I've never understood the whole friends with benefits or situationship, it bothers me more that's so much more common nowadays, rather than an actual relationship
Those people are broken mentally so I wouldn’t try and understand it too much. A lot of it is women leveraging the fact they can get easy s3x, but it isn’t easy for them to find a man that they want to commit to them. Hence FWB’s Either your brain is wired to not indulge in that behaviour or it isn’t
Either that or the woman you’re dating or getting to know is still hung up on her ex and she doesn’t tell you about it Another reason why sleeping with lots of people just causes a clusterfu*k for people who want to find actual serious, long lasting relationships
24 years old. Had one serious relationship. Going super well and out of the blue she tells me she's not ready for a relationship after 8 months. Like what?? Shit's rough man. I feel ya.
There was definitely a reason for it, not that it's your fault. Women usually are passive aggressive/lie when leaving men. Keep your head up and good luck in the future man
Im 24 also bro. Spent 5 years with a girl. Be happy you got out early man. I wanted to leave her 2 years into it because some huge red flags and she would threaten suicide andball that. 5 years of hell for the both of us. Couple dozen flings since then and such. Tbh idk what if any advice or support i could give is. There is hope brother. I will say that being promiscuous was both a detriment but a huge boost. Gotta moderate that. Dont put your heart into the next thing you bury a load in. I just made that mistake w a girl still living with her ex cuz we moved along fast
She meant: "not ready for a relationship (with you)." Sorry bro. Best move is to simply say "okay" and never talk to her again unless she comes at you correct.
Social media ruined everything social wise. Aside from that the world is more chaotic today and people want do get their life in a better position before even thinking about starting a family or dating. I think people have it a lot tougher now to get a great job with a good lifestyle that can sustain a relationship long term.
Most women nowadays are radioactive. I have four sisters and they are all batshit crazy in their own way. The one with the longest relationship is a 38 yr old engineer that doesn’t want to get married or have kids. Every time I hung out with her and her boyfriend she was always bickering with him and mocking him in front of me. Her and the rest of my siblings try to manipulate me by talking bad about me to my parents without ever taking to me. No happy birthday texts or anything. I would stay away from women unless you’re really sure about the person you are dating. I caught feelings for my first ex and she’s now married with kids. She promised the world to me love bombing me and telling me she loved me. I still have feelings for her. I’ve dated other women as well. When she left me it felt like all the good parts about me died. I was 19 at the time and felt like I could conquer the world with her by my side. I ended up becoming a raging alcoholic class skipper and now deliver packages for Amazon. They tell you to be a man and move on, but they don’t understand. Most of the guys that say that shit already have their love life figured out. When I had relationships with other women they couldn’t believe that I was single like I was for so long. Looking back, I can’t tell if they were gaslighting me and love bombing me. Knowing women, the opposite was probably true. None of them stuck around anyways. I’m convinced that I’m going to die alone. I do the dating apps as well and no one attractive ever sends me a message when they match with me. Heck, even the 2’s and 3’s don’t message me. I look in the mirror and I have even features. I’m 6 ft and great muscle mass from crew in college. I had college preparatory boarding school experience before college and still got outplayed by other people for jobs because they had the preferred skin color and sex compared to me. Life is unfair, but it shouldn’t be this unfair. It feels like men are being systematically wiped off the map.
Just broke up with my ex of 8 months. This is what I’ve seen and learned so far from relationships to marriages. If your girlfriend or boyfriend has a full time job there’s a 90% chance they are cheating on you. The mentality with most couples is that they can find someone better
I am 25 year old, had 1 relationship that lasted 7 months (when I was 19). It was nice and I was attracted, but after very respectfully communicating to her that I wanted to explore sexual stuff with her (5 months into the relationship), she distanced herself and eventually we broke up. Didnt explain herself. We were both virgins and same age. Now that I am older, I know that she was just mostly looking for a buddy to watch movies with and chill, and she didnt want to do it (had a mental block). But it sure messed me up, because she didnt communicate with me, so I had a conclusion that I am deeply unattractive, and only good as a male-friend for girls. Plus from that time I grew to be very ashamed to express that I have sexual desires. It is tough, I want to have a girlfriend who will be interested in me and want to have sex, but on the other hand there were times where I met random girl at a party and she was too forward and I just froze and I didnt want to do it without having trust and connection with the girl first (plus she was quite drunk). I have been called gay many times, and it frustrated the heck out of me. This idea that straight men only think about sex and only talk about sex and they cant say no to the girl offering, such a BS. I am still a virgin, honestly I am thinking about getting an escort, I am not religious and I just think that it might help me feel more comfortable going there with a girl, once there will be an opportunity to have genuine intercourse. Of course it isnt ideal solution, but what are the odds of finding an attractive girl who is also a virgin, around my age, and not saving herself for marriage. I feel like saying "I never had sex, can you guide me?" to the girl is 8/10 times instant "get out of my house".
Love the commentary. Dating is similar to working a normal job, its a grind that takes up a lot of time and energy. Over time though it will grant you experiences and make you stronger and then when you least expect it someone will enter your life and you'll be thankful for all the old experiences. Keep your head up and keep going
I'm the same age. Never had a gf. I can barely get a girl to text me back. They aren't interested in me at all. I think people like us are destined to be alone.
I have Relationship OCD and one thing i can tell everyone is love is NOT a feeling, it’s always your choice NO MATTER if you loved them before or not. No matter if your forcing it or not. FEELINGS never stay ever they dissapear. But camaraderie and enjoyment ones company (Your partner) does stay. So please don’t let your feelings dictate your love story.
I heard about something similar like this before. It makes a lot of sense because love and dopamine comes in different waves and I experienced that before. Thank you for your comment :)
Had a girlfriend for 7 months and she left, but i was a simp and begged her to stay, then we lasted almost another year and she left again but then she was the simp that time, because she asked me if we could meet up later on. Everyone told me to not be with her, but then we got back together again. A while later we got married and now we have are happier than ever and i can tell neither of us will never leave. i truly believe God joined us together. Not sharing this to brag but to show there's hope even when the odds are stacked against you. I found my wife at a point when i gave up on searching for a gf, but once we started dating it surfaced a lot of relational issues i have. but we worked through them, which proves to me there's hope for anyone
I’m happy for you, but you should protect yourself in case she changes her mind again. Talk to a lawyer at the very least to see what you can do. There are several that do free consultations. There might be a reason why your friends and family tried to warn you. For example, one of my friends told me to not date my ex and he wouldn’t tell me why. Low and behold… she was cheating on me with other guys. Also, 7 months is kind of a short phase before moving onto marriage. I would wait at least 3 years.
Dude, I feel your pain. And online dating is cruel. But if you consider yourself an outgoing person, have asked girls out in the past, have good guy friends and even girl friends, then you're on the right track! You seem to be in control of everything that you can control. I'm certain something/someone will pop up someday :)
And you know what that is? If men started being men and not little passive aggressive plushies. then maybe we would’nt have such cruel, selfish, self entitled women…. But that’s just me.
Women and men have ulterior motives. Unless..... You can connect on the deepest level possible. Which is extremely difficult with responses like. "Yeah." "No." "Hows your day?" "Great." "Good." It's borderline impossible to make a genuine connection without a woman falling head over heels for you.
