Ridiculous to be so polarized, you can pick and choose, I’ve made lifelong friends at work situations and seen attacks as well when there is none warrented by just being aquatinted with people who have mental problems, yes they are out there, you have to be wise about it.
Work is work and should always have been that way. Terms created by HR such as "work husband, work wife" should be banned. In the end it all goes back to HR again. On the other hand, work should never encroach on your personal time so much that people feel a need to find partners at work.
We have to Lobby the government to do this immediately cuz it's it's crazy and out of hand so many false accusations and so much wasted time in court and wasted resources
Absolutely. As a manager, I've had female employees at 3 different companies make moves on me and 2 of them had overly dramatic and negative reactions to my declining to participate. They would wear extremely provacative clothing and then bend and reach across my lap to point at things. They are relentless.
Gentlemen, since this will generally never be the case, please be careful about the women you decide to bring into your life, in every aspect of it, work or otherwise. As the Cat Stevens song "Father and Son" goes, "Take your time. Think a lot. Think of everything you got".
In a workspace, no one is truly your friend, whether male or female. You're generally safer with a male colleague who isn't your superior, but even then, keep in mind that they don't genuinely care about you. To your boss, it's all about what you bring to the table. To your colleagues, you're either a rival or a resource they can exploit.
Thats pretty sad of its like that, my experiance working in construction is that yes people like that exist who want to suck of the boss and good at talking, but most people dont care avout playing some type of game and just do the job together while having fun
@@Max-jj3hh I think it's different for construction jobs because they're mostly contract-based, right? This kind of thing seems more common in a typical 9-5 workspace. And yeah, it's sad, but life can be tough sometimes. We just have to find ways to live and be happy while we're here. That's why I left my job-because my peace of mind is more important than a paycheck.
Your analysis was brilliant: succinct, harsh - and true. Thank you for your wisdom. This was a needed reminder. Looking back at my work experience validates this. You think you're hired to simply perform a job? Ha. That's two-thirds of it. The other third ... a treacherous gray area.
Exaaaactly 🤔 the amount of men will make fun of this type of information is stupid af... I encountered with this type of guys they think being manly gonna solve things for them rather than acting rational n learning from other men's mistakes
there's the case of a couple years ago, the male co-worker didn't understand a "newly arrived in country" female co-worker due to a language barrier/word choices.. during the conversation, he eventually understood her and exclaimed "oh, i see where you're coming from" as an expression of understanding... he was fired even though their supervisor knew he meant no disrespect or harassment ... went to court and received a settlement but still had the effect on his employment record to have to explain...
This is so true. I had somebody at work that wanted to go out, but I was in a relationship. She kept pestering me, and I kept saying no. Finally, she accused me of sexual harassment, and thankfully, I had kept all the records of all of our interactions. The company put a restraining order on her to stay away from me. But without that evidence, it would’ve been very difficult. Never be alone with a woman.
The fact careers are being ruined over vibes is ridiculous. Women often feel "uncomfortable" around any guy they don't find attractive. Being ugly is not a sackable offence.
@@BorisEysbroekProblem is that's a widespread phenomenon. I'm thinking all this stems from the fact that you simply can't trust anybody and there's perception involved too were every small movement is interpreted according to an irrational fear. Society is fucked. Good thing Ai is better. Cause it will rule us instead...
Dealing with women at work. Business discussions only, preferably with a witness. Never socialize with women coworkers at work or after work. Take Contemporaneous notes when forced to have contact with them at work is a must: Date, time, place, participants, topics of discussion, your comments and statements and any woman participants’ statements. Never tell anyone at work your strategy in this regard, including your male coworkers. Never be alone with a women especially in elevators and stairways. Beware of the casual comment when a women is in earshot. This is from a retired 40+ year veteran HR professional. Remember, Your HR department is probably staffed 80% to 100% women.
Yep. I’ve seen it many times. Even with notes, once an accusation is leveled, you’re on the back foot. The HR department rarely will weigh the evidence. They just want to eject the problem (e.g. the man)
@@CulturalCommentary I'm an older now self employed woman & while men deserve equal protection under the law simply because abuse is abuse. With saying this, I saw harassments against women when I first entered the corporate world in the late 1970's. Back then it was truly egregious what women went through. So, women have been subjected to it for many years. Again, NO ONE should have to deal with this at a work environment. In the early 1980's, 2 young men chased a young woman into the female bathroom & accosted her there. Both of these men were married, we rescued the woman. The men's manager (older male) said " Well, Boys will be Boys." I looked at him unbelieving & said " Yes, Lawyers will be Lawyers." He settled down, when he saw that I was serious. I counseled the young men & gave them the option of working ( I was on the Grave yard shift) on different shifts, so they wouldn't be on the same shift as the woman. They also couldn't work on the same shift as each other. If they refused, they could offer their resignation letter. They worked on other shifts & had no more issues with them. I also spoke with the young woman & addressed what part she had in the situation. Probably in today's climate, I would be cancelled for talking about appropriate conduct. I always kept personal relationships out of my work environment. In the past if a woman dated a man & it didn't turn out into a permanent relationship, the woman was the one who always had to leave the company or be sent to another division.
@@mtngrl5859 No doubt, harassment happens! If men follow the rules I set forth here and that many men already follow quietly, no woman will ever face any at work harassment.
what they have done to men is roofless; the disgusting constant hunger of the feminists , with their fake “women history “ and especially inhumane “women rights “ are the pure act against the humanity…!
Lost my job because i told a new Female coworker - "you can ask me how we do things around here" and boom - i was fired. 20+ years in tech, i got booted because of one liner
@@rubensano4860Women use work as a way of working out their lack of attention from hot guy frustration by false #metoo ing ugly guys. Before you try that again, make sure you are 6'6" with a 6 pack while packing 6". Until then, avoid all women at work. Do not make eye contact or they can use that to say you made lewd eyes at them.
So True. My female boss fired me and less than 6 months after my firing, the company lost all the clients I was working with. The company announced mas layoffs and laid off 30% of their staff. She wasn't held responsible though. She was actually promoted.
They are being boosted due to politics, it's intentional on the side of policy-makers. You need to get this truth if you want to save your skin in todays society.
@@overthinkingintrovert396 what the fuck she still got promoted despite the company loosing clients if it were a male boss I am 💯 sure he will be fired
You are on point 200%.I have seen a very respectful friend of mine dragged down and shamed and dismissed from work with no proof by a lady who was just wanted to take vengeance on his friend. When we approached the lady, she said she had been pressured by one of the managers to press charges of assault. I fear women at job places. They are always ready to lie and they talk so negative about men. I have seen it multiple times. Avoid them if you can. I had made a love emogy to a female staff once, and it almost put me in deep shit. In my present job, my female colleague made it so hard for me in the beginning, I started being nasty making her know as beautiful as she was I wasn't after her cheeks. I tell my younger male colleagues that women have serious mental issues. I am glad you brought up this video. I thought I was the only one who had these remarks. I am a man and always happy to work with men. As a man if you find yourself in an office where there is a 50% male - female balance, then know in the back of your mind that you are in trouble. Be alert guys. Most times, the lady bringing you down is not even worth it.
Im all against female workplace slander against men, but I mean, sending heart emojis and flirting with coworkers telling them how beautiful they are does fall under harrasment. Youre lucky you got off lightly.
@@Vivek10010 so without context of why he sent the heart emoji, you already assumed it was sexual? That seems messed up. You even added "flirting with them" when it was not said in the original comment. Much wow lol
Even that can earn you a reputation of being a creep. And even it's just because a female doesn't like how you look and reports to HR she feels not at ease and you're the reason. Rich Gilbert is right. Sad but true.
@@ulbra6306 I guess that guys should find jobs or work away from women. Then you don't even have to play that game. But the job itself might suck more!!!
My grandfather worked there for 39 years. When the 16 year old girl they hired told him he had to go to school to learn how to operate a machine he designed, he decided it was time to retire. The building burned 🔥 down 2 weeks later.
My grandpa (born in 1912) participated in my uprising until his last day, and he taught me many important lessons. One I remember very well is that he said to never never be in any situation where women can play with your honor. So that means never stay alone with any woman (or women) that is not your sister, mother, grandmother or wife. Don't even smile to a woman that is not your first degree relative. The only time you might approach a female for anything is when they have are accompanied by one authority to her, that can be her father, husband, boss, but never when it is one female friend or relative. My grandpa was partially raised by his step mother and man whatever she did to him must have been brutal because he always enraged by seeing parents spanking their kids. My grandpa being a mixed race kid was not welcomed by his step mother, whom many people have said that was extremely racist.
Not being along with members of the opposite gender who aren’t first degree relatives is the standard in Muslim religious teaching. There’s a strong basis for barriers between genders. It may sound odd or restrictive to westerners but it will save you from a LOT of headaches and situations you don’t need in your life.
Your grandpa was a wise man. What I really like in his advices is that it matches to a large extend what Islam is asking the Muslims to do in such context.
I'm a retired man now. While I was never accused of sexual in priority in any way. I just want to say that the only coworkers that stabbed me in the back, or attempted to stab me in the back over the years in order to further their own careers were all women. To this day, I'm highly suspicious of new women I meet in my personal life. I always wonder about their motives or if they are a narcissist.
That was my situation as well back in the 90s. In my entire career I was never accused of sexual harassment or anything like that. But this woman in our computer office got me brought into the managers twice for reading computer technical magazines after I had finished my assigned tasks. The manager basically said well you just need to look busy and don't read the magazines even though they had subscribe to the magazines. I got a job as a contract programmer for a very high rate and left the office and heard that she became an absolute terror the remaining male employee after I left.
Sadly I've had both men and women stab my back and fuck me over. 2 men and 1 women banded together to get me fired at my last job. 3 women and 1 man took my side, but sadly it was too late. It just depends on the workplace in my experience.
Happened to my brother today. Fired at f&b chains due to a woman senior being annoying by constantly being a jerk since day 1 and my brother lose temper and got fired after about a month. Better for his mental health than that toxic workplace
I had a new female boss, she tried making some lousy changes to operations. I protested and highlighted how those actions would be inefficient. She maligned my reputation by flagging me as a misogynist to the leadership. I had been up for a promotion before all this. I was never considered for the promotion again. After 4.5 years of hard work I had to leave the company.
I barely survived a hornet’s nest of toxic female subordinates as a new manager. What saved me was the reams of documentation and the tipping off of my regional managers early on when problems were first apparent. Most men are too cowardly to file grievances and complaints against women. I was not and it saved me from what I thought were insurmountable odds!
And you think that just for that you have to stay in a place where you are treated like crap? I wouldn't and I talk from past experience where I had a female boss and it was a nightmar, and I tried to just do my job and suffer in silence but it got to a point where a couldn't do the best of my job because I needed for information or feedback from my boss but that bitch didn't wanted to give it to me, trust me is a crap working like that and for that reason and because you can't do nothing about it because she's a woman is the reason why I always recommend to get out of that job before is too late.@@joshklangley
@sauske2killer21 Correct. And that's why your bodycam might be saving your ass, too. Even as a police superintendent, I would wear one at ALL times. 24/7.
I understand I am now in Wasp nests OMG I study them I gone write a book,or some documentary video about that 😂I am actually fascinated them how they try to set up each and me for nothing
I understand I am now in Wasp nests OMG I study them I gone write a book,or some documentary video about that 😂I am actually fascinated them how they try to set up each and me for nothing
I was sexually harassed by a female coworker. She is Asian, and female, so our HR dept. refused to fire her. They did not take my complaint seriously. Then she kept up the behavior and it was obvious that she was deranged. They finally got her to stop. They still didn't fire her. Then they moved her desk right next to my desk. Her boss, and my boss, did not notice or care about this. I still work with her, like 7 years later.
They must have figured doing this would somehow fix the problem? Why didn't they ask you first what you thought if they did it? They treated you like a second class citizen, oh yeah you're a man, I forgot. 😷😮😠
what they have done to men is roofless; the disgusting constant hunger of the feminists , with their fake “women history “ and especially inhumane “women rights “ are the pure act against the humanity…!
When you are masculine the female manager feels threatened and may falsely accuse you of having a problem with female authority. If you go out of your way to always smile and act sheepish, they may accuse you of being flirtatious. Fact.
I know a guy that this actually happened to. Smart, big guy, gentle giant. He went out of his way to make people feel comfortable with him. His female supervisor reported him because of the way he smiled while talking to her. You just can't make this up.
@@ericpowell4350Those people are psychotic at this point. Unfortunately this seems like a ever expanding phenomenon. Those are the fruits of post modernism... They are tasting like shit...
Then your supervisor is not a suited one. Unless you have an attitude, I am more than happy to pass on my knowledge to my subordinates to be better specialist than myself in the future to better public health
Two main reasons of that: - women know too damn good how creepy and mean they are. - so, they don't want their boss be able to treat them like they used to treat others. Simple as that.
I don’t joke with women. I don’t train women. I don’t help women. I don’t talk to women at work unless absolutely necessary. Truth be told save your money and acquire passive income assets. FU money hits different fellas.
Most women are emotional and thinned skin. Even when they act strong and confident, they can (and frequently do) become hyper sensitive about stuff they feel in their own head.
