Personally, I stopped pursuing women 14 years ago because I don't like rejection. 14 years later, I realize that all of those rejections saved me from awful women.
Same with me. I was always rejected. Felt like a piece of human garbage most of my life because of it. Then I woke up and realized it wasn't me after all, it's just the world is full of nasty, hateful, narcissistic women. As bad as it not being accepted in society I realized those women saved me from them, so thank you women. If you hadn't opened my eyes to the nature of women I'd be flat broke and homeless or dead by now.
@@Ducati007brother, it doesn't matter, even if it was fifty-fifty, would you risk losing reputation, or if you're marrying her, losing your investment and your networth. And yeah they're all that bad, ask the average woman if they're a feminist and you'll have your answer.
Congrats on the sobriety bro. 38 years here. Pissed away a lot of money on wimmins even sober but been a fun ride 😂. I'm 75 now and life is good. So much to be grateful for.
58 and still single, never married, own home, money saved up, a few women on the side to come over when and if I want and they can, no dates just come over spend the night...life is good... Only diffeernce with you is, I never drank alcohol in my life. Not from religious convictions, just never liked it. Stay strong.
Why did we stop pursuing women?.....I will give you the 6 main reasons...not ALL the reasons,mind you...those would take us at least 24 hours to list...and I dont have that kind of strength.... #1...the 19th Amendment.. #2...Dating apps.. #3...the #MeToo movement.. #4...we have hobbies we enjoy more...(car repair, model airplanes,reading historical fiction,cooking,,ect,) #5...we have P@rn Hub ,OF.ChatGTP and soon Androids... #6...TV..Movies...and Social Media always portraying us as bumbling idiots...I could go on but ,,,ya know...reasons...
#6 that is only half the insidious nature of the indoctrination. Women are portrayed and placed on the pedestal or altar as being above men. That they can do no wrong. Sugar, spice and everything nice. The ultimate reward that men need to pursue. They are worthy of everything you have to offer by mere existence. All manipulated and abused through your biology. This translates from how women act in real life. Its a perpetuating lie to keep men enslaved.
@@coffeyjjjusury and taxes are the number one contributing factor. If we could all afford to buy houses at 30k, and a decent car priced appropriately and had money in the bank to travel and invest. Most women wouldnt be able to tell the difference between the rich chads and the poor chads. Edit: and I know it ultimately comes down to game, but that was always the case..
I just turned 44 two days ago, and retired just last February at 43 years young. I never married and have no kids. Avoided debt, saved money, and invested wisely. I live a peaceful, quiet life spending my time doing whatever I want whenever I want. Nobody to answer to, nobody to nag me, nobody to argue with me, nobody to cheat on me, nobody to break my heart, nobody to leech all my resources. I wasted a lot of time, money, and energy chasing women in my younger days, until I realized I was always happier when there was no woman in my life, because they only ever brought stress, drama, headache, and heartache into my life. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
I known this for years but reading your comment the way you wrote all that really hits home. We as men have to fight our own basic biological needs and desires, which are crucial to human existence, because we could be almost literally killed by one of these “women”. That’s in between taking steps to basically avoid them entirely out of self-preservation. Sick.
Too bad you'll never know or understand the deep seated fulfillment that comes from watching your child succeed. Not one thing I have done in my life is even remotely similarly satisfying
@@petrosaguilar8916 I said nothing about needing exterior validation. Don't make up things on my behalf. I did plenty to be proud of besides have a child. The most important, most rewarding, and most fulfilling things I've done is raise a child. I have yet to meet a person, who has been a parent of the caliber I've tried to be, that has disappointing children.
I know more divorcees than not. Starting over financially (each time) kicked these men to the bottom rung of the economic ladder. I can fully understand the rise of OnlyFans and the decline of night clubs full of men. Divorce lawyers have so much money earned from men who fell in the trap. The trap is easy to find if you 're willing to open your eyes..... women want a weddings, (plural )not marriage. Each wedding allows them to be the centerpiece princess for the day with a vacation attached.
@advancedapathy1531at that rate why even live? Why not just do whatever is in one's power to accelerate towards the collapse or just kill oneself? If there's no goal, purpose or pleasure in living and living is only filled with disappointment and pain why go on.
About half of marriages end and about half of surviving marriages are miserable. So technically, marriage it's about 9% better odds than Russian roulette. How are the video says it's about 16% so I need to listen to that section
I had to search for those stats myself and it's true. According to the CDC 1 in 4 women age 14-49 have herpes and 1 in 8 men. This world is fallen and daughters of Lilith rule.
Or high school sweethearts. I've always said that only 1-2% of American vvomen are suitable for dating and/or marriage, and those ones are all taken (usually by their early 20s).
That is incorrect.There are many miss-matched college and high school sweethearts. Is why they end up finding their true love from relationships at work who were in unhappy marriages. Modern times have become a bit less complicated as people are tending to have children later. Just because you see a ring on that finger, doesn't mean they are happily married. If the right person happens to come along, they are likely to jump ship.
Age 58 - never married, no kids, recently retired multi-millionaire. My time is devoted to mountain climbing, running 100+ miler ultras, growing my investment portfolio, road trips, studying Austrian Economics, working on difficult problems in mathematics... the list goes on. In short, I have little to no time for women. My life is Heaven on Earth and I will do what is necessary to keep it that way. Cheers.
Sounds like a very successful life, BUT at the same time You have totally failed at the most basic "Prime Directive" of any creature on this planet? What a paradox "winning all the battles" while at the same time Losing the War by failing your Biological imperative.
Pretty much. Want to smash? Get to the gym and build that top 1% body. Outside of that, the number of women who are of the quality and caliber worthy of long term relationships is hilariously low, in the low single digit %.
Id rather be single and stick with casual encounters. Dated someone for 5 years and was about to marry and have kids with her. When covid hit and times got tough she walked away and left me to pick up the pieces. It was a very devastating time that im still clawing myself out of but im glad i learned how things really are before more permanent damage was done. Since then i been much more focused on my own happiness. Not all woman are bad like this and there are plenty of amazing woman out there, but the risk is just no longer worth it as these days as theres is so much more to lose then to gain. People don't date for companionship and to grow together anymore, its usually all about smex and how beneficial to me the partner i chose can be.
Don't be deceived into thinking the "good women" make good partners, they do not, they change and will also turn cold and ruin your life eventually - remember they're not yours, it's just your turn. This is ALWAYS true.
@@xavierayayaell546 nah It would be very narrow-minded, immature and honestly hypocritical to label every woman on the planet as toxic because of a bad experience. Just like the video itself has mentioned, men are not this paragon of virtue and there are more than plenty of men that do horrible things to woman just as much as there are woman that do horrible things to men. At the end of the day it's not a "woman" or a "man" problem, it's a problem with how humanity treats relationships in general.
There are good wifes, of course there are, but no one is perfect. How many good husbands are out there? If you get into a relationship where your status/money/looks plays a significant role, it’s obvious it will be a disaster, it’s just that nowadays it’s so broken that it kind of fine, lets roll and enjoy now and see how things go later. But what ungodly people don’t realize, and many believers fall for this pit as well, is that relationship shouldn’t be about you to begin with, it does involves you personally but you are not the center, neither is your partner, this kind of relationship is bound to a whole catastrophe of itself.
The best way I could describe my marriage and subsequent introduction to the years in family court would be from the MCU. Thanos was asked, "What did it cost?" Thanos replied, "Everything."
I likened that movie and the scene to what the elites want. Also the later scene where he will start over. Because the half saved will resist. That is likened to the indoctrination and changes happening in public schools and colleges.
@@EastHumbled Are you asking me? I'll share. Every man is different but yet there are common themes. Financial well being will be a struggle because lawyers and courts will be constantly after you. Then there is the issue with children and one-itis. The later is a must to go No Contact in all its forms to include even thinking of her, the hardest part. There is no time limit and don't let anyone tell you different. You will eventually get to a point where you realize that it is better (when you're ready) to pursue (your time and effort) someone else because your ex lost any genuine desire for you and most likely feels nothing towards you. (If she tries or hints at coming back, Don't, she will do it again) Always stay busy even if it means just going for a walk, long walk.
@prbmax I appreciate that bro And I feel you on the time limit part currently going thru that now, taking it a day at a time currently in the gym reading as well wanna add some more hobbies to add with the process doesn't help I have a child with her either which means I gotta see her but I appreciate the advice 👍🏾💯
Experienced divorce lawyer here (Pennsylvania and New Jersey). The downside risk of a bad marriage is huge. Stay single. Live alone. Don’t chase anyone. Enjoy your life to the greatest extent possible. You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws into your life. You can thank me later.
And work to end this unsustainable system... who actually likes what is going on with all of this? Why would anyone who wants a future civilization be okay with it...
