0:42 Brat 4:35 Regular Submissive 6:18 Purely Submissive 7:45 Pro Sub/BDSM Nerd 11:44 Feminine/Cutesy 14:04 Hot Party Girl 17:40 Chemistry/Connection Girl Great video!
I cant express how much your videos have helped me Alex. I’ve had 100% more hook ups since watching basically all your videos. I have so many dates lined up I literally have no free days this weekend into the week. You are the man bro, keep doing your thing
@@debanikgoswami4834 This is pure gold especially his video on fundamentals of text game have been on tinder before never had succes now with his videos 3 days in and already 2 hookups and next week I have 5 dates planned. Insane
Can you make a video on how to text girls who are enthusiasts, the main topic they force is career, ask questions like what do you do, what do you wanna do, do you have ambitions etc .. also they type paragraphs as answers to those questions. :) I tried to change topic, and make it more man to women but they go back to their logical thinking about career stuff. Thanks in advance. Keep up the good work :)
So through text, how are you trying to change the topic exactly? Maybe you aren't trying an effective way to be man to woman. She definitely sounds like the chemistry type, so texting aside I'd say get on the phone at least once and flirt that way.
Amazing content in this video. Thanks Alex. I’m a girl newly dating girls and am kind of dom so always having to play the guy’s role - for good or for bad. 😂
Is it just me or are these phases? Pure submissive, vs brat vs hot party girl vs Nerd are the products of their experiences. Pure submissives had one true man, that molded them. Hot party girl just bounced from dude to dude, stimulus to stimulus and the nerd and brat just took to self stimulating their tingles a lot - either by provoking men, or reading about provoked men. They all started out as Regular cutesy or girls looking for connection. Which to this day, most women would identify with those boxes - based on whether they feel the male female polarity in their gut or in their head. But maybe that's just my heavy bias. I have a strong distaste for all of first categories, even pure subs to some degree. I feel like I am just an actor in their own story, filling in for a male pattern that they predetermined way before even meeting me.
Alex, l like your vid, but as a “professional sub” (who is consensually seeing multiple other people and enjoying multiple d/s dynamics ) me say something in defence of the girls in our category: We ask these questions not to annoy you but because we want to feel safe. Ad a sub, you meet multiple guys that claim to be professional doms or exaggerate the amount of experience they have just to get laid, and that is not safe. The red flags are immediate: From bad/dangerous techniques that could hurt a person (for ex not incorrectly choking someone or tying someone using unsafe bondage techniques that could damage ligaments ) to a general reluctance to discuss limits, boundaries and safe words, expecting you to submit “just because they are the dom and they said so”, the risks that both women AND men experience with these doms are dangerous ! To be clear, I do not need a professional dom in the bedroom, I am okay with a total beginner so long as they tell me that they are just starting out , and they are willing to learn. Then I’m more than happy to teach them. Nobody is born fully educated after all, someone had to teach me about all this stuff, and I would be happy as a switch (a both dominant and submissive person) to pass on this knowledge to improve and teach someone else about how fun and amazing sex and bdsm can be. Just like you that give daring advice! So a parallel could be drawn between us! Just like with people that gatekeep dating advice, I think you would agree that the kinksters that gatekeep this knowledge acting with an air of superiority are just insecure kinksters that are probably afraid of competition.
Can I ask, when texting each of these girls. How often would you say its okay to respond right away to a text? I fear too much texting too fast leads to friendzone or worse. For that matter how long do you typically wait after her text to give her yours
If she is interested in u Text her shortly after Maybe 2-3 minutes She'll see u aint too desperate If she is moderately interested or ambivalent wait long after responding Maybe 5-7 minutes The Brat needs time The chemistry text her immediately The submissive do less texting wait abit
You should text when you have free time. The key thing is you need to have as little of free time as possible. When you have work dont text them at all or just say you are at work. When at free time text them however you want. Just dont wait to text and pretend that you are busy, its just shows that you are a pussy who doesn't even deserve pussy. Be ACTUALLY busy, that's actually hot for many women.
@@stevejackson8878 I try to match her reply time but be a little slower/faster depending on what I'm doing. If she replies in 5-10 min i'll probably reply in 15-20. If she takes 2-3 hours to reply then I'll take at least half an hour. If she takes all day, then I'd give it a few hours too. This is of course assuming that you're not doing anything where you won't be able to reply quickly. Obviously being actually busy is good but purposely waiting forever to text a girl back because you want to pretend you're busy or "high value" is tryhard. Just try to be similar to her investment level in general
It's interesting how different people's style for dirty talk is. I usually see other people's and think it's really cringe but surprisingly most girls are pretty bad at it in my experience. You will be carrying them pretty heavily. And brats are always bad in bed and hardly ever worth the trouble. They talk a big game but can't perform and I think that's a big reason why they put up such a fight. They know they suck / are super vanilla but act like they're super special or freaky.
