Be mysterious = going slow Make your feelings unclear = having self-control Have her do the contacting = bonding Being unpredictable = building anticipation
I got rejected for a date by a co-worker, and turned down a friend-zone offer. I went on with life and didn't chase her. I was myself with other co-workers and gave her space. Laughing, having fun, being myself. Three weeks or so later, she came up to me on break, saying she feels I've been avoiding her. We chatted and made eye contact and laughed, and she was gushing with happiness. She then asked ME out.
exactly the thing that gets me sick and tired of it-initially a woman showing interest-you ask her on a date you get rejected and now she says youre avoiding her-doesnt that make us change our mindset that women are not serious about wanting men?
I had this same exact situation happen. I asked her out and she turned me down. So i said ok. Acted like it didn't bother me. Then i took away my attention. I made sure not to initiate any conversations. At 1st she didn't but then started talking to me and trying to joke around. Then she started telling me things like my beard looks nice and slightly bumping into me lol. Women are funny creatures
About 10% of my audience is women and they are using this stuff on men with great results also. I just want people to be happy and am grateful my life experiences can help someone avoid the pain I've gone thru in my own life.
Your book is fantastic, it's really helped me bring back my masculine side and feel better about how I carry myself and see relationships, I also got way of the superior man because you reccomended it and it's phenominal. Thanks for your work Corey, one thing I still am unclear on from your work and davids is how do I find what % of masculine polarity I naturally have? If i play a strong masculine role, when naturally I could have a more balanced role, I could end up pushing away a more balanced woman who we would fit, it's hard to define how my own polarity is, whether the feminine in me is just weakness masking as feminine, and if the masculine side is just following the teachings of the book.
Coach Corey Wayne texting and messaging is how my ex and I first got together. It works with her but def not going to work now that we broke up but hoping to get things like that back because she enjoys it. She likes to get to know people from a distance but it’s hard for me to do it and get her back when we are still living together. We got sorta close again but she backed off because I was that pushy, sappy guy. Now I’m giving her space and not going to her. Started the gym. Started meeting new friends and not showing her much of anything because she’s been distant for 2 weeks after I had a talk with her about getting over her nonsense before we can be friends like she wanted. We were flowing until then. But I’m doing me now and hopefully it works
my fellow introverts just make sure that you get into as many hobbies as possible. Ignoring women and other external stimulation even more chasing things brings unnecessary negativity I your life
Original comment was 7 years ago. 1st reply. 2nd reply and 3rd reply. These are literally 3 different generations of mindsets. Way of man needs to come back or it will die iut.
Having your own hobbies is great. But ignoring women will make you bad with them. We weren’t made to be alone in this world but for companionship. Talking to women makes you good with women even if you are bad at it. It sharpens your skill Chasing and initiating interest are very different. What you just said sounds like you just gave up. That’s not what anyone should do and that’s not what Cory Wayne teaches. Women can be great once you understand them, but you will never understand if you ignore.
@@cheosaelee2083 if she cheats it’s a reflection of her, not yours. A healthy, mature woman will communicate if she wants more of your time, or if you’re doing something she doesn’t like.
It’s so hard to forget about someone you once cared about. She’s been distant, so I’ve backed off. If she wants to talk to me she will. Either way it’s her loss
Yep, I rather just be a magnet to women instead of chasing after them seeming desperate. I know I'm a great man and I only wanna spend my energy on those that want me.
I’ve noticed this too. When I’m on “the hunt” so to speak, I never find what I’m looking for. Instead, I’ve had better luck just going about my life, being social and being in public places, and approaching when signals are given. It’s much better than the pick up, prowling approach.
Robert Eric Wimer one can do both: its all in the delivery. There are times when sitting around waiting for something “to happen” or a “signal” can be very unproductive. Most guys are clueless about non verbal signals anyways. Be bold, make a move. Studies show that women size men up in just minutes, so not a huge investment. However, most guys are easily strung along.
Women prefer to chase a man who knows what he's doing and makes them feel safe and comfortable enough to reach out and pursue him more as their interest in him grows. If you don't make women feel safe and comfortable they won't chase or pursue you no matter what their level of self esteem is.
The problem most men have is they chase too much to the point of acting like a stalker. I teach them how to overcome their needy tendencies so they can act like a normal centered man. I don't know where you get that men aren't supposed to act. That's not what I teach. Men must take action. However, the more a woman loves a man, the more of his attention and presence she will want. That is why she starts to pursue and invest more in the relationship over time.
Coach Corey Wayne Guess what, just got home from date 2, was over at her house as she was tired and didn’t fancy going out. So after a talking over a drink, making her laugh and being my chilled natural self... next thing we are on the sofa making out & 5 minutes later naked in her bed! We had foreplay but no sex. Her choice, but totally cool with it. So that’s 2 dates I’ve in 3/4 weeks I’ve arranged / asked her. I sent her a text said I had a great time, usual jokey message between us. I guess I’ll ask her that one more time for date 3 when she’s free, which she’s keen for as I’ve suggested a great fun idea.
A woman that I'm really into has been distant the last couple of weeks. I decided to go no contact and really didn't expect her to contact me ever again. She messaged me while I was watching this video! "I was shocked!...shocked I tell you!" (Corey Wayne voice)Can't make this shit up! Lol Thanks C.C.W!
When the woman actually likes you than you are going to know pretty quickly. There is no questioning about it. Woman don't waste no time when they see a guy they are in to. My best results have always been when the woman came to me first. The few times I've made the first move I got ghosted friendzoned or strung along. I ended up being just another thirsty beta male orbiter in her long list. If you find yourself waiting and waiting for a woman that your interested in to finally give you the time of day than chances are she ain't in to you and you need to move on and stop wasting your time cause that isn't going to benefit you at all. Most woman have a line of guys constantly hitting them up everywhere they go. With unlimited options this causes them to be much more picky. So when she sees a guy she actually likes and he isn't chasing her she is going to chase after that guy like a cheetah. This is why from now on I like to be that standout guy that hangs back and let's the women come to me. It is so much sweeter when they chase you cause you don't have to question wether or not they like you cause they show you constantly that they do. It takes alot of patience to be this way but it is so worth it in the end when that lady comes
Haha i used to have that little devil on my shoulder telling me to call her , chase her and act weak and needy . Now on my other shoulder I've got a little Coach Corey Wayne saying ' c'mon man!' , ' wrong way to go dude ' When I'm about to mess up. Thanks coach for your great book and great videos . I'm a student of your teachings and although I'm not there yet I'm working hard to become a 3% man !
