Why You're Not A Priority
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2013
- The reasons why a woman you are dating for several months will continue to not invest much in the relationship and not make you a priority in her life. How to determine where you are going wrong in your dating approach so members of the opposite sex will start to value you and your time.
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Just don't fall for it. Be busy. Do your own thing and don't compromise it. Work on bringing your own value up! That's it! There's your answer!!
They all play games all the time
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@@mrs9225 Sadly some guys do the same so it just ppl you have a doom in love mentality not allowing ppl who do not have that mentality get frustrated with great ppl who can not get over the past or insecurities ... so yeah we have to accept that ugly truth and move on
@@mrs9225 they have this "believe women" thing going in I think its going to be another nail in the coffin for the cause of women.
@@mrs9225 Facts, right there. The majority of women have it so easy in life, not having to initiate, having the power of choosing and they manipulate the living shit out of it.
Women are so stuck inside their feeling entitled bubble, that they just dont give a damn about anything other then themselfs and act like spoiled princesses who are able to do or act the way they want, without penalty.
Being shallow, entitled and craving free attention, comes to women naturally, especially with the social media that killed dating for most men and the feminists.
don't be afraid to lose her, I had a women that was stringing me along, I was clearly not a priority, I told her to hit me up when she wants to hang out, I never hit her up again, and she never hit me up again. now I do not have to focus any time on a woman who is not into me.
No one has “a truck load” of options unless you’re filthy rich or, famous, or you’re at least a 7+/10! 🙂
Sue V women do because they have thirsty guys on them all the time
Aron amen brotha
9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue
I completely agree. Walk away, she ain’t worth your time ✌🏾
if someone or something is important to you you make time for it.
Exactly this.
Please stop stalking me on yt.
@@mrs9225 God damn you hit the nail right in the head.
@@mrs9225 I know what you mean, once they start to make excuses not to text, not even in her spare time or stop giving a shit about you, there's someone else in the picture. Happened to me recently. So I walked away.
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I am a woman and I think that's totally true:"you should value your self" best advice ever👏
3:31 this is how I lost the last chick I was dating, don't let these girls waste your time. If you get the feeling you're not a priority or you're chasing way more than her, pull back, make other things in your life a priority over seeing her, if she likes you she'll make more of an effort, if not charge it to the game and move on.
This!!!
Sometimes it's better 2 just walk away. Take what dignity u still have and go. It's easier when u have been repeatedly disrespected...
This is very true
Exactly
I don’t like this tactic entirely. To be ok with her fucking around with other dudes. fuck that
Al Pacino cool story bro
7:37 what to say if shes not treating you like a priority
14:14 what to do if she wont make date
14:43 what to say if she calls you the night of
Correct. All you can do is your best and sometimes that still will not be enough.
Coach Corey Wayne - true. 😔
Women are so complicated Coach Corey Wayne the old days used to be easy it was easier back in the old days for a man to get a woman but now it's like almost impossible
@@robertgibbs7513 you're right, and the older you get it's even harder, the older they are they have more baggage ,damage, multiple marriages and kids and exes in the background, and very independent, and a lot of the women in their fifties and sixties are really out of shape with a lot of extra pounds
@@kristianthaulow yes this is what you have to do, Corey's books and knowledge are very great stuff, but the older you get it does get harder Slim Pickens oh, well you hope they're Slim, knowledge is power
Women are told to do the same thing..lol.. we're all so cautious as people are so fickle.
When my ex dumped me 5 years ago, I was devastated. I feel like the pain wouldnt end, my ego was hurt and I loved her so much. Almost destroyed my life. This guy saved me. Whenever im sad and misses her, I watch a ton of his vid and even bought his book. Thanks Coach. You saved my life. I came out fine and is now living the life I dreamt of.
That ex gf started begging me and tried to win me back and I dumped her.
It sucks when people see u as unimportant not a fun feeling
Good job man, good job
I did the same. I just wasn’t interested anymore
Good !!
