I would... Put a caveat on this. Yes, if you have this extreme goals I'd definitely go and hang around people with those same goals. Otherwise you will be frustrated. Importantly though if you do not feel driven by such extreme goals do not feel compelled to have them. If anything there's a severe lack of value attached to being content with what you have. It is okay to want modest improvements. It's okay to not want to leave some massive legacy. It's okay not to want a bunch of influence. It's absolutely okay to make a modest living and not strive for anything else. Do what makes you happy. And be sure you actually know what will make you happy. Rarely is it so simple as "make more money."
This is advice from a mentally ill borderline personality disorder 25 year old man who wears a mask dresses fruity like an Andrew Tate wannbe and likes to get pegged and dominated by women
I think what's more important about this message is that extreme goals are often laughed down by other people with humble goals, and so its not that its not ok to want modest living, indeed I wish for many things of modest quality, but rather that extreme ideals should as equally entertained as more humble ideals.
It's cool that you are like this, but I don't think everyone is. I'd prefer to have simpler goals, and a calmer, simpler life. I'd like to change the world, but not dramatically. I don't want to be rich or famous. I don't want tons of followers or for people to idolise me. I just want to make an extra person smile today
Yes this! I love the "I want to change the world" mindset but it's very existential. Yes there needs to be changes in the world but life is much simpler than that. My main goal right now to is be more conscious of my thoughts and actions so I can be the best parent to my children.
Very true. Also talking about your goals also ingrains them in your mind. It also makes you feel more accountable for those ideals when other people are involved in them. Most people dont want to feel like they have failed. So if you share what you want to do with your friends. Not only do you not want to fail for yourself but also the people around you.
Personally, it's hard for me to balance having Extreme goals and be grateful. How can I be grateful if I'm always wanting more? I feel great when I'm grateful. I am still trying.
Keeping a gratitude journal changed this for me. I always write down anything I am grateful for, anything good anyone said about me, or anything big I accomplished. That way when I’m always striving for success, failing, and getting back up, I have a record of all of the goals I did actually accomplish to prove to me that I can do it and this next challenge isn’t actually all that bad.
I find it hard to reconcile my desire to be living proof that anyone with any problems can overcome them with myself not feeling able to overcome. It’s soo strange to feel the desire to change a world you are starting to believe may not be worth saving. Though if I will be unable to overcome my own situation what right would I have to suggest others should be able to overcome theirs. I hope if I able to make it through this that I’ll be able to find such an answer. I fear I’m slowly becoming a nihilist that wants to be an existentialist. It’s definitely the last thing I ever would want for myself, but how can I that be true when it isn’t? You definitely pose great questions. Thank you for speaking out your viewpoints. I’d venture to suggest that your ability, be it now and greater in the future, to reach people and challenge closely held beliefs will be one of your greatest tools in your tool belt to inflict change. Your peace, calming to those who listen and anger not at people but at the psyche. It’s just refreshing. Maybe the problems I face are created by the American psyche as you call it. Or maybe it’s from the realization that there is a major problem with the American psyche while being surrounded by people who believe it’s okay. Definitely a point to think about. Maybe leaving would be the best thing. I just fear not for my own self but for the many people I won’t be able to help if I’m not first able to help myself. Regardless, the future is an untold story that will come true. I just hope mine will one day make a difference. Thank you for being an inspiration and giving just a little bit more hope that the problems i see may be solvable.
I hope for the best for you. Don't give up. I mean it. If we are feeling sad about the world's condition, many other people probably feel that way too. If we can be a positive example of hope and change, even in minor ways, we can encourage others to change their attitude and be good examples as well.❤
I'm struggling with the same thing. I have friends that have made the job and have grown comfortable. I struggle connecting because I don't understand how people can refuse to push themselves.
I've achieved some great shit in my life ,but beyond a dream of going private and making 40-50% more sounds more than enough Eventually times come and realisation of own mortality sets in ,and then you ask a simple question ...why? I'm an M.D doing some hospise side job, and when you come to a wife of a great man and she is dying at the age of 50, and he is but a shell of a man ,and you talk over a smoke ,his biggest regret is not being around , so it's great to conquer the world at 20 , but when 40 hits ,it hits like a truck ,and then you ask yourself ...why? And there is silence.