It finally makes sense after all these years!! Back in hs I knew this older cook who used to be a pimp, showed me photo albums of all his women. I asked him what's the secret to getting girls. He said, "let the ladies come to you". I've spent a lifetime trying to figure out wtf he meant. Thanks coach!
That is true, but there has to be a reason for them to come to you. Either emotional / sexual attachment, or some other reason. Thus attraction or attachment is required before they come to you. The bee and the flower...
it makes sense to me now. girls see a guy think hes cute. but they take time to see how he is first BEFORE they get all googleyed. but men get googleyed the mintue they see her. why it's important to take your time. your the vaulable one.
@@ps3Rambo21 I think it's because they find are attracted visually and quickly, but most women are attracted when there is a connection. For example, I saw this really cute girl around another department at work and would always look at her. She showed zero attraction to me. But after she started working nearer to my area she talked to me, and from then, she is very attracted. However, I don't mess with co workers...
I’m an advocate for rights for all people and I don’t keep quiet when someone’s humanity is being disrespected. With that being said, letting a Woman pursue you more than you pursue her, actually creates a situation where the Woman is choosing over and over to pursue you. Which is great. That’s a situation where you’re actually giving the Woman space to decide what she wants over and over. It would be misogynistic if you taught cats to never take no for an answer and to wear a Woman down until she’s willing to go out with you, but you teach the opposite. The methods you teach actually make sure that Women have a great deal of agency when it comes to wanting to be with a man or not. And you teach men to accept themselves in a way that makes them chill back when they’re rejected. You might be blunt sometimes but overall your teachings are so much healthier than most cats out here teaching “pickup” Respect and appreciation
Your writing got me to score with a girl this week that everybody was pining for at work. Everybody approached her and displayed beta behavior. I kept my distance, cool and composure, not even really all that interested and she rejected 3 guys in front of me and came over and asked for my phone number by herself. All them needy guys were wanting to set up dates with her asap and she blew them all off and yesterday she invited me over to her pad and we hooked up. Without me doing nothing more than giving space, not being needy and basically ignoring her. Thanks so much, Coach. You have a loyal follower here. 🔥
The opening part of this video is so true. I was dating a gorgeous woman about 8-9 years ago but was rapidly coming unglued in the early stages...too many texts etc. As Corey says if a girl likes you she will help you...at one stage this girl text me basically saying "stop this..slow down...its ok"...sadly I was too in awe to treat her and the situation like I would if I were dating someone I didnt have as strong feelings for and ultimately I kept blowing it until I got the brush off...even after we ended up in bed I just couldnt be myself and relax...a chastening but learning experience...I just didnt realise at the time that the reason she was giving me enough chances was because she fucking liked me!
Girls that are pretty ofc but also u got to be good looking and have drip because that’s the first thing they see when a girl comes up to u in a party bc it shows u don’t care ab her and she gives u her attention
Thanks Mr. Wayne, you have changed my life for the better. So much peace and confidence has entered my life. I have read your book 14 times and have options with women now. Thank you again sir.
So it's a competition between men and women to see who will do the chasing and who will sit back and be the chased. Whoever is being chased is the winner and in control.
Dude this is sooooo true! Ive used this accidentally so many times!!! Most of all, its confidence and leaving them wanting more, not crazy or subtle pursuing.
After watching several hundred of Corey's videos and reading his book several times, this is his best video. While he teaches many important aspects of relationships, in my opinion, this is one of the most relevant/ important pieces of information he teaches. Thank you Coach.
Corey Wayne you got the game! I'm at the point right now where I can look at every interaction I have with a woman as a success because in every interaction we have with women, we can critique what we should and shouldn't do.
Sounds similar to fishing on the lake. If you go in splashing trying to catch the fish they swim away. However if you throw out the bait and wait they'll eventually get hungry and take the bait themselves.
A woman's game begins and ends the moment she walks in the wall. They are so pissed off with PUA stuff as we are learning how to play the game they've been playing since the beginning of human history.
you gotta remember though a real connection should be effortless if you are trying to or not trying to do something if might get you layd but in the long run your gonna be unhappy a girl has to like you for who you are if your the type of person who needs lots of attention and likes to go after the girl then find a girl that is the same way and maybe doesn't have lots of friends so she has more time for you
- You got this little devil on your shoulder, that's telling you "Awwww go ahead, call her....do this do that.." Lol so damn true!Coach, I love how you hit ALL the points! It's like you're saying "Yes, I'm talking to YOU Marcus" hahaha XD
I think that Corey Wayne might have a point. When I was a teenager and then a 20-something I pursued women and experienced nothing other than rejection. About age 30 I took the decision to walk away from women. I went MGTOW before there was a name for it. Not long after that decision I found that women began to hit on me, sometimes in ways that were as subtle as a brick through a window. These days it seems that I cannot go to any sort of event without women going out of their way to speak with me. Two weeks ago, during a political meeting, one straight up asked for my mobile telephone number and email address. In contrast to my 20-something self, I am not interested. It seems that the less interested that I am, the harder that women as a group try.
Here’s some good advice for you young men struggling: First of all, it is essential for you to have a definition of yourself (qualities that matter to you) that you respect, without question. Then once that’s established, it won’t be necessary for you to care what others think about you, just believe in your respected definition.⬆️ Staying busy is the key, no time for nonsense. Even if you aren’t, act like it, for it will keep your paths straight. Amen.