Thank you for making this vid. It’s always nice to know that there’s still other honest men out there aside from myself that want an honest, good old-fashioned romantic relationship. PS: you’ll find her or she’ll find you don’t give up
As a dude who is also 26, this video really speaks to me. Sometimes, it has felt like I was the only one who is single as all of my friends have relationships, so it is news to me that there are many other guys in their mid twenties in a similar situation as me. Hopefully things can change
Also in the Bhagavad Gita wich is a bit over 5000 years old. It goes into detail about female nature and how society needs to handle it in order to avoid civilization collapsing. I used to think ancient scripture was misogynistic until I began to see the exact same thing playing out today. As soon as women were liberated by a combination of technologies and legal privileges, and given tools like social media, they defaulted to unrestrained hypergamy and promiscuity, wich is the side of the feminine that is socially destructive. People of the past knew better and by enforcing certain societal rules they were not trying to oppress us, but to protect us and their societies.
@@pololikikuju Yes, I could see back then that it was already affecting the people my age and everyone's behaviour was changing. Suddenly you had to pay to see girls now when you used to just hangout at the mall or something
@@samuelmmmk181 Also in the Bhagavad Gita wich is a bit over 5000 years old. It goes into detail about female nature and how society needs to handle it in order to avoid civilization collapsing. I used to think ancient scripture was misogynistic until I began to see the exact same thing playing out today. As soon as women were liberated by a combination of technologies and legal privileges, and given tools like social media, they defaulted to unrestrained hypergamy and promiscuity, wich is the side of the feminine that is socially destructive. People of the past knew better and by enforcing certain societal rules they were not trying to oppress us, but to protect us and their societies.
@@pololikikuju I very much agree. I also used to think that as well until I saw the modern society as a whole start acting like a single mother the moment people stopped getting punched for how they treat others.
28 here. Only 1 serious relationship. Met her as a Freshman in college and dated her for about 8 years. There were good and fun times, but I also gave her way more second chances then she deserved tbh. She was bipolar (but didn't know it yet) and had a drinking problem. Over time, my friends didn't even want to hear me vent about her anymore. Breaking away from her affected me a lot, and meeting people is so much harder after college.
S*xtortion is absolutely scary, Im glad you used your senses to get out of a debacle. Got into one of those myself at a time I was working 70 hours a week warehouse job and feeling desperate. Thought about overdosing until a friend of mine told me to simply play it off and not care. Thankfully everyone who did contact me about the situation understood and I've treated online dating like walking in a minefield since.
Never had it happen to me, but it seems pretty common nowadays. False accusations should be penalized with a 20 yr sentence imo. I would recommend getting a private investigator to see if you can get stop them from ruining other people’s lives.
@@AmaryxGamesYTAny man worth his salt that hasn't gotten into college most likely has tried warehousing for at least a year. Some like this PVC pipe factory I worked at were absolutely hell on my allergies while others were actually sustainable if they didn't work us 70+ hours on the norm. It was a miracle I met someone who understood 4 times a year I'd literally have 6 hours a week to see her in person. :/
@@brokenhanz-o4mI had a private investigator but I stopped contacting and dropped the case, fearing my family would kick me out when they heard the situation as my Mom and her boyfriend are very strict. Not to mention a month later I got romantically involved with another girl. With it being my best relationship, I chose being happy over being vengeful. Years later I watched some Dr Phil, found out the term s*xtortion and worst of all, learned other guys took their own lives over it. The whole online dating market is a minefield like I said.
people need intimacy, most search for it in relationships but few plan ahead, rarely anyone is ready to date. its not about being there and just loving eachother until you dont anymore, you dont start at 100% you have to work yourself up there, build something together ontop of what you allready have in common. its hard and usually you have to spend a lot of time to figure out what works for you and what you actually want before even going out and searching for someone. its a lot of work, people rather go into stale, replaceable relatioships, than commit to someone they would know they have a good shot at being with for a big part of thier life because they only ever stress themselves how hard it would be to even start.
I feel you brother not to get religious or preachy but if you spend your time on opening your existence into spirituality it will change the way to move,think, feel, and just overall live for the better. I grew up on a college town and if you think the women you tried talking to got stuff going on, trust me brother these mfs are tweaking as of late. I graduate in a month and looking forward to the future whether that be single or with someone I can trust with my energy. Walk tall brother forever and always 🤝🏼
24, never had any relationship(s). Had the opportunity for one on a silver platter in high school, turned it down when girl herself and other classmates would imply we should fuck like rabbits basically whenever we were in the room with one another… the techno-crazy world we inhabit today has made everyone so distant yet everything so over-sexualized. I long to find something real with someone someday and have tried, haven’t gotten anything besides FwB or the like. Reassuring that there are plenty similar situations of people my age, though.
This popped up in my recommendations just in the right place and right time. I'm also 26 and it's been a year since I ended my 3 year serious relationship. I just met this girl that I have this incredible connection and we can talk and talk and it never feels forced or unnatural. We quickly gravitated towards each other and went on a date and spent a whole night just talking about life. It's been a long time since I felt this way about someone. What's the catch you ask ? Well ... she has a boyfriend that's polyamorous and she is completely lost with the whole situation - she told me that from the very beginning and we agreed to just meet each other but then ... when we got to talking and sharing smiles I started remembering what romantic love used to feel like and started falling for her. Told her about it right away and we tried to talk about just being friends but I know I can't do it like that. But I'm happy that I tried and I'm happy that I can still fall for someone like that and talk with someone with this much passion. Keep hanging in there guys - dating is hard as fuck but you won't find love if you don't get burned
I know how you feel man. There's a small community bringing back the COD Commentary vids and I used to make them as a kid. Nothing wrong with old but gold
Yeah dating women just made me wanna delete myself so I switched sides and well I’m still here shitty but and I’m not bad looking but I just am over it. Someone press the button plz.
If you don’t have status, network, looks… you’re not getting the girl you want. If you have those things…. You’ll have a slight skeptic feeling of “what is she truly with me for”. TBH I’ve had the best experience with foreign women, just naturally feminine and a breathe of fresh air. Btw Zherka has the best breakdown on female psychology and how to combat the dating market in the west
I ain't gonna lie rewatching this. I do sound sad and mopey but I was nervous as shit because I dont open up much on the Internet 😂 thank you guys so much for watching!
Humans are naturally social creatures. It’s no wonder there’s a mental health epidemic since the dawn of the smartphone, when men and women are so disconnected these days We weren’t designed to be alone. That’s great if you actually genuinely like that, but it’s not the norm and is probably a huge reason for the Male un alive rates
I have been single for 3 years and I run two TH-cam channels and have some good friends lol. I'm pretty happy with myself for the most part and I'm working on myself all the time by going after my passions. I'm not afraid to be alone but the dating world is rough. I wasn't talking just about me but I'm talking about everyone as well
For the first time in a while. I had a relationship that was really clean and with great communication. She broke up with me. Trying to hold on to the positive. We have to keep going mates… But damn is it hard.
I live in Missouri aswell and most of the girls I talked to just dont engage in conversations and drop them fast or are just fake and moving into college as a freshman it's just party all day or study all day and go home. I also think covid plays into a big part of these things because everyone feels so detached
Exposure. You need to expose yourself to females man. Whether it’s a club, community, work, or an event. Get out there and socialize. Dating app’s are dogshit as we know. I work in a large hospital, and this is a gold mine for a single man. I hear about so many life stories of these single good looking women. So grateful for this industry I work in, but am committed with my 5 year long girlfriend. Now say you’re in the trades, working away in a steel plant, have fun finding your wife in the workplace. Life is incredibly more difficult in the relationship department. Honestly bro, apply to ur local hospital 🤣🤣
@@lucasliboiron7342 I hear them hospital girls and nurses be cheating but what do I know? I never been to a club so that'll probably be a start 😂 I do plan on getting a haircut.
