Don't Handle Rejection Like This 🚩

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    If you can't handle rejection, there's a very good chance you're going to end up on the front page of Reddit. Here are 4 examples of some of the wildest attempts and I give my reaction to them.
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    Intro 0:00
    1st Example 0:32
    2nd Example: 2:48
    3rd Example: 6:24
    4th Example: 9:02
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  • @highonhopium
    @highonhopium 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +653

    I hate how some people don't understand that A NO IS A COMPLETE ANSWER. you dont always owe an explanation for your decision to say no

    • @ashleysonnenburg1704
      @ashleysonnenburg1704 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      You NEVER owe anyone an explanation as why you say no. If they have an issue with your answer then that's a them problem 😊

    • @TheDutchessOfCornville
      @TheDutchessOfCornville 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Boy, do I have family like that. Can’t accept a “no” without getting hella defensive and offended.

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      You especially don't owe an explanation to a complete stranger

    • @cristyablad
      @cristyablad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      It is so weird. Growing up as a kid if parents said no and I asked why they basically would occasionally say "because I said so" (if they were tired or the no was complicated). I think the only time it is ok to have to explain no is TO CHILDREN, because they are learning to be people. And you should also explain to them it is ok to say no and also what consent is (in an age appropriate way of course). I feel like if this happens when you're young maybe, JUST MAYBE, you would understand no as an adult. But then again, uh... who knows.

    • @CexemHexem
      @CexemHexem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly, people honestly don’t always deserve a conversation either.

  • @stremingle32
    @stremingle32 หลายเดือนก่อน +236

    As someone who has been told "Have fun with your cats" THANKS BRO 😂 my cats are 1000% better than 99% of men I know 😂😂

    • @RachelSings21
      @RachelSings21 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Hahaha this 😂

    • @megand12345
      @megand12345 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly, like yes i will 😂

    • @bluetickbeagles116
      @bluetickbeagles116 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      So are our doggos ❤

    • @michellemueller7288
      @michellemueller7288 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes! My cat Rio is such a good boy! ❤

    • @pleasestopscreaming
      @pleasestopscreaming หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yeah, this is not the insult they think it is!

  • @mirnamg1
    @mirnamg1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +248

    This is insane but when I was in the dating scene, I actually felt relief when a man insulted me or some part of my anatomy after I rejected him because him being offensive meant he finally understood no meant no.

    • @OGK-1414
      @OGK-1414 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      That's a sad truth but an accurate way of looking at it.

    • @qafgurlbandj5972
      @qafgurlbandj5972 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And also that you didn't invest more time in someone who was sure to treat you like crap later.

  • @TheDutchessOfCornville
    @TheDutchessOfCornville 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +244

    2:20 Jesus dude, have some dignity. She already said “no” far nicer than she needed to be. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @TheDutchessOfCornville
      @TheDutchessOfCornville 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      4:21 i don’t mind playful sexual banter that’s consensual between two adults, but Jesus, 1) you don’t do that shit in front of your kids 2) if your partner is OBVIOUSLY not into it, KNOCK THAT SHIT OFF and 3) prescription meds can absolutely change someone’s personality, but if the changes are making other people this uncomfortable, TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR
      Edit: Some of these messages make me feel like I’m watching To Catch A Predator and Chris Hanson is gonna come out in a turtleneck and tell dude to “have a seat”.

  • @cynsabonorris1924
    @cynsabonorris1924 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    "You need Christ" lololol Dustin, these guys need an exorcist.

    • @Serai3
      @Serai3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Christ was pretty good at that IIRC.

  • @spiritedwolfe
    @spiritedwolfe หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Oh gawd, as a woman, that is single, this is actually 90 percent of the messages that I get, and the moment that i turn a " man" down, the insults come. Oh boy.

    • @x941bri_
      @x941bri_ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yup. Insecure little boys.

  • @saragerardo6089
    @saragerardo6089 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    The stories I could tell of messages I’ve gotten. Complete strangers, not even bothering to say “hello,” then they get upset when I’m not interested. People are disgusting.

