5 signs of childhood trauma

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 พ.ค. 2021

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  • @erinm3567
    @erinm3567 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +293

    Fear of abandonment....this video clip abandoned us lol.

  • @AshleyFerman
    @AshleyFerman 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The worst thing is that so many people will make fun of you for wanting attention since you never get it at home. People are so cruel

  • @Bfbxxbfdi_8897
    @Bfbxxbfdi_8897 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I always hear my parents yelling and arguing and throwing stuff around and doors slamming shut hard!😢

  • @Callmehangle
    @Callmehangle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I’m still eight and my trauma started at 8
    I got bullied at school
    My two cousins ruined my life by (making me jealous) (making me feel left out)
    No one liked me in school
    And whenever I went to play with some people that I know. They kept staring at me and told me to go away.
    I only have two friends but the one who loves me more. Cares. Plays with me and etc. she is amazing. I love her so much.
    But no one really noticed that I am always the one that listens to others problems. I’m like their therapist. But no one listens to me. I get hurt everday painfully, and I try my best to fit in but no one even cares. I’m so greatful to have a friend like her.😭😭

    • @shauntelgill9384
      @shauntelgill9384 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      AAW THIS SOUNDS SO SAD you poor thing!
      I know the feeling I was traumatized by school teacher when I was in school years later I still remember it like as if it happened yesterday,! Nobody liked me and I had no friends either.it was sad I would dread and hate going to school on a day that I didn't have to go anyway.

    • @shauntelgill9384
      @shauntelgill9384 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It was tough miserable and I hated it so much.i used to loath and dread going to school because of the terrible way that I was treated by the terrible teachers I had in there they really really sucked as teachers and made me hate school.

    • @Callmehangle
      @Callmehangle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shauntelgill9384 I’m sorry

    • @angiedavidtheplayersofgame3912
      @angiedavidtheplayersofgame3912 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh gosh, where do I start in expressing myself.... first thing: I'm sorry I couldn't be there for you- (I always say that to people with trauma idk why) second thing: Im kinda similar, I have 3 friends. My bestie is always there for me, my artist friend is just- no. And my newest friend is kinda like my bestie. I have to say, it's really saddening knowing the fact that people do this on purpose or accidentally, and some people can't notify them about it. It's just disheartening. Again, im really sorry, and I hope you can recover.

    • @angiedavidtheplayersofgame3912
      @angiedavidtheplayersofgame3912 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@shauntelgill9384That's exactly why my brother hates school, even though my teachers try to be nice. If it makes you feel better, I would've been your friend...

  • @markittab9348
    @markittab9348 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I always have to ask my parents where they're going. They get so angry and are like,, "why r u so nosey?" And I'm so scared of them up and leaving me one day

    • @KateS4257
      @KateS4257 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don’t worry, I’m here for you❤😊

  • @rol407
    @rol407 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I can't wait for my worthless life to end one day

    • @gracesplace3449
      @gracesplace3449 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Oh my, I hope you can get help

    • @spill4155
      @spill4155 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤ I’m sorry

    • @ensar4115
      @ensar4115 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too, cant wait

    • @anaizakabir6475
      @anaizakabir6475 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too I can't handle so much pain I just want to die and rest for my whole life

    • @yacobeinauan9533
      @yacobeinauan9533 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Don’t say that

  • @madsy_0
    @madsy_0 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i have had a fear of abandonment during 6 years old before-

  • @emmalfranzblau
    @emmalfranzblau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hey Micheline! It’s✨Everything✨except Fear Of Abandonment for me! Instead it’s Fear Of Rejection!

  • @HeartsSandra
    @HeartsSandra ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Im had this childhood. Trauma whenever. People. Shouted at me

    • @Sluskey
      @Sluskey 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same bro

  • @APorLa16_RMA
    @APorLa16_RMA 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have math trauma
    That's what i have I'm traumatised bc of math
    I had a nightmare today that I was supposed to answer z math equation (that I didn't learn) and when I got it wrong everyone laughs just like real life in my school
    Edit: I had summer vacation now the trauma is back again the year has just started

    • @angiedavidtheplayersofgame3912
      @angiedavidtheplayersofgame3912 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh god, im sorry. I have minor issues with my manipulative friend (which I can't bear to leave) but I feel you. Being laughed at is the worst thing for me. (Dang it, I feel like saying "Sorry, I couldn't support you.")

