@NN D He feeds them, clothes them, shelters them, cares for them, provides a family and love for them. And since they love him inconditionally, I´m pretty sure they are his for life. And they just proved it in this video.
you know he's a dad through and through because his immediate reaction is to say "no" there is no dad on this earth who could resist such a perfect dad joke opportunity
This is so heartwarming. I tried to adopt my stepdaughter when she was younger but her 'real' dad would not sign the documents (even though he had absolutely no part in her life, even refusing to pay child support). I raised her since she was two years old. My daughter then surprised me on my birthday six months after after she turned 18. She had legally changed her last name to mine.
If you're separated and not paying support, he should absolutely have no say. He wanted a say but not bad enough to actually support his kids...very telling.
@tylerlopes476If you are paying child support and not a threat to the child, demand the court to give visitation. Your wife nor the courts can require child support without visitation. You do not need an attorney for this, just the courage to stand on your square. I know what I'm talking about. Also, if you have health insurance for your child, the courts can't require any other support. The judge or attorney won't tell you that support is support because it will affect the demonic extorting system in place.
@Anal Farmer damn another loner who’s trying to dissuade step parents from acting like an actual responsible parent. Just because you lack familial love, doesn’t mean others do. This family is obviously happy and content with their father instead of some man (the biological father) who doesn’t seem to be in the picture. Trying to dissuade others, won’t make you any happier 🤷🏻♀️
At 5months being left by her biological father? How cruel.😢 Thank you for being a father to her. You are an amazing father and a life saver. The happiness you gave to her is priceless. You are amazing!💚💛💙💓💗
Any male can be a sperm donor but it takes a special man to be a father. My “step dad” married my mother when I was 4 and my brother was 7. Spent thousands in court fighting to legally make us his. Treated us like his own from day one, gave us anything we ever could’ve wanted. Now he’s the greatest grandfather I’ve ever seen. Can’t thank the lord enough for putting him in our lives... love you dad
@@duylegend1245 Kinda surprised you'd ask, cuz that's the whole climax of the vid pretty much, the comedic relief to break the tension. BUT its at 4:20 ish. Good day.
When I married my wife she had a 6-year-old son that never knew his father. Told me he prayed for Dad. I adopted him. He's now going on 21 and a junior in college. I'm so proud of that boy. This made me cry like a baby. Thank you
@@asarishepard8171 My Dad was adopted by his real mom's sister and her husband. They raised my Dad as their own, as his mom was an alcoholic. Sadly he also became alcoholic, and my Grandparents helped raise me at times as well. It's the MAN who makes the Dad, not the title who dictates who is who. God Bless you all for all you have done and do for these kids.
When teenagers want you to be their father that says a whole lot about the type of person you are, what a good example showing not all stepparents are horrible
@Ann Vo Bullshit...whoever in the history raised another male's child got eliminated via natural selection...and the males who protected their partners and only raised their own offspring, passed on their genes...and we are their descendents. Look into the Lion Pride...Look how the males behave😂 you will get your answer. 'true alphas do this and that blah blah for society'- So that it benefits irresponsible women. I am not a simp. These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on me. I have read the story about 'White feather campaign' women tried the same thing... that's how millions of men died....Nice try though...These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on everyone. Edit: also if that's what an alpha does(sacrificing for society that doesn't give a fck about us), I am better of not being an alpha.
@Ann Vo All personal attacks! "You are whiny this, you are that"...you can date whomever you want none of my concern....and I said at the end if that's what an alpha is then I am better of not being one. You can have your opinions. But personally I would never be invested in someone else's offspring.. I want to pass on all my earnings and properties to my own genetic offspring. Also a 'simp' is a guy who sympathizes with womankind. Where do you see me doing that?? In fact I am quite the opposite. Edit: I am assuming that you are from USA cuz you tried to make me feel that I am missing out on having a great partner like you cuz you would only date an older man...well, the thing is in my country there's prostitution legal...unlike men in USA we don't need to kowtow to women for mating rights. That's why sex is not a big deal here in my country(it's human psychology- something which is available is not a big deal) and someone wouldn't date me, that's also not a big deal. We only stay with women who care for us. If someone wants to go, they are free to go.
My stepdad walked me down the aisle.My bio dad didn't come to my wedding for that reason.But it was my stepdad who raised me.Who was there for every bump,bruise,and every time I was sick.He came to every play,choral performance,etc.That's what being a father is about.
You did the right thing. I think your stepdad would have been hurt inside if he could not walk you down the aisle after he raised you and loved you for all those years. It takes a boy to make a child but a man to raise one.
4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable, but to agree to be adopted by this man is very special. You must be onehell of a person and the kids are very lucky to have a person like you in their lives.
"4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable" Why is that unbelievable? 4 kids, if you ask them on Tuesday if they all want candy for dinner, they'll agree. Is that so hard to believe?
I married my husband in 2004 and he was a true father to my 3 children. He passed away in 2015. My children adored him. Congratulations to Ben and you all. What a wonderful man Ben must be!
This isn't about "being allowed to cry" it's about men always needed to be strong in the past, if they weren't, it'd be the end of the race for them. That being, men today still feel the need to hold it all in and be strong. This causes what you see here.
@@sneebil yea your right but some people react differently alothough here you can see he's holding back years other people let's say some died they may not appear to be greifing but they really are it's not their holding it back like me I'm just like that so is my dad
Its one of the reason men die earlyer than women, cant remember where i read it, but basically we are expected to always be strong and hate cute things and so on, so where women grieve, cry and let their feelings out and get past it, men tend to just bottle it up and push it deep down inside and shit like that builds up with years, so you end up getting stroke, heart conditions, stomac bleeding and yeah alot of shit caused from stress and struggle.
Yeah, that's the thing, since we were kids, men were always told to be strong, that men don't cry. I don't know if it's about instinct or a social thing, but it's natural, we don't allow other people to see us cry or in our "weak" or vulnerable spot. And that's really sad tbh.
I'm not an emotional person but when my stepson wrote a paper for class stating why he looks up to me and wants to be like me. Made me cry like a baby.
This is beautiful..because to him you're a hero...and when they express how they feel about us parents in front of friends and teachers that is saying something fantastic about your relationship..and that is a beautiful feeling...i love the bond you have...
I was blessed with a 9 years old daughter, when she graduated as an attorney her first law action was to adopt me as her father. That was the best gift I ever had in my life. She still fills my heart with pride every day for being her father. Being a father doesn't have nothing to do with making a baby, it's raising them, being by their sides all the way thru life, that makes you a father.
Being an adoptee myself, this made me cry. Aren't we just the luckiest people in the world to have people in our lives who chose to love us unconditionally? All the best to you and your family!
My sister is adopted from China and let me correct you: we, the adopting family, are the lucky ones! You, adoptees, are our little miracles, and the love YOU give us is far greater than anything in this world. It is our honor and privilege to have you in our lives.
