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I’m a property manager and in my state (AZ), any victim of domestic violence and has already been provided a restraining order, the landlord is obligated BY LAW to release her from the lease due to her personal safety.
Some states have that law. Kentucky just recently passed it into law. Unfortunately not all states have it.
Same in Washington State. Probably most places are like that.
Excellent Law!
I don't always agree with Dave but here he is a champ.
Same in California. However they just dont give you back your security deposit.
This is an example of true masculinity in action. And it’s a beautiful thing. Decisive and protective yet gentle with her
So true. This is what a man looks like
Generally Dave is a simp
Yeah so who chose to merry him? He was the same bad guy 5 years ago when she decided to merry him. But hey some women love “bad boys” and they blame a bad boy for not changing his behavior. How smart…
@michalstelmach4203 Exactly. She married him WOW. I thought the first kid was DUMB the second kid was DUMB now marriage on Top!. Wow how much dumb is acceptable. There are people suffering yet she's here pissing away everyone's resources go uplift abusers.
OP was referring to DAVE and how he handles this caller
Thank goodness it was Dave who took this call
I love pissed off Uncle Dave. No Mercy, No Malice!!
I love Mr. Dave Ramsey and especially love pissed off Uncle Dave.
Yeah, he is great unleashing populist anger without knowing the whole story.
Well uncle Dave overprotective of his friends he keeps tracking me cause friends are blue not purple
😂👍
In these situations, mercy is for the weak!!
I love how fast he flips the switch and goes into Papa Dave when it's someone with extenuating circumstances.
Yes, this is the time for safety first, we'll figure out the debt later.
@@suen5006 This!
@@suen5006he kinda has to, otherwise face lawsuits lol
I’m 43 male .and I call him papa Dave.
@@liberator9248 that was my prison name
Love it when Papa Dave comes out. No mercy for abusers
I'm sure there is another side to this story. Unless you believe that women are angels and men are devils.
@@matthewphillips5483 She has a restraining order. The dude has shown up and knows he's violating it. You just hate women because someone hurt you. And yeah, sone men are abusive dicks.
@@matthewphillips5483 BOTH can be abusers. But the ones that call are already in a place where they don't know where to turn. That happens more with women as they think that their "knight in shining armor" will take care of them and their children. Once the kids come along even if they work, they may only work part time or at a low paying job so that they are there for their kids.
He has the heart of God. ❤
@@RoyalMasterpiecePlus legally he has to
Dave Ramsey is a beast sometimes. I love it. This lady needs somebody in her corner and now she's got it!
This was an amazing call though I feel so much for the lady. I'm so glad Dave went protective grizzly with her and let her know how to not put up with this damaging stuff anymore. Really a beautiful thing he's doing for her. He and his team. GOD bless everyone involved here.
Good luck. Women like this lady are attracted to the wrong guy and, statistically speaking, are likely to end up with another one just like him in the future (assuming she doesn't take this guy back)
@@angelanordmeyer4730 Plus, he has to, legally.
God puts people like Dave in powerful positions to help people out of their misery. May God bless Dave and his team
Pretty sure Dave put himself in that situation all by himself.
@@DeepestQuotesAnd yeah dave obviously works hard. And God helps those who help themselves. God can't do anything for you that you can't do for yourself
Amen
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@@tracym8952 I have a big problem with people who are sure a creator exists, same problem I have with people who are sure it doesn't exist.
Can you just be humble and admit that you have no idea, will never have, like anybody else, and those are just old made up stories?
Then I can treat you as a smart human being.
Great job Dave. We need more men in this world like Dave.
Indeed
RIGHT ON!
"Uncle Dave" doesn't understand that she will likely end up taking him back in 6 months. I've seen two sisters go through this pattern.
@@matthewphillips5483 you are 100 percent right but in Dave’s position whether on air or not he still needs to tell her that and do all he can to help her without enabling her.
@@matthewphillips5483 Doesn't mean that she will. (And yes most women will take him back because they get love bombed and then once the hook is set it starts all over again...) From the studies I've read, it takes several times before the abused spouse (men can be abused too) is able to break completely away from these abusers. Some don't make it as they become unalive in the process.
Lock your credit. With all credit bureaus. So that the abusive one cannot take out credit cards in your name.