Just be real and if she doesn't reciprocate someone else will.. I hate games.
Jamar Nicholas I hate games too , to many mind games it’s so sad what we’ve come to being nice is been seen as weak wtf ?
@@mrs9225 truth is in long term -> be yourself, but improve yourself steadily in all aspects!
Its not a game.. it just how commonly human psylogical attraction works.
@@mrs9225So I dated that girl a couple of times. watching movies at the cinema. holding hands etc. she says she wants to take it slow.. she sais shes still a virgin. she moves in another city for studiing. I wont text her again.
all action like kissing and holding hand came from me. she never did anything by herself.. sign that she is not interested i guess.
I had gone through all those things.. Its terrible when you found out you were not a priority. I returned back the treatment and stop making her a priority. Problem solved. I moved on with my life
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None of us really want "that person". What we really want is how "that person" made us feel, or (if it's not an ex) how we BELIEVE they will make us feel once we're with them. Focus on achieving that feeling. You can feel that way whether you're with someone or not. Once you do, the right person will appear to match the way you feel. Focus on the relationship you want, not on any one person who may or may not be able to help you achieve it. Life can get very interesting once you can get your focus to shift in this way. Be open to ALL opportunities.
Sounds like Abraham Hicks😊
Sounds like Noah Elkrief
Well said.
Need to work on the "ALL Opporunties" part. Need to stop with all the "All Eggs On One Basket bs"
If you are really into someone you WILL find time for them, just like you find time for a very exciting hobby you love.
The only way a girl will be interested in a bloke that aint born white nor is rockin a rockstar lifestyle is if they flash cash at a bar and be str8 up spitting pickup lines like eminem. I blame BET and MTV for women's fucked up minds
Some talk to you in their free time, and some free their time to talk to you. Know the difference
Exactly
If you are not a priority just leave. Waited for one year because i loved her so much. Hurt me even more. Should have left at her first backing away.
Exactly
Same mistake
This advice is helpful and enlightened for us, When someone is really into you no matter how busy she is she must willing to give his precious time just to be with you. Stop pursuing this kind of things because she is not valued time your effort.
Wow the first guys story is the exact same as mine. Super pathetic, never realized until you hear it from the third person.
mtbers same for me.
Can't let emotion's take over.
Ill make it easy on everyone, get more than one option! You’ll see how much effort someone puts in when you not too focused on them...
Corey Wayne nailed the video in the first minute basically. You will remove your attention and then they will either a) come back or b) a better one comes!!
Set her free because she playing with someone else . Men never wait for a woman .
I wait, because if i seek then i feel like im some dude trying to seek obligations to value me when they dont have to do so.
So yeah waiting is better off
Corey, I've been in a relationship with my lady for nearly a year.. this video really opened up my eyes to what I've been doing wrong that's stopped her from pursuing me.. it's much appreciated what you've shared here..
I decided to buy your book and listened to it several times after I went through a breakup in November last year. She unfriended me in all her social media accounts and then went off social media. I did not contact her since then and now she is sending me friend request. She is back after seven months.
Thank you, Coach Corey!
She's just looking for attention while seeing other dudes. He needs to block her. Stop allowing women to do this. Be up front with her, tell her you're not into games and move on. This whole "let women come to you" has a line.
I agree. But that's when vetting plays an important role
Thank you so much Coach Corey for the great video. I wish I knew your channel much more earlier so I wouldn't have experienced lots of heartaches. God Bless to you sir.
I met a girl and things moved way too fast between the two of us. I showed one glint of insecurity/emotional weakness/neediness through ONE text and it all came crumbling down. Since then, I only let her reach out to me, and when she does, I always make one overture for her to meet. I’m in the thick of it atm, I’ll know prob by next week whether or not it’s never going to happen. But thanks to Corey at least I’m putting in the absolute minimal effort until there’s a concrete outcome.
