I agree however, some people are starting at rock bottom with confidence. Some have been raised in a household where they were assigned to be 'the stupid one', 'the lazy one' etc. It takes a lot of support and being able to realize how they were treated unfairly. It is a long road.
I deeply relate to this. A few years back, I also made the tough decision to let go of toxic relationships with some family members and friends. It was heartbreaking at first, but like you, I found peace and strength on the other side, in the end.
Very true ! We meet people like this frequently in our environment. To cut those relationships is very difficult in real life, being so frequently met...or they will manifest only in time. The biggest art could be to navigate through them, with full diplomacy. Unfortunately, all the men will manifest behaviors like this , ( hopefully only partially), sooner or later. The most shocking case was when I asked a certain man : why you behaved like this-, ( abusive ! ) , and his answer was : ,, because I can ( do this ) ". The real truth was that she was stuck in that situation, in multiple ways ... and having no way to escape ! This is the unfortunate real life, sometimes. Abusive people have their 6th sense to find the positive, good hearted, loving , in them trusting, sensible partners to make them their victims.
I had a friend a few yeas ago, who was so much fun. We spent a lot of time together. She made me laugh. I made her laugh. Sometimes she'd ring, or I'd ring her and we'd chat on the phone for ages. After a while, I noticed a change. The fun had gone, she stopped ringing me and seemed disinterested when I called her. Gradually, I woke up. I was keeping the friendship going, like a routine, but she had moved on. I stopped contacting her hoping she would call me. She never did. Some friendships have there time and are over. I remember her with affection and gratitude. Not sure what category this comes under. Letting go when you've been let go of, perhaps.
I stayed in an unhealthy marriage for 5 years of disrespect hoping things will change until I realize that u can't change a person so I decided to end it I'm living peacefully now and I'm always happy no stress at all.
My whole family of origin have done nothing but use, abuse and degraded me. It’s heartbreaking when strangers are friendlier, and kinder than your own family. No one should be okay with treating a person this way. So your statement about them either praying for you, or to prey on you resonates with me. Although I don’t think anyone on in my family has ever prayed for me, they rather sabotage and attack me because of their own shame.
You got that right. Dogs don’t complain all the time like my wife. I don’t have to constantly work to make a dog happy like I do my wife and she doesn’t care if I am happy or not. I can spend an hour walking my dog and I am not exhausted like I am being with my wife after only a short time of her telling me what she wants. My dog does not complain about the food I give her unlike my wife who complains no matter where we go out to eat that the food is bad and costs too much. My wife can talk for an hour about what she doesn’t like or what is bothering her but if I want to talk about a problem that I have to her she says shut up, I don’t have time to listen and it is probably nothing anyway. Yes, my dog Lilly is special and a real friend.
I have two daughters that fit the description you've given- one especially cruel who claims her autism card for everything. Personally I don't think she has autism just sheer rude manners that I certainly never taught her.The other one drains me when she comes to visit it's all about her. I'm not very well but I have never been offered help of any kind. If I say one word out of place the " autism" one will gaslight me for going gainst her opinion. It's very lonely on my own but I have more comfort from the cat than I do from them..
pretty much the same boat here. But when they both betrayed me, I am done. It hurts, but I will get over it. The trust is completely gone and I am tired of never getting anything from them except ridicule and heartbreak. When they wanted me to do something for them? Same day service. And they both voted for the adjudicated rap_ist and convicted felon on "moral grounds"? right.
It is called being taken for granted. Parent child relationship. I would just be open and say how you feel to them, it is a form of being used. They do not realize or intend to be doing that. Old habits die hard. Like Mum and Dad always are coming to the "rescue". I was a bit like that with My Mum. She was always the provider. A bit more give and less take goes a long way.
We needed to learn this when we are young. Growing up with a narcissistic mother and no father I thought her actions were normal. I met my husband in high school. Looking back he never had empathy, compassion for me. Instead of saying do you need anything when I was sick he would say “Are you dying yet? You need to get up and do something it will make you feel better”. He told me to drive myself to the ER when I couldn’t catch my breath, I was diagnosed with pneumonia. If your partner talks like this to you it doesn’t get better it gets worse over the years.
This is how my nex behaved. I had surgery, but was still expected to do everything. He never asked how I felt, etc. Then one day he says his foot hurt. He wanted to know what I was going to do for him like fetch coffee and snacks, refill his water bottles, etc. He had his buddy make a 60 mile round trip to our house to drive him to a doctor another 25 miles away. The guy also mows our yard for free! It's unbelievable that he'd do that, and the ex never even offered to pay him for gas.
@ I learned about narcissism way too late. I just wanted to make him happy so I did everything and I mean everything I didn’t ask him for help with our three kids or help cleanup after he went to work everyday to pay the bills. He tells everyone that he did everything for me, changing diapers, feedings and keeping the house clean. All he did was bitch about what I cooked for dinner and takes out the trash. I never got a girls night out because he didn’t allow me to have any friends, everyone I met was a whore, bad influence on me, that’s what he would say. He has isolated me from the world. My own small family that I wanted to hang out with he and other people ran ugly smear campaigns against me, nobody likes to be around me. The only time I get out of the house is drs appointments and grocery shopping, even than he still tells me not to spend to much money. His new car (his because he doesn’t put my name on anything even though we are married) has an app that tracks the car. The other day he questioned me on what town did I go to when I went shopping, he knew exactly where I was. He does what he wants, hunting, fishing making sure he is always to busy or wore out to do anything with me. He leave for work around 4:30 AM, he makes so much noise and turns the lights on. He only uses our bedroom’s bathroom and refuses to go to the one in front of our house. Even when it is beautiful outside he smokes in the bathroom with the window open. I have Covid-19 “Long Covid” COPD Emphysema now and he smokes his cigarettes out of the window while his on the toilet. Finally after not going on any vacation in 7 years he finally agreed too one. I put in his PTO days and made reservations. He fished all day long while I sat under a beach tent in my beach chair with a Margarita taking to some strangers. I really enjoyed myself and plan on going back next year with or without him. He no longer approaches me for sex or even touches me unless he thinks I gave it to the meat man at the grocery store. He thinks that I’m hooking up with someone while I’m out of the house and that’s the only reason I go to the store around the same time when I go. ARE YOU KIDDING ME! I like going out and listening to some good music, he don’t take me anywhere. Maybe a burger or an ice cream then right back home, I didn’t sign up for this. It didn’t happen overnight it