I'm 26 years old, most women say I'm good looking. I'm extremely shy and most of my life I've had very low self esteem. I've been reading and following Corey's material for 3 weeks now and already I'm feeling happier about myself. When I was 19 and a virgin, I tried it on with a girl in a club. I gave up as I thought she wasn't interested. 2 mins went by and she tapped me on the shoulder and just laid into me. It was the hottest moment I've ever had. Only now I realise why.
This is what we're told _not_ to do, for some reason. Maybe that's why there are so many incels and "nice guys." Because we're told everything besides what we should know.
Out of all the videos Wayne has made, this one is the most important. You can’t understand anything else he teaches if you don’t get this core principle.
The most powerful tool the male species has in terms of dating is the power to walk away; courting is a highly dynamic interaction, and the ability to engage and then retreat is highly effective. However, once a relationship has been established, this strategy is no longer as vital.
11:00 - 11:58 is sage advice, life gets so much easier when you adopt this attitude. Go live your life while she makes up her mind and make inroads with other prospects every time you get a chance.
same here dude, messed up big time but luckily after that relationship and heartbreak, I have met a a new male friend who pretty much knows his stuff with women and how they manipulate. I have learned much from him and am basically for the last 8 months on a constant journey of self discovery and learning. Perhaps I still feel sometimes it is sad and feel the urge to be that old, nice guy but you just cannot go against reality. Better to shape up than to slip out.
Everything you say in these videos makes sense. The question I have is, when does it become "safe" to express how you feel to a woman? Because the last three have stopped being interested once I've done this. I love communicating feelings, so it's boring for me not to be able to tell a woman how I feel. 20 years ago, I never had this problem. My kid's mom and I had a great relationship, and none of this shit was an issue. Now, I can't get past 6 months.
This is 110% the truth. When I read this in the book I realized that I had been doing right years ago, but subconsciously fell into behaving like a soy boy beta male and was getting no where. Once I dumped that silly behavior, women started showing interest real quick. 3% man is the best book out there and I keep it with me in my grip, always available to read.
Hi I'm listening too your book. I'm on the chapter 1st dates took everything in. This girl is unbelievably beautiful but I listen too you lean back act like your not interested aka cat attitude. I seen her non stop playing with her hair, shes touching me non stop. She was the 1st one who said let's have our next date more quieter aka mountain walking aka weekend away aka more 1 on 1. I left the her wanting more send her in a taxi wishing her good night etc. Best thing listening too your advice
Thanks Corey for all your videos. I purchased your book and now reading it for the 2nd time. Been dating a women for the past 6 weeks and happy to say, I'm now starting to see my mistakes. I have fouled up every step of the way. I'm actually surprised this girl is sticking around. One thing I do have down is letting her do the calling. I do reciprocate with the calls and texting "just a little", but I completely eff up in every other way. I lose it with my insecurity, neediness, too available, and fear. I can't believe how hard it is to NOT to do/feel this way and hope to hell I get it down fast. I'm so excited reading your book, especially when some of it comes to mind; can't wait to have this all in my head as 2nd nature. Thanks again :)
Just bought the audible, completely immersed and I have a bad case of a.d.d I knew from yt that It would be a great investment. You truly break it down in a way thats easily digested. Going to listen numerous times as u suggest. Youve already lifted alot of my anxiety just 15 chapters in. Thanks Corey your a godsend!!
Being a "gentleman" went out the window when woman received the right to vote. No I'm not hating... I'm saying that women preferred "gentleman" back when they relied on a man for their survival. Now a days women can survive on their own without a man so what does that say? Corey is exemplifying the core of men and women i.e. the bare bones of what opposite sexes are attracted too.
Man, I needed to hear this. I'm trying to break out of my old habits [the ones you alluded to, that you used to do] and keep getting that stupid urge to send some BS validation text to get her attention. I'm just going to play it cool, if girls want to go out they'll do what you said. Thanks!
Great advice for the average needy and insecure guy that's over pursuing , but I can tell you Corey that even before I found your work 2 yrs ago, I did this very thing for over 30 yrs. I didn't call them everyday, my feelings for them were "unclear" I gave them "space" , I already knew to be a challenge to them and I know there were probably other dynamics that caused my failure with them, i.e. low interest from them to begin with and yes I know you'll refer me back to the book, but I'm just telling you that not all of us guys act all needy and insecure and have a pleazer mentality,anyway still great advice.
ya some of us are just genuinely unattractve in general this behavior could be natural and we still get no where lol Ive always been the aloof mysterious guy because im introverted. Was always the do my own thing guy and never bought into peer pressure or did things just to fit in. Still 30 years and never had female attention. So there is correlation but not causation. You cant just act this way and that is the magic formula. It's not the ingredients but is the seasoning. the ingredients is having a baseline look the women desires if you don't have that nothing you do or don't do matters much ive noticed.
@@robertwormald1865 Unfortunately not lol. It's been a weird journey since. A lot of "hot and crazy". Met a woman I would have married this past year but she ghosted me for seemingly no reason after 5 months...Burned a group of mutual friends as well doing it. Taken some counselling for the first time since (tough to admit/do as a guy) but it was really helpful.
Thanks Corey. I've been watching your videos for the past month and come back to this one quite often. I've been on 2 dates so far with a women and find myself doing exactly this; being needy and impatient. I won't say much more as I need to purchase your book, read it at least a couple times then get in touch with you. For now, I'll try be the mountain and let nothing she say's or does (tests) phase me. Thanks so much for all your videos.
🗣GTD! GTD! Coach I scored last night after taking your advice. Long story short, I represented everything you spoke about that us guys do when we are really feeling a girl. And yes, she was completely turned off by that clinginess bullshit. So I step back and let her reach out to me first. It only took 3 times for that before she was at my house last night. The sex was great! Its been three months since our first two hookups and i couldn’t believe she was at my door last night willingly and ready!!!!! Thanks Coach! Now i’m off to your other videos so I can learn how to not mess this up... i want to married this woman!!! Lol
dont ignore her but dont demand, stalk or on purpose try to take up her time when those times are for sleep or work; respect her just like you would want someone to respect you...
ive always used this approach because of shyness and they end up making advances. then when I develop feelings and chase them it seems to push them away a little, then I say fuck it and there interested again.
