I guess it depends if kids and a family is something you value. But I know a lot of people don't know this, but in certain states you can definitely get around a woman who would want to take all your money. Not every state demands that the man pay the woman if they break up. (In my opinion, if you have a house wife she probably genuinely needs money and can't survive without her man's income.) But if you pick the right partner, you wouldn't have to deal with someone like that.
See why men married them at 16 back in the day? That was the only way to secure a virgin or low count female. Feminism has done a good job at conditioning fathers to push their daughters to be like men the last 40 years.
He forgot one dealbreaker: sex work or onlyfans work? How many men are going to seriously wife up a woman who so many guys have seen naked or did something sexual with? Could she even respect/love him the way he deserves after all that?
A man in the dating game wanting marriage is not only competing against the top 10 or 20% of men but also a government that can usually provide better than he can ever hope to.
Recently saw a resume. She had a Communication degree with a minor in Diversity, She's bilingual in English and a language you have never heard of. She was trying to get a job as an Office Admin.
1) Single moms - had kids out of wedlock 2) Divorced moms - had kids within a failed marriage 3) Widowed moms - through no fault of their own have been left in a state of singleness due to death of their husband
Exactly. People wonder why I detest single moms yet I grew up without a father. I would always tell them that my parents were married before my dad died while traveling for work. My mum didnt have us out of wedlock she just got unlucky 2 years into their marriage.
Ya'll are dating? I just moved in with whichever woman paid me any attention and we made each other miserable for a couple of years. Average man dates 50+ women? Hory sht, I was lucky to get 3.
It's a very hard pill to swallow.. but I can't deny what's being said here there's no point fighting reality. All I would say is that it shouldn't be this way at all? Something went clearly wrong during our march into modernity. I'm considered the oldest end of Gen Z at 24, tried discussing this with my parents who aggressively disagree with it. They think cos they were young and fashionable during Nirvana and understand tech that they can never be out of touch. One thing I've notice is if you challenge them on shit they get quite aggressive.. why I don't know. Either way great vid
really?... 1 out of 20 sounds unreasonably high to me... i don't think you can find one out of 20 women that haven't been with too many dudes and didn't do some horrid stuff sexually that you would find unacceptable in a wife... and now out of that number you still have to find one worth marrying (decent looking enough and kind enough).... 5% is incredibly high, there is no way
Get married if you want family court to take away - Your house, savings, children, second car, retirement savings, alimony, child support, furmiture, pets, tax return and associated land. You get your toothbrush and the bills. They say you have paid these bills anyway. Never marry a women until divorce laws are fair at 50. 50.
@Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart I know some guys don't mind, or even like, tattoos on a woman. I'm not making a blanket statement about tattoos, but it's just my preference.
But wait, guys. It gets worse... Let's say you're a young fellow, strapping of physique and uncommonly wise for your age, and you manage to find one of these ultra rare ladies. Let's go even farther into supposition, and make the leap that not only is she marriageable, but that she genuinely wants to be a wife, and even more specifically that she wants to be YOUR wife. Jackpot, right? Well, no. You see, every day for the rest of her life, the harpies that are her friends are going to be beckoning her toward every single one of those deal breakers. Society will label her the victim, even if she doesn't, and then relentlessly try to convert her to their perspective. That same society will also label you the oppressor, no matter how well you treat her, and use every tool at their disposal to make her hate you. But wait, it gets worse. Sorry guys, it does. You see, it isn't even just the pressures from the outside that will ruin things. Us guys will do just about everything we can to fuck it up too. Every single lesson we've learned growing up is a lie. We have as many delusions and lies floating around our heads as they do. So, as time passes in your marriage, most likely you're doing as much damage from within the marriage as her friends are from outside of it. This doesn't mean she's not responsible for her own decisions. But we have to own our part of things, and we suck at relationships too. So, having found the proverbial needle in the haystack, there is almost a foregone certainty that the "happy marriage" won't last past the first 3 years. Unfortunately, you'll almost certainly have a kid within those three years, meaning that you're now a slave for the next 20ish years of your life. Congratulations. You beat the odds and found the good one.
I’ve been married to my wife for 23 years. You put the work into it and you try to make her into the woman you desire. It’s not what you get that defines you but your daily choices. If you want success, you might want to give Jesus a try.
@@robnelson6545 I'm glad you've gotten this far without a major mishap. But you're flat out wrong about "put in the effort." Even now, after all this time and effort, the whole world is still trying to get your wife to hate you. If she ever moves in that direction, they will celebrate it and reward her for her decision. Then, every action you take to try to win her back will be labeled as misogynist. I'd also like to note that having been married for 23yrs, you got a chance to build a foundation before the woke culture really got rolling. What you have is NOT representative of what is available today. Even with 23yrs of effort, you're still at risk. Guys looking to get a relationship going today aren't at risk. They're 100% sunk. You can't unfuck someone who wants to be fucked.