just got worse the older we get. He calls me “Love, Baby Doll” when he wants something. He tells me several times a day that he loves me, all empty words. He kisses me in the morning to tell me good bye (I know that he is making sure that I am awake. He calls me while he is on the way to work and throughout the day several times a day. I keep the house clean, cook, pay the bills. I forgot my phone (Cordless Leash) when I left to go to the store without my phone I had a panic attack because I know he would be mad at me for leaving it. I asked him what he needed (Deer in the Headlights) “Oh I forgot” he said. I should’ve kept a journal of all of the times he accused me of doing something anything wrong. He looks at me with hate in his eyes. He has talked about other women and then goes back on his diet and wears smell goods. I told him the other day, If you are so miserable there’s the door. I got the “Stone cold Look” he didn’t say a word. Now is on his best behavior he must have stopped at the Gentleman’s Club again. A man cannot go a month or two maybe six without it. He really loves himself. He also love doing the five knuckle shuffle while taking extra long showers. He takes more long hot baths using my bath oil then I ever do. Sometimes he’ll ask me to run an errand for him. Then I figured it out that he wants to watch some porn then be alone. When I get home he is in a really good mood and his is whistling. I am thinking what about me and my needs. It’s never been about me as he closes his eyes and does his business. I have been told by other people how pretty I was and why am I with him.. I never believed them now I know why he has ruined my confidence and my self esteem. Why did I allow this ungrateful guy to do that to me. I was taught that men are superior and I didn’t deserve any better. I took the breadcrumbs and the love bombing. My love has turned to hate. I refuse to allow him to have the rest of my life because he controlled every bit of mine since we were teenagers. I had a brain hemorrhage years ago. I was in the hospital for three weeks two of them was in the NCCU. When I got home my house was a mess they had dishes piled up, I couldn’t see the washing machine. My cousin offered to clean my bathroom for $40. I didn’t even get a frozen chicken pot pie from nobody, my back surgery was the same. Karma is a bitch remember that when they need you. I should write a book. When he got me pregnant I was a high risk and stayed weeks at a time in the hospital. Our third I told him that I cannot do this again so I got fixed. With our second one I went to the doctors office on Monday and was admitted and released on Friday. I thought he was going to work and then coming to see me then going home to take care of things. My aunt agreed to take care of my kids while I was in the hospital. While I was in the hospital he was going out and having fun, we were young. Found out years later that he has a daughter by another women that is our daughter’s age. He don’t like to talk about that, he’d rather talk about me and accusing me of anything.
Yes true..I met a friend 40 yrs ago we laughed and communicated well..I remember friends birthdays and send them wishes..over the years I never received one..she lives abroad we send kind messages..I spent 3x wks in Britain she knew I was there cos I told her..I was flabagasted not a call to say how you?? I have decided let "old aquantainz be forgotten"..🌺
Very important to mention constant complaining. Most frustrating when the complainer will not discuss solutions. The complainer will not even answer questions about what will bring improvement. Sadly the complainer does not want a solution.
@@MentalDoseEn An add on about that is some therapists call that "The Yes But Game" - very doable solutions can be offered and the complainer uses very weak excuses. This one really happened to me: a friend complained about her weight and not being able to do much about it, keep in mind this person has a car and no physical disability. I suggested a nice gym (which I go to) very close. Ok, then she states she does not feel comfortable in front of people cause she is heavy. I explained every size and shape is at that gym. Next complaint: too crowded in the morning - I suggested coming at 10 - all the people who work out before working (seems funny to type that) are gone to their jobs. That is when, what Cosmopolitan Magazine calls the Medicare Crowd is there, -( hey that term is fine with me since I am in the Medicare crowd) her reply was that was when her TV shows are on. This was going nowhere due to the yes, but game. One of the favorite games of complainers.
I still love toxic relatives and friends, however I had removed them from my life and I feel so much better. My life is not perfect... yet it is FAR, FAR better with leaving toxicity behind. I have abrogated a toxic relationship with a beloved sister. I am 60 and she is 59 yet she refuses to grow from many of life's issues.
I grew up around very toxic relatives and the older I got, the more I realized how crazy it was for my parents to blindly invite them over on a very consistent basis, well knowing what they did to my mom as a kid. It makes me sick to my stomach that "just because they were family", I had to be forced around a pedo in my grandfather and a pill addict in my grandmother. So as an adult, I have zero problem cutting off toxic relatives or toxic friends, that includes a sibling that is very narcissistic. Nothing is creepier than your parents staying silent while you tell them you cant be around said sibling anymore because of their behavior towards me. They act like Im the bad guy because itll mess up their perfect family illusion.
I was manipulated by my sister in law, I thought I was accepted in their family. Just few months ago, I found out that she doesn’t like me to be part of their family. I thought things change because she starting being nice to me. But when money comes my husband is part of that sharing and telling to my husband ( her brother) “ we don’t trust her” “so don’t trust her. I’m immigrant she thinks I’m after the money- since I married her brother I noticed the gaslighting, no. 1 Is the manipulation. That’s why I’m not talking with them anymore.🙁
and what is the advice when your future potus perpetrates all of the above?? leave the country?? it used to be you cld get away from the a$$holes - but now our entire country will be ‘run’ via this toxic and malignant negativity; this emotional abuse is no longer a fringe situation - it will be central to the leaders and therefore the culture of our country if not the entire world - nice video, but really?!? feeling hopeless and helpless …….
Same exact thing I am going through right now with my sister in law!! This is as if you just wrote my Story! Stay strong! We can do this!!!!! Get rid of them and live a happy life!!! ❤
I feel completely disregarded, rejected, manipulated, neglected, and my feelings completely ignored; I ask myself what I'm doing by staying in relationships where I'm not a valued member since as far back as I can remember and it's not right or fair 😢💔😔😭 but I know that I am capable of great things and I'm valued by others who don't do these things to me ❤ I am just fine with being alone
Divorcing my husband was a mind job. He was chronically ill. I was his caretaker, breadwinner housekeeper...and when I (literally) fell ill from exhaustion, he was completely absent. I realized I was totally alone. I woke up the hard way. FF 2 years...I'm free. Hardest chapter in my life. Cleaning out his hoarder house was a hard lesson.
My daughter called me an asshole one time because I would cut off women quickly and abruptly when I realized that it's not going to work out. I'm not being an asshole, I just have high standards and do not want to waste my time on someone who does not meet them. I also will not lower them to someone else.
Wow, I would never call my parents a name like that. How disrespectful. When I grewup if I'd ever called either of my parents any un nice name, my dad would have beat my bottom good.
