Mistakes You Must Not Make In No Contact
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You want your ex back so you went into no contact.
This means that you have decided not to make contact with your ex permanently or for a decided period of time.
Since you love your ex and wan them back, you want to make sure that you are doing no contact correctly and aren't making mistakes.
If you are making mistakes during no contact you will hurt your chances of getting your ex back.
In this video, Coach Lee explains what you must not do during no contact if you want your ex back.
He also explains why no contact is so important if you want to get your ex back.
Your ex must miss you and see the importance of your place in his or her life.
That's what makes no contact so effective.
It is a mature response to a breakup. Just like when a salesperson calls you and you tell them that you are not interested, if you pester your ex after they have broken up with you, it will feel like an attempt at manipulation.
Your ex must not feel that you are trying to manipulate them or that you are trying to talk them into getting back together with you.
The importance of this cannot be overstated.
Relationship expert Coach Lee explains what not to do during no contact in order to have the best results of healing for yourself and to allow your ex the time and space needed to miss you and want you back.
Be sure to watch this video all the way to the end to ensure you get Coach Lee's overall message.
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Whoever breaks up with this guy is screwed lol.
Edit: Its been 2 years since I wrote this comment and I just wanna say that I was so deeply hurt and heartbroken at the time I wrote this. I just wanna go back in time and give myself a hug. But I want everyone to know a couple things, 1. My ex ended up reaching out to me about a year later. 2. It didnt matter because I found my true love already. I never in a million years would have thought i would get over my ex, I watched every freaking video this guy made. But I PROMISE, time will heal all wounds, and the right person WILL COME. I am happier now than I ever was with my ex and the person I’m with now makes me feel more loved than anyone. I remember clear as day how everytime I used to think of my ex, it would LITERALLY feel like someone is stabbing my heart. It actually hurt. It was a sharp pain in my chest I could never forget. But I actually laugh because now, its NOTHING. I laugh at the fact I even thought that way ab my ex lmao. Sometimes even cringe. But anyways, just want yall to know it will be ok, and as much as I know you dont wanna hear that your ex isnt the one for you… I would say that if they hurt you once, it means they really dont have much love for you anyways and it probably wont last. HOWEVER, I promise God has someone out there for all of us. Sometimes we are put through these difficult times because I KNOW it makes us stronger ( It definitely made me stronger ) So use this time to focus on yourself, improve on yourself, and eventually when the time is right, they will come. My mom always said our timing and Gods timing are very different. God always knows the best time. Just be patient. :) Glad this comment got so many laughs, but please keep in mind what I said if you read this far.
Tacticalsquid Right. I want to get back with him.
So right lol!
@TH-cam Divine Da WAE
Facts
won’t even shed a tear, he sees right through the whole thing
"If you love them, you'd do something difficult to get them back. This is that something difficult."
Slaps.
beautiful quote
Beautiful
Definitely
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Do you think this no contact will work on an igbo man
I have done no contact once. It worked. He came back after 3 months. By then I didn’t want him anymore. If i can survive 3 months without him i can go on my life without him at all. During the no contact period I slowly realise what an axxhole he was and how blinded i was.
Sound toxic , sound like you didn’t love and were only attached . Learning to love without attachment is the key
chait2345 that’s true but at the same time people have boundaries. After being dumped/rejected, told they no longer have feelings for you- you have every right to reconsider and lose those feelings for them as time passes. It could have 100% been love at the time but after they treat you badly/hurt you...you can lose that love because they’re no longer the person you thought they were.
Manvi love isn’t something you lose it’s attachment you lose , your parents never stop loving you no matter what the distance or how long you see them. It’s attachment you lose which 90% of people mistake for love . And humans are slaves to their habits . Your reply shows that they made you love yourself in the moment , and it was nothing but attachment . Because love is a choice and true love never dies you continue loving them from a distance knowing they ain’t good for you
@@chait2345 you’re right
Yes!👍 I'm realizing I don't really want him either. It's been almost two months and sometimes I miss him, but he lost a wonderful loyal person. I'm not perfect, but my heart is pure.
"When you really want something, You have to be disciplined " - Coach Lee .. Best relationship advice so far for me
100%.
