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  • @BrainWasherAttendent
    @BrainWasherAttendent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2186

    Feminism was created and installed in America by an outside enemy. If you haven’t figure out yet this is a weapon to destroy a county you aren’t awake.

    • @rustynuts4426
      @rustynuts4426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Excellent. People are waking up! Your comment gives me hope. Now ponder this, for this weapon to be installed in our society, our elected must have sold us out right?

    • @billhundreds8762
      @billhundreds8762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Babylon gwan fall.

    • @VR-gs9hd
      @VR-gs9hd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      ​@@fpshobbs Carlin on how the government trickles down division to keep the masses fighting is a must watch as well. Keep track on how many victim-based, hierarchical sub-groups the left loves to create while preaching "equality" but actively dividing and destroying everything they touch. This is how the earth becomes waste: deceit works better on emotional/irrational toddler-like people, hence their push to suppress logic and masculinity.

    • @gordongekko3186
      @gordongekko3186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      It is not an outside enemy, this orginated from US and spreading to countries that are highly influnced from US.

    • @cybco
      @cybco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Not just feminism, how bout BLM, SJW, CRT, LGBTQ, Defund Police, blah, blah, blah........

  • @whitecrane3714
    @whitecrane3714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1352

    Just before my mom died I asked her how her life was. She said the beginning was a little tough NAZI occupation, Holland, immigration to Canada , learning a new language starting from scratch. But the greatest joy was the beautiful family and home that the man I love provide me and the great times we had together. She said she loved her husband of 61 years and her two sons, miss and love you mom.

    • @panoply13
      @panoply13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      This was wonderful to read. ♥️✝️👍

    • @BigFresh960
      @BigFresh960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      This is a amazing story!

    • @rhubarbbikini3794
      @rhubarbbikini3794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Those things don’t have to be replaced by your career tho, it’s very possible to have a balance of both

    • @whitecrane3714
      @whitecrane3714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rhubarbbikini3794 absolutely why not two masters . Because the truth is that poor gal is working twice as hard as the guy unless you have a really sound work agreement , signed. And review it often.

    • @nancyw8341
      @nancyw8341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@rhubarbbikini3794 No you can't. Women can't have it all. They end up doing both jobs half butted. You can't spread yourself so thin trying to manage both. She can learn to live on less money. The money most of these women make is wasted on stuff.

  • @butterygudness7577
    @butterygudness7577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2200

    Its crazy that this lady is more femmine than the average 21 year old girl nowadays.

  • @debrakessler5141
    @debrakessler5141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    I'm 66 and was raised by a feminist. I fought it at every turn. I'm so pleased to share with you that my three daughters are stay at home moms. They have 10 children between them. They breast fed, and are now homeschooling their children. There is hope

    • @damiengates7581
      @damiengates7581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      For this God is deserving of praise.

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's good to be reminded that there is hope out there. Thanks, Debra.

    • @pr00009
      @pr00009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you are much more capable man.. i touch your feet in respect

    • @martagcd
      @martagcd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow 10 grand kids, how lovely

    • @weekend1rocks
      @weekend1rocks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amazing, good for you!

  • @Punchinelli
    @Punchinelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I've dated several women that have told me that they feel pressured to work full-time and have careers, secretly wishing they could stay home and raise a family - but instead they are stressed and miserable working jobs they don't even want.

    • @Bristecom
      @Bristecom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That's my experience as well. On the surface they act like they love their jobs but in reality they constantly complain about it and it stresses them out so much. I recently broke up with a girl that was in this situation but she just couldn't let it go. She insisted on prioritizing her career over everything else. It's like Stockholm Syndrome or something. It's really bazaar.

    • @shiptj01
      @shiptj01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's true. I used to work with a woman who wanted to live that way.

    • @alicemueller5836
      @alicemueller5836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know, it's sad.

    • @shiptj01
      @shiptj01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Carol JL Wife Thank you for your service.

    • @janjoy9759
      @janjoy9759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Most men are adamant about... oh no I dont want a trophy wife, or stay at home wife.... I want all that... men don't. So it's tough to hear this video .... I've been wanting all that she speaks in this video but all the men I've even met have been against all this...
      How do find a man who supports this???

  • @architecture.w
    @architecture.w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    Her voice immediately alerts me to the face that this woman is a feminine, real woman. No vocal fry, no screeching up talk. I support her message 100%

    • @language-n-learning
      @language-n-learning 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen. Where did the horrible trait of "vocal fry & up talk" come from?

    • @chestrockwell8328
      @chestrockwell8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@language-n-learning I'm not all that young anymore, 52, so thankfully I don't have to hear the way younger females speak often... though some near my age have adopted this horrible habit. It comes from modern culture, popularized ghetto culture. Rap skanks. Also it's a natural deterioration of the voice from drug use.

    • @chestrockwell8328
      @chestrockwell8328 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Kat Ashley :)

    • @desertnomad4122
      @desertnomad4122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude, she's post wall.

    • @johnd.2803
      @johnd.2803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is she looking to adopt an adult ?

  • @joshuathompson4162
    @joshuathompson4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    I have not heard a women speak with this amount of clarity and understanding in my entire life.

    • @joshuathompson4162
      @joshuathompson4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lailaqatar2596 I talk to her every day. What are you implying?

    • @joshuathompson4162
      @joshuathompson4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@lailaqatar2596 I am 34 and I have met thousands of women in the military, college, and church. I know zero women who speak this way and zero who live as she recommended.
      Thanks but not interested in your only fans, weird plug.

    • @Lord_darkside74
      @Lord_darkside74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She’s a dying breed.

    • @joshuathompson4162
      @joshuathompson4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lailaqatar2596 I have heard the "get out of your bubble" argument/fallacy before. Look at all the praise in the comments. Clearly this woman is unique. You will have an uphill (anecdotal) batttle trying to say otherwise.

    • @ogad84
      @ogad84 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lailaqatar2596 you are correct, it all started with men!

  • @vincenttemperino2144
    @vincenttemperino2144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    There's no concern for each other anymore....The need for income has ruined everything

    • @Lisa-sg1of
      @Lisa-sg1of 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There never was this ''concern'' to begin with.

  • @lisalynch629
    @lisalynch629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Feminism teaches resentment coupled with entitlement which makes it impossible to have an adult relatioship

  • @roguedalek900
    @roguedalek900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +822

    OMG she's betraying the sisterhood! Bless her. *THIS* is a strong woman.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      yes! Not women who twerk,and act all "baddie"

    • @subneo61
      @subneo61 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nah she just isn’t brainwashed by mass media

    • @thedogmancaper
      @thedogmancaper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GabrielleTollerson Um, it's pronounced "badday". Get it together Gabrielle.

    • @makaveli201071
      @makaveli201071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A real strong woman is the woman who does whatever she thinks or feels she has to do to provide for herself or her family. A strong woman is the one who follows her dreams and believes, not the one who does whatever other people tell them to do. If you choose to be a homemaker or a professional or whatever else you choose to be, thats your decision and we all have to respect that decision.

    • @Ndogg012
      @Ndogg012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@makaveli201071 meanwhile murderers are 80% raised in single mother homes.

  • @Andre-iv7ys
    @Andre-iv7ys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1589

    Now this is what you call a feminine traditional woman, beautiful.

    • @justinbalog4197
      @justinbalog4197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      She’s a rare breed, may more women follow her example

    • @mohican19831
      @mohican19831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Unfortunately they dont learn this at an earlier age it's only when they become older that there ears open. Epiphany phase

    • @halcyonzenith4411
      @halcyonzenith4411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Now show me one under the age of 30

    • @panoply13
      @panoply13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      God bless you, Andre.

    • @mr.albert2847
      @mr.albert2847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Does she have a daughter?

  • @howiesfunware
    @howiesfunware 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Men are looking for the four F's from women: Fit, Feminine, Friendly & Faithful.

    • @williampotts3727
      @williampotts3727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Nah I just want her to be faithful.

    • @MrJecull
      @MrJecull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with him for most part, but also be nice not to always be cooking for a fiance 4 kids n her mom right after killing myself doing construction work etc for 10 - 14 hours

    • @howiesfunware
      @howiesfunware 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@williampotts3727 Oops... I knew I forgot one of the F's and that is Faithful. Thanks. I'll update my post.

    • @makeitcount2985
      @makeitcount2985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And what are women looking for from men faithful, loving, a partner in all things including in the home... A good provider, responsible... How many men are these things?

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@makeitcount2985 Modern women are not looking for these things any more. And traditional women are mocked and derided for wanting these things. Most average men have been taught to be these things. modern women dont value it; so men learn to change to attain modern women. this is why we may find average men may not have these traits. but almost every man has been socialized to provide what you 'say' you want!

  • @kurtissmith2097
    @kurtissmith2097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I’ll never get married again. I’d rather be lonely then miserable.