"men should not come up to women in public, it's creepy" on the one hand and "why are men not approaching us anymore" on the other. Women give out completely contradictory messaging ALL the time. We've just decided that with the way things are moving the gain is simply not worth the pain. We're sick and tired of the mind games.
Not to mention 15 years of "stop being so manly and focus on your feminine side" and abruptly switching to "I only 6'5" muscle jocks who pay for me to stay home" on a DIME after covid.
Only Chads and Tyrones are allowed to approach and talk to her..if you're not one of them then it's one of their catch phrases: "Creepy" , "Cringe" , or "Stalker"
I was alllllmost going to marry a Canadian to allow her to get a green card and be my wife. I actually liked her and we were getting along quite well. Told her I didn’t need a roommate & sex would be involved. Eight days before she is to arrive again, she ends it saying she’s going to marry a guy who’s vaccine injured, “grumpy”, and will do nothing to help her financially. Dodged a bullet there. I knew she wasn’t there sharpest knife in the drawer (most women aren’t), but rather than have occasional sex with me, she chose a guy who will literally do nothing for her. 🤷♂️
That's just what she told you. Women never engage with men unless there is some benefit for them. Maybe this other schlub was an easier target for her to manipulate. Either way, she got her green card, which is all she was after in the first place.
Do you not understand their inverted social operating system women reward men who do the least or who care the least if you care more or do more she cares less and will do less millions and millions and millions of men across the country say but I did everything to make you happy that only means with an inverted social operating system you made her more unhappy
@@tonydiesel3444inverted social operating system, I recognize a unique lexicon when i see it. I need to do a channel soon, and I’m qualified to say this.. this insightful comment of yours let’s me know you’ve seen some things and know some things” I’d like to know more.. do a channel.. or start recording your thoughts..
I'm a solo father with a 12 year old son, stopped chasing so he wouldn't be exposed to any potential chaos. I stay open to women, but don't let them meet my son, know where I live, or where my place of business is located.
When you realize: In love with love, not with you. Feeling love was her drug and you were just a syringe. You were a swatch in someone's ambition quilt. There's a very fine line between challenging yourself and masochism.
I stopped chasing woman and built a tiny home for myself that is super comfortable. I moved to a farm with a fishing pond and built a wood and mechanical shop for the owner. I now spend my time doing the simple life things like fishing, woodworking, diesel swapping my hummer, hunting, small engine mechanics and working on off grid projects. When I’m done I relax in my hot tub and enjoy a drink and a smoke before I rinse and repeat. I took a pay cut to live this life and I would have no other way. I’m not looking back that’s for sure. It will be tough to talk me into even thinking about changing my ways.
The modern woman is not worth pursuit. We are not talking about virtuous and good women here. We are talking about what used to be referred to as "promiscuous party girls". You don't "pursue" that. When you bump into it, you hit it like everybody else did, and you get out of there quickly.
I've never been married, but I stopped dating after my last relationship ended on New Years Eve 2013-14. At first it was the decision to try and look for a "better" partner, then it was "I'm going to take a break from all of this" to "I'm fucking done." That all happened relatively quickly and honestly now, at almost 32 I don't regret it. I have more friends who have gotten divorced, or dumped for the strangest reasons you could possibly imagine, I've had guys self delete because of women's insane and stupid decisions, and not give 2 shits. I'm not the perfect guy, I'm still building myself, I am trying to save for something of a future... but I'm honestly content with my life now. My empathy levels, and sympathy levels for women are all but gone, I don't believe them now (I also went through a false allegation when I was 16-17 and in highschool), I don't trust women in the slightest. I've been asked before "don't you miss being with someone?" Sure, but the thing I actually enjoy more than that is the freedom and understanding that I am on my own, and that I make my own "happiness" (whatever that may be) As Hammerhand has said in multiple videos, women and men are going in opposite directions of eachother, and the distance between is growing ever larger, day by day, and this is entirely on women... maybe a small number of men as well, but by in large women have done this.
“Voltron: Defender of the Universe” Those rare and precious few women are either deceased or super old. I cite both my abuelas, may they rest in peace. You double the labour force, you halve the wages, and that is necessarily a bad thing. Feminism was always (1st wave, all waves) misandrist and for women being as immoral and unethical as they want. Tearing down men to achieve that.
To me it's not about the money, it's about the time and labour wasted to earn that money if I don't get value when spending it. If I earn that money honestly and thru effort why would I just hand it over?
Yes, it's not spending money that's the issue, it's spending money and not getting anything for it. Imagine if gas stations were like dating: You put the nozzle in your car and start the pump, the cost ticks up to $40, the pump clicks, you hang up the pump, and get back in your car to find 1/8th of a tank of fuel instead of it being full.
The older I got, the more I realized how little women have to offer to a man. The only thing of value she has to offer is to carry and take care of your child (provided it's truly yours). If, like me, you're not interested in having children and raising a family, you have no business messing around with women. It'll just be a waste of time, resources, health, everything. If you still believe that a woman is going to love you, care about you, be on your side, make your life better, etc., then you're still stuck in blue pill world and in for a rude awakening. "The one" is a myth. That might have been your mom (if you were lucky), but those days are over-get over it.
I’m Gen X and most of the Boomer mothers I know are absolutely horrific women or otherwise just broken and routinely abusive, my mother included. Women are programmed by society, media and especially other women to make the worst choices possible 24/7. And they do…just to fit in and be accepted. Simple as that.
That pretty much sums it up. Ive carried 'She's not yours it's just your turn' with me the past few years and that gives me the correct perspective, keeps me on the straight and narrow.
Men don't like overweight women? Well *most* men. My college roommate, however.....all the submarine commanders of WWI and WWII combined probably torpedoed less tonnage.
"Rolling the Dice" provides less expected results, like driving a vehicle off the car lot. The price diminishes when it leaves the property. The law of diminished returns.
diversify - you can make $$ off the bluepill shrimps too - fashion accessories and other items that they purchase for their "better halfs" if you want to go full Usher and Let it burn- of management agency is not a bad investment
If you're a man, you won't be allowed to. Women are keeping their V card and buying their owns homes and then having babies when they are ready with never mating a man. 75% of in V requests are for girls. This has been going on for over a decade now. You are literally watching the end of men play out on a genetic level.
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Once I read Aaron's book of #s AFTER I gotten RP'd about woman I was on a solo 3 day turkey hunting trip staying in a camp ground by myself I got lucky and tagged a turkey two hours into first morning Was fishing a lake near by a took a seat and decided to think long and very carefully just how many really good women ones that exhibited being sweet worthy pleasing personality and feminine that would've been worthy of marriage I had met in life regardless if I liked them or even found them attractive I was 55 at that time To my utter astonishment the number I came up with didn't equal 10% of the woman I knew Over 90% for a multitude of reasons just very very unpleasant people and very different to be around
It’s interesting to read this because those are numbers I landed on as well, and I’m quite confident they’re pretty accurate. Women are literally programmed to be their worst selves 24/7. That includes the phony sweetness and agreeableness when they feel like “being nice”. I think women are starting to really understand reality now. What they do individually and collectively with that understanding is up to them of course. We’ll see👍🏻✌🏻
@@SchemingGoldbergcheering them on? I can’t stop laughing at all these ‘men’ thinking marriage is going to work in this day and age 😂 smart men don’t get married 👍
The correct framing is that below average women’s value has been artificially inflated. Similar to the real estate market. Just because a crappy house is demanding a rich buyer, that doesn’t mean that it is worthy of a rich buyer.
I've been happily divorced for 22 years now. These have been the best days of my life. I make great money, saved most of it, played in a band, written three novels, collected cars, run my own business and put my one child through college. Yes, I have dated quite a bit, but never let a woman stay more than three days at my, now paid for, house. The issue is not really women, it's children, how much risk do you want to take to have offspring? Stay single, my friends.
Pursuing women is a waste of time, energy and money. It took me 25 years to learn that lesson. Now I devote all of the above to my own happiness. With no regrets. Good luck ladies, you're gonna need it.
