Man Says “Why Aren’t The Pick Me’s And Alpha Male Podcasters Not Dating And Marrying Each Other?”
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- Why aren’t the pick me’s and red pill alpha male podcasters not dating and marrying each other since they know exactly how to please one another?
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Cause they don't want the pick-me's. They want to 'break' and 'control' women who naturally don't want them. They want a challenge.
They say they want traditional women but they always follow feminists around like lost puppies 😂
They don't want a challenge or they wouldn't be afraid to approach women
precisely
@@SkycometAnimeVamp lollll. ironic isn't it?
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Pick Me women wanna impress men. Pick Me men also wanna impress men 😂
This 😂
Bingo !! that's how they were socialised and educated ,no point blaming the parents that is society . Men that build are socialised with other boys from a young age , sports archery hobby clubs .Women who were sheltered were taught to pick flowers ,like other girls and indulge in self care . Girls from poor backgrounds are taught to mule cook and clean from an early age that's why they look exhausted by age thirty again dont be mad At the conditiing raise your own
Facts
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There's no better proof that this is all a grift than all those red piller wannabe alfa men and pick mes not getting with each other and ending our collective misery.
Thank you!!! I saw the founders of the "Wife school" and other "How to be feminine", and Melaine King organize a get together.
Says who??
I remember a content creator who did a reaction video of Melanie King on MTR's(Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews) channel. And she was the biggest pickme shaking her behind all up on MTR. And he paid her no dust. Men like him and all the redpillers and manophere dude. Do not want pickme melanie king. They want women they cannot obtain.
@@thejookking I said it. And some other people agree by the look of it.
@@thejookkingSays the male podcasters who aren't lining up to put a ring on Pearl.
Candice Owens too 😂😂 the gal is telling yall to get married and finally have a purpose while she is climbing the right wing ladder making racks 😂😂 she has given birth to 3 purposes yet hun is still working
This!!!! She is not a stay home “taken care of”wife. She works all the way through pregnancy,jet setting across the globe with small children. I do not want her life
This 🎯
It be the feminists who tell other women not to be a feminist. Like whattttt since when were traditional women ALLOWED to be politicans maam?
What’s crazy is that she doesn’t have to work . She has a rich English husband , candice works out of pure ambition leaving her kids ( purpose) with nannies , just to turn around on the internet and call poorer women who need a job to survive raging narcissist for not being married with kids 😂😂 like what in th actually f
@@Ladynilowstopped listening to her.
She is not realistic
This is sadly true. My first husband knew I was independent and confident, wore makeup, and was the anti-pick-me. However, during our marriage, he endeavored to grind my self-esteem into dust. He literally tried to convince me to shave off my hair, stop wearing makeup, dress dowdily, and be mindlessly submissive. I asked him why he married me, and he said, “Because I knew I could change you.” We are divorced, I am happily remarried. He is also remarried, but repeating the same behaviors and still upset that I obtained a divorce.
how do you know he is repeating the same behaviors?
"Happily remarried"
...😂😂😂I hear these all the time with modern women. I wonder why you had to add that? It adds no value whatsoever to what you just said 😂😂😂😂
@@greatstoic2297yes it does? 😭 shes saying she left a crap marriage and got successfully remarried into a better relationship. you just dont want to believe that
@@misslove6256 "Happily remarried" in womanese means "I was the perfect partner and wasn't in anyway to blame for my divorce". Chances are she hasn't remarried or if it's true she's remarried then they are a couple of months into the marriage. It will unravel just like the first one.
One thing modern women don't know is there's no such thing as a "happy marriage". Marriage is more about sacrifice. This is because marriage is a pillar of Patriarchy. This automatically makes a feminist mindset to be incompatible with marriage. Marriage is obsolete in the West. The sooner men and women realise this the better for everyone.
@@greatstoic2297 womanese??😭omg. i dont think thats what she meant. imo gender doesnt matter when it comes to bad character so sometimes the man can genuinely just be a crap person and thats an ok thing to accept. happy marriage is very possible. yes sacrifice comes with alot in life but that shouldnt make the marriage miserable. maybe you meant theres no such thing as perfect marriage. im an american girl and im 20 so idk if its just an older generation thing to "leave the west find better elsewhere" but i dont agree but also thats really just a matter of opinion i guess so i hope you find what youre looking for
i personally believe marriage should be done with someone who holds the same values as you and respects you, who loves you, who befriends you. someone you trust yknow but idk maybe we have different concepts of love and marriage
Reminder: Pearl is dating a man who is afraid of being deported back to Zimbabwe and he still doesn't want to marry her.
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What??😂😂😅
Peal a social media anomaly...She makes so much money from social media, she will just do and say things to cause an argument just to keep a camera on her. The only way she would get married to anyone is if she knew she for sure she could keep her empire going, and right now it's not worth the risk. The advice she gives to other women she's not going to take it for herself!! 😂
Damn she so trash not even for a green card will someone be her husband lmao
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The only thing I disagree with is that our grandmothers and great grandmothers were pick-me's. They did what was necessary to survive in a world where they had little to no agency. They suffered through social injustice, gender discrimination, abuse, cheating and marriages that should have been illegal (based on age gap) to survive and build legacy the only way they could... through children. If they had been given a chance, like us, I'm sure a lot of them would have jumped at the opportunity to have fuller lives. To call them pick-me's is just insulting.
some of them. Most of them are just :slaves:. Set them free and they will still go back to being a mule.Like my mother. Cant sleep because of he trash husband calling her worst names but she will not let ME get rid of him because "you dont kick out people like dogs". This is mindset
I agree ☝🏼 brilliantly put!
agree. disrespectful if you ask me. no different that kanye saying slavery was a choice. Its the same shit. Women were LITERAL SLAVES. stop using soft words like 'traditional' to describe SLAVERY.
People underestimate the mental traumas associated with years of brutal brow beating narratives (and laws), shaming and physical violence. I can't say many would choose to take advantage of the current opportunities. As we see many detractors far removed from that era that champion those chains. But the women from that time did what they had to do to survive.
