An excellent short read, I review one of Aarons Clarey's book in this video.
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- Aaron writes the books I wish I could. How much do you need to invest in a woman, to successfully find the right long term partner? Spoiler alert it's not good. Here I do a quick read of Aaron's book overview and some thoughts on the statistical go to guide for men thinking of dating.
The Book of Numbers: Analyzing the ROI on the Pursuit of Women.
hwww.amazon.com/Aaron-Clarey/e... - บันเทิง
Ironically, making women's lives easier has also given rise to feminism. In fact, the more comfortable our society becomes, the worse feminism gets.
Ofcourse, cuz talk is cheap and all vvahmen do is talk. To actually get one’s hands dirty and build a society worth living in, is the real challenge.
Kevin Samuels said it too: “A female can only be a feminist in a 1st world country.” This is why most of them are coming to the West. I don’t see many feminists trying to speak that horseshite over in the Middle-East oddly enough unless they want to get acid instead of cum onto their faces.👨🔬
We've made ourselves redundant.
@@MandoMTL Not yet😉
Denmark has reached its feminist utopia, The government this week begged men to have sex with feminists to allow them to have children, Just after passing laws to discriminate against men. Men are still saying no
"You rob me of Solitude, yet provide no companionship "
👏👏👏 I couldn't have said it any better.
Well said
@Eastern fence Lizard every damn day all day.
@Eastern fence Lizard Not to be confused with the capital of Skyrim...or is it?
Crazy right?
You can't be alone but I don't want you. Wtf????
It starts with dating apps guys. Stay off of them, you're treated like a replaceable clown for their amusement to the majority of these monsters. You're not viewed as a person.
That would make dating apps just like most everything else.
The media pound it into our heads from adolescence that we should seek young and beautiful women. Then when we do, we're told we're shallow and superficial, and we're not good enough for them anyway.
and then you set your tinder location to thailand and get red pilled hardcore
@@Xenibalt how so?
@@Xenibalt how?
Johnny Depp....a lying girl knocked him right off the top. Enough said.
and it took years before people were even willing to consider johnny wasnt the bad guy too inspite of the overwhelming evidence in his favor. Just imagine what its like for men without such fame and a good spotlight. You would be doomed.
Gina Carano, a strong, independant, successful woman gets fired by woke wankers and women. Irony!
Millionaire, good looking, charismatic and still got the L imagine what awaits your average guy
@@ajxx9987 Even Will Smith was 'Betad' into submission.
@Randy Baumery That reminds of Jurassic Park when Sam Neal gets ambushed by the Raptors 'Clever girl' 😂
I pay out almost 60% of my income to child support. I live in an RV. Basically I've lost almost everything but I have actually found myself and gained back everything that was truly important to me. My peace and tranquility. No woman will ever bring me this kind of happiness. Period 💯
And to think, she's getting that money tax free.
What state do you live in? You should be able to take that to court and have it recalculated. Most states base the payments on your income and it shouldn't be more than 1/3 of your income even if she doesn't have an income, in which case you should have full custody.
@@Linkmegax I live in Georgia. My divorce paperwork states that for 1 child the state can take up to 50% and if I'm supporting 2 or more kids they can take up to 60% of income. It sucks. I've tried to take it back to court just to have the judge tell me, "it needs to be paid, even if it means that I have to live in a cardboard box." To make matters worse I have never even met my son who I pay child support on and he is 7 years old.
@@heedmywarning2792 Right and women think that they are opressed lol
That sucks. I just got disabled at work a year ago. And they just fired me last week. I don’t know if I can pay my child support.
45 year old male here. Just one data point. ALL my male college roommates have had miserable lives since college. Divorce or being driven by their wives to acquire MORE, MORE, MORE. Don't become a beast of burden my kings.
This, I make a good salary and it just hit me 'I don't really like stuff.' I like investing, I like gambling and I like simplicity. So I got a little town house in the city, a 300cc motorcycle and a lot of stock, ETFs and crypto. May dad would have done the same, but the constant nagging and undermining from my mom prevented that. I've seen happy men, and married men, never met a happy married man.
Guys, you're just an ATM with a pulse, and the pulse annoys them.
That’s why life insurance was made.
@@ColdEmperor exactly
Never been truer for men, Life sucks and then you die!
Attention
Time
Money
That’s all they see you as and want you for. Your atm
Funny. I thought it was my breathing.
Let's do some cost-benefit analysist of marriage
Cost: more stress, more responsibility, more expenses, and less freedom.
Benefit: some beaten up 30 year old body after being passed around.
Are you saying that taking on her debt, bad life choices and hellspawn isn’t a benefit to you?! How could you say that. Misogyny!
@@rhysproudmourne1646 don't forget about her kids from different fathers.
You can't forget the false acusations and the terrible divorce laws
RedPilled Bachelor
That’s what hellspawn refers to. I didn’t forget. Lol
Progeny paste dripping from every orifice. 😜
My girlfriend had a day at the doctor's office (tests and sitting and waiting). I'm rural; I turned off the pump for the well, turned off the water heater, opened a ground level spigot, and waited. Two hours later I removed a different spigot, cleaned and re-taped the threads, and with five minutes work (the hours of waiting don't cont as work) I fixed the drippy spigot. Turned the well back on, vent the air from the system, turn on the water heater, and one small problem was taken care of.
Girlfriend comes home, and after she tells me about her day, I tell her what I'd done. I wasn't looking for praise, though a "cool" or a "nice" would have been in range for a response. Even a non-committal "huh" would have been in range. It was a boring chore checked off the list. However...
"Well, you should have fixed the drippy faucet in the bathroom instead of wasting your time playing outside!"
Wasn't what I was expecting.
I shrugged, and chalked it up to she'd had an uncomfortable day, I wasn't really what she was upset about, the static electricity of her annoyance was earthing through me, and I'm a moose that doesn't care about mosquito bites. But it pretty much sums up a slightly dysfunctional relationship. I get to listen with sympathy to her day (it wasn't exactly a fun day she'd had), and my day gets diminished and dismissed as not meeting her agenda.
