Being Able To Walk Away Creates Attraction
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses why being able to walk away, lose a woman to another man and be emotionally unaffected when you learn that a woman who you just started dating, is also dating other men, will cause her to pursue and want you more instead of less.
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Self-respect and truly love yourself.
that's when you projected out confidence and ability to take no crap from women.
lol women and men... just people in general, but agree
What do I do if I dumped her because she wasn't treating me the way I deserved (another guy was involved) and that I didn't accept the situation anymore, but would be willing to hang out and try things again if she's single but then blocked me because of it?
Do I just walk away and move on and never contact her again even though I was the one dumping her? You can ask why would I even care at this point but she actually means more than a usual girl would to me, I rather be just friends than nothing at all and move on romantically to someone else and forget about her in that way.
I just want her friendship at this point.
@@jomormont that's bs. you dont want friendship.. u want naked her in ur bed. if u dump her, then move to anothet one you really like and u deserve to be treated.
@@aldrinrivas8673 @aldrin Rivas No I don't want her like that. It will never be even if she wanted it.
@@jomormont if u dont want, then dont waste ur precious time on her, then focus on yourself to become better so that u can attract quality woman that u deserve.
I used this on a girl that I liked for years. She literally told me no to dates and shit like that. She have a bf, so I was friend zoned! I told her what I wanted and stop contacting her. Was hard at first, was like a crackhead in rehab. lol
Took a lot of ignoring, but i did end up getting her. Am still hitting it. lol!!
Coach you are the man!!
buntik1687 I like your story bro.
Trying to apply this method- hopefully it works
buntik1687 I love happy endings like these 😂
buntik1687 by the way, how long did it take for her to contact you?
Good deal. Hope you guys are happy.
Don't ever chase. Show interest but don't chase.
Tony Gambino yup never chase. I made that mistake once never again
@@ryanvtec3885 same
Explain please
@gine serafina Roth so true!!!! A real woman who knows her price never ever chase! Leave this b.s fir woman whi should chase. The nature said men are the ones who do it.
@gine serafina Roth lie. Women DO chase
I tried chasing my girlfriend for almost a year, she treated me like a door mat. After that, I said no more and put my foot down on her. Boom 2 weeks later I get a call from her apologizing and now she's trying her best in the relationship. Sometimes you gotta let go and move on and there is a good chance that they will miss your good side and come back to you.
DogLover thats the same idea popping on my head . Make an effort then walk away 😆
True
When I first heard about Corey... I thought he was going to teach me how to play mind games with women... but nah! I was wrong..
Walking away and meaning it... not looking back, having a take it or leave it attitude... is recognizing your self worth... and it gives off a clear and honest sign of self respect...
It also liberates you from suffering emotionally.
I am a woman and am learning that. No need for mind games
Its not easy specially when you deeply in love with the girl , but you right i agree with you
This is something that ALL MEN should hear. Women only chase after guys who are preoccupied with their lives. Whether they want to admit it or not, they actually love to chase. I can get into details and tell you my theory of why, but I won't. It's something I've seen over and over again. When I was a nice guy, I was like "why is she with him? he's not treating her right". Now that I'm older and wiser, I actually see the dynamic at play here...Women don't fuck with men who are losers. Losers don't have a purpose in life so they constantly get into other people's business. Don't be a loser.
I am only about 17 and I am seeing this more everyday even whilst in high school still
Contrary to what you think, woman do NOT love to chase. You do not understand women if you believe that.
Any human likes what they cannot have but when it comes to people, the way men and women go about it should be different - men can pursue but woman should make themselves noticed and responsive to the man they like. Women shouldn’t chase!
When it’s a man who pursues a woman,
he values her that he’s worked to attain. That’s the true alpha hunter in him.
When it’s a woman who pursues a man, she will very soon get to a point she desires him to takeover so she gets the feeling of security i.e. she needs to know he wants to be there so she can rely on him, that he’s not just there because she chased him. That’s in our nature.
Any man I chased, there were the same problems centred around how we got together, and any honest woman will tell you it never really feels natural to us to chase.
Just because we can vote etc doesn’t mean the way we’re wired has changed.
You are wrong. Women like to chase, and they should.
Remember, the one who does the chasing is the submissive one.
Men are dominant and like a mountain, they don't move. Let her come to you at her pace.
You clearly have not read Corey's book, or have any actual experience with women, and are spewing your own opinions.
You have been brainwashed by the media. Stop giving advice before you have done your homework and have enough knowledge and experience.
Max Real talk the man is the prize and catch not the woman. If the man chases he's acting like a female and not his dominate masculine self. A man should never submit to a female ever.
cosmiccandy
You are a classic example of what he talks about - a woman who says what she wants, but, actually emotionally responds to the complete opposite.
basically, just be busy or make yourself appear busy and only use the phone to set up dates.
Adhrit Srivastav works on weak women but not women who have lots a dudes. Bc they have an abundance mindset.
