@@Kochos I no longer need it, I found someone for the long term. I knew things like this existed but the free content on youtube was never good/practical/relateable as Playing With Fire so I never trusted and paid to access. If I was single and this guy had paid content, I would pay.
There's a lot of good advice here. I personally hate all kinds of mind games. I hate that we have to think about pushing and pulling, like a relationship is a constant battle of power. I hate that! But it is what it is and there's a lot of good advice here.
Girls doesn't care or give chances only cuz u're high value or rich, He might just be good looking and she's so sweet no doubt, And ya she doesn't seem like low value nor desperate she's just giving him chances for some reason
The biggest cringe in my life is realizing that I used to text and talk to women like this and it got me nowhere. You really don't realize it until you actually change your whole communication tactics up, making moves, and start seeing results.
Value based. Meaning she was more interested than you. Duh. Girls make the decision, not guys. If guys made the decision they wouldve take all and every girl.
Man that neediness texting example was so hard to listen to. She gave him LITERALLY every chance in the world and all he wanted to do was set up the date.
@@MrCjchamp No man she gave him EVERY CHANCE in the world to turn it around and instead he poured gasoline on the fire with every text. This guy 100% could’ve not only hung out, but probably fucked this girl on the first date, if he had any semblance of text game.
My text game always sucked, so I just avoided it altogether: I'd just invite for coffee, then confirm within 24 hours that I'd booked a table, or something like that (even if we were going somewhere you don't need to book...) and then just to say I was leaving. Pretty much always worked and saved me go knows how many hours and god knows how much energy spent on roads to nowhere. Most girls, while I was dating, said they liked how direct I was and that I didn't just want to talk for ages first. Give it a try.
@@julla1416 Texting or phone calls for two weeks to a month on and off, before actually dating in person. Very time consuming and they usually ghost if you do this route, gotta be in between
Your the uncle I wish I had growing up but never had.. Thank you for sharing knowledge. I'm not trying to sleep around but just want to live my best life and these nuggets of info is helping me get there.. 🙏
-Start mixing comfort with flirt -Take chances to sexualize. Make it clear its amazing and Not Wrong to be a sexual person, in a fun way. -Ask logistic questions -Have plans for every nigh -Make her invest by being fun flirty -set yourself as the buyer and she the seller when schedulling the date -pressure on pressure off -reward and withdraw in a healthy way( from baf behavior) -when things go well Sof close. Suggest the idea of meeting up in a vague way. - Be clear when setting up the date. Be specific about the time etc. - Frame the date as interesting, Intriguing, with previous cliffhangers (topics to talk about) -Dont be overly understanding -Wait and re start the convo with emotional intelligence without pressuring her into the date. Its too logical and dull. Be lighthearted. Playful. Humorous. -Be genuine and mature when its necessary. -Be sure of sexual frame to not be dissapointed later. -Be chill and distant -Be bussy and communicate your lifestyle being aloof about it -Be aloof and assertive in logistics. -Mix Sexualization-Logistics. -Be low investment. Not giving too many fucks to take value. -
I dont always agree with your advice but this is really good one. I hope guys listen to you and are not hateful towards women when they are so needy and they dont get anywhere with their tactics. You are preventing a whole generation of incels to grow and that's good for the women too.
@@PlayingWithFireChannel No, you don't but the comments from your subscribers show some hatred against women. Help those incels get some women to finally like them.
Ur comment made me smile Evangeiia, Tho not incel had 3yr relationship. My prob is being too teasy, and playfull, and sometimes being just bold. I had so many boring conversations in my past.
Many times, convos lead up to heavy sexting. Sometimes a investment of a girl is sooo high, but drops down real quick. My geus is they expect my way of teasing, and playing. Also keeping convos up for more days are hard. I always think i have to get their investment so high, and to make girls feel strong emotions
@@vinnie4v277 if you want to keep the conversation going then talk about something meaningful. Women like deep conversations from men because other than a hot guy we also want a smart guy. Someone who can think a bit more. That's very attractive too. So don't only keep it to sexual but also other topics, like politics, philosophy, things that happen in the world etc. I can't stand a simplistic man. I believe I am a smart woman and the man I'm dating needs to be smart too. Otherwise it's a turn off.
