ASKING OUR STEP DAD TO ADOPT US: EMOTIONAL FATHER'S DAY GIFT

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  • @potato_dbd
    @potato_dbd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11819

    The fact that everyone calls him 'dad' already says a lot.
    Respect to everyone.

    • @i_curlyy
      @i_curlyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      @Anal Farmer damn another loner who’s trying to dissuade step parents from acting like an actual responsible parent. Just because you lack familial love, doesn’t mean others do. This family is obviously happy and content with their father instead of some man (the biological father) who doesn’t seem to be in the picture. Trying to dissuade others, won’t make you any happier 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @RowlaNoCommentaryWarzone
      @RowlaNoCommentaryWarzone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yep biggest respect to the step dads out there

    • @deadandrotting
      @deadandrotting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@i_curlyy you killed him dud 💀
      what'd he day though lol

    • @alexkuo3832
      @alexkuo3832 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We were forced to say dad lol asians.

    • @Thomas-dw1nb
      @Thomas-dw1nb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Michael020 lot's of bio-dads whose kids don't know them either.

  • @TheNightshotBR
    @TheNightshotBR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10810

    Every father is a gangsta until their children melt their hearts.

    • @tarunmahesh4711
      @tarunmahesh4711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      True, couldn't ask for a better father in the world. Must've done something right in a previous life to have him as a father in this life. Wow.

    • @magsnka3495
      @magsnka3495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Soooo trueeeee. Friends and cousins have always been scared of my teddy bear of a father and I used to be confused as to why hahaha

    • @TheNightshotBR
      @TheNightshotBR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @NN D He feeds them, clothes them, shelters them, cares for them, provides a family and love for them.
      And since they love him inconditionally, I´m pretty sure they are his for life.
      And they just proved it in this video.

    • @TheNightshotBR
      @TheNightshotBR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @NN D He´s not the biological father, sure. But to say he doesn´t love them as his childrem is pretty shitty, man.

    • @agnieszkagrenczuk
      @agnieszkagrenczuk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right👍👍

  • @luc9867
    @luc9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7804

    you know he's a dad through and through because his immediate reaction is to say "no"
    there is no dad on this earth who could resist such a perfect dad joke opportunity

    • @jadev-a7563
      @jadev-a7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      You are so right 🥰

    • @EmmaWilliams2
      @EmmaWilliams2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      lol my dad would have said the same thing... hes always messing around like that XD

    • @erzuru1207
      @erzuru1207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @Happy Flowers Why is that a bad time?

    • @i_can_c_u_2295
      @i_can_c_u_2295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Happy Flowers that’s the best time for a joke you can get.

    • @r.m8146
      @r.m8146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@user-p7up8l4k That's the kind of proselytizing that makes people hate religion. As an atheist, thank you for being like that.

  • @postone2821
    @postone2821 ปีที่แล้ว +2656

    This is so heartwarming. I tried to adopt my stepdaughter when she was younger but her 'real' dad would not sign the documents (even though he had absolutely no part in her life, even refusing to pay child support). I raised her since she was two years old. My daughter then surprised me on my birthday six months after after she turned 18. She had legally changed her last name to mine.

    • @devvoid1312
      @devvoid1312 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      If you're separated and not paying support, he should absolutely have no say. He wanted a say but not bad enough to actually support his kids...very telling.

    • @Survival.Intuition
      @Survival.Intuition ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Congrats on not only being a good father, but on being her real father.

    • @thebigt42
      @thebigt42 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      That made me cry

    • @Truthisstrangerthanfiction8
      @Truthisstrangerthanfiction8 ปีที่แล้ว

      @tylerlopes476If you are paying child support and not a threat to the child, demand the court to give visitation. Your wife nor the courts can require child support without visitation.
      You do not need an attorney for this, just the courage to stand on your square. I know what I'm talking about.
      Also, if you have health insurance for your child, the courts can't require any other support. The judge or attorney won't tell you that support is support because it will affect the demonic extorting system in place.

    • @MetalBaller83
      @MetalBaller83 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s an awesome story too! Love it. Again; that’s REAL MAN shit. We need more men like you guys. Thank you for doing what you do. Cheers! 💪🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @jackmetei7960
    @jackmetei7960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37844

    As somebody said, he is not the step-dad but he is the dad that stepped up.

    • @colinamber2313
      @colinamber2313  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2495

      I LOVE this!!

    • @ronin4073
      @ronin4073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +474

      That statement is a perfect example of class my friend!

    • @evh4611
      @evh4611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      Great statement

    • @jassy9015
      @jassy9015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Yes! Well said😄

    • @TheRobbs
      @TheRobbs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I wish I had a stepfather like this. Awesome man with a lot of class.

  • @Connor-km2sv
    @Connor-km2sv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3410

    Putting shades on so they don't see you crying is perhaps the most classic of all dad maneuvers

    • @surrenderradio2064
      @surrenderradio2064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Haha

    • @kingoftrolls19
      @kingoftrolls19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol I would to

    • @Beatmastapat09
      @Beatmastapat09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @pacifca nonook man i was also thinkin that for the poor guy, seems cool too, but you have to admit its still touching lol

    • @driss409
      @driss409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @pacifca nonook wow, i hope you learn to see life differently some day.

    • @Will057
      @Will057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @pacifca nonook jesus christ, stfu

  • @xenorace
    @xenorace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6582

    I met my step daughter when she was just 5 months old. She is turning 17 this year. This made me cry too.

    • @AM-hf4pn
      @AM-hf4pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      At 5months being left by her biological father? How cruel.😢
      Thank you for being a father to her. You are an amazing father and a life saver. The happiness you gave to her is priceless.
      You are amazing!💚💛💙💓💗

    • @Papicrema21
      @Papicrema21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      that's your daugther adn you did a great job sir!

    • @Todd_G_FPV
      @Todd_G_FPV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      My son was 5 months old my daughters were 3 and 5 years, now they are almost 11 13 and 15. Crazy how time flies and how fast they grow huh?!

    • @endritshala7978
      @endritshala7978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kamui

    • @AM-hf4pn
      @AM-hf4pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Keven Cantu I wonder what happened to the father of your step daughter?😢 Why are there cruel fathers in this world?

  • @Christian-it8bu
    @Christian-it8bu ปีที่แล้ว +149

    As a stepdad, winning the mother's heart is easy, but her children's is on another level. Congrats.