What if you broke up with them and they left them you want them back and now they're telling you they need time to think. She told me she was not saying we cannot get back together and she doesn't was not saying we could. She needs time to think
You should ALWAYS do "no contact" after a breakup. Not necessarily to get your ex back, but for your own sake and your own health.
Yes
I've been dumped 5x by the same person Husband #2. We resume where we left off. So NC does work. I did everything thats you not supposed to do.
Its the hope that is killing me. I had given up hope and was on the way to healing, then she posted about her heart being in smitherens after 8 days of NC. This gave me hope and I waited for direct contact from her, but its been another 10 days now and I'm trying to forget about her again
@@lutaayam forget about her my brother. I’m in the same spot as you. My love of my life had an affair and is openly looking for someone else. It’s just not worth the trouble. You will only feel more pain.
Hey friends do you need on getting back your ex partner,broken relationship,get rid of third parties and attractive love for better and permanent,,,,
The camera angle, your facial expression and your tone of voice makes me feel like I'm being briefed for some sort of military operation.
Tsar Nicholas II 😂 I thought I was was being hypnotised, I was listening so intently. He’s good 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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I'm dead. 😭 He's military for sure
Tsar Nicholas II 2 years & 6 months I’ve finally arrived.....Sheeesh 🤦🏻♂️
Hahaha! Thats so true! He looks like Dexter
No contact means: Dumpee DUMPS the "dumper", so the dumpee becomes the dumper! Game changer.
1. Breaking No Contact, keep yourself strong for not breaking the no contact rule.
2. Telling your ex you're in No Contact right now, don't give away your strategy to them.
3. Checking with other person during no contact period to see if they've had enough space and time.
4. Overanalyzing. Basically overanalyzing and overthinking things, it will make you look PATHETIC and WEAK.
5. Social pouting, posting sad posts on social media.
6. Doing no contact only to get your ex back. It's for your own healing, it makes yourself strong and makes your ex realize they miss you.
7. Not controlling your own thoughts.
8. Not going out and have fun during the no contact period, there's nothing to tell your ex when they do come back or when they reach out to you.
9. Falling for loss vs love. The sense and feeling of loss is so powerful and often times we mistake it for love. Try to separate the feeling of loss from the feeling of love.
All of this honestly makes us look SO weak and miserable and pathetic. I never knew I did all this in the past oml.
Why is that weak, or pathetic? It's love. If someone wants me for my indifference rather than for my genuine care they deserve neither (and need some therapy for their issues).
nah, go out and have fun, make them mad
@@elysia_sky1525 It is not love actually. The pain comes from losing something you are attached to because you made them the source of your happiness. Attachment and love are very different. Love is giving rather than receiving.
i hear that!
When you go to the psych ward
after being dumped i haven’t really been able to eat or drink anything.. i’ve had no appetite at all... watching ur videos and reading the comments on them really helped restore my appetite
Woah! I stressed ate!
@@mightyobserver12 same! I have been eating everything in sight
Indeed
Same. Although I'm going through dumper's remorse but I feel like I've been dumped.
@@Vanilladye same as that too! The tables have turned and now he appears fine after I dumped him and I'm the one in tears! The no contact is working though as at least I'm not making a fool of myself and showing how regretful and needy I am. Stay strong. After time things should improve and we'll all be happy enough to move on, reconcile or whatever!
whoever read this PLEASE ..... Please love and respect yourself before you start any relationship. Please do not get attached so quickly and always use your brain and don’t listen your heart.
And lastly. Please do yourself a favor and DO NOT GIVE YOUR HEART TO ANYONE. Let them EARN IT 😉
YouMadBrah amen 👏🏻
YouMadBrah well said
YouMadBrah 👍🏿🍸💜
_ BUDDHA _ 👍🏿😇❤ Amen
No text or calls
This man has actually saved my life and sanity over the past month. Every time I come close to breaking no contact I just watch some of these videos and it gives me the motivation to carry on. You’re a life saver coach Lee 👏👏
I wish i had seen these a month ago. I have been doing the worst stuff for the past few weeks. Ugh
Yes, same with me 😢
Please update if no contact worked for you
I do the same , whenever I have anxiety to want to reach out , I listen to video and it gives me relief and makes me focus on my healing stage
Good one
screw my ex… i want coach lee… he’s so comforting
People need to forget other coaches : this coach is the ultimate ✅
tia torture he’s the best out of all I’ve watched
Brad Browning is really good too though.