I am married to a traditional Spanish woman. She's fun to be around. Usually. I divorced 2 American women who proved to have net negative value. No problem. I abandoned my sunk costs, moved on. Given what men have to put up with, it's better- and safer for them to *avoid women they don't know well. Let's imagine a car dealership has a hot new car. An adventurous man or two buys one. The car works less than half the time. It skews to the left, on roads, without warning. It goes up hill great- when you push it. It requires staggeringly costly maintenance, and the mechanic shakes his head about the extremely poor design. The car stops in the middle of a highway, often, without warning. The doors aren't secure. People quit buying the car, don't they. It's not quite that bad with Western women. Yet. But it's close. Sp*rm, by way, once it gets into a woman's body, injects DNA into cells. Which is one reason older married couples start resembling each other. I taught my nephew how to use Cloak of Invisibility, around women. His first girlfriend was a feminist. I explained to him, calmly, that she would rip his heart out through his testicles, and make him rue the day he was born. He actually listened. He's married now, to a woman with a good heart, they are good for each other. Most men I know go immediate stealth, around feminists, and exit the area quietly. The rewards for men, of marriage, are tanking. The risks are skyrocketing. Men assess risk. When I see women like this, ... A mandatory course in high school- for lads- should be watching a day of contested divorces, in divorce court. I waited till my first divorce to get this most useful education. I hit all the Alpha buttons, with a lass, years ago, it was heavenly. Then I realized she was a bad alcoholic. A drink 10+ 14 ounce alcoholic drink/hr alcoholic. So I went Beta; worked like a charm. She lost all interest, never called me again; I understood why her ex got custody of their kid, too. There is another problem with women that play around. Sp&rm in a female body (oral/anal/vag) gets to soft tissue, like the soft tissue behind the eyes. When it enters tissue, it makes immunological and genetic changes, so the woman can carry this man's fetus without rejecting it. It also affects her personality- makes her more like this man, to improve interactions/communication. It also makes her more cooperative/in tune with/bonded to this man. Research shows she will reject other men in favor of this one, it's a kind of imprinting. The real being is not the woman, or man. It is the couple- which has 2 bodies, closely associated. If even one premarital s2xual partner adds in genetic material, then all these systems start to fight each other. The more DNA samples this female gets from her original mate, the stronger the bond becomes. Add different DNA samples, and her immune system starts to attack itself. She will get infections, and eventually show symptoms of lupus, or other autoimmune disease, without being able to determine exact etiology, so it is just treated and hopefully gets better. The worst things are depression, negative emotions, striking out without warning, sudden rage, and multiple personality disorder. [Does this sound familiar, guys?] She presents symptoms of BPD and multiple personality disorder, maybe even different voices in her head, from the different men, and massive rage, striking without warning- she can turn from loving to attacking you with weapons, in a second. In college, a friend, son of a cop in some Detroit suburb, told me a frequent call was, well, to older single women who were, well, lonely. Finding guys was mostly impossible, for them. But they had a big dog. So, when the urges hit, who was available. Yes. Fido. Apparently once Fido gets some, well, he gets kinda persistent. And, well, these women had to call 911 sometimes. Delicate subject. Gonorrhea was original endemic in sheep, but, well, it crossed the species barrier, you might say. DNA does cross species, at times. Some 304's are almost hypermasculine. Men who seek dominant partners tend to be gay. There is a reason maids- young women, were protected from men, especially by their fathers. The traditional wedding had the father give the lass to the guy, a formal transfer of responsibility/honor. Sexual freedom messes women up badly. Study a woman who's had 2, 3, or even 4 digits of male partners, from the safe stealth of being Beta Bob. Guys, if you want a sane wife, you need one who's virgin, or at least with a low single digit body count. The more partners a woman has, the higher the risk. Women justify bad behavior by pointing at top 5% men, as noted in Tucker Max's books, who yes, can play around, but most men can't. Alzheimer's research shows sperm cross the blood brain barrier, integrate into the female brain, making the woman more alike and bonded to her partner. Which is why you could formerly see women happily married into 5 or 6 decades. Having a mate for life is common to some animals, also. Cooperation is how humans, wolves, and many other animals survive. There is really only one reason for a man to get married. That is to have a stable, long term, cooperative nest, to raise his own genetic children in, to success. All else can be handled in some other way. Finding out he wasn't the dad negates everything about the marriage. Kevin Samuels noted: over 27, time to sell. 30, 50% off. 35, clearance. 40, outlet store, marked way down. 50, goodwill/Salvation Army. My Uncle Charles & Aunt Betty were married 1939, in their 20's. Strict southern Baptists, in a heart-centered way. Neither had prior experience. They had a fantastic relationship. Raised 4 kids to success. Lived to see their 60th anniversary- in good health. A joy to be around. My parents had a somewhat similar relationship, shadowed some by dad's alcoholism. But they did love & support each other. The best time to plant is Spring. Harvest comes in fall. Reverse that, and problems happen. There are reasons things last a while. About 40% of the men I deal with have little emotional baggage. Under 4% of the women I deal with have minimal emotional baggage. Many women have more emotional baggage than I would dare deal with, and I simply stay out of their world. When my parents got married, men and women looked to see the benefits package of the other. Having a job was necessary for a man. For women, the list, for my mother, included: Knows how to manage a household/on a budget, and stick to it Knows how to sew- clothing was more expensive then; Knows how to balance a checking account. Knows enough about calling for repairs to sound intelligent; Never played around- didn't play with rounders, or cads, which is what they called bad boys then. Had a teaching certificate/other job skills. Knows how to drive, get the oil changed timely, etc. Knows basic carpentry [rare for women of that time, but my mother could do basic work] Capable of planning a cost-effective vacation. Capable of dealing with family, when hubby was doing business travel. Knew how to solve problems for others- even worked as a church elder, later. Gave back to the community. Knew how to deal with bureaucracies, effectively. Could arrange/manage a schedule of work, children's needs such as after-school stuff, groceries, and so on. I've seen women who didn't have even 3 items on the above list- which is not a complete list. Women who are an energy drain, on men, really aren't very attractive for anything long term. More and more women know less and less about how to actually make a relationship work. No plow horse wants to carry both its own load, and the load of the other horse... yet this is expected of men. What's wrong with this picture?
And, that is just the plain cold truth. Disturbing, yet reasuring to know its not just my own F**ed up view of current affairs. Its going to take some sort of a major reset to make this right. God help us.
I've been 6'4" since the late 80s and I've been with 1 decent woman in my life - and even she was manipulative and always looking for something better. Most women treat me like I'm invisible. I opted out of the BS in 2012, personally.
No. Modern women are. And the best part is Androids are going to literally put them out of business. How many men do you think will want to deal with them after that? They're already not approaching them. Women can enjoy the present. But men will own the future.
I’ve been using dating apps as a poor man’s version of a call girl service since I was in my early 20’s. They are truly evil, and have costed me a pretty penny over the years, but it was still vastly cheaper than getting married. When I hit my early 30’s, I thought it was time for me to settle down, so I moved a girlfriend in to live with me. That didn’t last long.
We live in a world now where men have finally realized they don’t need women. Back in the day there was nothing for a man to do except get married, these days there are so many ways to keep yourself entertained and busy with countless different types of activities. Women are starting to panic now because men are withdrawing from society, and the reason why is because society hasn’t given them a good reason to stay. Men are always disrespected and always told they aren’t good enough and need to do better. You’re also forced into particular lines of work if you want to be able to support a family and live comfortably because labor jobs don’t pay enough. Women only care about money now and go for the top 1 percent of men and have no qualms about sharing him with other women and because of that good men that work hard are left in the dust because they aren’t "ambitious" or whatever. This world is a mess and I honestly want no part of it, good luck to anyone out there still trying to make things happen for them, I’m rooting for the men out there still trying.
The panic hasn't really begun yet. They still have the easy tutorial life. Maybe in a generation or few, when many of the men have left the west by necessity and the lack of concern for their well-being.
Because we were told it was wrong? And now we're old? Change is often clumsy and awkward and the best thing is for everybody to accept that as both inevitable and something to be transcended. It's cool the messaging has been crazy, you can expect no less, but also we must recognize the things that need improvement.
how long until governments just straight up ban dating apps? Thats the logical conclusion right? Ofcourse i doubt somewhere like america or western europe is likely to do that. But i can definitely see japan or similar developed eastern countries doing that. Because from an objective standpoint isn't that the most simple solution?
Why would governments ban dating apps? They want people to date to sustain the tax payer base. They just aren't willing to admit why it isn't coming together.
The government actually likes illegitimate children and divorces, since they make money off of them. They skim money off child support and alimony payments, AND the man has to make more money, which means more taxes, in order to afford the payments. Two independent people living in two separate homes means more property tax, and more sales tax (two people in one home only have to buy one stove/refrigerator/toilet plunger/furniture/etc, while two people separate means more items sold) It's not by accident that the family was destroyed, it was deliberate and carefully thought out.
@@ryanthomas49 yeah dude i don't think you get the point i was making, i wasn't saying that's the ideal move. Just a very plausible move since most governments approach these things by finding really basic solutions, where do you come from calling me a child bruh the fuck?
@@ryanthomas49people are too dumb to vote, ergo they dont have enough self control. If a government truly cares about the health of the nation they would just ban it.
I wish I had found this guys content years ago. Would of saved me so much grief and money. I’m now 59. I haven’t dated in over 5 years after decades of failure dating broken women.
Man, your writings ressonate with me even after half a decade reading them. Just noticed how many times a day I remember quotes from your previouse books without realizing it. Glad to see your work and knowledge being recognised the way it should! It's great that we get glimps of its content in audio format. Thanks Aaron 👌
No job security. No trust at work. No sense that my employer will help me move up in life. A coworker with a family fell over dead when my boss got mad at him. What’s happening here? I want the social order of the 1990s back. It made sense and felt normal.