To a huge extent this must be true. That must be why nice guys get dumped so much because the man is doing most of the work in the relationship. If a woman isn't forced to put some work into it and invest something into the relationship it means she doesn't appreciate or value the man. Apparently the woman will only appreciate the relationship when she puts something into it. If she's given everything, like the nice guy will do, she won't appreciate anything because she's just given everything without putting work into it. When you force her to come to you she's forced to work for the relationship and thus she will appreciate the man.
I justrecently discovered your videos coach and in combination with the books i read (philosphy etc) i started to notice a change in my mindset especially the video where you talk about a man should never apologize for his actions was inspiring. Keep up the good work
"Fuck that." I just love it when he says that responding to ordinal nonsense that females pull; which men blindly chew on and enthusiastically swallow. Rock on, man.
I thought I was privileged, having my two long term partners do all the chasing. Turns out they were "lovebombings" and they were both sociopaths. Now I'm MGTOW. I have no choice. I can't go through that again.
Funny thing is when you really like them, they really make you pay for it, this chick is so hot to look at her, body is amazing, so for that she doesn't think she should pay for anything, drink, dinner, it's always on me, 8 years of this, i had enough, i told her, why do you never offer me anything when we go out, she is upset because i asked her this, now tells me, ok i will leave you be, i said wow
Late to comment here but yes, this is invariably how it goes with the hot ones. I've learned that hotness doesn't always mean happiness, at least not for men. Some women ride it for all it's worth, those are the ones to avoid.
I’ve slowly and simply cut down contact w friend zoned woman I know. She’s now suddenly doing 90 percent of contact and her whole demeanor is different. All I can say now. Is the cake in oven? Hmm. I’m starting for the first time feeling power. OMG. She just texted goodnight to me before I could even spit this msg out. Lol Wow. Thx Cory this is too Funny. Her good mornings text are everyday now. 🙂 don’t worry. I’m playing it cool
Be mysterious = going slow
Make your feelings unclear = having self-control
Have her do the contacting = bonding
Being unpredictable = building anticipation
Perfectly said
Thank you! I agree, ☝🏼 perfectly said
I got rejected for a date by a co-worker, and turned down a friend-zone offer. I went on with life and didn't chase her. I was myself with other co-workers and gave her space. Laughing, having fun, being myself. Three weeks or so later, she came up to me on break, saying she feels I've been avoiding her. We chatted and made eye contact and laughed, and she was gushing with happiness. She then asked ME out.
funny how that works. scarcity creates value
exactly the thing that gets me sick and tired of it-initially a woman showing interest-you ask her on a date you get rejected and now she says youre avoiding her-doesnt that make us change our mindset that women are not serious about wanting men?
@@VoiceOfThe did you creampie her? Leave her with a lil gift lol
I had this same exact situation happen. I asked her out and she turned me down. So i said ok. Acted like it didn't bother me. Then i took away my attention. I made sure not to initiate any conversations. At 1st she didn't but then started talking to me and trying to joke around. Then she started telling me things like my beard looks nice and slightly bumping into me lol. Women are funny creatures
My man!!! Great to hear that 👍
About 10% of my audience is women and they are using this stuff on men with great results also. I just want people to be happy and am grateful my life experiences can help someone avoid the pain I've gone thru in my own life.
Your book is fantastic, it's really helped me bring back my masculine side and feel better about how I carry myself and see relationships, I also got way of the superior man because you reccomended it and it's phenominal.
Thanks for your work Corey, one thing I still am unclear on from your work and davids is how do I find what % of masculine polarity I naturally have?
If i play a strong masculine role, when naturally I could have a more balanced role, I could end up pushing away a more balanced woman who we would fit, it's hard to define how my own polarity is, whether the feminine in me is just weakness masking as feminine, and if the masculine side is just following the teachings of the book.
Thank you for sharing brother
Gr morocco
8 years ago and it's still relevant
So how does that work? She's not chasing him and he's not chasing her?
thank you 🙂 x
The phone/texting/messaging is for setting dates only. Not flirting or chit chat.
breh! my favorite video so far. the more women you have to pursue, the less important the one's who aren't interested become.
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What if you are long distance?
What about when you live far from eachother? good video!
Coach Corey Wayne texting and messaging is how my ex and I first got together. It works with her but def not going to work now that we broke up but hoping to get things like that back because she enjoys it. She likes to get to know people from a distance but it’s hard for me to do it and get her back when we are still living together. We got sorta close again but she backed off because I was that pushy, sappy guy. Now I’m giving her space and not going to her. Started the gym. Started meeting new friends and not showing her much of anything because she’s been distant for 2 weeks after I had a talk with her about getting over her nonsense before we can be friends like she wanted. We were flowing until then. But I’m doing me now and hopefully it works
my fellow introverts just make sure that you get into as many hobbies as possible. Ignoring women and other external stimulation even more chasing things brings unnecessary negativity I your life
good advice thanks
I'll have to seriously think about that.
Original comment was 7 years ago. 1st reply. 2nd reply and 3rd reply. These are literally 3 different generations of mindsets. Way of man needs to come back or it will die iut.
Having your own hobbies is great. But ignoring women will make you bad with them. We weren’t made to be alone in this world but for companionship. Talking to women makes you good with women even if you are bad at it. It sharpens your skill
Chasing and initiating interest are very different. What you just said sounds like you just gave up. That’s not what anyone should do and that’s not what Cory Wayne teaches. Women can be great once you understand them, but you will never understand if you ignore.
Well said sir, it’s about getting on their wavelength and finding out what they really want.
I love what you said here ...Girls want a guy that will give them space so they are comfortable and can come to you
Give them space so they can go cheat?
Michael Gutilla after the guy has set the first 3 dates though
Cheo Saelee I think he's referring the first few dates, not the relationship itself
Cheo Saelee if she’s not your girlfriend then she can do what she wants
@@cheosaelee2083 if she cheats it’s a reflection of her, not yours. A healthy, mature woman will communicate if she wants more of your time, or if you’re doing something she doesn’t like.
