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- confessions that cancelled the wedding - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some confessions that cancelled the wedding!
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Currently with a guy who can pick me up like I’m nothing. I mentioned being worried about gaining weight because I love when he does it and he wouldn’t be able to do it anymore. He said “if I can’t pick you up anymore for whatever reason it just means I have to go harder at the gym, it’s not your issue”. Liar needs to learn from him
Aww thats cute😊
He's a keeper, for sure! Wish you the best 🥰
So cute, I love that for you! I hope I can find someone like that :')
😂
My husband used to crack jokes that he would love me even if I was 300 pounds, that he wouldn't take me anywhere, but would still love me. 19 years into our marriage I suffered an autoimmune disease that spiked my weight. My husband loves me, supports me, and helps me through this difficult time with grace. I'm more hard on myself than he could ever be. He reminds me that part of our wedding vows included "until death due us part" and that everyone knows old people sag and wrinkle beyond recognition, and that I'll need an extra 40 or 50 years to get there because I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever seen. He adds the part where I gave him his greatest blessings in five daughters, who gave him grandkids. Ladies, recognize good men where they are and help them become great men for your legacy!
It always baffles me when people say they're "Christian" then follow up with the most un-Christ-like words and behaviour in the same breath.
Yes as a Christian- it is very frustrating to hear. It’s like they’re Christian by title only, not by how they live. It’s very sad and gives us Christians a bad name.
The dude thought he was Christian. Maybe.
They believe Jesus and God exists, but they don't have a RELATIONSHIP with them
Who are you to decide what is and isn’t Christ like. #glasshousesandall
@@CrysCrafif someone is hateful, they are not a Christian.
If someone is intolerant of their neighbors, they are not Christian.
If someone is unkind or cruel, they are not Christian.
We have a book we read to know how to act. Granted it's a smidge misogynistic but still, there's some good stuff over there.
I told my current husband (when we got engaged) that we wouldn’t get married unless he saw a doctor and I got to come. He’s in his 50s and a bit overweight and hadn’t been to a doctor in YEARS!! He hates doctors and hospitals and it’s a genuine fear. He agreed and I set him up with a great male doctor that listened to him and joked with him and now he has proper heart medication and anxiety meds and he LOVES his new doctor. Mission accomplished lol
That’s loveeeeee baby! U go girl!! U both r lucky to have each other!
My mother kept my father, who recently passed, alive for 30 years (60-89) by controlling his medical care and knowing EVERYTHING. The doctors just spoke directly to her. Woman would grab IVs and go, "Nope! He had an allergic reaction to that med in 1999." Saved his life more times than I can count. "He has an infection." No, he doesn't. "He only acts like this when he has an infection. Test him." Cue ambulance arriving at doctors office. Now, she feels like she didn't do good enough or else he would still be alive. It's impossible to explain to her that LOVE literally kept that man's heart beating, despite all odds, for decades beyond his life expectancy. It's a powerful drug. I moved home to keep her company. It helps. But I'm NOT her partner of 60 years. I'm her daughter. I'll never know her that way. I wish she knew how extraordinary of a job she did. But to her, that WAS her job. And she failed.
Mike slapping his ass made me laugh. 😂
I was so thankful to see another man besides my husband (who will also do that in public 😂) do it too
@@Twinkletink83I want one of those! I like weird (in an amazing way) men🤣
I read this comment and had to rewind just to watch hilarious giving all that entertainment for free😂
I loved that whole moment ❤
@@kayleighandhercat1351 they're the best!! I hope you find yours sooner rather than later 💜
Nobody:
Lucy: "If you wanna be my lover ❤ you gotta get with my friend" 🎶💃🏽💃🏽
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 why was I also singing this!?
Why am I singing this as a spice girls songs ?😅
Jajajajajajajaa 😂😂😂😂
I just spitmy drink out!😂😂
i think the reason he said "youre exactly my type" is because he figured she was so much younger than him he thought he could shape her into what he wanted and manipulate the ever loving crap out of her. glad it didnt work. good for her!
THIS LITERALLY THIS
Yup.
To get over the 13 year age gap, he probably also told her that she's "mature for her age"... I swear this is the first page in the groomer handbook...so many people that have told stories over SM and the few I know in real life that got out of these situations (finally, in some cases) have said that is what their groomer told them...sometimes many times. It makes them feel special and flattered that this mature person thinks they are mature too. Honestly, at 15, I would have fallen for it. I'll be the first to admit that my young self was easily influenced and naïve (maybe also a bit stupid lol).
Yeah I was pretty naive up until senior year, and also called an old soul for my maturity and taste in music. When I saw a friend of mine being taken advantage of by an older guy, I started paying atttention to age. And I was also the cool girl with guy friends. So I also got to experience most of my guy friends confessing to me by end of senior year @@MyLifeMyWay
YES! Absolutely 💯
"If you prove that you're mature enough to get married to someone, i will allow you to break that future marriage off in order to date me" -- Lucy on a smart day, basically.
Yup, it honestly seems the "friend" is the main problem here. Granted, calling off the wedding and reevaluating the relationship is probably for the best. But either way, Lucy is a snake.
I also don't understand Lucy. She's a manipulator.
What I think she failed to realize is that if he really wanted her, he would have made it so it was her and she didn't feel the need to do all that nonsense but joke was on her I guess
Been tripping on too much of herself lol
Frienemies are usually the best friend. She's trying to break up the marriage so 1.She can win the bet. 2.She wants to be the bride and thinks this will get her there. 3.She's extremely jealous of your happiness and wants to be you. I would bet that she's done/said things that have sabotaged you before. Lucy is toxic
“This ain’t build a bitch!” Lmao best comment ever
Hehe Bella Poarch
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That's exactly what I was gonna say.