    • @richardchambers3533
      @richardchambers3533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Confucius say -" better to be single and unhappy, than to be married and unhappy"🙏

    • @keithroach7762
      @keithroach7762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just married the wrong one. I LOVE my wife of 23 years. My best friend and can't imagine my life without her. Don't give up- there's hope

    • @michellekatz1023
      @michellekatz1023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never say never 😃

    • @lucibloom5966
      @lucibloom5966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Women don’t want to be married to you either. It’s honestly not that great and we’d rather be free from male abuse and bullshit!

    • @cammontreuil7509
      @cammontreuil7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lucibloom5966 you wouldn't know a good guy if you saw one.

  • @Starbat88
    @Starbat88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    This lady has her finger on the pulse of reality!

  • @matthewtoddbehindthescenes367
    @matthewtoddbehindthescenes367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    So bored of what society now calls a 'strong woman'. This is a strong woman right here. Thank you for this.

  • @djgriffin7393
    @djgriffin7393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    More and more men are asking themselves, "what does she bring to the table". The end result is the lowest recorded marriage rates in US history.

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      men not marrying empowered women that aren't fit to be wives is a good thing.

    • @yamabushi170
      @yamabushi170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      all they bring now is baggage and attitude.

    • @Junior-mx3lw
      @Junior-mx3lw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes, I have researching this and it is true: there are record-low marriage rates and child births not just in the US but in other parts of the world.

    • @carlosriveros8194
      @carlosriveros8194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well, that and kooky divorce laws. Before saying anything else, I totally respect women and empathize with their short biological clock- men can procreate \ start a family at any age. But say you shack up (no marriage yet) with a woman having three kids by three previous men- on the 366th day you no longer can just leave. You are now the legal guardian of the three kids (irregardless of DNA) thru university + the mother. Your paycheck \ bank accounts will automatically be garnished, you won't be allowed to sell off the house, etc.
      Now let's say you go the opposite route and marry a young single girl still living with her parents- and you divorce before having kids- she still gets half of everything\ enough to maintain forever the style she is now accustomed to...not the one she had when she met you.

    • @manflynil9751
      @manflynil9751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@yamabushi170 sadly I agree with your comment.

  • @Woo_Woo_Woman
    @Woo_Woo_Woman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is definitely a two sided issue. Both men and women need to step up.

    • @Catryce04
      @Catryce04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you. People are crazy.

    • @TheEndOfTheMoon
      @TheEndOfTheMoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed but it is all caused by feminism which is a woman's movement, it has done unrepairable damage to both women and men. The fact is our culture is completely one sided, it demonizes and shames men while glorifying women no matter what they do.

  • @VeroKlassen
    @VeroKlassen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    What a beautiful woman!
    Simple, gentle and feminine.

    • @keenanhenderson9206
      @keenanhenderson9206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hell yeah she is . How easy it is to want to take care of her as a man

    • @williambr88
      @williambr88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're beautiful too!

    • @VeroKlassen
      @VeroKlassen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@williambr88 ☺️

    • @danhill5428
      @danhill5428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So good to see a younger woman who can see and appreciate it

    • @bomcdaniel8311
      @bomcdaniel8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Veronica Klassen, You are a beautiful woman your self.

  • @jscottupton
    @jscottupton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    High School girls are asked "what are your plans after high school?" If they reply "get married and have a family" you can imagine the response they will get from teachers.

    • @passinthru4788
      @passinthru4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      and they SHOULD get a negative response; there is PLENTY of time for a female to decide upon a worthy mate and determine, IF and WHEN she may want to be a mother; NO WONDER marriages are FAILING one of every two, and soon, if MEN don't change their attitudes about the roles of women, expecting them to be a SEX SLAVE, CHILD BEARER, and LABORER outside and inside of the homes, there will be a DIVORCE for EVERY marriage, IF there IS A MARRIAGE to start with. Men have become no more than brute animals toward women; where is the RESPECT there once was and HONOR toward's a man's WIFE, or another woman for that matter; society HINGES on the way the MEN behave and CONDUCT themselves; when MEN become no more than brutes, society has fallen. Today's male's fit 2 Tim. Chapt. 3 scenario; and I AM A MAN! I ACCUSE my OWN GENDER of the woes in society for we have ALLOWED degradation among ourselves!!! Forget the WOMEN; the MEN need to GET A MENTAL OVERHAUL of what it REALLY MEANS to be a MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jeremiahchapman9288
      @jeremiahchapman9288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@passinthru4788 Where are you coming from with this? Who is expecting women to be SEX SLAVE, CHILD BEARER, and LABORER outside and inside of the home? Maybe explain what you mean by Sex Slave too.. Thanks.

    • @jscottupton
      @jscottupton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jeremiahchapman9288 You obviously didn't carefully read my comment. I said "IF"...."IF. My point is that the left is RADICALLY anti "traditional" early motherhood.

    • @jscottupton
      @jscottupton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@passinthru4788 Read my comment again. "IF".

    • @jeremiahchapman9288
      @jeremiahchapman9288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jscottupton @passinthru You said that there is "plenty of time" for them to decide. That does not imply early motherhood. That does imply waiting until later in life to get married. That is NOT good. That is the same thing that the radical feminists are teaching girls and it ends up with them becoming desperate as they realize that they are losing their baby making years. Then they make poor decisions in their haste. Not to mention, they tend to in overwhelming numbers to be highly sexually active as a "liberated" woman of the world. This is NOT benefiting them in finding a good husband in the future as they are used up and unwanted by the time they wake up to the lie that was fostered upon them.... Sad really!

  • @JanneOksanenMusic
    @JanneOksanenMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I wish every young woman would hear this!

    • @carriemoorehead506
      @carriemoorehead506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too I agree with you more

    • @JeX-B_Lifestyle
      @JeX-B_Lifestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Young women would never comprehend this message. Their programing starts from a very young age that blocks them from understanding what every word of this message means.

    • @JanneOksanenMusic
      @JanneOksanenMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JeX-B_Lifestyle Unfortunately that is probably true. Nevertheless, I think this is a good place to start.

    • @anchorpoint3631
      @anchorpoint3631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh believe me they do hear it. Taking into consideration is another thing, dude...

  • @brianterence3211
    @brianterence3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    In America the swinging lifestyle has taken root and the consequences
    are enormous for the culture.

  • @mtbiker4life918
    @mtbiker4life918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    My manager has a wife who is completely a homemaker. She looks great, always happy, and just idolizes him. He has a pretty hectic career, but she completely takes care of the home, and keeps him on track. They have a child and she just looks so fulfilled.
    This video is completely spot on, and I really admire her honesty.

    • @Slw1111
      @Slw1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      50% of jobs in the US don't pay enough for the individual worker to afford rent for a one bedroom apartment on their own. Your manager obviously gets paid extremely well, most people can't afford to have a stay at home parent. This woman is living in fantasyland, not in reality for the vast majority of working peop!e.

    • @mtbiker4life918
      @mtbiker4life918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Slw1111 he works his ass off, however his wife keeps the home spotless. She truly manages his life and keeps him sharp. I however, live a more frugal lifestyle single no kids. I save, work less, build my income, and plan for the next shut down.

    • @Slw1111
      @Slw1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@mtbiker4life918 Great! Most people do work their asses off, he is NOT special in that department. The difference is half of the entire working population do not get paid fairly for their labor, which DIRECTLY results in mandatory two income households in order to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table.

    • @mtbiker4life918
      @mtbiker4life918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Slw1111 it's really how you look at it. Thanks for your view point

    • @joeblowseph9534
      @joeblowseph9534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is quite the lucky man.

  • @sidecar7714
    @sidecar7714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    When children are a burden, not a joy to be cherished, you know there is something rotten in the hearts of people.

    • @MegaDavyk
      @MegaDavyk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The first suffragettes in England were the very ones handing out white feathers to shame men to volunteer to fight in the first world war (to be Butchered on the killing fields in France. They did this because their benefactor Rottenchild planned and schemed for that war and he used them to feed his killing machine.

    • @evaneichenberger845
      @evaneichenberger845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The govt marxists have made just living extremely expensive ect

    • @rolsonDotcom
      @rolsonDotcom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I've loved my children from day 1. They're young adults now and I've enjoyed being their parent. Not once did I ever view them as a burden.
      Today's "women" view children as burdens to their life but can have all the unprotected sex they want, racking up a 'notch count'
      Good luck modern ladies! Men of any value will not want you and you will be alone.

    • @sidecar7714
      @sidecar7714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@evaneichenberger845 Marxists? You haven't read Marx, obviously. I believe in personal responsibility. I worked( regular job) my wife stayed home, we coped. Never any disciplinary problems. I get a little tired of your victim mentality. It's all about values and the choices we make.

    • @acecardinal
      @acecardinal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is very profound. I had to tweet this (@TheNewGuard2).

  • @meemermeade3085
    @meemermeade3085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm in my 60's and grew up when the feminists were saying "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle". My dad turned out to be a bum. Mom had to work. This woman is telling how it ought to be but women need a backup plan.

