Men Want everything and they know one woman can't do both things so they want many women at once, one that carries his children so it's fine if she loses her appeal and one for sex and one to cook and clean and one to support him 😂😂 that's how contradicting they are
@niratomas579 Also there was a movement of them going their own way "SYSBM" so wouldn't the women be single because they apparently were going their own way and/or getting passports.
This "Pookie" has kids by multiple baby mamas. Yet, he thinks there is something wrong with single and childfree women who won't let men impregnate them and abandoned them to be single mothers, like he did TWICE!!🙄
Him getting outted as a dead beat is so funny. He's been deemed useless by two women, at least lol, no wonder he's huffing and puffing about the single women and their usefulness. He's been deemed useless and he's hurt lol
Yep. He’s like that guy from a few clips ago that complained about single moms having high(er) standards. He’s angry that he’s not able to play foolishness with the new women that cross his path, and neither of his baby mamas are dealing with him to maintain a ‘situationship’.
I'm just here for the hairsplitting. He does not look like dad material. He just looks like an UberEats delivery driver that just dropped off baby-making material. edit: Oh, he really did. 🤭
I’m not gonna lie, that white woman ate with the “what is your purpose as a man if you can’t build a house? Electrical, plumbing and all?” Response … the way I cringed 😂😂😂
@@unknownchoujin1436I’m curious, do you get smoke from random ppl when you say you are single by choice? I am so sick and tired of ppl acting like others who are unpartnered by choice and/or who are childfree are somehow the problem and need their business meddled with. I’m just curious if you’ve experienced this
Honestly I'm a dude and I'm not sure what men want from yall at this point. They complain about women sending mixed messages, but I just see it as them returning the energy men have given them for centuries and not being able to take what they dish out based off of my experiences and what I've witnessed. They complain that yall are complicated but from where I'm standing, it looks like men *invented* complicated.
I realized 15 years ago that no matter what I did, it wasn’t enough for men (not even my father). I’d read all of these self help books and manosphere articles, and no matter what, I was always wrong. So I figured it was easier to be wrong and alone than wrong with a man.
I know. I started watching this site to see what women think and feel when they are not in the spotlight in public. Half of what I've learned is the dumb stuff that they hear, that NO MAN ever says in front of me. I have to google some dumb meme about every three videos, and there is nothing better than learning from some other idiot's mistakes ...
@@intercat4907I am fascinated by the first sentence of your comment. Can you contextualize it for me? Do you think women are in a spotlight just going about their day--to-day life?
@@user-dc4cm8nz1f Thank you, I think. Not sure I rate "fascinating". Yes, I think women talk differently here and in other private spaces than they do in public. The "spotlight" would include everything from being told to "smile" by complete strangers to catcalling, stalking, and on-the-job sexual harassment. If you live in a country where none of that happens, hurray!
Why are people so OBSESSED with single women? It's not like they genuinely GAF about our physical, emotional, and financial well-being. However, they are ALWAYS singling us out and going on the attack. I mean, who are we hurting? We are just going about our lives unpartnered, but that just seems to trigger people to the point that they are seething about it. Since there are plenty of pickmes who want partnership, I just don't get it. 🤔
men hate us so they want to see us suffer, and the pick me's are jealous that we're strong enough to walk away from the abuse. how dare we want to be happy and carefree.
Personally I think it's also cause men who are single are absolutely frothing at the bit and can't handle being celibate they descend down the road of being an incel and ultimately become murderers like Elliot Rodger who's an incel celebrity murderer they absolutely adore because he "fought back and died doing what's right" aka killed his parents and tried to kill sorority girls but ended up dying to police fire Men are by in large completely incapable of being healthy when single and that's where all this raised depression in men is coming from Now we as women are threatening to make it "worse for them" and they're absolutely fucking terrified they're trying to stop us and claim us as property before it's to late before they become incels or have to resort to choosing a pick me who by in large are clingy, exhausting, require them to fund the pick mes life style, and extremely hard to cheat on successfully
Someone needs to tell this man about Iceland’s Women’s Strike on October 24, 1975. Ninety percent of Iceland’s women participated. They stopped working for one day. No child care. No housework. No going to paid jobs. Banks closed. Factories closed. Schools closed. Women, single or married, have value and purpose. Women, with or without children, have value and purpose.
It's disturbing and honestly terrifying that so many people (even otherwise good, decent people) struggle to think of a purpose without a family. And in turn, also view others who are single/child-free as having less value than parents and couples. For most, it's simply an internal judgment that really only harms themselves. But for others, it could turn dangerous in certain situations if they fully dehumanize us. Let's just say, they'd make for a great super villain in an apocalypse film...One that sentences all single, childless people to death or to a work camp. Literally horrifying, but not actually too far fetched if you think about how other horrors in the world began...
As an older single, beautiful, healthy, free, empty nester, home owner. I can do whatever the hell I want to do every single day without a man mistreating me, stressing me out and taking my love for a weakness! I date when I met someone and end it when it no longer makes me happy. Period .
Dudes really think wanting a man that’s not a cheater, has emotional intelligence, and a personality outside of money and protection is “Too much to ask for”. Like bruh, these women are asking for the literal bare minimum from yall and yall crying about it. This is just sad😂😂😂
100% I'd love to get married and have a family, but it takes two people, and if I can't find one single man who can provide the bare minimum (like I'm ready to offer that bare minimum myself and a big surpluss because I've done the work, including being financially stable), then my only option is to remain single. It's that simple!
Also, in my experience, when I have accepted men who brought too little to the table they felt insecure and left me, and if they brought more to the table financially then they were too cocky and manipulative playing games and I left them. In either case both groups of men lacked maturity and emotional intelligence. I know there are good guys out there, but they are really hard to find. I know some good guys also struggle finding good women, but those good men are certainly not bitter and blaming women for everything, and focus on what they can control which is their own self-growth and being a good person.
It's literally this!!! And God help you if your criteria includes a man with emotional intelligence that isn't a cheater. You will be waiting a long time to even get a glimpse of one....
