The Anxious Person's Guide To Self Forgiveness - LIVE DEMONSTRATION

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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +13

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    • @raulhernandez8123
      @raulhernandez8123 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@raulhernandez8123 🙏🙏🙏

    • @DrNayefMazraani
      @DrNayefMazraani ปีที่แล้ว

      How do u feel about Carl jung's work about the shadow and Emdr Mr Julien? I've never been interested in pickup but do know that what you're offering here is the real deal for anyone suffering. Your existence is a bliss. I can't believe some people called u the most hated man on earth years ago.

    • @dannysavage1037
      @dannysavage1037 ปีที่แล้ว

      U should start a podcast

  • @JoLaureys
    @JoLaureys ปีที่แล้ว +126

    That’s me in the video. Thanks for that moment Julien, I am still working on it but it gave me a lot of insights. ❤

    • @mertcanozbek1975
      @mertcanozbek1975 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Je bent inspirationeel man. Bedankt voor de video. Ik zelf heb ook te maken met een angststoornis, meer gerelateerd aan gezondheid en compulsiviteit.

    • @JoLaureys
      @JoLaureys ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mertcanozbek1975 fijn om te horen dat je er inspiratie uithaalt. Ik moet zeggen dat m’n voeding veranderen tot nu toe het meeste geholpen heeft met angst en het toelaten van de angst ook. Van het moment dat ik het toelaat gaat de angst weer weg. Zo contra intuïtief

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hey there! Glad this was helpful and I’m glad you’re still working on this! You got this man… MASSIVE RESPECT!!! 🙏

    • @mertcanozbek1975
      @mertcanozbek1975 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JoLaureys Goed om te horen man! Voeding is zeker een belangrijk aspect aangezien onbewuste intoleranties en tekorten kunnen spelen met je hormoonspiegels en algemene welzijn. Moet daar ook eens scherper op afstellen.

    • @Daniel_TransformationCoach
      @Daniel_TransformationCoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JoLaureys what did you change about your diet?

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I'm crying listening to this absolutely brave man talk to his Dad. I lost my mom suddenly 3 months ago and I too held some resentment towards her. I feel so guilty about it. The saving grace is that I had a butterfly experience. In my yard, a butterfly kept pursing me, following me. And after I got over the fear, I felt I needed to allow this to happen. The butterfly landed on me and stayed on my foot and then on my knee. This went out for over an hour. It was absolutely a sign that my mom was okay. She was sending me a sign. I kept talking to her and saying sorry and that I miss her. It was very cathartic.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @opreadumitru1
      @opreadumitru1 ปีที่แล้ว

      the same thing you can do for free or very cheap by simply buying books on NLP or Virginia Satir therapy
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      gurus fake gurus still not acknowledge their mentors and don;t pay royalties for using stolen technology which is COPYRIGHTED
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      Structure of Magic both volume one and two by Bandler
      Conjoint Family Therapy Virginia Satir
      Peoplemaking same
      The New Peoplemaking same

  • @marshallmaia8130
    @marshallmaia8130 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I think you're the big brother everyone wishes they had. I'm grateful for your content Julien.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! Glad it's so helpful!! 🙏

  • @Aza_zell
    @Aza_zell ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You should talk about emotional unavailability and getting out from the state of constant thinking to a state of feeling

  • @goatofdeparture
    @goatofdeparture ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The sunglasses are so that the people he’s speaking to don’t feel uncomfortable by his gaze. They already have anxiety. For aesthetic purposes, sure, he may benefit from some concealer and eye cream.

  • @inatorquoisemood93
    @inatorquoisemood93 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the man who is upset about his dad has a lot of good qualities, it moved me listening to him. Great video 👏👏👏

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, massive respect to him! 🙏

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was so moving. I give so much credit for Yuul (spelling?) for being able to be open and go through the process. I pray he can move on; such a beautiful soul. And Julien, you have a gift of true compassion - it resonates from your every word. You are very intuitive and caring. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @a-lexanderluthor1334
    @a-lexanderluthor1334 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This man has been through a lot still has a heart of gold 💛 respect to both of you.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, massive respect to him! Takes a lot of courage and willingness… 👌

  • @npi8612
    @npi8612 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Julien almost cried. Love it. So authentic

  • @MrBigBawls407
    @MrBigBawls407 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're an amazing man, I just have a gutteral feeling you actually care about the well-being of others. May god bless your soul, brother. I really mean this.