Not really,women are still being picky me's even though they have more rights now , that's why you have women in marriages working and still doing most of the household chores, that's pick me tendency
Hes so right about Pearl . 😂😂😅 if she was about that life she could be making trad wife videos. And labour and delivery vlogs. Those make money over here too but pearl is full of caca like he said.
Nobody trying to wife Pearl lol. These guys want a woman who likes like the Only Fans girls they denigrate.
I thought her mom was the one that makes money in her family.
She is in the closet.
He just blew their whole program out the water😹😹😹💥💥
If she was about that life, she wouldn't even be making trad wife (de facto BOSS GIRL) videos. She would shut up, lay low, and focus on getting her man some shine.
3:56 She summed it up well. Trevor Noah cited his mother saying that some men want a woman to submit but don’t want a submissive woman.
‘The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.’
And a lot of those podcasters before their fame weren’t in positions to get that submission from women organically with social status and other factors. Hence why they cry about those women being ‘gold diggers’ because most women wouldn’t ’submit’ to a man that won’t provide for her snd potential offspring comfortably at the bare minimum. Let alone their subpar personalities and lack of respect or care for her.
So they turned to shaming and gaslighting the independent woman to settle, lies and manipulation to try and trap her into either a relationship or decreased ‘value’ (getting her pregnant) and only glorify the pickmes on the screen.
whew deep
That is true because why sit and complain about women who aren’t your type… career driven, educated, dresses sexy… oh you want to be the cause for them to give everything away… men feel they are here to make women devote there entire life to him and that’s what makes him feel manly … men would love to take billionaire Oprah and turn her into his stay at home wife where she has no value but to sever him… a Billionaire woman has no value to them other than to serve a dusty 😂
Oh I like how his mom put it. That's very apt.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I wholeheartedly agree!
Damn this is deep...
Lol when those red pillers are complaining,they are talking about Instagram baddies not regular women. They literally can't give their time to a regular woman and those Instagram baddies don't want them either. That's why they be so mad.
This - 💯
and they talk like every woman alive is selling pics on only fans and instagram too andd im like bro...none of my homegirls do that shit. NONE OF EM. Yall watch too much tv lmao
Exactly 💯
@@joannamonique707shows how little interaction they have with women in any capacity lol
Facts, they arent complaining about the regular or pick me women that they can easily get. Smh
I went on a serial dating spree last year after I escaped a long abusive relationship and the number of men who turned out to be married was staggering. I know not all men are this way but the odds are not in our favor. Love yourselves ladies, a man is nice but he's not your world, you are.
The odds def aren’t in our favor!
Yes, I noticed this too. I used to be a massage therapist for a womens spa and gym for 10 years and then I helped an old friend with her co ed start up spa, and I was in for a shock... the amount of married men who want "extras" was depressing and I just want to tell their wives. Those men hated me though, when they asked for happy ending, I leave, and then came back with 3 Disney books....Cinderella, Little Mermaid, and Bambi "So which happy ending do you want? I will read to you!"
@CitySlickerButtKicker What a Chad move lol 😆
@@CitySlickerButtKicker Bambi didn't have a happy ending his mother was shot
@@bunnyboo6295 Ohhh, that was the point. It served as a warning
Everyone belongs in the kitchen except you Pearl? Best question ever 😅
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She admits she will run to the kitchen if they start drafting women.
The Serena joy dilemma. Internalized misogyny and internalized anti blackness are two of the most tragic things ever other than othering yourself to be “not like the others” or exceptionalize your own individuality but prescribe things for others. Remember “the oppressor would not be so strong if he did not have accomplices among the oppressed.”
~Simone de Beauvoir
So you wanna be single like her? Understood
@@Heteropessimistyet you want to be like other lonely sad career women. Got it
I wish people would stop calling those guys Alpha Males, they are not.
Thank you. The only alpha in my life is Jesus Christ!
I think it's funny. On one hand, it's sarcasm of the highest order. Even the biologist who first posited the idea of alphas (in wolves) immediately retracted his paper and said "oh, no. I was wrong. Alpha in wolves just means 'responsible parent!' Sorry!" As in he even found packs lead by lady Alphas. So there's that, and then there' the fan culture version of alpha/beta/omega which is a universe where everybody's gay and males have babies. Red pillers are making fun of themselves one way or the other.
I did see a great post by an IT worker who pointed out that in programming the alpha version was the first version with all the bugs that was usually a complete mess and the beta version was the new and improved one that actually worked. It makes sense if you use that characterisation.
as a gamer the term is always funny to me cause alpha means its not a fully released game yet there might be errors or bugs or missing features or story pieces. then the beta phase is next. then the game is fully released. so i always see the word alpha men as being like, they have issues and emotional immaturity, there still needs to be some work and bug fixes there looool
@@QUEERVEEART The rubber-banding bug never gets old. Or things casually clipping through solid ground.
Men: UGH WE ARE SOOOO LONELY 😢 WOMEN ARE SUCH 304s WAAAH!
Average looking/Plus size/Basically not IG Model regular girl: I'm available ❤
Men: NOOOOO NOT YOU
Men can be a 2 with no personality,but still expect to get a 10.
Men can have 10 pick mes surrounding them and worshipping the ground they walk on, and they still will look at the one girl that don't give a F about them and harass that girl into "submitting".
This exactly. They complain about pretty women all day but they would 100% be with a crazy 10 who has a horrible personality than a 6 with a great personality.
@@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesisand most pickme's are below average
This. Like the girls you shoidl go for you ignore
"Cutest couple of 6 and a halves"😂🤣😭
I don’t even know who the guy he matched her up with is but isn't 6.5 too high for her? I mean, according to their own BS about rating women isn't she hitting the wall? It's not me saying it. It's them.
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Hitting? You mean she’s not in her 30s already?
dang she’s not aging well
She said she is 26.
You talking about pearl?
She is the pickme who hasn't been picked.
