The gaslighting is insane. If you notice they always talk about traditional women and how it used to be, but women did not have choices or autonomy over their bodies and finances. Men have it hard now because women don't have to be their slaves or accept their abuse. I say good riddance.❤
Men admire that time because even today women are not seen as human beings to them (we never have been). They are incapable of love and seeing you are more than your reproductive organs. Idk what it is women are expecting from males who have never showed us they cared and still don’t show us (such a tiny percentage of countries world wide do women have LEGAL equal rights. That should tell you something). Males are not who you think they are.
@@zooweellamaYes, it really appears that males cannot love or even learn to see women as fellow human beings. We are objects for their use, and if we act otherwise, they have a meltdown and feel misused.
Do they ever talk about how women didn't have rights like 60 years ago? It wasn't that long ago at all. Like, women were property a century ago and still are in other parts of the world. And now they're equal to men and navigating the hardships that come with a misogynistic society. But they don't want to hear about that victim stuff!
Exactly! Women are doing all of this and we have surpassed males in every single area imaginable (education, buying houses at a higher rate than males, you name it). But yet here they are, degenerate and shameless. Insisting on harassing us because we don't want to deal with them anymore. Lying and saying it's "their choice" and hoping that women will come running back to them because they're trying to play psychological games. I pray they all take themselves out and never come back ❤
Men talk so much about nothing, it is genuinely amazing how much time you can waste listening to a man make a single incoherent point. Even double speed didn't save me this time
They are largely emotional and illogical. It is apparent that they have never experienced hard work nor a hard life at all , in any aspect other than the fantasy of the woman they want that they realize they won't get because women are not literal slaves anymore. They can't get sex on demand and they are rotting their brains with video gaming and porn.
I see what you’re saying. But I doubt it’ll turn out that way. Lonely men are also aggressive men. The statistics that says women are assaulted most by their intimate partners will change into women are assaulted most by men on the streets. 😢
@@Emptytopfloor We will be safer overall, because at least the monsters won't be living in our houses. But you're right, street violence will go up. Home invasions for the purposes of rape will go up too.
That would be nice. But these men.. it sounds like they just don’t want to get married and be financially bound to a woman. These men are not adhering to celibacy. But now instead of looking for a serious relationship, they are going to try and find a woman they can have sex with without spending money on them and a woman they won’t have to listen to. And idk WHAT point that dude was talking about regarding loading the dishwasher and how women can’t understand they came from different cultures and grew up differently. Like what? It sounds like he came from a house where his mom did all domestic work and his partner just refuses to understand that is just a part of his culture or something and she should just be grateful he did a bad job at cleaning the dishes.
@@ihanakaunotar2741Maliki law actually provides grounds for women to divorce for really any form of abuse or neglect. Contrary, the Torah allows divorce for “refusal to support” or “neglect of conjugal duties.” New Testament only allows divorce for adultery, so by some extremist interpretations a man can basically abuse a woman all he wants as long as he’s not cheating. Frankly all of the abrahamic religious texts have their backward interpretations but also have room for more positive interpretation
Video in a nutshell: Now that men can't dangle food, water, and shelter over a woman's head in exchange for sex, I mean relationships, men are struggle to date. The interesting part is how men will talk about the pressures they feel/felt having to be the providers. Well now women can work, and most prefer to. You think they would be happier now that a lot of that pressure has been aleviated, but they aren't. It's because they know that this mirage of "provision" was the only thing they had that would make a woman put up with them. Just sad
No, sad is realizing that women only wanted men for our stuff. Your love was always fake, shallow, and robotic from the very beginning. The fact that men are worried that they won't be able to please a woman, shows that men are more selfless than women. Work hard to stay single, a lot of the men that gave up on working and society will depend on you for their welfare. You will now provide for everybody else.
It's great these men are opting out. Seems like a relationship is not for them in the near future. I can honor that. I hope that includes them avoiding being creepy to women in public.
A lot of these guy still don't get why women aren't into them - most of them are still hella misogynistic. They still don't understand that women want respect and to be treated like an equal in a partnership rather than being a mum to a 35 year old baby.
Ok. I don't think you understand men CANNOT give you that. The problem that caused misogyny is NOT psychologucal or social. It is BIOLOGICAL. Their very bioligt was built specifically to despise women. Even wanting women is a feature if that bikigy bc they don't just want you a little but, the insanity and endless of their sex drives means they won't ever leave us alone. It's literally designed for them to hunt us into infinity. Everything about them is designed that way. Someone wanted women hunted with no peace. I say someone bc the combination of genes inherently in male biology, and their immaculate, and precise targeting of women are not things that can be happenstance.
The guy with the Gray beard should not be dating young girls. He is old and if he's dating young girls obviously they're going to be dating him for whatever it is he can provide for them not because they're actually attracted to an old dude with saggy skin.
Most men are aware of this when they go after younger women. There is a reason why women gravitate toward older men too. It is because older men tend to be more established and have more resources. It is like skipping the journey of being there to build a guy up, and you just get to end to where he is already built.
4:35 It's crazy to just watch a video where married women saying that marriage and being a stay at home wife is tough work because you're doing the brunt of the house work/ child rearing and you dont a day off to then sit watch a man saying there is no benefit to having a woman in men's life. I'm starting to believe if it's not something where men can benefit (from sex or having someone cook/clean for them) they see no value in women at all. Its why a lot of men don't have platonic female friends because "where's the benefit?"
Yea as a man I see that a lot. My step mom is a stay at home mom but she is well respected and my dad helps out when he is off. He makes the most important decisions such as in a crucial situation but usually when we are all at home, she is the boss. House work is hard work and should be respected but a lot of men especially the red pill men say they want it but don't respect it.
Darling even if they benefit from it they still see no value in women. Remember birth life and give them children. What do they say about pregnancy? It's nothing. It's devalued. Fuck them kids. Actually LIFE. There is no scenario men will value women.
I know, I won’t have a kid with a man unless they’re willing to help. I don’t want to be 100% dependent on a man either. Too many women screwed over by doing everything, giving up their career to be a housewife and their body to have kids and the husband will cheat and blame the woman for gaining weight. I say nope, I’ll rather be single, than a slave.
I get harassed on daily in public spaces with men invading my space and trying to put themselves in my space. They're weird. Also I feel like men have gotten extremely less physically attractive over the years.
You basically summed up my problems I've been having lately, I felt like it was me. Seeing your comment confirms what I've been saying for the longest. I hope more women's community's come together. Thank you 🙏
The only man who made sense in this video was the single dad. He was the only one I could agree with, because he kept it real and simple. People in general have been hurt and people need healing. Solitute gets comfortable after a while, because investing/loving/taking care of yourself feels great and (sometimes) better then being in a relationship. The only difference is men still want 😼 and most are not willing to pay for it. So based on that they still won't leave women alone..🙄
*gaslighting is insane as most self-sacrificing good women are treated with breadcrumbs not their selfish needy man's rich golds of the black hole as their toxic manly male lukewarm rotten cheating lustful evil soul...*
Notice that he kept saying how peaceful his life is now he's a single father? Who's actually keeping his kids? Coz I seriously doubt he is if his life's so peaceful.
Christ, I start fast-forwarding when these men start repeating themselves AND THERE'S STILL AT LEAST 5 MORE MINUTES OF EACH ONE TALKING. These men talk more than any four people should. "Men can throw millions of dollars at women and they'll never be happy". Dude... you look like you can't throw 10 bucks at a woman, and why is money the only thing you can think of?
I'm so happy those men say they are choosing to be single. Even if it's just that women don't want them and it's not their choice, that's good too and hopefully no woman will give them a chance. Thinking Beyoncey can't do better than Jay Z is a level of delusion I can't fathom
Fun fact: Prince William once had a crush on Beyoncé. If she had married him, she could've been Queen Bey for real. She can absolutely do better than Jay Z.
@@M00nst0ne Yeah, but then she'd be with Prince William, who's also a cheating douchebag... not to mention the incestuous family tree affecting her bloodline... but eh for the title, I guess.
It's no surprise that the second guy had the dustiest response. These men are zesty AF and again the second guy is regurgitating talking points from women's channels.
I Swear to Gawd that Second dust walker is talking big sh*t and he's repetitive and he is a terrible partner based on the things he saying, sounds like projection and experience..
He got problem,, very necrotic,,, i hope he don't have any kids,, the second one he us dusty,,, "bring women",, like a cow,,,, his assets,,, but it's oki to use her body daily for house work, for sex, for having kids,, but he is upset about his cup and his car..
I have been watching these videos for a while and I noticed that when these men speak it's mostly not from what they experienced. They are just "generally" speaking on the topic about how women are this and they do that. When women speak on it mostly they give details of what they experienced and exactly what they have a problem with. That alone really just says a lot, they definitely know that most times than not they are really the issue.
Yess. I've noticed that too. But they don't care about most time than not. They see women benefit even a little and it warps their senses. It's so instinctual to hate women they seriously lack perspective. They are truly women's enemies
@@dineomakwela6696 yeah it was a lie from the very beginning. It allowed them to get close to us. I think them looking human is another only to get close to us too bc i only see human in a tiny amount of their behavior. The rest just scream parasite - predator hybrid. And I'm thinking if they really are that, how did they get to look human??? By
"...these men speak it's mostly not from what they experienced." " ...but they cause us the most harm." You ladies are doing this too. You are talking about violence, enslavement, and abuse that a lot of you have never experienced. You speak on it from an empathetic point too. As in you are aware that it happens to other women but you view it as if it is an attack on all women, rather than it is an occurrence that happens to some women. It's like saying it's not all men but yes it is.
@@toxicmale2264 no actually women aren't doing this. What she means is women's behavior are directly from experience. Every woman has a story that lets them understand other women's behavior towards men. Every woman had that AND each situation brought up bc of behaviors of men, there are SEVERAL stories told by women in the thread that it happened to THEM. BUT, stories of issues men complain about women, there are no stores of men that it happened to them, only general assumptions women are this women are that. I still don't think you understand the difference bc that was a little complicated. You say women say general things about men too. Yes we do but its also bc we experienced something directly from men that is similar to that situation. So we might not have the same exact study if that exact behavior we have an adjacent story about and adjacent behavior. Men usually have no stories except for a couple here and there. I've noticed this very same thing she's saying too.
When men are single they too have to do housework. The reasoning men like getting women to do the housework is from our perspective that being at home is better than being at work. At work, you are dealing with crazy coworkers and a crazy boss. Sometimes you are working a lot of long hours. We view it as easier to be home doing the simple tasks. So we take on the harder chores and give women easier roles from our perspective. Of course, if you never say anything then we will assume that you are okay with this.
The vast majority of couples/families, both are gainfully employed. So, mowing the lawn every other week & taking out the trash twice a week is equivalent to cooking, cleaning the house, doing dishes *everyday* & laundry as needed ? Add in gestating, birthing & raising child(ren). Not by a long chalk are men doing the harder work in the home.
@@fantym1633 Single men have to do all the tasks alone. Are women going to fix their houses, cars, and other type of manual labor type of jobs? I really doubt it. You are overestimating house tasks. It's probably the hardest you have ever worked. Most women would rather pay for someone else to fix their car, than to actually fix it themselves.