@@ChristnThms I’m going to try and help you out here. In the 80s and 90s when I grew up, feminism was already rolling, just there wasn’t any understanding, you just had to live with this nagging pain and shame and blame. It’s true that the effects weren’t as pronounced and minorities were a lot nicer. Still my wife being someone who works full time definitely felt the pull of resenting me because we got married and she didn’t have a chance to be on her own and she also put in a lot of weight even a few years after we started dating in college. She would go silent on me and avoided conflict and saw me as being the problem. This was very difficult. It caused me to develop my own issues. Then we needed to get therapy for an adoption and she lost weight in order to qualify and I got help. Now things are pretty good although we are not perfect by any means. I don’t think feminism though is the root problem. I think the root problem is we as people tend to put ourselves into groups. We do this so we can not be criticized for doing things that are sinful or mean to each other. We in our hearts like this protection so that we can avoid being criticized and then hurt people with immunity. We are all sinful fallen people. We as men are actually to blame for some of this. We are not good people when we idiolize women. I was guilty of this. It’s hard not to do this when you’re looking at porn and when your mom is abusing you when you’re younger and you just want to not lose hope so you dream of a wonderful woman in your future. If I were eating with those odds today like you say they are, I actually would try to understand what is going on as much as possible and find a woman who is available that isn’t repulsive to me and be honest and say unless you make these changes, I can’t see this going long term, but if you do, then I’m open to looking into it. I wouldn’t get involved sexually with her - keep your standards high - until she is worth it. Sex is more then sex. But hold out either until she is perfect. Also use each other to grow yourself. Then before you commit you have to get her to be part of your tribe. She can’t have other affiliations. You can tell her that and you have to alpha it up but this is your demand. She can’t be aligned with ideologies or her friends or parents. If she doesn’t want that then you have nothing to offer. You may think no woman would go for this, but if you’re a quality guy you are mistaken. She will love you for your standards and holding her to it. Your only ace you have is your attention and you can just not give that and she will break down, but use it sparingly as it is like political power and best used when limited. Finally, Christianity is the only group of people without a closed tribe. Getting involved in that can be great for your relationships
As someone who has a Master's in Econ Policy and has taken both math and statistics, I'm so happy with how Cappy made this assessment. I'm going to get this book soon.
The lack of slender women in the U.S. is the main thing screwing up the sexual marketplace. A woman that is slender is boosted on the marketplace just because she is slender. That's why Asia has a better marketplace....pretty slender girls everywhere. It changes the whole marketplace.
For that your own government is to blame.... I didn't see as many fat people in my life where i live as i did going in the Us for 3 days... When i got in supermarkets, every shop is full with high calorie things, it's almost impossible to find anything healthy at all in the Us...
When its time for me to start a family, I'm just going to go back to Mexico and find me someone who is actually a devout Catholic and pretty and just marry her
If I can afford it I'm moving to Ireland where you still need grounds and 3 years of separation before divorce and the custody rights of both parents are taken seriously. I know it's catching up to the rest of the west quick but in 15 years when I decide to settle down even if the laws change it should still at least be worth it to date there, the damage will lag behind a bit.
You really did a great job in writing this book Aaron. It's my favorite out of all of your books, it should be required reading for all single men in America.
I have no tatts, I have Libertarian sensibilities, I like guns, Ketogenic eating, self sufficient living with chickens and preps, I have only been with one man (my hubs, married ten years). We play video games on the weekend and just hang out 💕 He does think I'm too much of a prepper though...but hey, MY family will be prepared for the inevitable collapse of Western society😅. I hate makeup, but I like being cute when we go out. I also like mowing the lawn; fresh cut grass is my favorite smell, besides sizzlin' bacon. 😏 He works hard at his physical job and gets oil rubbins on the message table on weekends too. It's not all rainbows though, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis 10 years ago but because of my diet and periodic dry fasting, I am 100% symptom free today. So life is good. 😁
I am old and out of all this, but I have been paying attention to the dating/mating game because what is happening today IMHO constitutes an existential crisis. Modernity has seriously disrupted marriage and family, the basic institutions opon which civilization and our species depends. The implications are much bigger than just your sex life , there's no shortage of sex as such, but of the benefits of it for the society as a whole. I fear what is happening to us is not unlike the famous Calhoun Mouse Utopia experiments. Look those up. Are young men now the "Beautiful Ones" in that ominous experiment?
@@arsenal4444 uhh, okay... actually, Nietzsche and Spinoza are more my speed. And although I was raised Roman Catholic I've gained an appreciation for Taoism. Uhh, okay...?
Bingo. No good man wants to come home from work to a dirty house, no warm home cooked food, and a wife who’ll challenge him at everything he does or says. Fuck that. I’ll die alone but happy, debt, and stress free.
I told my girlfriend that I would NEVER go to bed with a leftist even if she was drop-dead gorgeous. She said "yes you would," I then replied, "maybe one time, but I wouldn't enjoy it."