I wasn't adopted, I was just rised with no one attention, my biggest tragedy is still my cat that lived with me more than 15 years once gone and never comes back. When my dad died it wasn't a problem. But my little smart kind caring girl... I'm still crying.
Hi Julia, i am an adoptee too, and i could not agree more with what you said. I have Always felt priviliged , Always felt the responsibility to give somehow back the luck i got in My Life . I Hope One day to be able to do random acts of kindness full time, that's why i Also opened a YT Channel and that's why i study to work in the healthcare system.
This is bitter sweet for me cuz my step father/adoptive father was very mean (he did very illegal things to me) and treated me very different from his biological daughter. So I’m glad ppl have good experiences with step fathers it’s just that off it hurts bc of my situation lol
He's a good guy and a good father. Let's not bring frankly sexist language into this thank you. Adopting kids that aren't yours doesn't make you a real Man or Woman. Remember if it would sound messed up reversed then maybe you shouldn't be saying it.
As a child of divorced parents who never had a father figure in her life, I appreciate these men. Who protect and love their step children. Don’t hurt them or talk them down. They step up to the plate and they love their wives kids just like their own. Shows true love, loving every part of their partner. That takes a great man. You can tell how much he loves you guys and that you love and appreciate him in return. You have a beautiful family💜
That's not their father, the father is out there laughing because someone is taking care of his lineage, DNA, and paying for it. I would never pay for another man's child, that's just weird.
@@OriginalPuro It's not about money, it's about love: if you don't want to pay, you don't build up a family anyway, but if you marry someone for LOVE, then you wish even their family loves you, right? after 16 years of growing 4 step-children that had a different dad before, loving them even if they may not recognize you, and then they decide to RECOGNIZE you as their DAD, you would be happy too, no? Or would you refuse because they are not related by blood with you? It's just stupid. There are families out there that adopt kids that are without family, and if you think about it there are a LOT of children out there that waits to be adopted.
He honoured those kids by raising them as if they were his own and they honoured him by asking him to be their dad, that’s one of the coolest things I’ve seen on youtube. Congrats guys.
He won't be allowed to raise them "as if they were his own." The moment he tries to discipline them, she will throw that, "He's not your son! Don't you dare touch him!" bs at him...
The day my 9 year old step son asked me to adopt him was a very special day and an honor. . That was 22 years ago. This video made my eyes water. Any man can be a father, but only some can be a Dad. Congratulations to you Dad, and to your lovely children .
How special and beautiful.. I met my step dad when I was 9 years old, I am now 39 and he is my world and my father. I was so broken as a child , he gave me unconditional love , taught me to independent women, and helped me with my career path. I am forever grateful and blessed. What a beautiful story ... So happy for you all❤
Met my daughter when she was five. Raised and accepted her as my own and gladly spent a lifetime searching for her smile. Proudest day of my life was her asking me to walk her down the aisle. I may have given her away that day, but she’s still my little girl.
That saying, “blood is thicker than water” actually goes like this...”the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Meaning the people you choose is stronger than the people you’re forced upon. Congrats on the official dad!
@@SplitGoose Bible says people will become lovers of themselves and have no genuine love for each other, they will have a form of Godliness but not know God. Using people genuine emotions for a winning shot was what evil Hollywood demons did, now everyone is a smaller version of evil.
I appreciate the 8 minute look into this man. You can tell in that little time what a genuine person he was. He made me laugh and tear up, then cry a when I saw the news. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope time has made it a little better. I'll remember him, RIP from a stranger
I met my stepdad when I was 9. Back then, he was just my mum's friend. And I wanted him to be my dad soooo badly! He was so nice to me, genuinely nice and really cared about me. Eventually, my mum fell in love with him (he was in love with her for a long time already) and they got together when I was 10. When I was 14, they got married and now I have great parents and 3 baby sisters 🥰 Beautiful family I have always wanted 🥰
God is pro choice and pro-life people are NOT for life, they are for CONTROL. Trump was the false prophet, the lawless one that lead many astray. James 5:2 All the wealth stored up will be used as evidence against rich people to burn them!! A camel can NOT go through the eye of a needle. Anyone that sits on billions of dollars and watches people starve, suffer, and be raped and homeless in the world but chooses to do nothing about it is NOT a Christian. GET AWAY FROM WOLVES AND FALSE TEACHERS AND GET OUT OF THE FAKE CHURCHES OR YOU ARE GOING TO DIE WITH THEM AND THEIR LIES. JUDGEMENT IS FALLING. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and fireballs are going to hit the fake churches. GET OUT AND STAY OUT. This is not a joke. If you care anything about celebrity wolves, you will do everything you can to reach them and tell them theres not much time left for them to get on the right side. Even Oprah, she might spend millions on helping people but if you are still sitting on billions, that doesn't even qualify for lukewam and she has already been spit out. Anyone teaching the monetary tithing LIE or collecting money for ministering in any way is now in THE GREAT TRIBULATION and they will begin to suffer until they repent or it's too late and they die. It's their choice. All worship groups, bookwriters, and every fake minister KNOWS selling anything using the gospel is against the Bible and evil. Do you really comprehend that they are INTENTIONALLY LYING to people? Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-12 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to repent and bring back the money they were never supposed to take and God will end Covid. Every single minister on television has known this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much, they INTENTIONALLY CHOSE TO KILL everyone with Covid instead of bringing it back! WOW! Are you awake yet? Being awake is a GOOD thing, don't listen to demon hybrids that tell you otherwise. And the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships in Mathew 19:12 FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. Male or female is determined by gender located in the brain, not sex characteristics. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 so any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me.....
I don't know how old you are but you better get your act together. Even at age 4 I wouldn't even say that... to be honest I wouldn't even think it. Do you know how hard raising children are especially as a single parent is?! You should really speak to somebody about this and get some help if you think that is ok.
My stepson was 8months old when I met my ex. She is gone, he is still in my life. He is my kid, my buddy and the love and respect between us is something special. He is 22 now, his mom put both of us through the fucking ringer. We survived together. Best buds!
I don’t know why this was suggested in my feed, but it blessed me to see someone step up and be a father to wonderful children. It gives me hope. What a beautiful moment. ❤️
That man stepped up and took care of *four* kids? I have no idea what happened with the mom and her previous guy, but to leave it after four kids tells me that it had to be a hellacious experience. Shout out to this guy for bringing peace, love and stability.
Being a father who stepped up 25 years ago to help raise a wonderful son I can understand the emotions that he is feeling. I am now the proud father of a Nuke tec in the Navy and a great father himself and am proud to call my son. Love you Joseph.
What you did i's a great thing but why are you proud that your son is a "Nuke tec"? If that's someone who works on nukes, that's actually horrible, he's contributing to war and death.