It's not being masculine, it's preserving our femininity, it's being at peace and feeling safe. It's avoiding being used and abused in a relationship that would make us unhappy. It's rejecting the concept of 'settling' for someone who would make us unhappy. It's being away from the drama. It's being healthy, emotionally, mentally and physically. It's being happy. This is our choice, leave us alone.
@@himisuda9589Explain. I'm curious. These days anyone can just label any thing they like as feminine or masculine. Who gave you the guide on what's feminine or masculine? I don't see any other female creature labelling stupidity as being feminine except humans.
Totally agree. I’ve seen too many aunts, uncles, and both sets of grandparents were unhappily married. I’d rather be alone and single than live with someone that treats me like shit. I kid you not, the saddest thing I ever saw, my grandma was making me and the cousins breakfast and broke down in tears when her husband of 60 years started telling her how much he appreciated and loved her, only for her to turn around and see that he was talking to the dog and not her…this woman made him breakfast and had dinner ready and waiting for 70 plus years and he never appreciated it. He would openly flirt with and appreciate strangers over her. You go out to dinner with him and he talks to everyone else. It was one of those marriages where they were miserable but at that point weren’t going to divorce. Looking back he and many of his children are emotionally abusive….I’d rather be single and lonely than married and depressed.
Ladies I’m a single unmarried woman and living my best life until my husband that I’m praying for comes but if he doesn’t I’m still living my best life amen ladies
All these males blaming, shaming and violent actions towards women are not beneficial to society. That is what they need to address. And videos like his only promote the single and childfree by choice movements, cause who wants that in their lives.
You can see in his eyes that he is heart broken that so many women prefer to be single than to deal with guys like him. His eyes say disappointment that a woman would rather fix a home-cooked meal for a dog than him.
Omg I remember that!! She has a new puppy with the dog now. But yeah you’re spot on. Not only are women choosing to be single rather than be with any man that falls short of their standards, but they’re seeing those women invest that care, time and attention to people and things they feel entitled to. They see a self sufficient woman with resources they want and are angry that they aren’t benefiting from them. That’s why they hate the girly girls, the self learning chef girls, the socialites, the girlfriend group of travelers, the plant/pet moms, the women supporting women clubs, etc. They are used to those women, or some of those women, giving those resources to them unconditionally or benefiting via proxy if they make her a baby mama. But with that access cut off and even baby mamas distancing themselves from toxic/unhelpful relationship dynamics, they’re in their ‘find out’ season.
Omg what is the purpose of a man if I still have to go grocery shopping because you can’t provide food by hunting 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀 YASS time to turn the tables. Modern men can’t even build you a house. What’s the point?!
@@jltdqw Fr. So many men expect their partners to work full-time AND handle all the household duties. F that. Want a traditional wife? Be a traditional husband.
I learned as a teen that I can get relationship satisfaction from books. I can buy myself candy. When I was single I did those things. Women shouldn't settle for anything. Don't look for a relationship, let your story find you.
Girl! I just told myself this yesterday! I have a crush on someone at work and I came home and thought, not the devil stirring things up again! You need a good book and a good meal, so get to it! And I did 😂 I have 10 books on deck now!
That last sentence was 🤌🏽❤. I will cherish it. Btw, I agree with you. I write fantasy stories, and that gives me so much satisfaction. Almost as if I am living those lives of my characters…😊
I have always said I don’t care if Im in a relationship because I get the satisfaction of romance from books/reading and writing (I prefer it actually) and no one understands what Im even talking about. I love hearing others think the same way lol
Do not take any advice from someone who has tattoos near the most sensitive parts of the body...never listen to someone who looks like they smell of jail...& never listen to a man who does not hold other men accountable for producing single mothers * Note I do not have chldren*
Men were taught that their money and their strength were all they needed to bring to the table “as a man”. Hence why women saying they can provide for and protect themselves sends them through the roof. And the cat “insult” doesn’t work anymore either…lol women love being alone with cats. It’s over for them😂
Personally, I prefer dogs, but absolutely all of this! It makes them so sick to know we prefer actual animals over them 😂 They went after that lady who was cooking fresh meals for her dog for this exact reason!
I think he's influenced by the thinking that you're unfulfilled if you never find a partner. Basically, he holds the mindset of your 70-year-old grandma asking you at age 15 when you expect to give her great grandchildren.
It’s sad these men who are still trying to live in the era when women had to get married either to survive or to avoid being socially ostracized. I mean they used to say marriage made us an “honest woman.” We no longer care, sir. I’m working and living my life. I don’t need his approval.
@@anitat9727 Guys go quiet online when I explain what is required of them to have a traditional marriage: Men pay all the bills which includes mortgage or rent, food, utilities, car payments, children's education through college, health insurance, any vacations, retirement planning, clothes etc. This is not living big, this is just a middle class existence with relatively few frills.
Dude is single and have two children with two different women. Yet still calls out single and single moms…..Im pretty sure he lacks the very ability to selfreflect😂
There is a video I saw where a man that looks unkempt is telling career educated women to accept homeless unemployed men , prison inmates who are on probation and parole etc. he feels these type of men will be so grateful that they will behave better than a successful men. I almost spit out my orange juice hearing this!!!
That video sounds insane, so as women we also have to be a halfway house and rehabilitation centre for criminals and underachievers because we excelled and kicked ass in school and the workplace.😂😂
"Grateful" men don't upset their mothers, grandmothers, aunts, daughters, wives, girlfriends and sisters (we already know their fathers don't care) by getting their sorry ∆§§€§ in jail and causing all of those family members distress, disgrace, embarrassment and endless worry IN THE FIRST PLACE❗😤
My purpose is to just simply exist and live my life. Why he asking questions instead of trying to find someone who wants to be with him. He got too much free time 😂😂
No, let him continue to fully bury himself, that way we'll be free of his idiocy, and he'll have done all the work himself (probably the most work neck tat has ever done in existence). 🙌🏿😆
They need to leave women alone period. It's all just a big gaslight to get women to lower their standards and we won't do it, so they're pissing and moaning.
As a single woman,I have no purpose on earth and I'm not trying to accomplish anything and I have nothing to prove. I was born and I exist and I live and that's it. I do not need others approval for my right to live.
