Most of the similar type of contents are like this because, in my opinion, in reality people don't actually care about other people but only themselves.
More like 90/10% split for most men for women that are attractive enough. Only some guys that actually appreciate fashion it may be a 70/30 split. For women that aren't conventially attractive, it can be 100% for the clothing itself.
Yeah, it seems that she just has a lot of segs on her mind. This is like the opinion on the stereotype of men 😂 I honestly know more hypersexual women than I do men.
I think she was doing it more for comedical effect though. She doesn't cross me as one who is hypersexual and wants seg. she is a humorous gal. It's why we all clicked on her video.
I'm fine can mean: - I'm actually fine - I'm not fine but I don't want to talk about it - I'm so far gone I'm a lost cause and there's no point talking to anyone anymore, I'd rather just suffer in silence since it takes less effort and I won't drag anyone else down with me
Sorry if this comes a little bit straightforward but You alright? That last thing sounds like a story... You can talk about whatever you want to anyone you enjoy bro, think anyone who cares and asks that to you is actually there to listen to you and if you dont even want advice you can just say it. Dont suffer in silence, people make everything better when together and loneliness sometimes is a trap for your mind, and even if you still suffer, know that people care for you.
@@Mmm---mmm Sorry if that was a bit dark - I was not in a good place when I wrote that. Guess I have a bit of tendency to clam up when I'm going through a hard time, and my autism can make it quite difficult at times to even communicate what I want to, but partly because of your comment I did go and talk to some close friends and family and I'm doing a bit better now. Honestly really appreciate you taking the time to help out a random stranger on the internet. Cheers bro
@@Mmm---mmm Nah, the last one is real. I can attest to it myself. Consider yourself lucky if you've never found yourself saying "I'm fine" when feeling that.
Can totally relate to the last one as well, but i have found a couple of people not long ago that are amazing and help me out sometimes, so have faith, keep going and things will get better, have patience. Best of luck to y'all out there.
I feel like that's mostly an expansion (or maybe a more specific version) on the "I don't want to talk about it" option. I don't want to talk about it because I don't want to bother or trouble anyone, they probably have their own issues etc.
7:00 One time, they saw me staring into the void and asked me, "What are you thinking?" I said nothing, but in reality, because I watched a documentary last night, I was thinking about the Battle of Philippi in 42 BC between Mark Antony/Octavian and Brutus/Cassius. One other time, I was thinking about why the sunset on Mars is blue. Thats why we answer almost always, nothing.
Relatable, I always stared at nothing and when I was asked, I answered nothing. But in reality, I was thinking about WW2, ancient human civilization, the chance of finding a habitable planet in another galaxy, the circle of life, and my dream marriage with my crush.
It's not even that we think it's inappropriate or useless half the time. It's just more fun to think about it to yourself than to talk about it with another person.
As a man... I just want somebody to hug me, play with my hair, and tell me 'everything's going to be okay'. No seggs. No arguments. Just this, and I can use the positive energy from such an encounter to fulfill my emotional need for closeness for another decade.
@jonirischx8925 "a problem with u liking men too" ur paranoid bro.. these are your words not mine also. "Too" as if there were a problem in the first place?!? My best friend is gay (not for me gladly lawl). And bro there are 8 billion people on the planet, maybe we have diffedent. Experiences regarding humor? Apologies if youve heard my joke and your small pool of humour got u offended. Drop sarcasm dude. Boring non creative complaint is all it is, and theres u trying to make a creativity complaint.... snooorree ur teaching no one.
Until you get enough innocent cuddling and you want to get to the seggs part asap. And then, when you had enough seggs, you just want her to be by your side with seggs not being a crucial thing. That's the natural evolution from virgin to married man.
TH-cam groups you with people based on what you watch and how long you watch it. You then get recommended videos based on what other people within the groups you've been assigned watch. Which occasionally leads to some weird overlaps.
Well, you must not be aware of the situation among your peers... A married guy in his 40s on TH-cam? That's exactly the content I expect to be recommended.
4. If a man stares into nothing usually while sitting outside near a fire, he is deeply reflecting about something deep or stupid or brain just turned off. 5. Men enjoy the little things, like stick that looks like a sword or gun or the nips or clit during seggs.
It's funny how many women fail at the first step, but expect you to know every single detail of what they've been talking about from the last week or month :D
I feel like this describes the average highschool f--kboy, which is getting more and more common, but cant be generalised across the board. Just a warning, in case anyone is thinking that your man crush definitely wants sex, and then you mess up your chances cos of this wrong assumption
Yeah, as a guy I've only ever had crush's on girls I *don't* really want to have sex with. To me romance and sex are almost two different things, but you almost have to pretend to be in the "romance" area to have sex most of the time lol
@@cbot9302that’s one weird part with having a crush on someone, in my case i don’t think I have ever thought of having sex with my crush, I’m just infatuated with everything about them and thinking of them doing lewd things feels sacrilegious to me 😅
Believe it or not: not every guy is hypersexual. Most men (not boys) want sincere connection, warmth, emotional intimacy, support, and a reason to remain disciplined and accountable. They want something that has meaning. The guys seeking meaningless sex tend to be lost in life so they’re equally lost in their relationships
FYI this video is NOT supposed to be taken seriously BY ANY MEANS it's so wrong: you're on the right track, say whatever you mean (unless it's hurtful) and don't mislead the other person like this girl thinks we act. Those "secret messages" should only be attempted to be included when bantering or flirting
For autistic men the usual "don't look for a secret message" aspect becomes, *"Seriously don't bother looking for any hidden meaning there's legitimately nothing there!"*
4:30 when we say "I like women with no makeup" what we actually mean is that we prefer the subtle makeup that does not _look_ like makeup. I know some girls who spend hours on makeup that makes them look gorgeous but no man would clock it as makeup. Basically, no crazy highlighter, bright lipstick, blush etc
My rule of thumb is, "If I can tell you're wearing makeup, it's too much makeup". Imo with too much makeup a woman looks more like a piece of art than a human. It's pretty/beautiful but not attractive.
this exactly! immature emotionally needy young men are the type to befriend a girl and basically be a fake friend just try to have sex. Then they're selfloathing cause they feel rejected but in reality they were misleading the entire time and the friendship with the girl is less interesting than using them as a coping mechanism object.
It is especially important in 2024 to establish consent. Many men seem like they are refusing subtle hints as they'd rather not be framed as a harasser.
for those who read comments first before actually watching the video.. save yourself some time, it's all about: "Men are almost all about SEGS." and that's all into it.
yeah it's a bit reductive... the vast majority of guys, especially those 25 or older, are not so one-dimensional. having sex literally every day is a bit much
@@TetrahedreX It's quite stupid because for teen boys and below, everything about society points to sex. Then once you reach a certain age, life just gets in the way so you rub one out and move on.
can't blame her for being young. she's still yet to know latter in life that there are others who appreciates something else.. like when you wake up in the middle of the night finding your partner awake too.. you look at her and without a word she heads to the kitchen then you follow, knowing your coffee will be ready soon.
@@DrSwazz I'm sorry, but i have to disappoint you. Teenagers, altough many have a high libido, do not, in fact, have sex. I lived not amongst discord mods, but amongst humans. And guess what? Humans don't all think of sex. And men and boys are humans, as you might have heard. Mom giving son a hug before he heads off to school does not lead to sex. The boy hanging out with his friends in class does not lead to sex. The boy talking to girls leads to bullying, not sex. Girls tend to be more promiscuos earlier in life (statistically), meanwhile i only know one guy my age who is openly no longer a virgin. But not being a virgin isn't a flex. And remember, don't do kids, drugs!