Honestly, I give a f about men let alone anyone who isn’t personally related to me… you are so arrogant to even consider yourself being acknowledged by women
I have had Cameras put in all areas in workplace ( obviously none near rest rooms ), We have had such problems and in 90% cases women have been caught blatantly lying, despite knowing that the Camera is running in each and every department.....the policy is to Sack any such employee straight out when caught out, its written in thier contract...and Iake sure they understand this the very first day they are hired, I am pretty blatant to both male and female staff to explain its for thier own safety ......our HR has only 2 females and rest 3 are males....we are at a workplace to make our bread, just do that and go home, do not bring politics and drama at work.
If you have a little money, talk to a Sexual Harassment attorney for about one hour on the subject. Get the attorneys business card. If anyone pulls you into HR, place the business card on the desk, and say, "All questions go to my attorney - call the number here." Hint that you will sue them for $10,000,000.
@@Qureshi994 You need to pay a retainer fee for that lawyer to actually represent you. So, don't do that unless you're prepared for them to call your bluff.
I agree. Had one, knew she was a narcissist because she would berate everyone else behind their back to me, so I knew she was probably doing that to me as well. This is a no-win situation to be in.
I work contracted security, I've found no woman has been an equal in this industry, females aren't built to take down full grown men. no due process in the field , you don't get along with the team you might get fragged even as as women.
I’m surprised, where the hell are you guys finding these unprofessional women? There are absolutely none existent around me. I seldom bring personal feelings to the workplace; it was actually men who did in my previous experience 🤷🏻♀️
In UK is the same, you described exactly what happened to me a few months ago. I had an argument with 2 female colleagues and for revenge made up stories accusing me of sexual and religious harassment, both are Muslim.They even convinced some other female colleagues to make up stories against me, they twisted stories and words using also the argument "He made me feel uncomfortable", that's it, here in UK feelings make you guilty no matter whether the facts were inappropriate or not. And yes, the manager, the HR employee and the person who were in charge of "investigation" were all females. The all process last almost 2 months but It was a farce, it was already decided since day 1. I had no chance, they did not care at all of me, no ethic no mercy. I'm still unemployed, still with anger. Thanks for your video.
@andreslebon3869 What was your argument about? Just curious. Also, as a Muslim man, it doesn’t make a difference if it’s FEMALE Muslim on Non-Muslim. They’re all similar lol
@@green1880 Hi.These two young Muslim colleagues girls reported me for petty thing I have said related to Islam over a period of 3 years.. For example, one day during a chat with this girl I told her that she would look better wearing a smaller hijab. No insult was said, it was just the topic of the conversation, dressing. An other day, I told her that for me Islam was very male supremacist mentioning to her a verse in the Quran where it says that the husband have to beat his wife if she disobey the husband. Again, no insult was said, it was the topic. An other time when last year the war between Israel and Hamas started they came to work wearing the t-shirt "free Palestine" and I told to one of them that in my opinion was inappropriate to wear it at work, again with no drama no insults, just an opinion, yet they reported me and the managers stood on their side against me accusing me of religious harassment. I have to say that also no Muslim ladies were involved in the conspiracy, all them friends with each other. H
@@green1880 Hi, also no Muslim women were involved in the plot against me, all them friends of each other. So, in the last 3 years those two Muslim young ladies, besides the made up sexual stories, accused me of petty things related to Islam, for example, one day during a chat I told one of them that she would look better if she wore a smaller hijab, no insult was said, it was the topic, dressing. Another day I told her in another chat that Islam was very sexist mentioning a verse from the Quran that says the husband should beat his wife if she disobeys, again, no insults, just an opinion and it was the topic. Then one day when the war between Israel and Hamas started, the two girls started coming to work wearing the "Free Palestine" t-shirt, and I told one of them that in my opinion it was inappropriate to wear it to work, as I said, it was just an opinion, no drama, no big deal, but they chose to report me again. All the managers involved in the case stood on the girl's side accusing me of religious harassment. I hope I have answered your question.
My nephew worked for a company whose products were found to cause cancer. The company started putting attractive women in senior positions to deflect criticism. Overnight accomplished engineers found themselves reporting to women bosses with no engineering skill and unproven leadership abilities. The company faced legal liabilities in the billions due to defective products that gave users cancer and these women in powerful positions would screech, “We don’t owe them anything!” My nephew couldn’t stand the heartlessness and left to start his own company. You speak the truth bro- women are manipulative beyond what men can comprehend.
I am a foreign and American educated MD Physician scientist with years of 20 experience,. I was offered a challenging job by One of Americas biggest companies started by Legendary inventor Edison. A month after suddenly they told me send my research reports to Young blonde lady a Fresh Masters graduate knows nothing about Molecular medicine. She doesn't even know basics of research or science. She asked me a question with logic like Cats and Tigers are same because they both look alike and have stripes. America's era of glory in science and research has ended long ago, It is not a real research leader anymore.*my advice for foreign higher education students and scientists is don't come to America if you have scientific leadership abilities and ambition, you will be strategically get destroyed by the American social system, Go to Europe for education and return to your home country and create your own research system*
I work on a team of mostly women, and one has made consistent sexist comments about men. Things she’d say would have a man fired in less than 4 seconds, but women feel entitled to say anything they want with no consequences. I called her out about it and she attacked me and blamed me for caring that she’s anti man
Women love attention and they want you to approach them or pay them compliments even when they’re not attracted to you. When you focus on your job and don’t give them the time of the day, you’ll deprive them of the attention and validation they seek. They’ll use all types of tricks to make you notice them and the moment you fall for that, they obtain the validation they so desperately need to function and to feel confident about themselves. Then they don’t care what happens to you after that. My advice to men is no matter how tempted you might feel even when she gives you the eyes or violates your space and time, don’t fall for it. Every man in the corporate world must program their minds not to date at work. Just take work and your work environment out of your dating space. If you can’t resist the temptation, just quit because it never ends well for men in those situations. If you’re not crazy about the job but you’re crazy about the woman, quit the job and pursue your love interest. But if you love your job and your position just don’t give any woman the power.
I knew a guy that worked remotely. He was mentoring a female co-working. She reported him for harassment. They were geographically separated. I didn't fully believe it until something similar happened to me.
Subscribed and liked. Thank you for this video! Yes, I have faced many challenges with females at work. Once, early in my hospitality career, I even refused a very good offer after meeting the female manager
I work in IT, male dominated. When a woman comes in you should see how quiet it gets and office doors close. I don't even like being in Zoom meetings when women are attending. I stay muted and only talk to respond to a direct question.
I work in SAP related software services, male dominated, I record the meeting when female colleague joins, if they say I don’t consent to record, I just drop out of meeting saying, I have other important tasks 😂
Of course the paranoid right wing men who make up this comment section wouldn’t see anything wrong with an environment being male-dominated - that’s just the expected order of things, right?
My female mentor told me not to meet with a lady behind closed doors years ago. I didn't hear until I got accused of SH (i was still single). The good thing is that people knew me to be hardworking, respectful, and well-behaved. COVID happened, and an investigation was put on hold. A few months later, I changed jobs and have been so cautious. I work in a female-dominated environment. I learned how to carry myself in a way that they look up to for leadership, and I would never stoop low for nonsense, especially now that I am married.
@@worldhello1234 If you go to court for sexual harassment, and only one incident then I think a guy could have gotten out of it. I got charged with assault for a finger tap like on her back pocket nearer to the hip. What a crazy Karen she was. It messed up my life is what it did.
You are married? Bingo now you have two front war to fight..(god forbid)..you wife may accuse you of marital rape, then ask for divorce and half of all of your property, all of your children ...bro your now have two fronts
She would flirt with you. Once her feelings change, she would have zero considerations for your career. The negative gossips will start and before you know it, the HR will come after you.
If you have to work with females, just keep in touch in minimum time possible, never alone and never trust them. Never talk about female coworkers with your male friends. You never know where this words going.
I was the only guy at that job. I had to work there a year with them. My male supervisor was purposely not in touch with reality. They would lie and tell him i was on drugs and he would hget uncomfortably close to see if i was high or drunk. I never was.
I was 18, working as a lead lifeguard for a water park. I had been messing around with another coworker, and things ended up not turning out. I watched her say to my friends face that I had touched her inappropriately, and that she was scared for her life. Despite the fact we never even did anything other than make out, which she initiated. Luckily, my friend had my back and listened to my explanation. Very fortunate for him. Confronting her about it years later, she said she had no clue what I was talking about.
I worked under a female manager who appeared biased against male colleagues. Due to HR policy, two males, including me, were hired in an otherwise all-female department. As freshers, we noticed that our female colleagues received promotions and benefits, while we were ignored with minimal increments and no growth. Although the company was good, I eventually left due to her bias.
I was freshly hired in a new office job and had to work with a female coworker. I was absolutely not attracted to her also because she was of a ethnicity I am not physically attracted to, but since she was pregnant I thought it would be appropriate to dedicate to her a special attention (discharge her from carrying heavy objects, saving her from unnecessary long walks, etc..) so I did all her physically heavy or unpleasant stuff myself. This must have irritated her and she complained to the manager that I was flirting with her. I was then pushed to resign from my job. Women don't deserve any special attention, no matter their situation.
@@relaxationclub3848 obviously !! I always try to be helpful to anyone who might benefit any help. But it is true that even some men can misinterpret this attitude towards them.
Had you been careless to that woman ignoring her condition she would pick you on that and report being careless or less considerate on her condition and a vulnerability too
Women, particularly single women, often view HR as a substitute for a husband-serving as their force multiplier. Nature designed women with an inherent need for security, which traditionally drove them to seek a partner for better child-rearing outcomes. When a woman turns to HR or management, she’s shifting her reliance from a strong male colleague (whom she may resent for exposing her shortcomings) to the structure of the system. We can observe this dynamic in marriages, too. Today, women initiate 80-90% of divorces, as doing so empowers them. They replace their husband, who is stronger and a better provider, with support from the government. It’s a constant power struggle. Nature made women dependent on men, but feminism has instilled guilt around that dependence. As a result, women may attempt to undermine that reality whenever they are given the opportunity.
I've worked in places where even the women told me, "stay away from that one because she is trouble". I worked 28 years in a female setting in a hospital and was never accused of sexual harassment, etc. Never touch a woman and never kid in a way that comes off sounding like an actual proposition. Beware that some women will even set the man up to look bad.
I keep a very low profile and work in a supervisory capacity over about 90% female employees. I keep interactions BRIEF and DIRECTIVE. I set the expectations, I praise good performance, then I’m GONE. If any interaction drifts into joking or flirting, I avoid that coworker immediately. I’ve also needed to adopt a fairly harsh attitude toward female coworkers so they see me as more of a professional threat if they start getting vicious. If they don’t meet the standard, no special deals, no second chances. They shape up or get replaced. It’s been years and I haven’t had a single HR problem. I’ve also used remote work to duck female supervisors who just want to socialize. The only way they can access me is by scheduling a meeting, and most are too lazy to try. My last workplace I was the most productive employee surrounded by female coworkers who worked half the hours. What did they do the other 50% of the time in the office? Gossip and poison the well about me. Good riddance to the office.
But still that's exactly the same people that will cry for the muuh wage pay gap lmao... what a bunch of sloths. Somebody has to tell them that they gotta earn their sh*t first.
@@GabrielVilanova-n3pThats why i want females drafted into military combat positions so they can truly earn their equal rights to pay child support and alimony. 😱👀 🤔
Alright man I hate to burst your bubble but a lot of workplaces are like this. The workplace is a shitty place and it makes no difference if it’s 90% women or 90% men. I have male coworkers who gossip and like blaming others for their inadequacies and yes this is a common thing for males to be doing across the country. I hate to ruin your illusion about women in the workplace but it’a just humanity as a whole lol
This is so true. One of my close friends trained a female co-worker and ended up being accused of sexually harassing her. I bet my life he didn’t do it. He was so stressed he was about to quit his career. I once asked a female co-worker if she and another co-worker would like to go eat down at the cafeteria. She said ok. Later she complained to the manager. Some female co-workers are cool but you just never know. I decided never to ask. Or be alone too long with a woman.
Many single women wonder why men won't even approach them anymore. Even worse is that they're too aloof to even realize they're pushing men away. It is beyond stupid, but you can't fix stupid. The pendulum always swings, but it may not swing the other way in our lifetimes at this rate.
i had a female boss kinda woman on my ex job and quit after around 4 months because she was verbally abusive sometimes and not in front but in texts or whatsapp messages and thought that she had all right to boss me around just because we knew eachother for some years. beware of unmarried and childrenless women around the age of 40. they re the most bitter and passive agressive humans out there.
Did you realize the texts are evidence? If a guy did that he would get a charge of harassment and have to go to court, again those are evidence. And they would have probably worked for you too!!
The reason why women in their 40s, Childless and Unmarried are the most passive aggressive, and hostile to be around is because of the psychological impact their life choice has on them, they badly regret their life choice, they know their DNA is going to die with them, and it's making them bitter, and they take that out on others.
