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How to Text Low Interest & Flakey Girls (Screenshot Examples Included)

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  • @TheBruceAllen
    @TheBruceAllen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    This man out here pulling through with the text game. The persistence is admirable. Salute you sir

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Thanks man

    • @3GM65D
      @3GM65D หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@PlayingWithFireChannel
      So explain again how and why did you survive the triple text in just 4 hours at 6:54?

  • @iMikecraftPL
    @iMikecraftPL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I love how after every conversation breakdown he says "and then we hooked up" lmao

  • @rexfordkoomsonii1409
    @rexfordkoomsonii1409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    “Unfortunately she enjoyed it way too much.” 🤣🤣🤣 Solid man lol✊🏾💯

  • @InIn-np2vb
    @InIn-np2vb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    Treat her like celebrity ,she ll treat you like fan !!!

    • @ManosphereCentral
      @ManosphereCentral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Facts

    • @BustyBeaver
      @BustyBeaver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Speaking facts my boi 💯

    • @enigma104
      @enigma104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      facts

    • @1bosstv
      @1bosstv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sometimes if you treat her like a fan, she'll treat you like a fan.

    • @ColeAhamad
      @ColeAhamad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big nigga facts

  • @FrederickoWTF
    @FrederickoWTF 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    You have a high tolerance for these chicks. If a chick starts acting funny before i met her i just usually drop them

    • @c-jayjames7316
      @c-jayjames7316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeh he chases too much

    • @ogunmontgomery103
      @ogunmontgomery103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@c-jayjames7316 no such thing as chasing too much unless the juice is worth the squeeze 🤷🏽‍♂️
      And we didn’t hit so we won’t know if he was

    • @SRK6IX
      @SRK6IX 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ogunmontgomery103 Lmao I can tell you waste a lot of time with women who disrespect you. "No such thing as chasing too much" 😂 You shouldn't be chasing bitches at all. Pursuing is fine, but chasing means you're supplicating to get some used 🐱

    • @BroDude0
      @BroDude0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, like a normal and reasonable adult male

    • @foam_on_face5091
      @foam_on_face5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I used to think the same but with a lot experience I've realised that girls get hit on a lot and they need comfort and have them invested before you write them off. You'd have done the same if whoever you spoke to asked you "Want some dick?"

  • @Gnomesmusher
    @Gnomesmusher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Finally I find a dating coach that I click with! Your personality is similar to mine and I've always hated the redpill advice given from so many other coaches out there. I've always thought their advice was often arbitrary and coming from a place of insecurity. You're not afraid to put yourself out there with humor but also coming off as someone with a lot of confidence and looking strong because you're not afraid of supposedly making yourself look "weak".
    First and only coach I'm subbing to.

  • @HeartBreaks11
    @HeartBreaks11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You really made a girl that had low interest into having high interest immediately goat move💯 I’m learning so much

  • @aaron827
    @aaron827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Perhaps the most crucial part of online game.
    Excited for this top notch content.(Do tell us what you would've replied with for every bad text).

  • @Kumari_44
    @Kumari_44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    If she’s flaky. Drop her and chat up her friends.
    Abundance mindset 😎

    • @jaemyliren6316
      @jaemyliren6316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      when she doesn't have a friend:

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Bad mindset. People who term themselves as abundant are usually the ones in scarcity. Act, not speak

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jaemy Liren then find another girl. Theyre everywhere

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      MegaAkselerator its not literal. It basicly means move onto the next girl

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      PlayingWithFire usually, yea. Not all of them though. Agreed. Actions over words 😎

  • @KingKing_777
    @KingKing_777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Just hooked up with a flakey girl I stopped inviting her to a nearby bar and just went with inviting her straight to my place. She told me she flaked before because she was feeling lazy and didn't want to go through the hassle of dressing up.
    So sometimes you're getting flaked on because girls are too lazy to get dressed and would rather just meet you straight at your place.
    To add emphasis it helps to tell her that there's no pressure to come dressed up or whatever.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      That's a lot of times tbh. But, if you deal with a lot of latinas, that won't be the case. Latinas will wear makeup to bed

    • @KingKing_777
      @KingKing_777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel true but I'm sure you get me we've all been there where you're tired from work and felt too lazy to get ready to go out somewhere
      Inviting her straight to your place for wine and putting no pressure to dress up etc fixes that

