ALL THE SIGNS WERE RIGHT THERE - NED FULMER

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  • @theonionqueen3519
    @theonionqueen3519 ปีที่แล้ว +8489

    You can hear it in Keith’s voice when he said “Maybe she doesn’t want kids, at all?” I felt proud of him and Zach for how they responded.

    • @ky9933
      @ky9933 ปีที่แล้ว +754

      That comment from Ned about a woman's "biological clock" along with the fact that he made Ariel take his name when she married him even though she didn't want to really speaks volumes. He's a misogynistic pig.

    • @kinantisukma380
      @kinantisukma380 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@ky9933 oh which video did ned made ariel took his last name? I'd like to watch

    • @neesa14ify
      @neesa14ify ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ky99331

    • @google1030
      @google1030 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      That was good for them to point that out, but also most women can still have healthy kids at 35, so his comment is unecessary and if friends have those kinds of concerns, those are the types of issues to talk about in private

    • @theonionqueen3519
      @theonionqueen3519 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @@google1030 when he said “biological clock,” he’s referring to the belief that all women have a natural urge to have children, and that it comes different ages. Not so much that women of a certain age can’t have kids.

  • @cherrylove34
    @cherrylove34 ปีที่แล้ว +11300

    That biological clock comment was so fucking rude and completely uncalled for, you can clearly see she’s so uncomfortable. Zach was so sweet “I love that for you”. Really goes to show the kind of man Ned truly is.

    • @sady1139
      @sady1139 ปีที่แล้ว +332

      Yes! Also I’m so tired of people being expected to have kids in their 30s, I know several people who had kids when they were 40 and they’re all healthy and happy!

    • @curnies
      @curnies ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sady1139 did you know that if you get pregnant after 35, the doctors and medical industry refers to it as a geriatric pregnancy? Insane lol. Not great for women getting pregnant later in life, definitely helps perpetuate. Your risks of complications do sky rocket after this age, but honestly with the medical advances in technology, many people have healthy and happy babies after the age of 35. FUN STUFF. It's all just comes back to the false notion that women have more worth when they're young.

    • @Sailorgirl1207
      @Sailorgirl1207 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      @@sady1139 that and the whole "you'll change your mind" or I won't?! I personally wanted kids and now I'm due any day with our first after several years of trying, but I understand why people don't want kids. There is a part of me that will miss my life pre-kids, but I look forward to what my life will be as a mom and to move forward with my husband in that way. Parenting is hard and wonderful at the same time, but it's not for everyone! 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @aliciarea5583
      @aliciarea5583 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I work in a hospital and we mostly treat people 45+. We do have a maternity floor but our patients are mostly older. I’ve heard old people make comments about how this generation is crazy because a lot more people are saying they don’t want to get married or have kids. They’re stuck with it was expected to at least be married.

    • @jennifermarielucu9697
      @jennifermarielucu9697 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah... Very rude of him!

  • @whysnana
    @whysnana ปีที่แล้ว +7628

    Lets also not forget that Ned got mad at Zach for taking down the interior design video because people were trashing on Ariel. And Ned wasn't mad that his wife was attacked, he was mad Zach deleted the video that Ned edited. Really shows you the kind of person he is. He doesn't give 2 shits about Ariel.

    • @areeshahasan8665
      @areeshahasan8665 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Not questioning that this happened, but how do you know? Did they talk about it on their podcast or smth

    • @whysnana
      @whysnana ปีที่แล้ว +581

      @@areeshahasan8665 it's literally in their documentary 🤣 look it up. Literal footage of ned getting mad at Zach for taking down a video because Ariel was being attacked in the comments. Zach was more concerned about Ariel than Ariel's own husband.

    • @areeshahasan8665
      @areeshahasan8665 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@whysnana Oh I didnt even know they had a documentary lol

    • @caithenry8429
      @caithenry8429 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      This still gets me angry because how was it His video if he isn't part of the editing team? Like was he also head videographer or was he saying that as one of the main faces of the series?? Incredibly out of line on all fronts

    • @DA-yy8rs
      @DA-yy8rs ปีที่แล้ว +236

      @@whysnana Zach didn’t do it for Ariel, he did it for Maggie who was also receiving unnecessary hate
      but Ned is trash regardless

  • @troyom
    @troyom ปีที่แล้ว +17776

    Please note. The issue for the company wasn’t that he was cheating on his wife. It was that he was doing it with a subordinate within the company.

    • @Apriqott
      @Apriqott ปีที่แล้ว +1485

      I'd say it was both

    • @HomesteadAfghanistan
      @HomesteadAfghanistan ปีที่แล้ว +1855

      Bit of both, more likely.
      It was against brand to cheat in general.

    • @Pbdave1092
      @Pbdave1092 ปีที่แล้ว +731

      Company Ethics Manual usually spell out cheating while in a marriage as one of unethical behaviors that are serious enough for firing...

    • @user-ye4tl8jp5u
      @user-ye4tl8jp5u ปีที่แล้ว +572

      For the company it was the cheating, but the actual try guys they know him personally and got hurt by him cheating on her i think thats the different things i believe.

    • @scarlett2521
      @scarlett2521 ปีที่แล้ว +411

      For the company it was him cheating with a coworker, because Ned is HR, Alex could've sued the company. He not only put his friends in danger but the entire company that many people are employed at. They knew he was cheating because of how suspicious he acts, but didn't have proof and they didn't know it was with a coworker.

  • @Berry8lunnt
    @Berry8lunnt ปีที่แล้ว +5313

    Honestly her talking in the podcast about like "Do i not clean good enough?" and all that bro you can tell she was just hurt about not being appreciated, it was never about the work she did for him. It was because she obviously noticed he didnt give a shit about her and didnt love her how Kieth loved his wife. when you start to compare yourself to others it means youve been shown youre not good enough, and honestly?? Fuck Ned. She deserves the world.

    • @iMirandaD
      @iMirandaD ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What pod ep was this?

    • @sofialloret7476
      @sofialloret7476 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I honestly feel like Ned was always talking about his wife because he knew Ariel didn’t feel appreciated, but it was to please her and it was never genuine, so she never really believed it

  • @hannahxx17
    @hannahxx17 ปีที่แล้ว +3203

    The whole 'he got mad because I threw out his leftovers' is proof of typical cheater attitude where they try and find any fault with their partner to justify their cheating.

