ASKING OUR STEP DAD TO ADOPT US: EMOTIONAL FATHER'S DAY GIFT
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 มิ.ย. 2020
- For those of you who don't know, our step dad has been in our life for 16 years and we think of him as our real father. He welcomed us with open arms and loves us like his own children. Today we thought it would be the perfect time to show him how thankful we are and how much we love him and ask him to officially become our father and adopt us. We are so excited and feel extremely lucky. We love you dad!!
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As somebody said, he is not the step-dad but he is the dad that stepped up.
I LOVE this!!
That statement is a perfect example of class my friend!
Great statement
Yes! Well said😄
I wish I had a stepfather like this. Awesome man with a lot of class.
The fact that everyone calls him 'dad' already says a lot.
Respect to everyone.
@Anal Farmer damn another loner who’s trying to dissuade step parents from acting like an actual responsible parent. Just because you lack familial love, doesn’t mean others do. This family is obviously happy and content with their father instead of some man (the biological father) who doesn’t seem to be in the picture. Trying to dissuade others, won’t make you any happier 🤷🏻♀️
Yep biggest respect to the step dads out there
@@i_curlyy you killed him dud 💀
what'd he day though lol
We were forced to say dad lol asians.
@@Michael020 lot's of bio-dads whose kids don't know them either.
This is so heartwarming. I tried to adopt my stepdaughter when she was younger but her 'real' dad would not sign the documents (even though he had absolutely no part in her life, even refusing to pay child support). I raised her since she was two years old. My daughter then surprised me on my birthday six months after after she turned 18. She had legally changed her last name to mine.
If you're separated and not paying support, he should absolutely have no say. He wanted a say but not bad enough to actually support his kids...very telling.
Congrats on not only being a good father, but on being her real father.
That made me cry
@tylerlopes476If you are paying child support and not a threat to the child, demand the court to give visitation. Your wife nor the courts can require child support without visitation.
You do not need an attorney for this, just the courage to stand on your square. I know what I'm talking about.
Also, if you have health insurance for your child, the courts can't require any other support. The judge or attorney won't tell you that support is support because it will affect the demonic extorting system in place.
That’s an awesome story too! Love it. Again; that’s REAL MAN shit. We need more men like you guys. Thank you for doing what you do. Cheers! 💪🏻🙏🏻❤️
When teenagers want you to be their father that says a whole lot about the type of person you are, what a good example showing not all stepparents are horrible
you know he's a dad through and through because his immediate reaction is to say "no"
there is no dad on this earth who could resist such a perfect dad joke opportunity
You are so right 🥰
lol my dad would have said the same thing... hes always messing around like that XD
@Happy Flowers Why is that a bad time?
@Happy Flowers that’s the best time for a joke you can get.
@@user-p7up8l4k That's the kind of proselytizing that makes people hate religion. As an atheist, thank you for being like that.
Every father is a gangsta until their children melt their hearts.
True, couldn't ask for a better father in the world. Must've done something right in a previous life to have him as a father in this life. Wow.
Soooo trueeeee. Friends and cousins have always been scared of my teddy bear of a father and I used to be confused as to why hahaha
@NN D He feeds them, clothes them, shelters them, cares for them, provides a family and love for them.
And since they love him inconditionally, I´m pretty sure they are his for life.
And they just proved it in this video.
@NN D He´s not the biological father, sure. But to say he doesn´t love them as his childrem is pretty shitty, man.
That's right👍👍
As a stepdad, winning the mother's heart is easy, but her children's is on another level. Congrats.
I married my husband in 2004 and he was a true father to my 3 children. He passed away in 2015. My children adored him. Congratulations to Ben and you all. What a wonderful man Ben must be!
im so sorry to hear that may he rest in peace,
@@yimszy4588 Thank you!
So you had 3 kids with another man and got another dude to take care of them , did you atleast give the step dad a kid of he's own ?
@@pollomaniac He said he considered the three children from my first marriage his!
