How To Text a Girl Like a Pro - Beginner Vs Advanced Text Game Examples

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ต.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 614

  • @PlayingWithFireChannel
    @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Free Ebook: Ultimate Introductory Guide to Getting Laid On Tinder & Other Dating Apps
    www.playingfire.com/ebook/

    • @kiaijames2036
      @kiaijames2036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What's this to do with a 300lb black guy?

    • @masudhawlader208
      @masudhawlader208 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same bro, compared to Tinder its 1000x better for DTF girls, ive had so many hookups 😏

    • @sacreation-info
      @sacreation-info 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same bro, compared to Tinder its 1000x better for DTF girls, ive had so many hookups 😏

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Voluntary Comrade Ikr lol

  • @thewizardtk
    @thewizardtk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2065

    Texting these chicks is like walkin a minefield, one wrong message and she’s gone lmao

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +463

      The more value you have or she thinks you have the more you can “get away with”

    • @TheAngryyTroll
      @TheAngryyTroll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Any reply is a good reply, try pissing them off 😂

    • @Muy_chingon
      @Muy_chingon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      No cap omg

    • @therealjulez7886
      @therealjulez7886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      YUP 1 wrong move and ...... GHOSTED

    • @marvinhoff9152
      @marvinhoff9152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true

  • @tigersgedanken1246
    @tigersgedanken1246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +999

    well if girls invest like that from the start, everything is so much easier.. but most dont..

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      I've had numerous LRs when the girls didn't really invest that much at first. That being said, you want to prioritize your energy on girls who are in fact interested and run high volume so you have plenty of them.

    • @russlejones5337
      @russlejones5337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That all depends on the quality of the male.

    • @GFRyoutube
      @GFRyoutube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      exactly!

    • @vanamutt43
      @vanamutt43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel "run high volume" great plan dude, not really viable when im getting 2 matches a month lol

    • @TheChocolateChamp
      @TheChocolateChamp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Lol little easier when the chick already loves your abs

  • @RC-eo8yt
    @RC-eo8yt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    If a girl is interested you can say wherever you want, you will score. Text game is too much effort, i like face to face, do or die

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Not necessarily true. I’ve seen countless cases of guys fucking up “sure things” with bad text game

    • @eateateat1
      @eateateat1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i feel u brother

    • @daviddanforth6103
      @daviddanforth6103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel shit man I've lived that I've screwed up a sure thing many times by just not knowing what to say or saying the wrong thing this dating bs is annoying

    • @daviddanforth6103
      @daviddanforth6103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @shredded guy man I wish it was just that easy

    • @jakeenglebert1026
      @jakeenglebert1026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@daviddanforth6103 learn to not give af king, do some coke or some shots.whatever gets u piped up. Its a mindset homie, put on a mask. U have to 100% believe you're the catch, girls smell doubt and insecurities fam

  • @bettmo7494
    @bettmo7494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    Push, pull and then Legs 😉

    • @whitedarkness811
      @whitedarkness811 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good one😏

    • @agerestricted1947
      @agerestricted1947 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As it should

    • @truth1253
      @truth1253 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmfao

    • @slowboy3442
      @slowboy3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Push, pull and the English is trying to find you...

    • @bigsandip
      @bigsandip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@eddieokudoh upper lower?

  • @Anythingelse125
    @Anythingelse125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    This is such a good tutorial. I’m very good in person, but I’m terrible at text, so I definitely tend to push too much for a meetup rather than have an interesting conversation in the initial text conversation. Thanks!

    • @doctorscalling9479
      @doctorscalling9479 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here, looks aren't all on Tinder because 20% is still a lot of people

    • @winterinsandton2834
      @winterinsandton2834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bad at both😩😂

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Careful of talking to women the way he said. Many women would not like it! Better off just asking if she's free to meet for coffee hun x

    • @im_not_here_lol6535
      @im_not_here_lol6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loveispatientloveiskind2205 facts

    • @yournexxt5125
      @yournexxt5125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winterinsandton2834 same 💀

  • @davedavedave131
    @davedavedave131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    When did texting become this complicated...