Will Capital ....so what if they have options .....we too have
Time away to regroup fuck dating again thats why your head is messed up becouse of a woman
vij sid lets be real though. An 8/10 woman has way more options than an 8/10 guy... in fact an 8/10 woman has no problem dating above her league with 9/10 or 10/10 guys.
@@opencase9903 Hahaha.Where have you got that information?On wikipedia?
Body language & fake kisses are a true signal to run hard, run fast & jump over the fence.
Lololol
Emotions can be our worse enemy,if we don't learn how to control it...
Never Get involved In Anything Your Not Willing To Walk Away from in 30 Seconds ...👌😎
Talk Is Cheap ..
Lead By Example
Nice Heat reference
@@richwhite3189
Yes Sir ..
Robert de niro
Neil Mcully “Heat”!
I swear my relationship turned for the better
the day my girlfriend overreacted and said she was leaving me while she and her twin sister was having a heated argument about me.
I didn't say a word to her for the rest of the day, we were up in the mountain, very far from their home and we were taking her sister to go and meet some douche up there, so we were stuck together for the rest of the day, while her sister and the douchebag were sitting in his car, up to whatever.
I left the car in the parking lot with her sitting in the backseat and took a walk into the forest for the rest of the afternoon.
On my way taking them home I spoke to her sister about getting my stuff back so I can move on with my life and 5mins before reaching their home, my girlfriend burst out in teary anger about why I didn't wanna talk things out with her.
frankly what was going through my mind was "why would I wanna stay in this relationship that I'm putting all this effort into and getting no joy out of?"
she apologized for everything and tried to make things right, I forgave.
We're in the happiest space we've ever been currently and I love her to bits
Women have to know that if they push you too far you will walk and never look back
La Nguyên B Tòng I know right? we got engaged (0_0)
+1ma4ighter Good job. Congrats.
+1ma4ighter I admire your story it shows Love conquers ,Look after a love like that is worth holding on to
If walk away from a female, they'll try all their attention to make you look at them because instinctually it's the female thinking cycle fear of being ostracised if you turn your back on them or you leave her in site cold to lonesome. A female doesn't like that but tries every effort to be socially accepted and seek attention. Males don't have this fear or non female insecurities alike which points male behaviourally, emotionally and socially different. For a female it can lead to self deterioration to any female sister, mother, daughter or girlfriend who ever and sometimes in tensive situation lead to emotional tantrums and resulting finally to a breakdown. She would always refer to be comforted and run to her herdpack female friend circle.
Being willing to walk away shouldn't be limited to women but to people and other things in general. That includes friends, family, jobs, social activity, etc.
But onto women & dating here, you have to mean it. Stick to your convictions and not get played around with their damn games. If she comes back and changes her b.s. then its worth revisiting depending on the degree of her games.
This is such valuable information for men. It's crazy how such bad advice and bad behavior has been widely accepted among the majority of men. Thank you for sharing the truth.
my girlfriend left me and it hurt like crazy but i found the strength to go no contact because i knew it was the only way to get her back. two weeks later she texts me inviting me for dinner. but you have to realize that wether she is over you or not, the only way to get her back is by keeping silent.
how is it going so far?
Thanks for the advice bro
Thanks dude
2 weeks.. lol
@@Bluudclaat haha felt like two years at the time.
Self respect is a must I’m not chasing anyone periodt!
Don't fuck up like me, gents. I had the perfect opportunity to score an insanely attractive chick. We talked for a couple months, but I'll openly admit that I did some of the shit that Corey says you should never do. So now I got the "I don't want a relationship" speech, and I'm sitting here in defeat. I read his ebook after this happened, and it just kills me to think that this shit would have totally saved that relationship. Get the fucking ebook guys. Coach knows what's up.
Yup. These things are not that simple. Attractive ones have lot of guys flocking around. Even if you grab their attention by walking they are never going to pursue you. They don't have to. They never had to. They would prefer to be in their comfort zone.
She could just found a guy who was just that bit better than you. There is no sure fire way to ensure a relationship works out.
EagleLogic facts i bought it too, best thing ever
The quote from the movie heat.
"Dont get get too attached to something you can't walk away from in 30 seconds or less"
66kaisersoza LMAO. Fucking quote of the day
How about this one - She got a.. GREAT ASS!
If I'm walking away, the last thing I want is to attract her.
Alkaiser Yeah, they usually want the opposite of what we want.
Walk anyway
Me too Troy Carpenter.. I will never look back
Good point lol
True.
Tho, could be used as a way to rebalance the attraction if one still wants a chance with her.
Great video. I screwed up at first but it's been No Contact for the last month and from here on out. I will never attempt to contact her again.
How did u go
Watching your videos has been a big help. Whether they lead me to immediate results towards targets I have in mind or not, they have helped me realize I am not crazy for over thinking things and have helped me to just stop over thinking shit.