Exactly, the way you live your life does no harm to anyone........look at his life choices and the ramifications, there have been yens of thousands of thesis's written with none having a single positive word about the effects, short or long term. He's a bratty toddler throwing a tantrum because, "You won't let me control you!! Waah, waah!"
I read the title. I didn't care what he said. Im single and childfree. He isn't my problem or a prize. My prize is him being quiet....all men for that matter. I don't care how they feel or what they want. I'm never going back! He looks and smells like exhaustion.
I think it's really weird that men talk so much about women they don't want. Like, I don't want to date men who are unemployed and have criminal records. But guess what, I NEVERRRRRR talk about them. They don't even cross my mind, EVER!! And they don't exist in my universe. So talking this much about women you say you DON'T want tells me that it's more to the story and that you don't REALLY think these women are red flags. You just want them to lower their standards so you can get access. You're speaking from a place of anger and frustration.
Our purpose is not to be trapped in a relationship with a deadbeat man like him. Most of us have witnessed this firsthand in our own childhoods, and we are not going to repeat what our mothers had to endure.
Ladies we need to disappear. We need to stay in our spaces and we need to stop interacting with these men, even if it's to call then out. If we react he wins
I agree about that in person, no interaction unless it's purely transactional, like a job. But these videos help women know that we aren't alone in our thoughts and reactions to the toxic garbage. I think it really helps younger women with strong examples of not taking crap and pushing back
Ikr, clearly no woman is interested in dealing with him in any capacity including his own baby mamas, this is the only way he can get ANY female attention
Just a theory: some black men hate themselves but they took it out on bw. Now we're not dealing with them anymore and instead of healing from their traumas, they're trying to use the same manipulation tactics that used to work. It's sad to see but kinda funny to watch😂
Imma need PPBros, Red Pillers, MGTOW, etc to PROVE to us how "worthless" we are and act like we don't exist. I know they post ish like this cause negative attention is better than none but PLEASE, move on already!!!
It's disturbing to me that we can't even decide to be single and be left alone. Why do you care? Go date the women who want to date. Leave the rest of us alone.
10:06 men would say their purpose is to protect and provide for a family. problem is, they need a woman to do that. so without women giving them a family, what are they good for?
That’s exactly the curse males are under. In nature 90% of males won’t make it and are absolutely disposable. If they have no access to women they fail as a species.
Until a man learns to respect all women, he will forever block his true purpose, because all women will boomerang at him what he’s spitting out into the world.
People don't "need" to have a purpose. It just tends to make people happier and more driven. Some people can't really happily exist without knowing their purpose. If some other can, that's good for them I guess.
having a purpose is good. having your purpose solely be based on biology and man made societal expectations is wrong. thats why i hate being pushed that my only purpose as a young 20 yr old woman is to have babies. "the birth rate is going down" IDC that is not my responsibility. but they will always use some form of that to push it onto women. my purpose is my love for science and the arts. that is my passion. not being forced to make and raise babies i don't rlly want
Men really be like: Don't be picky about who you date because that's a red flag. But also don't lower your standards because then you're too easy, which is a red flag. 😂
That man has TWO baby mamas and he’s with neither of them he’s mad that even his baby mamas didn’t settle for him. 😂😂😂😂 he has a clothing line with no customers, the back tats, patchy beard and ungroomed hair speaks volumes.
I have completely removed myself from the game/ dating pool and its great. I remember being younger and revolving everything around being picked or chosen by a man and I am so glad that I never had a kid with someone or got married. The greatest peace I have had is alone. The times I was single I was healthier mentally physically and spiritually. I think I like it here lol
"Not being in a committed relationship is a red flag." Says the single, deadbeat runaway Dad, who isn't in a healthy committed relationship or raising his kids. Y'know, like a hypocrite. My man is throwing stones, while living in a glass house. His "purpose" in this world is apparently being deadweight, flapping his gums on TikTok instead of contributing to society beyond getting women pregnant and ditching them. Dudes like this always project, so hard.
"trying to be masculine, or something?" Nope...pretty much just trying to happily live my life, make a positive contribution to the world. Which does not have to involve creating children, btw.
I can see this is the first time I’ve ever been single. But for me it’s really giving me time to figure out myself. And although it’s also true that certain aspects of my depression slightly. I can honestly say I will never settle. I’m willing to settle down and when the right man comes. Great, but then I will not settle. I know my worth and I will never settle for less. So don’t do that ladies know your worth and never settle for less. I am a queen and I’ll be treated as such. 👸🏾🤦🏾♀️👸🏾
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If being a single woman is a red flag then why is he talking to us? If we’re damaged leave us alone.
Right I don’t get men like him if us being single is bad then why try to convince us to date dusty men no thank you
Exactly.
What's hilarious is there IS women that want them. But they don't want them, they want UNAVAILABLE women.
He can't leave single women alone because he doesn't get any views on his content if he doesn't talk down on women.
@@janedo-re-mi2738 Exactly. Men will use women anyway they can.
Being single is a red flag? Doesn't a person need to be single in order to be available?🤔
Shhhhhh!!!!! That makes too much sense.
Don't try to explain that to them, they'll just hit you or something 😆
@@YemmieIncexactly they gonna have a special ed melt down and turn violent
Lololol ..Hulk Smash!!!
And red flag for who exactly? Red flags only matter when those people are trying to date you
I thought they told us to "choose better". Now they're telling us to lower our standards and settle. Just stop listening to men.
They dumb
Men Want everything and they know one woman can't do both things so they want many women at once, one that carries his children so it's fine if she loses her appeal and one for sex and one to cook and clean and one to support him 😂😂 that's how contradicting they are
I also thought they were getting their passports??? 🤔
I didn't even think about that. Seriously good point.
@niratomas579 Also there was a movement of them going their own way "SYSBM" so wouldn't the women be single because they apparently were going their own way and/or getting passports.
This "Pookie" has kids by multiple baby mamas. Yet, he thinks there is something wrong with single and childfree women who won't let men impregnate them and abandoned them to be single mothers, like he did TWICE!!🙄
Emasculated man math. 😅
So true lol like why would I want to be tied to u forever
Why don't he seek out his true preference.....A man.
it sounds like they bailed
He does?? You know that for sure? Lol wowww.. that makes it extra hilarious
He dont want women to be Single but he wants them to be Single Moms 🤣
#makeitmakesense lmao 😂
Exactly😂 that’s why he makes them, that’s his purpose 😂😂😂
He can't accept that his life is done after being obliged by the law to pay 2, not 1, but 2 child support sums to seperate homes he gave birth to😂😂😂
Exactly!