That's the best comment of this year so far
That made my day LMAO 🤣
Second Queen was given a heartbreaking gift to know the truth about Liar before walking down the aisle. My heart breaks for her & the damage caused. If her own parents have done enough for her to break contact she is already vulnerable around trust. This is a diabolical betrayal that will amplify her pain. Rise like a phoenix Queen. You are the light.
'Men will f•ck a pie', killed me!!! Charlotte's more spicy attitude lately is awesome, yay for being a recovering people pleaser!
Freaking American pie 😂🤣😂
One of my guy friends recently told me that f-ing a folded pillow with a mulberry silk pillow case on it can be an enjoyable experience for a single man! 😂💀
@@sngray11 Sure doesn't take much to satisfy that part of them. 3 basic needs: Food, sleep, secks. Not necessarily in that order.
My mother used to mention rice pudding and my father in the one sentence. And if it wasn't rice pudding it was a hole in the mattress.
Jesus im dying laughing in this comment section
Imagine saying ‘we’ll get counselling on it after the wedding’ which basically means ‘I’ll get my pastor to change your mind later’.
More like a room full of religiosas brainwashing her. I've actually had a work friend, who invited me to her wedding; she was already dressed dowdily, having to wear a scarf, with long unflattering skirts, and him and his friends just sat and let the women wait on them. The wives never actually sat down the entire "wedding". Don't know why she invited me; I couldn't talk her out of her enslavement by then...
@phoebesmith8154 - That last one. Maybe it's not a pastor. Maybe it's a cult leader. And jah, that girl should run, not walk, as fast and as far as she can away from that crapweasel.
Yup
Heavy on the "SUBMIT," light on the "die for your Bride as Christ died for the Church."
They always leave that last little bit out.
Free Palestine! ❤🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸
Bro really said ‘I’m a Christian. & you need a boob job’.
The fact that he is 36 & she is 23 should’ve been a red flag from the start.
(I’m a Christian)
The age gap was also the first thing I noticed!!! 13 years is way too much. I do know some couples that have significant age gaps but have happy and successful marriages. Still the age is still a hurdle I would tread really cautiously.
I know a couple with that agegap but she was 32 and the younger part. Both are equal in the relationship. But in cases wete the girls are 14 up tp 25 years the qge gaps are horrible. They think they are mature but most time arent and those men take advantage
The fact that after three years of dating, he now says he's a Christian, proves he is not a Christian. If his so-called faith was important to him at all she would no that within the first month. Also, his priorities are directly against the teachings of the Bible. Uggh.
An... I'm a Christian 🚩
@@donnakawana ? Him saying that or me..?
Lucy is toxic AF. honestly sounds like she was emotionally abusing OP's fiance, and didn't expect him to actually move on with OP. the fact she was willing to hurt her friend in a twisted effort to mess with Erwins head once more, speaks volumes at what kind person Lucy is: 'if you get her to love you, you're worthy of me'.
This was no bet. this was an abuser losing control of her victim, and not expecting said victim to actually move on with the friend she wanted to hurt. Hope OP keeps the man, but ditches the 'friend', I'd also find out if Lucy has done anything similar to others because this kind of behavior is not normal.
Very indicative of narcissistic or borderline, inviting your partner to cheat. Eeeewwww, so toxic.
Well said. This was all started by "the friend". Dude fell in love with her and forgot about bet. His awsers sounded pretty legit and bet didn't seem all that serious or have a specific target.
“If you’re willing to essentially go through with and marry someone you don’t even love and emotionally destroy them because I’ve told you to do it and that’ll make me definitely date you.” It’s giving very much the vibes of “if you love me/care for me then you’d do a,b,c for me to prove it”
She went out her way to use her bff as a pawn in her little cruel intentions plot, she is not a bff, she is an enemy.
It'd be a real shame if something awful happened, like her stubbing her toe, hitting her shin on the corner of the coffee table, and banging her funny bone every day for the rest of her life.
Even the Devil himself would be embarrassed at this plot.
Very sociopathic even psychopathic behavior. He didn’t have to go along with it either.
For an off and on FOUR MONTH gf too!
Not that there would ever be a situation where this would be justifiable, or even make sense, but that is just mind boggling to me! 🤯
I wish it would backfire for the “BFF” and the couple fell evwn more in love and the OP and him got married after all and had beautiful babies if it accidentally happened, maybw not but if it did, then it messes with the BFF even more. Lol
My ex decided AFTER we got married to reveal how he really felt about kids and religion, which were 180° different from my views (and the views he supposedly held before we married). I was shocked because we had discussed these things ad nauseum before we even got engaged. Needless to say, we divorced after a year and a half of marriage. Better to know now than after an expensive wedding.
Why do people do shit like that?? Why do they want to be with someone who’s completely incompatible with them??
@@AvaEFFit's a power thing, they think they can force someone to fit the mold of whatever idea they got built up in their head. It's like they can't comprehend that other ppl ARE complete ppl, and see them as NPCs or sth.