You could tell from his reaction that this is all that guy ever wanted and you could tell from the way his family treated him that they wanted it too. Fantastic result all round - I wish this family the best of luck!
As Yondu once said, "He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn’t your daddy.” This man may not be her biological father, but he sure is her daddy.
I grew up without a father and had no support from him all my life. Some won’t take care of their own. Then there are people like you. Having a dad at home makes a huge difference for peoples lives. Thank you for being such a great guy.
@@ouroborosbond7412 I have 3 that have no blood in common with me and 3 that are blood related and none of them are different in my eyes.. I get you were trying to be smart and funny about blood type but it wasn't either.
Man, what a great gift for this man. My “stepdad” raised me since I was 6 months old and for 99% of my life has been the only dad I’ve known. I will be 32 soon and he’s still my dad. Even though him and my mom divorced. Can’t ever replace the real men who step up to the plate when others step out
Lol rule number #1 is to never date a single mother. But I guess you’re still a blue pilled youngster. I recommend you read the book ‘The Rational Male’.
I had a “step dad” that never had the chance to become my legal step dad. I wish he had the chance to become my legal step dad before he was gone forever. This video made me cry, and I haven’t cried in over 3 years. Thank you for the emotional release.
For these children to ask him to adopt them as young adults means he is obviously a great dad and a great man. I wish there more stand up men like this guy. You are very lucky to have each other.
All he asks for on father's day is a sibling photograph and you all ask him to be your real father. You guys have my respect. Seeing his response meant it means everything to him.
As a father of a daughter and soon a son too, this hits me right in the feels. The role (and duty) of a father isn’t a birthright, it’s an accomplishment. You’ve got to earn it. This man absolutely earned it.
This hits hard to home. So sweet and special. I have a step daughter and son we had custody of both of them from when she was 5 and I tell you she is so very special to me. We have a very close bond now, she is in her 30’s but I love her as if she was flesh of my flesh and blood of my blood ❤️
Can’t stop crying imagine how good this man has been to his kids that they would even set this up heard them all say dad like a thousand times lol clearly the greatest dad and husband god bless this family
Are you kidding me! What a beautiful family. I'm so touched by this story. He raised beautiful children. I understand perfectly. My Daddy adopted me at age 4. Met my mom when she was 21 as a single parent. I love him so much. Still in my life, I'm 43 now. And still daddy's lil girl. Kudos to all dad's out there, who say" Bring it on!"
I know exactly how he felt reading that as my girls did the same thing to me and I’m just here to tell everyone words can’t explain the emotions. Your a lucky man brother cherish it
These always make me tear up. You don't choose your biological children or parents and so it is a blessing when everything turns out alright, but willingly choosing a person to be your parent... that must feel very powerful and special for both parties.
I grew up and aged out in foster care, and these stories always make me happy for all those kids who found fathers and mothers who stepped up for them. All the best!
I’m so sorry you went through that and it must have been very difficult and hopeless at times. I imagine that hurts the soul and your heart. I wish for you one day to find a truly loving woman, be married, and be able to be a father yourself and cherish your kids. Show them all the love you deserved from your biological parents.
That's the thing about DaDs they really care about everyone more than themselves and hide there tears and pain in silence no matter how strict they are ,no matter how carefree they are ❤️
As a girl not knowing my father and gone through a pretty bad experience with a step-dad I really can appreciate this. How cool of a dad he must be being asked to adopt the kids by THE KIDS themselves.... GOOD JOB! That's what I call to MAN UP! ❤️ LOVE, LOVE LOVE
Growing up as a divorcee child, and now raising my teen son as a single parent, I couldn’t stop myself from shedding a tear. God bless fathers like him, we need more of them in the world
I wish everyday I asked my Dad to adopt me before he passed. He was amazing caring for my brother and I since I was four, still remember my sixth birthday and he started a rubber and war it was so much fun. He was my best friend. He was who I ran too when I had a problem with boys, when I got pregnant at 17 he was who I called when I found out even though he and my mother were divorced, when I enlisted he was the person on the phone saying how proud he is of me, when I was preparing for my first deployment I was scared and he just said don't focus on fear focus on coming home day at a time, when I was sent to Germany I was told he had six moths left to live due to COPD and CHF it was the hardest day of my life getting on a plane to say my final good bye to my dad. Ten years now and it still feels like yesterday. Hug each other everyday, say I love you as much as you can, you never know when will the last time be.
As grown men we are taught to be tough and not show emotion. You could even see by how he wanted to put his shades down. Seeing grown men cry happy tears is the greatest joy ever. I cried right along with him. Thanks for sharing this.
Absolutely stunning not everyone has a father in there life but it absolutely is an amazing feeling when you find someone that can step up and treat you like there own this is a very inspiring video
Show this guy some respect, he knows what’s about to occur, that’s why he needs his specs!, but he shouldn’t be embarrassed of his emotional response. Well done sir. You have my respect!!!. 🍺😉👍
As somebody said, he is not the step-dad but he is the dad that stepped up.
I LOVE this!!
That statement is a perfect example of class my friend!
Great statement
Yes! Well said😄
I wish I had a stepfather like this. Awesome man with a lot of class.
Every father is a gangsta until their children melt their hearts.
True, couldn't ask for a better father in the world. Must've done something right in a previous life to have him as a father in this life. Wow.
Soooo trueeeee. Friends and cousins have always been scared of my teddy bear of a father and I used to be confused as to why hahaha
@NN D He feeds them, clothes them, shelters them, cares for them, provides a family and love for them.
And since they love him inconditionally, I´m pretty sure they are his for life.
And they just proved it in this video.
@NN D He´s not the biological father, sure. But to say he doesn´t love them as his childrem is pretty shitty, man.
That's right👍👍
you know he's a dad through and through because his immediate reaction is to say "no"
there is no dad on this earth who could resist such a perfect dad joke opportunity
You are so right 🥰
lol my dad would have said the same thing... hes always messing around like that XD
@Happy Flowers Why is that a bad time?
@Happy Flowers that’s the best time for a joke you can get.
@@user-p7up8l4k That's the kind of proselytizing that makes people hate religion. As an atheist, thank you for being like that.
This is so heartwarming. I tried to adopt my stepdaughter when she was younger but her 'real' dad would not sign the documents (even though he had absolutely no part in her life, even refusing to pay child support). I raised her since she was two years old. My daughter then surprised me on my birthday six months after after she turned 18. She had legally changed her last name to mine.
If you're separated and not paying support, he should absolutely have no say. He wanted a say but not bad enough to actually support his kids...very telling.
Congrats on not only being a good father, but on being her real father.
That made me cry
@tylerlopes476If you are paying child support and not a threat to the child, demand the court to give visitation. Your wife nor the courts can require child support without visitation.