    • @2shayyyyy
      @2shayyyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      When you're trying to get a girl who has no interested in you

    • @rolexkr
      @rolexkr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      when women started to get free attention from all the thirsty idiots on Instagram and Tinder

    • @kylezhou2572
      @kylezhou2572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Facts. Too complicated

    • @LavaioToxic999
      @LavaioToxic999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m Saying tho 😂

    • @__-bz7wh
      @__-bz7wh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When men started simping and no one shamed women for getting high body counts

  • @tmpickzakaprizepickskilla
    @tmpickzakaprizepickskilla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Instructions unclear I'm now dating my cousin

  • @HoodBoyOt
    @HoodBoyOt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Duuude, this video alone has upped my texting game 300 %. I corrected all the mistakes showed and contacted 5 random girls for a test...
    3 answered
    Still talking with 2 of those 3
    Third wants netflix and chill on the first date 😂
    Everyone should watch this video. Bro you have my gratitude and my sub 👍👍👍

  • @3nigma.3nc
    @3nigma.3nc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I'm 30 years old and I fucking wish I had this very simple, basic knowledge when I was in my 20s. After improving pictures, taking your texting advice - it's like my whole dating life instantly went from dead to insane. I'm talking to 5-6 girls right now who are all interested and I'm running out room on my calendar to book anymore dates. I never thought I'd have this problem. It's almost exhausting to the point where I don't even really care as much - which only makes them crave me more! Fuck me!

    • @the-othermr.e1495
      @the-othermr.e1495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dang man, teach me your ways

    • @petersignorino3763
      @petersignorino3763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      did you buy the program? or did u just watch the videos to get better?
      wondering how much money ima have to spend to get just halfway to that level

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Naaaa don't think so.... what do you do if she leaves you on 'read or goes silent on you then ?

    • @ezzelgamil1850
      @ezzelgamil1850 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loveispatientloveiskind2205 you move on to the next one

    • @Rollyax
      @Rollyax 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ezzelgamil1850exactly lol

  • @politochavez7971
    @politochavez7971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    feeling like a SUPER BETA for watching videos on how to text girls brah

    • @Poussyeater-w5e
      @Poussyeater-w5e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      We all have to learn somehow bro

    • @natxnim
      @natxnim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It's simple, if you aren't a good texter, don't force yourself to be one. Make the goal of the texting to get on the phone or meetup in person if that's where you are best.

    • @Elias.M92
      @Elias.M92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gotta start somewhere

    • @astro3202
      @astro3202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@natxnim what if you cant meet up in person

    • @natxnim
      @natxnim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@astro3202 if it's because you don't live near each other, unless you plan on one going to the other, there's no point. You're talking to someone you'll never see IRL.

  • @Highflyer25800
    @Highflyer25800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It’s not just that, this girl was obviously very invested even before he started texting. Most girls are not that excited at the start… it’s a lot harder imo

  • @MikeyStrutter
    @MikeyStrutter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Not really "beginner vs advanced" text game honestly. It's just that the first girl was not as invested as the other two.

    • @Mutation_D
      @Mutation_D 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      No he could have easily got the first girl interested he just didn’t say the right things. As long as shes responding you have chances to take the conversation wherever you want. Some girls require more work than others but literally every woman has no problem discussing sex when approached from the correct angle.

    • @da3v1ls93
      @da3v1ls93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a guy you need to lead the interaction to where you want things to go. First girl was less amenable to persuasion due to poor texting and Day 1 execution.

    • @Mutation_D
      @Mutation_D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ScorpionSuerte Not every girl says yes to meeting people. But there are ways to increase your chances of her saying yes and the idea of sex will move you up substantially.

  • @anervousdude5043
    @anervousdude5043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Duuude! These videos actually help me alot, not just for getting girls but more with social science and how to speak to people with confidence

  • @Wealthy_Mystic
    @Wealthy_Mystic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Its hard to mess up when girl is interested in you.She was displaying high interest.When she doesnt ask questions and dont say much then it is over any doing seduction.

    • @blustgt8814
      @blustgt8814 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Shaun Cushing we have no reason to believe it isn't.