  • @jolaola1987
    @jolaola1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It was my dream to have a loving husband, who would provide me with a house so i could make it a home for him, id be his love goddess full of pleasure, I'd bear 5 beautiful children with him and we'd be both proud and grateful for our creations (gifts from God).
    Unfortunately i met a man who got obsessed with me, supposedly in love but also jealous and abusive. We have one beautiful daughter together. After 10 years I've met another man and i thought he's the man for me but he also abused me whilst i was pregnant. I haven't developed any career because it was also something that my jealous ex sabotaged (that i went to college when we got separated) so i have no career, but at least i have 2 beautiful daughters who are my pride and love in life.
    I don't support feminism, i think it's very misguided, i prefer femininity, but femininity is something so delicate that it requires protection. When women arent protected and cared for by the men in their family they tend to develop a sort of aggression that is being associated with the feminism.

    • @ianlang6058
      @ianlang6058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This "abusive man" mantra that all women use to describe anybody they argue with gets up my nose. My ex stuck a key into my temple when, finally, I Iost my temper with her after three years of requesting, cajoling, begging, shaming and yes, eventually demanding that I be allowed to take my two children for their first visit to my parents...at the age of I think two and three years. And that was me abusing her! My parents never did get to know their grandchildren and I haven't seen them since 2008.

    • @cindysanchez9808
      @cindysanchez9808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’ve been an abused homemaker for 34 years. Homemakers are dependent and that makes us vulnerable. The woman this lady describes must be protected. Other women become feminist because they are spiritually, physically or financially abused. All good things can be taken advantage of. Evil mean narcissistic men. Can lead women to feminism. Abuse is real. I would have made any man happy. But I got a sick, broken abused one, who abuses but clings to me in fear of abandonment. Revealing can destroy the whole facade and possibly the whole family that’s why family members hate the truth, no one wants what everyone else has. They want the fantasy family. Only Jesus can give you the grace to flourish in any circumstance.

    • @markmark2980
      @markmark2980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You never mentioned being married to either when stating you wanted to be a wife. Wtf lady? Don't carry till you marry

    • @sf7truthseeker630
      @sf7truthseeker630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am moved by your testimony. I am one of the men who was looking for you in my youth. While I never succeeded to achieve the type of security you mentioned you always hoped for, I have always hoped that a woman such as you or the lady in the video would have been the righteous inspiration I needed to overcome my obstacles.
      I too thought I found a mate who would compliment my dreams, my evolving faith and my unwillingness to compramise. I failed, twice. In both instances all my sacrifices seem meaningless now, no one to remember the things I helped them overcome, and the years of sacrifice on my part....all a hollow memory now as my loved-ones betrayed me and our direction for the allure ( and lure ) of all that is destroying the true design of Our People.
      I sympathize with you and I offer you this as comfort: Our FATHER in Heaven knows what you have tried to do, be, leave, hold, gather and cast away... YAHUWEH knows, and now so do I.
      You are known for your Pursuit of Righteousness, and mislead by your pursuit of happiness - as was I.
      Thank-You for sharing, and for being amongst a small audience of The Remnant who I call my Church. You are less alone than you thought in your brokenness, and more than a family of TRUTH than you may have imagined.
      Steady-on - Princess of The TRUTH -
      Seek THE TRUTH in all things.
      Station
      ⚔️🛡️🙏✝️
      seekingthetruthinallthings@aol.com

    • @cammontreuil7509
      @cammontreuil7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You didn't know how to look for the right guy. Most women fall for charm not respect. You did it twice.

  • @legislatedanarchy1380
    @legislatedanarchy1380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    They all want husbands, eventually, but not a one wants to be a wife.

    • @KallusGarnet
      @KallusGarnet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      They already met their husbands but rejected them because he wasn't perfect.

    • @SG-ji5ij
      @SG-ji5ij 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Truth.

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      They do not want a husband, they want a sugar daddy...

    • @elizabethbaritell-malavey9608
      @elizabethbaritell-malavey9608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sorry that has been your experience, there are still a few of us out there. I don't subscribe to the religious views of this post, however I could not agree more to the message that the house wife has been completely demeaned and reduced to labels of gold digger, lazy, selfish. A home doesn't make itself. It takes patience, love, time, pride, selflessness, cleaning toilets and keeping a home is a thankless job, raising children and being a present participant and teacher is exhausting. It also gives greater rewards than any 401K could ever come close to. Being a wife, mom, and home maker doesn't provide a paycheck, retirement or come with a manual. There are no scheduled breaks or 10+ hours away from the office and very little adult conversation. Creating a safe, loving, patient and respectful home is what drives a women. A healthy marriage requires a partnership and a united front from both parents. Any way, I hope there comes a time that might change how you feel or maybe be able to see the labor of love that goes into making a house a home. Again, I feel bad that your experience has left you bitter, at least it seems that way, and if I'm wrong I apologize. I just wanted to share my feedback to you. Take care of yourself and be happy.

    • @elizabethbaritell-malavey9608
      @elizabethbaritell-malavey9608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Splatterpunk_OldNewYork I don't need to convince anyone of anything. You shared your view, I shared mine. It's as simple as that. Take care.

  • @grimygrime
    @grimygrime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    You’re blessed if you can find a God fearing woman nowadays.

    • @fudhenihishekwa7965
      @fudhenihishekwa7965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Proverbs 31:10
      So rare indeed, wisdom and discernment is needed.

    • @evaneichenberger845
      @evaneichenberger845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s like an oxymoron almost

    • @berzurker
      @berzurker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Even if you do, she still has power OVER her husband thanks to CA Gov. Reagan's work in pushing through No-Fault Divorce in 1969. That single event changed American families forever and enabled Feminist to pull women out of the home and put them to work, driving down the living wage and making it near impossible for a single earner to support an average sized family.

    • @ariaskye9094
      @ariaskye9094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@evaneichenberger845 God-fearing= God-respecting.... as in our God is an Awesome God and I can respect that...

    • @mrbob4104
      @mrbob4104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Even those "God fearing woman" when you look in their prime, meaning their youth, you see that they also we're promiscuous. Until they reached 30 years old and men are no longer interested and they turn to god. le me ask you, would you take such a "God fearing woman" knowing that in their youth she was collecting men's seed?
      She might be a "God fearing woman" now, but she was once a 304.

  • @imlevitating___
    @imlevitating___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    God bless her soul! We men would go crazy for more women like her!

    • @SunnySummer777
      @SunnySummer777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Here I am..? I see most men marrying girls who do OnlyFans and/or strippers.
      Most men today are looking for a girl who has a decent job and if she doesn't then men automatically think she's going to be a "gold digger"

    • @imlevitating___
      @imlevitating___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SunnySummer777 I get what you mean. However, I don’t see it one way. For example, I am very ashamed of how men have turned out to evolve in today’s society. They are very immature, lazy, and have the need to feel “victimized.” Men need to put their part and become more assertive, masculine, and courageous. If this happen, then we can truly appreciate a good woman when we have her. This does not change the fact, by the way, that men are naturally driven to have sex and multiple times. How you keep him, is by being a good woman to him but nothing is guarantee- we can’t ignore the genes we have been given.

    • @SunnySummer777
      @SunnySummer777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@imlevitating___ I agree with you.
      But, what are we women suppose to do now?? If I want to be a homemaker, take care of kids, cook meals at home: then I automatically get labeled a "golddigger". Or if I choose to continue working 40 hours a week in the medical field: then I get labeled as "she's a feminist who doesn't need a man, I'll just get what I can from her; what do I need her for?"
      Do you see what I'm trying to ask? It's like we women are damned if we do damned if we don't. Do men want a working women who doesn't have much time to take care of the home & husband but is bringing in money or do men want women who is a homemaker and takes care of her husband-but will possibly be labeled as as a goldigger? Which is it?

    • @imlevitating___
      @imlevitating___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@SunnySummer777 Hi,
      I think you are misusing the word gold-digger in your explanation. I think you are referring to two extremes; housewife vs an over achiever. You can be both and have a balance life or you can pick a side (but don't be on the extreme side of either or). What is important is that which ever choice you make, it will also fit with the lifestyle of the man you are with or seek.

    • @user-kf9db8sd5l
      @user-kf9db8sd5l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SunnySummer777 That's not most men.Most men don't even have a body count above 5.The one you are talking about are the "Chads".

  • @buyrentsaleabudhabirealest2173
    @buyrentsaleabudhabirealest2173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    When motherhood makes me feel whole but surrounded with career women makes me feel dumb, this calms my worries. Thanks

    • @karek4635
      @karek4635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm here for this! Yes!

  • @adamstokes
    @adamstokes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Women: "Where are all the good men?"
    Good men: "We're with the good women."

    • @passinthru4788
      @passinthru4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      LOL; as a MAN, I can tell you there are few and far between good MEN; today's MALE wants a porno flick and a beer. There is a VERY TWISTED mentality among the men, I know all about it. The depravity is NAUSIATING.