And tbh sometimes it's raci//sm. My old man thought that if he married a Puerto Rican woman, she'd spend her days barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. But my mom is fiercely independent and a real go-getter, she never wanted to be a SAHM and always worked, and he was never able to change her into what he wanted. 30 yrs on and he's still bitter, complaining about their opposing politics and doing a surprise Pikachu face anytime she points out that his weird bigotry affects HER, as well as the children they have together. It's amazing, really, the way some ppl can wear blinders made of steel every day of their life! Like I'm impressed, but derogatory 🤣
When my husband and I were dating and started talking about marriage I felt like it was super important to be honest. I told him my mom struggled to have the 2 kids she had, my sister adopted her kids, and I had no clue if I would be able to have kids myself. We discussed if that was a deal breaker for him and it wasnt so we were on the same page about adopting or fostering if necessary from the start. 20 years later, 2 kids and several miscarrages and 2 tubal pregnancies and he is still my rock.
My heart aches for you. My 4th child was still born. My daughter had a miscarriage 5 years ago, and an ectopic pregnancy last month. Those were her only 2 pregnancies. Im heartbroken for her.
I had a tubal pregnancy in March which ended up in a miscarriage. It is one of the hardest things ever to get through
Hell yea !! Sorry to hear of your struggles but dude that’s what a marriage is about holding each other down in the best possible way !!
❤
But she DID discuss at the start of the dating, that she didn't want kids, was not religious, etc. That doesn't work if one of them lies to hell and back.
Mike needs to dress up as Luigi with that magnificent mustache. If he does we all need to see!
Can we get Charlotte to dress up as Princess Daisy as well?
And charlotte can be daisy!
And her as princess daisy. That would be a cute couples costume idea.
Yes please!!!!!
😂😂
"This isn't Build-a-B*tch" - never heard that before, I love it!
There's a good song/music video about "This ain't build-a-bitch"
😂 I love that, hope it catches on!!!
that last story, I *_LOVE_* the way he said that she had to change, but wasn't willing to change in a single way - not THAT is some toxicity!
girl hasn't just dodged a bullet, she's dodged the entire shooting range!!!
Girl didn’t dodge a bullet. She dodged a bullet TRAIN
I wish my ex husband had been honest before the wedding. He would have saved me some time. At least I didn't have kids with him like his newest ex wife. His mama always said I was the problem. I guess she was right 😂
Yep 💯
And you never ever get plastic surgery for someone else. Ever see the wife of some billionaire who had her get cosmetic surgery to resemble a cat and when it was done he divorced her
It was bad enough he wanted her to change who she was. But finding out he was in touch with her parents (who she hasn't talked to in almost 10 years for good reason) was the final nail in the coffin. Send him to the ranks of ghost town. She doesn't need that toxic in her life. I hope she tells her brother why she is calling off the wedding. I want to hear the brother's take on this.
I stopped dating 7 years ago. Because they would always tell me how wonderful I was, then proceed to give me a laundry list of what I needed to change.. FXXK THAT🤣🤣🤣
Hugs❤
You were the common denominator. 🤔
I stoped dating to and the peace of mind! Golden
Before I met the man who is now my husband, I had stopped dating for 5 years. I got really tired of dating boys.
The odd thing is that love came along when I least expected it to. We celebrate 34 years of marriage next month.
@@parkerbrown-nesbit1747 Good for you. How did you meet?
"This ain't build-a-bitch".....I absolutely love that!!
By the sounds of it, Erwin met OP, liked her, it come up in conversation with Lucy who got jealous, freaked out and made up said bet, Erwin was like, "whatever, crazy Lucy". So Lucy brings it up now making a big deal out of it because she doesn't want them to get married. So literally not marrying him is playing right into Lucy's hands and giving her what she wants, a shot with Erwin. Dump Lucy and you'll both be happier for it.
I agree with you.
YUP!
OP and Erwin both should go NC with Lucy. If Erwin is willing to do that for the sake of his and OP's potential future together, that's a big step in regaining OP's trust and maintaining his sanity. Otherwise, it's a sign for OP to reconsider the long term stability of her relationship with Erwin. Hopefully they will work through this together - sans Lucy - and come out stronger. 🤞🙂
I don't like that he lied about knowing Lucy. But other than that, I think he reacted appropriately, was honest about not marrying her for a bet, and is earnestly in love with her. But there are some lies he needs to regain trust from. Even if they weren't exclusive the fact that it was her best friend he was seeing during that time is something he should have told her before proposal stage. I'd want to know that my bridesmaid/bff had sex with my future husband BEFORE the wedding.
The amount of people who try to "wait out" or change someone's mind about not having kids is ✨️rancid✨️
If they tell you they don't want kids and you do want kids. be polite and end it there. You might be able to be friends, but a more serious relationship is not going to happen. Bow out graciously.
If I'd been on more than one date with a man, I'd let them know that I did not want children. Period. Almost always, the response was a smug smile and "you'll change your mind".
I DID change my mind--about dating said condescending doofus ever again. I wasn't about to build a relationship on "you'll change your mind". I doubt they would either if it was them that was expected to "change their mind".
Agreed.
@@teresamcmurrin8672 exactly
But then if they are pursuing you knowing damn well you want kids and they don't, then who is the asshole is that situation? Lol I've def been there before and sometimes they're just immature men that don't know what they want, but they do want to waste your fucking time 😂 Glad I dodged marrying him..I was willing to give up everything just to be with him..I've since found my beautiful and extremely intelligent husband who is amazing with kiddos. And he wants them just as much as me, if not more lol it makes me feel so loved ❤ I wish this for everybody! The feeling of being complete and not wanting for more.
Dude was really like "you have to get off meds that likely help you be the very person you are, just because sometimes I'm not strong enough to lift you up and it makes me look like less of a man to my friends!"
Someone needs to introduce Lucy to Liar, they truly deserve eachother...