Please realize that for more men than you might think, all roads do not lead to segs. I find myself genuinely wanting to do something nice for a girl, and genuinely wanting to compliment them on their attire, but I know that my intentions will be misinterpreted, even if I say them outright, so I just end up not doing anything and staying more of an antisocial hermit. It's overgeneralizations like these that are making it harder for men who ACTUALLY CARE.
The "Okay, I'm sorry" thing is true. We're not sorry, we're just sick of talking. The way a man actually admits defeat is usually by laughing at themselves.
As a man if I say sorry I truly mean it and that is why me saying sorry is always the last thing I would say which marks my defeat especially when I know I am right
As a man, every single one of my partners were more sexually feral than me and I said no more often than they did. If the conclusions you are reaching are always sex, maybe that says more about you than the men.
#1. This is a cry for help: "I'm not the relationship type" really means "I've been crushed by rejection and disappointment to the point that I doubt my abilities to be in a relationship" #2. It means he doesn't wanna talk about what is bothering him or feels vulnerable that he doesn't want to share what is bothering him due to social expectations. He doesn't feel comfortable talking about it with you [because you'll use it against him or think less of him]. Most of this is under the assumption we always think about sex all the time. We don't. Stop treating us like simps. Some of us have some damn self-respect. "Take things slow" really means taking it slow. Tread with caution. We want an exclusive relationship and not having "options" -- he's waiting for you to show your crazy power level first before he dives deeper. It's a defense mechanism.
Not looking for a relationship can also mean “I don’t have time for a full-time woman in my life.” Some guys are really busy with school or careers, and can’t devote the appropriate amount of time to providing attention to a committed relationship. I’ve been there. Still wanted segs though.
Men: “Could you please understand that not everything I feel, think or do is to have segs?” 10%: I actually do want to have segs, I am just not in the mood. 30%: I am genuinely upset and would like to abstain from segs. 30%: I am on the ace spectrum, and you just offended me. 30%: You're actually right, I do want segs, but if I admit to it right now I will lose this argument.
The funniest stuff is because that's kinda like UNIVERSAL I already heard the same stereotypes coming from brazilian women, russian women, even arabic women 😂
Well, it is reality for a very small amount of men. But... women love to think that all men are like this. And the women who believe it the most are the ones aiming for unobtainable chadlads who only want to eff around. All them ladies just spreading their legs freely for them and effortlessly. Whenever they feel they have to masturbate they'll just call up on one of the desperate girls like the one in this video for sex and they'll be more than happy to give it to them.
right!? she says the word "sex" like literally every other sentence, there's so much more to men's lives and most of these women are clueless about it, it's like that meme of "men only want one thing" or "he must be thinking of other women," meanwhile the guy is thinking about if he can jump while falling from a building or planning out his strategy for Stardew Valley
@@grey_f98 unfortunately a large part of her sample size does include her fanbase who are her fans for a reason, so can't really blame her for the wild dataset biases.
@yesno You act like any thoughts went into her stream, she just pulled up stream took some notes in the intro while looking up a few things men do then started talking. And im being generous
For the complimenting clothing, if we say, "nice shirt" or "nice pants" we're typically complimenting the clothing choice. If we say "you look great in that shirt/those pants," that's when we're complimenting your assets rather than the clothing.
@@wheatwhole_ not even 50% like fucking 15% or less, most guys that actually care about people and how they come across, don't just talk to a woman to get a quick bang, they actually want a connection, a friend, or something. The fact that she thinks just complimenting a shirt is complimenting her boobs is fucking wild.
idk what i learnt about men but i definitelly understood that she has only met guys who fell for her looks and well (for segs) not actually like her and she is normalizing it by saying every guy just wants segs
It's definitely either 1.) a reflection of every guy that she has met and interacted with or 2.) a streamer persona she adapts for the jokes to land harder. But man you could only use "Sex is the punchline" joke so much until everything just becomes stale
Congratulations you're raised right as man. I was raised in pretty conservative culture as man and find it baffling why she always assume we only think about sex or men in her community are mostly like that? I won't even look at a stranger woman let alone fuck her, lol.
Probably the one's hunting, women don’t approach men like men do some don’t even have the the chance, to see the perspective, cause in a garden which flowers you pick up first?
You don't need to feel bad for her, she did this herself. She wouldn't have this experience if she wasn't a shallow person to begin with. She went for guys because lolattractive and not for guys who are loyal and care.
@@MAhmed-rb9ur I am incredibely sorry that you met so many terrible men, but i'm not sleeping with anyone but my partner of at least a few weeks. If i had one, that is.
Alright guys, meeting time-looks like our secret's been leaked!! We’ve been holding this for so long, but it’s time to stop pretending we don’t know where the ketchup is in the fridge!!!
JINNY sensei, i finally understood women after this video - whenever men say anything most of the women directly gonna imagine "he wants SEGS" (ps - avoid women at all cost) (-_-)
idk why a lot of people say they're actually thinking of nothing because that's pretty much impossible to think about nothing. It's always the "too weird to explain" or "too long/ you wouldn't understand" type thoughts.
"Nothing" can also mean. "Literally can't remember the thought anymore from the second it was interrupted." Which is as close to actually nothing as one can possibly get.
As a 23 yo man who has already had segs, I think that's the last thing I'm thinking about when hanging out with women, but I also have autism, so maybe that has something to do with it
Bro I was in a similar situation, I did it with a girl who was throwing herself on me even tho I wasn't interested, it was awful, would not recommend. Keep looking for a girl you like, put yourself out there more, ask out the girls you like and make your interest clear, but as far as segs go, let it happen naturally/don't force it just to mark a checkbox
@@Homiloko2 How did your relationship end up? I would like to hear a bit more story. Why did you accept her approach? How did you feel about the situation?, etc.
@@Homiloko2was it awful in the moment because you were not comfortable or nervous, or is the memory of it not being within a relashionship bothering you? (If you don't mind sharing)
@@IgorJCorrea Good question, made me introspect a bit. It wasn't good or bad, not much different from doing it yourself I guess. The next morning we shared breakfast and it was all fine during everything, but the day after that, after letting it simmer I felt a bit bitter and disappointed about it. Like it wasn't all that amazing as I was hyping myself up to be, and it was pointless to do with someone you're not really interested in. And then I just cut contact and moved on.
2:03 I guess it depends on the person; but in the case that a guy says "I'm fine" when he's bad; it may be because he doesn't want to talk to you about it because he doesn't want to deal with how you respond about it, he doesn't want to give you a bad time, or he doesn't want to show weakness out of pride
I have an addendum to the last one. It depends on his stage in life. If he has kids or is dating an older woman that wants them, he means slow down to make sure you're a good match even though she might want to rush because there's more at stake. If he has his life in order, it means you're attractive enough to date long-term, but he's holding out for someone hotter. If he's broke, he's saying he finds you attractive enough to date but can't afford to date you right now. He'd rather extend the talking stage and build friendship first before spending money he doesn't really have. Lots of guys in this camp these days.
"Let's take things slow" I"m gonna have to contest that one a little bit. It COULD also mean that he saw some red flags, but isn't sure if their deal-breakers, so he's trying to figure it if you're... "manageable" before he commits to you. Also, a slim chance it has to do with past experiences and hang-ups. Either way, it means what it seems like it means, he ain't trying to commit yet.
men are not that difficult to understand: give your man peace, appreciate him, give him food, give him "6". That´s all. But even this minimum somehow is too much too ask nowadays.