    • @ihatemrmike7369
      @ihatemrmike7369 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He passed away 2 years later. He already got cancer to this time.

  • @jesseward1509
    @jesseward1509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9447

    Any male can be a sperm donor but it takes a special man to be a father. My “step dad” married my mother when I was 4 and my brother was 7. Spent thousands in court fighting to legally make us his. Treated us like his own from day one, gave us anything we ever could’ve wanted. Now he’s the greatest grandfather I’ve ever seen. Can’t thank the lord enough for putting him in our lives... love you dad

    • @bujkabujka9952
      @bujkabujka9952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      💙🙏🏻🧿 Such a heart warming story 💙🙏🏻🧿 God bless you all ☮️✌️

    • @cole4249
      @cole4249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Love it

    • @franciscovega2987
      @franciscovega2987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Wait...grandfather?

    • @jesseward1509
      @jesseward1509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Francisco Vega yes, me and my wife had our little girl 8/30/16.. so my “step father” is now been a grandfather for 4yr

    • @franciscovega2987
      @franciscovega2987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@jesseward1509sorry Bro for my mistake

  • @alsunpilsut
    @alsunpilsut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2263

    I love how he's all emotional and then goes "no" 🤣.

    • @RRCRDA777-55
      @RRCRDA777-55 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      We all knew the real anwser

    • @Brinton_Callahan
      @Brinton_Callahan ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Total dad response lol

    • @wheninroamful
      @wheninroamful ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Comedic relief is perfect to keep him from breaking down probably. Great vid❤

    • @duylegend1245
      @duylegend1245 ปีที่แล้ว

      Time stamp?

    • @wheninroamful
      @wheninroamful ปีที่แล้ว

      @@duylegend1245 Kinda surprised you'd ask, cuz that's the whole climax of the vid pretty much, the comedic relief to break the tension. BUT its at 4:20 ish. Good day.

  • @brucejones9423
    @brucejones9423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2550

    4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable, but to agree to be adopted by this man is very special. You must be onehell of a person and the kids are very lucky to have a person like you in their lives.

    • @ulisesacosta5543
      @ulisesacosta5543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't think Carson agreed to be adopted
      Looks like just the three girls

    • @yommievata
      @yommievata 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ulisesacosta5543 you can’t take carsson serious, he doesn’t even offer family discount 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Chris88895
      @Chris88895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn’t have said it better myself.

    • @OriginalPuro
      @OriginalPuro ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable"
      Why is that unbelievable?
      4 kids, if you ask them on Tuesday if they all want candy for dinner, they'll agree.
      Is that so hard to believe?

    • @johnny545
      @johnny545 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's screwing at least one of them

  • @TJay41
    @TJay41 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    When teenagers want you to be their father that says a whole lot about the type of person you are, what a good example showing not all stepparents are horrible

    • @ihatemrmike7369
      @ihatemrmike7369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He passed away 2 years later. He already got cancer to this time.

  • @ajt51508
    @ajt51508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3507

    When I married my wife she had a 6-year-old son that never knew his father. Told me he prayed for Dad. I adopted him. He's now going on 21 and a junior in college. I'm so proud of that boy. This made me cry like a baby. Thank you

    • @Itsmestephd
      @Itsmestephd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      He's your boy ! Thank you for being the man he needed to help guide him

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      My grandpa adopted my father when he was young. This hits home

    • @EdsterIII
      @EdsterIII 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@asarishepard8171 My Dad was adopted by his real mom's sister and her husband. They raised my Dad as their own, as his mom was an alcoholic. Sadly he also became alcoholic, and my Grandparents helped raise me at times as well. It's the MAN who makes the Dad, not the title who dictates who is who. God Bless you all for all you have done and do for these kids.

    • @bamdingayan3906
      @bamdingayan3906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭😭😻😻

    • @bamdingayan3906
      @bamdingayan3906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Godbless you Sir

  • @JulaH
    @JulaH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2408

    Being an adoptee myself, this made me cry. Aren't we just the luckiest people in the world to have people in our lives who chose to love us unconditionally? All the best to you and your family!

    • @irenelozano8303
      @irenelozano8303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      My sister is adopted from China and let me correct you: we, the adopting family, are the lucky ones! You, adoptees, are our little miracles, and the love YOU give us is far greater than anything in this world. It is our honor and privilege to have you in our lives.

    • @Ольга-ж5к4й
      @Ольга-ж5к4й 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wasn't adopted, I was just rised with no one attention, my biggest tragedy is still my cat that lived with me more than 15 years once gone and never comes back. When my dad died it wasn't a problem. But my little smart kind caring girl... I'm still crying.

    • @oneeks5908
      @oneeks5908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!

    • @Matchpoint_TV
      @Matchpoint_TV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Julia, i am an adoptee too, and i could not agree more with what you said. I have Always felt priviliged , Always felt the responsibility to give somehow back the luck i got in My Life . I Hope One day to be able to do random acts of kindness full time, that's why i Also opened a YT Channel and that's why i study to work in the healthcare system.

    • @goldenhabittarot7724
      @goldenhabittarot7724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is bitter sweet for me cuz my step father/adoptive father was very mean (he did very illegal things to me) and treated me very different from his biological daughter. So I’m glad ppl have good experiences with step fathers it’s just that off it hurts bc of my situation lol

  • @kiatukichafu
    @kiatukichafu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1826

    To be honest , jokes aside this guy is a real man. He must be a good dad.... really nice human being bless his heart .

    • @MrKulturembargo
      @MrKulturembargo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @J S REAL MAN!

    • @opdinkleberg7078
      @opdinkleberg7078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's a good guy and a good father. Let's not bring frankly sexist language into this thank you.
      Adopting kids that aren't yours doesn't make you a real Man or Woman. Remember if it would sound messed up reversed then maybe you shouldn't be saying it.

    • @haitaelpastor976
      @haitaelpastor976 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd rather be "false" than a beta cuck.

    • @hashbrown4278
      @hashbrown4278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wrong. This doesn’t make him a “real man”.

    • @hashbrown4278
      @hashbrown4278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrKulturembargo no

  • @organicmechanic5150
    @organicmechanic5150 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    All he asks for on father's day is a sibling photograph and you all ask him to be your real father. You guys have my respect.
    Seeing his response meant it means everything to him.