@Beth Cochrane I'm not trying to be an idiot ok first of all , but that man's legacy he's blood line then is over
Putting shades on so they don't see you crying is perhaps the most classic of all dad maneuvers
Haha
Lol I would to
@pacifca nonook man i was also thinkin that for the poor guy, seems cool too, but you have to admit its still touching lol
@pacifca nonook wow, i hope you learn to see life differently some day.
@pacifca nonook jesus christ, stfu
Every Harley Davidson father is a hell rider until they get adoption letter.
😂
True, buckled. 😂
Lmao
Or a divorce letter
@@kenandrieling5885 Either way it would still be tears of joy, lol!
All he asks for on father's day is a sibling photograph and you all ask him to be your real father. You guys have my respect.
Seeing his response meant it means everything to him.
What a guy. You can see the love and admiration. We need more fathers like this.
and good mothers too. so many of them are awful yet seemingly get a pass just because they are "mothers"
I love how he's all emotional and then goes "no" 🤣.
We all knew the real anwser
Total dad response lol
Comedic relief is perfect to keep him from breaking down probably. Great vid❤
Time stamp?
@@duylegend1245 Kinda surprised you'd ask, cuz that's the whole climax of the vid pretty much, the comedic relief to break the tension. BUT its at 4:20 ish. Good day.
Any male can be a sperm donor but it takes a special man to be a father. My “step dad” married my mother when I was 4 and my brother was 7. Spent thousands in court fighting to legally make us his. Treated us like his own from day one, gave us anything we ever could’ve wanted. Now he’s the greatest grandfather I’ve ever seen. Can’t thank the lord enough for putting him in our lives... love you dad
💙🙏🏻🧿 Such a heart warming story 💙🙏🏻🧿 God bless you all ☮️✌️
Love it
Wait...grandfather?
Francisco Vega yes, me and my wife had our little girl 8/30/16.. so my “step father” is now been a grandfather for 4yr
@@jesseward1509sorry Bro for my mistake
The way everyone call him "DAD" answer so many questions ... I wish you all happiness☺
I was blessed with a 9 years old daughter, when she graduated as an attorney her first law action was to adopt me as her father. That was the best gift I ever had in my life. She still fills my heart with pride every day for being her father. Being a father doesn't have nothing to do with making a baby, it's raising them, being by their sides all the way thru life, that makes you a father.
❤❤❤❤
I met my step daughter when she was just 5 months old. She is turning 17 this year. This made me cry too.
At 5months being left by her biological father? How cruel.😢
Thank you for being a father to her. You are an amazing father and a life saver. The happiness you gave to her is priceless.
You are amazing!💚💛💙💓💗
that's your daugther adn you did a great job sir!
My son was 5 months old my daughters were 3 and 5 years, now they are almost 11 13 and 15. Crazy how time flies and how fast they grow huh?!
Kamui
@Keven Cantu I wonder what happened to the father of your step daughter?😢 Why are there cruel fathers in this world?
I see no step dad here. Just a father who loves his kids. Blood doesnt matter.
You are right
It does when it comes to child maintenance
@@ouroborosbond7412 I have 3 that have no blood in common with me and 3 that are blood related and none of them are different in my eyes.. I get you were trying to be smart and funny about blood type but it wasn't either.
THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!
I may not be your father boy but I’m still your daddy
Step dads are a very special. Most guys don’t want to come near a single mom. It takes a lot of love and generosity to take on another man’s child. ❤
It takes weakness and no self respect. Any man with a working set of testes, isn't taking care of another man's kids. 😂
@@pastorofmuppets363 Your whole existence is about your balls, why should we listen to you?
@@pastorofmuppets363what?..
@@pastorofmuppets363 are you saying kids who have a dad bail on them don’t deserve to have another father figure step in?