A phrase you used in this video REALLY helped me man with a girl that is always "busy". you're a lifesaver and the depth to the way you frame things is really incredible. I said "I understand that you're busy but if we really wanted to meet up im sure we can find a few hours". So that immediately polarized the conversation to where she can either invest harder I.e. "No I really want to meet up I really am just busy" or "F U you ungrateful SOB blah blah etc "
Great video bro. Can honestly say it’s one of the best dating videos I’ve seen cuz you actually explain what she’s thinking and how she perceives it when guys say certain things whether good or bad. Great stuff here.
Good work, Alex! I'm 30 and trying to improve my game in all aspects. This pandemic is making things a little bit harder, so I'm focusing again on dating apps. Unfortunately, during my 20's I wasn't aware of all this strategies. I came up being the guy of the first part of the video many times and this screwed up for me a lot. But now I feel I'm improving, and that is good. So thank you and keep on with your good stuff, you will certainly grow here on YT. I only ask for you not to become as many youtubers that when achieve a certain point start focusing too much on selling and advertising, obviously to make money. It kinds of mess the content a bit. YT already pays for views, so don't get greedy when you get million subs. Antonio, 30, 5ft7, long-haul truck driver, Brazil.
Damn bro u are a fuckin realist. Ur actually a master of showing off the confidence without any douche vibes and ya spit the facts straight up. There's no shady incentive to make an easy buck you are fuckin details bro. Good on ya mate keep up the good work.
the first example was very similar to the way i talk to girls. now i know why i always get rejected despite my money and decent looks. society lied to me.
I think the best use of this information is for those experienced with meeting people, talking to strangers, having actual conversations and eye contact, etc.
Really needed this video, my problem though is I have a habit of texting back too quickly. I'm pretty sure that also comes off as needy. When texting friends and family I'm sure it's fine but not for girls. I do think girls use the push and pull method a lot though. Where she doesn't text you back for awhile to make you think about her more. You can probably return the favor and take about the same amount of time as it takes her to message you back. Just keep your phone on silent or put it on do not disturb mode to resist the temptation.
I don't quite believe in the "push pull" method the way pua industry defines it. I do more of a tongue and cheek way. But, if you don't push in the first place, you wouldn't have to pull. So, have certain rules with girls you talk. Maybe reply every half an hour even when the girl instantly replies. Almost tricking your brain that you don't need that instant gratification.
@@PlayingWithFireChannel if a girl responds like once a day is that a red flag and should I just cut my losses? There's a few girls who things just feel stagnant with them. Their texts went from fun to very short and dull so I jumped to the conclusion they lost interest. Made this mistake before though met a girl on tinder once. I assumed she wasn't interested so I ghosted her. Fast forward 3 years later run into this same girl. It turns out she genuinely was busy and that I messed up for not making more of an effort.
A better persistence example is the vid you put out last week about getting girls to reply back. All you did was ask about the date over and over and it still worked. But she was playing a lot of games
I can't seem to find it. Do you think it had a different title? Was looking at his videos from 5-6 months ago and tried searching but they were from a year back.
dude put in soooo much work. I woulda given up after the 2nd or 3rd '1 or 2 day' wait. also such over worked responses like 'the great state of ___'. if i got a tip for you just drop all the 'extras'
I know how I would have handled the conversation differently. she said she liked spicy Thai noodles and wanted to show him. I would have told her she should come over to watch the show with me and she could give me her opinion on a Pad Thai recipe I created. She is practically inviting herself over to his place. Personally I am a homebody so if i am not working I will likely be at home. I would have told her I was busy making dinner, building a pc, or making dinner. Interestingly, if she liked Asian food I could bring her to restaurants where i know the waitstaff speak Mandarin, Khmer, Thai, Tagalog, or Vietnamese. Then i can order our meal in a foreign language i know. After the food arrives I can start eating with chopsticks and show her how to use them. Nothing wrong with putting myself in a situation where I can utilize my talents.
Dope convos! Can you do a video where you show your pictures and bio? And supplement those with your thought process? I think the initial vibe you spread through your profile would give us a lot of extra clarity.