    • @xxxx3343
      @xxxx3343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@passinthru4788 troll

    • @madwhitehare3635
      @madwhitehare3635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES! 😍

    • @williampotts3727
      @williampotts3727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@passinthru4788 you are not a man

    • @Przepoczwarzenie
      @Przepoczwarzenie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such a bullshit

  • @virustheguardian
    @virustheguardian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    I could literally tell the woman was very feminine just by the relaxing and gentle tone of her voice it sound very motherly in away. In any case she speaks the truth and I'm glad it's acknowledged.

    • @TommieGun71
      @TommieGun71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You comment made me laugh, because it's the absolute truth.

    • @abidemi_fasakin
      @abidemi_fasakin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Imagine having to always come home to a relaxing, gentle & soft woman with food on the table ready for you. Hearing that calming voice after a hard day at work. Peace

    • @lippjagger9579
      @lippjagger9579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes 👍

    • @virustheguardian
      @virustheguardian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adesina Fasakin I can only dream my friend

    • @ariaskye9094
      @ariaskye9094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@abidemi_fasakin it's not 'having to'... it's a ' blessing' to come home to this... And if you do come home to this- be sure to thank her and bless her.

  • @map3384
    @map3384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    My mother was a feminist career woman in the 70s when I was growing up. My dad was a police office for NYC. There was no peewee baseball, football, soccer, lacrosse or music lessons. I came home and on the fridge was a list of chores. No one there to sit me down with my homework. My mother made lots of money, drove a fast sports car, went Antique shopping with my dad. My mother came home stressed every day and was one mean bitch. On the weekends I was carted off to NYC where my wonderful grandmother took care of us to my parents could have their selfish time alone like newlyweds. My mother alienated us. Didn’t take long to realize I didn’t need her. When I got engaged to my wife my mother was upset I didn’t ask her along to pick out my wife’s ring. Weird since it was my wife’s choice. I said to my wife she has never been in my life except when she had to punish me. Where did she get the idea I needed her?

    • @missminti
      @missminti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same. To this day my parents are some of the most selfish, self centred people I have ever met. She taught me nothing of value. Now she bitches that I won’t speak to her. “Go be with your husband” is what I told her.

    • @TusharSharma-cy9xo
      @TusharSharma-cy9xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you have a wonderful life sir, although my statement sounds stupid because i am just a 20 yr old boy with obviously a lot less experience than you.

    • @paulbrosco281
      @paulbrosco281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      right there with you. she now wants to dote over my child and it really bothers me seeing that shallowness around him. her recollections of my childhood are intolerable...like she's talking about a different son, altogether. Friends' parents would buy the team pizza. I always had to find rides. If she did pick me up, she made me feel guilty for it. GOD bless real mothers.

    • @paulbrosco281
      @paulbrosco281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Nagolbud righton, Brother. Fk em.

    • @lorca2338
      @lorca2338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulbrosco281 so sorry you didn't get a real mom. May God help her when judgement comes. And I know it may not be much consolation to you but I hope you find that lost and deserving love for you one day to show you it's still posible.

  • @RelearningRelationships
    @RelearningRelationships 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely loved this! I shared this in the community tab on my channel. Every man and woman needs to listen to this!
    God bless you

  • @espada9
    @espada9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Modern women don't believe in a God they believe in instant gratification and the meaningless pursuit of others approval.

    • @Ozzie_Mandias
      @Ozzie_Mandias 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Without the Supreme Being's blessing, a mortal has no soul. It becomes a machine... and machines worship machines.

    • @20thcentury_toy
      @20thcentury_toy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They do believe in God, they just call it state

    • @Ozzie_Mandias
      @Ozzie_Mandias 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@20thcentury_toy Like I said... machines worship machines.

    • @MoltenMetalGod7
      @MoltenMetalGod7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      They only worship and believe in the gods of tik tok, instagram, snap, and FB.

    • @whohurtyou419
      @whohurtyou419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow who hurt you??

  • @HomerSimpson514
    @HomerSimpson514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Motherhood and the homemaker is the glue that holds society together.

    • @thetransmogrifer2522
      @thetransmogrifer2522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "...that holds (hld) society together." Gloria Steinham is still a CIA asset, so are the rest of the feminist "leaders." The movement was instigated by the private Federal Reserve to make the Fed banksters ever richer by being able to extract more tax on housing and individual incomes.Good has come out of it in spite of that. Another reason is the ,gov's child trafficking ease of abduction (Ghislaine Maxwell/Mossad) that is most likely the largest revenue enhancing scheme ever created. Thanks for speaking your mind as you are far more credible than the talking heads in politrix & MSM!

    • @jonkore2024
      @jonkore2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      End times America

    • @firefeethok_tui2355
      @firefeethok_tui2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If only men had t chased them out of the home by financially bullying them, disrespecting them, cheating on them, telling them how it was going to be, and not giving them a choice in anything. I don’t think most women like having a career but the alternative to the way that women were being treated was worse. Now that everyone’s on board with the fact that nothing is working maybe both parties could back up a little bit and try a little harder.

    • @HomerSimpson514
      @HomerSimpson514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@firefeethok_tui2355 nope to late all is lost

    • @DavidNotSolomon
      @DavidNotSolomon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@firefeethok_tui2355 I think you are parroting the feminist stereotype of a man/husband. It is a myth. People are more complex than this.

  • @prepostmodern1032
    @prepostmodern1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I agree with your common sense, Lori. I have worked with families since 1985. What people have practiced (starting in the late Sixties) simply does not work. Depression, anxiety, and dissatisfaction are all over the place. A man's heart melts to the things you say.

  • @robinloos5403
    @robinloos5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a breath of fresh air! My husband and I are high school sweethearts and have very traditional roles in our marriage. We have taught both our daughters, by example, the value of being good wives and mothers; emphasizing God's plan is the way for happy marriages and families. Thank you for reinforcing this.

  • @jeffryferdian9556
    @jeffryferdian9556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +698

    Bless your heart madam. Unfortunately women hate you for saying all these.

    • @jamesart6568
      @jamesart6568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      The left use women's emotions against them

    • @gordonsylvester8457
      @gordonsylvester8457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Don't worry, they are not real woman.

    • @tommarvoloriddleakavoldy9263
      @tommarvoloriddleakavoldy9263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gordonsylvester8457 yes they are your just a pressed guy or feels that women are oppressing them

    • @barrylast8655
      @barrylast8655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Banchees & Harpies would hate her NOT true & RIGHTEOUS Women.

    • @commandericeman8588
      @commandericeman8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Let them hate..... she ain't saying nothing that the Bible doesn't already say. What these folk really have a problem with is God....not her.
      They are merely shooting the messenger.

  • @jbthajugganaut793
    @jbthajugganaut793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    I wish I was born in a different era when women were actual women.

    • @eibbor171
      @eibbor171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      if you were born in a different era probably be dead WW1,great depression,WW2..etc ironically this is the best time to be alive (obviously not dating wise) also id probably be dead too not trying to be a dick and single you out but the further we go back in time to traditional ways the odds of dying increases for all average joes really,so in essence its picking on what you think is the lesser of 2 evils if you could go back in time

    • @flycrack7686
      @flycrack7686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@eibbor171 Thats historically false, most people survived, including men. Claiming otherwise is propaganda and just false.

    • @eibbor171
      @eibbor171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@flycrack7686 no its not propaganda its facts further back you go in history the more shortened life expectancy

    • @flycrack7686
      @flycrack7686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@eibbor171 ??? that has literally nothing to do with my comment. so yes your comment is still false.
      Yes time before were harder but people nowadays still die in wars.

    • @damiengates7581
      @damiengates7581 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't we all.

  • @divergentmind2023
    @divergentmind2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i had several jobs from 12 to 34. left that life when i was pregnant. it was hard but nothing was more precious and fulfilling than taking care of my children... they are precious young people who i am honored to know.

  • @julieverelst1685
    @julieverelst1685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's seen as old fashioned and yet this is what I craved and felt natural to me. Sadly I've lived a very different life. Thank you for sharing this, much love x

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feminism is psychological manipulation, and forces women to fight against their biological imperative.
      Buzzwords like "social constructs" "patriarchy "...and in order to shame who resist Feminism, it's "internalized misogyny".
      🤣🤣🤣
      All of this crappy condional works because Women are agreeable by nature....and do not want to be disliked by other women.

  • @ricardoferreira4345
    @ricardoferreira4345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    The most sad thing about this video is everyone is talking about how much this woman are a lovely traditional woman. this type of women would be considered as "normal" 50/60 years ago. Would be rare a women that isnt like this woman. Sad what our society and what females became.

    • @pa5730
      @pa5730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yet they're the one who talk about the "bare minimum" and "the bar is so low" the irony 🤡

    • @whazzuphere
      @whazzuphere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah, they believed the old feminist mantra about a woman needing a man like a fish needing a bicycle. What they overlooked, though, is that the reverse is also true. Now, men are walking away. Good luck, "ladies".

    • @JamesBond-jc8wf
      @JamesBond-jc8wf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes nor

    • @maximuscomfort
      @maximuscomfort 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sad, the plans are set up by the rich that have domestics doing all house work and child care. The changes will come and answer the quiet universe

    • @ariaskye9094
      @ariaskye9094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Times change... you can change the times...