You can break a lease if you have a order of protection so your ex doesn't know were you live. Practice at the range, wear a vest, switch kids school, move, trade in your car & transfer to another post office. Report this info to the custody judge.
Not bad advice at all. Most women are not murdered by strangers but vengeful husbands and boyfriends, and a restraining order is only a piece of paper.
Thank you for talking to her about calling the cops next time. Some people don't get that chance to call the cops. We had a woman who kept giving her ex- husband and he ended up killing her and both the kids. It scares me to death when I hear of people in this situation. Thank you for talking to her.
There’s a lot that I disagree with Dave about but I respect that he went above and beyond for this single mom.
If she does everything they’re telling her, this poor bastard will be working for nothing 😂 whole paycheck will be damn near garnished
@@Jay410Sand that’s what we call “the consequences of our own actions” 😮
Disagree with him on what?
What could you possibly disagree with Dave about ?
@dmbgator86 that's what I want to know lol. I mean I feel like getting a home loan the way he says to would be hard to almost impossible but I can't even say i disagree with that because I've never tried lol.
Prayers sent for this woman.
@@VancouverBorn It will surely help more than your nihilistic cynicism. Maybe you should focus on why you feel it necessary to project such negative energy in light of this topic. Are you an abuser as well? Do you spend any time on self reflection? What do YOU do to make the world a better place?
@@VancouverBornit always does
Give her prayers and a nickel and she'll have 5 cents. Prayers are far less useful than her getting better self-esteem to avoid getting with abusive men in the future.
@@BT-mc2yd Maybe not in the exact way that we pray. Since Jesus knows the future also, He responds in the best way possible for this specific need.
@@VancouverBorn I'm sorry you don't think it will help. But I KNOW it does! I will be praying for her also.
I'm glad Dave got so firm with her and told her "Don't tell him, IF he does this again you'll call the cops. Just call them." The thing is, she's told him that before and he didn't believe her and she proved that he was right because he showed up again and AGAIN she proved he was right because she didn't call the cops that time either. When a child is told, "I'm not going to tell you to go to bed again" or "This is the last time I'm telling you to go to bed" the parent is teaching the child that what they are saying is not true and he can continue doing what he wants. This lady was doing the same thing. I don't think she should have threatened to call the cops even ONE TIME because the restraining order should have been his clue that if he showed up the cops would be called. But he showed up and they were not called so what does she think that taught him? Dave gave her some excellent advice. I hope she follows it.
Exactly
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It'll escalate, too. With no consequences, he'll be doing a lot more than just showing up soon enough.
Really, if he is banging at the door she doesn’t even have to acknowledge with him, just grab the phone and call the police.
Exactly that’s how these things escalate he’ll prey on the fact that her calling the cops is nothing more than a fake threat and she won’t actually follow through and then he’ll keep coming over
I love how Dave is so supportive of abuse victims. He's a real one
I would of LOVED this advice 30 years ago when this was me. My ex always told me I would never amount to anything and that no one would ever hire me. Well I put myself through college with 3 little kids, while being stalked by him. I now make a solid 6 figure income and he is a used car salesman. Ladies... you can do this!
Usually how it goes, they end up being losers and the abused one ends up on top! Same as the cheater ends up by themselves after going through multiple partners and the other partner ends up with a great loving new partner! Karma at its best!
there are onlyfans girls that make 6 figure too so thatsnot anything.. There are stories, you can search, that women falls in love with homeless guy too lol
Bravo, good for you! God bless you.
I was told thr same by someone. Left him and life got better. Too. Bad I waited too long to leave him.
plot twist: the used car salesman still makes more than you (likely, if he is good)
This made me tear up. I'm glad Dave and the team will take care of this good lady. She and her children deserve a good life free of that piece of trash of a man.
Who picked him though? Can you answer me that?
@@matthewphillips5483Really? Wow! Are you a wife bearer too??
@@annt2685 A "wife bearer"? I've never heard of that. The definition of bearer is "a person or thing that carries or holds something.". Yes, I have carried my wife before so I guess I would qualify as a "wife bearer".
@@matthewphillips5483 wow, I guess you’re perfect, & never accidentally misspelled a word before. Goes to show what kind of person you are.Good luck to your wife.
@@annt2685 I asked my wife to read your post and she thinks you're an id!ot too. Good luck to your husband. He is going to need it.