@@igorthelight EQ is really not a thing. It's a bollocks measure to make dumb people feel better about themselves. The term itself is an oxymoron. There is no intelligence in emotion, they are completely different things. Heck the people who are best at convincing others and manipulating others tend to be very intelligent people who are very self-centered emotionally. They are so self-centered that they don't care who they hurt as long as they can get what they want and that makes them very flexible when interacting with people.
@@thenonexistinghero I could agree that EQ is not really an intelligence to be honest. It's an ability to understand emotions of another person. Someone could be pretty intelligent in terms of technology but couldn't really understand when someone is upset or trolling him/her. EQ is just that ability to correctly decrypt what other people may feel.
@@igorthelight EQ is kinda flawed though. Like I said, some of the people best at reading and manipulating other people are those who would basically score very low on the parameters they've set on EQ. There's just all kinds of things that would pose issues when it comes to measuring what they claim to be EQ. IQ isn't exactly perfect either, but it can give a useful measure of parts of intelligence suited to do tasks that we consider valuable in society. But for EQ? There's really no way to test it properly. At least not yet. Maybe something like it if in the future there's a method to measure it through what exactly happens in the brain, but we're likely at least several decades off on actually even starting to go beyond the baby steps we've made in figuring out how the human brain exactly works and decrypting its language, so to speak.
For the I’m kidding part, we just love teasing and that “might” be the only way for some men to express their love. Especially teenagers or young men. But it’s not the same as bullying, if they bully you and never apologize that’s not affection.
@@yamaracuya That's why I said teenagers and young men. Yeah it's definitely childish if it's your only way to gain attentions but I don't think teasing is exclusively bad. Especially if it's done right, but that's the hardest part and it depends on the girl's personality too.
you look nice - always romantic sexual meaning. your possessions look nice - literal meaning, never 50/50. if someone compliments your clothing its not implying anything
Would like to object on number 15 ( 9:38 ) Taking things slow can actually mean taking things slow. Due to the circumstances of how men are perceived by others, it deeply impacts some guys. They fall into psychological issues related to intimacy. For example, being scared of the pace of progress of relationship, because the guy in question can think, "I like this girl/woman but if I reach the next level before being prepared, I might accidentally/mistakenly end up doing something that will vilify me or jeopardize the relationship. I don't want to mess it up." Unfortunately, that act of slowing things down can often lead to jeopardizing the relationship.
The crux of man. Needing to push your feelings aside which inevitably leads to your feelings being hurt which means you have more feelings to push aside.
number 10 has 3 options! 1. no thoughts head empty. (~30% chance) 2. overly specific hard to explain thought about something he learned earlier that day (i.e. some crazy detailed story from like 570 AD China, this is the most likely scenario, ~60% chance) 3. the most vile, inexcusable, disgusting, horrendous intrusive thought you could possibly come up with. (~10% chance max)
women seek protection. if you are nice guy, but you can't protect her or take care of her, she feels unprotected. it's important for us. that's why a girl will choose bad guy over nice guy. even if he will be rough with her, he also can protect her. more mature girls seek nice guy, but who can protect her. that's why money also important for us. we want our future family to be financially protected, that our children are fed. but that's not mean we want a millionaire.
@@yamaracuya seek protection with a bad guy that is full of drama 24/7? lol if a woman cares too much about being protected that's a red flag, she's probably always putting herself in trouble. when she dates a normal guy that isn't going to be in trouble then she thinks it's boring.
@@sussyjagras he is strong (so he can theoretically to protect), so he evokes feelings. girls who live by feelings will want to have relationships with such a person. but if she understands the consequences, then she will not do it. most girls don't want to be with bad boys.
#1 and #15 are really hit or miss depending on the type of person you meet. #15 often means that he is genuinely interested and wants to get to know eachother better before fully committing, possibly often from bad past relationship experiences.
While you're right, her point is still valid. When the woman decides to have fun, most men would not deny it in that situation unless she's too pushy in her behavior which signals potential danger or ulterior motives.
Yes and no, i say being suportive is important, but i dont wnat to talk about insecurities or problems or stuf like that to my girl or anyone to that matter. Not like i dont trust her, is more like i dont like to expose fragility and prefer to deal with that myself
@@mr_0n10n5 i agree with you thats what i mean by being suportive, but the video didnt adress that, it was more about what the men mean when they say they are fine and stuf like that.
There's a couple things here I think you don't understand. 1: With men, everything "leads to segs", however everything _starts_ with trust. And men care more about the start than the end. What men say and what they mean varies greatly by how much they trust you. Men most often know exactly how much they trust you, but might probe you for more trust every once in a while. 2: Men want lots of things, and feel lots of things. But they will substitute anything with segs, usually as a cowardly escape. If they want segs and nothing else; then they want to use you as an escape from reality, and they want to pretend they're being courageous even though they're being cowards.
@@jspiral360 that can be done just by existing. just act based on your own reason for being and not think about women. they can't help much, and cannot be expected to.
A man does not want always segs, but the girl has to reach his standards. The problem is nowadays some just have no standards, that's why every girl is on the possibility of segs for most men that could be probably desperate.
The assumption obviously is they already are 'talking', which means she's 'there'. Your point is therefore irrelevant and only speaks of your degrading view of men nOwAdaYs. Let me guess, you are of course very much different from them, right bud
1:43 He's not fine but doesn't want to talk about it because society expects all men to be "strong" - so if he starts talking about what's bothering him, he is afraid this will show weakness and lead the girl to lose respect for him. In contrast, it is totally fine in society's eyes for women to be "vulnerable", so there are no barriers to talking about things that are bothering them.
@@sultanhafeez1609 They do. Fiance left not too long ago, things got out of control after I cried in front of her. After that, she just wasn't the same, as always bored and cold around me, women would rather see you die on top of your white horse than to see you fall off of it. Never cry in front of a woman, cry in front of a man, they will actually understand what you go through, and won't think less of you for it.
@@ihaetschool3361 There's always more to an extremely paraphrased and simplified anecdotal evidence found in youtube comments, but that doesn't necessarily mean the gist of it is not based on reality
I thought the "thinking smth weird" was like: "If a bear entered the house rn... What i would do?" Or "Im taking a bath... If someone invades my house rn, i have two options: 1- finish and help and 2- fight naked" And both of these are a bunch of scenarios until u fell confident and think: "yeaaah, i could pull that shi..."
I would actually love to just have a friend like her: funny, a bit crazy, really expressive. Now, if there was a chance of something else I wouldn't say no.
Women watching How to Understand MEN ❌
Men watching How to Understand Men from a girl ✅
perfect kkkkk, finally we arrived in the easy level kkkkk
that's not a regular girl, that is a ancient woman full of wisdom
Needs a hot guy instead of cute girl
Nailed it 😂
Hell yeah 😂
Target audience -🚺
Actual audience - 🚹
27 likes? let me fix that
Only 1 reply? Let me fix that
lol
Nope, I'm a girl
Most of the similar type of contents are like this because, in my opinion, in reality people don't actually care about other people but only themselves.
Additional one: Nice dress.
75%: You look hot in that dress.
25%: Nice dress.
75% segs/ 25% segs
75%: Fast but low %.
25%: Slow but high %.
Both segs or friendzone.
More like 90/10% split for most men for women that are attractive enough. Only some guys that actually appreciate fashion it may be a 70/30 split. For women that aren't conventially attractive, it can be 100% for the clothing itself.