You won't read this, but these videos have made me better, much better with women. I am 26, fit as a person can be as i lift and do martial arts for over 10 years and i am good looking with decent wealth. My problem had ALWAYS been that when i attract a girl and she is obessed with me and i am indiferent, i hit it up a couple times and feelings start rising from me, i always blow it after that. I become this needy cute puppy and because of my looks girls get enormous confidense boosts that allow them to leave me. I can listen to these videos all day, no contact in partucular works wonders for me and the girl i want to pull back, you are like a teacher, thank you.
couples should not play games at all , just ask the other person what is the problem ,and if they play games its proubly time to scoot , if you feel it in your bones its proubly time to go
After a couple weeks of not talking. Before, I pleaded to her and begged and obviously it didn't work. My ex wanted to keep me around as a friend after the fact and it only lasted 4 days because I was not having it lol You don't friend zone me lol
That's the worst part of it the game playing. You want to move on just say it. I won't cry. I will just be gone. Good luck to you.
I was recently dating this woman who was all into me and vice versa. I really only took what she said so serious because she couldn’t keep her hands off me, always made sure I was comfortable, sex anytime and never said no. All of sudden after spending the night at a beach front she started acting distant. I tried to figure what was going on but she was hot and cold as she struggled with her emotions. Now it to the point where she tries to stay in touch with me but doesn’t want to have sex so as of this very moment I’m not going to respond to her or her games.
im reading this book. n its working .i did all the wrong things corey says .n i was sent to the friend zone .but now she is seeing me as a confident man .an strong man .but The thing here is that ii realize that she is not The girl im looking for,
Congrats you saved yourself a lot of time and money.
soldado que viene del futuro its always easier getting woman you arent crazy about
I've been seeing this guy for 4 weeks he did everything correct, great time, he made dates, we hang out and hook up ect. After 3-4 weeks I started texting him, everything you're saying a women does when she's interested ect. and he pulled back saying he wants to feel free. :) The minute a women starts showing her interest, he pulls back, most of the time!
I totally agree . They do exactly the same. I was seeing this guy for almost 5 months, and we liked each other, and he said he loved me, but then a week later, he broke up with me, because I found out he was talking to other girls, and I just asked him why he would be talking to them, when he could be talking to me, although they were 'friends', he said that he wasnt, but I think he lied. So now he treats me like he never met me. I have of course not said anything bad back to him, and said fine. I left him alone to his own devices, but it's hurting me inside. he is the kind of guy that when he says it's over, he means it, even if he probably didnt really want too.
it's all fucked. seriously, i've tried it all and it's one BS. Men pick women they get to decide. Why everyone says it's the women picking? Its always men, men this men that it's a men's world... and the worse is I do love men....
+Tomkie Jo I'm sorry to break tHis to you but it's a woman's world...
Untrue if you are seeking/looking after a man's traits as a human being BEFORE the seduction phase - character, which means you must be a high character person as well to KEEP a man who is also high character, otherwise this is how most men and women are these days which is the main reasons relationships and marriages are failing left and right.
+Tomkie Jo i disagree! its mostly woman who decide from what ive seen and experienced.men have to jump thru hoops to keep their attention cos they got options.and lots of them.
Chances are shes going to be wondering about you alot. You got to stand your ground and say hey it's great to hear from you I'd love to see you let's get together sometime we'll make dinner together. just stick to that. If she says no. "Alright if you change your mind let me know"
I just found your videos recently and I can't tell you how much I appreciate your content. Seriously you tell these things in just a good way and manner, with those little anecdotes of yours, which really help to make someone understand what you mean. You not only helped me realize where my mistakes have been, you also made me realize positive patterns in my approach with girls. This is something I only realized thanks to you and Dale Carnegie. Don't push, don't stress, don't force anyone to love you. Be gentle be nice, be understanding, but be also alpha at the same time. Make the person feel good and safe around you. That my coach, I could have not realized without your videos! Thanks for that and sorry if I made any grammatical mistakes. English is not my native tongue, but I'm really trying hard to express my appreciation! THANK YOU COACH COREY WAYNE!
How was your journey since your comment? Did you get nice girls? Any other advice
It's already out for two months now. Go to Amazon.com
I got the book and read it once upto now. I just being on a date with a beautiful lady and I messed it up by not attending a 2nd date and she said that she would go again with me but turned very cold on me? After that I started to chase and stopped after I was getting upset and then started to think how I could change my frustration into a positive. So I got the book. Now I've walked away feeling great especially after reading the book! Now I will carry on reading all your books and others until I become the expert of all experts 😉
I’ve walked away in the past willing to move on and never look back and everytime they come back. My only flaw was letting some back in. I have learned this and wont repeat this. Let go and move on mentality
Corey! You are a genius man. I have watched all of your videos, and im going to buy your book. Your tips helped me draw my ex back into my arms. Im 25 years old, and I wish I had your information years ago. The info I picked up in your videos, is going to carry me through the rest of my life. Im so eager to read your book. I owe you more than one.