@@maenad1231 Nope, she's not. She's from 1996. So, 27 years old, now. And if I'm not mistaken I came across a video of hers on Twitter where she said a woman's prime is from 18 to 25 years old. So according to her own BS she already hit the wall.
“We’ve all been a pick me” NO tf we all haven’t!!!
Thank you, the woman saying we all have a little pick me in us, no we don’t.
I was definitely a pickmeshia in my 20s, but the time I was 30 I had pretty much run out of fcks and I became fully celibate and single for life at 45.
There is no pick me in me because I don’t want them picking me ever. I don’t even want them talking to me. I wear a wedding ring when I go out in public, I got divorced when I was 31, but they wouldn’t stop approaching me in public even though I was supposed to be invisible by now.
But the wedding ring works, so far so good. Hopefully I didn’t just drink myself, but I’ve been able to pump gas unaccosted for months now
I think because the rhetoric is mainstream in the black community we are exposed to it. So at one point we may have lived thru it or been exposed to it.
I was a pickmesha when I was younger. I admit it. But as I got older, I became a don'tpickmesha!😂
Most of you phuked the same guy at once.
Maybe in grade school 😂
Can be explained easily, pick-me's are Barbra the builder's, alpha male's are exotic bird collectors.
Pick-me's don't want a toxic man - they want to fix a man so he'll give her the validation she requires.
Alpha men want to be able to scream from the top of the mountain, "hey, I'm so high value - *I* make *GIRLS* who I don't even like, *WORK* to date *ME!* ", their masculinity is validated by having women chase THEM.
Even though pick-me-girls want to fix a man, alpha men aren't the kinda toxic they're pining for - because alpha's can't be fixed, they just wanna wreak havoc, so there is no finish line or endgame for the pick-me to receive her trophy.
They want two different types of validation that they wouldn't receive from being together.
Wednesday March 20th 2024
Congratulations.
You just admitted your man is a beta male.
The downfall of female psychology is that the majority of you desire an alpha male.
If you're single then you should easily score a beta nale; there's a lot of simps out there.
True couldn't have said it better
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Very well stated!
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Bang on 100%.
They want the high maintenance girls with high standards because if they are able to humble and have one love them genuinely then they feel they have accomplished something worth having
Wisdom
Your comment is the only reason why they want to abuse (so called humble) highly attractive women who doesn't even want them.
Not "accomplished something worth having" more like they accomplished something to stroke their ego about. As soon as they achieve that, a lot of men leave because they got what they wanted. It's like when guys act like the "nice guy" because they want s*x, not an actual relationship. As soon as they get s*x, they switch up on a woman. Though, some men do stay with the woman they broke because it's also a flex to them, and now they get to walk all over her.
Men want to increase the population of broken women, hence why they go after women that are independent, not women who are already pick mes...wow, men are really disgusting psychopaths.
are you just speculating that?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNotNo, they the truth.
The thing about "pick me" women is that, they think, by allingning themselves with conservatives, they gonna have privilegies. I used to do this in the past, hanging with alot of these kind of people, but it took one single moment, and they called me "dirt" (referring at my Brown skin tone). Picks me cant win.
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Black ppl are naturally conservative though. We have just been brainwashed politically.
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience Unfortunatlly its true, same kinda situation on the whole latin america, to a point brown/black communities are taught to hate themselves. Hell, most people here, wich cleary have native american ancestry (like me), resent it, when you point that out.
No! WE'RE not a monolith and I don't hold conservative beliefs. Don't paint us all with that brush!@@theteleisewilliamsexperience
@@mistressravenlilyscreepybo5493 Same here sis
Because none of them want to live in HARMONY. They are internally miserable and cannot function outside of chaos. They don't want eachother because they don't want themselves.
Whew. A mouthful!
It's all for show. They don't even believe the crap they spew out their mouths. These dudes don't even like women, and Pearl...well, either she doesn't like women, or she's looking for the wife she's telling us we should be.
This
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Maybe a little bit of both
Nah pearl is looking for attention and money telling these men what they want to hear gives her an audience.
@@bunnyboo6295I think it's both.
When the pick mes and “alpha” bros do pick each other, they eventually grow to hate each other. She gets fed up with his behavior and suddenly has bare minimum standards. He hates that she is growing those standards and asking for things that he doesn’t want to provide.
This is correct. I know because I used to be in this dynamic. I learned my lesson.
Shera7 defined pickme first and best. Pickme puts the man first. She will give a man ALL her money instead of getting her hair done, beauty treatments, lashes, nails, wax etc. Men want women that are high maintenance who put themselves first.
Yet they want you to keep yourself up without using their money, keep that in mind.
@@ThePhoenix3712 this is true. They want you to keep yourself up for THEIR PERSONAL enjoyment. These men want a pornstar gf that will cater to his every need (also she should buy him gifts and pay %50+ bills). They are the true delulus out here.
majority of men in the world aren't married to that tho. how do you even know what they want?
Not being a "pick me "goes beyond that
Facts
"The cutest couple of 6 1/2 I ever saw." 😅💀 He has a point. Why don't y'all just hook up and check out of our BIDNESS😅😂
I fell out when he said that.🤣🤣🤣
No we’re not all Pick MEs sometimes. There’s no man rich enough, handsome enough,hung enough, or masculine enough to make me desperate for him. That’s because of regardless of his attributes, he is still flawed in some form or manner. We all are. That’s why idolizing or fawning over a person is pointless.
PickMe women get picked for the purpose of being a mule and a servant. In their words “at least I got a man”. Right 🙄
Exactly. When she said "we're all pick me's sometimes," I instantly was like, no we're not. I don't like when people can't just stand in who they are, so they try to say that other people do it too.
@@brielleknoxsragerecoveryclinic The only time I am a pick me is if I am desperate to nail a job interview. Pick ME for the role! I wanna make $100k! Lol.
6:20 “They cancel one another out like PEMDAS” had me ROLLING 😂 OMG, the math of it all! 🤣
Childhood memeory: *Unlocked*
People always end up not being attracted to who they're attractive to lol
I remember i said that once to a guy who listen to those RP podcast there millions of women out in the world who are pick me go date her and marry her. You dont have to go with a boss babe, single moms, or childless women. He looked at me and said the pick me are boring and not a challenge. 😂. Lord you cant make this shit up.