@@toxicmale2264 this idea that most men can and do fix things themselves is crazy - penises do not beget handiness. Mechanics do not see an over abundance of female clients, in fact, it's a known reality that maintenance requests are mostly put forth by men because women's complaints are often taken unseriously. Saying stuff like that - which can be so easily disproven with simple thought - is a big reason why women get angry with men. Y'all say such wildly inaccurate things based off the fantasy of what you HOPE you are, instead of what you actually do and are capable of. Just try to think on it, don't want to be mean, but your point is so poorly made here. Also, if you admit that woman do work outside the home at the same rate as men, how can housework be the hardest we work?? And please don't mention construction and labor because the vast majority of men - especially those prowling female yt spaces - do not perform work much different then the vast majority of working women.
I'm sorry, but I couldn't finish this video. My allergies started acting up from all the dust coming through the screen. 🤧 I'll catch you in the next one, though, sis. ❤😅
But this is fine. We should all just stay single 😊 I’m happy, I have money, own my home, my sheets and dresses are silk and eat like a queen. My friends take each other on dates and treat each other well and celebrate our successes. So I see no issue. Maybe we should just leave each other alone. Men must enjoy their video games, only fans and sports. Live your best life! Do you boo!
Let’s be honest though. Video games and sports aren’t bad inherently and plenty of us women like them too, except we don’t use our hobbies as an excuse not to care for our families
@@LGrian yes I agree. I am being too broad here in my judgment and using my past experience to colour all perceptions. Thanks for checking me on it., because yes not all gamers and sports fans. In my personal experience, my ex long term partner and ex husband were major gamers and sports fans. They spent hours on it, yet belittled my interests, especially furthering my education (why is it necessary/you're fine where you are/why stress yourself). I remember getting distinctions whilst they clocked 8-10hrs of gaming a day on weekends and then having to deal with the brunt of their anger when teams lost or I earned more/achieved more whilst their careers stagnated. But I do get it isn't everyone. I just had a bad experience that's left me feeling like this is a dealbreaker for me.
Men are the ones who live less and literally are depressed and sick when they are alone so to the guy who asked what benefits do women bring, nigah, we bring yo whole life!
@@ARS-fn6pxthat could be there fear they basically betrayed women and there still pushing for wifely benefits from these women it's delusion they created for themselves that helps there ego feel more validated or boosted so they lie to themselves and make it seem like this is just our public duty or that men just don't want us and that's why we're single no sir you forgot the romance part it should be a new law that if you want regular sex from woman you should have to marry them now that usually shuts them up especially if you buy them a box of condoms they look at you stupid because if it was really just about casual sex they wouldnt be out there trying to get these women pregnant. Sometimes you have to think for them because if we let men run the world they would probably destroy it and a lot of them would realize this patriarchy crap wouldnt benefits them as much as they think because they would be forced into an arranged marriage and they would have to pay some woman's rent and light bill.
No they don't. Bc they don't care. They even care so little as to think it doesn't happen. They are deeply sickening. I've spoken to many who have a hard time believing the actual rate of it. Women are in deep trouble much more than they think
Men should stop saying they don’t care how much money a woman makes because if they get together and they divorce he is scared she will take what is his. He should hope she has money when she comes into the relationship so she doesn’t come after his.
Jeannie Mai had her own money when she married Jeezy and now that he filed for divorce that bitch is coming after his money (not child support, but alimony). She was a millionaire her damn self but she is so butt hurt now over the divorce she letting her emotions take over and still going against the prenuptial she signed so yall women can miss me with that billshit about a woman with her own money not going after her ex's money in court. If she gets all emotional she will go after his money just out of pure spite even tho she can have a multi million dollar checking and savings account her damn self.
We are basing the attraction we have on you based on what you are, not the things you come with. The issue we are trying to get across is that there is no point in marriage if you are just going to divorce us. It's like saying, "I am going to date you but eventually I might leave you." What is the point?
I love that it's all middle aged men who have effed around and are now finding out. Young men you have a choice. You can see what the stable families look like and now you can see what confirmed bachelo hood looks like.
U did not pay attention to the video. She said 33% of men ages 18 to 29 are choosing not to date or actively pursue a woman or any relationship with them. Last time I checked ages 18 to 29 is pretty damn young so it's actually younger men checking out of dating, not older men. U are a typical woman that hears what her emotions wants to hear instead of hearing what WAS ACTUALLY SAID. Get it together lady, PLEASE!
@@garymoore3384those guys are also having less sex than ever before. Thus they are addicted to porn and OF. Not to mention many do fuck around when they’re on a relationship, that’s basically red pill ideology, cheat on your girl, force her to be housewife so she can’t leave you and then treat her like shit. These dudes listening to single men rather than married men is wild 😂😂
Someone sure didn't, gary. The studies the woman cited found 33% of 18 - 29 yo men ... The vid itself featured men speaking who definitely appeared to be middle aged, all xcept perhaps last 1.
I’ve never cared why I am single until somebody just kept digging around my private life and then it became their problems. I wouldn’t care about men martial status neither. I see everyone as human beings and I don’t care if they have a gf or a wife. I won’t engage with them beyond business transactions. Save money and you will be fine when you get older.
@user-pl6to8pf3r I just bought a house in Hawaii this year as a single woman. So if anything that couch is mine, your question don’t even apply to me. Just because I don’t spread my legs to men, doesn’t mean Im living like you.
I am single, but thats has nothing to do with the "red pill" thing. Man I hate these guys, they don't see what trully makes us feel bad; misoginy. Also, looking gorgerous sistah ❤❤
I notice many of their responses revolves around money. Which tells me they still don’t get it. Money isn’t the only thing women want in a relationship. Emotional intelligence goes a very long way. Emotional intelligence has nothing to deal with money.
@@anonnnymousthegreat True, And also I hate this idea of the "high value man/woman". It's like they literally see human beings as products, no Wonder there's alot of n4zz1s in the Red pill community...
This made me laugh. The first video I watched got me puzzled, like is America really such a paradise for women? Should I maybe think about relocation? But I never got that impression from my American roommate who flew over the ocean and was staying in another country just to get as far away as possible from her violent ex... But this one has me in stitches. These men are just delusional. I mean, come on. A man places their life in the hands of a woman when they start living together? When was the last time he checked reality. I mean, it's a reality for every woman that an average man (not even a super strong one) can kill her with bare hands, beat her up or rape her whenever the fancy strikes him. Yeah, he will be presumably punished later (or maybe not, depending on the law, country, circumstances etc. For murder probably yes, everything else... entirely a matter of chance). Well, most men will not do either of this, I assume. Well, I hope. But they have the capacity to do that all the time. And women still somehow muster the trust and the courage to have relationships and marriages and have done so since times immemorial. And he's now being all whiney about what? lol. I mean I was trying to listen seriously, but this was just too much. ahahaha. Maybe he should try standup or something.
You summed it up beautifully!! Males don’t realize how big of a risk women take by getting into relationships with them because he could end her life if he wanted (which happens every single day.) women take the risk to be with these creatures and a lot of the time it ends badly (even while pregnant). I have only one life and I intend on living it to my fullest potential which means some risk are not worth taking. So single life for me or maybe in the future I will date women, who knows.
@@zooweellama well, while the potential and the risk is always there (it's a biological reality), I don't think it's fair or helpful to try and denigrate men in general or call them "creatures". If something can harm you doesn't necessarily mean they have any will or intention to harm you. We just need to take this into account, be careful to trust, do baby steps. If you like women or being single it's fine too, but I think it's not fair to think there's something inherently wrong with being a man either. What with all the "gender war" propaganda going on, I think we need to be extra careful and ruin our own lives for ourselves. There's such a thing as confirmation bias, that means that if you believe smth to be true, your brain will only pay attention to the facts that support your theory and serve as evidence, ignoring everything else. Why then let the brain concentrate on smth negative and leave out all the potentially good stuff?
@@MrGianeta I understand the biological risks, but to throw my two cents in- I also feel like... a lot of women are very strong, though? However men are raised to be tough, to have the harder jobs, so automatically they WILL be stronger because society.. makes them stronger. I wasn't encouraged to be big and tough, (nonbinary afab) I was encouraged to be creative and emotionally strong. Meanwhile my brothers were encouraged to be strong and giants, physically. As well as dominating emotionally. (Also, women with muscles can be seen as gross or too domineering, from what I've seen some people say). Women overpower men, beat men, etc... it doesn't even have to be strength vs strength. I know someone's mother who is a nurse, and she (I believe) could very well have the capabilities of taking down a very strong man. You make VERY good points here, I just want to throw in that if we're trying to knock down other potential risks, saying outright "there's a biological difference" when it's more complex than that, isn't fair to all the men who aren't like that, or could NEVER overpower a woman. Though again, very well said.
@@lmaoconfetti1405 well, I honestly think you underestimate how very much stronger you are by nature physically than an average woman. you personally, and not just your brothers. Even if you don't have any special training and are approximately the same height. It's not about the society. There are occassionally women who are really strong and also, of course if a woman has a long training in martial arts she will stand a good chance against an untrained man (especially if she's got quick reflexes and quickly breaks him smth. like an arm). But all in all it's easier for a woman to kill a man then to overpower him in any way. Anyway, I can tell you that when a woman is walking home in the dark even one suspicious man is by default a potential danger to be reckoned with (I imagine for a man the equivalent would be 2-3 suspicious men going after you). And it's not just about the size and training of a man. By default, even when untrained, you have more muscles, wider and denser bones, more power etc. Especially the upper body strength is significatly greater, you can hit harder and with more power, etc. You have never wondered why a man can rape a woman ? or maybe you thought it's only done by particularly stong and trained men? Or why there have been so many cases (historically even) when the husbands were giving their wives a good beating, sometimes to death? That is by the way also the reason why a lot of such cases can end in a man's death. If he is beating up his wife in the vicinity of the kitchen knife... the pain can be just too much, and the judgement clouded. Well, the woman goes to prison, but the damage is there. I'm not saying that women are helpless, just how little men are aware of the physical advantage they have that women, on the other hand, are brought up to be aware of all the time. If you have a female friend or relative who is ok with this, you can try to conduct an experiment and see how it goes. like holding her and she seriously tries to break free or smth or pushing her down. But only do it with consent to the experiment, ok? ( Emotions and dominating emotionally is a totally different matter, let's not discuss it here.). Anyway, as I was saying. It's not good or bad, it's just a fact of life. Just because a man CAN potentially beat up or murder a woman with bear hands, does not mean he WILL do it. I have the strength to kill a baby, for example. Will I do it? Of course not. But the power to do it is always there. That's why the man in the video who was freaking out about how he can live with some imaginary potential danger that is always present had me laughing so hard. 'Cause he like got it backwards, and was basically saying that he can't imagine how it's possible for a woman to live with a man at all lol. The irony!