Alex is the man! I’ve definitely learned a lot from his content. Here’s another thing too, guys. It’s absolutely OK to double text! Hell, I even triple texted a few hotties and got them to reply. I don’t recommend it as a habit, but It really just depends on what the following texts are. Take note: Avoid saying dumb needy shit like, “Hey did you get my last text?” or “Why aren’t you replying to me?” If you don’t hear back from her for a long while, change the topic, maybe send her a cool pic from out on a walk with something like: “Found this cool piece of art on my walk today.” If she doesn’t respond for awhile again, follow up with, “Hey! Did your thumbs fall off? I’ve been writing sad songs every hour since not hearing back from you.😉” That has worked for me! The last hottie I triple texted responded with, “Sorry! I’ve been busy. And boy, you’re so demanding!” BAM!! It’s game on again! This is what is called being persistent. Not needy!
Guys. There's loads of women who would never ever double text. And if I was left waiting for him tex me to confirm our date for few hours just received some gif before I'd cancel date myself. Otherwise solid advice. First guy was lucky to have so long convo with that girl.
I would never put up with that second girls bull. She works all the time, you have to open the conversation almost every time, she cancels several times. Why on earth would you stick around? Your text game is definately on point, but holy shit she seems like a pain in the ass.
Yes his videos are very helpful thank you very much for all your breakdowns on this online dating sites because I've never done this before and I had bump my head few times along the way but once I watch your video and took knowledge to it and listen to what you had to say was very helpful and a great access for me cuz you help me a lot now my words flow like the water running down the river
Great video Alex and navigation. You have a lot of patients but display high value in txt. I was thinking to myself the older I get though, is the time and effort worth it. From your experience are these mostly one night stands.
Your sense of humor and flirting style is so similar to mine. Except that I disagree that you should never apologize, I own up to it but laugh and shrug it off and make it not seem like a big deal and maybe even crack a joke about it. Women like that you can own up to your mistakes but not beat yourself up over it.
If she says "lets hang out as friends" after showing interest in me, i say in a sarcastic voice "yeah yeah" and she laughs and we hang out (with the sexual frame) bc i still flirt
After watching a few of these videos I have come to the conclusion that I am just a christian. For me being sexual and raunchy = disrespectful behavior I now see that I have to wait for the go ahead from her to be this way. As to not come across as a creep. Definitely some good foundations here
The thing to watch out for here as well is that the second conversation took 3 weeks... also theres no time stamp on the texts ti show time between. Time between counts for so much...
I’m actually ok with that.. If you keep a cool head with these girls and they’ll orbit around forever. Which is positive female attention that boosts confidence, and also lots of opportunities for more to happen. You just can’t be totally focused on only one of you’re doing that
Once you been on the prowl before in your life, you learn what to say and not to say. The biggest skill you develop is know when it’s time to move on with no waste of time. Trust me. you can get around those who are interested in really quick time if your efficient.
So Ive been hitting up this girl I like and things were going good, I played it cool with lots of sarcastic/playful banter and some sexting (over weeks it was long distance) and the date went great when she was in town. A couple of days later I had a moment of weakness and came off as super needy. What do I do, just wait a few days and just start the conversation like it never happened with some light jokes/funny memes?
Great video man, thanks. You seem the real deal with texts. Non-needy, persistent but not intense, and patient. Works like a charm. It seems though that you have to have daily interaction with a rotation of girls. So an investment of time is needed. and patience.
They could have met at Dec 16, but no she finds excuses until Jan 2. I don't get these girls. She could have told him, that she isn't interestet anymore, but she makes him hopes and lets him down again and again. Not entirely his faul IMO.
Started watching all your videos man! One thing i wanna know, do we need to get the paid version of all these apps? I am using tinder, bumble and hinge.. I had upgraded Tinder to Paid and getting few responses but its not pouring in. Will paid version of dating apps make any difference?
It won’t really make a difference in your matches, but it will make a difference in the ease of use of the apps. Personally, I have tinder gold, bumble plus, and free version of hinge
I live in Poland, when you sexualize to much girls dont like it, they feel it rude. It’s ok but only with double meaning or implicit words that bring her to guess
PlayingWithFire the biggest thing I’ve learnt from you is to just be patient. Fuck you’ll play this shit out for like a month, where most guys can’t wait 13 minutes. Crazy discipline bro!