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      i might have to do a follower-submitted segment because my audience has been saying similar stuff

    • @Fragmented_Mask
      @Fragmented_Mask หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please do! I was once having a genuinely pleasant conversation with a guy and trying to set a date up. Then out of the blue I get a message saying "I want to pin you down and forcefully suck on your pussy". Like... my dude, if you just went on the date and it went well I'd have had sex with you, but now you blew it, so congrats on cockblocking yourself I guess 🙄

    • @cats333tube
      @cats333tube 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Seriously once had a guy begin a dating app convo with “do you like anal?”.

    • @malooskitty9124
      @malooskitty9124 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      One time a guy from tinder put my picture and phone number on an adult site cuz I decided not to go on a date with him due to obvious red flags. Honestly the two guys that texted me from that site were more understanding when I told them what was up. Had to email the website to take my info down.

    • @cats333tube
      @cats333tube 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@malooskitty9124 that doesn’t surprise me at all.

  • @dimitritucker1077
    @dimitritucker1077 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I appreciate it when people show their true colors *before* any dating starts.
    I think I'm going to stay single and open a bird sanctuary.

    • @user-wi9hv2pb2q
      @user-wi9hv2pb2q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I did that. never looked back. I feel like any man in the world could learn from a bird how to handle rejection. they accept and move on.

  • @carpediem18x
    @carpediem18x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    A goblin? That dude straight up turned into a demon. Oofff 🚩

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      DEMON MODE

    • @scottytoast5
      @scottytoast5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Hey come on, that's an insult to demons ;--;

  • @lms1068
    @lms1068 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Last date I went on, blind date for coffee. He asked what my breeding statistics were because at 29 i didn't have children. So asked if I had something wrong with me or my previous partners. He actually had the balls to ask for a 2nd date and say that he only wanted someone honest and good to date after I said no.

    • @raynellemccathern3018
      @raynellemccathern3018 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What did say when he asked you that dumbass question

    • @Kanetsugi
      @Kanetsugi 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What the actual frick??? Lol talk about dodging a bullet

  • @fishwaterhazarddelta2434
    @fishwaterhazarddelta2434 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    As a woman with a public instagram profile, I get messages from guys ALL the time like that seconf example. I can’t even IMAGINE any of them getting married

    • @hearts4pinkie_
      @hearts4pinkie_ หลายเดือนก่อน

      i can only imagine how annoying that is for you, it’s like cant men have a normal conversation with people, specially women without feeling the need to bring up sexual things

    • @itsgrace717
      @itsgrace717 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I feel this 😭
      I had to make my Instagram private after a random guy became OBSESSED with me. He went back YEARS on my profile liking every picture, sent me message requests, FOUND MY FACEBOOK, and then tried multiple times to call me on Messenger. It was horrifying.

    • @fishwaterhazarddelta2434
      @fishwaterhazarddelta2434 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@itsgrace717 noooooo girl I’m so sorry :(

  • @BoldBama
    @BoldBama หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    So glad I’m off dating apps. One dude called me all sorts of names because I wouldn’t meet him right away….then would text incessantly saying he’s sorry, then when I left him on read he called me fat, ugly..all the names. I’m like well, what does it say about you that not even a “ugly” and “fat” girl wants you? 😂 I may be mid on looks but definitely wasn’t fat. Sad little man.
    The second one kept insisting that when we meet up that I wear black stockings and he wanted to rub my feet. It was giving, “it rubs the lotion on its skin.” I was like dude, I was just hoping to catch a movie and eat some nachos, not end up locked in a basement and prepped for a skin suit.
    Y’all be safe out there, people be freaky.

  • @R4DLEY
    @R4DLEY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    “Mario” followed by “ok” is easily the funniest back and forth text I’ve ever seen.

  • @shadesofcallum
    @shadesofcallum 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    the fact that these people actually exist is genuinely terrifying

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      See what they say if you're an online gamer and a woman.😅

  • @SpringAmbiance
    @SpringAmbiance หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Women DO NOT want to talk about sex with strangers.

    • @user-zs2io8cg7c
      @user-zs2io8cg7c 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's not even that women don't want to talk about sex with strangers. It's that the men who are doing this want free sex from women they think they can shame into not being sexually liberated. There's plenty of places that people from all walks of life converge to engage in and talk about sexual things. But these guys don't want that, because when they aren't safe, sane and consentual, they act like this. The people who do this are the same people who would go to a steak house and demand a burger not otherwise on the menu because they're both beef.

