The dark magic of communication - How we manipulate others | Christopher Cummings | TEDxNTU

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  • @minela227
    @minela227 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +778

    it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the forbidden psychology ebook called the manipulation enigma

    • @michaelblag
      @michaelblag หลายเดือนก่อน

      Seeing how much people have praised this book recently, I'm hopeful it will help me with my intentions

    • @siddhantsaha6767
      @siddhantsaha6767 หลายเดือนก่อน

      From where to get one??

    • @mikeruchington4882
      @mikeruchington4882 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you write a story for me please about this book but in a medieval tone. it would convince me to buy the book.

    • @FawazIddris
      @FawazIddris 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@michaelblagiBook 👌🏾

  • @sandeepkamboj8461
    @sandeepkamboj8461 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +474

    Any one of 2024

  • @hendrixtarantado2114
    @hendrixtarantado2114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    Ive always been fascinated with people who knows how to talk their way in or out of any situation. When u already know they're lying but still convinced u to believe anyways. Like they know what to say to get the reaction they want. Its all mind games i guess.😐👍✌️🙏

    • @AlexCass1515
      @AlexCass1515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I often end up surprising myself when I am successful. I recently got a message from my school telling me I had to take a 12-month break cause my GPA wasn't very good but that I could appeal it. I knew that if I had a meeting over my computer or over email I wasn't going to be able to make a good case but I knew that if I could get an in-person meeting, I would be able to use my charm and be successful. I could tell that she was eating up every single word I was saying and I did mean some of it but I embellished it unbelievably to what she would've most likely wanted to hear, I could just feel her buying my story as time passed, I left her office with the biggest smile on my face as I knew I killed it. I got my letter or reinstatement a couple days ago.

    • @noompsieOG
      @noompsieOG ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m fascinated by the people who are so susceptible to being manipulated so easily , even when it’s blatantly obvious to them

    • @B.P._
      @B.P._ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noompsieOGIt’s called propaganda and it was legalized under the US population during the Obama administration.

    • @jaquicx9500
      @jaquicx9500 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with both of yall. I wonder what others think of this moral scenario: what if you know someone better than they know themselves; is it wrong to manipulate them into getting what they want?

    • @sayhitodevil9781
      @sayhitodevil9781 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@AlexCass1515that's the skill I want men😢

  • @melmac3464
    @melmac3464 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    If you want to learn great ways of communication watch The Wizard of Words. He's a communication genius. And his videos are easily understood and to the point. I can't believe how amazing of a communicator I have become. ❤ This video did nothing but confuse me. Lol

  • @williamcompitello2302
    @williamcompitello2302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Treating ultimatums as universal truths also works.
    "I ALWAYS do this and NOBODY will EVER be PERFECT at it!"
    Versus this,
    "I usually do this and not many will reach my level at it."

  • @lowellconnell
    @lowellconnell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Well spoken.
    We are bombarded with hate propaganda and fear inducing tactics on an hourly basis, it is constantly communicated to us and it corrodes or 'affects' perspective.

    • @zes7215
      @zes7215 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wrg, not fear inducing, no fear etc for such or anyx

    • @NighthawkX02
      @NighthawkX02 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Think about music, what it does to us if we consume the wrong music

    • @mattziegler2969
      @mattziegler2969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Name a single instance when hate was deceminated through Official Establishment Tactics. I won't ask you back up your claim about "hourly bombardment" just name one instance in which hate was given an official platform.

    • @lowellconnell
      @lowellconnell 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mattziegler2969 I'm going to take a stab in the dark and guess you're not a Muslim? It may be subtle, it may be suggestive, you may not perceive it as hateful, but in essence, it's there.
      I only hope you take off the blinkers and question the authority which tells you it knows what's in your best interest, better than you do yourself.

    • @mattziegler2969
      @mattziegler2969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lowellconnell I'm not a Muslim; I am an Atheist. And all I'm asking for is a single example of a time when Racial Hatred was given an official platform. I don't want to hear about a bunch of stuff that I'm too blind to notice. I want you to describe what I'm too blind to see, specifically

  • @lemisfameica6171
    @lemisfameica6171 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +449

    Anyone from Instagram 😂

    • @sneh9409
      @sneh9409 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Lol I love people like you

    • @PalakPatidar-g5v
      @PalakPatidar-g5v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yaaa i got this on insta only 😂😂

    • @AllINONE-lw6cp
      @AllINONE-lw6cp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We're here😂

    • @iqranadeem8549
      @iqranadeem8549 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

    • @kayenattabassum5966
      @kayenattabassum5966 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi there 👋🏻

  • @mutahi63
    @mutahi63 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Best explanation on how to communicate complex diseases like Mad Cow Disease. Will use this in my classes.