👍 Yep
😂😂😂😂😂
"This ain't Build-a-B***h" frickin PUNCHED a cackle RIGHT out of me
Ahhh...yes...I call it the laugh cackle of smite 😂
Best comment by Charlotte 😊
Anyone else smile when they see Charlotte and mike together 😂❤ they literally are the female and male version of each other
“Here is your out, WHY DONT THEY EVER TAKE THE OUT?!”
Never felt anything so hard in my life
I always give THE OUT to all my loves. I don't feel like I own a man and vice versa. Have 20years under my belt. I will never get married again. I LOVE my freedom.
She is The Perfect kind of date!!! Here is how I am & if you have a problem with Any of it, move on to the next, because I'm not changing!!!
Kinda like a job interview, here is my past, this is the way I am now & here is where I expect to be in the future! If any of this is problematic for any reason, it was a nice meal & I'll see ya on the flip flop, Aloha...
Nobody wasted any time or money or emotions! What A Dick!!!
they took "if you wanna get my number, you gotta get with my friends" too literal
That's what's up
*if you wanna be my lover
LOVE me some Spice Girls!! ❤🎉
I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂
@@tonichan89 Don't you love it when they get the words wrong? 😂
That little interaction with Mike in the beginning was *chef's kiss* - you two are so disgustingly ADORABLEEEEEEEEE
@reachout_CharlotteDobre
Why are you acting as if you're Charlotte? She literally replies on her own account.
It's giving "if you wannabe my lover, you gotta get with my friends" in a literal sense😂
is that even a thing? never heard of it. really, who does that?
@@udraj914 You know the song Wannabe by Spice Girls
@@udraj914it doesn't actually mean get together with them just means you need to get along with them
So, she didn't want to invest her time finding out if hes marriage material. She wanted her best friend to do it for her so she could still have fun in the meantime.
He, should have been honest with OP long before now. As soon as he realised he liked her, he should have come clean.
That "friend" belongs to the streets. I bet she will stay single in the end. What a crazy bee
There's still the possibility he's lying to save their relationship either for Lucy or because he likes the benefits of being with her.
But he also thought the whole thing was a joke and never took the bet as legit. He continued dating OP and fell for her, asked her to marry him, etc because he actually liked her, not because of a bet. So I get not telling her in the beginning, but as soon as he realized Lucy was serious about it, that's when he should have told OP.
He should have, but if he is telling the truth about breaking it off with Lucy a month before making it official with OP, then I have a lot of respect for him for doing that. At least when he was was serious with OP, he was actually serious
@@imjuliewaters He slept with her best friend. He couldn't not tell her that.
When Mike did the mouth thing, I died. He’s so perfect for you Charlotte 🥹🥹
On the second story:
I really appreciate the woman's honesty. She was honest and upfront at the begining. He calls himself a Christian but does not have Christian values.
Yes! What a delusional person
The vast majority of Christians don't have Christian values, unfortunatley...
Mike is "The HOT Mario" ❤😂🎉
Seriously, he's one of those fake Christians. Jesus knows the truth, dude, you ain't fooling heaven. So glad that girl got away from him before it was too late, thank goodness.
"This ain't build-a-bitch!" LMFAO I'm dead!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
I feel so bad for the last lady. I’m also an up front person with dating, same as her, and it sucks that someone was so willing to lie to her (and do it so well).
I hope she finds someone who truly values her lovely self ❤
That dude has a savior complex. He felt you needed saving and he'd be the one to see you through the process by helping you change everything about yourself. He didn't look at your early relationship statements as boundaries, he saw challenges, and felt there was no way you would turn down his guidance. Or he's an effiing idiot! Either way, glad you can run now before it's too late.
he was also 34 and she was 21 when they started dating..... he wanted to CONTROL and change her. he wanted a toy not a relationship
@@chrisbuttonshaw2088 yeah i immediately noticed that and wondered why nobody seems to be mentioning it... thats already the first red flag right there
@@edelleaaand also which brother sets up their 21 yo lil sister with a 34 yo man!!??
Its not a "saviour" complex its NOT UNDERSTANDING that shes a HUMAN not a toy.
If a dude wasted my time like that I would ruin his life... Im so angry about it I can't find words for this whole nonsense
Sadly there's men out there who waste their time trying to change child free by choice women
“I’ll tell him, you want me to tell him? Give me your phone” 😂 you made me laugh out loud at work, Charlotte
"This ain't build a bitch" LMAO Charlotte, I wanna hang with you for a day! You crack me up!!!🤣
I still remember my first husband telling me before our wedding that he had been thinking of becoming a priest and was sometimes still conflicted!!! My reply to him was that I was not going to compete with a calling to God and that if he still felt that way we should break up. He said no. In hindsight it was the beginning of his ongoing resentment of anything he felt our marriage (and later, child) kept him from doing - his infidelity with a good friend was the last straw that ended everything. Admittedly, we were both young and stupid and now are happy with others. We have maintained a cordial relationship as parents. The insight came too late to prevent the wedding, though.
Well that’s just sad. I’m sorry you two went through that. I’m grateful you are happier apart and parent well together. That’s a blessing. But to be competing with God… that’s such a hard life to have. I couldn’t imagine how either of you felt in all this. How muddy. ❤ glad you’re both in better places.
"we have maintained a cordial relationship as parents" Tell me you are decent people without telling me you are decent people. I am glad to hear that.
He sounds pretty self centered, so, good riddance. Don't regret the past. You got children out of this marriage which is a blessing.
With that last story, it was the details about the parents that got me. Childhood trauma isn’t just a myth and he’s an absolutely not for me!
Yeah. Can't even understand him doing that and then giving them access to her so she can be damaged again
What? It got me that he was an old creep trying to control and groom a excessively younger woman.