  • @francesca1870
    @francesca1870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1604

    As a child of divorced parents who never had a father figure in her life, I appreciate these men. Who protect and love their step children. Don’t hurt them or talk them down. They step up to the plate and they love their wives kids just like their own. Shows true love, loving every part of their partner. That takes a great man. You can tell how much he loves you guys and that you love and appreciate him in return. You have a beautiful family💜

    • @ashlynnelson2595
      @ashlynnelson2595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You and me both girl!

    • @denisebucknall1591
      @denisebucknall1591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm same only met my dad once in 49 years...
      Men like him are just amazing they deserve to be called dad 🥰🥰

    • @meiligracevids
      @meiligracevids 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry honey. You are beautiful

    • @benniehazelwood9276
      @benniehazelwood9276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @tinaroberts5858
      @tinaroberts5858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I never knew my father, these girls are very fortunate

  • @roserocks1979
    @roserocks1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3353

    My stepdad walked me down the aisle.My bio dad didn't come to my wedding for that reason.But it was my stepdad who raised me.Who was there for every bump,bruise,and every time I was sick.He came to every play,choral performance,etc.That's what being a father is about.

    • @colinamber2313
      @colinamber2313  4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

      I couldn’t agree more, my step dad (who I consider my dad) is definitely going to be the one to walk me down the isle.

    • @kimberlynelson6104
      @kimberlynelson6104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      You did the right thing. Glad you respected the man who put in the time and effort.

    • @roserocks1979
      @roserocks1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kimberlynelson6104 ty

    • @misshoneynevercame4832
      @misshoneynevercame4832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      You did the right thing. I think your stepdad would have been hurt inside if he could not walk you down the aisle after he raised you and loved you for all those years. It takes a boy to make a child but a man to raise one.

    • @roserocks1979
      @roserocks1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@misshoneynevercame4832 I agree thanks

  • @Waaagghhh
    @Waaagghhh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3274

    Very cute - takes a real man to raise kids the way he has, he’s a legend

    • @roywright9804
      @roywright9804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It doesn't matter if the children are blood you fall in love with them just as you would if they were born with your blood !

    • @ibadbleepp2791
      @ibadbleepp2791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      To bad my dad's a full in wasteman

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Ann Vo Betas..who raise other males' childs are betas and get eliminated via natural selection.

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Ann Vo Bullshit...whoever in the history raised another male's child got eliminated via natural selection...and the males who protected their partners and only raised their own offspring, passed on their genes...and we are their descendents. Look into the Lion Pride...Look how the males behave😂 you will get your answer.
      'true alphas do this and that blah blah for society'- So that it benefits irresponsible women. I am not a simp. These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on me. I have read the story about 'White feather campaign' women tried the same thing... that's how millions of men died....Nice try though...These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on everyone.
      Edit: also if that's what an alpha does(sacrificing for society that doesn't give a fck about us), I am better of not being an alpha.

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Ann Vo All personal attacks! "You are whiny this, you are that"...you can date whomever you want none of my concern....and I said at the end if that's what an alpha is then I am better of not being one. You can have your opinions. But personally I would never be invested in someone else's offspring.. I want to pass on all my earnings and properties to my own genetic offspring.
      Also a 'simp' is a guy who sympathizes with womankind. Where do you see me doing that?? In fact I am quite the opposite.
      Edit: I am assuming that you are from USA cuz you tried to make me feel that I am missing out on having a great partner like you cuz you would only date an older man...well, the thing is in my country there's prostitution legal...unlike men in USA we don't need to kowtow to women for mating rights. That's why sex is not a big deal here in my country(it's human psychology- something which is available is not a big deal) and someone wouldn't date me, that's also not a big deal. We only stay with women who care for us. If someone wants to go, they are free to go.

  • @bethcochrane2294
    @bethcochrane2294 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    I married my husband in 2004 and he was a true father to my 3 children. He passed away in 2015. My children adored him. Congratulations to Ben and you all. What a wonderful man Ben must be!

    • @yimszy4588
      @yimszy4588 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      im so sorry to hear that may he rest in peace,

    • @bethcochrane2294
      @bethcochrane2294 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@yimszy4588 Thank you!

    • @pollomaniac
      @pollomaniac ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you had 3 kids with another man and got another dude to take care of them , did you atleast give the step dad a kid of he's own ?

    • @bethcochrane2294
      @bethcochrane2294 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@pollomaniac He said he considered the three children from my first marriage his!

    • @pollomaniac
      @pollomaniac ปีที่แล้ว

      @Beth Cochrane I'm not trying to be an idiot ok first of all , but that man's legacy he's blood line then is over

  • @SynFull6988
    @SynFull6988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1191

    The “No” killed me lol. My dad would say the same thing. This is the best video. His emotion to the letters were overwhelming. So cute.

    • @leahsrblx5080
      @leahsrblx5080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What time

    • @tree123169
      @tree123169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dad as well. The greatest fathers always seem to know right thing to say. Or when not to say anything.
      Family when done right is so powerful.

    • @jessynicholle
      @jessynicholle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leahsrblx5080 5:30

    • @senfumastevens3076
      @senfumastevens3076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi sister Asha hope you are doing well and I call you upon to get involved in our music school foundation. Glory be to God

  • @anqilala
    @anqilala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1630

    It's funny and sad how much he tries to hold back his tears 😊. Everybody is allowed to cry and especially if its out of happiness 🙂.

    • @sneebil
      @sneebil 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      This isn't about "being allowed to cry" it's about men always needed to be strong in the past, if they weren't, it'd be the end of the race for them.
      That being, men today still feel the need to hold it all in and be strong.
      This causes what you see here.

    • @123ididntpee8
      @123ididntpee8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sneebil yea your right but some people react differently alothough here you can see he's holding back years other people let's say some died they may not appear to be greifing but they really are it's not their holding it back like me I'm just like that so is my dad

    • @gigggla
      @gigggla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Its one of the reason men die earlyer than women, cant remember where i read it, but basically we are expected to always be strong and hate cute things and so on, so where women grieve, cry and let their feelings out and get past it, men tend to just bottle it up and push it deep down inside and shit like that builds up with years, so you end up getting stroke, heart conditions, stomac bleeding and yeah alot of shit caused from stress and struggle.

    • @thedarkblackspeedy3140
      @thedarkblackspeedy3140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He was trying to upheld article 41 from the bro code, a bro never cry,

    • @martinsosa3453
      @martinsosa3453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, that's the thing, since we were kids, men were always told to be strong, that men don't cry. I don't know if it's about instinct or a social thing, but it's natural, we don't allow other people to see us cry or in our "weak" or vulnerable spot. And that's really sad tbh.

