Studs be minding their business, and I barely ever seen a broke stud who dont spoil their woman. Yes there can be broke studs but they dont be as loud as broke men 😭
The craziest thing about this is that MOST MEN don’t have to be 6 ft and making 6 figures. Based on sheer statistics most men don’t even meet those qualifications and more than half of them are partnered (in the US at least).
I would venture to say that most heterosexual women marry the regular degular guy who makes a regular degular salary which is why married women have to help pay the bills.
they always were. that's why they hate lesbians SO MUCH and make women's love seem like it's not real. been like that for thousands of years LMAO. legit could be two extremely feminine lesbians and they still are jealous and hate them and fetishize them. it's nuts
They been. The energy is always weird between men and studs. Always. People don't understand the nonbinariness of being a stud. They're women. They're not trying to be men. It's such a hard thing for people to get. And like... fems date fems too... and a lot of fems are actually "masculine" in terms of taking care of shit for someone else or a whole family. So we all gotta be 6ft and make 6figs? the nonsense just keeps going.
Every stud that I've ever known is fully providing for their woman and is usually the SOLE provider... even if she has kids, they take care of the kids too and do so happily. Perhaps they're overcompensating for not being men, but even so oftentimes the studs are more manly than cis men smh...
@Priscilla_Boye I live in the south and my female cousin is a process operator which makes big money here... her wife doesn't work @ all and she absolutely adores and spoils her and her kids that the father abandoned
I'm a fem but the more dominant role when I'm with women and I don't let them pay for shit lol. I only know what they do in relation to their personality or whatever. I don't care what they make.
0:34 In my early twenties, I dated a stud, and she did everything you mentioned and more. Lawd, she was fine, funny AF, and smelled great (something about female pH and men's cologne is intoxicating). She was an Aries and had my nose wide TF open. She was 5'5, and im 5'3. Plus, she was about 3 yrs older than me. It felt good being in her presence. She worked in IT and encouraged me to go for it back then. I should have listened then, but im there now and often think of her. Men are a burden, and I'm married to one 🙃
@@meganmoney3479 Why should she leave? So that she can meet another burden, possibly an even bigger one? Nah what she needs to do is track down that stud from college or find another one😂
My friend is a stud and she is the greenest of green flag so I might be swinging there. She is a doctor, has her own place, fancy car, good money, traveling and treat her girl like rare gem.
Why can’t men just speak on the mistakes they made, like leaving the home and abandoning their kids and failing to do for anyone at all. Like … please, just stop blaming everyone except yourself for your own problems. This shit is childish.
1. Most women aren't 6 feet tall. The average woman is 5 ft 3.5 inches, so good luck finding your stallion. 2. Studs understand (not the male gaze but) the female gaze. They know what women actually want and listen. Instead of knowing what men want and assuming that women want it too.
Most MEN aren’t even 6 ft though, they refuse to acknowledge how some short men be acting due to their insecurity which is actually what makes them undesirable
I'm a heterosexual biological woman, and even I know that studs are better than the average man. There's really no comparison as far as emotional intellect goes. If I wasn't heterosexual, I'd get me a stud
I was at a party and the ONLY eligible person was a stud. She was like 6’0 too lol all the other men were baby daddies, beer belly, and receding hair line. It was depressing.
@@e-bo9115not saying future was a good partner but he was both taller than 6 ft AND making more than 6 figures 😂😂😂. Also after Future she CHOOSE better, isn’t that what men are always saying?
I knew a stud who use to hang out with a group of about 8 other soft studs. Every last one of had a college degree, was child free, own there on homes, some had multiple homes and based on their job titles made close too or over six figures……..studs are the rich aunties
One of my homegirls is married to a stud who is a Pharmacist, built them a 5br house from the ground up two years ago, tolerates my friend randomly adopting dogs (they have 5 now), paid for my girl to finish cosmetology school at an expensive spa AND launch her own day spa. Im not into dating women and it sucks because most men would never and COULD NEVER.
That's the same guy above using 2 of his accounts (he has 3 I know of). He's obsessed with this channel and the biggest fan, watching every video and posting multiple comments. He claims to be only 18, yet is already a certified/certifiable incel.
@@JasonFlake-op1lltends to happen when all your efforts as a wife are ignored. Women are divorcing men at higher rates because they are done giving them chance after chance. Women don’t have the energy to teach men empathy or how to be decent human beings anymore. If men really want a happy relationship, they’ll get their act together. Until then, women would rather die alone, but live an extra 10 years because all the burdens men put on you are gone.
@@JasonFlake-op1llbeing able to divorce safely without being divorced from life😂😂 There's a reason why you only hear crazy ex gf stories but not crazy ex bf stories, y'all kill women..
@@Iamhere829Yea because y'all be sleeping with their best friends for years and had them paying for kid that ain't theirs that's called the "black culture".
That last creator is absolutely right, don't try to compare apples to oranges/het relationships to lesbians. I will say, though, it does offer a great insight: Butch/stud lesbian masculinity does not depend on subjugating, controlling or denigrating femininity the way traditional/toxic masculinity does. So .... the problem is still very much with men and patriarchy, not masculinity itself. And yes, the gentlemen at 8:56 is absolutely correct, too: Studs are what men imagine themselves to be. I wish they would check their egos long enough to learn a thing or two (I'm a bi woman, so I do have a dog in this fight, sadly 😭😭)
As a bi soft stud I jumped up in here so quick...... Firstly, a stud is still a woman Secondly Half of the time a stud will step in and be better fathers to the child of her woman than the actual dad, let's start there... Thirdly I find that as a woman we are more compassionate to each other, even though we have our problems a woman is going to interact differently with another woman
Studs are most likely more emotionally intelligent lol and have their shit together. Idk I don’t see too many who are out here struggling 🤷🏽♀️. Also why are you competing with women?? That’s weird
The shopping lady nailed it! The manosphere stuff is really about relative esteem. Putting others down. Self esteem comes from within. You hear them crow about sexual market value-because well that is only one way to value a person.