  • @isaacnavejas
    @isaacnavejas ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RESPECT Julien. I’ve intuitively done this process with myself. You’re a legend and we need you in this world. You’re much appreciated! 🙏🏼

  • @stevek5832
    @stevek5832 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel blessed that this man offers us free videos like this. This is pure gold. I personally alreay knew about letting go of anxiety but i had some serious questions about that and this one solved a lot of them. Wish you the greatest brother. Love from Greece.

  • @KralleZ7
    @KralleZ7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    there is a lot of value in this live demonstration, thank you for that!
    One thing:
    Wearing shades while going into such a deep topic seems very distant as a coach. I dont know your reason for that but I thought about it a lot while watching the video why Julien is wearing shades in that moment.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're so welcome! Glad this demonstration was so valuable! 😎

    • @pattyboucetta1897
      @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think it's to help the person who is talking to him; sometimes when people are feeling anxious it's hard for them to look into someone's eyes.

    • @KralleZ7
      @KralleZ7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pattyboucetta1897 oh, I did not think of that. Makes sense. Thanks 👏

    • @edwinbravo6283
      @edwinbravo6283 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no it’s because it was sunny inside

    • @rhobodub
      @rhobodub ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s because Julien has style. Leave him and his shades alone, lol.

  • @AxonRiseMusic
    @AxonRiseMusic ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're on fire lately Julien! (You always are honestly haha!) I'm also dealing with letting go of resentment towards my parents--though they're both still here, things weren't always ideal--and I've never been able to wrap my mind around the concept of forgiveness when you're still hurt and angry and have no closure or apology from them (and even sometimes when you do have an apology but it doesn't fix all the damage). So crazy to find closure and forgiveness and understand what it really means and I think finally, after decades, I'm starting to have some of that sink in. Appreciate the hell out of you man 🙏 Hope to meet you someday :)

  • @extreme-cm8hb
    @extreme-cm8hb ปีที่แล้ว

    That was huge! I don't need someone to validate my feelings. Hell, I can even take it a step further and know that nobody has to understand my feelings, or what I'm going through either.

  • @LaurentMelnyk
    @LaurentMelnyk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Total gold the part where we admit that the control is a need in order to fit some f.ed up narrative where we are not supposed to show our distress to people that matters / define us .

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES! 🙏

    • @LaurentMelnyk
      @LaurentMelnyk ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@JulienHimself Bisou bisou . Julien Thank you very much this one helped my tr. release . Surprise . Very good one . Salute maestro

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LaurentMelnyk Glad my content has been so helpful!

    • @LaurentMelnyk
      @LaurentMelnyk ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JulienHimself me too bro me too . Guitar !!!!!!

  • @nesoflow9090
    @nesoflow9090 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wouldn’t personally say i’m in a ‘bad place’, but that does NOT take away from the fact that this and your other content has been able to help me let go of a couple past experiences that had been locked inside that had made changes to my social life and is also a useful way to see signs that some people I associate with are not doing well and ideas for helping them👏👍

  • @aleksandarj.8369
    @aleksandarj.8369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy can be proud for opening up.. i could relate to him as i lost my dad at similar age and went threw this process. . Interesting i did exercise to wrote letter to my dad and now seing similar approach here is strange experience. Best wish to this young man, you can make it

  • @ritikroshan4555
    @ritikroshan4555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this man is changing lifes of millions of people🙏

  • @DarkMelodies-hv9wf
    @DarkMelodies-hv9wf ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yesss love these types of videos

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Glad these live demonstrations are so helpful! 🙏

  • @matthiasgarnier8
    @matthiasgarnier8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Julien, I would like to thank you because in part thanks to you, today I felt for the first time that I have value again, without condition. It is such an amazing feeling. I feel that life can be good again, effortlessly. The journey to get there was really, really long, hard and painful. But today I think I've reach the finish line, the one where no matter what, just being is enough to have value.
    Thank you so much.

