How To Change Your Life In 5 Seconds - Episode 45

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
  • Eric Worre speaks with special guest, Mel Robbins, about her life-changing concept: the 5 Second Rule.
    Mel explains that her concept is so simple and obvious, it is almost stupid, but that doesn’t detract from the incredible power of it. She came up with it back in 2009 when she and her husband had hit rock bottom. She was struggling to get up in the morning and take action, until she saw a commercial with a rocket launching. She decided that she was going to start launching herself up in the morning by counting backwards from 5 like NASA. So, the next morning, she counted back from 5 - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1-and got up.
    The 5 Second Rule bridges the gap between knowing what you should do and getting off of your butt and doing it. Here’s how you use it: the moment you have the instinct to act on a goal, one of those should moments, count 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and move. The problem most people have is that they stop to think, and they find too many excuses not to do it, so they don’t. So many people let doubt, fear, hesitation, and low confidence stop them from doing what they know they should do. And those thoughts become a habit. What the 5 Second Rule does is interrupt those habits.
    This concept is not a tool for thinking. It’s a tool for action. It teaches you to catch yourself the moment you start overthinking, and it interrupts the pattern of self-doubt. By counting backwards from 5, you interrupt the default part of your brain that runs on autopilot and you awaken your pre-frontal cortex which assists you with new and scary tasks.
    You can use the 5 Second Rule to push yourself, act out of character, turn fear into excitement, and even do the things you hate. Overtime, you will find that it not only interrupts negative behaviors but triggers positive behaviors. You will find that actions such as recruiting become easier, but more than that, you will develop confidence. Confidence is not a personality trait. It is a skill that you build through action. You prove to yourself through action that you can rely on yourself to make it happen. As long as you are willing to count 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and try, then you are either going to succeed or survive.
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  • @ddonrazy
    @ddonrazy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Don't think, just act. Taking action beats the best plan or skills every time. Thank you, Eric and Mel.

  • @mikecollins5261
    @mikecollins5261 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She is so right about "thinking too much". I've been bowling since I was young. Recently got back into it after a few years off. Got some new gear and joined a league. Equipment has really changed! I watched all these You Tube videos with all these pros showing how to improve your game for todays lanes and balls. I was always a decent bowler but I wanted to try and improve. But, all I could do is think about all this stuff every time I stepped up to the approach. I'd bowl my average a lot (180) but I knew I could do better. My last game on my leagues night last Thursday I said to myself, "You know this Mike. You've been bowling since the 7th grade. Stop thinking so much!!" I rolled a 267 that last game.

  • @oliveravandjel1412
    @oliveravandjel1412 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just tried this rule, and IT WORKS!!! THANK YOU MEL AND ERIC. XOXO

  • @lisaherron2368
    @lisaherron2368 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can't wait for this book to arrive.
    However I am not waiting to put it into practice. Headed out this afternoon purposely to get started.
    What an awesome concept.
    Thanks Eric for sharing your amazing friends with us.

    • @axelreyes227
      @axelreyes227 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lisa Ree how did it work for you?

  • @yolandayoung6519
    @yolandayoung6519 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE HER!!!!!!! THE WOMAN THAT HAS IMPROVED MY SKILLS BY THE 5 SECOND RULE!!!! Then I Learn That My Life Number is 5🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @thewswh
    @thewswh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    5️⃣4️⃣3️⃣2️⃣1️⃣🚀I'm going to do this now and teach my children this as well...🙌🏼 Thank you!

  • @alfredsilver8566
    @alfredsilver8566 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mel Robbins totally rocks!

  • @TanjaHebbrecht
    @TanjaHebbrecht 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is mind blowing! Love this! Thank you!

  • @MsTwiggy28
    @MsTwiggy28 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    two amazing people in one place. love this! xx

  • @prebuiltdownline
    @prebuiltdownline 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What your saying is intelligent, articulate and I very much value your information. Thanks for that.

  • @pamelagerth6993
    @pamelagerth6993 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was amazing and I was there in December, but listening to this again has been what I needed to get on track with this.

  • @successembassador2598
    @successembassador2598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much mrs Marry Robens and great coat and mentor Eric worre lets Gopro.

  • @jasminebueno4945
    @jasminebueno4945 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is HUGE! Thank you!

  • @ashthewarrior697
    @ashthewarrior697 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG, I am the Queen of the snooze Button! So glad I stumbled on this tonight. Mel So glad to meet you here and Eric I love you and all you do for network marketers. I will get this book ASAP.

  • @lisaward5460
    @lisaward5460 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this interview and the tremendous value! Took several notes and am going to implement this!! Thank you!! New book on its way 😊

  • @guswillgetpaid7
    @guswillgetpaid7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well done Eric and Mel. Well done.

  • @helsheubner6414
    @helsheubner6414 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Mel, I have been looking for some inspiration for years, thanks you just changed my thinking!

