Building self-confidence
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2019
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What area would you like the build more confidence in? 💪
I would like to build my confidence in talking comfortably with other people whom I don't know. How do you think I should go about to do it?
Pick Up Limes cooking your recipes. Or recipes in general. Always afraid it would be inedible. I am a new subscriber and new to cooking. Tried out 3 pick up limes recipe. Ate them all. Were very good.
Grocery shopping is scary to me since I had to ask many of the grocers what many of the ingredients are. Lost 7 lbs from cooking for myself. Not intentional but feel better about making my own meals.
Pick Up Limes Hi Sadia, thank you so much for making this video, I have trouble often times with eye contact 😌 trying to work on that .. I wonder if others struggle with that.
Pick Up Limes,
" Thanks for your kindness with your message, Sadia ! "
In public speaking 😭
"We overestimate what we can do in a day and underestimate what we can do in a lifetime".. so deep and so true
I love this quote !!
love this so much
Shouldn’t it have been the other way around
Sowmya B what the quote means is that persistence is key.
❤️❤️♥️
As a single dad to a fourteen year old daughter, I want to thank you for your videos. You are the strong and POSITIVE female roll model that she always needed in her life. And she absolutely adores you.
After years of emotional abuse from her mother, she is deeply wounded and sees you as a beacon of hope. I am here for her everyday with love, patience, and understanding. But you epitomize the woman she needed in her life rather than the one she had.
Again, thank you. You mean a lot to my little girl. And she means everything to me.
You’re doing a great job 💖
God bless you, what you and your daughter are searching for is Jesus. He loves you.
As humans we will always fail, he is faithful.
God bless you
Beautiful, Tom. Absolutely beautiful. I agree with you - Sadia is an amazing woman. I wish you and your girl all the best.
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua so true Amalia, He is our source, He see everything Praise Him! ♥️🙏 0:00
😊
From one who doesn't have confidence
Confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. It comes when you 'can' smile like you do. Your smile comes from a place of self-acceptance, from a place of satisfaction of where you are right now, with the hope of where you'll be. Did you work for that smile? Or were you born with it? You smile with your eyes and I bet your heart too.
...
Some tears later...
Confidence comes when you just be instead of trying to be.
Confidence comes when you accept yourself as you are.. as raw as you are.
Confidence comes when you realise that one person accepts, acknowledges and appreciates your being. It is heaven if that is person is yourself.
...
You're blessed more than you know
and I hope you remember that when you're feeling low.
Lots of Love)
To you and
The one who reads it.
1. Be Good at Something--> Confidence
2. Goals--> Chunk down into Steps
3. Realistically Challenging--> Flow State
4. Rewarding--> Look upto Achievements
I learnt these from the video. :)
You could tell us something in dutch at the end of every video and put subtitles in english. That way you would practice and maybe some of your subscribers would learn a word or two in dutch.
That is a cool and interesting idea!
Cool idea 😎
I was thinking the same thing! Or maybe just a word in Dutch.. I don’t need to learn it myself but I like it when people speak Dutch.
Would love this as well. I live in The Netherlands and find it challenging to learn Dutch. 👍
That will be super cool
When people compliment me, I usually respond by saying “Thank you for the encouragement!” It’s better than deflecting the praise, and it also acknowledges that I appreciate their words. :) Great video!
Wonderful comments
Hatsf
You have good heart
God bless you
My heartfully wishes to you
Wow
I love the way you speak, its like you are talking to me privately just the 2 of us. So soothing..
The fact that you smile a lot, makes you more adorable and make us feel the positive vibes you exude. Keep it up!
Dear Sadia,
I don't often comment on anybody's video, but I need to express my gratitude.
Thank you for giving me a life I've always wanted to live.
🙏❤️
@@PickUpLimes I love you!!
I think you should be most grateful to yourself! ❤️ Because you are the only one who really gave you the life you wanted, with much inspiration because of Sadia of course! :D
@@femkes3014 of course! :D
Woo..can u tell me how u did that..😇
I had no confidence as a child, due to the people around me who made it a point to break my confidence. But I worked on myself and now I am confident and love my life. I think that family and friends can make or break your confidence. Thank you for the video.
How did you learn to ignore them or fight against them? I think I'm in a similar situation, and it ruins my life. I rather do nothing than try and fail and further confirm that I am useless. I so helplessly fear failing yet I still know that not trying is a 100% fail.
Well done Esther, and yes the people around you can have a huge impact on one's confidence :)
Same here
Ultimately the choice is always yours...in your heart of hearts you should know to ignore any negativeness and only listen to positiveness even if it only comes from within.
@@iwua37 I studied the most in my family. I am not a very smart student but when I try I do get by with hard work. I have a good job, and they do not as they just gave more importance to their looks. My confidence was low because I was not the best looking due to my dark colour and they did make it a point to tell me that I am the darkest which indirectly mean not beautiful.