31 year old man here. I was basically raised online. Ive been chatting online since about 11 and on dating websites since about 20 or so. Things are CATASTROPHIC now. Bots EVERYWHERE. prices out of control. Algorithms hiding your profile to increase your likelihood of purchasing. only one company owning almost everything. Online was amazing. Hell I met multiple girls from xbox live games. We realized we were in the same city and met up. The internet is too mainstream, sterile and commercialized now. Its back to real life to be a rebel lol. But listen fellas, work on yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. Make sure to get an allergen test. Cutting out food allergens can reduce SO MUCH inflammation and eliminate health problems. Seriously do it. Also eat carnivore or keto/ketovore. You start eating low carb no junk food that you arent allergic to and its life changing.
I worked full time in a warehouse from oct 2019-feb of this year. Did college in that time and saved up enough money to move overseas, buy a house, enroll in a language school, and marry. I only recommend grinding in a job like that if you have the discipline to save every penny and live as a spartan so once you're out you're out for good. I saw how miserable older people were working there that had 5, 10, 15, 20+ years in and decided that was NEVER going to be me after about my fourth month at that company. Being real about the nature of women is something that gets you in trouble nowadays, I'm a married man so I think I know a thing or two about it, but I'll just say no comment when it comes to that subject. 😂😂
Unpopular opinion but A transactional and materialistic relationships are Normal. The whole trope of "love" triumphs all is kinda a romanticization in general. Dont know how to explain it more but Prioritizing market focus and material goals can enhance economic independence, allowing them to control their financial destiny. Economic empowerment often translates to more freedom in life choices, such as career shifts, travel, and family planning. In a world where financial security is increasingly tied to quality of life, Market focus instills a sense of pragmatism, preparing people to handle unexpected life events such as job loss, economic downturns, or family emergencies. This approach fosters resilience and preparedness, creating a more stable and secure future.
That's obsolete if your whole plan goes to shit 😂. I think life is short and it's good to believe in love, meanwhile everyone is cold and selfish about it. However, money shouldn't be ignored, I think it shouldn't be worshipped. Love is a special thing and should be cherished.
Good video i agree on a lot said in the video but i also do have my own thoughts on dating nowadays too like how i believe not everyone finds love and that not every marriage is a marriage based on love a lot of married couples now are based on looking good in front of family members and friends or only get married out of desperation rather then waiting for the right person its also just not really worth the effort anymore when people have insane requirements for what they want in a partner woman do this quite a lot nowadays and us men end up being left by the woman when we cant reach those impossible requirements
Yeah it is. I wish I never even dated in the first place. I'm better off by myself. It's what I'm used to. I've accepted this and that is okay. I get to do things I like to do. Yeah, no legacy but I'd rather be a father to my kid and that doesn't seem like an option for a lot of us. Hopefully you do acquire that for yourself. So no kids for me. No wife. I'm okay with that. I'm definitely out of that whole situation for life. Good luck.
Interesting video i would say i don't feel empty inside being chronically single lol but i do feel lonely half the time im 30 i feel a lot of people are going through it right now
Yeah I understand. I don't feel empty about being single but I felt like crap after a One Night Stand and honestly don't know how people do it without the connection
Dating is hard. Hardcore search and destroy is hard. You don't stop playing when you lose even when SBMM people keep playing till they prestige. So don't give up on dating, get out there
I totally understand you dude, Dating can feel like a lot these days, I feel like we don’t have to stress too much about it. It’s easy to get caught up in the apps and feel like you *have* to find someone right away, but honestly, the best connections happen when you’re just being yourself and not overthinking everything. Maybe try having real-life meetups, even casual ones, can feel way more natural. Go into dates just hoping to have a good time, not trying to force anything. And if it doesn’t work out, no big deal. Don’t settle for less than you deserve, but also don’t expect perfection on the first try. Dating’s all about finding your groove and having patience; the right person will click when the time’s right. Just stay relaxed and let it happen you know.
It's all good! On my older videos, I was a teenager on this channel back in high school. Looking back my personality isn't too different besides being more confident on video and moved out 😂@@jamesbofill8595
I'm just throwing a comment in here because I am very lucky and have been in a very healthy relationship for a bit. I am 23 years old, and my spouse is 22. We met online, surprisingly enough, and have been dating for a bit over 2 years now. She ended up moving to me, which was a solid 1,580 km away. Dating is extremely hard, yes. My spouse, Pluto, actually didn't date anyone until we met. Their first relationship was when they had just turned 20. I, on the other hand, had a lot of relationships, unfortunately. A lot of very unhealthy ones, and I was unhappy in all of them nearly. Pluto and I have had a very hard time getting to properly understand each other in our relationship. Most of that is due to our problems we have as people. Pluto stopped interacting with their toxic family, but that took a while for them to recognize that they were unhealthy. I realized a lot for myself as well, like having a very unhealthy family too. And also having dissociative personality disorder. Basically. It's been a rollercoaster for us, and love is really hard no matter what. But people are out there. Pluto just showed up one day and took interest in me because I showed them kindness and respect. They did the same, I became interested, it went from there.
Honestly, I relate to an extent. Except I definitely do better online than in person. I would say the answer nowadays is look for someone overseas (Philippines, Thailand,etc.) The women there seem to give guys a chance no matter what.
I’m married with one kid and one on the way. I’m not gonna sit here and tell you the cliché bullshit. Relationship start with YOU. Every single person on earth has issues and trauma. All these things play major roles in relationships. Your mental state will play a major factor on how you express yourself. Trauma will hold you back because it creates insecurities and fear. Seek closure whether it’s therapy, religion, art, or closure with a person. Then you start to mature and grow as person. Thus you create confidence and even have a filter for who’s worth it and who’s a waste of time.
Hey man I hope things work out for you and you are able to find a girl. I am in a similar situation and I am 26 in Michigan. For me I asked a girl I really liked in high school and she said yes at first, but said no once we started texting. Then later when I was 20 I started online dating and found a girl to date for 3 months and I really liked her but then she broke up with me and I later realized she had lied to me about a lot and had dated 40 other guys. After that I focused on my career and got a masters and been in a high paying job for a while. I have been on my own for a few years and I am in great shape in the gym 4 times a week. I have been going on dating apps again, and getting out more and unfortunately still go nothing but did try to start things with about 5 girls I knew. It really sucks but I am hopeful that it will be worth the wait. And now I am seeing the marriages from friends 3-5 years ago now fall apart or not seem so good.
I feel you! I have a couple of really good women who are friends in my life. I never had anything longer than 2 months but I'm hopeful and have hand a good amount of relationships to know what I want and I'm confident. I'm just a hopeless romantic I think and most people don't communicate. For me I have terrible timing and sometimes bad luck too :/
It was a weird change when cod commentaries went to cut comms. Cod commentaries are better because theres a good gameplay in the background. A cut comm is just live commentary where the creator cuts only the talking in the video and nothing in the gameplay necessarily even happens or maybe its just running around and dying
The dating scene in america is a joke nowadays especially for men. That's why american men move away from the US to another country to be happy and build a family for themselves and being respected for being who they are a man.