The irony.😒 The hypocrisy.🙄 The F*CKERY!🤦🏾♀️
He looks and sounds BROKE.
lol
AF!😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Looks and sounds 🏳️🌈. I'm from Atlanta 🫣
Broke ❤ yup
LOL, I cackled!!
Being single is peaceful. No man demanding things from me, putting me down, negging me, no head games.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰
❤❤ 😌 it's peaceful here. 💯
And when you find that kind of peace, you protect it by any means necessary!!
Amen…
VEEEEEERY Peaceful....
Love that “Jesus turned water into wine, not your business into mine.” I’m gonna use that now.
Yesss!!! I love it! I am sooo using that!!!
Using this as well!
Such a good quote, I'm totally stealing it lmao
Yup. That's a good one.
LISTEN I wrote it down 😂😂
Why is he addressing women all day and not men? Stay in your lane, sir. You sound sus anyway.
It's probably because the actual men got sick of his bullshit and always arguing with women on petty matters and disrupting the bro peace. 😂
He needs women to look past the fact he has nothing to offer so he can make baby mama #3.
Right! Go talk to your brothers 🤡🤛🏾😒😑
If he thinks women’s only purpose on the earth is to have kids, it’s clear that he doesn’t see women as people.
Ikr is he trying to be feminine?Why is he so obsessed with what women are doing and how they want to live
Him getting outted as a dead beat is so funny. He's been deemed useless by two women, at least lol, no wonder he's huffing and puffing about the single women and their usefulness. He's been deemed useless and he's hurt lol
projection at its finest 😂
He’s angry because single women don’t want to date him and let him impregnate them like he did the other 2.
Yep. He’s like that guy from a few clips ago that complained about single moms having high(er) standards. He’s angry that he’s not able to play foolishness with the new women that cross his path, and neither of his baby mamas are dealing with him to maintain a ‘situationship’.
What is the purpose of a man who can only "contribute"... on tiktok
Its always a bitter babydaddy 😂
Always. 💅🏽
I'm just here for the hairsplitting. He does not look like dad material. He just looks like an UberEats delivery driver that just dropped off baby-making material.
edit: Oh, he really did. 🤭
Bitter, sour…..😂😂😂
Right! I bet he's sitting next to 3 trash bags making this video😹😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
@@Laoriginal718 You forgot Salty😂😂
I’m not gonna lie, that white woman ate with the “what is your purpose as a man if you can’t build a house? Electrical, plumbing and all?” Response … the way I cringed 😂😂😂
taking out the trash the women ask them two days ago 💪
Ikr😂😂😂😂
right ? my man does plumbing and HVAC ! If you don't have some sort of skill you will pay more for someone else to do it for you
This made me grateful to have a tradesman electrician bf who wouldnt stand for this sexist, degrading bs
Especially if I as a woman can do those things myself without having to beg a male.
Sounds like every women rejected him 💀
Looking at him and hearing his voice has sent me into early menopause. I don't see how any woman has had sex with him🤦🏾♀️🤡🤛🏾
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If they didn’t, I bet they wish they had.
Sounds like they were smart.
Most likely he was given the "I'm not interested in having relationships right now" reason too many times and he got pissed 😅😂
Being a single man is also a red flag then. What is the purpose of a man who isn't prepared to be a responsible husband and father?
This!!
As a single man (by choice), that’s partially why I stay out of the dating scene.
A freaking nightmare
This!!!
@@unknownchoujin1436I’m curious, do you get smoke from random ppl when you say you are single by choice?
I am so sick and tired of ppl acting like others who are unpartnered by choice and/or who are childfree are somehow the problem and need their business meddled with. I’m just curious if you’ve experienced this
" Are you triyng to be masculine.." meanwhile proceeds to twist his hair like a 5 year old
5 year old girl at that 😂❤
I love it😂 the instant karma and contradictions have been entertaining
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😂😂😂😂😂
Also .... the "earf" threw me off lol
Honestly I'm a dude and I'm not sure what men want from yall at this point. They complain about women sending mixed messages, but I just see it as them returning the energy men have given them for centuries and not being able to take what they dish out based off of my experiences and what I've witnessed. They complain that yall are complicated but from where I'm standing, it looks like men *invented* complicated.
Some of these men are the complications of life. 😅
I realized 15 years ago that no matter what I did, it wasn’t enough for men (not even my father). I’d read all of these self help books and manosphere articles, and no matter what, I was always wrong. So I figured it was easier to be wrong and alone than wrong with a man.
I know. I started watching this site to see what women think and feel when they are not in the spotlight in public. Half of what I've learned is the dumb stuff that they hear, that NO MAN ever says in front of me. I have to google some dumb meme about every three videos, and there is nothing better than learning from some other idiot's mistakes ...
@@intercat4907I am fascinated by the first sentence of your comment. Can you contextualize it for me? Do you think women are in a spotlight just going about their day--to-day life?
@@user-dc4cm8nz1f Thank you, I think. Not sure I rate "fascinating". Yes, I think women talk differently here and in other private spaces than they do in public. The "spotlight" would include everything from being told to "smile" by complete strangers to catcalling, stalking, and on-the-job sexual harassment. If you live in a country where none of that happens, hurray!
Why are people so OBSESSED with single women? It's not like they genuinely GAF about our physical, emotional, and financial well-being. However, they are ALWAYS singling us out and going on the attack. I mean, who are we hurting? We are just going about our lives unpartnered, but that just seems to trigger people to the point that they are seething about it. Since there are plenty of pickmes who want partnership, I just don't get it. 🤔
They are offended by the thought we would rather live alone than be in a relationship with them.
men hate us so they want to see us suffer, and the pick me's are jealous that we're strong enough to walk away from the abuse. how dare we want to be happy and carefree.