I don't know how old you are but you better get your act together. Even at age 4 I wouldn't even say that... to be honest I wouldn't even think it. Do you know how hard raising children are especially as a single parent is?! You should really speak to somebody about this and get some help if you think that is ok.
How special and beautiful.. I met my step dad when I was 9 years old, I am now 39 and he is my world and my father. I was so broken as a child , he gave me unconditional love , taught me to independent women, and helped me with my career path. I am forever grateful and blessed. What a beautiful story ... So happy for you all❤
They were already his kids, now it's offical.
TGulag 🤣 he misread that
I love that. 👍
All the other Dads watching: *puts glasses on*
LOl I died
Yes😏
Looks like its ganna rain today.
What do you mean.. I'm not even a dad :(
@@deadlyHazyyy you dont have to be a dad to love this haha
I appreciate the 8 minute look into this man. You can tell in that little time what a genuine person he was. He made me laugh and tear up, then cry a when I saw the news. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope time has made it a little better. I'll remember him, RIP from a stranger
Where did it say he died? I think he's alive dude.
@@ArtyMerchant He died of cancer in 2022
@@naeemagbani920 very sorry to hear that.
@@naeemagbani920 fuck dammit fuck cancer I should have quit scrolling and reading the comments.
That man stepped up and took care of *four* kids? I have no idea what happened with the mom and her previous guy, but to leave it after four kids tells me that it had to be a hellacious experience. Shout out to this guy for bringing peace, love and stability.
When I married my wife she had a 6-year-old son that never knew his father. Told me he prayed for Dad. I adopted him. He's now going on 21 and a junior in college. I'm so proud of that boy. This made me cry like a baby. Thank you
He's your boy ! Thank you for being the man he needed to help guide him
My grandpa adopted my father when he was young. This hits home
@@asarishepard8171 My Dad was adopted by his real mom's sister and her husband. They raised my Dad as their own, as his mom was an alcoholic. Sadly he also became alcoholic, and my Grandparents helped raise me at times as well. It's the MAN who makes the Dad, not the title who dictates who is who. God Bless you all for all you have done and do for these kids.
😭😭😻😻
Godbless you Sir
4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable, but to agree to be adopted by this man is very special. You must be onehell of a person and the kids are very lucky to have a person like you in their lives.
I don't think Carson agreed to be adopted
Looks like just the three girls
@@ulisesacosta5543 you can’t take carsson serious, he doesn’t even offer family discount 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
"4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable"
Why is that unbelievable?
4 kids, if you ask them on Tuesday if they all want candy for dinner, they'll agree.
Is that so hard to believe?
He's screwing at least one of them
Gotta be a solid guy to have the kids ask for you to be their dad..hats off to you good sir 👌 ❤
the cruel twist is that he died in 2021
@@DJ-ov2it how?
As a father that raised a daughter alone I was crying right along with you.. 🥲
God bless you!!
I was chilling in my room and suddenly a ninja broke in and started chopping Onions...
Why will a ninja be chopping Onions tho?
Woah! The same thing happened to me!
hufflepuff Harry potter lover ur username is everything
@@darkincognito3826 whoosh
@@Todd_Gerhardt Hey, this ain't reddit.
My stepdad walked me down the aisle.My bio dad didn't come to my wedding for that reason.But it was my stepdad who raised me.Who was there for every bump,bruise,and every time I was sick.He came to every play,choral performance,etc.That's what being a father is about.
I couldn’t agree more, my step dad (who I consider my dad) is definitely going to be the one to walk me down the isle.
You did the right thing. Glad you respected the man who put in the time and effort.
@@kimberlynelson6104 ty
You did the right thing. I think your stepdad would have been hurt inside if he could not walk you down the aisle after he raised you and loved you for all those years. It takes a boy to make a child but a man to raise one.
@@misshoneynevercame4832 I agree thanks
Not many things better than seeing a tough guy dad tear up while trying his best to hold it back to keep looking tough. Just the sweetest.