  • @Justthe2ofUs843
    @Justthe2ofUs843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1378

    The day my 9 year old step son asked me to adopt him was a very special day and an honor. . That was 22 years ago. This video made my eyes water. Any man can be a father, but only some can be a Dad. Congratulations to you Dad, and to your lovely children .

    • @ire1398
      @ire1398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Here I am bawling because the man who raised me from 4yo who I called Daddy dropped me with my mother in 1990.

    • @maiyukinoshita2458
      @maiyukinoshita2458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're absolutely right!

    • @maiyukinoshita2458
      @maiyukinoshita2458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lewis C the earth is already overpopulated. theres no harm in raising kids that arent yours and treating them right.

    • @ire1398
      @ire1398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lewis C your DNA isn’t special, and with that attitude neither are you.

    • @ire1398
      @ire1398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lewis C you are a cruel and petty person

  • @sayseriously
    @sayseriously ปีที่แล้ว +111

    What a guy. You can see the love and admiration. We need more fathers like this.

    • @AbBc-w4q
      @AbBc-w4q ปีที่แล้ว +3

      and good mothers too. so many of them are awful yet seemingly get a pass just because they are "mothers"

  • @thatsmybikepunk195
    @thatsmybikepunk195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1303

    He honoured those kids by raising them as if they were his own and they honoured him by asking him to be their dad, that’s one of the coolest things I’ve seen on youtube. Congrats guys.

    • @deanclarke5111
      @deanclarke5111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He became their dad the day he took responsibility of those kids. Respect 🙏.

    • @ThePhilosophicalOne
      @ThePhilosophicalOne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He won't be allowed to raise them "as if they were his own." The moment he tries to discipline them, she will throw that, "He's not your son! Don't you dare touch him!" bs at him...

    • @haitaelpastor976
      @haitaelpastor976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, congrats to the guy for his Simp of the Year award.

    • @se-gj2me
      @se-gj2me 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ThePhilosophicalOne stop projecting dude

    • @hashbrown4278
      @hashbrown4278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@se-gj2me there’s some truth to it

  • @rayleonard882
    @rayleonard882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1019

    From one step dad to another , that’s the biggest compliment you will ever receive! Be proud man your doing just fine 👍

    • @MsFoxy2011
      @MsFoxy2011 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately he passed away but in certain he knew he was amazing ❤

  • @An0nDEViant
    @An0nDEViant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1590

    I'm not an emotional person but when my stepson wrote a paper for class stating why he looks up to me and wants to be like me. Made me cry like a baby.

    • @lesliecalvert3458
      @lesliecalvert3458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      This is beautiful..because to him you're a hero...and when they express how they feel about us parents in front of friends and teachers that is saying something fantastic about your relationship..and that is a beautiful feeling...i love the bond you have...

    • @jesusisrisen8447
      @jesusisrisen8447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Repent to Jesus Christ
      “The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”
      ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18:10‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    • @Thomas-um5pv
      @Thomas-um5pv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@jesusisrisen8447 why do you have to bring religion to a comment with no relation with it whatsoever

    • @gadorgamingtv2989
      @gadorgamingtv2989 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He died

    • @natalievu4399
      @natalievu4399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jesusisrisen8447 what does repenting to Jesus has to do with his comment? You are weird!

  • @deltapi84
    @deltapi84 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The way everyone call him "DAD" answer so many questions ... I wish you all happiness☺

  • @grandmasadvice4791
    @grandmasadvice4791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    I love it when “Tough guys” cry. You always were their dad.

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @NN D ?

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Nick Nanna tf? did ur dad ditch u?

    • @BH-nf5lv
      @BH-nf5lv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Nick Nanna 🤡🤡🤡

  • @mrdashin8323
    @mrdashin8323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2615

    They were already his kids, now it's offical.

  • @knjigofilizam
    @knjigofilizam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2339

    I met my stepdad when I was 9. Back then, he was just my mum's friend. And I wanted him to be my dad soooo badly! He was so nice to me, genuinely nice and really cared about me. Eventually, my mum fell in love with him (he was in love with her for a long time already) and they got together when I was 10. When I was 14, they got married and now I have great parents and 3 baby sisters 🥰
    Beautiful family I have always wanted 🥰

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      🤗🤗🤗🙏🏾

    • @amirz8649
      @amirz8649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💚

    • @miniflamingo3743
      @miniflamingo3743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You are an amazing person, I am so glad you got your wish

    • @noemi2007
      @noemi2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤🙏🏾🥰

    • @gabriallopez1759
      @gabriallopez1759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This comment was so beautiful. God bless you

  • @klue30
    @klue30 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    How special and beautiful.. I met my step dad when I was 9 years old, I am now 39 and he is my world and my father. I was so broken as a child , he gave me unconditional love , taught me to independent women, and helped me with my career path. I am forever grateful and blessed. What a beautiful story ... So happy for you all❤

  • @coffeewithcarline9171
    @coffeewithcarline9171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    He even when he cries, he’s handsome. What a beautiful man with a beautiful soul.

  • @ramleehamdin1847
    @ramleehamdin1847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2970

    Every Harley Davidson father is a hell rider until they get adoption letter.

  • @GabrielGonzalez-fs9eb
    @GabrielGonzalez-fs9eb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +878

    Why in the world would people dislike such a special and heartfelt moment is beyond my comprehension.

    • @theoneandonlymraguilar9456
      @theoneandonlymraguilar9456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      They disliked because no one wants to be their dad..sad

    • @pablozee6359
      @pablozee6359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bots

    • @joeldeserve4685
      @joeldeserve4685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Some people are against the idea of step-children.

    • @missrks7217
      @missrks7217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      One of the sweetest things I’ve watched in a while. Honestly made my day :)

    • @robertturnip7850
      @robertturnip7850 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't dislike, but why would somebody adopt adult children?

  • @cjpsmachado
    @cjpsmachado ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I was blessed with a 9 years old daughter, when she graduated as an attorney her first law action was to adopt me as her father. That was the best gift I ever had in my life. She still fills my heart with pride every day for being her father. Being a father doesn't have nothing to do with making a baby, it's raising them, being by their sides all the way thru life, that makes you a father.

  • @BonesTheCat
    @BonesTheCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    To have kids choose you to be their father is incredibly special, especially as young adults.