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@KingKing_777 Eh. I'd prefer if she dressed up even to a straight to the house fuck date

    • @KingKing_777
      @KingKing_777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel She won't be dressed up when you're banging

    • @elihollingsworth6852
      @elihollingsworth6852 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KingKing_777 that’s white girls; all of the many Indian and Latina girls use any excuse to put on makeup and go out, and they will sleep in it without worrying about anything

  • @raoufbigboss5765
    @raoufbigboss5765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Playing with fire it's better than playing with yourself " lmfaoo🤣 that killed me

  • @giordanovaldez8348
    @giordanovaldez8348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Man knows his texting game, subscribed

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I severely confuse persistence with neediness A LOT WOW

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yep it can be confusing for sure

    • @friezasama91_66
      @friezasama91_66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Too needy. Too neglecting. To this. To that.

    • @gogglessukass7852
      @gogglessukass7852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@friezasama91_66 ya it’s very easy to get frustrated with this

  • @fonzworthbentley7455
    @fonzworthbentley7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Delete their number and move on. No time to deal with a low-interest woman

    • @TunnelVisionAthletic
      @TunnelVisionAthletic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      100% agree. Time-waster girls with low to no investment are not worth it. They will never meet up.

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Big facts!! Waaaaaayy too many attractive girls out there to waste your time on one who dont wanna play ball cos she thinks she’s on a pedestal. Just move on to the nxt girl. You’ll even be surprised when the nxt girl is even way hotter than the lame before who werent showing interest.
      Options are a wonderful thing, fellas.

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Kumari_44 oh Yas brah , so damn true , Dont waste your time and energy to someone who has single moms and bad educations ....

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Some girls drank a lot , absolutely no worth your time and emotions , they r just confused girls ...

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They dont know what type dudes they should hangout with , just like a flow .... lol and actually they r very easy , show your nice car , u can fuck all of them

  • @joaodinissousa
    @joaodinissousa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Really nice content, keep this type of videos coming goat.
    As a side note, I'd like to give you a recommendation. I've already figured out you don't really use instagram that much, but in quarantine times I find it to be one of the most powerful weapons we have in our disposal.
    It'd be dope if you make some content about creating a connection with a girl based on insta stories replies or something like that :)

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks man. Yes I plan on doing something like that in the near future

  • @nigahiga8931
    @nigahiga8931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "1800pu****express" i died laughing bro good video

  • @DarkOblideration
    @DarkOblideration 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What a lot of guys gotta realize is that its not you its her. Most girls these days have anxiery and serious mental issues including lack of self esteem while still having extreme narcisim. If you're a good looking guy and got hella shit she still gonna act like that its HER BRO not you. Wake up. These girls don't wanna chill if they think their hair is bad or they look ugly or they gotta straighten their hair or take a shower and they don't want to most are lazy as fuck and home all day. Believe me they're curving every guy not you. They like the attention but are DEAD scared of hanging out. You're chill and wanna hangout cuz shit hanging out isn't a big deal lmao but they nervous as fuuuck. They just wanna go to clubs guys and look good and do nothing. You gotta realize the hot ones live for validation and if she doesn't have a dad or father figure good look she only chasing that check and basically has zero foundation of morals. I dated the baddest girls that guys would simp the fuck for. These girls have anxiety and their mind is working constantly and thinking about shit that doesn't even matter bro. They even have mini panic attacks sometimes you gotta laugh. I've told women they have anxiety to their face. You gotta help them realize it even if they after that don't wana deal with a guy that can read them so well. AGAIN ITS NOT YOU SHE IS TRIPPIN FIND MORE RELAXED CHILL WOMEN NOT ONES THAT ARE SOCIALLY AWKWARD

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Redpill mindset. They’re the problem, not me. Blah blah

    • @DarkOblideration
      @DarkOblideration 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel its hella true bro. They can't chill one on one simply because they scared. Guys will literally sit around and blame themselves like what is it about me she doesn't like. Bro you dont needa be a millionaire to get girls thats the wrong type of female. Guys needa start going for laid back chill women who are spiritual or have a strong emotional foundation. Instead we stay trying to get at these uber attractive girls that have serious baggage and daddy issues. If she can't sit still and doesn't seem in the moment she got her own issues you ain't gon be able to fix most the time. She's what we call an attention seeker only as you said. Guys just gotta get that its not them it's the female she's trippin not you just laugh at how awkward someone's gotta be to be scared of just hanging out lol when they're sitting at home on their ass on social media doing nothing more then likely. Lol. Dont date insecure awkward intimidated women.

