15 Minutes of Massive Red Flags
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The fact that this guy thinks that basic manners is too much pressure for a first date tells me you do not want to have a relationship with this man nor do you want to procreate with him.
Thank goodness that guy ks bad at making first impressions tbh
@@TheQuashingoftheTub This is always my sole comfort, that so many horrible people are incapable of hiding it. Of course too many are capable of hiding it but at least some are happy to tell on themselves publicly!
He wants a sex doll. That’s what he wants.
If all that stuff he mentioned was basic manners. Why don't women do this?
@@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 Maybe they don't in your circle of friends or the people you hang out. These kind of stuff I know it's done by me and my girl friends and also my male friends. I don't like hanging out with people that don't know how to be nice to others
The guy who was talking about expectations on the first date: you can SEE the other people around him glancing at each other like “is this dude fr?”
Griffin Maxwell Brooks is the blonde with the super funny "is he for real" reactions 😂
I believe they're also the person that the "am I a man, am I a woman, baby I'm an experience" audio comes from
Exactly
My man in the pink shirt was ready to throw hands
Right? They were giving him BOMBASTIC side eyes.
his idea of a perfect woman is an independent woman who doesn't need a man and also wouldn't want him 🤣🤣
"You don't have to be perfect. You just have to be honest." Truer words have never been spoken.
So you'll date a man who is honest about being married, an absent father, or a criminal? I'll take perfect or stay single lol. #4B
@@luthorforpresident9353 You say that as if it wouldn’t be significantly worse if the guy hid the fact that he was a married absent father with a criminal background, and you had to find out later.
@@luthorforpresident9353 There is a VAST gulf between 'perfect' and that.
The one dude that's 39 ( married at 31 ) and married the 23 year old ( at 15 )
That's SICK. How is that legal ANYWHERE!?!?? WTF 😒
It shouldn't be
unfortunately is depending on the Country. In Australia the legal age ranges from 15 - 17 depending on the State@@thatoneperson2604
Extra messed up part is that probably means her parents/legal guardian signed off approval.
It's legal in most states, just need a parent's signature. What's more messed up is a teenage girl found out this was legal in her state and attempted to convince her legislature to make it illegal and they wouldn't on the grounds she's just a teenage girl, what does she know? THEN WHY IS IT OKAY FOR HER PARENTS TO MARRY HER OFF TO WHAT IS A GROWN MAN LIKE 99.9% of the time as these girls aren't being married off to little boys.
@@MissKashiraso messed up!
Stuff like this makes me so grateful for my husband, whose only red flags were that he didn’t know the difference between a pie and a tart, and he didn’t know the difference between chili powder and paprika. I feel like I got out on the last chopper out of ’Nam.
this comment is so cute, im glad you two are married happily!!!
Omg, that’s literally my bf, he is from the northwest of our country, and I’m from the south, so we had a "fight" (we were just joking), about what is the right name of foods, and how I hate cuscuz and he loves it 😂
What is the difference👁️👄👁️
You keep talking don’t let nobody silence you I hate those people who just can’t stand others being happy because they don’t have a happy relationship. Stories yours prove to people like me that there are good guys out there. I know they’re good guys, but I’ve heard so many horror stories.
My boyfriend's red flag is that he didn't like spy kids 2
i know you probably won’t read this but you’ve inspired me that my life of abuse, neglect, and mistreatment at the hard hands of mxx isn’t all there is. good people aren’t dead! i will find my peace within and find someone who accentuates that peace. it CAN happen!
I feel the exact same way, I’m so happy I found this channel
I hope you can find happiness, and someone who increases it rather than detracting from it! I can tell you that my ex and my boyfriend are like night and day. When they're good and truly care to love and support you, there is so much less second guessing. You don't need to explain away the behavior of someone who only acts out of true good intention. The shift I saw in myself was unmistakable. I hope that you and everyone else who has suffered through bad relationships can experience this change!
Plan first. Bank some money in an account he doesn't know about, make an emergency kit, check out women's services near you, a steady relative or friend. Good luck.
It can hun❤
I hope you succeed in leaving (and staying away from! Sometimes it's hard to not return!) the toxic relationship! You don't deserve to be treated badly. You deserve to be loved and respected.
2:24 never get why people do that to their wives on their wedding day, imagine spending all day preparing your make up and hair, just for them to ruin it😭
Especially when she asked him NOT to do it.
@@thefirm4606 and then laughed when she got mad. Dudes a joke
How to spot the narcissist. He couldn't see how wrong that was because he's infallible and her feelings are ridiculous to him.
We'd be fine with it, but we also are planning to (when we find the right one) have a wedding where people can wear whatever the fuck they want as long as it's within reason.
It depends on your spouse. For us, it's fun, and we'd want to do a double (both partners smash the cake on each other's face, it's really cute if done right.) And we don't care about the makeup and shit because all we want to do that day is celebrate (same reason why we don't care about attire; we're ASD, a lot of our friends are neurodiverse, so why we'd make everyone wear uncomfortable clothes just to look "nice" when it's supposed to be celebrating love is just confusing. We'd want everyone to have a good time.) But if your spouse clearly doesn't think that way or see it that way, you should respect that.
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@@greenpiersystem Good for you. The case for a lot of these are that the bride specifially asked them, often multiple times, to NOT do it because they DO care. If you dont care and you're on the same page about the big day then cool, more power to you, but the issue here is their bride asking something really fkking easy (not shoving cake in their face) and their partner immediately dismissing them and doing it anyway as if their feelings dont matter.