On the other hand she cooks good, looks good, and that other thing women offer. There are trade offs in any relationship. But I wonder if she realizes how much harder I'd try if she didn't dismiss my efforts.
Sorry about rambling. She's sleeping, and I'm on my second glass of home made wine.
Get your own place and live on your own for a year and watch her take interest in your abilities.
Men emotionally shoulder the same burdens their wives' fathers have. "Look at me daddy!!" while she plays out her mind's soap opera, and you're diligently making sure the fridge is full and the lights don't go out. There's nothing romantic and exciting about the logistics of her toilet flushing and her curling iron hearing up.
@Jefe Anson LoL! Funny harsh!
I'm an old fart, and I understand the trade-offs. I've been through a 20 year marriage, and she went through a couple as well (one died, one divorced). No illusions between us. I've been frustrated, but I've NEVER hit her, which for her is weird.
Look, womans that have been through some nonsense know when they're in a relationship that they're comfortable with. Men too.
Would I expect her to get on her knees on the floor and fix a sink? Nope; that's my job. Would I expect her to get on her knees in bed? Yep! (happy snicker) She has bad knees, and the cushioning is important. There is love on both sides, and consideration for each other's limitations.
That being said, pointing at the tools and telling her to fix a sink, that it will help her build character, I'm going to use that! Not that I think she'll fix the sink, but it will remind her that I'm providing something in exchange for what she's providing. Balancing that equation is important. Hell, even being reminded that's an equation is important!
I can't believe you think decent food, good looks, and occasional bedroom action makes up for her disrespecting you. Go dig your self-respect out of her purse then kick her to the curb.
@@geraldfrost4710 Seems like you very stoic and have wisdom to manage your relationship. So don't listen to all these guys telling you that you have no self respect. I have seen a lot of thirsty simps in my life and you don't sound like one of them. Keep your path as I think you know what you're doing. Cheers!!
If bills are paid, internets working, foods in the fridge, and you can save a little every month towards future plans. Im content.
Nothing comes close. I love having absolute peace and quiet. Internet is a must. Im in my 40's now but have no problems admitting the internet is vital for my peace of mind and entertainment means. I would not be miserable without it, but life would be much less enjoyable overall for me.
That's exactly what I'm doing, food, gym and video games and I'm very happy right now I can save so much money compared to when I had a gf it's insane, I can plan for the near future.
Even better is when you regularly say to yourself, "Why in the f**k do I have so much left in my checking account after all my bills are paid?"
@@carlfromtheoc1788 yah thats how I'm slowly saving to buy a new gpu. My old 1080 is starting to slow down. It is nice seeing money available after bills.
@@cookiebandit101 Good luck. i'd find a cheap 5x 580 and sell that 1080 for 600 bucks ;)
3 Golden rules not to destroy your life with a wahmen
1. Don't Get Married.
2. Don't Cohabitate.
3. Don't Have Kids with a wrong wahman.
I learned those lessons the hard way and I'm still paying for it.
Most men blindly break all those rules by their mid twenties. Problem is, outside of the red pill community nobody is willing to speak the truth to young men of the dangers and pitfalls of modern dating and marriage.
@@Gunsight-One sadly most of them are in blue Pilled state or purple Pilled state. The worse part is their family and friends won't be able to give hime the clear scenario and help him out. Hope they find redpill content bfr they make any commitment.
Its more worse. They try to force you to get a women. My coworkers try to couple me with a female coworker. She is beauty but 5 years older and single mom of two boys. No thanks
Get a vasectomy men.
Wedding rings... The world's smallest handcuffs.
men: I can break those cuffs
mowen: you can't break this cuffs
men: huaaargh
Can you imagine that?! Work long hours at work to come home tired and see dishes piled up in the sink, her hair on the floor, no food cooked. You just see her on tinder taking selfies. Smh
That's kind of what my (fortunately) ex was doing, she chose to work on a crappy, low wage job because she was playing with kids on it (and complaining all the time she had no money, after rejecting a better job but with no kids to play with...)...she was waking up at 8:30 AM and coming back at 3:30 PM. Me, waking up at 6:30 AM and coming back from work at 5:30PM, and everyday she was waiting for me in the sofa, watching crap on Instagram, just to tell me that we have to clean up stuff and that today's my day for cooking the dinner. Which I would agree if we were working the same hours and contributing both equally to paying the rent and the bills (which was an 80% on me, of course). We lasted a month after moving together. Took the red pill shortly after. Best thing ever.
Been there smashed everyone of those dishes also
If you don't marry trash, you don't get these problems and if they did arise, you kick them out. EZ peezy
Last week a job listing at the Tulsa county courthouse was for marriage license clerk, if I came out of retirement to take that job I'd be issuing damn few licenses as I'd pull every male to the side possible to inform him of the pain & financial risk. We're issued just enough blood to work one head at a time.
You’d be the first male marriage license clerk to be “accidentally” shot outside of work by a disgruntled fee fail.
@The Warden Really? Wasn't that years ago?
We make people sit down and go through the financial risks when they sign up for a loan
Marriage should come under a higher level pre approval
Things like her sexual past, femanism belief levels, masculinity tolerance, spending habits, attitudes towards honoring the marriage commitment etc etc etc should all be tabled and listed so you know who your investing with
Then if they break any of those agreements in life, they should be used as gaining compensation for
They have suckered in men for too long promising love and devotion and then renege on the contract at their choosing
I had a house once. I hated every minute of it so I sold it and now rent a small condo. I could buy a million dollar house if I wanted but I love the simplicity and freedom.
So you have millions and you just play all day long ?😁
@@klop3re why should he not? being free is having a lot of choices...
minimalist lifestyle is something to pursuit on, I'm comfortable with my big house still, just I can't stand Jonses near me :)
@@3sat_arte_zdf exactly right. Keep in mind that Im 60, never got married, and i still work ( alot!). But i really enjoy minimalism. Having money is more about freedom than owning a bunch of stuff.
@@Corkfish1 My man, I am exactly the same as you. 53 years old, but work really hard trading financial markets. Love it! It's about the freedom.
