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- $100k in one hour. That’s how much Mel Robbins makes to stand on stage and share her message with a room of thousands.
But this hasn’t always been Mel’s reality. From the financial crisis to being fired from her dream job at the onset of the pandemic - Mel is sharing her simple secrets that paved the way for her success, even in the most unlikely circumstances.
Tune in for a candid conversation around money, female entrepreneurship and how to connect the dots between a simple high-five and high self-worth. Plus, Mel reveals how she showed imposter syndrome the door, and the one thing you can do right now to negotiate a higher pay packet.
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- 5 second rule
- put a price tag on yourself FOR EVERYTHING. Ask them their budget, and say my usual is double
- outworking beats talent
- if youre worried about imposter syndrome, PREPARE!!
- 100k to give a talk. BE PROUD OF THE MONEY YOU MAKE
- getting up after failing is in your DNA bc you learnt how to walk.
- focus on things most people dont focus on. (Make invisible people feel important, be kind to them bc they will spread your name. Share your mistakes and save people from the heartache and the headache) set the intention to move people
- if you underprice yourself bc of your insecurities, people wont believe that you’re good
- psychologically, when you say no, you become more attractive bc of the chase mechanism. (More in males)
- high-five/fist-bump the mirror, align yourself with who you want to be for a minute
- you excel new neural pathways when you combine affirmations with unexpected physical movement
- research shows that tough-love doesnt work
- celebrate yourself with a high-five just for waking up
- you are the most important to yourself!
Thank you for sharing this!
This makes a lot of sense, thank you fir your time explaining this.
@Papa Brown Nice! Enjoy your life, Papa 😊🙌
IF YOU ARE THAT IMPORTANT - YOU DON T NEED ANY CLIENTS ANYMORE DO YOU --- ? mel is important - i will pay that woman for everything -- NOT YOU..THE NEXT 25 YEARS OF MY LIFE I AM NOT WILLING TO PAY ANYONE OF YOU ANYMORE --- I MEAN YOUR KIND -- this generation
Thank you very much. So helpful.
The amount of time we spend believing we can't is more than enough time to learn how you can. Great job.
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The last 20 minutes of this podcast LITERALLY just changed my life , thanking God I found this at 22 years old instead of 45
Digby Dooright thank youuu thank goodness 😅 you are doing okay ✅ love positive on my
U are gorgeous sis
Definitely, I’m on the other end lmao 🤦🏽♀️
Glad you heard it sooner. God’s timing is always perfect. Turning 41 this Christmas & thankful I found this talk. No time is a bad time for self improvement & living your best life. Whether you hear it at 16, 21, 30, 45, 60 or 200 years old. Very very grateful. 😇 🙏🏽💃🏻
Finding this at 44
I wish this had a less click-bate title because it’s really good and deep. Almost didn’t watch it because of the title, but I’m glad I did.
Same
Your comment is the one that made it watch it
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I only watched it because it's Mel and I knew it had to be good but if it hadn't been her, i wouldn't have watched it because of the title..
Mel is too good. I too am in the same boat she was when she was 41. Only difference is that I am 52. So I am going to break this circle taking inspiration for Mel.
I literally cried when she said she had been either ignoring or criticizing herself for years because I've never related to something so much in my life. I haven't found many women that have been through everything I've been through; this was great.
“You are worthy of love simply because you woke up & still breathing” YES YES YES!
Celebrate yourself in the process ✨🙌🏾
I'm so grateful for these woman talking about money, trauma and validation.
Don’t forget that it’s not just you who has your back... but God also “always” has your back.
wish that was true but tens of thousands of starving/sick people would disagree
When she said she’s been on the run since she was a little girl… that hit me like a ton of bricks! She called me out! LOL.
Off yes!!!!!
This is 1 hour of pure, life-changing magic that every woman should hear. ⭐️
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Completely agree 👏🏾 we need this so much
I love how extremely intelligent people always say they aren’t that special or intelligent when in actual fact they’re! I absolutely loved this podcast!
She is just as normal person as we are. But she realised her potential but we are yet to discover that.