  • @Emotionz6
    @Emotionz6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You’ll be able to tell if a girl is interested in you regardless. If she gives short replies she isn’t interested, if she asks questions she’s interested

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably quite accurate. Plus if you send her nice poses of your chest, probably will please her.
      She wants yr compliments, you to tell her ..that her lips are looking real kissable...but if yr too quiet, she'll move on. Pay her attention! A phone call is like worth as much as buying her flowers, do it ! Don't be boring by leaving her messages to you on read, because she'll leave you, if you keep doing that

  • @ThatGuy-fd5px
    @ThatGuy-fd5px ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That chess play is the best way. You’re basically giving her a few options on how reply and then you should already have the
    good answers depending the route they choose
    …unless they’re very boring/uninterested

  • @dendoumoussama4220
    @dendoumoussama4220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    i think the opener message he used on the second girl only works if she's reaaaaaally into him

    • @eateateat1
      @eateateat1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      dendoum oussama right girls don’t usually talk so much at first

    • @Gmoney0436
      @Gmoney0436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m gonna try it. But instead of booty Gains I’m gonna hit her with “beautiful smile” this girls teeth are straight and white. I’ll let y’all know how it went.

    • @Raccoon850
      @Raccoon850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gabe Villa u tried yet? If so how did it go?

    • @rrrrr____
      @rrrrr____ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Gmoney0436 how did it go

    • @AmoYuma
      @AmoYuma 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gmoney0436 how'd it go

  • @juanarocha8629
    @juanarocha8629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is so much better than like 90% of the content of every other YT channel

  • @realjcoop182
    @realjcoop182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The improvement is abs and cardio 🤣 and thirst from the second chick.

  • @Rad-Soup
    @Rad-Soup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This man is giving us the videos people wish other channels would

  • @mattiron26
    @mattiron26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Rule 1 and 2 supersede all other factors, attractive people usually give bad dating advice because they don't have to try, but they don't know that.

    • @AnthonySforza
      @AnthonySforza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I actually had this issue myself, where I'd never really had issues with girls/women and would even balk when guys would lament about not talking to one and asking me how I do it, "I don't understand... I just go up and talk to them, what's so hard about that?"
      However, I went through a really nasty breakup after being off the market for seven years and... Well, not only had the dating market change DRASTICALLY in those seven years, not doing what I used to atrophied like crazy, so it would be an uphill battle, even if it hadn't changed. On top of the whole "Feeling like a useless piece of shit" after the breakup, thing.
      So I actually had to go through and build myself back up, piece by piece, brick by brick. I found out why what I used to do worked and things of that nature. That said, I eventually got to a point where I was both better and worse than I used to be. Better because knowing what I was doing before, then gave me the opportunity to hone in and build on my strengths. Although worse due to the... It's one thing when you just go up and do it, like you're just natural at it and it's fun, but then it's something else when you spend time getting good at it, where it kind of sucks the fun out, somewhat. Where it takes on a more clinical nature.

    • @A1_Amir
      @A1_Amir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheLoneCamper You have to be smart and kinda get the vibe of what ur talking bout

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheLoneCamper yeah, agree... that was a bad line. More like he's projecting his wishes, which an alcoholic woman who sleeps with everyone will probably be fine with...but not yr future family woman, who you want to have children with

    • @TrumpTrain911
      @TrumpTrain911 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loveispatientloveiskind2205 women in the west aren’t family material anymore brother truth be told

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrumpTrain911 not all are the same, there're still amazing women in the West and fantastic men...but how do u know who is best 4 u ??

  • @allstarmitchell
    @allstarmitchell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This guy is dissecting these sexts like it’s English class. Hmmm. Great visualization

  • @kyleruiz6196
    @kyleruiz6196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    To all the guys complaining about not getting social media matches- walk outside, talk to a girl.

    • @CHEBCAEI.F
      @CHEBCAEI.F 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Problem is you still end up typing up a robot conversation with her on your phone
      It's inevitable

    • @JuggernautJMP
      @JuggernautJMP ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CHEBCAEI.Fit’s the only way. Either keep fighting your mind over it or take action lil man

  • @kennypowerz1267
    @kennypowerz1267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If she's not physically attracted to you then I would say move on and don't be that guy, that hangs around too long. Get out and meet women instead and travel. Chemistry is key to any relationship. And also the physical aspect of it all comes into play as well.