@@lmaoconfetti1405did you just say men are stronger because they are raised to be? Dear Lord please tell me you live in the same reality as the rest of us and if you don't, how did you get there? I'd Love to go to your world where things are so different. Men are biologically built stronger and it's rare for a woman to be stronger than the weakest of men. We have to live in the same reality or this country will fall apart. We have to be on the same page about facts. Have your opinions about them but don't change reality or you'll break it. We are seeing reality breaking and everyone is unhappier. People have lived for thousands of years and we can use what worked and throw away what didn't work. Language worked, stop messing with it, invent your own words. I get it, men don't feel as strong as women. It's sad but women are forced to be like men in this society to a large degree. We get forced into education, work, self reliance, independence in all ways, self protection and everything else a man does. We both call the cops when an intruder breaks in. Women have to be strong and it's making men resent us for it. And instead of being a safer sex, they want to take it to the next level of worse. They've become immature because no man is holding the next accountable anymore except rich men. Rich men hold each other accountable and therefore get the best women who are rich or poor. Regular men aren't acting good because they don't care anymore. They invest in one bad women' and blame all women after that when he already knew what she was. It's sad. Men have to change just like women had to and still do for them.
The African guy lack self-awareness and seems like the type that doesn’t want to to be held accountable and responsible. He’s blame shifting. He’s got some points but something’s off about him.
Idk people, I've lived in five states and many cities and ive only met a handful of women like the first guy is talking about. Idk where they are meeting these women that expect their bfs to be millionaires lmao or are they watching too much internet???? Also what cops has he ran into? Women cant just destroy a man things without serious repercussions. She cant accuse him of stuff and he goes to jail WTF is he on about. Ive seen two women ever try that and it didnt work. Actually, one got arrested herself. These men watch too much tv. If she scratches you vehicle out of malice, she's going to jail lmao this is America. Women arent magical creatures that get away with murder. Maybe once in awhile but men get away with stuff too.
Yea I truly hope you're right. A lot of men get scared of false accusing because it's what is all over the media now and with degenerate people( both men and women) everywhere it is scary for lots of people. Terrible world we live in but best one humans have ever lived in.
most of them have nothing worth taking... an old car? lol Most people cant even buy a house anymore, so what are we getting? maybe child support? These men are the delusional ones.
Isn’t there a reason why women get more in divorce? The woman doesn’t have anything to survive on her own because she spend so much time taking care of her husband and kids instead of working. And she’s the one that raises the kids so it makes sense that she would keep the kids and she need money to continue raising her kids. And In cases of abuse, the kids will go to the one that can be trusted to raise them in a safe and loving environment and that’s usually the mum
@@Lunakitty1234yep, stats have proven that the woman is actually generally worse off than the husband after divorce. These guys always pick the rare cases of some athletes divorce were the woman gets millions, but most women don’t ever get anything near that money.
The problem I see here is actually that most nort american men see relationships as purely transactional. If they cant get the most of it, they dont want it. They dont want to understand why its not working, they Just dont want to understand where is lacking - from both sides. Now, points I can get behind are those from the guy with the hoodie, the single dad
Yep, women aren’t perfect, sure there’s some that cheat and are bad. If you as a man end up with tons of those women as if women end up tons with bad guys, tells a lot what you’re attracted to. But statistically women do way more housework than men while both working same hours. I as a woman don’t want a child man, I want a man.
My mother forgot to teach me the fine art of hypnotizing men. Can I find that on skillshare? Does this youtube creator have a code? Also, what country allows a woman to marry a guy, divorce him in two years, then take half of everything he has worked for? Narnia?
Most of their manosphere talking points are bs lies. They don't get anything out of the truth so they've built them a nice little delusion and they go around repeating it to everyone. My ex was a monster. He was an abuser and a narcissist through and through. He treated me like shit for 17 yrs and he will to this day send me videos of manosphere bs about "women taking half." I left with the clothes on my back to escape his ass. He's not interested in reality bc in reality he's a f*cking monster.
This is a good thing. It means we'll have less men going aggressive on us feeling entitled because of rejection. I hope they stay single and celibate forever. But I doubt they will.
I wish this was the case, but no. What they mean by "staying single" is staying out of COMMITTED relationships. They're still going to lie to get sex. They're just going to talk in circles about it to try the confusion method. They'll never stop trying to get that. They're too addicted to pr0n. We have to start thinking more like them. They separate sex & relationships in their minds. That's not what they're saying at all.
@@inactiveaccount6106 Maybe if they stay out of committed relationships, women will eventually get the idea and stop dealing with them altogether? By it becoming more and more obvious, maybe we can stop being delulu? One can hope.
He’s literally saying what single moms have been saying. The only difference is that his comments won’t be filled with h8 by wmn like they are in videos when the roles are reversed.
What I got from this is that a LOT of men are HuRtInG and it SHOOOWS! It seems to me that a lot of these men that have grievances, should have picked better. 🤷🏾♀️
I thought the last guy made sense. You take time on your own, you find your Needs are met, no drama, friends provide companionship - it becomes easier to be alone and it is a good life.
First guy keeps ranting about all the alleged things being "done" to men but accuses women of adopting a victim mentality. Like no, sir, not all women are out there to get you, but all these laws are in place to protect women from men like you. The reason women's voice get priority in abuse cases (and it doesn't even in all cases) is because for thousands of years it was the other way around.
The guy at 12:04 is ridiculous. Women will cook food the way you like, buy the exact laundry soap you like, iron your pants the way you like, make you breakfast or lunch and go buy the snacks you like and it goes on and on. Men are so ungrateful. Why cant he just load the dishwasher the correct way? She will have to rewash all of the dishes that are still dirty because you cant load the dishwasher the right way? This is beyond messed up and so many men are like this. Also, i understand that when women try to understand men, we will try to figure out their true feelings and where they are manifesting. So when you tell her, you're making me upset when you complain. She will say I'm complaining about something you keep doing and i feel like you dont care about my feelings and the man will think shes not listening when it's the man who isnt listening. I might be wrong about this particular man but a lot of times, that is the womens attempt at figuring out the root issues. Women have gone to therapy, we watch self help videos, we are trying our best at communicating effectively. Good luck ladies because these men are so in their feelings and they don't care anymore. Its all about them. It starts to actually become their fault when they dont care and never resolve the issues. They think i resolved one issue, I'm good for the next ten years. Unbelievable. We love you guys so much, please have a growth mindset please. Bless your hearts.
@@77kc_77 That's like saying, why are you worried about the world's problems? Worry about yourself... Like no, we need people who are willing to speak up with positive solutions or that can see the real issues clearly without being too negative in their remarks. We need more idealistic people with morals and good ideas because most of the idealistic people pushing and influencing are messed up individuals and that's why our culture in the west is deteriorating. Good people want to mind their own business while evil people can't and won't. No babe, I'm going to speak for the side of good and be a good influence anywhere I can be because that is what our Lord Jesus called us to do. We must be the salt of the earth because what good is salt if it loses its flavor but for destruction? I know my comment was just clarifying and pointing out, but maybe, just maybe a man will see it and understand a woman or maybe a woman will see it and will understand something a little more idk. It's good to call out bad behavior. Men and women cannot keep going the way they are or we will face a population collapse and our government will use this divide to gain even more control on us. Who is sitting men down and helping them understand us? They don't do it for each other anymore. That's the problem. They need to hold each other accountable and no one is talking about this so I will until it catches on somewhere with love
@Tealaful what I'm saying let men sort out their own bs - if women are decentered your energy and time should go to yourself- if these men haven't done the work in all this time they won't- save yourself. Clearly these men aren't changing and don't care ! Focus on your own well being and safety ! Ain't nobody trying to save men who don't care about themselves!
@Tealaful were already headed there and what's changing ?! NOT A GOD DAYUM THING - civilization is changing and on the brink of a societal collapse look around- were in end time activity ! AI will take over soon !
Because they're extremely miserable alone, but due to male entitlement, they want women jumping through hoops doing everything to get them into relationships, because they must have that power, dominance and feeling of superiority. They aren't capable of love and deep bonding. They are miserable, empty souls.
Because most can't afford to go exploit women and girls in impoverished nations. They just thought that the fear of them doing so would make us rush to be under their thumbs again. They only want a woman on the condition that they can have complete power and dominance. That's because they don't view women as humans, and they lack the capacity to feel love and form bonds.
😂😂The second guy lmaooo, women "breaking all tgeir stuff bc they are angry"!!! That is such a man thing to do though, they do that all the fucking time
Have men ever wanted a “partner”? In my experience, men want someone who will do all of life’s grunt work - cooking, cleaning, taking care of the household, being primary caregiver for children and him, as well as the primary target for his emotional and often physical abuse, all while being “submissive” - even if those men are not playing and aren’t even capable of playing their role as head of the household. And if women don’t do all of this, they’re being “disrespectful”. 🤷🏼♀️
No, they're not capable of partnership (in most cases). At least 99% of them aren't capable of love or deep bonding, of seeing women as human, introspection, accountability, or anything else necessary for that dynamic. They're just seeking someone to provide sex, maid service, therapy, child-bearing and child-rearing. We hold no human value to them.
This guy is playing the victim about saying women are playing the victim and sounds like the most massive victim I’ve ever listened to. And his fast annoying talking… I was sick of him after 3 seconds 🤔😂
This is why I do not get on TikTok. Everyone thinks they have a big idea and most of them should have been taught silence is golden but duct tape is silver.
The second stitch you can hear the bitterness. That mentality of i can do it so there is no need to haveba woman. Lol they sound like the i dont need no man women. Of course nobody needs anybody its the problem of you dont always ahve to do everything alone but they dont want anything thats not on their terms
It would appear modern men and modern women don't want each other. 😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️ The third guy makes very important points I agree with: 1. Happiness is an individual inside job. 2. The greatest men on earth were inspired by the women in their lives. They needed that woman's energy to be great (see Napoleon Hill's _Think and Grow Rich_)
The single dad was absolutely correct. Being single is comfortable. If you put enough effort into yourself, advocate for yourself, focus on healing, you are unlikely to want to ruin all that progress just to date somebody.
But men are still hilarious to me because they always think a year & a half is a super long time to be single. A year is a normal timespan to be alone & get your head together. It should be, as a divorcee with kids like he is, anyway. I guess that's why they always remarry so soon after becoming a widow or being divorced. That means they don't really vet women like they tell us to vet men & choose better. I've never married or had kids & even I take longer than that outside of relationships.
Tbh we all agree heal ourselves and stay single is the best thing for society. Thanks for saying this men. Now that one side is doing the work hopefully men can see that therapist they got in their feelings about.
The black man was a little right about it being scary for men to have a woman in their life but he was absolutely wrong with his talking points because even if a man got one of those bad women they usually aren't going to do that, they will usually hurt to more emotionally instead of physically. And if you are with someone who is all about smiting or winning an argument then you shouldn't be with them. The older guy with the beard was terribly wrong about saying you can throw tons of money at women and get no love, but why would you want to throw money at them for love? Why buy love? Why not earn it? Don't go for someone who wants to buy you or be bought, go for someone who will take care of you in the ways they can.
Exactly most men are deluded. They take the 0.00001% and overblow it. On the other hand, take what women deal with and down play it. They are deeply delusional
@@ihanakaunotar2741 where have you been??? It's been debunked that men cant love. They CANNOT. you said these men as though they are my blips in the entire gamut of males. These are very much the representation of the true capabilities of men. Unlovable and unable to love. That's the male species. The whole love things with princes charming was always a lie.
@@ihanakaunotar2741 Yea You're right that is the reason he backed a real concern up with far fetched things that most likely won't happen. It's not a good mens or good womens fault he can't be good enough to attract a good partner.
