CALLING MY DAD FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 10 YEARS | James Kweisi

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    I called/talked to my dad for the first time in 10 years. We got to say so many things that needed to be said but more importantly got to let go of the pain in our hearts. I love you all and encourage you to go out and rekindle the love of someone that has neglected you, when you're ready!
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  • @Cicilikechanel
    @Cicilikechanel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3256

    I love how much his dad told him how he's proud

  • @yudahel9821
    @yudahel9821 7 ปีที่แล้ว +821

    No matter if you're gay, straight, tall, or short there's nothing like a father telling his son he's proud of him. We all love our Daddy.

    • @taryn4669
      @taryn4669 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yudah El not me sorry

    • @blackthugga4330
      @blackthugga4330 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yudah El I know right

    • @kennedyhernandez-pineda90
      @kennedyhernandez-pineda90 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nope

    • @DAVONTVREACTS
      @DAVONTVREACTS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yudah El Hey! I'm New to youtube and just starting up my channel. Please take the time to checkout my "Nicki Minaj Los Angeles Awards Inspired Makeup" video be sure to subscribe (:
      - xo

    • @minimumshit7619
      @minimumshit7619 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yudah El i hate he beated me out and talk about sexual things

  • @fluffyavocado8154
    @fluffyavocado8154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1460

    No Im your son... that broke me

  • @laminediallo9014
    @laminediallo9014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I could never do this. I applaud him 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @jungkookderpface4318
    @jungkookderpface4318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1994

    I cried and I dont even know who he is 😭😭.

  • @annabelspresence2443
    @annabelspresence2443 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1589

    I can't stop crying. I have no relationship with my Dad and Mum. I was raised by my grandma but she died recently. I don't know where to start from. I feel so alone most of the time

    • @vickyw1842
      @vickyw1842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Annie Nova I support you

    • @sef3134
      @sef3134 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Try to talk to ur parents again and be strong

    • @obnoxious3653
      @obnoxious3653 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Youssef El It must be really hard for her to talk to her parents again

    • @mariahjeanheistand2431
      @mariahjeanheistand2431 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope the best 4 you

    • @depressedpleasehelp9087
      @depressedpleasehelp9087 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Annie Nova hey we can talk?

  • @QUEENfknJASS
    @QUEENfknJASS 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    This made me want to leave work, get my baby from daycare and love all on him and tell him MOMMY LOVE YOU BABY!!!!!! 😢😢 this video was very touching, it broke and put back together my whole entire heart! God bless you James you are A M A Z I N G

  • @vincentmalla4370
    @vincentmalla4370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    My father leaves me and my mother for almost 14 years , after that my mother went to america to find a job . And i live with my grandpa and he passed away 4 years ago and now i live alone , and i am jealous to all of my friend that have a Complete family .
    But remember God still care about me and always be by my side .
    Until now i still hoping my dad to come home.

  • @al3xask8
    @al3xask8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Omg I love this. I know nobody will see this but I never met my dad or seen him or knew his name nothing for 16 years. One day I was scrolling on my facebook and saw a weird ass comment saying "beautiful daughter" and I was like who tf is this creep so I blocked him. Then one day I stumbled across that same picture and the comment was still there and I was like wait... So I unblocked him and clicked to message him and it was BLOWN up by him. He stated my birthday my full name everything and I was crying my eyes out at like 2 am. There's so much more to the story but I feel this literally, my heart is just hurting but filled with love. We love you jamessssss💝💝💝💝
    Edited: Thanks so much everyone for all the likes and replies and subs!! Means the world to me. I will do a storytime on this real soon!! Thanks everyone so much❤ James is so lucky to have supporters like you.

    • @hananabdo2989
      @hananabdo2989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Alexa can u doa a story time... I’m really interested

    • @al3xask8
      @al3xask8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hanan Abdo omg!!! I will. Ive always wanted to start TH-cam but been so scared. You asking me this honestly fills my heart with joy. I definitely will!!! Thank you so much!!❤

    • @hananabdo2989
      @hananabdo2989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Alexa omggg I’m so happy that u replied can’t wait till u upload ur first video❤️

    • @al3xask8
      @al3xask8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hanan Abdo girl im so happy you want me to make a video!! Thank you so much!!!❤❤

    • @hananabdo2989
      @hananabdo2989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alexa I done subscribed already❤️ and can’t wait till u come out with ur first vid definitely going to support 😁

  • @SarynAndersonSarynWasNOTHere
    @SarynAndersonSarynWasNOTHere 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1505

    I think my heart just broke omg.

    • @iamJamessss
      @iamJamessss  7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      thanks for watching!

