Timestamp! -0:39 Their voice makes you smile for no reason -0:54 You always wait for their texts -1:02 You are intensly curious about them -1:21 You feel safe around them -1:42 You can't stop talking about them -1:54 It feels super easy -2:10 You act in their interest -2:22 You don't feel anxious about getting hurt -2:32 You feel their pain -2:44 Your outlook on life looks more positive -2:59 literally everything reminds you of them -3:15 You want to do things you've already done again -3:35 You value thei opinions about future plans -3:49 You feel adventurous! -4:04 You are more affectionate -4:20 You can see their quirks and look past them -4:46 You wnat to show them all your favourite things -4:58 You feel more love for others -5:15 Their scent draws a magnet -5:32 You feel like a better person -6:08 When an ex pops back into your life -6:33 Every love song reminds you of them Dam thats a lot xd (22)
I still remember the time I first fell in love: it’s a growing warmth. You start picturing the things you’d wanna do with that crush (hang out, hold hands, kiss, hug). That person almost always on your mind. Wish I could feel that again and have someone to ease that loneliness.
That there is something I can never experience. Im incapable to form deep connections with others. The worse part is that I do have strong Empathy, so it just hurts to know I’ll never have that.
@@oliverdk7594 That isn't true, you just haven't currently met anyone who you've been able to have that connection with. Keep pushing, I know it's hard but that is something all of us go through. It took me time before I was able to climb out of that depression and went on to form strong connections with others, don't lose hope.
@@avengerboy2171 Not seeing that happening when im an Aromantic, its a matter of fact, I already faced reality and accepted that. Having friends is the closest I can get to Love or a deep connection. Just not deep enough to call it a relationship, ever. It’s a sad truth but again I don’t know if I would call it that, dont feel like im missing out alot and besides, Its not that bad.
For me, the biggest sign was that i want her to be happy. If she's happy, I'm happy. Empathy, an emotional connection was "my" key. The girl lost interest in me, and we seperated. It hurt a lot, but when I saw her with another man happy, I felt surprisingly grateful that she is in good hands. As long as she's happy, I am too. Love should be selfless, but it's rare.
Falling in love can be the scariest thing ever, and also give you the greatest sensation of elation and bliss! It's a paradox like most things in life it seems! Sometimes it's hard to know what's right and what's comfortable! That's my 2 cents! Take care!
Wow, 2 years! That's incredible, thank YOU for being a part of the Psych2Go community for so long. I'm so happy to hear the channel has been helpful for you. Here's to many more years of exploring psychology together!
Thanks so much😊 Whenever I’m feeling kinda down or feeling confused about my emotions, i just come to this channel. There’s always the video I need😊 (which is kinda creepy, but nice)
Just don't put them on a pedestal ... That will affect you badly, and the other person probably doesn't want to be put on a pedestal like that either. Relax and have fun. And if you're wondering to ask them out or not, do it. You might regret it if someone else takes that opportunity from you.
About half of them also think you. You are one of the reasons I didn't kill myself. You made me see the good in things I used to think were bad. And your videos made me cry with joy when I was sad on some days.
Yes, it took me 42 years to fall in love with a great friendship and it’s going on five years. Even communicating when there are disagreements become better with time. I believe the fear of being hurt may still happen. There are no guarantees❤
When she walks in every time our circle of friends get together I'm one of the first she greets. And it just gets me every time. Just hearing her when we talk and crack jokes feels that much better. Feels like they're curious about me. I'm hoping she feels safe around me. We both think about each other quite a bit. We've both been hurt and feels like I can ease hers somehow. We talk about what we might do over the summer. I'm a bit more adventurous because of it. Her quirks? Her silly laugh, how she parts her hair, how she even leaned in a bit close. Not sure I'm ready to show my favorite things just yet. Haven't had any ex so no worries there.
Haha, that's creepy...ly good timing! Maybe you're just manifesting awesome content, or maybe we have psychic... Either way, I'm glad you love the channel!