Now, that I have watched the video and know, how this word is being used in this generation (different word in my generation, so at first I was a little lost) Oh yeah, around HERE, studs have expensive Harley Davidsons and work a high paying trade down in the shipyards PER DIEM making awesome money, usually are welders, painters, and get sent all over and make about 80 to 100 a year, easy. Most of have homes and nice vehicles from Chargers to Dodge Rams.
Even the broke stud I know was balling. She had a whole house, took care of her mama, sister, cousins, etc. had a nice car. Had no job. She was amazing. I called her one day just to tell her I missed her and she cash apped me 50 bucks on the spot and got my kids something for theit birthday that year. Dudes can not compete where they don't compare. Queer, bi and lesbian women are honestly the best of all worlds.
At this point, it's just exhausting to keep telling these men that what they think is the problem isn't the problem for most women. Women figured patriarchy damaged some of us, so we put in the work to heal and grow with or without men. Improving yourself makes you a better person for others. It's that simple. If these men spent as much time on self-improvement and growth as they did on pointing at and talking about women being the problem, we would all have been in a better place. I don't know why men don't understand that their resistance to change will be their emotional burden to bear because women are done bearing that burden. At this point, I'm just going to leave them alone and try to make more female friends. This is exhausting.
@@JasonFlake-op1llthat's such a dumb take. You created a broken system and forced people to live in it. At the same time you also suffer like women, but blame women for the system you created 😂😂
I don’t know. Maybe because a stud is still a woman and is likely to be more emotionally mature, vulnerable, etc. also woman are typically shorter (5’4’) than men so expecting a 6 foot women would be just as unrealistic as a woman who expects a man to be 6’5’ (1% of pop). I had a conversation like this recently. I am bi and was discussing the dynamics between women with a lesbian woman. They are different than the dynamics in a hetero relationship. Obviously, nothing is true across the board, but in a lot of the Hetero relationships I’ve had and observed the man just works and thinks that is all they have to contribute to the household despite the fact it is not 1950 and women are working full time jobs as well out earning their male counterparts many times. Even women who have chosen to live together as friends, mothers, divorcees, etc to save money or to help each other or whatever it may be have said it is wonderful. Helping each other with the children, cooking, cleaning and finances and they love it. I’ve recently read a few articles about these situations. Two best friends recently divorced with children living together. Multiple mothers teaming up to have a home and raise children together. Every woman pulling their own weight and helping the others sounds like a beautiful dynamic to me.
I’m nonbinary(not a stud but more masculine presenting) I hold myself up to a good standard and I want the same for my future wife. I want to take care of the woman I’m going to spend the rest of my life with. So I make sure my career and education can provide an environment for me to do that. It’s no secret that women want that. And it not just about the physical and money. It’s about emotional intelligence and truly caring for the person you’re with. I want an upper class life and I work hard to have that and it means nothing if you don’t have someone to share it with. I work hard to be able to afford my lifestyle and if I’m with my wife, of course she will benefit from that because that’s what you do for the woman you love.
@@JasonFlake-op1llshut up Jason!! You could be building a house or doing something else productive, but instead you’re bothering women online. That’s loser behavior, bro 😒
Listen….my friends who are with studs, are so happy and high earning. They don’t have to ask for somebody to be nice to them. They just are. I feel bad for us hetero girls because yeah it’s stank out here
As a card carrying member of The Alphabet Mafia (I'm bisexual) I've seen first hand how studs treat their partners and it is a sight to be hold: bills paid, houses, cars, nails done, hair done, great sex life, lol. Why do you think Niecy Nash/Jessica Betts and Da Brat/Jesseca are so damn happy, come on now lol
Studs make me consider switching teams sometimes. Being a heterosexual woman is ghetto and a losing game lol. If sexuality were a choice, I would have gone the other way years ago. Every stud I've personally known is highly accomplished, usually in STEM based careers AND are fine as a plus.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
Ahh yes something that I, as a queer woman, can definitely speak on. I’m pansexual and nonbinary(to keep it simple) I’m very feminine presenting for the time being(for safety reasons). My interactions w/men… a lot of them are not good ppl and tbh my relationships w/women/non-men were a lot less heartbreak vs men. I told myself if a man really wants me he has to REALLY show me. Otherwise, I have other options and I ain’t about to let no man stress me out. Relationships w/non-men are just so special and deep and loving. In this case we’re talking studs, they’re women, not men! Ofc you’re gonna have your bad bunch, that’s just the human condition. But they know esp since they’re also women what’s important and what women want bc why? They’re also women! It’s not hard Me personally, I want a power couple dynamic but tbh I wouldn’t mind taking care of my partner. That’s why I’m not in a committed relationship now, I wanna be the best that I can be and already have my stuff before getting into a relationship. Since I like Black queer folk I don’t wanna bring dysfunction and dustiness. I wanna bring healthy and happy Black love
I am straight as a ruler but once I dated a Tyrese lookalike. His sister was a stud 😅 and I was blown away by her for a second. To the point he said to me to obviously go in the car he was in and not with the “girl”, he then said you like her? You wouldn’t be the first girl I lost to her. I was shocked and felt like crap 😅
Let’s bffr, men don’t have to have those things either..hence all the horror stories across the internet. Start with being an empathetic person and treating women as equal human beings. They fail at the bare minimum.