Knowledge is power and I got above them and got my confidence by learning things. I would suggest do not be afraid of making mistakes and try to ignore them. Increase your knowledge because knowledge will build up your confidence. Also, I would suggest whenever possible go and volunteer. Volunteering taught me so much and also boasted my confidence. It is a win-win situation because you give and you get ten folds. Good Luck to you.
Pickup Limes has been such a source of inspiration and positivity for me since 2018. Her videos always seem to come at the right time, filling me with motivation and joy. She truly brings relatable content and adds so much value to life. Whenever I need a boost or feel like I'm lacking certain qualities, her channel is my go-to. Here's to the positive vibes she spreads! I'm usually more of a silent viewer, but I just had to express my appreciation this time. And here I am, finding myself back again on this video because I needed to re-boost my confidence.
I think confidence is the byproduct of how much a person has worked on himself.....
Although there are some exceptions
Ive missed you. Your voice is soothing and videos are uplifting :)
Krissyboo75 yes! 😊✨
omg I've noticed that too, I wish my voice was as calming as hers haha!
I agree😍
Krissyboo75 AGREE😩🤩
@@ParisHedger Im sure it is more calming than you think ♡
This popped up in my feed just when I needed it!
So needed, Thank you @pickuplimes
Mine too...😎
Exactly the same happened to me.
same💛
me too :)
Confidence comes from inner belief and the inner voices
You are the best therapist I have ever had.
“The no.1 way to build confidence is to build competence meaning getting really good at something.
And the only way of getting good at something is to put in the time; repetition, doing it over and over again and being really subbornly persistent.”
YESSS! Thanks Sadia🙌🏼 Love thiiis.
Actually we missed you. Especially your soothing voice.
Ritesh Mahato yes! 😊✨
One thing that works well for me in building up confidence, is to revisit previous projects/work I've done. It is so easy for us to constantly raise the bar for what is the standard, that we overlook how much we have grown. Revisiting old work helps realise, that what we can do today, we may only have dreamed about one year ago.
Thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing these lovely videos.
Ooh revisiting old work that you’re proud of is def confidence-boosting!
Underrated comment!
I always wanna be a confident person. I can't even stand by group of people with confidence. Public gathering always makes me feel uncomfortable. Hope i will overcome it.
I believe in you
'We over-estimate what we can do in a day and under-estimate what we can do in a lifetime.' This went into my favourite quotes' list.
Nice comment
Hatsf
Agreed! I believe confidence is built through *_time, effort & experience_*
Have a wonderful day everyone :)
Thank you and wish you the same
Thought you said lime
U too(◍•ᴗ•◍)
Confidence and self-esteem are my goals for the future . i hope to improve my confidence and self-esteem I pray to God I will achieve my goals. Amen
Passion ➕hardwork =success
One of my professors says repetition is the mother of skill
it was mother of success actually
@@komiljonyangiboev3669 ehh either or
I don't know why...But I cried watching this video as I realised that I underestimate myself for years, not knowing that I can be better by starting small. I've burden myself so many times by forcing myself to do things that I'm not good at & neglecting the areas where I'm really good at.
Thank u Sadia for waking me up.🌹
Much love from Malaysia 💗💗💗
"Often, we overestimate what we can do in a day and we underestimate what we can do in a lifetime" Amazing line!
confidence = competence + courage + complement + celebration
„We overestimate what we can do in a day and we underestimate what we can do in a lifetime” - this is going to be my new favourite quote! ❤️🙏🏼
I love when people can show their imperfections and make fun of them. No one is perfect. Doing this actually shows true confidence and makes you more "real" to your audiences. Really love your channel. :)
The ability to speak in front of my cohort and not worry about being judged. To get through public speaking in school without having to feel so anxious; like I genuinely cannot breathe.
And definitely, to be able to have a good conversation w/ anyone without it being awkward.
The best way to build confidence is to build competence! I like it!!
I went through a period at work where I was in a new position at the same company and I was the newest one on the team. Everyone was super nice but I just felt like I'd never be as good as those people, and they all must do the job so easily and I was surely the only one that was struggling. For reference, I work in software deployment for a multinational software company. I work with 6 or 7 clients at a time to set up their software, understand their business needs, etc.
A few things that helped me to gain confidence:
1. As Sadia said, just practice helped immensely. Finding answers on my own instead of running to a teammate first gave me a sense of accomplishment.
2. Basically jumping off the deep end and realizing that hey, I'm likeable - my customers like me, and realizing they didn't expect me to have every answer to every off the wall question they had. Learning to be honest and say, "You know what? I'm not 100% sure, but let me research that and get back to you by tomorrow.
