Don't feel bad or a failure for paying for sex. People think that having a girlfriend or wife means free sex. I can assure you that is NOT the case. You will always need to spend money at the end. Whether that money be directly to her or to a restaurant, club, bar, venue, clothes, gifts, etc. And if you're married, furniture, house, kids, cars, etc. If all you're looking for is sex. I suggest you pay for it directly rather than the latter options. Both will cost you but the former is easier and cheaper.
Don't forget, if you get divorce as a man you will also be paying through the nose as well. Paying a prostie is a lot cheaper and everyone knows what they're getting.
Having hooked up with a decent amount of "regular" women over the years (20+), i gotta be honest, mid to high tier "professionals", NOT the street walkers, i.e the ones you pay a few hundo to a few thousand for and meet at their place or your place are way better at doing it (no shit lol) and are more acutely aware of their hygiene and safety more than your weekend bar rat because it's their source of income/how they eat. They take all precautions and clean up very well. Unpopular statement, but true. I mean, if you're looking for someone to do the mechanics well and give you a p*rnstar like performance, most definitely go that route. If you're looking for true love and intimacy, stop hooking up and go find a GF, sex should be part of it, but shouldn't be the focus.
Like the guy above me. Why in the world would I pay 100+ for 5 mins? Yes, I would gladly pay for it. But not for 100+ for 5 mins lol. No, I'm not for pronstar, I'm just asking for you to not be fat. And that's good enough for me. I'll take head. But 50, 100, 1000. For FIVE MINS. Nah, I'm good.
I agree. Looking back at my 35+ women, 10 or so who I paid (never until age 35, many in other countries), there is no difference, or if anything it's better with the girls you were paying (provided they at least pretended to love you). Those girls will develop a crush if you are a regular. I got 30 strippers to go on "free" dates, meaning I only paid for dinner or whatever. Only had sex with a few but that's the fun in it. Note: in their mind you didn't pay if they didn't have to do it, so you might offer to pay them to take a night off work and go on a regular date. They transform into much sweeter girls outside the club).
You always pay for sex no matter. You pay with money, energy, attention and time. Figure out which resources you're willing to trade for it and which ones you want to conserve.
I have heard trad con guys say they would never pay for a prostitute yet they pay for expensive dates or pay all the bills while their wife stays at home even when their kids have grown up & left home...
Women don't incur financial costs, they incur physical costs. It drains them. Think about that girl you dated for 6 months and she left you for another man, and then she came back. She wasn't quite as pretty. It was physically obvious. Men, meanwhile are energized even if they pay for it (especially if they pay a much younger, really pretty girl).
I was never thought I’d be one to consider paying for sex, but at my age (45) I realize that it’s true…men ALL pay for sex in one way or another. As a result, my perspective has completely changed on this subject. In fact, it is much cheaper in the long run (as well as a better sexual experience) to simply do pay for play. Now that dating is completely dead, we need to realize that this is actually a better situation for men. At least, now it’s an honest experience. Women are openly acknowledging that money is all they want. With that out of the way, it just becomes a business transaction. That’s all marriage ever was, anyway. I just think men fell for the fantasy of the faithful housewife….That shi* was never real.
I used to laugh at prostitution too... when I was young and naive and still believed in "love". Now I am older and know better. I realize that every woman is a h00ker in her own way and actually laugh at any sucker still getting married.
When I was in high school, I dated a girl that let me feel her up. I didn't get laid until I joined the Army. I met a a college girl online. I wasn't into her that much, but I dated her because I was desperate. When we did it in a hotel room, I was relieved that I got that out of my system. I was so mellow because I was no longer a virgin. I found it easier to actually talk to women and not be so nervous about asking for their phone numbers and going on dates. In my case, I had to date 10 women to actually find one that would let me kiss her and cop a feel. Young men: don't feel ashamed of yourselves, it's a numbers game. Also: when I packed up and left my Army base, I drove across the USA and stopped in Las Vegas, Nevada to look around. I always wanted to go to a cathouse, and I tried it (in Pahrump). It was super expensive.
@@robotmechanicalwhizkid2521 don't over complicate things , you can go to a pro and get a full body massage;) and you can keep your virginity for that special someone
I support this so that if you’re in that boat in today’s dating landscape you can get it out of the way, realize it’s not a big deal and move on with your life. So many guys get unnecessarily hung up on the sex thing when it’s not a big deal at all. After it’s over you’ll probably be like that’s it??
Sex was always a wonderful experience for me---even if I didn't really like the woman I was with----but my first time was really awkward---especially when I was struggling to put the condom on.
Having sex is not actually the issue. Being an outcast and knowing nothing but rejection is that thing that causes so much pain. I do agree that sex should be enjoyed by men who cannot find a partner without paying. There is something very primal going on here. it will not fix the problems I mentioned above, but it will help you feel a bit more like a man and at least for an hour or so, you can just relax and allow your sexuality to be free and something you enjoy instead of being a source of pain.
Escortmaxxing is the best way to get it if you are average looking. After hitting the gym I still looked average but could not attract women who were not fat and overweight. I got sick of dating. It just was not worth it. Getting escorts on the other hand was great. I didn’t want a relationship so it works for me plus I can have sex with women in attractive. Now I don’t really care about women and over the fact I was a virgin until my late 20s. I’m in my thirties now and still escortmaxxing. I like it is so much easier than hookup apps (a depressing experience), or wasting money at a bar remaining the the damned zone (friendzone) or just going home empty handed every time. I hate bars or clubs.