The reality is men have always competed with women to some extent. Also…..I really wish I was a lesbian 😢😅 P.S: I have been receiving my notifications ❤
*Me realizing Ive never met a broke stud in my life* *also realizing ive never met a stud that wasnt the most loving person on the planet* hmmmmmmnnn.......
I want men to be honest, they are only upset at the baddies and high maintenance women they cannot get unless they have money. They don't pay attention to the good women or go after them and need to admit they are bad at picking women.
So many hot women in this video I'm struggling lmao I'm glad that guy opened up this discussion but I'm betting he lived to regret it. There's no competition here.
Studs In my experience are clean, they smell nice and they don't need lists made by their partners for the most basic sh*t. The ones around me are hard-working too
Studs are also not looking for another woman to build them, most of these men are online shaming women for not wanting to build them meanwhile they give their mothers a pass for failing yo build them.
Good Morning - Your Video Popped Up In My Home Page Even Though I Kept Forgetting To Subscribe 😅 The Lady Who Said "Studs Are The Men That Men Think They Are" Is A Whole Sermon!
I never get the height thing, I mean, I am short as hell. And dating women "outside of my league" as theses dudes say, was never a problem for me haha also, seem like i missed some of your videos sistah haha 😅❤
Yep. Many yrs ago, I used to work with a sister who was 6 foot 1 and gorgeous. One evening, we we working the 3-11 shift and her bf came to bring her some dinner he bough her: find as he!!. He was a body builder, had a face like a make model. He walked in with his motorcycle helmet in one hand (jacket and boots and ish) and her dinner in the other. He walked like he was THAT dude. BUT, like Prince, he was 5 foot 3. This was a very long time ago. When I was young, we did not “approach” men. In order for this beautiful tale sister to be HIS gf, HE approached HER. HE hit her up! We didn’t “chase” men in those days. Trust. He saw her out and about and hit her up bec she’s gorgeous!
Yes it did suggest your video. Also definitely know it was a joke BUT I agree with the sentiments. I also think they actually like the women they date. Some men seem to actually dislike women so there's that lol.
😂😂😂😂😂 some men will do and say anything to avoid having to step up. You can't compete where you don't compare! I'm not comparing myself to a woman (masculine presenting or not).
Honestly, I'm impressed that this question came up. My answer, I HAVE NEVER MET A BROKE STUD. Like there's no struggle love that I know of with a stud. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
From what I learned the manosphere has this dynamic of finding incoherence in the speech of women (especially the case of "double standard"). As the woman at the end of the stiches says, queer relationships are a totally different dynamic than heterosexual ones, so the first question show that his holder was misinformed. As always, a person's judgement/question/affirmation speaks more about themselves than others. I am surprised how well it applies to everything people say🤔
😅lol I’ve dated more women in my life than men although I prefer men. I had more healthy happy relationships with women I was even a stay at home mom while she worked best believe I always had dinner of the table and the home cleaned even rolled blunts for her 😭best partner EVER
I thought men kept reminding these women that they arent men, so Im lost why these same men are mad these women aren't being held to the same standard.
To single women with children, i know several men and have several men in my family who are only looking for made families because they dont want to, or can't, have their own. Anyone who says you won't find anyone with kids has no idea that other kinds of men exist.
Did you mean, you won’t find men who want women with children (ready made family)? If so, I’ve made the very same statement. I really wish people understood, fresh air is free. Get out there and experience more than what’s within a thirty minute drive.
I don’t even think that is competition. I feel like it’s more about women having a standard overall for partner and not dependent on their gender. Let’s not act like wise marriage, and relationship wise same-sex marriages are not failing the same as straight marriages.
A lot of them aren’t shit either and they are very judgmental, especially of bisexual women and transmen. They are very, very, very male identified!!!!!! Be careful! But I’m going to stay on topic though😌✌🏾
The algorithm is evil. If you aren’t posting damn near daily, it doesn’t push your content. Damn shame. Content creators need a break sometimes. Good grief!
There's also a lot of studs who get physical with their gfs just bc they're both technically women. There's a lot of domestic violence with lesbian couples, so let's not over romanticize this concept. Making generalizations isn't going to help us. There are also a lottttttttttt of fuckboy studs, so enough with the "oh, we're more emotionally intelligent just because were women and women know what wom.." STOP lol. Because that does not apply to everyone. Being emotional does not mean you are emotionally intelligent. If these women were as emotionally intelligent as they're claiming to be, they would know it's not about "competing" with studs just bc they're acknowledging a difference in expectations. A lot of these "reasons" are only based off bad men, but still grouping all men together. As if bad men represent them all. Nah. A lot of things women in this video say about men can also be said about women. Stop making generalizations and pay attention to the actual individual you're dealing with regardless of their gender. I can't stand this kind of talk from either side. Everyone needs to grow the hell up.
I mean not all men are emotionally unintelligent either but if we’re talking about groups as a whole… Plus, as a woman, I could hold my own against a woman in a way that I can’t against a man so it’s still more of a level playing field if there’s going to be a fight
this took me a minute because I'm old, so now, I get it....LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL....I don't have an answer, because I don't get down like that....LOLOLOLOLOLOL. BUT I do help out women MORE than men and that includes nieces, church groups, friends and neighbors or even strangers on the street because they are MORE APPRECIATIVE, say please and thank you and they also reciprocate, you know, like a human being with morals, they don't act like an episode from Lord of the Flies.