Timestamps 1). Their voice makes you smile for no reason 0:38 2). You always wait for their texts 0:53 3). You are intensly curious about them 1:02 4). You feel safe around them 1:20 5). You can't stop talking about them 1:41 6). It feels supper easy 1:54 7). You act in their best interest 2:09 8). You don't feel anxious about getting hurt 2:20 9). You feel their pain 2:33 10). Your outlook on life becomes more positive 2:43 11). Literally everything reminds you of them 2:58 12). You want to do things you've already done again 3:14 13). You value their opinions about future plans 3:35 14). You feel adventurous 3:49 15). You are affectionate 4:03 16). You can see their quirks and look past them 4:19 17). You want to show them all of your favourite things 4:45 18). You feel more love for others 4:56 19). Their scent draws a magnet 5:15 20). You feel like a better person 5:31 21). When an ex pops back into your life 6:07 22). Every love song reminds you of them 6:31 Hope this helps you out. Hope this helps you out. Sorry this is so late. And today is my birthday too. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Gosh this video is making me smile involuntarily... And yeah many of the signs explained do match with my feelings when I fell in love with a guy during high school...
Yes, I'm in love. & we are in relationship (a fucked up). We had breakups. We had patch ups. Twist is that she doesn't even know about this. It's only me, stuck in this loop.
Yo guys I need help. This girl recently called me “not bad looking” and “I feel like a lot of people have had a crush on you” and I just realized she has been pretty physical with me, always playfully slapping my arm and recently touched me in a comforting way. She also constantly hangs out with me and can get pretty close to me. Pls help me T-T
She might have platonic feelings towards you, and just consider you pretty, or she does like you. The only way for you to know is to ask her what she feels whitout compromising her if she just wants to be friends.
A girl and I were doing pretty much all of these, I was starting to fall for her and I could tell she was falling for me. Then one morning she threw it all away, I’m still grieving 🥺😢😭
Am I really though? I haven't really been there with him physically since August last year but we've stayed in touch. I know i have feelings for him but can't say it's love or not
I went through all but one of these a few months ago. She ended up blocking me and having a girlfriend without telling me, and that wasn’t fun to go through. But eh, life happens. It definitely hurt (and still kinda does), but there’s really nothing I can do about it. All I can say is that I wish she was honest from the start. I hope I’ll go through that cycle again at some point. My past relationship and this recent experience definitely set me back a LONG way, but I’m only 17. I still have a lot of life left.
This video is the Perfect explanation for mine and my gf’s love is. The only thing I wish was that she was more available. It’s an online relationship, but it’s amazing
So, I’m in 4th grade at a private school, and the school year is over. There’s this 6th grader that we would both share secrets with, and he has a crush on my sister. Now that the school year is over, I find myself daydreaming about him and the year, and I’m really starting to miss him. But, my birthday’s coming up soon, and I’m gonna invite him. But I don’t have the courage to tell him how I feel. I’m very good socially, with everyone really. But I just really miss him and keep texting him. I hope he comes.
About 16/22 of these apply to me and one of my friends that I once had a huge crush on, but I'm learning to just be happy with our friendship. I don't think he has any feelings for me and that's okay, even if I really am falling for him. I think that proves I really do love him, I just want him to be happy. I don't really mind if that's with me or not but I would be happy if it was!
For me, an asexual who has ever had a serious relationship and really isn't interested in finding one, these are great fanfic prompts for my otp. Thanks for the ideas!
hmm im watching this because I am questioning it lately, j just don’t know. Even though I resonate with all of these and they align with how I feel, I am also fearful it’s not reciprocated and that it’s too soon. We’ve only known eachother for over a month now but it feels so natural. Like we’ve been together since the night we met. We have gotten through long distance, making time for eachother, getting to know one another deeper than anyone else. If im not in love with him yet, it is definitely on the horizon. It’s so beautiful and terrifying at the same time.
I have 13 of these signs and she broke up with me because she was afraid of hurting me. We shared on last glorious kiss and we went on with our day agreeing to ve friends once we are past the awkward things
Lol. I just said this to myself!! I do know it's beyond amazing to even feel like WE DO. and saying that. We got alot of attn goin on and it's because two really. Really smart really 🔥 HOT GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE ARE REALLY HITTING IT OFF BIG TIME..AND ITS GREAT TO EVEN EXPERIENCE THIS..THE THING IS..THE MAIN THING IS..THERES SOO MUCH MORE TO COME
Hey .I hope your having a great day..your always on my mind. I wonder how your doin and stuff like that. Things can get a lil sideways at times but it don't matter.. everything is gonna be alright. ❤
my female close friend used to love me a lot, I didnt realise that even tho my friends said she and I looked like a couple but I thought we were just too close and we didnt have feelings for each other. After that, I realised that I also loved her and she used to have feeling for me. now I really regret it, I was so dumb lol
I wish I had gf but unfortunately her mother too controlling I feel like she likes me but have not seeing her at all most people cheat or blackmail using for money
Unrequited love is as lethal as stab in the gut. So always ask yourself who you are,what you are feeling and what you should do. Don't cross the rubicon carelessly you might get stabbed.