@@Hardin9 what happened was that this woman had a bf but i cant say she was happy. i had a younger gf and she was really hot, short but curvy, big breasts, blond and beautiful doll face with blue eyes. when i bring this girl into a company sort of event as my date, we went to a opera thing, this boss lady although attractive woman too but taller and skinny, no butt, no breasts, she commented on the looks of my gf and why she came with some cleaveage that you could see her breasts. i told her that if she had breasts like that she would ve probably exposed them as well. the envy is real, women are full of hatred and that episode made me realise a lot of things.
@@metalmike570 yes i actually wanted to keep them just to show my boss from Bucharest, the big boss. but after i quit i just didnt want to have anything to do with it anymore or to harm anyone. i just wanted to get on with my life.
Obviously most women knows what they do 100% of the time. In our office a woman simply complained for rude behaviour of a colleague and the high performing colleague was fired.
All of my female colleagues have been ok as peers. It’s when they get to management or a higher level where some flip switches and they become these psychotic micromanagers. Every time.
I'm not overly keen on lady managers - plenty of them aren't that great. But if you've found that they've ALL been evil for you, it's far more likely that you're the problem.
I view with suspicion any woman who is in a managerial position. Being a manager requires having a masculine personality. Most female managers seem to have a chip on their shoulder and are always trying to prove something to their coworkers. And some women are power hungry and just love being able to boss people around
You are absolutely right. I’ve been working in the corporate world for 30 years, and I’ve seen it happen to other guys, and it has happened to me. Be very careful with female colleagues at work, off work, and at after-hours functions. Do not go to any work party or fun functions. Stay away, stay clear, , the fewer words, the fewer contacts, the better.
@@ekanata That is a great idea. I started a company, but it was not successful. However, I still encounter the same problem unless you work alone or only hire men
@@ekanata Lol. If everyone becomes a CEO, who's going to be the employee? Unless you're doing a one man job, you're going to need to hire people, putting you in a similar position as the corporation.
As an older divorced man, women tend to think that I’m creepy. I am pretty quiet and stick to my work, choosing to not socialize, go to company parties, or even hang out in the break room. I just do my work and then go home. I pretty much ignore the women at work as much as I can. Sometimes I have to talk with them. My boss is a woman, a little older than I am. I can tell that she really doesn’t like me, even though I do a very good job. I made the mistake of telling a coworker, who I trusted, that I thought one of the women in another department was pretty. I’d hardly spoken to this woman ever. I don’t think she even knew my name. I’d said hi to her a few times. I think maybe my coworker friend said something and a rumor has spread. This pretty woman now seems to avoid me and when I do see her she looks differently at me. I can’t help feeling now that I’m doomed.
I have a research done that proves the word "creepy" is the favourite word of feminists. Infact, if you hear this word from 100 ladies, 90 ladies out of those 100 will be feminists. One of my friends told me that feminist find this word so appropriate because of the wide spectrum of this word.. A man stalking you, staring you, talking to you, an isolated place, nobody talking to you, anything you find wierd, any man you don't like, etc, etc all these things can be easily included in this spectrum of creepy... So any girl often using this word, has to be a feminist and is a red flag 🚩 so guys beware..
@@franciscogerardohernandezR1979 Yep. And that's why I opted out of the career path of a high school chemistry teacher... Way too dangerous. Even back the in the 90's.
This is a pure gold advice to all innocent and honest brothers out in the world. We have got no one to stand by our sides in such false accusations, so better stick to these principles. You are a true alpha male broo …. Huge respect
this is why I went full MGTOW 14 years ago both in my personnel and professional life. Women generally see men as a walking ATM machine with an endless supply of money OR they see you as someone they can manipulate to get further ahead in some aspect of their life. When i found out what their true game was, I decided it was time to stop having relationships. this really pisses off a lot of women, because it "shut's" them down and totally disarms them.
Wise man. I've done the same. Monk mode for the rest of my life now. They're all after some kind of utility from you, be that money, increased status, or your general usefulness to them. It's a tribal instinct they have no control over. They don't love you or care about you. Once they see you as no longer providing any utility they will drop you like a stone.
As a woman, the most dangerous people to my career has been other women. One of two reasons I work for myself now. If I have to take a contract during the off-season, it's 100% remote so I don't have to interact with threats to my reputation and career.
OMG. yes. You are so right. This was something I was not expecting in my career. The gossip and jealousy if you climb the ladder is awful. Other women hate to see women happy.
In the old Mexican cantinas there were signs at the entrance that said: “No women or men in uniform.” It was not to discriminate, it was to avoid a problematic environment inside.
It's not being a nice guy; it's called being a human being. You people are part of the problem if you think you deserve to have your reputation destroyed for giving them 'unwanted attention' or if they decided to develop the ick later.
FALSE. I got fired from a job while helping a female redo her resume and improve her technical skills. She went to HR and told them that I was "harassing" her. This was after she told me that she was looking for a new job and all the other challenges she was experiencing. I was literally providing her with information without quid pro quo and she did that. She even told them benign things I said completely out of context. To this day, I'm still blown away that someone could be that evil. Do NOT put anything past them. Protect your self always. No socializing and no small talk. Don't even ask them about their family.
Absolutely right. I have experienced this 3 times in my 25 years career. Once I was in a mutual relationship which went bad and was hard to keep business relationship stable. 2nd time I rejected approaches of a colleague then out of frustration I switched jobs. 3rd time I rejected advances of my new boss and she removed me from project when I couldn't complete in time
It doesn't even have to be alone. I had an argument with a female resident manager of a building I lived in. She barged into a hallway conversation I was having with another female tenant. The argument did not become heated but tense. I tapped the manager on the shoulder to draw her attention to a bulletin board on the wall I wanted to make a point about. She looked at me for 5 full seconds as I walked to the bulletin board, threw her hands in the air, and shouted TAKE YOUR HANDS OFF ME! At that point I realized this person was literally nuts and ended the discussion right then, to write to management about what had just happened. This all happened in full view of the other tenant. I contacted this tenant to get her corroboration on how the events played out and she said she didn't want to get involved. She further stated that the manager had asked her whether she should contact the cops about getting a restraining order on me. You can't even have a meeting IN PUBLIC and be assured you won't be maligned and possibly charged with assault. Should I have tapped her on the shoulder? Clearly not. But in my defense her own husband did EXACTLY the same thing to ME in yet ANOTHER heated argument when I eventually left the building years later which I pointed out to him. But in HER description to building management she said I tried to bodily drag her to the bulletin board. I had friends supervise all further meetings with this person because she was clearly dangerous.
You seem confused between touching men vs. women. Just ask the police and they will help you understand the difference and how bad it can get for you if you do it again.
@@darioinfini I'm with you, brother. But even in those long gone good old days, you were playing with fire, and it was just a matter of time before you burn yourself.
Now that you've mentioned it😮. I've always read that story but I never saw it as a reflection of female nature. I'm so surprised that it accurately describes them despite being so old. She ruined his life because he rejected him, which is a very common occurrence even today
THIS GUY IS 10000% CORRECT!!! I was fired 7 times. 1 by a man and rest by females. Plus 4 females attempt to fire me. I'm a strictly professional worker with a clean record. They'll fire me for being 2 mins late, not crossing my t and dot my I. I CAN'T STAND WORKING WITH/ FOR FEMALES! The last time I had a cool woman boss was in 1999 and she was silent gen. I had raise every 6 months. Now I can't keep a job for 4 months. you are on to something. GREAT VIDEO!
Same in India, a guy working in the company for 15 years got fired for sexual harassment. The guy had trained numerous male and female colleagues all the who said he's a great guy. All this only for an accusation.
I once had a female coworker at my previous employer who had already been a coworker at another employer, so we knew each other. All seemed good, but once day she suddenly got mad at me because she thought I was trying to spy on her smartphone (I was not. Her phone lay on a table unlocked, and I just stared at it for 3 seconds). From that day on, the fight only escalated and things never went back to normal. There were luckily no bad consequences for me, and thank God I was able to switch jobs soon thereafter.
This is an underrated awareness video and should be shared across world. This is a dangerous situation and rampantly spreading even in India especially IT sector. I strongly feel women should be hired in departments where only women works else this toxic culture will never end 😮
As a woman in the workplace, co-workers are not my friends and I've seen manipulative and untrustworthy women and men both. Best to keep to yourself and do not share anything personal with anyone.
This. I generally don’t make friends with coworkers anymore and prefer to work from home. There are way too many strange office dynamics that I’ve gotten sucked into despite trying to be impartial and professional. This has ranged from something as mundane as getting sucked into a coworker’s sob story for hours when I was trying to work all the way to legitimate sexual harassment (my supervisor literally put his hands on me).
Never talk about personal things at work. Never talk about your dating life, especially if you are dating someone at work. Women love to gossip. Before you know it, the entire office will know your personal business. Use emails and text messages as little as possible. Anything you say in an email or text message can be used against you.
@@smokescreen2146 there are plenty of other ways to make friends than at work if you’re willing to put in even minimal effort lol. There are tons of Facebook hobby groups, meetups, sports clubs, and volunteer opportunities that you can try out to meet new people outside of work.
At a previous company. I have experienced a work "team mate" out to get me. This was accusations of bullying, making up lies about me, defamation, not sharing important documents and general underhanded behaviour. It was incredibly stressful, prevented me from getting a promotion (management smart enough not to admit to this) which in turn had repercussions for the direction my life was taking. Devastating experience. Very difficult for management to unpick. Very difficult when the bully is manipulating the narrative and claiming to be the victim. I'm a great believer that time is the greatest judge of character. Felt it important to share my story.
When the only card to play is your word against theirs, it's a little tricky. Unless you find something to unlevel the field in your favor, the cards are stuck against you!
As a Muslim, my religion warned about these opposite sex relationships and mingling. But even we took it for granted. Now, seeing you guys learning this lesson the hard way, I appreciate my religious teachings.
@@souvikghosh572 is a good idea, but in my country isnt possible because is restricted, anyways I keep the door open all the time, just to have some of safety.
Working in security, I found a female colleague asleep at work. In a friendly tone, I aked if she'd dozed off. I'd never have reported her. Five minutes after she left I got a call from our control centre accusing me of making a "racial remark"( she was S Asian) to her. The idea was to preempt any report I might have made about her sleeping. In Canada a racist remark is a firing offence. Fortunately, my previous reputation over decades made my bosses believe me, not her. Since then I've avoided working with women if at all possible.
Happened to me like two or three times. What I have noticed is that if you are a sigma male, some female coworkers absolutely hate that. Why? Because especially where I work (IT), it is male dominated and they want to replace their lack of knowledge or work with being flirty and generally manipulative as a gentle gender. Now if they see they can't sway you and that you are someone who they can't control or wrap around their finger, they will try as hard as possible to descredit you and accuse you of stuff to get you fired before you could expose her for her insecurities (ie lack of knowledge or work ethic) even if you never intended to do so, it's just their defence mechanism, like shit this guy is not possible to manipulate, I will have to get rid of him before he endangers me in any sort of way. That said I have worked with some truely pleasant ladies, but they are often an exception unfortunately, these are usually the feminine calm and down to earth ones.
This! Happened to me a couple of months ago. A new female trainee started under my watch, she was being sweet and always wanted to hold a conversation in different things other than work, used to notice me carefully (one day I was explaining something related to work and suddenly she said that how did I have calluses in my hands, to which I simply smiled and changed the topic to work, also pointed out minute things about me, my food habits and many more) I did not feel compelled to get carried away so I stuck to my job, then after a few weeks I started to notice the same pattern towards another male colleague. By that time she was becoming hostile and rude to me for no reason, then started to pick faults in my job and tried to manipulate me in ti believing what I am doing is wrong. I was quite clear on the fact that she only started doing this because I didn't give her the attention that she seeked. Along with this, she had a very poor background in languages, as the job requires to be proficient in at least two languages to cater to people of different ethinicities and languages. Funny.
I have worked in a lot of companies. Not even a single woman in the office was there due to her relevant skills and experience. All of them were not capable of doing the job but due to close contacts they were given higher positions.
How great to hear someone publicly raise this issue. I’ve seen my friends fall victim to this and this guy nails it in this video. Respect to this host.
Medical Doctor. Learned my lesson it didn't went too far but I learned: No Jokes, be extremely polite, don't spend unnecessary time alone with the person of subject, focus in your job, and all talk should be work related.
I learned it in the hard way... after Covid i was doing a cybersecurity training to get some extra money during my studies... I fell in love to a girl in my class... she nearly destroyed me completely... i almost lost myself... but thanks God i was able to get out from this toxic environment , but it took me 7-8 months to heal and move on... and she was my first at 25...
"be extremely polite", Huhh?? Men get fired for sexual harassment just for saying "good morning" to a woman (if he's not good-looking enough), but it makes sense to be "extremely polite". You are wrong.
@@Will-ql5db I guess I'm not ugly enough. So I can get away with it. But what you suggest the opposite? Yeah you could. But at some point at some extend u have to play the game. If not they are going to gossip about you. How you are not interacting enough. And still your career will suffer.
I prefer to be an older "stealth guy" at the office who stays away from most people. I wouldn't want to be a manager again and put up with BS and just make decent money doing my work and getting along with people. Stay away from women is what I teach my sons its such a mine field today.