  • @footsteps247
    @footsteps247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Yes Feminism isn’t about equality it’s about supremacy. It’s all about woman and what they want, for some at least

  • @semofarmgirl7642
    @semofarmgirl7642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Umm, There are still some but they are fighting an uphill battle to find men who are marriage material. I fought to become a woman worth marrying, have taught my daughter to be one as well. But seeing the men she has to chose from, makes me cry.

    • @Bristecom
      @Bristecom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm very skeptical of this. What's wrong with those men? I know several guys that have never slept around and are honest, hard working, loyal guys that just want to love a wife and have a family. Just look at the TH-cam or Twitter comments regarding feminism. There's literally millions of good guys venting their frustration that they can't find a single decent woman. This is NOT a man problem. If you can't find a good guy for your daughter than you either aren't looking hard enough/in the right places or (more likely) you are asking for the impossible. In my experience, when women say they can't find a good guy, they mean they can't find a guy who is like a Disney prince that looks like a model/actor, who is famous and wealthy (and continues to be), and who is willing to put up with her ever-changing and often conflicting desires and be totally fine with her not putting any effort into the relationship or even being ok with her constantly disrespecting the man or even cheating on the man. If you or she is only looking at the meathead play boy stud types, then yeah, he's obviously going to be a bad person. But if you're willing to compromise on the looks or wealth or status a bit, then you should have no problem finding a very good guy for her. The question is if she is truly a feminine girl that guys would like (according to a good traditional guy - not according to what another woman thinks that a guy might like).

    • @semofarmgirl7642
      @semofarmgirl7642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Bristecom She's looking for a Cowboy/Farmer that doesn't drink or smoke, doesn't disrespect her, doesn't leave all the communication up to her and wants a large family. Someone who treats her like a partner instead of a possession.

    • @Bristecom
      @Bristecom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@semofarmgirl7642 Well there aren't many cowboys/farmers left anymore due to most of our parents selling away all that land and large corporations taking over that industry. So that may be a bit of fantasy off the bat unless she just means a more rural type of guy (which again isn't necessarily something we can control as we're just doing what we have to and living where we have to in order to survive in this current world).
      I understand most guys do drink and/or smoke a lot but there are still lots of guys that don't (such as myself and my friends). If she is respectful and communicative to the man, then he will be respectful, loving, and communicative back unless he happens to have some mental/personality issues or is the bad boy type (which women seem to love). I've learned that what women say they want and what they actually want are two different and often conflicting things. They say they want to be traditional but yet they often compete and argue with the man instead of allowing the natural order of the man to lead (in love). So men usually either yield their power over to the woman or they become disrespectful because they don't know how else to handle the disorderly and feminist attitude.
      But also, women often have incredibly unrealistic expectations financially, thinking that a 20 or 30 something year old guy should be able to afford land, a house, multiple cars, and a big family, etc off of a single income. This may have been possible back in the day but it's nearly impossible now. My point is, there's always going to be compromises and it seems like many women simply aren't willing to make any real compromises while ironically not even offering much of any value themselves to a man.
      What do men want in comparison: Just a decent loyal woman that isn't a whore or a total narcissist or feminist or hideously ugly. That's hardly asking anything but it seems impossible to find in reality as every single woman these days is either too damaged or at least somewhat feminist or narcissistic (even if they don't realize it)! So where have the good guys gone? If they aren't already married, they've basically given up.

    • @thelovefairy7253
      @thelovefairy7253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you for telling me that this lady kind of makes me sick she was lucky enough to get a good husband and be able to be a stay-at-home mom the rest of us didn't have that option because there were no men to step up to the plate meanwhile we had to go to work and take care of ourselves because we had to survive it's a little sickening how entitled she is and I appreciate your point of view I say the same thing

    • @Bristecom
      @Bristecom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Carol JL Wife Respect for honoring your commitment (if true). I don't know for sure but I doubt that he simply doesn't want you. Some guys just don't know how to show appreciation as much and may say or do harsh things at times. But try to focus on the positives he's done (even if mostly in the past). What I'm referring to is young women these days mainly. They generally no longer have a real moral code and expect the impossible from men with little to nothing in return.

  • @poppyflower9003
    @poppyflower9003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this! I literally almost cried. My grandmother always reminds me of the plan God has for me and not to let the world harden my heart ❤

  • @shnobi24
    @shnobi24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Hate to tell you women aren't dating material either

    • @maxjohnson1758
      @maxjohnson1758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well said. Saying they aren't "marriage" material is a pretty gross understatement.

    • @benanders4412
      @benanders4412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Would you sleep with me for a microwave pizza and a netflix movie?
      What kind of woman do you think I am?!
      We’ve already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.

    • @benanders4412
      @benanders4412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Meddlecat True, yet that's the market value of modern women these days. From life long financial support, all the way down to microwave pizza and a netflix movie. {thx feminism}

  • @Ja50nkAt
    @Ja50nkAt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Why I've just given up dating, lack of femininity in modern women is an epidemic.

    • @whazzuphere
      @whazzuphere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You're better off these days.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      absolutely

    • @BlueFish-kq9fh
      @BlueFish-kq9fh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes, this lack of femininity is not just an unforeseen accident that happened, it's something that young girls / women have been consciously schooled in since the advent of modern 2nd-wave feminism. The success of this mission is something that feministas are *proud* of, not something they regret.
      Modern women are (for the most part) not just unworthy of marriage and long-term commitment, they are unworthy of even a short-term commitment (e.g. a mutually-faithful boyfriend-girlfriend relationship of 3 to 6 months).

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@BlueFish-kq9fh yes,and it seems the programing that has been done was done to destroy the family foundation,and have us all fight each other

    • @redraiderrider3289
      @redraiderrider3289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep no feminine and chaste women.

  • @tbilod
    @tbilod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The family you leave behind will be your greatest achievement. Once they lay you in the ground nobody will care how far up the ladder you were or how much money you made.

    • @DukeNukenum
      @DukeNukenum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The sad lie that feminists have believed is that they can live without men. God created women to be with man. And if you believe in darwinism...you still need man and woman to procreate and survive. The elite are destroying the foundations to depopulate the earth.

  • @lauramendez5173
    @lauramendez5173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is the best! I get cursed out daily by my co workers because I am submissive to my husband and I serve him. My sisters are really sad….

  • @hitmakerstudio6405
    @hitmakerstudio6405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This video needs to go viral for humanity sake! I know it's sounds extreme but it's the reality!

    • @oddfitnesstimbrennan560
      @oddfitnesstimbrennan560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it does before it's too late! Then we will loose the harmony of the sweet universe of Devine Feminine and Superior Masculine!

    • @lalamclala5553
      @lalamclala5553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have no idea. The reset and balance are coming quickly. Feminists are only "strong and independent" because men build, produce, maintenance and repair everything necessary. Men also uphold the mandates and safeties that gaurantee a feminist can be out competing against men and women. Ufc mega champion Rhonda Rousey cannot actually beat up the average man... a 130 pound women broke her face. The average 170 pound would kill her on accident.

    • @MrEnver2
      @MrEnver2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are right we want our women back...

    • @DavidNotSolomon
      @DavidNotSolomon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only God can put this genie back in its bottle now. This poisonous idea has spread too insidiously throughout all our modern beliefs and mindsets.

  • @shgurr
    @shgurr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    that moment when your whole childhood you wanted to learn to sew, cook, and craft skills... but your mom said no. So now I have to learn everything myself alone at 25 ripp
    Honestly both men and women need to be taught better in the next generation

    • @invaderjet5946
      @invaderjet5946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Only thing keeping myself from giving up on life is weed, my dog and mom

    • @lzl3lol
      @lzl3lol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      The issue is that many men aren't being raised by men. They are being raised by single mothers with no father in the picture or if he is in the picture he is a low quality man who is a bad father and parent.
      I'm nearly 25 and I'm basically having to teach myself how to be a man at my big age..
      I was and in some regards still am a blue pilled beta male. Its tough realising everything my mum taught me was wrong and wasn't going to help me in life, in fact, my mother's advise and decisions for me made my life harder. I don't listen to her at all now.

    • @invaderjet5946
      @invaderjet5946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@lzl3lol ironically my mom taught me not to trust thots

    • @shgurr
      @shgurr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@lzl3lol also women like myself were raised more by my dad 🤦‍♀️ so I'm more like a man in alot of areas but I'm slowly learning to take the women's role. One step at a time 👏

    • @colbalt95
      @colbalt95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Unfortunately I think Society is done here

  • @xx-or8qx
    @xx-or8qx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Look how simplistic and nice that kitchen is! ...no junk!

  • @raeannaroylance5401
    @raeannaroylance5401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Women: I can make my OWN 💰!
    Government: more taxes🤑

    • @MrFastFarmer
      @MrFastFarmer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bankers actually created this mess

  • @pamelamccormick5536
    @pamelamccormick5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Amen! I catch so much garbage because I'm a traditional married stay at home mom. I teach my girls cooking, baking, how to make things instead of buy them. I just want to be the wife and mother God has called me to be. I don't understand how society sees this as "bad." I sleep well at night with my choices.