I totally fucked up, so now it’s damage control and I can only hope to salvage things. She’s not my soulmate but she’s certainly worth being patient for, so long as I don’t sacrifice any more of my psyche or priorities for her. Been dating some other girls too, to help remind myself of my options.
Scarcity creates value fellas 👍🏼
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This is spot on and for me it is so hard to back off when i know I need to but I just say fuck it and pursue..its like an addiction. I'm working on it. Thanks Corey. I'd be a sad lost soul without your guidance.
I was with a girl for 10mnths. We only saw eachother every second weekend. I wanted her to see me more. The months do matter. Its called natural progression. Never settle for anything other than what you think you deserve. I had enough when in 14days we only spent 2hrs together. I love n miss her soo much!!! But I want more from a relationship
Some people are more in love with the idea of someone than they really are in love with the person. Or they love the way you made them feel, or what they think or thought you had or could have together. Sometimes it's not even true love for that person. Nobody likes to feel rejected, makes you feel like you're not good enough or wonder what's wrong with yourself. When someone walks away LET THEM GO. And don't be pathetic! That'll push someone away or make them RUN even faster. Don't act like you can't live or be happy without them. Don't constantly obsess, call, text, keep tabs on, or STALK someone. Even if you feel psycho inside come on, at least play it cool. Nobody can miss someone or think about good thoughts when you won't get out of their ass and act pathetic. And you shouldn't embarrass yourself like that. Get help, learn to love yourself and learn to have the same qualities that you look for in someone. You can't expect qualities out of someone that you don't have yourself. Work on YOU, and it'll work out.
Rachel you said many things in one breath
Nailed it. It is time to let her go. I am just a sex toy to her. Nothing real there. Music & Weight Lifting Focused keep the train rolling.
Its funny Rachel, this video popped up today and without knowing I already had commented a month ago, I was once again straightaway intrigued by your long reply and lo I found my own comment below.... No offense Rachel, just sharing a lighter moment !
Rachel used periods. Laymen used commas, .
I think this is one of your best videos. I watch it every few months to reset my mindset.
Thank you Coach. I have been seeing a girl for 3 weeks now. I fell for her so fast without realizing that I was being way too needy and always waiting around for her to meet up. She would often be "too busy" and would hang out with friends instead of seeing me. When we do actually meet up to see each other, she would "have to leave" after 2 to 3 hours. I would always feel so sad. Decided to finally research about my situation and found this very helpful video. Subscribed and will watch your other videos!!
If only we can all just act/do how we feel/want, dating would be much easier. I guess this is why people play the dating game :( People just want what they can't have and take what they do have for granted. Sad
The sad truth of the matter is that women's only way of judging a man's worth is by how much he appears to want her. If he seems easy, she assumes he's worthless. Corey is asking us to be strong and to overcome our emotions at the beginning, until our true value is clear to the woman.
9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue
Jan 2020. I feel sad. Im 51 and just now realizing i'm that guy. And why so many girls blew me off in the past. I (was) that nice guy. Im buying you book. My life starts over today.
Its crazy because a woman can have u over multiple times deeply embrace you mentally and physically, share personal topics with you so warm and undoubtedly trustworhy in character. she tells you things she thinks are amazing about you even little things you do or say. Kisses you so passionately asks you not to leave her bed, babies you and in that moment you think "There's no way she could stop liking me like this unless I was a jerk or cheated on her or something band this is easy" . then she mysteriously starts texting less or acting not like herself and it can feel like how can they betray me...and so suddenly,and for no reason?.."I didn't mess things up according to my male standards here." When you actually were doing things wrong. imo it takes learning that its just the nature of the female . Trust Corey Wayne its science he teaches.
tony l yup, i just experienced that. The girl was pursuing me and i thought she had a crush on me. Then all the sudden out of the blue she gave me the “better off as friends.”
Love you one week. Distant the other. Crazy. But that is the reality.
Men do the same. I think women are more relationship seekers over men in general.. go figure.