@@JoblessJoshua Yeah, I was being conservative with the 75% figure, I know.
Tl note: the percentage represent composition not chances.
In a perfect world:
"Segs?"
"Nah."
"Understandable, have a nice day."
69 likes 😂
that's concentrated cringe.
Segs makes babies................do NOT make babies with People you do not LOVE........
This is only a dream scenario for autistic people
This!
Men: im sorry. I genuinely mean it. Please dont find answers that dont exist.
Women: ... So seg it is.
Yeah man, I have feelings too😭🙏🏼
Yeah, it seems that she just has a lot of segs on her mind. This is like the opinion on the stereotype of men 😂 I honestly know more hypersexual women than I do men.
I think she was doing it more for comedical effect though. She doesn't cross me as one who is hypersexual and wants seg. she is a humorous gal. It's why we all clicked on her video.
@@kyledabearsfanOkay send them my way please
@@tander101 bro
As a man
I finally understand myself
Yay
@@jinnytty_if you were a man and you'd be faced with yourself, what you want. See, we all want sex
@@jinnytty_ as a man, I need more of these videos
@@ggbro9848 yes yes brother
@@jinnytty_ As a man, i agree with @ggbro9848
Literally any man: **Speaks**
Her: Ah...so you wanna have *✨THE SEGS✨*
It is also 100% correct.
@@user-mn8lz7gf6dit really isnt lmao
Fr 😂
Well yes, but there's also nuance.
@@SnakeOfBacon, nuance is that not everyone are ready to get strapped on by gf😁
I'm fine can mean:
- I'm actually fine
- I'm not fine but I don't want to talk about it
- I'm so far gone I'm a lost cause and there's no point talking to anyone anymore, I'd rather just suffer in silence since it takes less effort and I won't drag anyone else down with me
Sorry if this comes a little bit straightforward but
You alright? That last thing sounds like a story...
You can talk about whatever you want to anyone you enjoy bro, think anyone who cares and asks that to you is actually there to listen to you and if you dont even want advice you can just say it. Dont suffer in silence, people make everything better when together and loneliness sometimes is a trap for your mind, and even if you still suffer, know that people care for you.
@@Mmm---mmm Sorry if that was a bit dark - I was not in a good place when I wrote that.
Guess I have a bit of tendency to clam up when I'm going through a hard time, and my autism can make it quite difficult at times to even communicate what I want to, but partly because of your comment I did go and talk to some close friends and family and I'm doing a bit better now.
Honestly really appreciate you taking the time to help out a random stranger on the internet. Cheers bro
@@Dinoenthusiastguy Made my day see you happier brother tysm, take care✌️
@@Mmm---mmm Nah, the last one is real. I can attest to it myself. Consider yourself lucky if you've never found yourself saying "I'm fine" when feeling that.
Can totally relate to the last one as well, but i have found a couple of people not long ago that are amazing and help me out sometimes, so have faith, keep going and things will get better, have patience. Best of luck to y'all out there.
All this lessons leads to segs
yes
not everyone like that
no but actually yes
Lets be honest, she just explaining how stereotypical women view men😂
@@msamuslim someone gets it
"im fine" can also mean "im not fine at all, im on the verge of breaking down, but i dont wanna trouble anyone"
fr
I feel like that's mostly an expansion (or maybe a more specific version) on the "I don't want to talk about it" option. I don't want to talk about it because I don't want to bother or trouble anyone, they probably have their own issues etc.
@@bobmcguffin5706 I feel this one
Yes
But would still have segs
With the sheer amount of segs in her conclusions I'm a bit worried about what kinds of guys she know 😅
Her Average twitch viewers
This is most guys
@@msamuslim lmao
@@Littletime839 it is just not gang
fr
The "I'm bored" for me means "lets break out a Tesla coil, laptop with a floppy, and dangerous amounts of volitile reagents"
Are you trying to become a new NileColour?
@@bobmcguffin5706 NileAzure
That sounds exceptionally risky and prone to collateral damage.
Count me in.
@@bobmcguffin5706 NilePurple
MAN THATS EXACTLY WHAT I MEAN WHEN I SAY THAT
Number 15: Let's take things slow
Translation: I am so afraid to screw up this relationship, let's make sure that things don't go too fast
That’s the real translation but this is rizz class😂😂😂
Yeah thats exactly what I think it means too
Actually true. I dont know how can one misconcept such words into how she did.
So real....
It's more "I'm thinking about committing to you"
Jinny a man here. Not all men think about segs or everything leads to segs. But I do have something to say to you. Nice shirt.
the niagara has more curves
Jeans too
@Mortisem I didn't get a good look at her jeans just knew she was wearing some kind of pants
Unfortunatly...
Always knew jinny was a man
7:00 One time, they saw me staring into the void and asked me, "What are you thinking?" I said nothing, but in reality, because I watched a documentary last night, I was thinking about the Battle of Philippi in 42 BC between Mark Antony/Octavian and Brutus/Cassius. One other time, I was thinking about why the sunset on Mars is blue. Thats why we answer almost always, nothing.
Relatable, I always stared at nothing and when I was asked, I answered nothing. But in reality, I was thinking about WW2, ancient human civilization, the chance of finding a habitable planet in another galaxy, the circle of life, and my dream marriage with my crush.
My go to is normally, what the hell is the purpose of an itch? and why did God make it a thing?
It's not even that we think it's inappropriate or useless half the time. It's just more fun to think about it to yourself than to talk about it with another person.
@@quanouuuuuulast one cringe 😂
@@telefon8102 Yeah that's why I put it there
As a man... I just want somebody to hug me, play with my hair, and tell me 'everything's going to be okay'. No seggs. No arguments. Just this, and I can use the positive energy from such an encounter to fulfill my emotional need for closeness for another decade.
real
The innocence of the virgin is only 50% true, with the remainder being... *(reads notes) Ha! GAY
@@joshuatoussaint1381 Such an original (and totally not toxic) joke! You should be on stage or something. You got a problem with me liking men too?
@jonirischx8925 "a problem with u liking men too" ur paranoid bro.. these are your words not mine also. "Too" as if there were a problem in the first place?!? My best friend is gay (not for me gladly lawl). And bro there are 8 billion people on the planet, maybe we have diffedent. Experiences regarding humor? Apologies if youve heard my joke and your small pool of humour got u offended. Drop sarcasm dude. Boring non creative complaint is all it is, and theres u trying to make a creativity complaint.... snooorree ur teaching no one.
Until you get enough innocent cuddling and you want to get to the seggs part asap. And then, when you had enough seggs, you just want her to be by your side with seggs not being a crucial thing. That's the natural evolution from virgin to married man.
There is another meaning for "What's wrong?" which is "Oh f*ck. Please tell me whatever is bothering you isn't my fault"
"I saw how you cheated me in a dream"
Very true and severely underrated.
Me: whats wrong?
Inside me: *incoherent confused screaming
@@Better_call_Floppa every man's worse nightmare
I‘m a married guy in my 40s watching hard rock music videos on TH-cam. How tf did the algorithm come to the conclusion to recommend this to me?!
Hahahaha, youtube, right?!
TH-cam groups you with people based on what you watch and how long you watch it. You then get recommended videos based on what other people within the groups you've been assigned watch. Which occasionally leads to some weird overlaps.
Half the stuff I watch is political, and the other half is gaming.
I am in the same questioning boat.
Well, you must not be aware of the situation among your peers... A married guy in his 40s on TH-cam? That's exactly the content I expect to be recommended.