![งมหอย จับปลา มือเปล่า หาอยู่หากินแบบวีถีอีสานกับแก๊งเซียนหรั่ง ม่วนคัก! [ขอนแก่น] @Sianstudio](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/JEJZg6N-AbU/mqdefault.jpg)
Your videos = the best content I've seen on this stuff period. I wish I had it when I was younger when I needed it more!
Thanks man. Much appreciated
this kind of contented has existed since you needed it the most but you have been unwilling to pay to access it
@@Kochos I no longer need it, I found someone for the long term.
I knew things like this existed but the free content on youtube was never good/practical/relateable as Playing With Fire so I never trusted and paid to access.
If I was single and this guy had paid content, I would pay.
I feel lucky it came just in time ...
@@Ballerfreak101 she’ll never love you bro, it’s just your turn
The level of patience it takes is astonishing to me. I learned a lot, thanks.
- Are u a serial killer?
- U find out tonight.
I almost died 😆😆😆🔥
Am I a serial killer? The answer might surprise you, but more about it later.
timestamp?
@@vincentcao511122:25
Damn the first guy on some whole nother level
ayooo🤣🤣
He alpha af.
😹😹I’m fuckin dyin
You guys ain't nice with a player who's learning wtf
He's thirsty as hell
There's a lot of good advice here. I personally hate all kinds of mind games. I hate that we have to think about pushing and pulling, like a relationship is a constant battle of power. I hate that! But it is what it is and there's a lot of good advice here.
I understand 🤣
Exactly my thoughts!
It makes it exciting. When you will be advanced you will be craving just for that because else will be boring
The thing is you don't have to think about pushing and pulling, it has to come naturally when you're on your purpose
@@BakaryD But if mindgames don't come naturally to you, you have to think about it.
the guy in the 1st text must be pretty good looking for the chick to still put up with his betaness and give out all those signs still
Yes he has a good profile
@@PlayingWithFireChannel well profile counts for nothing unless he really IS high value.
Either that or she's pretty low value and desperate.
PlayingWithFire hey bro how do I send you a convo for your perusal? Really need yiur insight. Trust me it's a very short convo. Thanks in advance
Girls doesn't care or give chances only cuz u're high value or rich, He might just be good looking and she's so sweet no doubt, And ya she doesn't seem like low value nor desperate she's just giving him chances for some reason
The biggest cringe in my life is realizing that I used to text and talk to women like this and it got me nowhere. You really don't realize it until you actually change your whole communication tactics up, making moves, and start seeing results.
Very true. My shyness lost me a few DAMN good girls who were interested.
PERIOD
Just found this channel and can’t stop binging. What a gem! Thanks for the help man!
Welcome to pwf bro
Called a girl the wrong name, still hooked up😂
Weird *desperate* flex.
Legend
somtimes thats the part of the game
Value based.
Meaning she was more interested than you. Duh.
Girls make the decision, not guys.
If guys made the decision they wouldve take all and every girl.
Chad move 😎
Man that neediness texting example was so hard to listen to. She gave him LITERALLY every chance in the world and all he wanted to do was set up the date.
#unfortunate
She didn’t give him a chance. She wasn’t interested. Every time he tries to set a date she put up obstacles
@@MrCjchamp No man she gave him EVERY CHANCE in the world to turn it around and instead he poured gasoline on the fire with every text. This guy 100% could’ve not only hung out, but probably fucked this girl on the first date, if he had any semblance of text game.
@@MrCjchamp nuub
Exactly 😂 she genuinely seemed like a nice girl, and gave him play but dude single handed ku ruined it by being too needy. Hard to watch man
My text game always sucked, so I just avoided it altogether: I'd just invite for coffee, then confirm within 24 hours that I'd booked a table, or something like that (even if we were going somewhere you don't need to book...) and then just to say I was leaving.
Pretty much always worked and saved me go knows how many hours and god knows how much energy spent on roads to nowhere.
Most girls, while I was dating, said they liked how direct I was and that I didn't just want to talk for ages first.
Give it a try.
Damn, this is a good suggestion. I seem to waste so much time on the text game here in NYC. Girls flake out, etc...
Tried doesn’t work for me, most girls my age and younger are still immature and want a “talking stage” (I’m 23)
@@Getout249 what do you mean by "talking stage?"
@@julla1416 Texting or phone calls for two weeks to a month on and off, before actually dating in person. Very time consuming and they usually ghost if you do this route, gotta be in between
@@Getout249 Ah, okay thanks!