    • @backupnameplease
      @backupnameplease ปีที่แล้ว +68

      ​@福京柳 yeah but that's such a low level problem to have & that was the ONLY thing he said about Ariel

    • @zoviqi2388
      @zoviqi2388 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Usernames_are_hard_to_think_ofLast night meat also can be nasty and spreading bio hazard in the fridge. Depending on the moisture content, other ingredients that the meal has, etc

    • @zoviqi2388
      @zoviqi2388 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I'm sure before throwing out the food. Ariel opened the container n saw/check the food first n deemed it biohazard

    • @JeantheSecond
      @JeantheSecond ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh yeah. I’ve dealt with that.

    • @heyryanisonx3141
      @heyryanisonx3141 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      More likely it's just the sign of a man-child, which does have a fair overlap with a cheater

  • @erinc129
    @erinc129 ปีที่แล้ว +3584

    Looking back I think it becomes quite obvious that Ned was always talking about "my wife" and not about Ariel herself. He was never celebrating her, but rather he was celebrating himself and the fact that he was able to be the first married. Marriage was centered around what it meant to him - rather than the relationship between two people. That's why he makes comments like "Unmarried at 35" because he views it as a goal post and classification rather than an organic consequence of two people feeling love. As uncomfortable as it must be for Ariel to watch people pick apart her cheating husband's behaviour - I think it's also really important that as many women as possible learn to see the signs. You DO clean well enough, you SHOULD split chores 50/50, your husband SHOULD care enough to take down his own video if you're being trashed in the comments, and he should not make comments like that especially not to other women. I hope the consequences of this scandal increase awareness about signs of cheating - and encourage more people to leave relationships where they don't feel nurtured.

    • @nishthagupta1357
      @nishthagupta1357 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol yes

    • @rachelrose7027
      @rachelrose7027 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Yeah, rewatching old videos I really noticed how much Ned refers to Ariel as "My Wife" instead of just "Ariel" and how that could be a distancing tactic. Like the other guys always call their partners by name

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@rachelrose7027 like she is not her own persona but HIS wife , and as You can tell he clearly SEE woman as baby making machines that need to clean after him, i bet he was abusive in other psychological ways too

    • @justwaiting5744
      @justwaiting5744 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's a great, great point.

    • @erin9110
      @erin9110 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think you hit the nail on the head

  • @ciarabegley11
    @ciarabegley11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4344

    the day the podcast episode dropped of ned telling rainie her biological clock was ticking or whatever dumb shit he said was the day I changed my opinion of him

    • @ciarabegley11
      @ciarabegley11 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @Halloween All Year Round me too, I was incredibly disappointed that he would do something so stupid and hurt the company's reputation, not just the company but the one he started with his best friends. he also hurt his wife who is the sweetest and most beautiful woman and he's a horrible man for doing that

    • @juanmanuelmoramontes3883
      @juanmanuelmoramontes3883 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      ​@halloweenallyearround4889Honestly, both him and the employee are douchebags, are we forgetting she also had a partner? Tho I get why Ned was the most problematic.

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 The woman he was cheating with was the one in the clip saying "you have a hot wife"
      That was such a douchbag move!

    • @mochs62512
      @mochs62512 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      And theres nothing wrong with not wanting kids. Its so archiac to think that the only reason for marriage is procreation.

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 a month later but maybe was an inside joke, like he told her how she was hotter than his wife and thats why she said that

  • @AN-bw6is
    @AN-bw6is ปีที่แล้ว +2514

    i think neds just obsessed with feeling young tbh

    • @jessicac4641
      @jessicac4641 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      Yep. Such a frat boy

    • @ThePerfectmercy
      @ThePerfectmercy ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg same thing I was thinking!

    • @HumblyDumbly
      @HumblyDumbly ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Like feeling younger women 🙃

    • @luxcyrine
      @luxcyrine ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Its giving midlife crisis

    • @jessicagowans90
      @jessicagowans90 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well, he did marry Ariel young at 25 or 26. I guess that explains everything.

  • @arkboi2145
    @arkboi2145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7539

    Lmao. I'm a gay guy, and hella lazy. I don't care if you were my partner, my parents, a roommate, or a friend; if you cleaned my house for me and made me food, I would GUSH about how amazing you are and how thankful I am for everything you do.
    But yeah, people in general are REALLY bad at noticing Red Flags and Warning Signs.

    • @SpillReveal
      @SpillReveal  2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      So true!!
      Omg you are my first ever comment 💖
      Thanks for watching

    • @stephanieann6622
      @stephanieann6622 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Dude for real!

    • @thecomorbiditycurator8018
      @thecomorbiditycurator8018 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Hindsight is 20/20 is a lasting saying for a reason. It is really easy to say that these things were red flags in hindsight, but at the time no one saw them as red flags because no one had any reason to. Everyone saw them as it just being differences in personality and cuts made in editing.

    • @loganpraz2566
      @loganpraz2566 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Sometimes people are together for a while and cleaning becomes a requirement not some sweet demonstration, however I think if Keith was talking about how awesome his wife is then Ned should drop a little something about how much he loves his wife too

    • @capt.obvious2460
      @capt.obvious2460 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@SpillReveal This comment is the cutest thing ever.

  • @HawkBit9231
    @HawkBit9231 ปีที่แล้ว +1196

    @4:41 when Alex starts talking about taking shots with a guy who should be home with his pregnant gf and she's like, "oH cOmE oN jUsT oNe ShOt?", and then he's hesitant but calls her "baby" is so gross. She's all giddy and giggling over the fact that she could steal this guys attention away from what's actually important instead of just walking away. She's so calculated. Aside from Ned being a massive pos, she's also a pos and every woman with a husband or boyfriend should be careful around her. Homewrecker.

    • @backupnameplease
      @backupnameplease ปีที่แล้ว +33

      People don't cheat if they don't want to

    • @korgaupisc129
      @korgaupisc129 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I don't really vibe with calling people homewrecker. Especially because this term seems to be reserved for women. Yes, making moves on a guy who is married is shitty, but if he cheats and the marriage gets ruined that's all on him.