Glad they decided to leave women alone. I think maybe its women that arent bothering with them, and they have to convince themselves that they want it like that rather than improve as a person. They dont like hearing they've been the problem for a long time. And can no longer successfully blame women for all mens problems. Toxic masculinity is absolutely a thing. And the behaviors associated with it as much as being harmful to both men and women, they are/were extremely benefcial for men. When you see a balance of power shift and those who possessed it start to complain and throw tantrums, thats how you know things are changing. Men cant handle not having the ability to dominate women in whatever way they please. Its evident in the men's answers to her question.
U sound as if u know every single man in the world and what he thinks and feels about women when in reality u probably only dated about 4 men your whole life and they were all probably from the same area close to where u live but u in this comment sections as if u dated like 100 different men in ur life and they all the same when in reality it's barley a handful of men u dated and thats only because they approached u or made the first move on u but u acting as if u got enough experience to know how every man or most men get down. U are most certainly delusional and full of shit. Good day to u woman.
Unfortunately, they will never leave women alone, no matter what they say. "Leaving women alone" means using and discarding women on a short-term basis (rather than using women long-term and calling it love and a relationship or marriage).
He literally was saying a bunch of bs. All i heard was him whining about how he can’t use and abuse women. That throwing money at women isn’t working as easily anymore.
Its not unfortunate, most people need to be single as most people have nothing in their mind for a partnership, so yes, stay single. Its more risky for either gender to engage with the other. For men they fesr lost of their possessions, for women they fear lost of their life. And it seems we have both mutually discovered its not worth it.
Men fear loss of their possessions ... Like the women didn't perform any labour @ all in doing the overwhelming majority of the housework, even when (statistically) she also contributed *her* earned income towards expenses during the course of the relationship. And that doesn't include everything physical associated with pregnancy/children.
So she can take half of your car and house Bro she was taking care of your kids , doing free labor. , free cooking, cleaning She deserves half of this car !!🙄
The first one was the only one who brought the statement that men can cook and clean and that that's not a reason to date a woman (and yeah, he's right, but apparently men are still dating woman for that). If he does cook and clean as much as a woman in parity in a relashionship and don't cheat, he's the perfect pair for a woman. Something is missing here because he said about angry woman that hit his car or something, why would a woman do that for nothing? (That's a man's thing, because they have anger issues, and for a woman to get there, a lot of thinh must happen).
Anger issues from men who break your china, punch holes in your wall, and shout at you while inches away from your face... If his girlfriend threw dishes or ruined his car, there's definitely another side of the story we need to hear...from his ex girlfriend. 😮
@@noneofyourbusiness7094 and don't forget that the person most likely to commit homicide against a woman is her husband or boyfriend. The number of them taking the lives of their wife and/or children and sometimes themselves skyrocketed during and after COVID. They're whining about cars, when having any m^ le in our lives at all increases our risk of fatality (any at all... because male family members are second most likely to commit homicide against a woman). I would never take the risk of being a "traditional woman" and being fully dependent on any fallible human being.
The best part: women can be done and STILL have a family ie children. I love how the seed keepers don’t know they have a sprout til a woman tells them…or not🤭
They really think we can just wake up and say oh he graped me and they’ll go to jail “no questions asked.” 🤦♀️ Is it even worth it to try to talk sense to them anymore? I think not.
Listen to these guys wine makes me itch. They saw how terribly their fathers and grandfathers treated their mothers & grandmothers and they still fix their mouth to day they want a traditional woman who raise the kids, keep the home, and follow her husband’s lead who will also go 50/50 cuz they have no intention on being “traditional” men. Can’t make this stuff up. If they would stay single and not physically attack women for their single status then we would applaud their chose. But no they “choose” to be single but lash out at society & the women around them for “their choice”. We are damned if they do and we are damned if they don’t.
They always talk about back in the day as if they were good men back then. News flash those women hated you then too. Now they don’t have to deal with any of you dudes. Traditional this traditional that let it go (Elsa). It’s always the ones who aren’t traditional nor know how to treat a women who has the most to say. If you were such a good guy why women running away from you. I’m over these dudes idc what they want just like they don’t care what women want either.
“We’re sick of being blamed for everything” Okay what do you mean by that? Elaborate with examples included please and thank you! Also, I’m curious to know why they say women don’t do this don’t do that, then include it’s not all women but proceed to complain about the bad ones. So why are they not getting with the girls they say aren’t bad that they experienced? Because they don’t even want the good ones. Y’all be your worst enemy then complain. That makes no sense. It only shows that it’s really about who has more control. The women they desire aren’t submissive and I bet it’s the pretty ones. Then they swear they want traditional men but are NOT traditional men & want 50/50. Men don’t even know what they want. They contradict themselves allot. To sum this up in a nutshell, men don’t have control so they don’t want the relationship. When women behave like a man it’s like a mirror being placed in their face and they don’t like the behavior or treatment.
All the men I find attractive in passing lately happen to be married. Majority of my guy friends are great fathers. These perspectives are so interesting. We see what we wanna see!
Is it just me or does it sound like most of these guys are blaming women for whatever reason? That being said I think I agree with the father of two. People are not taking the time to communicate with their partner. That and some people weather they are men or women are just plain mean and not truly looking for a relationship.
It's ironic to see so many channels claiming that women are not monogamous and women want to cheat and the best example is that they choose better stable guy in financial situations even though they're in love with that guy. And I will say yes it happens majority of time but why men decline this fact that men also want to sleep with different women even though they already have a loving family. I mean they held women accountable so much even though they didn't even form any family with those guys but they don't think it's bad to destroy your family at all. If women choose to leave a man for stability issues then men also choose there whole damn family for lust too. Both genders are fooling around don't give me a crap about who is better and who is not. If you want women to respect you then respect the women too.
Well women are clearly better. One is leaving for actually good reason. I mean being with a man inevitably leads to children hello? She cannot not find stability with a partner. The only time she can live without stability is by herself.
That second guy sounds like a complete fool. What does he think women put up with for centuries from men....the manipulation the abuse the control the power the disrespect they had over us. And they use that power without remorse against us. And the guy talking about men being taught to please women...LOL is he living in another demention ??? I'm 50 years old and every guy I dated and then my x husband were never trying to please me. I FINALLY met a good man when I was 46 and still with him. We try to please eachother... when I ask him questions about men's behavior he is the only one who ever told me the truth about how and why men treat women and he admits that most guys are dirtbags and treat women like crap. Why does he tell me the truth... because he cares. He puts effort in, he acually wants me to be happy and wants to be the guy who makes me happy. He said he never wants to be like the men who have abused me and took everything from me. He's a good father to my child with special needs and she loves him! My x husband left us for dead homeless with nothing and won't even pay the lousy 100 dollars a month in child support he is sapposed to pay.
The gaslighting is insane. If you notice they always talk about traditional women and how it used to be, but women did not have choices or autonomy over their bodies and finances. Men have it hard now because women don't have to be their slaves or accept their abuse. I say good riddance.❤
You stole what I was going to comment 🎯🎯 you summed it up very nicely.
Men admire that time because even today women are not seen as human beings to them (we never have been). They are incapable of love and seeing you are more than your reproductive organs.
Idk what it is women are expecting from males who have never showed us they cared and still don’t show us (such a tiny percentage of countries world wide do women have LEGAL equal rights. That should tell you something). Males are not who you think they are.
@@zooweellamaYes, it really appears that males cannot love or even learn to see women as fellow human beings. We are objects for their use, and if we act otherwise, they have a meltdown and feel misused.
Yess!! it's like GOOD BYE 👋🏾 SIR
Exactly. Fuggem!
Do they ever talk about how women didn't have rights like 60 years ago? It wasn't that long ago at all. Like, women were property a century ago and still are in other parts of the world. And now they're equal to men and navigating the hardships that come with a misogynistic society. But they don't want to hear about that victim stuff!
There are only 2 instances in which males believe in equality: violence and splitting finances.
My Mom was denied a credit card and to have her name on the house even though she was the breadwinner, and my Dad left. This was the 1980s.
Yep
Exactly! Women are doing all of this and we have surpassed males in every single area imaginable (education, buying houses at a higher rate than males, you name it). But yet here they are, degenerate and shameless. Insisting on harassing us because we don't want to deal with them anymore. Lying and saying it's "their choice" and hoping that women will come running back to them because they're trying to play psychological games. I pray they all take themselves out and never come back ❤
Women are still property everywhere, including the USA.
Men talk so much about nothing, it is genuinely amazing how much time you can waste listening to a man make a single incoherent point. Even double speed didn't save me this time
Exactly. I’m skipping the stitches like…get to the point already.
They are largely emotional and illogical. It is apparent that they have never experienced hard work nor a hard life at all , in any aspect other than the fantasy of the woman they want that they realize they won't get because women are not literal slaves anymore. They can't get sex on demand and they are rotting their brains with video gaming and porn.
It’s emotionally exhausting. Especially when you live with them for years!
Exactly. My gosh!!
Yeah they do 😂
I wish more men decide to be single, I feel like that would reduce harm to women overall
I see what you’re saying. But I doubt it’ll turn out that way. Lonely men are also aggressive men. The statistics that says women are assaulted most by their intimate partners will change into women are assaulted most by men on the streets. 😢
@@EmptytopfloorSo MEN a are the problem like usual
@@Emptytopfloor We will be safer overall, because at least the monsters won't be living in our houses. But you're right, street violence will go up. Home invasions for the purposes of rape will go up too.
That would be nice. But these men.. it sounds like they just don’t want to get married and be financially bound to a woman. These men are not adhering to celibacy. But now instead of looking for a serious relationship, they are going to try and find a woman they can have sex with without spending money on them and a woman they won’t have to listen to.
And idk WHAT point that dude was talking about regarding loading the dishwasher and how women can’t understand they came from different cultures and grew up differently. Like what? It sounds like he came from a house where his mom did all domestic work and his partner just refuses to understand that is just a part of his culture or something and she should just be grateful he did a bad job at cleaning the dishes.
These men sound kinda bitter. In the bible, it says selfish men can't be fixed by women.
Amen 🙏🏾
And nor is it our job to.
I'd like to look that up...where does it say that, because I will surely put that on my fridge
Where does it say that? Just curious. That’s pretty wise saying from the Bible. Quran is not as nice to women at all.
@@ihanakaunotar2741Maliki law actually provides grounds for women to divorce for really any form of abuse or neglect. Contrary, the Torah allows divorce for “refusal to support” or “neglect of conjugal duties.” New Testament only allows divorce for adultery, so by some extremist interpretations a man can basically abuse a woman all he wants as long as he’s not cheating. Frankly all of the abrahamic religious texts have their backward interpretations but also have room for more positive interpretation
Video in a nutshell:
Now that men can't dangle food, water, and shelter over a woman's head in exchange for sex, I mean relationships, men are struggle to date.
The interesting part is how men will talk about the pressures they feel/felt having to be the providers. Well now women can work, and most prefer to. You think they would be happier now that a lot of that pressure has been aleviated, but they aren't. It's because they know that this mirage of "provision" was the only thing they had that would make a woman put up with them. Just sad
They used to starve us into relationships with them. Not anymore.
😂 exactly
Exactly and precisely.
Alleviate the pressure and suddenly women are too strong, independent masculine and anti man. 🤦🏾♀️. 😅
No, sad is realizing that women only wanted men for our stuff. Your love was always fake, shallow, and robotic from the very beginning. The fact that men are worried that they won't be able to please a woman, shows that men are more selfless than women. Work hard to stay single, a lot of the men that gave up on working and society will depend on you for their welfare. You will now provide for everybody else.