  • @FreyjaRKim
    @FreyjaRKim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I'm really struggling with men who can't take a no as an answer. A man who knew my partner even couldn't take a no when I said I wasn't interested in him at all. I just don't know how to handle them, especially in real life situation.

    • @Kris.with.a.K
      @Kris.with.a.K 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Please know this...
      it is not on YOU to "handle them," it's 100% on THEM to handle disinterest. You have done absolutely nothing wrong by saying "no" or otherwise denying them. ❤

    • @FreyjaRKim
      @FreyjaRKim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@Kris.with.a.K Yeah, I meant how to deal with them as in how to get away from them and stop them from pressing on. I literally had to walk away from a man that followed me after sitting next to me at the movies, kept trying to strike a conversation even though I clearly was brisk walking away from him. I had been in situations where I couldn't just cut the man off. I just don't know how else to make them listen and leave me alone. 😞

    • @nickivitadamo5426
      @nickivitadamo5426 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I once had a friend of several years start hitting on me after my ex and I broke up. I very sincerely just said I wasn’t interested in sleeping with him. He asked why. I was like umm first of all im seeing someone. I’m friends with your wife. And I told you I was not interested in you that way. He said I was being an “ice queen” and that he would “wear me down” eventually. Like what??

    • @FreyjaRKim
      @FreyjaRKim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@nickivitadamo5426 I feel you, sis. Oftentimes they think that we are playing hard to get when we actually mean what we said. And it was your friend's husband? Gosh, that must have been a nightmare to deal with.

    • @EmyEgy31
      @EmyEgy31 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nickivitadamo5426 you should tell his wife.

  • @maef7026
    @maef7026 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Because some people act like s&x is a "need" and not a "want", and even if it was a need nobody is entitled to another person's body, there are other ways you can take care of that, buddy. / The guy that was angry with his wife and randomly screamed "t*tties", I thought he just read some bdsm nsfw stuff on the internet and was trying to act it out without telling her. Some people think it's alright to act out some scenario from their heads and then they get upset that other people aren't mind readers and they don't know what that person is talking about. My friend's ex would get mad at her because he tried to act out some sexual stuff from some anime and he said he was testing her if she watched the anime he told her to watch(except the anime list he gave were different series that would probably take over a year to watch) as if he has any right to assign her that kind of "homework". XD

    • @MissPuppy468
      @MissPuppy468 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Also, like even the heaviest bdsm stuff necessitates consent. Like, if there's no consent it is no longer bdsm, is a CRIME, assault or exhibitionism or harassment. Doing it without the other person knowing it's coming is not bdsm. Even if someone "wants to be surprised".... there has to be an explicit conversation first!

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@MissPuppy468
      Damn bloody right. I’m into that community is it’s all about boundaries, consent, and trust.
      I couldn’t imagine ever just going off into a kink or fantasy without talking it through.

  • @LiLac22281
    @LiLac22281 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Last guy... So I'm guessing he got so triggered by rejection that he didn't see the part where she said that she RETURNED something? You know, to get money back?? 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @mzkaydee
    @mzkaydee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I was once told I was going to be alone forever because I was a “socially awkward prude” because I didn’t wanna hang out with someone, there was more to it but that was the most memorable part. 🙃

    • @fluffycat2728
      @fluffycat2728 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh I’m sorry! You will find someone if you haven’t already!❤️

  • @Leechwife
    @Leechwife 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Dude, you jumping around with the flag... Is Hilarious 😂 Thank you for that "extra" in your videos ✌️

  • @nina-raedelong158
    @nina-raedelong158 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm a single Christian woman. If the guys in these stories talked to me like that, both of their phone numbers would get blocked.