    • @tekiero
      @tekiero 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DarkOblideration bro, I just wanna smash dem

    • @DarkOblideration
      @DarkOblideration 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tekiero most won't even give you a chance to smash cuz they too anxious to chill.

    • @tekiero
      @tekiero 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DarkOblideration bro, I still can try tho

  • @TopVillain
    @TopVillain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Man you are brave with your double texting and triple texting I would do that in the past but I would never do that now. I send 1 message no response I’m out

    • @foam_on_face5091
      @foam_on_face5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe you're going backwards then? We are scared of rejection in the beginning

  • @harrym859
    @harrym859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    This goes against every double texting rule to ever exist...

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Yea double texting is okay as long as it’s not done to fast. After a few days, you’re good

    • @Chris-yw2zp
      @Chris-yw2zp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      If he doesnt double text her he doesnt get pussy. Double texting can be good if you do it correctly. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain 🤷‍♂️

    • @ZacharyBrand
      @ZacharyBrand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      But it works, isn't that wild!?

    • @nazzhk6268
      @nazzhk6268 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what I was thinking, it never works for me.
      This guy is a texting G lolll

  • @lamar6088
    @lamar6088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    8:48 no filter lol. Great content!

  • @malikid1000
    @malikid1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This guys shows what persistence actually works not like these red pill coaches who make Double texting the deadly sin

  • @l.b7152
    @l.b7152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the persistence. A lot of people would just say the stupid ‘move on’. Any more tips on persistence?

  • @redouanelallati4619
    @redouanelallati4619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro, you're actually one of the few people I look up to.

  • @BustyBeaver
    @BustyBeaver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Good video Papi. Was a bit skeptical at first but you won me over.

  • @agee7777
    @agee7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    good video man! i usually dont push it if i get one word answers i just let it go.

  • @The20_er
    @The20_er 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Props to you for actually pulling chicks with your strategies. But I would never triple or quadruple text a girl.

    • @Gnomesmusher
      @Gnomesmusher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a dumb arbitrary rule to have. I get if you're coming off as desperate and needy then you shouldn't do it. But things are not black and white. If you're triple texting with confidence and not coming off as needy or unstable then what's the problem? Especially when it worked.

  • @xXSoulhoopxX
    @xXSoulhoopxX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I fuck with your channel bro. One of the best no bullshit dating channels out here.

  • @dabookwriter
    @dabookwriter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Homie is the recovery king lol.

  • @mysticmaak6143
    @mysticmaak6143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you stuff man! What would you consider a good response to keep her comfortable and not feeling suspicious if you don't have instagram?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      “I was wasting too much time on social media so I deleted it so I can focus on my business”

    • @mysticmaak6143
      @mysticmaak6143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel you the man

  • @erich6096
    @erich6096 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been texting with a younger woman through an app for about a week. She already told me she finds me attractive. She seemed highly invested at first and down to meet, now mostly I get quick vauge responses from her when trying to set up a date. "maybe", "it depends", "not sure", etc. then she'll stop engaging for extended periods. I didn't text back much in response or double text because I didn't want to be percieved as needy, or get blocked. The only possible clue I recieved for an underlying cause was being told right after we reconnected from our first converastion (after 3 days) was that she was okay but has just been busy. I'll try applying your advice to this.
    I'll ask if she's nervous. If not. I'll call her out for a reason, etc. She did tell me she likes older guys, has never explored it, but is open to it. Any additonal thoughts or insights which might help?

  • @badanxiety6886
    @badanxiety6886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What about if she gave me number through cold approach but she didn’t reply to my text at all?is there any possibility that i can make her text me back or just move on already?

  • @ayomidebrown129
    @ayomidebrown129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    What's the best thing to discuss on facetime! Thanks in advance.