“When they’re young you can train them.” My jaw hit the floor!
I'll never forget when a friend of mine commented that Woody Allen "raised his perfect girlfriend" regarding how he married his stepdaughter and nothing has ever been more disgustingly accurate. 🤢(Ps my friend was also disgusted, not impressed, in case that's misconstrued)
Yeah he was not even trying to deny it
He said the quiet part out loud
Yeah.
That's just modern version of "a woman should stay pure for her husband", because G-d forbid she realize that you're doing it wrong.
What is she a dog ‘oh sorry Arf’
Fun fact, everyone has their fertility start declining between 30-35. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, the quality of your half starts degrading at about the same time.
The good news about being female is that menopause kicks in and makes it impossible for women to continue having kids when doing so at advanced age puts the children at risk. But old men can just keep having kids with increasingly high rates of defects and mortality for both mom and baby, and people don't even question it. Most people don't even know that advanced age of the male parent can cause some pretty horrible problems.
I didn't even know this myself ! Didn't expect the age to be so low either, thats actually pretty interesting ^^ !
Guess the incels won't be happy to know they are also decreasing in fertility and so they aren't better than women lmaoo .
Meh, we have a superpopulation issue anyways, just fucking adopt kids and make sure you only do so when you have money to be a single mama cuz these men aint shit
Wow I did not know that, keep spreading the word!
Haemophilia is one of those particular defects! A man may not be born with the defect himself, but the older he is when he fathers children, the more likely it is that the daughters he fathers will be carriers of the defect and bear sons who are haemophiliacs.
i also read this somewhere! thanks for reminding
so many were objectively worse ("I like them young!"???) but somehow it was the puzzle guy that had me tear up for her .
Same. He took an opportunity to tear her down and guy’s defense will be, “It was a joke.” I’d love for him to reach some huge milestone on his PlayStation, only for her to walk over and smash it.
I know! My family all did a puzzle that was so hard to complete we actually had it glued and framed once it was finished. I eventually kept the piece and moved with it (although I don’t have it anymore).
She needs to leave him and find someone who respects her.
Her and the stocking wife, I was devastated for. Puzzle wife got her hard work torn down, and stocking wife got deliberately left out and implicitly told she wasn't worth remembering or given anything. Both are major power plays designed to devastate their self-esteem
@@lifelikelisa This is the same type of guy who would think deleting a Minecraft world your son and you worked for years on is a great punishment for a tiny infraction (this actually happened by the way.)
You shouldn't need to have it explained that TIME IS MONEY. Just because something is digital, or for fun, or some other bullshit excuse, doesn't mean that the time they spent DOESN'T MATTER.
Again, for anyone in the back, TIME IS MONEY. You only get 120 years on this planet at max, at least for now, and they decided to spend time on something THEY wanted to do, maybe even with you. And you decided that it was funny or appropriate to destroy that work.
The project may only cost 20 dollars but now you wasted months or years they will never get back.
This is the type of guy to ask "aita" for throwing out their wife's "trash" and actually taking out anything but the kitchen because women love kitchen.
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And she knows, he will dump her after she turns 20. P*dos don't like adult women
A friend of mine was only 19 when she was picked by an older guy. He specifically said he liked younger girls because he could "train" them. It was a horrible relationship that lasted over 7 years. She was suicidal by the end of it bc he was so manipulative and emotionally abusive. After the breakup he hooked up with a 17yr old (who has now turned 18).
That story is horrific. Hopefully your friend gets the therapy she needs to heal.
@@francestaylor9156 Oh, the really funny thing is that her (now) ex insisted that she needed therapy because he said she was the one with all the problems and he was perfect. The therapist told her that her narcissistic boyfriend was the problem and encouraged her to dump him. The only reason she got with him was to escape an abusive situation with her creepy stepfather. She'd been abused, neglected, and malnourished growing up. She's now married to my best friend- who was also abused and neglected while growing up and who had been in multiple relationships with abusive partners. They've been married since March and are extremely happy. They are still trying to adjust to being with someone who loves them, doesn't scream at them, and they treat each other with respect.
Quick question, why are you still friends with that person?
@@PraiseJ-PopeI think you may have misread. I did not say I am friends with the abusive guy. I said I'm friends with the girl who was picked up by him at 19. Some backstory on her: She was physically abused and neglected growing up and was in a situation where it seemed like her stepfather was already being creepy with her and sexually harassing her and she was afraid he was going to try to rape her and the older guy "rescued" her from that situation. He never let her forget it either.
@@francestaylor9156stop forcing victims into therapy.
How do u think that often works out?
The moment I left him, I felt good.
What is the therapy person for?
The abuser who will never go?
Just stop it with that victim blaming bs.
aw man the way she was so careful to hold the puzzle and so happy and proud she finished it 😭😭😭 my heart hurts
Like puzzles take work I would have been ticked!
It was so cruel of him to destroy it! Like, literally what was the point?!
@@the808songbird I’m convinced he just wanted to see the look of disappointment
Her poor face brought tears to my eyes! I really want an update on her and I hope she left him.
If ya find joy in seeing your partner sad...... seek therapy. Immediately.
"you can train them to be your perfect woman when theyre young" HAD ME GENUINELY FLOORED. ANYBODY WHO CAN CONFIDENTLY SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT OUT LOUD NEEDS A REALITY CHECK...
No they need a jail cell. Locked with a padlock and biometric scanner where the only biological match is cremated. That’s predatorial behavior.