  • @vyvyancole8577
    @vyvyancole8577 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    "Yeah, OJ does need help" 😂

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      that aged well 💀 said this just days before he passed. oop

  • @Kris.with.a.K
    @Kris.with.a.K 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Just saw that you're making YT your main platform. HOORAY!🎉 Keep up the amazing work, Dustin! It's appreciated and definitely NEEDED! I promise to get more shirts soon. I still love the ones I've gotten. Much love to you and yours!! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      THANK YOU for the $50 Super Thanks! That is awesome! And thank you so much for the love and support! Already working on the next YT vid, should be out next Thursday. Truly appreciate you!

  • @charliebslilgurl1132
    @charliebslilgurl1132 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    7:40
    Talked himself OUT of her pants...😬

  • @SteviiLove
    @SteviiLove หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have never used any expression like "I need a breather from my child". I have always called it a day off because for the longest time, i didn't know what to dowith myself when he waa gone for the night or weekend.

  • @mariahlehman9777
    @mariahlehman9777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    You running with the red flag actually breathes life into me LOL

  • @pleasestopscreaming
    @pleasestopscreaming หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love the breathy "whououoore" and "fuuhhhhh" 😂😂

  • @AurorasAreNice
    @AurorasAreNice 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Abusive people (men) on dating apps is amazingly high. Immature, and lack the ability to handle rejection, need control, and actually seem to become crazy and dangerous only after getting the phone number and off the apps. This is why I won't let a guy know where I live, do anything than meet in a public place like a coffee shop. And, I make sure no one has put a GPS locator on my car or me of any sort, or follow me. The worst is, these guys will take a quick pic of you and your car when you're getting in if they see you get out of it, so they know your license plate info (a lot of states that info is public records that people can and do look up). This means they cross over to dangerous stalker rather fast.
    And, this is what leads to some women just ghosting and blocking men as a practice right after a gentle buh bye.

  • @Eden-Alex
    @Eden-Alex หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The “mmmmh IM A GOBLIN” had me spitting my drink - dude 😅

  • @hollisshore2211
    @hollisshore2211 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The OJ comment aged perfectly 😂

  • @SharkNomNom-ns6qu
    @SharkNomNom-ns6qu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The Mario commentary provided some much needed levity after that dark content. Thank you

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      silly goose dialect is how i get through darkness. thank you 🙏

  • @SarahRigsby
    @SarahRigsby หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your pronunciation of “wh00hhr3” really sent me 😂😂😂 glad you’re on TH-cam more and I don’t have to wait for Instagram algorithm to decide when I get to watch 🥳

  • @hearts4pinkie_
    @hearts4pinkie_ หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    those are the people that are always like “why am i single? why don’t girls wanna date me?” they don’t accept No for an answer, not even a few minutes into the conversation they feel the need to ALWAYS bring up sex or anything related, it’s like that’s the only thing they want in a relationship and it honestly pisses me off

  • @mandyg8022
    @mandyg8022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    That last dude...where is your car and gas money, lol.

  • @Kidaru
    @Kidaru หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Men wonder why women choose the bear

  • @dianajones4639
    @dianajones4639 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Even prior to all the drug related speculation- hearing you, an adult cis man, saying “this is disgusting gross caveman behavior” makes me feel so much better about the world. Because sometimes on the internet it feels like all you hear is stories of “men being bad” with women saying it’s gross.
    Hearing a man call it out as whack is much needed!

  • @SensationallySilky
    @SensationallySilky หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Not sure how you landed in my algorhythm but I needed something to listen to while I'm at work and boy you did NOT disappoint... HOWLING

  • @jinx7501
    @jinx7501 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've learned something when dealing with situations where you need/want to say no.
    Say it.
    No apology "I'm sorry but", no explanation, and no soft answer. You don't need to be a jerk. You don't need to go off on them. A passive answer can give the vibe that if they keep trying, maybe you'll change your mind. Again, you don't need to be rude or aggressive. But no means no. Simple, straightforward, and stay within your personal boundaries. If they can't respect your boundries, they aren't the one for you.

  • @lhproductions61
    @lhproductions61 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    A guy I used to work with keeps making fake accounts to try catfishing me-even though I’ve told him NO in person, in front of people online all the things.

  • @mattgmurray
    @mattgmurray หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "Don't do drugs?" I'm just supposed to exist in this world sober?