    • @Fearless-ex4iv
      @Fearless-ex4iv ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo ..too bad most men will never get it

  • @ixspectre
    @ixspectre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Hahha the moment when you change your voice to match the tone of the girl 🤣

  • @yoloop93
    @yoloop93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ok I'm out, I ain't talking like that irl so not gonna texting like pretending someone who isn't me

    • @lr15v91
      @lr15v91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah man. I totally agree. Those first tips at the beginning like looking at push/and pull seem good and keeping the convo interesting are good but the texts he shows are so fcking weird and wouldn't impersonate me lol

  • @roibryan6379
    @roibryan6379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I believe in build a strong self image for yourself.

  • @TheDunkinDeli
    @TheDunkinDeli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Notice how she swiped right for his “upper body” so all u have to do is be jacked is what I’m hearing because if not u don’t even get the chance

    • @alexking2296
      @alexking2296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well everyone is more attracted to a healthier guy. Get a gym membership will help with self confidence as well 😁👍🏼

    • @TheDunkinDeli
      @TheDunkinDeli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alex King I’ve tried multiple times. My problem is it’s my self holding me back. I struggle staying motivated to work out because going to the gym for me feels like a “job” I love playing sports and being active but when it comes to going to the gym I can’t stay motivated to do it consistently. Any tips on how to stay motivated?

    • @alexking2296
      @alexking2296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheDunkinDeli I struggled staying motivated for a while through highschool but I found finding a friend or a gym buddy who won't let you skip is super helpful. Trust me man, work out for the boys not for the chicks, your buddies will notice your progress and encourage you. If that doesn't work try avoiding the super popular gyms because it can be intimating... For me I currently struggle with dieting but I came across 'how to beast' and I'm probably more motivated than ever !!

    • @TheDunkinDeli
      @TheDunkinDeli 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alex King Ok. Thanks for the advice! I think I got someone that could give me a hand

    • @artistyles3710
      @artistyles3710 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I may be a little late to the jump, but don't make going to the gym a chore.. instead of saying "i have to go to the gym", say "i get to go to the gym". this makes your mind subconsciously think that going to the gym isnt a chore

  • @kaypakaipa8559
    @kaypakaipa8559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sheesh tht second convo was legendary,
    My text game is dry like ashy knee caps!

    • @Unlmtdprogress
      @Unlmtdprogress 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought it was mad cringeworthy honestly... But, clearly this has to be Tinder or a woman who just wants to have sex.. so it worked. You can tell by what she was saying, she was already super attracted in him so it was easy for him to say whatever

  • @djkhemyst213
    @djkhemyst213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Different girls , different reactions ..

  • @Aastikya
    @Aastikya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So this is what Nice Guy conversation to Playboy conversation looks like lol. He literally went from Steve to Captain 'Murika!

  • @ClearChoiceMethodology
    @ClearChoiceMethodology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Will be short but intense romance was an awful line actually.. sounds desperate.. the one calling himself handsome was way better.. wasnt needy and showed confidence

    • @Humiliated1234
      @Humiliated1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Virgin

    • @ClearChoiceMethodology
      @ClearChoiceMethodology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Humiliated1234 haha keep trying sport.. maybe you'll get it one day

    • @awesometown1000
      @awesometown1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Callidus
      Not nice to project insecurities, friend.

    • @DanMan8988
      @DanMan8988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah exactly. Idk what he was talking about when he said this was his best. It was sooo bad. I agree it was a boring convo, and it seemed super one sided. But he really fucked up sending that line.

    • @badgasaurus4211
      @badgasaurus4211 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Humiliated1234 That was an asinine response

  • @crastclan1345
    @crastclan1345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    His camera got me feeling like I’m getting out of a long day in the pool foggy as shit

    • @pianosfilipem
      @pianosfilipem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Probably cause the lens is all dirty from precum, cum, and aftercum

  • @backwardsbastard290
    @backwardsbastard290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Basically what he's trying to get at is once you have money and a decent looking face you can get a girl

  • @imkandy8493
    @imkandy8493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the differentiating between the high and low pitch voices🤣

  • @Murmurrr
    @Murmurrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I mean, if the guy has abs then that definitely helps engagement. At least for a few messages initially.