    • @adolfvonpanzer9521
      @adolfvonpanzer9521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And for the man to say yes is incredibly stupid. 💰💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💰

    • @OriginalPuro
      @OriginalPuro ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's not their father, the father is out there laughing because someone is taking care of his lineage, DNA, and paying for it.
      I would never pay for another man's child, that's just weird.

    • @vancai999
      @vancai999 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OriginalPuro You look like a miserable man. Your life must be so sad...

    • @Jack01010
      @Jack01010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@OriginalPuro It's not about money, it's about love: if you don't want to pay, you don't build up a family anyway, but if you marry someone for LOVE, then you wish even their family loves you, right? after 16 years of growing 4 step-children that had a different dad before, loving them even if they may not recognize you, and then they decide to RECOGNIZE you as their DAD, you would be happy too, no? Or would you refuse because they are not related by blood with you? It's just stupid.
      There are families out there that adopt kids that are without family, and if you think about it there are a LOT of children out there that waits to be adopted.

    • @adolfvonpanzer9521
      @adolfvonpanzer9521 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jack01010 in America love is money and money is love……..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Karmelli
    @Karmelli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I don’t know why this was suggested in my feed, but it blessed me to see someone step up and be a father to wonderful children. It gives me hope. What a beautiful moment. ❤️

    • @ashleyrt3345
      @ashleyrt3345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same! It was in my suggestions, he seems like a such a cool and amazing dad, God bless their whole family x

  • @Horseluvver
    @Horseluvver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate all the GREAT STEPDADS out there.
    I had one, too.
    I love him forever.

  • @carlomagno7092
    @carlomagno7092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +883

    My father used to say, children belong to who love them.

    • @doomslayer960
      @doomslayer960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That sounds so wrong

    • @7imonUP
      @7imonUP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Great saying!

    • @Irystocrat1134
      @Irystocrat1134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@doomslayer960 it means if their biological parents doesn't love them, they don't own them.

    • @anxiousmindmusic
      @anxiousmindmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@doomslayer960 only sounds wrong to people who sexualise children. Get help.

    • @standardecover7041
      @standardecover7041 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anxiousmindmusic what if someone love them, and they hate those someone?

  • @robertbigelow1338
    @robertbigelow1338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +754

    You know he's a good man if he's made these kids want him to be their father. God Bless him and God Bless them for having that much respect

    • @rev.jimjonesandthekool-aid4488
      @rev.jimjonesandthekool-aid4488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen

    • @jrc6368
      @jrc6368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Took the words out of my mouth Robert!

    • @bluwng
      @bluwng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone is on display nowadays, mini Hollywood producers.

    • @SplitGoose
      @SplitGoose 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bluwng mmmmm. Ngl I feel like this was a way to boost this channel

    • @bluwng
      @bluwng 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SplitGoose Bible says people will become lovers of themselves and have no genuine love for each other, they will have a form of Godliness but not know God. Using people genuine emotions for a winning shot was what evil Hollywood demons did, now everyone is a smaller version of evil.

  • @arktkt06
    @arktkt06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    Met my daughter when she was five. Raised and accepted her as my own and gladly spent a lifetime searching for her smile. Proudest day of my life was her asking me to walk her down the aisle. I may have given her away that day, but she’s still my little girl.

    • @icravemusic
      @icravemusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This comment made me tear up and cry. May you and your little girl have a lifetime of love and beautiful memories 💖

    • @arktkt06
      @arktkt06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Nicole j thank you. She’s an amazing young woman, and just became a mother herself.

    • @sivor20
      @sivor20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      arktkt06 congratulations!

    • @ssibhah
      @ssibhah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm not crying!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @arktkt06
      @arktkt06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ivor Smith I feel like I’ve done something right with my life, because she chose to accept me in her life.

  • @elissalabellelabelle4819
    @elissalabellelabelle4819 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Step dads are a very special. Most guys don’t want to come near a single mom. It takes a lot of love and generosity to take on another man’s child. ❤

    • @pastorofmuppets363
      @pastorofmuppets363 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It takes weakness and no self respect. Any man with a working set of testes, isn't taking care of another man's kids. 😂

    • @aiuchiha111
      @aiuchiha111 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastorofmuppets363 Your whole existence is about your balls, why should we listen to you?

    • @Jeffro23_
      @Jeffro23_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pastorofmuppets363what?..

    • @Jeffro23_
      @Jeffro23_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pastorofmuppets363 are you saying kids who have a dad bail on them don’t deserve to have another father figure step in?

    • @EmiNo-il1gs
      @EmiNo-il1gs ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know how old you are but you better get your act together. Even at age 4 I wouldn't even say that... to be honest I wouldn't even think it. Do you know how hard raising children are especially as a single parent is?! You should really speak to somebody about this and get some help if you think that is ok.

  • @treezy7848
    @treezy7848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    As a 14 year old boy I hope I can grow into a man like this

    • @viperdemonz-jenkins
      @viperdemonz-jenkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      sounds like you are on the right path to be like him.

    • @emilhartmann3039
      @emilhartmann3039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's exactely what i thought while watching this... I'm also 14 and i want to be such a great man/dad sometimes🥺

    • @AndreaGarcia-hf1es
      @AndreaGarcia-hf1es 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you will be! Just make it happen :)

    • @pmsd6066
      @pmsd6066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you want it to ,you can.

    • @skillfuldabest
      @skillfuldabest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol rule number #1 is to never date a single mother. But I guess you’re still a blue pilled youngster. I recommend you read the book ‘The Rational Male’.

  • @williamstokely9589
    @williamstokely9589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4972

    I see no step dad here. Just a father who loves his kids. Blood doesnt matter.

    • @melindagonzalez7326
      @melindagonzalez7326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You are right

    • @ouroborosbond7412
      @ouroborosbond7412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It does when it comes to child maintenance

    • @williamstokely9589
      @williamstokely9589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@ouroborosbond7412 I have 3 that have no blood in common with me and 3 that are blood related and none of them are different in my eyes.. I get you were trying to be smart and funny about blood type but it wasn't either.

    • @britmarwick156
      @britmarwick156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!

    • @robsnook4512
      @robsnook4512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I may not be your father boy but I’m still your daddy

  • @Toysoldier9527
    @Toysoldier9527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2884

    Masculinity is not toxic. It is brave, humble and caring.

    • @iwillbnnedafterispeakwhy6498
      @iwillbnnedafterispeakwhy6498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@nayverma6489 seek help

    • @katho3840
      @katho3840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@nayverma6489 go see a doctor you're a psycho

    • @Richard-lh3te
      @Richard-lh3te 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      This is an example of positive masculinity, there are definitely toxic manifestations.