Edit:, I was clearly ignorant when I made this statement. I prefer Lucia with art of love and the dating guy, also Spartacus fortune is pretty good for guys.
Brad will serve this dude
I agree!!
Coach Corey Wayne
2 days of tears, but also 2 days of no contact! My mission has begun
Samsung GalaxyJ3Prime
same😭
Just stared today as well 😢 we're all in this together
Same here I started a week ago, it's so painful 💔
I'm back all I can say the best decision we did was separate we are happier and I'm thank ful for that god bless y'all hope that helped alil bit
An smilie it's doesn't hurt or cost a thing god bless y'all much love
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NeffyVirtual i started 2 weeks ago. The first week is always painful but now i dont care what happens. If we get back together, great. If we dont get back together, great. It gets better... just keep improving yourself and living your life. Eventually you’ll forget about the whole no contact thing and be surprised to a text or phone call.
Going no contact for good.😂
He can't have me back after dumping me. It's honestly getting better everyday.
Been 3 weeks since the breakup. 2 weeks since no contact. Came out of nowhere and I felt so lost when it happened as it was a loving and complete relationship of 3 years. Day to day has been hard, but watching these videos have put some things into perspective for me. It has given me some hope, not just the relationship but for my mindset as well. Thanks Coach!
How’s everything going?
@@jarrodoberg2078yeah hard
Howre you feeling now
how are you now?❤ I'm on day 5 of no contact and I feel completely lost and hollow 😢
@@lineakristensen1821I feel you 14 days
Makes me laugh when he said some people tell the ex that they are doing on contact. 😂
Right me too that was funny lol
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It's a mature thing to do you will literally make them feel like shit if you don't tell them that you want to attempt this method. It will drive them insane and most likely into somebody else's arm
U cant tell the oposition team where u shooting the ball thats a retarded move🤣🤣🤣
My biggest problem is over analyzing 😪
Look for a video called worrying about the future by Jay Shetty
me too
Mine to
this is what I do
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This is 100% facts! The issue is people think to themselves, if I go no contact this person will forget about me and move on. No contact actually does the opposite of this! It creates mystery and distance.
If the other person actually does forget about you and moves on, then that person truly does not want you in their life and you must accept and respect this!
This is 100% effective...each time I have done this it has worked....and as Lee says, it is also for you...you get the time to think if this person is really worth your time
The longer I go into no contact the more I realize I “want” my ex back bc of the feeling of “loss”. I am mainly doing no contact out of respect for myself. Just letting things be. Good luck to everyone out there going through rough times. Thanks for the video Coach Lee. On point!
I am also doing the same we literally broke up today and hense I am here as I'm so messed up now in the head x glad there are other people going through the same
Its been only 3 months since our break up ( she broke up with me) . My ex had been into 1 short relationship and now as of today her latest bf . Damn . I'll only start doing no contact today . I wont do the same thing she did to me. She cheated and I wanna move on.
@@elkantotero3156 hey, if she's a cheater and she takes you back she'll only cheat on you again. Do you want to go through a break up again? People who change for you. Sorry. Just do no contact, each day gets easier and don't go back. I've been down that lonely road, and with time you'll blame yourself more and more because that's what she'll say or hint and that will make you feel so weak and insignificant that you can't make her happy. The truth though is that you can't. She was broken when you found her. Take care bro, love yourself first. God bless
@@pahriz this happened to me 3 days ago. It sucks so bad. I feel like it's a lot of love and some loss. That question crosses my mind a lot. Can she be faithful? Only I can make that decision to take her or leave her. I'm weighing out my decision. Last talked today, but it was that "wish you luck" message. No more. No contact starting today.