I had a dream once, someone I was in love with someone who fell out of love with me, it got messy. Courts were involved and all I wanted to do was talk to her but I knew that would never happen, there were Balif's seperating us protecting her, i don't even know what the hubbbub was about, all I remember was the feeling. That horrible feeling of loving someone and they stop loving you. Courts and other jerks getting involved and there's nothing you could do about it but take it. It was only a dream, but that was Horrid.
Thanks for posting these, sadly I got no means of buying your books (both cuz no free money yet and also I'm in a country that has no SWIFT and no Amazon or wherever else* you sell the books). Maybe in the future when the world calms the fuck down and I start getting paid more (I'm already thinking of going for a different job with higher pay in same field), I'll buy them as a "thank you" for all the videos.
Men should only Pursue wisdom, peace, and prosperity. Whatever they define it as. It’s all about Self-Preservation fellas. The pursuit of Women CANNOT add another day to your life
Hell man, never mind relationships, I feel daily I am despised just for existing as a hetro sexual man. Its everywhere, the work place, gym, restaurants, you can smell the hostility in the atmosphere towards me as soon as a women looks in my direction or has to deal with in some way such as serve me in a shop or whatever.
"We have seen happily married men with our very eyes". Uh... not me. I'm old, I have a little experience, but I cannot recall ONE couple past the honeymoon phase where I could really say "This chap seems happier than he would be if he remained single." The luckiest folks *tolerate* and try not to step on each other's toes too much. The unluckiest... holy shit. Fates worse than fucking death. Hollywood tries to sell (or rather, USED to) you on the idea of monogamy as the be all end all goal of life, but that shit doesn't exist; it has NEVER existed. It's a trap, a con job, that has now become too transparent to work anymore, and what trad-cons want is a return to when the trap was better concealed and less obvious. I want emancipation.
They only seem to sell it (more recently) when they had a Chad or Tatum or similar. Not even Affleck or Depp now, and definitely not somebody more average like Chase back a few decades, even in prime.
The one time I regret not going for a woman is this girl from Romania who was into me but I didn't go for it because I was in a relationship with a girl who later dumped me while the Romanian chick married some Romanian guy and had like 4 kids already 😵 every other time I've gone for a woman has only ended in pain
Stds stats are largely mythical. Plentyyyy of people sleep with others that have herpes and others and dont contract anything.. still gross though to think about other dudes inside your turn at the lady
Women working did little to increase standard of living. It stalled pay hikes at inflation level at best. It increased taxes, transportation costs, huge child care expenses, and multiplied housing costs beyond affordability for family formation.
Luckily as a man you can alter this near zero number. Though with significant time and energy spent. One would have to weight their wants and desires against the near infinity cost of potentially finding a priceless woman.
@@ottowokeninger9617 really? Tells them to be docile and not actually protective of their families. Men are designed with aggression in mind. Whole role is to kill crap so their family can get an edge on the competition. Religion though it was meant to stay within a small community, the religious men are taught not to be defensive against others that don’t share the same religion. Docile men are weak men
Personally, I stopped pursuing women 14 years ago because I don't like rejection.
14 years later, I realize that all of those rejections saved me from awful women.
Come on bro, they can't be all bad😅
Same with me. I was always rejected. Felt like a piece of human garbage most of my life because of it. Then I woke up and realized it wasn't me after all, it's just the world is full of nasty, hateful, narcissistic women. As bad as it not being accepted in society I realized those women saved me from them, so thank you women. If you hadn't opened my eyes to the nature of women I'd be flat broke and homeless or dead by now.
@@gothamgoon4237 When I think of some of the men those women chose instead of me, I actually take it as a compliment that they didn't want me.
@@Ducati007brother, it doesn't matter, even if it was fifty-fifty, would you risk losing reputation, or if you're marrying her, losing your investment and your networth. And yeah they're all that bad, ask the average woman if they're a feminist and you'll have your answer.
@@Ducati007~ but but she's different
It's when you realize that the pursuit of happiness is not the same thing as the pursuit of women, you give up the latter.
I've felt neither for years!
Amen brother
@@buy.to.let.britain
Yes goofy, instead of the "former"
MUHAHAHAHAHA
One is all risk/zero reward. Submit to a western fee male under gynokuk law? Insanity.
they can attempt to shame all they want , smart men still wont date a single mom, and nor should they .
Shaming only highlights their weaknesses!
This might hurt me but it's killing you.
"clean up crew to aisle 304"
smart men are rejecting these poor harlots.
Another way of talking about this would be saying that mgtow is mathematically correct
Im 44 years old
Debt free
No kids
Sober 4 years now
Peace of mind
Marriage no thanks😂
Ill pass
Congrats on the sobriety bro. 38 years here. Pissed away a lot of money on wimmins even sober but been a fun ride 😂. I'm 75 now and life is good. So much to be grateful for.
@@alaskalograft thank you sir
Congrats on 4 years man, right there with ya.
Stay Strong!
58 and still single, never married, own home, money saved up, a few women on the side to come over when and if I want and they can, no dates just come over spend the night...life is good...
Only diffeernce with you is, I never drank alcohol in my life. Not from religious convictions, just never liked it.
Stay strong.
Why did we stop pursuing women?.....I will give you the 6 main reasons...not ALL the reasons,mind you...those would take us at least 24 hours to list...and I dont have that kind of strength....
#1...the 19th Amendment..
#2...Dating apps..
#3...the #MeToo movement..
#4...we have hobbies we enjoy more...(car repair, model airplanes,reading historical fiction,cooking,,ect,)
#5...we have P@rn Hub ,OF.ChatGTP and soon Androids...
#6...TV..Movies...and Social Media always portraying us as bumbling idiots...I could go on but ,,,ya know...reasons...
Because through these things we know the truth that they needed us before but never loved us.
Omitting the Central Banking Cartel tells me you still don't understand.
#6
that is only half the insidious nature of the indoctrination. Women are portrayed and placed on the pedestal or altar as being above men. That they can do no wrong. Sugar, spice and everything nice. The ultimate reward that men need to pursue. They are worthy of everything you have to offer by mere existence. All manipulated and abused through your biology. This translates from how women act in real life. Its a perpetuating lie to keep men enslaved.
#5 =LOSER !!!!!
@@coffeyjjjusury and taxes are the number one contributing factor. If we could all afford to buy houses at 30k, and a decent car priced appropriately and had money in the bank to travel and invest. Most women wouldnt be able to tell the difference between the rich chads and the poor chads. Edit: and I know it ultimately comes down to game, but that was always the case..
I just turned 44 two days ago, and retired just last February at 43 years young. I never married and have no kids. Avoided debt, saved money, and invested wisely. I live a peaceful, quiet life spending my time doing whatever I want whenever I want. Nobody to answer to, nobody to nag me, nobody to argue with me, nobody to cheat on me, nobody to break my heart, nobody to leech all my resources. I wasted a lot of time, money, and energy chasing women in my younger days, until I realized I was always happier when there was no woman in my life, because they only ever brought stress, drama, headache, and heartache into my life. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
Don't forget they bring disappointment and disrespect!
I known this for years but reading your comment the way you wrote all that really hits home.
We as men have to fight our own basic biological needs and desires, which are crucial to human existence, because we could be almost literally killed by one of these “women”. That’s in between taking steps to basically avoid them entirely out of self-preservation.
Sick.
Too bad you'll never know or understand the deep seated fulfillment that comes from watching your child succeed. Not one thing I have done in my life is even remotely similarly satisfying
@stevescuba - imagine needing exterior validation from somebody else. LoL your child could just as well greatly disappoint you.
@@petrosaguilar8916 I said nothing about needing exterior validation. Don't make up things on my behalf. I did plenty to be proud of besides have a child. The most important, most rewarding, and most fulfilling things I've done is raise a child.
I have yet to meet a person, who has been a parent of the caliber I've tried to be, that has disappointing children.
I know more divorcees than not. Starting over financially (each time) kicked these men to the bottom rung of the economic ladder. I can fully understand the rise of OnlyFans and the decline of night clubs full of men. Divorce lawyers have so much money earned from men who fell in the trap. The trap is easy to find if you 're willing to open your eyes..... women want a weddings, (plural )not marriage. Each wedding allows them to be the centerpiece princess for the day with a vacation attached.
and alimony attached, childsupport attached...drama attached, bs from female selfishness!!
Only way to win is not to play
True. They get a vacation too. 😂
Sometimes I wonder if women would even want to get married if it wasn't for the big expensive weddings.
This is why they call it “her day”, its not about both of them or their “love”. Just her having a good time.
🚺: "fuck off"
🚹: ... "ok"🤷♂️
There's the long story short.
And for that very reason is why we will be extinct in just two generations...
Don’t take disrespect as a trade off for sex. It’s easy to ignore in the beginning but will wear you down in the end.