I have 1 child. A daughter. If my daughter ever called me a bad name she might get a bloody lip. She's an adult. One time she said she hated me. It hurt me so bad. I went into the other room and told her dad. He whipped her and told her not to ever tell me that again. She didnt, but had a disrespectful attitude many times even as an adult. I really don't know why she's like that? Maybe I did or said something to cause her to feel that way? I always tried to be a good mother. She was my world growing up. But the older she got, I saw her change. I don't hold it against her, but we don't have a very close relationship like I would love to have. She lives 800 miles away. She has 3 daughters. Sometimes they act disrespectful too. So we don't see much of them. But the 6 yr old granddaughter treats me like I'm the best. She calls me alot and keeps me on the phone for hours. The other 2 use to be like that, but now they're older. One is 23 and doesn't live with her parents. The other one is 13, and they know everything. So most of my relationship is with the 6 yr old.
@@sharoncrawford7192it’s not you it’s the entitlement of the young adults today, very disrespectful, beware of the grandchildren they will turn on you too because they will pick it up from your daughter, I know it happened to me….you not alone, do a research and you will see, good luck 🙏💔
@@sharoncrawford7192 you can't earn your child's respect with beatings. I don't know the situation in your home, but have you used to call your daughter disrespectful names, even if it only happened in fits of rage???? My mum was overall a very good mum, but sometimes she went crazy because of her mood swings.... She used to tell me very hurtful things, like it would be nothing. Like.... by the way.... 'you are so ugly, nobody will love you', you are horrid why I had you' etc etc. People say awful things to others without even realizing its impact. And after that she was surprised I said hurtful things to her too.... Children learn a lot from their parents, also the awful things. Also parents have to accept when the children get into their teenage years they become more emotionally independent, parents have to give them freedom to a degree.
I live in a senior community and its like being back in highschool with the gossip, pettiness, cliques etc. Recently a couple women invited me to movie night at ones apt. They acted like they were giving me a gift, special treatment. Heres the rub; this had been going on a good while but i wasnt aware as id never been invited before. Same with dinner cliques. Also, some newer residents had been invited right away and id had been there much longer. So im thinking why now? And its a turnoff and these people i had interacted with many times over the years and it was mostly always friendly and pleasant, except for the braggarts etc. So my respons is no, not interested in spending time with this type of persons. If i wasnt good enough before, im now either. Best advice for living in such an environment is lesrn to swim with sharks or stay to yourself with friendships outside of said community.
I live in such a senior community. I get what you have commented. Big disappointment. Aside from a small handful of people i have had to choose relationships elsewhere. I am happier this way. Thanks for sharing. 💕
What should I think about such person - she always says negative things about what I am planning to do. For example - I am planning to go somewhere, and it is necessary for me, and she says things like "It's going to be very cold". Or I am planning to sell something, she says "Now these things are very cheap". Like always putting me down with any ideas. She has become very passive-aggressive towards me, we have known since childhood, but hasn't been meeting so often for many years as we live in different places. I don't feel comfortable around her, I need to diminish myself for her to be happy.
I am in such a relationship with my landlord/lady. I am very dependent upon them and can not afford to move so I put up a charade and am very submissive contrary to my nature. It sucks but such is life. At least I have recognized this for years and take measures to maintain my dignity.
This was really useful information. My ex-friend was exactly as described in this video. Now I know that I did the right thing cutting off contact with them.
1. Constant manipulation/control. 2.Lack of support / mutual support 3. Excessive complaining/ negative emotional climate, compromised serenity 4. Feeling exhausted after interacting/constantly "giving" 5. Lack of trust/doubts and suspicions of partner 6. Excessive self aggrandizement/ focuses on praising "me" and discounting "you"/your value 7. One- sided communication/no time to hear your dialogue needs 8. Personal boundaries violations/ emotional and physical.9.lack of respect/ perhaps harmful, eventually
We cant make other peoples choices. Nor be expected to accept blame. Each of us is on a separate path and each of us must learn different lessons in order to grow....
Well, I did never even considered dumping a family member. I was the one bullied, nulled, diminished and in the end I was dumped by the bully. Is not that nice ?
Its very important to understand that no strings attach to anyone or anything attitudes will serve you well in the long run therefore life will be much easier
These behaviours are very similar to my mother and sister's treatment of me and my father. Both parents are gone now and I have had to distance myself from my sister. It's sad especially since people think she's great.I just wish I had the sister they think I have.
9 key signs you must cut all ties with (even if it’s family and friends) (1) constant manipulation (2) lack of support (3) excessive complaining (4) feeling exhausted (5) lack of trust (6) excessive self-exaltation (7) one-sided relationship (8) boundary violation (9) lack of respect
Sadly I can't think of a single relationship I have presently or in the past, which did not include at least one or more of these things. People are not perfect, and yes many are terrible to be around, but I have no idea how to find anyone that does not include all the listed "red flags: here. Anyone who tries to find a friend minus any single one of these, may be a very lonely person for the rest of their lives.
You are correct, you have to take people as you find them and let it go. We all have issues. Unless it's an abusive Spouse then it's different, if you have the courage to free yourself then do it.
We are all imperfect human beings. Most people when sense somebody is too meek they will try to push boundaries. You have to say them with a smile : NO. You can't change others, only yourself.
I find myself evaluating my friendships every decade or so due to my own growth and maturity. When my friend is showing signs of being stagnant and not maturing with me, it's time to sever and find someone who's at the same level I am. I'm very fine with being alone until I find that new person. I can't let others keep me in their cesspool of misery. They will certainly find someone to wallow in their crap. I need to move on.
Unfortunately, in order to visit with other family members, one must tolerate the toxic member who is perceived to be even closer in relationship, all the while not understanding that the toxic person isn't as precious as assumed. It needs to be understood that in order to avoid the toxic member, most other family contacts will automatically become non existent. One must count the cost of this decision; it doesn't simply involve me and one person. That person will attend every family gathering without knowledge that I'm only there to see others. Welcome to my life.
Ciao, mi ritrovo in tutti questi pattern disfunzionali di comportamento. Pero perdonami, ok si parla tanto di psicopatia narcisismo ecc, ma di concreto che cosa offrono i terapeuti per questi disturbi? Io sono psicopatica a basso funzionamento, ho delle pulsioni violente h24, sono circondata da persone che vivono di amore e nell amore, relazioni/progetti/sentimenti/attitudine costruttiva nei rapporti e vita in generale ed io...? Io niente, sono un buco nero, non ho empatia e non ho morale, saperlo mi aiuta a diventare buona? no. Parlarne modifica il mio comportamento geneticamente determinato?no. Ho fatto passare un inferno in terra a chiunque abbia avuto la sfortuna di incontrarmi, certo nella vita qualcosa di utile e buono l'ho fatto anche io, ma come può fare del bene con il cuore chi un cuore non ce l'ha per natura? Ho cercato ovunque trattamenti validi per farmi sperimentare emozioni, sentimenti morali, sviluppare empatia insomma, e non esiste nulla. Ho scelto io di nascere cosi?no. I miei circuiti cerebrali sono in funzioni del mio Ego, e non riesco a invertire la rotta. Se fossi giusto un pochino psicopatica non ci sarebbe problema perche sentirei comunque delle spinte prosociali, ma il mio caso è gravissimo perche manifesto il disturbo al 100% e non ho nessuna terapia come chi ha malattie mentali. Che faccio prepraro le valigie e vado in carcere da me?