I recently subscribed to this man's channel,,I'm a 51 year old abrasive prick who generally doesn't want or need advice,,but I gotta say this fellow is freakin smart,very articulate,well spoken, factual..I respect the hell outta this guy,his brain works on a level that most of us can't ..he states his observations while never gaslighting his opinions,, however in my books his opinions are very accurate, precise,and flat out dead right..rock on mate,I view the world and my observations are very similar to yours,but I could never articulate or express it in such a profound and professional way👍
I often imagine changing the world in great ways but I'm often thwarted by myself as well as my lack of knowledge about what's out there. One day I'll manage to figure myself out and break down this seemingly impenetrable wall of "No". But until then my goals are to make sure the house is clean and the family and pets are fed lol
Bro i wish i had any goals to begin with. I'm literally stuck in a situation where I don't have a job or a car and my only "choice" (that isn't even a choice) is moving out from Italy to Germany.
Im happy im in a place where i can say if i die, i can die peacefully and happily without any regrets. I have gone thru hell and came back and i am much more better version now of myself. I still have many problems i have to conquest but i have the will to fight and never stay inside the jail of my own mind and stop going forward and try to better myself so i could spread that around my people. Life's meaning is not to die with big bank account and with nice clothes but to go thru the fucking guttters clothes all ripped and so u can say "holy shit WHAT A RIDE" and while we do this; each one teach one :) we all came from the same starstuff. and we are currently traveling thru space in a spaceship called earth. just a facts haha.
It's sad how people have to listen to a guy, or an animation, like Mr.Freeman, just to realize what common sense is. Even Mr.freeman says that, he goes, and I'll butcher this quote. "Why do all of you incels have to watch an animation just to know what's right and wrong, as if you don't already know."
This will be a hard pill to swallow for the majority which convinced themselves they want less, it's how they feel safe, I can see in the comments, we're plagued with mediocrity, there's a lot of people very okay with their position in life as stepping stones, what can we say? It leaves more space for the bold 🍁
yeah because 1. being happy in your place in life is bad 2. traveling across the country to find a massive supply of diamonds is good and 3. you should never have realistic expetations.
Not everybody has this goal. The goal in life is to improve not to compare to others. Also if you want to change the world making shorts on a couch may not be the best option you could find...
I agree. People that care more about impressing strangers instead ov working on themselves are usually lost causes. It's up to them to try and see that it's an actual problem and then do the work to change. Not sure if someone that wears a blinged up bag on their head is a good motivational coach 😂 But I'm sure there are some young teens that feel otherwise.
@@jaymevosburgh3660 ironically he tries to be different than the other motivational speakers, but in the end he uses the same method. He still has the same audience.
Not everyone is trying to be Superman, because most people are realistic. If you think big dreams change the world, you go for it. I think separating from people who don't think identically to you is part of the problem. We have to accept each other's desires and needs, whether or not they want to talk to us all the time about how full our dream journal has gotten. I love the diversity of thought, that some people love simple lives, or complex lives or even mediocre lives, because we're just... different... and there's beauty in that. As for people in Bali "making tons of money and achieving their dreams," no they are not. Most people in Bali are below the poverty line. That's why they dream big. They have to believe things get better, they have to have hope. So I don't know what you're selling there, but it's disingenuous. And yes, you are saying to cut off people who don't have big goals. You literally did exactly that. I don't know your purpose of trying to populate your thought process, but your approach and the creepy mask just give me bad vibes about you.
Talks about goals.. Is a grifter via youtube. Dont work a trade or learn a skill just do what this guy does. Everyone can make a living this way I promise!
I would... Put a caveat on this. Yes, if you have this extreme goals I'd definitely go and hang around people with those same goals. Otherwise you will be frustrated.
Importantly though if you do not feel driven by such extreme goals do not feel compelled to have them. If anything there's a severe lack of value attached to being content with what you have. It is okay to want modest improvements. It's okay to not want to leave some massive legacy. It's okay not to want a bunch of influence. It's absolutely okay to make a modest living and not strive for anything else. Do what makes you happy. And be sure you actually know what will make you happy. Rarely is it so simple as "make more money."
omg this is literally EXACTLY what I just commented🤣
Ooooooo
This is advice from a mentally ill borderline personality disorder 25 year old man who wears a mask dresses fruity like an Andrew Tate wannbe and likes to get pegged and dominated by women
Well said
I think what's more important about this message is that extreme goals are often laughed down by other people with humble goals, and so its not that its not ok to want modest living, indeed I wish for many things of modest quality, but rather that extreme ideals should as equally entertained as more humble ideals.