If you're reading this, you are an INCREDIBLE woman. It's time to tap into your power, use your voice and take control of your life xx Loved Mel's story about how she created across the 5-second rule - everything starts with a thought...
I’m a man
Yeah MANN😂
@@angelitacochran8161 it’s my actual surname 🙌
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Thank you❤ back at ya❤
Omg so mind blown by how simple Mel’s tip for getting paid for speaking when you have no clue on what to ask for! Thanks for doing this ladies and love all your content!
I skipped over this video so many times and I just watched it-amazing. I didn’t know who Mel Robbins was until today. Thank you.
Same!
Yes it's about "self" but I don't have a problem asking God to help me figure things out!🙏
I am 5 minutes into this and Mel Robbins is my new hero.
I loved every bit of this. Her authenticity, her vulnerability, her down to earth relatability. I cried listening to this because you don't have to be a millionaire to relate to what she is saying and she makes you feel that everything is possible. That we are limitless and resilient beings.
I literally got chills where she talked about constantly being on edge and her SA. I had the same horrible experience and relate to those feelings so much. This woman is amazing.
Im sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are healing ❤
Unfortunately same for me. Sending you so much love and healing ❤
I’ll be the one to say it. Mel Robbins could have had better interviewers. Instead of asking deep meaningful questions or ideas to Mel. They brought the conversation back to themselves, in a very superficial way. A good interviewer would have kept the focus at hand. By asking more questions for viewers with this large amount of GOLD spilling out of Mel’s mouth.
100%.. omg, I was so annoyed when the interviewer interrupted Mel to say "this is my fav. intro everrr. blah blah blah".. like really? Mel was in the middle of explaining how she negotiates her salary.
Absolutely love her . Glad she priced herself correctly . Underpricing is a death sentence
Another way to look at what Mel has been teaching in her high 5 habit is practicing self-compassion. There's a whole body of research on the mental and physical health benefits of self-compassion - being kind towards ourselves.
Wow, this interview made me stand up taller! The best line for me was about putting the time and money in beforehand to help with imposters syndrome. I feel like I’ve done with with my debut novel, putting everything I can into it. This line makes me feel more proud of my work!
Didn’t know who this women was but she is just so damn relatable and the way she explains things with science really conveys the importance of things for me to understand. I’m buying the book :)
The authenticity in this episode has been one GIANT permission slip to finally let life be.
This resonated with me on so many levels; the anxiety of not enough time, the daily self-loathing (and people see me as a positive force!) and always achieving and feeling guilty for not doing more. This has to stop. Thank you ladies for such a candid and useful talk. I LOVE Mel and have followed her for years and great to add two more incredible women to my ones to watch.
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You Couldn't Get More Authentic and Genuine than THIS, She's REAL and GENUINE and Authentic, Just like Any of US.
I love Mel R. She represents many women. I want to talk her about dating today. I am experiencing all the things her daughters are experiencing. Women need to hear what’s happening and learn how to protect themselves.
Media and elites made our children scared and anxious. Still working for some that still watch MSM. This lady is amazing. Real. Raw. Honest. Thx for the video. Helpful in every way
Anxiety: caused by the feeling that you have to be someone that you’re not in order to be accepted. Wow. Great quote. Awesome food for thought. Never quite got the message that there’s a treadmill effect to anxiety directly linked to maintaining the persona we try to create and maintain. Step off the treadmill by simply halting the effort and be authentic and truthful (which usually accompanies empathy and patience since we’re being honest about being limited, struggling people in the first place). Once off the treadmill, we can make real, sustaining improvements in our lives and relationships.
Right?! Speaks volumes about our culture as a Western society that anxiety/depression is at an all time high
Very kind of that person telling Mel that they paid her less, AFTER they paid her 😁
Investing in cryptocurrency is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth, investing remains a priority. The stock market has plenty of opportunities to earn a decent payouts, with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works.
