WHAT LIVING WITH A narc DOES TO YOU
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 มิ.ย. 2024
- If you know someone who's living with a narc, or you wonder if you're living with a narc, this webinar is for you.
Dr. Clarke will teach and interact with you, so make sure to join us for this live event. - บันเทิง
Living with a narc has literally drained my energy. Working on an exit finally. We would have to sell the house & I would have to start over in life.
Totally worth the peace.
Proud of you! ❤
Energy vampires.
Off you are with a narc, plan on unfortunately taking it to court to get your half. I just went through it
Do it! Completely worth your sanity and discovering the person that God always meant for you to be!
I was nearly 9 mo. pregnant with the narc's 5th child. I was to pick him up at work that day, as he rode with another person that morning. It was a very hot, summer day. I felt miserable. My other kids were all young and I had to get groceries, after I picked him up at work. I told my children that daddy would be tired and hot and so keep the noise down in the car and be good when we shopped for groceries. I was hoping he would keep an eye on the kids so I could do that shopping quicker. Back in those days you didn't have air conditioning in cars or homes.
Immediately he had to go use the bathroom, at the store. I started my shopping. Now I can't understand a person using a public bathroom and wanting to spend any amount of time in there if they didn't have to. Also, I only went grocery shopping every other week, so it would be a longer shopping time, that day. Well, needless to say, he never came out of that bathroom until I was finished shopping. To this day I have no idea what he was doing so long in that bathroom, but I can guess. I was so exhausted and so pregnant and so exasperated with him being of no help.
We were to pick up his own car left at the person's house that he rode with that morning. Due to my condition I certainly didn't remember that. So once we were home he remembered and yelled at me for not remembering. I cried and told him off. He went and got in the car and took off, telling me he was going to go talk to his friend. He had no friends and I told him that and I asked who his friend was, "Jesus" he said. When he returned he was still furious with me. Therefore I had no help in unloading the bags of groceries and putting stuff away and then I had to take him to get the other car.
Never any resolve, no apology, nothing! He always managed to get out helping me. Divorced after 20+ years, free of him now for over 30 years. What a waste he was!
Narc becomes the 6th toddler at the moment you marry him.
One time I was bagging groceries while pregnant and I had three or four small children with me while my n husband was criticizing the way I bagged. I told him loudly, " I would do it your way if you were the one carrying the bags into the house." He didn't say anything or react in any way...not even with embarrassment!
I felt for you being pregnant, hot day and 4 kids . Narc do not possess empathy.
@@kuma5343só true
@@ckvarnmass Don't ask narc the things they don't have.
My husband has destroyed my health and mental health. And aged me 20 years. I have no tolerance for any thing. I’m about to snap a tree in half. He is making me insane.
Me too
LEAVE THE NARC NOW THE LORD WILL SET YOU FREEEEEEEEE
Any holiday, birthday, special gathering was completely ruined by the narc I was married to for 32 years. Thank God, I got free but the narc caused me, our son-in-law and pregnant daughter running for our lives, when we supposed to be having the baby shower! It’s been 13 years and I’m now having the time of my life.
Thank you for helping me survive. I've highlighted so much in Enough is Enough that it should all be yellow...
My husband is a wonderful, compassionate, kind and caring person - when he's his 74-yr-old core person. With Multiple Personality Disorder from a hideously abusive childhood, he can also be one of at least 12 alternate personalities, all of whom are passive-aggressive covert narcissists. Trying to cope with all of that has made our 30 years of marriage a nightmare. I left the first of December, moved 1,000 miles away to be near my own family. He's in absolute denial, and most of our acquaintances believe I've lost my mind. I would have, if not for being able to run to the Lord. I lean hard, and I'm so grateful that there are Christian counselors to walk me through it all.
I am still in the healing - recovering from this insidious narc - Psycopath parent. They are total evil - They are agents of Hell - They have truly sided with Lucifer. They operate through devination. God Bless you.
Being with a toxic covert narc did following to me: my pregnancy got complicated because of emotional abuse, I lost job, because I couldn't concentrate on it, I got PTSD, I lost my iphone, my money, my good relationship with my relatives. Finally, I discarded this toxic predator, this manipulative liar, this deceiver, abuser, this monster. Thanks God. People, just stay away from them. They are impossible people to deal with.
Excellent video … validation, vindication, wise instruction Dr. Clarke. Almost didn’t make it through this nightmare… almost ended my own life. You’ve helped me escape with my children and now healing… thank you and praise Jesus for rescue …. hope restored 💯🙏🏻♥️🕊️
You are a gift, Dr.!🙏
My first husband was a cheater and an abuser. He left and divorced me. God brought me an amazing, beautiful, and incredible husband. Would you believe it that two years later my family still refuses to meet him? They believe I should still be married to my tormentor. 😢
😢 I'm sorry 😞 it's okay. They don't need to know him
@@monicas3307thank you, very true!🩵
Thank you for actually caring for all of us!
My church is such a house of worship and a respite from the week!! So thankful!
I liked the mold analogy.
My freak husband just sent me a video on hypochondriac. He said one. I blocked him. I was about to text him some stuff and go off but I said no I’m. It wasting any more of my time on a narc and I blocked him. The only thing I have to say is Bye.
28:26 erase your identity, spot on 🤔
Your videos are good reminders to keep coming back to. Thank you 🌹
Ever since I got here people have talked about me living with a narc. I don’t even know what they mean.
I just ordered 2 of your books..."I will be free" and "I didn't want a divorce now what".
How do I find a divorce lawyer who can help me get out of my marriage to a narc for 38 years. I'm dying in health issues, I know if from the stress of this. I am a Christian who used to be soo active with God's work. I want my happy, kind, caring life back.
Ever since I moved to Kansas people have commented about my narc boyfriend and I keep saying what boyfriend?
When is the next live event? I need to attend and interact with the Dr. if possible.
I just found you on another page.
Atrial Fibrillation
I’m married to a narc. We have two children together. I have 4 children total. My older two are from a previous abusive relationship. I live in the state of FL parents get 50/50 custody. I worry for my younger two children. He definitely has put fear in them and our calls him his best friend and my husband always reminds him that he’s his best friend. What do I do?
My oldest son is in therapy from the emotional trauma he hears and sees
You can’t do anything about others, you can only do things for yourself.
If it is an opportunity for any type of shelters for abused women, I recommend that you contact them.
Get out of the presence of the abuser, tell your story and get divorce. You can’t be there for your children if you are broken.
Take the kids with you and leave. Lean forward and take action!
Could I be accidentally married to someone by video?
Get a life!
4:37
my friends stepmom told her stepson that he ' ate his mom's', even though she passed away from cancer he didn't murder his mom. That the culture of northern India and Hindu pagan northern India. The stepmom only wanted the boys rich surgeon dads money. He's henpecked husband henpecked by his wife
I’m really healthy. Kind of scary.