It's great these men are opting out. Seems like a relationship is not for them in the near future. I can honor that. I hope that includes them avoiding being creepy to women in public.
In Jesus name we pray, amen 🙏🏾😂
It won't.
*gaslighting & sexual harrasment*
That will never stop. They would rather cut you off when walking or invade your space bc they know they will be rejected. Just leave us alone
Men opting out means no more relationship for you as well
So yeah cope harder 😊
A lot of these guy still don't get why women aren't into them - most of them are still hella misogynistic. They still don't understand that women want respect and to be treated like an equal in a partnership rather than being a mum to a 35 year old baby.
Ok. I don't think you understand men CANNOT give you that. The problem that caused misogyny is NOT psychologucal or social. It is BIOLOGICAL. Their very bioligt was built specifically to despise women. Even wanting women is a feature if that bikigy bc they don't just want you a little but, the insanity and endless of their sex drives means they won't ever leave us alone. It's literally designed for them to hunt us into infinity. Everything about them is designed that way. Someone wanted women hunted with no peace. I say someone bc the combination of genes inherently in male biology, and their immaculate, and precise targeting of women are not things that can be happenstance.
The guy with the Gray beard should not be dating young girls. He is old and if he's dating young girls obviously they're going to be dating him for whatever it is he can provide for them not because they're actually attracted to an old dude with saggy skin.
Most men are aware of this when they go after younger women. There is a reason why women gravitate toward older men too. It is because older men tend to be more established and have more resources. It is like skipping the journey of being there to build a guy up, and you just get to end to where he is already built.
4:35 It's crazy to just watch a video where married women saying that marriage and being a stay at home wife is tough work because you're doing the brunt of the house work/ child rearing and you dont a day off to then sit watch a man saying there is no benefit to having a woman in men's life. I'm starting to believe if it's not something where men can benefit (from sex or having someone cook/clean for them) they see no value in women at all. Its why a lot of men don't have platonic female friends because "where's the benefit?"
Yea as a man I see that a lot. My step mom is a stay at home mom but she is well respected and my dad helps out when he is off. He makes the most important decisions such as in a crucial situation but usually when we are all at home, she is the boss. House work is hard work and should be respected but a lot of men especially the red pill men say they want it but don't respect it.
It's a question of dominance and hierarchy, they want a servant an someone who feel superior
Darling even if they benefit from it they still see no value in women. Remember birth life and give them children. What do they say about pregnancy? It's nothing. It's devalued. Fuck them kids. Actually LIFE. There is no scenario men will value women.
I know, I won’t have a kid with a man unless they’re willing to help. I don’t want to be 100% dependent on a man either. Too many women screwed over by doing everything, giving up their career to be a housewife and their body to have kids and the husband will cheat and blame the woman for gaining weight. I say nope, I’ll rather be single, than a slave.
This is why I’ll never date men who don’t have close female friends or at least an appropriate adult relationship with his mother or sister.
I get harassed on daily in public spaces with men invading my space and trying to put themselves in my space. They're weird.
Also I feel like men have gotten extremely less physically attractive over the years.
You basically summed up my problems I've been having lately, I felt like it was me. Seeing your comment confirms what I've been saying for the longest. I hope more women's community's come together. Thank you 🙏
Stay safe out there
Less physically attractive and more financially destitute.
They’ve gotten out of shape and fat yet they complain that women have gained weight. They haven’t exactly stayed the same either. Lmao
Accurate
The only man who made sense in this video was the single dad. He was the only one I could agree with, because he kept it real and simple. People in general have been hurt and people need healing. Solitute gets comfortable after a while, because investing/loving/taking care of yourself feels great and (sometimes) better then being in a relationship. The only difference is men still want 😼 and most are not willing to pay for it. So based on that they still won't leave women alone..🙄
*gaslighting is insane as most self-sacrificing good women are treated with breadcrumbs not their selfish needy man's rich golds of the black hole as their toxic manly male lukewarm rotten cheating lustful evil soul...*
#ThePoweroftheP
Notice that he kept saying how peaceful his life is now he's a single father? Who's actually keeping his kids? Coz I seriously doubt he is if his life's so peaceful.
@@fantym1633 I've seen dads proudly proclaim to have their kids every other weekend, doing the bare minimum basically.
I agree he is the only one making sense and not coming from a selfish bitter place.
They should just marry each other.
@user-pl6to8pf3rI can see why no woman wants you.
@user-pl6to8pf3r Men's are still worse, D-head.
That's what I say all the time lol
*Most Deceptive Evil Sexist Narcopaths are on the DL...*
Eventually
Christ, I start fast-forwarding when these men start repeating themselves AND THERE'S STILL AT LEAST 5 MORE MINUTES OF EACH ONE TALKING. These men talk more than any four people should.
"Men can throw millions of dollars at women and they'll never be happy". Dude... you look like you can't throw 10 bucks at a woman, and why is money the only thing you can think of?
Money is what they have wrapped their masculinity in.
Never broken anything of a mans, but they sure did love throwing things at me.
I'm so happy those men say they are choosing to be single. Even if it's just that women don't want them and it's not their choice, that's good too and hopefully no woman will give them a chance. Thinking Beyoncey can't do better than Jay Z is a level of delusion I can't fathom
Fun fact: Prince William once had a crush on Beyoncé. If she had married him, she could've been Queen Bey for real. She can absolutely do better than Jay Z.
I think Bey didn't want another woman to come up on her hard work😅
@@M00nst0ne Yeah, but then she'd be with Prince William, who's also a cheating douchebag... not to mention the incestuous family tree affecting her bloodline... but eh for the title, I guess.
😅he said it with chest.
@@valenciaforsheeShe actually alluded to that on one of her songs.
Just to add that, the last guy... explained exactly why many women have decided to be single.
Because he’s a single dad. And so many of us are single moms. He understands the giving part and how exhausting it can be.
It's no surprise that the second guy had the dustiest response. These men are zesty AF and again the second guy is regurgitating talking points from women's channels.
I Swear to Gawd that Second dust walker is talking big sh*t and he's repetitive and he is a terrible partner based on the things he saying, sounds like projection and experience..
He got problem,, very necrotic,,, i hope he don't have any kids,, the second one he us dusty,,, "bring women",, like a cow,,,, his assets,,, but it's oki to use her body daily for house work, for sex, for having kids,, but he is upset about his cup and his car..
They sound like disgruntled entitled princesses. Cringe.
I have been watching these videos for a while and I noticed that when these men speak it's mostly not from what they experienced. They are just "generally" speaking on the topic about how women are this and they do that. When women speak on it mostly they give details of what they experienced and exactly what they have a problem with. That alone really just says a lot, they definitely know that most times than not they are really the issue.
Yess. I've noticed that too. But they don't care about most time than not. They see women benefit even a little and it warps their senses. It's so instinctual to hate women they seriously lack perspective. They are truly women's enemies
@@user-je7db7bi7iExactly, And yet they were supposed to protect us but they cause us the most harm. Mxm
@@dineomakwela6696 yeah it was a lie from the very beginning. It allowed them to get close to us. I think them looking human is another only to get close to us too bc i only see human in a tiny amount of their behavior. The rest just scream parasite - predator hybrid. And I'm thinking if they really are that, how did they get to look human??? By
"...these men speak it's mostly not from what they experienced."
" ...but they cause us the most harm."
You ladies are doing this too. You are talking about violence, enslavement, and abuse that a lot of you have never experienced. You speak on it from an empathetic point too. As in you are aware that it happens to other women but you view it as if it is an attack on all women, rather than it is an occurrence that happens to some women. It's like saying it's not all men but yes it is.
@@toxicmale2264 no actually women aren't doing this. What she means is women's behavior are directly from experience. Every woman has a story that lets them understand other women's behavior towards men. Every woman had that AND each situation brought up bc of behaviors of men, there are SEVERAL stories told by women in the thread that it happened to THEM.
BUT, stories of issues men complain about women, there are no stores of men that it happened to them, only general assumptions women are this women are that.
I still don't think you understand the difference bc that was a little complicated.
You say women say general things about men too. Yes we do but its also bc we experienced something directly from men that is similar to that situation. So we might not have the same exact study if that exact behavior we have an adjacent story about and adjacent behavior. Men usually have no stories except for a couple here and there. I've noticed this very same thing she's saying too.
If men can do everything that women do, why do they always force the women to do housework? Aftican man has some interesting thoughts.
Because they do believe themselves to be little loyalty and housework is beneath them.😂😂😂
When men are single they too have to do housework. The reasoning men like getting women to do the housework is from our perspective that being at home is better than being at work. At work, you are dealing with crazy coworkers and a crazy boss. Sometimes you are working a lot of long hours. We view it as easier to be home doing the simple tasks. So we take on the harder chores and give women easier roles from our perspective. Of course, if you never say anything then we will assume that you are okay with this.
The vast majority of couples/families, both are gainfully employed.
So, mowing the lawn every other week & taking out the trash twice a week is equivalent to cooking, cleaning the house, doing dishes *everyday* & laundry as needed ? Add in gestating, birthing & raising child(ren).
Not by a long chalk are men doing the harder work in the home.
@@fantym1633 Single men have to do all the tasks alone. Are women going to fix their houses, cars, and other type of manual labor type of jobs? I really doubt it. You are overestimating house tasks. It's probably the hardest you have ever worked. Most women would rather pay for someone else to fix their car, than to actually fix it themselves.
@@toxicmale2264 this idea that most men can and do fix things themselves is crazy - penises do not beget handiness. Mechanics do not see an over abundance of female clients, in fact, it's a known reality that maintenance requests are mostly put forth by men because women's complaints are often taken unseriously. Saying stuff like that - which can be so easily disproven with simple thought - is a big reason why women get angry with men. Y'all say such wildly inaccurate things based off the fantasy of what you HOPE you are, instead of what you actually do and are capable of. Just try to think on it, don't want to be mean, but your point is so poorly made here.
Also, if you admit that woman do work outside the home at the same rate as men, how can housework be the hardest we work?? And please don't mention construction and labor because the vast majority of men - especially those prowling female yt spaces - do not perform work much different then the vast majority of working women.
I'm sorry, but I couldn't finish this video. My allergies started acting up from all the dust coming through the screen. 🤧 I'll catch you in the next one, though, sis. ❤😅
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But this is fine. We should all just stay single 😊 I’m happy, I have money, own my home, my sheets and dresses are silk and eat like a queen. My friends take each other on dates and treat each other well and celebrate our successes. So I see no issue. Maybe we should just leave each other alone.
Men must enjoy their video games, only fans and sports. Live your best life! Do you boo!
I know right, if I hose from those men, then I’ll rather be alone too. Just don’t cry if you can’t get sex and you have to pay for porn.
Let’s be honest though. Video games and sports aren’t bad inherently and plenty of us women like them too, except we don’t use our hobbies as an excuse not to care for our families
@@LGrian yes I agree. I am being too broad here in my judgment and using my past experience to colour all perceptions. Thanks for checking me on it., because yes not all gamers and sports fans. In my personal experience, my ex long term partner and ex husband were major gamers and sports fans. They spent hours on it, yet belittled my interests, especially furthering my education (why is it necessary/you're fine where you are/why stress yourself). I remember getting distinctions whilst they clocked 8-10hrs of gaming a day on weekends and then having to deal with the brunt of their anger when teams lost or I earned more/achieved more whilst their careers stagnated. But I do get it isn't everyone. I just had a bad experience that's left me feeling like this is a dealbreaker for me.