    • @aronposner6930
      @aronposner6930 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do what’s around her room or if I notice tattoo. I try to give the least about me, keep Mysterius and girls love talking bout themselves

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I honestly don’t do “FaceTime dates”. I consider them largely a waste of time

    • @stoicismispowerful501
      @stoicismispowerful501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I don’t like to be on ft. It really is a waste of time bc I would be giving her free attention

    • @KingCoCo
      @KingCoCo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If you do go on FT, just keep it short. 2-3mins max. Make sure you’re in the middle of something so you give off a ‘happening” vibe. Don’t just sit there in your room alone like a loser staring at the screen with your fat fucking ugly mug. Make her think you got options and shit going on and are fun to be around. Ill jump on a FT super quick while I’m out skating down massive hills or doing other shit so she knows she ain’t the priority. I END THE CALL too. You always end the call abruptly. Don’t hang on the call like a loser. Again all about options.

    • @zuse8831
      @zuse8831 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask her questions and make sure to take time in each so she knows you care.make a small list.

  • @tonypeppers4987
    @tonypeppers4987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man dudde, this is just to good. You bet your ass I’m getting new Photos and taking the hinge World by storm, que the back in black AC/DC music🎶 Thanks Alex

  • @FluentOfficial
    @FluentOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this goes to almost every girl.

  • @stoicismispowerful501
    @stoicismispowerful501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wait but on serious note could you talk about how to get her comfortable with things? You always say you resolve stuff with a phone call

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I only do phone calls once in a blue moon. Maybe 5-10%. I just assume comfort, unless she gives me signs that I’m wrong

  • @slumberbunksuk
    @slumberbunksuk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi, I've recently subscribed and enjoy your text/online game. I've been studying game/PUA and still cant break down my approach anxiety. As for online I just cant seem to attract any higher than a 4/5. My text game is shocking, I'm in the UK and it seems the UK females respond differently, have you ever gamed a british woman ? Tony

  • @Swissbanker77
    @Swissbanker77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    07:29; it wasn't a day and half later, it was only an hour and half later lol. And it was quadruple text overall. Still you got her to sleep with you. Would you mind sharing context of why it was ok multiple texting in span of hours? I know you usually recommend waiting days or weeks but here you broke your own rule so just wanted to understand the nuances. Thanks for all your videos, I am hooked!

    • @BakaryD
      @BakaryD 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was a day and a half later. April 12 then Apr. 13

    • @danielglatz1643
      @danielglatz1643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BakaryD yes at midnight. 11:30pm on the 12th to 1am on the 13th is an hour and a half

  • @geromehulsey403
    @geromehulsey403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How do you turn around a logical conversation into something that is fun/emotionally engaging?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Humor is provably the easiest way. Take a look at some of the LRs I have on the pwf site

  • @rockboy360
    @rockboy360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That looked quite needy but surprisingly worked.

  • @jonathanrequena4361
    @jonathanrequena4361 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro ima be honest I have a lot of respect for what you are doing, might I add posting this on TH-cam whereas other dudes don’t have the balls to, and most importantly you know what the fuck you are talking about, thank you for the videos, you are a good man indeed.

  • @tekiero
    @tekiero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nice analysis.
    Is it good to text a girl after like 3 months? I met her and got her number. We had 1 date, but then we never met. She said that she is busy and can't meet. Her responds was cold.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You can. Nothing to loose. But ideally you don’t wanna wait that long

    • @tekiero
      @tekiero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel I did and we went on a date 👍

  • @waynef2330
    @waynef2330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:40 seconds to 9:00 absolute GOLD! 🤣

  • @DanTuber
    @DanTuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i need you to do my texting game. Have so many matches going no where.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      join the mastermind man

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ScorpionSuerte Send that to a 100 girls and report back with the results. Nobody cares about the last 100 years. Times have changed. Get with the program!

  • @MeyerBeats
    @MeyerBeats 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best way to reply when she says I wish when I set the scene of her coming over

  • @_ShivamSharma
    @_ShivamSharma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Reminder set 😁

  • @saszablaze1
    @saszablaze1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Perfect.
    Thanks.
    This definitely been a sticking point

  • @jdinsmore470
    @jdinsmore470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The double triple texting threw me off guard man in this red pill pick up community that is pretty unconventional and I’m kind of hesitant about trying that because of what I’ve been taught

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Does it really matter what some “community” on the internet says, if it works then it works

  • @AedannTracy
    @AedannTracy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I personally will never double triple quadruple text etc. my egos way too big lol and there’s way too many options out there to be hung up on one girl...ever!