Everyone needs an "Uncle Dave" in their corner.
I have an uncle Dave Ramsey it’s a different Dave of course 😂
Let her ask him for a loan and see how much he is "in her corner". He don't give a fuck about her. She is here for the views.
@@matthewphillips5483 he gave her a free counselor. If he gave money to every called, he'd be broke
@@georgewagner7787 Agreed and I'm not saying he should give money to her or anyone else. Just laughing about how people think he is doing so much for her here when really he isn't doing much of anything but a Dr. Phil style sound byte.
This is why Dave Ramsey is the best at what he does. He gave this lady some incredible advice and he offered to help her and he went a step further to offer some stellar financial advice for this single mom. I wish her and her two small kids the best.
I love it when Dave goes in like that
The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the woman tries to leave...... he is unhinged and the threat of child support and alimony will only make him worst. Please call the police on this guy the next time he shows up and take advantage of your 2nd Amendment right. You have a responsibility to protect yourself and your kids. Do not take this situation lightly it could be a matter of life or death.
I'm afraid for her, my husband was a cop and restraining orders are paper...prayers for her and I hope he's not that awful.
No, do not use a gun! That will only make the situation worse. Best to get yourself to a safe place.
@suen5006 you're safe until you're not. And by that time it could be too late. She needs to have something to protect herself and her kids.
Oh definitely call the police. My ex always ran before they got there and then he stalked me with trackers on my car. Tried to kill me twice. Girl please be careful. He’s dangerous more now than ever.
@brookepope that's terrible. I'm sorry that you went through that... there's some really bad people out in the world
Oh, Dave and George - THANK YOU!!! Your kindness and compassion for this poor lady was so moving. God bless you. 💕
John would have added counseling but I hope she gets some. It's scary and she had to get divorced and will they let him see kids. Ugh
Dave is such a boss helping this lady out.
You may not respect his advice, but you gotta respect how good a man Dave is in these situations. Well done, sir, and well done to those men and women aligned with Ramsey who are going to help that lady get what she needs.
They are helping her with advice for the IRS and what to tell a lawyer about getting money from spouse. Does he work, what does he do (no questions asked) It's not guarenteed she gets money which is why so many guys owe in US, thousands of them don't pay or work in a job that could get hit by IRS. She has be have someone take care of baby too, another thing Dave didn't mention or ask about. He was more concerned with being "Papa Dave" and George was quiet but John would have offered counseling, asked her about expenses and how safe she felt etc. Getting a new apartment might be easy but she has a kid in school and daycare I assume, she probably doesn't want to be too far from job and parents.
Thanks for helping this young woman, Dave.
perfect example of a rich man doing good for others!! God bless
Thank you Dave for talking with the girl that was abused and needs out of her lease. If she can stay away from the abusive husband she will do good. I haven't heard Dave help with free lawyer help either. Good job Uncle Dave
Being so passive isn't going to work, she needs to learn how to fight for herself.
This woman's ex just exited off easy street , with Dave driving the car now.
How do you come to that conclusion when Dave wants the Ex to pay child support and the income taxes? Do you think the ex should move back home and continue to abuse her🫢
Dave activated Dad mode, love hear in him go off
Wow. I love this. Dave having this momma’s back against the husband who is not supporting his children is so gratifying to witness. I hope she feels encouraged. Thank u, Dave!
Man this its home to the core .
Sarah please listen to David he is 1000% right.
Thank you David
Ramsey Solutions and Dave are awesome! Thank you for helping this lady in stress! You all rock!
And THIS is why I love Dave Ramsey!
I was in the same situation but held strong and worked all the overtime i could. Thank God my parents were still alive to help me.❤🎉
I wish this young woman and her children well. I’m so glad she called in and is getting some guidance.
if for no other reason - but there's tons of other reasons - I am a Dave Ramsey 'appreciator'. He - and his entire organization of people - will rise above to protect the underdog, especially when they are single folks with children coming out of abusive situations. I do believe they would have stood as strongly with a single, abused male as they did for this lady. (and don't even think men do not also get abused).
This brought happy tears to my eyes at the end. Go Dave!!!