I'm a stepdad to 3 kids when they were all very young, now they are all in there late 20's, i never had any of my own but i have never regreted it, best thing in my life
To be honest , jokes aside this guy is a real man. He must be a good dad.... really nice human being bless his heart .
@@theamericanofafricandescent REAL MAN!
He's a good guy and a good father. Let's not bring frankly sexist language into this thank you.
Adopting kids that aren't yours doesn't make you a real Man or Woman. Remember if it would sound messed up reversed then maybe you shouldn't be saying it.
I'd rather be "false" than a beta cuck.
Wrong. This doesn’t make him a “real man”.
@@MrKulturembargo no
It's funny and sad how much he tries to hold back his tears 😊. Everybody is allowed to cry and especially if its out of happiness 🙂.
This isn't about "being allowed to cry" it's about men always needed to be strong in the past, if they weren't, it'd be the end of the race for them.
That being, men today still feel the need to hold it all in and be strong.
This causes what you see here.
@@sneebil yea your right but some people react differently alothough here you can see he's holding back years other people let's say some died they may not appear to be greifing but they really are it's not their holding it back like me I'm just like that so is my dad
Its one of the reason men die earlyer than women, cant remember where i read it, but basically we are expected to always be strong and hate cute things and so on, so where women grieve, cry and let their feelings out and get past it, men tend to just bottle it up and push it deep down inside and shit like that builds up with years, so you end up getting stroke, heart conditions, stomac bleeding and yeah alot of shit caused from stress and struggle.
He was trying to upheld article 41 from the bro code, a bro never cry,
Yeah, that's the thing, since we were kids, men were always told to be strong, that men don't cry. I don't know if it's about instinct or a social thing, but it's natural, we don't allow other people to see us cry or in our "weak" or vulnerable spot. And that's really sad tbh.
This is a real man.Some men won't step to the plate.The fact they call him dad means a whole lot.Much love and respect to him.
This is NOT a real man 🤣
You could tell from his reaction that this is all that guy ever wanted and you could tell from the way his family treated him that they wanted it too. Fantastic result all round - I wish this family the best of luck!
Masculinity is not toxic. It is brave, humble and caring.
@@nayverma6489 seek help
@@nayverma6489 go see a doctor you're a psycho
This is an example of positive masculinity, there are definitely toxic manifestations.
Well beating your wife and kids to submit is toxic masculinity, but this one is positive masculinity
@@hafizmakiglalis4380 masculinity never involves hurting someone that's vulnerable, that's called insecurity, domestic violence and abuse
My father used to say, children belong to who love them.
That sounds so wrong
Great saying!
@@doomslayer960 it means if their biological parents doesn't love them, they don't own them.
@@doomslayer960 only sounds wrong to people who sexualise children. Get help.
@@anxiousmindmusic what if someone love them, and they hate those someone?
So, I'm almost 60 and I don't have children.
I'm an Army veteran and a Civil War reenactor, so the word 'honor' has come up more than once in my life.
And I can't think of a greater honor than what these kids gave to a real stand-up kind of man.
I hope the family is happy, healthy and well, and I hope they're accept a sincere tip of the Stetson from an old cavalry corporal. God bless.
The role of the men is to provide service doesn't mean he need to work daily to get money to buy things to the family but he needed to provide to the family in spirit, there with them to talk, listen and give emotional strength to the family
Very cute - takes a real man to raise kids the way he has, he’s a legend
It doesn't matter if the children are blood you fall in love with them just as you would if they were born with your blood !
To bad my dad's a full in wasteman
@Ann Vo Betas..who raise other males' childs are betas and get eliminated via natural selection.
@Ann Vo Bullshit...whoever in the history raised another male's child got eliminated via natural selection...and the males who protected their partners and only raised their own offspring, passed on their genes...and we are their descendents. Look into the Lion Pride...Look how the males behave😂 you will get your answer.