Emotional=draining
Money=more
Relationships with women is a second job.
Thank you for the TRUTH
As for being emotionally drained that is another reason to not bother with extroverts as they are well documented for being socially demanding.
I love your math..
@Secret Politics TH-cam never gives a thought.
@Secret Politics ah yes every "ism" slowly devoured men. As brainwashed women. Told we're toxic, stupid, canceled. This is why i don't waste time with liberals.
Sound the trumpets, the man did it. He got 302k subs 🎺🎺🎺
He's 5.0
I’m an 18 year old and dam glad I found these wonderful channels at such a young age, I always felt old for my age because I couldn’t mix well with these people my age I simply can’t do with all this tech and especially how delicate everyone and everything is. I have found these channels to be so helpful and simply eye opening so thank you :)
Glad you found this while you're young. I wasted my twenties chasing women, I was a total simp. Focus on yourself specially your finances young brother and remember all relationships are transactional and the free woman is the most expensive of all.
When I was 18...dark jokes was the norm... no one was delicate and people dished it out and took it. ....online gaming lobbies was helll you go in a young man come out a war veteran back then.
U r lucky u found him at a young age!
Good for you. I was like you at that age.
I feel sorry for myself I found this content at 25.
This one is even a good book recommendation from TFM and he doesn’t endorse much lightly. I think it’s definitely worth the read.
@Sobuka yeah he’s basically been kicked off TH-cam but I still follow his alt channels.
He's active on Bitchute.
@@Profitglutton90 what s tfm?
@@mattiasiro1058 The Redpill Monkey guy with a beautiful silicon doll! Hahaha
I listen to him sometimes...
Turd Flinging Monkey. Even his discord channel got removed recently.
Wanna see a magic trick?....get married and watch half your stuff disappear!
But hey, OTOH she is doubling in size. Your money obviously is not lost!
Only Half? How about most!
Mind freak!
Half would be a good result...
Even if she doesnt divorce grape you,she will get over the entire house,space,your staff and resources...
Being single is more spare time, more spare money, less stress.
All things I value greatly. All things a woman feels entitled to take from me with a seductive smile on her face.
Who is the breadwinner, her? Even my Sister hawked in a svarede account so my bro in law can Pay more to the budget then her... I simple dont understand... maybe why forener alene.. oh well 😆
Hobbies are much more cost effective and fulfilling
You forgot independence
Amen, brother.
My ex still verbally abuses me regularly. A few hours ago she video called my toddler and I allowed my child to hold the phone. Big mistake. My ex saw that I had a large TV and a dresser in my child's room. Within minutes I was getting emails saying I needed to send her evidence that the dresser was secured to the wall and that the TV (on a short stand) was strapped down (TV is very heavy with a wide base so no way it could tip over). She said if I didn't get the TV strapped down by tonight then my child couldn't sleep in her own bedroom and if I didn't comply with her demands she would send the information to her lawyer saying I was neglecting my child's safety. Getting married and having a child with this woman was a horrible return on investment. At least with bad stocks you just lose everything you invested. In my situation I lost everything I initially invested and I will continue to lose financially, emotionally, and mentally for the next 15 years or more.
You understand that she's playing a control game. Best case she's concerned about the safety of her child. Worst case is that's she's building a case against you so that she'll have more money for her child. In either case, why are you giving her information? If you have time with your child, it isn't your ex-wife's time with your child. Pre-state that she has five minutes to say goodnight, and set the phone to time out accordingly. As you go into a divorce your former wife is no longer your ally. Treat her as an enemy, but one who might (if you're polite) be willing to concede a few points to you.
Who knows? You may reconcile, which is not a bad thing. She may reconcile if you're strong and loving. She won't if you are weak and snarky. Be kind and clear to her. Firm doesn't mean being a raging bastard.
Good luck!
Here's what you gotta do
Pick up the phone, I'm always home
Call me any time
Just ring 362 436 oh
I lead a life of crime
If you got a lady and you want her gone
But you ain't got the guts
She keeps naggin' at you night and day
Enough to drive you nuts
Pick up the phone, leave her alone
It's time you made a stand
For a fee, I'm happy to be
Your back door man hey
Concrete shoes, cyanide, TNT
(Done dirt cheap)
Neck ties, contracts, high voltage
(Done dirt cheap)
Dirty deeds, done dirt cheap
Dirty deeds, done dirt cheap
Dirty deeds, do anything you want me to
Done dirt cheap
Dirty deeds, dirty deeds, dirty deeds,
Done dirt cheap, ahhhhh
There’s a temptation to share routine communications and other stuff with an ex in front of the child in the hope it demonstrates a semblance of former and better times so it will make things easier for the child, but some women are so vindictive they will use that as an evidence gathering exercise against you. They will even pump the kid for information when he or she returns to her house. My ex is the same, and you learn the hard way to keep what you are doing and buying completely private.
@@russ9921 (snicker!) Those darling little kids! They'll give her a wealth of information! But if you listen, you'll also get a bunch of info.
To a child, the most important thing is safety. Assure that, and the kid is fine. When your ex brings other guys home, that's not safety! You'll hear about it, and you can deal with the data.
Good luck!
@@geraldfrost4710 thats the problem, she wont say anything about the guys SHE brings around the kid!! Can confirm..
To most females: we are done with trying to love/date/marry your used up bodies. You also have emotional problems that are derived from you, Chad and Tyrone (we know that emotional problems come from this). Good men are not the repair men for your problems. If you have a daughter, tell her the real world consequences of sleeping around. Enjoy the world that you created.
Men who sleep around usually find women who sleep around.
When I read _"If you have a daughter,"_ my mind went _"...call me back when she's of legal age. And ONLY then."_ 🤣
But yeah, I totally agree of you!
Postmodern critical theory has certainly helped in the creation of that world.
@@reginasemenenko148 not my experience...
@@reginasemenenko148 It's not the same for man to sleep around as it is damaging for woman.
Bottom Line: Don't get married.
These women be having the Lucretia laugh
Even more bottom line: don't have any sxual or romantic human relationships at all.