  • @kimaniroach3264
    @kimaniroach3264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is interesting 💯💯...
    and I bet alotta people in this comment section gonna use those same lines they see in this video🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @thewilldalton
    @thewilldalton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The narration of these messages is everything😆

  • @Muscanto
    @Muscanto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Good stuff but what I want to see is how you get the girl invested when she's not quite playing along yet. In your third example, she gives the guy the lead in with "Want Some" in reference to breakfast. What if she had just ended without offering to cook you something. How would you transition into Desert? Your example is easier to work with and some girls don't give you a lot to build off of.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mike Muscanto I have some LRs on the PWF site where the girl really doesn’t give me much for the first half dozen messages. I can’t link them due to TH-cam policy, but one that comes to mind was when I was in Romania
      For instance, if a girl didn’t end her sentence with “want some” you could just say. “Yum, I’ll be there in 10 min” or “yum, save some for me”. Both of those are likely to get a bit more of a response

  • @XxMPKingxX
    @XxMPKingxX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Appreciate your vids man. High quality content !

  • @ShaddyraddyNY
    @ShaddyraddyNY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't be afraid to lose a chick. A lot of guys put women on the pedestal cause of their looks instead of vetting chicks.
    If a chick acts up charge her to the game. Remember, there's more women to men. Just live life in abundance, have fun and build some muscle!

  • @iamalexwolf
    @iamalexwolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think he got the “Short but intense romance” line from Austen Summers. I remember him talking about using that line in person when a girl doesn’t have much time left to hangout. I’m pretty sure it was an old video of Austen

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WHAT THE FUCK! WE SO DO NOT DESERVE GOD SENT PEOPLE LIKE YOU BRO THANKS A LOT! 🙏upload more awesome stuff

  • @mikebravo8574
    @mikebravo8574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great content, as always!

  • @Andrew22
    @Andrew22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    MAN I have no clue what I’m doing but hey, trial and error. One thing I got is an attractive physical appearance I just gotta build the game

  • @makeouthill666_
    @makeouthill666_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    If she’s for the streets🙏
    You don’t need any game to slide into them sheets😂😂😂

  • @Michael-ex9uo
    @Michael-ex9uo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve learned so much from this dude, this shit hella works. Still rusty, but it’s working

  • @uselessizuku
    @uselessizuku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks literally same day results. Already have an secured Netflix and chill date!

  • @itssdiego3411
    @itssdiego3411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great Video man! I definitely had to sub even though I'm a young teen soaking up the game ✔

  • @stellar3161
    @stellar3161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    So basically, you have to be attractive.

    • @tahj2981
      @tahj2981 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Personality is attractive... I think that’s the moral of the story

    • @stellar3161
      @stellar3161 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tahj2981 Yea it's been a year I completely forgot I even commented this. I still agree with it somewhat but even if you are attractive you still won't be able to pull if you have a 2d personality. So yea personality is important. Also I can't believe I used to watch this shit.

  • @jakobdobson1592
    @jakobdobson1592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I recon I’m alright texting girls. But I can’t talk to them in person. I’m just super awkward lol

  • @theyseemetrollintheycantwi1514
    @theyseemetrollintheycantwi1514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The post rsd era is refreshing. Where were you 10 years ago 😂

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      TheySeeMeTrollin TheyCantWin In college & not getting laid unfortunately

    • @chakirbelhaj5570
      @chakirbelhaj5570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Everyone has their time to shine brother

    • @Roman-hn6mb
      @Roman-hn6mb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chakirbelhaj5570 My time to shine will be 2020!

    • @BarthiArgento
      @BarthiArgento 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats rsd?