How's everyone doing so far?
hanging in there...
Good!
Hello everyone, good viewing🐼
So early!!!
Great!! 🥳
Timestamp!
-0:39 Their voice makes you smile for no reason
-0:54 You always wait for their texts
-1:02 You are intensly curious about them
-1:21 You feel safe around them
-1:42 You can't stop talking about them
-1:54 It feels super easy
-2:10 You act in their interest
-2:22 You don't feel anxious about getting hurt
-2:32 You feel their pain
-2:44 Your outlook on life looks more positive
-2:59 literally everything reminds you of them
-3:15 You want to do things you've already done again
-3:35 You value thei opinions about future plans
-3:49 You feel adventurous!
-4:04 You are more affectionate
-4:20 You can see their quirks and look past them
-4:46 You wnat to show them all your favourite things
-4:58 You feel more love for others
-5:15 Their scent draws a magnet
-5:32 You feel like a better person
-6:08 When an ex pops back into your life
-6:33 Every love song reminds you of them
Dam thats a lot xd (22)
❤
I’m surprised by how many, too.
@@sakonan4883 yup😅 at least I made one (even though I think it doesn't help)
Thank you!!
You just saved me 6:45 minutes
So early that the timestamp commenters are still not here.
Real
Mine is way too big😅
Who's still hear in 2024 💖💖💖
@@lolabear3230 me
So fast!
welcome back to "am i in love or do i have a terrible platonic crush?"
Same! 😭 I have so many signs mentioned here with a new friend for over half a year now. I think I might just have a terrible platonic crush 😅
Ouch...
Same
this is me for the past years of questioning my feelings. ._.
Hahaha same here 😂
oh these videos have been SPECIFIC lately 😭
for realll 😭😭
Very.
BRO REAL im like this cannot be real anymore what 😭
Very very very relatable💀
The algorithm tracks your search and view history
I still remember the time I first fell in love: it’s a growing warmth. You start picturing the things you’d wanna do with that crush (hang out, hold hands, kiss, hug). That person almost always on your mind.
Wish I could feel that again and have someone to ease that loneliness.
Then look for friends, talk to new people, socialize in some way.
That there is something I can never experience. Im incapable to form deep connections with others. The worse part is that I do have strong Empathy, so it just hurts to know I’ll never have that.
@@oliverdk7594 That isn't true, you just haven't currently met anyone who you've been able to have that connection with.
Keep pushing, I know it's hard but that is something all of us go through. It took me time before I was able to climb out of that depression and went on to form strong connections with others, don't lose hope.
Yea, falling in love is the worst, because they either don't like you back or already are in a relationship
@@avengerboy2171 Not seeing that happening when im an Aromantic, its a matter of fact, I already faced reality and accepted that. Having friends is the closest I can get to Love or a deep connection. Just not deep enough to call it a relationship, ever. It’s a sad truth but again I don’t know if I would call it that, dont feel like im missing out alot and besides, Its not that bad.
For me, the biggest sign was that i want her to be happy. If she's happy, I'm happy. Empathy, an emotional connection was "my" key. The girl lost interest in me, and we seperated. It hurt a lot, but when I saw her with another man happy, I felt surprisingly grateful that she is in good hands. As long as she's happy, I am too. Love should be selfless, but it's rare.
You’re a good man for being happy for her even though she’s with another man☺️👌
@@fridagylterud9491 Aw, thanks! ^ ^
The greatest sign of falling in love is to become so synchronized that your partner's emotions genuinely affect your own.
Falling in love can be the scariest thing ever, and also give you the greatest sensation of elation and bliss! It's a paradox like most things in life it seems! Sometimes it's hard to know what's right and what's comfortable! That's my 2 cents! Take care!
why is this so RELATABLE?!?😱😱😱
"Falling in love is like a messy, beautiful mix of emotions..." Got me cryin
The art on this channel is so CUTE!😭
Thank you for the love and support! This means a lot to our animation team!