'true alphas do this and that blah blah for society'- So that it benefits irresponsible women. I am not a simp. These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on me. I have read the story about 'White feather campaign' women tried the same thing... that's how millions of men died....Nice try though...These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on everyone.
Edit: also if that's what an alpha does(sacrificing for society that doesn't give a fck about us), I am better of not being an alpha.
@Ann Vo All personal attacks! "You are whiny this, you are that"...you can date whomever you want none of my concern....and I said at the end if that's what an alpha is then I am better of not being one. You can have your opinions. But personally I would never be invested in someone else's offspring.. I want to pass on all my earnings and properties to my own genetic offspring.
Also a 'simp' is a guy who sympathizes with womankind. Where do you see me doing that?? In fact I am quite the opposite.
Edit: I am assuming that you are from USA cuz you tried to make me feel that I am missing out on having a great partner like you cuz you would only date an older man...well, the thing is in my country there's prostitution legal...unlike men in USA we don't need to kowtow to women for mating rights. That's why sex is not a big deal here in my country(it's human psychology- something which is available is not a big deal) and someone wouldn't date me, that's also not a big deal. We only stay with women who care for us. If someone wants to go, they are free to go.
As Yondu once said, "He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn’t your daddy.” This man may not be her biological father, but he sure is her daddy.
Omfg that’s the best quote
That reminds me when is the next one gonna come out
Guardian of the galaxy 👍
@@babyyoda2190 whenever “they decide” to allow people to see movies , cuz I’m sure there filming it now along with Thor love and thunder.
@@Holderman-lj2rw one of my privies theaters let’s people it’s called movie grill I think it’s something like that tho
This hits hard to home. So sweet and special. I have a step daughter and son we had custody of both of them from when she was 5 and I tell you she is so very special to me. We have a very close bond now, she is in her 30’s but I love her as if she was flesh of my flesh and blood of my blood ❤️
that's when you know, you're a true dad…
But seeing the siblings swarm around him, how they adore him, there is no doubt, he's their dad…
I'm not an emotional person but when my stepson wrote a paper for class stating why he looks up to me and wants to be like me. Made me cry like a baby.
This is beautiful..because to him you're a hero...and when they express how they feel about us parents in front of friends and teachers that is saying something fantastic about your relationship..and that is a beautiful feeling...i love the bond you have...
Repent to Jesus Christ
“The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”
Proverbs 18:10 NIV
@@jesusisrisen8447 why do you have to bring religion to a comment with no relation with it whatsoever
He died
@@jesusisrisen8447 what does repenting to Jesus has to do with his comment? You are weird!
Being an adoptee myself, this made me cry. Aren't we just the luckiest people in the world to have people in our lives who chose to love us unconditionally? All the best to you and your family!
My sister is adopted from China and let me correct you: we, the adopting family, are the lucky ones! You, adoptees, are our little miracles, and the love YOU give us is far greater than anything in this world. It is our honor and privilege to have you in our lives.
I wasn't adopted, I was just rised with no one attention, my biggest tragedy is still my cat that lived with me more than 15 years once gone and never comes back. When my dad died it wasn't a problem. But my little smart kind caring girl... I'm still crying.
Yes!
Hi Julia, i am an adoptee too, and i could not agree more with what you said. I have Always felt priviliged , Always felt the responsibility to give somehow back the luck i got in My Life . I Hope One day to be able to do random acts of kindness full time, that's why i Also opened a YT Channel and that's why i study to work in the healthcare system.
This is bitter sweet for me cuz my step father/adoptive father was very mean (he did very illegal things to me) and treated me very different from his biological daughter. So I’m glad ppl have good experiences with step fathers it’s just that off it hurts bc of my situation lol
I only see a dad a mum and four happy kids he's all the dad they'll ever need
The “No” killed me lol. My dad would say the same thing. This is the best video. His emotion to the letters were overwhelming. So cute.
What time
My dad as well. The greatest fathers always seem to know right thing to say. Or when not to say anything.
Family when done right is so powerful.