    • @Roman-hn6mb
      @Roman-hn6mb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bartholomäus real social dynamics. They are good but not my cup of tea. All about hustling like a madman and working on your life- at least what I got out of it. It’s good advice but you have to be reasonable in applying it to your own life

  • @thomasvandenbelt4097
    @thomasvandenbelt4097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When you text exatly like the first example.. sad life

    • @ShawnFX
      @ShawnFX 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmaooo if it makes you feel any better bro im in the same boat as you😂😂 thats why im watching this video

  • @sotiriss4085
    @sotiriss4085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The second (and even the first) example is actually following the steps of "Execute The Program" by Jeffy with great dose of improvisasion though, and writing more words in total that the average "textbook" examples of Ex.The Pr.
    Not only the structure, but also complete phrases he used is from jeffy's recommendation.
    Hahah sometimes these vintage programs and old knowledge are still the foundations for most "newschoolers"

  • @manro8
    @manro8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are two different interactions one where she’s clearly interested in the person she’s engaging with and one where she’s not

  • @SAINTSROWANGEL
    @SAINTSROWANGEL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The problem is you all will talk all this gain over text and then massively disappoint when the girl shows up with the expectations you present through texts lmao

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s why you want to be an awesome guy in real life as well

  • @বিচ্ছিন্নপ্রতিলিপি

    really "beginner vs advanced" text game honestly. It's just that the first girl was not as invested as the other two.

  • @turtlesinapool
    @turtlesinapool 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Push, pull, then lock in the armbar, pressure on the elbow, stretch the bicep and it’s game.

  • @keithkenney4470
    @keithkenney4470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it dude already getting value :) Thanks a bunch!

  • @OfficerDoofyInTown
    @OfficerDoofyInTown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I swear this is something from parallel reality.
    I have tinder with proffesional photos(i'm a very good looking guy) plus funny bio, but its a VERY VERY rate shit when you match up with a girl that will invest like that.
    She basically needs to almost fall in love with you to make her invest like that. And if she is, you don't really need to get that hard into a game. There is no point by doing so. 3- 4 massages and ask for her phone.
    The real challenge is when a girl doesn't want to invest. This is where a real shit happens lol

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Post a screenshot of your profile in the forums and I’ll take a look

    • @ilse_22
      @ilse_22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah at that point you gotta have a good text game, watch Prince O too, I managed to get 8 girls who are kinda on the fence into investing to start messaging me like crazy

  • @thelamismapues
    @thelamismapues 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmm... as a girl using Dating app, the advanced first message is too sexual for me. Keep in mind that in average the ratio would be one match for a guy 5 for a girl. Having that in mind, most of the opening messages are sexual related and it feels aggressive and since I am getting thousands of those, I lose interest. I would recommend doing it the other way. Challenge her, get investment showing you are a normal person and not an animal, then build up some sexual tension.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I more or less agree with that. I think a big part of it also comes down to where the girl is at and what she wants

  • @volkerwanderung1426
    @volkerwanderung1426 ปีที่แล้ว

    anyone notice how high pitched Alex's voice is in these older videos and all of a sudden he has a ''deep voice''...

  • @dorbitan2935
    @dorbitan2935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best video ive found on this topic. Keep up!

  • @Jinowizard
    @Jinowizard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy is training chads all over the world

  • @benbrooknathan4455
    @benbrooknathan4455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow dude. So fire. Modern day hitch broooo

  • @X11CHASE
    @X11CHASE 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your text narration reminded me of To Catch a Predator Lmfaoo

  • @hannahscott6604
    @hannahscott6604 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t like long distance relationships so if I travel a lot, I wouldn’t wanna date really either

  • @akansharaoo
    @akansharaoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we should need ways on how to respond to these as a girl..still keeping the tension because just get too akward

  • @Sameer_s551
    @Sameer_s551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great content, as always

  • @kayhawkins5925
    @kayhawkins5925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If a guy suggests his place for the first date it is a no deal. If he wants a relationship not a smart move. Most women of value would not go to your place on a first date so guess it is just the low value women that falls for that ploy. If a man can't invest time, money or effort he is not worth the same.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You do realize you are putting down women who dont share your values.