@@manager4409 yeah sadly I’m too old for college parties lol. I can remember how easier it was going to parties in high school, still struggled with women then but by the time I hit my mid 20s I was in a depressive place. The club scene even when I was 21 was brutal. I didn’t enjoy it at the time but figured it’s what everyone my age is doing at the time. When I hit 28 I called my first escort and have done it ever since. I’m 33 now lol… half the women I knew who use to blow me off in the past or friend zone me are now overweight single moms. Now they want me but I say hell no 😂… it feels good to do it to. I run into them from time to time when out occasionally with friends. One is obsessed with me but I have zero interest. I have a good job, debt free finally or mostly, making investments, escortmaxxing, playing video games, reading, working out etc… doing things I enjoy. Might get another hobby as I have the time.
If think that once a man accepts that there is nothing that he can do to make a vvoman love him, his life can begin. I am a 28 year old virgin and this is what I have done. Yes, some vvomen might love Chad, but not me. No point in paying for anything or even trying at this point. It is what it is and I have just moved on. I'm also religious too for context.
I understand that you are religious. But even so, there is no harm in going to Thailand or the Philippines to have some fun with it young woman, if she wants the same.
I understand that you are religious. But even so, there is no harm in going to Thailand or the Philippines to have some fun with it young woman, if she wants the same.
It's the religion that messed up your mind concerning the reality of mating and dating. We call their view the bluepill. It really comes down to this -- priests and ministers and the crazy rabbi above see women and female nature how it ought to be or how they want it to be in their idealized world and rug sweep what it actually is. They live a lie. If thats not bad enough, they brainwash men to be weak and submit to the female agenda which is the worst thing you can do. Thank God you guys have the RP.
Aaron you're trying to make women comfortable before having sex when you should be doing the opposite. The jerks you mock are the guys having the sex. You gotta caffienate the hamster.
Absolutely nothing beats natural attraction. I’ll stay involuntarily celibate until a woman wants to have sex with me. If that never happens again (it’s been 15 years) so be it. Paying a prostitute just isn’t the same,I’ve tried it
Look up Sam vaknin he says women actually prefer beta males these days because they can be controlled easier. (The women prefer betas because the women are more masculine). I think alphas will have more success finding more feminine, traditional women overseas
ONLY when they are uglier and much older you are not going to get a in shape 30 year old with basic job that can put food on the table and keep lights on to want a beta male after the wall did a big crush that even a beta mail is not interested then she wants one so this is not a win for any time of man
Wow,things sure have changed. I thought I would be a virgin the rest of my life but lucked out into some sexual awesome debauchery just out of high school that I still lovingly recall to this day. Had many girlfriends and sex throughout the years and now have a gf for the last 17 years and we keep it fun with costumes/scenarios/bondage/boots.etc. Never even thought of such things and somehow lucked into all this fun and never expected it. Haven't been out there in the "dating scene" for decades but man,it sounds sad. I guess I should appreciate what I have/got that I never expected...I guess times do change...
22 virgin here and I page at work meow from super troopers and my co worker pages maybe you should stop making sounds like one and actually try getting some so the whole plant can hear it and guess what I don't give a poo hahahahaha sex is overrated I've got a couple of PICUP TRUKS you can buy for 50 grand plus whatever I feel like overcharging you ha inflation
I remember a year or many months back or so, I was very concerned with losing my virginity. It was mainly because friends and society have made a large deal of being a non-virgin early as possible (at least guys anyways). I soon realised men specifically pay for sex, just in different forms - time, money, and mental investments with sex not being guaranteed. I then understood that paying for sex is guaranteed sex, the only problem could be if you do it on a regular basis you might feel like $h*t. But in essence, both are the same. I wouldn't want to live like that but I am definitely in agreement with paying for sex (in the context Cappy says).
Didn't lose mine til I was around 20. Was more worried bout workin on my cars n learnin how to modify them. 40 yr old now. Slept with I think 5 girls in those 20 yrs. It's not a major concern for me. I got more important things to do than chase tail too long just to get shot down. I could spend that time makin money or enjoyin my vehicles. I think it's been like 3 yrs since I've been laid but i also don't have any kids runnin around either.
I used to believe in no sex before marriage. It's not really out of a religious belief. It's more of a traditional and knowing what worked for centuries. But even I'm considering just paying for it. Soon as I have the means, I will definitely go to work legal. Even if you're religious though, you can ask for forgiveness. I'm starting to believe it's better to ask for forgiveness than for permission. But I think if every man would hire a professional, things might not be so bad. At the very least it would help a man think clearer. I mean post nut clarity is a thing. I also think it would make a decent dent in the simping population.
I feel you. I was once like you (also not really out of religious believe, more a sort of moral standard). Then I reached my breaking point and said F it. As embaressing as it was having to pay for my first time, I felt relieved to get that monkey off my back. Just don't have any high expectations.
A $999 game course on how to turn a toxic single mother into a wife. The course comes with a special module how to be a step daddy, Bonus PDF ignoring her baby daddy like pro. this better than a $50
Dated a girl who was originally my dance partner, ends up she was a high end escort and she bragged a year later she made 392 THOUSAND sleeping her way through the dance community. Many of those guys had invested YEARS of their life learning and competing in ballroom 10's if not HUNDREDS of thousands of dollars. When they found out a couple thousand would get instant sex 90% of them stopped dancing completely- again so many things in life people want to SAY it is something else but it is really about sex
@@brianwaller7383 yes that is covered in the step daddy section and the happy wife happy life module so that she does not DivorceGrape you to kingdom come
But paying for prostitutes is sexually abusive to women, getting into relationships with them is not. Your heart might get broken, but at least you were both having sex with each other because both of you wanted to
Prostitution is legal everywhere in the u. s. Just for the women though. They get released while your run through the legal system wringer. Another example where men are severely penalized by the court systems, for a simple catch and release transaction.
The problem with paying for sex is that it is illegal. If you get arrested, that will be on your record forever and it might even show up in in the newspaper. If you have any professional licenses like a teacher or lawyer, you can kiss those goodbye. Not worth ruining your life over.