  • @HMSkillBuilders
    @HMSkillBuilders 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    magnitude and probability...affects generally are primal emotions ...fear, happy, sad, mad, glad spectrum

  • @acitizen9824
    @acitizen9824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Excellent presentation, I could not have put it into better words. It is very hard to express this to others sometimes, and you have rolled it up beautifully. Bravo!

  • @carlosmdemu4840
    @carlosmdemu4840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I don't know what was looking for and come across with such mindful presentation. Thank you for the lesson

  • @jacky663
    @jacky663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was totally wring in this first test. I named it exactly the other way around

  • @hahahahdbdhds6308
    @hahahahdbdhds6308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I listen to this and took nothing away

  • @joshuamokaya4049
    @joshuamokaya4049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Wow i like this guy he has opened my eyes to trancend beyond limitless as a manipulator....wow wow wow...knowledge in power.....weapon

    • @NeyuhB123
      @NeyuhB123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same way. Just not so happy about the barriers caused by fear to in the minds of generations of people. Not so happy about ASD.

  • @ellemaio8186
    @ellemaio8186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought I would actually learn something I can use... obviously in a good way.

  • @TheSquidNinja
    @TheSquidNinja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A loooot of people need to learn about risk assessment right now.

  • @MasterMonkMan
    @MasterMonkMan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is very interesting. All successful artists in the modern world do this

  • @theunfair8925
    @theunfair8925 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    *Manipulation intensifies*

  • @TheSmartAsz
    @TheSmartAsz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So relevant to society today!

  • @tiaturnbullchampionscoachi9587
    @tiaturnbullchampionscoachi9587 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How is it possible that this had 34,000 views and only 17 comments? Maybe because when I first started watching I thought it was going to be amazing I love communication and this guy is really good looking. He was off to a good start but the end didn't pack a punch that I would have liked. I guess the message is that we should fear some things more and fear other things less and the label we give them causes us to fear more or less? I wish there could have been more examples of how language is used to manipulate us such as the marketing of Edward Bernaise etc.. I would have liked to learn more about what it is, how to recognize language when ot is being used to manipulate and what we can do about it. I mean he is in the medical industry right? That industry uses advertising to get people to pay for pharmaceuticals, maybe we'll hear some shocking medical truth from Mr. Cummins once he is no longer getting the paycheck? Great presentation and speaker style, a bit of news and not much deep content.

  • @toluwanimibankole2345
    @toluwanimibankole2345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Set the speed to 1.5x

  • @sk_____007
    @sk_____007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this was the best video I have ever watched on TH-cam

  • @d159inu
    @d159inu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bible says magic, witchcraft, sorcery, is usurping the Lords will. Lying and manipulating others is an example of this.

    • @Rivaldomphela
      @Rivaldomphela 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly what I was thinking when watching this video....this is purely wrong infront of GOD

  • @candysummer4005
    @candysummer4005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I thought the talk was very well presented and interesting.

  • @RashviRawat9149
    @RashviRawat9149 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Anyone from Instagram 😅?

  • @Awakened133
    @Awakened133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Georgetown knows how to do that. For sure

  • @120upsc
    @120upsc ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Doctors are one of the examples.

  • @Dehuu_music
    @Dehuu_music 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    from communication to biology

  • @jjones22
    @jjones22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think he's telling us to communicate in understandable language

  • @kimberleyjordan3462
    @kimberleyjordan3462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very good approach, Thank you professor Omar for this reflection,
    Kimberley

  • @arvindchitoor9007
    @arvindchitoor9007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Proof. It's a blast of knowledge. 😊❤ This will help someone definitely who are in sales, business, Health care,etc. 😊

  • @benwil1715
    @benwil1715 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "communication breakdown.....it's always the same".........The Zeppelin!!

  • @realityrealized8370
    @realityrealized8370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Extremely important and relevant information and great presentation good sir very well communicated.
    Thank you.

  • @rajibbhaskar.fluency
    @rajibbhaskar.fluency 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    excellent

  • @cpr3296
    @cpr3296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Anyone after reels?

  • @SunnyLao-o9t
    @SunnyLao-o9t หลายเดือนก่อน

    Affect & effect

  • @143prettycool
    @143prettycool 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Explained the process well. But where this can be viewed by common people.

  • @yerielsantosrodriguez9592
    @yerielsantosrodriguez9592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is priceless.

  • @moderndaythinker3897
    @moderndaythinker3897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He needs to write a book!