You do not need an attorney for this, just the courage to stand on your square. I know what I'm talking about.
Also, if you have health insurance for your child, the courts can't require any other support. The judge or attorney won't tell you that support is support because it will affect the demonic extorting system in place.
That’s an awesome story too! Love it. Again; that’s REAL MAN shit. We need more men like you guys. Thank you for doing what you do. Cheers! 💪🏻🙏🏻❤️
The fact that everyone calls him 'dad' already says a lot.
Respect to everyone.
@Anal Farmer damn another loner who’s trying to dissuade step parents from acting like an actual responsible parent. Just because you lack familial love, doesn’t mean others do. This family is obviously happy and content with their father instead of some man (the biological father) who doesn’t seem to be in the picture. Trying to dissuade others, won’t make you any happier 🤷🏻♀️
Yep biggest respect to the step dads out there
@@i_curlyy you killed him dud 💀
what'd he day though lol
We were forced to say dad lol asians.
@@Michael020 lot's of bio-dads whose kids don't know them either.
Putting shades on so they don't see you crying is perhaps the most classic of all dad maneuvers
Haha
Lol I would to
@pacifca nonook man i was also thinkin that for the poor guy, seems cool too, but you have to admit its still touching lol
@pacifca nonook wow, i hope you learn to see life differently some day.
@pacifca nonook jesus christ, stfu
I met my step daughter when she was just 5 months old. She is turning 17 this year. This made me cry too.
At 5months being left by her biological father? How cruel.😢
Thank you for being a father to her. You are an amazing father and a life saver. The happiness you gave to her is priceless.
You are amazing!💚💛💙💓💗
that's your daugther adn you did a great job sir!
My son was 5 months old my daughters were 3 and 5 years, now they are almost 11 13 and 15. Crazy how time flies and how fast they grow huh?!
Kamui
@Keven Cantu I wonder what happened to the father of your step daughter?😢 Why are there cruel fathers in this world?
As a stepdad, winning the mother's heart is easy, but her children's is on another level. Congrats.
He passed away 2 years later. He already got cancer to this time.
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Any male can be a sperm donor but it takes a special man to be a father. My “step dad” married my mother when I was 4 and my brother was 7. Spent thousands in court fighting to legally make us his. Treated us like his own from day one, gave us anything we ever could’ve wanted. Now he’s the greatest grandfather I’ve ever seen. Can’t thank the lord enough for putting him in our lives... love you dad
💙🙏🏻🧿 Such a heart warming story 💙🙏🏻🧿 God bless you all ☮️✌️
Love it
Wait...grandfather?
Francisco Vega yes, me and my wife had our little girl 8/30/16.. so my “step father” is now been a grandfather for 4yr
@@jesseward1509sorry Bro for my mistake
I love how he's all emotional and then goes "no" 🤣.
We all knew the real anwser
Total dad response lol
Comedic relief is perfect to keep him from breaking down probably. Great vid❤
Time stamp?
@@duylegend1245 Kinda surprised you'd ask, cuz that's the whole climax of the vid pretty much, the comedic relief to break the tension. BUT its at 4:20 ish. Good day.
When I married my wife she had a 6-year-old son that never knew his father. Told me he prayed for Dad. I adopted him. He's now going on 21 and a junior in college. I'm so proud of that boy. This made me cry like a baby. Thank you
He's your boy ! Thank you for being the man he needed to help guide him
My grandpa adopted my father when he was young. This hits home
@@asarishepard8171 My Dad was adopted by his real mom's sister and her husband. They raised my Dad as their own, as his mom was an alcoholic. Sadly he also became alcoholic, and my Grandparents helped raise me at times as well. It's the MAN who makes the Dad, not the title who dictates who is who. God Bless you all for all you have done and do for these kids.
😭😭😻😻
Godbless you Sir
When teenagers want you to be their father that says a whole lot about the type of person you are, what a good example showing not all stepparents are horrible
He passed away 2 years later. He already got cancer to this time.
Very cute - takes a real man to raise kids the way he has, he’s a legend
It doesn't matter if the children are blood you fall in love with them just as you would if they were born with your blood !
To bad my dad's a full in wasteman
@Ann Vo Betas..who raise other males' childs are betas and get eliminated via natural selection.
@Ann Vo Bullshit...whoever in the history raised another male's child got eliminated via natural selection...and the males who protected their partners and only raised their own offspring, passed on their genes...and we are their descendents. Look into the Lion Pride...Look how the males behave😂 you will get your answer.
'true alphas do this and that blah blah for society'- So that it benefits irresponsible women. I am not a simp. These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on me. I have read the story about 'White feather campaign' women tried the same thing... that's how millions of men died....Nice try though...These kinds of manipulation doesn't work on everyone.
Edit: also if that's what an alpha does(sacrificing for society that doesn't give a fck about us), I am better of not being an alpha.
@Ann Vo All personal attacks! "You are whiny this, you are that"...you can date whomever you want none of my concern....and I said at the end if that's what an alpha is then I am better of not being one. You can have your opinions. But personally I would never be invested in someone else's offspring.. I want to pass on all my earnings and properties to my own genetic offspring.
Also a 'simp' is a guy who sympathizes with womankind. Where do you see me doing that?? In fact I am quite the opposite.
Edit: I am assuming that you are from USA cuz you tried to make me feel that I am missing out on having a great partner like you cuz you would only date an older man...well, the thing is in my country there's prostitution legal...unlike men in USA we don't need to kowtow to women for mating rights. That's why sex is not a big deal here in my country(it's human psychology- something which is available is not a big deal) and someone wouldn't date me, that's also not a big deal. We only stay with women who care for us. If someone wants to go, they are free to go.
My stepdad walked me down the aisle.My bio dad didn't come to my wedding for that reason.But it was my stepdad who raised me.Who was there for every bump,bruise,and every time I was sick.He came to every play,choral performance,etc.That's what being a father is about.
I couldn’t agree more, my step dad (who I consider my dad) is definitely going to be the one to walk me down the isle.
You did the right thing. Glad you respected the man who put in the time and effort.
@@kimberlynelson6104 ty
You did the right thing. I think your stepdad would have been hurt inside if he could not walk you down the aisle after he raised you and loved you for all those years. It takes a boy to make a child but a man to raise one.
@@misshoneynevercame4832 I agree thanks
4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable, but to agree to be adopted by this man is very special. You must be onehell of a person and the kids are very lucky to have a person like you in their lives.
I don't think Carson agreed to be adopted
Looks like just the three girls
@@ulisesacosta5543 you can’t take carsson serious, he doesn’t even offer family discount 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
"4 kids that agree on something is unbelievable"
Why is that unbelievable?
4 kids, if you ask them on Tuesday if they all want candy for dinner, they'll agree.
Is that so hard to believe?