Corey I bought your book! And donated $20 because ure FUCKING great!
sel loi how do you know how he fucks?
Tha Q NAAAAAA 😂😂😂
Only $20? Bro I donated $100,000. I’m the alpha here and I bought 10 books to give away to everyone around me to wipe their ass with the pages cause we don’t use toilet paper here where I live.
Dont act ...Be Ok with. Talk To You Soon and Usually End the Email/Text / call BEFORE a woman does ...
And Rule #1
Leave Em PURRING..
your advice might be the truth but the whole big picture just makes me sick to my stomach.
Yeah I wish I never even got into it. Waste of 3 years. I’m only 19 lol
legit
I hear you.. if your walking away obv she did some dumb shit to piss a guy off..
I flipped shit around today!
Even though she already said "i don't think it would go somewhere" ...Same day she said that I didn't talk to her or even look at her and I know for sure it was bugging her. So I told her today to take a week or so and think about whatever it is she needs to think about. No more txts. No more BS at work. No more anything. Then I said...In a week we are either good or im gone for good. In the mean time im gonna continue to joke n shit with the guys at work and ignore and go back to not looking/talking to her....
QUESTION: Good or bad idea? O.o
Ive been having a similar issue. Personally i don't think its good to ignore a women you're actually still interested in. Especially if you do it more than once. Its kinda melodramatic and it can be seen that you're trying to give her the cold shoulder and sorta like a time out. its kinda immature. and from my experience if you're still interested and attracted to her, by ignoring her at work when you do miss her and would like to speak to her will only be frustrating for at least you and maybe both. The only time you should ignore a female is when you've made it clear you're walking away and/or when you truly want nothing at all with her. If you have to state the fact that you want space or nothing to do with someone i personally feel like thats not what you really want, its a sign of frustration but if they where to turn around and reciprocate interest or give you what you want you'd be all game for her again. Therefore, by boundary with females at work is that i will be cordial with them at work as long as they initiate contact with me, i will not ever start convo with her unless needed to for work and i will not let convo carry on very long. Always act like you have somewhere to be and that you're oblivious but do it like james bond would. and don't be a total asshole. and then outside of work i verbally tell her just what the coach does "my interest are strictly romantic with you and you can get in touch with me if things change with you but otherwise I'm gonna take some space because I'm not just interested in a platonic friendship". Then after that walk away from the convo and don't call or txt unless she does. Then if she does make a date to get together! Hope it helps
That's a horrible idea; that's manipulation.. Ultimatums never work out; you're forcing a situation that shouldn't be..
Then start working on yourself; because obviously there's some
Insecurities going on within yourself.. Because you are too focused on this woman like she's the only option you have.. When she shouldn't be at all.
Read coaches book seriously, seriously.. It works, not like a magic trick or a quick fix.. These things take time & patience plus discipline.. Confidence within yourself & understanding of yourself.. You're worth more than that.. Own that.. Don't be afraid to take an L & walk away..
Enjoy life.
Don’t ignore her. No need to take it that far.
BMJ2008 I thought it was a good idea even tho I’m 5 years late. What’s the point of continuing to txt her like a simp? She already said she doesn’t see it working out. Believe what she’s says. Give her the cold shoulder and sees if she trys to contact you again if not keep it moving.
I generally think it's a good idea, if you've put a timeline on it. A week is perfect.
Although the indifference is best, it does make me feel sometimes I should hide my true feelings
"Okay you dumped me? Cool :D" (cries on inside)
If you still feel this way then you haven't reached the abundance mindset. It usually comes naturally in guys at around late twenties early 30's. You have to lose enough important things in your life to really have this alpha adgaf mindset. If you're in your comfort zone then women sense weakness, you don't like danger or challenge.
9:39 till 10:20 action speaks louder than words.
i'm going to buy a girls love by buying her flowers and drinks and be nice to her all the time even if she treats me crap and when she cheats i will forgive her and buy her more gifts because i didn't buy her enough gifts .
no mames haha
Lol good one!
J o n a t h a n. hi if your being this nice and a girl does that she ain't worth your time at all. If I had a guy who cared about me like this I'd not leave his side through fear of him being stolen from me. If a girl cheats when you look after her like this then your a fool. I don't mean to sound mean there but I've been the fool before and it gets you no where just walked all over and no respect. I hope you do find a nice girl who treats you as sweet as you treat her. I've been with my fella now for near four years and he never gets me a birthday present or valentines day gifts he has gotten me stuffed teddies but I've had to get so upset and let down before he does these little things he gets gifts and more nothing is just mine but his money is his and I have to bow down to his every silly needs and wants. I could cheat I could walk away but I believe if you love someone you make it work. My fella can never take back what he has done to me over the time we have been together and he has been trying too but if things don't get better I will leave bc I will of tried everything. I have tried everything. Just never let any girl treat you so bad when a girl who loves you could be treating you like your everything to her. xx
Sarah Jayne Rudman I realized I didn't do that enough for one girl i dated :(
Don't do that. It's unattractive as fuck.