@@leahsrblx5080 5:30
Hi sister Asha hope you are doing well and I call you upon to get involved in our music school foundation. Glory be to God
As a child of divorced parents who never had a father figure in her life, I appreciate these men. Who protect and love their step children. Don’t hurt them or talk them down. They step up to the plate and they love their wives kids just like their own. Shows true love, loving every part of their partner. That takes a great man. You can tell how much he loves you guys and that you love and appreciate him in return. You have a beautiful family💜
You and me both girl!
I'm same only met my dad once in 49 years...
Men like him are just amazing they deserve to be called dad 🥰🥰
Sorry honey. You are beautiful
So true
I never knew my father, these girls are very fortunate
Fatherhood is the best thing a man can experience in his life... I'm 3 times sure of it.
When he opened that packet i started crying dreaming of the day this will be me and my dad. I cant wait. It will truly be the greatest moment of my life
I met my stepdad when I was 9. Back then, he was just my mum's friend. And I wanted him to be my dad soooo badly! He was so nice to me, genuinely nice and really cared about me. Eventually, my mum fell in love with him (he was in love with her for a long time already) and they got together when I was 10. When I was 14, they got married and now I have great parents and 3 baby sisters 🥰
Beautiful family I have always wanted 🥰
🤗🤗🤗🙏🏾
💚
You are an amazing person, I am so glad you got your wish
❤🙏🏾🥰
This comment was so beautiful. God bless you
“ No.” Typical dad; made me laugh!
🤣
Your a great man, to hear the daughter's calling you dad. You held your composure 😢 well done. Thats the true love right there, the one mum! 😍💯
ahhwwww boieee, He´s fighting so hard to not cry. Love him.
From one step dad to another , that’s the biggest compliment you will ever receive! Be proud man your doing just fine 👍
Unfortunately he passed away but in certain he knew he was amazing ❤
The day my 9 year old step son asked me to adopt him was a very special day and an honor. . That was 22 years ago. This video made my eyes water. Any man can be a father, but only some can be a Dad. Congratulations to you Dad, and to your lovely children .
Here I am bawling because the man who raised me from 4yo who I called Daddy dropped me with my mother in 1990.
You're absolutely right!
@Lewis C the earth is already overpopulated. theres no harm in raising kids that arent yours and treating them right.
@Lewis C your DNA isn’t special, and with that attitude neither are you.
@Lewis C you are a cruel and petty person
There is so much love in this video from the daughter and the stepfather. It's so refreshing to see that they appreciate what this man did for them.
May he rest in peace. I am so truly sorry for your guys loss. What a great man who stepped up to be your Dad.
That saying, “blood is thicker than water” actually goes like this...”the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Meaning the people you choose is stronger than the people you’re forced upon. Congrats on the official dad!
Yep, It's pretty much the reverse of what people think it means lol :)
Blood is thicker than water but they both spill....wise saying I once heard
That's deep lol! Seriously though that is awesome.
Amen!
NN D it’s nonsense only if you don’t get it.
I love it when “Tough guys” cry. You always were their dad.
@NN D ?
@Nick Nanna tf? did ur dad ditch u?
@Nick Nanna 🤡🤡🤡
I grew up without a father and had no support from him all my life. Some won’t take care of their own.
Then there are people like you. Having a dad at home makes a huge difference for peoples lives. Thank you for being such a great guy.
I'm a 50yr old father and when I was 27 i married a woman with 16 yr old twins and having 11 yrs between us was difficult and heard you not my father a few times but being able to see them through high school and enroll them through college was a special time for me and walking one down the wedding aisle with her mom was special i never received a gift like that but my tears sure are rolling see him accept such a beautiful offer great father I see.
He honoured those kids by raising them as if they were his own and they honoured him by asking him to be their dad, that’s one of the coolest things I’ve seen on youtube. Congrats guys.
He became their dad the day he took responsibility of those kids. Respect 🙏.