Amazing and really helpful. Could you please make a video about the girls who don't want to come over on the first date? Thank you for all I learned a lot from you!
@@lordor2567 doesn't matter, just meet up for a quick coffee/ice cream/drink whatever, keep it short and then if you're doing well invite them over for a little.
They are called girls who want to stay safe and ALIVE! It's incredibly unsafe for a women to just go over a strangers house. I'm sure you prefer to meet at your house cause you're safe🙄🙄🙄🙄
Girls are hard creatures. They want you to not text daily and have a life so when I do actually do that then they said why haven’t you texted me it’s been 2 days???? Literally what do I do 🤣🤣
Alex and others, I've been chatting for quite some time, long run oh yeah, because we haven't had the chance to meet yet due to different circumstances. She did flake a weeks ago, hit her with the famous "would be very anticlimactic to end things here", and it worked, like it almost always does. Now to the thing, she started investing alot after that but isn't responding well to flirting/banter, almost like she wants a boring "How is your day going/what do you like?" type of conversations. Also, I'm a bit concerned since I haven't gotten a single shit test what so ever, think it is the first time ever lol. She's definitely a party girl to some degree. Any tips?
@@CEWIII9873 its not alpha vs beta. It's guys we like/are attracted to vs guys we don't like or aren't attracted to. Just cause a guy is alpha doesn't mean women will like him and lots of betas get girls too.
If you say anything remotely sexual and the girl is having a bad day and decides to report you, say goodbye to your profile. Tinder bans by phone IP so even if you make a new account, good chance it's getting deleted. You just have to get a new phone and use a different email
What is the girl that is submissive likes being choked, slapped restrained. But also like to choke you while riding you, reg sub (which is not my style but fck it)
Wow. I can’t believe how cheap acting these girls are. From what I read from women online about intimacyY etc. and the way they talk I would’ve thought they make guys work for it but now I see that they don’t. They do this stuff for free then have the audacity to look down on actual professionals that charge for it 😂😂 as a celibate woman that concept blows my mind. Like… how? I find these very hard to believe for some reason. We’re these conversations photoshopped? Are they professionals? Or regular girls that you offered money? Because I don’t get what is the incentive is for them?
I find it so offputting when a girl is "part of the bdsm community" . it takes all the spontaneity and eroticism out of sex and turns it into disgusting nerd stuff.
0:42 Brat
4:35 Regular Submissive
6:18 Purely Submissive
7:45 Pro Sub/BDSM Nerd
11:44 Feminine/Cutesy
14:04 Hot Party Girl
17:40 Chemistry/Connection Girl
Great video!
respect
Ever notice that’s 7 types?
Dude! Who is texting paragraphs? 😂the Nerd 🤦♀️
I love how you sighed after saying "hot party girl" says a lot about this type lol
I cant express how much your videos have helped me Alex. I’ve had 100% more hook ups since watching basically all your videos. I have so many dates lined up I literally have no free days this weekend into the week. You are the man bro, keep doing your thing
Are these free videos enough ? I am new to this channel.
@@debanikgoswami4834 This is pure gold especially his video on fundamentals of text game have been on tinder before never had succes now with his videos 3 days in and already 2 hookups and next week I have 5 dates planned. Insane
Can you make a video on how to text girls who are enthusiasts, the main topic they force is career, ask questions like what do you do, what do you wanna do, do you have ambitions etc .. also they type paragraphs as answers to those questions. :)
I tried to change topic, and make it more man to women but they go back to their logical thinking about career stuff.
Thanks in advance. Keep up the good work :)
They are looking for a boyfriend lifestyle, not a fuck. You failed to pass go.
So through text, how are you trying to change the topic exactly? Maybe you aren't trying an effective way to be man to woman. She definitely sounds like the chemistry type, so texting aside I'd say get on the phone at least once and flirt that way.
Amazing content in this video. Thanks Alex. I’m a girl newly dating girls and am kind of dom so always having to play the guy’s role - for good or for bad. 😂
This shit is like Phasmophobia where you have to find out with what type of ghost you're dealing with xd
this vid is gold. might be his best so far
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Is it just me or are these phases? Pure submissive, vs brat vs hot party girl vs Nerd are the products of their experiences. Pure submissives had one true man, that molded them. Hot party girl just bounced from dude to dude, stimulus to stimulus and the nerd and brat just took to self stimulating their tingles a lot - either by provoking men, or reading about provoked men.