Because existence is a male curse. His purpose is getting access to women, is he fails at that he’s disposable. Nature is female centered
@neluraa Oh my. This is so thought provoking. Loooove it
Personally I think it's also cause men who are single are absolutely frothing at the bit and can't handle being celibate they descend down the road of being an incel and ultimately become murderers like Elliot Rodger who's an incel celebrity murderer they absolutely adore because he "fought back and died doing what's right" aka killed his parents and tried to kill sorority girls but ended up dying to police fire
Men are by in large completely incapable of being healthy when single and that's where all this raised depression in men is coming from
Now we as women are threatening to make it "worse for them" and they're absolutely fucking terrified they're trying to stop us and claim us as property before it's to late before they become incels or have to resort to choosing a pick me who by in large are clingy, exhausting, require them to fund the pick mes life style, and extremely hard to cheat on successfully
Neck tattoos + backwards ball cap = a male who will never legally make enough money to support a wife and family.
😂😂😂😂 touché
Yeah, my father will never give him the time and day, let alone a blessing. 😂
LMAOOOO
Just by his look I knew he had several baby mama's
❤❤❤ so f*cking obvious!
Oh I see....
Do a man's purpose is whatever he wants.
But a woman's purpose is whatever the man wants
😂😂😂
Yeah no thank you!
like i’d rather die alone with my cats atp
@@hannybananny0927 better than dying inside everyday!
That is exactly their thinking
Settle those child support payments!
Yes! Stop telling us to settle. Look after your own mess and settle those payments.
Right!🤡🤛🏾
Lmaooooo that's his problem. He cant
😂😂😂😂 honestly
Someone needs to tell this man about Iceland’s Women’s Strike on October 24, 1975. Ninety percent of Iceland’s women participated. They stopped working for one day. No child care. No housework. No going to paid jobs. Banks closed. Factories closed. Schools closed.
Women, single or married, have value and purpose. Women, with or without children, have value and purpose.
I read about that march.
Thank you!! 👏🏾👏🏾
Maybe it's about time for history to repeat itself?
@@justacoginthefkerySure thing
It's disturbing and honestly terrifying that so many people (even otherwise good, decent people) struggle to think of a purpose without a family. And in turn, also view others who are single/child-free as having less value than parents and couples. For most, it's simply an internal judgment that really only harms themselves. But for others, it could turn dangerous in certain situations if they fully dehumanize us. Let's just say, they'd make for a great super villain in an apocalypse film...One that sentences all single, childless people to death or to a work camp. Literally horrifying, but not actually too far fetched if you think about how other horrors in the world began...
The redhead lady with the glasses read him for filth 🤭😭
Also baby mommas and not ex-wives is a read flag. He should’ve chosen better.
She read him to the T 😂😂😂😂
She didn't just drag him, she went straight for his throat! lol She was going all in.
She cooked him
I felt a second-hand burn from the way she dropped him right into the dumpster fire he created for himself.😂😂😂
Ye lol it was pretty funny. She had anger in her veins. Did not pull any punches there.
Men: choose better
Also men: choose me
No bro. You got 2 baby mamas already 😂
Dating a man with multiple baby mums sounds like hell to me. Genuinely, dealing with one baby mum is bad enough but two of them? Hard pass 😂
Exactly. The same guy who tell women to "choose better" get mad when they, the king baby, isn't chosen.
As an older single, beautiful, healthy, free, empty nester, home owner. I can do whatever the hell I want to do every single day without a man mistreating me, stressing me out and taking my love for a weakness! I date when I met someone and end it when it no longer makes me happy. Period .
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 that's right
Same here. Not about to change my status for the likes of men like him.
Yyyyyeeeesssss
GOALZ!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Dudes really think wanting a man that’s not a cheater, has emotional intelligence, and a personality outside of money and protection is “Too much to ask for”. Like bruh, these women are asking for the literal bare minimum from yall and yall crying about it. This is just sad😂😂😂
They ain't giving no money or protection either
Protection starts with the 2nd Amendment
No sense trying to count on M*nz for, "Protection."
100% I'd love to get married and have a family, but it takes two people, and if I can't find one single man who can provide the bare minimum (like I'm ready to offer that bare minimum myself and a big surpluss because I've done the work, including being financially stable), then my only option is to remain single. It's that simple!
Also, in my experience, when I have accepted men who brought too little to the table they felt insecure and left me, and if they brought more to the table financially then they were too cocky and manipulative playing games and I left them. In either case both groups of men lacked maturity and emotional intelligence. I know there are good guys out there, but they are really hard to find. I know some good guys also struggle finding good women, but those good men are certainly not bitter and blaming women for everything, and focus on what they can control which is their own self-growth and being a good person.
It's literally this!!! And God help you if your criteria includes a man with emotional intelligence that isn't a cheater. You will be waiting a long time to even get a glimpse of one....
It's not being masculine, it's preserving our femininity, it's being at peace and feeling safe. It's avoiding being used and abused in a relationship that would make us unhappy. It's rejecting the concept of 'settling' for someone who would make us unhappy. It's being away from the drama. It's being healthy, emotionally, mentally and physically. It's being happy. This is our choice, leave us alone.
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Well said.
Sometimes it's being masculine lol
@@himisuda9589Explain.
I'm curious.
These days anyone can just label any thing they like as feminine or masculine. Who gave you the guide on what's feminine or masculine? I don't see any other female creature labelling stupidity as being feminine except humans.
Totally agree. I’ve seen too many aunts, uncles, and both sets of grandparents were unhappily married. I’d rather be alone and single than live with someone that treats me like shit. I kid you not, the saddest thing I ever saw, my grandma was making me and the cousins breakfast and broke down in tears when her husband of 60 years started telling her how much he appreciated and loved her, only for her to turn around and see that he was talking to the dog and not her…this woman made him breakfast and had dinner ready and waiting for 70 plus years and he never appreciated it. He would openly flirt with and appreciate strangers over her. You go out to dinner with him and he talks to everyone else. It was one of those marriages where they were miserable but at that point weren’t going to divorce. Looking back he and many of his children are emotionally abusive….I’d rather be single and lonely than married and depressed.
So should dudes only date married women?