Yes I'm a living testimony of Mrs Serenay Hosmunt
I have also experience her great work too, she is good in trading
Mrs Serenay Hosmunt has changed my financial status for the best. All thanks to my aunty who introduced me to her,
She is obviously the best, I invested $3,000 and she made me profit of $28,000 for me just in 10 days
please I have been hearing about this expert Mrs Serenay Hosmunt from my colleagues at work. How do I easily contact her
I like her so much for her brutal honesty ..I've been run down following a car crash and then adding pain to the suffering Covid and all the restrictions and unable to get medical care abroad etc..she's a bright star when everything is dark. What she forgets to mention is she has talent and ressources ( intellectual, creative etc..)She's incredible and knows what she's talking about as opposed to some psychiatrists who never had a traumatic experience or feeling that way ..yet it's so hard when your body is aching and in pain so badly, lack of energy, loosing everything and then finding the energy to fight a crooked system ...and no support, total isolation ..it's so difficult but at least there are women like her looking out for others
I might be living under a rock but had no idea who Mel was. And wow, what a powerful story!! Love that women are able to share more money stories like this one. Everyone should be able to speak freely about personal finance.
I met a book writer in Sherborn Ma who works for a very famous online corporation and said you are a wonderful speaker, and that theyve had you speak to their employees many times. You are loved Mel!
Even though I'm a man, I can relate to everything said in this video, from self-acceptance to not undervalue my own worth. Thank you so much for this eye-opening discussion. Great content!
Even if I am not a man I can relate to everything written in this comment...
wtf is wrong with you man...
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I am not even a human and i can relate too
@@mamoon_3738 wow, just imagine then what a man like the one above can do.... 🙄👌🏻🤣 he really must be sooo amazing that can relate🥳🤪... 😬🤦🏼♀️
Oh I appreciate the fact that he was bold enough to say even though that this is probably something that women would watch or ascendant towards women he could relate so I am grateful for his comment... 👀
I am just watching and hearing about this 5 seconds rule for the first time. I didn’t realize it but I’ve also been doing it, but only when I don’t wanna get out of bed. It works.
If this cures my adult adhd and I no longer have to spend money on meds, this will literally save my life.
I was feeling like crap today and friend sent me this video. It's crazy how much better I feel after just an hour. The energy, wisdom, and positivity that all three women in this video exude is just amazing. Thank you so much for sharing
So so good. Thank you for this download. In divine timing. ✨
The last 10 minutes made me cry…. Thank you Mel and the BossBabes, I feel I have tools now to move forward
Implementing the 5 second rule today! Absolutely loved this podcast.
I was on my way to work and this video showed up on my home page. I’ve realize so many things about myself and why I’m not acomplishing what I truly want. I’m beyond grateful that I came across this today. It really changed my life. Thank you! ❤️
Such a great episode. The pricing story about the CEO retreat resonated hard!
I NEEDED THIS!!!! 🙌🏼 Thank you!!!
Love Her! I listen to her when I run at the gym! Life Changing! xoxo
does she have a podcast? would love to listen to her too.
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Every once in a while I'll stumble across a video I think will be so impactful, that I'll save it for reference... for inspiration. Thank you for making this. I'm less than 5 minutes in, and I stopped to say this. What I picked up on immediately is your authenticity. It's perfect timing that I found you!
I am literally crying now... this hits on so many levels!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you!
This talk is so empowering , Thank you all.
17:07 Not for the ego rush, but making the people who are invisible behind the scenes feel visible and like working with you has been a really great experience for them.
18:00 You have to understand "deal flow".
Then they will want to work with you next time and spread your name to other people they know. Basically, have really great social skills and networking skills. Don't focus on yourself, focus on how you can bring value to other people. Focus on the things that really matter.
22:24 The 5 Second Rule works, because it's so simple that everyone can remember it. Tools only work if you use them.
23:05 When you start counting you've already made the first decision. You've moved from hesitating and fear and doubt, into action. You've gone from a bias towards thinking to a bias towards action.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Listening to you, I honestly could swear I was listening to you tell my story. Your drive and motivation is the same focus as to why I started my channel. I too have overcome (and still in the process of overcoming) great amounts of loss, am a recovering alcoholic, endured 19 years of narcissistic abuse, lost my job as a nurse due to cptsd, and the list goes on. I too had to ask my parents to dig me out of debt, have two teenage girls, am the hardest worker I know, always on the go, struggle with my cptsd, but keep going! You and I are singing from the same choir and I commend you for all you do! God bless you
this was really what I need to listen today! Thank you!
this woman helped me find peace when i was squirming through a toxic relationship. now she's going to single handedly carry me through academic burnout.