I often read in the comments section to these videos that many people watch them to feel better about their own financial situation. I on the other hand watch them for this type of content, because I love to see goodness in action. Dave is an extraordinarily good man, and I greatly appreciate his company even if it is just through a screen and entirely one directional, as he cannot have the slightest idea about me. In fact, it seems to me that all the public figures on the Ramsey team are really good people, and at least to me they are as inspiring and pleasant as they are interesting and educational to listen to. Definitely one of my favorite shows out there!
Love Dave, for what he just did for this now single mother!!!
she's married still unfortunately unless I missed something?
@@deb9806 shes separated, but she mentioned how child support hadn’t started yet. You can start child support during a separation in process of a divorce. Hopefully all goes well for her, and her children, and she gets the divorce sooner rather than later. She mentioned straight away at the beginning that she was single, but married and a mother of two. In my book she is already a single mother, divorced, or not.
@@deb9806 Yes she is still married, but separated. Dave mentioned that his "team" was going to help her with advice and it sounded like they were going to help her figure out each step of the way to get this done.
@@alycewich4472 I hope so. They are mostly financial advisors, but maybe they can give her names of other people who can help her. He didn’t let her talk much but I’m assuming her baby is in daycare which is another cost and her daughter is in school and she probably like to stay near that school and parents
This is a day that I absolutely love Dave Ramsey. Not that I ever hate him, but how blessed your children are Mr. Ramsey.
LOVE what you are doing for her!
Dave Ramsey at his best. Well done!
DAVE IS A VERY GOOD MAN..HE'S CALM, LOGICAL AND CARING!
Rule#5, Live in a place that rent can be paid by one spouse even if yall both work.
Uncle Dave going for the jugular😂 he's 100% right, dont threaten to call the cops, CALL them! Thats the whole purpose of the restraining order!
In a situation like this everyone will say "you can put your childrens father in jail" He is putting himself in jail. No mother needs to protect a criminal from the consequences of his actions.
I’ve been watching for a few months now and this is the most compassionate answer I’ve seen so far. I hope she takes all of the help they’re offering ❤
Dave you nailed it on this call! Love and wisdom
This is Why I love Dave. He fiercely stands up for anyone experiencing abuse. Well done Dave!
I wish all the people that say Dave is awful would listen to this call.
Thank you for helping this lady. It's not just financial, it's also self esteem that has been battered. Glad your going after this bully.
he's helping her by giving her financial advice from one of his "pros" in her area but she needs to pay a lawyer and find a place and move and there's daycare and school I'm sure for kids and lots of other costs and things to think about. It's not easy.
That next time he pops up could be to do her harm…. Absolutely call the police and ensure you have you 2A ready to defend yourself and your kids
Gosh I love Dave. I wish I had a father like him growing up. Even so, I am grateful for my Heavenly Father 💗
Dave, you are an exceptional human being! I've learned so much from listening to you over the years.
I have been a victim of domestic violence. Ended up with a broken arm. Threw his tail in jail. Very lucky for me, I was a long haul trucker so I had a decent income. Thank you Dave for dealing with scum bag husband and letting this lady know how to fight. If she goes back to court she need to look at the judge or the podium and NOT him. She will be okay. You are a champ Dave for putting a team together for her. God Bless You.
I love how they always respond to these calls and give them as much support as they need.
I'm so glad you guys are helping her. It's best that she move ASAP. It's best that Mr. Wonderful doesn't have any idea where she Lives.
That's hard to do now. But she could get into a building with a security door and neighbors
Depends on how much he's stalking her, which, I'd wager, is more often than she's seen him doing it.
Great call! I wish so many more people, women and/or men in these situations, knew this information and, too, had folks in their corners. So many people feel hopeless. Thank you, Dave!
I had a boyfriend once who told me how lucky I was that he loved me because noone else would... luckily my dad had already taught me that I'm the best so I absolutely dropped that guy instantly. Thankfully I found one who is manly and protective as well as supportive, and we've been married for 12 years, this man can be mad, but he never so much as slams a door in anger.
And if you even see his car parked near by take a picture and call the police. Record it everytime he crosses the line. EVERYTIME!
Dave thanks for helping this mom. 🥰🙏
God bless you, Dave and your team! The world needs way more organizations like yours!
Restraining order means nothing
Didnt work for my neighbors wife i told her to buy a shotgun she didnt so now he is in jail she is dead kids with granny she really needed the judge in per pocket not at the court house
And after they get out of jail, the judge gives them joint custody of the children with his choice of visitation. This situation hangs over your head like a dark cloud till the children are adults. You CAN transfer the children with the help of the police. That is truly safest for the children.