That alone makes him "got me"
@@morganablackwater2017 I rarely actually pay attention to the ages of the people in the threads. Was there an age difference?
@@TamiLaber-Kampyes! 23 to 36 I have seen plenty of age gap relationships that have worked out fine but this........
@@TamiLaber-Kamp Yes. OP is 23, her fiance is 36.
🤣❤🤣❤🤣 18:40 and like I said…this isn’t “BUILD-A-BITCH” 🤣❤🤣❤🤣
it's a song by Bella poarch
The ONLY PERSON you should be competing with, is YOU from who you were yesterday. Women need to band together. We are in this together.
I agree! As women we have enough problems, we don't need problems from other women. We definitely need to stand together!
Amen sista❤❤❤❤
Once I started seeing life this way, it was like a dense fog was lifted. We should all be girls girls!
👏👏👏👏
Oh, how very well said. Exactly what I feel but didn’t know how to say it! 🙂
I was in the army. I met another WRAC (Women's Royal Army Corps..British army). She was a lesbian and I'm straight and we only had to look at each other to go into howls of laughter, we were both into star wars and nuts. We would go out, I'd chase guys and she would chase girls. I'd never had a friendship like it. The whole predator, rival thing just wasnt there. I got married and she was posted and I never saw her....for decades. I got divorced came home to London and despite her being Scottish, she's here! Married with 2 sons! Who would have seen that coming? Turns out, she was bi and settled for a great guy. We meet up, still make each other giggle and cry with laughter. A friend I've had for...omg...40 years! Yikes!
I had a lesbian best friend once and I loved our friendship because there was never any of that weird female competition that I often run into, and there was so much laughter. Our friendship ended for a different reason - I went into a deep depression and she took it personally when I didn't feel like leaving the house to socialize. If it weren't for that, we probably would have remained friends, but I guess it's a good thing that I found out that she won't stick it out with me during the real moments in life. Anyway, you're so lucky to still have your friend and I hope you both continue to cherish the friendship :)
@@anonymouse6703that has happened so many times with friendships
there are very few who are actually willing to stay for long term health challenges
Best friends you ever have are one from the military.. I’m so glad you’re still close with her
@@anonymouse6703 they never do, do they....?
The second story really made my jaw drop at the girl getting married and the friend admitting it was “a bet gone wrong” sent me straight to the grave 🪦
Charlotte here to teach us that in this world there is no shortage of “THEE AUDACITY.” Love you Charlotte, and thanks to Mike for getting into the videos with you, it’s a real treat, thank you both 💕
She should have a THEE AUDACEETEE t-shirt on her merch store
You're so welcome!
That little snippet of Mike makes 100% sense why you work so well.
Omg! You & Mike together ❤️ I wish you two nothing but happiness! ❤
When I was in college, a girl in my dorm was dumped by a dude. He had given her this kind of list of reasons. It was totally unnecessary for him to do. Another girl on our floor said the dude had done the girl a favor. For the rest of the year they all called him FavorBoy.
(He was actually really gross and he was narcissistic but SHE was a lovely lovely person.)
Don’t you love how that happens? Somehow they usually look just as slimy and smarmy as they are on the inside, and they somehow always get someone who is just a fresh breeze and such a wonderful person. It breaks my heart when that nice person is trapped… but I’m so glad in this instance, she was able to be surrounded by such a positive support team. Girls need other girls. To lift them up, show them strength, allow them to see their inner worth. Is beautiful when women don’t compete with women.
Eww. That's like that episode of Friends!
@@gr33ngirlsea Not really the same. In Friends that list was never meant for Rachel's eyes. It was for himself and she accidentally saw it. People who are trying to break up sometimes write pro and con lists about someone to get a clear head when emotions are interfering with a decision.
This Favour guy instead did something else. He humiliated the girl with his break-up reason list he intentionally gave her.
I'm getting divorced, I was screaming "Why do they never take the ouuuut" with you cause, FACTS. This is why when someone mentions something about a "crazy ex" I need to hear the whole story. I wouldn't blame any of these women if they had a psychotic breakdown and went nuts. It's hard.
So hard. And they don’t take the out, because their ego won’t let them. Narcissistic tendencies can ruin deep. Lol
@erikarussell1142 I don't think it's ego. I think people genuinely don't want to admit that not everyone is nice. Especially when they're with narcissists. The stuff evil people do is so illogical and makes no sense so much it causes some do deny reality. Even though a spade is a spade.
Also when they tell other people about the situation sometimes those with other opinions advise them to stay even though all facts point to "NO. RUN!!! DON'T LOOK BACK..."
@@erikarussell1142it’s the sunk cost fallacy in motion in a way. Probably also, hey the problem has been brought to light, now we can move on. They don’t understand it’s a habit formed before they ever got together and it they can lie easily about changing, as long as you still stay they have the power they want.
“you dirty little piss ant” IM WHEEZING KXBSBCKFKDKDJ 😂
Y'all, there are people out there - therapists, ministers, independent officiants, who offer premarital counseling. I don't care how long you've been dating or living together - DO IT (counseling). My spouse & I just celebrated 28 years married, and I think a lot was settled early because we'd already talked about all the tough stuff (finances, illness, sex & family, etc). And no, we who offer counseling are NOT judging you and whether or not you should get married. It is purely for bettering your communication and discussing the tough stuff you either don't feel like talking about on a "regular" day, or a topic that is best discussed with a neutral 3rd party to stop any arguments and keep things progressing.