  • @jimmydavis7587
    @jimmydavis7587 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you to all the guy managing Julien's comments, you're an unsung hero

  • @barefootjamie143
    @barefootjamie143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My therapist has started this last week. She started with my anger and didn't pull me out of it. I have been busting into tears for little triggers when I'm alone thinking and it sucks. I figure she opened up something and showed me it's not so much anger it's so much more than that 😢🎉 "I do feel lighter" came to mind So I guess I'm gonna quit my bitchin then 😅😀
    Love these videos and the community 🫂

  • @finallyanime
    @finallyanime ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was definitely the strongest video yet. great camerawork too. wish i could see more

  • @PauIdenino
    @PauIdenino ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Courageous dude 🙏🏼

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, massive respect to him for having the willingness and courage to do the work! 🙏

  • @StrictlyChosen
    @StrictlyChosen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    beautiful thank you i let go tons cry it all out on your live demos, much needed x100000

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad they're so impactful! 🙌

  • @thijsstrooper
    @thijsstrooper ปีที่แล้ว

    Julien, please look into releasing inherited memories: sometimes there is no way you can actually feel everything, an inherited memory will block that feeling forever unless released.

  • @frstchan
    @frstchan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get anxious just looking at people sitting in a circle

  • @corym.johnson7241
    @corym.johnson7241 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're facing your inner dragons. Honor brother.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว

      Massive respect to him, yes! 🔥👊

  • @wyattwilliams4813
    @wyattwilliams4813 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your content Julian, I watch you pretty much every day since I discovered you. I went from crying to laughing pretty hard at 20:32 - 20:40. I lost my dad last year from als so this video was tough but still thought that immediate switch up was funny. Thanks for the outstanding content.

  • @jc-xzf
    @jc-xzf ปีที่แล้ว

    This help me a lot after watching this I’m going to work on the pause before doing things this is what I’m going to fight during the fear of the fear I need to get over it quick so worm tongue (negative thoughts) doesn’t get to me and do what I actually wants to do and not listen to what is stopping me Thankyou and I wish this guy the best Thankyou much y’all helped a lot

  • @vildanb8038
    @vildanb8038 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to say big thank you julien !!!

  • @adamburwell4081
    @adamburwell4081 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Phillipians 4:6-7
    Do not fret or have anxiety about anything but in everything by prayer and petition, definite requests with thanksgiving continue to make your wants known to God. And God's peace shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace which transcends all understanding shall garrison mounth guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
    These are spiritual issues that Julien isn't quite aware of yet. I pray for his salvation so that he will stop putting bandaids on wounds that need stitches.

    • @serenakang4098
      @serenakang4098 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ephesians 1:7-8 In Jesus's blood we have forgiveness. I pray Jo can feel God's love to understand that forgiveness does not mean the person deserves it. Jesus died on the cross for people who WANTED him dead... the ultimate example of love and forgiveness. I believe only by experiencing Jesus's love can we extend that level of love to others and ourselves

    • @hifromjake6007
      @hifromjake6007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@serenakang4098 very good perspective

    • @christinaforras
      @christinaforras ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life gives us what we need when we need it. For some, a passage from Philippians will provide healing. For others, a 1:1 coaching session will do more good. Truth is One, Paths are Many. This Universe is benevolent, and a positive outcome to all things is guaranteed - that can unfold in infinite ways 🌌

  • @Samsulek_mdg
    @Samsulek_mdg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is hard to watch but I needed this

  • @enriqueavalos
    @enriqueavalos ปีที่แล้ว

    great camera work and editing and a very real conversation.

  • @casper7221
    @casper7221 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate what you are doing!

  • @dakk3
    @dakk3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What if it's not the past that someone struggles with, but with the future? Like if someone forgives for the people in the past but fears that something like that happen again?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The future is unknown… If you fear it, it’s because you’re PROJECTING onto it! (from your past) 😉

  • @hectorg362
    @hectorg362 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kinda sad how it's mainly all dudes who doesn't have a friend to talk about issues and shit like that. Thanks for this

  • @extreme-cm8hb
    @extreme-cm8hb ปีที่แล้ว

    I "called" my late father and left a message.

  • @djebarazidan103
    @djebarazidan103 ปีที่แล้ว

    great as always

  • @Redspore
    @Redspore ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was pretty cool

  • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
    @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great work so much movement 🔥

  • @roy2579
    @roy2579 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    what do you think about Psilocybine therapy? ive tried mushrooms before, it really forces you to accept everything in your subconcious (temporary ego reset/death), and then you are emotionaly relieved from it.
    That helped me a lot, but you could probably also get this with meditation if you have the discipline to stick with it.

    • @MrMiroto
      @MrMiroto ปีที่แล้ว

      Until there is enough research on this topic and in general it's better to not self medicate. stay safe.

    • @Majin33
      @Majin33 ปีที่แล้ว

      psilocybin (magic mushrooms) is hands down the best medicine and its 100% natural. no doubt its the best therapy. so many people in the world have been cured from depression, anxiety, traumas, etc. because of it.