@@petervoss7041 I'm no expert, I'm here trying to learn too...in the end, look in your heart. Ask yourself, "will she cheat again?" I don't think most guys can live with that. If it's less than cheating and you can forgive...go back, I'd say. I'm a sucker like that, and all couples have drama...cheating - if you go back, go to all the black dating coaches, they're like Corey but more raw...at the end of the day, forget what anybody says do what makes you happy but step you're game up. AMS, Myster Lemba, blackram 313, coach bill lee, stephiscold and a couple others for good advice
A lot of these comments are talking about how we shouldn’t want our ex back because they don’t deserve us, they didn’t realise what they had, and they’ll never change. Have you ever thought that maybe we were dumped for a reason, we didn’t realise what we had, and that we need to change some things about us? I’ve been really looking into the part I played with my fear of abandonment. I was so needy and suffocating. I’m addressing that issue in therapy and starting to really understanding whymy ex wanted to leave. I would want to leave me too.
Also instead of social pouting, if you need to get some stuff out, write. Journal it. Write whatever angry, sad thing you want and don’t ever share it with anyone. Except maybe your therapist if you want to 😂
Finally an intelligent comment, I was dumped 6 days ago and in a way I understand why he broke it off because I became too pushy, HOWEVER, at the least half if not more of my pushyness was because he procrastinates everything, he promised me that he had this very important thing he has to do ready and was going to be done by the end of September last year.
Nothing happened, that is why I started going off more pushy than normal which started to stress him more but he stressed me even more by this, then on xmas he calls me and was already about to give up cuz he felt his plan was still not going anywhere, if he had told me that a lot earlier then I would have stepped back with my pushyness and stress.
So in my case, HE should re-earn me if he wants me back, I know my part in it but he is responsible for most of it and he even admitted that during the breakup, in essence he broke it off cuz he couldnt handle the mess he started.
these are my thoughts exactly, I made mistakes that triggered her response, this is a call to make me grow
Hads I relate to this, cause I know a lot of my past actions are the reason she broke up with me. I know I need to fix so many things about myself
Such a nice comment - and great that you are seeking healing for your emotional issues. That way, maybe one day a healthy relationship with someone great will just fall into your lap. I also work with healing for people in relationships. Wish u all the best.
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Makes you look clingy, weird, pathetic and weak...😬😂 your bluntness is great! Way to combine humor and straight facts!👊🏼
I will be honest...without calling out other coaches...I just came across this channel today. Though the content of the words and advice might be consistent with what these other coaches are preaching, I like the fact that Coach Lee is not cocky..in fact..down to earth..realistic about the true emotions and difficulties in overcoming these situations.
Great job!
Exactly!
Meditation is highly beneficial. When the uncomfortable thoughts come up. Ignore them. Let them pass. Like clouds. Do NOT act upon them.
That hair is pure magic!
Lol
It's pretty x
@@Mistressillyanna that’s pArt in his hair is classical
Its a wig, right? Hahahaha
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I don’t want my ex back
He was not the person he portrayed himself to be when I first met him 😢
I just trying to run as far away from him and never look back
I broke up with my ex because she was disrespecting me. I was tired of it
Champ
Good for you king
I swear to god there are times that it looks like he's about to bust out laughing. I sense he's super sarcastic. Love you Coach Lee. Thank you for tricking me into forgetting about my ex!
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I agree
So then are you available because you're gorgeous 🤩
Lmao....this guy is genius...I love how he basically has no facial expression...it makes it humorous for some reason. Also, great advice.
It annoys me. 😂 (no offense)
This comment made me smile Haha thanks!
💯....haha....
HAAHAHHAHAA I KNOW IVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS SO MUCH
His hair is absolutely PERFECT. I’m dead serious
The only mistake I made was being too nice. But I am a nice person, generous, caring and will always help my partner no matter what. I am not prepared to change. If all they have on me is "Being too nice" I can live with that :)
Took me a while, but found this video again. Over a year ago, me as an adult, found this and this entire channel the help that I needed. Never before in my life has someone looked me straight in the eyes and talked to me like this. Tonight, I shared this with my 19yo son, who is now going through his first 'breakup'. Thank you, for everything you do and say that I cannot.
Guys dont bother to text the dumper not worth at all or stalking or showing at their places etc.
There's a difference between texting and stalking. In NC you wouldn't do that anyway. Only respond when they respond.