    • @halatiny6537
      @halatiny6537 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@korgaupisc129 yea it’s not one or the others fault but the married one with children obviously has more at stake and more responsibility.

    • @Hyuga_Princess
      @Hyuga_Princess ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@korgaupisc129Oh stfu , she's a grown ass women who knew exactly what she got herself into , it takes 2 POS humans to cheat. Period.

    • @englishwithsouza
      @englishwithsouza ปีที่แล้ว +73

      ​@@backupnameplease While I agree that, in the end, it's a call for the person in a relationship to make, if a person is hitting on someone while AWARE that they're in a monogamous relationship, the one doing the hitting on is also shitty in my book. Just because the biggest problem is the betrayal, purposefully causing rifts between couples is also a problem.

  • @aliakapoor
    @aliakapoor ปีที่แล้ว +945

    "No kids, 35" it's pathetic that he tries to prove that he's a better person because he's married has kids, has a decent career. Just the tone. He's judging her for not having kids meanwhile he's cheating on his wife and by extension his family. The hypocrisy but also the audacity but also the being such a loser, like does he not realize that she's doing great in her life too just because she's not a mom doesn't mean she's sucking at life. That tone just annoyed the crap out of me, the tone of trying to scare people, to manipulate them, to shame them. Pathetic.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ned won the lottery with Ariel, she is such an amazing person and anybody would love to have a wife like that. He didn't value what he had and was prepared to lose it all

  • @kvreyes1757
    @kvreyes1757 ปีที่แล้ว +2006

    I love how Ned goes “Good luck fighting that biological clock” while Keith and Zach is just supportive

  • @ankitamenon8780
    @ankitamenon8780 ปีที่แล้ว +1357

    Oh my god saying ‘good luck beating that biological clock’ is so disrespectful to Rainey, it’s her decision not to have kids

    • @ky9933
      @ky9933 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      That along with the fact that he made Ariel take his name when she married him even though she didn't want to really speaks volumes. He's a misogynistic pig.

    • @darkangel10001000
      @darkangel10001000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@ky9933I don't see that as misogynistic. Most men in western culture expect there wife to become there wife then they get married. I think it's more of a red flag that she ignored when they married. Like a good husband should make you want to have his name and be Mrs. Whatever. You should be proud to have that name rather then have reservations about it.

    • @stephanie22345
      @stephanie22345 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@darkangel10001000wow. You really typed that entire paragraph and didn’t realize the problem.

    • @robinwideman7420
      @robinwideman7420 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@stephanie22345 frfr queen

    • @cami_triz83
      @cami_triz83 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@@darkangel10001000 "I don't think that was misogynistic of him. I think it was just a red flag she ignored." Hell yeah put all the blame on the woman because you know that acknowledging his misogyny would be acknowledging your own too, you're doing great lmao

  • @Pauavi
    @Pauavi ปีที่แล้ว +5850

    Ned’s behavior is disgusting but “Ned, you have a hot wife” really comes close. She knew exactly what she was doing. Manipulation at its best

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr ปีที่แล้ว +337

      For real!
      I'm not nearly as crazy as a lot of the fandom seems to be about making every single Try Guys video a dunk on Ned session because I feel like it's getting a bit old.
      However, that was real foul of Alex!

    • @kelyrin
      @kelyrin ปีที่แล้ว +256

      YES. All the comments are always about Ned and I’m like « but wait, are you really hearing the same thing as I do ? » Cause what she says is REALLY problematic ! 😱

    • @aleeasaylor3544
      @aleeasaylor3544 ปีที่แล้ว +234

      Yessss! Ned shouldn’t have done it obviously but she should’ve said no and respected their relationship. Takes 2 people to cheat 🤷‍♀️

    • @erincarpenter4508
      @erincarpenter4508 ปีที่แล้ว +227

      @@aleeasaylor3544 except that he was HER BOSS, and her boss's boss... THere is a reason why in corporate, consent CANT be given if its a subordinate with an executive. People should really know this stuff....because sadly that is how people take advantage of others and then RUIN their lives and careers when they said no to their boss.

    • @aleeasaylor3544
      @aleeasaylor3544 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@erincarpenter4508 oh yea good point…I always forget to look at it from the business side, I’m just a hopeless romantic so I just think of the actual act of them cheating on their significant others

  • @laurahazeleger4287
    @laurahazeleger4287 ปีที่แล้ว +1658

    The moment I started to didn't like Ned was when he flipped out like that in the gingerbread house epidose. Usually Keith gets 'angry' with the judges when they give him criticism, but it's all an act and he immediatly smiles and laughs, showing that it's really just an act. Ned started doing that as well (copy cat) but when he does it, it really isn't funny? It feels real. And when he just flipped that table and began shouting when his gingerbread got burned a bit, that really gave me a bad feeling. He behaved like a toddler, and in the most recent 'No Recipe' season Rachel even mentions that he's scaring the judges. Idk, ever since that moment he just gave me bad vibes, because who views flipping a table and screaming as being comedic?

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Gonna be honest, I always thought that Neds flip outs were just scripted for the camera because they were so over-the-top it felt like there was no way they could real.
      I guess I was wrong.

    • @panmoncada7257
      @panmoncada7257 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      The same episode he freaks out like this he tells Eugene not to be so dramatic about something else

    • @laurahazeleger4287
      @laurahazeleger4287 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@panmoncada7257 Oh my goodness right??? The irony isn't lost on us

    • @queenizzy01
      @queenizzy01 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@laurahazeleger4287 I think he did it thinking it would be funny. I wouldn’t know I didn’t watch it before the news broke about him cheating. It might’ve been funnier back then but now it’s definitely not, and seems to be very real like OP said

    • @ShadyMilksYoutube
      @ShadyMilksYoutube ปีที่แล้ว +19

      it was very obviously a (awkward) bit. even down to zach's reaction you can clearly tell they're actinh

  • @nattiemar
    @nattiemar ปีที่แล้ว +2430

    you can literally see how uncomfortable keith is at alex's story 🥴 5:08

    • @tallbrowngal
      @tallbrowngal ปีที่แล้ว +764

      Alex gives such major pick-me vibes. "You know he's got a pregnant woman at home but HE STILL WANTED MEEEE" like girl do you always run after second-hand material?