Thanks for the tip. I needed that one
Accurate👍🏻✌🏻
Drama / trauma / stress / games / manipulation / bullshiate / lying / cheating / bills / nagging vs 'fun' - a Shiatty ROI indeed.
Hazza for Prize Sewer Muskies ! - spit coffee out my nose on that one. *thanks*
😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
all the issues aside, it really is simply too expensive. Just like everything else.
its too risky. A life risk and that ain't an exaggeration.
Brilliantly stated The Juice ain't worth the squeeze...bring on the lover bots
@advancedapathy1531at that rate why even live? Why not just do whatever is in one's power to accelerate towards the collapse or just kill oneself? If there's no goal, purpose or pleasure in living and living is only filled with disappointment and pain why go on.
Playing Russian Roulette gives a man better odds.
Indeed...
in 1985 - My uncle told me; 50 % of marriages end in divorce .... the other 50% gotta DIE to escape her. Remember that.
Real
About half of marriages end and about half of surviving marriages are miserable.
So technically, marriage it's about 9% better odds than Russian roulette.
How are the video says it's about 16% so I need to listen to that section
@@macmcleod1188Assuming first pull on a 6-shot revolver with only one round, you get a 1 in 6 chance of “winning” 1/6*100 = 16.67%
That herpes stat just blew my fucking mind… crazy
Participating in the dating world just grows more and more bleak
How much more common stds are in women than men is the telling one
Same, it's now a lifelong health risk to become intimate with a woman. What a f***ing world.
I had to search for those stats myself and it's true. According to the CDC 1 in 4 women age 14-49 have herpes and 1 in 8 men.
This world is fallen and daughters of Lilith rule.
It's sad tbh. It's really sad.
All of the decent ones married their college sweethearts. If you’re 25+, it’s over.
Or high school sweethearts. I've always said that only 1-2% of American vvomen are suitable for dating and/or marriage, and those ones are all taken (usually by their early 20s).
That is incorrect.There are many miss-matched college and high school sweethearts. Is why they end up finding their true love from relationships at work who were in unhappy marriages. Modern times have become a bit less complicated as people are tending to have children later. Just because you see a ring on that finger, doesn't mean they are happily married. If the right person happens to come along, they are likely to jump ship.
@@ltwig476 That's reassuring.
They will all end up cheating on their husbands at the ge of 30-40
@@isvaraov More sex to go around? Couldn't be that bad of a thing.
Age 58 - never married, no kids, recently retired multi-millionaire. My time is devoted to mountain climbing, running 100+ miler ultras, growing my investment portfolio, road trips, studying Austrian Economics, working on difficult problems in mathematics... the list goes on. In short, I have little to no time for women. My life is Heaven on Earth and I will do what is necessary to keep it that way. Cheers.
"wHeRe HaVe aLl tHe GoOd MeN gOnE?" lol
Sounds like a very successful life, BUT at the same time You have totally failed at the most basic "Prime Directive" of any creature on this planet? What a paradox "winning all the battles" while at the same time Losing the War by failing your Biological imperative.
@@boarhollow7214men can reproduce in their 80s dude. He hasn’t failed at all lmao. He can find a Thai wife and “win” at any moment.
@@boarhollow7214the juice isnt worth the squeeze my guy.
Enlightenment is overcoming primal instinct.
It's Official, Dating and relationships in general are dead, it was fun while it lasted.
Pretty much. Want to smash? Get to the gym and build that top 1% body. Outside of that, the number of women who are of the quality and caliber worthy of long term relationships is hilariously low, in the low single digit %.
Fun!?
I never got to date anybody. At this point, I'm just getting a dog.
😂. At least dog will respect and serve you well. @@MetaLord395
Id rather be single and stick with casual encounters. Dated someone for 5 years and was about to marry and have kids with her. When covid hit and times got tough she walked away and left me to pick up the pieces. It was a very devastating time that im still clawing myself out of but im glad i learned how things really are before more permanent damage was done. Since then i been much more focused on my own happiness. Not all woman are bad like this and there are plenty of amazing woman out there, but the risk is just no longer worth it as these days as theres is so much more to lose then to gain. People don't date for companionship and to grow together anymore, its usually all about smex and how beneficial to me the partner i chose can be.
Don't be deceived into thinking the "good women" make good partners, they do not, they change and will also turn cold and ruin your life eventually - remember they're not yours, it's just your turn. This is ALWAYS true.
@@xavierayayaell546 nah It would be very narrow-minded, immature and honestly hypocritical to label every woman on the planet as toxic because of a bad experience. Just like the video itself has mentioned, men are not this paragon of virtue and there are more than plenty of men that do horrible things to woman just as much as there are woman that do horrible things to men. At the end of the day it's not a "woman" or a "man" problem, it's a problem with how humanity treats relationships in general.
80% of women only want 10% of the guys. The rest are invisible
There are good wifes, of course there are, but no one is perfect. How many good husbands are out there?
If you get into a relationship where your status/money/looks plays a significant role, it’s obvious it will be a disaster, it’s just that nowadays it’s so broken that it kind of fine, lets roll and enjoy now and see how things go later.
But what ungodly people don’t realize, and many believers fall for this pit as well, is that relationship shouldn’t be about you to begin with, it does involves you personally but you are not the center, neither is your partner, this kind of relationship is bound to a whole catastrophe of itself.
@@GrGal "There are good wifes, of course there are" But for how many years can they keep being "good wives"? Even 40.50 years old wives cheat
The best way I could describe my marriage and subsequent introduction to the years in family court would be from the MCU. Thanos was asked, "What did it cost?" Thanos replied, "Everything."
and it will also haunt you for the rest of your life
I likened that movie and the scene to what the elites want.
Also the later scene where he will start over. Because the half saved will resist. That is likened to the indoctrination and changes happening in public schools and colleges.
How is life after being divorced serious question Would like to hear from you instead of videos
@@EastHumbled Are you asking me? I'll share. Every man is different but yet there are common themes. Financial well being will be a struggle because lawyers and courts will be constantly after you. Then there is the issue with children and one-itis. The later is a must to go No Contact in all its forms to include even thinking of her, the hardest part. There is no time limit and don't let anyone tell you different. You will eventually get to a point where you realize that it is better (when you're ready) to pursue (your time and effort) someone else because your ex lost any genuine desire for you and most likely feels nothing towards you. (If she tries or hints at coming back, Don't, she will do it again) Always stay busy even if it means just going for a walk, long walk.
@prbmax I appreciate that bro And I feel you on the time limit part currently going thru that now, taking it a day at a time currently in the gym reading as well wanna add some more hobbies to add with the process doesn't help I have a child with her either which means I gotta see her but I appreciate the advice 👍🏾💯
Experienced divorce lawyer here (Pennsylvania and New Jersey). The downside risk of a bad marriage is huge. Stay single. Live alone. Don’t chase anyone. Enjoy your life to the greatest extent possible. You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws into your life. You can thank me later.
And work to end this unsustainable system... who actually likes what is going on with all of this? Why would anyone who wants a future civilization be okay with it...
"men should not come up to women in public, it's creepy" on the one hand and "why are men not approaching us anymore" on the other. Women give out completely contradictory messaging ALL the time. We've just decided that with the way things are moving the gain is simply not worth the pain. We're sick and tired of the mind games.
Not to mention 15 years of "stop being so manly and focus on your feminine side" and abruptly switching to "I only 6'5" muscle jocks who pay for me to stay home" on a DIME after covid.
Only Chads and Tyrones are allowed to approach and talk to her..if you're not one of them then it's one of their catch phrases: "Creepy" , "Cringe" , or "Stalker"
I was alllllmost going to marry a Canadian to allow her to get a green card and be my wife. I actually liked her and we were getting along quite well. Told her I didn’t need a roommate & sex would be involved. Eight days before she is to arrive again, she ends it saying she’s going to marry a guy who’s vaccine injured, “grumpy”, and will do nothing to help her financially.
Dodged a bullet there. I knew she wasn’t there sharpest knife in the drawer (most women aren’t), but rather than have occasional sex with me, she chose a guy who will literally do nothing for her. 🤷♂️
That's just what she told you. Women never engage with men unless there is some benefit for them. Maybe this other schlub was an easier target for her to manipulate. Either way, she got her green card, which is all she was after in the first place.
Do you not understand their inverted social operating system women reward men who do the least or who care the least if you care more or do more she cares less and will do less millions and millions and millions of men across the country say but I did everything to make you happy that only means with an inverted social operating system you made her more unhappy
Dude, you win!
@@tonydiesel3444inverted social operating system, I recognize a unique lexicon when i see it.
I need to do a channel soon, and I’m qualified to say this.. this insightful comment of yours let’s me know you’ve seen some things and know some things” I’d like to know more.. do a channel.. or start recording your thoughts..
@@tonydiesel3444 Holy shit, so depressing. Are we cursed?😢
I'm a solo father with a 12 year old son, stopped chasing so he wouldn't be exposed to any potential chaos. I stay open to women, but don't let them meet my son, know where I live, or where my place of business is located.