    • @HippieJoe
      @HippieJoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wish I met a woman like you. From my experience going through my 20s, I've been with women who clearly only look out for themselves and what I had to bring to the table. I wasn't making nearly as much as I am now so it was hard to keep a girl since I couldn't give her what she wanted (money). I'm 29 now and my career has grown and I have tripled my income and now I am not as interested in a lot of those girls because they are simply not wife materia, just some 30 year old who still acts like she's 20 and thinks she's seen as such. If you are 30 that's fine, but most women by that age are single because they didn't look for a good man to settle down with when they were a bit younger. Men in their 30s know what they want. They know what to look for in a partner. Its just sad that women find these things out too late. If you are young, stop being so judgemental, you could be ruining possible opportunities that might have truly changed your life for the better.

    • @proudatheist2042
      @proudatheist2042 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an Atheist, I personally don't see anything wrong with a woman who wants to be a stay at home mom. Raising well balanced children is critical for those who want to become parents. I have seen women who would love to have the financial ability to stay at home while their children are small.

  • @concernedcitizen780
    @concernedcitizen780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    If a woman can not love children how can she love a man? Yes there huge numbers of women that are not marriage material. We will have many lonely women in the future. Many.

    • @passinthru4788
      @passinthru4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As a MAN, if a MAN cannot LOVE, HONOR, PROVIDE and PROTECT his woman (wife), what gives him the RIGHT to claim that a WOMAN is not MARRIAGE MATERIAL. It is BETTER for a woman to live ALONE than to live in an abusive, tyrannical relation with a MAN. TODAY's SOCIETY of MEN is the most narcissistic, abusive generation I have ever seen in a CIVILIZED society; I don't blame a woman one bit for not wanting to marry and become a nursemaid, provider, diaper changer, slave in bondage to a man because if she takes on the "traditional" role she has been indoctrinated to perform since BIRTH she will be in perpetual bondage all her days to a society ridden with narcissism and entitlement humans. Women need and SHOULD be taught differently in the HOMES; the RELIGIOUS CULTS of today IDOLIZE MEN and DEGRADE, DEHUMANIZE WOMEN. and I speak from a CHRISTIAN MALE's point of view.

    • @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger
      @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @passinthru The quality of men have changed. 😟
      Men want women to be everything and bring in the money too just like they do, and they turn on their wives by being resentful and jealous of them. What is the point of being married if they’re going to turn the marriage into a business contract and run a home like a business? 🤯 Where’s the the love there? Once a husband gets those ideas, it becomes nearly impossible to change him. Jealousy turns into contempt. These men are the same sons to happy unified marriages. I don’t think parents really know that sons have changed the game. They have become manipulative and deceptive and their parents have no idea how they’ve inherited entitled arrogant attitudes. At the first sign of hardship, they run to their parents to tell them how unhappy and miserable they are with the wife and he gets their support. Meanwhile, the wife can’t tell anyone what’s going on because they will think she’s crazy he’s so good, so nice, so loving. The wrong people are getting married! Nice ones are falling victim to cruelty and the bad ones know how to deceive.

    • @oscarhunn8658
      @oscarhunn8658 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't have to wait for the future it's already happening 🤣

    • @georgeseckman8648
      @georgeseckman8648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@passinthru4788 just by your comments i know for a fact you are not a true bible believer and definitely have not spent time studying the word of God your comment has made that blatantly obvious...

    • @silica4565
      @silica4565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@passinthru4788 whatever.....

  • @twitchyrats5252
    @twitchyrats5252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I go to one of the largest universities in this country (50,000+ students pre-lockdown). I haven't met a single female student who actually wants a husband, let alone a decent long term relationship with a man. They will say to your face that all they want is sex and then to dump you the next day. They literally never want to see you again, unless you're Chad that is. But even Chad can't find a wife these days because he ain't good enough. It's depressing.

  • @michaelduffy5691
    @michaelduffy5691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have a wonderful message. I respect it and appreciate it. Please never grow weary of presenting this great message. I stand and applaud you.

  • @noodlecompany8123
    @noodlecompany8123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    My wife and I have been together for 14 years, then she started watching shows like The View and the real along along with her single mother friends and cousins. My wife and I were best friends there was nobody I wanted to spend my time and energy with more so than her and now I can't stand her. Just the other day I ended up heartbroken when I realized that I don't love her anymore, I've just tolerated her for the sake of my son

    • @coopergary2129
      @coopergary2129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Very deep my brother!

    • @jayh9635
      @jayh9635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Find yourself a good christian therapist! Agape christian counseling has helped my wife and I out a lot!

    • @justincase9471
      @justincase9471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Get divorced! Your freedom is worth the price.

    • @Bubba22able
      @Bubba22able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      The worst thing married women can do is listen to angry single women.

    • @mattmin45
      @mattmin45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Make her watch that video

  • @benanders4412
    @benanders4412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    woman at 20: "dont talk to me!"
    woman at 30: "somebody please talk to me!"
    woman at 40: "hey! im talking to you!"
    woman at 50: "here kitty kitty."

    • @passinthru4788
      @passinthru4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You probably WISH you had a woman at any AGE! LOL!

    • @mindspirit179
      @mindspirit179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL !! Great comment.

    • @user-kp4jv2tr1d
      @user-kp4jv2tr1d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@passinthru4788 you realise they cost like $100 a pop in most civilised western countries, and even less elsewhere right? and those would be chicks far hotter than you and cleaner than the common nightclub trawler! LOL!

    • @SingularianMan
      @SingularianMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣😂👍

  • @lauradewailly5061
    @lauradewailly5061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is wonderful. The problem also is men don’t seem to mature until much older, there is much pressure for men to not show their feelings or be soft as well with their wife... and then there is the fear of my daughter marrying not well and being left to raise babies with no money or emotional support from her husband. So, if men want this (and I pray they actually do) then we all also need to teach our sons to be trustworthy and accountable so women CAN submit.

    • @douglasrobertson1330
      @douglasrobertson1330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And false allegations, divorce rape have got to stop before anything else!!

    • @jcstang8952
      @jcstang8952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's biology. The male brain doesn't get started till later. As far as them showing their feelings, we don't need to do that. Feelings don't get jobs done.

    • @TGP109
      @TGP109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is no ''submission'', there's only agreement as to how you both will live and what you both want. This ''submission'' crap is so stupid.

    • @Atypical82
      @Atypical82 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whether or not a man does what he’s supposed to do does not stop a woman from doing what she is supposed to do. We are supposed to do what we all are supposed to do irregardless of the next person does or not. Whether or not you live up to what you’re supposed to live up to isn’t based on anyone else or what they do. It’s based on what you do. 1 Peter 3:1-2

  • @collinbrady2693
    @collinbrady2693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such an informative video. Thanks so much, I'll make sure to share this!

  • @bros4654
    @bros4654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Wow. I have so much respect for this woman. What a beautiful spirit.

    • @elfhririn
      @elfhririn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True that

    • @MegaDavyk
      @MegaDavyk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One in a million now, the rest have willingly been tricked into ruining themselves.

  • @moisty254
    @moisty254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    It's like seeing a tiny spark in a long, dark tunnel

    • @j.m.8558
      @j.m.8558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wouldn’t even consider it a spark unfortunately. This woman grew up in a time when we didn’t have all the conveniences and indoctrination we do today. She comes from a time when men were expected to be men and women were expected to be women. She’s not part of our generation. You’d be hard pressed to find an attractive woman in her mid 20s who thinks this way unless you go to a war torn impoverished country. People usually fall into their conventional roles in places like that out of necessity.

    • @moisty254
      @moisty254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@j.m.8558 Belarus I'm coming for you!

    • @j.m.8558
      @j.m.8558 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moisty254 🤣🇧🇾 Better do it quick, Putin and Lukashenko aren’t on great terms these days

  • @johnrogers1663
    @johnrogers1663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for the truth,
    I’m 66 a year old man and come from a family that had a few very godly women. Of everyone in the family, they were the ones that had the most positive impact on my adult life. When women’s lib came along, I supported it and even though I’m in the middle of a divorce with a 50 year old female toddler that has no concept of being virtuous, or how to raise our 16 year old son that I’m now raising, I still believe godly women are out there. I’m praying for God to bring my son a godly woman. He deserves it.

  • @jackhatter4882
    @jackhatter4882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you my good lady. So smart and level headed, may your words reach far and wide.

  • @jkfjsfaugueyfhsdfjfafajjgu6769
    @jkfjsfaugueyfhsdfjfafajjgu6769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    She is so soft spoken she reminded me of my grandmother when she read stories to me as a young child.

  • @bobbycarr408
    @bobbycarr408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    A wife, mother, and homemaker is the most important job in our society. I’m a Construction worker, and wouldn’t attempt to do my wife’s job.