It knew you would click the video.
>Man see girl
>Man click video
>Man understand himself
>Man happy
Man sees that he isnt actually like man
Man get sad
Man turns red pill
Man starts doing evil things
✌️😌😌
The comment make me happy
The evolution of man
segs
Steps to understand men for women:
1. Listen to what he says.
2. He mean it.
Little correction:
3. If it may be something romantic, it's 50/50 figure it out
@@Mmm---mmm 4. deep down he wants segs
4. If a man stares into nothing usually while sitting outside near a fire, he is deeply reflecting about something deep or stupid or brain just turned off.
5. Men enjoy the little things, like stick that looks like a sword or gun or the nips or clit during seggs.
@@Mmm---mmmno.it's only segs.
It's funny how many women fail at the first step, but expect you to know every single detail of what they've been talking about from the last week or month :D
I feel like this describes the average highschool f--kboy, which is getting more and more common, but cant be generalised across the board. Just a warning, in case anyone is thinking that your man crush definitely wants sex, and then you mess up your chances cos of this wrong assumption
Yeah, as a guy I've only ever had crush's on girls I *don't* really want to have sex with. To me romance and sex are almost two different things, but you almost have to pretend to be in the "romance" area to have sex most of the time lol
@@cbot9302that’s one weird part with having a crush on someone, in my case i don’t think I have ever thought of having sex with my crush, I’m just infatuated with everything about them and thinking of them doing lewd things feels sacrilegious to me 😅
@@cbot9302you're insane
@@Noredia_Yuki Literally same as me bro lol. Glad to know I'm not the only one
@@cbot9302 yes bro, theres the feeling of wanting to grow old with someone, which is completely different to lust.
Believe it or not: not every guy is hypersexual. Most men (not boys) want sincere connection, warmth, emotional intimacy, support, and a reason to remain disciplined and accountable. They want something that has meaning. The guys seeking meaningless sex tend to be lost in life so they’re equally lost in their relationships
Ohhh i get it, you must be woman😅😅
Funny joke…you want segs?
You're the type, who tries to find a woman interested with you leading to segs, by saying you're not interested in it.
@@ЕфимМушаков-ъ1б Just because you think a certain way doesn't mean that everybody else does.
The men society does not claim this one 🙅
the guide ends at 0:22
I watched nearly the whole Video. Horee888 is right.
This comment is criminally underrated!
Bro you are a living legend
LMFAO FOR REAL
true though
🔥🔥🔥🔥
As an autistic man, I tend to mean what i say, Segs isn't on my mind most of the time, don't go looking for a secret message lol
FYI this video is NOT supposed to be taken seriously BY ANY MEANS it's so wrong: you're on the right track, say whatever you mean (unless it's hurtful) and don't mislead the other person like this girl thinks we act. Those "secret messages" should only be attempted to be included when bantering or flirting
For autistic men the usual "don't look for a secret message" aspect becomes, *"Seriously don't bother looking for any hidden meaning there's legitimately nothing there!"*
"How to Understand MEN" is longer than "How to Understand WOMEN" we win guys
Man longer, man happy
Cuz that is all about men. Women guide book is too thick it cant fit in a video
Very simple yet complicated creatures we are
But the women had part 2.
She needs to include the head nod/point language
I love how chat always strengthens jinny's stereotypical assumptions 🤣
yea like most of yall are guys why are we betraying 😭lmao
Stereotypical, yes
stereotypes are created for a reason
@@RyuHardGore yes to ruin society wellbeing.
Yeahhh, simps can only nod in confirmation in the hope it will lead to them receiving her attention.
What are you thinking?
Man: Nothing **staring at the wall**
Meaning: NOTHING AT ALL!
The Roman Empire!
I'm just thinking how to build an intercontinental Ballistic Missile
"I should buy a boat"
@@Aizen_Sosuke999women: do want to usemissiles in segs 😂
@@RowdyRana-zc5gl Brace for Impac-
Man: *breathing*
Women: He wants SEGS
4:30 when we say "I like women with no makeup" what we actually mean is that we prefer the subtle makeup that does not _look_ like makeup. I know some girls who spend hours on makeup that makes them look gorgeous but no man would clock it as makeup. Basically, no crazy highlighter, bright lipstick, blush etc
Alternatively, it could also mean a person who looks good without makeup. Waking up to a person who is decent looking with zero makeup is important.
I actually like no makeup, but sometimes the no-makeup makeup is the way to go, it depends.
My rule of thumb is, "If I can tell you're wearing makeup, it's too much makeup".
Imo with too much makeup a woman looks more like a piece of art than a human. It's pretty/beautiful but not attractive.
It means you should stop the effort
yup, most men are thinking "don't do it unless it's subtle and actually looks good"
The more confident and mature a guy is the more they say exactly what they mean: no more and no less!
nah, i think that's for women, not men.
Men usually only don't mean what they say, if they want to look good/trick a girl, to have sex with them.
this tracks
I ain't never said nothing I mean to a girl...
and then there's shxt I say to my friends
@@saint037you my gentlmen have LADY ISSSUES. Go get em fixed
this exactly! immature emotionally needy young men are the type to befriend a girl and basically be a fake friend just try to have sex. Then they're selfloathing cause they feel rejected but in reality they were misleading the entire time and the friendship with the girl is less interesting than using them as a coping mechanism object.
It is especially important in 2024 to establish consent. Many men seem like they are refusing subtle hints as they'd rather not be framed as a harasser.
yeah, this is why it takes a lot of men a long time to confess
Cope that Is unrelated@@desired_effect5251
Nah, make sure men you just avoid the false allegation roulette altogether.
many men think they're refusing subtle hints as they'd rather not accept they're unwanted
@@windy8544 I'd rather be unwanted than falsely accused. Which is their favorite thing to do.
"I go out to dinner and movies with my guy friends and they're not trying to have sex with me!"
Literally Everyone: "...uh huh."
you just don't understand them well ....
Sure buddy.
80% : *"SEGS"*
20% : **50/50**
We can simplify this to be 90%:10%
Segs 80% of the time, 100% of the time
20 percent of the time it works half of the time.
All the things she segs
All the things she segs
Running through my head
Running through my head Running through my head
THIS IS NOT ENOUGH 🗣️🗣️🗣️
@@Flesh_Wizard 👍🤣🤣🤣
Great song.
@@Flesh_Wizard I'm in serious shit, I feel totally lost
If I'm asking for help it's only because
@@Flesh_Wizard Ahhh ahhhh
Wait...damn
for those who read comments first before actually watching the video.. save yourself some time, it's all about: "Men are almost all about SEGS." and that's all into it.
thanks, you're the real g for that
yeah it's a bit reductive... the vast majority of guys, especially those 25 or older, are not so one-dimensional. having sex literally every day is a bit much
@@TetrahedreX It's quite stupid because for teen boys and below, everything about society points to sex. Then once you reach a certain age, life just gets in the way so you rub one out and move on.
can't blame her for being young. she's still yet to know latter in life that there are others who appreciates something else..
like when you wake up in the middle of the night finding your partner awake too.. you look at her and without a word she heads to the kitchen then you follow, knowing your coffee will be ready soon.
@@DrSwazz I'm sorry, but i have to disappoint you. Teenagers, altough many have a high libido, do not, in fact, have sex. I lived not amongst discord mods, but amongst humans. And guess what? Humans don't all think of sex. And men and boys are humans, as you might have heard. Mom giving son a hug before he heads off to school does not lead to sex. The boy hanging out with his friends in class does not lead to sex. The boy talking to girls leads to bullying, not sex. Girls tend to be more promiscuos earlier in life (statistically), meanwhile i only know one guy my age who is openly no longer a virgin. But not being a virgin isn't a flex.