    • @greenpiersystem
      @greenpiersystem 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Rephrase:
      Don't do drugs that will kill you, and the golden rule is such...
      IF USING SOMETHING MAKES YOU A SHITTY HUMAN BEING, OR OTHERWISE SICK, EITHER STOP OR WHAT YOU DO IS ENTIRELY ON *_YOU._*
      We use weed. Strong shit (hell, we can actually recite the ingredients in the gummies we take: 22mg THC-9 [the usual,] 47 mg HHC [similar to THC, but tends to be weaker,] 1.5 mg THC-9-P [THCP is thought to be anywhere from 5x to 33x stronger than it's run-of-the-mill cousin, due to having a longer chain to attach to more receptors, so 1.5 can be equivalent to almost 50 mg of THC-9,] 1.5 mg HHC-9-P [thought to be 9-10 times stronger than THC-9, this would be worth 15 mg,] 1.5 mg THC-9-H [this is thought to be 5 to 25x, so this can be up to 37.5 mg in equivalent] and 1.5 mg THC-9-B [this has conflicting claims, with some saying it's weaker than THC and others saying it's in the 30x ballpark, slightly less than THC-P, which was discovered at the same time by the same team. The confusion seems to stem from the fact that it seems to be indeed be stronger, but it's psychoactive effects are less than THC since it seems to focus on more healing parts of the endocannabinoid system, even outpacing THC itself for helping with things like glaucoma, so it's more but less, strangely enough. 45 mg.])
      *IT BLOWS OUR ASS AWAY.* We have to be careful to not green out because it can get to that point if we get anxious.
      But we control ourselves. Our parents (we are 21, don't worry) were given the bottle, and we're only allowed ONE every 3 days so we can tune out and have a break from our hell of a life where we don't even have a chance to leave the house until the weekend. (Music is our life, since we've taken full advantage of our ASD hearing sensitivity, and we wear our headphones perpetually to help stim without fidgeting. We listen, based on Spotistats, anywhere from 7 to 16 hours EVERY DAY, with lower times only occurring when we spend time on TH-cam instead. So music becoming EVEN MORE DETAILED is definitely our favorite part.)
      If we knew for sure that it was bad, like causing weed-induced psychosis (something that can actually happen and basically ruin your life even after it happened) we'd stop IMMEDIATELY.
      If we wouldn't, and became psychotic again, though, that's on us. Because we would have known that it makes us crazy and still did it anyway. It's not like we're forced to take them.
      So doing amphetamines is both A) fucking dangerous [as an abused drug, not as medication, don't get in a twist over Adderall or Ritalin, our stepfather takes Ritalin for his ADHD, and our mother Adderall for hers, so we know that amphetamines when used properly can be helpful. Elon is a fucking idiot for implying it's the same as using meth] since it has no health benefits and actually makes you sicker, which recreational weed and alcohol at least have benefits [in alcohol's case, people do not give enough credit to ethanol. It's actually a really good way to nullify the toxins both in a drink and from shit like overdosing on certain medications. It gets a bad rap for essentially being a water-down additive in drinks and gasoline, but it definitely has its perks] and B) it actually has the tendency to make people violent.
      If you know that taking amphetamines is making you violent or hypersexual, it is ON YOU to stop taking it. Your actions are not nullified by being high or drunk because YOU were the one who initiated that altered state and YOU had the chance to think about potential consequences before using it.
      It's also on you to get help if you need it. As they always say, "help is available." You can call at ANY TIME and get checked in if you need someone to help you break an addiction. But that is entirely on YOU to do. The onus is not on your family or friends to help you, YOU need to initiate that.
      -🗻

  • @savannahsand3439
    @savannahsand3439 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    PLEASE DO MORE LONG FORM CONTENT AHHHH I LOVE IT

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Got 2 more long videos coming this week!