So they are asking studs how to get submissions from women lol this is horrible and her explanation of not being in a woman’s league and moving in instead of gaslighting women who don’t want to settle for you 😅 it’s hard for them to comprehend
Like, I’ve never met another man like my dad, so I’m like trusty of men. I have my reasons and they’re very valid. And as a bisexual, studs are…how do I put it. The bomb. Here’s what happens. They’re females, right. As soon as we are found to be female we get socialized like girls. I’m sure at some point most studs were forced into some kinda feminine role and then realized they were a stud and bucked the gender nonsense. But having experienced girlhood…um. They know how and what women want and need. They know how women are treated bc they most likely had taste of it. They want to be better because they are better. They know what it means to full fill a woman’s emotional needs first! And her physical, mental, sexual, and spiritual health of their partner. Now before someone comes for me, there are shit ass people in any demographic we discuss as a society. In any circle/topic. Keep in mind that when people make a generalization that they’re speaking about the people who fall into the category at hand. Maybe we should look at generalizations as opportunities to check in with ourselves.
I’m literally leaning towards only dating women from now on because every single man I’ve ever dealt with is an abuser. I’ve been abused by females too, both fems and studs, but I’m willing to give women another shot because at least none of them ruined my life the way men did.
Studs be minding their business, and I barely ever seen a broke stud who dont spoil their woman. Yes there can be broke studs but they dont be as loud as broke men 😭
A lot of studs are also child free and many are college educated as well.
We really do be minding our business...
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They really do
@@notyet2345No free meals for you little girl.
The craziest thing about this is that MOST MEN don’t have to be 6 ft and making 6 figures. Based on sheer statistics most men don’t even meet those qualifications and more than half of them are partnered (in the US at least).
I would venture to say that most heterosexual women marry the regular degular guy who makes a regular degular salary which is why married women have to help pay the bills.
Exactly. They just don’t want to meet women’s actual requirements, so it just HAS to be something surface-level. 🙄😂
EXACTLY! The thing these men are lacking is basic human decency....
They only need to be decent people and they won’t even be that, crazy
@@PossibleBatThis!!!!
Let's add that studs don't have an issue with building with women or their women making more money than them.
THIIISSSSSSSS!!!!!!😭😭😭😭
Yep. They are proud and supportive
He really said "studs are who men think they are" Ohhh the shade 😮😂
🤣🤣🤣💯
Exactly! B/c why are they comparing themselves to Women as if they’re the same!?!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
😮😂😂😂
Studs have emotional intelligence, often want to settle down, and provide love and care to their partners. That’s why.
@@RebelNutts-gg1xf You again? Why can't you just take the L and go back to watching your fresh n fit podcasts?
@@RebelNutts-gg1xffatherless behavior from you
@@RebelNutts-gg1xfprojection
@@RebelNutts-gg1xf You shouldn't be jabbing in any little girls, buddy. That's illegal in most places.
Heavy on the settle down!
😂 Men competing with studs now?
They can't compete with studs lol the studs are way better partners.
😂😂😂😂😂
They've been competing with studs it's pathetic r
they always were. that's why they hate lesbians SO MUCH and make women's love seem like it's not real. been like that for thousands of years LMAO. legit could be two extremely feminine lesbians and they still are jealous and hate them and fetishize them. it's nuts
They been. The energy is always weird between men and studs. Always. People don't understand the nonbinariness of being a stud. They're women. They're not trying to be men. It's such a hard thing for people to get. And like... fems date fems too... and a lot of fems are actually "masculine" in terms of taking care of shit for someone else or a whole family. So we all gotta be 6ft and make 6figs? the nonsense just keeps going.
Every stud that I've ever known is fully providing for their woman and is usually the SOLE provider... even if she has kids, they take care of the kids too and do so happily. Perhaps they're overcompensating for not being men, but even so oftentimes the studs are more manly than cis men smh...
I agree 💯
@Priscilla_Boye I live in the south and my female cousin is a process operator which makes big money here... her wife doesn't work @ all and she absolutely adores and spoils her and her kids that the father abandoned
I'm a fem but the more dominant role when I'm with women and I don't let them pay for shit lol. I only know what they do in relation to their personality or whatever. I don't care what they make.
What is cis?
Who's a stud?
Strange…. A group of men are worried about relationships they aren’t a factor in when they could be concerned about the literacy and crime rates. 🥴🥴🥴🥴
Abroad and domestically mind you.
Studs wash their butts 😂
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Exactly!! I'm never going to have to have the "okay but do you know how to wipe and wash back there?" conversation with a stud 😂😂😭😭 fix it jesus
😂😂😂😂I always said men don’t wash their but properly
😂😂😂😂
Comparing men. To Lesbians. They’ve lost their damn minds 😂
Yes they did
Oh, that's the new "stud"?
The men are effeminate they're competing with lesbians.
@@briannadickson2884 It's not new. That's what a stud is.
@@katodd2925😂😂😂 crazy that even had to be said. Truly lmao over this. 😅
“We were just nice to each other, shit.” Iconic. As a femme lesbian…. This is it right here
0:34 In my early twenties, I dated a stud, and she did everything you mentioned and more. Lawd, she was fine, funny AF, and smelled great (something about female pH and men's cologne is intoxicating). She was an Aries and had my nose wide TF open. She was 5'5, and im 5'3. Plus, she was about 3 yrs older than me. It felt good being in her presence. She worked in IT and encouraged me to go for it back then. I should have listened then, but im there now and often think of her. Men are a burden, and I'm married to one 🙃
Thanks for sharing ❤️
If you are unhappy, leave. Life is to short to compromise your happiness. You literally only have one life. Live it
@@meganmoney3479 Why should she leave? So that she can meet another burden, possibly an even bigger one? Nah what she needs to do is track down that stud from college or find another one😂
@@omphilemoerane2569😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂nooooo😂😂ooo😂😂😂
U anit rite 😂😂😂 u anit rite 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@omphilemoerane2569 you had me in the first half 😂😂😂😂😂
Not this becoming an advertisement for studs 😂😂😂
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It backfired on them big time
This comment made my day
The OP's original question is the advertisement.😂
My friend is a stud and she is the greenest of green flag so I might be swinging there. She is a doctor, has her own place, fancy car, good money, traveling and treat her girl like rare gem.