I don't know how "no contact" works for people, for me it's "out of sight, out of mind"!
Every time. I completely back off and never hear again. It’s been like this at Jesse 5 times.
Pain is weakness leaving the body
He's living the life.
a ring don't plug a hole
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So much respect for you Corey. Thanks so much for the advice, and insight
One line I've used successfully when I hear "I have a boyfriend" is "well, that's your problem." with a wry smile of course.
I just recently walked away from a co worker after going to lunch with her and her accepting to go out with me this coming Friday night, finally tells me she’s married and just wants to be friends. Oh heeellll no! I told her well she should have told me that at the beginning no matter if she’s wearing a ring or not. That and letting me know I should had asked her if she’s single. If a man asks a woman out and she’s married, it’s her duty if she’s respects her “husband”, she should had told me she was married and can’t do that. I just told her I’m done and not going to be in friend zone. I made my intent clear to let me know if things change with this man, to let me know and in the meantime I’m walking away. That was it! That’s a power move man. That displays you as a man have options. You’re a challenge only 3% of men are able to do. Love you all!
Corey, I'm so glad that I got to know you and your work.
You are awesome.
Never CHASE A HOE, NEXT!
Female here.
If a guy is attentive, romantic, calls, checks in, I assume he is relationship material.
If he is what is being called “alpha” here, i.e. plays hard to get, is inattentive, dates a lot of girls, then I assume that’s what a relationship with him is like - and I dismiss him.
I wish I knew this years ago!
Don't ever chase no women let them chase you
Amen, brother. A-f'n-men.
@Jenny Le Hull You are here?
Meanwhile women are taught: don’t chase no man, make sure they chase you.....good luck singles the struggle is real
Princess Buttercup why would real men chase after women when we're the prize. Simps and weak men chase after women which boost y'all ego. But when y'all get old and ugly no one is chasing y'all lol. Men we age like fine wine and have the best of both worlds lol.
I'm a big fan...but let me get this straight...she's attracted to me when I got things going on in my life, I'm busy and have a plan on my own personal happiness and succsess ....and then after a year, I'm still focused on my purpose on life and success...but now she feels lonely so she seeks out other men. But the simp who shows her attention gets dumped....I get it now...pump and dump. Women don't know what they want. F them and leave.
this is very true of Godless women
You need to do a video on female narcissism
Make me feel like an option, and ill make my absence a priority.
If a women says " i give up". Its time to move on.
My girl cheated on me ..I caught her. No big deal ..the other guy can have her. Her excuse for cheating? Didn't have one. She told others that she doesn't know why she did it and that I (me) did nothing wrong.Women cheating comes naturally. Waste of money and time.
Thanks Tommy, I broke the NC rule at 15 days. Ask her to call me and she did and asked her to meet for some drinks. As I was asking her, she seemed rather distant and I lost my composure to the point where she had an attitude. She convinced herself that I dumped her but I merely walked away because of the direction of we were going. There's no doubt that an ex or another guy is in the picture. I'm dating but I'm not following through with the dates. smh I'm working out and taking pics with chicks I workout with the. post them on FB but I can't seem to get a spark of emotion lit from this introvert. I'm 7 days into NC after I broke it a week ago and it's even harder now than before. This is the 1st relationship I've walked away from and I know I did the right thing but it's killing me inside to know she has moved on and she doesn't want to talk. She's introduced me to her family and friends, cooked for me and made it a point to text me throughout the day, now nothing, just so distant now. Any words of encouragement. Dating but not hooking up, that may change soon but my mind will be elsewhere!?!?
Hoped it worked out in the end bro
Yes it does make you seem as a back up plan. Cause it's saying if it doesn't work out with the guy I'm currently pursuing, my first choice, You'll be my 2nd option, my back up. Plan and simple!
Yes... I did it... I Deleted her number... Thanks coach
did she come back?
@@solidn6 yes they are married now
Ive got this supervisor at the warehouse shes been digging my vibe cause noone else is brave enough to flirt with her ive seen men twice my age freeze up like their afraid of her she started playing games cause she thought i was easy but i walked away from her now shes doing what it takes to win me back
Yes. This is an example that walking away also attracts a person you are not even attracted to. Of course in your position, it is easy to reject that person if you already don't feel attracted to her. Those other guys were attracted to her and at the same time can freeze up in fear. Your supervisor ended up freezing up in fear around you. So you had beaten her by acting like a professional worker. Your way is sorry, I don't date coworkers or colleagues. So it is clear your supervisor is not even professional.
I know I had supervisors acting like this towards me. Once she is promoted, she takes advantage. I always show her the rules to remind her look at this workplace. No dating anyone in the workplace. Plus you are married. She would do anything to win me because what she is interested in is ego boost of rejecting men. I did not fall for that. That may work on her on all men but not me. I would say to her we will talk if I see proof that you asked human resource for permission and you get your husband's approval. She could not do it and so she chickened out of the challenge.