They all started out as Regular cutesy or girls looking for connection. Which to this day, most women would identify with those boxes - based on whether they feel the male female polarity in their gut or in their head. But maybe that's just my heavy bias. I have a strong distaste for all of first categories, even pure subs to some degree. I feel like I am just an actor in their own story, filling in for a male pattern that they predetermined way before even meeting me.
Thats deep man.
Yup
What do u read my guy
U speak intelligently
brats are born brat
This is a great breakdown, thanks Alex 👍
10:10 "what you may have on your dance card presently"
What??
Easily the best channel in 2022!
I'm 33 and knowing this 3 years ago right after my divorce would have been ... let's just say it would have saved me $$$ and so much more
best (online-) dating channel on youtube fr
Alex, l like your vid, but as a “professional sub” (who is consensually seeing multiple other people and enjoying multiple d/s dynamics ) me say something in defence of the girls in our category:
We ask these questions not to annoy you but because we want to feel safe.
Ad a sub, you meet multiple guys that claim to be professional doms or exaggerate the amount of experience they have just to get laid, and that is not safe.
The red flags are immediate:
From bad/dangerous techniques that could hurt a person (for ex not incorrectly choking someone or tying someone using unsafe bondage techniques that could damage ligaments ) to a general reluctance to discuss limits, boundaries and safe words, expecting you to submit “just because they are the dom and they said so”, the risks that both women AND men experience with these doms are dangerous !
To be clear, I do not need a professional dom in the bedroom, I am okay with a total beginner so long as they tell me that they are just starting out , and they are willing to learn.
Then I’m more than happy to teach them. Nobody is born fully educated after all, someone had to teach me about all this stuff, and I would be happy as a switch (a both dominant and submissive person) to pass on this knowledge to improve and teach someone else about how fun and amazing sex and bdsm can be. Just like you that give daring advice! So a parallel could be drawn between us!
Just like with people that gatekeep dating advice, I think you would agree that the kinksters that gatekeep this knowledge acting with an air of superiority are just insecure kinksters that are probably afraid of competition.
Hi! tbh I literally don't know about BDSM but I am willing to learn, would you mind teaching me?
@@aksshay2555 is this the new send bobs and vagene?
Loved this video.
10:47 damn, that's quite an essay you wrote,lol
Can I ask, when texting each of these girls. How often would you say its okay to respond right away to a text? I fear too much texting too fast leads to friendzone or worse. For that matter how long do you typically wait after her text to give her yours
If she is interested in u
Text her shortly after
Maybe 2-3 minutes
She'll see u aint too desperate
If she is moderately interested or ambivalent wait long after responding
Maybe 5-7 minutes
The Brat needs time
The chemistry text her immediately
The submissive do less texting wait abit
You should text when you have free time. The key thing is you need to have as little of free time as possible. When you have work dont text them at all or just say you are at work. When at free time text them however you want. Just dont wait to text and pretend that you are busy, its just shows that you are a pussy who doesn't even deserve pussy. Be ACTUALLY busy, that's actually hot for many women.
@@stevejackson8878 I try to match her reply time but be a little slower/faster depending on what I'm doing. If she replies in 5-10 min i'll probably reply in 15-20. If she takes 2-3 hours to reply then I'll take at least half an hour. If she takes all day, then I'd give it a few hours too. This is of course assuming that you're not doing anything where you won't be able to reply quickly. Obviously being actually busy is good but purposely waiting forever to text a girl back because you want to pretend you're busy or "high value" is tryhard. Just try to be similar to her investment level in general
Depends on how fast she text u
It's interesting how different people's style for dirty talk is. I usually see other people's and think it's really cringe but surprisingly most girls are pretty bad at it in my experience. You will be carrying them pretty heavily. And brats are always bad in bed and hardly ever worth the trouble. They talk a big game but can't perform and I think that's a big reason why they put up such a fight. They know they suck / are super vanilla but act like they're super special or freaky.
This guy is doing god's work
he is god
The bdsm stuff was hilarious.
Alex, why didn't I find your channel earlier man? ;)
Wow .. thank you so much for this video!! Tons of value there!
you're 100% The goat man like you should be charging for this shit
Very nice work. Much better than these 4 hour long mind wank sessions (discussions) hahah
It was valuable !
What about the types of girls you're going to meet doing a cold approach
Amazing and really helpful. Could you please make a video about the girls who don't want to come over on the first date? Thank you for all I learned a lot from you!