Right 😂😂😂
@@konishatosha4336Im listening to Dr. John Delony and a single man did just that. XD
At this point, and based on his analogy, YES!
lol. they never think before they talk, they just trying to lower women Self-esteem, without thinking about what they are saying.
Lol lol lol lol
Again I'll ask, whyyyyyy does he care what women are doing with their OWN DANG LIVES!!! I hate these males rage-baiting. Its gross
He's literally telling women that their purpose is servicing men and spreading their legs for them 😂 wtf is wrong with him
Ladies I’m a single unmarried woman and living my best life until my husband that I’m praying for comes but if he doesn’t I’m still living my best life amen ladies
We dont give a damn if Its Not beneficial for our society if women stay Single - Why is the society our responsibility? 🤣
All these males blaming, shaming and violent actions towards women are not beneficial to society. That is what they need to address.
And videos like his only promote the single and childfree by choice movements, cause who wants that in their lives.
Earth is already grossly overpopulated and if we keep trying to keep our economy from collapsing it's gonna implode and we're all gonna die.
@@Lilzki 💯
Because they can't persecute us (witch hunts) anymore if we don't conform to patriarchal society. Now they shame us.
Because they can't persecute us (witch hunts) anymore if we don't conform to patriarchal society. Now they shame us.
At this point, I think he’s posting these videos for clout
Clout must mean something different these days lol
@@istolurchikn110clout on apps like TikYok is all about attention and views
He is and they fall for it every-time! I wish women would stop giving these men the attention they are desperately seeking!
Isn't he part of the residual tik tok RP grift?
@daniella8400 so desperate for attention from women that *any* type of attention from women is good enough for them
You can see in his eyes that he is heart broken that so many women prefer to be single than to deal with guys like him. His eyes say disappointment that a woman would rather fix a home-cooked meal for a dog than him.
Omg I remember that!! She has a new puppy with the dog now. But yeah you’re spot on.
Not only are women choosing to be single rather than be with any man that falls short of their standards, but they’re seeing those women invest that care, time and attention to people and things they feel entitled to.
They see a self sufficient woman with resources they want and are angry that they aren’t benefiting from them. That’s why they hate the girly girls, the self learning chef girls, the socialites, the girlfriend group of travelers, the plant/pet moms, the women supporting women clubs, etc. They are used to those women, or some of those women, giving those resources to them unconditionally or benefiting via proxy if they make her a baby mama.
But with that access cut off and even baby mamas distancing themselves from toxic/unhelpful relationship dynamics, they’re in their ‘find out’ season.
Dogs are more appreciative & certainly more loyal!
Boohoo.
a dog will at least wag its tail in appreciation.
My dog loves my cooking and doesn't talk shit about it or throw it on the wall and say his mama cooks better.
"...You ARE the birth control! ". 'Nough said.
Exactly 😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Imma remember that line forever 🤣
He absolutely ate! 😂🙌🏾
Buuuuurrrn😂😂😂
Omg what is the purpose of a man if I still have to go grocery shopping because you can’t provide food by hunting 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀 YASS time to turn the tables. Modern men can’t even build you a house. What’s the point?!
also, they want a 50/50 relationship and us taking care of everything even his grandma.
@@jltdqw Fr. So many men expect their partners to work full-time AND handle all the household duties. F that. Want a traditional wife? Be a traditional husband.
Exactly 💯😅😂👏🏾👏🏾
The point is you'll be both his bangmaid and workerslave.
I love it when men out themselves. It’s so entertaining 🤣
Me too 🤣🤣
95% of them are slow!😂
@@sherienichol1580agreed!! 💯😅😂😂
@@sherienichol1580 ...and how slow? 💯% Slow.
I learned as a teen that I can get relationship satisfaction from books. I can buy myself candy. When I was single I did those things. Women shouldn't settle for anything. Don't look for a relationship, let your story find you.
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Girl! I just told myself this yesterday! I have a crush on someone at work and I came home and thought, not the devil stirring things up again! You need a good book and a good meal, so get to it! And I did 😂 I have 10 books on deck now!
So uplifting ❤
That last sentence was 🤌🏽❤. I will cherish it.
Btw, I agree with you. I write fantasy stories, and that gives me so much satisfaction. Almost as if I am living those lives of my characters…😊
I have always said I don’t care if Im in a relationship because I get the satisfaction of romance from books/reading and writing (I prefer it actually) and no one understands what Im even talking about. I love hearing others think the same way lol
Do not take any advice from someone who has tattoos near the most sensitive parts of the body...never listen to someone who looks like they smell of jail...& never listen to a man who does not hold other men accountable for producing single mothers * Note I do not have chldren*
😂😂😂😂the we had SMOKE 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I don't listen to men who smell like stale cigars and black and milds. And are dirty in general
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He wants attention at this point😂.
And he got it his comments section is fire 🤣🤣🤣
Right! This is the only attention he can get🤡🤛🏾
Why is it the men making single mothers are complaining? Nope, we don’t want to hear from him…. He needs to focus on his 2 families
They’re the ones complaining because they’ve always used single mothers as a fail-safe and insurance plan.
Men were taught that their money and their strength were all they needed to bring to the table “as a man”. Hence why women saying they can provide for and protect themselves sends them through the roof. And the cat “insult” doesn’t work anymore either…lol women love being alone with cats. It’s over for them😂
Yesh, cats are CLEAN, quiet, intelligent and affectionate, funny and cute. Most men don't measure up to a cat.
Personally, I prefer dogs, but absolutely all of this! It makes them so sick to know we prefer actual animals over them 😂 They went after that lady who was cooking fresh meals for her dog for this exact reason!
We loveeeee cats 😂
Honestly, I am totally cool with being a cat lady. 😂
I just twist that logic around & tell guys to enjoy their dogs & beer so they can fully grasp how idiotic they sound. It shuts them up pretty quick.
He is so bothered by women he dont know, being single. Worry about making ur purpose come to pass sir. Worry about ur own family. Nosy.
families* plural apparently💀
I think he's influenced by the thinking that you're unfulfilled if you never find a partner. Basically, he holds the mindset of your 70-year-old grandma asking you at age 15 when you expect to give her great grandchildren.