Odd&Entertaining and even them is say you shouldn’t be looking for things to respond with. Let the convo end organically
You really help me out. My ex is chase me now. But during no contact I also realized that I did not want him back. Its hurt in the bigining messy in the middle but gorgeous at the end. Sorry for my English. Just wanan say thanks
jasmine Thaye how long was no contact?
You're English Is Sufficient
Just As You Are Sufficient.
Rejection breeds obsession
I’ve been listening to Coach Lee’s advice off and on for the past year. In all honesty, I initially blew off his advice, but I’ve come to realize he is spot on. Whether your ex comes back or not, his advice can only improve your life. I appreciate his genuine compassion and logical reasoning.
Thank you Coach Lee! Your words are very powerful and it really helped me to get over the miserable time right after the break up.
"Just do it, fake it till you make it" love it!
looooool "He called her the next day and asked if she'd had enough space" hahahha. Coach Lee's straight face when saying that as well.
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Fucking LOL
Hilarious 😂😂😂
"I called her back the next day" lol
This guy makes the most sense out of any advice I've seen, so will be paying more attention to his information.
Best advice. Give them the gift of your absence and respect their decision. Back out of their life and go No Contact. Work on bettering yourself and stay No Contact.
No contract one year today!!
Good video!
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I do not want my ex back i have my freedom!
Marilyn Breedon Did he/she reach out ?
@@kevinbarrera7256 Yes he's text,called
Same here I don't want mine back.
I’m literally lmfao “no contract!!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂
M M do u reply him?
a lot of these relationship videos teach how to manipulate them back to you but you actually give real usable advice
Good luck to all who are in NO CONTACT... God bless your emotions. I wish you all good luck... ⚘
@@aliyumuhammad8176 ok. Bless you.
This guy deserves a much greater recognition.
You have to disappear and do not reach out when they break up with you. Truth is, alot of times we displayed weak behavior that pushed them away. You have to go away for atleast 2 -3 months to repair yourself and time for them to forget the mistakes you made. Usually it's not until they've dated someone else before they come back to check on you. But honestly, if she isn't ready to shovel shit to get back with me, then i aint Going back bc i dont want my heart broken again. Get strong and move on to a better woman
Exactly!!!
Kudos
There’s almost always somebody else. People rarely break up without somebody else ready to go.
Felt like shit until i watched this video, i am 100 times better now.
2 weeks of no contact= 2 week of tears ever single day. Trying to stay strong. Hope she come back soon
Any luck?
@@sarahbryce8800 she got new boyfriend during the second week... and I accidentally saw them and she straight away call me and accuse me stalking them. Heart break to this moment... crying day and night
@@frostbyte9770hey how is everything now?
I’ve resonated with your words more than any other coach so far
Thank you so much Lee. The longer I stay into no contact the easier it gets. I've built some good momentum and am on my 3rd week. I'm getting to the point to where I would rather watch movies and enjoy my day than to sit around thinking of someone who did not appreciate me . My exs birthday was a few days ago but I held my ground and stuck it out.
Good job holding your ground. She’s not your girlfriend so she doesn’t deserve the privileges of that title. Stay strong.
@@RealCoachLee how do I respond if she only wishes me "Happy birthday, stay well" And rest of the year nothing... This is the second time she left btw..
@@Rizu-kc3ze that's what my Fiancee did she only text me happy birthday after weeks of no contact I do even know if we broken up she went silent after one major argument
Hey Alex mine was different the first time breakup. I told myself watch he is going to come back because his birthday is coming up. Lord behold he did come back for his present but he brought his girlfriend with him, which i found out later. The intentions of his heart slowly I have found out. Am smiling and enjoying my recovery right now plus my peace of mind which i am gathering from Coach lees videos.
Hey friends do you need on getting back your ex partner,broken relationship,get rid of third parties and attractive love for better and permanent,,,,
2 weeks of No Contac! I know she misses me but she wants the one who broke up with me and i begged her for 2 months like a loser. I'm moving on even though i miss her so much!
Don't ever do beg for love again bro, you deserve better that that.
Welcome to my miserable world bro. I begged her for 3 months. The day I told her I was moving on, she began to apologize.