He won't be allowed to raise them "as if they were his own." The moment he tries to discipline them, she will throw that, "He's not your son! Don't you dare touch him!" bs at him...
Yeah, congrats to the guy for his Simp of the Year award.
@@ThePhilosophicalOne stop projecting dude
@@se-gj2me there’s some truth to it
He even when he cries, he’s handsome. What a beautiful man with a beautiful soul.
My one biggest regret is never asking my step-dad to adopt me before I lost him. He was my daddy in every way. I miss him so much.
Very lucky man, to be loved and desired like that. What does that feel like? I’m 51 and have never been loved or wanted like that. A very blessed man/father. I believe he realizes how fortunate he is.
As a 14 year old boy I hope I can grow into a man like this
sounds like you are on the right path to be like him.
That's exactely what i thought while watching this... I'm also 14 and i want to be such a great man/dad sometimes🥺
you will be! Just make it happen :)
If you want it to ,you can.
Lol rule number #1 is to never date a single mother. But I guess you’re still a blue pilled youngster. I recommend you read the book ‘The Rational Male’.
To have kids choose you to be their father is incredibly special, especially as young adults.
And for the man to say yes is incredibly stupid. 💰💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💰
That's not their father, the father is out there laughing because someone is taking care of his lineage, DNA, and paying for it.
I would never pay for another man's child, that's just weird.
@@OriginalPuro You look like a miserable man. Your life must be so sad...
@@OriginalPuro It's not about money, it's about love: if you don't want to pay, you don't build up a family anyway, but if you marry someone for LOVE, then you wish even their family loves you, right? after 16 years of growing 4 step-children that had a different dad before, loving them even if they may not recognize you, and then they decide to RECOGNIZE you as their DAD, you would be happy too, no? Or would you refuse because they are not related by blood with you? It's just stupid.
There are families out there that adopt kids that are without family, and if you think about it there are a LOT of children out there that waits to be adopted.
@@Jack01010 in America love is money and money is love……..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am a step Dad of three. I have six step grandchildren. I love them as if they are my own. I am very fortunate to have them in my life.
The TH-cam algorithm decided I needed to cry today, this was such a beautiful moment and I went to your page to see what else you have and my heart broke at the most recent video. Rest in peace and I am so sorry to your family for your loss. Thank you for sharing these lovely life moments.
My stepson was 8months old when I met my ex. She is gone, he is still in my life. He is my kid, my buddy and the love and respect between us is something special. He is 22 now, his mom put both of us through the fucking ringer. We survived together. Best buds!
you are a hero dude.
God bless you 🙂
It’s ok to cry. Those tears at that moment are the only way to truly and accurately express what you feel when words can’t.
Thanks you for sharing this part of your life. I raised my daughter as a single father and I'm so happy to see another man step up to raise girls and show them and the world what a real man is - emotional, supportive, nurturing, and a stand-up man. Thanks.
Why in the world would people dislike such a special and heartfelt moment is beyond my comprehension.
They disliked because no one wants to be their dad..sad
Bots
Some people are against the idea of step-children.
One of the sweetest things I’ve watched in a while. Honestly made my day :)
I didn't dislike, but why would somebody adopt adult children?
I don’t know why this was suggested in my feed, but it blessed me to see someone step up and be a father to wonderful children. It gives me hope. What a beautiful moment. ❤️
Same! It was in my suggestions, he seems like a such a cool and amazing dad, God bless their whole family x
Made me cry. I'm glad they see how lucky they are. I don't know them, but that's what a real man is like.
Him:
“Dontcrydontcrydontcrdontcrydontcry”
When I saw him turn red, I knew he was crying, now I'm crying😭
Me too
fck i am cryyyyyyyyy
Me three
Same
Damn onion ninjas
Being a father is the best experience a man can have. Protect and provide. Be an example.
I love that he said yes immediately, you said he could think about it and he said no. You could tell this really meant a lot to him. Thanks for sharing.