That's how you know men love drama, why else do you think they are the main ones who start wars, etc because men like drama and violence
@@Jwa-fo6nb Yup, men call women drama queens, but I'd rather deal with the high school mean girl than a war. Men subjugated women, and now they've been trying to subjugate each other. That's why wars and conflicts are constant with them, they're trying to do to themselves, what they did to women.
Men are not the "chosen ones" and they're awful leaders. Violence, corruption, and injustice are the norm in society, so they're not good leaders. Men are not the main characters, and they refuse to even consider that, much less come to terms with it.
you just made that up
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot cope with exposing information? not good for you
@@scorpieeeee are you seriously going to believe that actually happened? Well here goes. I remember I asked a woman why she doesn't date faithful men, she said she was bored by them. Do you believe me?
they don’t know what they want.they complain when you’re pick me, and when you’re a challenge
it's the confusion, hypocrisy, and back biting for me😒😑🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 right! it be the narcdacity of it all.
They don't want a woman who works and makes her own money, yet they don't want a woman that expects him to pay for dates and bills. Men are the absolute CEOs of perpetual confusion.
People are not attracted to who they are attracted to in real life
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Clock it
Huh?
@@StushgyalTV she means they are not nice people or attractive in real life
What?
ALSO, when they get the "free spirit," they break her spirit and then complain that she's not the woman they married. And it's on to the next.
And then when the woman becomes herself again after the divorce/breakup, the guys complain "why wasn't she like this when we were together? Why'd she change after we got divorced/broke up?" I have seen so many comments online from guys complaining that their ex glowed up or got back to her natural self after their divorce or break up. If she's at her best when she's not with you, but her light was dimmed after being with you, you're probably the reason. It's sad that they really don't realize that they're the problem.
All I can say is, every man I know who's cheated has a wife that epitomizes the perfect trad wife and a mistress who's the complete opposite of that
I hope you do not know that many because I don’t like the implication of this.
@@henryholgate8526 Sad to say, it's too many to count. Esp. the amount of men who will openly praise their wives on their social media pages while begging their mistress to let them move in with them so they can leave their wives with a safe place to land waiting for them
That’s exactly how it is. The man who is obsessed with me right now is married to a perfect little conservative blonde. He’s a cop. I’m a semi-homeless criminal who was convicted by his department for poisoning my roommate. I’m covered in tattoos, I’m a free spirit, and I roll with people who he’d probably arrest. I heard once that men tend to prefer this type called “manic pixie dream girl.”
I’ve always told trad wives…you’re literally a pack mule to him. You’re the brood mare. You pump out kids and keep his legacy alive, but he’s in love with ME. Don’t bother wasting your time getting married or working so hard to be this perfect cutesy little mommy wife.
It's the exotic bird collector theory. The reason why the Pick Mes are not picked is because they are too easy. Men like a challenge and they want the women who are not Pick Mes and the red pill men wants to change the non pick me women and turn them into their pick me. Men feel more powerful and have an ego boost when they do something like this. Men are actually attracted to autonomous and strong-willed women as much as men say that they are not attracted to strong-willed and autonomous women, they actually are attracted to those women.
Men want challenge?
Sure?
Yup
Yes most of the time it's that case but they want you to show your feminine side while you do so they feel like their in control like being passive aggressive or nice nasty for example and there are other ways to show such those are just some examples @@CordeliaWagner1999
and how do you know this? majority of men in the world aren't married to the kind of woman you are talking about.
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNothence the divorce rate sitting at a cute 80%. Basically men settle and get married to the submissive pick-me only for them to divorce them at the highest of rates. Please be for real.
The manosphere podcasters want BADDIE pick me’s… those dont really exist and the podcasters dont qualify for baddies at all
Agreed! You’re never gonna get a 10/10 pickme. Choices need to be made, and whining online complaining about 304s ain’t it.
I've been saying this for years! Why go to a new country when you have ready, willing, and able doormats right here in America? Someone get the answer please! 😂
Because they can't actually afford to take care of those doormats because they're broke😂. So they go to a foreign country where the currency is weaker and certain laws surrounding womens safety are basically none existent, all so they can exploit those women easier and financially abuse them.
@shanc2672 "You have just been promoted to one of my elite employeeeeees"👏👏👏👏 perfectly said.
The African version (south african because i am south african and have experience there) is when they say they don't want a woman who drinks and parties. But then go after the women who have that lifestyle. In rare occasions they will find s young girl who is slightly pick-me or doesn't know herself yet, they will date her then turn her into a woman they claimed they do not want, a party girl who goes out snd party a lot and drinks too. I convinced whichever way it goes, they just want to assign whatever change to themselves. They just want to conquer and change you so that they can credit themselves.
So true
In other words, men just want to ruin women.
South American here. The same happens in my country
Yeah exactly!
Pickmes aren’t a challenge or a prize.
Pick me's would rather risk being used and betrayed than being alone. They dont mind being cheated on as long as they don't know about it. Single independent women and sex workers know beyond any doubt that most married men are not committed to their wives.
All of their podcasts talk about the same things and lack nuance of any capacity. These red pill dudes will come to me,instead of going to a pick me. AND THEN tell me to be like them. The days of caring about their opinions are over.
Men always do this. They approach you because of ____ and then they tell you to change your hair or clothes or etc 🙃🤨
@@MagsLuv it’s the most annoying thing ever. They like you because you take care of yourself. Then they get mad you take care of yourself and “draw attention”. BUT if you stop taking care of yourself you’ve “let yourself go” and they cheat. NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE. I’m 22. And I’m done.
@@MagsLuv We all can have one, Ourself. The most important to never give up, because without it, others will fall too. If another can't accept you are one and in good state, is toxic, no time to lost with him.
Hell yeah!!
They are both codependent and need therapy to address their abandonment trauma!