@@hp2546 I did feel an attraction to her but she played herself at this point I can tell this isn't the first time either cause everyone around her is in damage control mode to help her get me back but I've moved on and dated other women even have a few at the warehouse wanting to try me but I keep ahealth distance from them all
@@travisjohnson2232 She is even allowing other workers to play matchmaker on her behalf which will be a turn off on her. That is no way to attract anyone. That kind of way is showing desperation. If I wanted to attract someone, I would not even allow anyone to play matchmaker on my behalf. That will be creepy. So what your supervisor did is creepy and definitely not professional. So it sounded like at first, you were attracted then later on, her attraction fades as soon as she cannot handle solitude life. Good for you that nobody gets away love bombing you. I know I never had attractive women feel lonely towards me so I had never been tested but you have. 1 thing for sure is if any attractive woman were to convince me they like me, they would have to aim for a kiss on the lips to convince me that they are interested in me. Otherwise, I am not convinced because I am not going to give them power to take credit for rejecting me. Those who started the chasing cannot take credit for rejecting. Anyone who takes credit like this is lying and will like to spread rumors which will be a turn off. Nobody gets away with free seduction around me and expect the relationship to stay platonic. You just tell her that you only date women who is not part of this workforce. She is not even going to dare quit her job to convince you to take her. So you have a power to use her own assets against her.
Ex will never work. Once you disappear, all that stress she puts on you (outlet) while she is with him will go directly towards him which will push her right back to you.
Wave Up amen
But how if she reach out?
Where the hell are these guys that you're addressing? I want one
Purnell Landfair I guess I'll have to start paying more attention. I need a sweet one.
ItsMyParty 87 I like to talk to you
lol
Right here
Yea right here hun lol
First time I HATE what Corey says. It is just as bad to cheat on someone as it is to be the reason they cheated. If the girl has a boyfriend, respect the relationship.
Gogley Loosa You should respect if because she is a person still, and bro code dude, you wouldnt want the same to happen to you, so dont do it to others either. And why would you want a girl like that? have respect for yoruself as well
Gogley Loosa first sentence made me not read the rest to be honest... if you dont want to follow the bro code or you dont care about others, thats your morality and your way of life, I, will
Gogley Loosa only if you think that way, just dont be that bitch who gets made when his girl leaves him for another...
Gogley Loosa hasnt happened to me cuz I make sure not to go for that kind of woman... so guess we can just agree to disagree..
+Gogley Loosa A "ring" doesn't mean shit to a lot of women, They will still cheat.
No a man backs away from me its good bye Charlie.
Bye
Bye
7:22 lol your little chuckle had my dying. and you just make your next date!
This is a bomb ass video Coach Corey Wayne. It completely described what I went through.
You know your shit dude! I'm getting that book.
Key thing to take from this video if she's going to do it to him it will get done to you eventually
I just screwed up a girl that was doing the 80% effort 🤦♂️. At this point I have deleted her number , as always I was expecting her to come back but she too did delete my number .
It happens. Lucky thing for you is, there's plenty of fishes out there. Not all dates/girls are meant to work out. Learn from this, and apply it in the next relationship.
I think you gotta change up your routine environment to meet the right people. Anyone from Cincinnati?
Basically, you need to keep your options open. Women like guys with options. They view competition for a guy they like completely different from how men view competition for the girl.
Needed to hear that intro today, was about to send a message to a woman I'm interested in saying bye bc she didn't reply in my timeframe. Nah I'll just leave it and walk away, if she wants to talk to me she has my number if not i know her answer
lol you got way too in to the whip cream, strawberry, dessert scenario
Girls shouldn't make you feel weak but strong and more confident.
So damn true, great video. Well said Corey!!
Wtf. If someone cheats then just... Dude, thsr people is like death to me. Hate cheating with all my heart.
Agreed cheating is fucking horrible
Look, I just want to point out that 90% of advice given from this channel is solid. It pertains to the facts and keeps everything blunt and straight to the point, which is good.
Having said said, the comments made about 'oh, you have a bf but let's hook up anyways' is horsecrap (and I've seen this on other channels too).
To me, doing this only conditions the female mind into thinking that when things are tough or just not working out, they can F the next guy to feel good about themselves (basically, having her cake and eating it) *NO, THIS IS COMPLETELY WRONG AND CONSTITUTES AS INFIDELITY* Think about it, if in the case you do end up dating her (i.e. she broke up with her ex), then 9/10 she'll f*** someone behind your back too!
Perhaps, just accepting that she has a partner and walking away is the best option. Don't give her any satisfaction and certainly don't linger as this will come across as needy. If you're already friends and have a close relationship to begin with, let her know that you want to do things the 'honest and respectful' way (if she also wants to be with you)
I think we all need to stop objectifying the opposite sex like they're a plastic 'one time use' toy ready to be disposed. If you really cared about the other person, you'd make an effort to take a holistic approach to the relationship.