Why do you even discuss marriage today? Marriage is a worse deal in man's life he can ever have. God! Unbelievable! You are talking about what poison is less poisonous to swallow like you have to do it at all.
..."happily married" is way too subjective. I know bullies who are the happiest making others cry or knocking them to the ground. Stepping on ants made my ex happy.
One of my exes kept her fingernails chewed to the quick, often drawing blood. Her teeth ended up being worn down by this habit and resembled baby teeth. While this doesn’t exactly fit the criteria of “cutting” I do consider it self harm. She also was a heavy smoker, and while it didn’t bother me at the time (i smoked too then) I consider it a form of self abuse nowadays.
Teachers aren't 'underpaid'. The role has been corporatized. - Lets say you have a guy who is a brilliant chef. But in his city, through various ways, the only restaurants left open are fast food joints. If he wants to go about his fast food job like he's a chef - so be it. But he's doing it at his own prerogative. The role only needs, and requires, someone to be a line cook. - Yes, there's some brilliant teachers among the herds of credentialed idiots. But the role is designed for idiots to do, via curriculum and protocols - for an idiot's wage. - The great majority of teachers are lucky to have state sanctioned unions; negotiating salaries that allow them to pay mortgages. Their role has been dumbed down to the point that automation is inevitable. Their role in society - is verging on charity. And if teaching had a credential system that sifted the intelligent from the idiots - the great majority would have never been teachers, to begin with. That's the sort of system that would have paid the best what they're worth. - There's no such thing as collective labor that's paid by performance. It has never existed - it won't ever exist. The teachers who want to be paid for the effort they put in, and the talent they posses, need to either fight to uncollectivize teaching - or shut up.
And thats being generous because there are many deal breakers that exist that women can keep hidden for months or maybe even years. Even men who are getting divorced to women they've known for years will express surprise at seeing an evil side of her they were unaware of.
Do cosmetic implants (not medically related ones such as for a mastectomy) and lip injections count as body mutilation? The same logic of mental disorders can be applied as to the reasons they get them.
Since getting divorced almost a decade ago, I have dated quite a bit. I have only dated one single mother, and only a few that had been divorced. Maybe I was lucky, or lived in the right places, but I was able to find plenty of available women in their 30s that had no baggage.
I live in Europe and have spent 4 years in Asia. In terms of MARRIAGE material the suitable percentage of women isn't much different from the US. Easier to bang high value girls in Asia, yeah obviously. Scandinavian females are heavily indoctrinated by Marxist ideology by the way.
One other key missing item is the opportunity cost of marriage. Women wait at the end of the race for the winners. You have just spent your twenties getting your education and establishing your career. Meanwhile she has been having a lot of fun. She now wants children you fall in love marry procreate and she changes her mind. Meanwhile you will take 10-15 years paying her off and rehousing yourself. Now imagine an alternative instead of wasting $200,000 k + on lost house marriage ceremony ring child support you simply dropped the money into a pension fund at say 35. (and you spend your 30s partying) The rule of 72 states divide 72 by your fund return and it shows how quickly an investment will double. First you get tax relief on the pension investment so now you have $250,000. Now say a return of 15% pa which equates to a doubling every 5 years. OK every 10 years your investment will quadruple. So 45 $1,000,000 55 $4,000,000 65 $16,000,000. Most men see the money they dropped on the marriage as a one timer expense. They do not bother to count the opportunity cost. You have not lost $200k you have lost $16million.
@@awolgeordie9926 Ah no. Im for european way of no debt high education and public health care which is the same for rich and the poor. I dont have problems with abortions or gay marriages. But i do have problems with feminism and modern wokeness.
@@unwokeneuropean3590 Uh, euro way involves stealing others money. "Public" healthcare is forcing others to pay for your healthcare since you're incapable of affording it. Same goes for education and anything else the government "pays" for.
Don't you dare ruin a man's imagination. It will only disappoint you if you see the OG model. Enjoy the imagination of your mind, that is your goddess inside that silhouette. She is gorgeous beyond words.
Depends on where you live. There's about a dozen states in the US that have common law marriage. Of course government shouldn't have any involvement in our personal lives.
So to sum up,... out of all the ladies out there the pool of actual pickable ladies is 3% roughly. This is just the pool of possible, potential partners. Screw this,... I got better chances with the power ball.
Well i guess since i am a man an got a deal breaker that is OCD that won't be going away i guess it's time to live a life of involuntary celibacy and no not that type of involuntary celibacy(i want to fucking die what world am i living in)
Without marriage and without children being born our population will continue to go down. There will not be enough young people to support the older generations. When women retire they will have no one else to blame but themselves. The government must change the laws on marriage to make it more positive for men instead so negative. They created this problem they are going to have to deal with the negative consequences. Although it is us the tax payers who ultimately pay for it and the next generation of which fewer will be born. The older people will need to realize that feminism will make it far tougher on them and their expensive healthcare they cannot expect to get help from the young generations.