Lmaoooo the men are asking why don’t the studs have to do xyz 😂😂😂😂 we are in the last days baby.
Okay!!
And I mean the very last seconds…..cuz ain’t no way😂
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No sweetheart, it’s THEIR last days. We good over here
Why can’t men just speak on the mistakes they made, like leaving the home and abandoning their kids and failing to do for anyone at all. Like … please, just stop blaming everyone except yourself for your own problems. This shit is childish.
1. Most women aren't 6 feet tall. The average woman is 5 ft 3.5 inches, so good luck finding your stallion. 2. Studs understand (not the male gaze but) the female gaze.
They know what women actually want and listen. Instead of knowing what men want and assuming that women want it too.
Most MEN aren’t even 6 ft though, they refuse to acknowledge how some short men be acting due to their insecurity which is actually what makes them undesirable
Exactly! Couldn't have said it better myself!
I’m literally a 6 feet tall, straight, biological woman and I fully understand that I am not the norm. I 100% agree with OP 👍
"Stop trying to compete where you don't compare" 📢📢📢📢📢
PERIOD.
I'm a heterosexual biological woman, and even I know that studs are better than the average man. There's really no comparison as far as emotional intellect goes. If I wasn't heterosexual, I'd get me a stud
I was at a party and the ONLY eligible person was a stud. She was like 6’0 too lol all the other men were baby daddies, beer belly, and receding hair line. It was depressing.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😊
@@RebelNutts-gg1xf I mean ya, that is the literal definition of lesbian = not heterosexual. 🙃
@@RebelNutts-gg1xf that
@@RebelNutts-gg1xf I
They compare themselves to studs , dogs ... anything but upstanding men like Russell Wilson ...smdh
They'll do anything but change. Running out of people to blame
THIIIISSSSS!!!!!!
@@e-bo9115not saying future was a good partner but he was both taller than 6 ft AND making more than 6 figures 😂😂😂. Also after Future she CHOOSE better, isn’t that what men are always saying?
@@e-bo9115Yes, and she learned quickly that it was a bad choice. What is your point?
@e-bo9115 b4 she found Russell and stayed with him...3 children later... happy, spoiled.
I knew a stud who use to hang out with a group of about 8 other soft studs. Every last one of had a college degree, was child free, own there on homes, some had multiple homes and based on their job titles made close too or over six figures……..studs are the rich aunties
Multiple homes ok lady nice try.
@@JasonFlake-op1llsomething a dusty would say
@@JasonFlake-op1llisn’t it past your bedtime?
@@meganmoney3479 Uncle Sam about to tuck you in?
@@notyet2345 Lady you no nobody with multiple homes, stop lying.
You’re right, Priscilla❤
I’m a bisexual and I must say that studs just understand women cuz they have the best of both worlds so they know what to do
Thank you ❤️
One of my homegirls is married to a stud who is a Pharmacist, built them a 5br house from the ground up two years ago, tolerates my friend randomly adopting dogs (they have 5 now), paid for my girl to finish cosmetology school at an expensive spa AND launch her own day spa. Im not into dating women and it sucks because most men would never and COULD NEVER.
That sounds like a bull crap story.
@@JasonFlake-op1ll just say you are garbage. Because they live in Gilbert, Arizona and I just saw them the other day. 😂😂😂
@@JasonFlake-op1ll oh, and they’re black if that makes you even more mad. 😂😂😂
My best relationship was with a masculine woman, probably why I’ve yet to meet a man. They just can’t compete with that
Most likely y'all just call the cops on everyone?
@@JasonFlake-op1ll lmao the jealousy
@@RebelNutts-gg1xf then please go suffer elsewhere in silence
@Enriquez2222 hey if you don't mind me being nosey why didn't it work out???
That's the same guy above using 2 of his accounts (he has 3 I know of). He's obsessed with this channel and the biggest fan, watching every video and posting multiple comments. He claims to be only 18, yet is already a certified/certifiable incel.
As the Queenmaker says, women are searching in men for what women can only give😂❤
💯
Getting divorced at a higher rate?
@@JasonFlake-op1lltends to happen when all your efforts as a wife are ignored. Women are divorcing men at higher rates because they are done giving them chance after chance. Women don’t have the energy to teach men empathy or how to be decent human beings anymore. If men really want a happy relationship, they’ll get their act together. Until then, women would rather die alone, but live an extra 10 years because all the burdens men put on you are gone.
@@JasonFlake-op1llbeing able to divorce safely without being divorced from life😂😂
There's a reason why you only hear crazy ex gf stories but not crazy ex bf stories, y'all kill women..
@@Iamhere829Yea because y'all be sleeping with their best friends for years and had them paying for kid that ain't theirs that's called the "black culture".
As a lesbian, I approve every response.
That last creator is absolutely right, don't try to compare apples to oranges/het relationships to lesbians. I will say, though, it does offer a great insight: Butch/stud lesbian masculinity does not depend on subjugating, controlling or denigrating femininity the way traditional/toxic masculinity does. So .... the problem is still very much with men and patriarchy, not masculinity itself. And yes, the gentlemen at 8:56 is absolutely correct, too: Studs are what men imagine themselves to be. I wish they would check their egos long enough to learn a thing or two (I'm a bi woman, so I do have a dog in this fight, sadly 😭😭)
“It’s because they actually like women” YUPPPPP!! That parttt
As a bi soft stud I jumped up in here so quick...... Firstly, a stud is still a woman
Secondly Half of the time a stud will step in and be better fathers to the child of her woman than the actual dad, let's start there...