@@LadyDestiney i agree 100%
Needs a psychiatrist
Bro literally said "I am the definition of a groomer", he needs to be locked up for life.
They need the FBI called to search their electronics for CP. Absolutely unhinged and disgusting.
The way life is rn… you’re gonna be waiving this flag forever. God bless your cardiovascular system. God bless your wrists, shoulders, knees and elbows. Please keep making these videos.
You can thank Andrew Tate for ruining an entire generation of men an turning them into sore losers.
We gotta pray the Numbers 6 blessing over him
Heaaads, shoulders, knees, and toes 🎵
What you said.
hate to break it to you, but this is how life has always been. at least wife beating isn't legal anymore lol
Ages: 19. 29.
Me: okay that’s not ideal but sometimes it’s fine.
*dude opens mouth*
Me: never fucking mind.
And her being drunk took it to the next level
Yes, and so many girls and young women ARE looking for a provider to ESCAPE the control of their families. I could have so easily fallen victim to a guy like this when I was that young. Domineering, authoritarian parenting creates flashing red targets on children who grow up with it. She is catching the man her upbringing turn her into the bait for!
I hope this blatant interview helps to open her eyes before it is too late.
It’s never fine when she is freaking 19 and that man is nearly 30
Unpopular opinion, 29 and 19 is never okay. Even 22 and 18 isn’t okay.
It depends. When I was 20 there was a mutual attraction between myself and another guy nearly a decade my senior. It didn’t go anywhere due to me being too busy to pursue a relationship at the time. Im sure I’ll have people tell me I was groomed. No. I wasn’t. We knew each other, there was a spark, but we were acquaintances at best. We had not spent enough time in each other’s company for me to be groomed. I was a lot more mentally mature at 20 than most of my peers. I wasn’t crazy about the age difference in my situation, just like I’m not crazy about huge age gaps in other situations but at the end of the day… Who people date, so long as everyone is an adult, is none of our business.
9:26 She said "Condoms?!?" Oh Lord, its five in the morning and my day is over! 😂😂
"Give him an iPad, he's doing the tablet toddler cough." AHAHAHAHA 🤣😂
That comment was spot on!
@lifelikelisa nowhere in that video did he act over 7
"Bride and groomer"
"Either read between the lines or look between the bars"
😭😭💀
These lines. These exact lines😂
Married 8 years. That seems like a solid marriage. Red Flag guy wants to break up a happy marriage? You okay with that. WTF.
I thing the red flag guy said that because 8 years ago the girl was 15 and the guy was 31.
@@korytoombs886 what the hell are you talking about? Marrying off a 15 year old child is child marriage and therefore child abuse and a big red flag that he or her family had groomed her. If he REALLY loves her, he could've waited for a few years to marry her until she is grown up und developed enough to make her own decision without relying on her parents. I'm shocked this is even allowed in the U.S. since this puts children in extremely dangerous and abusive positions where they lack a functioning support system and have no access to help. They have to be cared for and not treated like adults without giving them the possibility to fully consent to be treated like one.
God has no issue with it. Look at Mary and Joesph
The stocking one was so sad. It was almost like he purposefully didn't get her any stocking stuffers. She didn't even get Christmas chocolate (we always get chocolate oranges) or a candy cane.
I guarantee she bought all the stockings and thought he would get hers and he didnt
There's no way he did any of that shopping. He expected her to buy her own.
Me and my sibling made sure to tell our mom not to be in the room when we put gifts in her stocking, and her fiance got a little gift too, I love seeing my mom light up for gifts we give her, I wish other people loved that too :c
The stupid little questions too, like the whole thing was terribly cruel, talk about staying in it for the kids, she handled it like a pro but she looked hurt
“Is this extra” no my guy, but you’re definitely extra weight
Makes me wonder if it was just for the video, and he did get her stuff and gave it to her after just to watch her reaction.
I'm a woman and I open doors for people all the time. I'm not even on a date with them its just polite 😅 doesn't cost me anything to help out in this small way.
That's completely different to what the man was talking about. When you go on a date, you aren't required to do a ridiculous list of demands, such as opening the door for them, paying for their meal, and otherwise acting like you're desperate.
@@fe3613😮 it sounds like you sympathize with the guy. Everything he complained about is the bare minimum, even jerks can trick others into thinking they’re decent people with those gestures.
@fe3613 Most of the things he listed are "ridiculous", they're little thing, and, for the vast majority of woman, it's not like you miss one and you're done. Like, someone who's interesting and funny can but doesn't hold the door or walk on the 'right side' is still gonna be a contender. It's not really that complicated
The only thing I tend to get mad about is when someone tries to offer to “help” when I don’t need it. If I open the door for you, don’t try to take the door and let me go first. If I’m carrying groceries, don’t ask if you can take them. Like, I can be an adult on my own thank you.
Then the men usually get upset because they were “just trying to be nice”. Be nice by asking before you see me doing it then. Open the door before I get there or grab the rest of the food from the trunk. It’s not hard.
Yeah, same. And I don't even expect a thank you or anything, I just do it automatically
The only permissible reason why the wife's santa sock is empty, is "because the diamond tiara santa got you didn't fit in the sock".
Or "Your gift is in the garage"(meaning the gift is a car)
Or " are you sure?" And there's a thin christmas card with tickets to Hawaii for a child fee vacation.
There's thousands of permissible reasons for it to be empty. You don't get to determine any of them, only the person buying the gifts does.
@@j.pnewcomer1069 then you put the keys in the stocking 😉
Oh my gosh that puzzle one. So sad. But also I love that she tagged it "my future ex-husband." You don't want someone who delights in destroying your things or breaking something you feel pride in.