3. Honestly, hearing from the more tenured members of the team that they get nervous too. Knowing that I wasn't alone in my pre-meeting jitters, and that they go through the same struggles, helped me.
4. Finally, and probably the biggest one - soon, I wasn't the newest on the team anymore. And I was expected to help the newer team members. Helping to answer their questions and teaching them how to do things made me realize how much I DID know, taking away my usual focus on how much I still didn't know.
Not sure if this will help anyone, but I'm happy to say I'm totally over it and feel very confident at work now. 😊 Great video as always.
We overestimate what we can do in a day..but underestimate what we can do in a lifetime! Well said..
I joined university in 2017, with a well laid out plan to pursue Agriculture and really build my competence on it.
My plan was to start a blog, but that the far I went, planning
(I never did any of this.)
...4 years down, I can pick up myself and resee* this a new.
Walking with you and many more on a daily basis ( they are very deliberate) is stirring this up a new.
I know better, It's time audible and knowledge inside me gets to reach to more people than just me
Thank you Sadia💜.
Accomplished list! Not a to-do list! Life changer right there! 🤯
Firstly you're beautiful, your dark hair and your smile is flattering.
Secondly this was aesthetic
Thirdly, QUALITY conteny
Don't u think the third point should be the first point :)
@@spaul9697 theyre not in order :)
You seem like an introvert but exceptionally articulate.. You speak on behalf of them ♥️
I think I need to build my self-confidence back by standing up for myselfbecause of other people a lot of times I don't say what I truly feel or do what I truly feel and I'm paying the price for it I guess that's not meaning to say that I'll stay down forever but how do you get up and how do you build your confidence after you've been down for so and I'm trying to make peace with the past year brings me some peace give me a way out because I really don't want to be in the same place feeling the samegrab situation can you please give me some pointers on how to feel better and how to make it through the day by day
@@michelleturner4052 The answer is within you. Because the best answer comes from us. We are the sum of our thoughts and emotions. So be aware of your thoughts and picture your life and yourself how you want it to be. Your life will change for the good, with practice.
Good words
People think that you are born confident and that isn’t true AT ALL. You build confidence through every day acts of courage.
Oh my goodness! That’s my issue all the time 😆😆😆 your speech sounds so flow and calm 🥰 I would love to see these types of clips from you. You have a potential there❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
This is not the video that i deserved... but the video that i needed
Be Successful
Get good in something
Building confidence
Celebrate achievements
Accomplishments
Accept praises
Thank u
"#1 way to build confidence is to build competence." ... PERFECT ... also maybe by imagining yourself as already doing the thing you're so destined to 😄💚
I really need confidence now. I am trying to gain confidence through TH-cam after going through difficult times.
All the best
The opposite of humility is not arrogance. It can be confidence and acceptance of our accomplishments. Brilliant stuff. Thank you for making this video. 🙏🏻
True sir ❣
Missed these videos! So awesome as always 💓🦋
The way you talk is so calming
In short words: build your confidence by practicing! I'll try it 👌
I wish you’d put out a video everyday, that’s how much I love your channel 😂
Hi Sadia 😊 I completely agree with this video. The two major points that I can connect are 1. Repeating the same thing again and again to gain confidence with it and 2. When someone accomplishes for something that have done I used to reply like you did earlier but now I started learning to accept it and started feeling more confident now. Also I request you to make a video to overcome Inferiority complex as many faces this issue in some point of time in their life.
Your voice is so soothing. Like meditation
The key point is the environment you live with
One thing I learned that made a huge difference. Try and enjoy the journey, savor it. There's absolutely no rush.
I missed you... You're a ray of light
The people who surround you has a huge impact on your confidence. If your surrounded by people who u love, and the people who support u,your confidence level will be very high. If u r surrounded with people u hate , then.....u will hate your confidence level just as much.
I am 12 years old, I am in 7th grade. I am thankful I have the proper man’s wages like food cloths and shelter,but there is one I just can’t seem to be fixing.. *MY PARENTS* . yes I know what u r saying, “u should be happy with what u have”.”without your parents u r nothing” and things like this. And I completely agree,parents are one of the most precious gifts in the world. But when u have parents who put u down,irritates u,and cuts u away from the real world and tells you that studies is the only thing that matters and only that will make u succeed,then,coming back from school is a pain....
My parents keep comparing me to my friends,my big brother and they do other things that annoy me a lot. This is when I really don’t like them. I don’t know how to become a little kinder to them,I generally just don’t have confidence especially my exams. If I don’t do well in my exam,I will be wasting time,effort,and worst of all , my dads money. Nowerdays my dad is really running out of money because of my brother’s expensive university and my school plus other thing that will make a our expenses very high.to be honest ,lately I have been very mean to my parents like screaming at them,and getting irritated at them for no reason,I am SUDDENLY acting mean probably because I am switching over to a teen and I am going through harmonal changes. I really don’t know if studies is really the ONLY way to succeed,or if passion is the right way. My self confidence these days has gone very very low,I am shy to even talk to my own brother. I really don’t know what to do to be more kind and confident.😔
I'm also working on building confidence with my Dutch. My new goal is to not revert to English as soon as it gets tough.