I didn't take her seriously. She did so for 2 days; for a week now, she hasn't called again, neither have I.
I just want to keep my sanity bro. I was running mad from the heartache.
Still willing to take her back, but only if I see her work to get us back together. I was doing all the work of keeping us together for most of our relationship.
Women cannot be trusted with love. Once they realise that you love the? Boom! They'll take it for granted and treat you like trash.
2 months damm !!!
Sign of maturity, self discipline, respect for the other person, stay strong... LOVE IT!!!
“You want to be yourself!” ------- So powerful and so true!
Coach Lee is the true GOAT of breakup advice
If you walked away due to the man seeing several women, you can go into "no contact " mode to avoid being with someone who has obviously decided that you're not a woman he values. Let those other women have the luxury of sharing him while you move on and give yourself permission to accept better. Sometimes, it's not worth it to contact an ex after the no contact period is over. He's probably not going to change anyway. He just likes knowing you like him. Let him go!
Ty
Once again coach Lee and friends you have helped me through some of the most difficult years in my life love you brother I still have my health mind and spirit
I am here to confirm that Coach Lee is the G.O.A.T!!!!!!! Please, please, please listen to him and take heed to his message because HE IS THE TRUTH!!!!! Thank you so very much for sharing your energy!!!!!!
It's as though Coach Lee was talking directly at me.
I feel sad and lonely all the time since I was dumped; but every time I feel like crying, I watch your videos. Gets me through.
Stay strong your not alone.
Seriously coach lee is the best compared to the others his insight is far better and makes more sense than any other coach, thank you you got me thru really hard nights
Staying No Contact thanks to the encouraging and wise words of Coach Lee 💪 🙏🏽
This has been extremely helpful. Breaking up really sucks😥
Yeah its suck but now I'm getting stronger
Stay strong, Mel.
Never get to pass five days !!!
Especially you when you did everything right and still because of their own issues
@Andre Baldwin one year later I have completely healed spiritually, mentally, emotionally. He texted me in early June which is the anniversary of our first meeting we met which I had no clue of until I thought about it. I happened to be looking in my blocked messages and his text had been sitting there for six days(😅). He asked me how I was doing, stated his favorite aunt had asked about me, said he often though about me when he would drive by my job etc...my responses were polite and short. He even had the audacity to ask me if i could make him some tacos 🌮 oneday (his fav)...i ignored that part🙄 rather than tell him helllllll naaaaw😅😅😅. Ive stayed single within this year and truly done an overhaul, got in shape, got closer to God and right now continuing to do me😍. He truly doesn't realize what a favor he did me by dumping such an awesome and amazing woman who just needed t remind herself of such😉 I have never been so much at peace within myself. Whatever your situation is dont give up on yourself. God loves you and he is protecting you❤Thankyou for asking! Listen to Coach Lee. He guided me through my situation and was spot on with his advice!!!
i learned this when i was young .......you need to disapear and not chase ......let them start thinking about what youre doing , where you are and who you might be with
Absolutely
Of all the helpful friends and family I have right now, of all the videos and articles I've read, you sir are by far the most relatable and comforting experience. I've just lost my girlfriend and step son of 3 years to a very quit and what seems like sudden decision and she has forced me, at 31, to move back on with my parents. Everything has been feeling pretty numb and this hasn't even been the first week. But you've done a world of wonders for me. I can relate to your ideas, your concepts are clear and well structured and make me understand that I am doing this for me. Not for what I want from someone else. But what I want from me. I hope that you continue to work on these videos because you are doing things that I haven't been able to bring myself to accept. Thank you so much.
Coach Lee you are the best. The way your word things is incredible you are so real I wish you the best success in your career doing this. Peace and love from the UK
My girl left me and I'm glad...
She was a basket-case🤯
That's how a alpha feels after betrayal. Hoorahh whoop whoop lol
THIS GUY IS TRULLY AMAZING. This is exactly what I needed. It works.
7:50 Thank you so much for clarifying to NOT tell your ex that you are planning on not talking to them. There were many videos and they all mention the No Contact rule, and after watching them it made me want to text my ex that I'm not going to talk to her, but you actually describe all aspects of the No Contact rule, paying attention to what mistakes people will make when applying it. Thanks.. hopefully this will help me.