Yup! My husband and I went through this too and it was such a good start to our marriage because we got harder conversations out there that we didn’t even think about before. And we had someone there to mediate for us. There were tears and arguments but after working through things we were so much stronger as a couple and had a direction to go in together.
Plus therapy works better when not already in conflict, as opposed to using it as a "last ditch effort" to save things.
👏👏 happy anniversary 🥳 (belated lol)
Yes!!! We did marriage counseling 32 years ago & celebrated our 31st anniversary 2 months ago. We were very young (me 18, him 21), and our deacon initiated conversations about topics we didn't even know we needed to talk about at that age. The number of times we've looked at each other and said, glad we started working this out with Deacon Pete, are uncountable!
My sister is a minister, and while my former husband and I never went through counseling she sent us a questionnaire she gave to couples pre-marriage.
Kids, finances, religion, …. …. It was fascinating and very useful. Ultimately we divorced for a variety of reasons, but I still consider him a good friend and even attended his wedding to his current wife. - who I am now also good friends with. Thank goodness not everyone in the world is crazy!!
Love seeing Mike in the videos! Ya'll are so cute together! Love that he matches your energy.
Charlotte, you crack me up every video, but ‘this ain’t build a b****’ had me rolling! 😆😂🤣 Might be one of the funniest things you’ve ever said!
I snorted laughing when you said " this ain't build a bitch".
Brilliant comment...
Story #1: Can we call her.... Lucy-fer? Coz she is the great deceiver. 😂 Like she's the snake, and the couple is like Adam and Eve. 😂
YES
Yes you're a Creative 😂
Let's just hope twins don't run in the family...😬
Definitely!!
17:25 "This ain't build-a-bitch!" bwahahahahahahaha!
"This ain't build a b*tch" 😆🤣😂😭 I am TOTALLY going to use that phrase! Girl you crack me up! Thanks for the many years of laughs and internet-based gossip! Charlotte you rock!😎🤘
"This AINT build a b!tch" im fkn rollin! Well i started a pre roll when Mike stopped in, now in in full potato roll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
Just wanted to say thanks💛 3 weeks ago I had an emergency c section and I’ve been at the hospital with my NICU baby ever since. Spending 3 weeks in the same hospital room can really make someone question their sanity, your videos have helped me pass the time and laugh. You’re making a difference in the world!
Awww 🥺🤍🙌🏻
Hope you’re feeling better. I just had foot surgery and on bed rest so I’m doing the same.
In the 2nd story with "Liar" when he sat her down to say they'll work it out after the wedding, my mind went immediately to that meme with Captain Holt from Brooklyn 99 where he goes "Oh... Nooo....." Lol
Ah the old ‘wait around and see if she changes her mind about fundamental life goals’ otherwise known as ‘I am so freaking awesome, how could she not want to change everything about herself to please me?!’
Been there. Waste. Of. My. Life.
A waste of a human if you ask me… and waste of your energy, time, breath, and patience as well. Lol
@4:32 riiight so basically they broke he got together with OP, best friend has been salty this whole time and is trying to wreck things.
Happy Mother's Day to any Momma's watching today!!
Pet moms are included, animals are family too ❤
Gracias 🌈🌞💐
Thank you 🌈🌞💐
Oh thank you! 😍
And happy mother's day to you and the other mommy potatoes!
Thank you, you too!!! I’m only a cat mom but it’s definitely appreciated❤️
Thank you!😊
Thank you
Last bride to be needs to look man in the face and say, " don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you."
Nah just ghost tbh. Seems safer and this guy has taken some crazy pills.
Haven't heard this saying in a very long time!! Love it!!🤣
She’s only 23 - she’s got plenty of time for find an actual sane person…
Unless she's worried about her safety. Which I would be tbh. He sounds toxic.
@WhatTheWHAT524 thank you.
"this isn't Build a Bitch" LMFAO!!!! I will be chuckling from this for years to come!😂😂😂
Mike's endearing smile when he came to see us was so cute, we love him
"This aint build a B*" goes right up there with "my flabbers are ghasted!"
Here I am waving at mike as if we were on facetime 😂 You guys are so cute!
we can all collectively agree mike and charlotte are the perfect pair ..... they jjusf fit together like 2 puzzle pieces.....
I am going to get so much hate for this but I don't like Mike 😶🌫️
I keep getting vibes like he is using her for notoriety 😳
He isn't very funny 🤷🏼♀️
“This ain’t build-a-b*tch” made me LOL 😂
Awwh seeing Mike made me smile it’s nice seeing you together! I’m happy for you Charlotte
“This ain’t Build-a-B!tch” 🤣 I love that!!
imagine the last guy was lying about all those demands just to make her call off the wedding, like it was his main goal all along
My husband said same thing
It would be completely dumb. Why not call the wedding off by himself if he is willing to appear as such a dumb & awful people ? Because if it was his goal he will be aware at how he would look like after such speech. But either way, if it was his goal or not, I don't get it and already lose faith in humanity long time ago so... ^^'
Why I thought this
u gotta point 😮
Honestly, with him being 13 years older than her 23 year old self, I think he honestly thought she would change. He probably figured now that she's "his" she'll do whatever he wants. He figured she was moldable and he could make her into what he wanted her to be, but she caught on and called him out. Honestly, if he'd been a little more subtle about the list, she may have accidentally sailed past it like she likely has many other red flags by this point. Take it from an old (40s) woman, if he says "you're so mature for your age" you're not, he's grooming you. Same goes for when old women say it too to groom young people. It's so subtle that people don't notice it. If he waited until after the wedding and then started liking bigger racks on instagram, started pointing out larger women on the beach to her, and then subtly suggested that if she wanted to, he would pay for hers to get augmented, she may do it. Same thing with babies, or tradwife lifestyle, or any number of things they want you to do. If they do it subtly you never even realize you were not really the one guiding that ship, just headed due east on what you think is a happy marriage boat.