Best strategy! Just casual dating. Nothing serious!
Good on ya brotha. Well done for you and your boy👍🏻✌🏻
Dear Lord, you sound like me. They are absolutely out of their minds today.
@@retroloungemusic
It's good to know that I'm not the only one, thank you for sharing.
So far as I can tell they bring seconds of pleasure with lifetimes of pain.
When you realize:
In love with love, not with you.
Feeling love was her drug and you were just a syringe.
You were a swatch in someone's ambition quilt.
There's a very fine line between challenging yourself and masochism.
Well said sir.
"In love with love, you're just the syringe."
Holy hell, that's poignant.
Exactly, so many Naij girls, even my friends like to say "I love love."
I've never heard them say"I love men."
I stopped chasing woman and built a tiny home for myself that is super comfortable. I moved to a farm with a fishing pond and built a wood and mechanical shop for the owner. I now spend my time doing the simple life things like fishing, woodworking, diesel swapping my hummer, hunting, small engine mechanics and working on off grid projects. When I’m done I relax in my hot tub and enjoy a drink and a smoke before I rinse and repeat. I took a pay cut to live this life and I would have no other way. I’m not looking back that’s for sure. It will be tough to talk me into even thinking about changing my ways.
The modern woman is not worth pursuit. We are not talking about virtuous and good women here. We are talking about what used to be referred to as "promiscuous party girls". You don't "pursue" that. When you bump into it, you hit it like everybody else did, and you get out of there quickly.
I've never been married, but I stopped dating after my last relationship ended on New Years Eve 2013-14.
At first it was the decision to try and look for a "better" partner, then it was "I'm going to take a break from all of this" to "I'm fucking done."
That all happened relatively quickly and honestly now, at almost 32 I don't regret it. I have more friends who have gotten divorced, or dumped for the strangest reasons you could possibly imagine, I've had guys self delete because of women's insane and stupid decisions, and not give 2 shits.
I'm not the perfect guy, I'm still building myself, I am trying to save for something of a future... but I'm honestly content with my life now.
My empathy levels, and sympathy levels for women are all but gone, I don't believe them now (I also went through a false allegation when I was 16-17 and in highschool), I don't trust women in the slightest. I've been asked before "don't you miss being with someone?" Sure, but the thing I actually enjoy more than that is the freedom and understanding that I am on my own, and that I make my own "happiness" (whatever that may be)
As Hammerhand has said in multiple videos, women and men are going in opposite directions of eachother, and the distance between is growing ever larger, day by day, and this is entirely on women... maybe a small number of men as well, but by in large women have done this.
Its far worse than i ever suspected.
I stopped when that false accusation got me. Nope. No more
Few women are selfless. Most are selfish, very selfish!!!
“Voltron: Defender of the Universe”
Those rare and precious few women are either deceased or super old. I cite both my abuelas, may they rest in peace.
You double the labour force, you halve the wages, and that is necessarily a bad thing.
Feminism was always (1st wave, all waves) misandrist and for women being as immoral and unethical as they want. Tearing down men to achieve that.
They innately understand the dynamics of power better than the men, who tend to be more honest and logical (and trusting).
To me it's not about the money, it's about the time and labour wasted to earn that money if I don't get value when spending it. If I earn that money honestly and thru effort why would I just hand it over?
Yes, it's not spending money that's the issue, it's spending money and not getting anything for it.
Imagine if gas stations were like dating: You put the nozzle in your car and start the pump, the cost ticks up to $40, the pump clicks, you hang up the pump, and get back in your car to find 1/8th of a tank of fuel instead of it being full.
Im a polygamist. I have five wives, which i share depending on how i feel. Their names are: Freedom, Sanity, Prosperity, Peace, and Quiet!!!
The older I got, the more I realized how little women have to offer to a man.
The only thing of value she has to offer is to carry and take care of your child (provided it's truly yours).
If, like me, you're not interested in having children and raising a family, you have no business messing around with women. It'll just be a waste of time, resources, health, everything.
If you still believe that a woman is going to love you, care about you, be on your side, make your life better, etc., then you're still stuck in blue pill world and in for a rude awakening. "The one" is a myth. That might have been your mom (if you were lucky), but those days are over-get over it.
"The only thing of value she has to offer is to carry and take care of your child (provided it's truly yours). - Agreed!
I’m Gen X and most of the Boomer mothers I know are absolutely horrific women or otherwise just broken and routinely abusive, my mother included.
Women are programmed by society, media and especially other women to make the worst choices possible 24/7. And they do…just to fit in and be accepted. Simple as that.
That pretty much sums it up. Ive carried 'She's not yours it's just your turn' with me the past few years and that gives me the correct perspective, keeps me on the straight and narrow.
Ya damned skippy!!
There are no real women nowadays just leftovers. As the guys say, it's just your turn chump.
Men don't like overweight women? Well *most* men. My college roommate, however.....all the submarine commanders of WWI and WWII combined probably torpedoed less tonnage.
Lack of options.
Christ
@@whiterabit09 No, he just liked 'em big. To each their own, I guess.
😂😂😂
He's in the right place....
We got duped by our modern day culture. Previous generations didn’t have this problem.
True
The most irrational are allowed the biggest say in things, becoming perhaps the only say in things. (along with big money)
"Rolling the Dice" provides less expected results, like driving a vehicle off the car lot. The price diminishes when it leaves the property. The law of diminished returns.
I need to learn how to get stock in IVF, egg freezing, and all that stuff because it's about to become a gold mine in the next few years
diversify - you can make $$ off the bluepill shrimps too - fashion accessories and other items that they purchase for their "better halfs"
if you want to go full Usher and Let it burn- of management agency is not a bad investment
If you're a man, you won't be allowed to. Women are keeping their V card and buying their owns homes and then having babies when they are ready with never mating a man. 75% of in V requests are for girls. This has been going on for over a decade now. You are literally watching the end of men play out on a genetic level.
🤣👍🏻✌🏻
Aged 31. No wife, no kids, unglamorous job. No hope. No future.
Tappin' out at 40, boys. Even Hell couldn't be much worse.
Well, we certainly weren't going to be our grandfathers, and who wants to be old and even more invisible in this world.
Why did I stop pursuing women? It's f'n dangerous. You can go to jail if she decides that you are "creepy" . Whatever that means.😂😂🎉🎉😊
Well, this was depressing. 😆
Yes it was, sad realizing everything he said is true.
Gonna be honest i haven't seen a happily married couple in a LONG time.
Hell even my buddy who married my sister is miserable lol and i warned him 😅
Jeez dude. Homie didn’t even listen to the literal bro?!?! That’s on him dude.
"I warned him not to marry my sister" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@electronicsafrica
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@@mowtivatedmechanic1172 When the family says no and you still crash on, you deserve what you get. Full stop.
@@electronicsafricathis dude is having a field day 😂
Good women exist, if you think the tooth fairy, the Easter bunny, and Santa clause are also real.
😂😂
Lol
Divorce chance is not 50%, It is 90% plus from people married 10 years ago. Do not give fake Hope!! 😀
Pretty sure this is accurate…
I can't find this, source?
I'd like to see the source for this if you have it. Last I'd heard it was 60-70% over the last 40 years.
I’ve seen Happiness and woman in the same sentence ( like this one) but I’ve never seen those two together in the real world.
Once I read Aaron's book of #s AFTER I gotten RP'd about woman I was on a solo 3 day turkey hunting trip staying in a camp ground by myself
I got lucky and tagged a turkey two hours into first morning
Was fishing a lake near by a took a seat and decided to think long and very carefully just how many really good women ones that exhibited being sweet worthy pleasing personality and feminine that would've been worthy of marriage I had met in life regardless if I liked them or even found them attractive I was 55 at that time
To my utter astonishment the number I came up with didn't equal 10% of the woman I knew
Over 90% for a multitude of reasons just very very unpleasant people and very different to be around
It’s interesting to read this because those are numbers I landed on as well, and I’m quite confident they’re pretty accurate.
Women are literally programmed to be their worst selves 24/7. That includes the phony sweetness and agreeableness when they feel like “being nice”.
I think women are starting to really understand reality now. What they do individually and collectively with that understanding is up to them of course. We’ll see👍🏻✌🏻
4% chance for a happy marriage? Sooo you’re saying theirs a chance.
Go get 'em, tiger! We'll just stand waaaaaaaay back here, cheering you on from the sidelines.
@@SchemingGoldbergcheering them on? I can’t stop laughing at all these ‘men’ thinking marriage is going to work in this day and age 😂 smart men don’t get married 👍
its just not worth it unless you have really good genetics
Good genetics do not change the equation. It just makes it easier for you to get into a bad relationship with a slightly better looking bad woman.