I spent years studying, observing, & focused the best version of my character; and still by female nature I am undesirable, below average, and expected to be an assembly line for platonic boyfriend. This book's (btw I have all Mr. Clarey's audiobooks) review from Better Bachelor sealed my decision that TFL is the only option I am forced to live. Shout out to Mr. Tom Leykis for guiding me to see the truth in this matriarchy
Wow that intro is really interesting and 100 percent accurate. I wish family dynamics and men and women's relationships could go back to that 1960's mindset. Way before I was born. I grew up in the 80's, dad worked and my mum stayed home. No one I knew had divorced parents let alone single parents. No day care etc. I think that's why I grew up as a traditional girl and cannot stand feminism, it's evil to the core.
On the bottom of that page it said Women's History Month. 🤮🤮 I just can't.
You need to get out and preach to the others sistas......watch Sydney Watson for advice.....now she’s a keeper any day
@@charliechristmas5147 haha thanks, I would love to. I don't have social media (peaceful life) so I'm not exposed to the soulless demons lol. I will check Sydney out, thanks! I do believe we may be hitting the tipping point of insanity and things might bounce in the right direction.
Same situation in my low-middle-class neighborhood in 60s-70s. The only single moms were the widows of guys killed at work. I live near a small college now and the behavior of the feminist professors and students is appalling. They are totally incapable of independent thought.
@@marksavage1744 The group zombie think mentality just blows my mind. No one thinks for themselves. I am lucky to have gone to university before the woke garbage. As I was leaving, I remember the Women's center changing its name to Womyn. 🤮 I knew we were in trouble. College now is nothing but indoctrination. Smart people save your money and go to community college or even better, a trade. Always in demand and no crippling debt...and you won't be lectured about your toxic masculinity. I myself, am a fan of toxic masculinity. 😉 Feminism needs to die. As a woman, , I am not special, I don't need a history month, a quota for a job or to feel empowered. I feel pretty darn good without that. I'm sure there are more women out there who agree. Enough with this victim mentality.
@@quorrakai Thank you for your sensibility. But as @Charlie Christmas said, we need good women to speak out, because our voices are ignored (though they can't ignore our actions (or lack thereof)). Womyn have been very vocal and have set the new rulez. Without the voice of good women speaking out, there is more misery ahead.
I was talking to a european friend (late 40's, fatther of 3 kids and still married) his marriage is ok and he loves the kids, he told me that knowing what he knows about marriage and if he were my age ( I am some years younger than him and still single) he wouldnt marry again and he doesnt really reccomend marriage to men. You can have girlfriends and share with them your success without breaking the bank. Things dont work u say bye; with a marriage the divorces are nasty and you will regret everything.
As a older married man, this is the same advice I gave to younger men. Very few took this advice. It is not worth the risk, I lucked out, but if I did not, the consequences would have been severe.
I think it is easier to become wealthy, than it is to find a woman you can trust.
Lol becoming wealthy is easier cause it exists xD
I've recouped and saved as much assets in the 15 years since my divorce than my ex wife squandered in 24 years of marriage
Dr.Dre, Michael Strahan, Channing Tatum, just to name a few top 10 High Value Celebrity Men, Divorced. Still Not Enough for Women,Women Want Much More! Thank You for the TRUTH
Women only want one thing: More.
Could be other circumstances aswell
Wait, Channing tatum got divorced?! Yikes.....
Facts, last year these iconic men were on record saying their wives divorcing them definitely blindsided them at this stage in these husbands lives. No man is safe in marriage. Marriage and Love = Misery - “ Marvin Gaye”
In 2020
Emmet Smith- Said he had no clue of his wife wanting a divorce
Uncle Luke from Too Live Crew- Surprised at his wife for filing.
Tracy Morgan - After his near death accident, his wife files for divorce because she’s “ unhappy”.
Add Kanye West
Well I better buy this book quickly before it's removed from the Internet
u mean canceled by feminist, right?
Every single 18 year old boy needs to read this. Period.
I am a 49y.o. former Soviet man. What this book says is exactly what we had in USSR. Let me explain. The only legal employer was the state. Thus, the salary rates were approved by the state and were not subject to discussion. There was little opportunity to increase income. Moreover, wages were in most cases time-based. You come to work, work hard and hard, or sleep all day - you get the same amount of money. There was practically no motivation to work harder. What happened to Western culture, I mean cultural Marxism, killed the motivation in the simplest thing on this earth, which even viruses and bacteria can cope with - reproduction.
Congratulations! You managed to break your dick!
Just one problem: Marxism doesn't care about equality. Marxism cares about power.
One thing is for sure, you have some great looking girls in Russia (and were hiding them behind the iron curtain while it was up). But the ones who come to live in the West seem to place money above everything else. Good bedroom fun while it lasts though (the ones I dated were playtime experts ). But like most women, it doesn’t last, and the bill keeps on getting bigger.
Marxism is certainly one part of it. But to break people’s immunity it needed an opening. Enter postmodern critical theory which feminism among other ”social justice” movements has tapped into. It is a mind virus that Marxism, while unrelated in origin, has exploited to gain power over the west. It’s a poisonous combination.
I read that in a russian accent.
It is all reducible to power and resources. People want to grab all the resources they can and they need the power to gain or to keep them. On the left of the political spectrum, where envy rules, the talentless want to take everything from the talented; and on the right, where greed rules, the talented want to deprive the talentless of every last drop. Left to their own devices the Right naturally accumulates resources and power, whereas the Left has to divide its opposition to gain them, such as through class (USSR), ethnics (Germany) or now race (USA) - and, also in the last case, GENDER, driven by a gynocentric version of Marxism.
Yeah you lived it and know how evil socialism is but the morons here are begging for it.
After a few dozen horrific dates in a row, and woman after woman that are dumpster fires, one must conclude that dating is a waste of time money and emotional energy.
I’m with ya. Went on around 40 dates in the past year. Just trash.
Tulpas and technology are far better. The love is more real, the sex is better, and there's zero stress.
There is that old saying, "looking for love in all the wrong places".
@@omnivore2220 Yes, amongst the human species.