    • @haleypowell1856
      @haleypowell1856 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      James Butler this made me cry😥❤

    • @thebestintheworld8300
      @thebestintheworld8300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saryn Anderson iu

    • @delaneyiddings8026
      @delaneyiddings8026 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Saryn Anderson same

    • @DAVONTVREACTS
      @DAVONTVREACTS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saryn Anderson Hey! I'm New to youtube and just starting up my channel. Please take the time to checkout my "Nicki Minaj Los Angeles Awards Inspired Makeup" video be sure to subscribe (:
      - xo

  • @zappersack792
    @zappersack792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    Glad he called him.
    Glad his dad is proud of him.
    Glad there is still love there
    Glad I watched this video 👌👌👌👌.

    • @Vromvnn
      @Vromvnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Glad he forgived him for leaving him

    • @djconnerboii4037
      @djconnerboii4037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad I commented on this comment

    • @Unblasphemy
      @Unblasphemy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad we all said "Glad"

    • @EllaRose-t2y
      @EllaRose-t2y 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      your pfp is a pair of b@IIs now lol

  • @nikoleabarca7397
    @nikoleabarca7397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    "I miss you" ugh that broke me so much you don't understand 😩🤧

  • @WhatAlex
    @WhatAlex 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2045

    can i just say that the beginning was hilarious? "You can't be James Butler, cuz I'M JAMES BUTLER"

    • @alana9078
      @alana9078 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      What Alex "i'm you from the past"

    • @bbemaphiagang6889
      @bbemaphiagang6889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahahaha

    • @dorianbooze3394
      @dorianbooze3394 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What Alex you fried

    • @dippysupreme1309
      @dippysupreme1309 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What Alex that was funny tho but it was so cute

    • @barbaramedina736
      @barbaramedina736 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What Alex lmao I'm dead😂😂😂

  • @jazs2300
    @jazs2300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1451

    As soon as you started crying my heart dropped. This is so beautifully touching.

    • @crystalgarcia7925
      @crystalgarcia7925 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my heart dropped too

    • @IsaulDoesntExist
      @IsaulDoesntExist 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      DominicanForLife my balls dropped

    • @DAVONTVREACTS
      @DAVONTVREACTS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BrownSkinGirl Jazs Hey! I'm New to youtube and just starting up my channel. Please take the time to checkout my "Nicki Minaj Los Angeles Awards Inspired Makeup" video be sure to subscribe (:
      - xo

    • @queenmelissalehman3490
      @queenmelissalehman3490 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BrownSkinGirl Jazs
      Yes girl I get a tear that was so beautiful

    • @Cize17
      @Cize17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      BrownSkinGirl Jazs Damn, shit. I miss my father so much. He died when I was small. I would give anything just to talk to him once. I was in tears the moment he started crying all the way until the end of the video.

  • @ryanlegrand5079
    @ryanlegrand5079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My dad gave me up for adoption, he came back into my life at 12 and ditched me again. I found out later he was grandiosely narcissistic. He literally tried everything in the book to break my spirit before he left that last time. I pray God heals the empty damaged holes in my soul. And if you’re hurting from an absent dad I’m hugging you right now. I love you and we will get through this together❤️

  • @tatihendrix1785
    @tatihendrix1785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Why am i over here crying 😭😭😭

  • @iamJamessss
    @iamJamessss  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1453

    Thank you so much for watching!!! It would mean the world to me if you could share the video. I want to inspire as many people as I can. I thank you for watching and I hope you take away something from it. I love you all to the moon and back! Subscribe if you aren't already xoxo

    • @anitrag34
      @anitrag34 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      James Butler This made me cry so harddddddd I feel like trash because i never bother to ask my dad stuff

    • @sophiax7897
      @sophiax7897 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      James Butler ur soooo brave, omg i know how hard it is i hope ur relationship gets better n better 💙😢💙

    • @jocelynnzapata7777
      @jocelynnzapata7777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i started crying because my dad abandond me when i was 2 and i haven't talk to him for years and I'm 13 now

    • @sophiax7897
      @sophiax7897 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      jocelynn zapata awww God bless u x i hope u get to re build ur relation with ur dad ... really sad how parents can just get up n leave 😑

    • @kalimiller7157
      @kalimiller7157 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      jocelynn zapata Awww that's sad. I hate that people go through this because I know it has to be hard growing up without a dad. My momma's dad died when she was 2. So, she promised herself that she would make her marriage work, that way, we would have a better chance having both parents in our lives. But, I don't know what you go through so I'm not going to pretend I do. What I do know is, if I didn't have my parents I would be devastated and my life would be empty. Anyways, I believe you will be a stronger person because of it, and I'm positive you will have a great life.