    • @Majin33
      @Majin33 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrMiroto there actually is a lot of research but big pharma won't admit it because they wouldn't be able to keep making money if everyone used psilocybin to cure their depression, anxiety, traumas, etc. its that simple.

    • @MrMiroto
      @MrMiroto ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Govenic I suppose you went into the trip with a goal in mind, researched psilocybin, its effects, the dose, etc. .
      Especially it's a natural product the strength can vary a lot. I'm glad to hear you managed the uncomfortable feelings that came up well, but never underestimate the possible danger of such mind altering states.
      I think there is no need for such substances if you want to transform your life and too many people are taking them without considering their life changing dangers, especially 'cause of the current hype.

    • @zwartepeat3552
      @zwartepeat3552 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrMiroto Agreed absolutely but I have to say drug induced state of consciousness allowed me to tap into things on a real level. For me for example MDMA and weed have been really transformative. I don't know if it is needed because now they are part of my experience and I don't know how far I would have gotten without the substances but what I can say is that it really gave the kick I needed to get out of some state of mind and it helped me physically feel the snap, as opposed to just have a mild realisation on my own I truly felt the universe dropping it on me. I think the power of the experience is something important because the better the realisation the more impact this will have on your life, and that is aligned I think with the kind of releases that we can see on Julien's videos. Now I also want to say that drugs are not harmless things and that if you take them for personal introspection you should absolutely research to the best of your abilities or have a professional watch you (I am thinking about the legalisation of ketamine therapy centers). Good luck to all

  • @M.C._3369
    @M.C._3369 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. 👊🏽

  • @yearofthedragonjane
    @yearofthedragonjane ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope he has supportive friends now.

  • @vladeye
    @vladeye ปีที่แล้ว

    I really prefer Owen’s videos! 😊

  • @papodecortes
    @papodecortes ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey! I Gabriel and I from Brazil. I love your videos and job, and how you help peaple who has anxiety and all of this thing. I was thinking.. May I translate your videos to my language? (portuguese) Peaple in Brazil have to know you and your job!!1

  • @vanhalenps4
    @vanhalenps4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People notice and criticize the sunglasses then they don't notice his eyes are obviously irritated when he takes them off.
    Says a lot about society.

  • @f8teTV
    @f8teTV ปีที่แล้ว

    good shit!
    keep doing what your doing I like it :)

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! A lot more live demonstrations coming soon! 🙏

  • @seraphin8999
    @seraphin8999 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good you took of the sunglasses that was strange😅

  • @kushalshukla444
    @kushalshukla444 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro I love your fashion can you make videos on grooming and fashion pls 🙏

  • @equals5StaR
    @equals5StaR ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those are all probably good things, but all this man needs to understand is 1 simple truth. The truth that men and women are not perfect, even if they are our parents. We tend to think of our parents as "godlike", projecting great stuff on them, but in reality they are flawed as we are.
    In order for this man to heal is for him to accept that what his father did was the best he could do. Yes it might have not been the best for the situation and its definitely not what this man wanted. I've learned that placing my projections and hopes on other people would only lead to disappointment. His father was either flawed or wanted to fight to the end, meaning "saying his goodbye" kinda means you're giving up knowing that you're doomed. Maybe his father didn't want to do that. Or maybe his life experiences made it hard for him to express his feelings. Either way what this man should do is accept his father as he was - a flawed man and forgive him and remember him with good.
    ps. keep in mind that projecting your expectations on others can lead you do be fucked by a narcissistic vampire, since they thrive on this.

  • @omarrodriguez3116
    @omarrodriguez3116 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk about this one. I imagine he creates more anxiety

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว

      There's definitely a lot more work to be done, of course... But this equips him with CRUCIAL tools and a direction in terms of what to dive into and LET GO of! 🙏

    • @omarrodriguez3116
      @omarrodriguez3116 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JulienHimself I agree. I watched the rest of the video and saw the improvement.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omarrodriguez3116 Nice! 👌

  • @djebarazidan103
    @djebarazidan103 ปีที่แล้ว

    what do you mean by raw and open after meditation???