Chris Holman, I am sorry to hear that you've had such poor dating experiences...than again I've dated the same & only man for the last 18+ years (I am married...if you hadn'tcaught on with the word play), so I have no idea anymore what "single" dating is like. Since you are a Christian faith man, I can only hope that you don't loose hope. Prehaps if you haven't tried your local church's dating circles that maybe you might have to find another church district to court ladies who hold the same morals as you? I don't know really b/c I am not in the " dating " world, but I do find it saddened that so many people seem to have difficulty finding a relationship that holds a partnership full of each individual bringing their own strengths to their relationship. Although it can be easy to be hung up on flaws...b/c just as strengths are brought, so are the flaws.
Maybe there is someone or an organization that brings local Christian single men & women together in your area? The Bible talks about when a man finds a good wife, he finds favor of the Lord. I forget the verse, but depending on your faith path, you may know the verse and/or read it. God designed marriage for more than just "fruitful & multiple". Chris, I pray God delivers to you a Proverbs 31 women. Don't loose hope!
Woman: Why're u so against marriage
Me: Shows facts/ stats
Woman: Omg y are u so negative
I guess I'm the clown for even bothering to explain
Let me be positive about jumping off a 3 story building, that'll surely soften my landing and prevent injury or death.
Reminds me of the song: "Send in the clowns, there ought to be clowns, send in the clowns ~ don't bother they're here"
@@Plasmon19 and they wonder why men end themselves at such a high rate... their little brain hamsters spin in the wheels for a bit... then conclude the cause is patriarchy preventing men from being emotional.
What !!!! You still talk to people ??
I get the “you’re so negative” routine all the time; fuck that.
I quote Kevin Samuels here: "Men want all the same, we didn't change - SSS. Se*, Sandwiches, Silence" So true.
That guy doesn’t compare to Joker. Joker is way more logical and nuanced.
@Polygon People can comment whatever they please if they don’t disobey guidelines and the comment section is open for everyone. You’re a stranger to me. I don’t owe you sh*t. If you want silence stop making noise and keep scrolling instead of replying, because that’s what you would have done if it was a guy saying that.
@@Carolina-rd3gh stop invading male spaces m'aam.
@@techmice4593 Joker doesn’t mind women here even if it’s not his main target audience and I’m not saying anything wrong so I’m not sure what is your problem with me. Maybe women who are subscribed should make an account with a male username because of jerks like this. Then you will never know who you’re talking to. I find some of his videos interesting so I watch. I’m giving him views and money. What’s your problem?
@@Carolina-rd3gh The thing is a lot of women come into these spaces to spy even though you may be the exception to the rule.
Congrats on 300k, mate. I've been watching since Jan./Feb. 2020. I remember, I thought you were some crazy incel fellow at first -- I would've called myself semi-redpilled at the time. Took a few months (mostly stayed for the interesting stories you'd cover), but you've really grown on me in the last year. Kind of turned me off women, too, but maybe that's for the best until society finally finds its common sense. That said, keep it coming, Joker.
Now is the time for men to tell these four words to women:
My Body, My Choice
My wallet, my choice 😂
Men Guarding Their Own Wealth
You just cant with this comment section 🤣🤣🤣 The sarcasm is through the roof! 🤣🤣🤣 still i find that being pretty acurate in the next couple of years
I just say: F### OFF...
That usually works... :-)
How much do we do in order to impress women who don't give a sh*t about us??
Nothing any more. Now they're starting to feel shocked that we don't care. The thought never occurred to them that they could abuse men so badly that we'd stop caring.
The weird thing about it is that the longer I am single/alone, the less it bothers me. I believe one day I will reach a certain completion where the need for another person goes to zero.
Feminism
Women: We have achieved full equality and are just like you men!
Men: Ok I'll just date myself then
Great idea. (make sure not to run out of Hand lotion!)
Congrats on reaching 300K subs.
Bought the book right after you recommended it the other day, and read it in one sitting last night. Honestly, it made me feel a little better, as weird as that sounds.
It helps to put things in perspective, especially in a logical and rational manner.
Once heard a comedian say (coming as a millionaire to his potential stay at home wife), "I ain't bringing home the bacon and frying it to". This is for the guy who brings in the income but refusing to participate in chores.
should be a mandatory read through middle and high school
Good luck with that given these levels of education are overwhelmingly dominated by women.
Should be, but like 1984, Fahrenheit 451, The Scarlett Letter and many other classics that seems appropriate for this day and age, it'll get banned unfortunately.
While I'm not a big fan of his, one must give credit when it's due- he does offer good advice that does help men, be it money issues or dealing with females. His books are worth checking out.
Personally, I see him as the Gordon Ramsey of the Manophere.
He swears a lot and throws food against the wall? 😂
Too bad Aaron Clary doxxed and demonized barbarossa, who was arguably the thought leader that created the current concept of the "own way" space as it currently manifests. I will never support him, and percieve folks who do as either ignorant of history, and in some cases, in for a grift.
@@TheJeremyKentBGross I’m not too familiar with this situation. Wouldn’t data stand on its own two feet without his personal actions influencing the info however?
@@TheJeremyKentBGross I wasn't aware of that. I've tried to watch A A Ron's videos and don't like his style at all so it seems believable that he would do something like that. He has a bad personality.
@Orlokk Noxx I haven't read his books, although years ago I subbed to his channel before the doxing. However listening to Jokers video, a lot of stuff he is saying in this book in regards to mens roles etc etc is directly from the mouth of better minds like Barbarossa and Colttaine.
(Bar Bar had a video, among many others, called "Powered by orgasm", for example, most of a decade ago.)
Normally I wouldn't care, sharing or restating others ideas in this "community" isn't necessarily a crime (although it is when your plagiarism is done in university), but Clairy was responsible for doxing and trying to cancel the guy who's ideas he's now reselling.
Even though I am sure he built on these ideas a bit on his own, he's a f***ing snake to be building a business off the work of someone he slandered, doxed, and otherwise tried to out, discredit and kick out of the community.