Well he needs to apply that old school rule to him self and go back to one of the families he created
Great analogy, gunna use that sometime.
He's mad that neither or his children's mothers want to be with his bum ahh. The message was to them, not other women. We're just collateral damage
Right. He's butt hurt😂😂
This guy's gaslighting tactics are failing miserably.
It’s sad these men who are still trying to live in the era when women had to get married either to survive or to avoid being socially ostracized. I mean they used to say marriage made us an “honest woman.” We no longer care, sir. I’m working and living my life. I don’t need his approval.
And ain't marrying nobody
Nah. They aren't. They claim to want to live in that era but always expect a woman to split bills and never marry their (multiple) baby mommas
@@anitat9727 Guys go quiet online when I explain what is required of them to have a traditional marriage: Men pay all the bills which includes mortgage or rent, food, utilities, car payments, children's education through college, health insurance, any vacations, retirement planning, clothes etc. This is not living big, this is just a middle class existence with relatively few frills.
"At this point y'all are the birth control" 😂
No lies detected...
Freedom is the main reason most of us are single.
Very true.
Sooooo, he didn’t listen to any of the responses to him and reflect? 😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂
Right!😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Dude is single and have two children with two different women. Yet still calls out single and single moms…..Im pretty sure he lacks the very ability to selfreflect😂
There is a video I saw where a man that looks unkempt is telling career educated women to accept homeless unemployed men , prison inmates who are on probation and parole etc. he feels these type of men will be so grateful that they will behave better than a successful men. I almost spit out my orange juice hearing this!!!
Omg 😮. The audacity!
That video sounds insane, so as women we also have to be a halfway house and rehabilitation centre for criminals and underachievers because we excelled and kicked ass in school and the workplace.😂😂
"Grateful" men don't upset their mothers, grandmothers, aunts, daughters, wives, girlfriends and sisters (we already know their fathers don't care) by getting their sorry ∆§§€§ in jail and causing all of those family members distress, disgrace, embarrassment and endless worry IN THE FIRST PLACE❗😤
WTH?!?
Lol, sure, cause those kind of men are so grateful they would surely appreciate such a woman.
I love the way these ladies ripped him a new one… 😅
Yep. Our heroes teach us how to act ... and guys like this show us what happens to men who act like him. Easiest lesson today will offer ....
My purpose is to just simply exist and live my life. Why he asking questions instead of trying to find someone who wants to be with him. He got too much free time 😂😂
Right. He needs to go make some $$ and stop flapping his gums.
He needs to go build something
Sir… what do you do when you’re in a hole?
STOP DIGGING! 😂
As my mom says "Hit rock bottom but dig some more "
No, let him continue to fully bury himself, that way we'll be free of his idiocy, and he'll have done all the work himself (probably the most work neck tat has ever done in existence). 🙌🏿😆
Man hit bedrock but don't worry, he brought his pickaxe and he's ready to dig.
I’m so glad women are clapping back and shutting down this nonsense.
He’s just mad that he can’t find baby mama #3.
People need to just leave single women alone and focus on the lonely men out here like this one.
Right! talk to a therapist sir🤡🤛🏾
They need to leave women alone period. It's all just a big gaslight to get women to lower their standards and we won't do it, so they're pissing and moaning.
As a single woman,I have no purpose on earth and I'm not trying to accomplish anything and I have nothing to prove. I was born and I exist and I live and that's it. I do not need others approval for my right to live.
Exactly.
This childish males r driving the 4B movement
They don’t even realize it. lol They think it’s a retaliation. But it’s simply the results of the foolishness.
Yup! and they are to stupid to realize it😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️🤡🤛🏾
Exactly!
Kkkkkkkkk
I'm single and been single and celibate for years and NO I'm not capable of keeping a man, I'm sure not. Now what? What's the consequences sir?
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Damn lady, I sentence you to a life of peace and freedom. How very dare you!
Exactly, the way you live your life does no harm to anyone........look at his life choices and the ramifications, there have been yens of thousands of thesis's written with none having a single positive word about the effects, short or long term. He's a bratty toddler throwing a tantrum because, "You won't let me control you!! Waah, waah!"
Why are the huge majority of people talking about red flags themselves the huge red flags?
He's wearing a hobosexual Uniform 😳🤡🤛🏾
Thank you!
It takes one to know one, I guess
I read the title. I didn't care what he said. Im single and childfree. He isn't my problem or a prize. My prize is him being quiet....all men for that matter. I don't care how they feel or what they want. I'm never going back! He looks and smells like exhaustion.
Damn!!! 😂😂😂😂
“Where’s your family? Where is the woman that has settle for you?” 🤣
I think it's really weird that men talk so much about women they don't want. Like, I don't want to date men who are unemployed and have criminal records. But guess what, I NEVERRRRRR talk about them. They don't even cross my mind, EVER!! And they don't exist in my universe. So talking this much about women you say you DON'T want tells me that it's more to the story and that you don't REALLY think these women are red flags. You just want them to lower their standards so you can get access. You're speaking from a place of anger and frustration.
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Our purpose is not to be trapped in a relationship with a deadbeat man like him. Most of us have witnessed this firsthand in our own childhoods, and we are not going to repeat what our mothers had to endure.
14:44 y'all are the birth control! 😂 EXACTLY!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you! I love him for saying this. 😂😂😂
Ladies we need to disappear. We need to stay in our spaces and we need to stop interacting with these men, even if it's to call then out.
If we react he wins
I agree about that in person, no interaction unless it's purely transactional, like a job. But these videos help women know that we aren't alone in our thoughts and reactions to the toxic garbage. I think it really helps younger women with strong examples of not taking crap and pushing back
Yes, I agree.
Be like the Chinese Women and remove our selves from dating the Men completely.
Now No Fault Divorce is being attacked
Christian Nationalism is for 2025
Women can't afford to be Traditional
Ikr, clearly no woman is interested in dealing with him in any capacity including his own baby mamas, this is the only way he can get ANY female attention
This was the same guy who was giving game on how to be toxic in a relationship single women are avoiding the men who consume the advice he was giving
He’s doing wonders encouraging women to stay single!
It backfired. 🤭
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If he read your comment I think his brain couldn't process his hypocrisy and it would implode.