As usual content quality is A1. This breakdown was so helpful
Glad to hear man
Your the uncle I wish I had growing up but never had.. Thank you for sharing knowledge. I'm not trying to sleep around but just want to live my best life and these nuggets of info is helping me get there.. 🙏
Haha thanks man
-Start mixing comfort with flirt
-Take chances to sexualize.
Make it clear its amazing and Not Wrong to be a sexual person, in a fun way.
-Ask logistic questions
-Have plans for every nigh
-Make her invest by being fun flirty
-set yourself as the buyer and she the seller when schedulling the date
-pressure on pressure off
-reward and withdraw in a healthy way( from baf behavior)
-when things go well Sof close. Suggest the idea of meeting up in a vague way.
- Be clear when setting up the date. Be specific about the time etc.
- Frame the date as interesting, Intriguing, with previous cliffhangers (topics to talk about)
-Dont be overly understanding
-Wait and re start the convo with emotional intelligence without pressuring her into the date. Its too logical and dull. Be lighthearted. Playful. Humorous.
-Be genuine and mature when its necessary.
-Be sure of sexual frame to not be dissapointed later.
-Be chill and distant
-Be bussy and communicate your lifestyle being aloof about it
-Be aloof and assertive in logistics.
-Mix Sexualization-Logistics.
-Be low investment. Not giving too many fucks to take value.
-
whats does pressure on means
@@lutherk7674that feeling of "i gotta do something because it's starting to get awkward"
I always sucked at texting, you helped me see my blind spot, cheers! Subscribed!
Glad to hear man. Welcome to pwf
This is like getting advice from Stifler and I love it. Thanks, man. Subbed.
I dont always agree with your advice but this is really good one. I hope guys listen to you and are not hateful towards women when they are so needy and they dont get anywhere with their tactics. You are preventing a whole generation of incels to grow and that's good for the women too.
Thanks. I definitely do not encourage being hateful towards women. Hopefully that part was never in question
@@PlayingWithFireChannel No, you don't but the comments from your subscribers show some hatred against women. Help those incels get some women to finally like them.
Ur comment made me smile Evangeiia, Tho not incel had 3yr relationship. My prob is being too teasy, and playfull, and sometimes being just bold. I had so many boring conversations in my past.
Many times, convos lead up to heavy sexting. Sometimes a investment of a girl is sooo high, but drops down real quick. My geus is they expect my way of teasing, and playing. Also keeping convos up for more days are hard. I always think i have to get their investment so high, and to make girls feel strong emotions
@@vinnie4v277 if you want to keep the conversation going then talk about something meaningful. Women like deep conversations from men because other than a hot guy we also want a smart guy. Someone who can think a bit more. That's very attractive too. So don't only keep it to sexual but also other topics, like politics, philosophy, things that happen in the world etc.
I can't stand a simplistic man. I believe I am a smart woman and the man I'm dating needs to be smart too. Otherwise it's a turn off.
A phrase you used in this video REALLY helped me man with a girl that is always "busy". you're a lifesaver and the depth to the way you frame things is really incredible.
I said "I understand that you're busy but if we really wanted to meet up im sure we can find a few hours". So that immediately polarized the conversation to where she can either invest harder I.e. "No I really want to meet up I really am just busy" or "F U you ungrateful SOB blah blah etc "
My goodness this has made me rethink what I’ve been texting haha. Nice one
Your name is now justified
i love this channel. all others channel don't show you examples. guy understands this stuff clearly you can see results.
Dude that first interaction was BRUTAL. Dude should of just swallowed his pride and focused all that extra time on another girl...
I wish my stupid ass found this video like 5 days ago phuck lmfao I needed this
Be thankful you didn't. Painful fuckups create more of a perspective and stronger lesson retaining
Great video bro. Can honestly say it’s one of the best dating videos I’ve seen cuz you actually explain what she’s thinking and how she perceives it when guys say certain things whether good or bad. Great stuff here.