The empty stocking one is not because Dad did a stocking for him and his kids but not his wife. It is because Mom is Santa. Mom does all of the Christmas magic. Dad does not. He literally does not think about stockings. "Why is it empty?" is literally this dude wondering why she, Santa, did not stuff her own stocking.
Poor girl 😢 always made me sad
This is most families unfortunately. My mom always does our stockings and yes does her own too. Same with my friends’ moms. Every one of these moms is married (although thankfully one is finally getting a divorce). It’s so sad that the wife is needing to get herself a present on a gift giving day…
my dad was like that lol. big reason why i never got married or had kids of my own. i didn't want that kind of toxicity bleeding through, so i just continue to enjoy absolute solo freedom.
@@shadamyandsonamylover This sort of thing makes me so sad. Despite their flaws, my parents truly loved each other and were on the same team. My mom worked HARD taking care of our home and all us kids so well and my dad never let her go unappreciated. On holidays he'd take us to this fancy cheese shop to pick out a chocolate bar for our own stockings and a nice cheese for mom (she loves cheese) and some ornaments at a nearby Christmas shop. Before mother's day he'd make sure we all knew to make cards and he'd buy something from us when we were younger, so once we were older we all knew to make or buy her something and he'd get her something separately (she did the same for him on father's day). Every time he and I went to the fancier grocery store on the way home, he'd let me pick out flowers with him to bring home for her. They always made each other truly feel special. On their last anniversary they accidentally bought each other the same anniversary card, it was so adorable. True love still exists and I hope your and your mother both get that experience one day (maybe you could add something to her stocking this year as a surprise!).
Mom and Dad always shared a stocking. Even after learning about Santa, we kept using them. They’ll even use the same shopping cart when buying each other’s gifts. I don’t understand how all the gifts could be left up to one person like that.
"I didn't do nothing"
"You did someone... and made someone"🤣🤣
People see "dating someone" like a "decoration" in their life ! And after they wonder why they are not happy
A relationship is as much a decoration as a pet.
It looks nice when your puppy is happy and well-loved, but if it's bald and starving, that just makes you look like an even bigger piece of shit.
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Right? Problematic people looking for 'relationships' have the mindset of "I'm just here to enjoy the perks of having a partner (receiving love, an outlet for lust, etc. etc.)"
Like madam/sir/fellas, that's not a having a relationship 💀
@@greenpiersystem That second sentence is poetry. Truth and poetry👏
@@ayumuchorizo4486I was in a rs like that, he treated me badly and my friend eventually stepped in so I’d leave.
Now he’s stalking me.
But while we were dating, he asked for an open relationship and generally mistreated me.
I kind of let dating be for others now, but that friend is still in my life.
He didn’t buy his kids and himself xmas presents. She got everyone except herself presents.
i wonder how many hints she left for him before xmas morning.
No, she got lots of gifts, they have videos of her opening her gifts. He just forgot the stocking and people made a bigger deal of it than it was because thats what people do online.
@@kvasir8931 Amen to that! If I had expected my husband to fill my stocking at Christmas when our 4 children were coming up, I would have been bitterly disappointed! But he worked as a mechanic for UPS and from November to Christmas Eve was peak season and the only time he got overtime so he was busy working to support and provide for us while I was able to stay at home and take care of him, our home and our children. He worked all the OT he could get and never got Christmas Eve off-he had to stay until the last truck and the last package car was in. He always got me nice gifts, but I would have never expected him to fill my stocking. However, even if I had that expectation and felt some kinda way about it cuz he didn't, thankfully there wasn't social media around back them to publicly shame him on and disrespect him for the world to see.
The empty stocking one hits home for me. Last two years i did stockings for my kids and husband from "Santa" but my husband didn't bother to do one for me. My okder kids who dont believe know it was him that never did it but our 7 year old just kind of started to understand santa between 5-6 . So last year at Christmas she asked why Santa didn't fill my stocking and ger dad just said "its because mom was bad" 🤦🏻♀️
No way! Do you have someone making sure you’re getting a stocking this year?? You deserve the little stocking candies and whatever other treats. Sorry you had that happen!
@@brennakoerber174 yeah my daughter who asked why Santa didn't fill my stocking told her grandmother ( my mother in law) what happened last year and told her grandma she wants to do my stocking this year to make sure I get something 😊
You made a mistake in your comment, it's "EX"husband.
@@Bitume5 ❤️
Please tell us you are planning on leaving him. It is not just the gifts. He does not value you. He only valued what you do for him.
2:15 I am a clergyperson, and every time I've done premarital counseling, I've made it abundantly clear that I will not sign and submit the marriage license to the county if there's the disrespect of cake-shoving on either partner's part at the reception. If that's what they think is appropriate for a couple's big day, there are JPs who don't care whom they marry or what the newlyweds do at the reception, to whom the couple can go cheaply.
this is such a good stance to take and i appreciate you taking it for everyone
I'm a clergy too, and same here.
What disrespect? If you think a harmless tradition is disrespectful, you've got bigger issues. Like being a narcissist.
@@minecraftfox4384 don't throw the word around narcissist in this context because it makes zero sense
But is it really fair of you to assume disrespect if couples shove cake in each others' faces? If I had had a traditional wedding I probably would have shoved cake in my partner's face, and he would have done so to me and we would have both laughed about it. OR, if it would have been something he would not have wanted to do he would do what he always does and *tell me* that he doesn't want cake shoved in his face. We're adults and can communicate as such. We also joke and play with each other and shoving food in each others' faces is not below either of us.