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Ego don’t help

    • @johnccena6005
      @johnccena6005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have the perfect abundance mindset. AMS Would love this

    • @island661
      @island661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually prefer guys who have great texting skills. Double texting? I don't even pay attention to that stupid shit. I double text all the time. It has nothing to do with anything other than I have more to say. Stop wasting time worrying about dumb shit. If a woman likes you, she'll appreciate that you text her a lot. Women like good communicators.

  • @marianogonzalezsardi5867
    @marianogonzalezsardi5867 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Tell your creepy uncle" hahahahahaah

  • @hcrush4855
    @hcrush4855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    just curious, do you ever meet them for a date or it's always home? I've been having success with the date approach (something low investment, like a walk or something when figuring out where she lives), but there's often the logistics problem. I had very few cases where we met up at home first date, so I have to work on that.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I definitely have plenty of Public dates. Before corona it was probably 50%

    • @hcrush4855
      @hcrush4855 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel For me like 95%, but I tend to go quick from texting to meet up, so they rarely have enough comfort to meet me at home first date. So I can imagine a phone call could help there. I have a friend who uses a system where he always gets them to talk about sex first. So anyway, should I change my approach from very little texting to a bit more coupled with a phone call to transit to first date home dates with success, or can it also work with little texting?

  • @epIx111333
    @epIx111333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thats some nice content, more please!

  • @thanospantos1241
    @thanospantos1241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No matter what you say if she wants to flake she is going to flake.

  • @redpilled838
    @redpilled838 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also I notice these same women who in their profile will state they hate ghosting yet they give one to two word responses and also ghost you when you finally get them to open up.

  • @gregbrennan7383
    @gregbrennan7383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if she says she’s very blunt and still gives one word answers? Surely there’s a way to get her to open up

  • @konstantinelinakis4443
    @konstantinelinakis4443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How do you go on about a girl that super liked you, invested a lot, asked for your insta and showed interest but when it comes to a date she doesn't give you a straight answer?
    This girl was like "do you ever go outside London? I might let you touch my legs" (she lives outside London) (yeah, I know I should have made a comment on the legs, I did before tho)
    I replied with not for a while as I don't have much time.
    Her texts immediately started getting shorter. I asked if she liked wine, she said hes, I went for the date, but she would ignore it and reply with something else.
    She's very hot

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "Is there a reason you're being difficult to make plans with"

    • @konstantinelinakis4443
      @konstantinelinakis4443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel worked like a charm. She said oh you were serious bla bla I'm working and I thought London was in lockdown. I replied with a voice message "of course I'm serious, are we gonna play games or be adults about this. We're in lockdown indeed,I took you for a little spontaneous rebel"

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@konstantinelinakis4443 Glad it did man

  • @robertstrada2456
    @robertstrada2456 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:21 NO FUCKING WAY!!!! FROM ABANDONMENT TO A BANG! 😂😂 I Love this brother

  • @chak9360
    @chak9360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The big bro you wish you had growing up , I had a similar situation when the girl left me on seen literally an hour before our said date , your stuff came in handy.

  • @chadboy1515
    @chadboy1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you do about a girl who has a boyfriend, but shows signs of investment and interest, up until you ask for the date. For instance. Their was a girl I met in real life. We had a short interaction and after it was over she asked for my number, reached out to me, putting investment, making jokes, etc... but when I asked for the meet up she went ghost. I’m 99% sure she has a boyfriend, but I still want to hook up with her and she seems like she’d be willing hook up with me, based on her signs. I think she is just afraid of hurting her boyfriend (her relationship seems like it’s on its last whim and she’s looking to monkey branch, but afraid to hurt her boyfriend.)

    • @brandonthorpe5869
      @brandonthorpe5869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not worth it. Be above thots

    • @arricammarques1955
      @arricammarques1955 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If she can't commit, that's a major hint, mate.