  • @ashleysonnenburg1704
    @ashleysonnenburg1704 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Look for the second story, I definitely believe drugs of some kind are involved. My ex was big into cocaine and he would do this sort of thing after he started doing it. He just randomly say sexual things out of nowhere

    • @cristyablad
      @cristyablad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought maybe he had a form of dementia or tourettes (?) both of which are relatively harmless and the second of which is more likely to result in having a tic than screaming or swearing which is what some people think for some reason but yeeeeeeahhhhhh... Drugs makes WAY more sense. I do not know why I didn't think of that first 🤦‍♀️

  • @JahmJahm-uj2ef
    @JahmJahm-uj2ef 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is the best type of video for my ADHD. I don't need to watch it at 2× speed cause the topics aren't dragged out for longer content and I get excited for the random cuts of you either gearing up to red flag a post or flag twirling 😂😂😂 subscribed immediately ✨

  • @IceFoxPlaysActual
    @IceFoxPlaysActual หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have severe adhd so I take a specific kind of amphetamine but when I got super sexual with my gf it’s when I’m off it, but when I take my meds again it kills my libido, could just be because of the dosage or kind I’m on or could be my ADHD that is the reason

  • @esmooth919
    @esmooth919 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    6:24 🤮
    I wasn't the greatest at taking rejection, but not even EYE was this bad! WTAF?!

  • @jamielynnalaband5628
    @jamielynnalaband5628 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    moment i heard “lancaster” and “LA” i knew the guy was gonna be wackxD

  • @sadie1606
    @sadie1606 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It worked. I saw your reel on FB and now I am here. Woohoo crossplatform marketing.

  • @writermommy3872
    @writermommy3872 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have never hit subscribe so fast! Im so happy youre here just in case the ban goes through. Youre one of my favorite creators.

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much!! Seriously means a ton. Sadly I'm still not able to earn from Facebook and it's been over a month. So all of the love I've been getting on here has been awesome and very motivating. This is now my main platform and I'm just going all out with it right now.

  • @kimberlyluttenbacher1475
    @kimberlyluttenbacher1475 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love your videos; thank you so much!

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      KIMBERLY! Thank you so much for the donation it really means a lot!!

  • @samanthac.349
    @samanthac.349 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s DMs like that I consciously quit online dating when I was single. At the time, I realized I was happier in my platonic relationships with my pets and friends than dealing with unsolicited, insulting booty calls.

  • @crystalgemgirl731
    @crystalgemgirl731 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the fact that you not only have a scroll, but a literal giant red flag.🤭

  • @ukamikazu
    @ukamikazu 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That 2nd story reminded me of something. There are some brain cancers, especially ones that grow or contaminate the frontal lobe, temporal lobe, parietal lobe and pituitary gland that can cause hypersexuality. So it could be that, or as the Reddit user suggested, stimulant abuse.

  • @user-oe9uv2gx4g
    @user-oe9uv2gx4g หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Many men just can't help but twist any conversation towards sex. It's so anoying.

  • @mariahlehman9777
    @mariahlehman9777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Imagine how different the comments would be if a woman made this video. Rabid “this is the problem with modern women” would be all up in the comments foaming and ripping out their hair.

  • @middledog466
    @middledog466 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    4:19 that died sounds like a neurological issue. that's so stressful. tbi, drugs, tumor, you're on the nose with that

  • @JennDepsycho
    @JennDepsycho 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    3:36 "OJ does need help"
    *fast forward one month later* OOP, too late for any help for OJ now. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @SapphireBones
    @SapphireBones 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Unrelated, but has anyone ever told you how much you look like Dan Avidan from Game Grumps?

  • @The_Nightsong
    @The_Nightsong 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My cats has proven to be more loyal, honest and protective than any person I know 😆😆😆 so I will have a lot of fun with them haha!!! And I hate how some people seem to think that "no" is the beginning of a negotiation instead of the end of the discussion.

    • @theveganduolingobird7349
      @theveganduolingobird7349 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If your cats don’t like something you’re doing they just tell you. Wish if I said something wrong people would just hiss at me instead of holding it as a grudge for years

  • @auroranila9431
    @auroranila9431 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You trying to read the third example had me dying but sadly its like that sometimes. Makes me wonder how often it works for them. They definitely don't think they are the problem.

    • @cristyablad
      @cristyablad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think it works for them per se, it is more like if you try 10,000 times and it happens once by chance they'll keep going. So I wouldn't call that percent a success. But it is like people who won the lottery and then all the millions of people who didn't lol.