*Sterotype men all you want, but many of us CAN keep it in our pants - and if you can't, go learn some self discipline* F***ing disgraceful that honesty and respect is a joke to some in our society.
Men should respect other men regardless of their sexual needs. What goes around, comes around. One day it's gonna be your turn bro. So guys, please man up and don't encourage those bitches into infidelity.
I was doing the same so 🤷🏽♂️
Coach ..you said walk this way...i love aerosmith
Advice needed please ---- Have this girl woh I was texting and hooking up with. Suddenly she has given me the just friends "vibe". she sent me whats app messages I couldn't get because I deleted whatapp by mistake I texted her last night "Deleted whatsapp by mistake . You okay ?" to which I get zero response. I know she has been active since on whatsapp and not said two words to me. Do I
A. Initiate contact ?
B. Leave her to come back by saying nothing at all to her (As Coach says let her come to you)
C. Tell her that I do not appreciate the lack of effort she is giving me
D. Text her and try to set the next date?
Ps Coach I love your work and am on the 5th dissect of your book. As I'm dislexic I find it hard to read your book so I take it piece by piece over and over but it has helped me so much.
I wouldn't take a woman back who leaves me for another guy. Hell no!
this is just what I needed to hear thank you, coach!
Corey got all the game
My god, this is exactly how I feel right now
This shit spoke to me... My last 2 relationships summed up this whole fucking video.
HI COACH,
MY NAME IS RAZA,
I'M 18 JUST FINISHED HIGHSCHOOL, I HAD A CRUSH ON THIS ONE GIRL SINCE THE LAST TWO YEARS AND I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, I DONT KNOW HER VERY WELL BUT SHE ACKNOWLEDGES MY EXISTENCE, SHE GIVES A COUPLE OF GLIMPSES AT SCHOOL, IN THE HALLWAYS SHE WILL STARE WITH HER FRIENDS AT ME.
I ONLY TALKED TO HER ONCE AND THAT WAS ABOUT SOMEONE SHE KNEW AND THAT GOT HER CREEPED OUT A LIL,
I HAVE A HOUSE PARTY PLANNED IN THE SUMMER AND I AM INVITING ONLY PEOPLE I KNOW INCLUDING HER, HER FREINDS AND OUR COMMON FRIENDS
IM NOT SURE IF SHE KNOWS THAT IM INTO HER BUT ALOT OF HER FRIENDS KNOW AND ITS SPREADING LIKE WILDFIRE. I WANT TO HOOK UP WITH HER AT MY HOUSE PARTY AND GET HER TO WANT ME AND LIKE ME BACK FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
IM DEPENDING ON YOUR RESPONSE AS AN EXPERT HOOKUP GURU
Bro chill with caps
I wish i learnt this way younger
I just left my girlfriend (I finished her) because at the start she said she wanted children with me over the past couple weeks shes been saying she no longer wants them or me to move in with her which she also stated that I could, so I said give me a call if you change your mind and that I love her, we've been together for 3 years
"Love.... is a flower........ ya gotta let it, ya gotta let it grow!"
"but keep on playin those mind.... games...... forrrrrrrrever"
"I want you to maaaake love..... not war....... I know...... you've heard it before"
- John Lennon - "Mind Games"
You should always hide your feelings at times like this. Women like emotional men sometimes but I don't think that people in general will want to be with someone who's an emotional wreck. Never let her see you bleed.
Corey your videos have helped me tremendously!
Need some examples of way to walk away....ie what is best way to walk away ? Go cold turkey w no contact? or talk to her first, clarify what you want and that you don't want to be friends and then walk away ? Or, if this is covered in another video, please direct me to that video Corey. Thanks
The whole point of a relationship is emotional connection
Dude you are amazing man ! Seen few of your videos and really like ur advise.
this video is sooo fucking true. i know from experience. fucking believe every word corey says in this video. no fucking joke
are you writing the second edition of your book? if so when do you intend for it to be released?
It's not a challenge if everytime she hits u up you ask her out again....
I've agreed to be friends with this chick for so long I fear that maybe it's too late for me. I've told her before I didn't want to be friends but I always came back. This was before I read the book. I eased back in the friendship and she started coming to me more. I thought she was wanting me again. She rejected my advances on a date one night still though. Said she didn't want a relationship and why can't you just be a my friend. Told her I couldn't do it. I hope she comes back for me but I'll be ok either way...some day
Did she comeback ?
Gerardo Yepez Been like 3 weeks and nothing. Could be days, could be weeks, could be months. Maybe the damage was already done and I never really had a chance of getting her back. Still hurts not having her in my life but it hurt a hell lot more just being her friend. Even if the girl doesnt come back at least I left with some dignity.