I don't know to what extent the doxing was related to Bar Bars withdrawal from YT. I know he also had other things going on in his life, but a lot of his insights and formulations of things was so obvious and brilliant back in the day it was stunning. Every creator in this space today owes Bar a sense of gratitude, as do all the people who benefited from the uncountable derived works and channels.
What Clairy did was the biggest POS move I've ever seen in the manosphere. He probably did it because going your own way took money out of the pockets of the failed MR advocates who hadn't done anything seriously useful in decades (that Clairy was working with), and they were still advocating traditionalism for men. Bar Bar pointed out, to their furious anger, that this strategy was failing men for decades and it was time for a new approach. (Ones own personal way, refusing to play, and starving the system of cooperation when clearly the world could not care less about the unfair systems towards dudes, and decades of political activism had utterly failed.)
Now that these ideas originator is (possibly driven) out (by him), Clairy is monetizing his ideas, the very ideas he shamed and ridiculed at the time with all the sorts of assertions of bar bars probable S3×#@! inadequacies, etc etc.
He's a giant PoS and nobody in this space should support him or associate with him, even if the (stolen) ideas he shares now are true and well formulated.
.. years ago .. when I stopped dating, because of the lack of prospects (yeah I am lazy), my credit card bills went down 600-800 a month. I can buy a modest house for that, or a boat.
@Johnny Five Oh I am not a "monk" *lol*... I just don't do the "meet and feed", presents etc. anymore. They can sometimes come and hang out, that's about it. But yes, like you said, it ads up real quick, nice house in a nice neighborhood, on a few acres, a few cars, no debt AND no drama.
@Johnny Five what type of businesses ?
Modern marriage is a poor return on investment these days. When I look at the numbers, marriage for me just doesn't add up.
You could make a profit if you sold your spouse's organs. Well, not the used vagina.
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Don't forget the life insurance policy as well
Marriage has never been worth it; however, most men are too thirsty. Purge the thirst gentlemen!!
Relationship has close to none ROI, marriage is even worse.
Lol. It is a bad deal for both - men and women, btw. It's a perfect book to read, but most of you would not want live in the old type of marriage . Marriage never was created for men's ( or women's) enjoyment and happiness. It was for survival and wealth creation, tax base and reproduction of population / work force.
Parents were selecting and approving brides and grooms. Nobody cared what you want. Girl was judged by parents social standing and dowry she brings. If it was working class girl - well, her potential was evaluated on how many buckets of water she can bring, not on how she looks. Man was judged by wealth and potential income. " Bedroom fun" was to make baby, missionary position only, unless you're wealthy enough to support next household for your mistress, some opera singer. If you were working class, you were making babies to be sent to work in the fields or factory at age of 10. The only fun men had was to go to pub after church on Sundays, get drunk and beat their wives to let their frustrations out. Women had to suck it up , because they couldn't divorce and had no other means of survival.
Nobody questioned or calculated value of marriage. It was necessary evil that allowed survival. Now people are spoiled. Men expect " bedroom fun" based on perverted porno, otherwise they can't get it up. They are picky, no woman is beautiful enough unless she's miss universe. Regular girls never get noticed.
Same is for women. She is pressed by society to get married and show off " perfect home", e.g. huge mansion with swimming pool, sports car, two kids, dog and husband in the background ( who suppose to provide everything). How many guys can do it? But if woman marries regular guy - she's called loser by society.
Give a man a one-bedroom apartment, he is happy
Give a woman a 16 bedroom castle, she's never happy.
Give a man a cabin maybe, yeah. One bedroom apartment? Ugh no thanks. Personally I want lots of land and lots solitude and peace and quiet, which is why I live on 18 acres. Living in a cubby box in the rat race sounds like a nightmare. But I get your point and agree with that.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM I respect what you have, which is good and we as conscious single men will remain content.
I went on a date tonight finally with a girl I was matched with by a relationship matching service way back in December 2020. Finally after 3 months, she was willing to meet me. Her excuse - "She was sick for 3 months". We just went on the date and she asked the most personal questions ever such as how much rent I was paying, whether I had a car or a house. She asked me all about my past relationships, way too much personal info. Then she asks me "have I been dating anyone since we started talking". I told her the truth and said yes. She got angry at me. I told her, "well If you ignore me for 3 months and won't bother to go on a date with me, this is what happens." She tried to make me feel bad about myself throughout the whole date that I was a player. Women have no problem ignoring you when you give them the time of the day, but they get angry when you won't give them the time of day after you get options with other women.
simp
@@waldemarkochany2847 and what type of guy are you? The lame guy that uses pick up artists tricks that con women into thinking your value is higher than it actually is?
@@agentdark64 ...Don't see how he was a simp he went did his own things talked to other women..i 'm lost.
@@waldemarkochany2847 preening peacock 😂
King C Gillette ad encouraging me to buy products from those traitorous dogs, at the outset of this video. Laugh with me chaps 🤣
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I sure hope their numbers have really taken a hit. I've never bought from them again and I see many comments to the like. There's sadly been a lot of shitty woke garbage in ads, but not feminist/anti-men ones since (that I know of) so that's that.
I've dropped all P&G products except floss. There's no real replace for the deep glide floss that my teeth need.
Honestly some of my best years was living with my roommate. We were able to essentially live our individual lives; while having the benefit of a stable two home income. We split our responsibilities down the middle and never worried about our minimalist lifestyle. But best of all, we’re able to respect our boundaries and promptly held each other accountable.
Most women simply don’t like the fact that most men even non friends, can maintain this in a free, yet perfectly interdependent bachelor lifestyle. Yet can’t healthy co-habitat with most men in long-term relationships or marriages.
I used to be one of those guys who wanted to get a good job and have a family. I had my whole life planned out. I was going to join the military then during my service attend college and try to get a good job. But I look at the world now and thank God I didn't put myself through that. If it wasn't for people like Joker and Sandman I would be a miserable person. But I also have to give thanks to the extreme feminists for showing me the true nature of women. So from the bottom of my heart I thank you.
"till death do us part" is what marriage used to mean. Nowadays that means nothing, so why would I marry? No positives, only negatives.