Yo dude! I have no idea why I got recommended your video or even why I clicked on it, but I am glad it happened. Your twenties are weird dude. Just embrace the weird and the suck. The wins will come. I am similar to you in a lot of ways. You've already got the recipe for success and that's to keep doing you. The bullshit is just a good story for later. It'll all work out in the end. Count on it.
Thank you man! I appreciate it and I'm NGL I wasn't expecting this video to get any recognition at all considering this channel had 290 dead subs from the previous attempt. I don't give up easily thankfully
Hookup culture is fun in the moment, but nobody wants to talk about how toxic it actually is. Both parties involved usually feel terrible afterwards. Experiencing a true romantic relationship through all aspects of growth, positive and negative is obviously not something one should constantly want because it can hinder you from working on your own things in life. But at the same time, companionship is so nice and finding that person is such a warm feeling. Idk. I just watched normal people on Hulu recently and it had me wanting to experience love like that 😹😹😹 I’m also 26 btw.
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When I was 26 i ping ponged with 5 different women , i didnt wish for anyone to get hurt so before sex and stuff i told about each other Some said no and that was fine and some Agreed cus they ping ponged as well. We had some rules during dates, when we were together no phones or talking about orther lovers. The dates could be dinner Romantic get aways, movie nights. Gift shopping and in the end alot of sex The reason why I did like i did was. I wanted to find that extra someone Someone that would listen to me hold me when my world broke down someone that understood me without explaning for hours Laughing with me and not at me. Love me for who i am, someone that didnt want my money but just me I felled so empty at some days i couldnt even look my self in a mirror. I was in so much pain. But finally i found her. That extra someone, we have been together for 4 years now. I owe her so much and I love her because of it Every day im thankfull. One day yall will find that extra someone And your gonna fell the same. Keep that chin up m8 stay strong💎
@tankbomber55 You definitely can my mate used to go to the gym at like 5am before work and was in an amateur boxing match and he's put 6k hours in DOTA 2 and god knows how many in Starcraft 2
You right if I were complaining but this channel is talking about stuff that goes on in my life and some of it can be relatable to other people. I'm talking about how hard dating is as a whole not just me bro 😂 obviously there's other people that relate. I also made a warehouse video I used to work at that others could relate. Does that mean I'm complaining about my job? 🤷♂️
@ Well, unfortunately dating is different than a warehouse job. Dating is stupid and kids born 2003 and up are immature as shit. They’re part of the iPhone and tiktik generation.
Find a white women and be good to her. Your expectations will destroy everything. Patience, consequences, and showing comparisons between bad and good behavior will eventually have her and you getting along very well. The patience is the hard part. Sometimes it hurts, alot.
Must suck to be a hopeless romantic 😂😂😂 you guy's heart is in the wrong place 🤦. Free yourselves! 🪽 Find your strength and stop looking forward to leaning on someone for that inner strength. Understand none of us will see 2100 so get out of your ego and allowing fomo to drain you to where you cant see the gift of the present
@AmaryxGamesYT it's right in front of our faces every step of the way. If it was up to me we would be in better circumstances. As for the comment I speak for myself too. I'm not criticizing anyone in particular
I've never understood the whole friends with benefits or situationship, it bothers me more that's so much more common nowadays, rather than an actual relationship
Yeah me either honestly lol
People are so perverted these days. Bunch of sickos 🤮
Those people are broken mentally so I wouldn’t try and understand it too much. A lot of it is women leveraging the fact they can get easy s3x, but it isn’t easy for them to find a man that they want to commit to them. Hence FWB’s
Either your brain is wired to not indulge in that behaviour or it isn’t
Instant gratification has poisoned everyone's minds. Nobody wants to work for something and see where it might go.
@MrHayabusaSan Sad because that's something I really want to do, see where it goes with a girl that could possibly want something serious with me
Nowadays everyone wants all of the benefits of being in a relationship without actually being in one.
@@DiKapLeo Yeah it does feel that way sometimes
People can not decide to commit to something.
Either that or the woman you’re dating or getting to know is still hung up on her ex and she doesn’t tell you about it
Another reason why sleeping with lots of people just causes a clusterfu*k for people who want to find actual serious, long lasting relationships
facts
Everyone I went to school with act like I don't even exist anymore so it's not just dating that's hard.
Me a 22 year old watching this who has never been in relationship before:
Hmm, Interesting.
24 years old. Had one serious relationship. Going super well and out of the blue she tells me she's not ready for a relationship after 8 months. Like what??
Shit's rough man. I feel ya.
She probably found someone else that she liked more than you😬🤷♂
There was definitely a reason for it, not that it's your fault. Women usually are passive aggressive/lie when leaving men. Keep your head up and good luck in the future man
Im 24 also bro. Spent 5 years with a girl. Be happy you got out early man. I wanted to leave her 2 years into it because some huge red flags and she would threaten suicide andball that. 5 years of hell for the both of us. Couple dozen flings since then and such. Tbh idk what if any advice or support i could give is. There is hope brother.
I will say that being promiscuous was both a detriment but a huge boost. Gotta moderate that. Dont put your heart into the next thing you bury a load in. I just made that mistake w a girl still living with her ex cuz we moved along fast
She meant: "not ready for a relationship (with you)."
Sorry bro. Best move is to simply say "okay" and never talk to her again unless she comes at you correct.
She is, just not with you. That’s just the way things are sometimes, it’s not even you, it’s them
Social media ruined everything social wise. Aside from that the world is more chaotic today and people want do get their life in a better position before even thinking about starting a family or dating. I think people have it a lot tougher now to get a great job with a good lifestyle that can sustain a relationship long term.
Most women nowadays are radioactive. I have four sisters and they are all batshit crazy in their own way. The one with the longest relationship is a 38 yr old engineer that doesn’t want to get married or have kids.
Every time I hung out with her and her boyfriend she was always bickering with him and mocking him in front of me. Her and the rest of my siblings try to manipulate me by talking bad about me to my parents without ever taking to me. No happy birthday texts or anything.
I would stay away from women unless you’re really sure about the person you are dating. I caught feelings for my first ex and she’s now married with kids. She promised the world to me love bombing me and telling me she loved me. I still have feelings for her. I’ve dated other women as well. When she left me it felt like all the good parts about me died. I was 19 at the time and felt like I could conquer the world with her by my side. I ended up becoming a raging alcoholic class skipper and now deliver packages for Amazon.
They tell you to be a man and move on, but they don’t understand. Most of the guys that say that shit already have their love life figured out.
When I had relationships with other women they couldn’t believe that I was single like I was for so long. Looking back, I can’t tell if they were gaslighting me and love bombing me. Knowing women, the opposite was probably true. None of them stuck around anyways.
I’m convinced that I’m going to die alone. I do the dating apps as well and no one attractive ever sends me a message when they match with me. Heck, even the 2’s and 3’s don’t message me. I look in the mirror and I have even features. I’m 6 ft and great muscle mass from crew in college. I had college preparatory boarding school experience before college and still got outplayed by other people for jobs because they had the preferred skin color and sex compared to me.
Life is unfair, but it shouldn’t be this unfair. It feels like men are being systematically wiped off the map.