It’s not illegal everywhere. It’s legal in certain countries in Nevada and countries like Switzerland. Just take a vacation to a foreign country and it’s much less likely to be recorded in your home country.
@@circletech7745 For an American to travel to Europe costs a fortune, plus whatever outrageous price the prostitute charges. Can you, honestly, with a straight face, say it is worth that expense? Even traveling to Nevada is a long trip for people in most of this country. The United States is HUGE. From what I've read, the legal brothels are extremely expensive, like $1000 for regular sex. Not. Worth. It.
@@---nu4ed I retired at 40; I could afford it, I just consider it a gigantic and idiotic waste of money to travel to the other side of the world for sex. I'd rather spend the money buying filet mignon for my cat. Yes, I really do feed my cat filet mignon two or three times a week. Other days, I grill chicken breasts or salmon for him. He was a severely malnourished cat in my neighborhood whose owners threw him out and stopped feeding him. I took him in, and now he lives like a king. A few years ago, I put a picture of him eating steak in one of the Facebook cat groups. Some woman got pissed that I was feeding him so well (and not spending that money on women, lol). She commented: "Filet mignon, are you fucking kidding me? I never fucking get to eat that. If I put on cat ears and a tail, will you give ME some?" NOPE!
Visiting other countries for cultural enrichment is worthwhile. But not to hire prostitutes. Women just plain aren't worth that. They aren't. Even spending the relatively small amount it cots to take a woman to dinner in the city where I live is money wasted; I'd rather spend it on my cat. Before, I spent money on my son. I raised him by myself because his mother didn't want him. He doesn't need me to support him, he is 25 and makes $110,000 a year. I''ve been a professional artist for nearly 30 years. Most of that time I have been working on a number of long term documentary photography projects on Indiana and the Midwest. In the last five months, I have spent $2500 on film (yes, they still make film and people still use it). Its expensive work to do because I travel a lot, plus cost of film, equipment maintenance, etc. If I spent money on women I couldn't afford to do this, which is something that has made me happy. Since I stopped teaching and doing commercial photography work, I've had a lot more time to devote to my personal projects.
Can't believe I'm actually agreeing with Aaron here on the topic, but if the main thing a young guy cares about with regards to women is sex, and you aren't the kind of guy who makes women do things they normally don't do, then yes: hire a professional. That way you get what it is you value if that's not the whole process of relationships and companionship outside of the bedroom, or wherever it is you want to do your business. Same goes for marriage. The notion that any many would enter a civil contract with the idea in mind that "now I'll always have access to sex!" is frankly, a bit disturbing, in addition to being incorrect. Marriage is for "do you want to raise a family with this woman, and more importantly, does this woman want to raise your children with you?" And given that a lot of people do this out of wedlock, it's really just an issue of traditional values and whether you can afford it.
@@manager4409 Hadn't considered that, but if sex was only only religiously lawful within the confines of a contract, then yes; boys would be lead to believe that. Maybe good for pushing a narrative that promotes societal stability, not so good for reality. But it's not the 1950s, even though post WWII boomer sensibilities still prevail in various demographics of the population.
Cappy is spot on. In 1987 when i was 19 and a virgin me and 2 good friends also 19 went on a road trip from California up to Sparks Nevada stayed at a casino hotel and went to the Mustang Ranch legal brothel 2 nights in a row got laid plus you have the comradarie with your bros laughing, partying and joking around about the experience it was great. On the other hand a few years back the famous incel virgin Elliot Rodgers shot up Isla Vista killed people cause he was a frustrated virgin, i breezed though his crazy manifesto of his life never once did he mention wanting to go pay for sex somewhere.....terrible result
You are correct there my man it was less than 100 it was like 50 bucks short time, Now they want a thousand and up forget that. What you do now is work save up money get a passport and on your vacation go to costa rica, panama, philippines or thailand for 2 weeks you can get it for a fraction of the price plus have a fun vacation at the same time just research other guys travel blogs online on you tube about best third world countries to go to.
There is no such thing as free sex. Now don't get me wrong, you can have sex without having to pay money for it. But it will cost you time, time much better spent with doing something you enjoy. Your time is priceless.
I'm sure more would if it was legal where they live, only places where it's legal in the US is a few counties in Nevada. If you try to do it illegally in the states your likely to be put into a set up by cops, be lectured, and worst of all have your face on the evening news.
I don’t get the stigma with it. I do all three things online dating, meet in-person, and pay for sex. I don’t do it a lot, but I actually prefer paying for it if it’s just been a while and I need to get laid. There are benefits and drawbacks to both, but never feel ashamed for paying as most women aren’t worth the hassle anyway.
The U.S wants men to get married so they can control them. It's very liberating knowing if I'm too hard up I can just go see a working wmn. The U.S wants to keep this "holier than thou" family value facade going for as long as it can. The truth is, if they legalized pro-stit-ution everyone wins. They get the tax money, the 80% of wmn chasing after 20% can continue setting up their little harems with Chad and Tyrone, the incels/black pillers/red pillers can get their release.
But they know they can buy your non sexual attention with it. No better sex out there than with a woman that wants you but knows she hasn't locked you down yet. That's why men need to stop giving her non sexual attention for free, that's when the sex starts sucking or ceasing completely.
It was not necessary for me, but I had a plan for when I've got into 20yo I would pay for an escort. Really, I do not understand those guys who are like 36 and still virgins.
Well...in then end men always pay in a form or another. Wether you pay upfront, during (bill of all sorts), or after (allimony and so called child support)...in the end the upfront payment is may be the cheapest and most honest form of payment with modern whomaen....sadly...🤣
I always laugh when people claim to live in a freedom state and claim to be for freedom but don't believe people should be able to legally pay for sex. As Aaron said EVERYONE pays for sex.