Wednesday March 20th 2024
So you think single mothers, OnlyFans Girls and 304s have LESS trauma??
I hope you're not a therapist.
@thejookking No. I don't think that. My comment wasn't a definitive list of all the categories of people that need therapy. Only a response to the 2 categories mentioned in the title of this video.
True
@@thejookking “alpha” men and pick mes objectively need much more psychological treatment than the groups you mentioned, who don’t need any treatment at all most of the time. Stop being delusional, you NPC. And you can always create an OF if you are envious of the money you think that OF girls are making, and NOT abandon, neglect, or abuse a woman after you impregnate her if you have that big of a problem with single mothers.
@@thejookking “alpha” men and pick mes objectively need much more psychological treatment than the groups you mentioned, who don’t need any treatment at all most of the time. Stop being delusional, you NPC. And you can always create an OF if you are envious of the money you think that OF girls are making, and NOT abandon, neglect, or abuse a woman after you impregnate her if you have that big of a problem with single mothers.
I was a terrible pick me girl for many years - I would pine after the guys I wanted and would ignore the guys who were interested in me. I would try so hard to get these indifferent guys into me and would bend over backwards trying to prove why they should pick me. It never worked. Desperation is not attractive to healthy people. I was never attracted to the desperate guys who pined after me.
If you read law #41 in the 48 laws of power it talks about how men do better in poverty and struggle rather than when everything is given to them, there will be rare instances of these men that get everything and then surpass it (marrying the girl in front of them) but this is the same concept, they need the challenge of “domesticating” the independent woman , because they need our validation, and project it on to women
Thanks for this ❤️
Let me go and reread that book since I've had it for YEARS!!
Yes! Because struggle is masculine, and is what the masculine man needs to succeed, while the un-masculine man wants women to suffer, sometimes even on his behalf. Otherwise, masculine men need and even ENJOY suffering!!
@@winxclubstellamusa exactly! That’s why we as women gotta stop tryna save them , let them figure it out on their own
@@kylamyette exactly! 😊
Im happy more good woman are standing up for themselve
This was enlightening. Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever met a happily married pick me 🤷🏾♀️ They usually devote all of their time, effort and energy into pleasing a man with no real sense of direction for themselves... 🤔 Sounds like hell to me. I'd much rather invest in things that actually make me happy, than to constantly seek validation from a man who's only using me because he lacks the resources & the mental capacity to get the woman he REALLY wants..
People like this are narcissists and narcissists have a very specific type. They're energy vampires so they want someone whos a good source of energy aka healthy and happy but also need them to have low boundaries because people with strong boundaries will naturally reject narcisstic energy. The only time you really get that rare combination is when women are young and naive. The younger she is the less likely she is to be super jaded and bitter, but she also hasn't developed her backbone. As women get older she's either a bitter pain in the ass or a healthy happy person whos had to understand that boundaries must be implemented to preserve her peace and a narc cant do nothing with either one of em lol one is a not a good source of energy, the other wont let him feed on her.
Yesssssss best comment ever
Ma'am. The woman that's a bitter pain in the ass is mostly bitter due to these males interrupting her peace or taking advantage of her.
💯 Thank God I didn't date in my early twenties, it only could've gone badly. I'm still that energy source and not functional enough but self aware thankfully
I feel like even if you are not a Pick me but just peaceful and kind they will also not want you because they want the drama. They like the drama because they are drama queens
Exactly. However those are usually immature toxic men that need constant drama to stay interested. A mature man with ambition, vision and purpose seeks out a stable, kind and trustworthy woman because he needs peace in his home life.
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f too many immature men. The mature and responsible men are lovely
Don’t be attracted to the men you don’t want. You complain about being “peaceful and kind” and presumably the man you wanted didn’t want that. Is it a fault of those men for not wanting you, or a fault of you wanting those men who don’t want you?
You suffer from the same nonsense the red pill guys do. Attracted to people that don’t want them and then upsetti spaghetti that such people won’t change or lower their standards just so YOU can get what you want.
After hearing this, it seems like people are choosing the person who they complain about so that they aren't to blame. It ain't my fault.
3:26 facts. This is why they use pregnancy to humble women and as soon as you’re pregnant or post-partum, they drop the mask.
Here in Ontario Canada my mom's best friend's husband beat the crap out of his wife within the first few weeks of marriage because his dad told him it will help to keep her in line.
Oh no 😢 I hope she left him tho.
She's still with him? Don't leave us hanging.
Do you think?
@@sAMiAm1 do you think?
That's surprisingly common. Source: I worked on the women's crisis line for many years. Not shockingly it appears to be extra common among cops.
because the typical pick me is not attractive physically. that's why shes a pick me, because no one is picking her based on looks. and looks, to these guys is everything. they rather contradict their morals and pay cam girls and OF models than date pick me whos not as hot
Not necessarily true. There are some very attractive women who are pickmes. I see them on TikTok every day. I also see many overweight and plain women who have very high self-esteem. It all depends.
@@Childfree334 filters do alot on TikTok. no one is picking her irl. that's why shes a pick me online
I know some gorgeous pick me’s and men still mistreat them. It’s all in their personality.
I know gorgeous pickles in my family.. they still got mistreated on the long run.
That's not always the case....there are a lot of attractive women who use their popularity amongst men as leverage against other women and are absolutely distraught when they get treated like garbage and/or an option. That's how half the women in my town ended up being baby mamas lol
I thought I was a Pick-me for a while, i would look around and see other girls being able to talk to people, make friends, have a relationship with their parents etc. but i was never interested in boys. It wasnt that i wanted to be different from "other girls", i literally couldnt communicate with ANYONE due to social anxiety and feeling like an alien, like i didnt fit in anywhere and i couldnt understand what people were saying (subtext is a completely foreign language to me. long story short, im now 30 and diagnosed with autism and adhd. what i thought was pick me behaviour, turned out to be neurodivergency. I wasnt like the other girls, or boys, or anyone it turns out, because my brain is faffing about on its own rollercoaster. im perpetually tired 😭
I’m the same way
We should be friends
@@Honeyflowerrr id love to be friends! 😊
Also have autism and ADHD, 33 now, and looking back, yeah, I was a pick-me. But I think it happened largely because of the neurodivergency. I had tons of anxiety, super shy, super awkward, absolutely no sense of self worth, I spent my entire school years basting in the vibe that nobody liked me. So when I started to have a mature body and certain men starting paying attention to me and acting nice to me, it seemed like a miracle. A group of people suddenly liked me, I was so happy, and because of my social naivety, pretty unable to read into what those relationships actually were. After so many years of only ever getting positive attention from skeazy guys, and only having skeazy guys as friends, I just.... leaned into it, I guess.