  • @arogyalinesleninbaskar5359
    @arogyalinesleninbaskar5359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5 Second Rules
    5
    4
    3
    2
    1
    Move
    Default program Behaviour in Brain Auto pilot.
    1.self doubt2.Over Thinking
    3. Procastination
    Paralysed to start 4. insecure
    5. inconsistent Excercise 6.Fear
    Only Answer is Action.
    Do good Be good.Proving my self.
    Succeed or survive?
    Dreams come true
    Excitement ,I am excited
    I never loose, every experience teaching improvement.
    I am a intruder
    Acting out of Character
    Olympic gold medalist love training?
    Like wise training in process of entrepreneur .Hated training?
    Passionate about training.

  • @dgingerich5994
    @dgingerich5994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much value!!!!!...!!!...!!....!
    😀😃🥰...(I feel so loved)!!!
    ...ok back to my 321s-ing and my books-writing!

  • @dgingerich5994
    @dgingerich5994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its next day after listening...you 2....Blown away...results...slept extra, needed catch up...was almost self critical about it...almost mentally filed it..called inaction, but i realized i was in super inspired state

  • @dgingerich5994
    @dgingerich5994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Later i realized i had done a ton of next steps for a number of intentions (not yet followed up)... until after i listened to this!!... (procrastinated or dragged out from trivia burial!)
    It was written stuff mostly, But.. while in a heightened state of deep quality extended rest...but, ...But:
    "Rest" and "Action" got married and with minimal fanfare of effort or ceremony, they got me pregnant with Next Steps PRODUCTIVITY!!!
    This is truly a new beginning again!...first time i heard you a few years back...another whole story!!...(hard news before good news looking back), but dramatic changes propelled into motion
    Yours truly,
    A recovering think-aholic:):):)🙃🙂
    Thanks bunches!!!♥️
    ( bunches of winning, 5432.."1"s)
    🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲

  • @ismaielwaheed4300
    @ismaielwaheed4300 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Mel. I believe that you are genuinely sharing this. Keep it up

  • @sagarnaidu30
    @sagarnaidu30 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you so much Mel I solved the problem which I was going through

  • @nagnathlokare7643
    @nagnathlokare7643 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I m very much amazed to see these two great guys giving tips to change our lives. i am really going to buy 5 second rule book.

  • @jonahkai509
    @jonahkai509 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    2 of my favorite speakers in 1 interview. So helpful! Sent to my entire team.

  • @LauraEllen999
    @LauraEllen999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whoah, this is pure genius. Thanks so much Eric and Mel! Also enjoyed your Ted Talk from a few years ago, Mel. Can't wait to use this!

  • @nancylucas8555
    @nancylucas8555 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh wow! Two of my favorite leaders/trainers in one place. I'm texting it ti my team now....Thank you to you both! I'm glad the 5 Second Rule is a book now==yeah!

  • @janebowman5421
    @janebowman5421 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mel And Eric! I was at the event you spoke of at the beginning of this video!! (my first). You were both amazing...and I was overwhelmed! I forgot so much! Such a simple action; such potential for incredible results! I am on it! Just ordered your book!! I can hardly wait!! Thanks! 54321 GO! Jane in Wyoming Intentional Abundance

  • @Cryptobuddah444
    @Cryptobuddah444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    another great episode eric, yo make me never give up , pretty awesome man, good morning from ireland , hi to all.

  • @meshiastyles3942
    @meshiastyles3942 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has made me think totally different about my self. I’m going to practice the 5 rules

  • @AnnettepSalmon
    @AnnettepSalmon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this so much! We all know what we "should" do, but do we "do"??! #justdoit!!!

  • @francesjohnson4443
    @francesjohnson4443 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great information Ms. Robbins... this will help me with being a former introvert. - Thank you Mr. Worre

  • @GregCheekSpeaks
    @GregCheekSpeaks 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great stuff Eric! Mel is Amazing!

  • @svetlanacullen2702
    @svetlanacullen2702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing!!!!! Thank you , thank you!

  • @allaboutvalentus9879
    @allaboutvalentus9879 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another GREAT video. Thank you

  • @owolokubankoleolaolawale6790
    @owolokubankoleolaolawale6790 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice one, god bless you Eric worre

  • @kalyandutta5732
    @kalyandutta5732 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have started to use 5-4-3-2-1 and bingo life is changing ! Thanks Mel ! IT WORKS ------------

  • @Almas1297
    @Almas1297 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!! This was amazing 😮

  • @ayshebehic4998
    @ayshebehic4998 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm absolutely loving this thank you mel

  • @irenedmello0355
    @irenedmello0355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both are good👍

  • @JannieMac
    @JannieMac 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG!!! Two amazing people!!!

  • @roseskinaway4902
    @roseskinaway4902 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wowza! Soo so good! I will be practicing this today! Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @benefitscoach
    @benefitscoach 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    a very good tools to help you every day

  • @joycejohnsonschmitz6986
    @joycejohnsonschmitz6986 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing useful info that really makes sense. Can't wait to try it and to read the book,

  • @badriyaalhudaib2032
    @badriyaalhudaib2032 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Incredible interview !