He's screwing at least one of them
I married my husband in 2004 and he was a true father to my 3 children. He passed away in 2015. My children adored him. Congratulations to Ben and you all. What a wonderful man Ben must be!
im so sorry to hear that may he rest in peace,
@@yimszy4588 Thank you!
So you had 3 kids with another man and got another dude to take care of them , did you atleast give the step dad a kid of he's own ?
@@pollomaniac He said he considered the three children from my first marriage his!
@Beth Cochrane I'm not trying to be an idiot ok first of all , but that man's legacy he's blood line then is over
It's funny and sad how much he tries to hold back his tears 😊. Everybody is allowed to cry and especially if its out of happiness 🙂.
This isn't about "being allowed to cry" it's about men always needed to be strong in the past, if they weren't, it'd be the end of the race for them.
That being, men today still feel the need to hold it all in and be strong.
This causes what you see here.
@@sneebil yea your right but some people react differently alothough here you can see he's holding back years other people let's say some died they may not appear to be greifing but they really are it's not their holding it back like me I'm just like that so is my dad
Its one of the reason men die earlyer than women, cant remember where i read it, but basically we are expected to always be strong and hate cute things and so on, so where women grieve, cry and let their feelings out and get past it, men tend to just bottle it up and push it deep down inside and shit like that builds up with years, so you end up getting stroke, heart conditions, stomac bleeding and yeah alot of shit caused from stress and struggle.
He was trying to upheld article 41 from the bro code, a bro never cry,
Yeah, that's the thing, since we were kids, men were always told to be strong, that men don't cry. I don't know if it's about instinct or a social thing, but it's natural, we don't allow other people to see us cry or in our "weak" or vulnerable spot. And that's really sad tbh.
I'm not an emotional person but when my stepson wrote a paper for class stating why he looks up to me and wants to be like me. Made me cry like a baby.
This is beautiful..because to him you're a hero...and when they express how they feel about us parents in front of friends and teachers that is saying something fantastic about your relationship..and that is a beautiful feeling...i love the bond you have...
Repent to Jesus Christ
“The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”
Proverbs 18:10 NIV
@@jesusisrisen8447 why do you have to bring religion to a comment with no relation with it whatsoever
He died
@@jesusisrisen8447 what does repenting to Jesus has to do with his comment? You are weird!
The “No” killed me lol. My dad would say the same thing. This is the best video. His emotion to the letters were overwhelming. So cute.
What time
My dad as well. The greatest fathers always seem to know right thing to say. Or when not to say anything.
Family when done right is so powerful.
@@leahsrblx5080 5:30
Hi sister Asha hope you are doing well and I call you upon to get involved in our music school foundation. Glory be to God
I was blessed with a 9 years old daughter, when she graduated as an attorney her first law action was to adopt me as her father. That was the best gift I ever had in my life. She still fills my heart with pride every day for being her father. Being a father doesn't have nothing to do with making a baby, it's raising them, being by their sides all the way thru life, that makes you a father.
Being an adoptee myself, this made me cry. Aren't we just the luckiest people in the world to have people in our lives who chose to love us unconditionally? All the best to you and your family!
My sister is adopted from China and let me correct you: we, the adopting family, are the lucky ones! You, adoptees, are our little miracles, and the love YOU give us is far greater than anything in this world. It is our honor and privilege to have you in our lives.
I wasn't adopted, I was just rised with no one attention, my biggest tragedy is still my cat that lived with me more than 15 years once gone and never comes back. When my dad died it wasn't a problem. But my little smart kind caring girl... I'm still crying.
Yes!
Hi Julia, i am an adoptee too, and i could not agree more with what you said. I have Always felt priviliged , Always felt the responsibility to give somehow back the luck i got in My Life . I Hope One day to be able to do random acts of kindness full time, that's why i Also opened a YT Channel and that's why i study to work in the healthcare system.
This is bitter sweet for me cuz my step father/adoptive father was very mean (he did very illegal things to me) and treated me very different from his biological daughter. So I’m glad ppl have good experiences with step fathers it’s just that off it hurts bc of my situation lol
To be honest , jokes aside this guy is a real man. He must be a good dad.... really nice human being bless his heart .
@J S REAL MAN!
He's a good guy and a good father. Let's not bring frankly sexist language into this thank you.
Adopting kids that aren't yours doesn't make you a real Man or Woman. Remember if it would sound messed up reversed then maybe you shouldn't be saying it.
I'd rather be "false" than a beta cuck.
Wrong. This doesn’t make him a “real man”.
@@MrKulturembargo no
As a child of divorced parents who never had a father figure in her life, I appreciate these men. Who protect and love their step children. Don’t hurt them or talk them down. They step up to the plate and they love their wives kids just like their own. Shows true love, loving every part of their partner. That takes a great man. You can tell how much he loves you guys and that you love and appreciate him in return. You have a beautiful family💜
You and me both girl!
I'm same only met my dad once in 49 years...
Men like him are just amazing they deserve to be called dad 🥰🥰
Sorry honey. You are beautiful
So true
I never knew my father, these girls are very fortunate
The way everyone call him "DAD" answer so many questions ... I wish you all happiness☺
Every Harley Davidson father is a hell rider until they get adoption letter.
😂
True, buckled. 😂
Lmao
Or a divorce letter
@@kenandrieling5885 Either way it would still be tears of joy, lol!
I love it when “Tough guys” cry. You always were their dad.
@NN D ?
@Nick Nanna tf? did ur dad ditch u?
@Nick Nanna 🤡🤡🤡
He even when he cries, he’s handsome. What a beautiful man with a beautiful soul.
What a guy. You can see the love and admiration. We need more fathers like this.
and good mothers too. so many of them are awful yet seemingly get a pass just because they are "mothers"
My father used to say, children belong to who love them.
That sounds so wrong
Great saying!
@@doomslayer960 it means if their biological parents doesn't love them, they don't own them.
@@doomslayer960 only sounds wrong to people who sexualise children. Get help.
@@anxiousmindmusic what if someone love them, and they hate those someone?
To have kids choose you to be their father is incredibly special, especially as young adults.
And for the man to say yes is incredibly stupid. 💰💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💵💶💴💷💰
That's not their father, the father is out there laughing because someone is taking care of his lineage, DNA, and paying for it.
I would never pay for another man's child, that's just weird.
@@OriginalPuro You look like a miserable man. Your life must be so sad...
@@OriginalPuro It's not about money, it's about love: if you don't want to pay, you don't build up a family anyway, but if you marry someone for LOVE, then you wish even their family loves you, right? after 16 years of growing 4 step-children that had a different dad before, loving them even if they may not recognize you, and then they decide to RECOGNIZE you as their DAD, you would be happy too, no? Or would you refuse because they are not related by blood with you? It's just stupid.
There are families out there that adopt kids that are without family, and if you think about it there are a LOT of children out there that waits to be adopted.