  • @302_abhranil5
    @302_abhranil5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even the cameraman was scared then he was like "boo"

  • @brinellekaduda
    @brinellekaduda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    very informative and interesting

  • @koyalbasuu
    @koyalbasuu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    amazing!!

  • @urbanwarchief
    @urbanwarchief 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like to believe bards had the power of communication, they had a song that riled up the party they were leading.

  • @yunnan9109
    @yunnan9109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That test works only on people who are from countries that use Latin alphabets. The shapes shown correlate with how the words are spelled. Nothing to do with how it sounds. Both Kikki and Boba are spelled respectively with K and B. Therefore people in the audience associated the shapes of the letters with the shapes of the shapes. K is spiky and B is round. Try that in Asia and you'll see different results.

    • @guydan
      @guydan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yun Nan I went off of how they sounded and consequently felt to me.

    • @KamranKhan-kg8ed
      @KamranKhan-kg8ed 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      When the words are said to you, you don't think of the image of the alphabets immediately but you can name the shapes.

    • @factswala2852
      @factswala2852 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am from asia nd it works on me

    • @yathishb7954
      @yathishb7954 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baba is South Korean drink ,famous in all over the Asia, so it works on them

  • @christopherburton322
    @christopherburton322 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds like everything he’s talking about related to the fearmongering and the psychological warfare that we’ve been thur for the last 3 years.

  • @spirkspirk5093
    @spirkspirk5093 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BOBA has more curves in the written letters. Key key has more sharp points for a visual thing.

  • @abidhussain7190
    @abidhussain7190 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you. You were well prepared and meaningful

  • @yerielsantosrodriguez9592
    @yerielsantosrodriguez9592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He looks excited; I can see it. 🤨

  • @eternity2913
    @eternity2913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very great message and moreover magnificent execution and presentation😀

  • @orly360
    @orly360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ok when he screamed he got me. Headphones 💀

  • @ActorModelParag
    @ActorModelParag 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou.

  • @HelLo-dl4ne
    @HelLo-dl4ne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    17:47 well.. he must be living the life right now with the corona sh*t.

    • @gustavodiaz1570
      @gustavodiaz1570 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was great, thanks, I been tryin to find out about "reprogramme your mind" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Giyoe Fonogan Builder - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.

  • @pihubhatnagar790
    @pihubhatnagar790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Am I the only one who actually called Boba Kiki n Kiki Boba??

    • @lexie23ful
      @lexie23ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!!!

    • @amaljoaby
      @amaljoaby ปีที่แล้ว

      Majority hits

    • @MrRaj7799
      @MrRaj7799 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes you are the only one

    • @juleshdas3863
      @juleshdas3863 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was, but then i changed my mind 😂😂😂

  • @kidsbud9148
    @kidsbud9148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Who has come from instagram 😊

  • @JBrown-nj9zv
    @JBrown-nj9zv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I named the shapes opposite

    • @pihubhatnagar790
      @pihubhatnagar790 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly n I was like, how did everyone else actually said the same thing!!!!!

  • @o0o-jd-o0o95
    @o0o-jd-o0o95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I definitely picked the same as well Kiki sounds like a name that's got sharp points whereas boba sounds rounded off EDIT: I also stopped the video immediately after he said which is which before he went on to explain why and I find that kind of funny now haha because that was my exact train of thought

  • @muskduh
    @muskduh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks for the video!

  • @AhmedALI-yd5wn
    @AhmedALI-yd5wn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You got me start with Kiki and babo as it looks like bobbling figure. Got me. Lool

  • @ziyarizvi4567
    @ziyarizvi4567 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There should be English subtitles for better understanding.....

  • @wolfievh6035
    @wolfievh6035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t really understand what he is trying to explain with all these examples, can someone explain?

  • @BrabimAdhikari-hh2op
    @BrabimAdhikari-hh2op 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Came up witWhole new perspective 😮

  • @shrexyeverafter
    @shrexyeverafter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the definition of religion

  • @Seraphimsdevotee
    @Seraphimsdevotee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trust lord

  • @vibratehigher2441
    @vibratehigher2441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @jiangel4980
    @jiangel4980 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Where is ted?

  • @mightymime6489
    @mightymime6489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I gave the shapes personaluty and got the names opposite of what he thought.

    • @ajbrown8075
      @ajbrown8075 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe that was the whole point of the talk...

  • @jackaltun8632
    @jackaltun8632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Manipulation
    It wont let me go.
    Heywire ,pliers.

    • @prakashreddy6024
      @prakashreddy6024 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the time healing process

    • @143prettycool
      @143prettycool 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How they get information to do this

  • @cpr3296
    @cpr3296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Could anyone give the summary of this conversation?