Exactly too many women with restraining orders have been killed/harmed by their abuser you have to LEAVE go incognito
@@michellejennings3232 he never getting out life without parole she needed a gun
Dave is a true Prince taking care of this abused mother.
I'm proud of them for helping her!
I’ve been there and it is the most terrifying thing a person can experience. I pray her she and her babies will be ok.
Thank you Dave For helping this woman and her children.
This is when Dave is at his best!
“Why did you hesitate?”
Such a powerful question!!!
These are the types of calls where Dave shines!
Dave, you are awesome!! You gave her a lifeline; she'll be ok.
You should be calling the police to create a record of him being there. Otherwise it is all your word against his.
Also don’t tell him you’ll “put him where he can’t breathe” because then you will be the one in trouble.
This deadbeat dad is gonna feel like the Red Sea has crashed down on his head when the Dave Ramsey Express rolls into town. I pray that the lady and children are fully protected from this abusive spouse throughout this process. Also that the judicial system isn't another ordeal that she has to endure. She has children to raise and a broken home to mend.
You can tell Dave is more interested in helping her get away from her husband than with debt. Great advice!
Sending this lady some strength and love!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you for helping this lady and her kids!
This guy Dave really feels for domestic abused women.
It's stuff like this I really appreciate dave for. You do great work. You focused on the real problem. As a person who's had a lot of traumatic events... how you handled that was great. Especially making her repeat and encouraging her to take care of herself. She needs to hear these things.
I know from experience that when you're coming out of that situation, you have tunnel vision. You are so focused on just surviving. You don't focus on thriving. You're just focused on getting yourself out and consequences be darned. It's a crappy situation. Btw. She's likely hiding something. Don't know what, but if she's been in that abusive household for that long of time. You learn to hide. To survive. It might not be huge or substantially impactful. It's most likely not bad. But she's likely hiding something. It's probably been beat into her to do it. Depends on how free she feels after the restraining order. She's either hiding or she's in the firehose of emotional reaction stage where she ain't afraid to say anything.
I know I pick on dave for some things like his view on credit cards. But it's all nuanced stuff. Overall I think he helps a lot of people & this imo I'd a good example of that.
I wish anybody gave me even a quarter of the help that she's getting.
I'm definitely living on hardcore mode.
I just love Dave Ramsey. What a good man. He just picks up on everything and he tells it as it is.
I made it when he said I wouldn’t. And, married a wonderful man 20 years ago.
There are provisions to break a lease at no cost in domestic violence situations
Good Job Uncle Dave 😊👍
YOU WILL BE OK SARAH! STAY STRONG!
God Bless Dave and his team!!
Uncle Dave give us a lot of strength ❤
Years ago the taxman called it "injured spouse" when dealing with the IRS ...
I love how compassionate Dave can be❤🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Kids are a blessing regardless of what kind of shit hole you have them with. That goes both ways!
I didn't hear you say that you're divorced if you aren't you need to be. Get an attorney and get him to pay this money back and get this child support going. This is awful how he's treated you. He is a loser.
Yes, he is a loser. So is she. She picked a loser and had kids knowing how he was. There is 0% chance she didn't learn his true nature before kids came around.
she started it but it's slow she said. He talked over her a few times but the guy doesn't sound like he'll pay either
Mr. Ramsey, between you and my pastor, who Jesus has me today, you have truly shown me the path through pure sanctification. I used to firmly believe in "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mentality. Now I believe in your example as a godly man.
THIS IS A PASTOR FOLKS, NOT A FINANCIAL ADVISOR!
Great call and help by Dave.
I litterally love this man! Dave you are the best!
Loved every part of Dave's response. I would add one other precaution: make sure Mr. Scumbag doesn't try to "pop up" at the kids' school, either. I'd be very edgy that he might grab them and do something horrible. The kids go NOWHERE without Mom or a trusted adult.
Thank you, Mr. Dave Ramsey. True christinanity!
I used to love that line in my check register I would draw to put the paycheck up to before the checks were written . It wasn't used all the time but there were times.
Dave Ramsey show is AMAZING! ❤
Dave I love you on this call. I only wish everyone could get the tiger in her corner like this woman and her family are going to get.