It's cool that you are like this, but I don't think everyone is. I'd prefer to have simpler goals, and a calmer, simpler life. I'd like to change the world, but not dramatically. I don't want to be rich or famous. I don't want tons of followers or for people to idolise me. I just want to make an extra person smile today
Yes this! I love the "I want to change the world" mindset but it's very existential. Yes there needs to be changes in the world but life is much simpler than that. My main goal right now to is be more conscious of my thoughts and actions so I can be the best parent to my children.
people always say "surround yourself with winners" yeah but how do i do that? I can barely make friends lol
Very true. Also talking about your goals also ingrains them in your mind. It also makes you feel more accountable for those ideals when other people are involved in them. Most people dont want to feel like they have failed. So if you share what you want to do with your friends. Not only do you not want to fail for yourself but also the people around you.
Personally, it's hard for me to balance having Extreme goals and be grateful. How can I be grateful if I'm always wanting more? I feel great when I'm grateful. I am still trying.
Keeping a gratitude journal changed this for me. I always write down anything I am grateful for, anything good anyone said about me, or anything big I accomplished. That way when I’m always striving for success, failing, and getting back up, I have a record of all of the goals I did actually accomplish to prove to me that I can do it and this next challenge isn’t actually all that bad.
Grateful that you're able to pursue those goals and keep moving
Yesss i needed to hear this thankyou❤
don't know how I got this recommended, but thanks for the wisdom!
I find it hard to reconcile my desire to be living proof that anyone with any problems can overcome them with myself not feeling able to overcome. It’s soo strange to feel the desire to change a world you are starting to believe may not be worth saving. Though if I will be unable to overcome my own situation what right would I have to suggest others should be able to overcome theirs. I hope if I able to make it through this that I’ll be able to find such an answer. I fear I’m slowly becoming a nihilist that wants to be an existentialist. It’s definitely the last thing I ever would want for myself, but how can I that be true when it isn’t?
You definitely pose great questions. Thank you for speaking out your viewpoints. I’d venture to suggest that your ability, be it now and greater in the future, to reach people and challenge closely held beliefs will be one of your greatest tools in your tool belt to inflict change. Your peace, calming to those who listen and anger not at people but at the psyche. It’s just refreshing.
Maybe the problems I face are created by the American psyche as you call it. Or maybe it’s from the realization that there is a major problem with the American psyche while being surrounded by people who believe it’s okay. Definitely a point to think about.
Maybe leaving would be the best thing. I just fear not for my own self but for the many people I won’t be able to help if I’m not first able to help myself.
Regardless, the future is an untold story that will come true. I just hope mine will one day make a difference. Thank you for being an inspiration and giving just a little bit more hope that the problems i see may be solvable.
I hope for the best for you. Don't give up.
I mean it.
If we are feeling sad about the world's condition, many other people probably feel that way too. If we can be a positive example of hope and change, even in minor ways, we can encourage others to change their attitude and be good examples as well.❤
Don't listen to this guy's channel. He's preaching some BS. You're not doing anything wrong, and it sucks that he's caused you to think that.
Your the only guy that edits it's videos every 2 seconds that i can actually watch.
I'm struggling with the same thing. I have friends that have made the job and have grown comfortable. I struggle connecting because I don't understand how people can refuse to push themselves.
Last guy with extreme goals got kicked out of art school
I've achieved some great shit in my life ,but beyond a dream of going private and making 40-50% more sounds more than enough Eventually times come and realisation of own mortality sets in ,and then you ask a simple question ...why? I'm an M.D doing some hospise side job, and when you come to a wife of a great man and she is dying at the age of 50, and he is but a shell of a man ,and you talk over a smoke ,his biggest regret is not being around , so it's great to conquer the world at 20 , but when 40 hits ,it hits like a truck ,and then you ask yourself ...why? And there is silence.
Messages like this are important.
Few understand the value of their own TIME. It's the only thing you own.
I recently subscribed to this man's channel,,I'm a 51 year old abrasive prick who generally doesn't want or need advice,,but I gotta say this fellow is freakin smart,very articulate,well spoken, factual..I respect the hell outta this guy,his brain works on a level that most of us can't ..he states his observations while never gaslighting his opinions,, however in my books his opinions are very accurate, precise,and flat out dead right..rock on mate,I view the world and my observations are very similar to yours,but I could never articulate or express it in such a profound and professional way👍
I often imagine changing the world in great ways but I'm often thwarted by myself as well as my lack of knowledge about what's out there. One day I'll manage to figure myself out and break down this seemingly impenetrable wall of "No". But until then my goals are to make sure the house is clean and the family and pets are fed lol
thank you for this brother
Well, I can say that you are doing a great job and I think that people can feel it, hear it in their ❤ and mind
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I really love this guy ❤🎉
Love your videos. But why not uploading longer videos or maybe do podcasts? would love to listen to your words in a longer duration
Unless it's about politics, distance yourself, and stay away.