That girl with a demanding guy just dodged a missle, a rocket even. Phew. He is craaazy craazy
The fiancé’ with the list of changes and demands - I had to break it off with someone just like this about 6 months ago! He was my HS sweetheart & we had remained friends over the years. All that time he talked about how much he loved my spirit, my authenticity and so on. The first time we went to visit someone from his family he asked me “are you wearing that?” Granted, I am a very feral woman 😂. I cut/rip all my shirts & have a mo-hawk. Think of MadMax & punk 80’s in general.
But I always look like this, 24/7 and when I share things on social, I look like this. His family knows exactly what I look like and how I dress now, it wasn’t like they were going to be shocked. If anything most people get shocked when I dress normal 😂.
That was the beginning of the end. Don’t tell me you love my authenticity and then try to tame me!
But he was exactly like this & im just thankful I got away. It hurt like hell, I’m still in love with him, but the healing I’ve done since I cut him off is just undeniable & I do hope he finds his way in life eventually ❤.
That’s when I love you, but I love me more; comes into play. I’m so glad you decided not to water yourself down. Love that you that you know you are. ❤
Is that you in your pfp? Because you are beautiful… I don’t blame you. Throw the whole man out. So sorry my friend. That is painful and hard. ❤
@@erikarussell1142 I tell myself this every time I get overwhelmed with grief from having to walk away. Thank you for reminding me ❤️❤️❤️
@@erikarussell1142 yes it is me and I really appreciate that!
You dodged a bullet. I did not dodge a bullet and I can confirm that if yours is like mine, yours was out to do all sorts of things like destroy who you are, turn you into a stepstool to lift himself up, and try to absorb who you are through osmosis. Assuming my hunch is right, yours and mine are predators out to take from others what they don't have in themselves. Like authenticity. 🥴😵
'Liar" said that he thought she had time to change her mind on things like having children and becoming Christain. He knew, and remembered, her feelings on all of the mentioned items. In this case 'ghosting' would be appropriate.
Agree. I've always been 100% certain I didn't want kids. Can't imagine some man assuming I would change my mind. I'd ghost him.
Holy ghosting....
@@AK20741 You deserve all the likes!
Sociopaths do that. They lie. They lie about lying. But they'll always out themselves if one pays close attention, or patiently wait. He's a sociopath.
Sidenote you and your man are the absolute most precious couple! I love how he didn't mind being in your video and give you a kiss. That was absolutely adorable❤❤
That third story, Liar, just reminded me of a meme I saw the other day on YT "women dont pick bad men, they just lie about their entire personalities to bait and get you". People were pointing out how they would find stuff out (like basically how they really feel about them or how they truly are as people) AFTER they got married or got pregnant or had something happen further down the line. Another being just agreeing with whatever you say when asking "what do you like to do?" when dating and building their persona around yours.
The way he did that to her and she was so upfront about her issues and boundaries 😔 This man is a MONSTER. He reminds me of the saltanat case going on in Kazakhstan rn (tragic but please check it out if you can to show support because the perpatrator was the ex prime minister) because why would you get with someone and unearth all their traumas, insecurities and traits just to weaponize them? The reaching out secretly to her parents is as disgusting as it is a breeech of privacy.
That monster is the definition of those men who like "a challenge" as in breaking women 😢 I'm sorry she went through that
Yeah my ex husband was the same way. He asked me to marry him when I was 17 and he was 21. I got pregnant after our engagement and because I live in a certain state, we got a letter saying we were common law married (together for over 2 years and shared several bills and now a child). And he claimed me on taxes as a spouse so he could claim head of household. So that was it. He threw a huge tantrum, left for a week saying he was at his moms (he left the state to go to his gf place… she called the day he got back and she said he told her I was just a roommate) and all the while he lied so much he didn’t even tell me his favorite color until after we filed for divorce and he claimed I knew nothing about him and I never cared about him. Lol!! Which is rich considering he used to lay out my outfit for the day and would tell me to speak when spoken to etc. when he got home at 3,4,5,6 am I was expected to be waiting for him with a bucket of water for his feet and warm plate. He expected his clothes cleaned folded and pressed, but I wasn’t allowed to put them away because that meant I was going through his things. It’s insane how insane he was towards me. But when I snapped, all of a sudden I am the crazy psycho bad guy. Yup. I know that story all too well.
@@erikarussell1142 I am so sorry you had to go through that. It makes you truly wonder what goes through their minds. The "you don't even know me" argument is a rich one 🙄 as if that absolved him of marrying someone, but I know the hypocrisy of "emotional cheating" being used for/against things.
I say of that to say, it seems like maybe e are better without answers? Or maybe there are none, but that does not mean there are excuses or justification either. 😡 I hope you are in a better place with your child from one potato to another 😊
Last paragraph is 💯. Instead of getting a pickme he went all in on a woman he thought he could break down and pump a bunch of babies into. These so called "Christian" men make me laugh.😂😂😂
Saw that video about that sad thing that happened in Kazakhstan. Really sad
This is classic narcissist behavior!
"What did you just do?"
I'm sure you shall see while the video is editing. Mike is being the goofball xD
I have my two boys saved in my phone as The Younger and The Older
@@Mewse1203 this looked like you meant to make this a public comment, not a reply. Lol
@@tatiannalee689 100% 🤣😂
Mike looks like a combo of Mario and Luigi 😂 you guys are super cute together, I love it.