Now i understand a lot of the issues that happened to me while i was working as a manager, all of the women fighting for the attractive guys while i was getting too much pressure on tasks, got promoted because of my language skills, i begged for a short vacation at off season, but started being discredited to the point i left the job to a better paying one, there were almost all women and they ended up making my life impossible while they tried to look for any bf to get the greencard, two of them made it, i even helped them with a lot of issues, they partied every night and even for a friend who enrolled in a collegue there with her girlfriend in florida, she left him to pursue rich men (because of the pictures she posts on instagram), no wonder why i even feel weirdly uncomfortable in my design career and want to switch to engineering despite having to waste 5 years at my age
Also, my boss is a female with 25+ years of experience in the field. When she was asked to choose 3 people for promotion by the management, she preferred females, all of them. She feel threatened if someone is good at his work. She would somehow pick him up and create a problem out of nowhere. She always crosscheck with a female if something is asked to a male.
Once women become the majority in a department, they will never relinquish their power. They will show hiring preferences to women. They don't want men to invade their spaces. The biggest mistake men made was allowing women to work there
“and I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.” Ecclesiastes 7:26
My dad was a newspaper publisher. A woman who worked for him started an affair with a man in the workplace. Her husband found out and she lied that he’d assaulted her for her husband to forgive her. My dad had to fire him. He really felt terrible about it. Just stay away from women in the workplace. The amount of silly drama most girls gossip about could be quickly blown out of proportion when the company picks it up
Islam is one religion which takes into consideration the risks involved in close interaction between men and women. There must be restrictions on how they interact with each other. It makes lot of sense.
You are talking garbage, the problem is not a close interaction with women , the problem is insane rules are systems that are in place in the name of women empowerment and feminism. There is no real problem in close interaction between men and women. Men's and women's are interacting closely before any religion exists.
This is an extreme generalization. I am a woman who works in tech, and I know I’m not always right about things. If someone comes forward with more knowledge and information then I acknowledge their opinion and pivot the project based on their feedback. If I didn’t do this I would not be able to work on the team that I do.
@@ssgg23 I take my hat off to you then. As a physicist, I saw women get preferential treatment on the (long) way to my PhD. I guess I have a bit of an axe to grind. Anyway, cheers to you and may there be many more like you who actually represent the TRUE cause of feminism 😎
@@ssgg23Another tragic case of woman brain where a woman can't comprehend a generalization without mentioning an exception. I guess you didn't have to take statistics for ypur engineering class
I don't even look at em anymore, I avert my eyes and focus on something beyond. I wont be accused of leering. Avoid em at every opportunity and minimize the chances/opportunities to make a false accusation. Great video
This started to meander around the 2:40 mark. Though I have all the sympathy in the world for men being the victims of women who want to lie, no man needs to be making "off-color jokes" or "innocently asking people out for coffee" (all his words) in the workplace. What no one seems to be talking about is the fact that despite everyone keeps saying it's a bad idea, *women absolutely see the workplace as an opportunity to find a mate.* That's where men have to have disciplined and not do that. *Don't count on women to do the right thing (in any circumstance).* in some regards, a man is in more vulnerable at the workplace if he's _attractive._ being unattractive to women at the workplace can actually be a blessing as long as you don't talk to any of those women who are going to accuse you of being creepy.
You can reverse engineer this too. I was hanging out with co-workers and we were all teasing. Going along with it, I jokingly said something about harassment. One of the men stopped the teasing, got deadly serious and said "Please don't ever say that word. That isn't a joke for men. " That struck me hard and I sobered up quickly. That was years ago but I still keep that lesson close. It made me really think about the man's POV. We could all do with thinking about the other person's life and career. In another instance, last year I had this married guy keep subtly hitting on me at work. He's got a family and a good career. I left it alone. Just playfully laughed it off until it all went back to normal. I realize every case is different, but in this case so what? He wasn't offending me. He was a nice guy. It never even crossed my mind to try to wreck his career and family life because he flirted here and there and tried to slip me his number. It didn't go anywhere: no harm, no foul. He was just a guy going through things in his life, not out to personally wound mine. I'm a good listener; I let him be human and let it pass. We just need to show some compassion sometimes instead of selfishly angling towards a twisted form of career gain by striking someone else down. Let's all be made of tougher stuff. SH cases should be for when they're REAL, not for when it looks like a slick opportunity. EVERYONE deserves grace and compassion. ☯️🙏🏽
Everyone deserves grace and compassion... Except those women who have falsely accused us those deserve karma and hopefully we'll be there to see it with some popcorn 🍿. What goes around comes around...
@@gatacelta that's my attitude as well. Laugh it off. I also don't understand why women say they are afraid of men. Men are not scary, they are just people!
My friend had his career set back by 10-12 years because of something like this. He has watched other people 10 years younger get promotions over him even though he has the seniority and skills to be promoted. 1 comment, no touch involved, and she got HR all over him.
Why is he still at the same company? It's his fault if he didn't get a new job. Unless you're talking about the police, fire, or military where he just can't up and leave.
I worked with women, and women managers for years. I learned a few things along the way… 1. Be professional and leave the small talk to THEM. Be reactionary, and quiet. Don’t compliment or joke. They ALWAYS take it wrong! 2. Befriended every female in the place, on a pro level. Make Yourself “indispensable”. This will help you behind the scenes. You’ll have defenders in every corner. And win the battles w/o saying a word. 3. Never…never, date anyone! Make it your very well known policy. IF, you love your job, adhere to the above.
Amazing that this hit my feed.....flashback to Westinghouse 40 years ago. I had a psychotic female summer student that worked for me....but thanks to ANOTHER female co-worker telling HR that the intern was in fact psychotic, I was spared the guillotine. And yes if you end up with a female manager, either transfer or quit.....you are in a no win situation.
Your Boss, Supervisor, co-workers, HR all are not your friends. None of them really care about you.
Yep. People often overlook this simple truth. Making 'friends' at work is a BIG mistake.
Ridiculous to be so polarized, you can pick and choose, I’ve made lifelong friends at work situations and seen attacks as well when there is none warrented by just being aquatinted with people who have mental problems, yes they are out there, you have to be wise about it.
I care about you
I learn that the hard way
This is true especially when there's a promotion, assessment or shiet hits the fan
false accusations of sexual misconduct against men should be treated as a criminal offense
Work is work and should always have been that way. Terms created by HR such as "work husband, work wife" should be banned. In the end it all goes back to HR again. On the other hand, work should never encroach on your personal time so much that people feel a need to find partners at work.
We have to Lobby the government to do this immediately cuz it's it's crazy and out of hand so many false accusations and so much wasted time in court and wasted resources
Absolutely. As a manager, I've had female employees at 3 different companies make moves on me and 2 of them had overly dramatic and negative reactions to my declining to participate. They would wear extremely provacative clothing and then bend and reach across my lap to point at things. They are relentless.
Gentlemen, since this will generally never be the case, please be careful about the women you decide to bring into your life, in every aspect of it, work or otherwise.
As the Cat Stevens song "Father and Son" goes, "Take your time. Think a lot. Think of everything you got".
@@markrios3464 great song, and it's on You Tube!
In a workspace, no one is truly your friend, whether male or female. You're generally safer with a male colleague who isn't your superior, but even then, keep in mind that they don't genuinely care about you. To your boss, it's all about what you bring to the table. To your colleagues, you're either a rival or a resource they can exploit.
Yes males don't care but they also don't disturb or do such evil things like false accusations of harrasment which is considered great crime
@@kamleshmanjhi1234 In my experience, never!
Thats pretty sad of its like that, my experiance working in construction is that yes people like that exist who want to suck of the boss and good at talking, but most people dont care avout playing some type of game and just do the job together while having fun
@@Max-jj3hh I think it's different for construction jobs because they're mostly contract-based, right? This kind of thing seems more common in a typical 9-5 workspace. And yeah, it's sad, but life can be tough sometimes. We just have to find ways to live and be happy while we're here. That's why I left my job-because my peace of mind is more important than a paycheck.
Your analysis was brilliant: succinct, harsh - and true. Thank you for your wisdom. This was a needed reminder. Looking back at my work experience validates this. You think you're hired to simply perform a job? Ha. That's two-thirds of it. The other third ... a treacherous gray area.
A lot of men thinks it a joke out there. Better believe this man
Exaaaactly 🤔 the amount of men will make fun of this type of information is stupid af...
I encountered with this type of guys they think being manly gonna solve things for them rather than acting rational n learning from other men's mistakes
yeah! this comment section is a proof, as well as victim-blaming.
there's the case of a couple years ago, the male co-worker didn't understand a "newly arrived in country" female co-worker due to a language barrier/word choices.. during the conversation, he eventually understood her and exclaimed "oh, i see where you're coming from" as an expression of understanding... he was fired even though their supervisor knew he meant no disrespect or harassment ... went to court and received a settlement but still had the effect on his employment record to have to explain...
@@superman9772that's absolute nonsense...
It’s not a joke, but it’s not as serious as people think. We just hear a lot about it since it’s bad news and troubling times sell.
This is so true. I had somebody at work that wanted to go out, but I was in a relationship. She kept pestering me, and I kept saying no. Finally, she accused me of sexual harassment, and thankfully, I had kept all the records of all of our interactions. The company put a restraining order on her to stay away from me. But without that evidence, it would’ve been very difficult. Never be alone with a woman.
What do you mean by 'kept all the records'. Like where and how was it helpful in your case?
@@wandererof1116 simply documenting each interaction and phone call. Proves nothing inappropriate on my side.
She should've been fired. Wtf is a restraining order going to do if she's going to do the same thing to other men in your workplace?
What type of records? I’m thinking audio recording.
@ phone records
Some audio recordings
They don't even need sexual accusations. Female bullies are 100% tolerated.
Absolutely. I'm glad I found this video.
Agree. They get away with things that men would be in trouble for
i have to deal with this at my job now.. not directly but it's nuts what she can get away with
Deny. Defend. Depose.
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Keep safe distance.
Have another men every time you are in isolation with women.
Always have 3 some. Then you can witness atleast.
The fact careers are being ruined over vibes is ridiculous. Women often feel "uncomfortable" around any guy they don't find attractive. Being ugly is not a sackable offence.
@@funnyhandle this level of victim blaming says a lot about your internalized misandry.
@@funnyhandleThis level of idiocy tells a lot about your lack of dark matter in your brain.
@@BorisEysbroekProblem is that's a widespread phenomenon. I'm thinking all this stems from the fact that you simply can't trust anybody and there's perception involved too were every small movement is interpreted according to an irrational fear. Society is fucked. Good thing Ai is better. Cause it will rule us instead...
@@AnnonymousPrime-ks4uf And I, for one, welcome our new ai overlords.
That is the truth, they will even do whatever an attractive man asks, which is why they are vulnerable to scams 🤣
Dealing with women at work. Business discussions only, preferably with a witness. Never socialize with women coworkers at work or after work. Take Contemporaneous notes when forced to have contact with them at work is a must: Date, time, place, participants, topics of discussion, your comments and statements and any woman participants’ statements. Never tell anyone at work your strategy in this regard, including your male coworkers. Never be alone with a women especially in elevators and stairways. Beware of the casual comment when a women is in earshot. This is from a retired 40+ year veteran HR professional. Remember, Your HR department is probably staffed 80% to 100% women.
Yep. I’ve seen it many times. Even with notes, once an accusation is leveled, you’re on the back foot. The HR department rarely will weigh the evidence. They just want to eject the problem (e.g. the man)
@@CulturalCommentaryCorrect. I saw it from the inside as one of the few surviving Caucasian males in HR.
@@CulturalCommentary I'm an older now self employed woman & while men deserve equal protection under the law simply because abuse is abuse. With saying this, I saw harassments against women when I first entered the corporate world in the late 1970's. Back then it was truly egregious what women went through. So, women have been subjected to it for many years. Again, NO ONE should have to deal with this at a work environment.
In the early 1980's, 2 young men chased a young woman into the female bathroom & accosted her there. Both of these men were married, we rescued the woman. The men's manager (older male) said " Well, Boys will be Boys." I looked at him unbelieving & said " Yes, Lawyers will be Lawyers." He settled down, when he saw that I was serious. I counseled the young men & gave them the option of working ( I was on the Grave yard shift) on different shifts, so they wouldn't be on the same shift as the woman. They also couldn't work on the same shift as each other. If they refused, they could offer their resignation letter. They worked on other shifts & had no more issues with them. I also spoke with the young woman & addressed what part she had in the situation. Probably in today's climate, I would be cancelled for talking about appropriate conduct.
I always kept personal relationships out of my work environment. In the past if a woman dated a man & it didn't turn out into a permanent relationship, the woman was the one who always had to leave the company or be sent to another division.
@@mtngrl5859 No doubt, harassment happens! If men follow the rules I set forth here and that many men already follow quietly, no woman will ever face any at work harassment.
In college i would have been alone in the library elevator but i had a bad feeling and retreated to the other elevator.
"That guy looks creepy" I saw a guy get fired for those words. Women may not like this video, but this is gold.
what they have done to men is roofless; the disgusting constant hunger of the feminists , with their fake “women history “ and especially inhumane “women rights “ are the pure act against the humanity…!
Lost my job because i told a new Female coworker - "you can ask me how we do things around here" and boom - i was fired. 20+ years in tech, i got booted because of one liner
This is inhuman. Only demons can do that.
WTF!