This guys better stay single, because they don’t know the value of a woman!
Or get it over and date men. They seem to play for their own team.
Men are the ones who live less and literally are depressed and sick when they are alone so to the guy who asked what benefits do women bring, nigah, we bring yo whole life!
LITERALLY. But they'll find out, now that they're being left alone by women in the masses, they are done for.
We literally birth them but that seems to be worth nothing so then go dxx somewhere and leave us women alone😂
@@ARS-fn6pxlol
@@ARS-fn6pxthat could be there fear they basically betrayed women and there still pushing for wifely benefits from these women it's delusion they created for themselves that helps there ego feel more validated or boosted so they lie to themselves and make it seem like this is just our public duty or that men just don't want us and that's why we're single no sir you forgot the romance part it should be a new law that if you want regular sex from woman you should have to marry them now that usually shuts them up especially if you buy them a box of condoms they look at you stupid because if it was really just about casual sex they wouldnt be out there trying to get these women pregnant. Sometimes you have to think for them because if we let men run the world they would probably destroy it and a lot of them would realize this patriarchy crap wouldnt benefits them as much as they think because they would be forced into an arranged marriage and they would have to pay some woman's rent and light bill.
Exactly! He's just hurt and bitter.
Do these men know about the femicide rates in the world?
Only if it involves them directly
They know, but they don't care.
Facts look whose killing women’s daily cough cough it aren’t women!!!!
No they don't. Bc they don't care. They even care so little as to think it doesn't happen. They are deeply sickening. I've spoken to many who have a hard time believing the actual rate of it. Women are in deep trouble much more than they think
You should know by now that men ignore anything that doesn't cater to their narrative.
Men should stop saying they don’t care how much money a woman makes because if they get together and they divorce he is scared she will take what is his. He should hope she has money when she comes into the relationship so she doesn’t come after his.
Exactly but these Dodo Birds think 'If she has money, she has the ability to leave me.' WHICH WOULD HAPPEN ANYWAY.
Oh they can't help their double speak dear.
Jeannie Mai had her own money when she married Jeezy and now that he filed for divorce that bitch is coming after his money (not child support, but alimony). She was a millionaire her damn self but she is so butt hurt now over the divorce she letting her emotions take over and still going against the prenuptial she signed so yall women can miss me with that billshit about a woman with her own money not going after her ex's money in court. If she gets all emotional she will go after his money just out of pure spite even tho she can have a multi million dollar checking and savings account her damn self.
They’re not the brightest 😂 they want control over the woman.
We are basing the attraction we have on you based on what you are, not the things you come with. The issue we are trying to get across is that there is no point in marriage if you are just going to divorce us. It's like saying, "I am going to date you but eventually I might leave you." What is the point?
I love that it's all middle aged men who have effed around and are now finding out. Young men you have a choice. You can see what the stable families look like and now you can see what confirmed bachelo hood looks like.
U did not pay attention to the video. She said 33% of men ages 18 to 29 are choosing not to date or actively pursue a woman or any relationship with them. Last time I checked ages 18 to 29 is pretty damn young so it's actually younger men checking out of dating, not older men. U are a typical woman that hears what her emotions wants to hear instead of hearing what WAS ACTUALLY SAID. Get it together lady, PLEASE!
@@garymoore3384those guys are also having less sex than ever before. Thus they are addicted to porn and OF. Not to mention many do fuck around when they’re on a relationship, that’s basically red pill ideology, cheat on your girl, force her to be housewife so she can’t leave you and then treat her like shit. These dudes listening to single men rather than married men is wild 😂😂
@@garymoore3384 Yeh, but only the old ass men, not unlike yourself with a name like Gary, are responding.
Someone sure didn't, gary.
The studies the woman cited found 33% of 18 - 29 yo men ...
The vid itself featured men speaking who definitely appeared to be middle aged, all xcept perhaps last 1.
i can't ever get to the end of the male perspective videos, cuz they talk so much garbage lol
Right? Even trying to speed up the videos are boring. They are saying alot of nothing.
I’ve never cared why I am single until somebody just kept digging around my private life and then it became their problems. I wouldn’t care about men martial status neither. I see everyone as human beings and I don’t care if they have a gf or a wife. I won’t engage with them beyond business transactions. Save money and you will be fine when you get older.
Same these guys sound like they want to be picked so bad and getting online promotes them
@user-pl6to8pf3r I just bought a house in Hawaii this year as a single woman. So if anything that couch is mine, your question don’t even apply to me. Just because I don’t spread my legs to men, doesn’t mean Im living like you.
Single ppl should LIE it’s not hurting anybody! Say u married or act in such fashion to be assumed! 😂it worked all thru my biotech retail career😂
I am single, but thats has nothing to do with the "red pill" thing. Man I hate these guys, they don't see what trully makes us feel bad; misoginy. Also, looking gorgerous sistah ❤❤
Thanks hunny ❤❤😊
I notice many of their responses revolves around money. Which tells me they still don’t get it. Money isn’t the only thing women want in a relationship. Emotional intelligence goes a very long way. Emotional intelligence has nothing to deal with money.
@@anonnnymousthegreat True, And also I hate this idea of the "high value man/woman". It's like they literally see human beings as products, no Wonder there's alot of n4zz1s in the Red pill community...
@@anonnnymousthegreatMoney and material possessions are all these men value along with their ego. And then they want to control you as well.
*Most Deceptive Evil Sexist Red pilled Narcopaths are on the DL...*
Its sad to hear these men. They dont get how many narcissists are out there. How much abuse happens that they think is fine.
gaslighting & sexual harassment
They think murder if women is ok. ALL of them. No way they think abuse is significant. THAT is the delusion.
This made me laugh. The first video I watched got me puzzled, like is America really such a paradise for women? Should I maybe think about relocation? But I never got that impression from my American roommate who flew over the ocean and was staying in another country just to get as far away as possible from her violent ex... But this one has me in stitches. These men are just delusional. I mean, come on. A man places their life in the hands of a woman when they start living together? When was the last time he checked reality. I mean, it's a reality for every woman that an average man (not even a super strong one) can kill her with bare hands, beat her up or rape her whenever the fancy strikes him. Yeah, he will be presumably punished later (or maybe not, depending on the law, country, circumstances etc. For murder probably yes, everything else... entirely a matter of chance). Well, most men will not do either of this, I assume. Well, I hope. But they have the capacity to do that all the time. And women still somehow muster the trust and the courage to have relationships and marriages and have done so since times immemorial. And he's now being all whiney about what? lol. I mean I was trying to listen seriously, but this was just too much. ahahaha. Maybe he should try standup or something.
You summed it up beautifully!! Males don’t realize how big of a risk women take by getting into relationships with them because he could end her life if he wanted (which happens every single day.) women take the risk to be with these creatures and a lot of the time it ends badly (even while pregnant). I have only one life and I intend on living it to my fullest potential which means some risk are not worth taking. So single life for me or maybe in the future I will date women, who knows.
@@zooweellama well, while the potential and the risk is always there (it's a biological reality), I don't think it's fair or helpful to try and denigrate men in general or call them "creatures". If something can harm you doesn't necessarily mean they have any will or intention to harm you. We just need to take this into account, be careful to trust, do baby steps. If you like women or being single it's fine too, but I think it's not fair to think there's something inherently wrong with being a man either. What with all the "gender war" propaganda going on, I think we need to be extra careful and ruin our own lives for ourselves. There's such a thing as confirmation bias, that means that if you believe smth to be true, your brain will only pay attention to the facts that support your theory and serve as evidence, ignoring everything else. Why then let the brain concentrate on smth negative and leave out all the potentially good stuff?
@@MrGianeta I understand the biological risks, but to throw my two cents in- I also feel like... a lot of women are very strong, though? However men are raised to be tough, to have the harder jobs, so automatically they WILL be stronger because society.. makes them stronger. I wasn't encouraged to be big and tough, (nonbinary afab) I was encouraged to be creative and emotionally strong. Meanwhile my brothers were encouraged to be strong and giants, physically. As well as dominating emotionally. (Also, women with muscles can be seen as gross or too domineering, from what I've seen some people say). Women overpower men, beat men, etc... it doesn't even have to be strength vs strength. I know someone's mother who is a nurse, and she (I believe) could very well have the capabilities of taking down a very strong man.
You make VERY good points here, I just want to throw in that if we're trying to knock down other potential risks, saying outright "there's a biological difference" when it's more complex than that, isn't fair to all the men who aren't like that, or could NEVER overpower a woman. Though again, very well said.
@@lmaoconfetti1405 well, I honestly think you underestimate how very much stronger you are by nature physically than an average woman. you personally, and not just your brothers. Even if you don't have any special training and are approximately the same height. It's not about the society. There are occassionally women who are really strong and also, of course if a woman has a long training in martial arts she will stand a good chance against an untrained man (especially if she's got quick reflexes and quickly breaks him smth. like an arm). But all in all it's easier for a woman to kill a man then to overpower him in any way. Anyway, I can tell you that when a woman is walking home in the dark even one suspicious man is by default a potential danger to be reckoned with (I imagine for a man the equivalent would be 2-3 suspicious men going after you). And it's not just about the size and training of a man. By default, even when untrained, you have more muscles, wider and denser bones, more power etc. Especially the upper body strength is significatly greater, you can hit harder and with more power, etc. You have never wondered why a man can rape a woman ? or maybe you thought it's only done by particularly stong and trained men? Or why there have been so many cases (historically even) when the husbands were giving their wives a good beating, sometimes to death? That is by the way also the reason why a lot of such cases can end in a man's death. If he is beating up his wife in the vicinity of the kitchen knife... the pain can be just too much, and the judgement clouded. Well, the woman goes to prison, but the damage is there. I'm not saying that women are helpless, just how little men are aware of the physical advantage they have that women, on the other hand, are brought up to be aware of all the time. If you have a female friend or relative who is ok with this, you can try to conduct an experiment and see how it goes. like holding her and she seriously tries to break free or smth or pushing her down. But only do it with consent to the experiment, ok? ( Emotions and dominating emotionally is a totally different matter, let's not discuss it here.). Anyway, as I was saying. It's not good or bad, it's just a fact of life. Just because a man CAN potentially beat up or murder a woman with bear hands, does not mean he WILL do it. I have the strength to kill a baby, for example. Will I do it? Of course not. But the power to do it is always there. That's why the man in the video who was freaking out about how he can live with some imaginary potential danger that is always present had me laughing so hard. 'Cause he like got it backwards, and was basically saying that he can't imagine how it's possible for a woman to live with a man at all lol. The irony!