@@MRMETT28 bro the great thing for you is you’re a man.. we’re literally built to overcome adversity, it’s what we do… granted you’ve had some road bumps.. but what it all comes down to is whatcha going to be about it? Be sad ? Or figure it out?.. bless you bro I hope it works out❤
Sorry to disappoint Aaron but Cary Grant (as decent actor that he was) was gayer than a spring rainbow so his masculinity was somewhat manufactured by the film studios at the time
Pahrump about 90 minutes north of Vegas. The Thai professionals I've met over the last 26 years speak English. Massage, soapy, gentlemen's clubs, freelancers, dancers, karaoke, hostesses, escorts, dating sites.
Keep in mind that there are diseases out there that medical science doesn't have a name for yet, much less a treatment for. Penicillin can only do so much. Okay...I'll be the first one to say it here: What's the difference between sex for money and sex for love? Sex for money costs a hell of a lot less.
Oh was that occulting that I saw? so only 39 and 1/2 million to one. As Lt Commander Worf would say, they only have lasers sir. Picard, "Fire when ready"
And that's where I'm sitting at. Why would I pay for something, that's handed out for free? Another thought is "why pay so much for something that isn't worth the squeeze/work for?"
I'd highly recommend trying it if you have the money. I'm sure free sex has its own appeal, but being able to use a 10 as your personal plaything is also worth it.
@@doggo6517 I don't want "a 10 for a play thing" if she can't do what I like. It would be just me putting my stick into a hole that's fake moaning. I'll pay for "not fat, can give head", her being pretty won't do much for me if all I want is an average woman
I would say it's her job to "turn you on" , it is what you paid for. But I would also suggest maybe try a "gf experience" (if you have the money) to experiment on if "the caring" part could impact "the rising". One other thing to suggest is "knowing what you like" and going for those. Like preferences and fetishes. It might be more costly but "at least you got your rocks off" and learned more about yourself
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Don't feel bad or a failure for paying for sex. People think that having a girlfriend or wife means free sex. I can assure you that is NOT the case. You will always need to spend money at the end. Whether that money be directly to her or to a restaurant, club, bar, venue, clothes, gifts, etc. And if you're married, furniture, house, kids, cars, etc. If all you're looking for is sex. I suggest you pay for it directly rather than the latter options. Both will cost you but the former is easier and cheaper.
I've heard women pretend to be asleep to avoid sex with their husband
Don't forget, if you get divorce as a man you will also be paying through the nose as well. Paying a prostie is a lot cheaper and everyone knows what they're getting.
I know what you're saying but its a cope cause the wife or GF will also have to spend her money on you
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Nope
@@x97s women don’t share their resources.
Having hooked up with a decent amount of "regular" women over the years (20+), i gotta be honest, mid to high tier "professionals", NOT the street walkers, i.e the ones you pay a few hundo to a few thousand for and meet at their place or your place are way better at doing it (no shit lol) and are more acutely aware of their hygiene and safety more than your weekend bar rat because it's their source of income/how they eat. They take all precautions and clean up very well. Unpopular statement, but true.
I mean, if you're looking for someone to do the mechanics well and give you a p*rnstar like performance, most definitely go that route. If you're looking for true love and intimacy, stop hooking up and go find a GF, sex should be part of it, but shouldn't be the focus.
Few hundred or a thousand for like 5 mins and a rapid ejac. Omg
Like the guy above me. Why in the world would I pay 100+ for 5 mins? Yes, I would gladly pay for it. But not for 100+ for 5 mins lol.
No, I'm not for pronstar, I'm just asking for you to not be fat. And that's good enough for me. I'll take head. But 50, 100, 1000. For FIVE MINS.
Nah, I'm good.
I agree. Looking back at my 35+ women, 10 or so who I paid (never until age 35, many in other countries), there is no difference, or if anything it's better with the girls you were paying (provided they at least pretended to love you). Those girls will develop a crush if you are a regular. I got 30 strippers to go on "free" dates, meaning I only paid for dinner or whatever. Only had sex with a few but that's the fun in it. Note: in their mind you didn't pay if they didn't have to do it, so you might offer to pay them to take a night off work and go on a regular date. They transform into much sweeter girls outside the club).
@@Hoffmanpack Beats marriage where you pay a few hundred thousand for 5 years of ejac.
Just get a fleshlight they're 20 bucks on Ebay and indistinguishable from the real thing
You always pay for sex no matter. You pay with money, energy, attention and time. Figure out which resources you're willing to trade for it and which ones you want to conserve.
If only all men got that. Been saying it forever
Energy and time are not renewable
And the more good looking and sexually attractive you are the less effort you have to put in to get sex
I have heard trad con guys say they would never pay for a prostitute yet they pay for expensive dates or pay all the bills while their wife stays at home even when their kids have grown up & left home...
But there's a difference between buying someone's body who doesn't really want to have sex with you and doing something for someone you care about
Women don't incur financial costs, they incur physical costs. It drains them. Think about that girl you dated for 6 months and she left you for another man, and then she came back. She wasn't quite as pretty. It was physically obvious. Men, meanwhile are energized even if they pay for it (especially if they pay a much younger, really pretty girl).
Why would you take her back?
I was never thought I’d be one to consider paying for sex, but at my age (45) I realize that it’s true…men ALL pay for sex in one way or another. As a result, my perspective has completely changed on this subject. In fact, it is much cheaper in the long run (as well as a better sexual experience) to simply do pay for play.
Now that dating is completely dead, we need to realize that this is actually a better situation for men. At least, now it’s an honest experience. Women are openly acknowledging that money is all they want. With that out of the way, it just becomes a business transaction. That’s all marriage ever was, anyway. I just think men fell for the fantasy of the faithful housewife….That shi* was never real.
How else are you gonna have a stable of 6-10 hot, younger women. It's the rock star lifestyle for $80 a pop.
I'd rather zerk off.