It’s so hard to forget about someone you once cared about. She’s been distant, so I’ve backed off. If she wants to talk to me she will. Either way it’s her loss
It's much easier when you are spending time doing what you enjoy.
Me too
Axel Salinas she has moved on homey. Do the same
Did she ever reach out?
I’m feeling you bro. I’ve been there!
Yep, I rather just be a magnet to women instead of chasing after them seeming desperate. I know I'm a great man and I only wanna spend my energy on those that want me.
@@jackassfat Men that use beauty products draw in woman which woman isn't interested in there appearance?.
I’ve noticed this too. When I’m on “the hunt” so to speak, I never find what I’m looking for. Instead, I’ve had better luck just going about my life, being social and being in public places, and approaching when signals are given. It’s much better than the pick up, prowling approach.
Robert Eric Wimer one can do both: its all in the delivery. There are times when sitting around waiting for something “to happen” or a “signal” can be very unproductive. Most guys are clueless about non verbal signals anyways. Be bold, make a move. Studies show that women size men up in just minutes, so not a huge investment. However, most guys are easily strung along.
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Women prefer to chase a man who knows what he's doing and makes them feel safe and comfortable enough to reach out and pursue him more as their interest in him grows. If you don't make women feel safe and comfortable they won't chase or pursue you no matter what their level of self esteem is.
The problem most men have is they chase too much to the point of acting like a stalker. I teach them how to overcome their needy tendencies so they can act like a normal centered man. I don't know where you get that men aren't supposed to act. That's not what I teach. Men must take action. However, the more a woman loves a man, the more of his attention and presence she will want. That is why she starts to pursue and invest more in the relationship over time.
Coach Corey Wayne Guess what, just got home from date 2, was over at her house as she was tired and didn’t fancy going out.
So after a talking over a drink, making her laugh and being my chilled natural self... next thing we are on the sofa making out & 5 minutes later naked in her bed!
We had foreplay but no sex. Her choice, but totally cool with it.
So that’s 2 dates I’ve in 3/4 weeks I’ve arranged / asked her.
I sent her a text said I had a great time, usual jokey message between us.
I guess I’ll ask her that one more time for date 3 when she’s free, which she’s keen for as I’ve suggested a great fun idea.
A woman that I'm really into has been distant the last couple of weeks. I decided to go no contact and really didn't expect her to contact me ever again. She messaged me while I was watching this video! "I was shocked!...shocked I tell you!" (Corey Wayne voice)Can't make this shit up! Lol
Thanks C.C.W!
My red pill journey started here on this channel
This is definitely breaking the matrix
R u AMS student too?
Adhyantoro Kusumo most definitely
What does red pill mean
@@Clnt874 Watch the scene in the matrix red pill blue pill
When the woman actually likes you than you are going to know pretty quickly. There is no questioning about it. Woman don't waste no time when they see a guy they are in to. My best results have always been when the woman came to me first. The few times I've made the first move I got ghosted friendzoned or strung along. I ended up being just another thirsty beta male orbiter in her long list. If you find yourself waiting and waiting for a woman that your interested in to finally give you the time of day than chances are she ain't in to you and you need to move on and stop wasting your time cause that isn't going to benefit you at all. Most woman have a line of guys constantly hitting them up everywhere they go. With unlimited options this causes them to be much more picky. So when she sees a guy she actually likes and he isn't chasing her she is going to chase after that guy like a cheetah. This is why from now on I like to be that standout guy that hangs back and let's the women come to me. It is so much sweeter when they chase you cause you don't have to question wether or not they like you cause they show you constantly that they do. It takes alot of patience to be this way but it is so worth it in the end when that lady comes
It's the only way.
I really hate the early stages of a relationship when you’re into them and you don’t know if they like you.
And they work 7 days a week!
I have done it too many times. Try to force things. Not anymore.
Thanks Corey.
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Haha i used to have that little devil on my shoulder telling me to call her , chase her and act weak and needy . Now on my other shoulder I've got a little Coach Corey Wayne saying ' c'mon man!' , ' wrong way to go dude ' When I'm about to mess up. Thanks coach for your great book and great videos . I'm a student of your teachings and although I'm not there yet I'm working hard to become a 3% man !
Surely if you just meet someone,
your going to want to ask questions?
It finally makes sense after all these years!!
Back in hs I knew this older cook who used to be a pimp, showed me photo albums of all his women. I asked him what's the secret to getting girls. He said, "let the ladies come to you". I've spent a lifetime trying to figure out wtf he meant. Thanks coach!
That is true, but there has to be a reason for them to come to you. Either emotional / sexual attachment, or some other reason. Thus attraction or attachment is required before they come to you. The bee and the flower...
U a be waiting a lifetime lol
Keep yourself fit, smell fresh, keep your haircut sharp and wear smart clothes. (Shirt & Collar) and act like James Bond but not Roger Moore!
it makes sense to me now. girls see a guy think hes cute. but they take time to see how he is first BEFORE they get all googleyed. but men get googleyed the mintue they see her. why it's important to take your time. your the vaulable one.
so true. probably because men have a stronger sexual desire.
@@ps3Rambo21 I think it's because they find are attracted visually and quickly, but most women are attracted when there is a connection.
For example, I saw this really cute girl around another department at work and would always look at her. She showed zero attraction to me. But after she started working nearer to my area she talked to me, and from then, she is very attracted.
However, I don't mess with co workers...
No true, you’d be surprised at how many women sleep with men on the first date
@@kdubb11 4 out of the last 5 girls ive slept with on the first date. the other one was the second date.
Rambo21 facts!
I’m an advocate for rights for all people and I don’t keep quiet when someone’s humanity is being disrespected.
With that being said, letting a Woman pursue you more than you pursue her, actually creates a situation where the Woman is choosing over and over to pursue you. Which is great. That’s a situation where you’re actually giving the Woman space to decide what she wants over and over. It would be misogynistic if you taught cats to never take no for an answer and to wear a Woman down until she’s willing to go out with you, but you teach the opposite.