Most women work at jobs these days. I hardly see any male employees
@@LilXancheXmaybe stop going to Starbucks
Damn my man at least you experienced passion and choice.
Just broke up with my ex of 8 months. This is what I’ve seen and learned so far from relationships to marriages. If your girlfriend or boyfriend has a full time job there’s a 90% chance they are cheating on you. The mentality with most couples is that they can find someone better
I am 25 year old, had 1 relationship that lasted 7 months (when I was 19). It was nice and I was attracted, but after very respectfully communicating to her that I wanted to explore sexual stuff with her (5 months into the relationship), she distanced herself and eventually we broke up. Didnt explain herself. We were both virgins and same age. Now that I am older, I know that she was just mostly looking for a buddy to watch movies with and chill, and she didnt want to do it (had a mental block). But it sure messed me up, because she didnt communicate with me, so I had a conclusion that I am deeply unattractive, and only good as a male-friend for girls.
Plus from that time I grew to be very ashamed to express that I have sexual desires. It is tough, I want to have a girlfriend who will be interested in me and want to have sex, but on the other hand there were times where I met random girl at a party and she was too forward and I just froze and I didnt want to do it without having trust and connection with the girl first (plus she was quite drunk).
I have been called gay many times, and it frustrated the heck out of me. This idea that straight men only think about sex and only talk about sex and they cant say no to the girl offering, such a BS.
I am still a virgin, honestly I am thinking about getting an escort, I am not religious and I just think that it might help me feel more comfortable going there with a girl, once there will be an opportunity to have genuine intercourse. Of course it isnt ideal solution, but what are the odds of finding an attractive girl who is also a virgin, around my age, and not saving herself for marriage. I feel like saying "I never had sex, can you guide me?" to the girl is 8/10 times instant "get out of my house".
Brother...did you actually fucking let her string you along...FOR FIVE MOTHERFUCKING MONTHS????
Love the commentary. Dating is similar to working a normal job, its a grind that takes up a lot of time and energy. Over time though it will grant you experiences and make you stronger and then when you least expect it someone will enter your life and you'll be thankful for all the old experiences. Keep your head up and keep going
Thank you WhyLearn! Life is hard sometimes but you do have to keep going! Hopefully with time and patience, things will get better!
I just realized I commented on my other account lmao oh well
Exactly lol. Dating is like finding that job, and if you’re not qualified then you’re not getting that job
yeah 27 years old here... i had 1 relationship idc anymore I am focusing on becoming a qualified accountant. i can only invest in my self.
Literally 😂
I'm the same age. Never had a gf. I can barely get a girl to text me back. They aren't interested in me at all. I think people like us are destined to be alone.
@@tyronewilson7890hang in there man. Never stop self improving and they’ll come
@@tyronewilson7890 I was ok whe I was 19 but after my tragedy with my dad and boom I lost all interest in life kind of things
@@tyronewilson7890I feel ya on that brother.
I too am 24 and really suffer that I've never found a partner. Every girl I meet is non-single.
And I'm not Western Coast, I'm Italian!
I have Relationship OCD and one thing i can tell everyone is love is NOT a feeling, it’s always your choice NO MATTER if you loved them before or not. No matter if your forcing it or not. FEELINGS never stay ever they dissapear. But camaraderie and enjoyment ones company (Your partner) does stay. So please don’t let your feelings dictate your love story.
I heard about something similar like this before. It makes a lot of sense because love and dopamine comes in different waves and I experienced that before. Thank you for your comment :)
I agree love is not a feeling its a choice, there are many kinds of love. I feel like Pragma love makes the most sense.
Had a girlfriend for 7 months and she left, but i was a simp and begged her to stay, then we lasted almost another year and she left again but then she was the simp that time, because she asked me if we could meet up later on.
Everyone told me to not be with her, but then we got back together again.
A while later we got married and now we have are happier than ever and i can tell neither of us will never leave.
i truly believe God joined us together.
Not sharing this to brag but to show there's hope even when the odds are stacked against you.
I found my wife at a point when i gave up on searching for a gf, but once we started dating it surfaced a lot of relational issues i have. but we worked through them, which proves to me there's hope for anyone
I’m happy for you, but you should protect yourself in case she changes her mind again. Talk to a lawyer at the very least to see what you can do. There are several that do free consultations. There might be a reason why your friends and family tried to warn you. For example, one of my friends told me to not date my ex and he wouldn’t tell me why. Low and behold… she was cheating on me with other guys. Also, 7 months is kind of a short phase before moving onto marriage. I would wait at least 3 years.
@@brokenhanz-o4m why 3 years? Who are you to tell him to wait that long?
Dude, I feel your pain. And online dating is cruel. But if you consider yourself an outgoing person, have asked girls out in the past, have good guy friends and even girl friends, then you're on the right track! You seem to be in control of everything that you can control. I'm certain something/someone will pop up someday :)
I’m 25 and only have had an online relationship. I really want to get married and have children. Something’s got to change in the system.
You're not alone man. I'm 27 and in the same situation
And you know what that is? If men started being men and not little passive aggressive plushies. then maybe we would’nt have such cruel, selfish, self entitled women….
But that’s just me.
It's sooo much easier to just give up, especially now that we got Black ops 6. I'm about to take a cruise too
Women and men have ulterior motives. Unless..... You can connect on the deepest level possible. Which is extremely difficult with responses like. "Yeah." "No." "Hows your day?" "Great." "Good." It's borderline impossible to make a genuine connection without a woman falling head over heels for you.
Thank you for making this vid. It’s always nice to know that there’s still other honest men out there aside from myself that want an honest, good old-fashioned romantic relationship.
PS: you’ll find her or she’ll find you don’t give up
As a fellow 26 year old in MO yeah this hits home. TH-cam Algorithm callin me out HARD lol
As a dude who is also 26, this video really speaks to me. Sometimes, it has felt like I was the only one who is single as all of my friends have relationships, so it is news to me that there are many other guys in their mid twenties in a similar situation as me. Hopefully things can change
It's good to hear! And yes it's definitely a problem for a lot of people. It's good that I'm not the only one. People suck sometimes
Also in the Bhagavad Gita wich is a bit over 5000 years old. It goes into detail about female nature and how society needs to handle it in order to avoid civilization collapsing. I used to think ancient scripture was misogynistic until I began to see the exact same thing playing out today. As soon as women were liberated by a combination of technologies and legal privileges, and given tools like social media, they defaulted to unrestrained hypergamy and promiscuity, wich is the side of the feminine that is socially destructive. People of the past knew better and by enforcing certain societal rules they were not trying to oppress us, but to protect us and their societies.
@@pololikikuju True. They were "Misogynistic" for a reason. They Knew Women Being Completely Liberated Led To Societal Collapse
Man, it's been wack since 2012 honestly brother.
Western society is trash now
That's precisely the year when smartphones / social media became mainstream.. Deadly combo. It was a downhill from there
@@pololikikuju Yes, I could see back then that it was already affecting the people my age and everyone's behaviour was changing. Suddenly you had to pay to see girls now when you used to just hangout at the mall or something
@@samuelmmmk181 Also in the Bhagavad Gita wich is a bit over 5000 years old. It goes into detail about female nature and how society needs to handle it in order to avoid civilization collapsing. I used to think ancient scripture was misogynistic until I began to see the exact same thing playing out today. As soon as women were liberated by a combination of technologies and legal privileges, and given tools like social media, they defaulted to unrestrained hypergamy and promiscuity, wich is the side of the feminine that is socially destructive. People of the past knew better and by enforcing certain societal rules they were not trying to oppress us, but to protect us and their societies.