It's okay to meet for drinks close by. Be chill and she'll be down to chill after at your place
@@anthonygonzales7748
Thank you, but I don't always want to go for a drink. I prefer meet at my place
@@lordor2567 doesn't matter, just meet up for a quick coffee/ice cream/drink whatever, keep it short and then if you're doing well invite them over for a little.
They are called girls who want to stay safe and ALIVE! It's incredibly unsafe for a women to just go over a strangers house. I'm sure you prefer to meet at your house cause you're safe🙄🙄🙄🙄
Thanks bruv 🔥
What shoes you rocking family
Very detailed
Hell yeah Mr. White! Yeah science!
Haha, I bet the BDSM subs are glad to hear that their vetting process is so effective!
I guess..
I’m going out with a 64 year old.
You dont have to worry about wearing condom
W
Game is game
Thank you 🙏
Wow this was overwhelming I realize how far behind I am now
Oh trust me brother, I am on the same boat
@@LionMusic we all are. The good thing is that there's a way to catch up haha
Thnkiu man
Girls are hard creatures. They want you to not text daily and have a life so when I do actually do that then they said why haven’t you texted me it’s been 2 days???? Literally what do I do 🤣🤣
Goat 🐐
Alex and others, I've been chatting for quite some time, long run oh yeah, because we haven't had the chance to meet yet due to different circumstances. She did flake a weeks ago, hit her with the famous "would be very anticlimactic to end things here", and it worked, like it almost always does. Now to the thing, she started investing alot after that but isn't responding well to flirting/banter, almost like she wants a boring "How is your day going/what do you like?" type of conversations. Also, I'm a bit concerned since I haven't gotten a single shit test what so ever, think it is the first time ever lol. She's definitely a party girl to some degree. Any tips?
whip it out
prolly just leading you on bro
Love your content man can you help us man who get banned for some reason in all dating apps
I’ve would’ve ghosted just about all of these girls as soon as they made the wrong moves ☠️
Where is “ideal girl category” ?
The bdsm nerd will ask you what makes you a dom? 🤦
On point with the brat!
Smash that subscribe button guys!
This is gold!
Would you say a girl can go on a complete 180 to her own archetype based on the guy she is with ?
They make rules for betas, and break rules for alphas...
@@CEWIII9873 its not alpha vs beta. It's guys we like/are attracted to vs guys we don't like or aren't attracted to. Just cause a guy is alpha doesn't mean women will like him and lots of betas get girls too.
I'd say yes. We will be submissive for a man we desire.
@@yasminevine I appreciate your response
In all earnestness:
What is your point?
Some people are saying things and are joking around, and people have a life and are busy.
got banned on Tinder for no fucking reason, literally none i could possibly imagine. any tips to get around this?
If you say anything remotely sexual and the girl is having a bad day and decides to report you, say goodbye to your profile. Tinder bans by phone IP so even if you make a new account, good chance it's getting deleted. You just have to get a new phone and use a different email
@@proud-obese-american wtf
Same…bs
Been banned three times. Can no longer make any accounts. You get reported so easily xd
It’s actually not for validation it’s all fake and not real. Their are people who say things that aren’t real.
What is the girl that is submissive likes being choked, slapped restrained. But also like to choke you while riding you, reg sub (which is not my style but fck it)
Alex, would you still send your name with winkey smile as your opener text, if you think she's a shy girl?
how to deal with these chemistry girls whos looking for 1 night...
These phrases won’t work anymore. Good luck though.
A lot of these information are fake and not real. This is really offensive
Wow. I can’t believe how cheap acting these girls are. From what I read from women online about intimacyY etc. and the way they talk I would’ve thought they make guys work for it but now I see that they don’t. They do this stuff for free then have the audacity to look down on actual professionals that charge for it 😂😂 as a celibate woman that concept blows my mind. Like… how? I find these very hard to believe for some reason. We’re these conversations photoshopped? Are they professionals? Or regular girls that you offered money? Because I don’t get what is the incentive is for them?
I'm a girl and I was shocked too. Specially the 1st one! As soon as I saw that I was like no way is that a real women!
@@yasminevine I know. I can’t imagine women being like that especially the way they talk like they don’t do this stuff. 😂
If you don’t know someone then you don’t know them
please dont go the Andrew tate way
I find it so offputting when a girl is "part of the bdsm community" . it takes all the spontaneity and eroticism out of sex and turns it into disgusting nerd stuff.
I’ll save you time.
Types 1-6: gold diggers.
What about fembois
What a lovely mindset to have
Well, you're certainly not gonna enjoy time with women with that mindset....
bro what is wrong with u
and chad/pretty boy searchers
2nd
Where is the phone call for the first girl?