  • @AA-qt9ho
    @AA-qt9ho 6 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    lmhoo "This is James Butler, you can't be James Butler because I'm James Butler" 😂😂 I went from laughing to crying so quick

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    Forgiveness is key to everything... 😇

    • @valrose4409
      @valrose4409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What if someone won't forgive you for your own terrible actions? The key and hole don't match my dude

    • @davidxfunny4874
      @davidxfunny4874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stfu

    • @billyrusso9170
      @billyrusso9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So i just forgive nickolas cruz after he shot up a school

    • @jesusistheonlyway2636
      @jesusistheonlyway2636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Y'all can go to hell for saying that god said u should even forgive ur enemy

    • @billyrusso9170
      @billyrusso9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jesusistheonlyway2636 so true

  • @lelakevin2071
    @lelakevin2071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    I can’t stop crying when he said that his his son and that’s when I start crying 😢😢

  • @heaven8797
    @heaven8797 6 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Who else cried 😭 this was sad and happy at the same time.

    • @arianaacevedo733
      @arianaacevedo733 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DolphinClassyFimsTuberTube Dolphins yes I broke down crying 😥😭😢😓

    • @user-np3ww1py3j
      @user-np3ww1py3j 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was bursting in tears

    • @paulocavillo4445
      @paulocavillo4445 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DolphinClassyFimsTuberTube Dolphins sup

    • @madinanoor1162
      @madinanoor1162 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DolphinClassyFimsTuberTube Dolphins meee

  • @karqus9810
    @karqus9810 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1005

    *I wish I could just hear my dad's voice or give him a hug. He passed away 3 years ago from a massive heart attack while driving. The most shocking moment in my life when County Sheriff's knock on the door to tell you. I'm still in shock and this made me weak, man. God Bless you brother.*

    • @audacitygaming3387
      @audacitygaming3387 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      seppuku stay strong brotha💪🏼

    • @zionic1408
      @zionic1408 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      seppuku A̶w̶e̶s̶o̶m̶e̶

    • @portgasdace2534
      @portgasdace2534 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      seppuku my dad passed away 8 years ago when I was 9 and im 16 now he died from a heart attack too

    • @karqus9810
      @karqus9810 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Christian Colon I'm sorry to hear that man. Just keep staying strong and make your father proud. Just never take life for granted cause we can go any time.

    • @karqus9810
      @karqus9810 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ItzJoshy Thanks, I appreciate

  • @ashlyn9102
    @ashlyn9102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I know this is late ,but when he cried I cried like a baby 😭💖

  • @thespontaneoustomato2676
    @thespontaneoustomato2676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Him: "I'm your son"
    Dad: "Oh my God! What's up man"

  • @alana1061
    @alana1061 7 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I cried so much , his dad was so happy

  • @krypto9095
    @krypto9095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2169

    This made me cry

    • @Kejoho17
      @Kejoho17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      krypto9095 me to

    • @auslandertv7719
      @auslandertv7719 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me to

    • @reapertre666
      @reapertre666 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      krypto9095 me to

    • @josuevercetti5x821
      @josuevercetti5x821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      krypto9095 I’m a big fan plz add me on ps4 taperoyster

    • @thawreh5731
      @thawreh5731 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im a big fan of you krypto9095

  • @Davi-ee6hk
    @Davi-ee6hk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I haven't seen or heard from my dad for ten years. And I'm Turing 15 this year. It's anouther year that I feel I'm missing something.

    • @lindaarmy8561
      @lindaarmy8561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh this is sad but no problem I hope that you can see your father 💜

    • @stevesand8845
      @stevesand8845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry bud, that just makes your relationship with your mom stronger

    • @itsactuallyegg
      @itsactuallyegg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom had me at 15 and she doesn’t like my dad, and she won’t let me meet him unfortunately

  • @strwbryfairy5794
    @strwbryfairy5794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Is it just me or that phone looks like a Tv controller?!😂

  • @thenitriahudson175
    @thenitriahudson175 6 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    When he said he was proud of him and he loved him. I frickin cited. Omgggggggggg 😭😭💖💖

  • @princesskid3124
    @princesskid3124 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1764

    “You can’t be James butler bcoz I’m James Butler” 💀

    • @theparrotsbackbabyrylee919
      @theparrotsbackbabyrylee919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hey this ain’t funny but that was lol it’s sooo sad and happy

    • @lagc2259
      @lagc2259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Um more than one person can have the same name ........duh

    • @asukasuzuki8651
      @asukasuzuki8651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      LAGC Nah dip sherlock

    • @KanYhai
      @KanYhai 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣

    • @trublu2312
      @trublu2312 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Princess Kid shade

  • @thoughtswithme6170
    @thoughtswithme6170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    this made me want to call my dad LMAOOO, but then again he knows im alive and we in the same city he just doesn't care LMAOOO woooo. haven't spoken to him in idk when lmaoaoo

    • @avaperez-mesa4880
      @avaperez-mesa4880 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iona's conspiracy ? same thing with my grandfather

  • @LDLeDay
    @LDLeDay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My father has always been in my life, my oldest two brothers who have a different father haven't been so fortunate , the same with my best friend. My dad has been my super man since I was a kid but now he has Alzheimer's. It's slowly but surely progressing and I've realized that my worse fear in life is not seeing him as the man he once was or losing him. Keep growing and being positive and I want to let you know that what you're doing is huge and will play a big part in the man you're becoming. I'm proud and happy that you got this closure and I wish the best for your future.