Can you imagine how fortunate op of second story is, that she got to see and know exactly who she was betrothed to marry, before the ceremony. This gal dodged a bulldozer!
Kust regretful that she had to waste several years of her life on that man 😩
Charlotte: What did you just do? 🤨
Mike: 🤪 *flees*
As an actual Christian with ethic and morals, I do not claim this last guy as one of us. Thank you! 👏🏻👏🏻
You and Mike are honestly adorable!😭💛
“The math isn’t mathing, but the math never mathing for me”
I ☠️
13:22 imagine not being a friend who's sabotaging your relationships but your Mom. She admitted that she sabotaged my relationships so they would fail after telling me all the ways I'm a horrible daughter. I don't know if she was expecting me to thank her or something 😂🤷♀️
"Lucy" is delulu 😅 but also he sounds sus too...
De-Lulululucy
Yeah he does. Should have said something and been honest to OP LONG before getting to that point. The moment he realized he truly had feelings for her he should have spilled all the tea. Definitely sus.
@@WhatTheWHAT524 I disagree. They met at a company retreat NOT because of the bet. Yes, he should've come clean, but he honestly said he didn't believe the bet was 'real'. He sounded honest with her and willing to work on Bride's terms. LUCY is sus, not him.
@@huchlvrthere's no way to know anything you just said is true. Just because he said it is probably the most naive thing. I'm not intending to be rude, but if you haven't figured it out already, you should know that many people who see a benefit in having/continuing a relationship with you will lie to do so. At the very least, they will skew information into a more positive light on them. If she chooses to stay with him after this she needs to set very clear boundaries, and run away if he breaks them, because he's already shown that he's sketchy by making a bet on breaking someone's heart. Hers specifically.
@@martibee8984 And there's no way of proviing HE'S NOT lying, either. Only the Bride knows, and if she's inclined to believe him, then we shouldn't be trashing her and telling her what to do. Again NO PROOF HE'S LYING. It sounds like Lucy is the big instigator.
I've noted that most Gen Z & Millenials happen to blame men on SM, without proof. No wonder divorce is high. You WORK through problems (cheating not withstanding) not give up.
And honestly, the issue with him is not a big deal. People are making it into a big deal. LUCY is the bigger problem. I agree that the best thing to do is postpone, but not outright give up on the relationship. But definitely get Lucy out of the picture.
Happy Mother’s Day to to all the mamas!! Full time, part time, adopted, fur baby moms… and even DADS! Doing extra duty. Yall are truly amazing. ❤🥰🥳
And to you as well!! I Hope you have a wonderful day!!💖
@@WhatTheWHAT524 Tysm my friend!!! It was an amazing day. My family honestly spoiled me ROTTEN!!! I’m such a blessed woman. I pray you had an amazing day as well!
“this ain’t Build A B$&@h”. I’m dying over here 😂😂😂
"This ain't build a b***h." 😂😂😂 Classic!
I enjoy seeing Mike acting as goofy as you! Looks like a good match.
I thought it was rude. *As if* he doesn't know she's recording; that's not true, he knew; he's not deaf. That's an 'orange flag' in my opinion. Secondly, he just wants her total attention. He's jealous. I'm going to be a Debbie Downer and say things will go south if boundaries aren't maintained...Charlotte needs to pay attention to the small things...P.S. speaking from sad experience on "the small things we ignore".
@@Kayenne54 girl it is not that serious... they love each other and have the same sense of humor they are basically each others other half. this is so odd of you to say..
@@Kayenne54tell us you’re jelly without.
@@CrysCraf Don't be silly. I'm old enough to be his mother, or even older aunt. (which you wouldn't know, of course). I've just seen this behaviour before. Of COURSE I wish them both well, and hoping that my jaundiced view of behaviour I've seen before means nothing, and all is well. I'm going from gut feel, and it's never been wrong. But I'd be very happy to be wrong this time, because Charlotte deserves happiness in all ways. It's lovely see two young people having fun together, but Mike saying, apropos of nothing I could figure out "I hate you" in the middle of their joint video, seriously bothered me. That's not something to joke about.
@@Kayenne54The lady doth protest too much, methinks.
“I’ll tell him…. Give me your phone.”
Idk why but that hit me, love it.
1:40 Yup two dorks in a pod. You both were made for each other. Just placed a smile on my face.
That first story was the plot of Dangerous Liaisons!!!
I thought so, too, glad it's not just me!
And Les Liasons Dangereuse!
Omg, i true.
you being so confused what he meant by “easy to pick up” and the picture sliding on screen was golden😂
Because of these AMAZING videos, now every time I'm at a wedding I'm just waiting for the drama to start. I'm just low-key expecting it after all this information.😂
I am so glad that my husband's family and the families of all the people that the cousins have married have all been super low-key and absolutely no drama that I could detect. I'm going to another wedding in June and I'm pretty sure it'll be as exactly uneventful as the other ones. That, friends, is a compliment!
Charlotte you are amazing I just love your videos
Prepare for the gossip 😄
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That last story, how much you want to bet he met someone with all those characteristics? Even if he isn't persuing them, he probably will once this relationship is done. I get the feeling that OP is just a placeholder until he could meet 'the one's. OP dodged a nuke, because you can imagine the demands he would have if he was her husband.
Not mike coming over lookin like a cute mario! ❤😂 Lol. I love u two together
I think “Build a B” is my new favourite quote from you. That took me off guard and I love it. 😂
You haven't heard that one? Famous tweet that someone even made a song out of.