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Honestly I don't think it works for them. That's why they get so upset when they get denied, because they're so sick of it not working. But they keep doing it because they'd rather do that than attempt a connection and actually get close to someone, because that's terrifying to them

  • @Kitty_12211
    @Kitty_12211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That hahahahahaha got me fr 😭

  • @aprilmulder4612
    @aprilmulder4612 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That second one sounds like some form of brain issues, tumour, knock to the head - something

  • @navkuku
    @navkuku หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    YESSSSS I get more of the flag fella while working without having to doom scroll, my week has been made

  • @x941bri_
    @x941bri_ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think I speak for all of us women when I say THANK YOU for being a green flag and a good example. We need more men like you to give us faith in man kind again 😂

  • @itsjustmaddisen
    @itsjustmaddisen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember one time a guy messaged me and when I turned him down, he threatened to grape me if he ever saw me... I'm happy being single lol.

  • @funsizedpenguin3772
    @funsizedpenguin3772 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi! I just wanna say I love your videos. It gives me lessons I didn't even know I needed!

  • @lazarus8447
    @lazarus8447 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Theirs one good thing... OJ no longer needs help.

  • @Hyderagean
    @Hyderagean 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just remembered that 'pushin 190 - 200 was an insult that Lip made at a painting on his girlfriend's wall in her dorm room. Dude was shamelessly quoting shameless. 😭

  • @Daisybcratz
    @Daisybcratz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m so excited!!!

  • @esmooth919
    @esmooth919 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    2:48 Something is legitimately wrong with this guy. Like, get him to the psych ward, *_stat!!!_* We have a mental health crisis on our hands!

  • @cheyenneramsey6967
    @cheyenneramsey6967 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Maybe I only find this hilarious because I’ve luckily never experienced this kind of bullshit first hand or maybe it’s just the way you narrate it. 😂😂😂

  • @heatherkelley334
    @heatherkelley334 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my god this is the best thing I have watched haha subscribed you are freaking hilarious!

  • @persephoneblue4276
    @persephoneblue4276 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Woohoo you’re on TH-cam 👍

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      indeed i am! 2 more long videos coming this week 🎥

  • @lina9535
    @lina9535 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So a few weeks ago, my cheating tick of an ex came crawling back into my DMs, wanting me back.
    I told him no, and he just lost it on me.
    Was I the red flag for saying "have fun with your STD" before I blocked him?
    Note: A friend of mine that knows him had told me that he'd gotten an STD (most likely from the woman he cheated on me with, or one of them)

  • @spectilia3566
    @spectilia3566 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is completely besides the point, but, assuming the Lancaster comment means they are in the UK, then 26 miles actually kind of is far. It is really weird to think about, but, in Europe, a 30 min drive is considered far to the point of being very inconvenient. Where as, in the US, people regularly drive that to and from work every day. So, perspective.

  • @jenniferharrington917
    @jenniferharrington917 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New sub here...im binging everything you've done now❤❤❤😂

  • @shazv9018
    @shazv9018 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This has convinced me to never try a dating app.

  • @deboraluz251
    @deboraluz251 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Haa, im a goblin 😂

  • @kittytomaszewski236
    @kittytomaszewski236 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I deepertly want to know what happened with the wife and husband. Im a recovering crack addict, meth scared the fuck out of me. Where I used was a mix of crack addicts and meth addicts. The insane episodes of psychosis i witnessed were horrifying. Also the anger...just everything is chill, and like out of nowhere violent anger episodes. I've been clean now for 1 year and 4 months. I fear for her safety... I really hope she either left or he got help.

  • @lina9535
    @lina9535 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That 2nd example kind of makes me think of when people get brain injuried (or brain tumors) and their entire personality does a 180.

  • @bluetickbeagles116
    @bluetickbeagles116 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ….and men are baffled as women are decentering them and supporting the 4B movement.

  • @Ebolarama5000
    @Ebolarama5000 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That last one looks like it said FTL like Fort Lauderdale. As someone who lived and dated in Fort Lauderdale this tracks

  • @catsmeow5566
    @catsmeow5566 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Have you seen The Sad Sad Alpha Man by Vinny Marchi? If you look that up you can see him showing a very brief clip of a super creepy jerk saying "You do not have to accept her rejection". I've only seen that and a clip of the creep saying "Why would you not be interested'. No idea who the jerk is but He's most likely single.