@@Jack01010 in America love is money and money is love……..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
He honoured those kids by raising them as if they were his own and they honoured him by asking him to be their dad, that’s one of the coolest things I’ve seen on youtube. Congrats guys.
He became their dad the day he took responsibility of those kids. Respect 🙏.
He won't be allowed to raise them "as if they were his own." The moment he tries to discipline them, she will throw that, "He's not your son! Don't you dare touch him!" bs at him...
Yeah, congrats to the guy for his Simp of the Year award.
@@ThePhilosophicalOne stop projecting dude
@@se-gj2me there’s some truth to it
I'd like to shake that man's hand, he has totally stepped up for you guys, just lost my dad, and I really appreciate what dad's mean in a family 😊😊😊😊😊
Why in the world would people dislike such a special and heartfelt moment is beyond my comprehension.
They disliked because no one wants to be their dad..sad
Bots
Some people are against the idea of step-children.
One of the sweetest things I’ve watched in a while. Honestly made my day :)
I didn't dislike, but why would somebody adopt adult children?
The day my 9 year old step son asked me to adopt him was a very special day and an honor. . That was 22 years ago. This video made my eyes water. Any man can be a father, but only some can be a Dad. Congratulations to you Dad, and to your lovely children .
Here I am bawling because the man who raised me from 4yo who I called Daddy dropped me with my mother in 1990.
You're absolutely right!
@Lewis C the earth is already overpopulated. theres no harm in raising kids that arent yours and treating them right.
@Lewis C your DNA isn’t special, and with that attitude neither are you.
@Lewis C you are a cruel and petty person
From one step dad to another , that’s the biggest compliment you will ever receive! Be proud man your doing just fine 👍
Unfortunately he passed away but in certain he knew he was amazing ❤
How special and beautiful.. I met my step dad when I was 9 years old, I am now 39 and he is my world and my father. I was so broken as a child , he gave me unconditional love , taught me to independent women, and helped me with my career path. I am forever grateful and blessed. What a beautiful story ... So happy for you all❤
Masculinity is not toxic. It is brave, humble and caring.
@@nayverma6489 seek help
@@nayverma6489 go see a doctor you're a psycho
This is an example of positive masculinity, there are definitely toxic manifestations.
Well beating your wife and kids to submit is toxic masculinity, but this one is positive masculinity
@@hafizmakiglalis4380 masculinity never involves hurting someone that's vulnerable, that's called insecurity, domestic violence and abuse
Met my daughter when she was five. Raised and accepted her as my own and gladly spent a lifetime searching for her smile. Proudest day of my life was her asking me to walk her down the aisle. I may have given her away that day, but she’s still my little girl.
This comment made me tear up and cry. May you and your little girl have a lifetime of love and beautiful memories 💖
Nicole j thank you. She’s an amazing young woman, and just became a mother herself.
arktkt06 congratulations!
I'm not crying!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ivor Smith I feel like I’ve done something right with my life, because she chose to accept me in her life.
This is so beautiful!! He must be so happy and touched
Hey! Wassup Ray!
Why do i see you in like most videos
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This is the hundred times i found you in the comment section
@@jojeleineclaire3718 jykt
Probably the greatest honor a man can receive!
Can we just take a moment to appreciate all the GREAT STEPDADS out there.
I had one, too.
I love him forever.
That saying, “blood is thicker than water” actually goes like this...”the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Meaning the people you choose is stronger than the people you’re forced upon. Congrats on the official dad!
Yep, It's pretty much the reverse of what people think it means lol :)
Blood is thicker than water but they both spill....wise saying I once heard
That's deep lol! Seriously though that is awesome.
Amen!
NN D it’s nonsense only if you don’t get it.
You know he's a good man if he's made these kids want him to be their father. God Bless him and God Bless them for having that much respect
Amen
Took the words out of my mouth Robert!
Everyone is on display nowadays, mini Hollywood producers.
@@bluwng mmmmm. Ngl I feel like this was a way to boost this channel
@@SplitGoose Bible says people will become lovers of themselves and have no genuine love for each other, they will have a form of Godliness but not know God. Using people genuine emotions for a winning shot was what evil Hollywood demons did, now everyone is a smaller version of evil.
I appreciate the 8 minute look into this man. You can tell in that little time what a genuine person he was. He made me laugh and tear up, then cry a when I saw the news. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope time has made it a little better. I'll remember him, RIP from a stranger
@@ColorfulCynic He died of cancer in 2022
@@naeemagbani920 fuck dammit fuck cancer I should have quit scrolling and reading the comments.
I met my stepdad when I was 9. Back then, he was just my mum's friend. And I wanted him to be my dad soooo badly! He was so nice to me, genuinely nice and really cared about me. Eventually, my mum fell in love with him (he was in love with her for a long time already) and they got together when I was 10. When I was 14, they got married and now I have great parents and 3 baby sisters 🥰
Beautiful family I have always wanted 🥰
🤗🤗🤗🙏🏾
💚
You are an amazing person, I am so glad you got your wish
❤🙏🏾🥰
This comment was so beautiful. God bless you
These kind of stories should be on everydays news to inspire others instead of constant fear mongering. What a beautiful heart warming special moment.
Absolutely!
Yeah, yeah... I took them 'only' 16 years to ask him. ;)
God is pro choice and pro-life people are NOT for life, they are for CONTROL.
Trump was the false prophet, the lawless one that lead many astray.
James 5:2 All the wealth stored up will be used as evidence against rich people to burn them!!
A camel can NOT go through the eye of a needle.
Anyone that sits on billions of dollars and watches people starve, suffer, and be raped and homeless in the world but chooses to do nothing about it is NOT a Christian.
GET AWAY FROM WOLVES AND FALSE TEACHERS AND GET OUT OF THE FAKE CHURCHES OR YOU ARE GOING TO DIE WITH THEM AND THEIR LIES. JUDGEMENT IS FALLING.
I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and fireballs are going to hit the fake churches. GET OUT AND STAY OUT. This is not a joke.
If you care anything about celebrity wolves, you will do everything you can to reach them and tell them theres not much time left for them to get on the right side. Even Oprah, she might spend millions on helping people but if you are still sitting on billions, that doesn't even qualify for lukewam and she has already been spit out.
Anyone teaching the monetary tithing LIE or collecting money for ministering in any way is now in THE GREAT TRIBULATION and they will begin to suffer until they repent or it's too late and they die. It's their choice. All worship groups, bookwriters, and every fake minister KNOWS selling anything using the gospel is against the Bible and evil. Do you really comprehend that they are INTENTIONALLY LYING to people?
Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-12 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to repent and bring back the money they were never supposed to take and God will end Covid. Every single minister on television has known this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much, they INTENTIONALLY CHOSE TO KILL everyone with Covid instead of bringing it back!