@MentalDoseEn professionisti, chi? I miei genitori sono disperati, si tengono a casa una che ha istinti primordiali, che passa le giornate esprimendo impulsi, io stessa mesi fa quando si sono presentati per la prima volta non sapevo che fare, dove andare. Il mio cervello è rettiliano quindi non conosce altro circuito che quello degli istinti, non esiste un lavoro di introspezione, consapevolezza, insomma tutti quei lavori che fanno persone con malattie mentali quando vanno da terapisti. Gli psichiatri da cui sono stata non hanno ovviamente risolto niente perché il problema risiede nella mia struttura diversa. Poi succedono le tragedie e lì che cosa si è fatto per prevenire e tutelare? Per mesi nessuno mi ha saputo suggerire qualcosa, anche per non esiste niente, non è che uno sceglie di essere psicopatico perché è figo, è solo una grandissima disgrazia piuttosto. Non avere empatia significa perdersi il meglio che ti offre la vita e ti serve anche a evitarti un sacco di guai.
Good information is good information , you read ideas and information , and instructions ALL the time . Always consider and ," weigh out" what is presented , but use what is reasonable and fits , and disregard what is questionable. No matter where it comes from .
This is Nonsens A close Family member decided after a minor difference to stop all communication. This didn’t contribute to my wellbeing. It doesn’t leave any room to reconsider and to heal.
If we applied your thinking and 9 reasons most of us would have no friends or family at all! Life and relationships are about compremise , patience and seeing the positve side not dwelling on the negative so your advice whilst worth considering in theory is just not practical in the real world of People! Unless the relationship has no positive sides and is totally toxic then it becomes obvious one must cease it!
I feel like these types of videos can prey upon people and definitely contribute to today’s cancel culture. The listener can feel validated when no self reflection is needed or having to look at themselves, it’s just too easy to make it the other person (call them a narcissist- and walk away) So easy to throw relationships away if there are no contexts given….. the thing is, it could be the other guy, it could be you… but people are broken, they get it wrong sometimes. If you’re looking for perfection, you won’t find it in earthly relationships. Always best to have an honest look at oneself and learn from difficult situations and relationships more often than not we find the other person is not the only one with ‘issues’.
This is not good advice some people dont know they need help until its addressed! As A Christian i pray and address their behavior! To them give them opportunities to change or stop
The old man? JUST an advertising ploy? A graphic image to woo your viewers. The face is certainly not that of Carl Gustav Jung or any one of notoriety in the clinical mental health world. Any answers? Other than an image to fit a visual needs for your demographics? Respectfully submitted for your consideration Gregg Oreo Long Beach CA États
family members don’t care and don’t care and all there do Is complain about me and they don’t want to see me or my son happy to live together and want to say she will not be able to manager him It truly hurtful and nasty feels and on one love anyone and what they say Is hurtful and wrong and say she to much of burden on us and I don’t ask them and I have done so much for them what did I get In return anything nevernt say thank you and It hurt my heart and they don’t want me In there life and there want to put me to go Into a care home as my parents will sell there home where will I go that Is thrown on the street and defend for myself and none of the family care I have seen that how they are and learn my lesson well that Is and what can I do that Is and It made me think twice and I said to myself that I will move my son out of there house and do It In my own time and they think there can take my son away from me think again I love my son from my heart and our relationship has broken and they are cold Inside there heart and nice on the face so why play that game with me on one Is true at all and they have to be honest tell me why they hurt me what have I done so wrong that they have turned there back on me and they have shown dark side to me and I am hurtful
The more self worth and confidence you have in yourself, the faster you are at getting rid of these toxic monsters
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Self respect won't allow you to just stay around people that mistreat you!😊
Absolutely ! Life is so much better without them.
Yea, Love others AS you love yourself.
I agree however, some people are starting at rock bottom with confidence. Some have been raised in a household where they were assigned to be 'the stupid one', 'the lazy one' etc. It takes a lot of support and being able to realize how they were treated unfairly. It is a long road.
I can relate to this video. Many years ago I released the toxic relationships with some of my family and a few friends. It is sad but I am better off.
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I deeply relate to this. A few years back, I also made the tough decision to let go of toxic relationships with some family members and friends. It was heartbreaking at first, but like you, I found peace and strength on the other side, in the end.
1. Constant manipulation
2. Lack of Support
3. Excessive Complaining
4. Feeling exhausted
5. Lack of Trust
6. Excessive Self Aggrandizement
7. One-sided relationship
8. Boundary violation
9. Lack of respect
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@@gigig2492 You qeotw it all...bravo. 👏🏾
Thank you 💕❤
Very true ! We meet people like this frequently in our environment. To cut those relationships is very difficult in real life, being so frequently met...or they will manifest only in time. The biggest art could be to navigate through them, with full diplomacy. Unfortunately, all the men will manifest behaviors like this , ( hopefully only partially), sooner or later. The most shocking case was when I asked a certain man : why you behaved like this-, ( abusive ! ) , and his answer was : ,, because I can ( do this ) ". The real truth was that she was stuck in that situation, in multiple ways ... and having no way to escape ! This is the unfortunate real life, sometimes. Abusive people have their 6th sense to find the positive, good hearted, loving , in them trusting, sensible partners to make them their victims.
Unfortunately i live through a close relationship of this type. Difficult when it is your own flesh and blood.
I had a friend a few yeas ago, who was so much fun. We spent a lot of time together. She made me laugh. I made her laugh. Sometimes she'd ring, or I'd ring her and we'd chat on the phone for ages. After a while, I noticed a change. The fun had gone, she stopped ringing me and seemed disinterested when I called her. Gradually, I woke up. I was keeping the friendship going, like a routine, but she had moved on. I stopped contacting her hoping she would call me. She never did. Some friendships have there time and are over. I remember her with affection and gratitude. Not sure what category this comes under. Letting go when you've been let go of, perhaps.