    • @funnyisfunny4944
      @funnyisfunny4944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      L.D. LeDay I wish you well. My grandparents are going through that battle. It's no fun.

    • @LDLeDay
      @LDLeDay 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brian Mack it's not fun at all. It's heartbreaking and confusing.

    • @rattyboi3669
      @rattyboi3669 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My aunt had Alzheimer’s, she died four years ago I think I miss her a lot

  • @lacocopirtle4879
    @lacocopirtle4879 6 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Who all cried with him....

  • @Anthonin
    @Anthonin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1942

    Oh my god James !! So brave congrats

  • @gingygachalife1627
    @gingygachalife1627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This man is amazing my dad chose me over alcohol, left me and doesn’t care the fact he wants to get back with my mom and says it’s the past makes me fucking mad no it’s not the past that shit is going to be with me until I learn to forget it no birthday cards no Christmas presents and I’ve just had a huge amount of hate for him if anyone has been able to forgive and forget then I applaud you and I think you’re strong

  • @Kinggregory98
    @Kinggregory98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    POWERFUL & Emotional video.. Thanks for sharing your heartfelt story with us... Just like your dad we are just as proud of you.. Continue on your path of Greatness..
    .

  • @FXLighting
    @FXLighting 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2817

    This needs to go viral this is beautiful

    • @iamJamessss
      @iamJamessss  7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      aww thanks! :)

    • @KalCampbell29
      @KalCampbell29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree! @ Mitch is ugly - This is really heart felt!

    • @johonnahh4455
      @johonnahh4455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mitchell Grassi eh no not viral , nah but this is a nice video

    • @chelseashifflett1119
      @chelseashifflett1119 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mitchell Grassi yeah your right

    • @savannahhudson9546
      @savannahhudson9546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      johanna h this should go viral

  • @lizbethcovarrubias9369
    @lizbethcovarrubias9369 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1084

    i love the intro " this is James butler no That cant because im James butler"😂

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      LMAO "yes it is James Butler; you said that twice, what you want..."

    • @emily0054
      @emily0054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Big Ol Internet Troll Dun dun dunnnn

    • @surireyes4234
      @surireyes4234 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No! Im James Butler

    • @matt9684
      @matt9684 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We all James Butler

    • @Konfusion69
      @Konfusion69 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lizbeth Covarrubias yeah dope shit huh?

  • @candleztearz
    @candleztearz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    الناس اللي شافوا المقطع في تك توك وانتهى بهم المطاف هنا 🙋🏻‍♀️ لايك

    • @naciranacer4657
      @naciranacer4657 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      مافهمت شي للاسف

    • @1w846
      @1w846 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      لحجيه كليزق

    • @KR-qh9nc
      @KR-qh9nc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂✋🏼

    • @valentino2866
      @valentino2866 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes....

  • @VirtueEthics999
    @VirtueEthics999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    James Butler I'm proud of u .. Forgiving , loving , overcoming nd being strong to carry on.. Thanks .

  • @andrewschaefer6452
    @andrewschaefer6452 7 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    MEET UP WITH YOUR DAD BRO

    • @popscorn-kz4pf
      @popscorn-kz4pf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its Andrew did you tho

    • @folertas4628
      @folertas4628 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pops Corn1312 are u my cazon

    • @nylesofficial611
      @nylesofficial611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah do it go to your dad

    • @imfezza4561
      @imfezza4561 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Niels Naenen he was abusive he probably isn't allowed to see him unless he really wants to

    • @salyjwjr7300
      @salyjwjr7300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      MR ELLZ i think he really wants to

  • @luqton7022
    @luqton7022 6 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    Is anybody watching this in 2018

  • @thaliapineda-perron2010
    @thaliapineda-perron2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm 19 and I finally met my dad in January of this year. He knew me but he didn't care to call or reach out when he could and pretty much abandoned me to raise his other children. I'm his eldest. After a month I kicked him out of my life.