Thirdly I find that as a woman we are more compassionate to each other, even though we have our problems a woman is going to interact differently with another woman
Studs are most likely more emotionally intelligent lol and have their shit together. Idk I don’t see too many who are out here struggling 🤷🏽♀️. Also why are you competing with women?? That’s weird
The shopping lady nailed it! The manosphere stuff is really about relative esteem. Putting others down. Self esteem comes from within. You hear them crow about sexual market value-because well that is only one way to value a person.
"name 5 broke studs" LMAO 💀 damn that's so true. also yes i was shown this video btw
I worked with a stud at Pizza Huy in the early 2000s and she had like 3 jobs and was the first person I knew with a brand new Wrangler
Thanks for letting me know.
Now, that I have watched the video and know, how this word is being used in this generation (different word in my generation, so at first I was a little lost) Oh yeah, around HERE, studs have expensive Harley Davidsons and work a high paying trade down in the shipyards PER DIEM making awesome money, usually are welders, painters, and get sent all over and make about 80 to 100 a year, easy. Most of have homes and nice vehicles from Chargers to Dodge Rams.
I couldn't name 1 broke stud lol😂😂😂
Even the broke stud I know was balling. She had a whole house, took care of her mama, sister, cousins, etc. had a nice car. Had no job. She was amazing. I called her one day just to tell her I missed her and she cash apped me 50 bucks on the spot and got my kids something for theit birthday that year. Dudes can not compete where they don't compare. Queer, bi and lesbian women are honestly the best of all worlds.
the way these responses from the studs had me loosing my shxt at work 💀 i need me a stud smfh
Instead of hating on studs, they need to be taking notes!
Lets be honest it was probably a black man that asked this question which comes as no suprise 😂
Yes
Sad but true.
Because they be the most gei ones 😂😂😂
All of my studs friends treated me better than my boyfriends
At this point, it's just exhausting to keep telling these men that what they think is the problem isn't the problem for most women. Women figured patriarchy damaged some of us, so we put in the work to heal and grow with or without men. Improving yourself makes you a better person for others. It's that simple. If these men spent as much time on self-improvement and growth as they did on pointing at and talking about women being the problem, we would all have been in a better place. I don't know why men don't understand that their resistance to change will be their emotional burden to bear because women are done bearing that burden. At this point, I'm just going to leave them alone and try to make more female friends. This is exhausting.
You live off the system don't act independent.
@@JasonFlake-op1llwe are done teaching men like you how to be decent human beings. If you want a meaningful relationship, act like it
@@JasonFlake-op1llthat's such a dumb take. You created a broken system and forced people to live in it. At the same time you also suffer like women, but blame women for the system you created 😂😂
I don’t know. Maybe because a stud is still a woman and is likely to be more emotionally mature, vulnerable, etc. also woman are typically shorter (5’4’) than men so expecting a 6 foot women would be just as unrealistic as a woman who expects a man to be 6’5’ (1% of pop).
I had a conversation like this recently. I am bi and was discussing the dynamics between women with a lesbian woman. They are different than the dynamics in a hetero relationship. Obviously, nothing is true across the board, but in a lot of the Hetero relationships I’ve had and observed the man just works and thinks that is all they have to contribute to the household despite the fact it is not 1950 and women are working full time jobs as well out earning their male counterparts many times.
Even women who have chosen to live together as friends, mothers, divorcees, etc to save money or to help each other or whatever it may be have said it is wonderful. Helping each other with the children, cooking, cleaning and finances and they love it. I’ve recently read a few articles about these situations. Two best friends recently divorced with children living together. Multiple mothers teaming up to have a home and raise children together. Every woman pulling their own weight and helping the others sounds like a beautiful dynamic to me.
Studs are ppl and can still lead into an abusive relationship
I had two boyfriends, two girlfriends and my now husband. None of them are 6 feet’s or make 100k . I was with them, because how they treatment me.
This!! Nobody is out there dating six figure good looking men. What is their problem?? Oh, I forgot they only want Beyoncé and Rihanna
I’m nonbinary(not a stud but more masculine presenting) I hold myself up to a good standard and I want the same for my future wife. I want to take care of the woman I’m going to spend the rest of my life with. So I make sure my career and education can provide an environment for me to do that. It’s no secret that women want that. And it not just about the physical and money. It’s about emotional intelligence and truly caring for the person you’re with. I want an upper class life and I work hard to have that and it means nothing if you don’t have someone to share it with. I work hard to be able to afford my lifestyle and if I’m with my wife, of course she will benefit from that because that’s what you do for the woman you love.
It’s literally not rocket science lol. Thank you
him drinking the juice and looking all smug as if he spoke facts makes me wanna fight 👊👊👊👊
That’s what was so hilarious to me 🤣
Same. I thought it bc of PMS that he irritated me immediately. 😅
You would lose little girl.
@@JasonFlake-op1llok Jason. Flake somewhere you’re wanted
@@JasonFlake-op1llshut up Jason!! You could be building a house or doing something else productive, but instead you’re bothering women online. That’s loser behavior, bro 😒
Listen….my friends who are with studs, are so happy and high earning. They don’t have to ask for somebody to be nice to them. They just are. I feel bad for us hetero girls because yeah it’s stank out here
That first stud is beautiful
As a card carrying member of The Alphabet Mafia (I'm bisexual) I've seen first hand how studs treat their partners and it is a sight to be hold: bills paid, houses, cars, nails done, hair done, great sex life, lol. Why do you think Niecy Nash/Jessica Betts and Da Brat/Jesseca are so damn happy, come on now lol
Studs make me consider switching teams sometimes. Being a heterosexual woman is ghetto and a losing game lol. If sexuality were a choice, I would have gone the other way years ago. Every stud I've personally known is highly accomplished, usually in STEM based careers AND are fine as a plus.