This is really helpful. Benefits of doing no contact is not only to MAYBE get your ex back. But to make yourself a strong person. When you are strong and secure in life, that is very attractive to other people. Thank you for all the videos, and The Emergency Break-up Kit. They are great!
The pain he gave me brought me here. Thanks for this wonderful video!
Same here the pain she gave me brought me here. Thanks to this gentleman.
Same ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Same here boo
Same
And am here today
BUT don't drop everything the moment she calls you at some point during no contact. If you legitimately have plans, keep them and schedule a time when you're free to reconnect after that call from her. Most importantly, review why you broke up in the first place. Sometimes walking away and staying away is the best solution, regardless.
9th day... this is so tough.. hardest thing I’ve had to do in my life. I love her. She was my everything and I blew it because I was too clingy and had mood swings. I got my bipolar disorder diagnosed from a doctor shortly after the breakup and received medication and wish she knew that I’m trying to fix myself.
Any updates?
Modi she actually just texted me today. Asked me how I was doing. I haven’t replied and don’t think I will.
stay strong, quit rationalizing and blaming yourself
Same man your litterly me from the Tee I got diagnosed as well.But I hope everything went well and if you could respond to let me know what happend it would be greatly appreciated
@@Prince-vv8wk I haven't spoken to her in over a year. I had blocked her on everything for some time then unblocked and nothing since. I have moved on with another relationship.
Thank you so much for this. 16 days in and today I had the worst impulse to contact him. I also realized that I was doing no contact to mainly give him space so he would come back. But now, I'm going to continue no contact with the intention of focusing on my self, loving myself and not expecting anything from him. Whatever is the best for me will come to me. I'm manifesting everything good for me to come to me.
coach lee is a legend. respect man
From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU coach Lee...love your material. Your content is like an ax to the frozen sea in me...
Im impressed with your content because you don't beat around the bush straight to point 🔥💯
Your video is truly an eye opener and the advice really is the right thing to do. My relationship has been incredibly tough because I’ve been in love with a woman with bad anxiety issues which complicated things. Even if I was being truthful she always thought I was lying. The arguing got so bad that I would lie to not argue and it led to our breakup just three days ago. I’m hurting bad
This is probably one of the best of HUNDREDS of these videos I've seen. Thank you! I am going through this right now
I was feeling down about my break up, watched this video and literally LOLed thanks coach Lee. Great advice too.
Hello Coach Lee, just want you to know that I just joined your channel. You are a complete Godsend. I really appreciate your amazing advice. It helps my heart to to be stronger and move forward with positivity and dignity. God Bless You and your channel.
Your so positive Coach Lee. Thanks for your good vibes.
Very beautifully put. Thank you for putting this out. Much appreciated, the loss love part was very insightful.
Your advice is my strength right now... thanks a lot may God help you too in your troubles
No contact is an ONLY WIN SITUATION because you will learn to be strong and that will bring you much internal power . Winning your ex back is just a bonus. It is hard to lose your ex sure but it is devastating TO LOSE YOURSELF that is the worst
Why am i getting these weird spam messages?
all the other coachs market no contact as some manipulation tactic that will "always work" but you explain it is also the respectful and mature thing to do. You also explain that it works if the breakup and relationship were not too bad, which gives us context to why it works and when it works . A+ coach
My favourite coach ever....Coach Lee, so on point as always!! 👏🙌👍👌
Thanks for all the advice Coach Lee! You're amazing!
Thank you very much for the video. It really gives me strength. I am going to restart learning his mother tongue, so I can impress him even more once he's back, instead of crying for our memories. Keep up the good work Lee ♥️. Love from Paris 💓
After I watched the video, I hit subscribe and replay. Ha! Your down-to-earth honesty is refreshing.
Im currently in day 3 of no contact, its been the hardest 3 days of my life and have never felt so sad and guilty for my mistakes in a relationship (i never cheated but had problem with drinking too much) ive completely cut that stuff out of my life and am working on myself to improve who i am. every morning i run and listen to your videos to set me up for the day. I dont know if she will reach out or not but i trust in what youre saying, i really hope she will! thanks Coach Lee!