  • @caiofernando1843
    @caiofernando1843 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you this man ? Is there any couse that i can help people as you do

  • @MyLifesDreamis2WorkWithWolves
    @MyLifesDreamis2WorkWithWolves 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I impossible help?
    Do you do one on one help!?? It’s an emergency. I’ll explain below
    I don’t think even this can help me.
    It’s a combination but
    On one hand
    I can’t even say I love you to my family. Not just that I’m never my real self. I never actually say what’s in my mind. I can’t ever say I love you, thank you, or just show any emotion.
    BUT INSIDE I Fukin saying it everyday and am the most appropriativd person they probably ever could meet. I really grateful for everything even if it’s small. But it isn’t just family it’s me as a whole like in public I can never actually be my real self or say what I want. I just ain’t normal.
    And I’ve studied your stuff
    But I can’t think of absolutely any childhood trauma to let go off in my subconscious.
    My core state I’d say is fear? BecHse I’m constantly afraid. Afraid of being judged, beat up on the street, what people think. But then it’s like well is that because I fear being alone? Or fear not being loved? I don’t know
    But when I try to do these I don’t feel nothing. Even in the moment. Say if I just say fuck it just say I love you.
    Obviously something is there otherwise I wouldn’t be resisting saying it. But I don’t physically feel nothing lol????? Makes no sense man. I don’t get it at all?? Like I don’t feel anything even when triggered it’s just there. It just is.
    So I think even you can’t help me at this point.
    Then they’ll die and I’ll never even of said I love you and or they wouldn’t of even known my real self.
    And then as you say
    So what? What if that’s true?
    Well
    Well then I just idk what’s the point almost like fuck why couldn’t I just fukin say it? It’s not hard it’s fukin words. It would be detrimental regret and guilt. But on the other hand it is like well who says you have to show you love them? So what?
    Well I guess the only think I can think of as the core cause is
    Well if I don’t express I love them then they might not love me. And which leads to either not feeling loved or being alone............ and I’ve tried tuning into them. What if it really happened? Which it will because their gonna die one day but I can’t fuckin feel Jack shit. If anyone has the motivation to Give up it’s me because even this can’t help me and I dunno what to do anymore
    Maybe I have a disability at this point
    I’ve gone thru so much self help shit. And now obviously after learning ur stuff I know that our default is abundance and it’s removing the shit rather than getting there. Like I’ve studied your stuff to the T but I just cannot let go of whatver the hell is stopping me being able to
    1. Be my self and fear of just speaking my mind in general. I can’t even reply back when people walk past in a morning walk saying good morning. I dred walking past people literally incase they speak to me.
    And
    2. I can’t even say thank you, please, I love you to family. I don’t hardly even talk to my family and I live with mother too.......... this is bad really bad and I need emergency help to fix this from you. I feel I qualify for desperate help. So do you do one on one help? I feel I know your stuff inside out btw. I’ve learnt pretty much everything you teach. Including gone through transformation mastery video course

    • @Fandomsoffffffffffffff
      @Fandomsoffffffffffffff 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So it’s been a few weeks. How’re you feeling?

    • @MyLifesDreamis2WorkWithWolves
      @MyLifesDreamis2WorkWithWolves 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Fandomsoffffffffffffff well life aint changed. i still feel ill never be anything. but uh might as well deal with it when that happens and i have nothing else left
      for now ill just continue while i have wat i got in life
      also distractions like movies n games

  • @kushalshukla444
    @kushalshukla444 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro can you make video on picking up woman ...

  • @mord0
    @mord0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t understand why you wear the glasses, doesn’t seem very conducive to genuine connection

    • @marshallmaia8130
      @marshallmaia8130 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Because socially anxious people struggle with strong eye contact. The glasses help the anxious people around him feel more comfortable with looking at him without triggering their anxiety around eye contact.

    • @mord0
      @mord0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah that’s some bs lmao. He’s all about exposure but shields them from eye contact? It seems like a way to distinguish himself as nonchalant and cool. He’s indoors - makes no sense. Men need genuine connection. I am a licensed therapist and i would never wear sunglasses to protect the client. That would be reinforcing the fear that it is in fact something to be feared. Use the fear as exploration

    • @marshallmaia8130
      @marshallmaia8130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mord0 This is a different environment than a therapy session. Maybe don't be so judgmental about how other people appear or choose to present themself to the world. Seems like you're trying to discredit Julien's intentions. Everyone has their own way of doing things.

    • @mord0
      @mord0 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y’all really worshipping this guy lol

    • @marshallmaia8130
      @marshallmaia8130 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mord0 Because he's productive and wants to help people, can't say the same about you in this instance. Complaining about sun glasses like a Karen.