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It happens to us all. ❤
I too had same kind of experience with my friends family😢
Everyone we meet is for a reason a season or a lesson. No one is forever.😊❤
Very wise words @@lorisunshine81
I stayed in an unhealthy marriage for 5 years of disrespect hoping things will change until I realize that u can't change a person so I decided to end it I'm living peacefully now and I'm always happy no stress at all.
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People either pray for you or prey on you...🙏❤️
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Good way to put it!
That's true
My whole family of origin have done nothing but use, abuse and degraded me. It’s heartbreaking when strangers are friendlier, and kinder than your own family. No one should be okay with treating a person this way. So your statement about them either praying for you, or to prey on you resonates with me. Although I don’t think anyone on in my family has ever prayed for me, they rather sabotage and attack me because of their own shame.
That's excellent Curt.
They don't say a dog is man's best friend for no reason
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Ain’t that the truth!
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Definitely this woman's best friend!👣🐾🐾
You got that right. Dogs don’t complain all the time like my wife. I don’t have to constantly work to make a dog happy like I do my wife and she doesn’t care if I am happy or not. I can spend an hour walking my dog and I am not exhausted like I am being with my wife after only a short time of her telling me what she wants. My dog does not complain about the food I give her unlike my wife who complains no matter where we go out to eat that the food is bad and costs too much. My wife can talk for an hour about what she doesn’t like or what is bothering her but if I want to talk about a problem that I have to her she says shut up, I don’t have time to listen and it is probably nothing anyway. Yes, my dog Lilly is special and a real friend.
I have two daughters that fit the description you've given- one especially cruel who claims her autism card for everything. Personally I don't think she has autism just sheer rude manners that I certainly never taught her.The other one drains me when she comes to visit it's all about her. I'm not very well but I have never been offered help of any kind. If I say one word out of place the " autism" one will gaslight me for going gainst her opinion. It's very lonely on my own but I have more comfort from the cat than I do from them..
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pretty much the same boat here. But when they both betrayed me, I am done. It hurts, but I will get over it. The trust is completely gone and I am tired of never getting anything from them except ridicule and heartbreak. When they wanted me to do something for them? Same day service. And they both voted for the adjudicated rap_ist and convicted felon on "moral grounds"? right.
It is called being taken for granted. Parent child relationship. I would just be open and say how you feel to them, it is a form of being used. They do not realize or intend to be doing that. Old habits die hard. Like Mum and Dad always are coming to the "rescue". I was a bit like that with My Mum. She was always the provider. A bit more give and less take goes a long way.
We needed to learn this when we are young. Growing up with a narcissistic mother and no father I thought her actions were normal. I met my husband in high school. Looking back he never had empathy, compassion for me. Instead of saying do you need anything when I was sick he would say “Are you dying yet? You need to get up and do something it will make you feel better”. He told me to drive myself to the ER when I couldn’t catch my breath, I was diagnosed with pneumonia. If your partner talks like this to you it doesn’t get better it gets worse over the years.
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This is how my nex behaved. I had surgery, but was still expected to do everything. He never asked how I felt, etc. Then one day he says his foot hurt. He wanted to know what I was going to do for him like fetch coffee and snacks, refill his water bottles, etc. He had his buddy make a 60 mile round trip to our house to drive him to a doctor another 25 miles away. The guy also mows our yard for free! It's unbelievable that he'd do that, and the ex never even offered to pay him for gas.
@ I learned about narcissism way too late. I just wanted to make him happy so I did everything and I mean everything I didn’t ask him for help with our three kids or help cleanup after he went to work everyday to pay the bills. He tells everyone that he did everything for me, changing diapers, feedings and keeping the house clean. All he did was bitch about what I cooked for dinner and takes out the trash. I never got a girls night out because he didn’t allow me to have any friends, everyone I met was a whore, bad influence on me, that’s what he would say. He has isolated me from the world. My own small family that I wanted to hang out with he and other people ran ugly smear campaigns against me, nobody likes to be around me. The only time I get out of the house is drs appointments and grocery shopping, even than he still tells me not to spend to much money. His new car (his because he doesn’t put my name on anything even though we are married) has an app that tracks the car. The other day he questioned me on what town did I go to when I went shopping, he knew exactly where I was. He does what he wants, hunting, fishing making sure he is always to busy or wore out to do anything with me. He leave for work around 4:30 AM, he makes so much noise and turns the lights on. He only uses our bedroom’s bathroom and refuses to go to the one in front of our house. Even when it is beautiful outside he smokes in the bathroom with the window open. I have Covid-19 “Long Covid” COPD Emphysema now and he smokes his cigarettes out of the window while his on the toilet. Finally after not going on any vacation in 7 years he finally agreed too one. I put in his PTO days and made reservations. He fished all day long while I sat under a beach tent in my beach chair with a Margarita taking to some strangers. I really enjoyed myself and plan on going back next year with or without him. He no longer approaches me for sex or even touches me unless he thinks I gave it to the meat man at the grocery store. He thinks that I’m hooking up with someone while I’m out of the house and that’s the only reason I go to the store around the same time when I go. ARE YOU KIDDING ME! I like going out and listening to some good music, he don’t take me anywhere. Maybe a burger or an ice cream then right back home, I didn’t sign up for this. It didn’t happen overnight it just got worse the older we get. He calls me “Love, Baby Doll” when he wants something. He tells me several times a day that he loves me, all empty words. He kisses me in the morning to tell me good bye (I know that he is making sure that I am awake. He calls me while he is on the way to work and throughout the day several times a day. I keep the house clean, cook, pay the bills. I forgot my phone (Cordless Leash) when I left to go to the store without my phone I had a panic attack because I know he would be mad at me for leaving it. I asked him what he needed (Deer in the Headlights) “Oh I forgot” he said. I should’ve kept a journal of all of the times he accused me of doing something anything wrong. He looks at me with hate in his eyes. He has talked about other women and then goes back on his diet and wears smell goods. I told him the other day, If you are so miserable there’s the door. I got the “Stone cold Look” he didn’t say a word. Now is on his best behavior he must have stopped at the Gentleman’s Club again. A man cannot go a month or two maybe six without it. He really loves himself. He also love doing the five knuckle shuffle while taking extra long showers. He takes more long hot baths using my bath oil then I ever do. Sometimes he’ll ask me to run an errand for him. Then I figured it out that he wants to watch some porn then be alone. When I get home he is in a really good mood and his is whistling. I am thinking what about me and my needs. It’s never been about me as he closes his eyes and does his business. I have been told by other people how pretty I was and why am I with him.. I never believed them now I know why he has ruined my confidence and my self esteem. Why did I allow this ungrateful guy to do that to me. I was taught that men are superior and I didn’t deserve any better. I took the breadcrumbs and the love bombing. My love has turned to hate. I refuse to allow him to have the rest of my life because he controlled every bit of mine since we were teenagers. I had a brain hemorrhage years ago. I was in the hospital for three weeks two of them was in the NCCU. When I got home my house was a mess they had dishes piled up, I couldn’t see the washing machine. My cousin offered to clean my bathroom for $40. I didn’t even get a frozen chicken pot pie from nobody, my back surgery was the same. Karma is a bitch remember that when they need you. I should write a book. When he got me pregnant I was a high risk and stayed weeks at a time in the hospital. Our third I told him that I cannot do this again so I got fixed. With our second one I went to the doctors office on Monday and was admitted and released on Friday. I thought he was going to work and then coming to see me then going home to take care of things. My aunt agreed to take care of my kids while I was in the hospital. While I was in the hospital he was going out and having fun, we were young. Found out years later that he has a daughter by another women that is our daughter’s age. He don’t like to talk about that, he’d rather talk about me and accusing me of anything.