@@Psych2goi love your channel! And the artist is very talented!
You're so right.
I’m literally over here head over heels so someone and this video pops up. This channel is getting too specific.
I was trying to hide the fact I'm in love, but now I know I was lying to myself
I just wanted to say that I have been subscribed to this channel for over 2 years and it has helped me a lot.Thank you so much Phych2Go❤
Wow, 2 years! That's incredible, thank YOU for being a part of the Psych2Go community for so long. I'm so happy to hear the channel has been helpful for you. Here's to many more years of exploring psychology together!
Thanks so much😊 Whenever I’m feeling kinda down or feeling confused about my emotions, i just come to this channel. There’s always the video I need😊 (which is kinda creepy, but nice)
Just don't put them on a pedestal ... That will affect you badly, and the other person probably doesn't want to be put on a pedestal like that either.
Relax and have fun. And if you're wondering to ask them out or not, do it. You might regret it if someone else takes that opportunity from you.
About half of them also think you. You are one of the reasons I didn't kill myself. You made me see the good in things I used to think were bad. And your videos made me cry with joy when I was sad on some days.
Yes, it took me 42 years to fall in love with a great friendship and it’s going on five years. Even communicating when there are disagreements become better with time. I believe the fear of being hurt may still happen. There are no guarantees❤
I needed that
Tnx❤
When she walks in every time our circle of friends get together I'm one of the first she greets. And it just gets me every time. Just hearing her when we talk and crack jokes feels that much better. Feels like they're curious about me. I'm hoping she feels safe around me. We both think about each other quite a bit.
We've both been hurt and feels like I can ease hers somehow. We talk about what we might do over the summer. I'm a bit more adventurous because of it. Her quirks? Her silly laugh, how she parts her hair, how she even leaned in a bit close. Not sure I'm ready to show my favorite things just yet. Haven't had any ex so no worries there.
okay but why do ya always drop a video that correlates to what’s going on in my life 😂 love this channel 💯
Haha, that's creepy...ly good timing! Maybe you're just manifesting awesome content, or maybe we have psychic... Either way, I'm glad you love the channel!
@@Psych2go for sure keep making content 💯 more life to you , the team , and everybody’s loved ones thank you guys for helping me figure things out 🙏🏿
Timestamps
1). Their voice makes you smile for no reason 0:38
2). You always wait for their texts 0:53
3). You are intensly curious about them 1:02
4). You feel safe around them 1:20
5). You can't stop talking about them 1:41
6). It feels supper easy 1:54
7). You act in their best interest 2:09
8). You don't feel anxious about getting hurt 2:20
9). You feel their pain 2:33
10). Your outlook on life becomes more positive 2:43
11). Literally everything reminds you of them 2:58
12). You want to do things you've already done again 3:14
13). You value their opinions about future plans 3:35
14). You feel adventurous 3:49
15). You are affectionate 4:03
16). You can see their quirks and look past them 4:19
17). You want to show them all of your favourite things 4:45
18). You feel more love for others 4:56
19). Their scent draws a magnet 5:15
20). You feel like a better person 5:31
21). When an ex pops back into your life 6:07
22). Every love song reminds you of them 6:31
Hope this helps you out. Hope this helps you out. Sorry this is so late. And today is my birthday too. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
TYSM 😊😊😊 Happy Birthday ❤❤❤ 🎉🎉🎉
TYYY and happy birthday !!! ❤
@@goldensparkle thank you
@@wyy.a thank you
Sorry I'm late. Happy birthday. Hope it was an amazing day for you ☺
BYE i like falling inlove with someone but I LIKE IM IN DENIAL but i dont know I'm just being delusional? Im so confused
Gosh this video is making me smile involuntarily... And yeah many of the signs explained do match with my feelings when I fell in love with a guy during high school...
I was just having a debate with myself over this 😭. And this helps so much
Same. Emotions at confusing
I don't know why do I watch these when I'm dead single.
Omg, I feel many of these with my friend. She's perfect.
Yes, I'm in love.
& we are in relationship (a fucked up).
We had breakups.
We had patch ups.
Twist is that she doesn't even know about this.