As a rule I never date any woman who fat women. I had a girl wanna say well what are you gonna do with the fat girl with me and I said I’m not doing anything with you lose the weight and then we’ll talk about it
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Bottom line, get a dog. 90% will be happy to see you come home, never bite you, and never run away ever.
Idk about runaway as even the best trained dogs have run away but you’re right in the rest of it.
Cope
Make that 999%
Want to know who really loves you, your wife or your dog?
Lock them both in a trunk, come back in a half hour and see which one is happy to see you.
@@Glasshopper lmao
"The percent of vaginals who are marriage material"
Alarmingly LOW
@Carlos Morales I really prefer Cee U Next Tuesday, but TH-cam deletes my comments
and AC is generous, big time....
How to decide if a woman is worth marrying: Step 1: See the woman. Step 2: Remind yourself that marriage is death. Step 3: Leave.
No women are marriage material, unless you want to give another person power over you for no reason.
Exactly
Nailed it.
Unless, you know... You have a power dynamic that makes you the dom.
@@bemii5771 If you're a dom, why would you marry a broke woman, allowing her to legally take your money if you divorce?
I guess it depends if kids and a family is something you value. But I know a lot of people don't know this, but in certain states you can definitely get around a woman who would want to take all your money. Not every state demands that the man pay the woman if they break up. (In my opinion, if you have a house wife she probably genuinely needs money and can't survive without her man's income.) But if you pick the right partner, you wouldn't have to deal with someone like that.
If she went to the Carlson School of Management, has anger issues, and is a great economist, that's not your girl...
That's Cappy
Dont forget dog beater too.
lol read about how spartans achieved greatness
I just read in a book today, it's gold:
“Why get married? Just find a woman who hates you and give her your house."
that's a good one
😂😂
I didn’t hear a woman’s body count in the list of dealbreakers. It should be near the top of the list.
Yeah not sure how anyone would ignore that
See why men married them at 16 back in the day? That was the only way to secure a virgin or low count female. Feminism has done a good job at conditioning fathers to push their daughters to be like men the last 40 years.
@@thystaff742 yeah dude, the masculine wahem these days are very very hard to be around. They are not pleasant at all. Non compliant all of the time.
@@travis6694 ayo fellow Travis
And none of this means she still wouldn't take you to the cleaners after divorce. Good luck vetting that out.
Nailed it.
He forgot one dealbreaker: sex work or onlyfans work? How many men are going to seriously wife up a woman who so many guys have seen naked or did something sexual with? Could she even respect/love him the way he deserves after all that?
A man in the dating game wanting marriage is not only competing against the top 10 or 20% of men but also a government that can usually provide better than he can ever hope to.
Recently saw a resume. She had a Communication degree with a minor in Diversity, She's bilingual in English and a language you have never heard of. She was trying to get a job as an Office Admin.
Hahahahaha
1) Single moms - had kids out of wedlock
2) Divorced moms - had kids within a failed marriage
3) Widowed moms - through no fault of their own have been left in a state of singleness due to death of their husband
Exactly. People wonder why I detest single moms yet I grew up without a father. I would always tell them that my parents were married before my dad died while traveling for work. My mum didnt have us out of wedlock she just got unlucky 2 years into their marriage.
Ideally through no fault of their own...
3 is very Rare, not a factor statisticslly
"100%" -Simp Nation
Ya'll are dating? I just moved in with whichever woman paid me any attention and we made each other miserable for a couple of years. Average man dates 50+ women? Hory sht, I was lucky to get 3.
The difference between 3 and 50 could be a guy being 5"8 or 5"11
yeah I doubt the average man dates >50 women
I don't know man, mine makes me very happy.
Maybe I'm just lucky.
A person declaring bankruptcy cannot erase student loan debt. That's one thing that cannot be removed. Period.
It's a very hard pill to swallow.. but I can't deny what's being said here there's no point fighting reality. All I would say is that it shouldn't be this way at all? Something went clearly wrong during our march into modernity. I'm considered the oldest end of Gen Z at 24, tried discussing this with my parents who aggressively disagree with it. They think cos they were young and fashionable during Nirvana and understand tech that they can never be out of touch. One thing I've notice is if you challenge them on shit they get quite aggressive.. why I don't know. Either way great vid
pensive handshake, same here bro
@@arsenal4444 we need to accept the situation brother
Nirvana as in the BAND Nirvana?
Damn 5%... I knew it was low...but damn that's like hitting the lottery
At the end ... Wow that 2% average is even worse as I was listening
2% to 5%, yeah. That was basically the verdict for ideal for marriage. Over half are absolute no-gos.
5% is still way too high, 1 in 20 are not going to pass the rooster stacking test, especially if they are a 5 or above in looks.