Please any expecting parents, if your partner has a reaction to the gender of your future child/children similar to the one seen in the first video, get a divorce/break up, leave and get full custody ASAP! That other parent will “at best” neglect them and at worse abuse them. That is absolutely not an acceptable reaction and you should not get angry or upset about something as arbitrary as gender of your future child/children. The only thing that should matter is that this child or children are able to be born and live healthy
And, if I may add: The information you get in a "gender reveal" is actually just a genitalia reveal (and this is kinda weird, I guess?). Gender can be a different one. If your partner reacts crazy about this - imagine them reacting to your child with the prefered genitalia revealing they have a different gender.
Love and support your child, no matter what.
WOW! Judgemental much?? Out of the four children I gave birth to, the only one that we did not know the gender of the baby before birth was our second child. It was the 90s and they didnt do ultrasounds but once at 20 weeks unless that revealed a problem that needed future scans. Since there was a 2year age difference, and we had a two bedroom house and had everything boy themed and nothing gender neutral, I was hoping for another boy. I went through labor fast, so fast that there was only time to give me an IV dose of pain meds before our daughter was born, and I was pretty loopy from it. My initial reaction was "A GIRL?? What am I going to do with a girl?". Of course, this wasn't in front of a party of people, just the delivery staff and my husband. And of course I was delighted with my daughter after the drugs and initial shock wore off. And because we was the only daughter we ended up having, was my treasure. I never abused her, neglected her, favored the boys over her or treated her anything less.
While I am sure they are out there, it is the exception, not the rule for a parent who might be bitterly disappointed that their baby's gender isn't what they were hoping for, and even trying for, not to love that child once it arrives.
@@impalamama7302 Except I'm only judging the people that throw violent temper tantrums or act like it's the end of the world when they find out their child's gender wasn't the one they wanted like the man in the video did. There's a huge difference between those kinds of people and parents that might be a little disappointed or surprised by their child's gender but rolling with it and loving them regardless. The former are the kinds of people I'm implying will neglect and/or abuse their children. Had he reacting the way you did, I would see no need to hope the woman divorces and files for full custody
@@trashotaku Yes, and again, it ain't yo place. You just saw somebody going postal at a gender reveal party and you don't know what had happened behind the scenes that provoked it----it might had nothing to do with not getting the gender that was preferred. But that is all you as a voyeur consuming social media and judging others get to see. Yeah, that behavior is inexcusable for a grown up or even a toddler. It is evident there is some toxicity it that relationship, somewhere, that warrants a red flag, but we don't really know what caused dude to snap---what if he had just found out that the baby momma had cheated on him, but that part is left out??
The one guy looking at dude explain how girls require to much is so funny. He looks at him like what you talking about dude
3:50 so…they’ve been married since he was 31 and she was 15 🤢
I know, he's a cradle snatching pedo!
Yeah, I noticed that as well when I did the math 🤢🤢🤢
I want to think it was a typo and they meant 33, not 23, but...
Those kids ain't gonna be healthy 😭
This could be possible rage bait since I do remember reading a comment that mentioned that the information she was actually 33 was being thrown around, but I don't know if it's true. I'm hoping it is
I never knew how much of my faith would be renewed by a wonderful man hopping around with a huge red flag. I adore this.
"At that age you can train them to be the perfect woman"--that is ABSOLUTELY why older men go for younger women
Uuugggghhh...
When a man says a woman is trainable, he means he can eventually get her to do stuff for him.
When a woman says a man is trainable, she means she can get him to do anything at all. Not actively making things worse counts.
Edit: gods, the men in my family suck.
@@FallacyBites Yeah I saw someone saying that when you hear old ladies talking about "training" their husbands, they usually mean - "Wow, after 20 years he finally wipes his feet on the mat, folds his own clothes, and runs the dishwasher sometimes." Guys like the one in the video who talk about "training" their very young girlfriends usually mean - "I want to take advantage of her not knowing what boundaries are."
"You did someone and made someone" "what medicine you need condom" 😂❤
Condom is too late now, like locking the barn door after the horse already ran out.
@@Enki1013 exactly 😂
"You have beef? With being fun?" laughed my ass off🤣
11:25 that is the stupidest woman I ever saw. Someone call CPS
It looks like an accident. Sometimes slides can be too fast. She didn’t do anything to hurt her kid. She probably gave her kid lots of hugs and kisses and probably realized to hold them until they’re bigger.
@@jocelyntrishellYou’re as dumb as the mother in the video if you think that was an accident.
@@jocelyntrishell no, it was the stupidest thing ever. that is clearly a baby, not a toddler, she should keep him or her in her lap.
The amusement center (?) staff should have stepped in - if it is staffed. Or at least have a sign saying kids under 3 must be held by their parent/guardian.
That dude being like “it’s like you’re defusing a bomb” like HUH???? YOU JUST WANT A DOLL. A SEX DOLL. NOT A HUMAN.
The one about the phone password thing had me laughing bruh 🤣 I know some people have reservations about giving anyone (including their significant other) their phone password and hey everyone’s relationship is different but I mean I have an iPhone and one of the very first things I did was put my girlfriends Face ID into my phone so she’d never have to be concerned or worried or anything she can just pick my phone up and it unlocks instantly, if you ain’t got nothing to hide you ain’t got nothing to hide, end of story lol
I used to share passwords, but then I ended up with a situation where my ex still had my passwords and kept logging into my things to track me online without me being able to log him out due to him having the actual passwords.