It's only me, stuck in this loop.
Yo guys I need help. This girl recently called me “not bad looking” and “I feel like a lot of people have had a crush on you” and I just realized she has been pretty physical with me, always playfully slapping my arm and recently touched me in a comforting way. She also constantly hangs out with me and can get pretty close to me. Pls help me T-T
if your're interested in her express it, if not then don't but maybe ask her if she is interested in you & try to have conversation about it.
She might have platonic feelings towards you, and just consider you pretty, or she does like you. The only way for you to know is to ask her what she feels whitout compromising her if she just wants to be friends.
Thanks, I really appreciate it
Oh shoot I just realized someone else does something similar to me
ask her out dumbass
Thank you so much, i realised my feelings and have a Boyfriend now.
A girl and I were doing pretty much all of these, I was starting to fall for her and I could tell she was falling for me. Then one morning she threw it all away, I’m still grieving 🥺😢😭
Thats sad man, I Hope You find someone else or she Falls for you again.
Same here. She blames me.
😢💔
Dang bro, I feel for you, you got more courage than I do, I'm terrified of something like that happening to me at least for now
Damn I just asked her out over text and boom I got this notification 😂
talk about the timing!! Did you find this video resonate with you? :D
What did she say?
👀
I literally just started wondering if I am and this conveniently hops into my recommended
0:55 Waaaah is that typo intentional? I couldn’t help it but I still love you my most fave youtube channel. Am I in love?
Hey peeps. I may not have found so somebody yet, but I'm sure y'all can. Don't give up hope and neither will I!
Thanks Man! It really Brings my hopes Up atleast a little bit more! :D
Thanks a lot😊 It’s nice to see positive people in the world😊
Makes me feel like something is wrong with me when I have never had a crush on someone (and/or liked someone), but desperately want to.
Am I really though? I haven't really been there with him physically since August last year but we've stayed in touch. I know i have feelings for him but can't say it's love or not
This quelled a lot of my worries with my own love life, Thank you!!
I think I'm aromantic, I have felt most of them with my friends. Can you do a video about the difference of romantic love and platonic love?
I do want to see this actually
me too T-T
once I thought I had feelings for a girl but I just found her attractive and cool
I went through all but one of these a few months ago. She ended up blocking me and having a girlfriend without telling me, and that wasn’t fun to go through. But eh, life happens. It definitely hurt (and still kinda does), but there’s really nothing I can do about it. All I can say is that I wish she was honest from the start.
I hope I’ll go through that cycle again at some point. My past relationship and this recent experience definitely set me back a LONG way, but I’m only 17. I still have a lot of life left.
"Knock, knock." "Who’s there?" "Pauline." "Pauline, who?" "I’m Pauline, in love with you"
Have you tried that out?
K why is the animation so smooth and has cool transitions
Impeccable timing cute video thankyou ❤️😊
I like this voice over person better, thank you ^_^
Perfect timing, this is my first time being in correct timing i' ve had my relationship and friendship break up problems 💔😭
I had fun scripting this🥰. I hope it resonates with you and that you find your true love❤️!
Meanwhile, my imaginary love life is more fulfilling than my real one.
real
no real life relationships are like those in movies.
This video is the Perfect explanation for mine and my gf’s love is. The only thing I wish was that she was more available. It’s an online relationship, but it’s amazing
Your voice is very sweet and relaxing 🙃🙂
I’m glad I found this video. Recently, I’m really overthinking if I’m in love or just bored and wants someone’s validation lol 😂
So, I’m in 4th grade at a private school, and the school year is over. There’s this 6th grader that we would both share secrets with, and he has a crush on my sister. Now that the school year is over, I find myself daydreaming about him and the year, and I’m really starting to miss him. But, my birthday’s coming up soon, and I’m gonna invite him. But I don’t have the courage to tell him how I feel. I’m very good socially, with everyone really. But I just really miss him and keep texting him. I hope he comes.
A lot, thank you for your wisdom and support. 😊
About 16/22 of these apply to me and one of my friends that I once had a huge crush on, but I'm learning to just be happy with our friendship. I don't think he has any feelings for me and that's okay, even if I really am falling for him. I think that proves I really do love him, I just want him to be happy. I don't really mind if that's with me or not but I would be happy if it was!