Herero men compete with everyone but themselves 😂
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
Ahh yes something that I, as a queer woman, can definitely speak on. I’m pansexual and nonbinary(to keep it simple) I’m very feminine presenting for the time being(for safety reasons). My interactions w/men… a lot of them are not good ppl and tbh my relationships w/women/non-men were a lot less heartbreak vs men. I told myself if a man really wants me he has to REALLY show me. Otherwise, I have other options and I ain’t about to let no man stress me out. Relationships w/non-men are just so special and deep and loving.
In this case we’re talking studs, they’re women, not men! Ofc you’re gonna have your bad bunch, that’s just the human condition. But they know esp since they’re also women what’s important and what women want bc why? They’re also women! It’s not hard
Me personally, I want a power couple dynamic but tbh I wouldn’t mind taking care of my partner. That’s why I’m not in a committed relationship now, I wanna be the best that I can be and already have my stuff before getting into a relationship. Since I like Black queer folk I don’t wanna bring dysfunction and dustiness. I wanna bring healthy and happy Black love
Okay yeah the first video says it all. Men don't accept boundaries and other's needs, they just get mad, insecure and controlling.
BM competing with women, AGAIN.
Studs KNOW what women want and need. Duh
I am straight as a ruler but once I dated a Tyrese lookalike. His sister was a stud 😅 and I was blown away by her for a second. To the point he said to me to obviously go in the car he was in and not with the “girl”, he then said you like her? You wouldn’t be the first girl I lost to her. I was shocked and felt like crap 😅
Let’s bffr, men don’t have to have those things either..hence all the horror stories across the internet. Start with being an empathetic person and treating women as equal human beings. They fail at the bare minimum.
📌 Exactly this!!
@@RebelNutts-gg1xfare you drunk?
The reality is men have always competed with women to some extent.
Also…..I really wish I was a lesbian 😢😅
P.S: I have been receiving my notifications ❤
Ok thanks for letting me know.
Yes girl.. womb envy is hella real..
I say I wish I was a lesbian alllll the time
*Me realizing Ive never met a broke stud in my life*
*also realizing ive never met a stud that wasnt the most loving person on the planet*
hmmmmmmnnn.......
I want men to be honest, they are only upset at the baddies and high maintenance women they cannot get unless they have money. They don't pay attention to the good women or go after them and need to admit they are bad at picking women.
So many hot women in this video I'm struggling lmao
I'm glad that guy opened up this discussion but I'm betting he lived to regret it. There's no competition here.
Studs In my experience are clean, they smell nice and they don't need lists made by their partners for the most basic sh*t. The ones around me are hard-working too
Studs are also not looking for another woman to build them, most of these men are online shaming women for not wanting to build them meanwhile they give their mothers a pass for failing yo build them.
Good Morning - Your Video Popped Up In My Home Page Even Though I Kept Forgetting To Subscribe 😅 The Lady Who Said "Studs Are The Men That Men Think They Are" Is A Whole Sermon!
This is soooo weird.
You’re competing with WOMEN for WOMEN who like WOMEN!?!?!
Did I get it or am I wrong?
Agree. Queer relationships are about treating their partner as a person and not am object. The toxic gender role and norms are killing the straights.
Lol o sent this to my cousin. She said her gf aint 6ft but she does make 6 figures.
I never get the height thing, I mean, I am short as hell. And dating women "outside of my league" as theses dudes say, was never a problem for me haha also, seem like i missed some of your videos sistah haha 😅❤
Yep. Many yrs ago, I used to work with a sister who was 6 foot 1 and gorgeous. One evening, we we working the 3-11 shift and her bf came to bring her some dinner he bough her: find as he!!. He was a body builder, had a face like a make model. He walked in with his motorcycle helmet in one hand (jacket and boots and ish) and her dinner in the other. He walked like he was THAT dude. BUT, like Prince, he was 5 foot 3.
This was a very long time ago. When I was young, we did not “approach” men. In order for this beautiful tale sister to be HIS gf, HE approached HER. HE hit her up! We didn’t “chase” men in those days. Trust. He saw her out and about and hit her up bec she’s gorgeous!
@@beigenegress2979 Sistah had it good then haha but in all seriounes, we need to normalize the beauty of really tall women, and short men ❤
@@wellersonoliveira5334 i am only five foot 3. I always praise tall sisters and compliment them.
I wish I was tall.
Yes it did suggest your video. Also definitely know it was a joke BUT I agree with the sentiments. I also think they actually like the women they date. Some men seem to actually dislike women so there's that lol.
Thanks for letting me know.
Lmao at “you just get upset and lose your hair and your beard don’t connect” 😂 ya so silly
😂😂😂😂😂 some men will do and say anything to avoid having to step up. You can't compete where you don't compare! I'm not comparing myself to a woman (masculine presenting or not).
Y'all....😂😂i think im considering this now...i think we found a solution ladies
They literally complain about all the women who want nothing to do with them lool
.....y am i seriously considering switching teams.
I'm bisexual and women come with bs but I've had so.e of the most loving female partners that took care of me..
All of this because an edcuation and a good job is too hard for them. What a shame.
Love this channel. Keep up the good work my African sister ! All your videos about these males make me chuckle and giggle 😂
Thank you, I will 🤗❤️❤️
You look like dehydrated mummy.
Off topic, but I’m Loving this look on you Priscilla🥰
She looks great.
Thanks ☺️ 💕💕
The sandwich wives story is so cute 🥺 I hope that, or something similar, happens to me.
Honestly, I'm impressed that this question came up.