It’s hard to walk away for good, but even if you re-attract her you’ll be stuck constantly playing the indifference game. Why bother being with someone who’s not on the same level as you.
Believe me find other .
Jonathan Gant except 95% of girls are like this. After a while you’ll end up playing the emotionally detached indifference game with a woman you’re serious about, but if you don’t play it, she’ll lose interest and leave you. It’s so stupid.
Exactly..if you have to change who you are to reattact a mate then walk away bc thet aren't really into you.
If they come back then that means something has changed for them. So just be yourself in front of them but don’t make them the focus of your life. Stick to your purpose and you’ll see just how important they really are in the grand scheme. As a result they’ll sense that energy and their attraction will stay high.
Going through this and its true u get there attention for a few n u have to keep playing the game. Well i dont want to play anymore
In short make youself your prioity. First comes you, then your family or close friends, then her.
Faksakes this is exactly how I treat men. Even my hobbies come before him.
Forever Young lol that a bit much isnt it? Hobbies dont go first lol(sounds a bit overkill to me rly)
Yeah, this is exactly the reason why I ended my relationship. If you can't make your partner a priority you are not my cup of tea, simple as that, ende. Why people are in a relatioships if they do not have a capability to make their partners as a priority. So that is not a good advice..
How anyone can create a family with someone who does not know how to commit and how to sacrifice. Nope, there is not future at all.
The brutal honesty of these videos is surreal. It sucks when you realize that he's talking about you and you have to be honest with yourself and how you have behaved and caused a lot of the torment in your life.
Yeah it's a cold slap on the face to wake the hell up
been married a long time... that woman who you pamper and worry about what she thinks, who is all about herself, you would wish you never met after a few years. Because she will only get worse and more btchy when she get too comfortable. If u think u r not a priority now, when u have kids, you are just a doormat who makes money for her. So if you are dating a girl who needs to be the focus on your relationship, run barry. RUN!
Louie Bernabe I'll take heed to that thank you
It's brutal. Most women will show that dark side if they get the opportunity. Sad reality is, they will worshop the ground you walk on so long as you're fulfilling their fantasy or whatever. Once you stop being that source of emotions, you're lower than an insect to them.
That is really sad to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't value you or your happiness or needs. But both sexes are guilty of that. It's not just women who do that. There ARE good women too. And I know there are good men. Have you truly honestly sat down, when not pissed and explained to your partner how you feel? Or what they are doing to make you feel that way? And if yes and they continue to do the same, then that really does suck because I was in a marriage like that and I finally realized there was nothing I could do or say to make him care or love me differently. So after knowing I had done everything I could to make my marriage work, I got out of it. I knew I'd never be happy like that or loved the way I thought love should feel. I have no regrets because I gave my all. I know God brought me my husband now because we've been together 14 years and we do those things for each other. I'm so thankful and grateful for him and never ever take him for granted. He's my best buddy. Have and don't lose the qualities you want in your partner. But don't waste it on the wrong partner either
I am RUNNING!!!
Xox I use be have same problem with my x.run as fast as you can bro!
+Coach Corey Wayne I am going to buy your book you have been very helpful I'm going to put a lot of this advice into practice thanks man!
Hey I'm a woman and I always watch you when I really need some true honest direct advice..you really helped me through my break up and then when meeting new people.. Thanks coach Corey ..ps, I love your smile xxxx
Coach I've watched several of your vids over a few weeks. what I'm beginning to gather is everyone must undergo constant psychological/deception warfare to keep a person's attention for as long as possible.. my question is at what point do you stop being "psychological" and start being yourself? I dare say never. I also dare say that relationships must not be real if this is what dating or relationships has evolved to in this so called modern age. But then again perhaps it's always been this way. Truly there is nothing new under the sun.
When she says I'm not looking for a relationship just say me neither take it easy. Like Corey said have fun & hookup
Don't be waiting for nobody, walk away and do your own thing.
good looks coach I almost gave the talk without realizing what I was about to do.