@@ericlarousse1149 - $80 a pop???? On which planet?
I used to laugh at prostitution too... when I was young and naive and still believed in "love". Now I am older and know better. I realize that every woman is a h00ker in her own way and actually laugh at any sucker still getting married.
@@28pbtkh23 yeah, he's dealing with methheads
When I was in high school, I dated a girl that let me feel her up. I didn't get laid until I joined the Army. I met a a college girl online. I wasn't into her that much, but I dated her because I was desperate. When we did it in a hotel room, I was relieved that I got that out of my system. I was so mellow because I was no longer a virgin. I found it easier to actually talk to women and not be so nervous about asking for their phone numbers and going on dates. In my case, I had to date 10 women to actually find one that would let me kiss her and cop a feel. Young men: don't feel ashamed of yourselves, it's a numbers game.
Also: when I packed up and left my Army base, I drove across the USA and stopped in Las Vegas, Nevada to look around. I always wanted to go to a cathouse, and I tried it (in Pahrump). It was super expensive.
I went to Cherry 2 in Pahrump or Tonopah. Had a better experience with a $50 girl in Vegas.
I am a 41 year old virgin. That makes me the Sorcerer Supreme.
why dude? just pay for it. OR hold out until you're 50 when you will unlock the 4th tier of necromancy spells witch includes summon undead servant
Welcome to the 40+ club.
43 here. I've long since stopped caring.
@@mindfortress105 hahahs
I too am one at 29 however I am just curious why have you not gone to a professional yet? It's something I'm trying to juggle up at the moment.
@@robotmechanicalwhizkid2521 don't over complicate things , you can go to a pro and get a full body massage;) and you can keep your virginity for that special someone
I support this so that if you’re in that boat in today’s dating landscape you can get it out of the way, realize it’s not a big deal and move on with your life. So many guys get unnecessarily hung up on the sex thing when it’s not a big deal at all. After it’s over you’ll probably be like that’s it??
Sex was always a wonderful experience for me---even if I didn't really like the woman I was with----but my first time was really awkward---especially when I was struggling to put the condom on.
Having sex is not actually the issue. Being an outcast and knowing nothing but rejection is that thing that causes so much pain. I do agree that sex should be enjoyed by men who cannot find a partner without paying. There is something very primal going on here. it will not fix the problems I mentioned above, but it will help you feel a bit more like a man and at least for an hour or so, you can just relax and allow your sexuality to be free and something you enjoy instead of being a source of pain.
Escortmaxxing is the best way to get it if you are average looking. After hitting the gym I still looked average but could not attract women who were not fat and overweight. I got sick of dating. It just was not worth it. Getting escorts on the other hand was great. I didn’t want a relationship so it works for me plus I can have sex with women in attractive. Now I don’t really care about women and over the fact I was a virgin until my late 20s. I’m in my thirties now and still escortmaxxing. I like it is so much easier than hookup apps (a depressing experience), or wasting money at a bar remaining the the damned zone (friendzone) or just going home empty handed every time. I hate bars or clubs.
The bar and nightclub scene is definitely dead in America. Anything other than like a college house party you're wasting your time
@@manager4409 yeah sadly I’m too old for college parties lol. I can remember how easier it was going to parties in high school, still struggled with women then but by the time I hit my mid 20s I was in a depressive place. The club scene even when I was 21 was brutal. I didn’t enjoy it at the time but figured it’s what everyone my age is doing at the time. When I hit 28 I called my first escort and have done it ever since. I’m 33 now lol… half the women I knew who use to blow me off in the past or friend zone me are now overweight single moms. Now they want me but I say hell no 😂… it feels good to do it to. I run into them from time to time when out occasionally with friends. One is obsessed with me but I have zero interest. I have a good job, debt free finally or mostly, making investments, escortmaxxing, playing video games, reading, working out etc… doing things I enjoy. Might get another hobby as I have the time.
@@therealmcgoy4968 you're living the good life.
If think that once a man accepts that there is nothing that he can do to make a vvoman love him, his life can begin. I am a 28 year old virgin and this is what I have done. Yes, some vvomen might love Chad, but not me. No point in paying for anything or even trying at this point. It is what it is and I have just moved on. I'm also religious too for context.
Where you from
I understand that you are religious. But even so, there is no harm in going to Thailand or the Philippines to have some fun with it young woman, if she wants the same.
I understand that you are religious. But even so, there is no harm in going to Thailand or the Philippines to have some fun with it young woman, if she wants the same.
Get married
It's the religion that messed up your mind concerning the reality of mating and dating. We call their view the bluepill. It really comes down to this -- priests and ministers and the crazy rabbi above see women and female nature how it ought to be or how they want it to be in their idealized world and rug sweep what it actually is. They live a lie. If thats not bad enough, they brainwash men to be weak and submit to the female agenda which is the worst thing you can do. Thank God you guys have the RP.
Aaron you're trying to make women comfortable before having sex when you should be doing the opposite. The jerks you mock are the guys having the sex. You gotta caffienate the hamster.
Gonna caffinate dumpster.
Absolutely nothing beats natural attraction.
I’ll stay involuntarily celibate until a woman wants to have sex with me.
If that never happens again (it’s been 15 years) so be it.
Paying a prostitute just isn’t the same,I’ve tried it
I thought this might be the case, thanks for confirming
Same boat
RIP
You gotta get lucky that it is awesome
You might win the lotto first but go ahead with the disney movie logic, son.
Look up Sam vaknin he says women actually prefer beta males these days because they can be controlled easier. (The women prefer betas because the women are more masculine).