  • @mea27112
    @mea27112 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i feel like i am being dramatic but when i was younger i had adhd or i js moved a lot so my family would threaten taking me to a mental hospital and i was really scared that they’d leave me so i didn’t move much like i used to

  • @Rainthecat_Therian
    @Rainthecat_Therian 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There’s only 2- 😭-

  • @_Sunburrn10
    @_Sunburrn10 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just wanna find someone I can trust that never drop me even when im angry,sad,happy, confident. I just wanna feel like if I make a mistake they not gonna drop me:(my friends are good but when they said I maybe had ADHD it hurt , I know they did it as a joke but it hurt and I was confused why they said that cuz I’m always here for them I always want the best for them, I’m here when they cry, I’m here when they felt useless, but I am also a person I deserve love , I deserve a person who take care of me💗 Never have I ever felt so useless. I see all these people on social media being so happy and sweet and they say they have trauma but how do they move on like I don’t understand what’s wrong with me like please just take me back to the past and let
    me fix it I’m tired of always crying to sleep hiding my tears, hiding my life for my love ones cuz I’m scared what they will say, I wish i just knew they would say “ it’s okay we make mistakes and learn from them” help me:C please just help me. I did a mistake but I’m trying to move on but how HOW I’m literally here crying CRYING EVERY DAY BUT WHY, why is it so hard. Tell me please. And my friend once told me that I’m lucky that I’m not so depressed as she was. STOP you don’t understand, you don’t understand the pain I’m going through, you don’t understand me ,YOU DONT UNDERSTAND MY LIFE, you don’t understand NOTHING NOTHING.
    I wrote this when I was 10 and I’m glad to say at the age of 13 I’ve moved on.

  • @Ariella.pickle
    @Ariella.pickle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im 13 but i was abused by my dad 2-6 he didn't treat is right like making us do all the jobs all physically hurting us when we didn't. My mum and dad deforest when i was 7. Then my older sister started being abusive through verbal abuse and smashing stuff up so we had social workers round. From this i have social anxiety, depression and i shake when smth smashes

  • @grrr.9998
    @grrr.9998 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The kind of therapist that gets you to focus on your tauma 😍

  • @kittyberrycreates
    @kittyberrycreates 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When i was 3 my dad got a girlfriend. I thought she was nice and i started calling her mom. A month later they wanted to get married. My dad talked to his gf about it but she said that she would only marry him if he got rid of me and my brother. My dad said no and when i was five i started to be more bratty and sassy. My dads girlfriend didn't like this so she would find ways to make my dad put me and my brother in time out. When her daughter got old i played with her and she would cry when i didn't let her play with my toys. My dad's girlfriend would get me in trouble and i was in trouble all the way through kindergarten. When i was in second grade i would live with her and i complained that my younger step sister gets more food then me so she would give me less and less food every day. I started to cry about it. She called me fat and through me into the basement. There's a lot more she has done to me but my hands hurt from writing

  • @Rose_ur_a_bozo_cry_about_it
    @Rose_ur_a_bozo_cry_about_it 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate it bc my so called friend said behind my back that I’m faking my truama

  • @Numbers_cool
    @Numbers_cool 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I was 6 my mother got on a dating website. (my dad and mom were divorced) and because I was 6 and had no one to babysit sit me. my mother brought me with to meet him. She didn't like how he acted in public so she tried to leave. He kept telling her to stay and when she didn't listen. He beat both of us and I constantly flinch now. My mom got back together with my dad when I was 13. He was raised with physical punishment so he did It to me. I constantly compared him to the man. There's no good outcome that can come from hurting your child

  • @brieuzumaki909
    @brieuzumaki909 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I was 6 years old. My dad left my family and moved to a different state. He was an alcoholic. When he was in that different state. He committed suicide

  • @DoveGirl
    @DoveGirl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm still three years old...

  • @wolfyVR2009
    @wolfyVR2009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a person that is the only one in my life that I felt like supported me and actually cared for me and loves me as a friend BTW, she’s my best friend and now she’s moving and I don’t know what the fuck to do because I can’t do shit about it

  • @afgtwd8161
    @afgtwd8161 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What makes you a licensed therapist?

  • @judeadjawie6839
    @judeadjawie6839 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was in a ballbit when i was 5 but i didnt know my parents were leaving so i saw the exit close as the cashier selling plusjies left i was scared so i used the match to see and saw a knofe with blood and saw a sight written "fun" and i dodnt know it real i blonked and didnt see my hands i ony saw me smilling and holding a sad mask

  • @divyagautam7800
    @divyagautam7800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My one of my friend is suffering from the same how to treat it ??