    • @user-kp4jv2tr1d
      @user-kp4jv2tr1d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Um, how about truck drivers, doctors, sewage and water treatment plant operators, plumbers etc.. literally every other job that is ACTUALLY critical to the infrastructure of our society. Bit hard to make homes when the home hasnt been constructed yet huh? So, i get it, home making is definitely important, but lets not be giga simps about this and claim that a wife/homemaker is at the pinnacle of it all, have some self respect and respect as a whole for the world men built that facilitates homemaking instead of cheap virtue signalling that youre a p-sleeve worshipper - nothing makes women drier quicker (sure they'll pat you on the head like the good little simp you are for parroting ridiculous talking points, but a man like you is DEFINITELY not the man theyre out having fun with when theyre in their 20s - just like your wife used to as well before she realised she couldnt pull those real men anymore after getting saggier and used up and had to rely on being found by a man like you - beta brad ;)

    • @constanceskalecki4928
      @constanceskalecki4928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@user-kp4jv2tr1d , you seem insecure in your response. Why the hostility?

    • @user-kp4jv2tr1d
      @user-kp4jv2tr1d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@constanceskalecki4928 You seem to be trying to insult/shame/guilt me out of the validity of my statement, why the standard female deflection tactic? Im not your average simpcuck that laps it all up without a second thought ;) Always the hit dogs that holler, id be willing to bet your own life stands as proof.

    • @kcmthecomgeek
      @kcmthecomgeek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@user-kp4jv2tr1d Having women at home actually raises more reliable workers on average, so the positions you mention don't matter if people aren't reliable and honest or stay at their job for longer than 2 weeks. The home is where everything in society begins.

    • @user-kp4jv2tr1d
      @user-kp4jv2tr1d 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kcmthecomgeek Granted, thats a legitimate variable in the equation. I never said homemaking wasn't important, but i think you are greatly overestimating the effect of your argument - reduced effectiveness/efficiency of the working population would definitly be bad for society but would remain at just that, reduced effiency and productivity/less social cohesion but still be a functioning society that continues to slowly improve upon itself.
      I also think youre slightly misusing the data your argument is based on, it's not that having women at home raises better people, it's that having a TWO person household is shown to better for children in virtually all aspects. Single parent only household (so in our case even strong and glorious homemakers only) has been demonstrated to be be a huge hindrance for children. And that's because having a man at home is equally as important in raising more reliable workers (and i would argue even more so, seeing as it is the father's primary duty to teach children boundaries, more so than the mother).
      Your argument would have had WAY more strength in terms of raw contributions to society back when our infrastructure was still critically lacking and getting food and water each and every day + making sure the house and everything else remains clean so your family dont catch diseases was a MASSIVE issue. But today? Id argue that the utility of women in the household has massively decreased where all those critical tasks of yesteryear are now as easy as snapping your fingers.

  • @shawnwright5332
    @shawnwright5332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So weird hearing a LADY talk cause it's so rare these days this is a women to respect class act 👍🇨🇦

  • @ChristianeMarshall
    @ChristianeMarshall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s important to add that some women are walking on eggshells and women should not stay with a man who is an abuser.

  • @___DJ__
    @___DJ__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    They definitely don’t make them like this anymore. This is the polite version of what Kevin Samuels, Fresh & Fit and the RP community is talking about. Salute to her for keeping it G.

    • @keenanhenderson9206
      @keenanhenderson9206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes sir

    • @richardm9688
      @richardm9688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think you have to go outside of western countries to find values that used to exist in the west but have been slowly lost?

    • @Aa-Sadam
      @Aa-Sadam 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Richard Cooper talks about how to not become beta over the 1000 concessions. How to remain a man. This is a huge part to avoid "walking on egg shells".

    • @siouxsielover88
      @siouxsielover88 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honey have you not heard? Kevin Samuels is GAY. RP is a psy op.. it's feminism, but for men.. its' masculinism. IDK the other guy.

    • @___DJ__
      @___DJ__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siouxsielover88 - Honey, have you not heard? We don't care about your opinion.

  • @fproszek
    @fproszek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Popular class in russia is home economics. Tells you something.

    • @etheraether4884
      @etheraether4884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...no comment. Russia have no family institutions whatsoever, it is a country where family was destroyed as a phenomenon.

    • @mystico21p
      @mystico21p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I remember when we had home ec class in middle school (1987-1988)

    • @BlueFish-kq9fh
      @BlueFish-kq9fh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@etheraether4884 Great! You say "no comment" and then proceed to make a comment, regardless. In any case, what does your comment even mean? Family life in Russia was destroyed because of home economics classes?

    • @vickmurray5751
      @vickmurray5751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BlueFish-kq9fh What I have to say about that comment in the original post_ is that unlike us here in the United States, 🇺🇸 in Russia 🇷🇺 they may have wisely come to a logical conclusion realizing the carnage that "feminism" is causing on their country and societies throughout the world 🌎! Perhaps they're taking steps to mitigate this problem which is actually pretty serious?!

    • @vickmurray5751
      @vickmurray5751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *There was a time when traditionalist value mindset worked out quite reasonably.* It would be better if we would move back towards that direction. Unfortunately, in our post modern world of identity politics, popular culture, and "feminist ideology" it has wreaked havoc on society's dating relationships and marriage. It has (potentially) irrevocably changed the landscape of courting & marriage negatively forever!
      Most women caught up in feminist indoctrination can not see or will simply vehemently deny the carnage on society caused by radical feminism since the late 1970s. The hard cold truth is that the laws on the wheels of justice are about 120 years behind feminism. This is a wide open secret that most women already know, but dare not scream attention to?
      However, feminist will holler & scream about an imaginary "pay gap" between the WNBA and NBA. Ladies grumbling with victim mentality, berating their NBA male counterparts for the amount of money they make, when realistically the performance of the WNBA is nowhere near that of the NBA. In fact, more importantly, the NBA pulls in more than $1 billion annually. Whereas, the WNBA pulls in about $60 million annually. Feminist are protesting? Yip, these folks actually believe that arrangements should be made so that female players could be paid exactly the same scale as the men in a well established league like the NBA! What?... The delusion, the narcissism, entitlement and selfishness of feminism?... It's unbelievable?!
      Now, there's no way that you can't tell me that some of this kind of indoctrinated / dogmatic thinking doesn't spill over into other real-life situations of every woman born in the United States or any 1st world Western nations, where the proliferation of feminism ideology is everywhere?! Women seem to wonder why relationships are so hard these days? How can you wonder why there's so much contention & confusion in institutions like: Court of law, College campus Universities, Government, workplaces, and even down to private lives and dating?
      Young women and young men are really twisted & all confused nowadays when something as simple_ and should be enjoyable "first date" gets all complicated with political correctness "isum"? They don't even know (who pays?) What role they should play or how they should behave? But, the vast majority of women come hell or high water will never want to finally admit that this feminism crap is one of the major causes of dismissal relations between men & women?
      Women don't wanna let go of a perceived power that they don't have in the first place? Women don't wanna let go of the victim-hood card_ cause that's an ace in the hole political power play! Women don't wanna let go of the "moral high-ground" of being right, when they already know deep down they could be wrong? Women perhaps have a preconceived notion and misplaced fear of mistreatment if they let go of the fear-mongering myths which was fed to them generations since the day they were born?
      Yes, men as a group have got to get their sh!t together! We've got to take accountability for what we do that hampers progress on relationship problems? It's alright... Blame men, point the finger at men? But, one thing is for sure_ there'll be little hope for more harmonious relationships and bring some sanity back into the world! Unless women collectively as a group must realize where the root of our family & marriage crises lay!
      There will be much more to gain rather than a loss if they will finally come to terms with the fact that "Feminist Ideology" has been a wrecking ball on Women, Men and Children in our society ever-since Radical Feminism had went off the deep-end back in the mid 1970s.

  • @emocean582
    @emocean582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mother was a homemaker, my father and alcoholic. She cooked and cleaned but had no love due to her lifelong abuse. I went to Celebrate Recovery and majority were homemaking wives dealing with porn, drug addicts. This video leaves put a HUGE problem.

  • @Andre-iv7ys
    @Andre-iv7ys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve played this video many times, words can’t express how much i love this woman’s spirit and viewpoint.

  • @Mrbibles
    @Mrbibles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My gf wouldnt delete her social media, so shes not my gf anymore..

    • @androideatsanapple
      @androideatsanapple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Make her delete it before you give her commitment.

    • @CloudWithoutASky
      @CloudWithoutASky 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had this issue 6 years ago. She had backup extra accounts that I didnt know about. I was upset and said it was dishonest and untrustworthy and claimed she should take it all down. She did but replaced them with new ones. My first love had to be that messed up because now. She had blamed me for the relationship ending over things like that with her saying I was manipulative and emotionally abusive. So now. I lack any self esteem I had 6 years ago and I question and hate myself every day asking myself if she was right.

  • @romanuslureaus2176
    @romanuslureaus2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    What a feminine, traditional, poised, and wise woman this lady is. Take notice young women!