@@pololikikuju I very much agree. I also used to think that as well until I saw the modern society as a whole start acting like a single mother the moment people stopped getting punched for how they treat others.
28 here. Only 1 serious relationship. Met her as a Freshman in college and dated her for about 8 years. There were good and fun times, but I also gave her way more second chances then she deserved tbh. She was bipolar (but didn't know it yet) and had a drinking problem. Over time, my friends didn't even want to hear me vent about her anymore. Breaking away from her affected me a lot, and meeting people is so much harder after college.
It’s simps like you who create bad women like these. Stop giving them “second chances” man and start giving yourself a chance.
S*xtortion is absolutely scary, Im glad you used your senses to get out of a debacle. Got into one of those myself at a time I was working 70 hours a week warehouse job and feeling desperate. Thought about overdosing until a friend of mine told me to simply play it off and not care. Thankfully everyone who did contact me about the situation understood and I've treated online dating like walking in a minefield since.
Yeah I felt that. That's funny that you mentioned warehouse because I legit made a warehouse commentary vid after this one 🤣
Never had it happen to me, but it seems pretty common nowadays. False accusations should be penalized with a 20 yr sentence imo. I would recommend getting a private investigator to see if you can get stop them from ruining other people’s lives.
@@AmaryxGamesYTAny man worth his salt that hasn't gotten into college most likely has tried warehousing for at least a year. Some like this PVC pipe factory I worked at were absolutely hell on my allergies while others were actually sustainable if they didn't work us 70+ hours on the norm. It was a miracle I met someone who understood 4 times a year I'd literally have 6 hours a week to see her in person. :/
@@brokenhanz-o4mI had a private investigator but I stopped contacting and dropped the case, fearing my family would kick me out when they heard the situation as my Mom and her boyfriend are very strict. Not to mention a month later I got romantically involved with another girl. With it being my best relationship, I chose being happy over being vengeful. Years later I watched some Dr Phil, found out the term s*xtortion and worst of all, learned other guys took their own lives over it. The whole online dating market is a minefield like I said.
people need intimacy, most search for it in relationships but few plan ahead, rarely anyone is ready to date. its not about being there and just loving eachother until you dont anymore, you dont start at 100% you have to work yourself up there, build something together ontop of what you allready have in common. its hard and usually you have to spend a lot of time to figure out what works for you and what you actually want before even going out and searching for someone. its a lot of work, people rather go into stale, replaceable relatioships, than commit to someone they would know they have a good shot at being with for a big part of thier life because they only ever stress themselves how hard it would be to even start.
I feel you brother not to get religious or preachy but if you spend your time on opening your existence into spirituality it will change the way to move,think, feel, and just overall live for the better. I grew up on a college town and if you think the women you tried talking to got stuff going on, trust me brother these mfs are tweaking as of late. I graduate in a month and looking forward to the future whether that be single or with someone I can trust with my energy. Walk tall brother forever and always 🤝🏼
Im 36 still single, it has its perks financially for sure
Wow I didn't expect to see you here! I'm a big Kingdom Hearts fan and I used to watch your videos as a kid!
24, never had any relationship(s). Had the opportunity for one on a silver platter in high school, turned it down when girl herself and other classmates would imply we should fuck like rabbits basically whenever we were in the room with one another… the techno-crazy world we inhabit today has made everyone so distant yet everything so over-sexualized. I long to find something real with someone someday and have tried, haven’t gotten anything besides FwB or the like. Reassuring that there are plenty similar situations of people my age, though.
Join the club dude. Most 20 something guys are struggling, bad. You're definitely not in the minority.
This popped up in my recommendations just in the right place and right time. I'm also 26 and it's been a year since I ended my 3 year serious relationship. I just met this girl that I have this incredible connection and we can talk and talk and it never feels forced or unnatural. We quickly gravitated towards each other and went on a date and spent a whole night just talking about life. It's been a long time since I felt this way about someone. What's the catch you ask ? Well ... she has a boyfriend that's polyamorous and she is completely lost with the whole situation - she told me that from the very beginning and we agreed to just meet each other but then ... when we got to talking and sharing smiles I started remembering what romantic love used to feel like and started falling for her. Told her about it right away and we tried to talk about just being friends but I know I can't do it like that. But I'm happy that I tried and I'm happy that I can still fall for someone like that and talk with someone with this much passion. Keep hanging in there guys - dating is hard as fuck but you won't find love if you don't get burned
What hurts me is seeing someone make a commentary, while having modern warfare gameplay in the background. This is so damn nostalgic man 🥲
I know how you feel man. There's a small community bringing back the COD Commentary vids and I used to make them as a kid. Nothing wrong with old but gold
Yeah dating women just made me wanna delete myself so I switched sides and well I’m still here shitty but and I’m not bad looking but I just am over it. Someone press the button plz.
If you don’t have status, network, looks… you’re not getting the girl you want. If you have those things…. You’ll have a slight skeptic feeling of “what is she truly with me for”. TBH I’ve had the best experience with foreign women, just naturally feminine and a breathe of fresh air. Btw Zherka has the best breakdown on female psychology and how to combat the dating market in the west
nah, talk to her with confidence, be funny. Be realistic with expectations or work on yourself to get a more exceptional partner
I ain't gonna lie rewatching this. I do sound sad and mopey but I was nervous as shit because I dont open up much on the Internet 😂 thank you guys so much for watching!
Why can't people be alone 😂 I've never understood having to be with someone 24/7. People just dont like themselves do they lol
Humans are naturally social creatures. It’s no wonder there’s a mental health epidemic since the dawn of the smartphone, when men and women are so disconnected these days
We weren’t designed to be alone. That’s great if you actually genuinely like that, but it’s not the norm and is probably a huge reason for the Male un alive rates
I have been single for 3 years and I run two TH-cam channels and have some good friends lol. I'm pretty happy with myself for the most part and I'm working on myself all the time by going after my passions. I'm not afraid to be alone but the dating world is rough. I wasn't talking just about me but I'm talking about everyone as well
BEcasue Ive been alone for almost 3 decades... I just want to feel what its like to have someone next to me
For the first time in a while. I had a relationship that was really clean and with great communication.
She broke up with me. Trying to hold on to the positive.
We have to keep going mates…
But damn is it hard.
I live in Missouri aswell and most of the girls I talked to just dont engage in conversations and drop them fast or are just fake and moving into college as a freshman it's just party all day or study all day and go home. I also think covid plays into a big part of these things because everyone feels so detached
Bro i have been single since 2014 i feel you i am severely depressed and i am 34 years old.
Give it up gramps
34 a youngin, go gettem tiger
You still haven't given up? Go form a relationship with God, that is the most fulfilling.
@@Allblaster Well i am a christian tho lol.
Exposure. You need to expose yourself to females man. Whether it’s a club, community, work, or an event. Get out there and socialize. Dating app’s are dogshit as we know.
I work in a large hospital, and this is a gold mine for a single man. I hear about so many life stories of these single good looking women. So grateful for this industry I work in, but am committed with my 5 year long girlfriend.
Now say you’re in the trades, working away in a steel plant, have fun finding your wife in the workplace. Life is incredibly more difficult in the relationship department.