Once I found out I deleted and redid all my logins but if I ever give a password to an SO again we better be getting married.
I'm embarrassed about the thousands of questionable pictures I've saved in my gallery and Pinterest, not because I talk to other people 😭 as if y'all have nothing you don't want anyone to see
This one too got me thinking man.. wtf..
If you aren't willing to give a password, our deal is that you have to be willing to alibi another way.
We aren't willing to give anyone our passwords other than our therapists, who have never taken up the offer. The reason is because after we were already traumatized at 12 by our stepmom destroying our room and tearing our journals and sketchpads apart to "figure out why you're so fucking insane" just because we were reported by our middle school for having OCD (we admitted to basically having the same dilemma as the man with OCD in Chicago Med, where we were worried we would hurt others because we weren't confident that we could control our actions. We still have trouble parsing that an intrusive thought of stabbing ourselves in the eyes doesn't mean we ACTUALLY will do it, it's just a really bad thought and it will pass. Therefore we said we'd rather k!ll ourselves and remove the risk from our family and friends if we did something we didn't want to do, than just continue to hurt people. Needless to say, this was taken as a su!cidal threat,) we were then forced to give all of our passwords and unlock and remove Touch ID after we actually did try to k!ll ourselves at 15 (people have told us that we could remove them; we couldn't. When we told them to get out, they refused, saying they had the right as parents to stay even when we said we felt unsafe, and the suicide watch never stepped in when it became physical as we were stuck in bed from our spine needing to heal. The only person who ever said that shit was wrong was our last suicide watch for the last hour before we were moved to a facility for observation. She told us that she would never speak to us the way our parents did before we were moved, and that she was appalled that this was what we "deserved" after nearly dying. Thank you, whoever you are, since that was what got us through the next few months of hell.)
Our entire life has changed as a result of everything we went through, and one of our biggest fears is people digging through our stuff just to find something to use as ammunition. So we don't feel comfortable giving people access to our shit.
We've legitimately made separate copies of our notes and journal entries for sharing since we don't trust others with the originals (this is based on how our parents actually have a giant black plastic garbage bag full of our shit to act as "evidence" to why we're insane and a sociopath. Drawings, notebooks, anything they could take before we were abandoned back in NY is still in that bag, states away. We don't even remember half of what is in there because our memory is like swiss cheese and those papers and notes were what allowed us to remember them.) They're identical, but if they start editing the copy or otherwise mess with it, then we still have the original.
So giving someone our passwords just for a backstabbing waiting to happen is not comfortable, obviously.
You know what we ARE fine with? Things like Life360.
While we obviously don't deserve being stalked to prove loyalty, if we can't show our phone, we have no problem with an app that our family already uses so we know when they're leaving work or where they're getting food and can prepare accordingly.
If we trust someone enough to have a relationship, then we don't see why it would be bad to be able to check if they're alright and for them to check in on us.
Plus, if we don't trust that person, we can just remove them from the family and then they can't see shit. Because in order to see anything on Life360, your account HAS to be invited to that family.
So that would work better, for us at least.
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@@solus8685 lmao same. I told my now-ex that and they didn't believe m so I let them see all the embarrassing pics and vids themselves and they realised it for themself.
1:21 umm fuckin-scuse me but what? “Accidentally”fell into your mother, stayed for the finale, and now everyone is just HANGING OUT
"What? You did SOMEONE. And MADE someone."
The “where’s the ring” guy is why women buy fake engagement rings.
They literally sell "protection" rings.
The "single and looking" ring idea also went out of business because no one would actually wear the special-color rings out of fear of getting harassed.
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“Professor DiCaprio” haha
25 is the expiration date.
The baby on the slide I AM HORRIFIED
I have 2 kids and I cannot FATHOM putting them through that. What happened to that baby? Brain injury?
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Okay I was looking for someone to react to this! Honestly I'm more concerned that the poor baby's shoulder got pulled out of its socket!!
More nervous than a salmon in a bear hug, 😂
I'm gonna use that description to my therapist when talking about my anxiety lmfao
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Guy.
Mister-Man.
Your laugh and puns and jokes give LIFE.
Thank you so much.
Re: the guys who like younger girls, I just realized that cocky little gesture they're doing with their hands is "play" in ASL.
And now I wanna vomit.
They’re doing a hand gesture? I’ve never noticed. And it’s common? Did he do it in this video?
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Is what u are referring 2 on this short?? I dont see a 'hand gesture' or anything else related 2 signing...
We need time stamp plz. Thx
@@toshmarie3499 timestamp: 0:32
@@toshmarie3499 Most likely, they're talking about 0:32.
"play" in ASL is that little phone gesture. It's specifically the fact they're doing it with BOTH hands, to be clear (the full "play" sign is shaking both hands in that mock-phone position. Just one is used for the letter Y, and is used as slang by non-deaf folk.) Signing "play" that way is also used to sign "party" sometimes as well (it's one out of 4 variants, but this one is usually ignored in favor of shaking two "p" signs instead of "y.")
The down shake is used in ASL to mean "person." It's often used in connection with words to describe an individual.
A downshake with "play" means "player."
It's also possible (not sure) that the snapping with both hands is the sign for "quick" or "just like that!"
So in all, the statement is "Person," "Quick," "Play."
So it's pretty concrete what they're saying. They're saying they'll be quick to jump on a young girl.
That's fucking sick. 🤢
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@greenpiersystem thx for explanation...