I wish you all the best with your Dutch too 🤗😄
Love the phrase "confidence by building competence"! And that needs time and effort.
Also your plants and vines in your studio look heavenly 🥰
So simple for viewers (us) to tap a ready made video to watch. But I really wonder they really put in so much effort to create one content. Like like like
OMG I can hear you all day long. such a relaxing voice. please keep posting your videos, they are so uplifting
I can totally relate to it and attest the fact that "To increase your confidence, you need to improve your competence". I had been struggling in my early months of my first job and with time as I improved my competence, I felt confident with what I do.
Beautifully said,
Love ❤️🤗
The bloopers were so cute. I have missed these videos a lot.
Repetition begets confidence, and the confidence begets another confidence again. Thank you for the video.
One of my absolute favourites topics to develop on my self,
OMG !! I missed your videos a LOT !!
I’m so happy !
#PickupLimesSquad!!🙋🏾♀️❤ I need to work on my Self Confidence level that has been a Big Struggle for me for years. Thank you for this.
Your positive vibes make you more & more beautiful. ❤
this video is both relaxing and productive
I was eagerly waiting for one of thessseee. You are always so inspirational Sadia!
Wonderful message. This just makes complete sense that competence gives rise to confidence. Sincerely appreciate the job you are doing 🙏😊
I feel more confident in teaching students and in developing new thought of life sharing them with our friends, family members. Apart from that learning new thing & developing new ideas boost my confidence.
What a beautiful voice you have! 10,000 hours practice or experience brings mastery to that realm.
Please do these videos more! You're literally making me a better person and I learn so much from you. Please don't ever stop what you're doing- you honestly have a gift & you should continue to share it with the world. God bless you you're truly a ray of sunshine.
Watching this before my thesis presentation. This is just what I needed to make me feel better about it all! Thank you!
For me confidence comes when I don't usually think of the end result but enjoy the process of doing something instead.
The whole video tried to deliver
1. Break your work into small pieces
2. Work on it persistently
3. Give self- reinforcement
4. Be grateful when other give you compliment, it enhances self- acceptance also.
Thank you for you video content.
thanks for always sharing your wisdom and knowledge
Beautiful message! Confidence is definitely something that we learn and repetition is key. I love that I stumbled across your channel, thank you for you message beautiful soul!
In your talks it's like there is not distance between... Like a gentle breeze.. That's your plus point... Keep going... Be like this... All the best...
Confidence can be learned and that's so true! I find that keeping a journal of your progress and accomplishments helps motivate you daily. ❤️
your channel is one of my favs in u tube!whenever i need motivation i just search for u on u tube!u r such a inspiration ❤️❤️
I really enjoyed your teatime Tuesday. Thanks! xxx
I always go back to this video whenever i don’t feel confident!And it helps me everytime!Thank you Sadia❤️
She is so honest. I like her.
I really like her vibe. ✨ ❤️
I’ve missed the Tea Time Chats!!!!
Please keep sharing!!!!
Also I would love to see a DITL/vlog!!!
Exactly what I needed right now :) THANK YOU!🌻
I stumbled upon your channel a few weeks back. I absolutely love your channel. It has kinda become a "comfort channel" Especially videos like this. And, I've never been good at having plants but your videos make me want to have a house full!! :)
Putting in the time... competence turns into confidence... well said chica!
Yaaay!!💚💚
Tea time tuesday is back ☕🍃
Missed you and uplifting as always🍁
Competence brings me confidence for sure 😉 Thanks for everything Sadia!
1st off, tour videos are beautiful and inspirational. Your positivity is unmatched.! 2nd I would like to grow my confidence in my abilities. I know that I know the information, but I lack confidence in sharing it.
U remind me of how powerful one can be by simply being truthful/genuine.
Thanks a much for this video. I really missed these Tea Time Tuesday and self help videos. Please make more of them .
I always get so excited when I see that you uploaded a new video 😍
I love this kind of videos! Thank you for the tips Sadia.
To set realistic goals know about yourself 100%. Be true to yourself 👍
You’re not just making videos on YT but you made a lot of inspiration to a lot of people all around the world. I just watched this and it's my first time seeing ur channel, I already a subscriber with no doubt.❤️☝🏻
I literally have a cup of coffee while I watched this one. Thanks for sharing.
I really really love the tea time chats /advice / vlog videos besides the recipe ones. You're one of my role models