@@lmaoconfetti1405did you just say men are stronger because they are raised to be? Dear Lord please tell me you live in the same reality as the rest of us and if you don't, how did you get there? I'd Love to go to your world where things are so different. Men are biologically built stronger and it's rare for a woman to be stronger than the weakest of men. We have to live in the same reality or this country will fall apart. We have to be on the same page about facts. Have your opinions about them but don't change reality or you'll break it. We are seeing reality breaking and everyone is unhappier. People have lived for thousands of years and we can use what worked and throw away what didn't work. Language worked, stop messing with it, invent your own words. I get it, men don't feel as strong as women. It's sad but women are forced to be like men in this society to a large degree. We get forced into education, work, self reliance, independence in all ways, self protection and everything else a man does. We both call the cops when an intruder breaks in. Women have to be strong and it's making men resent us for it. And instead of being a safer sex, they want to take it to the next level of worse. They've become immature because no man is holding the next accountable anymore except rich men. Rich men hold each other accountable and therefore get the best women who are rich or poor. Regular men aren't acting good because they don't care anymore. They invest in one bad women' and blame all women after that when he already knew what she was. It's sad. Men have to change just like women had to and still do for them.
The second one said: She can damage my toys. 😂
The African guy lack self-awareness and seems like the type that doesn’t want to to be held accountable and responsible. He’s blame shifting. He’s got some points but something’s off about him.
Idk people, I've lived in five states and many cities and ive only met a handful of women like the first guy is talking about. Idk where they are meeting these women that expect their bfs to be millionaires lmao or are they watching too much internet???? Also what cops has he ran into? Women cant just destroy a man things without serious repercussions. She cant accuse him of stuff and he goes to jail WTF is he on about. Ive seen two women ever try that and it didnt work. Actually, one got arrested herself. These men watch too much tv. If she scratches you vehicle out of malice, she's going to jail lmao this is America. Women arent magical creatures that get away with murder. Maybe once in awhile but men get away with stuff too.
Yea I truly hope you're right. A lot of men get scared of false accusing because it's what is all over the media now and with degenerate people( both men and women) everywhere it is scary for lots of people. Terrible world we live in but best one humans have ever lived in.
They are brainwashed by the red pill channels and exaggerated court cases that's shown on TV.
😂 😂 😂 They're still lying about women cleaning up in divorce. Hahahha. Whatever. Leave us alone guys
most of them have nothing worth taking... an old car? lol Most people cant even buy a house anymore, so what are we getting? maybe child support? These men are the delusional ones.
They are lying about everything. They've lied about Everything in this society. Their biggest problem now is women WOKE up
Isn’t there a reason why women get more in divorce? The woman doesn’t have anything to survive on her own because she spend so much time taking care of her husband and kids instead of working. And she’s the one that raises the kids so it makes sense that she would keep the kids and she need money to continue raising her kids. And In cases of abuse, the kids will go to the one that can be trusted to raise them in a safe and loving environment and that’s usually the mum
@@Lunakitty1234yep, stats have proven that the woman is actually generally worse off than the husband after divorce. These guys always pick the rare cases of some athletes divorce were the woman gets millions, but most women don’t ever get anything near that money.
Exactly. They're delusional. Most men are either broke or earn an average income, so there's NOTHING to claim half of.
The problem I see here is actually that most nort american men see relationships as purely transactional. If they cant get the most of it, they dont want it. They dont want to understand why its not working, they Just dont want to understand where is lacking - from both sides. Now, points I can get behind are those from the guy with the hoodie, the single dad
Yep, women aren’t perfect, sure there’s some that cheat and are bad. If you as a man end up with tons of those women as if women end up tons with bad guys, tells a lot what you’re attracted to.
But statistically women do way more housework than men while both working same hours. I as a woman don’t want a child man, I want a man.
South African guy had the windows bust out his car and has never gotten over it. What did he do? Lol.
Angry men are not attractive. I would be wary of his short fuse. 🤫
The single father had a point. The only real man in the roster
I wish this were true. I’m still getting harassed every other day.
@user-ThWall Are you there with this person?
@user-ThWall I am there with this person, and it is true: she is getting harassed by men ALL THE TIME!!!
That first guy is pretending to be devil's advocate but can you imagine having to listen to him every day? What an angry little man!
These fools have lost their damn mind 😂😂😂😂
what is half of nothing?
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My mother forgot to teach me the fine art of hypnotizing men. Can I find that on skillshare? Does this youtube creator have a code? Also, what country allows a woman to marry a guy, divorce him in two years, then take half of everything he has worked for? Narnia?
I wondered about that assertion. There's only 8 or 9 states in the US that are community property.
Most of their manosphere talking points are bs lies. They don't get anything out of the truth so they've built them a nice little delusion and they go around repeating it to everyone. My ex was a monster. He was an abuser and a narcissist through and through. He treated me like shit for 17 yrs and he will to this day send me videos of manosphere bs about "women taking half." I left with the clothes on my back to escape his ass. He's not interested in reality bc in reality he's a f*cking monster.
Delulu
They are naturally hypno'ed by you, they are made like that. But it has a huge cost. If that happens he will likely kill you bc he's obsessed
Right! 😂😂😂
This is great, that’s why s3x workers exist. Be blessed.
I dont like how society treats prostitues as shock absorbers for these miserable men
This is a good thing. It means we'll have less men going aggressive on us feeling entitled because of rejection. I hope they stay single and celibate forever. But I doubt they will.
They are not celibate. They are all active fukg women. They aren't taking slaves is their definition of single
Of course they won’t
I wish this was the case, but no. What they mean by "staying single" is staying out of COMMITTED relationships. They're still going to lie to get sex. They're just going to talk in circles about it to try the confusion method. They'll never stop trying to get that. They're too addicted to pr0n. We have to start thinking more like them. They separate sex & relationships in their minds. That's not what they're saying at all.
@@inactiveaccount6106 Maybe if they stay out of committed relationships, women will eventually get the idea and stop dealing with them altogether? By it becoming more and more obvious, maybe we can stop being delulu? One can hope.
Nothing will stop them from being violent against women. Look at incels.
The African guy in the car got me chuckling 😂😂😂 “they will hypnotise you into marrying them” 🤣🤣
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Sounds like the menz are coming to the same conclusion we did a century ago.
white dad, divorced father of 2 kids HIT IT ON THE NAIL. YUP!!!!
The only one being truthful is the guy with the hat and hoodie
He’s literally saying what single moms have been saying. The only difference is that his comments won’t be filled with h8 by wmn like they are in videos when the roles are reversed.
@@riareed1269Is it women or men who typically fill the comments with hate toward women?
Men: "We are tired of you faking to be victims"
Also men: "can't stop making women victims"
Therapy is fundamental
5:57 - yeah, right. Like the women usually are the ones in relationships who breaks stuff 🙄
the trash is taking itself out, thank goodness. Last dude had the only normal response lol.
What I got from this is that a LOT of men are HuRtInG and it SHOOOWS! It seems to me that a lot of these men that have grievances, should have picked better. 🤷🏾♀️
I thought the last guy made sense. You take time on your own, you find your Needs are met, no drama, friends provide companionship - it becomes easier to be alone and it is a good life.
First guy keeps ranting about all the alleged things being "done" to men but accuses women of adopting a victim mentality. Like no, sir, not all women are out there to get you, but all these laws are in place to protect women from men like you. The reason women's voice get priority in abuse cases (and it doesn't even in all cases) is because for thousands of years it was the other way around.
I can't wait until this trend hits African men because they're out here causing havoc.
The guy at 12:04 is ridiculous. Women will cook food the way you like, buy the exact laundry soap you like, iron your pants the way you like, make you breakfast or lunch and go buy the snacks you like and it goes on and on. Men are so ungrateful. Why cant he just load the dishwasher the correct way? She will have to rewash all of the dishes that are still dirty because you cant load the dishwasher the right way? This is beyond messed up and so many men are like this. Also, i understand that when women try to understand men, we will try to figure out their true feelings and where they are manifesting. So when you tell her, you're making me upset when you complain. She will say I'm complaining about something you keep doing and i feel like you dont care about my feelings and the man will think shes not listening when it's the man who isnt listening. I might be wrong about this particular man but a lot of times, that is the womens attempt at figuring out the root issues. Women have gone to therapy, we watch self help videos, we are trying our best at communicating effectively. Good luck ladies because these men are so in their feelings and they don't care anymore. Its all about them. It starts to actually become their fault when they dont care and never resolve the issues. They think i resolved one issue, I'm good for the next ten years. Unbelievable. We love you guys so much, please have a growth mindset please. Bless your hearts.
So why are women worried about men nowadays focus on yourself and happiness
@@77kc_77 That's like saying, why are you worried about the world's problems? Worry about yourself... Like no, we need people who are willing to speak up with positive solutions or that can see the real issues clearly without being too negative in their remarks. We need more idealistic people with morals and good ideas because most of the idealistic people pushing and influencing are messed up individuals and that's why our culture in the west is deteriorating. Good people want to mind their own business while evil people can't and won't. No babe, I'm going to speak for the side of good and be a good influence anywhere I can be because that is what our Lord Jesus called us to do. We must be the salt of the earth because what good is salt if it loses its flavor but for destruction? I know my comment was just clarifying and pointing out, but maybe, just maybe a man will see it and understand a woman or maybe a woman will see it and will understand something a little more idk. It's good to call out bad behavior. Men and women cannot keep going the way they are or we will face a population collapse and our government will use this divide to gain even more control on us. Who is sitting men down and helping them understand us? They don't do it for each other anymore. That's the problem. They need to hold each other accountable and no one is talking about this so I will until it catches on somewhere with love
@Tealaful what I'm saying let men sort out their own bs - if women are decentered your energy and time should go to yourself- if these men haven't done the work in all this time they won't- save yourself. Clearly these men aren't changing and don't care ! Focus on your own well being and safety ! Ain't nobody trying to save men who don't care about themselves!
@Tealaful were already headed there and what's changing ?! NOT A GOD DAYUM THING - civilization is changing and on the brink of a societal collapse look around- were in end time activity ! AI will take over soon !
@Tealaful Men have to do that- MEN HAVE TO DO THAT ! WOMEN HAVE SPOKEN AND NOW FOCUS ON YOURSELF
So they don’t want to change… okay, it’s great that they’re choosing to be single
I wonder why all the research says there’s an epidemic of lonely men and not a bunch of men choosing to be alone 💅🏻🤔
Because they're extremely miserable alone, but due to male entitlement, they want women jumping through hoops doing everything to get them into relationships, because they must have that power, dominance and feeling of superiority. They aren't capable of love and deep bonding. They are miserable, empty souls.
So I'm guessing passport bros movements didn't work out. When they wanna now be single
Lol😂😂😂😂
Because most can't afford to go exploit women and girls in impoverished nations. They just thought that the fear of them doing so would make us rush to be under their thumbs again. They only want a woman on the condition that they can have complete power and dominance. That's because they don't view women as humans, and they lack the capacity to feel love and form bonds.
The guy with the beard and hat, even though repetitive was the smartest man on the panel!
😂😂The second guy lmaooo, women "breaking all tgeir stuff bc they are angry"!!! That is such a man thing to do though, they do that all the fucking time
Everything these men are saying replace them when women and it's the same thing
Have men ever wanted a “partner”? In my experience, men want someone who will do all of life’s grunt work - cooking, cleaning, taking care of the household, being primary caregiver for children and him, as well as the primary target for his emotional and often physical abuse, all while being “submissive” - even if those men are not playing and aren’t even capable of playing their role as head of the household. And if women don’t do all of this, they’re being “disrespectful”. 🤷🏼♀️
No, they're not capable of partnership (in most cases). At least 99% of them aren't capable of love or deep bonding, of seeing women as human, introspection, accountability, or anything else necessary for that dynamic. They're just seeking someone to provide sex, maid service, therapy, child-bearing and child-rearing. We hold no human value to them.