Unfortunately , we sometimes choose what becomes worse , to get away from bad.....
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I've grown weary with most ppl.
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Me too. I've become a hermit and/or recluse.
@Hatbox948 It's a good idea after hearing this makes me wonder why any body is with any one
Me too, I'm an independent loner, and I am very happy
Been alone for 20 years, there are times I miss doing things with people, but mostly I'm happy just doing my own thing. Peace
Yes true..I met a friend 40 yrs ago we laughed and communicated well..I remember friends birthdays and send them wishes..over the years I never received one..she lives abroad we send kind messages..I spent 3x wks in Britain she knew I was there cos I told her..I was flabagasted not a call to say how you?? I have decided let "old aquantainz be forgotten"..🌺
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This video was like listening to a wise friend. Thank you!
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Powerful message! Protecting your peace should always come first, even with loved ones.
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I disowned many of my family years ago.
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Me too. All of them.
I’m sorry you had to do this. I’ve had to do this with a brother recently. The main thing I felt from being in contact with him him is fear.
Very important to mention constant complaining. Most frustrating when the complainer will not discuss solutions. The complainer will not even answer questions about what will bring improvement. Sadly the complainer does not want a solution.
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@@MentalDoseEn An add on about that is some therapists call that "The Yes But Game" - very doable solutions can be offered and the complainer uses very weak excuses. This one really happened to me: a friend complained about her weight and not being able to do much about it, keep in mind this person has a car and no physical disability. I suggested a nice gym (which I go to) very close. Ok, then she states she does not feel comfortable in front of people cause she is heavy. I explained every size and shape is at that gym. Next complaint: too crowded in the morning - I suggested coming at 10 - all the people who work out before working (seems funny to type that) are gone to their jobs. That is when, what Cosmopolitan Magazine calls the Medicare Crowd is there, -( hey that term is fine with me since I am in the Medicare crowd) her reply was that was when her TV shows are on. This was going nowhere due to the yes, but game. One of the favorite games of complainers.
I still love toxic relatives and friends, however I had removed them from my life and I feel so much better. My life is not perfect... yet it is FAR, FAR better with leaving toxicity behind. I have abrogated a toxic relationship with a beloved sister. I am 60 and she is 59 yet she refuses to grow from many of life's issues.
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I grew up around very toxic relatives and the older I got, the more I realized how crazy it was for my parents to blindly invite them over on a very consistent basis, well knowing what they did to my mom as a kid. It makes me sick to my stomach that "just because they were family", I had to be forced around a pedo in my grandfather and a pill addict in my grandmother. So as an adult, I have zero problem cutting off toxic relatives or toxic friends, that includes a sibling that is very narcissistic. Nothing is creepier than your parents staying silent while you tell them you cant be around said sibling anymore because of their behavior towards me. They act like Im the bad guy because itll mess up their perfect family illusion.
you are not alone. It is really sick behavior.
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@@sagebay2803 very sick and the worst is realizing that it was ALL about the inheritance money.
Unfortunately we live in a world where people don't care. Back in the days it was real.
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I was manipulated by my sister in law, I thought I was accepted in their family. Just few months ago, I found out that she doesn’t like me to be part of their family. I thought things change because she starting being nice to me. But when money comes my husband is part of that sharing and telling to my husband ( her brother) “ we don’t trust her” “so don’t trust her. I’m immigrant she thinks I’m after the money- since I married her brother I noticed the gaslighting, no. 1 Is the manipulation. That’s why I’m not talking with them anymore.🙁
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and what is the advice when your future potus perpetrates all of the above?? leave the country?? it used to be you cld get away from the a$$holes - but now our entire country will be ‘run’ via this toxic and malignant negativity; this emotional abuse is no longer a fringe situation - it will be central to the leaders and therefore the culture of our country if not the entire world - nice video, but really?!? feeling hopeless and helpless …….
Same exact thing I am going through right now with my sister in law!! This is as if you just wrote my Story! Stay strong! We can do this!!!!! Get rid of them and live a happy life!!! ❤
This goes for work too - a toxic environment is a toxic environment! ❤
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I feel completely disregarded, rejected, manipulated, neglected, and my feelings completely ignored; I ask myself what I'm doing by staying in relationships where I'm not a valued member since as far back as I can remember and it's not right or fair 😢💔😔😭 but I know that I am capable of great things and I'm valued by others who don't do these things to me ❤ I am just fine with being alone
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I cut off a friend who is definitely manipulative but unfortunately we still share mutual friends but still glad and relieved I cut them off.
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Nothing is better than peace of mind.
wow I so needed to hear this right now. thank you so so much x
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Divorcing my husband was a mind job. He was chronically ill. I was his caretaker, breadwinner housekeeper...and when I (literally) fell ill from exhaustion, he was completely absent. I realized I was totally alone. I woke up the hard way. FF 2 years...I'm free. Hardest chapter in my life. Cleaning out his hoarder house was a hard lesson.
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We can make ourselves miserable or we can make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.
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My daughter called me an asshole one time because I would cut off women quickly and abruptly when I realized that it's not going to work out. I'm not being an asshole, I just have high standards and do not want to waste my time on someone who does not meet them. I also will not lower them to someone else.
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Wow, I would never call my parents a name like that. How disrespectful. When I grewup if I'd ever called either of my parents any un nice name, my dad would have beat my bottom good.