And remember, don't do kids, drugs!
Video Analysis
50% Segs
40%Men only into egs
10% how to understand men
It's just segs segs sax 🎷
'how do you know that guy' = 'Are you the town bicycle?'
lmaooo thats like are you the school thot
everyone gets a ride
Please realize that for more men than you might think, all roads do not lead to segs. I find myself genuinely wanting to do something nice for a girl, and genuinely wanting to compliment them on their attire, but I know that my intentions will be misinterpreted, even if I say them outright, so I just end up not doing anything and staying more of an antisocial hermit. It's overgeneralizations like these that are making it harder for men who ACTUALLY CARE.
I think most people will take it well, you just have to try to say it in a nice way. But idk. different people will be responded to differently
only so boys do not have sex as their first priority, because they deny theirselves. Beneath that its still their priority.
women don't like nice guys as much as you think they do
Im just like u but please shut up bro stop victimizing💀💀
@@pipacombate393 Vitimizing?
The "Okay, I'm sorry" thing is true. We're not sorry, we're just sick of talking.
The way a man actually admits defeat is usually by laughing at themselves.
As a man if I say sorry I truly mean it and that is why me saying sorry is always the last thing I would say which marks my defeat especially when I know I am right
@@Noredia_Yukiits not the sorry saying. Its the specific choice of words of "ok!" followed by the rest that makes it a "stop arguing"
@@criticalrevel it’s always hard for me to say stuff like that
@@Noredia_Yuki hmm never took it seriously depends on the relationship or if we actually friends or just meet, I’ll say it for peace sake
don't use "we"
As a man, every single one of my partners were more sexually feral than me and I said no more often than they did. If the conclusions you are reaching are always sex, maybe that says more about you than the men.
Cannot relate to this shit ive never had a girlfriend let alone sex
can't find what you aren't looking for, get to it soldier
You mean segs.
Just start saying "nice jeans, I'm bored, wanna take you to a dinner" and she'll understand.
Amen brother
relatable I'm just a lonely guy my entire life too
#1. This is a cry for help: "I'm not the relationship type" really means "I've been crushed by rejection and disappointment to the point that I doubt my abilities to be in a relationship"
#2. It means he doesn't wanna talk about what is bothering him or feels vulnerable that he doesn't want to share what is bothering him due to social expectations. He doesn't feel comfortable talking about it with you [because you'll use it against him or think less of him].
Most of this is under the assumption we always think about sex all the time. We don't. Stop treating us like simps. Some of us have some damn self-respect.
"Take things slow" really means taking it slow. Tread with caution. We want an exclusive relationship and not having "options" -- he's waiting for you to show your crazy power level first before he dives deeper. It's a defense mechanism.
Not looking for a relationship can also mean “I don’t have time for a full-time woman in my life.” Some guys are really busy with school or careers, and can’t devote the appropriate amount of time to providing attention to a committed relationship. I’ve been there. Still wanted segs though.
Stop projecting your insecurities lil bro, go to therapy
@@7RicolmE7 trying to sound tough in a youtube comment section is funny.
Ok, some people in your chat are feeding you misinformation.
Men:
“Could you please understand that not everything I feel, think or do is to have segs?”
10%: I actually do want to have segs, I am just not in the mood.
30%: I am genuinely upset and would like to abstain from segs.
30%: I am on the ace spectrum, and you just offended me.
30%: You're actually right, I do want segs, but if I admit to it right now I will lose this argument.
Not everything leads to sex, that's exactly how women think of stereotypical men, and it's wrong.
Yep
The funniest stuff is because that's kinda like UNIVERSAL I already heard the same stereotypes coming from brazilian women, russian women, even arabic women 😂
yeah its kinda boring to keep hearing it
Well the stuff in the video is meant to be a joke though. But I suppose many people really do believe that stereotype
Well, it is reality for a very small amount of men. But... women love to think that all men are like this. And the women who believe it the most are the ones aiming for unobtainable chadlads who only want to eff around. All them ladies just spreading their legs freely for them and effortlessly. Whenever they feel they have to masturbate they'll just call up on one of the desperate girls like the one in this video for sex and they'll be more than happy to give it to them.
As accurate as men explaining women videos
Wich isn't a high expectation but a disappointment nontheless. Humanity really outdid itself with science, we gotta compromise in common sense lol
right!? she says the word "sex" like literally every other sentence, there's so much more to men's lives and most of these women are clueless about it, it's like that meme of "men only want one thing" or "he must be thinking of other women," meanwhile the guy is thinking about if he can jump while falling from a building or planning out his strategy for Stardew Valley
@@grey_f98 unfortunately a large part of her sample size does include her fanbase who are her fans for a reason, so can't really blame her for the wild dataset biases.
@yesno
You act like any thoughts went into her stream, she just pulled up stream took some notes in the intro while looking up a few things men do then started talking.
And im being generous
You may be conflating Men with Boys.
We want emotional closeness in a relationship, not just sex.
My biggest kink is being hugged. I know, unreasonable.
So it sex
Both. Both are good. Also commitment and loyalty, and a ride and die next to me attitude. And a friend.
im learning bout men when im one🗿🗿
we are not that superficial
For the complimenting clothing, if we say, "nice shirt" or "nice pants" we're typically complimenting the clothing choice. If we say "you look great in that shirt/those pants," that's when we're complimenting your assets rather than the clothing.
Just to feel her good and comfortable.
her understanding of men: "to segs or to segs with extra steps that is the question"
she's right
@@bepishombre8999 shes 50% right, wrong with people who are religious or straightforward
Accurate
@@wheatwhole_ not even 50% like fucking 15% or less, most guys that actually care about people and how they come across, don't just talk to a woman to get a quick bang, they actually want a connection, a friend, or something. The fact that she thinks just complimenting a shirt is complimenting her boobs is fucking wild.
Target audience-👩
Actual audience-👨
idk what i learnt about men but i definitelly understood that she has only met guys who fell for her looks and well (for segs) not actually like her and she is normalizing it by saying every guy just wants segs
It's definitely either 1.) a reflection of every guy that she has met and interacted with or 2.) a streamer persona she adapts for the jokes to land harder.
But man you could only use "Sex is the punchline" joke so much until everything just becomes stale
@@thatoneguy8272 yea it's funny if it's a bit but if it's a genuine reflection of the type of men she knows, then that kind of sucks.
Or maybe she is following that traing of though couse its easy and or funny.
She didn't spend those past 500 years for nothing
Jinny sensei is actually a 500 year old Dragon loli?
@@rahul9704 Yes.
Old but gold🫢
"What will you have after 500 years!?"
this is infinitely funnier than the "understanding women" one, and probably infinitely less useful 😭😭
ALL the confusion comes from the fact that both weak and strong men use the same words with different motives
After seeing this i doubt myself if I'm a man 💀
Same here.. Though I guess it's a fun way to learn about how we look from a girl's perspective
Congratulations you're raised right as man. I was raised in pretty conservative culture as man and find it baffling why she always assume we only think about sex or men in her community are mostly like that? I won't even look at a stranger woman let alone fuck her, lol.
Probably the one's hunting, women don’t approach men like men do some don’t even have the the chance, to see the perspective, cause in a garden which flowers you pick up first?