    • @arrtanklenja1270
      @arrtanklenja1270 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same situation, shortly before kicking him out

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your video has only been on for 30 seconds and I already want to say thank you for being so open and honest! I love and appreciate you you’re so strong! Thanks for sharing!

  • @imKonz
    @imKonz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2275

    I’m happy for you bro

  • @user-jm6sp5tk7c
    @user-jm6sp5tk7c 7 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    how cute is when your dad tolds you that he is proud😢💘💣👑😱❤💘

    • @iamJamessss
      @iamJamessss  7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      so cute!

    • @CrazyGamer-gk4rx
      @CrazyGamer-gk4rx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      James Butler Man i dont know what are you saying but you have big respect from me,maybe i dont know English but this is big respect❤

  • @ariframennoodles8028
    @ariframennoodles8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can feel tears moving to the front of my eyes.

  • @firandcurly84
    @firandcurly84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's always the kids to make the first bigger step. Proud of both of you guys.

  • @shaliarose_883
    @shaliarose_883 7 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    I haven't seen my dad in 13 years but I got to see him in August this year

    • @cadeguydon6043
      @cadeguydon6043 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Rose Rose how was he

    • @jovangoodwin1902
      @jovangoodwin1902 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Shelby Rose that's dope bra my dad was in jail for 5 years now and now I'm 15 and I'm gonna see him next week when he gets out of jail

    • @dinerotv2731
      @dinerotv2731 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jovan Goodwin dats wassup

    • @thegraveyardtrap
      @thegraveyardtrap 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did you see him this year in august when it's April?

    • @nassia_babyiylinna1239
      @nassia_babyiylinna1239 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hudson Pavlic maybe she meant she get to see him... so shut up trying to be smart

  • @omggdjj
    @omggdjj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1152

    Like if they should met up

    • @rythaguy1452
      @rythaguy1452 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      *meet*

    • @zakpapaa
      @zakpapaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dj Flowers Vlogs i was gonna comment the same thing

    • @michaelabuckner7165
      @michaelabuckner7165 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sauce Nation. realy your so rude

    • @omggdjj
      @omggdjj 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zach Papa really hahaha 😀😀😀

    • @slime.queen1237
      @slime.queen1237 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dj Flowers Vlogs

  • @earnestmcbride4313
    @earnestmcbride4313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you James Butler for encouraging me to speak with my father I have never seen before. I agree with everything you are saying

  • @livingwithliyah3399
    @livingwithliyah3399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ik this old, but the fact that he had the strength to make this video is what shows how strong he is. && how powerful he is because some people wouldn't call their parent that haven't been there && most definitely WOULDN'T post a video. 😩😩 keep doinn good.

  • @jahmalbaksh1773
    @jahmalbaksh1773 7 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    This video shows everyone deserves a second chance 😭

    • @070god3
      @070god3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jahmal baksh the Devil deserve one to

    • @guwop1309
      @guwop1309 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      jahmal baksh nevermind i just cried

    • @Innieuniverse
      @Innieuniverse 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Free 9 really stop naming gross girl body parts

    • @cole3165
      @cole3165 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hey dude I'm so sorry that you have had been abused.Hope you feel better.😂

    • @marquisthomas2141
      @marquisthomas2141 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      070 GOD no he doesn't he had his chance

  • @ryleewebb8247
    @ryleewebb8247 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    now this is amazing. this is a great video. you have been strong through everything your dad has put you through, but the way you could tell your dad sounded happy to hear from you was amazing. he apologized and I think this video is SO AMAZING. he follows you and loves you! he doesn't have am excuse on what he did put you through, but you love your dad maybe... through what they have put you through. they're still your dad in the very end. this video was touching and amazing. when you said you were his son, he sounded so happy. and that's great. I cried during this, and this video is amazing. keep doing what your doing your amazing. and if you need love and support through the hard times, people are there for you.

  • @paytonsereinty
    @paytonsereinty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I understand this video I cried multiple times I can't talk to my dad nor see my dad.

    • @nich1991
      @nich1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is your dad in jail

  • @mrclaw7019
    @mrclaw7019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Im never watched his vids, never heard of him before, and 50 seconds in to the video I sub
    (he just seems really sweet)

  • @Perbert_art
    @Perbert_art 6 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    10 years is a long time

    • @yourhellboi7925
      @yourhellboi7925 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi Dude no shit

    • @anamariamiranda4110
      @anamariamiranda4110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow I never knew that....sherlock

    • @aufrix
      @aufrix 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh hi my obvious

    • @aufrix
      @aufrix 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mr

    • @leahnickerson6023
      @leahnickerson6023 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Dude really I didn’t know that.( note my sarcasm)

  • @Hasanatbyone
    @Hasanatbyone 7 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    Respect, man!