    • @hafizmakiglalis4380
      @hafizmakiglalis4380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Well beating your wife and kids to submit is toxic masculinity, but this one is positive masculinity

    • @coolman3012
      @coolman3012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      @@hafizmakiglalis4380 masculinity never involves hurting someone that's vulnerable, that's called insecurity, domestic violence and abuse

  • @conorryan3035
    @conorryan3035 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You could tell from his reaction that this is all that guy ever wanted and you could tell from the way his family treated him that they wanted it too. Fantastic result all round - I wish this family the best of luck!

  • @ClaytonMRay
    @ClaytonMRay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2998

    All the other Dads watching: *puts glasses on*

    • @danmedeiros6676
      @danmedeiros6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LOl I died

    • @humanbeing1675
      @humanbeing1675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes😏

    • @白髪りす
      @白髪りす 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Looks like its ganna rain today.

    • @deadlyHazyyy
      @deadlyHazyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What do you mean.. I'm not even a dad :(

    • @ClaytonMRay
      @ClaytonMRay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@deadlyHazyyy you dont have to be a dad to love this haha

  • @kirbster7392
    @kirbster7392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1061

    That saying, “blood is thicker than water” actually goes like this...”the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Meaning the people you choose is stronger than the people you’re forced upon. Congrats on the official dad!

    • @smithers4420
      @smithers4420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yep, It's pretty much the reverse of what people think it means lol :)

    • @jahmathes221
      @jahmathes221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Blood is thicker than water but they both spill....wise saying I once heard

    • @tabatha5554
      @tabatha5554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's deep lol! Seriously though that is awesome.

    • @scottswisher4840
      @scottswisher4840 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!

    • @itsmeaubrey
      @itsmeaubrey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NN D it’s nonsense only if you don’t get it.

  • @Aphex51
    @Aphex51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +572

    From just seeing a few minutes of this man's character I can understand why they made that decision. Family is who you choose.

  • @SupermanHopkins
    @SupermanHopkins ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That man stepped up and took care of *four* kids? I have no idea what happened with the mom and her previous guy, but to leave it after four kids tells me that it had to be a hellacious experience. Shout out to this guy for bringing peace, love and stability.

  • @Nina-mv1sj
    @Nina-mv1sj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +829

    These kind of stories should be on everydays news to inspire others instead of constant fear mongering. What a beautiful heart warming special moment.

    • @harrydavey9884
      @harrydavey9884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Man, I could not agree more

    • @mariom4143
      @mariom4143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely!

    • @embeDes
      @embeDes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, yeah... I took them 'only' 16 years to ask him. ;)

    • @elijahdieker7016
      @elijahdieker7016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God is pro choice and pro-life people are NOT for life, they are for CONTROL.
      Trump was the false prophet, the lawless one that lead many astray.
      James 5:2 All the wealth stored up will be used as evidence against rich people to burn them!!
      A camel can NOT go through the eye of a needle.
      Anyone that sits on billions of dollars and watches people starve, suffer, and be raped and homeless in the world but chooses to do nothing about it is NOT a Christian.
      GET AWAY FROM WOLVES AND FALSE TEACHERS AND GET OUT OF THE FAKE CHURCHES OR YOU ARE GOING TO DIE WITH THEM AND THEIR LIES. JUDGEMENT IS FALLING.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and fireballs are going to hit the fake churches. GET OUT AND STAY OUT. This is not a joke.
      If you care anything about celebrity wolves, you will do everything you can to reach them and tell them theres not much time left for them to get on the right side. Even Oprah, she might spend millions on helping people but if you are still sitting on billions, that doesn't even qualify for lukewam and she has already been spit out.
      Anyone teaching the monetary tithing LIE or collecting money for ministering in any way is now in THE GREAT TRIBULATION and they will begin to suffer until they repent or it's too late and they die. It's their choice. All worship groups, bookwriters, and every fake minister KNOWS selling anything using the gospel is against the Bible and evil. Do you really comprehend that they are INTENTIONALLY LYING to people?
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-12 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to repent and bring back the money they were never supposed to take and God will end Covid. Every single minister on television has known this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much, they INTENTIONALLY CHOSE TO KILL everyone with Covid instead of bringing it back!
      WOW! Are you awake yet?
      Being awake is a GOOD thing, don't listen to demon hybrids that tell you otherwise.
      And the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships in Mathew 19:12 FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. Male or female is determined by gender located in the brain, not sex characteristics. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 so any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me.....

    • @traphuntnstuff8096
      @traphuntnstuff8096 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well… the horror stories of step-parenting far outweigh the happy endings.

  • @joegaragozzo1640
    @joegaragozzo1640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    My stepson was 8months old when I met my ex. She is gone, he is still in my life. He is my kid, my buddy and the love and respect between us is something special. He is 22 now, his mom put both of us through the fucking ringer. We survived together. Best buds!

    • @raiden6551
      @raiden6551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you are a hero dude.

    • @rayaseem
      @rayaseem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you 🙂

  • @BRENDA92121
    @BRENDA92121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    Can’t stop crying imagine how good this man has been to his kids that they would even set this up heard them all say dad like a thousand times lol clearly the greatest dad and husband god bless this family

  • @nanina2034
    @nanina2034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I laughed and cry.He is the real FATHER the real man who raised these kids and that's one happy family.

  • @bryanbellar9188
    @bryanbellar9188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Man, what a great gift for this man. My “stepdad” raised me since I was 6 months old and for 99% of my life has been the only dad I’ve known. I will be 32 soon and he’s still my dad. Even though him and my mom divorced. Can’t ever replace the real men who step up to the plate when others step out

    • @austinnsuff6576
      @austinnsuff6576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's so sweet. I'm glad you have a dad who loves you! Everyone needs that.

    • @3211-r7z
      @3211-r7z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He sounds like a very good man God Bless Him and you 🙏❤

  • @EugeneSoong
    @EugeneSoong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1520

    As Yondu once said, "He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn’t your daddy.” This man may not be her biological father, but he sure is her daddy.

    • @bananasxv5558
      @bananasxv5558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Omfg that’s the best quote

    • @babyyoda2190
      @babyyoda2190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That reminds me when is the next one gonna come out

    • @dhruvs015
      @dhruvs015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Guardian of the galaxy 👍

    • @Holderman-lj2rw
      @Holderman-lj2rw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@babyyoda2190 whenever “they decide” to allow people to see movies , cuz I’m sure there filming it now along with Thor love and thunder.