    • @UnlovedUnwanted
      @UnlovedUnwanted ปีที่แล้ว

      You can't do much about it he should see a therapist

    • @ems.master
      @ems.master ปีที่แล้ว

      Suggest seeking a mental health professional. There's a high chance that they don't want to go to therapy. In this case, let them know you're there for them. Ask them exactly what they want from you- to give suggestions or to just listen. There are many tips and resources online, you and your friend can try them if they think they can manage things by themselves. Tell a trusted adult if the situation escalates, but really make sure this adult can help properly, or the trust will be forever broken and your friend will become hesitant to reach out for support.

  • @Yourlazyartist45
    @Yourlazyartist45 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could agree with angle I had trauma at eight too idk if I can call it trauma.
    -gets perverted by classmates
    -got spitted, slapped, felt useless because of my classmates
    It’s night so i will spread more info tommorow

  • @muzafarchowdhury5786
    @muzafarchowdhury5786 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know i have childhood trauma, and i am slso scared of going to school

  • @Raikanthopeniii
    @Raikanthopeniii 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lemme also trauma dump
    Before covid:
    Faced bullying frm people who I assumed were "friends" nd also people who were not I had to say sorry on my birthday because someone broke the line nd stood in front of me the day before nd when I tried to stand back she pushed me nd I almost fell causing me to hold her hand to manage my position in which I accidentally scratched her
    Left out frm frnds while lunch until I have good food but my bestfriend (even now) were mostly there sometimes they were not cause yk our friendship was sorta toxic at tht point I kean we were kids
    Parents argument in front of me I dont remember an outing that they hadn't argued nd I came back crying in backseat I still remember being embaressed and envious of my cousins parents I never saw them argue so much my parents were arguing upstairs which we didn't know we were about to go out I told her "lets go down . they having a misunderstanding" holding my f'ing tears down
    Always disappointed in myself I remember crying at an olympiad cause I couldn't get medal thinking of disappointing others without recognizing how much it takes to get the certificates nd tht ive got to it
    I didn't want to learn karate I was in 3rd I remember my grandpa pinching me nd shouting on me right in front of all the students I couldn't look at theie faces coming back home h beat me out of embarrassment my grandma tried to stop him nd then only I realised how force full he was beating my grandmas gold bangle bended ..
    My mom is a pharmasict my grandma used to tell every lil thing I did after she comes home frm the work and stress she losses it nd beats me up
    While covid:
    Dad accused for cheating we dk if he actually did
    Parents almost divorced
    In between that people using meh as an example to my father like "if someone grabs her badly tomorrow you can't do anything cause you cheated" I was used as an example that disgusted me but I was never heard not once they told "elders are speaking" oh yeah they spitting shit so I cant spit facts on their face
    When he stayed away frm home because he didn't want to justify anything cause he hadn't done anything I called him I told him "papa come back home na they will let you speak I will tape their mouths for you just tell whats going on I trust you" all I got was "nah they won't shut up you are lying you dont trust me" I screamed right on the staircase where I was talking to everyone was pretty horrified by my condition I used to scream at them my grandpa meant good for my father but his words was absolute toxic yeah I agree he prayed for my father nd stuff but still thinking tht it will lead my father to right path sometimes he used to backstab my father to an extent once I grabbed him by his neck and punched him to stop him from speaking before covid at this time between all this he was still doing that especially this time I used scream at them
    All the depression nd anxiety took over me i became a self hurting piece of sh!t I became silent I gained weight cause yea I hid my periods for two years cause I just became silent at the time I was at moms place because dad attempted suicide mom could no longer take it nd yea she took me nd brother to her place so I didn't talk about periods either so no proper care causing some bad body nd wonderfully my parents unknowingly bodyshamed me they wanted me to be healthy but since they were determined to follow their parents path they used harsh words I was like taking a little food tpo much water nd 24hrs 6hrs sleep 5 hrs study nd the remaining 13 hrs dance music nd excersise I ended up puking only water nd almost fainting due to tge diet my father told
    in between tht I got bullied in tution it was near my house so
    Nd my grandparents forgot my birthday yeyyy
    Lockdown almost over:
    I lost my sh!t I bullied tht boy back I cursed him on the road threw my shoe at his PP cause he tried to throw my shoe into the other house nd guess what boy had some organs problem at the time (not cause of me) do I care? Absolutely not
    I demanded my family to get the relatives outta the situation I told openly that they want nothing else but dramas. Was the problem over? Hell yeah I made everyone talk to eachother nd they all did trauma dumping on me but I couldn't~
    I had my lovely online frnds though we all were kpop fans nd had our traumas so
    Still used to self hurt but one of my online frnds made me stop
    After covid:
    Went for a counselling with mom nd dad even though I was noy depressed now I had the past hints but doc ended up telling tht if it increases I had to take medicine cause when my grandma nd mom argued cause of my bro nd mom kicked brother like she used to do to me she stopped but then suddenly she burst out cause moms mom who was with us in rent house cause we didn't go back to papas house though its a gud relationship with papa mom not ready to go back to tht house and when she kicked my bro I took him and locked him nd I told ill hurt em they didn't hear nd since I was no longer afraid of hurting myself I decided to scream and cut myself not deep just kept scratching my hand using scissors but it was visible
    All is well
    School opened
    Marks are low cause all tht affected my memory nd stuff my focus nd every thing
    But the people who bullied me also changed nd now comes to me nd talks somehow got pretty popularly nd have friends tht I don't even know name of now cause there are definitely too many
    Went to taekwondo to reduce remaining weight nd self defence too bad I got nail injury while kicking nd when I took a leave to heal the new teacher taught too fast nd I moved on to basketball
    Study pressure intensified this year but yea ok
    Mom got sick on lungs post pneumonia nd we had to take our cat out cause yk fur is flying everywhere so I was sad abt tht but moms alr now nd two stray kittens and their mom is staying in our home now cause they wanna 😂
    I became pretty gud at dance and I still dance for comfort cause its my passion since young like 3 yrs I used to follow the dance on tv but as an introvert didn't dance in public till its nursery annual day or a wedding but now dance on toilet to busstop shamelessly
    Mom and dad way less toxic I should say they became ideal parents though they dont stay in one house they changed themselves nd I have my people asking me if I could exchange them
    En we brought a new house
    I became a shameless extrovert tomboy making friends everywhere
    Both my grandpas died though one cause of heart attack one had cancer but I stopped being a crybaby nd yeah I was just responsible in their funeral nd later occasions for them everyone at funeral liked meh moi sarcastic lose mouth that know when to stop being lose nd yeah lost a few frnds because of arguments but I never really thought that would last anyway so not painful we still in gud terms though though

