daughter and I have the perfect home…. He should be the one to go! Do you have any advice for people in my situation?
LEAVE
Divorce, eviction, or law enforcement restraining order....some ideas
😮if he wont leave,make a plan, read Dr David's books, gain wisdom and knowledge and understanding.
Open a bank account even if only $20, change passwords, remove all important papers, and documents, and valuables, get a lawyer if you can .. tell only 1-2 people you can really trust…. Pray 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 Have Faith because God has you ❤️
Very hard to get them to move out, unless there is physical violence and you can call the police and get him removed, then a restraining order.
It sucks when you love him despite everything.
Yes yes yes a bazillion times over is my narc and thankfully God removed from him to care for my sick father I’ve been here for 14months now and my narc hasn’t even financially supported me in all that time and my adult kids are against as well but soon I will be divorced and I can’t wait because of your videos etc I’ve been able to prepare myself to leave and have a new life despite watching my father slowly die before me and no help from my narc whatsoever it’s crushing and when you talk about how he’s nice for a split second it’s true that living on a knife’s edge is horrible because I need to go back and see my kids once a week for a night etc. and I can’t stand being around him so much so that I don’t sleep with him anymore I will wait for him to get up for work and then I go to bed it’s a horrible way to live plus I’m scared of him as well because I can’t stand the abuse verbal emotional possible physical abuse and my several suicide attempts and I’ve been with him for 25yrs. and I’m not there for long yet I won’t let him control my life anymore he’s so bad with financial abuse that he black listed me from my career and then I also have ask him if I can use our money if I want to go out and get a coffee or gas for the car etc. it’s really bad and very hard and at the moment he’s on his best behaviour because he’s ready to pounce on my inheritance form my dad’s death yet only the other day he told me to call him when dad passes and he will help me with ‘the body’ to be moved etc. his words my dad is already a body to which I was horrified by couldn’t care less about my feelings etc. but I’ve away from him for so long now that I see his ruse and his disgusting motives luckily here in Australia 🇦🇺 I can now get a divorce without his permission because I’m in what is called a silent separation for more than a year now and so he can’t say no to me it will simply happen to him and for that I’m very grateful and look forward to being free thank you Dr. Clarke you continue to help me and I know many others you are truly blessed blessings always AMEN 🙏
Good on you for getting out. I’m in Australia too. It’s very hard to leave as everything is so expensive now in regards to rent and houses, I’m in Sydney! I have to stay until I can get half of the house and he won’t move out.
@@roswb5388 Oh lovely I’m on the Gold Coast and personally what you can do is make sure that DV CONECT are involved because once they know your narc is red flagged and on a list of DV offender’s and call a solicitor and let them know that you’re in your situation and ask for a silent separation then all you need to do is wait 12mths. And then you can get your divorce without his permission consent or anything that way you can force him out or you can leave him with what is legally yours blessings to you stay strong and you’ll get there take care GOD BLESS YOU AMEN 🙏
@@danicaauge983 thank you for that advice, blessings to you to 🙏🥰🌹
? My current husband is not nearly as bad (mean and calculating) as my former husband. How do I know what is too bad to stay when the pastor/counsel said we should work together?
Half of the narcs are women!
Divorcing a covert narc now 🫡🇺🇸🦅
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Where in the Bible does God say to NOT part from an evil doer, wolf in sheep's clothing or a fool because He will perform on miracle on that person? None that I know of