The methods you teach actually make sure that Women have a great deal of agency when it comes to wanting to be with a man or not.
And you teach men to accept themselves in a way that makes them chill back when they’re rejected.
You might be blunt sometimes but overall your teachings are so much healthier than most cats out here teaching “pickup”
Respect and appreciation
Your writing got me to score with a girl this week that everybody was pining for at work. Everybody approached her and displayed beta behavior.
I kept my distance, cool and composure, not even really all that interested and she rejected 3 guys in front of me and came over and asked for my phone number by herself.
All them needy guys were wanting to set up dates with her asap and she blew them all off and yesterday she invited me over to her pad and we hooked up.
Without me doing nothing more than giving space, not being needy and basically ignoring her.
Thanks so much, Coach.
You have a loyal follower here. 🔥
You right this why my girlfriend isn't into me. I'm done chasing females and relationships
Hana u
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The opening part of this video is so true. I was dating a gorgeous woman about 8-9 years ago but was rapidly coming unglued in the early stages...too many texts etc. As Corey says if a girl likes you she will help you...at one stage this girl text me basically saying "stop this..slow down...its ok"...sadly I was too in awe to treat her and the situation like I would if I were dating someone I didnt have as strong feelings for and ultimately I kept blowing it until I got the brush off...even after we ended up in bed I just couldnt be myself and relax...a chastening but learning experience...I just didnt realise at the time that the reason she was giving me enough chances was because she fucking liked me!
Good story bro. 👍🏼
This actually so true, it’s absolutely insane how this works. When you try that’s when you push them away
Girls aren't going to come to me unless they see me with other girls it seems.
Yea get a model watch how she reacts
Pre selection is magic
Pussy attracts more pussy. Women love a man with a hot girl. It validates the man because it shows he has his shit together.
Thank God I'm not alone
Girls that are pretty ofc but also u got to be good looking and have drip because that’s the first thing they see when a girl comes up to u in a party bc it shows u don’t care ab her and she gives u her attention
Thanks Mr. Wayne, you have changed my life for the better. So much peace and confidence has entered my life. I have read your book 14 times and have options with women now. Thank you again sir.
Howard Davis so, what is the conclusion?
So it's a competition between men and women to see who will do the chasing and who will sit back and be the chased. Whoever is being chased is the winner and in control.
You got it 👍💯🚀😉
Dude this is sooooo true!
Ive used this accidentally so many times!!!
Most of all, its confidence and leaving them wanting more, not crazy or subtle pursuing.
After watching several hundred of Corey's videos and reading his book several times, this is his best video. While he teaches many important aspects of relationships, in my opinion, this is one of the most relevant/ important pieces of information he teaches. Thank you Coach.
Thank god for corey wayne teaching us nice guys the dark arts which don't come naturally to us.
I love how you've got a permanent smile
Usually they come to me.. and keep going right past because the man they want was standing behind me.
Tell them you had a .334 career batting average.
Lol
Corey Wayne you got the game! I'm at the point right now where I can look at every interaction I have with a woman as a success because in every interaction we have with women, we can critique what we should and shouldn't do.
Sounds similar to fishing on the lake. If you go in splashing trying to catch the fish they swim away. However if you throw out the bait and wait they'll eventually get hungry and take the bait themselves.
I can’t go, my parakeet has to return some video tapes.
Is this a cross between a Ross Jefferies and Patrick Bateman reference? "My parakeet is having an existential crisis"
This is your sign.
I didn’t text.
I clicked the video.
She texted.
I’m out though, ya dig.
A woman's game begins and ends the moment she walks in the wall. They are so pissed off with PUA stuff as we are learning how to play the game they've been playing since the beginning of human history.
you gotta remember though a real connection should be effortless if you are trying to or not trying to do something if might get you layd but in the long run your gonna be unhappy a girl has to like you for who you are if your the type of person who needs lots of attention and likes to go after the girl then find a girl that is the same way and maybe doesn't have lots of friends so she has more time for you
True that.
+Lance Louez that's what I'm thinking here haha, I'm purplexed by his comment
this dude good I know he's right cus a lot of these concepts I allready knew just from experience
Suave harris how old are you and what has been your experience?
I've known this for about 12 years I just never put it out there. Corey is is doing what should have been done decades ago.
- You got this little devil on your shoulder, that's telling you "Awwww go ahead, call her....do this do that.."
Lol so damn true!Coach, I love how you hit ALL the points! It's like you're saying "Yes, I'm talking to YOU Marcus" hahaha XD
Macus Frazier D it’s call the balance man. The little devil tell that you must call her, the angel tell that you must give her some space..
Marcus the thing is brother,it really is the devil telling you to do those things.
Hello fellow Marcus, how's it going?
@@marcusappelberg369
Doing good lad!
From one Marcus to another - cheers brotha
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@@marcusfrazier4923 Cheers brotha
I not spending A red cent on a woman that I just met!
Youre just playing youre banjo lol
Ibanez guitars unless ur rich
WalkingOnSunshineMan 😂
Ibanez guitars facts
My banjo is not a gold digger at least
I think that Corey Wayne might have a point.
When I was a teenager and then a 20-something I pursued women and experienced nothing other than rejection.
About age 30 I took the decision to walk away from women. I went MGTOW before there was a name for it.
Not long after that decision I found that women began to hit on me, sometimes in ways that were as subtle as a brick through a window.
These days it seems that I cannot go to any sort of event without women going out of their way to speak with me. Two weeks ago, during a political meeting, one straight up asked for my mobile telephone number and email address.
In contrast to my 20-something self, I am not interested. It seems that the less interested that I am, the harder that women as a group try.
Cully Schmetterling
used to do 50/50 pursuing, she left me for some other friend she told me not to worry about.
She belongs to the street don't worry...
She has no value bro
Good riddance haha prob a crazy chic
and here is the lesson...
believe what they DO,
not what they say
Here’s some good advice for you young men struggling:
First of all, it is essential for you to have a definition of yourself (qualities that matter to you) that you respect, without question.