  • @mustardman4153
    @mustardman4153 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Totally no childhood trauma 😁.
    Jk 😃

  • @biaklianakhiangte4911
    @biaklianakhiangte4911 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im with all of it.

  • @sumam5547
    @sumam5547 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam solution for it

  • @Kash_does_care
    @Kash_does_care 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's based on a true story. A young girl said this before she killed herself. This girl was one of my friends.."he kidnapped me and threw me in a car when I was 12.. he was gay but found interest in me. He decided to do all kinds of things to me. He never got arrested when I escaped. when I turned 14, I saw him again, but to escape, I had to burn my own house. Now that im safe, he still haunts me"

  • @jackdude7105
    @jackdude7105 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well, I'm 10 and I'm depeched.

  • @Giyuusdeadbestie
    @Giyuusdeadbestie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had this trauma about my childhood, i was so around 9 at the time and once, in the middle of the night while my mom was asleep i used to call a unknown number accidentally. My mom didnt wake up but, i started to hide under my blanket scared. To this day, im still scared to call a unknown number in the night accidentally.😰
    BTW they didnt call back, they would decline so i was really lucky.

  • @Mo-.
    @Mo-. 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Where tf is the rest of the video

  • @liam12445
    @liam12445 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man im in the corner crying rn because of this
    Im eight years old rn and i feel like i have been at the most trauma then everyone else.
    Trauma: 1 - 10x in eight years old.
    Trauma: 2 - 9x in seven
    Trauma: 1 - 2x in six...
    Dont really think its that bad....
    • •
    ' ^ '

    • @Farrah_Rxse
      @Farrah_Rxse 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Backstory? Wtf happened 💀

  • @enhypain.
    @enhypain. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im qll.

  • @colinchidgey716
    @colinchidgey716 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1 😢

  • @bollipallivenkat1325
    @bollipallivenkat1325 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want mam.ur suggestions please

  • @gracielovez
    @gracielovez 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    why is it when i try and get advice on trauma, it’s always about childhood and isn’t helping all the other people suffering. I almost died from an aggressive pitbull terrier

  • @loveheart09
    @loveheart09 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello, I'm Ember(I'm 9 )and recently my dad got in an accident. If anyone replies, I'll tell the full story

  • @BIANCAWHITEHOUSE
    @BIANCAWHITEHOUSE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m tryna figure out if I clicked on a deferent video

  • @hannahviolet927
    @hannahviolet927 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not sure if she knows but the video didnt post correctly

  • @2okaycola
    @2okaycola 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah and

  • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206
    @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👀 I want her to be my mommy & heal my childhood trauma 😂

  • @ST4RRYMARS
    @ST4RRYMARS ปีที่แล้ว

    I have trauma of gross videos