  • @joncovington2859
    @joncovington2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Outstanding!!! Where have you been! Please be brave enough to open an academy to train these lost women. God bless! And keep up the good fight and delivering the message.

  • @virginiatorres228
    @virginiatorres228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing that is important in keep a good man by your side, tell him how much you are proud of him, when he works hard, tell him you are grateful for all that he does! Show him how much he means to you!

  • @LukeRoxALot
    @LukeRoxALot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    A happy man is a happy relationship. It's not hard to keep us happy.

    • @hankhawks1306
      @hankhawks1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      All we need is sex, silence, and sandwiches.

    • @nancyw8341
      @nancyw8341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You are so right!!! My husband is so easy to please!! He just needs the basics to be happy so all the rest is icing on the cake. The extras are so pleasing to him!!

    • @megatron84
      @megatron84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Whoever said "happy wife happy life" is one dumb mofo

    • @Woo_Woo_Woman
      @Woo_Woo_Woman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess you folks are of a different persuasion. I think both sides need to be happy to make the other happy.

  • @greeneyes7392
    @greeneyes7392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My mom was traditional - she cooked , cut our hair and made our clothes

  • @jimmy2642
    @jimmy2642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She reminds me of my lovely mother. You know she is a good woman.

  • @barbarariepe8334
    @barbarariepe8334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with you 100%! Thank you so much for making this video.

  • @Armored_Saint
    @Armored_Saint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Proverbs 31:10 “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” 💎

    • @passinthru4788
      @passinthru4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A VIRTUOUS woman would never have the bulk of men today; they would repulse her! A man would KILL to find a virtuous woman, a genuine ruby, but he'd have to take that ruby by force, because of the DEPRAVITY in the male species, no virtuous woman would ever settle for a great many of the available males today!!!!! And I speak being a MALE!! I know my gender, VERY WELL!

    • @formalhault5820
      @formalhault5820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@passinthru4788 please, there are far more good men than women right now. She should have NO PROBLEM finding them.
      WHY???
      Becuase she wouldn't FRIENDZONE 'EM.

  • @stayfrostee6470
    @stayfrostee6470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    There is an order - the man is the head and the leader, when women usurp that the break down begins. Good to hear women out there speaking on this.

    • @commandericeman8588
      @commandericeman8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Actually when women are in charge....that is a sign of judgment by God upon the people being led by said woman. [Isiah 3:12]
      The first time it happened was in the Garden of Eden and we are still suffering from the results.
      Adam allowed himself to be lead by his woman and he ate of the apple. Although he wasn't deceived, he followed her into sin and death willfully.

    • @haggai3.477
      @haggai3.477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      GOD's Glory follows ORDER.
      GOD is the head of CHRIST
      CHRIST is the Head of The Man
      The MAN is The Head of The Woman.

    • @chrisford9045
      @chrisford9045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@haggai3.477 Well said. That's exactly right

  • @eddiecard
    @eddiecard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How refreshing this is to hear it from a REAL woman. Thank you.

  • @douglasrue
    @douglasrue 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video! Saved.

  • @CodellMusic
    @CodellMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Thank you so much for posting this, I'm a 38 year old man who was raised by a angry feminist, and yes unfortunately American women are most definitely not wife material

    • @Un1234l
      @Un1234l 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only maybe conservative/right-leaning/Christian American women could be wife material. As long as they disagree strongly with feminism.

  • @BadVibes95
    @BadVibes95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    My ex cooked, cleaned, worked, redecorated my house. And STILL sought validation from other men, and cheated. Watch out for the HYBRID'S king's. They're getting good at their craft!

    • @commandericeman8588
      @commandericeman8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Looking back....surely there had to be some red flags that you overlooked?

    • @Ascension_3030
      @Ascension_3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      some belong to the streets. Women that seek validation from other men will usually use their social media to show off their bodies to strangers. ie. 99% of young women today

    • @debelix
      @debelix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hate to tell you, but it was your fault. Either you failed as a Man in her eyes (Not masculine enough) or you just ignored her red flags early on. Women don't cheat on a man they love and admire. It's a fact.

    • @benjaminbreeze3652
      @benjaminbreeze3652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@debelix And then you woke up right?! Smfh @ you

    • @mrpredator8131
      @mrpredator8131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@debelix u say that she is not a women then

  • @prettylilmuma
    @prettylilmuma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video!
    Although my experience is more about spirituality than a specific religion, I strongly agree with your values!
    This was very beautiful to watch ❤️

  • @tanyatroxler5303
    @tanyatroxler5303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’m a woman. I have 3 degrees including a Master’s, and yet the best job ever is being a wife and a mother. I’m extremely traditional and have been marries for 39 years. My boys tell me that that is what they are most proud of my and me for staying married.

    • @natedagr8257
      @natedagr8257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Example of modern female, right to the "I have a degree".

    • @micheldemontaigne8862
      @micheldemontaigne8862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You've proved your academic intelligence and your maternal instincts, you have nothing more to prove. I hope your children appreciate you, as they should. As for the speaker, she's mainly right apart from beleiving in supernatural beings.

  • @johnthr11
    @johnthr11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    God Bless you Ma'am. How refreshing.

    • @d.harrison499
      @d.harrison499 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm almost 50! Divorcee and my heart still grieve not being taught this MUCH sooner 💔 😔

  • @kayx6737
    @kayx6737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Very inspiring I believe the same.. You are doing God's work in leading young women out of darkness. May the Lord bless you and your family.

    • @chris7brook
      @chris7brook 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm looking for a wife

  • @khalhan9646
    @khalhan9646 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful reminder!!! Well said.

  • @nathanjohnson7825
    @nathanjohnson7825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My marriage of 22 years has been a train wreck, pure hell. I wish we had just a little of this.

  • @deejay7060
    @deejay7060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I remember when I was a kid girls used to have “hope chests”.

    • @omp365
      @omp365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      i remember when i was a kid i used to hope to see girls chests...

    • @deejay7060
      @deejay7060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @J HappyFotoApe you pretty much covered everything.

    • @deejay7060
      @deejay7060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lili M. that’s sad

    • @silencer849
      @silencer849 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lili M. ayo?? 🤨

    • @dwightvol473
      @dwightvol473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The chest was often an actual wooden chest and typically made of cedar.

  • @nathanjohnson6543
    @nathanjohnson6543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    They can't even take care of themselves. Their homes are messy. How many can even make a grilled cheese sandwich? There are literally zero expectations for these women of today.

    • @CarlosLopez-dk4xo
      @CarlosLopez-dk4xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      first girlfriend I had 11 years ago couldn't even make a decent breakfast. she burnt the eggs, lol. it has just gotten worse since then.

    • @avabenko6768
      @avabenko6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it's fine to expect women to be able do this but it should also be expected for men.

    • @nathanjohnson6543
      @nathanjohnson6543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avabenko6768 Yes, people should have the basic skills to take care of themselves. Thing is, you can, point blank, demand a potential husband to have these skills but you can't even suggest it might be a good idea if women can do these things too, without being called a sexist misogynist.. ..and I'm sure they'll make some comment about the patriarchy too.

    • @Macheako
      @Macheako 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@avabenko6768 what the hell are you talking about

    • @nancyw8341
      @nancyw8341 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avabenko6768 You must not have listened to the video.

  • @childofmosthigh2647
    @childofmosthigh2647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh happen to stubble onto you video and I must tell you it a breath of fresh air, which my marriage was like this, most of the time I don’t even want to come home

  • @coptertim
    @coptertim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My wife and I have been married 46 years. I worked outside the home and my wife worked very hard inside our home, caring for our two children and supporting me in everything we did. We have always been a team with the goal of seeing our children succeed. We have two successful, drug free kids, both married and doing well. Their friends growing up were in single parent homes with working moms and few have enjoyed the lives our kids have. I attribute this to the fact my wife was home in involved in every aspect of our kids childhood. In fact, for most of the kids, my wife was closer to them than their own mothers. I fear we have lost something we will never find again.

  • @moseslawrence2494
    @moseslawrence2494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This is what a queen looks like respect her femininity makes me want to protect her respect Mama's your good woman.

  • @keiwinnmitchell3212
    @keiwinnmitchell3212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The attack is on the family!

    • @levileonce5224
      @levileonce5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ……more specifically families headed by men.

    • @paulomane8
      @paulomane8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Satan's plan is working

    • @passinthru4788
      @passinthru4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@levileonce5224 the MEN have failed miserably in their roles; and I speak as a MAN. No man has the right to rule a home like a tyrant; the "churches" have failed miserably in defining what a CHRISTIAN man's role is, and RULING over his house is at the top of the list as FAILURES. No man deserves a woman or a child who models this behavior.

    • @levileonce5224
      @levileonce5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@passinthru4788
      I cannot disagree.

  • @marygilliland6024
    @marygilliland6024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen! Thank you for putting this out there! As a 29 y.o. single mom, I can't articulate enough how much everything you said here is what I crave for. God bless you and all who hear your message