I think alphas will have more success finding more feminine, traditional women overseas
ONLY when they are uglier and much older you are not going to get a in shape 30 year old with basic job that can put food on the table and keep lights on to want a beta male after the wall did a big crush that even a beta mail is not interested then she wants one so this is not a win for any time of man
Wow,things sure have changed. I thought I would be a virgin the rest of my life but lucked out into some sexual awesome debauchery just out of high school that I still lovingly recall to this day. Had many girlfriends and sex throughout the years and now have a gf for the last 17 years and we keep it fun with costumes/scenarios/bondage/boots.etc. Never even thought of such things and somehow lucked into all this fun and never expected it. Haven't been out there in the "dating scene" for decades but man,it sounds sad. I guess I should appreciate what I have/got that I never expected...I guess times do change...
LOL im 24 and still a virgin - i needed this more than anyone
22 virgin here and I page at work meow from super troopers and my co worker pages maybe you should stop making sounds like one and actually try getting some so the whole plant can hear it and guess what I don't give a poo hahahahaha sex is overrated I've got a couple of PICUP TRUKS you can buy for 50 grand plus whatever I feel like overcharging you ha inflation
Dude just use seeking. Lol
@@fakephoenixprince yeah man I get it but what about diseases?
@@barackobama3719 Thats the risk you take. And by the way, you were a shitty President.
@@barackobama3719 average woman has more stds than a pro
I remember a year or many months back or so, I was very concerned with losing my virginity. It was mainly because friends and society have made a large deal of being a non-virgin early as possible (at least guys anyways). I soon realised men specifically pay for sex, just in different forms - time, money, and mental investments with sex not being guaranteed. I then understood that paying for sex is guaranteed sex, the only problem could be if you do it on a regular basis you might feel like $h*t. But in essence, both are the same. I wouldn't want to live like that but I am definitely in agreement with paying for sex (in the context Cappy says).
That doesn't make any sense bro unless you only see women as sex objects and if you do, there's something wrong with you
Cheaper than a gf. Lols
I love the practice of punishing these kids for poor grammar.
Grammar whatever, their shit isnt even readable
Didn't lose mine til I was around 20. Was more worried bout workin on my cars n learnin how to modify them. 40 yr old now. Slept with I think 5 girls in those 20 yrs. It's not a major concern for me. I got more important things to do than chase tail too long just to get shot down. I could spend that time makin money or enjoyin my vehicles. I think it's been like 3 yrs since I've been laid but i also don't have any kids runnin around either.
I used to believe in no sex before marriage. It's not really out of a religious belief. It's more of a traditional and knowing what worked for centuries. But even I'm considering just paying for it. Soon as I have the means, I will definitely go to work legal. Even if you're religious though, you can ask for forgiveness. I'm starting to believe it's better to ask for forgiveness than for permission. But I think if every man would hire a professional, things might not be so bad. At the very least it would help a man think clearer. I mean post nut clarity is a thing. I also think it would make a decent dent in the simping population.
I feel you. I was once like you (also not really out of religious believe, more a sort of moral standard). Then I reached my breaking point and said F it. As embaressing as it was having to pay for my first time, I felt relieved to get that monkey off my back. Just don't have any high expectations.
I sometimes mention St Thomas Aquinas arguing that sex wokers must be tolerated.
Great thumbnail, LMAO. Escorts/Hookers are the way to go.
when you stop all your bs talking and just offer $50
and she says yes
you realize the $2000 you paid for your course on 'game' was a con LOL
A $999 game course on how to turn a toxic single mother into a wife. The course comes with a special module how to be a step daddy, Bonus PDF ignoring her baby daddy like pro. this better than a $50
@@vanhuvanhuvese2738 does it also comes a course on how to pay child support for kids that aren’t yours? Lol
Dated a girl who was originally my dance partner, ends up she was a high end escort and she bragged a year later she made 392 THOUSAND sleeping her way through the dance community. Many of those guys had invested YEARS of their life learning and competing in ballroom 10's if not HUNDREDS of thousands of dollars. When they found out a couple thousand would get instant sex 90% of them stopped dancing completely- again so many things in life people want to SAY it is something else but it is really about sex
@@brianwaller7383 yes that is covered in the step daddy section and the happy wife happy life module so that she does not DivorceGrape you to kingdom come
@@averybaumann Thats brutal, thx for sharing
There is no such thing as "free" sex .... we all pay for it
But paying for prostitutes is sexually abusive to women, getting into relationships with them is not. Your heart might get broken, but at least you were both having sex with each other because both of you wanted to
Prostitution is legal everywhere in the u. s. Just for the women though. They get released while your run through the legal system wringer. Another example where men are severely penalized by the court systems, for a simple catch and release transaction.
The problem with paying for sex is that it is illegal. If you get arrested, that will be on your record forever and it might even show up in in the newspaper. If you have any professional licenses like a teacher or lawyer, you can kiss those goodbye. Not worth ruining your life over.
It’s not illegal everywhere. It’s legal in certain countries in Nevada and countries like Switzerland. Just take a vacation to a foreign country and it’s much less likely to be recorded in your home country.
@@circletech7745 For an American to travel to Europe costs a fortune, plus whatever outrageous price the prostitute charges. Can you, honestly, with a straight face, say it is worth that expense? Even traveling to Nevada is a long trip for people in most of this country. The United States is HUGE. From what I've read, the legal brothels are extremely expensive, like $1000 for regular sex. Not. Worth. It.
@@---nu4ed trips abroad are about once a decade here(for the people that do it) you only see so many Americans because there are 330 million of us.
@@---nu4ed I retired at 40; I could afford it, I just consider it a gigantic and idiotic waste of money to travel to the other side of the world for sex. I'd rather spend the money buying filet mignon for my cat. Yes, I really do feed my cat filet mignon two or three times a week. Other days, I grill chicken breasts or salmon for him. He was a severely malnourished cat in my neighborhood whose owners threw him out and stopped feeding him. I took him in, and now he lives like a king.