Honestly bro, apply to ur local hospital 🤣🤣
Oh and bro, some advice: change up ur hairstyle maybe. Look more like a stud with a buzzcut
@@lucasliboiron7342 I hear them hospital girls and nurses be cheating but what do I know? I never been to a club so that'll probably be a start 😂 I do plan on getting a haircut.
31 year old man here. I was basically raised online. Ive been chatting online since about 11 and on dating websites since about 20 or so. Things are CATASTROPHIC now. Bots EVERYWHERE. prices out of control. Algorithms hiding your profile to increase your likelihood of purchasing. only one company owning almost everything. Online was amazing. Hell I met multiple girls from xbox live games. We realized we were in the same city and met up. The internet is too mainstream, sterile and commercialized now. Its back to real life to be a rebel lol. But listen fellas, work on yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. Make sure to get an allergen test. Cutting out food allergens can reduce SO MUCH inflammation and eliminate health problems. Seriously do it. Also eat carnivore or keto/ketovore. You start eating low carb no junk food that you arent allergic to and its life changing.
I worked full time in a warehouse from oct 2019-feb of this year. Did college in that time and saved up enough money to move overseas, buy a house, enroll in a language school, and marry. I only recommend grinding in a job like that if you have the discipline to save every penny and live as a spartan so once you're out you're out for good. I saw how miserable older people were working there that had 5, 10, 15, 20+ years in and decided that was NEVER going to be me after about my fourth month at that company. Being real about the nature of women is something that gets you in trouble nowadays, I'm a married man so I think I know a thing or two about it, but I'll just say no comment when it comes to that subject. 😂😂
Unpopular opinion but A transactional and materialistic relationships are Normal. The whole trope of "love" triumphs all is kinda a romanticization in general. Dont know how to explain it more but Prioritizing market focus and material goals can enhance economic independence, allowing them to control their financial destiny. Economic empowerment often translates to more freedom in life choices, such as career shifts, travel, and family planning. In a world where financial security is increasingly tied to quality of life, Market focus instills a sense of pragmatism, preparing people to handle unexpected life events such as job loss, economic downturns, or family emergencies. This approach fosters resilience and preparedness, creating a more stable and secure future.
Ya good point and I’m 29 and money has become more of topic as we get older and now the Gen z woman want a “lifestyle” so ya money is now the forplay
That's obsolete if your whole plan goes to shit 😂. I think life is short and it's good to believe in love, meanwhile everyone is cold and selfish about it. However, money shouldn't be ignored, I think it shouldn't be worshipped. Love is a special thing and should be cherished.
Being single these day's is better anyway !
Not dating is quite freeing
Good video i agree on a lot said in the video but i also do have my own thoughts on dating nowadays too like how i believe not everyone finds love and that not every marriage is a marriage based on love a lot of married couples now are based on looking good in front of family members and friends or only get married out of desperation rather then waiting for the right person
its also just not really worth the effort anymore when people have insane requirements for what they want in a partner woman do this quite a lot nowadays and us men end up being left by the woman when we cant reach those impossible requirements
Yeah it is. I wish I never even dated in the first place. I'm better off by myself. It's what I'm used to. I've accepted this and that is okay. I get to do things I like to do. Yeah, no legacy but I'd rather be a father to my kid and that doesn't seem like an option for a lot of us. Hopefully you do acquire that for yourself. So no kids for me. No wife. I'm okay with that. I'm definitely out of that whole situation for life. Good luck.
Interesting video i would say i don't feel empty inside being chronically single lol but i do feel lonely half the time im 30 i feel a lot of people are going through it right now
Yeah I understand. I don't feel empty about being single but I felt like crap after a One Night Stand and honestly don't know how people do it without the connection
Seek the lord. Once i did that, immediately a wholesome woman entered my life. We are saving ourselves for marriage. 28 & 22
Hit the gym, join a social hobby like dancing. Have no expectations
Dating is hard. Hardcore search and destroy is hard. You don't stop playing when you lose even when SBMM people keep playing till they prestige. So don't give up on dating, get out there
Bro I died at that Search and Destroy reference 😂 love that!
I totally understand you dude, Dating can feel like a lot these days, I feel like we don’t have to stress too much about it. It’s easy to get caught up in the apps and feel like you *have* to find someone right away, but honestly, the best connections happen when you’re just being yourself and not overthinking everything. Maybe try having real-life meetups, even casual ones, can feel way more natural. Go into dates just hoping to have a good time, not trying to force anything. And if it doesn’t work out, no big deal. Don’t settle for less than you deserve, but also don’t expect perfection on the first try. Dating’s all about finding your groove and having patience; the right person will click when the time’s right. Just stay relaxed and let it happen you know.
Nice to see you here! I appreciate your advice! I can meet people good through mutual friends just not in public unless they make it obvious lol
@@AmaryxGamesYT haha It's funny how I'm not even in my 20s and giving these advices outta my ass lol
It's all good! On my older videos, I was a teenager on this channel back in high school. Looking back my personality isn't too different besides being more confident on video and moved out 😂@@jamesbofill8595
Thanks - Kinda needed to hear that
I'm just throwing a comment in here because I am very lucky and have been in a very healthy relationship for a bit. I am 23 years old, and my spouse is 22. We met online, surprisingly enough, and have been dating for a bit over 2 years now. She ended up moving to me, which was a solid 1,580 km away.
Dating is extremely hard, yes. My spouse, Pluto, actually didn't date anyone until we met. Their first relationship was when they had just turned 20. I, on the other hand, had a lot of relationships, unfortunately. A lot of very unhealthy ones, and I was unhappy in all of them nearly.
Pluto and I have had a very hard time getting to properly understand each other in our relationship. Most of that is due to our problems we have as people. Pluto stopped interacting with their toxic family, but that took a while for them to recognize that they were unhealthy. I realized a lot for myself as well, like having a very unhealthy family too. And also having dissociative personality disorder.
Basically. It's been a rollercoaster for us, and love is really hard no matter what. But people are out there. Pluto just showed up one day and took interest in me because I showed them kindness and respect. They did the same, I became interested, it went from there.
Honestly, I relate to an extent. Except I definitely do better online than in person.
I would say the answer nowadays is look for someone overseas (Philippines, Thailand,etc.) The women there seem to give guys a chance no matter what.
I’m married with one kid and one on the way. I’m not gonna sit here and tell you the cliché bullshit. Relationship start with YOU. Every single person on earth has issues and trauma. All these things play major roles in relationships. Your mental state will play a major factor on how you express yourself. Trauma will hold you back because it creates insecurities and fear. Seek closure whether it’s therapy, religion, art, or closure with a person. Then you start to mature and grow as person. Thus you create confidence and even have a filter for who’s worth it and who’s a waste of time.
Hey man I hope things work out for you and you are able to find a girl.
I am in a similar situation and I am 26 in Michigan. For me I asked a girl I really liked in high school and she said yes at first, but said no once we started texting. Then later when I was 20 I started online dating and found a girl to date for 3 months and I really liked her but then she broke up with me and I later realized she had lied to me about a lot and had dated 40 other guys. After that I focused on my career and got a masters and been in a high paying job for a while. I have been on my own for a few years and I am in great shape in the gym 4 times a week. I have been going on dating apps again, and getting out more and unfortunately still go nothing but did try to start things with about 5 girls I knew.