Good work, Alex! I'm 30 and trying to improve my game in all aspects. This pandemic is making things a little bit harder, so I'm focusing again on dating apps. Unfortunately, during my 20's I wasn't aware of all this strategies. I came up being the guy of the first part of the video many times and this screwed up for me a lot. But now I feel I'm improving, and that is good. So thank you and keep on with your good stuff, you will certainly grow here on YT. I only ask for you not to become as many youtubers that when achieve a certain point start focusing too much on selling and advertising, obviously to make money. It kinds of mess the content a bit. YT already pays for views, so don't get greedy when you get million subs. Antonio, 30, 5ft7, long-haul truck driver, Brazil.
Welcome to pwf man. Yea there definitely needs to be a balance, I always found the excessive marketing lame as well
@@PlayingWithFireChannel well played
Alex is the type of guy to censor his location on the screenshots and then say it out loud regardless
Lolol
Damn bro u are a fuckin realist. Ur actually a master of showing off the confidence without any douche vibes and ya spit the facts straight up. There's no shady incentive to make an easy buck you are fuckin details bro. Good on ya mate keep up the good work.
Thank you for the kind words
was skeptical at first, but super helpful mate, thankyou!
the first example was very similar to the way i talk to girls. now i know why i always get rejected despite my money and decent looks. society lied to me.
Just waiting for the girl to respond is so real. She finally texted back as I was watching this video
U dropping some really helpful stuff in video + breakdown, I don't think most guys will see thru
Thanks man
You are singlehandedly changing my life
I think the best use of this information is for those experienced with meeting people, talking to strangers, having actual conversations and eye contact, etc.
Really needed this video, my problem though is I have a habit of texting back too quickly. I'm pretty sure that also comes off as needy. When texting friends and family I'm sure it's fine but not for girls. I do think girls use the push and pull method a lot though. Where she doesn't text you back for awhile to make you think about her more. You can probably return the favor and take about the same amount of time as it takes her to message you back. Just keep your phone on silent or put it on do not disturb mode to resist the temptation.
I don't quite believe in the "push pull" method the way pua industry defines it. I do more of a tongue and cheek way. But, if you don't push in the first place, you wouldn't have to pull. So, have certain rules with girls you talk. Maybe reply every half an hour even when the girl instantly replies. Almost tricking your brain that you don't need that instant gratification.
@@PlayingWithFireChannel if a girl responds like once a day is that a red flag and should I just cut my losses? There's a few girls who things just feel stagnant with them. Their texts went from fun to very short and dull so I jumped to the conclusion they lost interest. Made this mistake before though met a girl on tinder once. I assumed she wasn't interested so I ghosted her. Fast forward 3 years later run into this same girl. It turns out she genuinely was busy and that I messed up for not making more of an effort.
I'm so glad I found this channel !! Apparently, I wasn't doing anything right while texting girls on tender, that's why they never gave me a chance.
Welcome to pwf man
A better persistence example is the vid you put out last week about getting girls to reply back. All you did was ask about the date over and over and it still worked. But she was playing a lot of games
I can't seem to find it. Do you think it had a different title? Was looking at his videos from 5-6 months ago and tried searching but they were from a year back.
"Are you a serial killer?"
"You'll find out tonight."
"that would be horrible"
Well that's the understatement of the year. Lol
Dam I wish I had these layups. Usually I'm carrying convo to get girls
out.
Facts. That girl was feeling him heavy and he blew it
Lol
dude put in soooo much work. I woulda given up after the 2nd or 3rd '1 or 2 day' wait. also such over worked responses like 'the great state of ___'. if i got a tip for you just drop all the 'extras'
Your voice has come such a long way Alex. Keep being awesome
Finally they YT’ers bringing texts into it
I know how I would have handled the conversation differently. she said she liked spicy Thai noodles and wanted to show him. I would have told her she should come over to watch the show with me and she could give me her opinion on a Pad Thai recipe I created. She is practically inviting herself over to his place. Personally I am a homebody so if i am not working I will likely be at home. I would have told her I was busy making dinner, building a pc, or making dinner.
Interestingly, if she liked Asian food I could bring her to restaurants where i know the waitstaff speak Mandarin, Khmer, Thai, Tagalog, or Vietnamese. Then i can order our meal in a foreign language i know. After the food arrives I can start eating with chopsticks and show her how to use them. Nothing wrong with putting myself in a situation where I can utilize my talents.
I just text girls once, if they don't answer, I just move on lol..
Too bad. You're missing out
You must be STARVING
This guy in the texts must be really hot. It reads like that with how she’s treating him after his texting missteps
22:26
"Are you a serial killer?"