I have read this several times and I still can't figure out what the transgression was.
Is it possible that they use that excuse to get rid of u due to your seniority (high wage)?
@@rubensano4860Women use work as a way of working out their lack of attention from hot guy frustration by false #metoo ing ugly guys. Before you try that again, make sure you are 6'6" with a 6 pack while packing 6". Until then, avoid all women at work. Do not make eye contact or they can use that to say you made lewd eyes at them.
Women don’t need to worry about the consequences because they are never held responsible for the consequences of their actions or others.
So True. My female boss fired me and less than 6 months after my firing, the company lost all the clients I was working with. The company announced mas layoffs and laid off 30% of their staff. She wasn't held responsible though. She was actually promoted.
They are being boosted due to politics, it's intentional on the side of policy-makers.
You need to get this truth if you want to save your skin in todays society.
Those kind are grade #1 bitches.
Never! They are empowered and victims at the same time. They simply choose which of the two they want to be that offers them the most benefits.
@@overthinkingintrovert396 what the fuck she still got promoted despite the company loosing clients if it were a male boss I am 💯 sure he will be fired
You are on point 200%.I have seen a very respectful friend of mine dragged down and shamed and dismissed from work with no proof by a lady who was just wanted to take vengeance on his friend. When we approached the lady, she said she had been pressured by one of the managers to press charges of assault. I fear women at job places. They are always ready to lie and they talk so negative about men. I have seen it multiple times. Avoid them if you can. I had made a love emogy to a female staff once, and it almost put me in deep shit. In my present job, my female colleague made it so hard for me in the beginning, I started being nasty making her know as beautiful as she was I wasn't after her cheeks. I tell my younger male colleagues that women have serious mental issues. I am glad you brought up this video. I thought I was the only one who had these remarks. I am a man and always happy to work with men. As a man if you find yourself in an office where there is a 50% male - female balance, then know in the back of your mind that you are in trouble. Be alert guys. Most times, the lady bringing you down is not even worth it.
Im all against female workplace slander against men, but I mean, sending heart emojis and flirting with coworkers telling them how beautiful they are does fall under harrasment.
Youre lucky you got off lightly.
@@Vivek10010 so without context of why he sent the heart emoji, you already assumed it was sexual? That seems messed up.
You even added "flirting with them" when it was not said in the original comment. Much wow lol
Do yourself a favor. Stay clear of them. Talk to them only if you have to.
And get a vasectomy too while you're at it!!
Even that can earn you a reputation of being a creep. And even it's just because a female doesn't like how you look and reports to HR she feels not at ease and you're the reason. Rich Gilbert is right. Sad but true.
@@ulbra6306 I guess that guys should find jobs or work away from women. Then
you don't even have to play that game. But the job itself might suck more!!!
If you're professional, you shouldn't have an issue. Most guys easily get excited and think female colleagues are easy.
@@OnlyTheTruth-ti9ex Most men might get a boner, if that's what you meant.
I work in the hvac field. We have no female stationary engineers in the entire department and it makes things much easier.
My grandfather worked there for 39 years. When the 16 year old girl they hired told him he had to go to school to learn how to operate a machine he designed, he decided it was time to retire.
The building burned 🔥 down 2 weeks later.
@@TheEgg185 I guess the girl is promoted to be a VP of the company?
Wise choice
@@vickybhadwani2689
He said the place burned down....
@@TheEgg185 GG lmao
My grandpa (born in 1912) participated in my uprising until his last day, and he taught me many important lessons. One I remember very well is that he said to never never be in any situation where women can play with your honor. So that means never stay alone with any woman (or women) that is not your sister, mother, grandmother or wife. Don't even smile to a woman that is not your first degree relative. The only time you might approach a female for anything is when they have are accompanied by one authority to her, that can be her father, husband, boss, but never when it is one female friend or relative.
My grandpa was partially raised by his step mother and man whatever she did to him must have been brutal because he always enraged by seeing parents spanking their kids. My grandpa being a mixed race kid was not welcomed by his step mother, whom many people have said that was extremely racist.
Your grandpa has seen some tough times
Not being along with members of the opposite gender who aren’t first degree relatives is the standard in Muslim religious teaching.
There’s a strong basis for barriers between genders. It may sound odd or restrictive to westerners but it will save you from a LOT of headaches and situations you don’t need in your life.
Your grandpa was a wise man. What I really like in his advices is that it matches to a large extend what Islam is asking the Muslims to do in such context.
@@MOmar-gt5oe thanks. Part of it was the common sense of a proper Christian culture that was lost long ago.
Maybe islam wasn't all that after all, huh?
I'm a retired man now.
While I was never accused of sexual in priority in any way. I just want to say that the only coworkers that stabbed me in the back, or attempted to stab me in the back over the years in order to further their own careers were all women.
To this day, I'm highly suspicious of new women I meet in my personal life. I always wonder about their motives or if they are a narcissist.
That was my situation as well back in the 90s.
In my entire career I was never accused of sexual harassment or anything like that.
But this woman in our computer office got me brought into the managers twice for reading computer technical magazines after I had finished my assigned tasks.
The manager basically said well you just need to look busy and don't read the magazines even though they had subscribe to the magazines.
I got a job as a contract programmer for a very high rate and left the office and heard that she became an absolute terror the remaining male employee after I left.
You just need to watch reality tv to know this is fact
Sadly I've had both men and women stab my back and fuck me over. 2 men and 1 women banded together to get me fired at my last job. 3 women and 1 man took my side, but sadly it was too late. It just depends on the workplace in my experience.
I heard women say the same thing. Many ordinary female confess it is such a relief to work with males!!
Theyll do anything for money
At work
No one is your friend
Mostly enemies
All the want is go up the ladder
And women the worst
Cold and vicious
We men have to FIGHT BACK!!! If it were a guy you would fight back.
Yes. Your network is made of men, women don't count at all.
At the last company I worked, I was able to make friends with the 2 Christians there. 1 of which I still stay in touch with.
Happened to my brother today. Fired at f&b chains due to a woman senior being annoying by constantly being a jerk since day 1 and my brother lose temper and got fired after about a month. Better for his mental health than that toxic workplace
With most women it's all good untill it isn't. You wake up one day and find out you've been harassing her the whole time
I had a new female boss, she tried making some lousy changes to operations. I protested and highlighted how those actions would be inefficient. She maligned my reputation by flagging me as a misogynist to the leadership. I had been up for a promotion before all this. I was never considered for the promotion again. After 4.5 years of hard work I had to leave the company.
I'm sorry to hear that...truly fucked
I barely survived a hornet’s nest of toxic female subordinates as a new manager. What saved me was the reams of documentation and the tipping off of my regional managers early on when problems were first apparent. Most men are too cowardly to file grievances and complaints against women. I was not and it saved me from what I thought were insurmountable odds!
And you think that just for that you have to stay in a place where you are treated like crap? I wouldn't and I talk from past experience where I had a female boss and it was a nightmar, and I tried to just do my job and suffer in silence but it got to a point where a couldn't do the best of my job because I needed for information or feedback from my boss but that bitch didn't wanted to give it to me, trust me is a crap working like that and for that reason and because you can't do nothing about it because she's a woman is the reason why I always recommend to get out of that job before is too late.@@joshklangley
@sauske2killer21 Correct. And that's why your bodycam might be saving your ass, too. Even as a police superintendent, I would wear one at ALL times. 24/7.
Having a good brain is a gift from God, I'm glad you used it.
I understand I am now in Wasp nests OMG I study them I gone write a book,or some documentary video about that 😂I am actually fascinated them how they try to set up each and me for nothing
I understand I am now in Wasp nests OMG I study them I gone write a book,or some documentary video about that 😂I am actually fascinated them how they try to set up each and me for nothing
I was sexually harassed by a female coworker. She is Asian, and female, so our HR dept. refused to fire her. They did not take my complaint seriously. Then she kept up the behavior and it was obvious that she was deranged. They finally got her to stop. They still didn't fire her. Then they moved her desk right next to my desk. Her boss, and my boss, did not notice or care about this. I still work with her, like 7 years later.
I'm sorry for you man. Hope you get out of there soon.
They must have figured doing this would somehow fix the problem? Why didn't they ask you first what you thought if they did it?
They treated you like a second class citizen, oh yeah you're a man, I forgot.
😷😮😠
Record everything you can.
Seriously this is disgusting.
She should be harshly punished.
Put in other way, she’s not your type I guess
A big society problem is assuming weak person=good person. They don't realize a weak person can be horribly dangerous
what they have done to men is roofless; the disgusting constant hunger of the feminists , with their fake “women history “ and especially inhumane “women rights “ are the pure act against the humanity…!
When you are masculine the female manager feels threatened and may falsely accuse you of having a problem with female authority.
If you go out of your way to always smile and act sheepish, they may accuse you of being flirtatious.
Fact.
I know a guy that this actually happened to. Smart, big guy, gentle giant. He went out of his way to make people feel comfortable with him. His female supervisor reported him because of the way he smiled while talking to her. You just can't make this up.
Double bind classic...
@@ericpowell4350Those people are psychotic at this point. Unfortunately this seems like a ever expanding phenomenon. Those are the fruits of post modernism... They are tasting like shit...
Female managers are very insecure, some man threatening his position will be persecuted in some kind
Then your supervisor is not a suited one. Unless you have an attitude, I am more than happy to pass on my knowledge to my subordinates to be better specialist than myself in the future to better public health
What I find odd is that women hate having female supervisors more than men do.
That’s a whole other video!
That's because men let them off the hook easier and are more easily manipulated than a female boss.
This is 100% right
Depends
Two main reasons of that:
- women know too damn good how creepy and mean they are.
- so, they don't want their boss be able to treat them like they used to treat others.
Simple as that.
Thanks for bringing this topic up. Experienced men need to discuss this more and more for those of us young in our careers
I don’t joke with women. I don’t train women. I don’t help women. I don’t talk to women at work unless absolutely necessary. Truth be told save your money and acquire passive income assets. FU money hits different fellas.
😎🤓👍
Why would you bring up training and helping when he’s talking about managers? 😓
@@JokerMimi-e1e Its not just managers. Female co-workers in general.
female co-workers can complain to HR as well.
How dare you!
Misogyny!
You don't deserve nice things 😂
Don't talk with women in general, not just coworkers. They're better left alone.
Women don’t know what to do with power
Don’t forget that
They do. They use it to destroy men around them.
Most women are emotional and thinned skin. Even when they act strong and confident, they can (and frequently do) become hyper sensitive about stuff they feel in their own head.
They use men power to make easy money.
Honestly, I give a f about men let alone anyone who isn’t personally related to me… you are so arrogant to even consider yourself being acknowledged by women
@@Thecaveman007and themselves as well...
I have had Cameras put in all areas in workplace ( obviously none near rest rooms ), We have had such problems and in 90% cases women have been caught blatantly lying, despite knowing that the Camera is running in each and every department.....the policy is to Sack any such employee straight out when caught out, its written in thier contract...and Iake sure they understand this the very first day they are hired, I am pretty blatant to both male and female staff to explain its for thier own safety ......our HR has only 2 females and rest 3 are males....we are at a workplace to make our bread, just do that and go home, do not bring politics and drama at work.
If you have a little money, talk to a Sexual Harassment attorney for about one hour on the subject. Get the attorneys business card. If anyone pulls you into HR, place the business card on the desk, and say, "All questions go to my attorney - call the number here." Hint that you will sue them for $10,000,000.
What a fantastic idea.
What if they call the number? Do I need to pay the lawyer so he’ll answer their questions?
Seems you may be a lawyer. Yes surely it's not free
@@Qureshi994 You need to pay a retainer fee for that lawyer to actually represent you. So, don't do that unless you're prepared for them to call your bluff.
Better call Saul 😂
I really like the part " avoid having a female manager". It's a real challenge to work with them. They really don't think about the consequences.
I agree. Had one, knew she was a narcissist because she would berate everyone else behind their back to me, so I knew she was probably doing that to me as well. This is a no-win situation to be in.
Yeah, it happened to me, she was verbally abusive and difficult to deal with.
I work contracted security, I've found no woman has been an equal in this industry, females aren't built to take down full grown men.
no due process in the field , you don't get along with the team you might get fragged even as as women.
I couldn't agree more 💯
I’m surprised, where the hell are you guys finding these unprofessional women? There are absolutely none existent around me. I seldom bring personal feelings to the workplace; it was actually men who did in my previous experience 🤷🏻♀️
In UK is the same, you described exactly what happened to me a few months ago. I had an argument with 2 female colleagues and for revenge made up stories accusing me of sexual and religious harassment, both are Muslim.They even convinced some other female colleagues to make up stories against me, they twisted stories and words using also the argument "He made me feel uncomfortable", that's it, here in UK feelings make you guilty no matter whether the facts were inappropriate or not. And yes, the manager, the HR employee and the person who were in charge of "investigation" were all females. The all process last almost 2 months but It was a farce, it was already decided since day 1. I had no chance, they did not care at all of me, no ethic no mercy. I'm still unemployed, still with anger. Thanks for your video.
I am a Muslim man. I don’t care what religion those two women are. If they accused you maliciously and you are innocent, then they are evil, period.
@andreslebon3869 What was your argument about? Just curious.
