A Gaslighting Primer - what is it, what does it sound like, how do you deal with it.

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  • @lrogers25
    @lrogers25 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    So sorry to hear the news of her passing. She was non-judgmental and supportive. Her words opened my eyes! RIP.

    • @c.p.8040
      @c.p.8040 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm literally holding back tears bcI just discovered her videos today bc of things I'm going through. The first video I listened to she had the breathing tube, but was able to speak fairly well. But the next she seemed to not be doing so well, which led me to worry. So I looked her up to find the announcement on the relationship help site. It's very sad
      We need more people like her with this knowledge to help make the world a better place. 😢😢

    • @rhondar828
      @rhondar828 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh man, I tuned into this one marked "2 months ago" thinking she had gotten better😢
      Prayers for her family and friends and all the viewers who will miss her terribly😢🙏🏻

  • @pam8056
    @pam8056 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    She was focused on helping people up to the end. Her impact will continue. I appreciate her help and guidance and will never forget her.

  • @camey4844
    @camey4844 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So saddened to hear about her passing. I found her amazing channel just a few months ago and subscribed to it. RIP dear Dr Shaler

  • @suzukigirlis1236
    @suzukigirlis1236 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I am so sorry and sadden to hear that Dr. Shaler passed away. I was a client of Dr. Shalers and will miss her deeply. My deepest condolences to her family. My thoughts and prayers are with them at this difficult time.

  • @erin.wilson
    @erin.wilson 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sorry to read the sad news in the comments about Dr. Shaler's passing. I was just checking in to catch up on videos I missed and thought it was strange she hadn't posted for many months. What an incredible person, she shared such valueable insights with us. Missing her ❤

  • @fifisquirrel4638
    @fifisquirrel4638 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    So saddened to hear that dear Dr Shaler has passed.....she helped me more than words can say.....such a beautiful lady...i will never forget you xx ❤️

  • @single_dad
    @single_dad 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Can't believe she's gone. Seriously. She was the only one that really articulated it for us and put it into perspective. I constantly found myself nodding yes to what she was describing. NOBODY is as good as her and bow she is gone. I am sorry for her loved ones and I will keep her family in my prayers.
    I'm thankful I have these videos to fall back on, but there is nobody as good as her 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @beachbliss9366
    @beachbliss9366 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Good to see you’re feeling better!! 🌺

  • @ashatan4554
    @ashatan4554 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I find myself missing Dr. Shaler and the very important work that she did. I never got the chance to have a one on one session with her but attended a few AMA sessions. Boy could I use her help right now! Sending love to her family and anyone else missing this wonderful woman 💕

  • @TracyAMalone
    @TracyAMalone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Rest In Peace my Friend. I already miss you - April 2, 2024 - I am sure the angels are welcoming you. ♥

    • @val6189
      @val6189 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Your work has changed so many lives. Forever grateful for your wisdom ❤ RIP

    • @jiokenna
      @jiokenna 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Shes dead?

    • @TracyAMalone
      @TracyAMalone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jiokenna yes since April

    • @Barryalejandro_288
      @Barryalejandro_288 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TracyAMalonehi there

  • @v.j.morrison1784
    @v.j.morrison1784 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just found Dr. Shaler's channel today June 23rd, 2024. This precious lady spoke direct from her heart. Her gentleness assured me it was okay to "not" be taken advantage of by anyone including my own children. I look forward to seeing Dr. Shaler in Heaven. May everyone here be comforted as you grieve her loss and accept God's perfect peace today. John 3:16 Shalom

  • @natashafranko4951
    @natashafranko4951 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much , this was very interesting and helpful.
    I have only found Dr.Shalers site today which has so much information in it, which I look forward to watching and listening too more.
    I am very sorry to see that Dr.Shaler has sadly passed away . I would just like to send my deepest sympathy to her family and friends whereever they are and that they obviously have a family member who they will always be very proud of and even with her sad passing will continue to help others cope with and gain a deeper understanding of personal life problems with her wise words. What a wonderful legacy she leaves behind . She will always be remembered 🙏🕊️😔

  • @MelanieWork-o3z
    @MelanieWork-o3z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello You look so nice. You have helped me so much!! Thankyou my husband for 41 years and a 38 year old daughter. You saved me from any further abuse. My boundaries were non existing. I know what all happened in the past and now I understand what is going on. I have a name for what's going on, etc.

  • @TrueSelfWalkAway
    @TrueSelfWalkAway 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just found her today. Bless her. May her spirit continue to assist those of us open to learn. Thank you.

  • @spiritedwoman5895
    @spiritedwoman5895 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sorry to hear of her passing. I just recently found her site and she has helped me so much.