Look at an alimony order - unless circumstances change materially it is still ‘till death do us part” even after you’re divorced. Life sentence with extras.
I told a female barber I used to go to years ago that once they invent sexbots, you women are done. She didn't think it was funny.
Tech support, not child support!
I am really looking forward to this invention,. You know all those dudes at MIT are working hard for that . Just in time hopefully for my twilight years.
Monk mode activated! Free agent lifestyle activated! Had enough of dating, wasted too much money & time with zero return.
total cost? That's easy. All of your friends, all of your hobbies and interests, all of your stuff and half of any other stuff you get up to when she leaves, your spine, oh, and your soul.
That also apply even if she does not divorce grape you 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nicholas Cage decided to get married again for the fifth time. Hmmmm what can possibly go wrong again?
Lorenzo Lamas decided to get married again for the fifth time also ( maybe the 6th...I've lost track )
did you hear the story: when he married in Vegas , being drunk , next day went to cancel his drunk marriage and his 8 hour hour wife still filled for alimony....
@@pornorfilrr9170 I read that about him. Recently he married a wahman in her 20s.
Definition of insanity: doing the same thing the same way over and over, expecting a different result.
Finished this book on Audible the other day! Convinced me to never marry!
Zorba the Greek said it best:
"Yeah I got a wife and kids.......the full catastrophe"
The Curse of the High IQ, hit home for me.
How is this still a question? Every married/divorced man I know is broke. Overworked and unhappy. Multiply that misery when children are involved. I’m 30 years old and I’m a noir member with mgm hotels in Vegas. I spend almost every weekend in a five star hotel. Honey to do list? What the fuck is that.
Mate of mine wire transfered money to woman in Cayman Islands and is now flat-broke. Keeps on phoning me but I will not answer him.
The math is very ballpark but the point is incredibly clear: chasing women is one of the highest risk, lowest return activities you can engage in as a man.
And I’d argue the younger you are, the worse of an investment it is.
The book of numbers, how Biblical.
He's a pastor's son.
Ask me two-three years ago and I would've gladly shouldered the cost of just one child and a family to build. I owed it to my parents to continue their lineage.
Now, I'm wiser, and I know I can pass on knowing I'll leave a few marks, even if it's not my genes I'll leave behind.
Amen brother. I knew I didn’t want children by the time I was 12. I got into inventing and writing as my legacy.
@@rhysproudmourne1646 mine will be my art, and maybe I'll go into teaching indigenous children when I'm 50.
Unfortunately people like to listen to idiots who do “nice lies” but we can’t listen to the “honest truth” we can’t escape feminism if it hasn’t come to your country than it will come. Feminism relies on power over people, so they aren’t going away anyways. people are honestly to stupid to shoo feminist away anyways so the west is screwed.
@@vancetheseas3471 you can start by not playing their game and rejecting them at every facet of your life. You have to learn to stand strong and alone.
@@feorge33 I’ve honestly never really cared about “dates” that much I’ve had chances but never really took them the modern doesn’t have many good dating prospects anyway though chances are risky
Can anyone see this comment? I think I'm being shadow banned.
I see it. Most often comments that have truth or certain words/phrases get deleted automatically by algorithms
This channel is rife with algorithmic censorship. They've created a laundry list of ordinary words that can't be used like 'sselhtroW', 'roirefnI', 'elameF' etc. I get around it by reversing words as the human brain can easily decipher any word it recognises if the letter order isn't totally jumbled.
@@alexdenton9176 I too have learned to speak around automated editing to a large degree. What's funny is that folks opposed to me in conversation, who are more likely in favor of the disappearance of views, have obviously had replies to me removed within seconds of their transmission. This was likely because in attempting to dismiss my message with ridicule, they actually used phrases and combinations more popularly used on the subject, and almost certainly listed as off limits. Their virtual pikachu face as the disappearance of their replies while arguing the party line, while my more artfully stated dissidence remained, was priceless.
@@TheJeremyKentBGross Based and irony-pilled.
I've found if you use the words, feminist/ism, covid, or great reset more than once in a comment, it gets auto blocked
I am oddly hyped to hear this. Thanks Joker for what you post. It’s like a “clean” version of what we are all mostly thinking on things...
glad you’re giving Aaron some exposure and recognition. i’ve been watching him for a while now, he’s great!
When I hear the saying,,, " it is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all " I actually laugh. Im sure no man in todays world would agree with that.. Most men lose their house and cash after a brake up.
I actually bought this book on audible when you first mentioned it. Listened to the whole thing over a single morning. Definitely worth a listen at the least, if not a hard copy and a read
I truly thank you for your videos, I’m a 21 y/o man learning more and more. Becoming more confident and potentially prosperous. I cannot explain it well enough, thank you.
The idea of furthering yourself for the sake of marital selection (generative selection as well) was best phrased in a quote I read once that stated, “the empire state building is the most elaborate mating dance ever done.”
It was the tallest building at the time of it being said and I can’t recall who said it, but he was philosopher or psychologist.
Just bought the book and flipped through it. First impression: very well written, intelligent author, good structure, short read. I have been burned by these type of "self-authoring" Kindle books, usually it is someone with zero talent in writing trying to make a quick buck. This is the opposite. Even if I haven´t read it, I would say this review is 100% accurate and unbiased. Great find. Higly recommended!
Greetings from Egypt
Women in a lot of Eastern cultures have to be offered gold, money and men have to be in debt to marry.
So they might be smarter than western women, they don't wait for you to get rich to take 50% of your wealth.
So great of you to promote these excellent books. Between you and Cappy, I once wish I had the time to consume the fountain of content. This should all be required reading for all men right now. Time to step up and assert....
Bought two of these books one copy for each of my sons read it before they did and literally quizzed them to be 100% certain they read AND understood it
This book is absolute must reading material for EVERY single man but ABSOLUTELY ever never been married man
Why isn't it the other way around? If men are the providers and ATM machines, then women should be investing in us as if WE are the prizes to be won.