Then once that’s established, it won’t be necessary for you to care what others think about you, just believe in your respected definition.⬆️
Staying busy is the key, no time for nonsense. Even if you aren’t, act like it, for it will keep your paths straight.
Amen.
I'm 26 years old, most women say I'm good looking. I'm extremely shy and most of my life I've had very low self esteem. I've been reading and following Corey's material for 3 weeks now and already I'm feeling happier about myself.
When I was 19 and a virgin, I tried it on with a girl in a club. I gave up as I thought she wasn't interested. 2 mins went by and she tapped me on the shoulder and just laid into me. It was the hottest moment I've ever had. Only now I realise why.
When you say “She laid into me” does that mean she beat you up?
There is another way, be rich, don't fall in love, don't be gentle, be careless, famous, a good player and a professional layer.
This is what we're told _not_ to do, for some reason. Maybe that's why there are so many incels and "nice guys." Because we're told everything besides what we should know.
Coach Corey Wayne, you are so right.
Out of all the videos Wayne has made, this one is the most important. You can’t understand anything else he teaches if you don’t get this core principle.
IT WORKS. It’s not a pick up trick, Corey teaches the fundamentals of what real women respond to
The most powerful tool the male species has in terms of dating is the power to walk away; courting is a highly dynamic interaction, and the ability to engage and then retreat is highly effective. However, once a relationship has been established, this strategy is no longer as vital.
11:00 - 11:58 is sage advice, life gets so much easier when you adopt this attitude. Go live your life while she makes up her mind and make inroads with other prospects every time you get a chance.
You speak so much truth its unreal
I love how calm and blunt this man is lmao. "I wanna know about her hw assignment. Fuck that" XD Awesome video man.
This is the most important of all Coreys teaching
same here dude, messed up big time but luckily after that relationship and heartbreak, I have met a a new male friend who pretty much knows his stuff with women and how they manipulate. I have learned much from him and am basically for the last 8 months on a constant journey of self discovery and learning. Perhaps I still feel sometimes it is sad and feel the urge to be that old, nice guy but you just cannot go against reality. Better to shape up than to slip out.
7:57 NEVER accept "maybe" dates
Well said, I'm in my 30s now and I don't have time for mind games!
Everything you say in these videos makes sense. The question I have is, when does it become "safe" to express how you feel to a woman? Because the last three have stopped being interested once I've done this. I love communicating feelings, so it's boring for me not to be able to tell a woman how I feel. 20 years ago, I never had this problem. My kid's mom and I had a great relationship, and none of this shit was an issue. Now, I can't get past 6 months.
Women don’t want to be your mommy or therapist.
This is 110% the truth. When I read this in the book I realized that I had been doing right years ago, but subconsciously fell into behaving like a soy boy beta male and was getting no where. Once I dumped that silly behavior, women started showing interest real quick. 3% man is the best book out there and I keep it with me in my grip, always available to read.
“My parakeet died” 😂😂. Never gets old.
What a coincidence, your also dead to me!
I get what you're saying. Women are emotional beings, men are sexual beings. Women should be the emotional pursuers and men the sexual pursuers
Hi I'm listening too your book.
I'm on the chapter 1st dates took everything in.
This girl is unbelievably beautiful but I listen too you lean back act like your not interested aka cat attitude. I seen her non stop playing with her hair, shes touching me non stop. She was the 1st one who said let's have our next date more quieter aka mountain walking aka weekend away aka more 1 on 1.
I left the her wanting more send her in a taxi wishing her good night etc. Best thing listening too your advice
I busted out laughing, when you said "fuck that"! lucky for me, I'm no longer a college student!
your a wizard Corey. great material.
Thanks Corey for all your videos. I purchased your book and now reading it for the 2nd time. Been dating a women for the past 6 weeks and happy to say, I'm now starting to see my mistakes. I have fouled up every step of the way. I'm actually surprised this girl is sticking around. One thing I do have down is letting her do the calling. I do reciprocate with the calls and texting "just a little", but I completely eff up in every other way. I lose it with my insecurity, neediness, too available, and fear. I can't believe how hard it is to NOT to do/feel this way and hope to hell I get it down fast. I'm so excited reading your book, especially when some of it comes to mind; can't wait to have this all in my head as 2nd nature. Thanks again :)
Its good to rewatch this. Its easy to get complacent and fall back into simp mode
Just bought the audible, completely immersed and I have a bad case of a.d.d
I knew from yt that It would be a great investment. You truly break it down in a way thats easily digested. Going to listen numerous times as u suggest. Youve already lifted alot of my anxiety just 15 chapters in.
Thanks Corey your a godsend!!
Being a "gentleman" went out the window when woman received the right to vote. No I'm not hating... I'm saying that women preferred "gentleman" back when they relied on a man for their survival. Now a days women can survive on their own without a man so what does that say? Corey is exemplifying the core of men and women i.e. the bare bones of what opposite sexes are attracted too.
Man this video keeps me grounded. It eats you inside to text her but this keeps me focused. Thanks coach
Man, I needed to hear this. I'm trying to break out of my old habits [the ones you alluded to, that you used to do] and keep getting that stupid urge to send some BS validation text to get her attention. I'm just going to play it cool, if girls want to go out they'll do what you said. Thanks!
Yeah man. It's so hard to play it cool when you're really into someone though..I keep slipping up, gotta improve. But I'm working on it!
Important women don`t need to percive you as an inherent catch. But you always have to known that you are one
that way you`ll always have power
Great advice for the average needy and insecure guy that's over pursuing , but I can tell you Corey that even before I found your work 2 yrs ago, I did this very thing for over 30 yrs. I didn't call them everyday, my feelings for them were "unclear" I gave them "space" , I already knew to be a challenge to them and I know there were probably other dynamics that caused my failure with them, i.e. low interest from them to begin with and yes I know you'll refer me back to the book, but I'm just telling you that not all of us guys act all needy and insecure and have a pleazer mentality,anyway still great advice.
ya some of us are just genuinely unattractve in general this behavior could be natural and we still get no where lol Ive always been the aloof mysterious guy because im introverted. Was always the do my own thing guy and never bought into peer pressure or did things just to fit in. Still 30 years and never had female attention. So there is correlation but not causation. You cant just act this way and that is the magic formula. It's not the ingredients but is the seasoning. the ingredients is having a baseline look the women desires if you don't have that nothing you do or don't do matters much ive noticed.