WOW! Are you awake yet?
Being awake is a GOOD thing, don't listen to demon hybrids that tell you otherwise.
And the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships in Mathew 19:12 FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. Male or female is determined by gender located in the brain, not sex characteristics. I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 so any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me.....
Well… the horror stories of step-parenting far outweigh the happy endings.
Blood doesn't make a family..... LOVE does..... mad respect...
Step dads are a very special. Most guys don’t want to come near a single mom. It takes a lot of love and generosity to take on another man’s child. ❤
It takes weakness and no self respect. Any man with a working set of testes, isn't taking care of another man's kids. 😂
@@tortagrande Your whole existence is about your balls, why should we listen to you?
@@tortagrandewhat?..
@@tortagrande are you saying kids who have a dad bail on them don’t deserve to have another father figure step in?
I don't know how old you are but you better get your act together. Even at age 4 I wouldn't even say that... to be honest I wouldn't even think it. Do you know how hard raising children are especially as a single parent is?! You should really speak to somebody about this and get some help if you think that is ok.
My stepson was 8months old when I met my ex. She is gone, he is still in my life. He is my kid, my buddy and the love and respect between us is something special. He is 22 now, his mom put both of us through the fucking ringer. We survived together. Best buds!
you are a hero dude.
God bless you 🙂
Waooooooo if all humans were like him the world would be a better place
I don’t know why this was suggested in my feed, but it blessed me to see someone step up and be a father to wonderful children. It gives me hope. What a beautiful moment. ❤️
Same! It was in my suggestions, he seems like a such a cool and amazing dad, God bless their whole family x
That man stepped up and took care of *four* kids? I have no idea what happened with the mom and her previous guy, but to leave it after four kids tells me that it had to be a hellacious experience. Shout out to this guy for bringing peace, love and stability.
All the other Dads watching: *puts glasses on*
LOl I died
Yes😏
Looks like its ganna rain today.
What do you mean.. I'm not even a dad :(
@@deadlyHazyyy you dont have to be a dad to love this haha
From just seeing a few minutes of this man's character I can understand why they made that decision. Family is who you choose.
Being a father who stepped up 25 years ago to help raise a wonderful son I can understand the emotions that he is feeling. I am now the proud father of a Nuke tec in the Navy and a great father himself and am proud to call my son. Love you Joseph.
What you did i's a great thing but why are you proud that your son is a "Nuke tec"? If that's someone who works on nukes, that's actually horrible, he's contributing to war and death.
@@casie6609 nothing wrong with serving your country.. and a nuke tech doesnt work with nuclear weapons.
@@Glee73
And a real man doesn't step on the kid's real father.
Well done man
@@RockLee679 Thank you.
You could tell from his reaction that this is all that guy ever wanted and you could tell from the way his family treated him that they wanted it too. Fantastic result all round - I wish this family the best of luck!
His expressions made me cry...very kind father he is
True words you are speaking 😭😭so beautiful!
Did not make me cry im a dam man
Eli Swanson Men cry, that’s a man right there
As Yondu once said, "He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn’t your daddy.” This man may not be her biological father, but he sure is her daddy.
Omfg that’s the best quote
That reminds me when is the next one gonna come out
Guardian of the galaxy 👍
@@babyyoda2190 whenever “they decide” to allow people to see movies , cuz I’m sure there filming it now along with Thor love and thunder.
@@Holderman-lj2rw one of my privies theaters let’s people it’s called movie grill I think it’s something like that tho
Base on experience. Family is not only about blood. Its about the love and care u show unconditionally.
Yep, and this comes to show that I have nO faMily. ;-;
@@kylejr1467 i agree. It is case to case situation. Some find love and care by blood and some are not.
I grew up without a father and had no support from him all my life. Some won’t take care of their own.
Then there are people like you. Having a dad at home makes a huge difference for peoples lives. Thank you for being such a great guy.
I see no step dad here. Just a father who loves his kids. Blood doesnt matter.
You are right
It does when it comes to child maintenance
@@ouroborosbond7412 I have 3 that have no blood in common with me and 3 that are blood related and none of them are different in my eyes.. I get you were trying to be smart and funny about blood type but it wasn't either.
THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!
I may not be your father boy but I’m still your daddy
Man, what a great gift for this man. My “stepdad” raised me since I was 6 months old and for 99% of my life has been the only dad I’ve known. I will be 32 soon and he’s still my dad. Even though him and my mom divorced. Can’t ever replace the real men who step up to the plate when others step out
That's so sweet. I'm glad you have a dad who loves you! Everyone needs that.
He sounds like a very good man God Bless Him and you 🙏❤
Disgusting she divorced him.
REAL MEN.....CRY!!! His face is getting beat red trying to hold in his true feelings of love.
Right ! How sweet !!
Gotta be a solid guy to have the kids ask for you to be their dad..hats off to you good sir 👌 ❤
the cruel twist is that he died in 2021
@@DJ-ov2it how?
As a 14 year old boy I hope I can grow into a man like this
sounds like you are on the right path to be like him.
That's exactely what i thought while watching this... I'm also 14 and i want to be such a great man/dad sometimes🥺
you will be! Just make it happen :)
If you want it to ,you can.
Lol rule number #1 is to never date a single mother. But I guess you’re still a blue pilled youngster. I recommend you read the book ‘The Rational Male’.
I had a “step dad” that never had the chance to become my legal step dad. I wish he had the chance to become my legal step dad before he was gone forever. This video made me cry, and I haven’t cried in over 3 years. Thank you for the emotional release.
i havent cried for 10 years.
i dont know why.
Sit back and cry, you deserve all good things in your life, wishing you all the best of luck in life.
Not all crying is bad and if you cry about love it is strength not weakness.
As long as you loved your step dad and treated him like a dad he knew !!!
Why doesn't this have 2M views? Made my day! Thank you for sharing your story about a special Man!
Let’s get it to 2M! Thank you so much for watching! (:
Awesome 👍
Give some time it will hit 2M views
TBH it went on too long before it got to the point.I almost stopped it,becUse it was making no sense,but didn't They should have shortened it a bit.
Because there are 800 videos+ about this
May he rest in peace. I am so truly sorry for your guys loss. What a great man who stepped up to be your Dad.
What a wonderful family - nothing bigger than a man with tears.
For these children to ask him to adopt them as young adults means he is obviously a great dad and a great man. I wish there more stand up men like this guy. You are very lucky to have each other.
But theirs one selfish single mom that breakup her 4 boyfriends. With two kids that wants a stepdad
@@rowenramnath2016 this made no sense
@@rowenramnath2016 ?
@@b.s.bobbyshaw we were friends for now and before. He could be not a good person. 3 guys she always breakup with them.
Her first man with two kids. He still around.