You can tell hes one Hell of a Guy ... congrats brother
His expressions made me cry...very kind father he is
True words you are speaking 😭😭so beautiful!
Did not make me cry im a dam man
Eli Swanson Men cry, that’s a man right there
You know he's a good man if he's made these kids want him to be their father. God Bless him and God Bless them for having that much respect
Amen
Took the words out of my mouth Robert!
Everyone is on display nowadays, mini Hollywood producers.
@@bluwng mmmmm. Ngl I feel like this was a way to boost this channel
@@SplitGoose Bible says people will become lovers of themselves and have no genuine love for each other, they will have a form of Godliness but not know God. Using people genuine emotions for a winning shot was what evil Hollywood demons did, now everyone is a smaller version of evil.
The best gift u can give a stepdad is the acknowledgment is that he didn’t need to love but he chooses to love u
REAL MEN.....CRY!!! His face is getting beat red trying to hold in his true feelings of love.
Right ! How sweet !!
He’s not just a stepdad, he’s the dad that stepped up.
You literally copied the guy above
Bruh you have no shame haha, if you wanna copy a comment at least dont do the top one 😂
James Tractor u cant “copy” comments if more than 1 person commented it🤦🏾♀️
Kowxley u cant “copy” comments if more than 1 person commented it🤦🏾♀️
mouu_chii u cant “copy” comments if more than 1 person commented it🤦🏾♀️
It’s ok to let go mate. Your human the same as us females with the same feelings. Must be a great man your children. Love you. I loved every minute of it. Thank you so much for sharing xo 🥰🙏🌻👍🏽😀💕
That question must be the hardest and easiest thing to read at the same time. A human being in this world accepts you on such a level, that blood or not they see you genuinely as their parent.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate all the GREAT STEPDADS out there.
I had one, too.
I love him forever.
Waooooooo if all humans were like him the world would be a better place
A man who loves and is loved, is truly a wealthy man.
Base on experience. Family is not only about blood. Its about the love and care u show unconditionally.
Yep, and this comes to show that I have nO faMily. ;-;
@@kylejr1467 i agree. It is case to case situation. Some find love and care by blood and some are not.
Being a father who stepped up 25 years ago to help raise a wonderful son I can understand the emotions that he is feeling. I am now the proud father of a Nuke tec in the Navy and a great father himself and am proud to call my son. Love you Joseph.
What you did i's a great thing but why are you proud that your son is a "Nuke tec"? If that's someone who works on nukes, that's actually horrible, he's contributing to war and death.
@@casie6609 nothing wrong with serving your country.. and a nuke tech doesnt work with nuclear weapons.
@@Glee73
And a real man doesn't step on the kid's real father.
Well done man
@@RockLee679 Thank you.
i know this comment is old for the video at this point, but I love how this motorcycle, tattoo, tough looking fellow isn't afraid to show his emotions. Probably one of the many reason his now children love him so much. a lot of parents would not want to show this emotion as a natural instinct, but this dude is obviously very comfortable and loving/loved by this family. props to this dad fr.
Great men are needed in this world right now!!! So sweet, and inspiring. ❤
This is how you make a grown man cry. I hope one day my son does something similar. If he doesn't, it's OK. I'll always love him like my own. He's my oldest boy, and I couldn't be prouder of the man he is growing into.
My thing for Father's Day is that I ask for palm prints in paint on a canvas.
You are an amazing father. The way you speak about your son and how much you love him is heartwarming. I truly hope you both live a long happy life together you two are beautiful, body and soul.
Blood doesn't make a family..... LOVE does..... mad respect...
You could tell he is a great dad when all he wants for Father’s Day is a photo of his children ❤️
Truth ♡
I also come from a family where a man has taken care of a wife and 5 children and a dog. You have to be a special man in all areas to achieve this.
It's nice that there are men like him.
Best regards to this family
I was raised by my stepdad also. He's my dad. Period. Oh... The onions...❤