Since my divorce from an ungrateful girl.....live in 200sf of space, don't have a car ride a bicycle instead, thus have high fitness, work a few hours a day, spend 3 to 7 hours in wilderness every day hiking, biking, kayaking, and then come home to my own cooked meal of high nutrition organic natural food, and enjoy eating in complete peace and tranquility. The extra time is now invested in my art of composing and performing music and teaching others for free. MGTOWmonk13years.
You have completely described how I live as a bachelor. Took me a while to realize I do not need all of the extra extravagant stuff in my small 600 sq ft apt- most I do not use. Thank you Joker for putting out the great content!
I'm buying this right now. Thank you once again for your valuable contributions.
TL;DR
EVERYTHING!!!!
YOU LOSE ALL TIME, MONEY, RESPECT, ETC.
All that effort to measure up ‘to get it up,’ and, she dose it with the pool guy. With all that leisure just to please her, and not enough of busy-you around, she might just get a little bored.
Going to get it right now on audible. I absolutely loved listening to bachelor pad economics. Even recommended it to some friends
Love Aaron’s work. He has been ahead of the game for a long time.
I'm amazed that when most us don't care about pleasing women as LTRs, how simple our needs are. I really thought a big house, pool, etc. was what I wanted. Though what I want is privacy, outdoor space I could go around naked if I wanted to ha ha, be able to make noise as I please... but that's it. Having kids, I do want good material base for them as well. Otherwise my needs are very low. Freedom is what comes on top.
I deal with Filipinas professionally and now I get why men move over there. Sure women want $$$, but there is a huge difference between spoiled entitled Western brats wanting ever more luxury, and financial security that is survival based! It makes feminism seem even more grotesque.
But as for stats and such, nobody would ever start a business or podcast or aim for success if only looking at odds. The difference with a LTR is that you are at the whim of another person, and women are fickle and emotional based, their words mean nothing. But I don't care about the odds per se.
Tell me more about the Filipinas i've been interested in saving up to go to the Phillipeans. To see what the women around there are like. I've just been told to go explore out my country for a bit to get a better view of the world and going to see filipinas are probably my #1 on the list. Tell me more any stories or tips you would be willing to share.
@@beasthaven1571 watch YT channels by Sunshine Shoulders and the Filipina Pea. Tons of useful info in these two alone, and you'll get of course added recommended videos that make sense. Not only are so many of these gals beautiful, but most also are very nice, feminine, with a reputation for loyalty - and they speak English. Feminism has NOT taken hold at all there yet, which surprises me as they are on the web, social media and all a lot. Don't use online PH dating sites though. This is like going to bars on weekday afternoons and expecting to find a high quality GF. Most golddiggers and scammers are there. And from what I understand, when you go there, you won't lack options so no need to do that. There are specific issues and pitfalls with Filipinas but these two channels will cover them as well.
I have to say, some of my best times in life is when I was most miserable in relation to money and possessions. As long as basic needs are met, dudes tend to be happy. Seems like many women are never happy with what they have and are perpetually looking for more and better rather than just basic satisfaction and the happy life that comes with it.
JOKER!!!!!
You need to do a Schoolie camper tour when you get finished! I'm looking forward to it.
I am just currently thinking about how Nichola Tesla fell in love with a pigeon, lol.
He was smarter than us so he had better understanding of women nature.
Pigeon wont let you down.
I read a report on health care in New Zealand which stated that average Women under the ages of 45yrs have received $145,000 more - than the average man - in free healthcare. These startling figures do not include the £8,000 of free sanitary products that she will use in her lifetime.
@Deadly Earnest You have me fear of getting older. IS man-o pause real :( can it really hurt our lives and is a life threatening problem? ... how dangerous is it?
Wahmen are too draining. My mental health improved drastically being on my own, my wallet improved, my career skyrocketed, I have so much less to worry about and I do what I want and love. Get dragged in sometimes by wahmen but early "cold water" helps and it's so easy to see how bad some wahmen are when it comes to controlling, drama etc. when you think with your right brain.
I bought this too, I am glad you reviewed it..I wanna read it asap
I just got this book after you mentioned it! It’s an excellent book. I read it straight through.
Essentially looking at it, women never will care for you the way you care for them.
Yes, that is an unfortunate truth.
In any culture!
I am going to get this book. I have done my own economic review of dating, and it is shocking. How much time, money, and effort I had put into dating for maybe one or two decent relationships, that ended in the dumpster.
I was separated from my wife for 2 years. I had a 1 bedroom apartment, decent car that was paid for, freedom, shrinking debt, increasing IRA, etc. Went back to her and all the progress disappeared. Even one of her coworkers rear-ended me and totaled my car.
Hey Joker... Just occurred to me that I have been communicating with you under two email addresses.. I am a member, you blessed me. Thank you. So many things you speak of touch my life. Even though I am old and out of the game. It was hard to "date" when I was young, and today with the evils of social media, it is so much more difficult. Back in the day, like a hundred years before 1960, men gave a dowry, to her father, for her hand in marriage. Men have always had to work hard to get into something, that a woman, for no particular reason, could just say, I am not happy, it's over! Marriage, truly has never been an asset for men. It costs us going in, being in, and cost way more to get out.... Are we dumb butts?
This somehow reminds me of the song by James Brown "It's a man's world"...
If every women vanished tomorrow, our society would continue on for a handful of decades. If every man vanished tomorrow our society would continue for a couple of months at best.
Now it's more like" It's a (former) man's world" .
Next line: "but it would mean nothing, *nothing*, without the love of a woman."
At that point, we're going to have to agree to disagree!
Economics is the science which studies how people behave with money. Knowing just a few simple terms can help you long way. Yes, they also apply for dating.
I believe the words that makes economy is household management. When you’re looking at an economy, you’re looking at a household, whether it be one house, city or country. Its focus on money is rather recent historically speaking.
No economics is a study of the uses of scarce resources in a division of labour society. It has nothing to do with money. Only the uses of scares resources, with respect to the division of labour. This problem would exist, whether we use money or not.
I have a 2 bed /2 bath starter home just outside of downtown that I can comfortably afford by myself. That is all I need.
Ouuu yeeeeaaaa 300 000 subs! You go ma main man! 💪💪💪