Its less than 1%
really?... 1 out of 20 sounds unreasonably high to me... i don't think you can find one out of 20 women that haven't been with too many dudes and didn't do some horrid stuff sexually that you would find unacceptable in a wife... and now out of that number you still have to find one worth marrying (decent looking enough and kind enough)....
5% is incredibly high, there is no way
Get married if you want family court to take away -
Your house, savings, children, second car, retirement savings, alimony, child support, furmiture, pets, tax return and associated land.
You get your toothbrush and the bills. They say you have paid these bills anyway. Never marry a women until divorce laws are fair at 50. 50.
So having 3 tattoos is okay? NOPE!
One tattoo is a red flag 🚩 for me.
Piercings are also a sign of instability and are just plain ugly as well.
The day I find the girl with “AWALT” inked in Old English letters directly over her @ss is the day I found “the one” ...no, wait...
@Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart nope still shows she has no self control and is not feminine its just trash
@Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart I know some guys don't mind, or even like, tattoos on a woman. I'm not making a blanket statement about tattoos, but it's just my preference.
But wait, guys. It gets worse...
Let's say you're a young fellow, strapping of physique and uncommonly wise for your age, and you manage to find one of these ultra rare ladies. Let's go even farther into supposition, and make the leap that not only is she marriageable, but that she genuinely wants to be a wife, and even more specifically that she wants to be YOUR wife.
Jackpot, right?
Well, no. You see, every day for the rest of her life, the harpies that are her friends are going to be beckoning her toward every single one of those deal breakers. Society will label her the victim, even if she doesn't, and then relentlessly try to convert her to their perspective. That same society will also label you the oppressor, no matter how well you treat her, and use every tool at their disposal to make her hate you.
But wait, it gets worse. Sorry guys, it does. You see, it isn't even just the pressures from the outside that will ruin things. Us guys will do just about everything we can to fuck it up too. Every single lesson we've learned growing up is a lie. We have as many delusions and lies floating around our heads as they do. So, as time passes in your marriage, most likely you're doing as much damage from within the marriage as her friends are from outside of it. This doesn't mean she's not responsible for her own decisions. But we have to own our part of things, and we suck at relationships too.
So, having found the proverbial needle in the haystack, there is almost a foregone certainty that the "happy marriage" won't last past the first 3 years. Unfortunately, you'll almost certainly have a kid within those three years, meaning that you're now a slave for the next 20ish years of your life.
Congratulations. You beat the odds and found the good one.
Holy shit. This comment needs more likes. This is how I feel. I just couldn’t articulate it as well as this. This comment is absolute truth.
Yeah. To sum up, as incredibly unlikely as it is that you will find a marriageable woman, it wouldn't be worth doing anyway even if you did.
I’ve been married to my wife for 23 years. You put the work into it and you try to make her into the woman you desire. It’s not what you get that defines you but your daily choices. If you want success, you might want to give Jesus a try.
@@robnelson6545 I'm glad you've gotten this far without a major mishap. But you're flat out wrong about "put in the effort." Even now, after all this time and effort, the whole world is still trying to get your wife to hate you. If she ever moves in that direction, they will celebrate it and reward her for her decision. Then, every action you take to try to win her back will be labeled as misogynist.
I'd also like to note that having been married for 23yrs, you got a chance to build a foundation before the woke culture really got rolling. What you have is NOT representative of what is available today. Even with 23yrs of effort, you're still at risk. Guys looking to get a relationship going today aren't at risk. They're 100% sunk. You can't unfuck someone who wants to be fucked.
@@ChristnThms I’m going to try and help you out here. In the 80s and 90s when I grew up, feminism was already rolling, just there wasn’t any understanding, you just had to live with this nagging pain and shame and blame. It’s true that the effects weren’t as pronounced and minorities were a lot nicer. Still my wife being someone who works full time definitely felt the pull of resenting me because we got married and she didn’t have a chance to be on her own and she also put in a lot of weight even a few years after we started dating in college. She would go silent on me and avoided conflict and saw me as being the problem. This was very difficult. It caused me to develop my own issues. Then we needed to get therapy for an adoption and she lost weight in order to qualify and I got help. Now things are pretty good although we are not perfect by any means. I don’t think feminism though is the root problem. I think the root problem is we as people tend to put ourselves into groups. We do this so we can not be criticized for doing things that are sinful or mean to each other. We in our hearts like this protection so that we can avoid being criticized and then hurt people with immunity. We are all sinful fallen people. We as men are actually to blame for some of this. We are not good people when we idiolize women. I was guilty of this. It’s hard not to do this when you’re looking at porn and when your mom is abusing you when you’re younger and you just want to not lose hope so you dream of a wonderful woman in your future. If I were eating with those odds today like you say they are, I actually would try to understand what is going on as much as possible and find a woman who is available that isn’t repulsive to me and be honest and say unless you make these changes, I can’t see this going long term, but if you do, then I’m open to looking into it. I wouldn’t get involved sexually with her - keep your standards high - until she is worth it. Sex is more then sex. But hold out either until she is perfect. Also use each other to grow yourself. Then before you commit you have to get her to be part of your tribe. She can’t have other affiliations. You can tell her that and you have to alpha it up but this is your demand. She can’t be aligned with ideologies or her friends or parents. If she doesn’t want that then you have nothing to offer. You may think no woman would go for this, but if you’re a quality guy you are mistaken. She will love you for your standards and holding her to it. Your only ace you have is your attention and you can just not give that and she will break down, but use it sparingly as it is like political power and best used when limited. Finally, Christianity is the only group of people without a closed tribe. Getting involved in that can be great for your relationships
As a Psychiatrist, I would say less than 10 percent now. I haven't listened yet. Let's see...