    • @pierrec3531
      @pierrec3531 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

  • @fa6fa6f36
    @fa6fa6f36 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So we get bossesed about someone because we fear loosing him, we have childhood lack of acceptance

  • @omar_47maifa88
    @omar_47maifa88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m from instagram

  • @good__enough
    @good__enough 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay, but ... what I wanna know is how to recognize when someone is manipulating me. How do you recognize manipulation Right Away?

    • @chicolico9096
      @chicolico9096 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Government is doing this when we speak....

    • @143prettycool
      @143prettycool 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chicolico9096 how can we see this in public

  • @shikherkanodia533
    @shikherkanodia533 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing

  • @DucNguyen-sd4mn
    @DucNguyen-sd4mn ปีที่แล้ว

    I find myself confused of what the message of this video is so I want to write it down in case I'm wrong so people can correct me. It is about manipulating people using the method of, let's say, hot and cold, which refers to a pattern of behavior where one alternates between warm, engaging behavior and distant, disinterested behavior?

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting 🌎

  • @dexteremrit3130
    @dexteremrit3130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a bit concerned over what many deep an intelligent pres!

  • @claravoyant4061
    @claravoyant4061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some people are magical. Most commutation is non verbal . As a Norse and last of the pagan Roma Lithuanian pagan . And PR its second nature to me

  • @benwil1715
    @benwil1715 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ..our ossicles!!...

  • @connormacleod6419
    @connormacleod6419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just giving up the whole game here

  • @SunnyLao-o9t
    @SunnyLao-o9t หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fear of the unknown

  • @flopfun6115
    @flopfun6115 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its completely revovling around health as he's a health specialist. You wont get what ur looking for in this video

  • @Isaiah-ft5nx
    @Isaiah-ft5nx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Imagine if the public understood this simple concept.... Would the bug even exist?

  • @mdrakibhasan3128
    @mdrakibhasan3128 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Anyone here in 2024

  • @hateliedecieve
    @hateliedecieve 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Using Robert Plutchik's Wheel of Emotions without giving him credit...

  • @r.i.p.4485
    @r.i.p.4485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's called spelling for a reason. Wink Wink, Hint Hint.

    • @ony583
      @ony583 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll cast a spell on you.

  • @AURA_XT
    @AURA_XT ปีที่แล้ว

    "Aa fect"
    I know you can hear this, you watched the video, you know how it sounds

  • @samairamaheshwari9071
    @samairamaheshwari9071 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    anyone here from Instagram??

  • @Sven_Ark
    @Sven_Ark 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even the camera man flinched 😅

  • @ThomasCusumano
    @ThomasCusumano ปีที่แล้ว

    Right?

  • @elenekobelashvili678
    @elenekobelashvili678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    when he started to talk ab showing up in my clothet at 3 in the morning, was terrifying cause surly he's good speaker but he's face kinds creeps me out, little bit scary. handsome but scary )

  • @siglawooify
    @siglawooify 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this. But i am almost done with that mountain top cabin stacked with unperishable food

  • @CyrilAlagwu
    @CyrilAlagwu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I believe the title of this video manipulated a large percentage of viewers.

  • @cuneytbozok
    @cuneytbozok 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Silivri" ile korkutulan biz, tanıdık geldi.

    • @djrobbie7717
      @djrobbie7717 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kalabalık akvaryumlardan çıkarsan, silivriyi unutucak hale gelebilirsin.

  • @nothing80400
    @nothing80400 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The " rights of Englishmen " are the perceived traditional rights FOR ALL THAT WANT TO EVOLVE IN OPENED LEVEL OF DEVELOPMENT of English subjects and later English speaking subjects of the AMERICANS THAT WANT MORE THAN ONLY BASSIC COMMUNITY .

  • @staceynorton8297
    @staceynorton8297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My answer would have been I don’t know, to the shape because I didn’t

  • @jasonrivera6842
    @jasonrivera6842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Paper cuts hurt

  • @ムンクミン
    @ムンクミン ปีที่แล้ว

    okay

  • @לוחמתאשתהאל
    @לוחמתאשתהאל 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is what witches use to manipulating the mind

  • @yayita2024-n5c
    @yayita2024-n5c 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For example: plan de mia

  • @user-hf2bp3qq8w
    @user-hf2bp3qq8w 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant ...!

  • @SoniaColonGuilfuchi
    @SoniaColonGuilfuchi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am beside myself and interested in why I chose differently on instant sight. I associated Boba with the word "Pow" or "Bam" inside and thought Boba. The Kiki seems groovy like the 70's. I felt this a cool name for then. what does it mean to be different here? lol..okay listening to the rest now.