  • @sirc7777
    @sirc7777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey man I really enjoyed the video, definitely a new take on this whole thing I havent seen on many other videos. I was just wondering I had this chick that was interested on me for like a whole week really high interest texting, voice memos, pics etc going on n shit then she flaked on me and is now really low interest taking way more to respond than usual. So I been playing the waiting game too these days slowing my responses. Idk if i wanna push it cause maybe my high responsiveness is the reason why she lost interest, and I kinda got a bit mad after she flaked which is another factor as to why I'm asking this. But I also wanna know why she suddenly lost interest. TLDR chick flaked on me and became low interest probably because I got mad after she flaked. Should I bring it up or just keep the slow responses for a while?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad to hear. It really depends on exactly how you responded after she flaked. Go ahead and post in the forums with the screenshots and I’ll take a look

    • @lollol-zo9xy
      @lollol-zo9xy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro same thing happened to me. Girls can be hella confusing. You got an update on your situation??

  • @JUJI.A
    @JUJI.A 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your text game fuego

  • @imovies20
    @imovies20 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo s'up I have question, when a girl leaves you on "like" after 2nd message, do you open that conversation again or not, because I m kinda sure "like" means she doesn't wanna write to you

  • @Jesus-ts5ig
    @Jesus-ts5ig 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    El éxito es sólo la punta del iceberg de un gran trabajo...

  • @greathornedowl1783
    @greathornedowl1783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A hot girl I matched with said she would hang out in a few months with me. Is she bullshiting me? I doubt she will even remember me in 3 months. She's one of those only fans girls and said she matched with me because I was cute not because she wanted another follower

    • @wrestler-kickboxer2524
      @wrestler-kickboxer2524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t think she’s bullshitting you. If that profile pic is u then ur definitely cute. What are you? A squirrel?

    • @greathornedowl1783
      @greathornedowl1783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wrestler-kickboxer2524 haha I'm a numbat, an aussie critter

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley7652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My only issue with this one is that you went to her. You should've made her come to you since she did a no show/no contact the day of the date.
    Sex is great. But sometimes pride and setting boundaries is more important. With how many girls there are, it's not like you couldn't smash another one in the near future.

  • @joemunoz6118
    @joemunoz6118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A lot of Approval Seeking behavior asking her if you’re ugly, hounding her for a reply or even to meet up is a big no for me my guy, but i understand that you’re just dtf and will push for it and i used to be like this too but i’d rather not waste my time and move on if her interest is this low.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Let's say you didn't move on, and stuck through, what would happen to you? Would you be physically hurt? It's your ego talking. "Wasting my time" is such a beta thing to say. Especially since I'm sure you watched a bunch of videos of mine. Did you "Waste your time"?

    • @housemajaliwa
      @housemajaliwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Fire reply

    • @joemunoz6118
      @joemunoz6118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PlayingWithFire This was the only video of yours i watched, and it was enough to shed light on the rest of your content.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ScorpionSuerte Are you ronaldo? If not, don't compare yourself with him. Don't "mimic" being a high value man if you're not. That's very try hard behavior. Things happen. I don't stay up all night for 30 days to come up with a text to send her

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joemunoz6118 Thank you for the kind words!

  • @siamibnaaminmukut5063
    @siamibnaaminmukut5063 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is a......... I don’t know what to say to complete the sentence . Too good

  • @skrillboy__
    @skrillboy__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweat!!!! I found Gold 🙌🏻

  • @JM-mn9fm
    @JM-mn9fm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what do you do if you live in a town with only 20k people, and tinder dates are rare.

  • @OffGridInvestor
    @OffGridInvestor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They think YOU might be a catfish?! I used to get that because I had very good photos up. But even I wouldn't get it heaps.

  • @Ericpabc
    @Ericpabc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What do you do when a girl mentions her ex and not wanting to get hurt again? Huge turnoff for me I usually run for the hills.

    • @JarisJ_
      @JarisJ_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just say something like I’m not your ex and is best to leave things in the past. Then don’t entertain that subject ever again.