    • @babyyoda2190
      @babyyoda2190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Holderman-lj2rw one of my privies theaters let’s people it’s called movie grill I think it’s something like that tho

  • @OZEEtube
    @OZEEtube 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I grew up without a father and had no support from him all my life. Some won’t take care of their own.
    Then there are people like you. Having a dad at home makes a huge difference for peoples lives. Thank you for being such a great guy.

  • @jurrienvanrooy7469
    @jurrienvanrooy7469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    As a father of a daughter and soon a son too, this hits me right in the feels. The role (and duty) of a father isn’t a birthright, it’s an accomplishment. You’ve got to earn it. This man absolutely earned it.

    • @offlineraided
      @offlineraided 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @oOIIIMIIIOo
      @oOIIIMIIIOo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@offlineraided Not lol, that's right. 🙂

  • @garyellis456
    @garyellis456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    What a wonderful family - nothing bigger than a man with tears.

  • @michaellashua8574
    @michaellashua8574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    I had a “step dad” that never had the chance to become my legal step dad. I wish he had the chance to become my legal step dad before he was gone forever. This video made me cry, and I haven’t cried in over 3 years. Thank you for the emotional release.

    • @iamf6641
      @iamf6641 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i havent cried for 10 years.

    • @iamf6641
      @iamf6641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i dont know why.

    • @samuelcampbell249
      @samuelcampbell249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sit back and cry, you deserve all good things in your life, wishing you all the best of luck in life.

    • @jerryfrederick6610
      @jerryfrederick6610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not all crying is bad and if you cry about love it is strength not weakness.

    • @YieM1331
      @YieM1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As long as you loved your step dad and treated him like a dad he knew !!!

  • @riverrebel1
    @riverrebel1 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I appreciate the 8 minute look into this man. You can tell in that little time what a genuine person he was. He made me laugh and tear up, then cry a when I saw the news. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope time has made it a little better. I'll remember him, RIP from a stranger

    • @ArtyMerchant
      @ArtyMerchant ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where did it say he died? I think he's alive dude.

    • @naeemagbani920
      @naeemagbani920 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@ArtyMerchant He died of cancer in 2022

    • @ArtyMerchant
      @ArtyMerchant ปีที่แล้ว

      @@naeemagbani920 very sorry to hear that.

    • @anthonycolbert6774
      @anthonycolbert6774 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@naeemagbani920 fuck dammit fuck cancer I should have quit scrolling and reading the comments.

  • @karensimplyadventurous7305
    @karensimplyadventurous7305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Base on experience. Family is not only about blood. Its about the love and care u show unconditionally.

    • @taylor.g.
      @taylor.g. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep, and this comes to show that I have nO faMily. ;-;

    • @karensimplyadventurous7305
      @karensimplyadventurous7305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kylejr1467 i agree. It is case to case situation. Some find love and care by blood and some are not.

  • @mercynyaramba8538
    @mercynyaramba8538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    The fact that they already call him dad is absolutely amazing 🥰🥰

    • @eman1757
      @eman1757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So proud he is. Beautiful family.

  • @michaelbaumann42
    @michaelbaumann42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Blood doesn't make a family..... LOVE does..... mad respect...

  • @alidadebruyn36
    @alidadebruyn36 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This hits hard to home. So sweet and special. I have a step daughter and son we had custody of both of them from when she was 5 and I tell you she is so very special to me. We have a very close bond now, she is in her 30’s but I love her as if she was flesh of my flesh and blood of my blood ❤️

  • @imalwaysright
    @imalwaysright 2 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    You could tell he is a great dad when all he wants for Father’s Day is a photo of his children ❤️

  • @matthwsjosh78
    @matthwsjosh78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    I know exactly how he felt reading that as my girls did the same thing to me and I’m just here to tell everyone words can’t explain the emotions. Your a lucky man brother cherish it

  • @highlander752
    @highlander752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    For these children to ask him to adopt them as young adults means he is obviously a great dad and a great man. I wish there more stand up men like this guy. You are very lucky to have each other.

    • @rowenramnath2016
      @rowenramnath2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But theirs one selfish single mom that breakup her 4 boyfriends. With two kids that wants a stepdad

    • @msgirly6827
      @msgirly6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rowenramnath2016 this made no sense

    • @CP-ir3ft
      @CP-ir3ft 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rowenramnath2016 ?

    • @rowenramnath2016
      @rowenramnath2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@b.s.bobbyshaw we were friends for now and before. He could be not a good person. 3 guys she always breakup with them.

    • @rowenramnath2016
      @rowenramnath2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her first man with two kids. He still around.

  • @Beignetboy
    @Beignetboy ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Gotta be a solid guy to have the kids ask for you to be their dad..hats off to you good sir 👌 ❤

    • @DJ-ov2it
      @DJ-ov2it ปีที่แล้ว

      the cruel twist is that he died in 2021

    • @funnyvalentine9848
      @funnyvalentine9848 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@DJ-ov2it how?

  • @kasudano9969
    @kasudano9969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Nothing more endearing than a man trying to hold back his tears

  • @robinred1851
    @robinred1851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You could see how internally he started to get emotionally. He barely could control himself, almost crying. He must be a good man, they must be a happy family.
    God bless them all.
    With love from the Čech Republic 🇨🇿
    and stay healthy everybody 😷.

  • @JavonDGreen
    @JavonDGreen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As grown men we are taught to be tough and not show emotion. You could even see by how he wanted to put his shades down. Seeing grown men cry happy tears is the greatest joy ever. I cried right along with him. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @stringfellowhawke1610
    @stringfellowhawke1610 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Made me cry. I'm glad they see how lucky they are. I don't know them, but that's what a real man is like.

  • @robjennings9143
    @robjennings9143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    He doesn’t need paper, you can tell he’s the dad. Stunning family, wish you all the happiness life can bring 🌹🇬🇧

  • @aboulmagd88
    @aboulmagd88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4661

    I was chilling in my room and suddenly a ninja broke in and started chopping Onions...

    • @darkincognito3826
      @darkincognito3826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why will a ninja be chopping Onions tho?

    • @Snowdrop85
      @Snowdrop85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Woah! The same thing happened to me!