This conversation is so important and amazing. Thank you both and to Mel… I love you all!!!
Thank you BossBabe and Mel Robbins. This is very relatable. Listening to Mel's stories are really comforting.
She got me at the how she treated all people!!! The planner, the techs and speaking to everyone! I love that!! I think that is so important! Thank you for this interview.
Really fantastic episode, Mel's journey is so inspiring!
Mel Robbins is an inspiration, thankyou for bring her😌❤️
This is so helpful!! Thank you
I absolutely love this interview!! Thank you. 🙌🙌🙌
Listening while finishing 1st semester of phd. Gaining encouragement and advice from this
That was an amazing listen !!!!🤟🏻🙌❤️
This is so inspiring! Love the video!
This was so good!!!!
What a fantastic interview. I’ve gotten so much out of it. Thank you for this❤️
This was all so helpful, thank you! ❤
This is so good! Mel you are an inspiration. Thank you for the realness. I see my fears in your story and it sets me free.
Mel is the BOSS.💎💎💎👏👏👏
WOW this episode was incredible! Thank you ♥
Wow, an entire class and lesson I never knew I needed.
Mel is authentic and genuine. xoxo
I tell myself if I can encourage someone and prevent one suicide I did my job each day.
Thank you so much for making this. 💕
I suffer from imposter syndrome, I never knew it was a thing. I'm ready to be my authentic self.
This was sooo good! Thank you ladies for having her on! She’s the real deal!
This whole thing was absolutely incredible!!! Thank you so much for sharing. I needed to hear this!!!
This is an absolute GEM 💎 Especially the part about females and finances. As a female from the North of England I totally get the way it has been seen as shameful to talk about money never mind aspire to earn your worth. It’s been a huge money block for me and I never knew why until today! Thank you!! Xx🥰
LOVE IT! I!! I see myself reflected in Mel Robbins Story. She is so inspiring!!! 😃
This is exactly what I needed to see at the right time in my life 🌟
My favorite podcast I've ever listened to. She is so wise and so authentic in her approach.
You ladies are SOOOOO inspirational. You are making a difference in MY life. I appreciate you all. 💃💜🤟🏻
I loved the video! So inspiring!!
This is so powerful!!! Thank you so much .
This was an amazing video! Everything was so true! Thank you SO much!
Cheering and high-fiving yourself every step of the way‼️Own your self-worth, make yourself to be seen, heard, and appreciated.
What a great broadcast. Thank you. You are so powerful, real and authentic.
LIFE CHANGING CONVERSATION. So many gems. Thank you so much for this ⭐️
This was GREAT. Very insightful and will put it to practice. Can't wait to get that book!
Some of the best advice I've heard. Mel was a great guest.
Thanks for uploading this. Just the message I needed to hear.
That was a fabulous podcast with you Mel Robbins. Love your transparency can totally relate to some things you were talking about being a business owner and entrepreneur. The two bossbabes talking to you they were beautiful. Well presented. Thank you for everything you do.❤😉🙏
Loved this, thank you !
Thank You!
I really needed this.
Wow…. Wild how so many entrepreneurs have these similar feelings. It’s nuts. Love this video.
Authentic and vulnerable - that makes us to listen to her.
Never did I ever think that an interview would move me this much to the verge of tears. Wow. Stumbled upon this accidentally, ended up listening to the whole interview and I'm sure I will do so again, I am shocked with how accurate, raw, real and important every single sentenced said was! Finally so many issues are getting addressed that we don't even think about because it is so engraved into us we have become used to living with it, and ignoring it, and forgetting they are even there.
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Wow! So powerful! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
Words cannot begin to convey the excellence of this speech from this woman. Her style transcends the epitome of understanding
Well ... That's really inspiring and life changing! I really needed this. Thank you wonderful girls and Mel Robbins! ❤
Only half way through the podcast, and am already taking in so many jewels from it. Thank you thank you for this session, and all that came from it.
I feel empowered having finding you Mel! Just when I need a new way of thinking etc. 🙌🏻