  • @emmieerosee5491
    @emmieerosee5491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww James I’m so sorry! This is so sweet I’m crying with you! Be safe and live well. Tell your family I said hi and thank you for being your kind self!

  • @ladyqmuzik
    @ladyqmuzik 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww, this made me cry and your right about letting go of any resentment you have with someone because if you don't it'll make you bitter and you cant grow because you stuck living in the past, your a strong young man and I'm happy for you!

  • @itsmeyaya2149
    @itsmeyaya2149 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1119

    I feel so proud for him
    🙂🙂🙂

  • @tonytorres9014
    @tonytorres9014 7 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    The title has 10 words its 10 minutes long and its called talking to my dad in 10'years

    • @wilfredmatthews742
      @wilfredmatthews742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Tony Plays boy ten is a numbers not a word😂😋😂😂😂😂

    • @nachonachos2185
      @nachonachos2185 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Wilfred Matthews that doesn't make any sense

    • @r.i.pxxxtentacion4472
      @r.i.pxxxtentacion4472 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tony Plays the title has 9 words

    • @nakgra2850
      @nakgra2850 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tony Plays 10 is a number no t a word

    • @keyilahross4776
      @keyilahross4776 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      washing balls the title has 10 words not 9

  • @sinszeman
    @sinszeman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG This made me cry, still can't stop crying! Your dad was really surprise and happy to heard from you, this is really sweet!!

  • @pinkoii7579
    @pinkoii7579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m really proud of you James, that must have been hard to do. Your a strong man RESPECT U-U

  • @kaleamanner2189
    @kaleamanner2189 7 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    Who else broke down crying when James did?? This video got me all the way fucked up. I'm so proud of you for doing this James!!❤❤

    • @aaliyahsavidge1708
      @aaliyahsavidge1708 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Kiki Mini i was crying not only coz james cryed but coz i could never acomplish anything like that to my dad😭😭😭❤❤❤

    • @DAVONTVREACTS
      @DAVONTVREACTS 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kiki Mini Hey! I'm New to youtube and just starting up my channel. Please take the time to checkout my "Nicki Minaj Los Angeles Awards Inspired Makeup" video be sure to subscribe (:
      - xo

    • @germany456
      @germany456 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kiki Mini lol not me

    • @mysteriousmystery4986
      @mysteriousmystery4986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kiki Mini same😍😍😍😍😍😁😁😁😭😭😭😭😭😭💍💍❤💍❤💍❤💫😛😛😁😇😉

    • @only1lilboosie94
      @only1lilboosie94 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kiki Mini no hes gay

  • @BryantDevon
    @BryantDevon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1419

    UGH! MY EYES ARE SWEATING! So many emotions! This is so amazing! Sometimes people don't realize how the power of their actions! It's so amazing that he is so apologetic.This is so so so so so so so amazing!

    • @mz.carmelcake9409
      @mz.carmelcake9409 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bryant Devon , mine are really sweating!

    • @nole5438
      @nole5438 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bryant Devon is

    • @crompahbrompah4176
      @crompahbrompah4176 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bryant Devon (btw it's called CRYING!)

    • @laurenaugust3604
      @laurenaugust3604 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bryant Devon someone cut an onion...

    • @yungk6043
      @yungk6043 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So does ur body cry when u go for a run?

  • @jodieclayton4521
    @jodieclayton4521 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bought me to tears I know how you feel hun. I’m 16 and I’m still in the care system and I’ve been in the care system for 10 years. I’ve been through a lot like you have and I am so proud of who u are and the decisions you’ve made. You have broken the stereotypical “care kid” stereotype and I aspire to do that to. Congratulations I’m so happy it went well with ur dad. ❤️

  • @NeaneyBeany
    @NeaneyBeany 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You got me over here crying. Bless your heart!! God is good😍

  • @casediofficial
    @casediofficial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    such a strong human being, so proud of you james

  • @alexandrajones2342
    @alexandrajones2342 7 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    I started crying before he even called him 😂

    • @iamJamessss
      @iamJamessss  7 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      awwwww thanks so much for watching! I wish I had a Kleenex promo code for you but I don't lol :(

    • @annalisemartinez7995
      @annalisemartinez7995 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexandra Jones same 😭😭

    • @jealousoctopus
      @jealousoctopus 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pussy

  • @sunhun
    @sunhun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The power of these guiding relationships in our lives are unfathomable. We can feel it clearly but cannot comprehend its truth.