@@jspiral360make sense
You're not because men are tool for you😜
...... I feel bad for her, I can't imagine what kind of men she had met so far...........
Lol shes a cute asian girl. Shes met every dude.
@@pantherman8719it makes me sick lol
You don't need to feel bad for her, she did this herself. She wouldn't have this experience if she wasn't a shallow person to begin with. She went for guys because lolattractive and not for guys who are loyal and care.
most men are like this, ya'll not special
@@thenonexistinghero guys want sex because its the only thing that girl can offer whit some kind of value.
This video could just be a few seconds long.
Him : yes.
Translation : yes
Him : No
Trabslation : No.
Him : I am hungry.
Translation : I am hungry.
Him: yes
Translation: yes (and segs also yes)
Him: no
Translation: no (but segs still yes)
Him: I'm hungry
Translation: I'm hungry (plus segs afterwards)
@@MAhmed-rb9ur I am incredibely sorry that you met so many terrible men, but i'm not sleeping with anyone but my partner of at least a few weeks. If i had one, that is.
@@-WMD-Edutainment Aw. Bless your heart. I was joking. I'm a man lol.
U forget have segs before eating too lol. @@MAhmed-rb9ur
Alright guys, meeting time-looks like our secret's been leaked!! We’ve been holding this for so long, but it’s time to stop pretending we don’t know where the ketchup is in the fridge!!!
😂
JINNY sensei, i finally understood women after this video - whenever men say anything most of the women directly gonna imagine "he wants SEGS" (ps - avoid women at all cost) (-_-)
Sad reality 😢
Can we blame them though. A looot of men are like that.
We actually want segs, what are you? A priest?
@@SunnakoA corrupt priest who drinks.. 😉
@@yong9613 Cheers!
3:19 as a guy I feel like you can compliment people without thinking that 💀.
I compliment my bros and the gals, but i ain't bi lol
I compliment guys heartedly
And women to just be nice to make her feel good and nothing.😊
idk why a lot of people say they're actually thinking of nothing because that's pretty much impossible to think about nothing. It's always the "too weird to explain" or "too long/ you wouldn't understand" type thoughts.
Depends on the person I suppose.
"Nothing" can also mean. "Literally can't remember the thought anymore from the second it was interrupted." Which is as close to actually nothing as one can possibly get.
As a 28-year-old virgin man who has never had segs, I confirm everything I do leads to segs
As a 23 yo man who has already had segs, I think that's the last thing I'm thinking about when hanging out with women, but I also have autism, so maybe that has something to do with it
Bro I was in a similar situation, I did it with a girl who was throwing herself on me even tho I wasn't interested, it was awful, would not recommend. Keep looking for a girl you like, put yourself out there more, ask out the girls you like and make your interest clear, but as far as segs go, let it happen naturally/don't force it just to mark a checkbox
@@Homiloko2 How did your relationship end up? I would like to hear a bit more story. Why did you accept her approach? How did you feel about the situation?, etc.
@@Homiloko2was it awful in the moment because you were not comfortable or nervous, or is the memory of it not being within a relashionship bothering you? (If you don't mind sharing)
@@IgorJCorrea Good question, made me introspect a bit. It wasn't good or bad, not much different from doing it yourself I guess. The next morning we shared breakfast and it was all fine during everything, but the day after that, after letting it simmer I felt a bit bitter and disappointed about it. Like it wasn't all that amazing as I was hyping myself up to be, and it was pointless to do with someone you're not really interested in. And then I just cut contact and moved on.
2:03 I guess it depends on the person; but in the case that a guy says "I'm fine" when he's bad; it may be because he doesn't want to talk to you about it because he doesn't want to deal with how you respond about it, he doesn't want to give you a bad time, or he doesn't want to show weakness out of pride
Most women aren't nearly as good at listening as they think they are. So then you have to deal with her reaction on top of the original problem...
@233kosta So true, man. Yeah
@@233kosta True, the reaction they have Is pretty aggresive even at the point make You feel minimun.
I have an addendum to the last one. It depends on his stage in life. If he has kids or is dating an older woman that wants them, he means slow down to make sure you're a good match even though she might want to rush because there's more at stake.
If he has his life in order, it means you're attractive enough to date long-term, but he's holding out for someone hotter.
If he's broke, he's saying he finds you attractive enough to date but can't afford to date you right now. He'd rather extend the talking stage and build friendship first before spending money he doesn't really have. Lots of guys in this camp these days.
Targetted audience : ♀️
Actual audience : ♂️
😂 you are the target she got your time
She got your money 💰
@RowdyRana-zc5gl True AF
"Let's take things slow"
I"m gonna have to contest that one a little bit.
It COULD also mean that he saw some red flags, but isn't sure if their deal-breakers, so he's trying to figure it if you're... "manageable" before he commits to you.
Also, a slim chance it has to do with past experiences and hang-ups.
Either way, it means what it seems like it means, he ain't trying to commit yet.
Plus i don't want to date a sex driven girl.
Women probably have 5% chance of understanding man.
Depends on her EQ ;-)
men are not that difficult to understand: give your man peace, appreciate him, give him food, give him "6".
That´s all. But even this minimum somehow is too much too ask nowadays.
@@igorthelight EQ is really not a thing. It's a bollocks measure to make dumb people feel better about themselves. The term itself is an oxymoron. There is no intelligence in emotion, they are completely different things. Heck the people who are best at convincing others and manipulating others tend to be very intelligent people who are very self-centered emotionally. They are so self-centered that they don't care who they hurt as long as they can get what they want and that makes them very flexible when interacting with people.
@@thenonexistinghero I could agree that EQ is not really an intelligence to be honest. It's an ability to understand emotions of another person. Someone could be pretty intelligent in terms of technology but couldn't really understand when someone is upset or trolling him/her. EQ is just that ability to correctly decrypt what other people may feel.
@@igorthelight EQ is kinda flawed though. Like I said, some of the people best at reading and manipulating other people are those who would basically score very low on the parameters they've set on EQ.
There's just all kinds of things that would pose issues when it comes to measuring what they claim to be EQ. IQ isn't exactly perfect either, but it can give a useful measure of parts of intelligence suited to do tasks that we consider valuable in society. But for EQ? There's really no way to test it properly. At least not yet. Maybe something like it if in the future there's a method to measure it through what exactly happens in the brain, but we're likely at least several decades off on actually even starting to go beyond the baby steps we've made in figuring out how the human brain exactly works and decrypting its language, so to speak.
For the I’m kidding part, we just love teasing and that “might” be the only way for some men to express their love. Especially teenagers or young men. But it’s not the same as bullying, if they bully you and never apologize that’s not affection.
In general we like to joke around a lot. We can also take it too far.
@@JK-cd6zr Which then we HOPEFULLY apologize..
Helps determine where their Values are, but still wrong to bully even if they let you.
to be honest, it pushes away. it's childish behavior.
@@yamaracuya That's why I said teenagers and young men. Yeah it's definitely childish if it's your only way to gain attentions but I don't think teasing is exclusively bad. Especially if it's done right, but that's the hardest part and it depends on the girl's personality too.
you look nice - always romantic sexual meaning. your possessions look nice - literal meaning, never 50/50. if someone compliments your clothing its not implying anything
Would like to object on number 15 ( 9:38 )
Taking things slow can actually mean taking things slow. Due to the circumstances of how men are perceived by others, it deeply impacts some guys. They fall into psychological issues related to intimacy.