A few years ago, I put a picture of him eating steak in one of the Facebook cat groups. Some woman got pissed that I was feeding him so well (and not spending that money on women, lol). She commented: "Filet mignon, are you fucking kidding me? I never fucking get to eat that. If I put on cat ears and a tail, will you give ME some?"
NOPE!
Visiting other countries for cultural enrichment is worthwhile. But not to hire prostitutes. Women just plain aren't worth that. They aren't. Even spending the relatively small amount it cots to take a woman to dinner in the city where I live is money wasted; I'd rather spend it on my cat. Before, I spent money on my son. I raised him by myself because his mother didn't want him. He doesn't need me to support him, he is 25 and makes $110,000 a year. I''ve been a professional artist for nearly 30 years. Most of that time I have been working on a number of long term documentary photography projects on Indiana and the Midwest. In the last five months, I have spent $2500 on film (yes, they still make film and people still use it). Its expensive work to do because I travel a lot, plus cost of film, equipment maintenance, etc. If I spent money on women I couldn't afford to do this, which is something that has made me happy. Since I stopped teaching and doing commercial photography work, I've had a lot more time to devote to my personal projects.
If you pay for it you'll need to wear a rubber. Not the same
One of the drawbacks, yeah.
Even rubber won't fully protect you.
Have you considered that maybe those dudes don't wanna get them pregnant
One way or another you're paying for it. Better to pay up front instead of wasting your time on who knows how many dates
Can't believe I'm actually agreeing with Aaron here on the topic, but if the main thing a young guy cares about with regards to women is sex, and you aren't the kind of guy who makes women do things they normally don't do, then yes: hire a professional. That way you get what it is you value if that's not the whole process of relationships and companionship outside of the bedroom, or wherever it is you want to do your business.
Same goes for marriage. The notion that any many would enter a civil contract with the idea in mind that "now I'll always have access to sex!" is frankly, a bit disturbing, in addition to being incorrect. Marriage is for "do you want to raise a family with this woman, and more importantly, does this woman want to raise your children with you?" And given that a lot of people do this out of wedlock, it's really just an issue of traditional values and whether you can afford it.
It's because Christianity really threatens boys with "to get sex you must get married" so they think that's what marriage is
@@manager4409 Hadn't considered that, but if sex was only only religiously lawful within the confines of a contract, then yes; boys would be lead to believe that. Maybe good for pushing a narrative that promotes societal stability, not so good for reality. But it's not the 1950s, even though post WWII boomer sensibilities still prevail in various demographics of the population.
Why wouldn't I expect sex from my wife? That seems like a given. I would be really upset if she didn't like it too. That would be a joke of marriage.
CE that's really common though. After a year or two sex drops off significantly
@@manager4409 I hear thats the case. It is a loveless relationship so often
Cappy is spot on. In 1987 when i was 19 and a virgin me and 2 good friends also 19 went on a road trip from California up to Sparks Nevada stayed at a casino hotel and went to the Mustang Ranch legal brothel 2 nights in a row got laid plus you have the comradarie with your bros laughing, partying and joking around about the experience it was great. On the other hand a few years back the famous incel virgin Elliot Rodgers shot up Isla Vista killed people cause he was a frustrated virgin, i breezed though his crazy manifesto of his life never once did he mention wanting to go pay for sex somewhere.....terrible result
But yes i have heard that nevada brothel prices have shot way up since then, in 1987 it was less than 100 bucks for a half hour with a lady
Indeed. St Thomas Aquinas understood that not tolerating sex workers meant more Supreme Gentlemen.
You are correct there my man it was less than 100 it was like 50 bucks short time, Now they want a thousand and up forget that. What you do now is work save up money get a passport and on your vacation go to costa rica, panama, philippines or thailand for 2 weeks you can get it for a fraction of the price plus have a fun vacation at the same time just research other guys travel blogs online on you tube about best third world countries to go to.
There is no such thing as free sex. Now don't get me wrong, you can have sex without having to pay money for it. But it will cost you time, time much better spent with doing something you enjoy. Your time is priceless.
They should have an app for prostitutes.. like uber eats or doordash
@@mrincognito7323 regulations. Rich people can hire escorts but the peasant men cannot.
@@mrincognito7323 In countries where it is defacto legal this basically exists. In spain you have slumi, and other countries have other websites
They do!!! It’s called tryst. Get all my girls from there (till I leave the country) then it’s a different app.
Skokka & Chiviricas in the Dominican Republic.
Japan has a lot of services for this. They call it "Delivery Health."
This was nice to listen to. You keep it real.
CGA is right, pay for play with be the norm .
I’ve been doing that. And now u got seeking/nameurprice, etc. it’s a layup
It’s easy to just pay for the sticky friction.
I'm sure more would if it was legal where they live, only places where it's legal in the US is a few counties in Nevada. If you try to do it illegally in the states your likely to be put into a set up by cops, be lectured, and worst of all have your face on the evening news.
Women are better to rent than own.
Women are just regular people, don't be creepy
lol you can pay them to play girlfriend then you can have many more 😂😂
Shiddd you’re not wrong.. As soon as I got a gf all of sudden more chicks started wanting me
@@liljoe2235 it def raises their interest bc they want to know what type of life you living .Happens to me in my home country
If you like to share your girlfriend with people, then yeah sure.
@@motherhoodsbeauty9279this was a year ago 😭🤣
I don’t get the stigma with it. I do all three things online dating, meet in-person, and pay for sex. I don’t do it a lot, but I actually prefer paying for it if it’s just been a while and I need to get laid. There are benefits and drawbacks to both, but never feel ashamed for paying as most women aren’t worth the hassle anyway.
Why is Nevada the only state that legalize prostitution? Why can't they legalize it in America?