Also, as a Muslim man, it doesn’t make a difference if it’s FEMALE Muslim on Non-Muslim. They’re all similar lol
@@green1880 Hi.These two young Muslim colleagues girls reported me for petty thing I have said related to Islam over a period of 3 years.. For example, one day during a chat with this girl I told her that she would look better wearing a smaller hijab. No insult was said, it was just the topic of the conversation, dressing.
An other day, I told her that for me Islam was very male supremacist mentioning to her a verse in the Quran where it says that the husband have to beat his wife if she disobey the husband. Again, no insult was said, it was the topic.
An other time when last year the war between Israel and Hamas started they came to work wearing the t-shirt "free Palestine" and I told to one of them that in my opinion was inappropriate to wear it at work, again with no drama no insults, just an opinion, yet they reported me and the managers stood on their side against me accusing me of religious harassment.
I have to say that also no Muslim ladies were involved in the conspiracy, all them friends with each other. H
@@green1880
Hi, also no Muslim women were involved in the plot against me, all them friends of each other. So, in the last 3 years those two Muslim young ladies, besides the made up sexual stories, accused me of petty things related to Islam, for example, one day during a chat I told one of them that she would look better if she wore a smaller hijab, no insult was said, it was the topic, dressing. Another day I told her in another chat that Islam was very sexist mentioning a verse from the Quran that says the husband should beat his wife if she disobeys, again, no insults, just an opinion and it was the topic. Then one day when the war between Israel and Hamas started, the two girls started coming to work wearing the "Free Palestine" t-shirt, and I told one of them that in my opinion it was inappropriate to wear it to work, as I said, it was just an opinion, no drama, no big deal, but they chose to report me again. All the managers involved in the case stood on the girl's side accusing me of religious harassment. I hope I have answered your question.
@@green1880 His point was that they used it as further leverage
My nephew worked for a company whose products were found to cause cancer. The company started putting attractive women in senior positions to deflect criticism. Overnight accomplished engineers found themselves reporting to women bosses with no engineering skill and unproven leadership abilities. The company faced legal liabilities in the billions due to defective products that gave users cancer and these women in powerful positions would screech, “We don’t owe them anything!” My nephew couldn’t stand the heartlessness and left to start his own company. You speak the truth bro- women are manipulative beyond what men can comprehend.
I am a foreign and American educated MD Physician scientist with years of 20 experience,. I was offered a challenging job by One of Americas biggest companies started by Legendary inventor Edison. A month after suddenly they told me send my research reports to Young blonde lady a Fresh Masters graduate knows nothing about Molecular medicine. She doesn't even know basics of research or science. She asked me a question with logic like Cats and Tigers are same because they both look alike and have stripes. America's era of glory in science and research has ended long ago, It is not a real research leader anymore.*my advice for foreign higher education students and scientists is don't come to America if you have scientific leadership abilities and ambition, you will be strategically get destroyed by the American social system, Go to Europe for education and return to your home country and create your own research system*
Manipulation is the boss babe’s M.O. It is sickening and despicable.
Many have left Pfizer and continue to do so
@ and Bayer
One poisons the food, other keeps you dependent on the antidote
I work on a team of mostly women, and one has made consistent sexist comments about men. Things she’d say would have a man fired in less than 4 seconds, but women feel entitled to say anything they want with no consequences. I called her out about it and she attacked me and blamed me for caring that she’s anti man
If you haven't already reported her to HR, you're not that bright. Best believe she is already planning to report you. Act fast or look for a new job.
Wow narcissism at it's peak
Document and report. You gotta know how to play the game.
Document document
HR won't do anything about it. @@ericpowell4350 they'll even penalize him for trying to make the surrounding hostile
Women love attention and they want you to approach them or pay them compliments even when they’re not attracted to you. When you focus on your job and don’t give them the time of the day, you’ll deprive them of the attention and validation they seek. They’ll use all types of tricks to make you notice them and the moment you fall for that, they obtain the validation they so desperately need to function and to feel confident about themselves. Then they don’t care what happens to you after that. My advice to men is no matter how tempted you might feel even when she gives you the eyes or violates your space and time, don’t fall for it. Every man in the corporate world must program their minds not to date at work. Just take work and your work environment out of your dating space. If you can’t resist the temptation, just quit because it never ends well for men in those situations. If you’re not crazy about the job but you’re crazy about the woman, quit the job and pursue your love interest. But if you love your job and your position just don’t give any woman the power.
True
I was send to HR for saying "Good morning" to my team, according to the complaint my "Good Morning" made some female colleagues uncomfortable.
Oh wow that's crazy
Hahahaha. I love it. Yep. Anything can be construed as being uncomfortable. Sigh.
Stupid/Crazy
@@CulturalCommentaryDo you think things has just been exacerbated by the new "woke" culture/movement?
Then,why hire women at all, if they get offended by hearing GOOD MORNING
That’s why we need to work from home
That is not going to save you from a crazy.
Oh no , as men we must not cower before these sexist Goliaths!
@@chapagawasaves from 99% of S.A. lies. No one can say you "look" at ppl differently.
I knew a guy that worked remotely. He was mentoring a female co-working. She reported him for harassment. They were geographically separated. I didn't fully believe it until something similar happened to me.
@@ericpowell4350 that’s insane
Subscribed and liked. Thank you for this video! Yes, I have faced many challenges with females at work. Once, early in my hospitality career, I even refused a very good offer after meeting the female manager
I work in IT, male dominated. When a woman comes in you should see how quiet it gets and office doors close. I don't even like being in Zoom meetings when women are attending. I stay muted and only talk to respond to a direct question.
I work in SAP related software services, male dominated, I record the meeting when female colleague joins, if they say I don’t consent to record, I just drop out of meeting saying, I have other important tasks 😂
@@vinayj1763 you are stupid bro
@@vinayj1763 lol xD
Of course the paranoid right wing men who make up this comment section wouldn’t see anything wrong with an environment being male-dominated - that’s just the expected order of things, right?
This is illegal in itself. I hope they report you
My female mentor told me not to meet with a lady behind closed doors years ago. I didn't hear until I got accused of SH (i was still single). The good thing is that people knew me to be hardworking, respectful, and well-behaved.
COVID happened, and an investigation was put on hold. A few months later, I changed jobs and have been so cautious.
I work in a female-dominated environment. I learned how to carry myself in a way that they look up to for leadership, and I would never stoop low for nonsense, especially now that I am married.
Well what is SH, oh it's harassment.
@@metalmike570 Well harassment can be anything. Sexual harassment is a less brought but still vague category.
@@worldhello1234 If you go to court for sexual harassment, and only one incident
then I think a guy could have gotten out of it. I got charged with assault for a finger tap like on her back pocket nearer to the hip. What a crazy Karen she was.
It messed up my life is what it did.
You are married? Bingo now you have two front war to fight..(god forbid)..you wife may accuse you of marital rape, then ask for divorce and half of all of your property, all of your children ...bro your now have two fronts
@@HaradhanKerani lol bro, what I tell you I am not scared of divorce?
She would flirt with you. Once her feelings change, she would have zero considerations for your career. The negative gossips will start and before you know it, the HR will come after you.
If you have to work with females, just keep in touch in minimum time possible, never alone and never trust them. Never talk about female coworkers with your male friends. You never know where this words going.
As a female, I appreciate this. Don't touch me, I don't want to be alone with you, I dislike being talked about. So, this is true. Thank you.
I live in Latin America this is sokething quite sensitive ...you can get fired ...
I was the only guy at that job. I had to work there a year with them. My male supervisor was purposely not in touch with reality. They would lie and tell him i was on drugs and he would hget uncomfortably close to see if i was high or drunk. I never was.
@@DavidTaylor-n1z So, you fought good against traps.
@@MermaidT-hx4cnAnd vice versa. Leave men tf alone.
I was 18, working as a lead lifeguard for a water park. I had been messing around with another coworker, and things ended up not turning out.
I watched her say to my friends face that I had touched her inappropriately, and that she was scared for her life. Despite the fact we never even did anything other than make out, which she initiated.
Luckily, my friend had my back and listened to my explanation. Very fortunate for him.
Confronting her about it years later, she said she had no clue what I was talking about.
Girls have any ability to lie so well that even they will believe it.
Either that or she has done that so many times that she couldn't remember.
They all reply the same way:no clue
I worked under a female manager who appeared biased against male colleagues. Due to HR policy, two males, including me, were hired in an otherwise all-female department.
As freshers, we noticed that our female colleagues received promotions and benefits, while we were ignored with minimal increments and no growth. Although the company was good, I eventually left due to her bias.
in my department only the alcoholics got promotions
I was freshly hired in a new office job and had to work with a female coworker.
I was absolutely not attracted to her also because she was of a ethnicity I am not physically attracted to, but since she was pregnant I thought it would be appropriate to dedicate to her a special attention (discharge her from carrying heavy objects, saving her from unnecessary long walks, etc..) so I did all her physically heavy or unpleasant stuff myself.
This must have irritated her and she complained to the manager that I was flirting with her.
I was then pushed to resign from my job.
Women don't deserve any special attention, no matter their situation.
May I ask , which ethnicity was she ?
If it was a man would you have helped him?
@@relaxationclub3848 obviously !! I always try to be helpful to anyone who might benefit any help. But it is true that even some men can misinterpret this attitude towards them.
@@relaxationclub3848 Probably not. Men who play Mr. nice guy and then act innocent. lol
Had you been careless to that woman ignoring her condition she would pick you on that and report being careless or less considerate on her condition and a vulnerability too
Women, particularly single women, often view HR as a substitute for a husband-serving as their force multiplier. Nature designed women with an inherent need for security, which traditionally drove them to seek a partner for better child-rearing outcomes. When a woman turns to HR or management, she’s shifting her reliance from a strong male colleague (whom she may resent for exposing her shortcomings) to the structure of the system.
We can observe this dynamic in marriages, too. Today, women initiate 80-90% of divorces, as doing so empowers them. They replace their husband, who is stronger and a better provider, with support from the government.
It’s a constant power struggle. Nature made women dependent on men, but feminism has instilled guilt around that dependence. As a result, women may attempt to undermine that reality whenever they are given the opportunity.
You must be jesus reincarnate as you know everuthn abt nature
@dysplasiaanaplasia4128 it's a youtube comment, not a thesis. It's where hypotheses get shaped.
LMFAO - you must be gay
Lolololol #projection
government too , lol
I've worked in places where even the women told me, "stay away from that one because she is trouble". I worked 28 years in a female setting in a hospital and was never accused of sexual harassment, etc. Never touch a woman and never kid in a way that comes off sounding like an actual proposition. Beware that some women will even set the man up to look bad.
I keep a very low profile and work in a supervisory capacity over about 90% female employees. I keep interactions BRIEF and DIRECTIVE. I set the expectations, I praise good performance, then I’m GONE. If any interaction drifts into joking or flirting, I avoid that coworker immediately. I’ve also needed to adopt a fairly harsh attitude toward female coworkers so they see me as more of a professional threat if they start getting vicious. If they don’t meet the standard, no special deals, no second chances. They shape up or get replaced. It’s been years and I haven’t had a single HR problem. I’ve also used remote work to duck female supervisors who just want to socialize. The only way they can access me is by scheduling a meeting, and most are too lazy to try. My last workplace I was the most productive employee surrounded by female coworkers who worked half the hours. What did they do the other 50% of the time in the office? Gossip and poison the well about me. Good riddance to the office.
But still that's exactly the same people that will cry for the muuh wage pay gap lmao... what a bunch of sloths. Somebody has to tell them that they gotta earn their sh*t first.
Thanks for sharing!
Yep that’s the way. Be icy cold to women not part part of your household
@@GabrielVilanova-n3pThats why i want females drafted into military combat positions so they can truly earn their equal rights to pay child support and alimony. 😱👀 🤔
Alright man I hate to burst your bubble but a lot of workplaces are like this. The workplace is a shitty place and it makes no difference if it’s 90% women or 90% men. I have male coworkers who gossip and like blaming others for their inadequacies and yes this is a common thing for males to be doing across the country. I hate to ruin your illusion about women in the workplace but it’a just humanity as a whole lol
This is so true. One of my close friends trained a female co-worker and ended up being accused of sexually harassing her. I bet my life he didn’t do it. He was so stressed he was about to quit his career.
I once asked a female co-worker if she and another co-worker would like to go eat down at the cafeteria. She said ok. Later she complained to the manager. Some female co-workers are cool but you just never know. I decided never to ask. Or be alone too long with a woman.
Yeah. It’s a real thing. Unfortunately there’s no checks and balances. No due process. Guilty until proven innocent
Better safe than sorry.
Yes this is why gender separation is practiced in muslim countries but sadly ut’s in decline there too
Never be alone with a woman at work
Many single women wonder why men won't even approach them anymore. Even worse is that they're too aloof to even realize they're pushing men away. It is beyond stupid, but you can't fix stupid. The pendulum always swings, but it may not swing the other way in our lifetimes at this rate.
Today as a man I learned something valuable, thank you for sharing your thoughts on workplace safety for men.
i had a female boss kinda woman on my ex job and quit after around 4 months because she was verbally abusive sometimes and not in front but in texts or whatsapp messages and thought that she had all right to boss me around just because we knew eachother for some years. beware of unmarried and childrenless women around the age of 40. they re the most bitter and passive agressive humans out there.