So glad I finally learned enough about life to cut those creeps off, and to stop blaming women for not wanting to be my friend. The guys didn't want to be my friend either. Still can't really make friends too well, I'm mostly alone now without the creeps, but I love other women even if they don't love me, and being alone is better than sacrificing my self respect and my morality just to have people pretend they care and like me.
Plus I have a great fucking cat, so I'll get by with or without these humans. lol
Y’all are all amazing!!!! There should be a support group for women/femmes who didn’t realize they were autistic until adulthood. That’s one hell of an experience…anyways I just wanted to tell y’all that you’re (we’re!) not alone, and that being alone in life isn’t the only way to be safe, healthy, etc. self love is vital and important but we deserve all the other forms too, can get them, and will get them. We’re the last of all people, people who have been through trauma and fought hard to find our ways to ourselves and through all the bullshit that’s holding us back, who should be out here resigning ourselves to lives of loneliness. I advise that all of you study human behavior, signaling, communication and body language, and use what you learn to gain broader understandings of yourselves and the worlds around you, and, when you’re ready, go into them fearlessly. You deserve and abundance is yours.
Love from another autistic woman, who’s out there killing shit and rooting for you to do the same ❤️❤️
A lot of pick mes do get picked but they also by large get treated like trash, cheated on and are used as a money source. They’re usually the ones super unhappy in their relationships because they’re burned out, not appreciated and realizing far too late that their no standards is they’re treated worse than trash.
This is why I will never contort myself for a man. They don't know what they want 😂
But but they have been driving the "women don't know what they want" bs. 😂
Best response came from a gentleman from the "Tonight's Conversation" podcast (I'm paraphrasing): they deal with the people they have access to, NOT the people they actually want.
We all do. But if your plan is to ruin, play with and breed down the women you have access to. Because you despise the fact that you can't touch the sun then you're not a good person. Pretending like you have options in people that will never date you is delusional. They could ultimately leave the women they don't want alone. I have seen some of these men achieve the impossible and they still dog out those women they wanted access to so bad. Ultimately, they are just people of poor character. No "type" of woman will change that.
They won't cause they don't want that bs either
True 😒😑🤡🤛🏾
He ain't lying. They can bask in each others delusional mentality and thin the herd.
All the women actually agreeing with this nonsense are 304s with a body count higher than Covid with daddy issues.
Let's see The pickmes marital and divorce stats vs you pickmenots.
Hahaha always been sayin' that. Its like ultra conservative people who don't have kids (Tim Pool comes to mind), but shame other childless folks. Betcha don't wanna live for what they preach LMAO.
😂😂 true walking contradictions🤣
Candace... Owens?
Candace Owens HAS THREE KIDS. What are you talking about?
Tim Pool? When has he shamed childless people? Are you just dropping random names of conservative talking heads?
@@snopurePerhaps what you heard is a poor metric because the videos are available, so maybe do a basic cursory search instead of thinking what you haven't heard doesn't exist? Maybe?
It’s funny how the men who claim to be “alpha males” are the least alpha dudes I wouldn’t even so much as glance at in public lmaooo
I think They have this perspective from watching MCU movies , they are so delusional
Pearl looks tough..like she drives long hauls or something. She doesn't seem like a peaceful person either, no man wants to come home to that
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I know. She has rough skin, her mannerisms are awkward and mannish, and she has little feminine qualities about her. She did some clip about going to Wife School and she was completely clueless and hamfisted in the kitchen like she had never handled a cutting board before. When I was 12, I was far more competent in the kitchen than her.
LMaOOOO
What 😂😂😂
Yep. Pearl is the worse kind of pick me..thats never picked. Also, i get the feeling her breath goes against the will of god. She's just a busted broad
"The only place their leading you to is a podcast mic and a table." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this had me rolling on the ground 😅...Myron where you at?😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
“Cutest couple of six and a halves that I’ve ever seen” omg 💀
🤣 I can’t stop thinking about that 😂
I been thinking this the longest. Ironic how i saw pearl debating someone the other day about marriage, and im thinking to myself YOU not even married! How she capes so hard for men want a woman like this or like that yet she has no man shows she not that type of woman which by default proves she is a grifter and phony. The guy in the clip is absolutely correct!
Also notice Pearl couldn’t get the man she wanted if her life depended on it (she should of done the ring before spring thing while she was in university) and these KingBabies point to her as example but they also tell us not to listen to SingleWomen’s advice? Lmao
No marriage, No engagement, No steady boyfriend. Unless she has a “f-buddy” she’s got nothing but that would still make her single. so I’ll gladly follow what they say and not take this single broad’s advice into my marriage.
Pearl probably trapped herself into singledom though. If she got a man she actually would be expected to practice what she preaches 😂
Should *have* . She should *have* done whatever.
How very misogynistic to call a woman by the term "broad".
Don’t call her a broad but yeah she kinda ruined her chances at ever getting married by trying to get a conservative man after having premarital intercourse and not following her own standards for what a good woman is.
I had several instances of men wanting to humble me and tear down my ambitions who were then furious when I dropped them faster than a hot potato because I had parents who instilled in me that I was worthy of being ambitious and didn’t need a man. Only reason I’m doing the marriage and kids thing is because my husband is a unicorn who hypes me up at all times and he paid for my nursing school. Secure men like ambition and don’t feel a need to conquer. These red pillers are massively insecure and desperate to hide it
They don't want pick me girls!! They want women they cant have!! So this is frustrating to them and bruises their ego, that's why they cannot sleep at night!