Games of tennis was suggested by the Rock in the comments here and after looking back its the best analogy I've heard. It's really helps with the 20:80 principle. Also valuing yourself as he says here.
The definition of a loser: I dated a girl for 8 months and she’s still not my girlfriend
It’s not cool to call someone a loser if they don’t know much about women
@@sam_alimi yeah it is
Corey, you're really a godsend. Thank you
Corey you have great advice. Thanks!
Great video coach Corey Wayne. I always watch every video bro.
two weeks, two weeks of just listening to your podcast.... it's magic... it's fucking working.... i'll use this month's audible credit to buy your book.
Coach! Why would any man want to be a woman's second or third choice? Go for it if you just want sex but dont commit to someone who gives it free to everyone else.
this is very valuable advices , I am myself facing similar situations. Thank you Corey , there is a lot of us out there facing the same situation
Started reading 3% Man. Great material and easy read!
This is very smart and helpful advice, Thanks
This is exactly what happening to me. He always taking me as options and I feel sad.
He could "follow all the rules" (whatever they are) and she still might not be all that into him. There's no "holy grail" (or any guarantees whatsoever) when it comes to relationships.
True. Overcoming neediness.
Surely after a year of being with someone you have a right to know where you stand.Brilliant video other than that.
It definitely works I stopped all contact and then guess what ? She started pursuing me coach is right stop all communication even all social media you'll see the magic work good luck !
At that point just let her go man.. no women is worth all this waiting around.
read my book to learn the basics
awesome book
Coach Corey Wayne - yes I preffer to read than to watch and listen too
Getting your book ASAP, I’ve never had an issue picking up women but I have had issues maintaining and understanding them, I’ve been watching most of your videos and applying what I’ve learn, now I see how much I’ve been f***ing up lol, thanks for everything!!!
Coach Corey Wayne I love your videos, but can you make videos for women as well? :)
thank you so much for this great advice Corey.just realized I dont need to proof anything to no one.just be myself
If you aren't a priority and SHE is....Expect NO GOOD TO COME OF IT !
This is good advice for men and women.
Men do the same and no one should be hanging on a maybe constantly.
Simple as this : if they set the next date on the first date , there high on their priorities.
If you both make plans on the Moday or Wednesday for Friday or Saturday, your still high on their priorities but if you get a maybe on the Thursdays for Friday, you are a back up plan and if you get a what are you doing now any day , your a boredom killer and they have nothing better to do.
Dont go to a 9pm Friday night text message , come over .
All their other plans fell through. .
Maybe means no but if im board i might call all text.
Your not a priority at all
If they are in to you , they want to make sure they have time locked down with you in advance and they will not want to let you down or make you feel less than .... who ever else.
Guys , it feels shit all round .
The 30% bit is a bit of bull though.
If a woman is doing 70% of the work . She is going to feel like you 30% priority.
She is going to feel like she is less than . She will look else where.
She will look for at least someone thats going to give her at least 50% priority to give you her 50% priority..
Dont push them away as treat them mean , keep them keep is just mean... for anyone.
Im blowing off phone calls atm because i get to many maybe's, last min arangment and 30% effort from a guy.
Im not that bloody needy to be treated like this.
He could had a chance, hes blown it .
I like him but it sure looks like he is not in to me as much as i am in to him , so im backing off to not get hurt.
Ill find someone that dosent make me live on maybe's.
Yes im a woman.
i think when it comes.to being in a relationship with somebody and they leave and become your ex, i think some people or afraid to let go of that feeling of wanting somebody because they feel if they dont have that feeling they wont want them anymore when actually your just valuing yourself doesnt mean you still cant have feelings for them because you dont have that obsessive feeling
That really will helps me a lot...I’m gonna use it from now 4:30 am feb 19 2020...
So on point!!! ... guys listen to Coach Corey he knows what's up 👏🏼
She just doesn’t want to be with you.