    • @kateysneed3359
      @kateysneed3359 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      @@tallbrowngal faxx that story is so disgusting of her, like ma'am you had a wholeass fiancee

    • @beileisoup
      @beileisoup ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@tallbrowngal and its so unfortunate because alex is literally gorgeous... girl you have so many options but a married man with children should NOT be one of them

    • @tallbrowngal
      @tallbrowngal ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@kateysneed3359 Exactly this. 100% this. Both Ned and Alex had the perfect relationships with their respective partners. It annoys me that they would just blow it all for some "fun" and that they wasted 10 whole years of their partners lives.

    • @tallbrowngal
      @tallbrowngal ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@beileisoup Unfortunately Alex doesn't look beautiful to me at all. I just cannot look at a liar and a cheater as a beautiful person. And yes I fully agree that she definitely had to make a better choice and that it's not a flex that a married man fell for you.

  • @brionnashirley6234
    @brionnashirley6234 ปีที่แล้ว +1208

    I’m just so heartbroken that Ned has stopped Ariel from doing her podcasts with the girls and making videos in general that she has worked SO hard on.. I miss her bubbly sweet self. I hope one day we get to see and hear her again. She deserves to be happy and do what she loves doing.

    • @saorise28
      @saorise28 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      We don’t know if that’s Ned, Ariel may just have a bad taste of it after every thing that happened

    • @ruiqi22
      @ruiqi22 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      @@saorise28 Yeah, but his actions have led to this regardless. I don’t think Ned is literally forcing her not to appear, but his existence and scandal are making her uncomfortable with appearing in those videos.

    • @3StarLogo
      @3StarLogo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No she can come back whenever she wants she just needs to be ok with the people who are gonna be intrusive in her life. Wether she wants it or not it's gonna happen

  • @HerbieRey
    @HerbieRey ปีที่แล้ว +1363

    I know it's selfish and we're not at all entitled to her emotions, but I really want to hear from Ariel. Is she doing okay, is she supported, does she think she'll come back to You Can Sit With Us?
    I really miss her presence on the channel and feel like Ned robbed us of that, and of course he robbed her of so much too.

    • @kaitlin1609
      @kaitlin1609 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I think they’re getting divorced. She use to have “wife” in her Instagram bio and it’s not in it anymore.

  • @michellemarie988
    @michellemarie988 ปีที่แล้ว +1086

    I always rooted for Ned on the one fact that Ariel and I were classmates in Elementary school. I had already remembered her as being so kind.

  • @jessicagowans90
    @jessicagowans90 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    What gets to me is the audaciousness of Ned cheating on Ariel in public with a colleague. He was so careless knowing he, Ariel, and the other girl are public figures. Where the hell was his common sense? Was it arrogance or just he was dumb? It was selfish and irresponsible. Even though it is messed he was cheating, he could have just kept it a secret instead of going out in public with his colleague at clubs, restaurants, and concerts. Plus, he betrayed his friends with who he started the business after leaving Buzzfeed. They became close friends because of these videos. Don't forget they have to go through legal bullshit because of Ned. It is messy. Trust is gone and friendships ended. When his kids grow up, they will know about the scandal and Ned will be remembered as the guy who dropped the bag. I hope she divorces him. Ariel deserves better.

  • @bbqbiscuit
    @bbqbiscuit ปีที่แล้ว +127

    That “worlds worst boss” mug is delicious irl foreshadowing

  • @Mncowen
    @Mncowen ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Yeah that scene of him freaking out because his gingerbread cookies didn’t turn out was insanely frightening to watch for the first time and even worse after all the drama. All the guys have had their freak outs and their meltdowns but that was something else entirely. Like that’s an AWFUL reaction to something like that, I can’t imagine his reactions to really bad things happening to him…

  • @didimc6732
    @didimc6732 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    it’s nick’s face when he puts his head on alex’s lap during the spaghetti hot tub. u can see he’s immediately questioning it

    • @lauraisawesification
      @lauraisawesification ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yes! His face literally looks like that meme with the guy with the question marks who has the “wtF?!?!” Face

  • @littlebadwolf91
    @littlebadwolf91 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    That biological clock comment is absolutely DISGUSTING. The whole biological clock thing is doesn't really exist, and such a sexist thing to say to someone. Someone's choice to reproduce or not is their own choice, and is private, and it is incredibly demeaning to insinuate that a woman will be "expired" because she doesn't have a child. Someone may not want kids, or medically cannot have them. Either way it is a tasteless and insulting remark. Ned was ALWAYS my least favorite, and it's clear to see why. He just annoyed me.

    • @madison2226
      @madison2226 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I agree that it’s okay for a woman to choose if she doesn’t want to have children and that it was completely inappropriate for Ned to say that to her. However, I do have to say to you that a biological clock for woman’s fertility 100% does exist (a “biological clock” exists for every organ tissue in the body). It’s harder for woman to conceive starting in about their mid to late 30s and becomes harder to carry to full term.
      Again, a woman absolutely does not need to have children to have a fulfilling life. But saying the biological clock “doesn’t really exist” is just simply wrong. People have definitely used it to be sexist towards woman, but they’re not technically wrong scientifically, but they are wrong in a human decency kind of way.

    • @hkazu63
      @hkazu63 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Smth that really bothers me is that I think Ariel had their first son around 35, and if not the first, then the second. Not only is it insulting to the woman he was talking to in question, but it extends to his wife too, for having had children in her mid-30s too and really makes me question how he treated her.

    • @claraboe2755
      @claraboe2755 ปีที่แล้ว

      i mean "the biological clock" *does* exist - its just a fact that your reproductive years are limited. It just has nothing to do with the worth of people or their life decisions or how you should treat them

    • @viktorias63
      @viktorias63 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah it's very much a thing ah denying that is just denying reality.

    • @mayaswellbethewifesaccount7625
      @mayaswellbethewifesaccount7625 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m 28 and been trying for a baby since I was 26. My biological clock Is DEFINITELY ticking but it’s not my fault I don’t have a baby! Sometimes people can’t have kids and don’t want to tell people that. Plain. And. Simple.