  • @johnstewart4986
    @johnstewart4986 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her!! Lol 5, 4, 3, 2, 1..Starting the 5 second rule now!!

  • @marietaguazon2040
    @marietaguazon2040 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is a great wisdom! I am learning to both of you. more power!

  • @jomk5731
    @jomk5731 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5-4-3-2-1 off my chair and on to take some inspired action.......... Just had to type this comment out before I go hahahah

  • @isairodriguez2241
    @isairodriguez2241 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great!! Am I the only one that had that "Aha" moment to what Sarah says around the 24 min 30 second mark?

  • @user-wr5ed4xj6b
    @user-wr5ed4xj6b 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video !

  • @dgingerich5994
    @dgingerich5994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has been truly a Happy (5-4-3-2) -"1s-day"!! 😉
    😌🙂🙃☺🤭😊😁😏😊🤗🤗🤗😇🙂😘

  • @LorenJob
    @LorenJob 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Luved the video - cant wait for the book to arrive!!

  • @deepaklaishramz
    @deepaklaishramz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing

  • @sheilajohnson5465
    @sheilajohnson5465 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Thank you Thank you.....

  • @marykerubo2432
    @marykerubo2432 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow wow...5 4 3 2 1..........free al last. Getting the book

  • @MarcelvanderWiel
    @MarcelvanderWiel 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Using it. This is soooo powerful!!!

  • @aleksandratondryk779
    @aleksandratondryk779 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it

  • @ryansmulti-verse8204
    @ryansmulti-verse8204 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    25:45 spot on.

  • @ruthmacclure609
    @ruthmacclure609 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    From New Zealand

  • @julimarsoares9133
    @julimarsoares9133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deus abençoe.voce esta mudando vidas vem ao brasil quando?

  • @Jo71603
    @Jo71603 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advise!

  • @joelburrow9195
    @joelburrow9195 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just ordered the book!!!

  • @towersands3111
    @towersands3111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is good

  • @jeffdrake869
    @jeffdrake869 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic message...Thanks Eric, Thanks Mel! Putting it to use now, ordering the book and referring others!! Simple and Powerful concept!! :)

  • @kentaroproscovia1150
    @kentaroproscovia1150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's so amazing.
    What's 54321 in the first place???

  • @ionutboss1266
    @ionutboss1266 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This sounds very familiar with Silva method. Are you aware of this?

  • @nocoldcalling
    @nocoldcalling 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got Value!!! 5-4-3-2-1!!!!

    • @ericworre
      @ericworre  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fantastic... Its great teaching. Action is the greatest innovator of change.

  • @diloyo62
    @diloyo62 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent for me. I´m going to use it. That book is in spanish too?.

  • @kdosland100
    @kdosland100 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you. You saved my ass today.

  • @liezylbagaporo4384
    @liezylbagaporo4384 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to have this lovely/fantastic book but I am here in Middle East any way I can have it?

  • @mr1biliondolar571
    @mr1biliondolar571 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wich download this book from USA to Poland and promotion this book in my country. Greyth life

  • @julimarsoares9133
    @julimarsoares9133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deveria ser traduzido a entrevista

  • @camkirby2913
    @camkirby2913 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eventually the 'starting ritual' becomes the default behavior.

  • @wealthtraveler2153
    @wealthtraveler2153 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mic Drop!!

  • @maya6431
    @maya6431 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Change my life in 5 seconds but this video is 40 minutes long? Alright then...

  • @hafsata.yakubu5937
    @hafsata.yakubu5937 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that, see you later Kids! hehehehe 😃

  • @philosophycoaching8002
    @philosophycoaching8002 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The probkem with this rule is u don't think . About the fact that networking marketing are scam

  • @michellecheckley
    @michellecheckley 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really just say hi

  • @nimeshjadhav2777
    @nimeshjadhav2777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's like pick up 3 second rule ..copy cat...mysterymethod

  • @wheelzofoz
    @wheelzofoz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👋🖖👌🤘☝👏👏👏👏

  • @hybby
    @hybby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "How to change your life in 5 seconds"
    *looks at the time on the video.... 40 minutes and 31 seconds*

  • @ReneMcLaren
    @ReneMcLaren 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mainline facebook! 😆

  • @taojones4941
    @taojones4941 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Although this is an effective technique the brain has little more to do with it than your big toe.

  • @KharyGrant
    @KharyGrant 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    5 Second Rule (Day 45)

  • @Mr.KymLLC
    @Mr.KymLLC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ok.

  • @globalnetworkrangelcortez3820
    @globalnetworkrangelcortez3820 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Global Network worldwide stocks exchange

  • @lawearsmith9851
    @lawearsmith9851 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow first time I heard this ewww

  • @JasonCWaite
    @JasonCWaite 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:27 lost my attention. Out

  • @drorose2225
    @drorose2225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m inviolate. Mrs. Incr-Edible. Huh?

  • @owolokubankoleolaolawale6790
    @owolokubankoleolaolawale6790 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice one, god bless you Eric worre good job