Hii!! Big fan! Can you make a video of what to do when your parents are fighting? I really don’t want mine to split! :(
Made my day!! 💗💗 super happy!! 🙂🙂
as an aroace person i love watching these for my writing
For me, an asexual who has ever had a serious relationship and really isn't interested in finding one, these are great fanfic prompts for my otp. Thanks for the ideas!
Ok now that you uploaded time go head to bed 😴😴
Bro this came at the most perfect time, I love the girl voice❤️🤍
People you respect can show you how to live better. Sometimes it's about believing in a new way of life.
As always I love your videos🐼
As always you're using a panda emoji
I swear her voice makes me go to sleep
It's just so sweet ❤
im so grateful tht i found this channel 💗💗🎀
STOP I FEEL SO CALLED OUT ITS NOT EVEN NORMAL
I've never been called out so much
In my relationship I haven’t seen a lot of them but I do see themI’ll go back to this video In about 5 months. And see if I can notice more
Guilty as charged, on all fronts. Damn, I'm hopeless 😅
What a great video to be recommended to me after just being stood up by a date.
Again…
hmm im watching this because I am questioning it lately, j just don’t know. Even though I resonate with all of these and they align with how I feel, I am also fearful it’s not reciprocated and that it’s too soon. We’ve only known eachother for over a month now but it feels so natural. Like we’ve been together since the night we met. We have gotten through long distance, making time for eachother, getting to know one another deeper than anyone else. If im not in love with him yet, it is definitely on the horizon. It’s so beautiful and terrifying at the same time.
Yayyyyy!!! I was looking for a long time for a video like this:’3
I have 13 of these signs and she broke up with me because she was afraid of hurting me. We shared on last glorious kiss and we went on with our day agreeing to ve friends once we are past the awkward things
Lol. I just said this to myself!! I do know it's beyond amazing to even feel like WE DO. and saying that. We got alot of attn goin on and it's because two really. Really smart really 🔥 HOT GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE ARE REALLY HITTING IT OFF BIG TIME..AND ITS GREAT TO EVEN EXPERIENCE THIS..THE THING IS..THE MAIN THING IS..THERES SOO MUCH MORE TO COME
All of this is absolutely spot on.
I'm definitely in love
Feels somehow illegal to be this early.
So fast! Thanks for being here early with us!
My pleasure! 🤗✨
Hey .I hope your having a great day..your always on my mind. I wonder how your doin and stuff like that. Things can get a lil sideways at times but it don't matter.. everything is gonna be alright. ❤
THIS FEELING IS WEIRDD BLEUGH
Me: nah I’m not inlove with him
“List the number of signs you have noticed in this video!”
Me: …all of them.…😭😭😭
same😂
I’ve been in a very nice relationship for the past 3 weeks, and I could not have asked for a better gf!
Out for a date on Monday, root for me y'all
how was it
Good luck and have fun
...the first one. 😭❤️
I actually hate this happens to me. But my butterflies are so contained, it hurts.
my female close friend used to love me a lot, I didnt realise that even tho my friends said she and I looked like a couple but I thought we were just too close and we didnt have feelings for each other. After that, I realised that I also loved her and she used to have feeling for me. now I really regret it, I was so dumb lol
I wish I had gf but unfortunately her mother too controlling I feel like she likes me but have not seeing her at all most people cheat or blackmail using for money
All✅
Good or bad?
Good! ✅
i love your videos ,
I got all these signs ❤😍
huhh my reccomendation has been very specific lately...
Well that wraps it up, I'm not in love yet
i couldve really used this video last year lmao
"Being with them feels like home"
nahh, i can't even make eye contact lmao
13 out of 22 signs... I'm still unsure... I like her. And she definitely makes my life better and happier. But do I want to spend my life with her?
Unrequited love is as lethal as stab in the gut. So always ask yourself who you are,what you are feeling and what you should do. Don't cross the rubicon carelessly you might get stabbed.
I think I have a crush on my best friend....😅 This is literally me.
15! Made me think of just one person.
This was rather timely.
Came so early and don’t even know what to say
Here I go again… falling in love.
"I know you love him, but do you love who you are around him?"
- a movie (i can't remember)
I think 13 of those were accurate. 😂 Man. That’s rough.
Ive had trouble distinguishing between a big thrill crush and real love.