  • @loonyhype9527
    @loonyhype9527 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Even before the scandal, It was pretty easy to notice Ned’s unwelcoming facial expressions in the background and passive aggressive undertones beneath his pumpkin spice basic bitch exterior. Good riddance. I hope Ariel and their kids are okay. Ned’s reaction to being fired mustn’t have been pretty. I mean, the man kicked and punched air, screamed and laid down on the floor like an unsatisfied spoiled kid just because his gingerbread cookies got burnt. And the first thing he did was blame Zack for distracting him with making TikToks, but mind you, Ned was the one throwing it back for the camera (putting in the most effort).

  • @mothmos
    @mothmos ปีที่แล้ว +285

    when 2 adults work and both have jobs, house chores must also be shared. Don't pin it all on the wife when wife also has work. I swear ladies, please don't take that crappy arrangement that WoMen dO aLL tHe HouSEwoRk BeCuz They"RE WoMeN. Jeez. This kind of unfairness and abuse must stop. Men are supposedly adults and must know how to clean up for themselves. Wash their own dishes and do their own effin' laundry for God's sake.

  • @natchinvlogs
    @natchinvlogs ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I was getting uncomfortable when listening to Ariel’s comments on the podcast. I could feel her uncertainties and sadness :(

  • @KokoDanni
    @KokoDanni ปีที่แล้ว +406

    That biological clock comment was so uncalled for lol

  • @destinyheath6583
    @destinyheath6583 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Honestly keith and zack are the husbands that Ned wanted to be.

  • @DisgruntledPelican17
    @DisgruntledPelican17 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I've been watching the try guys since the start- Ned was always my least favorite. I always found him rude, obnoxious, etc.

    • @Throatzillaaa
      @Throatzillaaa ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same! He was just no bland imo with no personality so he made loving his wife (which should be a given) his entire personality. And that never seems genuine.

    • @liamr3362
      @liamr3362 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He was also my least favorite, I found him as annoying (because his whole personality at least at the beginning was just college frat guy). No wonder people only know him as the other white guy.

    • @Music-fg3bj
      @Music-fg3bj ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same, I always felt like there was something off/stiff about the way he acted (not in an awkward way) so would skip past his bits. I never would have guessed anything specific but the energy he exuded and the way expressions don't really reach his eyes was just off-putting.

    • @akj1818
      @akj1818 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ME TOO!!! I always felt like HE felt that he was superior to everyone. "Im a chemist!!"

    • @kaitlin1609
      @kaitlin1609 ปีที่แล้ว

      He use to be my favorite because he was the “family guy” now I hate that I liked him

  • @fergie42069
    @fergie42069 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    the Easter video where Ned gets blackout drunk at his own baby shower told me everything i needed to know about him

  • @allshookup1640
    @allshookup1640 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Ned OBVIOUSLY tried to steal Keith’s fake angry thing, but Keith’s was always full of jokes obviously comedic, and the SECOND any seemed uncomfortable he STOPPED. Ned just stole it and tried to out do it and looked like a massive d bag

    • @m.a.a.v.4333
      @m.a.a.v.4333 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Literally though. He looked like he was possesed. When Keith does it, he doesn't pose any real danger to anybody and everyone's laughing. You can tell it's a skit. With Ned... Not so sure. It looks like real anger. He flipped a chair over essentially. Had someone been too close to him at the time, he could've easily injured them.
      He's such a copycat, so unoriginal, and such a fratboy. Smh

  • @j.m.9727
    @j.m.9727 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Whether the Try Guys knew or suspected something doesn't actually make them bad people IMO. Because Ned put them all in a position where if they addressed it, publicly or privately, the entire brand and everyone's jobs (not just theirs) would be on the line. Everyone the brand supports, not just the workers but their families, could've lost their livelihoods and that's a huge burden to have on your shoulders. Ned knew that and that's probably why he felt comfortable cheating. He thought he was untouchable because he had everyone's income as leverage.

  • @hirynanasarian
    @hirynanasarian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +781

    I just amaze how everybody destroys Ned (rightfully so) but Nobody say one thing about Alex.
    When I heard that podcast I knew that she is used to that with every guy she wants. She knew Post had a pregnant girlfriend an she kept on pushing him
    We all have to remember that SHE also cheat her fiancé (and don't drive that bull about boss and higher position) they went out for more than a year!!
    And Deep inside I'm guessing the guys knew all along about the cheating thing, it's just that the whole world found out

    • @underworldprincess
      @underworldprincess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Definitely, Alex is just as responsible.

    • @aprilh8022
      @aprilh8022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@underworldprincess Shes not married to Neds wife and she didn't co own second try so it all 100% should fall on him. You cant cheat with your married boss unless hes willing to cheat. The ONLY responsibilities she had was to her partner.

    • @melbell0865
      @melbell0865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      @@aprilh8022 I get that, but she still decided to go along with it: it would’ve been smarter of her to report it to the other guys, rejected him, and tried to get out of that mess. But instead, she chose to cheat with Ned, and did so consistently, without hesitation, while in a long term relationship with a man she was engaged to. Do I completely fault her? No, Ned is a total douche that deserves most of the blame. I just think Alex should take some accountability as well.

    • @herdmentality1894
      @herdmentality1894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've thought Alex was gross ever since she talked about her sleaziness with post I heard that story and was like oh so you're a slut. she didn't do this with a stranger she screwed all her friends over like trash it's not that she's not disgusting it's just that Ned is worse.

    • @hirynanasarian
      @hirynanasarian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@herdmentality1894 exactly but I find quite interesting nobody says nothing about her. Always focusing in the "boss-employee dynamic" and legal stuff.
      She was well aware of what what she were doing and also Ned.
      I just think of Ariel and how much shame she must feel on top of everything

  • @cheesethekoala8756
    @cheesethekoala8756 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Yea looking back for some reason when I watched the video where Alex is talking about this guy in New York who had to stay on his best behaviour because his wife if pregnant, I hade a horrible sneaking feeling the entire time that she was talking about Ned, but told myself “Noooo, that can’t be.” and left it at that for some reason

    • @browniesmasher21
      @browniesmasher21 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      No, she was talking about Post Malone

  • @samanthaspeckman6648
    @samanthaspeckman6648 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Wait. What podcast is when Ariel is talking about how they went to work together but in separate cars /him staying after they were done/ not going home from?