  • @nataliewright144
    @nataliewright144 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve cried so much during this video because I’ve never met my dad because he’s in prison. I’m soooo proud and happy for you because you have been through a lot and you had the guts to call him and talk to him and it’s just so sweet❤️❤️❤️

  • @owenholcombe3034
    @owenholcombe3034 7 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    well at least he gets to talk to his dad mine is dead ps rip dad

    • @zakjb1523
      @zakjb1523 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allison Holcombe r.i.p💚💜💙

    • @hachemzehour8703
      @hachemzehour8703 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Allison Holcombe rip 😭

    • @sannekramer512
      @sannekramer512 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Allison Holcombe i am sorry for you, but i think this comment is al little bit unrespectfull. maybe you didn't mean it that way. but this guy is having a hard time and you're like: "i am having an harder time"

    • @timmyturner7823
      @timmyturner7823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Allison Holcombe my dad died when i was 3 never really got to know him buh uk its cool cuz now i got a step dad that really does love me no homo and takes care of me no matter what i do

    • @Projectmostwanted
      @Projectmostwanted 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sanne Kramer yo shut up just because he's a youtuber dont mean nun the other kid could feel the same way

  • @satwindersingh1293
    @satwindersingh1293 7 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    My brother had an accident with his car😢My parents died also at a car accident, I lived 4 years in an orphanage. Now I'm 16 and I live in a very great family now and parents who really cares and all they want to do is make me happy. I love them and I love my 'real' parents. I never thought someone would 'take' me from the orphanage, cuz I was 13-16 y/o. The most ppl wanna 'have' kidz like 0-5 y/o. Also my uncle is in the war in my 'home/fathercountry' Afghanistan...Wish me he's coming home❤I'm pretty sure he's coming back...I know that❤

    • @sienax8136
      @sienax8136 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sorry about what happened with your brother and parents 😢 hopefully you get to see your uncle again your so lucky things worked out

    • @kennykd2228
      @kennykd2228 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MILLION SUBSCRIBERS WITHOUT A VIDEO 🙏

    • @honestly_default7062
      @honestly_default7062 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      MILLION SUBSCRIBERS WITHOUT A VIDEO

    • @destinyodom598
      @destinyodom598 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      MILLION SUBSCRIBERS WITHOUT A VIDEO

    • @goosegoose3039
      @goosegoose3039 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      MILLION SUBSCRIBERS WITHOUT A VIDEO

  • @buraimohiyanu9138
    @buraimohiyanu9138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm just watching this 😭
    I love you James !!!❤❤
    You're so strong

  • @eddypabon3728
    @eddypabon3728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That’s just heart warming fr💯💯😭

  • @coah6775
    @coah6775 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Bro this video made me cry because I know how this feels, congrats dude I hope everything goes well !

  • @chrissylaws8710
    @chrissylaws8710 7 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I love that your dad admitted what he did to you cause some ppl won't admit what wrong they did to a person and it's really sad but I love that you called him and he admitted what he did to you and didn't make no excuses

    • @akbarbukhari
      @akbarbukhari 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      his father sucks, as a parent and human. u dont leave your kids for 10 years. no matter what, even for the hard time.

  • @meganb.6619
    @meganb.6619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    James, this made me cry (happy tears) Especially when your father said over and over that he is Proud of you!!! So... He knew that you came out recently (to the time of this video)?? Bc that is what I took from it, and this just made my day, shiitt it made my year!!!! Mad love from Pgh,PA

  • @aribleu2067
    @aribleu2067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m not allowed to talk to my dad or see him , your so strong , I cried this whole video ❤️

  • @Xosanna
    @Xosanna 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    aww I feel bad for him but I'm glad he called his dad :) 😁😁

  • @sofiachafawk
    @sofiachafawk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    My heart literally skipped a beat when he started crying

    • @tsgeabraham7107
      @tsgeabraham7107 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you young man you are smarter and wiser than your dad forgiveness is the key he will get reward from God

  • @ariannai5494
    @ariannai5494 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so proud of you for doing this . ❤️ Thankyou for this ! You’re so strong

  • @ItsMe-qy6bg
    @ItsMe-qy6bg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hope you and ypur father will have a better relationship now!❤

  • @kaylawilliams6401
    @kaylawilliams6401 7 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    I think it's funny that people don't know what a house phone is

    • @alexuslynnjones1306
      @alexuslynnjones1306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kayla Williams
      Same 😂😂

    • @limitedoptic1237
      @limitedoptic1237 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kayla Williams lmao

    • @ariannadavis7876
      @ariannadavis7876 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kayla Williams aww I'm so sry but my dad was always around but tbh it was better when he wasn't around it wasn't worth the time he was never a role model for me ......... honestly he could have done better 😢

    • @roigipot8120
      @roigipot8120 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Danyale Davis K. U done?