    • @depressedpineapple2698
      @depressedpineapple2698 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hufflepuff Harry potter lover ur username is everything

    • @Todd_G_FPV
      @Todd_G_FPV 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darkincognito3826 whoosh

    • @darkincognito3826
      @darkincognito3826 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Todd_G_FPV Hey, this ain't reddit.

  • @diana-lq7kq
    @diana-lq7kq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    When I saw him turn red, I knew he was crying, now I'm crying😭

  • @royrice6962
    @royrice6962 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a real man.Some men won't step to the plate.The fact they call him dad means a whole lot.Much love and respect to him.

    • @pastorofmuppets363
      @pastorofmuppets363 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is NOT a real man 🤣

    • @Firstofanyone
      @Firstofanyone 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pastorofmuppets363was a real man supposed to say no and start punching the wall?

  • @fernandochavez4312
    @fernandochavez4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    The greatest honor a child can give their parent is to choose them as their parents. Great job guys.

  • @melvingrimes7886
    @melvingrimes7886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1527

    Being a father who stepped up 25 years ago to help raise a wonderful son I can understand the emotions that he is feeling. I am now the proud father of a Nuke tec in the Navy and a great father himself and am proud to call my son. Love you Joseph.

    • @casie6609
      @casie6609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What you did i's a great thing but why are you proud that your son is a "Nuke tec"? If that's someone who works on nukes, that's actually horrible, he's contributing to war and death.

    • @Glee73
      @Glee73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@casie6609 nothing wrong with serving your country.. and a nuke tech doesnt work with nuclear weapons.

    • @20alphabet
      @20alphabet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Glee73
      And a real man doesn't step on the kid's real father.

    • @RockLee679
      @RockLee679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well done man

    • @melvingrimes7886
      @melvingrimes7886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RockLee679 Thank you.

  • @snehalprabhune2983
    @snehalprabhune2983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    His expressions made me cry...very kind father he is

    • @hollylou1708
      @hollylou1708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True words you are speaking 😭😭so beautiful!

    • @eclizzyfn8635
      @eclizzyfn8635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did not make me cry im a dam man

    • @brokemrbeast1826
      @brokemrbeast1826 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eli Swanson Men cry, that’s a man right there

  • @focanopiano
    @focanopiano ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fatherhood is the best thing a man can experience in his life... I'm 3 times sure of it.

  • @ettenadra
    @ettenadra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Growing up as a divorcee child, and now raising my teen son as a single parent, I couldn’t stop myself from shedding a tear. God bless fathers like him, we need more of them in the world

    • @gabriella2682
      @gabriella2682 ปีที่แล้ว

      I truly hope you are doing better or will soon. I'm a single mom and I send my love to you ♡

  • @fridaakanbi6752
    @fridaakanbi6752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Waooooooo if all humans were like him the world would be a better place

  • @animallove6991
    @animallove6991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    “ No.” Typical dad; made me laugh!

  • @t-bonet-bone713
    @t-bonet-bone713 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s ok to cry. Those tears at that moment are the only way to truly and accurately express what you feel when words can’t.

  • @mr1597
    @mr1597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    I grew up and aged out in foster care, and these stories always make me happy for all those kids who found fathers and mothers who stepped up for them. All the best!

    • @justinl9077
      @justinl9077 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sorry you never had parents. If someone had adoped you, they would've been blessed.

    • @jen4um
      @jen4um ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m so sorry you went through that and it must have been very difficult and hopeless at times. I imagine that hurts the soul and your heart. I wish for you one day to find a truly loving woman, be married, and be able to be a father yourself and cherish your kids. Show them all the love you deserved from your biological parents.

    • @jeancarlosperez2863
      @jeancarlosperez2863 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My granpa was actually like you. Most stern yet sweet person I know.

    • @oleandra3759
      @oleandra3759 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Would you have wanted to be adopted once you reached mid-teens?

    • @ilove2loveu
      @ilove2loveu ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@oleandra3759 I'm in my early 20s and I would still love to have a father

  • @emilybiddle9712
    @emilybiddle9712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This is the kind of dad that everyone needs in their lives.

  • @Kanovskiy
    @Kanovskiy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    These always make me tear up. You don't choose your biological children or parents and so it is a blessing when everything turns out alright, but willingly choosing a person to be your parent... that must feel very powerful and special for both parties.

    • @camomoose1078
      @camomoose1078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You...you kindado choose your biological children.
      Cause you kinda make them.
      Ya know?

    • @cheesedoodles239
      @cheesedoodles239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@camomoose1078 nah

  • @notmodeling8070
    @notmodeling8070 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I only see a dad a mum and four happy kids he's all the dad they'll ever need

  • @randomguy3080
    @randomguy3080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    My dad took me and my brother in, he’s raised us, taught us, and been amazing, and best of all, he cares, loves, and treats my mom like the goddess she is, both of them are amazing, wouldn’t trade them for the world

  • @spikysmoothness
    @spikysmoothness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    First time I really saw my father cry was when my sister asked him to adopt her.
    I'm so happy for all of you!

  • @danicajvv
    @danicajvv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    As someone whose always ached for a father figure in my life, thank you for being a true father to those kids. You have made the world a better place.

  • @jimmywong4337
    @jimmywong4337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There is so much love in this video from the daughter and the stepfather. It's so refreshing to see that they appreciate what this man did for them.

  • @Behmboy76
    @Behmboy76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    No words need, the tears show only love for his children.

  • @a.k.7116
    @a.k.7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    REAL MEN.....CRY!!! His face is getting beat red trying to hold in his true feelings of love.

    • @TheCocoKayyy
      @TheCocoKayyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right ! How sweet !!

  • @kellysmith3854
    @kellysmith3854 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This young man is awesome to adopt her .AND HE DANG SURE AIN'T NO STEP-DAD HES A TRUE DAD .CONGRATS TO YOU YOUNG LADY FOR HAVING A WONDERFUL DAD THAT ADOPTED YOU HES YOUR DAD ....

  • @lindabeckering9010
    @lindabeckering9010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Awwwww tears. My son asked my husband to be his dad. It takes a special kind of Man to adopt and take on someone else’s child or children. Congrats

  • @NjPakau
    @NjPakau 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your a great man, to hear the daughter's calling you dad. You held your composure 😢 well done. Thats the true love right there, the one mum! 😍💯

  • @nickoppo_
    @nickoppo_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I don't know why TH-cam recommended me this, but this video made my day. Mad respect and may God bless you all.