My answer, I HAVE NEVER MET A BROKE STUD. Like there's no struggle love that I know of with a stud. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
From what I learned the manosphere has this dynamic of finding incoherence in the speech of women (especially the case of "double standard"). As the woman at the end of the stiches says, queer relationships are a totally different dynamic than heterosexual ones, so the first question show that his holder was misinformed. As always, a person's judgement/question/affirmation speaks more about themselves than others. I am surprised how well it applies to everything people say🤔
Oop
😅lol I’ve dated more women in my life than men although I prefer men. I had more healthy happy relationships with women I was even a stay at home mom while she worked best believe I always had dinner of the table and the home cleaned even rolled blunts for her 😭best partner EVER
I thought men kept reminding these women that they arent men, so Im lost why these same men are mad these women aren't being held to the same standard.
To single women with children, i know several men and have several men in my family who are only looking for made families because they dont want to, or can't, have their own. Anyone who says you won't find anyone with kids has no idea that other kinds of men exist.
Did you mean, you won’t find men who want women with children (ready made family)? If so, I’ve made the very same statement. I really wish people understood, fresh air is free. Get out there and experience more than what’s within a thirty minute drive.
What a crazy world we live in now men vs studs??
America is not the world😅
I don’t even think that is competition. I feel like it’s more about women having a standard overall for partner and not dependent on their gender. Let’s not act like wise marriage, and relationship wise same-sex marriages are not failing the same as straight marriages.
Maybe I need me a stud.
That’s actually a great idea ☺️
A lot of them aren’t shit either and they are very judgmental, especially of bisexual women and transmen. They are very, very, very male identified!!!!!! Be careful!
But I’m going to stay on topic though😌✌🏾
Me too 🤣. Maybe find with a STEM degree
I am looking as we speak 😂😂😂
The algorithm is evil. If you aren’t posting damn near daily, it doesn’t push your content. Damn shame. Content creators need a break sometimes. Good grief!
I'm tall for a woman at 5'8" so I like taller men but there is way more to it than height and 100k!
That first clip hit the nail on the head!!😂 and you definitely said a word at the end!!💯
There's also a lot of studs who get physical with their gfs just bc they're both technically women. There's a lot of domestic violence with lesbian couples, so let's not over romanticize this concept. Making generalizations isn't going to help us.
There are also a lottttttttttt of fuckboy studs, so enough with the "oh, we're more emotionally intelligent just because were women and women know what wom.." STOP lol. Because that does not apply to everyone. Being emotional does not mean you are emotionally intelligent.
If these women were as emotionally intelligent as they're claiming to be, they would know it's not about "competing" with studs just bc they're acknowledging a difference in expectations.
A lot of these "reasons" are only based off bad men, but still grouping all men together. As if bad men represent them all. Nah.
A lot of things women in this video say about men can also be said about women.
Stop making generalizations and pay attention to the actual individual you're dealing with regardless of their gender.
I can't stand this kind of talk from either side. Everyone needs to grow the hell up.
I agree. There are bad people be it men or women. And I have heard about the violence between women. I am biased it still seems worse with men.
I mean not all men are emotionally unintelligent either but if we’re talking about groups as a whole…
Plus, as a woman, I could hold my own against a woman in a way that I can’t against a man so it’s still more of a level playing field if there’s going to be a fight
@@ccannon1exactly!! All of this!!!
this took me a minute because I'm old, so now, I get it....LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL....I don't have an answer, because I don't get down like that....LOLOLOLOLOLOL. BUT I do help out women MORE than men and that includes nieces, church groups, friends and neighbors or even strangers on the street because they are MORE APPRECIATIVE, say please and thank you and they also reciprocate, you know, like a human being with morals, they don't act like an episode from Lord of the Flies.
If men were a book it would be lord of the flies
Your makeup looks SO good 🥰
So they are asking studs how to get submissions from women lol this is horrible and her explanation of not being in a woman’s league and moving in instead of gaslighting women who don’t want to settle for you 😅 it’s hard for them to comprehend
I beg to differ. Studs can try to emulate negative attributes of masculinity!!!
The first lady was spot on!!!
Normal Women dont require 6ft and 6 figures. Beautiful women do. So, lets stop spreading this narrative.
Bc we like studs more than y'all
Like, I’ve never met another man like my dad, so I’m like trusty of men. I have my reasons and they’re very valid. And as a bisexual, studs are…how do I put it. The bomb.
Here’s what happens. They’re females, right. As soon as we are found to be female we get socialized like girls. I’m sure at some point most studs were forced into some kinda feminine role and then realized they were a stud and bucked the gender nonsense. But having experienced girlhood…um. They know how and what women want and need. They know how women are treated bc they most likely had taste of it. They want to be better because they are better. They know what it means to full fill a woman’s emotional needs first! And her physical, mental, sexual, and spiritual health of their partner.
Now before someone comes for me, there are shit ass people in any demographic we discuss as a society. In any circle/topic. Keep in mind that when people make a generalization that they’re speaking about the people who fall into the category at hand. Maybe we should look at generalizations as opportunities to check in with ourselves.
This is sad. Why aren’t they realizing!! They need to do better and step the game up!! Jesh!! Now competing with women!! Good god!!
Bm have ALWAYS competed with bw. This guy is upset that studs are getting better treatment from good women than they are.
That question is sad af
😅 studs found a loophole in dating
I’m literally leaning towards only dating women from now on because every single man I’ve ever dealt with is an abuser. I’ve been abused by females too, both fems and studs, but I’m willing to give women another shot because at least none of them ruined my life the way men did.
A stud is not a man. The comparison is weird.
Also, lolaisthedanger is my friend in real life. Been knowing them for decades. Awesome person!