  • @tamarazwinak
    @tamarazwinak 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For people who don't know how to respond, your suggestions are very helpful. Your validating comments are nourishing.

  • @antonioespinoza5134
    @antonioespinoza5134 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rest in peace. She helped me so much in my journey

  • @1Marflowa
    @1Marflowa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ow nooo , I just read she passed a way. Dear beautiful soul, may you be at a beautiful place. Thank you for helping the people

  • @lilithjesus7718
    @lilithjesus7718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So well put, nuanced and intelligent. Thank you muchly

  • @user-if1in3he2k
    @user-if1in3he2k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RIP thank you doctor for helping me in my difficult marriage.

  • @Joet1bp
    @Joet1bp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤
    Rest in peace dear friend
    You always had a big heart and helping people was what you lived for .
    Thanks to your videos , your help will never end .
    ❤❤❤❤
    Thank you

  • @tamru2248
    @tamru2248 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am happy see you so healthy

  • @mumwifechaoticlife
    @mumwifechaoticlife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rest in paradise queen ❤

  • @andreaboyd3942
    @andreaboyd3942 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am at the bit that where I can see completely through him, but yet can't break away..

  • @SeekingSikhiStories
    @SeekingSikhiStories 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be strong everyone 💪🏼✌🏼💜🙏🏼

  • @stephanied9629
    @stephanied9629 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr Shaler, your videos are excellent, I binge watch as many as I can when I have the time. Have you done a video on what to do when you are truly stuck living with the Hijackal? In my case it’s financial, lack of vehicle and we live way out in the country, have no family or friend support and have chronic health issues that are affecting how much I can work.

  • @denisebissell5875
    @denisebissell5875 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m going through hell dealing with adult child who is a narcissist who is now divorced and has the 3 grands. She is putting the kids in danger and I am decided what to do.

  • @denise0777
    @denise0777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Old video, but great! I hope you are well Dr. Shaler?! Couldn't get through to you via email. I pray for you often.

  • @attitude4989
    @attitude4989 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what are the elements of EMOTIONAL NUTRITION & what are the 10 signs that shows we are suffering from EMOTIONAL MALNUTRITION

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Dr. Shaler

  • @evax0x0x0
    @evax0x0x0 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is so sad that Dr. Shaler passed away. I am sure she is in heaven now. Her explanations were incredibly brilliant, she helped me so much. She changed the lives of so many people. I wish she was still with us, she was such a gift to the humanity. Her teachings are so insightful and most amazing. Her heart is most pure and full of love. May she rest in peace with angels on the other side.

  • @sunshine-db2zm
    @sunshine-db2zm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my ..what happened?

  • @AngelRoseHeaven
    @AngelRoseHeaven 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Following

  • @jamespurcell8299
    @jamespurcell8299 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you believe Jesus Christ as Lord and savior and that he came 2000 years ago to save sinners and get baptized and repent. God bless.

    • @lmf458
      @lmf458 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong channel. Not a religious site

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe understand that it is your amygdala running your emotionally based comment…

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theraptureisnearbelieveinj448 I’m not disputing that Jesus was a historical figure.
      Unfortunately many religions, including Christianity, are hijacked by fear (rarely live out of love) and use that fear based message (hell, hell, pain, suffering, hell) to try to control, convince, dominate, others. Without the tools of fear (whatever ideology, dogmatic, fear based system) you can’t control others as readily.
      I respect your need to believe whatever paradigm you need, about Jesus…but make sure it’s thoroughly vetted for truth, and not merely conditioning from fear based programs (that often start in childhood).
      Lastly, how much of a “sacrifice”, or love, is something, if you already know the outcome? Per most Christians, god is omniscient…so wouldn’t Jesus have the information, that he would be risen, fine, and that the actions were mostly theatrical for humans to “get it”?
      If god is all knowing, powerful, then he didn’t face the fear of uncertainty, not knowing, like humans are faced with (& create religion to hang onto)…even the projections of humans about the story of the pain of the cross, could’ve been anesthetized by god’s all powerful reach.
      Too many human influences, limitations, on many religious stories.
      I absolutely believe in something divine, but it isn’t in a covert fear based religion, it’s in a knowing, of the completeness of a love so immense, no words can describe it. A peace that passes all understanding & no fear. This is what I’ve experienced

  • @JT0007
    @JT0007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop saying hijackal.. 🫡🇺🇸🦅

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do you understand why she does that? Maybe ask a question, before trying to tell someone what to do.
      Also…your message is late. She passed sway April 3

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Dr. Shaler