It can’t be more than a small fraction of 1%, tops.
As a man who has dated All across the globe I agree it’s a fraction of a percentage left
That high?
Same. I've always had it between 5 and 15%
@@paynenathan11Were other countries any better?
As someone who has a Master's in Econ Policy and has taken both math and statistics, I'm so happy with how Cappy made this assessment. I'm going to get this book soon.
I'm going to day less than 1% are marriage material.
AGREE 100......likely 1 in 250-300 [or around 0. 20-0.25%]
*1/2* of women between 18-35 are single moms??
Jesus, Chad sure is busy.
Most women or men aren't relationship material if your plan is to have a healthy relationship.
So when you see a beautiful slender naked woman riding on a blue unicorn you know you a
Have found the ONE!
The lack of slender women in the U.S. is the main thing screwing up the sexual marketplace. A woman that is slender is boosted on the marketplace just because she is slender. That's why Asia has a better marketplace....pretty slender girls everywhere. It changes the whole marketplace.
For that your own government is to blame.... I didn't see as many fat people in my life where i live as i did going in the Us for 3 days... When i got in supermarkets, every shop is full with high calorie things, it's almost impossible to find anything healthy at all in the Us...
Agreed 20 years ago it wasn’t like this
When its time for me to start a family, I'm just going to go back to Mexico and find me someone who is actually a devout Catholic and pretty and just marry her
@Amir That's why he said "actually a devout Catholic." There are plenty of Catholics or, generally speaking, Christians in Name Only, yes.
If I can afford it I'm moving to Ireland where you still need grounds and 3 years of separation before divorce and the custody rights of both parents are taken seriously. I know it's catching up to the rest of the west quick but in 15 years when I decide to settle down even if the laws change it should still at least be worth it to date there, the damage will lag behind a bit.
If you do then do not take her out of the culture.
Absolutely!!! Catholic women are beautiful!!!!
Aaron why didn’t you narrate the audio book. Your Minnesota cadence is part of the brand.
He can't stop coughing
Wow. This chapter is great stuff. I want my two kids to get this content. I'm going to buy this book, asap !!
You really did a great job in writing this book Aaron. It's my favorite out of all of your books, it should be required reading for all single men in America.
Young Men, stay fit and chase financial success. You'll have options while your female counterparts are on their 12th cat.
So, essentially, somewhere between 2% to 5% are ideal, and at least half are a no-go at all.
Close to 80 percent are no go. Every married man I know is miserable.
Not even fictional movie characters are marriage material nowadays.....let alone real ones.
Excellent book sir!
Better chance of winning a game of russian roulette using a 1911.
Lol
Brilliant
AC Slater, love the audio book format of your work. Please, just read all of ur books so I don't have to keep buying them. ;)
I have no tatts, I have Libertarian sensibilities, I like guns, Ketogenic eating, self sufficient living with chickens and preps, I have only been with one man (my hubs, married ten years).
We play video games on the weekend and just hang out 💕
He does think I'm too much of a prepper though...but hey, MY family will be prepared for the inevitable collapse of Western society😅.
I hate makeup, but I like being cute when we go out.
I also like mowing the lawn; fresh cut grass is my favorite smell, besides sizzlin' bacon. 😏
He works hard at his physical job and gets oil rubbins on the message table on weekends too.
It's not all rainbows though, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis 10 years ago but because of my diet and periodic dry fasting, I am 100% symptom free today.
So life is good. 😁
Ah you should do the reading
I am old and out of all this, but I have been paying attention to the dating/mating game because what is happening today IMHO constitutes an existential crisis. Modernity has seriously disrupted marriage and family, the basic institutions opon which civilization and our species depends. The implications are much bigger than just your sex life , there's no shortage of sex as such, but of the benefits of it for the society as a whole. I fear what is happening to us is not unlike the famous Calhoun Mouse Utopia experiments. Look those up. Are young men now the "Beautiful Ones" in that ominous experiment?
22:23 "The average man will date 67 women in his life..."!?
Man, I haven't dated 7 girls. 😕
...I clearly do not belong here.