Gesture looks similar 2 hang loose, hand sign from Hawaii
“Professor DiCaprio”, “more like bride and GROOMER” 😂😂 got some good ones in there!
The stocking one. It's the way she said it and was smiling. Masking how she really felt.... I've been there
its such a horrible feeling x(
You should never have to make your own Christmas or birthday
My husband got me a fork for valentines day that was engraved and said "i forking love you"
“Read between the lines or look between the bars” is so fcking genius.
The stocking one reminded me of when I was really little
I loved getting up early for Christmas and just staring at the tree, so I went to check out my stocking only to see that my mom's was still empty. Still believing in Santa, I was really worried my mom got forgotten, so I woke up my little sister, and we proceeded to stuff her stocking with random toys and even some of our own candy
When everyone was up and we finished opening everything, I remember telling my mom "wait! You didn't open your stocking!" She was so confused lol
My sisters and I still make a point of getting her stocking stuffers to this day
He's a 10 but he got your mom pregnant -- first of all, he's not a 10. Second of all, if he WAS a 10, that knocked him into negative digits, holy hell 😳
Not to mention WTF is wrong with the mother too - thats her DAUGHTERS boyfriend.
Both are to blame IMHO
Plus the boy looks underage/is definitely a teen
I was scrolling through your Insta the other day rewatching all your videos and I was like damn I wish I could just watch all these back to back. And you delivered. Thank you for taking the time to make these, your commentary always makes my day(:
I had a guy groom me from when I was 17, he was 29. My parents were against but I felt smart (I was stupid). At 25 I smelt the coffee and realised I was in a toxic and abusive situation (like everyone was rightly telling me). I broke it off. The guy literally threatened to impregnante me so I wouldn’t leave. Never happened because I don’t double dip. Anyway, met my actual man of my dreams 6 months later at 25, he was 29 (this time a 4 years gap). I’m almost 30 now, we’re married and I’ve never been happier.
You know it only takes one dip? And someone to put a hole in a condom? Unless you mean anal in which case... Well yeah. No womb in that direction 😂
The last one...
"This is what I mean"
Sounds like she's been trash talking him for a while.
One of the other heartbreaking things about the mother-daughter m*rder duo from h3ll is that the friend that went with the mom's ex to meet them that night has been described as the kind of person who went out of his way to always be there for anyone and everyone. He hadn't even known his buddy for long hut when he was nervous about the neeting, the friend dropped every thing to be there as moral support. It's heartbreaking whenever a life is taken, but finding out the innocent guy who was there so his new friend wouldn't be nervous just added another layer of sadness to the story. So many people shared stories about that young man heling them, being their for them, being an all around awesome human being and a bunch of selfish self serving losers took his life.
He should have just left her when she told him he's just a side piece. Why stay with someone who clearly doesn't want you? Maybe his ego was bruised because to a guy a side piece is another word for b*×ch. Pride cometh before a fall, and he brought some innocent person down with him.
My husband jokes about messing with my puzzles but would never. I also respond to his joke with “well I’ll miss you”.
It's really heartbreaking just how few relationships seem to be based on respect, loyalty, and genuine friendship. You're supposed to be partners, not adversaries.
‘Gotta train them young ‘
the girl: *utter fear and obligation chuckle*
4:20 if you think dates with women are so difficult, just date a man then 🤡
Such an easy solution! Wonder how he didn't think of that himself 🤷
4:30 I just love that everyone around him is like "wtf is he on about. what is this rant"
4:53 the other guys reactions were like green flags, lol everyone was so uncomfortable
3:05 this guy is really scary to me. He views women the same way normal people view dogs.
screaming andrew tate
My guy is mini Andrew Tate. Wouldn’t be surprised if he was Tate’s 30th kid.
You're the best. Calling people out on their red flags. Somebody's gotta do it!
Omg the stocking is so sad. "Who's this extra one" 😭😭 the sadness in her eyes.
The dude complaining about the first date "checklist" needs to check himself.
These are all the things I do for my female friends (who I dont date or expect anything from)
Opening doors, letting them walk inside of the walkway, bring them home (or they bring me home, depends who has a car rn), try to make the meal fun for everyone (well... I guess we do that together, make each other laugh) etc.
These are all normal social moments...idk why this kind of social interaction feels so "explosive" for some men 😂
Its extremly easy.
Pleasing women is extremly easy... the bar is in hell.
Literally hell.
Bring flowers and 50% of all dates will be happy 😂😂😂
Complement their hair or clothing style 80% happy... like... dude. Its so fucking easy.
The puzzle guy reminds me of a person that never really matured past elementary grade humor of destroy things = funny to them.
That mother with baby on slide...she doesn't need her baby🤬🤬🤬
Seriously like wtf was she thinking?
I think it was an honest mistake. Probably the first kid and sometimes accidents just happen. She’s probably learned her lesson and won’t let it happen again
@@jocelyntrishellLol no. Why are you jumping on every comment saying this? What could you possibly want to defend here?
@@jocelyntrishell Are YOU the mom from the slide jocelyn? cause you defending this lady way too much. It was a dumb and dangerous thing she did, doesnt have to be your first or fifth kid to know basic things.
We need more men like Dustin to call these immature boys out. That's why I'm still single at 34 🤦♀️, learned red flags hard way and got trauma too from bad relationship experience.
2:58 MY GOD. SHE’S NOT A POKEMON MY DUDE
Also, a little question for girls who go for this….if he likes them young, do you think he’ll still love you when you get older…
Your neighbors must think you’re on a color guard team.