+George Papz Not sure how to send messages on youtube but yeah it'd be a few days over 2 months today and it kinda sucks. I mean some days are better than others. Sometimes I'm glad and sometimes I just fucking wish she'd call me even just to say hello. Pathetic, I know. But then again I should be dating other girls (there is one girl but she's complicated and upstate in school right now) but I've just been hitting the gym 3-4 days a week and trying to get everything else together first. I tried getting back with this chick for so long I lost my mind a little. At least I'm glad I was finally able to walk away this time and mean it. As badly as I just wanna talk to her again I know it ain't worth it if she ain't the first one this time. Not much you can do but just live life and focus on other areas, right? I like to think that if she never comes back one day I'll be in such a good place in life I know she'll deeply regret that she didn't and that it'd be too late even if she wanted to. But who knows? She still might come back someday or never. After all the years we knew each other, how similar we are, how much I loved her, all those times I cared and stayed when no one else did... I feel like she'd be an idiot not to. All those times she said I was the greatest guy she'd ever known, or this is the sweetest thing anyone has ever done to me and so on. It can't all be bullshit, right? It had to of meant something. But she's a stubborn and prideful one. I think about it a lot but I try really hard not to dwell on it. Some days are easier than others....Sometimes I just wonder if she even cares or misses me...or is she just too busy being hot and getting hit on and dating other guys to give a shit. Or maybe a mixture of both. I wouldn't really know. lol oh well....How you handling it? how long has it been for you?
***** thanks for listening to my rant. Not really anyone I can talk to this about or know what it's like. When you cut her off did you at least tell her to only contact you only if she wants to be with you or try again? I feel like that's essential but it doesn't mean she still wont come back. I mean do you want her to? or do you genuinely just want her gone? And yeah girls are weird. This chick for me is the type of girl that's like "I want a guy like this, I want a guy like that!" and she is literally describing me but yet she don't want me. Lol ok. I know what you mean about the attraction thing.
Some girls I see like oh she's hot but when ever I think of pursuing a relationship with anyone else I get sick or discouraged. Like what's the point? I hate having to get to know someone all over again. Especially when they always seem to fall apart or it was a waste in the end. The girl I want back for so long doesnt want me...makes me feel like If I'm not good enough for her I'm not good enough for any girl. I felt like this chick was worth working for despite the past.
How did she take you not wanting to talk to her anymore? Shit was so painful when I did it. Worst of all it was in public at a train station too. It was like we were breaking up and we were just there trying not to cry. I kinda regret not appreciating that last hug more. Also it stinks to think that might be the last memory of her. Wish I gave her a kiss on the forehead before she left. Also wanna hear a strange thing? A part of me feels like even if we got back together it probably wouldn't last but I can't help but want to try anyway. Yeah, it would end but it'd be a hell of a ride. Like a wild fire. Idk just something about her I can't deny. But yeah if other girls don't work you gotta find other things. Im kinda the same way so working out and going out and stuff helps. I actually blew off one girl like an idiot cause I felt so down. fail. Video games and gym has been my go to escape.
+George Papz Damn that crazy. We are a lot alike. Do you find yourself still looking her up or checking on her secretly? I go crazy checking in on her stuff. Idk how to control it. Or looking at pics I have of her and fantasizing how nice it was, how good she smelled, how great she tasted and all that jazz.No one else seems to compare. Really fucking hard not to get off to any other girl without imaging it being her in my head. It's hard. If only I could stop checking in on her sites I would be able to move on easily. But when ever I wonder about her I get crippling anxiety and only checking in on her social networks calm me. It's bad. I wish I could fucking control it. Talking about it right now is giving me the anxiety to look.
I'm fucking addicted. Sometimes I see something I don't wanna see and I'm like "fuck it, glad she's gone." then the next day I'm missing her all over again wishing I knew exactly what she was up to or how she was feeling. But as bad I feel now I think I was a hell lot worse and depressed when I was just her friend. Good lord being just that hurt so damn much. How can a girl expect one to be her everything to just some lame ass friend? I mean yeah, I like being her friend. She's great and we get along great but everytime I see her I'm good god I need you so bad in arms tonight all night long. She was a goddess to me. No other girl made me feel as special. I think that's why it's so hard to move on too...
thanks a lot this helped me so much to open my eyes in a way I never thought about it...
CW I stepped in it again but I am pulling out of it. Email coming with updates and again thank you for your help.
Great video, I guess I'll ask this.
How does a man move things along with a women he likes, without being too attached and while giving them space?.
He starts to like other women too
I've confirmed that 💯 of what he says is true but I always mess up on the contact after the first date and texting continuously until the whole thing just fizzles off I really need to listen to 3 percent man to drill that part in. It how things are but I'll admit it's still shitty that showing someone genuine interest is a turn off while being ambiguous and unclear has them throwing their panties your way 🤣 what a shitty world but hey play by the rules laid down fam and stay strong
At that point it’s more on the other person than you! Some people, however attractive they might be, just have no personality or emotion when talking to them. It definitely helps to keep most of the talking outside of texting, but you’ll always run into people who aren’t for you
It didn't work for me, I guess he wasn't in love with me in the first place :(
Gimnastique update? :(
Bottle of wine!