    • @thesavagekingz1014
      @thesavagekingz1014 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr

  • @lilhomie1547
    @lilhomie1547 6 ปีที่แล้ว +572

    Who's cutting onions 😭

    • @ahlley
      @ahlley 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Alex Delgado namjoon is...kbye

    • @biberiso9926
      @biberiso9926 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alex Delgado i knew it😂

    • @strawberrolyy
      @strawberrolyy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      namjoon...
      OK I WILL SHUT UP

    • @ns-lg6gy
      @ns-lg6gy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alex Delgado иαмʝσσи ιѕ

    • @emilyfields1538
      @emilyfields1538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me why?

  • @latrellpratt3625
    @latrellpratt3625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m in tears but idk why this is recommended for me idk where my dad is but I’m so happy to see at least someone happy and smiling ❤️

  • @doxsbrown5667
    @doxsbrown5667 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video just makes me not to take my parents for granted .So thank you for helping me see that .

  • @SimplesRugs
    @SimplesRugs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Honestly my comment will be lost somewhere and you’ll probably never see it but this was so inspiring. Honestly teared up when you did. I’m 16 years old and havnt talked or seen my father in 6 years. He was an alcoholic has well. I would love to call him but unfortunately I’m blocked on his cell and I don’t even know his number anymore. Thank you for this video. Very well done.

  • @smiley.4048
    @smiley.4048 6 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    My eyes are sweating 😐

  • @plugged-inn7696
    @plugged-inn7696 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was touching.. Salute lil homie and his dad for patching their relationship up it was necessary

  • @MOJORAPSCALLION
    @MOJORAPSCALLION 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life experiences shape you into who you are now ❤️❤️ a brave and tenacious young man! Now you can carry on the healing journey x

  • @StephenOscar
    @StephenOscar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +671

    Proud of you xoxo

    • @iamJamessss
      @iamJamessss  7 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Stephen Oscar thanks! miss you b✨

    • @SkylarMariee1
      @SkylarMariee1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same.

    • @boostedturbo0012
      @boostedturbo0012 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      James Butler No offence but are you gay?

    • @omaradem9098
      @omaradem9098 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      BoostedTurbo001 yes

    • @DAVONTVREACTS
      @DAVONTVREACTS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stephen Oscar Hey! I'm New to youtube and just starting up my channel. Please take the time to checkout my "Nicki Minaj Los Angeles Awards Inspired Makeup" video be sure to subscribe (:
      - xo

  • @Bella-fx3bk
    @Bella-fx3bk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I usually never leave comments but this video truly deserves everything. It take a lot of courage to share this part of your life with the internet for everyone to see.

  • @jamiyah0224
    @jamiyah0224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried the whole video bc I really know how blessed I am to have 2 parents that are together ❤️

  • @lovedbymany37
    @lovedbymany37 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can definitely relate, I like how the father owned up to him not being there for his don & told him how proud he is of him , I got tears in my eyes just watching this God Bless You

  • @lay_lay4280
    @lay_lay4280 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    This Is So Sad 😭 God Bless Him 🙏🏽 He Has A Big Heart ❤️ His dad has been abusive when he was a young boy😭 but he has a big heart and still decides to talk with him This video Is Just So So Sad 😭 God Bless Him and His Dad and What Is Really Inspiring Is He Is Really Strong Even Though His Mom Died and He Hasn't Been In Touch With His Dad That is just really inspiring

    • @suckerbuttcrack9755
      @suckerbuttcrack9755 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lay_Lay I agree he does have a big heart bless him and pray for him too🙏

    • @reeseeaugustine1144
      @reeseeaugustine1144 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lay_Lay yes all hands down💕💕❤️❤️❤❤

  • @luvsptv
    @luvsptv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    I CRIED BC I NEVER SAW MY DAD IN 13 YEARS HE LEFT WHEN I WAS BORN😭😭😭

    • @emreutrk
      @emreutrk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Valerie Araguz if i was your father, saw that pic with the filter, id leave too while thinking to my self "Why Snapchat... WHY?"

    • @luvsptv
      @luvsptv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emrecan 54 ikr anyways im goin to change my profile

    • @emreutrk
      @emreutrk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It was a joke. Keep it the way ya want. Idc.

    • @luvsptv
      @luvsptv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emrecan 54 thx

    • @dktreyclutch8918
      @dktreyclutch8918 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im so sorry i in how u feel my dad died when I was 6 in most 12 now its terrible to lose a parent

  • @Randiiiiiiii
    @Randiiiiiiii 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so happy for you and how supportive your father is! You're so blessed to have such a support system after so long. God has you no matter what though

  • @DiamondsdaBoss
    @DiamondsdaBoss 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was soooo beautiful ❤
    Even if the relationship somehow dissolved after the initial encounter, what his father said to him at that MOMENT was what was needed. It's what his son needed to hear at that time.... So beautiful.