Great! I'M SINGLE! Where is my red flag to wear?
I'm pretty sure you meant it as a joke, but it would be fun to start wearing red flags in some form. A this-model-is-not-available sign, if you will.
@@user-dc4cm8nz1f Actually, no. I would LOVE a red flag on a shirt and wear it proudly!
I will wave it proudly 😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Heehee, we should all go round wearing red flag badges!! ❤
Dang these women snatched him by his durag! 😂
😂😂😂😂
What they dont get is that we need this current society TO UNALIVE itself. This society and current culture - all of it needs to go.
Full stop.
Yup. We're tired and DONE
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Y'all, I'm still waiting for this asteroid to take us out. Why is it taking so damn long
Your disclaimer in the beginning-Getting hate and trolls means your channel is growing. Congratulations.
This musty ninja again? Where is the petition to mute Crusty? A this point he's desperate for attention. GET SOME THERAPY CRUSTY!
He’s getting really tiresome
He need to gout out like Kevin Samuel's
LOL "musty ninja"🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m happy to have spaces like this so thanks to Priscilla and all you other lovelies for being here.
You're the best!
Just a theory: some black men hate themselves but they took it out on bw. Now we're not dealing with them anymore and instead of healing from their traumas, they're trying to use the same manipulation tactics that used to work. It's sad to see but kinda funny to watch😂
I wonder if he would go to a convent and say that to the nuns?
I am betting they either won't give him their time of the day or they will throw at him a hell of a time
But that is just me
Of course he would, this is what a man starved of female attention looks like
Good point!
Imma need PPBros, Red Pillers, MGTOW, etc to PROVE to us how "worthless" we are and act like we don't exist. I know they post ish like this cause negative attention is better than none but PLEASE, move on already!!!
Mgtow is so dumb like you can just decide to be single without having to make it your identity and being a part of a toxic AF group.
"What is your purpose? Besides creating broken homes." What a bar!
They tell us to choose better so we are. We choose ourselves that’s the better choice. He’s mad that choosing better automatically disqualified him.
It's disturbing to me that we can't even decide to be single and be left alone. Why do you care? Go date the women who want to date. Leave the rest of us alone.
Exactly.
He is just a sad little dude😂..I pity his mother....
I wish she would come put him time out.
10:06 men would say their purpose is to protect and provide for a family. problem is, they need a woman to do that. so without women giving them a family, what are they good for?
That’s exactly the curse males are under. In nature 90% of males won’t make it and are absolutely disposable. If they have no access to women they fail as a species.
Ding, ding, ding!!
Until a man learns to respect all women, he will forever block his true purpose, because all women will boomerang at him what he’s spitting out into the world.
He had two chances, why is he on tiktok instead of providing for either of his families?
Oooh damn good point!
And why do people need a purpose. Some people are fine just existing living life and not bothering anyone
exactly! just being is enough ❤
This
People don't "need" to have a purpose. It just tends to make people happier and more driven. Some people can't really happily exist without knowing their purpose. If some other can, that's good for them I guess.
having a purpose is good. having your purpose solely be based on biology and man made societal expectations is wrong. thats why i hate being pushed that my only purpose as a young 20 yr old woman is to have babies. "the birth rate is going down" IDC that is not my responsibility. but they will always use some form of that to push it onto women. my purpose is my love for science and the arts. that is my passion. not being forced to make and raise babies i don't rlly want
They are so despicable.
The worst🤡🤛🏾
For me, a man with neck tattoos who says “ax” and “earf” and has multiple baby mamas is a red flag.
"...Captain Kirk's internet...." 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's the fact that they don't like women but are trying to neg women into lowering their standards to be with them.
Being a dusty with multiple baby mamas is the biggest red flag . #callthepoliceonhim
"At this point, y'all ARE the birth control!" 😂😂😂
He's single handedly showing women we're better off without.
He's talking about being concerned with society? What obligation do I have to a society that would take away my rights? None.
The Ca Ca roach is at it again 😂
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This made me laugh hard girl😂
& since this man has so much good advice about dating men, he should date one.
He is arleady dating them and they are not submitting or cooking or cleaning or doing 50/50
Heard on another tiktok. He has kids with two baby mama's, did not marry either of them.
Women prefer our own company and are happy. That’s terrifying to them.
Men really be like:
Don't be picky about who you date because that's a red flag. But also don't lower your standards because then you're too easy, which is a red flag. 😂
That man has TWO baby mamas and he’s with neither of them he’s mad that even his baby mamas didn’t settle for him. 😂😂😂😂 he has a clothing line with no customers, the back tats, patchy beard and ungroomed hair speaks volumes.
He looks like he smells like musty cheese.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
'We got better, yall didn't, catch the f**k up.' I felt that.
I have completely removed myself from the game/ dating pool and its great. I remember being younger and revolving everything around being picked or chosen by a man and I am so glad that I never had a kid with someone or got married. The greatest peace I have had is alone. The times I was single I was healthier mentally physically and spiritually. I think I like it here lol
"Not being in a committed relationship is a red flag." Says the single, deadbeat runaway Dad, who isn't in a healthy committed relationship or raising his kids. Y'know, like a hypocrite.
My man is throwing stones, while living in a glass house. His "purpose" in this world is apparently being deadweight, flapping his gums on TikTok instead of contributing to society beyond getting women pregnant and ditching them. Dudes like this always project, so hard.
This. Thank you!
He wants to subjugate and thought there was a market. He didn't realise only men pay to be dominated. Men loved being shouted at and bossed around.
Haha 😂😂😂 can confirm
"trying to be masculine, or something?" Nope...pretty much just trying to happily live my life, make a positive contribution to the world. Which does not have to involve creating children, btw.
Where is your wife? You look lonely!!!🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
I can see this is the first time I’ve ever been single. But for me it’s really giving me time to figure out myself. And although it’s also true that certain aspects of my depression slightly. I can honestly say I will never settle. I’m willing to settle down and when the right man comes. Great, but then I will not settle. I know my worth and I will never settle for less. So don’t do that ladies know your worth and never settle for less. I am a queen and I’ll be treated as such. 👸🏾🤦🏾♀️👸🏾