Imagine how high some of them have to be to get that average. Like dam they deserve the headache collector's badge
@@arsenal4444 For a high level man, the game never ends. For a low level man, the game never begins.
uhh ok plato
@@arsenal4444 uhh, okay... actually, Nietzsche and Spinoza are more my speed. And although I was raised Roman Catholic I've gained an appreciation for Taoism. Uhh, okay...?
How old are you?
Traits to make women marriageable? None. All the good traits have disappeared.
Bingo. No good man wants to come home from work to a dirty house, no warm home cooked food, and a wife who’ll challenge him at everything he does or says. Fuck that. I’ll die alone but happy, debt, and stress free.
Thats a world wide problem..
The irony of receiving a culinary school ad during this excerpt burns.
I told my girlfriend that I would NEVER go to bed with a leftist even if she was drop-dead gorgeous. She said "yes you would," I then replied, "maybe one time, but I wouldn't enjoy it."
less than 5% and 0% western whaaamen
The number is dropping
HPV is often a death sentence. Especially with repeated exposure from the same person.
We need a Thanos to snap away all the simps. Until then, nothing will change.
@Aaron Clarey - would be interested to hear your thoughts on Nancy Bradshaw, TH-camr and airline pilot
Why do you even discuss marriage today? Marriage is a worse deal in man's life he can ever have.
God! Unbelievable! You are talking about what poison is less poisonous to swallow like you have to do it at all.
WOW this is 24 minutes of facts.
Does anyone know of any happily married couples? NO, dont believe their lies. I have never met anyone that was truthful about their marriage.
..."happily married" is way too subjective. I know bullies who are the happiest making others cry or knocking them to the ground. Stepping on ants made my ex happy.
4 or more tattoos is considered body mutilation? WOW !
According to my math that number is negative 😉.
before hearing the whole video, I'm going to go with 0.001%
One of my exes kept her fingernails chewed to the quick, often drawing blood. Her teeth ended up being worn down by this habit and resembled baby teeth. While this doesn’t exactly fit the criteria of “cutting” I do consider it self harm. She also was a heavy smoker, and while it didn’t bother me at the time (i smoked too then) I consider it a form of self abuse nowadays.
Such is life, I’m happy to compete against women. I’m more than willing to work overtime for less to get the job
Teachers aren't 'underpaid'.
The role has been corporatized.
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Lets say you have a guy who is a brilliant chef.
But in his city, through various ways, the only restaurants left open are fast food joints.
If he wants to go about his fast food job like he's a chef - so be it.
But he's doing it at his own prerogative.
The role only needs, and requires, someone to be a line cook.
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Yes, there's some brilliant teachers among the herds of credentialed idiots.
But the role is designed for idiots to do, via curriculum and protocols - for an idiot's wage.
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The great majority of teachers are lucky to have state sanctioned unions; negotiating salaries that allow them to pay mortgages.
Their role has been dumbed down to the point that automation is inevitable.
Their role in society - is verging on charity.
And if teaching had a credential system that sifted the intelligent from the idiots - the great majority would have never been teachers, to begin with.
That's the sort of system that would have paid the best what they're worth.
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There's no such thing as collective labor that's paid by performance.
It has never existed - it won't ever exist.
The teachers who want to be paid for the effort they put in, and the talent they posses, need to either fight to uncollectivize teaching - or shut up.
Haha welp that’s bleak. True though.
What text to speech voice is being used? The Amazon one?
And thats being generous because there are many deal breakers that exist that women can keep hidden for months or maybe even years. Even men who are getting divorced to women they've known for years will express surprise at seeing an evil side of her they were unaware of.
Do cosmetic implants (not medically related ones such as for a mastectomy) and lip injections count as body mutilation? The same logic of mental disorders can be applied as to the reasons they get them.
If you have to ask, rule of thumb is it's some variety of yes
can't be more than 2%
April Fool's question right?
Add for wedding dresses going on this vid
a war of the sexes that makes cancer seem friendly - lol
Anti-man, anti-marriage, anti-children and anti-King James Bible feminism that makes meth addiction seem like a hug
No fatties, no kids, no pets, no body mutilation, NO FILTERS.
5-15% in the 18-25 demographic
Since getting divorced almost a decade ago, I have dated quite a bit. I have only dated one single mother, and only a few that had been divorced. Maybe I was lucky, or lived in the right places, but I was able to find plenty of available women in their 30s that had no baggage.
Did you marry any of them?
As long as you are one of those dudes who does not mind being the 50th dude to hit it.
Are those wedding bells 🔔 I'm hearing??? 🤠
@Jorge Sepulveda true love conquers all, and by “all” that includes your wallet, balls, time, and soul
@@sbeers88 says it all. When dating, the baggage is in storage.
Now rerun the study using Asian or European (Scandinavian) women. You'll get a higher percentage.
I live in Europe and have spent 4 years in Asia. In terms of MARRIAGE material the suitable percentage of women isn't much different from the US.