    • @kayhawkins5925
      @kayhawkins5925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel what are you even talking about. A woman of low value will go to his apartment first meeting. Either she is desperate or if she is a hot chick she will go to his apt for a one nighter with no interest in anything long term. She knows her value as a hot chick so she doesn't want anything serious with him just use him until she finds someone in her league. She maintains her value and calls the shots whereas the low value woman will do his bidding and allow herself to be used as she wants a serious relationship with him. I, personally, would not go to any guys apartment on the first meeting...stupid and unsafe. If a guy can't meet me on my terms I pass him over and I have been called a hot chick.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kay Hawkins This is like me saying, I like sushi. It tastes good. So If anyone doesn’t like sushi they have a bad taste in food
      One of the girls I dated for 6 months was a straight to the house tinder date. She was an amazing chick and hot af

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ScorpionSuerte You live in a trash can?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ScorpionSuerte Ok

  • @valentinjaklar7537
    @valentinjaklar7537 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome! Great transformation and loved how she was invested and chased for him! Thanks man!

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks man. Agreed!

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many alcoholic nymphomaniac type women who have 5 guys around, 1 for each day of the week, yeah, that kind, they won't mind it

  • @xas0n
    @xas0n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Is there a smoother way to ask when shes free/whats your schedule like to set up the date? Because everytime i soft close and say “we should get together sometime soon”, she agrees but then next i say “when are you free” she says “i’ll let you know/im not sure yet” and it fucks me up

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I prefer phrasing it as "what's your schedule like" over "when are you free?". Another thing you can try is to give her a multiple-choice "You free on Wed or Thurs evening?"
      Also, if girls are giving you vague answers when you try to close the issue could be the lack of prior investment.
      Hope that helps.

    • @irvmo91
      @irvmo91 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be more inquisitive. Ask like. So you work weekends? Hows Saturday at 8 sound

    • @A1exS8
      @A1exS8 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      “We should get together sometime soon” sounds very vague🤷🏾‍♂️maybe it isnt inviting enough to get her excited

  • @WeLuvPES
    @WeLuvPES 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hes got the „its gonna be a short but intensive romance“ from rsd max.. best line ever

  • @sotoxp-gaming7650
    @sotoxp-gaming7650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't have problem with the ladies, thank God for giving me looks. I'm lucky. ...I like watching this though. The advice is top tier. GENTLEMEN, pay attention ..this is real world success advice.

  • @Wartah20
    @Wartah20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think he got a different reaction the second time because he didn't come off as dry as the first time

  • @renanlinard7
    @renanlinard7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Two different situations. The first one is more like "flirting" from the beginning. The last, it seems that there's no "flirting" anymore. They are on next level of the conversation. Anyway, good video.

  • @Unbekannt_0012
    @Unbekannt_0012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I dont even want a girl that is not intrestet in me and pulls back by 1 wrong message

    • @ClearChoiceMethodology
      @ClearChoiceMethodology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're taking it the wrong way.. all girls are gonna do that unless there is something wrong with them emotionally.. they do it for their own protection.. its nothing to take offense to. Trust when I say those are the best kind of girls.. because when you finally got them fully opening up to you they never want to leave you alone.. they get obsessed with you and want nothing but you.. its a way healthier relationship and creates a real bond

    • @awesometown1000
      @awesometown1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      notImpressed
      Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t want a girl to be that into me. That’s bordering on stalker behavior, and I don’t wanna deal with that shit.

    • @ClearChoiceMethodology
      @ClearChoiceMethodology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@awesometown1000 she'll end up cheating on you if she isn't that into you.. but if you're the type to take things easy and not get serious about being serious personally I dont think theres anything wrong with that.. some would disagree but to each their own my man

  • @Virtualfantasy1999
    @Virtualfantasy1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you watched this video I feel kinda bad for you

  • @christianthomas1294
    @christianthomas1294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Texting women should be made a major at college

  • @MercyMotlohe
    @MercyMotlohe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been following your steps fa a while now and i gotta say, your know ur stuff👌 i had 4 dates in a week and slept with 3/4 very effective

    • @KTK44
      @KTK44 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And you still feel like shit?

    • @MercyMotlohe
      @MercyMotlohe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KTK44 Nah they workin'

  • @steviepii
    @steviepii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Texting takes too long, like 3 hours to do a 3 minute phone call.