  • @sierravera1051
    @sierravera1051 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The fact that Ned was laying on Alex’s lap and no one said anything 🥴

  • @zoe9190
    @zoe9190 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    If i had to describe Ned with one word, it would be “selfish”.

  • @eleonoramaciel6273
    @eleonoramaciel6273 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    the biological clock comment....... mmmmm

    • @Thatonebrownhuevito
      @Thatonebrownhuevito ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I hate that so much 😭 imagine having a man telling you that and basically tell you how to live your life

  • @deearr420
    @deearr420 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Like others in the comments im also a gay guy but- Ariel should come Marry Me

  • @Oddballkane
    @Oddballkane ปีที่แล้ว +18

    To me, whenever he said my wife is almost the same as my phone or my car. Basically, he was treating her like an object, not a person.

  • @xxobrittanyg
    @xxobrittanyg ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I really miss Ariel on the pod. I wish none of this happened to her bc she’s an amazing person.

  • @AidaBM30
    @AidaBM30 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Why are the wives the only ones expected to do the cleaning? 🤬🤬🤬 HELL NAH

  • @ogconut
    @ogconut 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ariel needs to realize that ned is dangerous to her children because not only is keeping him around teaching them that cheating is forgivable, but that he displays potential to develop violent tendencies

    • @klara709
      @klara709 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah, that's the worst part. He and Ariel can make up, but their children still get the message that cheating does not require immediate divorce, and they might be more tolerant of it in the future.

    • @Rosebud69
      @Rosebud69 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Idk their children a really young still. I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't know and ned and Ariel probably not planning on telling them anytime soon. Also, absolutely get being weary of cheaters, but violent tendencies seem like a leap. Just because 2 things can correlate doesn't mean we should automatically assume the worst. My heart goes out to Ariel and wanting to keep her family together. Seen plenty of cases where one partner cheated and the other one stuck with them and repaired their relationship, it is not unheard of.

  • @kurliekatrina
    @kurliekatrina ปีที่แล้ว +26

    People are surprised, but I knew exactly who Ned was after hearing him brag about college and being a frat bro. It doesn't surprise me at all that he'd cheat, with a subordinate nonetheless. He went a little to hard with the "my wife" content. Those guys always cheat.

  • @manofmagic1803
    @manofmagic1803 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Still not sure why she is trying to make it work with him. "For the kids" mentality isn't worth it. It will only make a toxic environment, she should just get custody and he pays child support or just sees them on weekends.
    He cheated, not her.

    • @klara709
      @klara709 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As a child of divorced parents, I support this message. The child WILL know that something is wrong, even if they are too young to put a finger on it they will sense the tense atmosphere in the house and resentment one parent feels towards another. Splitting is paradoxically a better way to model healthy relationships in this situation.

  • @thedeserts
    @thedeserts ปีที่แล้ว +39

    i have mad respect for ariel for even putting up with his ass lmao

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3:57 that comment he made makes me so angry. Firstly, some people don't want kids. Secondly, that's none of your business. Thirdly, if we did have a family we'd treat them a lot better than he did! He's such a d**k

  • @theroadnottaken_
    @theroadnottaken_ ปีที่แล้ว +58

    it's so sad that she stayed with him after everything :(

    • @MeredithHagan
      @MeredithHagan ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The statistics are pretty high that couples stay together after one of them cheats.
      Like, maybe if it was like a one-time drunken thing it would not OKAY but at least something someone could move past. But a year long affair???? Goodbye!

    • @theroadnottaken_
      @theroadnottaken_ ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@MeredithHagan they probably stayed for the kids and bc their finances are tied together. But I don't think parents realize that kids can know when their parents are not ok. They can feel the vibe of the household, especially if the mom is unhappy. They will just grow up in a household where there's no trust between adults. :(

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has sooooooo MANY OPTIONs and possibilities, she is a white woman with great conections on a firts world country... She stay cuz SADLY she loves that asshole , she didnt stay cuz of the kids , cuz the finances, cuz the money ...nah ... She clearly like that cheater

  • @Narimayy
    @Narimayy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ned was projecting this whole time and like many others, i never noticed,
    The only good thing about this is it helps people see what the warning signs can look like.
    There was so much anger he was projecting onto his wife and coworkers.

  • @rheam3920
    @rheam3920 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm so shocked at seeing this in my recommended. Even though I'm not a frequent viewer of the try guys I do occasionally watch their videos and Ned to me was always all about his wife. I loved how dedicated he seemed to her and their marriage. Its heartbreaking to see this now makes me realise how fake that image was. Is loyalty truly dead?

  • @Olivia-bl8ez
    @Olivia-bl8ez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I recently got confirmation my husband has been having an affair with a woman from work. This is so sad to watch because I felt a lot of the same things I can now see were signs! Especially getting mad at me for anything I did around the house instead of being thankful at all for the work I put in. He never cleaned, but my cleaning was suddenly always wrong for some reason. It’s such a small thing that feels awful. I feel for Ariel.

    • @epcza13
      @epcza13 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope that’s your ex husband now. So sorry you had to deal with that.

    • @Olivia-bl8ez
      @Olivia-bl8ez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@epcza13 soon to be ex. Going through the legal process. It’s always the nice seeming family men you gotta watch out for

  • @rootbeary
    @rootbeary ปีที่แล้ว +10

    its crazy and sad how we are so use to it and don't recognize signs until later. :((

  • @alyssacolon4737
    @alyssacolon4737 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I’ve always hated Ned, I’ve always watched for the other guys, but Ned has always given me the IcK

  • @andievalentin
    @andievalentin ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "no kids at 35" like omg that is *none* of your business. maybe she doesnt want kids and that is completely valid. maybe they want kids but not now. maybe she and her partner really does want kids and have health problems that prevent her from becoming pregnant (there are of course many other valid options to becoming a parent) or from having a safe pregnancy.
    that is such a shitty thing to comment on and something that shouldnt even concern him in the slightest. and that is over looking the statistics that 1 in 5 women in the united states are *35 or older* when they give birth to their *first* child. and while becoming pregnant once you have entered your 40's is harder (due to the low amount of eggs left) it is far from impossible.
    that is such a douche thing to say on neds part.