Problem with this dude is he's hooked on and desperate for a woman who had next to no interest in him to start with. Her lame once-in-a-while texts convey she had nothing going on at the time. Dude knows she can take or leave him.
9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue
Scott Stanley problem is I feel like I’m in love with her. I can’t walk away for that long without driving myself crazy. There’s other women in my life but none of them compare. I think 2 weeks is long enough. She said we were dating in the beginning. It’s not normal to not see someone you’re dating for 2 or more weeks
Can someone please explain why someone can be completely into you then suddenly just disappear? The opposite of what is going on in this video.
I'm having the same situation. thank you for the advices. keep it up! :)
Hey everyone, I’m reading some of your comments and I’m currently trying to find out ways to make breakups a lot easier for men to overcome. Which is why I have two questions to ask for guys that thought the breakup was going to be easier:
1. What are the 2 main problems you’re going through?
2. Regarding everything that is going on, what would you want more than anything else?
You shouldn't have to travel down the long road to get over a bad breakup like me (Year and half). Thanks in advance, I’m looking forward to reading your answers!
awesome work bro. your stuff works!! you saved my relationship bro. thank you
Dude is so good, Nothing brings happiness to a man like knowing and understanding attraction levels of his woman.
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corey thank you for helping me, i was with a narcissist .now i am not , she made me feel less than a man .never again . your videos are changing my life for the better thank you
Perfect advice!
The second email 😂😂😂 come on over bring...."Pause" no bottle of wine here.
This is what I needed
So all I'm hearing is condoning women playing games. If she plays games, leave her in the dust. Life's too short.
Games can be fun.. just get better at it.
The problem is not you!! She is dating someone else that she likes more. Facts.
Wonder what has happened to the covenant we made to God and each other? The marriage vows are to be taken seriously...life happens, and it takes patience, forgiveness and love.
Unfortunately, these days are gone.
but if u don't pursue some1 won't it look like yr interested in her?
Agreed. Do you thing, pursue your interests, live your life, and you'll attract the people you want to be around.
IVE HEARD THIS A MILLION TIMES BUT IT JUST CLICKED WHY IN A PSYCHOLOGY REASON BY THE "FIGURE OUT YOUR SCHEDULE" THING...SHE HAS TO THINK SHE HAS THE POWER AND SHE IS CHASING....AND SHE IS MAKING THE MOVE..
I am still so mad that he took me for granted! And he never took me out for dinner like he promised months ago. (I helped him moving his stuff out of his damn ex’s house ffs!)
Also: he was always working or going to the gym. I had to break it off. I want to be a priority! Not an option! It hurted my selfesteem. I broke it off. Still really sad I let him do that to me. :(
I'd really like to hear your take on long distance relationships as "chatting" on the phone are the dates you speak of or video calls.
Some of what you describe doesnt apply in that situation, meanwhile some remains a standard.
@@Sparkyspage Only if it's long term and one or both individuals are highly insecure and/or desperately need validation from others
@coach Corey Wayne, hey man I watch your vidoes all the time, and I have a question, I have a fear of the #metoo movement and beeing accused of beeing a creepy/stalker or weirdo by women, and so I've become pretty much a reclusive guy that never really talks to women anymore, how can I get over this fear?
Hey Corey I don't know if your channel is still an active source but I could really used some advice on a few things. How do I get into contact with you?
I had this kind of situation recently. SHE was the one talking about me going over her place to cuddle, she was the one initiating everything. Then... she goes she needs space to think, she doesn't want to hurt anyone, she out with girl friends, she don't contact me, then posting she doesn't want any man, but she is waiting and who she wants to wait on her. She said it on whatsapp with a blue background, which is how we communicate. Then, just today, she responded to a photo of myself I posted and she goes "Daddy". We spoke well after and when I went to suggest meeting up, said she available ALL of next week, so I will let her know. She goes, tell me now so keep it free. I told her straight up, is either you available or another time or not at all... she then says ok ima keep it free. She had even said to me, before she pull back is, I am to prepare for her to get clingy, and she was for a bit, then she pull back... almost an entire week.