Because men don’t actually want pick mes. If they did, all the pick mes would be married.
Wow, 6 1/2 is very generous.
Right😅? 🤣🤣
Very 😂
Facts.
It's like wanting a bird.
You could go to the pet store and buy one but they'd rather cage and domesticate a wild one.
The greatest question of the decade
Yes! I hope someone goes on their panels and ask this question
You know I’ve been debating whether he’s right or he’s right and I’ve decided he’s absolutely correct.
😂❤️❤️
Yes please hook up! That'll clean up the dating pool for the rest of us.
Exactly! It's always been about control. They hate that they can't control certain women.
This explains why I’m always sought after for the things that I don’t want. I don’t want to cook and bare children and yet men will meet me and by the second date they are telling me how I will make a great mother. Yeah I know since I have 5 kids and a 15 year marriage and married at 18. I would like to enjoy life and pursue my passions, a partnership shouldn’t involve me sacrificing that to make you happy with food and babies and labor (free) at that. ❤
Cooking is a basic life skills not a skill attachment to women
Similar thing happened to me. Neighborhood creep still hit on me even though I rejected him and said I hate cooking and would have more fun being single.
Seriously. The red pills & pick mes need to be on an island together & leave the rest of us before. Pick Mes need to start pretending to be independent to trick Red Pilla into marrying them - then everyone wins.
Lol well said!!!
That white man came, spoke facts and left🤣🤣
I think a lot of these men are so insecure they can't stand the idea of the woman that doesn't want him. Because so often I'm not really convinced these type of men actually like the women they are trying to get, they just want to conquer them, dominate them, because deep down they can't stand that these women don't want them.
It's not about love and like, it's about insecurity and their unwillingness to look inward and work on their insecurity so instead they project it on the women that caused them to feel insecure.
So they'll never go for a pick me, because pick me's never trigger their 'I want this girl to fall for me' need because they aren't looking for validation, they're looking to feel like the bigger man.
I've noticed this irl as well. I've had guys tell me I wasn't their type, only for me to reply with 'that's okay, you're not my type either' for them to completely loss their shit, and suddenly they had to make me like them. Suddenly they had to make me want to date them.
These damn males don't like women period!
I didn’t know I was a pick me til I turned 19…men always treated me like I was second best…it wasn’t until I started setting boundaries and having standards that men from my past and men i met in passing treated me like I was a princess and I was priority even when I was being a complete bitch or my raging hormones
Someone woke up and chose violence 😭😭😭
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Don't be an easy girl, instead be independent and focus on self care.
Thats why the tradwives are most likely to be cheated on because they were already in their place so men cheat to stir up drama, break her to make her a challenge to him, then try to put her back in her place by having her forgive his infidelities
and the ones they got cheated on is usually has the exact opposite personality to the tradwife. And only when the tradwife stand up for themselves and walk away that the man comes scrambling "to get back together" because now, she is a challenge.
@@bloodmajesty414 Yessss. These men want the struggle life they implement on their women. They don't like it easy, they want to be kept on their toes. Everything is a sport to them, thats why they all like to play games
I always have to disagree with “why someone cheats” nonsense. Cheating happens for a variety of reasons. Reasons like, “my partner no longer cares about me” as well as “my partner is just a piece of crap who gets off on cheating”. The reasons are wide and varied. Some more legitimate than others.
Every time I was ever cheated on, the first place I went for blame was myself. What did I do wrong? Turns out… I was doing a lot of things wrong. Rare cases were the “I didn’t screen out the cheater quickly enough and got invested too quickly in them”. But, the women cheating on me were for things like, “I didn’t treat them as a person”, “I wasn’t supportive enough”, “I was using emotional manipulation to get what I wanted”, “I didn’t offer something she needed in the relationship”. You know what? Same reasons I would cheat, too. Woman A was a dead fish in the bedroom? I’d meet a woman who was super enthusiastic in there. Woman didn’t validate or reciprocate the things I was doing for her? Woman comes along who did, and I’d start stepping out.
Most cheating tends to happen because the relationship is already on the rocks and in decline. Other cheating happens because someone is genuinely a pos.
But, I was at least lucky. I got tired of having to balance multiple sets of lies, so I just resolved myself to end relationships when it was obvious my partner wasn’t interested in providing what I needed. It was much easier. Much faster.
@@XxTaiMTxX So you're justifying cheating? There are no nuances to cheating, no reason at all. Just be upfront with someone and say I am leaving because I have emotionally cheated on you and very likely to take it further physically.
@@CitySlickerButtKicker if you remove the reasons the act happens, then you can’t fix why the act happens. Which… not very smart if you are a person who wants to solve problems. Such a mindset punishes people without understanding why those people do what they do. It’s shortsighted at best and utterly incompetent at worst.
If you don’t know why people would cheat, how can you ensure someone wouldn’t cheat on you? If you don’t know why you would cheat, how could you ever prevent that behavior in yourself?
Every terrible act in the world can have a positive justification for it. That’s reality. “Don’t kill people”. How do you defend yourself against someone trying to kill you? Or your culture? Your race? Your SPECIES?
There is nothing wrong with justification. Or, even, promotion. Context is what is important.
Lying is wrong, right? Then why do you lie to friends and family all the time about “little white lies”? Or, is that okay because you’re justifying the lies as “then I won’t hurt them”? Everyone lies. It only matters WHY they lie.
If you don’t like being cheated on then you need to do two things: learn how to spot serial cheaters and don’t date them. And, treat your partner well so that they don’t see a new partner as an upgrade to what you provide.
All it takes is understanding why cheating happens and learning from it so it doesn’t happen to you.
Or… you can do what you’re doing and remain a bitter helpless victim for all eternity and every relationship you have will likely result in your partner cheating on you because of that serious personality flaw. I’ll let you decide which of those is the better option. Especially since victimhood is a social currency these days.