  • @caseyboman3233
    @caseyboman3233 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As someone in the industry, if Ned reacted the way he did to the gingerbread in a real kitchen setting, he'd get thrown out at Mach 10. It's not funny, just childish

  • @MargaridaMmakeup
    @MargaridaMmakeup ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why the girl just said that his wife is hot and then smile but in the back they are having an affair, disgusting for the both of them honestly

  • @itsmecelinau
    @itsmecelinau ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Ariel NEEDS TO THROW AWAY NEDS MEAT FOR REAL!! He cheated and she deserves so much better!! Hes trash. Him cheating w the other cheater Alex is like leftover food just sitting in the fridge in time it will turn nasty and never last nor be good..

  • @Jah_LEASE_yah
    @Jah_LEASE_yah ปีที่แล้ว +228

    I know people are going to keep pouring over every little video to point out all the flaws in Ned’s Character, and how everyone should have known but let’s just not forget there are real people involved. Ariel is a real person who was cheated on. Alex is a real person whose boss exploited his position of power over her for sex. Even Ned is a real person who ruined his own career, marriage and family. None of them need their trauma compounded by everyone scrutinizing every piece of content that exist online of them.

    • @alittlebirdysaid
      @alittlebirdysaid ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I appreciate this comment.

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I kind of doubt Alex was exploited into anything. Based on some of the clips of her, she seemed to know exactly what she was doing!
      However, anything is possible.

    • @Jah_LEASE_yah
      @Jah_LEASE_yah ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@sandpiperr her was her boss and he slept with her. That is exploitation even if she fully consented. He was in a position of power over her and exploited that position to sleep with his employee. Also, clips don't mean shit. this is what I mean about how people need to stop scrutinizing every piece of content that exists of them. You can draw a conclusion from a video online that is totally incorrect.

    • @alittlebirdysaid
      @alittlebirdysaid ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sandpiperr that is not something we can tell based on some clips of her.

    • @srslee5966
      @srslee5966 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Spare me with the Alex pity

  • @TheLoserface45
    @TheLoserface45 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I agree with all of it except for the “Without a Recipe” episode. Ned lashed out in character. Keith does the same thing. And Zach’s character in the series is a very “imma throw shit in, I’ll probs get last anyways” type.

    • @madison2226
      @madison2226 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      But when Keith does it he’s smiling, laughing, and breaking that character in the middle of it (and he makes very dramatic so it’s waaaaay more obvious to others that it’s a joke). It’s pretty well known that Ned was the most competitive Try Guy so him getting mad in a competition when something goes wrong for him was a real situation the crew had to deal with. It was probably a lot harder for them to know if it was a joke or him actually getting mad in that moment.

    • @sorryoutlandish
      @sorryoutlandish ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m not too sure if that’s 100% accurate. Keith gets very dramatic but we all know that’s just his “character” that he plays on the show and we all know it’s just one big joke. It also helps that Keith is just all around a very good person in real life so we know that him acting in that manner isn’t actually him. Ned is extremely competitive, that’s just kinda how he’s been known in the Try Guys, so him flipping out like that makes it incredibly confusing on whether or not it’s actually a joke. I think Rachel commented that he was actually scaring the judges because of his behavior. Idk that’s just a bit of a red flag to me

    • @derangedone13
      @derangedone13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. I think you have to take those channel videos with a huge grain of salt. They're playing it up for the camera. For the podcast episodes, sure, they're more "normal" in those, but a lot of their videos are, if not scripted, very dramatized and staged.

  • @ilypopple
    @ilypopple ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I really miss Ariel on the podcast :(( it also sucks not to wee west grow up but I really hope Ariel and the kids are safe and well.

  • @lealeone2582
    @lealeone2582 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He’s narcissistic at best, psychopathic at worst. He’s y’know, a part of that Yale thing. 🤫

  • @cassandrareinhart1712
    @cassandrareinhart1712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    This is like every other video covering the topic.

    • @canarychoked
      @canarychoked 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      idk. its not like there anything new to say. people are just interested in making a video of their own, and theres nothing wrong with that.

  • @shahanisalcedo9884
    @shahanisalcedo9884 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had honestly always thought Ariel was so sweet and considerate as a wife (on social media) and Ned acts like a middle school boy.... Was NOT surprised when the scandal came out lol.
    I hope Ariel finds healing. She deserves a good husband

  • @beebeepup
    @beebeepup ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ned sounds like a muppet

  • @unapologeticallylizzy
    @unapologeticallylizzy ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have so much respect for Ariel. I really hope she's doing okay.

  • @TheJeanean
    @TheJeanean 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ned has peaked in HS/college vibes.

    • @RiveroftheWither
      @RiveroftheWither 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I mean he would literally never shut up about going to Yale and being a big sporty frat boy so good call.

  • @BankruptMonkey
    @BankruptMonkey ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They knew Ned had an alcohol problem, that doesn't mean they knew he'd abuse power like this

  • @ShadyMilksYoutube
    @ShadyMilksYoutube ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The biological clock comment should've been enough to put him under watchful eye from the beginning

  • @DUSKvsDAWN
    @DUSKvsDAWN ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you know you fucked up when your wife says "I'm not mad, I'm disappointed".

  • @c4arla
    @c4arla ปีที่แล้ว +10

    lol the embarrasement of her being so generous with such an unattractive guy and him doing this seriously tf

  • @vessagroker98
    @vessagroker98 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ned always mentioned in videos his beautiful wife, he looked so proud to able to have her as his wife. I was like, why isn't my husband saying sweet things like that? Well probably cause he isn't cheating and feeling guilty. It is so weird that the "I have a great wife"-try-guy is cheating...

  • @WaterPuppy
    @WaterPuppy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God damn that tantrum tho, that's horrifying!