Easier to bang high value girls in Asia, yeah obviously.
Scandinavian females are heavily indoctrinated by Marxist ideology by the way.
1% ish
so you're telling me there's a chance?
Is foreign women an optiom?
One other key missing item is the opportunity cost of marriage. Women wait at the end of the race for the winners. You have just spent your twenties getting your education and establishing your career. Meanwhile she has been having a lot of fun. She now wants children you fall in love marry procreate and she changes her mind. Meanwhile you will take 10-15 years paying her off and rehousing yourself.
Now imagine an alternative instead of wasting $200,000 k + on lost house marriage ceremony ring child support you simply dropped the money into a pension fund at say 35. (and you spend your 30s partying) The rule of 72 states divide 72 by your fund return and it shows how quickly an investment will double. First you get tax relief on the pension investment so now you have $250,000. Now say a return of 15% pa which equates to a doubling every 5 years. OK every 10 years your investment will quadruple. So 45 $1,000,000 55 $4,000,000 65 $16,000,000. Most men see the money they dropped on the marriage as a one timer expense. They do not bother to count the opportunity cost. You have not lost $200k you have lost $16million.
If a woman has a liberal arts degree and no loans, is it really a deal breaker?
Yes. The liberal arts degree says that she's indoctrinated and useless as a wife
Lol, im left oriented for economy and right leaning for social things.
Stealing other people's money but no abortions and tradcon marriages?
Third Position for the win
I’m right when it comes to economy. Fuck socialism. However I don’t give a fuck if a woman gets an abortion or if gays get married.
@@awolgeordie9926 Ah no. Im for european way of no debt high education and public health care which is the same for rich and the poor. I dont have problems with abortions or gay marriages. But i do have problems with feminism and modern wokeness.
@@unwokeneuropean3590 Uh, euro way involves stealing others money. "Public" healthcare is forcing others to pay for your healthcare since you're incapable of affording it. Same goes for education and anything else the government "pays" for.
Is there a real photo for the sillouette shown here?
Don't you dare ruin a man's imagination. It will only disappoint you if you see the OG model. Enjoy the imagination of your mind, that is your goddess inside that silhouette. She is gorgeous beyond words.
@@Parlimant_Strifey Yawn! Show me the real model.
What if it’s ugly Betty
@@oghren6617 Then even better
Could be a, 5 second video. Simply saying, Not many.
Then you'd have millions of men claiming, "oh, it can't be THAT low"
What do you guys make of private marriage? No state contract
Depends on where you live. There's about a dozen states in the US that have common law marriage. Of course government shouldn't have any involvement in our personal lives.
So to sum up,... out of all the ladies out there the pool of actual pickable ladies is 3% roughly. This is just the pool of possible, potential partners. Screw this,... I got better chances with the power ball.
So... you're say Seinfeld was wrong? MORE than 95% are UNDATEABLE!!! haha. Jerry was pretty close.
😂
Why couldn't we have been young men in the 1940's?
Agreed. Back when divorce wasn’t a financial death sentence, alimony was rarely awarded and only if he was at fault, and women tend to stay at home.
You would have been drafted into WW2
@@smacwhinnie we could have stormed the beaches together
@@verbalkint1770 and then return back home to find out we were cucked all along
None....end of video
Perhaps it would be easier to just hire a third world woman as a surrogate mother for IVF procedure, instead.
Well i guess since i am a man an got a deal breaker that is OCD that won't be going away i guess it's time to live a life of involuntary celibacy and no not that type of involuntary celibacy(i want to fucking die what world am i living in)
I'd say ~10% at best. a lot more than this marry, but then, that's why the divorce rate is so high.
Why does The pic on the book cover looks like a she-male?
Without marriage and without children being born our population will continue to go down. There will not be enough young people to support the older generations. When women retire they will have no one else to blame but themselves. The government must change the laws on marriage to make it more positive for men instead so negative. They created this problem they are going to have to deal with the negative consequences. Although it is us the tax payers who ultimately pay for it and the next generation of which fewer will be born. The older people will need to realize that feminism will make it far tougher on them and their expensive healthcare they cannot expect to get help from the young generations.
jonny, that's the IDEA my friend. That's what the government wants.
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True answer: -50%.
As a rule I never date any woman who fat women. I had a girl wanna say well what are you gonna do with the fat girl with me and I said I’m not doing anything with you lose the weight and then we’ll talk about it
0.0%
Let me save you the time and energy: zero.
How many fucking mid roll ads do you need?
TH-cam controls that.
59% fat, 40% single mothers, 25% stds... maybe 2-25%...
I would say at least half the female population are single mothers.
@@thystaff742 42% of white women are single mothers; over 73% of black women are.
@@poopingwhilestanding5801motherfuck 73% and 42% 🤯
You’re only looking at the single women. The ones in stable relationships are not in the dating pool.