It really sucks but I am hopeful that it will be worth the wait. And now I am seeing the marriages from friends 3-5 years ago now fall apart or not seem so good.
I feel you! I have a couple of really good women who are friends in my life. I never had anything longer than 2 months but I'm hopeful and have hand a good amount of relationships to know what I want and I'm confident. I'm just a hopeless romantic I think and most people don't communicate. For me I have terrible timing and sometimes bad luck too :/
This my first year completely drug free since i was 16. Same here man im the same age as u too i just gave up on dating all together unfortunately
congrats brother
ay man it's rough out there, luckily for me I don't care much about that, the culture has changed all around.
Yeah I feel you. I've basically been hanging out chilling for the most part
i just cannot stand dating apps its crazy how that is the only way these days to meet women
You haven’t found your person yet, you will 💪🏻
Actually dating is not that difficult if you have self love and cold approach and if you are not keen to find the one immediately 🤷♂️
It was a weird change when cod commentaries went to cut comms.
Cod commentaries are better because theres a good gameplay in the background. A cut comm is just live commentary where the creator cuts only the talking in the video and nothing in the gameplay necessarily even happens or maybe its just running around and dying
lol someone I tried something with did a switcheroo that they had feelings for someone when I had asked if they were sure about their feelings 😂😂
The dating scene in america is a joke nowadays especially for men. That's why american men move away from the US to another country to be happy and build a family for themselves and being respected for being who they are a man.
Let’s face it boys, we cooked. It’s either we play the game or don’t participate at all. Either way none of the options are appealing.
You dont have to play the game... AI Girlfriends 👍
Yo dude! I have no idea why I got recommended your video or even why I clicked on it, but I am glad it happened. Your twenties are weird dude. Just embrace the weird and the suck. The wins will come. I am similar to you in a lot of ways. You've already got the recipe for success and that's to keep doing you. The bullshit is just a good story for later. It'll all work out in the end. Count on it.
Thank you man! I appreciate it and I'm NGL I wasn't expecting this video to get any recognition at all considering this channel had 290 dead subs from the previous attempt. I don't give up easily thankfully
Hookup culture is fun in the moment, but nobody wants to talk about how toxic it actually is.
Both parties involved usually feel terrible afterwards.
Experiencing a true romantic relationship through all aspects of growth, positive and negative is obviously not something one should constantly want because it can hinder you from working on your own things in life.
But at the same time, companionship is so nice and finding that person is such a warm feeling.
Idk. I just watched normal people on Hulu recently and it had me wanting to experience love like that 😹😹😹 I’m also 26 btw.
Yeah I know that feeling after a hookup too it's really not great and it's kinda overrated. :/
Idk id rather have even a hookup over nothing at all
i hope u find peace...
Oh trust me I'll be fine 😂 I'm talking about everyone else too who are single
What servers are you playing? How to set that up? Mw2 with ps3 controller and modded weapons?
I used this tutorial right here to set me up. It's been a blast! I also use a bot mod because it's kinda dead most of the time sadly :/ th-cam.com/video/kNAKyf_3tdg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=-xl82OWmeVq_ntGU
Mw2 looks amazing
Where did you those PS3 button prompts mod?
you just dont got that Rizz Bro go for that W Gyatt by being the Sigma you are Stop the gooning sesh's and start Shammacking some Gyatt's Oiled up Rizzler Style
I had Shammacked some Gyatt's before in a ONS but I prefer something a little more exclusive. You feel me bruh?
Excuse me sir, what is an “Oiled up Gyatt” ?
@@interesting2491oiled big butt
@@interesting2491 it's just brainrot Gen Z slang.
@@onilion5679 Sounds interesting
Are you the best you?
I have been constantly working on myself so I'd say yeah :)
@@AmaryxYT I promise brother you keep at it, love will surprise you. I didnt believe in it either
Time to go on the demon gym arc trust me bro let the girls find you
You guys date?
W vid
Ps3 servers still active?
They are but I'm not playing this on PS3 it's a modded version of MW2 on PC with PS3 Button mod layout. It's called Iw4X
@AmaryxGamesYT ahhh well he'll yea that's what's up🤙
how do u have a ak74u in mw2!!!??
It's a client mod for PC MW2 called IW4X it combines maps, weapons from other older CODs. I recommend checking it out if you have a PC
try to pick ukrainians in eastern eu
When I was 26 i ping ponged with 5 different women , i didnt wish for anyone to get hurt so before sex and stuff i told about each other
Some said no and that was fine and some
Agreed cus they ping ponged as well.
We had some rules during dates, when we were together no phones or talking about orther lovers. The dates could be dinner
Romantic get aways, movie nights. Gift shopping and in the end alot of sex
The reason why I did like i did was.
I wanted to find that extra someone
Someone that would listen to me hold me when my world broke down
someone that understood me
without explaning for hours
Laughing with me and not at me. Love me for who i am, someone that didnt want my money but just me
I felled so empty at some days i couldnt even look my self in a mirror. I was in so much pain. But finally i found her.
That extra someone, we have been together for 4 years now.
I owe her so much and I love her because of it
Every day im thankfull.
One day yall will find that extra someone
And your gonna fell the same.
Keep that chin up m8 stay strong💎
No it's not
Whatever you do please do not online date and I recommend watching Jesse Lee Peterson if you haven’t heard of him
lol
Yeah I agree online dating sucks balls 💀
Why not Nick Fuentes?
😂 you are funny
Ditch the video games and get jacked bro LFGGG
the only person you need is yourself.
The girls will come trust.
Can’t play video games and be jacked? 🤷
@ nope
@@roderickclerk5904Don't listen to him bro. You can have a balance with any hobby.
@tankbomber55 You definitely can my mate used to go to the gym at like 5am before work and was in an amateur boxing match and he's put 6k hours in DOTA 2 and god knows how many in Starcraft 2
Cap
Bruh not to be a jerk here but dating is stupid and complaining on the internet is the last place to do it at.
You right if I were complaining but this channel is talking about stuff that goes on in my life and some of it can be relatable to other people. I'm talking about how hard dating is as a whole not just me bro 😂 obviously there's other people that relate. I also made a warehouse video I used to work at that others could relate. Does that mean I'm complaining about my job? 🤷♂️
@ Well, unfortunately dating is different than a warehouse job. Dating is stupid and kids born 2003 and up are immature as shit. They’re part of the iPhone and tiktik generation.
Find a white women and be good to her. Your expectations will destroy everything. Patience, consequences, and showing comparisons between bad and good behavior will eventually have her and you getting along very well. The patience is the hard part. Sometimes it hurts, alot.
Im 26 too and getting more girls than ever. You just arent attractive or cool enough
That comment sounds like it came straight out of high school bro yikes 😬
Must suck to be a hopeless romantic 😂😂😂 you guy's heart is in the wrong place 🤦. Free yourselves! 🪽 Find your strength and stop looking forward to leaning on someone for that inner strength. Understand none of us will see 2100 so get out of your ego and allowing fomo to drain you to where you cant see the gift of the present
Damn this comment is toxic 😂 thanks for watching
@AmaryxGamesYT it's right in front of our faces every step of the way. If it was up to me we would be in better circumstances. As for the comment I speak for myself too. I'm not criticizing anyone in particular
@@reptilemark7346i will see 2100. I’m immortal 😎