80% of these men watch Fresh and Fit. That’s all you need to know, ladies.
This guy is playing the victim about saying women are playing the victim and sounds like the most massive victim I’ve ever listened to. And his fast annoying talking… I was sick of him after 3 seconds 🤔😂
This is why I do not get on TikTok. Everyone thinks they have a big idea and most of them should have been taught silence is golden but duct tape is silver.
The second stitch you can hear the bitterness. That mentality of i can do it so there is no need to haveba woman. Lol they sound like the i dont need no man women. Of course nobody needs anybody its the problem of you dont always ahve to do everything alone but they dont want anything thats not on their terms
These guys need therapy, preferably in a secure unit
Therapy won't work bc their deficiency is BIOLOGICAL, GENETIC😊
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That man is really worried his car will be smashed up ?😅
It would appear modern men and modern women don't want each other.
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The third guy makes very important points I agree with:
1. Happiness is an individual inside job.
2. The greatest men on earth were inspired by the women in their lives. They needed that woman's energy to be great (see Napoleon Hill's _Think and Grow Rich_)
Behind every great man is a great woman - doing ALL the work. See A. Einstein's wife.
Still want women, but only on their terms: FREE!
The guy in the black hoodie and cap though,just speaking straight up facts 💯💯
And he was the nicest of the bunch. He is so calm and Just chill
The single dad was absolutely correct. Being single is comfortable. If you put enough effort into yourself, advocate for yourself, focus on healing, you are unlikely to want to ruin all that progress just to date somebody.
But men are still hilarious to me because they always think a year & a half is a super long time to be single. A year is a normal timespan to be alone & get your head together. It should be, as a divorcee with kids like he is, anyway. I guess that's why they always remarry so soon after becoming a widow or being divorced. That means they don't really vet women like they tell us to vet men & choose better. I've never married or had kids & even I take longer than that outside of relationships.
Tbh we all agree heal ourselves and stay single is the best thing for society. Thanks for saying this men. Now that one side is doing the work hopefully men can see that therapist they got in their feelings about.
Am I the only one skipping through these stitches like okay? Make your point already. We’ve heard all this before and it’s good for us.
I approve this message. All the men in the video should definitely remain single and leave women alone.
The black man was a little right about it being scary for men to have a woman in their life but he was absolutely wrong with his talking points because even if a man got one of those bad women they usually aren't going to do that, they will usually hurt to more emotionally instead of physically. And if you are with someone who is all about smiting or winning an argument then you shouldn't be with them. The older guy with the beard was terribly wrong about saying you can throw tons of money at women and get no love, but why would you want to throw money at them for love? Why buy love? Why not earn it? Don't go for someone who wants to buy you or be bought, go for someone who will take care of you in the ways they can.
Exactly most men are deluded. They take the 0.00001% and overblow it. On the other hand, take what women deal with and down play it. They are deeply delusional
These guys have horrible attitudes regarding love, they’re narcissistic, like literally seem like they’re unable to love equally.
@@ihanakaunotar2741 where have you been??? It's been debunked that men cant love. They CANNOT. you said these men as though they are my blips in the entire gamut of males. These are very much the representation of the true capabilities of men. Unlovable and unable to love. That's the male species. The whole love things with princes charming was always a lie.
@@ihanakaunotar2741 Yea You're right that is the reason he backed a real concern up with far fetched things that most likely won't happen. It's not a good mens or good womens fault he can't be good enough to attract a good partner.
If you have to throw money at someone to "buy love," it's proof that you are unable to organically create and build love yourself.
Glad they decided to leave women alone. I think maybe its women that arent bothering with them, and they have to convince themselves that they want it like that rather than improve as a person. They dont like hearing they've been the problem for a long time. And can no longer successfully blame women for all mens problems.
Toxic masculinity is absolutely a thing. And the behaviors associated with it as much as being harmful to both men and women, they are/were extremely benefcial for men. When you see a balance of power shift and those who possessed it start to complain and throw tantrums, thats how you know things are changing. Men cant handle not having the ability to dominate women in whatever way they please. Its evident in the men's answers to her question.
U sound as if u know every single man in the world and what he thinks and feels about women when in reality u probably only dated about 4 men your whole life and they were all probably from the same area close to where u live but u in this comment sections as if u dated like 100 different men in ur life and they all the same when in reality it's barley a handful of men u dated and thats only because they approached u or made the first move on u but u acting as if u got enough experience to know how every man or most men get down. U are most certainly delusional and full of shit. Good day to u woman.
Unfortunately, they will never leave women alone, no matter what they say. "Leaving women alone" means using and discarding women on a short-term basis (rather than using women long-term and calling it love and a relationship or marriage).
3:00 No, it IS a thing.
He literally was saying a bunch of bs. All i heard was him whining about how he can’t use and abuse women. That throwing money at women isn’t working as easily anymore.
These men are deluded. 😂😂😂😂
all I can say to these men is "welcome to OUR world, we've experienced this for many many MANY generations"
Its not unfortunate, most people need to be single as most people have nothing in their mind for a partnership, so yes, stay single. Its more risky for either gender to engage with the other. For men they fesr lost of their possessions, for women they fear lost of their life. And it seems we have both mutually discovered its not worth it.
Wow! Men value their possessions and women value their lives!
Do they realize which one trumps the other?
Men fear loss of their possessions ...
Like the women didn't perform any labour @ all in doing the overwhelming majority of the housework, even when (statistically) she also contributed *her* earned income towards expenses during the course of the relationship. And that doesn't include everything physical associated with pregnancy/children.
So she can take half of your car and house
Bro she was taking care of your kids , doing free labor. , free cooking, cleaning
She deserves half of this car !!🙄
The first one was the only one who brought the statement that men can cook and clean and that that's not a reason to date a woman (and yeah, he's right, but apparently men are still dating woman for that). If he does cook and clean as much as a woman in parity in a relashionship and don't cheat, he's the perfect pair for a woman. Something is missing here because he said about angry woman that hit his car or something, why would a woman do that for nothing? (That's a man's thing, because they have anger issues, and for a woman to get there, a lot of thinh must happen).
Anger issues from men who break your china, punch holes in your wall, and shout at you while inches away from your face... If his girlfriend threw dishes or ruined his car, there's definitely another side of the story we need to hear...from his ex girlfriend. 😮
@@noneofyourbusiness7094 and don't forget that the person most likely to commit homicide against a woman is her husband or boyfriend. The number of them taking the lives of their wife and/or children and sometimes themselves skyrocketed during and after COVID. They're whining about cars, when having any m^ le in our lives at all increases our risk of fatality (any at all... because male family members are second most likely to commit homicide against a woman). I would never take the risk of being a "traditional woman" and being fully dependent on any fallible human being.
16:30 lack of communication.......?? lack of effort...........?? I wonder whoo is lacking.😅 I dont even watch it. i just leave a like
The best part: women can be done and STILL have a family ie children. I love how the seed keepers don’t know they have a sprout til a woman tells them…or not🤭
Good looking men are rarely on the internet complaining about women
Wow you’re right😅
They really think we can just wake up and say oh he graped me and they’ll go to jail “no questions asked.” 🤦♀️ Is it even worth it to try to talk sense to them anymore? I think not.
Listen to these guys wine makes me itch. They saw how terribly their fathers and grandfathers treated their mothers & grandmothers and they still fix their mouth to day they want a traditional woman who raise the kids, keep the home, and follow her husband’s lead who will also go 50/50 cuz they have no intention on being “traditional” men. Can’t make this stuff up. If they would stay single and not physically attack women for their single status then we would applaud their chose. But no they “choose” to be single but lash out at society & the women around them for “their choice”.
We are damned if they do and we are damned if they don’t.
All I heard was the same thing from everyone; these guys hate that women now have the option to LEAVE an unhappy relationship.
They always talk about back in the day as if they were good men back then. News flash those women hated you then too. Now they don’t have to deal with any of you dudes.
Traditional this traditional that let it go (Elsa). It’s always the ones who aren’t traditional nor know how to treat a women who has the most to say. If you were such a good guy why women running away from you. I’m over these dudes idc what they want just like they don’t care what women want either.
That's bc those men were bad too. Even worse actually.
Youre beautiful and I love your accent. ❤ Thank you for your work. ❤
Thank you too!
What an interesting inner world these people live in. Very rich in fantasy lol
Remember how Charlie Browns teacher sounded 😂 that’s all I hear…wah wah wahwha wahhhhhhhhh…boi hush 🤫 🤐
“We’re sick of being blamed for everything”
Okay what do you mean by that? Elaborate with examples included please and thank you!
Also, I’m curious to know why they say women don’t do this don’t do that, then include it’s not all women but proceed to complain about the bad ones. So why are they not getting with the girls they say aren’t bad that they experienced? Because they don’t even want the good ones. Y’all be your worst enemy then complain. That makes no sense. It only shows that it’s really about who has more control. The women they desire aren’t submissive and I bet it’s the pretty ones.
Then they swear they want traditional men but are NOT traditional men & want 50/50. Men don’t even know what they want. They contradict themselves allot.
To sum this up in a nutshell, men don’t have control so they don’t want the relationship. When women behave like a man it’s like a mirror being placed in their face and they don’t like the behavior or treatment.
All the men I find attractive in passing lately happen to be married. Majority of my guy friends are great fathers. These perspectives are so interesting. We see what we wanna see!
Is it just me or does it sound like most of these guys are blaming women for whatever reason? That being said I think I agree with the father of two. People are not taking the time to communicate with their partner. That and some people weather they are men or women are just plain mean and not truly looking for a relationship.
It's ironic to see so many channels claiming that women are not monogamous and women want to cheat and the best example is that they choose better stable guy in financial situations even though they're in love with that guy. And I will say yes it happens majority of time but why men decline this fact that men also want to sleep with different women even though they already have a loving family. I mean they held women accountable so much even though they didn't even form any family with those guys but they don't think it's bad to destroy your family at all. If women choose to leave a man for stability issues then men also choose there whole damn family for lust too. Both genders are fooling around don't give me a crap about who is better and who is not. If you want women to respect you then respect the women too.
Well women are clearly better. One is leaving for actually good reason. I mean being with a man inevitably leads to children hello? She cannot not find stability with a partner. The only time she can live without stability is by herself.
That second guy sounds like a complete fool. What does he think women put up with for centuries from men....the manipulation the abuse the control the power the disrespect they had over us. And they use that power without remorse against us. And the guy talking about men being taught to please women...LOL is he living in another demention ??? I'm 50 years old and every guy I dated and then my x husband were never trying to please me. I FINALLY met a good man when I was 46 and still with him. We try to please eachother... when I ask him questions about men's behavior he is the only one who ever told me the truth about how and why men treat women and he admits that most guys are dirtbags and treat women like crap. Why does he tell me the truth... because he cares. He puts effort in, he acually wants me to be happy and wants to be the guy who makes me happy. He said he never wants to be like the men who have abused me and took everything from me. He's a good father to my child with special needs and she loves him! My x husband left us for dead homeless with nothing and won't even pay the lousy 100 dollars a month in child support he is sapposed to pay.