    • @steviepii
      @steviepii 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paper trail is nice tho. Fuck my memory.

    • @scotchwhisky6094
      @scotchwhisky6094 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh, why you spending 3 hours texting? Just get her number or move on.

  • @willdwyer6782
    @willdwyer6782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here's the novel idea. Three women with the respect and dignity they deserve instead of treating them like pieces of meat.

  • @christophschofmann-herzarb1987
    @christophschofmann-herzarb1987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    cheers - very helpful vid!

  • @JF-xm6tu
    @JF-xm6tu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would rather mobile phones never existed. I have had plenty of dates and successes meeting them in person, but off tinder im absolutely hopeless out of 200 matches not one has worked out 🤔 I guess I need to figure out how to transition my personality irl to text. But it's hard

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn man, must be your text game

    • @JF-xm6tu
      @JF-xm6tu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel must be. Sad the we have to deal with these retarded devices though. It's not natural to have to interpret ques out of a box of text

  • @MichaelMartin-xb7tc
    @MichaelMartin-xb7tc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why wouldn't you use a second example that is more common? Like where the girl is hesitant. Not one with a super freak. That took a nice picture of tummy muscles and a heartbeat to convince her to let you take The Canadian Moose Cart for a spin. That was clearly a community rig, available for all existing residents and visitors, unrestricted access and free use

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because I don’t have unlimited amounts of examples. There’s numerous other vids where I do breakdowns with girls who were more hesitant

  • @unleashthefury111
    @unleashthefury111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The big thing that makes all the difference though is that the same guy who has improved his texing game sounds like he has a nice upper body with the abs and all.....of it was just some normal average dude, would the chick be falling for his texting game so much??

  • @kot1pelto
    @kot1pelto 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Had to learn all this shit by myself through trial an error the hard way. Now you can look up a youtube video to do it...

  • @lasfinezt
    @lasfinezt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speaking of tinder, do you need to get the premium or gold membership to actually get a good amount of matches? I feel like there’s something off about these sites. Any given weekend I go out and have mostly successful interactions and have women approach me. On tinder it’s like crickets. I have all selfies on my profile because I’m not a guy who likes to stay glued to his phone or take a lot of pics often. I’m also not a big pet person like most human beings where as I’m neutral and don’t have much interest in owning a pet. I’m not sure why tinder has to be so difficult?

  • @adrianleon1731
    @adrianleon1731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As somebody that struggles with this kind of stuff, this makes me kind of depressed lol. Not sure how I'm going to get this smooth

  • @Psych-yb8zh
    @Psych-yb8zh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    good stuff bro...i just read nick straus on this same topic. it was a good too.

  • @chrissre7935
    @chrissre7935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you mixed up the whole Push Pull concept. The concept is you do the push and pull. Pull is when you say "I would to take you on a date soo much (push her) but you act like a brat.

  • @VNCTSTUDIOS
    @VNCTSTUDIOS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The content I needed!

  • @lanz637
    @lanz637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    300lb Black Guy???? Wow! Really? I'm kinda trying not judge on this choice for an example you supplied.

    • @rrrrr____
      @rrrrr____ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah 300lb guy would have been enough

    • @darkocapone
      @darkocapone 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's a joke chill i'm black there's nothing wrong with what he said 😂

    • @69_bit
      @69_bit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@darkocapone people get so offended these days lol

    • @marcoslightspeed5517
      @marcoslightspeed5517 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@69_bit "cummings" lol

  • @A3hree227
    @A3hree227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Got any tips, im 13. the girl im talking to has a lot of boys sweet talking her everyday. Right now we’re friends.

  • @eg300
    @eg300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. Sounds a bit like Jeffy etp. 2. Do moderate to low interest girls which is pretty 90% of women

  • @MattyTheFatty
    @MattyTheFatty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Push/pull is bs, just don't look desperate and you're good

  • @alexm3392
    @alexm3392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is Tinder though. Different to texting someone you met

  • @ryanj99
    @ryanj99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the voice over lmao

  • @3eeeDee
    @3eeeDee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    In Australia, girls would generally be disgusted in this sort of convo. It’s so shallow.