I laughed and cry.He is the real FATHER the real man who raised these kids and that's one happy family.
My parents passed when I was 3. I never had a real mom or dad. Lots of foster homes. But these stories touch me every time!💜💜💜
All he asks for on father's day is a sibling photograph and you all ask him to be your real father. You guys have my respect.
Seeing his response meant it means everything to him.
As a father of a daughter and soon a son too, this hits me right in the feels. The role (and duty) of a father isn’t a birthright, it’s an accomplishment. You’ve got to earn it. This man absolutely earned it.
lol
@@offlineraided Not lol, that's right. 🙂
Nothing more endearing than a man trying to hold back his tears
This hits hard to home. So sweet and special. I have a step daughter and son we had custody of both of them from when she was 5 and I tell you she is so very special to me. We have a very close bond now, she is in her 30’s but I love her as if she was flesh of my flesh and blood of my blood ❤️
I was chilling in my room and suddenly a ninja broke in and started chopping Onions...
Why will a ninja be chopping Onions tho?
Woah! The same thing happened to me!
hufflepuff Harry potter lover ur username is everything
@@darkincognito3826 whoosh
@@Todd_G_FPV Hey, this ain't reddit.
Can’t stop crying imagine how good this man has been to his kids that they would even set this up heard them all say dad like a thousand times lol clearly the greatest dad and husband god bless this family
The fact that they already call him dad is absolutely amazing 🥰🥰
So proud he is. Beautiful family.
Are you kidding me! What a beautiful family.
I'm so touched by this story. He raised beautiful children.
I understand perfectly. My Daddy adopted me at age 4. Met my mom when she was 21 as a single parent. I love him so much. Still in my life, I'm 43 now. And still daddy's lil girl.
Kudos to all dad's out there, who say" Bring it on!"
I know exactly how he felt reading that as my girls did the same thing to me and I’m just here to tell everyone words can’t explain the emotions. Your a lucky man brother cherish it
These always make me tear up. You don't choose your biological children or parents and so it is a blessing when everything turns out alright, but willingly choosing a person to be your parent... that must feel very powerful and special for both parties.
You...you kindado choose your biological children.
Cause you kinda make them.
Ya know?
@@camomoose1078 nah
First time I really saw my father cry was when my sister asked him to adopt her.
I'm so happy for all of you!
There is so much love in this video from the daughter and the stepfather. It's so refreshing to see that they appreciate what this man did for them.
I grew up and aged out in foster care, and these stories always make me happy for all those kids who found fathers and mothers who stepped up for them. All the best!
Sorry you never had parents. If someone had adoped you, they would've been blessed.
I’m so sorry you went through that and it must have been very difficult and hopeless at times. I imagine that hurts the soul and your heart. I wish for you one day to find a truly loving woman, be married, and be able to be a father yourself and cherish your kids. Show them all the love you deserved from your biological parents.
My granpa was actually like you. Most stern yet sweet person I know.
Would you have wanted to be adopted once you reached mid-teens?
@@oleandra3759 I'm in my early 20s and I would still love to have a father
He even has the Dad jokes on point 😂 and that moment when his face goes red.. 💓 God bless 💯
That's the thing about DaDs they really care about everyone more than themselves and hide there tears and pain in silence no matter how strict they are ,no matter how carefree they are ❤️
❤️ you guys are the best this made me smile and miss my dad very much but this man is a role model
Omg it's the Valkyrie slayer himself! I heard "you're" also pregnant xD
Congrats!
Omg GbG you are here brother!! Nice seeing u here mate
Agree!!! Much respect to him!!!
A Dad is who created you. But a Father is who raised you
A role model? He stole another mans family. What is wrong with you?
Fatherhood is the best thing a man can experience in his life... I'm 3 times sure of it.
As a girl not knowing my father and gone through a pretty bad experience with a step-dad I really can appreciate this.
How cool of a dad he must be being asked to adopt the kids by THE KIDS themselves....
GOOD JOB! That's what I call to MAN UP! ❤️
LOVE, LOVE LOVE
Same here
My mom wasn't in 3 of her kids lives for 12 years..yet it's only talked ab when it's a dad walking out. What a dumb society
@@krishnakanth1058 What's wrong with you?
@@krishnakanth1058 Actually he's being a man, something you apparently know nothing about.
Stepfathers are never good, unless the real dad's deceased.
Growing up as a divorcee child, and now raising my teen son as a single parent, I couldn’t stop myself from shedding a tear. God bless fathers like him, we need more of them in the world
I truly hope you are doing better or will soon. I'm a single mom and I send my love to you ♡
I don't know why TH-cam recommended me this, but this video made my day. Mad respect and may God bless you all.
Awwwww tears. My son asked my husband to be his dad. It takes a special kind of Man to adopt and take on someone else’s child or children. Congrats
Yes.
“ No.” Typical dad; made me laugh!
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I wish everyday I asked my Dad to adopt me before he passed. He was amazing caring for my brother and I since I was four, still remember my sixth birthday and he started a rubber and war it was so much fun. He was my best friend. He was who I ran too when I had a problem with boys, when I got pregnant at 17 he was who I called when I found out even though he and my mother were divorced, when I enlisted he was the person on the phone saying how proud he is of me, when I was preparing for my first deployment I was scared and he just said don't focus on fear focus on coming home day at a time, when I was sent to Germany I was told he had six moths left to live due to COPD and CHF it was the hardest day of my life getting on a plane to say my final good bye to my dad. Ten years now and it still feels like yesterday. Hug each other everyday, say I love you as much as you can, you never know when will the last time be.
Army SGT Girl I am so sorry for your loss! :(
@@Earth.To.Marsss it's difficult but I try to live the life my Dad would have been proud of. Although an SCI I still try to do what I can for others.
I am so sorry for you loss. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Thank you for sharing those amazing memories.
@@sgtsnafubohica15 I love the way you clearly and matter of factly state: MY DAD! 💙 After all, he was.
That is beautiful. Nothing makes a grown man cry more than the love for his children. Congratulations to the beautiful family
He doesn’t need paper, you can tell he’s the dad. Stunning family, wish you all the happiness life can bring 🌹🇬🇧
As grown men we are taught to be tough and not show emotion. You could even see by how he wanted to put his shades down. Seeing grown men cry happy tears is the greatest joy ever. I cried right along with him. Thanks for sharing this.
Absolutely stunning not everyone has a father in there life but it absolutely is an amazing feeling when you find someone that can step up and treat you like there own this is a very inspiring video
As a father that raised a daughter alone I was crying right along with you.. 🥲
God bless you!!
Show this guy some respect, he knows what’s about to occur, that’s why he needs his specs!, but he shouldn’t be embarrassed of his emotional response. Well done sir. You have my respect!!!. 🍺😉👍
The real test be when your 90 in a diaper everyone of them better come running to help me