Pearl is the poster girl for all things pick me but facts she doesn’t actually do what she preaches lol. According to her own beliefs she shouldn’t be competing with her male counterparts for social media podcasts. She also says ideal age for marriage is pre25 but she’s headed towards 30 and still insisting on going against her own rules of what makes the ‘ideal’ trad wife. She meets many people as part of her ‘job’ so why hasn’t she settled down with any of them?! Glad she’s finally being called out on her hypocritical behaviour 🙄
Oh, and also she is presumably not a Virgin either. She probably met the dating conundrum. Rp guys want you to be a virgin, but in the dating world men expect sex if they are dating you. Rp men don't like women who date and have sex, then complain if women have standards (only have sex with 'Chad), have sex with this one but not that one for whatever reason, etc etc
He’s asking the questions that the ppl need answers to!!! 0:40
Been needed 😂😂😂
MY question is what does HIS woman look like and what's her personality??
This is that ah ha moment 🤔🧐
I think they're all just narcissists looking for attention online. Narcissists don't put up with other narcissists.
All of this dialogue about men 'should' be like this and women 'should' be like this ignores the fact that we are humans with distinct personalities and preferences, and that healthy relationships are based on love and secure attachment, not some kind of emotionally detached checklist with rules and expectations.
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I often see in the comments of pick me girls, “I know you’ll be married one day” I think the main reason is let’s face it….. they aren’t the baddies. They are not the super model stunning women. I do think control is part of it. I have noticed if the pick me is HOT. She is rarely single but always disrespected and bounced around from relationship to relationship. “ always cheated on, always preferred but never cared for properly”
And men and women that are healthy, would not touch either with a 10ft pole
And when men ask about my past/dating history i just say i grew up great, don’t deal with bs, and leave after first flag. So i see their tru self and cant use nun against me
I didn't hear anything else he said after he referred to women as "BROADS." 😡
The Incels have no respect or shame😒😑🤡🤛🏾
Why? It’s not an insult. It’s an east coast way of saying girls.
@@winxclubstellamusa
It is an insult.
I was an IG model for years, never had an issue getting a man. Quit when I found a good man! With a really kind Christian family who knows my past. If a man really loved you he'll forgive you for being ratchet. No one needed to be picked.
He forgave you for being ratchet? If I'm understanding you correctly you were an IG Model who never had a problem "getting" men, but you decided to quit being an IG Model when you found a "good" man? My question to you is why would he had to forgive you for being an IG Model when that had nothing to do with him? If he actually loves you, you wouldn't had to quit being an Instagram Model. You said no one needed to be picked, and don't take this wrong way , it's very clear that you needed to be picked. I wish you well. I hope everything works out for.
The pick me's and red pillers DEFINITELY should flock to EACH OTHER. I mean they rhink the same they have rhe same beliefs they admire each other so much so why not? I wish they would and just leave the rest of us alone 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Right lol
This is WILD moral of the story always be you , do what you love for YOU not for anyone especially for a guy ‼️
Because males DO NOT LIKE PICK ME'S males like a challenge. I figured out the code. When certain males speak ladies. when you hear them say certain things they are actually projecting so you can interpret it as such and understand what he is actually saying.
Most men don’t want pickmes because if they did, most pickmes would be married. These men actually want the type of woman they mostly complain about and come up with online terms and strategies to try to get her to lower her standards for him. Most want that conventionally good looking girl that doesn’t want him. However, I do think lots of pickmes do get picked, but it’s either temporary or they get taken for granted big time. Just speaking in general terms. Healthy men and women do exist.
A woman has no business lowering her standards for any man period!
@@girlbrittneygirl period!
🤔 hmm
My dad told me that in his youth especially 20s and 30s that the women ALWAYS did everything. He said he didn’t ask , he said they would buy him stuff , and basically wanted him to marry them . Marriage for women was frowned upon if wasn’t married by a certain age. He married my older half siblings mother , because really he was a decent country boy. I’m not saying that bc he’s my dad. They ended breaking up for personal reasons not because of him.
Then , he met my mom. She was broke , living in the hood , had multiple baby daddies and he married her because he told me he didn’t want me to be a “bastard” so 3 months before I was born he married her.
Long story short he went for the challenge bc she was hood AF and acted as such, and he brought her out of that to the surburbs.
Men all over don’t truly want a PickMe, it’s all gaslighting.
Heavy on the they want a challenge. I’m a Chicago leftist yuppie feminist with tattoos who drinks and goes clubbing. I currently have a man who live in the middle of nowhere Michigan who wants me to move out to live with him and be a trad wife hyper Christian and homeschool his children when there’s literal women out there who want the trad wife lifestyle but he doesn’t find them attractive. He wants someone who doesn’t share the same beliefs as him to “capture” and make who he likes.
Don't do it! If he's trying to change you, he's not the one for you.
I have been saying this, why are they not dating each other 😂😂😂
It could all be so easy 😂 instead of bashing other women they could just be with a pick me girl and build an empire with her. But what makes alphas so dangerous is that they are predatory, toxic and violent. They cannot mould or exert power over a pick me girl. They want an independent beautiful woman with dreams and ambitions that they can break and make them submit to them. Please be safe out there, ladies.
Those males aren't Alphas males!
Well he’s right. And Pearl is a grifter! Nothing more. And many of us see it 😂. Glad more people are calling it out.
Even when they marry the pick me, They STAY in single womens bustiness! They say THEIR wife is the ideal and no one wants us. They never ask the wife how they feel about them in single womens conversation
I beg to differ with the first young lady, in the blue top. Our grandmothers and great grandmothers were not “pick ME“, they just did not have access to what we have access to today. Some of the strongest, smartest, wisest, no nonsense women are our mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers.
They hate themselves more than they hate anyone else.
Notice non of these podcasters are 10, 15, 20 years married. They don’t have on men and women who are 10, 15, 20 years married. When they do they get destroyed. Don’t know why young men take these forever a bachelors opinion seriously about relationships. Don’t make no sense.
exactly my thoughts 🔥💯