    • @lilrosebush
      @lilrosebush 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Run

    • @Skinner90210
      @Skinner90210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell her Good things don’t come to those who don’t take a bit of a chance

  • @Nick-le4mu
    @Nick-le4mu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you hooked up with every female cohost you have on these advice videos or are some just friends? Just curious. Regardless great content very applicable advice

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Female cohost? As in the girls I brought on for the videos? Not the LIVEs. right?
      If so, yes I have hooked up with every girl I got for the videos

  • @someoneonamission6149
    @someoneonamission6149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo bro, I’m 16 years old, high school in UK, trying to have that abundance lifestyle, but I’m struggling with getting girls because they think I’m a player / fuckboy or I try too hard and flirt with everyone, so even tho most of them find me quite attractive, they won’t go for me. I’m popular, athletic, trying to work on myself, trying to be an alpha, but I cannot get girls right now, I need advice bro. Other people reply advice too, I need it.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you are 16 you still have a long way to go. Things will naturally change when you get to college so be patient

    • @someoneonamission6149
      @someoneonamission6149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PlayingWithFire Thanks man, will do that. But what should I do now and how should I act? Until college.

    • @foam_on_face5091
      @foam_on_face5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel hahaha.. This guy is horny af 😂😂😂

  • @erangalor3101
    @erangalor3101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I suspect it's preferable (algo wise) to just block these time wasters.
    First, because they might block you first, and that's prob not good for your profile.
    Second, it might be good (again, algo wise) to block ppl, especially for a guy, as that signals buisness.
    am I wrong?

  • @jameskennedy3617
    @jameskennedy3617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not only did my man here double text.. He hit her with the fucking Quadruple text... oh my lorddddd

  • @swiftclips4787
    @swiftclips4787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “It has no chance your actually an asshole “ lmao 😂

  • @jarnohealth
    @jarnohealth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I usually just keep sending value offering texts which dont rly work cuz like u said they dont adress the underlying cause of her low investment.. so how would u go about asking for it in the best way tho? Just ask: hey, why are u not talking so much? Whats wrong? That might sound a bit needy tho..

  • @island661
    @island661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never waste people's time. If I'm not interested I just tell the guy that I'm not feeling a connection. I prefer that he quit bothering me and find his perfect match. Bye

  • @goalee7663
    @goalee7663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do YOU do, after the hookup?

  • @virtuousvillain9874
    @virtuousvillain9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    good stuff

  • @RagingBullKm
    @RagingBullKm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Vid about casual way to return girl to your rotation would be nice

  • @ZenCenterUpaya
    @ZenCenterUpaya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you have somewhere I can send a hinge/text example for you guys to help me with?

  • @ArtDesigns4Creations
    @ArtDesigns4Creations 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the tip

  • @yassineGow
    @yassineGow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But is not kind of simping!? In 8:00 if that that's mean simp but all of u red pill u tell us don't simping but that explains a lot of thing so what we actually do!?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What exactly is simping in this video

    • @rileypaul3244
      @rileypaul3244 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro he fucked that bitch, simps don't tend to do much of that 😂

    • @kingdavid772
      @kingdavid772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel triple texting and typing paragraphs lol

  • @jialian93
    @jialian93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just did this....and it hardly ever works. Calling a girl out for flaking just makes some of them block you because they feel like you're too pushy or they get mad.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You did it once and made the conclusion that it hardly ever works? I've done this plenty and have had it work many times. Feel free to make a free post on our forums to figure out the real issue

    • @ngpdreamteam2k4
      @ngpdreamteam2k4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro calling her out worked. The fact that she blocked you for a reasonable complaint let’s you know she’s a text book narcissist. It saved you the time of finding out too late.

    • @jialian93
      @jialian93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ngpdreamteam2k4 I definitely like to call them out and I have been using his "are you always this difficult" or "you must be thinking hard" alot recently....but with mixed results. We will see

    • @BakaryD
      @BakaryD 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They'll get sassy and try to play the blame game, just keep your masculine frame and don't get defensive or emotional

  • @sargeklein
    @sargeklein 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is a major baller

  • @witmentality5910
    @witmentality5910 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Problem is in 99% of my interactions if the girl is initially not high investment it doesn’t work out. Only time the reverse happens is with girls who were foreign and putting more effort actually won them over

    • @witmentality5910
      @witmentality5910 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So what I am saying is with American girls is either high initial investment or it won’t work out

  • @StirlingPlays
    @StirlingPlays 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only good advice

  • @Officialkingz1
    @Officialkingz1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ill tell you how you text low interest and flakey girls.....You don't! Just saved you near enough 14 minutes!