The U.S wants men to get married so they can control them. It's very liberating knowing if I'm too hard up I can just go see a working wmn. The U.S wants to keep this "holier than thou" family value facade going for as long as it can. The truth is, if they legalized pro-stit-ution everyone wins. They get the tax money, the 80% of wmn chasing after 20% can continue setting up their little harems with Chad and Tyrone, the incels/black pillers/red pillers can get their release.
Ask the holy men on the right and sex negative feminists on the left. They have an unholy alliance.
Let's face facts...women are just not into sex
But they know they can buy your non sexual attention with it. No better sex out there than with a woman that wants you but knows she hasn't locked you down yet. That's why men need to stop giving her non sexual attention for free, that's when the sex starts sucking or ceasing completely.
Thats a cope ! There are into sex with certain men the ones that are sexually attractive
@@x97s Everything is a "cope" with you
It was not necessary for me, but I had a plan for when I've got into 20yo I would pay for an escort. Really, I do not understand those guys who are like 36 and still virgins.
Try meeting business women in 5 star hotels.
Legal in Latin America.
Well...in then end men always pay in a form or another. Wether you pay upfront, during (bill of all sorts), or after (allimony and so called child support)...in the end the upfront payment is may be the cheapest and most honest form of payment with modern whomaen....sadly...🤣
Once the novelty wears off
Kind of like a "relationship" right?
I always laugh when people claim to live in a freedom state and claim to be for freedom but don't believe people should be able to legally pay for sex. As Aaron said EVERYONE pays for sex.
i'm 28 never had friends never had a girlfriend, I have no job no money I was in special ed class in school never been to collage
Become a catholic. There is a better existence after this life.
@@karensinclair2043 I am already from child hood
What is your disability?
@@manager4409 they never really were sure just said I have low iq 75-80 rang
@@MRMETT28 bro the great thing for you is you’re a man.. we’re literally built to overcome adversity, it’s what we do… granted you’ve had some road bumps.. but what it all comes down to is whatcha going to be about it? Be sad ? Or figure it out?.. bless you bro I hope it works out❤
As a Canadian I loved the end of this video
Sorry to disappoint Aaron but Cary Grant (as decent actor that he was) was gayer than a spring rainbow so his masculinity was somewhat manufactured by the film studios at the time
Pahrump about 90 minutes north of Vegas.
The Thai professionals I've met over the last 26 years speak English. Massage, soapy, gentlemen's clubs, freelancers, dancers, karaoke, hostesses, escorts, dating sites.
Keep in mind that there are diseases out there that medical science doesn't have a name for yet, much less a treatment for. Penicillin can only do so much.
Okay...I'll be the first one to say it here: What's the difference between sex for money and sex for love? Sex for money costs a hell of a lot less.
i'd guess that with sex for love sex is a bonus and not the primary goal.
Legalise prostitution
Oh was that occulting that I saw?
so only 39 and 1/2 million to one.
As Lt Commander Worf would say,
they only have lasers sir.
Picard, "Fire when ready"
I wish they would just legalize it already
It's not about you
@@antarcticagreenland2703 wrong
@@Gary-ft8xu prostitutes don't owe you sex
unfortunately, I don't see it becoming anything less than a transaction
That's what it is. What's the problem?
@@SuperPenguin5495 stop believing in fairy tales
@@SuperPenguin5495 love is for babies dogs and woman but not for you.
@@toddpacker1015 man still blue pilled
@@memeco50 he'll learn eventually... female nature is vicious and pounces on the weak
Everyone pays, either with money or time.
Actually you can be direct about it!
The Edward g Robinson impression was hilarious, carry Grant less funny but still pretty accurate
Only date when you are going for a relationship if not then see a escorts.
Would you let someone pay to use your daughter/mother/sister in that way? Do with the answer what you will.
Let’s just say when I was a virgin and turned 18 I paid to get one of those nice massages at the happy Asian place …. Well worth the money spent. Lol
Good, you might a little more once you graduate to "Independents", a little more expensive but you can get GFE if that is your need.
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 sorry I have no idea what you’re talking about
No way, they are better off keeping their dignity.
Your wife/girlfriend may cheat or dump you.
Great video 😂
Yes, they are pooping in Canadian cities.
My retort to the video's title:
Why pay anything at all for something that was given away for free?
And that's where I'm sitting at. Why would I pay for something, that's handed out for free?
Another thought is "why pay so much for something that isn't worth the squeeze/work for?"
I'd highly recommend trying it if you have the money. I'm sure free sex has its own appeal, but being able to use a 10 as your personal plaything is also worth it.
@@doggo6517 I don't want "a 10 for a play thing" if she can't do what I like. It would be just me putting my stick into a hole that's fake moaning. I'll pay for "not fat, can give head", her being pretty won't do much for me if all I want is an average woman
Hope this kid avoids getting stuck with a barracks warhorse.
25 bucks a fuck and John’s a happy man.
Vvancouver has homeless in skid row.
Learn Carisma, Seeking arrangements
Hotdog in the microwave LOL
"Hot dog in the microwave" 😄
My doctor told me stop paying for it I'm slow down a little 😆
13:27 Terrence and Philip? 🤣
Thank you for what you do
This guy keeps chasing psleeve
It’s the only way to get a job now lol
Yay superficial lazy women!
What if you decide to pay, but cannot get it up after several tries?
I would say it's her job to "turn you on" , it is what you paid for.
But I would also suggest maybe try a "gf experience" (if you have the money) to experiment on if "the caring" part could impact "the rising".
One other thing to suggest is "knowing what you like" and going for those. Like preferences and fetishes. It might be more costly but "at least you got your rocks off" and learned more about yourself
Definitely gotta know your “type”. Also viagra, cialis and taladafil are cool too.
Save time & headache 🤕 instead of dealing with these 304
Paying for sex is degrading to both parties. If it works for you, great, but I would suggest avoiding it.
@s v No, I'm not. What don’t YOU understand?
@@sv-mu6px man is still blue pilled