What if we don't believe in marriage? I have a bf of 9 years... he wanted to marry me after a year or 2 but I didn't want to be legally married to anyone. I don't believe in spending thousands to get away from a person, if they start treating me bad, I want to be able to walk away whenever
Pre nup
@@Lizzifer7Or just don’t get married 🤷
"What is that teardrop thing on your face💧Is that a ~ NOPE nope nope please God I'm begging you Do not answer that!" 😂😂
The befuddled heel click is my favorite😂
Bold of you to think that HE was the one that filled any of the stockings
I'd bet my entire savings account that she made the Christmas list, did all the shopping, wrapped everything, and stuffed those stockings herself while her husband did absolutely nothing. And if she had left any part of that job to him, there wouldn't have been a Christmas at all.
the way I legit gasped audibly and covered my mouth at the slide one!! 😰
If my ex would've smashed cake in my face on our wedding day id have signed papers the very next day to annull the marriage. It would've saved me 4 yrs of narcissist abuse.
Most of the time we're screaming at the screen leave him!
But that last one- LEAVE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
8:56 i was giggling so hard.. that man is so obnoxious and im so glad she isn’t really taking him seriously after that
3:33 "Who taught your Bio? Professor DiCaprio?" I'M WHEEZING 🤣
5:08 - I have met a guy like that in the wild O_O was dating a guy exclusively for at least a year. Gets stopped by rando guy on my way home from the store who I thought was only asking for directions because he said he was new and asked about the store and stuff............... ended up asking personal questions and pulled the "well you don't have no ring so can't be that serious" also implied I was racist (he was black) because I didn't wanna give him my number. I felt exposed and felt forced to give him my number after he immediatly checked the fake one I gave him just to get away. And then I blocked him as soon as I got home.
This happend 10 ish years ago and it still gives me the ick. I was 23/24 then and had been raised to always be nice. Now I'll soon be 34 and would have screamed bloody murder at him if he even tried (acting crazy sends them running I've learnd) - AND I GOT THE RING NOW! B****
1:06 buddy, buddy, you’re not in a Wattpad fanfic, you can and will go to actual prison for doing that
We need people like you man
thank you 🙏
For me, the guy with the "trying to defuse a bomb" quote clip was an instant queue of questions. Does that guy even like women? Does he have any manners? Is he deaf, can't he hear himself? Does this man have any personality if dating is this hard for him?
Apparently, the men around had some questions and/or suggestions too because that was a whole bunch of uncomfortable men all around the room sharing looks and glances.
Made me hella uncomfortable and I would've been physically holding my lips so I wouldn't speak out of turn if I was in that room because I actually like women and think basic decency like WALKING HER HOME when it's dark outside and she might get hurt SHOULD BE THE DEFAULT SETTING.
But you know, I'm a woman too, so what do I know about women's struggles and fears...
The wedding Cake thing…she did exactly what I would have done. I’m so proud of her and I hope she presses home to her groom that she means it.
10:04 is fucking insane bro 😭
I scrolled for so long to find a comment on this one. It went by so fast I had to replay it like 3 times because I was just flabbergasted
0:27 sis should do doubles with her bf and friends 😭
11:15 him saying her name like that had me dying! He channeled the energy of every flippin mom speaking right there! I'm surprised he didh't say her whole name!
7:25 actually what i think might've happened is that maybe she got the kids and him, but she wanted him to get her stocking so he could show how much he thought about her and what she might like.
She got her answer one way or another
Well he did get her lots of non-stocking gifts so she did get her answer
When I saw the slide one I legit thought it was like a stuffed toy for a minute, and had no idea why this was in the red flag thing and then I saw it was a literal infant. What the heck? I’m not great with small children, but I know not to do that!!! That could literally kill them! I really hope that kid doesn’t get brain issues from their mom being an idiot.
The baby going down the slide... WTF my jaw dropped
The wife does all the shopping and filling the stockings for hubby and kids. She usually fills her own stocking but she didn't this year, hoping hubby would do it. And he _didn't._ 😢 Nobody thinks about the Mom....
I appreciate how Red Flag Guy recognized that the 19 year old in the black dress might have to grow up fast and not have family support so feel forced to form a relationship with someone who isn’t age appropriate to ‘provide’ for her.
Agreed--lots of people want the world to be ideal. It isn't, and you can't just abandon people's lives because it's not going perfectly. I know a lot of people whose parents were their first abuser, and it never leaves you much choice.
Lots of people have to grow up fast and don't have family support and manage to make it without selling themselves.
The fibster joke actually got me laughing out load. My poor cats looked at me like I was even more crazy than usual.
On a platform filled with domestic-violence how-to's for men, you're doing a great service!
I wish I had known you when I met my husband 😭 I do not know why I kept ignoring all those now obvious red flag behaviors.
9:33 She is still filming that while she already called the cops, right? He acts like a child, throwing glass stuff around? Telling HER to act grown up? He would be out the door without the keys. And to make sure I am safe, I would definitely call the cops. How can't you be scared of that? Nobody knows what and where he throws the next thing
That's what's so messed up though. Sososo many adults do not hv basic manners. So when you say things like this, the guy thinks he's going beyond normal for the female.
His laughs get me EVERY FRIGGIN TIME
"women expect too much" even from that statement you can see his ignorance, women are taught by our society to expect too LITTLE from people, they just tolerate unacceptable behaviour. We as a society have failed in this way, people need to know they are worth so much more, and deserve basic human decency and love, that they dont need to accept crappy partners or crappy situations, they can and could have more, they have the right to believe in themselves