I'm on no contact for almost 3 weeks. Welcome to boot camp.
Me too i drank too much and he saw it as an issue. He warned me many times to stop or he will leave me and i didnt listen. Not only that but other stuff too. I really messed up guys! He told me and i didnt listen or respect him enougj and it wasnt until he left i realized i need to make new changes in my life. I lost the love of my life. Im on day 1. We were only togethr for a month and knew eachother a total of 3 months. We had many good times inbetween tho. He said he was inlove with me but i kno he lost attraction he told me when i drink he thinks im disgusting and how i act. Any update ?
@@lovingme6896 my person of interest fucked some guy .. had one night stand.
So I don't even know what I want anymore.
She text me yesterday. I don't know why even seeing her text pains me . To a pt that is unbelievable. And I'm the one who initiated the no contact.
I sent a dull short response ... 3 word .. even that took Soo much energy for me to type.
What she did makes me want to drink and do drugs to somehow not feel or think about it. Which I don't even like doing.
she always get close. Then then fucks me over. I just don't know what's worse. Or Why does it make my blood boil when her fucks someone. I wish I can become immune. I just can't live a normal life because of her .. I can't stand it when she becomes a slut. Nothing worse than loving a whore type girl.
Ryan Topp HOW DID IT GO!
@@NintendoFan8877 were back together! Happier than ever!
Coach Lee, you are truly awesome and such a blessing to the heart broken! You are helping many of us, obviously many from the many comments, get through one of the toughest parts of our lives. I will refer anyone I come across that is going through this kind of pain to your videos and links. Thank you so much for your service in helping us. Please know that you are appreciated so much.
Thank you very much for your kind words. I’m sorry that you are going through this and hope that your ex comes back. Always take it one day at a time. Follow me on Instagram @RealCoachLee
Coach Lee you have been such a source of comfort to me. It is so hypnotic listening to you. My ex has approached me now and shown some interest so I am hoping for a reconciliation on improved terms in the future. I see him every week so smart contact is needed. It is causing me anxiety though so it's been a tough few months. Thanks
This goes for all the videos I have watched from you coach Lee and I have to THANK YOU for your wisdom. So much so that after doing your videos, therapy, talks with friends etc etc I came to realise it is time for me to check-out…this is not a “I got my ex back” story but rather a story of me realizing my value and under no circumstances will I be stuck in gloom and doom anymore. I am moving forward and forward means without my ex, even if she shows at my door it’s a no from me. Before someone judges my decision the background of the story is filled with belittling, abuse, gaslighting, not being good enough (ever) and more…
I am done but will for sure take the wisdom from your channel with me. I hope for all of you that you find your path, be patient and take care of yourself whatever that means for you but don’t forget to:
-sleep
-meditate
-sports
-eat healthy
-do NOT drink or abuse anything
-hangout with friends
-go out
- don’t get laid just for the sake of it you’ll regret it the moment you wake up the next day
-walk walk walk walk…moving forward physically while being stuck in your head has therapeutic results (I have walked over 100km last week)
❤
I love this, you have so much insight into breakup....I love the fact that you aphave incorporated a funny side of the tragedy of breakup.... THANK YOU LEE, you, to me, are BRILLIANT!!
Your message is so powerful in these videos about breakups that now I respect myself so much that I don’t even want to get back with my ex. Now that you have taught and teach me how to have respect for myself I want to spend all my energy on my next relationship and start a new life. By the way the formats of your videos and the way you look directly into my eyes it’s so effective that it feels like you are a loving and caring brother I never had. Thank you so much. God bless you.
So helpful! In NC for 10 days from a “break” from each other. He needed a break. Hope it’s ok during our convo, I said I will give you space, and if you want to talk I’m here. It was also a way to end an uncomfortable conversation. I I didn’t want to risk saying anything I’d regret.
Thank God for the coach. Going through it now but im learning that the wrong person will lev u in pieces but the right one will bring you peace!
Thanks Lee. Deep down i think i knew this but hearing it from someone else is a real relief
Thank you Coach Lee, I learned a lot from you. More power to you 💪😘
Wow, your hair is BEAUTIFUL!