@@guitarman0365 than work on ways to make yourself more attractive. Stop with the excuses. Come on man
My problem now is when I pull away and she got back, I am not interested anymore.
I just lost a woman I had as putty in my hands because I went 50/50 with her. That's the last time it ever happens.
Matthew Blom 50/50 in terms of paying for dates?
Same bro. It's hard to realize when you come out the other side. Have you met someone better for you now?
@@robertwormald1865 Unfortunately not lol. It's been a weird journey since. A lot of "hot and crazy". Met a woman I would have married this past year but she ghosted me for seemingly no reason after 5 months...Burned a group of mutual friends as well doing it. Taken some counselling for the first time since (tough to admit/do as a guy) but it was really helpful.
"Women chases a man when he's a true player "😊😊😂😂
I chased one for months.found out she was a lesbian.
Currently doing same thing. Infatuation won't end
I once missed out on a stunner with chasing her too much. Still kick myself to this day.
JFC. All these goddamn rules. Feel like I'm in the House of Slytherin.
jackassfat I rather be a lonely alpha than be a beta cuck who’s wife is constantly cheating on him with alpha males
No kidding so complicated even for me.
You know you're on the right track when you are able to finish Corey's sentences before he does it. Do your homeworks, brothers!
Thanks Corey. I've been watching your videos for the past month and come back to this one quite often. I've been on 2 dates so far with a women and find myself doing exactly this; being needy and impatient. I won't say much more as I need to purchase your book, read it at least a couple times then get in touch with you. For now, I'll try be the mountain and let nothing she say's or does (tests) phase me. Thanks so much for all your videos.
🗣GTD! GTD! Coach I scored last night after taking your advice. Long story short, I represented everything you spoke about that us guys do when we are really feeling a girl. And yes, she was completely turned off by that clinginess bullshit. So I step back and let her reach out to me first. It only took 3 times for that before she was at my house last night. The sex was great! Its been three months since our first two hookups and i couldn’t believe she was at my door last night willingly and ready!!!!! Thanks Coach! Now i’m off to your other videos so I can learn how to not mess this up... i want to married this woman!!! Lol
dont ignore her but dont demand, stalk or on purpose try to take up her time when those times are for sleep or work; respect her just like you would want someone to respect you...
i feel lucky that I found ur videos im learning wish I woulda knew this with some past bitches... but aye.. better late then never right? ha
ive always used this approach because of shyness and they end up making advances. then when I develop feelings and chase them it seems to push them away a little, then I say fuck it and there interested again.
To a huge extent this must be true. That must be why nice guys get dumped so much because the man is doing most of the work in the relationship. If a woman isn't forced to put some work into it and invest something into the relationship it means she doesn't appreciate or value the man. Apparently the woman will only appreciate the relationship when she puts something into it. If she's given everything, like the nice guy will do, she won't appreciate anything because she's just given everything without putting work into it. When you force her to come to you she's forced to work for the relationship and thus she will appreciate the man.
Well said...
My new dating coach , thanks core. I know the point here is likely accurate.
I have your book but havent read it yet. I watch a lot of your videos and I know they're all real and truth because it feels good inside.
Thank you Correy! I recently purchased your book and I feel more confident just by starting to read it!
I justrecently discovered your videos coach and in combination with the books i read (philosphy etc) i started to notice a change in my mindset especially the video where you talk about a man should never apologize for his actions was inspiring. Keep up the good work
Your advice is spot on. I can attest to your techniques working wonders. Thanks Corey!
Loving say to wimminz when breaking up: i feel different now, im not in love! Or: its not you, its me!
"Fuck that."
I just love it when he says that responding to ordinal nonsense that females pull; which men blindly chew on and enthusiastically swallow. Rock on, man.
your a fucking god coach
A lot of great points. So many guys don't grasp a number of them. Thanks, Corey. Great info.
I thought I was privileged, having my two long term partners do all the chasing.
Turns out they were "lovebombings" and they were both sociopaths. Now I'm MGTOW. I have no choice. I can't go through that again.
one of your simplest and best lessons, Coach. Loyal subscriber since 2016. thx u for helping me achieve my highest potential
Funny thing is when you really like them, they really make you pay for it, this chick is so hot to look at her, body is amazing, so for that she doesn't think she should pay for anything, drink, dinner, it's always on me, 8 years of this, i had enough, i told her, why do you never offer me anything when we go out, she is upset because i asked her this, now tells me, ok i will leave you be, i said wow
Late to comment here but yes, this is invariably how it goes with the hot ones. I've learned that hotness doesn't always mean happiness, at least not for men. Some women ride it for all it's worth, those are the ones to avoid.
Max House 8 years better then having married her. Some lessons are hard , but this could have been way worse.
I’ve slowly and simply cut down contact w friend zoned woman I know. She’s now suddenly doing 90 percent of contact and her whole demeanor is different. All I can say now. Is the cake in oven? Hmm. I’m starting for the first time feeling power. OMG. She just texted goodnight to me before I could even spit this msg out. Lol Wow. Thx Cory this is too Funny. Her good mornings text are everyday now. 🙂 don’t worry. I’m playing it cool
What if you're with someone that never will chase or "make the first move" as she believes that's solely a man's job???
Dont listen to her words. Create attraction and they chase..
That’s hilarious. I had a girl cancel a date by telling me her parakeet died last week.
If she was in to you. She would say the hell with that bird
If she was into , she would have at least invited you to the funeral
If she was into you she would ask u to be her replacement parakeet
My new favorite channel! Good video & info 😃👌🏾