  • @MissMelotte
    @MissMelotte หลายเดือนก่อน

    The second one…I was this type of child-hero also. But I have protected my parents (mainly my mum from my father) from each other. This is a huge huge burden to bear. Till this day I can feel consequences of this. Parents should be ones to protect their kids not the opposite 😢

  • @redmagelibra2897
    @redmagelibra2897 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't believe that people want to talk to each other like this.

  • @TormentoOscuro
    @TormentoOscuro หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And they wonder why we choose the 🐻

  • @flamiaminu5536
    @flamiaminu5536 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not to be an armchair psychologist but, the second one gives me vibes of something like undiagnosed tourette or bipolar? Unprompted obscenity, mood swings... something is off.

  • @flfb
    @flfb 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The green flag that is panicking that your gf's kid is in the next room

  • @arkansaninva
    @arkansaninva หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is why we choose the bear

  • @jeaniehat
    @jeaniehat หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is why we chose the bear.

  • @fieldsoftotaro
    @fieldsoftotaro หลายเดือนก่อน

    That OJ comment was... eerily timed, now that he passed

  • @lucyk9136
    @lucyk9136 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Dustin, just curious, where have all of your previous videos gone?

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      To be truthful with you and everyone who reads this, I archived them for multiple reasons. I have made TH-cam my main channel and I have a new style of content and different mindset from my previous videos. So I don't want to temporarily confuse the TH-cam algorithm on where to push my content. Additionally, I use VidIQ to help me with keywords and content opportunities, and my old content was making it difficult to use the tool because it was generating a bunch of topics and keywords that I didn't have use for.
      Lastly, I was very depressed during the filming of my old content and live videos. I just wasn't myself. I had a completely different view of the world at that time, I was overworking myself, I came off as quite aggressive when I'm actually not that way, and looking back on those videos makes me sad. Because I felt absolutely horrible and it was affecting my entire personality. I'm happy now and I genuinely want to make videos to call out things that are wrong and also light-hearted videos just to make people happy. My old videos don't reflect who I currently am or what my actual goals are.

    • @lucyk9136
      @lucyk9136 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That makes total sense. We grow, change and evolve. I started following you a while back when I was pretty depressed myself and you’ve been a light through some very dark days. I’m happy to hear that you’re doing better now 😊

  • @michellemueller7288
    @michellemueller7288 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No, it is a complete answer! We don't have to explain shit!

  • @caraslaboszewski2275
    @caraslaboszewski2275 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why I don't use dating apps

  • @sk8ergrrl1
    @sk8ergrrl1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Literally so glad I’m married. But if anything were to happen, I think I would just stay single for the rest of my life!

  • @Katakana-slayer-rd1pd-
    @Katakana-slayer-rd1pd- 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    3:17 you are amazing I’ve never laughed so hard 3:37

  • @katiatacod7732
    @katiatacod7732 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I DIDNT KNOW YOU HAD A TH-cam, immediately subscribed been following since the first video I saw of yours on Instagram, so excited to bringe all of your videos

    • @DustinPoynterVideos
      @DustinPoynterVideos  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I do! i just haven’t made it my main channel until now. this is going to be my focus moving forward. thanks for being here and checking it out!!

    • @katiatacod7732
      @katiatacod7732 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @DustinPoynterVideos I'm so excited for the content to come, you always do such a wonderful job, you are one of my absolute favorite creators and you replying just made my entire year, thank you so much for all you do and keep it up!!!

  • @StonedHunter
    @StonedHunter หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And then they wonder why more and more women/femmes are choosing to simply not date at all...

  • @IAmTheSarcasmQueen
    @IAmTheSarcasmQueen หลายเดือนก่อน

    *NO IS A VALID ANSWER!!!*

  • @manic_moonlight11
    @manic_moonlight11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have some disturbing stories.... i never want to bring them to light. I was SO SO SO NAIVE!!! Now, I'd rather die alone. Thanks fellas!! 👋