Actually even with good genetics you have to make sure her genetics are good as well
@Arson934eva there's stds, herpes, and more bacteria to pickup with sexgs
Good genes won't stop her from cheating on you, or divorcing you.
This or falsely accuse you@@SchemingGoldberg
"Aposematically". Guess who got a new dictionary for Christmas.
Immediately paused the video to look for that one. In my 50 years there aren't too many words I haven't heard before, but that is one.
how about 'defenestration' ? I didn't know that one until I saw the movie 'Accident Man' haha.@@ranman7688
@@ranman7688-- Same here.
Women stopped dating average men, that's what happened. The average male is not wanted, get the framing right
A 6.5 borderline, but probably be cheated on. Gotta be 8+. So like, two-thirds became invisible.
The correct framing is that below average women’s value has been artificially inflated. Similar to the real estate market. Just because a crappy house is demanding a rich buyer, that doesn’t mean that it is worthy of a rich buyer.
As a business man. Women are a bad investment. No long term gains and a serious depreciation of value over time.
This is true, but as the woman in Gone With the Wind tells Rhett when he complains about Scarlett, "the child is worth ten of the mother."
If the endless cycle even means anything at all... I doubt one of them could logically explain it.
Pursue mission not women.
I've been happily divorced for 22 years now. These have been the best days of my life. I make great money, saved most of it, played in a band, written three novels, collected cars, run my own business and put my one child through college. Yes, I have dated quite a bit, but never let a woman stay more than three days at my, now paid for, house. The issue is not really women, it's children, how much risk do you want to take to have offspring? Stay single, my friends.
These "I did this and this and that and had those things" seem to be written by AI... almost
Pursuing women is a waste of time, energy and money. It took me 25 years to learn that lesson. Now I devote all of the above to my own happiness. With no regrets.
Good luck ladies, you're gonna need it.
I am 61 years old. Married twice to wonderful beautiful women. You can never let your guard down or thing's will quickly implode.
Because it became POINTLESS and SUICIDAL
news broadcaster tucker carlson said u dont become a man till u get married.dont ya just love these conservative minded thinkers.
All grifters, unless they are not even allowed to live in the west anymore. That's when they've really said something important.
I am married to a traditional Spanish woman. She's fun to be around. Usually. I divorced 2 American women who proved to have net negative value. No problem. I abandoned my sunk costs, moved on. Given what men have to put up with, it's better- and safer for them to *avoid women they don't know well. Let's imagine a car dealership has a hot new car. An adventurous man or two buys one. The car works less than half the time. It skews to the left, on roads, without warning. It goes up hill great- when you push it. It requires staggeringly costly maintenance, and the mechanic shakes his head about the extremely poor design. The car stops in the middle of a highway, often, without warning. The doors aren't secure. People quit buying the car, don't they. It's not quite that bad with Western women. Yet. But it's close. Sp*rm, by way, once it gets into a woman's body, injects DNA into cells. Which is one reason older married couples start resembling each other. I taught my nephew how to use Cloak of Invisibility, around women. His first girlfriend was a feminist. I explained to him, calmly, that she would rip his heart out through his testicles, and make him rue the day he was born. He actually listened. He's married now, to a woman with a good heart, they are good for each other. Most men I know go immediate stealth, around feminists, and exit the area quietly. The rewards for men, of marriage, are tanking. The risks are skyrocketing.
Men assess risk. When I see women like this, ... A mandatory course in high school- for lads- should be watching a day of contested divorces, in divorce court. I waited till my first divorce to get this most useful education. I hit all the Alpha buttons, with a lass, years ago, it was heavenly. Then I realized she was a bad alcoholic. A drink 10+ 14 ounce alcoholic drink/hr alcoholic. So I went Beta; worked like a charm. She lost all interest, never called me again; I understood why her ex got custody of their kid, too. There is another problem with women that play around. Sp&rm in a female body (oral/anal/vag) gets to soft tissue, like the soft tissue behind the eyes. When it enters tissue, it makes immunological and genetic changes, so the woman can carry this man's fetus without rejecting it. It also affects her personality- makes her more like this man, to improve interactions/communication. It also makes her more cooperative/in tune with/bonded to this man. Research shows she will reject other men in favor of this one, it's a kind of imprinting. The real being is not the woman, or man. It is the couple- which has 2 bodies, closely associated. If even one premarital s2xual partner adds in genetic material, then all these systems start to fight each other. The more DNA samples this female gets from her original mate, the stronger the bond becomes. Add different DNA samples, and her immune system starts to attack itself. She will get infections, and eventually show symptoms of lupus, or other autoimmune disease, without being able to determine exact etiology, so it is just treated and hopefully gets better. The worst things are depression, negative emotions, striking out without warning, sudden rage, and multiple personality disorder. [Does this sound familiar, guys?]
She presents symptoms of BPD and multiple personality disorder, maybe even different voices in her head, from the different men, and massive rage, striking without warning- she can turn from loving to attacking you with weapons, in a second. In college, a friend, son of a cop in some Detroit suburb, told me a frequent call was, well, to older single women who were, well, lonely. Finding guys was mostly impossible, for them. But they had a big dog. So, when the urges hit, who was available. Yes. Fido. Apparently once Fido gets some, well, he gets kinda persistent. And, well, these women had to call 911 sometimes. Delicate subject. Gonorrhea was original endemic in sheep, but, well, it crossed the species barrier, you might say. DNA does cross species, at times. Some 304's are almost hypermasculine. Men who seek dominant partners tend to be gay. There is a reason maids- young women, were protected from men, especially by their fathers. The traditional wedding had the father give the lass to the guy, a formal transfer of responsibility/honor. Sexual freedom messes women up badly. Study a woman who's had 2, 3, or even 4 digits of male partners, from the safe stealth of being Beta Bob. Guys, if you want a sane wife, you need one who's virgin, or at least with a low single digit body count. The more partners a woman has, the higher the risk.
Women justify bad behavior by pointing at top 5% men, as noted in Tucker Max's books, who yes, can play around, but most men can't. Alzheimer's research shows sperm cross the blood brain barrier, integrate into the female brain, making the woman more alike and bonded to her partner. Which is why you could formerly see women happily married into 5 or 6 decades. Having a mate for life is common to some animals, also. Cooperation is how humans, wolves, and many other animals survive. There is really only one reason for a man to get married. That is to have a stable, long term, cooperative nest, to raise his own genetic children in, to success. All else can be handled in some other way. Finding out he wasn't the dad negates everything about the marriage. Kevin Samuels noted: over 27, time to sell. 30, 50% off. 35, clearance. 40, outlet store, marked way down. 50, goodwill/Salvation Army.
My Uncle Charles & Aunt Betty were married 1939, in their 20's. Strict southern Baptists, in a heart-centered way. Neither had prior experience. They had a fantastic relationship. Raised 4 kids to success. Lived to see their 60th anniversary- in good health. A joy to be around. My parents had a somewhat similar relationship, shadowed some by dad's alcoholism. But they did love & support each other. The best time to plant is Spring. Harvest comes in fall. Reverse that, and problems happen. There are reasons things last a while. About 40% of the men I deal with have little emotional baggage. Under 4% of the women I deal with have minimal emotional baggage. Many women have more emotional baggage than I would dare deal with, and I simply stay out of their world. When my parents got married, men and women looked to see the benefits package of the other. Having a job was necessary for a man. For women, the list, for my mother, included:
Knows how to manage a household/on a budget, and stick to it Knows how to sew- clothing was more expensive then; Knows how to balance a checking account. Knows enough about calling for repairs to sound intelligent; Never played around- didn't play with rounders, or cads, which is what they called bad boys then. Had a teaching certificate/other job skills. Knows how to drive, get the oil changed timely, etc. Knows basic carpentry [rare for women of that time, but my mother could do basic work] Capable of planning a cost-effective vacation. Capable of dealing with family, when hubby was doing business travel. Knew how to solve problems for others- even worked as a church elder, later. Gave back to the community. Knew how to deal with bureaucracies, effectively. Could arrange/manage a schedule of work, children's needs such as after-school stuff, groceries, and so on. I've seen women who didn't have even 3 items on the above list- which is not a complete list. Women who are an energy drain, on men, really aren't very attractive for anything long term. More and more women know less and less about how to actually make a relationship work. No plow horse wants to carry both its own load, and the load of the other horse... yet this is expected of men. What's wrong with this picture?
One of the biggest waste of time in this life is pursuing women point blank period. Your better of chasing you own tail if you had one.
And, that is just the plain cold truth. Disturbing, yet reasuring to know its not just my own F**ed up view of current affairs. Its going to take some sort of a major reset to make this right. God help us.
Wahmen only want 6' tall guys. Doesn't make sense for Short Men to waste time on chad's left-overs.
It has nothing to do with your height. Tall men are in bad relationships with bad women too.the grass is NOT greener on the other side.
@@jakeviolet2195 loser, if you are not happy in your relationship go to therapy.