"You'll find out tonight 😏"
Dude I died lmao
@@dillonlee4595 That was my intention all along. 😎
Dope convos! Can you do a video where you show your pictures and bio? And supplement those with your thought process? I think the initial vibe you spread through your profile would give us a lot of extra clarity.
Yep I actually have those videos on the channel already
It looks like crossing a mine trap field , one wrong text and you're done lol
Alex is the man! I’ve definitely learned a lot from his content.
Here’s another thing too, guys. It’s absolutely OK to double text! Hell, I even triple texted a few hotties and got them to reply. I don’t recommend it as a habit, but It really just depends on what the following texts are.
Take note: Avoid saying dumb needy shit like, “Hey did you get my last text?” or “Why aren’t you replying to me?” If you don’t hear back from her for a long while, change the topic, maybe send her a cool pic from out on a walk with something like: “Found this cool piece of art on my walk today.” If she doesn’t respond for awhile again, follow up with, “Hey! Did your thumbs fall off? I’ve been writing sad songs every hour since not hearing back from you.😉” That has worked for me! The last hottie I triple texted responded with, “Sorry! I’ve been busy. And boy, you’re so demanding!”
BAM!! It’s game on again! This is what is called being persistent. Not needy!
Guys. There's loads of women who would never ever double text. And if I was left waiting for him tex me to confirm our date for few hours just received some gif before I'd cancel date myself. Otherwise solid advice. First guy was lucky to have so long convo with that girl.
I would never put up with that second girls bull. She works all the time, you have to open the conversation almost every time, she cancels several times. Why on earth would you stick around? Your text game is definately on point, but holy shit she seems like a pain in the ass.
and who has the time to do this with 10-15 girls a week?
So much value in this video. Very thorough.
"Are you a serial killer? Ohh, you'll find out tonight.." LMFAOOO
22:25
"Are you a serial killer?"
"OH YOU'LL FIND OUT TONIGHT!"
lmao
What I understood way too late is that you can't text a girl the same way you text your boys. It's this elaborate dance in a way.
1.25 speed for us fast learners! Btw love the content bro! You the man
This dude is the mannn. I’m not the best at it but the kinky sex n cuddles should be copyrighted shits magic! Good looks bro 💪
This channel is its views worth in diamonds!
Yes his videos are very helpful thank you very much for all your breakdowns on this online dating sites because I've never done this before and I had bump my head few times along the way but once I watch your video and took knowledge to it and listen to what you had to say was very helpful and a great access for me cuz you help me a lot now my words flow like the water running down the river
these vids are epic. keep it up bro 🙌🏻🙌🏻
This is such an important topic - it’s very difficult for many to understand
Quality content mate , keep them comming 👌
Thanks man
I was just thinking about this yesteday! Thanks for the upload
This is just absolutely hilarious. That first dude was a total simp. LOL
Lol. Yes
WOW 32 min Videos. Hope you eventually release hour long videos that are not the interviews one hahaha. Jokes! Awesome as always.
Lol thanks man. Yes the monologues are coming ;)
You the man brouuu .....keep it up your content is really good 🤘🏻🙌🏻
Thanks man
"Wait a few days before sending another text to a girl. "
Me whose been waiting weeks to send another message so I don't come acrossed as needy... 😑
On me
My friend needs to watch this, he’s like the first example x10, it’s bad and he doesn’t like to take advice 😭
Great video Alex and navigation. You have a lot of patients but display high value in txt. I was thinking to myself the older I get though, is the time and effort worth it. From your experience are these mostly one night stands.
Thanks man. Nowadays I’d say it’s 50/50. I generally prefer to see a girl again, but if there’s any bitchiness i won’t
This video really helped me. Thanks for the help man!
Your mockery of the first guy is great
Haha
Your sense of humor and flirting style is so similar to mine. Except that I disagree that you should never apologize, I own up to it but laugh and shrug it off and make it not seem like a big deal and maybe even crack a joke about it. Women like that you can own up to your mistakes but not beat yourself up over it.
Emperors don't apologize to mistresses.
@@encouraginglyauthentic43 LOL Cheesy as fuck. Do you also say cringey things such as "a lion doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of the sheep"
@@Gnomesmusher Keep apologizing to your superiors buddy.