I have 1 child. A daughter. If my daughter ever called me a bad name she might get a bloody lip. She's an adult. One time she said she hated me. It hurt me so bad. I went into the other room and told her dad. He whipped her and told her not to ever tell me that again. She didnt, but had a disrespectful attitude many times even as an adult. I really don't know why she's like that? Maybe I did or said something to cause her to feel that way? I always tried to be a good mother. She was my world growing up. But the older she got, I saw her change. I don't hold it against her, but we don't have a very close relationship like I would love to have. She lives 800 miles away. She has 3 daughters. Sometimes they act disrespectful too. So we don't see much of them. But the 6 yr old granddaughter treats me like I'm the best. She calls me alot and keeps me on the phone for hours. The other 2 use to be like that, but now they're older. One is 23 and doesn't live with her parents. The other one is 13, and they know everything. So most of my relationship is with the 6 yr old.
@@sharoncrawford7192it’s not you it’s the entitlement of the young adults today, very disrespectful, beware of the grandchildren they will turn on you too because they will pick it up from your daughter, I know it happened to me….you not alone, do a research and you will see, good luck 🙏💔
@@sharoncrawford7192 you can't earn your child's respect with beatings. I don't know the situation in your home, but have you used to call your daughter disrespectful names, even if it only happened in fits of rage???? My mum was overall a very good mum, but sometimes she went crazy because of her mood swings.... She used to tell me very hurtful things, like it would be nothing. Like.... by the way.... 'you are so ugly, nobody will love you', you are horrid why I had you' etc etc. People say awful things to others without even realizing its impact. And after that she was surprised I said hurtful things to her too.... Children learn a lot from their parents, also the awful things. Also parents have to accept when the children get into their teenage years they become more emotionally independent, parents have to give them freedom to a degree.
I live in a senior community and its like being back in highschool with the gossip, pettiness, cliques etc. Recently a couple women invited me to movie night at ones apt. They acted like they were giving me a gift, special treatment. Heres the rub; this had been going on a good while but i wasnt aware as id never been invited before. Same with dinner cliques. Also, some newer residents had been invited right away and id had been there much longer. So im thinking why now? And its a turnoff and these people i had interacted with many times over the years and it was mostly always friendly and pleasant, except for the braggarts etc. So my respons is no, not interested in spending time with this type of persons. If i wasnt good enough before, im now either. Best advice for living in such an environment is lesrn to swim with sharks or stay to yourself with friendships outside of said community.
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I live in such a senior community. I get what you have commented. Big disappointment. Aside from a small handful of people i have had to choose relationships elsewhere. I am happier this way. Thanks for sharing. 💕
What should I think about such person - she always says negative things about what I am planning to do. For example - I am planning to go somewhere, and it is necessary for me, and she says things like "It's going to be very cold". Or I am planning to sell something, she says "Now these things are very cheap". Like always putting me down with any ideas. She has become very passive-aggressive towards me, we have known since childhood, but hasn't been meeting so often for many years as we live in different places. I don't feel comfortable around her, I need to diminish myself for her to be happy.
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She s not your friend and is jealous of you.
This makes complete sense.
Nice and relaxing format.
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😢 some times you Just have to let go, if your more unhappy than happy & or/if you've lost interrest in the other person, b/f or g/f 😮
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I am in such a relationship with my landlord/lady. I am very dependent upon them and can not afford to move so I put up a charade and am very submissive contrary to my nature. It sucks but such is life. At least I have recognized this for years and take measures to maintain my dignity.
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This was really useful information. My ex-friend was exactly as described in this video. Now I know that I did the right thing cutting off contact with them.
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1. Constant manipulation/control. 2.Lack of support / mutual support 3. Excessive complaining/ negative emotional climate, compromised serenity 4. Feeling exhausted after interacting/constantly "giving" 5. Lack of trust/doubts and suspicions of partner 6. Excessive self aggrandizement/ focuses on praising "me" and discounting "you"/your value 7. One- sided communication/no time to hear your dialogue needs 8. Personal boundaries violations/ emotional and physical.9.lack of respect/ perhaps harmful, eventually
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One can also have a parent who behaves in this way.
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Thank you for this, very helpful! X
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We cant make other peoples choices. Nor be expected to accept blame. Each of us is on a separate path and each of us must learn different lessons in order to grow....
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The universe always has perfect timing because I was just thinking about this all today. ✨Synchronicity✨Thank you!🙏💫💞
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Well, I did never even considered dumping a family member. I was the one bullied, nulled, diminished and in the end I was dumped by the bully. Is not that nice ?
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@@ElizzzaB I am trying but it does not work.
Its very important to understand that no strings attach to anyone or anything attitudes will serve you well in the long run therefore life will be much easier
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These behaviours are very similar to my mother and sister's treatment of me and my father. Both parents are gone now and I have had to distance myself from my sister. It's sad especially since people think she's great.I just wish I had the sister they think I have.
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I'm finally learning how to let go & love myself more finally. 😢❤
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Sometimes people just out grow each other and part ways.
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Thank you, I did end a manipulative relatioship. Then I was threatened.
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This is your best yet.
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9 key signs you must cut all ties with (even if it’s family and friends)
(1) constant manipulation
(2) lack of support
(3) excessive complaining
(4) feeling exhausted
(5) lack of trust
(6) excessive self-exaltation
(7) one-sided relationship
(8) boundary violation
(9) lack of respect
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This all makes sense .
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Thanks God Amen 🙏 thanks for your advice it's true
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Wow my mother and brother bloody sad but necessary to leave them behind I never even got a birthday card or phone call when I turned 60 years old
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Unfortunately there are so many people with these characteristics
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Definitely cutting all ties with this channel.
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My mother constantly complains about everything and if you ask her to stop she gets hostile.
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Sadly I can't think of a single relationship I have presently or in the past, which did not include at least one or more of these things. People are not perfect, and yes many are terrible to be around, but I have no idea how to find anyone that does not include all the listed "red flags: here. Anyone who tries to find a friend minus any single one of these, may be a very lonely person for the rest of their lives.
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You are correct, you have to take people as you find them and let it go. We all have issues. Unless it's an abusive Spouse then it's different, if you have the courage to free yourself then do it.
We are all imperfect human beings. Most people when sense somebody is too meek they will try to push boundaries. You have to say them with a smile : NO. You can't change others, only yourself.
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I find myself evaluating my friendships every decade or so due to my own growth and maturity. When my friend is showing signs of being stagnant and not maturing with me, it's time to sever and find someone who's at the same level I am. I'm very fine with being alone until I find that new person. I can't let others keep me in their cesspool of misery. They will certainly find someone to wallow in their crap. I need to move on.
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And lies they said about you an no support
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❤🎉thank you so much
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Who is the chap in glasses?
A man 🫂
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Unfortunately, in order to visit with other family members, one must tolerate the toxic member who is perceived to be even closer in relationship, all the while not understanding that the toxic person isn't as precious as assumed.