For example, being scared of the pace of progress of relationship, because the guy in question can think, "I like this girl/woman but if I reach the next level before being prepared, I might accidentally/mistakenly end up doing something that will vilify me or jeopardize the relationship. I don't want to mess it up."
Unfortunately, that act of slowing things down can often lead to jeopardizing the relationship.
The crux of man. Needing to push your feelings aside which inevitably leads to your feelings being hurt which means you have more feelings to push aside.
Thank you🫡🫡🫡
"Men want three things: Food, Segs, Silence."
- Chris Rock
No. I have more silence than I know what to do with. Having a woman's voice next to me would be relaxing.
As a man, I’ve learned to just, not talk to women appparrently.
Imagine working in a hospital. Unless you do. Then you know the catty behavior is astronomical.
As a man, I’ve learned to just, not talk.
As a man, i've learned.
As a man, I
As a man
I a man and i really dont care about sex, i Just want someone comprehensive, listens and actually care about me.
All roads lead to seg
o_oww ahhahah
When it comes to rizz or flirting yes if is all they do with you
Okay let's walk down the roads together . Nice shirt btw
And beer!
No really. You’re bound to find a bar somewhere at some point.
Because segs is supreme
"How to Understand" Did you try just listen what they say?
You just explain how stereotypical women sees men.
number 10 has 3 options!
1. no thoughts head empty. (~30% chance)
2. overly specific hard to explain thought about something he learned earlier that day (i.e. some crazy detailed story from like 570 AD China, this is the most likely scenario, ~60% chance)
3. the most vile, inexcusable, disgusting, horrendous intrusive thought you could possibly come up with. (~10% chance max)
I like how the chat just played along 😂😂
The Man Council has instructed me to deny all allegations.
MEN = feed me, make me laugh, let me sleep, give me segs (feeding, laughing and sleeping also lead to segs).
WOMEN = lots of weird stuff...........
Attention
women seek protection. if you are nice guy, but you can't protect her or take care of her, she feels unprotected. it's important for us. that's why a girl will choose bad guy over nice guy. even if he will be rough with her, he also can protect her. more mature girls seek nice guy, but who can protect her. that's why money also important for us. we want our future family to be financially protected, that our children are fed. but that's not mean we want a millionaire.
@@yamaracuya seek protection with a bad guy that is full of drama 24/7? lol
if a woman cares too much about being protected that's a red flag, she's probably always putting herself in trouble. when she dates a normal guy that isn't going to be in trouble then she thinks it's boring.
@@sussyjagras he is strong (so he can theoretically to protect), so he evokes feelings. girls who live by feelings will want to have relationships with such a person. but if she understands the consequences, then she will not do it. most girls don't want to be with bad boys.
@@yamaracuya A bad guy will NOT protect shit. Most of this just sounds like youre lazy and undeserving honestly
#1 and #15 are really hit or miss depending on the type of person you meet. #15 often means that he is genuinely interested and wants to get to know eachother better before fully committing, possibly often from bad past relationship experiences.
While you're right, her point is still valid. When the woman decides to have fun, most men would not deny it in that situation unless she's too pushy in her behavior which signals potential danger or ulterior motives.
9:34 big cap, I'm into one girl and I'd rather take things slow to build up an actually strong friendship/bonding before anything else.
what am i watching right now dude 😭
Bullshit
Segs came so many times that even her chat stopped taking it seriously and joined the Segs chant club. 🤣🤣
As a guy, the emotional support is super important.
not from the guy she's attracted to
Well its possible with maturity and respect and their more people out there, maybe one can help
Yes and no, i say being suportive is important, but i dont wnat to talk about insecurities or problems or stuf like that to my girl or anyone to that matter. Not like i dont trust her, is more like i dont like to expose fragility and prefer to deal with that myself
@@wolololer Not that type of emotional support. I meant the type where she tells you appreciative stuff and that she loves you, all that corny stuff.
@@mr_0n10n5 i agree with you thats what i mean by being suportive, but the video didnt adress that, it was more about what the men mean when they say they are fine and stuf like that.
There's a couple things here I think you don't understand.
1: With men, everything "leads to segs", however everything _starts_ with trust. And men care more about the start than the end. What men say and what they mean varies greatly by how much they trust you. Men most often know exactly how much they trust you, but might probe you for more trust every once in a while.
2: Men want lots of things, and feel lots of things. But they will substitute anything with segs, usually as a cowardly escape. If they want segs and nothing else; then they want to use you as an escape from reality, and they want to pretend they're being courageous even though they're being cowards.
As a man, finally i can get a man.
What I have learned ? Not to be friends.
Don’t destroy women’s trust in men
@@jspiral360 that can be done just by existing. just act based on your own reason for being and not think about women. they can't help much, and cannot be expected to.
@@necrosteel5013 they can, they had helped me, things Like seeing perspective.
@@jspiral360 It's the other way around
Finally after 17 years of struggles, i can finally say i understand myself
There will never be a how to understand women because the video would never finish
The chat dowsnt even need to gaslight her, she does it herself and chat just agrees
A man does not want always segs, but the girl has to reach his standards. The problem is nowadays some just have no standards, that's why every girl is on the possibility of segs for most men that could be probably desperate.
The assumption obviously is they already are 'talking', which means she's 'there'. Your point is therefore irrelevant and only speaks of your degrading view of men nOwAdaYs. Let me guess, you are of course very much different from them, right bud
Their a lot I can’t say here, make some friends you’ll meet more people on the way ❤ you can’t have segs with everyone 😂
1:43 He's not fine but doesn't want to talk about it because society expects all men to be "strong" - so if he starts talking about what's bothering him, he is afraid this will show weakness and lead the girl to lose respect for him. In contrast, it is totally fine in society's eyes for women to be "vulnerable", so there are no barriers to talking about things that are bothering them.
True bro but i always wonder if women actually lose respect for you to a degree after hearing your problems
@@sultanhafeez1609 They do. Fiance left not too long ago, things got out of control after I cried in front of her. After that, she just wasn't the same, as always bored and cold around me, women would rather see you die on top of your white horse than to see you fall off of it. Never cry in front of a woman, cry in front of a man, they will actually understand what you go through, and won't think less of you for it.
@@NaderinZim judging by the way you talk, there's probably a bit more to this story
@@ihaetschool3361 There's always more to an extremely paraphrased and simplified anecdotal evidence found in youtube comments,
but that doesn't necessarily mean the gist of it is not based on reality
@@sultanhafeez1609absolutely many do, if they don't and actually listen and try to comfort/care, you found yourself wife material
Turns out, i don't even fucking understand my self
I thought the "thinking smth weird" was like:
"If a bear entered the house rn... What i would do?"
Or
"Im taking a bath... If someone invades my house rn, i have two options: 1- finish and help and 2- fight naked"
And both of these are a bunch of scenarios until u fell confident and think: "yeaaah, i could pull that shi..."
Yeah exactly this lol
Let's take things slow also mean, "I've been hurt and am still trying to figure out if I can manage a relationship... but I still want segs."
Can also mean: you got some red flags and I gotta decide if you're actually crazy or just have some character flaws
1:33 projection
10:34 I guess I'm a glitched guy then 😅
8:44 so naive about this one 😂
yeah she's oblivious
Guys CAN have female friends vice versa... But ye statistically, atleast 1/3 are masking their true feelings ... Of segs (jk, crush probably(
To be real if any female friend ask their male friend to have segs they will say yes
I would actually love to just have a friend like her: funny, a bit crazy, really expressive. Now, if there was a chance of something else I wouldn't say no.
That means she understood men only "abstract" men not real men 😂