@@encouraginglyauthentic43 keep spouting cringey crap to make yourself feel better while you're crying at night LMFAO
@@Gnomesmusher You're trying to hard.
Good Video Advice Bro I Really Needed This 😎🙏🏾
If you’re needy, I’d totally understand 😝
Your content is on point, keep it up
Thanks man
Double texting is typical with over 50s. Back when people actually knew how to communicate double texting mimicked verbal communication
So what if I have no personality and no desire to do anything but watch tv and movies all day
If she says "lets hang out as friends" after showing interest in me, i say in a sarcastic voice "yeah yeah" and she laughs and we hang out (with the sexual frame) bc i still flirt
This all seems pretty legit. Great video
Thank you kindly
After watching a few of these videos I have come to the conclusion that I am just a christian. For me being sexual and raunchy = disrespectful behavior
I now see that I have to wait for the go ahead from her to be this way. As to not come across as a creep. Definitely some good foundations here
Hey man, great content! Quick question, what’s the photo you use with the text saying “Hey Girl Happy Friday” in 18:59
if ur cute ~ persistant!
if ur ugly ~ neediness
essentially
The thing to watch out for here as well is that the second conversation took 3 weeks... also theres no time stamp on the texts ti show time between. Time between counts for so much...
I’m actually ok with that.. If you keep a cool head with these girls and they’ll orbit around forever. Which is positive female attention that boosts confidence, and also lots of opportunities for more to happen. You just can’t be totally focused on only one of you’re doing that
Thanks a lot for your content man!
I hope you have endless texts to go through. Dig the breakdowns.
I do 😈
you a legend bro, I think my problem is not being too needy and too passive. It's hard to make effort when girls dont respond much
Thanks man
Sometimes I'm too passive too 😂
Once you been on the prowl before in your life, you learn what to say and not to say. The biggest skill you develop is know when it’s time to move on with no waste of time. Trust me. you can get around those who are interested in really quick time if your efficient.
So Ive been hitting up this girl I like and things were going good, I played it cool with lots of sarcastic/playful banter and some sexting (over weeks it was long distance) and the date went great when she was in town. A couple of days later I had a moment of weakness and came off as super needy. What do I do, just wait a few days and just start the conversation like it never happened with some light jokes/funny memes?
Really depends on what you did and how needy you were. You can post the screenshots in the forums man and I’ll take a look
A video on fixing things after not being dominant and assertive.. Alex :)
Great video man, thanks. You seem the real deal with texts. Non-needy, persistent but not intense, and patient. Works like a charm. It seems though that you have to have daily interaction with a rotation of girls. So an investment of time is needed. and patience.
Just needed this one right now
They could have met at Dec 16, but no she finds excuses until Jan 2. I don't get these girls. She could have told him, that she isn't interestet anymore, but she makes him hopes and lets him down again and again. Not entirely his faul IMO.
Started watching all your videos man! One thing i wanna know, do we need to get the paid version of all these apps? I am using tinder, bumble and hinge.. I had upgraded Tinder to Paid and getting few responses but its not pouring in. Will paid version of dating apps make any difference?
It won’t really make a difference in your matches, but it will make a difference in the ease of use of the apps. Personally, I have tinder gold, bumble plus, and free version of hinge
Also that second girl was flaky af, I would have just ignored and put the ball in her court. WAY too much time spent on re-scheduling...
Finally some good advice!!
i got one of youre vids recommended i might not be the target demographic but its actually quite interesting.
on of the best vids i have watched
Why you making your voice deeper than it already is tho?
Cool videos btw
Damn that first 10 minutes was so cringe. I hope this guy is doing better
Yeah really difficult to sit through
I'm 14 and this knowledge is gonna help me so much
Did you finish your homework?
I live in Poland, when you sexualize to much girls dont like it, they feel it rude. It’s ok but only with double meaning or implicit words that bring her to guess
You're probably doing it uncalibratedly
I'm glad I naturally do some of these, but I'd be lying if i said this didn't up my game by a fck ton
Glad to hear man
This is dope bro awesome video 🔥
Thanks man
PlayingWithFire the biggest thing I’ve learnt from you is to just be patient. Fuck you’ll play this shit out for like a month, where most guys can’t wait 13 minutes. Crazy discipline bro!