Guys, women are emotional as heck!! They will be back and forth, they themselves unconsciously take breaks to give themselves time to miss you and see how her feelings grow. They will CONSTANTLY test you. Just be cool man, don't EVER push or rush a girl. Live YOUR life she IS watching you best believe that. Don't ever seem hurt by her "space", once she see you about living YOUR life without her, if she is indeed interested, she WILL contact you and that is what you want. Don't be pursuing a girl that really isn't interested.
Between last night and today, it's now FOUR GIRLS that have contacted me, wanting to see me. Don't pursue these girls when they pull back, she is in many cases giving herself time to feel her feelings, to miss you and see how much it grows. Yes, at times you can be too much and she wants the space to miss you to come back to you. Leave women to their process, they are just like cats.
Rockwildaz Family going through the same thing lol
I liked it it was positive and it made sense
I used to be a priority of a group and they used to say sweet true loyal and appreciate me as their #1 now they are putting their son as #1 so I am too sweet and special we hardly chat so it’s too frustrating so now I feel unappreciated like a failure to me I’m crying
This kind of worked for me. Like losing attachment is a great way to go. More fish n the sea baby.
Every women that has lost attraction towards me has always gone with someone else or their ex. I agree with you Corey but for me it has always been she had my replacement in place. Sometimes I went along with the jerking around or would just stay distant and every time it’s the same thing. I’m not saying it wasn’t my fault but often times it wouldn’t matter. I removed my attention and it showed she didn’t value me. I think ultimately they don’t value me even when they are doing the perusing. I honestly think it has more to do with the quality of people in my area
Gg Wp Shit women. Going for guy to guy. Or going back to their shit ex's. The shit never changes.
Not saying you don’t, but #1 priority is to value yourself
if youre not 35 you havent hit your peak yet so bluer skies ahead in that case
Yep the same thing happened to me, the girl already had my replacement lined up and started distancing herself and looking for an excuse to leave me and blame m for it. These girls are bitches, no integrity or decency.
@@bieituns ukr heartless humans
Could u please do a video on like do's and dont's all in one on before ur goin to date
Coach! Why don't you just tell the poor guy he's being breadcrumbed by a covert narcissist.
Exactly
Thanks coach.
Best message. Thanks Cory!
I played with a scarcity mindset as a kid, and I failed!
I tried abundance when I grew up, and I still failed!
I ended up falling into scarcity again, and rest assured my needy behavior dropped her attraction from a 7-8 to (possibly) a 5, if not even less!
I'm done trying! 🤷🏼♂️
Let me ask you a question. So everybody has Been telling me that I shouldn't spend to much time with my girl, what is your prospective in this case??
Thank you.
Hey Coach,
Most of your video seems to touch different angles of maintaining a proper vibe with a women to peek her interest and successfully reach whatever conclusion you want with her (dating/ one-night stand). What about maintaining things once you have reached that point?
Damn, that is exactly what is going on with me. However, I think she blocked me. I am going out moving on but I wish I could give it another try
Met a woman on a dating app. We exchanged msgs for about a week, then i set up a date. We ate dinner and had good conversation for about 4 hrs while having drinks.
I chose to hug her , since she mentioned she didnt kiss on first dates when we talked before.
2nd date was a movie date and went to a nice patio bar with live music. Had drinks and we did kiss , cuddled etc. Nothing more..
Now after that date I noticed she became distant, and wouldnt text as she did before. Im not a needy guy and not the type to text her or even call her just to talk about random things as she did before. So after 3 days not hearing from her i get back on the app, and there she is online. Not sure why this bothered me, i know she is not my gf, but it did. I think maybe i liked her more, but I will start talking to other women now. Eventhough i wasnt her bf, i stopped being social with other women after our 2 dates. Never again, and I will get Corey's book to understand women more clearly.