  • @johnmarkus9261
    @johnmarkus9261 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if a girl didn't respond to a date confirmation text on the day the date was set. Is there something good to follow up with? There was some good investment built before

    • @jacksonli8590
      @jacksonli8590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sucks to say but drop her bc she dropped you

  • @sanher20
    @sanher20 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there a better way to answer to the "I'm a girl remember"?
    I've received this line a couple of times and the problem with letting it fly is that it introduces the frame that "Since I'm a girl I can behave like a brat if I want to and you have to put up with that". It really turns me off when they say that but I don't have a good answer to that without directly calling them out.

    • @foam_on_face5091
      @foam_on_face5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In one of his other videos, he says "I'll spank the shit out of you". Maybe that'll be a good response to a brat or you could say "I'll show you how a girl should behave when we meet ;)" or "looks like you need a man to discipline you" or if you want to get a bit logical, "how old are you again?". Depends on the context. 2 things to keep in mind when triggered - 1. Don't show you're butthurt 2. You're not a pushover

  • @JohnBeezy3
    @JohnBeezy3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kudos for the persistence. Can you share how frequent this works though. Because if hypothetically double and triple texting only worked on 3 out of 30 women, that’s not a great percentage. More specifically, the time I would waste on those hypothetical 27 dead ends wouldn’t make the 3 hits worth it.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hm it’s definitely less then 50% of time, but either way it takes 2 seconds to copy & paste a text

  • @PotatoJim
    @PotatoJim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm guessing neither of the girls ended up as your girlfriend, so in the end you were really just playing them for a one nighter.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You statement implies that sex is a zero sum game. In reality it’s a win - win

    • @PotatoJim
      @PotatoJim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Nah it's not, unless both are really openly looking for "just sex". Many actually think or hope that a one nighter may turn into a healthy relationship. Afterwards they realized they've been played. Good game bro ... but you're part of the problem.

    • @charliemurphy7122
      @charliemurphy7122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Moth even with a comment you’re putting her and her feelings on a pedestal. The general idea of a one nighter is that it will be a one nighter. It’s not the guys fault that the female secretly wanted more or ended up wanting more and the guy refused

    • @neckutter
      @neckutter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      After watching several of these videos, it’s really just being a pushy salesman and selling them in something they don’t want.
      In your examples the females seem hesitant to meet up “just for a hook up”. In each case you pressure your way into the hookup.

    • @PotatoJim
      @PotatoJim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@charliemurphy7122 Don't worry I place equal blame on women, especially for not attempting to make their intentions clear. What I'm trying to point out is that one of the girl asks him if he "wants a girlfriend" and he leads her on when he clearly has no intention of settling down.

  • @Jetsumo70
    @Jetsumo70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Irregardless isnt a word

  • @Truth187X
    @Truth187X 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It would be nice if I could text girls if I could get matches/likes/replies on online dating 😂

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s likely your profile. Post a screenshot to the forums and I’ll take a look

    • @Truth187X
      @Truth187X 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel I just have 4 selfies and a pick with me and a mask

    • @KingCoCo
      @KingCoCo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sniff out their IG and hunt them from there. A ton of girls post their IG on tinder profile. Notwithstanding you prolly ugly af too lol

  • @Biggieduets37
    @Biggieduets37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She felt sorry for you, I just can’t bring myself to this frequency

  • @TimpBizkit
    @TimpBizkit 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "It has no chance your actually an asshole"
    You see I could not resist texting back "you're"

  • @s4mis4mi
    @s4mis4mi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey bro did you do anything to your voice it's so much deeper than your old videos give me the secrets

  • @antoniopetrache1
    @antoniopetrache1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Make a video on what to do when she accepts you coming over

  • @notsocooldude7720
    @notsocooldude7720 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I’m talking to this girl on tinder and she’s giving one liners basically not asking anything about me where I’m asking all the questions. So just straight up ask if she’s interested or not and she replies that she is, but then continues to give one liners and be completely bland. I am new to all this but I’m at least making an effort. Can anyone chip in on how to handle this? It’s on tinder and we’ve only messaged back and forth 20 or so times

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It depends on what exactly she’s saying. It’s also possible that she just doesn’t speak English well

  • @c.e.w5833
    @c.e.w5833 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you and a girl communicate on snap chat, do you change the setting so the messages are 24hrs?

    • @mctreasure
      @mctreasure ปีที่แล้ว

      IMO, let them change that. I never do it, most chics either set it to 24hrs or save each message i send themselves.