It needs to be understood that in order to avoid the toxic member, most other family contacts will automatically become non existent. One must count the cost of this decision; it doesn't simply involve me and one person. That person will attend every family gathering without knowledge that I'm only there to see others. Welcome to my life.
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Ciao, mi ritrovo in tutti questi pattern disfunzionali di comportamento. Pero perdonami, ok si parla tanto di psicopatia narcisismo ecc, ma di concreto che cosa offrono i terapeuti per questi disturbi? Io sono psicopatica a basso funzionamento, ho delle pulsioni violente h24, sono circondata da persone che vivono di amore e nell amore, relazioni/progetti/sentimenti/attitudine costruttiva nei rapporti e vita in generale ed io...? Io niente, sono un buco nero, non ho empatia e non ho morale, saperlo mi aiuta a diventare buona? no. Parlarne modifica il mio comportamento geneticamente determinato?no. Ho fatto passare un inferno in terra a chiunque abbia avuto la sfortuna di incontrarmi, certo nella vita qualcosa di utile e buono l'ho fatto anche io, ma come può fare del bene con il cuore chi un cuore non ce l'ha per natura? Ho cercato ovunque trattamenti validi per farmi sperimentare emozioni, sentimenti morali, sviluppare empatia insomma, e non esiste nulla. Ho scelto io di nascere cosi?no. I miei circuiti cerebrali sono in funzioni del mio Ego, e non riesco a invertire la rotta. Se fossi giusto un pochino psicopatica non ci sarebbe problema perche sentirei comunque delle spinte prosociali, ma il mio caso è gravissimo perche manifesto il disturbo al 100% e non ho nessuna terapia come chi ha malattie mentali. Che faccio prepraro le valigie e vado in carcere da me?
Interessante domanda, sicuramente l'aiuto di professionisti è il più indicato.
@MentalDoseEn professionisti, chi? I miei genitori sono disperati, si tengono a casa una che ha istinti primordiali, che passa le giornate esprimendo impulsi, io stessa mesi fa quando si sono presentati per la prima volta non sapevo che fare, dove andare. Il mio cervello è rettiliano quindi non conosce altro circuito che quello degli istinti, non esiste un lavoro di introspezione, consapevolezza, insomma tutti quei lavori che fanno persone con malattie mentali quando vanno da terapisti. Gli psichiatri da cui sono stata non hanno ovviamente risolto niente perché il problema risiede nella mia struttura diversa. Poi succedono le tragedie e lì che cosa si è fatto per prevenire e tutelare? Per mesi nessuno mi ha saputo suggerire qualcosa, anche per non esiste niente, non è che uno sceglie di essere psicopatico perché è figo, è solo una grandissima disgrazia piuttosto. Non avere empatia significa perdersi il meglio che ti offre la vita e ti serve anche a evitarti un sacco di guai.
Why do I find these videos 25 years after I need them? So I don't repeat my mistakes again!
Build your self worth!!!
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But we cut off everyone and we're alone, believe me that's not good at all especially when you're older.
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It is sad. But it is a true blessing to find other people in the world who are willing to be friendly and supportive.
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Though this may be important info, it feels terribly long & slow in getting to the point.
I’ll read the list down below (in comments). 👍🏾
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May I ask why you are using an AI voice? I, for one, cannot respond to a synthetic voice advising me how to live my real life.
It's cheaper than hiring a narrator.
Good information is good information , you read ideas and information , and instructions ALL the time . Always consider and ," weigh out" what is presented , but use what is reasonable and fits , and disregard what is questionable. No matter where it comes from .
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A close Family member decided after a minor difference to stop all communication. This didn’t contribute to my wellbeing. It doesn’t leave any room to reconsider and to heal.
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now i know at what channel all the serial killers and psychopaths are subscribed to, they found their way through THIS channel
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If we applied your thinking and 9 reasons most of us would have no friends or family at all! Life and relationships are about compremise , patience and seeing the positve side not dwelling on the negative so your advice whilst worth considering in theory is just not practical in the real world of People!
Unless the relationship has no positive sides and is totally toxic then it becomes obvious one must cease it!
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What do you do when it is your own children
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@@MentalDoseEnyou set the boundaries to them of what is ok with you. You are no one's doormat.
I love that the narrator sounds like King Charles…Lol
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In short, if you are tethered to a psychopath narcissist, run!
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My ex has turned on me hes abusive
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I feel like these types of videos can prey upon people and definitely contribute to today’s cancel culture. The listener can feel validated when no self reflection is needed or having to look at themselves, it’s just too easy to make it the other person (call them a narcissist- and walk away) So easy to throw relationships away if there are no contexts given….. the thing is, it could be the other guy, it could be you… but people are broken, they get it wrong sometimes. If you’re looking for perfection, you won’t find it in earthly relationships. Always best to have an honest look at oneself and learn from difficult situations and relationships more often than not we find the other person is not the only one with ‘issues’.
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They have the problem and other party shows the symptoms......yada yada
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This is why I am getting a divorce
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This is not good advice some people dont know they need help until its addressed! As A Christian i pray and address their behavior! To them give them opportunities to change or stop
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people are just vile I'm happy with my beautiful animals
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The old man? JUST an advertising ploy? A graphic image to woo your viewers. The face is certainly not that of Carl Gustav Jung or any one of notoriety in the clinical mental health world. Any answers? Other than an image to fit a visual needs for your demographics? Respectfully submitted for your consideration Gregg Oreo Long Beach CA États
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family members don’t care and don’t care and all there do Is complain about me and they don’t want to see me or my son happy to live together and want to say she will not be able to manager him It truly hurtful and nasty feels and on one love anyone and what they say Is hurtful and wrong and say she to much of burden on us and I don’t ask them
and I have done so much for them what did I get In return anything nevernt say thank you and It hurt my heart and they don’t want me In there life and there want to put me to go Into a care home as my parents will sell there home where
will I go that Is thrown on the street and defend for myself and none of the family care I have seen that how they are and learn my lesson well that Is and what can I do that Is and It made me think
twice and I said to myself that I will move my son out of there house and do It In my own time and they think there can take my son away from me think again I love my son from my heart
and our relationship has broken and they are cold Inside there heart and nice on the face so why play that game with me on one Is true at all and they have to be honest tell me why they hurt me what
have I done so wrong that they have turned there back on me and they have shown dark side to me and I am hurtful
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why are all these video's narrated by elderly British men? eew.
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Middle-aged, not elderly! He's not a real man either.
Because a good well spoken english accent is refreshing.Americans & Australians swear too much
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Relationships sound like hard work. I'd rather be alone with Jesus.
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Don't take this advice. It's evil.
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Ikaw Ang I ka cut ko.
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