I've been 6'4" since the late 80s and I've been with 1 decent woman in my life - and even she was manipulative and always looking for something better. Most women treat me like I'm invisible. I opted out of the BS in 2012, personally.
i'm 5'6 and have gotten hot women coming onto me my entire life. Some cheating on their tall bf's with me. Being handsome helps.
@@CognitiveDissident.6'4" too, hard agree
Cappy, you certainly have a way with words. I love it.
We're all fucked
No. Modern women are. And the best part is Androids are going to literally put them out of business. How many men do you think will want to deal with them after that? They're already not approaching them. Women can enjoy the present. But men will own the future.
@@clovers-zi5fethe west will collapse before that happens, if ever
I feel the only reasonable thing to do is to find value in doing my own thing.
I’ve been using dating apps as a poor man’s version of a call girl service since I was in my early 20’s. They are truly evil, and have costed me a pretty penny over the years, but it was still vastly cheaper than getting married. When I hit my early 30’s, I thought it was time for me to settle down, so I moved a girlfriend in to live with me. That didn’t last long.
With cash in our pockets, we're not bending down to pick up a nickel.
We live in a world now where men have finally realized they don’t need women.
Back in the day there was nothing for a man to do except get married, these days there are so many ways to keep yourself entertained and busy with countless different types of activities.
Women are starting to panic now because men are withdrawing from society, and the reason why is because society hasn’t given them a good reason to stay.
Men are always disrespected and always told they aren’t good enough and need to do better. You’re also forced into particular lines of work if you want to be able to support a family and live comfortably because labor jobs don’t pay enough.
Women only care about money now and go for the top 1 percent of men and have no qualms about sharing him with other women and because of that good men that work hard are left in the dust because they aren’t "ambitious" or whatever.
This world is a mess and I honestly want no part of it, good luck to anyone out there still trying to make things happen for them, I’m rooting for the men out there still trying.
The panic hasn't really begun yet. They still have the easy tutorial life.
Maybe in a generation or few, when many of the men have left the west by necessity and the lack of concern for their well-being.
Listen to this everyday fellas!! That herpes thing blew my mind.
I stopped pursuing Woman after I started catching Them . ❤
So depressing yet so true…
@@kreiff15brutal, just make yourself happy bro, find new hobbies, and p4p once in a while.
Because we were told it was wrong? And now we're old? Change is often clumsy and awkward and the best thing is for everybody to accept that as both inevitable and something to be transcended. It's cool the messaging has been crazy, you can expect no less, but also we must recognize the things that need improvement.
how long until governments just straight up ban dating apps? Thats the logical conclusion right? Ofcourse i doubt somewhere like america or western europe is likely to do that. But i can definitely see japan or similar developed eastern countries doing that. Because from an objective standpoint isn't that the most simple solution?
Why would governments ban dating apps? They want people to date to sustain the tax payer base. They just aren't willing to admit why it isn't coming together.
Why do you need the government to ban dating apps? Are you a child? We don't need bans. We need people to be educated.
The government actually likes illegitimate children and divorces, since they make money off of them. They skim money off child support and alimony payments, AND the man has to make more money, which means more taxes, in order to afford the payments. Two independent people living in two separate homes means more property tax, and more sales tax (two people in one home only have to buy one stove/refrigerator/toilet plunger/furniture/etc, while two people separate means more items sold)
It's not by accident that the family was destroyed, it was deliberate and carefully thought out.
@@ryanthomas49 yeah dude i don't think you get the point i was making, i wasn't saying that's the ideal move. Just a very plausible move since most governments approach these things by finding really basic solutions, where do you come from calling me a child bruh the fuck?
@@ryanthomas49people are too dumb to vote, ergo they dont have enough self control. If a government truly cares about the health of the nation they would just ban it.
I wish I had found this guys content years ago. Would of saved me so much grief and money. I’m now 59. I haven’t dated in over 5 years after decades of failure dating broken women.
Man, your writings ressonate with me even after half a decade reading them. Just noticed how many times a day I remember quotes from your previouse books without realizing it. Glad to see your work and knowledge being recognised the way it should! It's great that we get glimps of its content in audio format. Thanks Aaron 👌
No job security. No trust at work. No sense that my employer will help me move up in life. A coworker with a family fell over dead when my boss got mad at him. What’s happening here? I want the social order of the 1990s back. It made sense and felt normal.
I agree 100% things havent felt normal since the 90s
The intended decline of western civs.
The pursuit of women is a fool's game. Leave the women right where they're at and keep pursuing your life goals.
I had a dream once, someone I was in love with someone who fell out of love with me, it got messy.
Courts were involved and all I wanted to do was talk to her but I knew that would never happen, there were Balif's seperating us protecting her, i don't even know what the hubbbub was about, all I remember was the feeling.
That horrible feeling of loving someone and they stop loving you.
Courts and other jerks getting involved and there's nothing you could do about it but take it.
It was only a dream, but that was Horrid.
Being alpha doesn’t compete with…..
THE BETA BORG
What is an “alpha”?
Thanks for posting these, sadly I got no means of buying your books (both cuz no free money yet and also I'm in a country that has no SWIFT and no Amazon or wherever else* you sell the books). Maybe in the future when the world calms the fuck down and I start getting paid more (I'm already thinking of going for a different job with higher pay in same field), I'll buy them as a "thank you" for all the videos.
Men should only Pursue wisdom, peace, and prosperity. Whatever they define it as. It’s all about Self-Preservation fellas. The pursuit of Women CANNOT add another day to your life
It’s literally just high risk, little to no reward
Slavery has no reward for.the slave
Hell man, never mind relationships, I feel daily I am despised just for existing as a hetro sexual man. Its everywhere, the work place, gym, restaurants, you can smell the hostility in the atmosphere towards me as soon as a women looks in my direction or has to deal with in some way such as serve me in a shop or whatever.
It was the worst of times, and not close to the best or natural of times. None of us should fight for such a place. I'm planning my escape...
We should return to arranged marriage. It's still practiced by some cultures and works. The fairy tale image is just an image.
Would be far more interesting, but also sans all the courts and divorce laws.
"We have seen happily married men with our very eyes".
Uh... not me. I'm old, I have a little experience, but I cannot recall ONE couple past the honeymoon phase where I could really say "This chap seems happier than he would be if he remained single." The luckiest folks *tolerate* and try not to step on each other's toes too much. The unluckiest... holy shit. Fates worse than fucking death.
Hollywood tries to sell (or rather, USED to) you on the idea of monogamy as the be all end all goal of life, but that shit doesn't exist; it has NEVER existed. It's a trap, a con job, that has now become too transparent to work anymore, and what trad-cons want is a return to when the trap was better concealed and less obvious.
I want emancipation.
They only seem to sell it (more recently) when they had a Chad or Tatum or similar. Not even Affleck or Depp now, and definitely not somebody more average like Chase back a few decades, even in prime.
The one time I regret not going for a woman is this girl from Romania who was into me but I didn't go for it because I was in a relationship with a girl who later dumped me while the Romanian chick married some Romanian guy and had like 4 kids already 😵 every other time I've gone for a woman has only ended in pain
Because at their core they really aren't that interesting or attractive. Outside of base primal serial attraction, there just isn't much to them.
Best things ever, but only in theory and is where it remains.
So every Chad has the herp
Stds stats are largely mythical. Plentyyyy of people sleep with others that have herpes and others and dont contract anything.. still gross though to think about other dudes inside your turn at the lady
The nice guys always finish last I could elaborate but you guys know the drill. I can do bad by myself don’t need any help
"It's often done while sitting on the toilet". Yep, that's the only way I can find online dating to be worth my time.
Women working did little to increase standard of living. It stalled pay hikes at inflation level at best. It increased taxes, transportation costs, huge child care expenses, and multiplied housing costs beyond affordability for family formation.
Not to mention all the girl bosses now. Just rotted society
That's because a wise and/or experienced man would see a scam from a mile away.
Luckily as a man you can alter this near zero number. Though with significant time and energy spent. One would have to weight their wants and desires against the near infinity cost of potentially finding a priceless woman.
its over
Born in the age of weak men, lack of functional and logical societies
Religion. The one thing that tells men not to be men
Then is has been twisted and turned into a false one. That's not the truth they were given- they changed it.
@@ottowokeninger9617 really? Tells them to be docile and not actually protective of their families. Men are designed with aggression in mind. Whole role is to kill crap so their family can get an edge on the competition.
Religion though it was meant to stay within a small community, the religious men are taught not to be defensive against others that don’t share the same religion.
Docile men are weak men
Synthetic superman. Dig it.
Women were always like this. However society had social and religious restraints earlier. With those gone, their true nature is coming out.
Islam is somewhat right about them
No shame no blame allowed. Neither be held responsible nor accountable in this age. The expected results.
Modern men should man up and be walking ATMs or better still walking dollar bills as men have always been.
Paying full price for a product that leaks red fluid every so often