Did you realize the texts are evidence? If a guy did that he would get a charge of
harassment and have to go to court, again those are evidence.
And they would have probably worked for you too!!
Cat lady epidemic will be the next big thing 😂😂
The reason why women in their 40s, Childless and Unmarried are the most passive aggressive, and hostile to be around is because of the psychological impact their life choice has on them, they badly regret their life choice, they know their DNA is going to die with them, and it's making them bitter, and they take that out on others.
@@Hardin9 what happened was that this woman had a bf but i cant say she was happy. i had a younger gf and she was really hot, short but curvy, big breasts, blond and beautiful doll face with blue eyes. when i bring this girl into a company sort of event as my date, we went to a opera thing, this boss lady although attractive woman too but taller and skinny, no butt, no breasts, she commented on the looks of my gf and why she came with some cleaveage that you could see her breasts. i told her that if she had breasts like that she would ve probably exposed them as well. the envy is real, women are full of hatred and that episode made me realise a lot of things.
@@metalmike570 yes i actually wanted to keep them just to show my boss from Bucharest, the big boss. but after i quit i just didnt want to have anything to do with it anymore or to harm anyone. i just wanted to get on with my life.
Obviously most women knows what they do 100% of the time. In our office a woman simply complained for rude behaviour of a colleague and the high performing colleague was fired.
Moral of the story: dont be a high performer.
@@Krlowanigu-mg6egMoral of the story is don't do anything for anyone as long as it isn't in your interest.
@@Krlowanigu-mg6egHow many times do we need to teach people this lesson?
This is a GREAT advice. Thank you for posting this.
I’ve had too many female bosses and coworkers. They have all been evil
That's because they don't care about men.
All of my female colleagues have been ok as peers. It’s when they get to management or a higher level where some flip switches and they become these psychotic micromanagers. Every time.
I'm not overly keen on lady managers - plenty of them aren't that great. But if you've found that they've ALL been evil for you, it's far more likely that you're the problem.
I view with suspicion any woman who is in a managerial position. Being a manager requires having a masculine personality. Most female managers seem to have a chip on their shoulder and are always trying to prove something to their coworkers. And some women are power hungry and just love being able to boss people around
That’s bc you’re in a toxic workplace. I know none who are evil
You are absolutely right. I’ve been working in the corporate world for 30 years, and I’ve seen it happen to other guys, and it has happened to me. Be very careful with female colleagues at work, off work, and at after-hours functions. Do not go to any work party or fun functions. Stay away, stay clear, , the fewer words, the fewer contacts, the better.
How about you avoid the joke of corporate world and become self employed?
@@ekanata That is a great idea. I started a company, but it was not successful. However, I still encounter the same problem unless you work alone or only hire men
@@ekanata
Lol. If everyone becomes a CEO, who's going to be the employee? Unless you're doing a one man job, you're going to need to hire people, putting you in a similar position as the corporation.
@@AkeruZikora young graduates that need the experience, and people who fail to make successful companies will become employees
As an older divorced man, women tend to think that I’m creepy. I am pretty quiet and stick to my work, choosing to not socialize, go to company parties, or even hang out in the break room. I just do my work and then go home. I pretty much ignore the women at work as much as I can. Sometimes I have to talk with them. My boss is a woman, a little older than I am. I can tell that she really doesn’t like me, even though I do a very good job. I made the mistake of telling a coworker, who I trusted, that I thought one of the women in another department was pretty. I’d hardly spoken to this woman ever. I don’t think she even knew my name. I’d said hi to her a few times. I think maybe my coworker friend said something and a rumor has spread. This pretty woman now seems to avoid me and when I do see her she looks differently at me. I can’t help feeling now that I’m doomed.
I have a research done that proves the word "creepy" is the favourite word of feminists. Infact, if you hear this word from 100 ladies, 90 ladies out of those 100 will be feminists. One of my friends told me that feminist find this word so appropriate because of the wide spectrum of this word.. A man stalking you, staring you, talking to you, an isolated place, nobody talking to you, anything you find wierd, any man you don't like, etc, etc all these things can be easily included in this spectrum of creepy... So any girl often using this word, has to be a feminist and is a red flag 🚩 so guys beware..
nice tip
Creepy is the perfect multitool weapon
Your a VERY WISE MAN to share this, ect
For years the only meaning of a word "creeps" that I knew were neutral faction monsters in Warcraft 3 farmable for exp.
@@r.d.6290go outside man. lol
This isn't just in work settings, this risk is EVERYWHERE for men.
Misandry is rife. And nobody talks about it.
Trust me, men are not even in our radar unless you’re my significant other. Woman don’t think of men much like men think of women. Hormones.
Hence why there are more single men today than any time in history.
Avoiding women is not misandry. Disrespecting or hating them is.... @@stconstable
As a college teacher i dont meet 1 on 1 with any student anymore unless it's a recorded Zoom meeting, or in a group faculty space.
You are wise. Just One entitled hottie can destroy your career if they do not get what they want.
@@franciscogerardohernandezR1979 Yep. And that's why I opted out of the career path of a high school chemistry teacher... Way too dangerous. Even back the in the 90's.
I wish my boss would take on this attitude.
@@ulbra6306 Before breaking bad...
I had so many horny profs hit on me in uni. They try to ruin your prospects by marking the girls lower. This is global.
This is a pure gold advice to all innocent and honest brothers out in the world. We have got no one to stand by our sides in such false accusations, so better stick to these principles.
You are a true alpha male broo …. Huge respect
Not in the world, in the USA.
It is the world brother usa it's kind of ripe but the rest of world is catching up in this DEI shit yall introduced@@octaviovaladaoferreirinhad2689
You have become my favorite channel, good sir! Well done 👏🏼
this is why I went full MGTOW 14 years ago both in my personnel and professional life.
Women generally see men as a walking ATM machine with an endless supply of money OR they see you as someone they can manipulate to get further ahead in some aspect of their life.
When i found out what their true game was, I decided it was time to stop having relationships.
this really pisses off a lot of women, because it "shut's" them down and totally disarms them.
Wise man. I've done the same. Monk mode for the rest of my life now. They're all after some kind of utility from you, be that money, increased status, or your general usefulness to them. It's a tribal instinct they have no control over. They don't love you or care about you. Once they see you as no longer providing any utility they will drop you like a stone.
Maybe you should move to a more traditional country where the women are traditional housewives
@@Qureshi994 if i was a young man i would. Now i just avoid them and life is so much more stress free.
The reality is women don't care if you ignore them. They got enough men to give them the D for free lol
Women hate it...because now in the back of her mind she's afraid you may actually be a threat to her now...
As a woman, the most dangerous people to my career has been other women. One of two reasons I work for myself now. If I have to take a contract during the off-season, it's 100% remote so I don't have to interact with threats to my reputation and career.
Why?
OMG. yes. You are so right. This was something I was not expecting in my career. The gossip and jealousy if you climb the ladder is awful. Other women hate to see women happy.
@@ST-rj8iugirl power!
100 percent
In the old Mexican cantinas there were signs at the entrance that said: “No women or men in uniform.” It was not to discriminate, it was to avoid a problematic environment inside.
I left my career as a surgical tech because if how difficult was to work with females. I'm now an engineer only one female in my job
So happy
Good for you, but this shouldn't be how men solve this problem
This is so sad
Women don't like nice guys, being very very respectful to them is the best technique to stay away from trouble with workplace women.
I agree with you. Nice guys repel women 😂😢😂 in this context it's a good thing.
It's not being a nice guy; it's called being a human being. You people are part of the problem if you think you deserve to have your reputation destroyed for giving them 'unwanted attention' or if they decided to develop the ick later.
I don't understand. Nice guys don't give 'unwanted attention'. They ARE very very respectful to them, as sad as it may sound.
intentionally acting a pacifier beta male is best way to go.
FALSE. I got fired from a job while helping a female redo her resume and improve her technical skills. She went to HR and told them that I was "harassing" her. This was after she told me that she was looking for a new job and all the other challenges she was experiencing. I was literally providing her with information without quid pro quo and she did that. She even told them benign things I said completely out of context. To this day, I'm still blown away that someone could be that evil. Do NOT put anything past them. Protect your self always. No socializing and no small talk. Don't even ask them about their family.
Absolutely right. I have experienced this 3 times in my 25 years career. Once I was in a mutual relationship which went bad and was hard to keep business relationship stable. 2nd time I rejected approaches of a colleague then out of frustration I switched jobs. 3rd time I rejected advances of my new boss and she removed me from project when I couldn't complete in time
The best woman colleague is your boss for a relationship I mean lol
It doesn't even have to be alone.
I had an argument with a female resident manager of a building I lived in. She barged into a hallway conversation I was having with another female tenant. The argument did not become heated but tense. I tapped the manager on the shoulder to draw her attention to a bulletin board on the wall I wanted to make a point about. She looked at me for 5 full seconds as I walked to the bulletin board, threw her hands in the air, and shouted TAKE YOUR HANDS OFF ME! At that point I realized this person was literally nuts and ended the discussion right then, to write to management about what had just happened. This all happened in full view of the other tenant. I contacted this tenant to get her corroboration on how the events played out and she said she didn't want to get involved. She further stated that the manager had asked her whether she should contact the cops about getting a restraining order on me.
You can't even have a meeting IN PUBLIC and be assured you won't be maligned and possibly charged with assault. Should I have tapped her on the shoulder? Clearly not. But in my defense her own husband did EXACTLY the same thing to ME in yet ANOTHER heated argument when I eventually left the building years later which I pointed out to him. But in HER description to building management she said I tried to bodily drag her to the bulletin board. I had friends supervise all further meetings with this person because she was clearly dangerous.
You seem confused between touching men vs. women. Just ask the police and they will help you understand the difference and how bad it can get for you if you do it again.
@@davedsilva In a normal society there wouldn't be ANY difference between tapping either a man or a woman on the shoulder during a discussion.
women are a cartel, the cartel comes first, always, don't count on a woman vouching for you.
@@darioinfini I'm with you, brother. But even in those long gone good old days, you were playing with fire, and it was just a matter of time before you burn yourself.
Wear a nanny cam in public
The story of Joseph and Potiphar's wife is a very good lesson for us men.
Now that you've mentioned it😮. I've always read that story but I never saw it as a reflection of female nature. I'm so surprised that it accurately describes them despite being so old. She ruined his life because he rejected him, which is a very common occurrence even today
@@trip_t2122yeah man. The Bible's stories have amazing lessons for all ages.
@@SiphamandlaNgcobo-mu8uk true
Don't forget the story of Samson and Dalilah. She seduced him and later betrayed him for money
@@trip_t2122 You tend to think the Bible is a kind of fiction, legends, what have you, until the same thing happens to you.
THIS GUY IS 10000% CORRECT!!!
I was fired 7 times. 1 by a man and rest by females. Plus 4 females attempt to fire me.
I'm a strictly professional worker with a clean record.
They'll fire me for being 2 mins late, not crossing my t and dot my I.
I CAN'T STAND WORKING WITH/ FOR FEMALES!
The last time I had a cool woman boss was in 1999 and she was silent gen. I had raise every 6 months.
Now I can't keep a job for 4 months.
you are on to something.
GREAT VIDEO!
Same in India, a guy working in the company for 15 years got fired for sexual harassment.
The guy had trained numerous male and female colleagues all the who said he's a great guy.
All this only for an accusation.
I once had a female coworker at my previous employer who had already been a coworker at another employer, so we knew each other. All seemed good, but once day she suddenly got mad at me because she thought I was trying to spy on her smartphone (I was not. Her phone lay on a table unlocked, and I just stared at it for 3 seconds). From that day on, the fight only escalated and things never went back to normal. There were luckily no bad consequences for me, and thank God I was able to switch jobs soon thereafter.
If you switch jobs because of what a women said then you are weak.
This is an underrated awareness video and should be shared across world. This is a dangerous situation and rampantly spreading even in India especially IT sector. I strongly feel women should be hired in departments where only women works else this toxic culture will never end 😮
As a woman in the workplace, co-workers are not my friends and I've seen manipulative and untrustworthy women and men both. Best to keep to yourself and do not share anything personal with anyone.
This. I generally don’t make friends with coworkers anymore and prefer to work from home. There are way too many strange office dynamics that I’ve gotten sucked into despite trying to be impartial and professional. This has ranged from something as mundane as getting sucked into a coworker’s sob story for hours when I was trying to work all the way to legitimate sexual harassment (my supervisor literally put his hands on me).
Never talk about personal things at work. Never talk about your dating life, especially if you are dating someone at work. Women love to gossip. Before you know it, the entire office will know your personal business. Use emails and text messages as little as possible. Anything you say in an email or text message can be used against you.
so you don't have many friends then? I mean how else are you supposed to find them other than dating apps
@@smokescreen2146 there are plenty of other ways to make friends than at work if you’re willing to put in even minimal effort lol. There are tons of Facebook hobby groups, meetups, sports clubs, and volunteer opportunities that you can try out to meet new people outside of work.
yes 100% just do what is required for the job
At a previous company. I have experienced a work "team mate" out to get me. This was accusations of bullying, making up lies about me, defamation, not sharing important documents and general underhanded behaviour. It was incredibly stressful, prevented me from getting a promotion (management smart enough not to admit to this) which in turn had repercussions for the direction my life was taking. Devastating experience. Very difficult for management to unpick. Very difficult when the bully is manipulating the narrative and claiming to be the victim.