  • @82nesse
    @82nesse 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There was a try guy episode where their dad was in and if you just watch his father you knew what kind of person he is. His dad was cold acted like he is better in everything talked down on him no emotion, what would we expect from a men who was raised by a cold distant men high chances he was so desperate for his approval but never got that, and if you count how Neds sister turned into a alchoholic now she is better but lived for a long time with Ned and Ariel when she hit rock bottom. It was expected that Ned would turn out the same type of men his dad

  • @BigT.R.X
    @BigT.R.X ปีที่แล้ว +5

    don´t know. it is always easy to spot the red flags afterwards. when they occur, you may find smth strange or weird but you won´t go like "woah man, you are totally cheating, wtf?!"
    ned did the unthinkable and lost all honor and respect a man could have, that is for sure...
    the other try guys seem honestly shocked and fuming about this whole thing.
    in my country we say "Hinnerher is man immer schlauer, näch?" :D

  • @rileym538
    @rileym538 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    5:10 "i brought it with me because it was in my work bag" girl what was it doing in there 😐 youre not helping your case

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why don't husbands help around the house?? We all work. My partner does things like the vaccuming, the dishes etc. He doesn't expect me to do everything just cause I'm a woman. I couldn't stand that

    • @pigeondance
      @pigeondance ปีที่แล้ว +1

      because most men actually suck 🤷‍♀️

  • @mxsdrago
    @mxsdrago ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Honorable mention to when he showed up on the channel Game Knights to play Magic the Gathering, and chose the card "Jolene, the Plunder Queen" as his commander because he said he liked the song by Dolly Parton

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's a bit of a stretch, bud!
      A lot of people like that song. It's a good song.
      It doesn't mean they're all going to cheat.
      Not to mention, it's from the POV of a woman who's either being cheated on or afraid she's being cheated on, not a guy tempted to cheat!
      It's just one of those things that seems unfortunate in hindsight, but, really, I just a meaningless coincidence.

    • @ajo8075
      @ajo8075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uh that's just an iconic song, there's nothing to read into with that one

  • @Ryokaia
    @Ryokaia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think based on what you showed on this video. It showed there was something rocky in their relationship not that all the signs point some a relationship within the company. We can look back now and connect the dots (hindsight being 20/20) but I wouldn’t say it was obvious

  • @kazzlee1125
    @kazzlee1125 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    can we have links to the videos used!! I wanna watch!!

  • @gracerichey2291
    @gracerichey2291 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I never really liked Ned, just his vibe and attitude always seemed off, and now I’m really understanding why

  • @vickielouisefit
    @vickielouisefit ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m still so Fucking mad at that biological clock comment

  • @stewartann816
    @stewartann816 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Anyone have the link for this particular You Can Sit With Us episode? Specifically where Ariel talks about Ned's behavior

  • @Andy-rj8sr
    @Andy-rj8sr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel horrible for Ariel and the boys. Ned doesn’t deserve them. I was so proud of how the other guys handled the situation. It wasn’t just a celebrity cheating, it was a boss sleeping with an employee. They handled it efficiently and professionally. I’ve never been a fan of Ned and now I finally see why

  • @KayKay_96
    @KayKay_96 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why did she stay with him after all this ? It bothers me like no other

  • @frezleverzo5400
    @frezleverzo5400 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need the link for the 4:09 vid. What episode was that?

  • @PeyloBeauty
    @PeyloBeauty ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ned was always so cringy for going over the top. for example also when he did this childish aggressive cringy shit outside of the building... I always felt uncomfortable watching him doing this and similar stuff.

  • @EH_888
    @EH_888 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish that his wife would have divorced him. He publicly humiliated and disrespected her.

  • @Emma-wm9jg
    @Emma-wm9jg ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She deserves sm better

  • @oliviap7496
    @oliviap7496 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I liked the try guys when I was a teen but when I approached early adulthood, I stopped because there was something off about Ned, now I know.

  • @susannehuber3996
    @susannehuber3996 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always blamed myself that I hated the „nice guy“ Ned, because I like the bad boys better. He always was boring and cheap.

  • @timmckenna2444
    @timmckenna2444 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He is working at Buzzfeed. Hope Ariel and the boys are ok.

    • @Mewcaloid
      @Mewcaloid ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He is? Where did you read that?

    • @IceMaidenxx3
      @IceMaidenxx3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He went back to them??

  • @thatfangirl1145
    @thatfangirl1145 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why are husbands NOT cleaning the house too... gushing about your wife or not, that's just machista 😅 these women have the bar on the floor

  • @asiadread4902
    @asiadread4902 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I knew as soon as I saw some of their videos together…they knew! They can’t tell me they didn’t…if an outsider could tell, they knew.

    • @rebekahcreates
      @rebekahcreates ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, but something that seems impossible can be missed for much longer than an outsider. They were together as a team for 8 years, and Ned was completely and genuinely in love with his wife pre-pandemic and babies. An affair would seem so impossible in that context that everyone (except maybe Nick, their production manager) would have totally missed the red flags

    • @strawberryfox8819
      @strawberryfox8819 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes only outsiders can tell someone's in an abusive relationship. You view your close friends very differently than an outsider would.
      This is a Strawman argument and incredibly disgusting.

    • @youdontknowme8503
      @youdontknowme8503 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel like maybe they had some suspicions but werent sure. Like they wanted to give their friend the benefit of the doubt. And until their suspicions were proven right, they didnt wanna tell Ariel and cause an issue if there wasn’t one and their suspicions were wrong.

  • @bujenjing
    @bujenjing ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ned always talking about his wife and how much he loves Ariel in videos just goes to show that it was too good to be true.

  • @bleh3039
    @bleh3039 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I work in a high stress job and at the end of the day I’m beat - I would adore if my partner cooked or cleaned I would be so grateful

  • @Ypenworldyesno
    @Ypenworldyesno ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the name of the episode talked about in 2:03?

  • @jijijijibaby
    @jijijijibaby ปีที่แล้ว +19

    it’s is only acceptable for the “biological clock” argument to be brought up if it’s by a woman. even if it seems like an unstated fact, the moment a man brings it up it’s not acceptable imo. so the fact that Ned just did it in front of cameras is so mind blowing.

    • @SeraphimCramer
      @SeraphimCramer ปีที่แล้ว +44

      It's not ok for anyone to bring up unless they're talking about themselves.

    • @이효민-w8h
      @이효민-w8h ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's the fact that it was completely unnecessary in that moment .. her husband and her will decide if they want children

  • @skylarboyd9639
    @skylarboyd9639 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:25 bro literally had a tantrum. TF??