I agree with the concept, but practically where do you find such people with extreme goals. It's harder to find them than achieve some extreme goals
Bro i wish i had any goals to begin with.
I'm literally stuck in a situation where I don't have a job or a car and my only "choice" (that isn't even a choice) is moving out from Italy to Germany.
Applause!
Muchas gracias
Just make sure to not lose yourself in hoal chasing. it's not always about reaching the next higher apple in the tree.
Make new friends that align with your goals but don't cut your old friends.
dayyyam that's ambitions ... just holding on to my old and useless friends is hard enough
@@barryirlandi4217 Men monkey branch too. Who says only women practice hypergamy.
At this point why even button the shirt, just leave it open
This guy is insane. I say be balanced
Unfortunately i dont have anyone to share my goals can we create a community together
i’m a fan❤
Im happy im in a place where i can say if i die, i can die peacefully and happily without any regrets. I have gone thru hell and came back and i am much more better version now of myself. I still have many problems i have to conquest but i have the will to fight and never stay inside the jail of my own mind and stop going forward and try to better myself so i could spread that around my people. Life's meaning is not to die with big bank account and with nice clothes but to go thru the fucking guttters clothes all ripped and so u can say "holy shit WHAT A RIDE" and while we do this; each one teach one :) we all came from the same starstuff. and we are currently traveling thru space in a spaceship called earth. just a facts haha.
The only good "normalize x" comment.
No one can change the world. You can only chnge yourself.
Wait, you lived in SLC?
It's sad how people have to listen to a guy, or an animation, like Mr.Freeman, just to realize what common sense is.
Even Mr.freeman says that, he goes, and I'll butcher this quote. "Why do all of you incels have to watch an animation just to know what's right and wrong, as if you don't already know."
Exactly
This will be a hard pill to swallow for the majority which convinced themselves they want less, it's how they feel safe, I can see in the comments, we're plagued with mediocrity, there's a lot of people very okay with their position in life as stepping stones, what can we say? It leaves more space for the bold 🍁
Yes
This guy is what tater tots think Andrew Tate is, an intelligent and rational person
Hey thats where I live
yeah because 1. being happy in your place in life is bad 2. traveling across the country to find a massive supply of diamonds is good and 3. you should never have realistic expetations.
You normalize your shirt for an example
I like this content youtube.
Not everybody has this goal. The goal in life is to improve not to compare to others. Also if you want to change the world making shorts on a couch may not be the best option you could find...
I agree.
People that care more about impressing strangers instead ov working on themselves are usually lost causes.
It's up to them to try and see that it's an actual problem and then do the work to change.
Not sure if someone that wears a blinged up bag on their head is a good motivational coach 😂
But I'm sure there are some young teens that feel otherwise.
@@jaymevosburgh3660 ironically he tries to be different than the other motivational speakers, but in the end he uses the same method. He still has the same audience.
God you're balinese?
Not everyone is trying to be Superman, because most people are realistic. If you think big dreams change the world, you go for it. I think separating from people who don't think identically to you is part of the problem. We have to accept each other's desires and needs, whether or not they want to talk to us all the time about how full our dream journal has gotten. I love the diversity of thought, that some people love simple lives, or complex lives or even mediocre lives, because we're just... different... and there's beauty in that. As for people in Bali "making tons of money and achieving their dreams," no they are not. Most people in Bali are below the poverty line. That's why they dream big. They have to believe things get better, they have to have hope. So I don't know what you're selling there, but it's disingenuous. And yes, you are saying to cut off people who don't have big goals. You literally did exactly that.
I don't know your purpose of trying to populate your thought process, but your approach and the creepy mask just give me bad vibes about you.
Talks about goals..
Is a grifter via youtube.
Dont work a trade or learn a skill just do what this guy does. Everyone can make a living this way I promise!
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You are mislabeling this behavior. You are describing ambition, not extremism.
My goal is to wear a bag on my head and be motivational
😂
Thank you my guy