I'm a great believer that time is the greatest judge of character. Felt it important to share my story.
When the only card to play is your word against theirs, it's a little tricky. Unless you find something to unlevel the field in your favor, the cards are stuck against you!
As a Muslim, my religion warned about these opposite sex relationships and mingling. But even we took it for granted. Now, seeing you guys learning this lesson the hard way, I appreciate my religious teachings.
Perfect comment , they are learning now the lessons said by our prophet more than 1400 years ago.
That lesson should be far more universal, especially nowadays.
Firstly why they are coming to do work keep them under burqa this is the right way to prevent SH 😂😂
It's a lesson that Christ knew 2,000 years ago@@ساميمحمد-ض6س5خ
Regardless without lies Islam dies . Christ is king
I don't even talk them, just good morning without eye contact and end, everything else, " please send me an email".
Pure genius!!!
lmao
Thanks! I will follow this going forward.. + record all meetings and interactions as well.
@@souvikghosh572 is a good idea, but in my country isnt possible because is restricted, anyways I keep the door open all the time, just to have some of safety.
Me too. Everything keep recorded
This video is seriously underrated! This should be seen by every guy in corporate!
Working in security, I found a female colleague asleep at work. In a friendly tone, I aked if she'd dozed off. I'd never have reported her. Five minutes after she left I got a call from our control centre accusing me of making a "racial remark"( she was S Asian) to her. The idea was to preempt any report I might have made about her sleeping. In Canada a racist remark is a firing offence. Fortunately, my previous reputation over decades made my bosses believe me, not her. Since then I've avoided working with women if at all possible.
Your fault you should have slept with her , she would never complain lol
😮
damn, thats genious to throw someone under the bus. the west is allowing this. vote right
Happened to me like two or three times. What I have noticed is that if you are a sigma male, some female coworkers absolutely hate that. Why? Because especially where I work (IT), it is male dominated and they want to replace their lack of knowledge or work with being flirty and generally manipulative as a gentle gender. Now if they see they can't sway you and that you are someone who they can't control or wrap around their finger, they will try as hard as possible to descredit you and accuse you of stuff to get you fired before you could expose her for her insecurities (ie lack of knowledge or work ethic) even if you never intended to do so, it's just their defence mechanism, like shit this guy is not possible to manipulate, I will have to get rid of him before he endangers me in any sort of way.
That said I have worked with some truely pleasant ladies, but they are often an exception unfortunately, these are usually the feminine calm and down to earth ones.
100% agree with this, all female comp scis are dumb, and try get the guy to do the work for them 😂
I can assure you there's no sigma male who self identifies as a sigma male.
@Maruman_man assure me then 😅. That's like saying no honest person would say they are honest.
This! Happened to me a couple of months ago. A new female trainee started under my watch, she was being sweet and always wanted to hold a conversation in different things other than work, used to notice me carefully (one day I was explaining something related to work and suddenly she said that how did I have calluses in my hands, to which I simply smiled and changed the topic to work, also pointed out minute things about me, my food habits and many more) I did not feel compelled to get carried away so I stuck to my job, then after a few weeks I started to notice the same pattern towards another male colleague. By that time she was becoming hostile and rude to me for no reason, then started to pick faults in my job and tried to manipulate me in ti believing what I am doing is wrong. I was quite clear on the fact that she only started doing this because I didn't give her the attention that she seeked. Along with this, she had a very poor background in languages, as the job requires to be proficient in at least two languages to cater to people of different ethinicities and languages. Funny.
I have worked in a lot of companies. Not even a single woman in the office was there due to her relevant skills and experience. All of them were not capable of doing the job but due to close contacts they were given higher positions.
How great to hear someone publicly raise this issue. I’ve seen my friends fall victim to this and this guy nails it in this video. Respect to this host.
Medical Doctor. Learned my lesson it didn't went too far but I learned: No Jokes, be extremely polite, don't spend unnecessary time alone with the person of subject, focus in your job, and all talk should be work related.
I learned it in the hard way... after Covid i was doing a cybersecurity training to get some extra money during my studies... I fell in love to a girl in my class... she nearly destroyed me completely... i almost lost myself... but thanks God i was able to get out from this toxic environment , but it took me 7-8 months to heal and move on... and she was my first at 25...
Medical doctor?? "It didn't went too far?"
Wtf - so sad of us men 🙁
"be extremely polite", Huhh?? Men get fired for sexual harassment just for saying "good morning" to a woman (if he's not good-looking enough), but it makes sense to be "extremely polite". You are wrong.
@@Will-ql5db I guess I'm not ugly enough. So I can get away with it. But what you suggest the opposite? Yeah you could. But at some point at some extend u have to play the game. If not they are going to gossip about you. How you are not interacting enough. And still your career will suffer.
I prefer to be an older "stealth guy" at the office who stays away from most people. I wouldn't want to be a manager again and put up with BS and just make decent money doing my work and getting along with people. Stay away from women is what I teach my sons its such a mine field today.
Pure genius!!
Followed this strategy during my undergraduate days. Saved me a lot of trouble; also helped me gain a high CGPA.
Now i understand a lot of the issues that happened to me while i was working as a manager, all of the women fighting for the attractive guys while i was getting too much pressure on tasks, got promoted because of my language skills, i begged for a short vacation at off season, but started being discredited to the point i left the job to a better paying one, there were almost all women and they ended up making my life impossible while they tried to look for any bf to get the greencard, two of them made it, i even helped them with a lot of issues, they partied every night and even for a friend who enrolled in a collegue there with her girlfriend in florida, she left him to pursue rich men (because of the pictures she posts on instagram), no wonder why i even feel weirdly uncomfortable in my design career and want to switch to engineering despite having to waste 5 years at my age
Women appreciate this,'please continue to keep away 😂
@@4thllz thanks. we know men do not bother you, please leave men alone
What ever is stated in this video is true and aligned with what I have witnessed in various big companies ! Big Thank you for making this video
Also, my boss is a female with 25+ years of experience in the field. When she was asked to choose 3 people for promotion by the management, she preferred females, all of them. She feel threatened if someone is good at his work. She would somehow pick him up and create a problem out of nowhere. She always crosscheck with a female if something is asked to a male.
Once women become the majority in a department, they will never relinquish their power. They will show hiring preferences to women. They don't want men to invade their spaces. The biggest mistake men made was allowing women to work there
“and I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.” Ecclesiastes 7:26
I can see why this is where we are at. If I were male I would refuse to be near or alone with female colleagues. Period.
All it takes is one woman to call you a creep, or to accuse you of something, and then your reputation gets ruined
My dad was a newspaper publisher. A woman who worked for him started an affair with a man in the workplace. Her husband found out and she lied that he’d assaulted her for her husband to forgive her. My dad had to fire him. He really felt terrible about it. Just stay away from women in the workplace. The amount of silly drama most girls gossip about could be quickly blown out of proportion when the company picks it up
Typical fefail behavior.
Islam is one religion which takes into consideration the risks involved in close interaction between men and women. There must be restrictions on how they interact with each other. It makes lot of sense.
All religions do.
Agreed, no handshakes and no seclusion with members of opposite sex. Islam is the only religion that deals with these problems in detail.
You are talking garbage, the problem is not a close interaction with women , the problem is insane rules are systems that are in place in the name of women empowerment and feminism. There is no real problem in close interaction between men and women. Men's and women's are interacting closely before any religion exists.
@@RojaJaneman The blindness of a person, who has eyes, but refuses to see :) :)
Except these wonderful Islam teachings stipulate these restrictions in the off-work environment. And Muslim women are forbidden to work.
i am from india and worked with many company , where women works . you are saying 100 percents right.
Females CANNOT be told they are wrong
This is an extreme generalization. I am a woman who works in tech, and I know I’m not always right about things. If someone comes forward with more knowledge and information then I acknowledge their opinion and pivot the project based on their feedback. If I didn’t do this I would not be able to work on the team that I do.
@@ssgg23 I take my hat off to you then. As a physicist, I saw women get preferential treatment on the (long) way to my PhD. I guess I have a bit of an axe to grind. Anyway, cheers to you and may there be many more like you who actually represent the TRUE cause of feminism 😎
@@ssgg23 That's great, but you are a stark minority, the exception that proves the rule.
@@ssgg23Another tragic case of woman brain where a woman can't comprehend a generalization without mentioning an exception. I guess you didn't have to take statistics for ypur engineering class
@@ssgg23no it is not, if your a women all you care about is your own feelings, your comment proves it.
I don't even look at em anymore, I avert my eyes and focus on something beyond. I wont be accused of leering. Avoid em at every opportunity and minimize the chances/opportunities to make a false accusation. Great video
This is 100% correct. Concentrate on your work in office. Office is meant for work not for chit chating , gossiping and making friends.
That’s wrong if you want to move up 😊
@manvsmachine1 Well, then I do not want to.😅😅😅
@@manvsmachine1 Thats a feminine strategy of "moving up" LMAO
@@OneNiftyBoi no man, you need work ethic and people skills to do it
Oh,, except for when the women at work want to do it. Double standard.
This is great advice. What consequences are there for women who are inappropriate with a man in the workplace? None.
This started to meander around the 2:40 mark. Though I have all the sympathy in the world for men being the victims of women who want to lie, no man needs to be making "off-color jokes" or "innocently asking people out for coffee" (all his words) in the workplace. What no one seems to be talking about is the fact that despite everyone keeps saying it's a bad idea, *women absolutely see the workplace as an opportunity to find a mate.* That's where men have to have disciplined and not do that. *Don't count on women to do the right thing (in any circumstance).* in some regards, a man is in more vulnerable at the workplace if he's _attractive._ being unattractive to women at the workplace can actually be a blessing as long as you don't talk to any of those women who are going to accuse you of being creepy.
You're absolving women of accountaility. You're another whiteknight.
You can reverse engineer this too. I was hanging out with co-workers and we were all teasing. Going along with it, I jokingly said something about harassment. One of the men stopped the teasing, got deadly serious and said "Please don't ever say that word. That isn't a joke for men. " That struck me hard and I sobered up quickly. That was years ago but I still keep that lesson close. It made me really think about the man's POV. We could all do with thinking about the other person's life and career.
In another instance, last year I had this married guy keep subtly hitting on me at work. He's got a family and a good career. I left it alone. Just playfully laughed it off until it all went back to normal. I realize every case is different, but in this case so what? He wasn't offending me. He was a nice guy. It never even crossed my mind to try to wreck his career and family life because he flirted here and there and tried to slip me his number. It didn't go anywhere: no harm, no foul. He was just a guy going through things in his life, not out to personally wound mine. I'm a good listener; I let him be human and let it pass. We just need to show some compassion sometimes instead of selfishly angling towards a twisted form of career gain by striking someone else down. Let's all be made of tougher stuff. SH cases should be for when they're REAL, not for when it looks like a slick opportunity.
EVERYONE deserves grace and compassion. ☯️🙏🏽
I’m pretty sure this post was written by a man because there is no way a woman could have these thoughts, lol
Everyone deserves grace and compassion... Except those women who have falsely accused us those deserve karma and hopefully we'll be there to see it with some popcorn 🍿. What goes around comes around...
You did just normal thing. And SO proud of yourself.
@esimin don't mock her man at least she is not evil
Yeah i know she did the right and "normal " but let's just run here too
@@gatacelta that's my attitude as well. Laugh it off. I also don't understand why women say they are afraid of men. Men are not scary, they are just people!
My friend had his career set back by 10-12 years because of something like this. He has watched other people 10 years younger get promotions over him even though he has the seniority and skills to be promoted. 1 comment, no touch involved, and she got HR all over him.
Yes. It’s a huge problem these days unfortunately
This is something you do not see. Younger generations m,f are different, they are ha.
Te.
Full.
Why is he still at the same company? It's his fault if he didn't get a new job. Unless you're talking about the police, fire, or military where he just can't up and leave.
I worked with women, and women managers for years. I learned a few things along the way…
1. Be professional and leave the small talk to THEM. Be reactionary, and quiet. Don’t compliment or joke. They
ALWAYS take it wrong!
2. Befriended every female in the place, on a pro level. Make
Yourself “indispensable”. This will help you behind the scenes.
You’ll have defenders in every corner. And win the battles w/o saying a word.
3. Never…never, date anyone! Make it your very well known policy.
IF, you love your job, adhere to the above.
Beleagured males motto 😂😂😂😂
@marcossilva635 ....Unfortunately, yes!
Amazing that this hit my feed.....flashback to Westinghouse 40 years ago. I had a psychotic female summer student that worked for me....but thanks to ANOTHER female co-worker telling HR that the intern was in fact psychotic, I was spared the guillotine. And yes if you end up with a female manager, either transfer or quit.....you are in a no win situation.
A female manager used to piss off the male group, one day I left best thing ever, all guys left weeks late... She was fired for bad management.
Must be boring at work
100% true. Not just USA, in India also same case.