My music of taste hmmm. Well right now it's either soft music or 80's artists like ice cube and eazy e BUT I do have to always love me some 2000's music.
I love when two introverts have a crush on each other and end up together. There's something deep and personal about that kind of love. It's gentle and thoughtful. It's a cozy kind of love like two porch cats in a tree.
Im an introvert. I like this guy and I think by now we are friends, we use non verbal communication a lot I think. Mainly eye contact but thing is he is more social with others than me I feel and I’m jealous of those close to him but I’m too shy to do anything about it and I don’t think he likes me back.
@@vinesbystitch-694 This sounds familiar. I was a shy guy too and I knew when shy girls had a crush on me. I was shy around them when I liked them back. He might not ask you out on his own but based on what you told me I think he likes you a lot. With me as a shy guy, this feeling of being liked was warm and fuzzy but I really had a lot of social anxiety. If you approach him publicly he may feel like a deer in the headlights. You may have to approach him in private. I don't know about this guy you're interested in but I know I was a bit complicated. An enigma to be certain. I hope this gives you some useful insight. Good luck young lady. Remember, we can be very affectionate and thoughtful as partners we just need to get familiar with the girl and our selves for that matter.
@@thecatsbackyard4833 thank you for your advice. I’m not giving up but it is a slow process. I really don’t know though because he is also taken but I heard he doesn’t talk with his girlfriend much at all. Thank you again. This helps a lot.
As a parent friend, I don't mind confessions. If someone confessed to me and it was a close friend, I'd make it as comfortable as I possibly could. I'd tell them that I don't feel the same way but that they shouldn't be ashamed. After all it takes a lot confidence and I'd be honoured to help them gain experience. I'm not the type to avoid nor ghost someone I'm close to just because I feel awkward with them. I'd rather comfort them and make them know that they are still my friend, my childe and that I won't treat them any differently nor make them uncomfortable. I'll tell them that I will give them alone time if it still is too much and tell them that if they need comfort to not hesitate to talk to me nor anyone else in the friend group. Communication is key after all.
There have been so many people who have liked me, but I haven’t got any feelings for them. They always end up being sucky though, (same with those I do like. My love life is a dumpster fire)
Not a great idea since they might be too shy to ask you, and if you like them but don't go on the initiative, it'll be regretful. I have some memories of doing that and beat myself up over it lol but it's not completely bad since you won't be too disappointed or heartbroken
I can tell you all about it. You dont want to be as lonely as i am. I havent received a single visit or phone call from family or friends in 18 months, other than my mom
@@simplyskrypt3914 the fact youre still around makes you more powerful than you think. Some people wouldn't survive a day without being able to constantly text someone.
1. They will pay lot of attention 2. Their body Lang will be different around you 3. Pay attention to eye contact and non verbal communication 4. They will do things to show care 5. They may be over curious about you 6. They may offer compliments and affection 7. They may act unusual around you 8. They show off 9. They will make excuses to spend time with you He shows all the signs it’s been 6 months 😐 UPDATE he friend zoned me
Yeah 💀 this is my first crush in years like 5 years and school ended so I am still trying to figure out if he likes me from all of the times We have communicated or talked to eachother so that I can work up the courage to actually talk to him in the fall bc rn I am fr getting mad at myself and upset because of this. 😭
My problem is 1: a somewhat flirty personality. 2: never being able to notice these signs anyway. 3: always being afraid to make the first move because I hate awkwardness, rejection, or hurt.
I feel like not making a move is making me more awkward then doing it, just go for it, it will show great confidence and will clear up your mind and Heart
See, I don’t know. Whenever I’ve really liked someone, I would do this weird thing where I was very friendly but in a platonic way, wouldn’t say more than I need to and tried to not make it obvious I liked them at all. In some cases I wouldn’t say anything, and maybe I’d talk to people around them, but not them.
Actually, I've noticed that sometimes when someone likes you they struggle with eye contact. Sometimes they look away because they're conscious of giving their feelings away if they look you in the eye. This is particularly true at the "crush" stage.
I see loads of comments that are like “why would someone like me???” I used to be one of them people until someone admitted to actually liking me. It’s a special feeling to finally understand that you’re worth love. So, I hope you can all also understand one’s day that you also are all deserving of it too.
Yeah like some think its weird or gross, but its something that exists. For me I wouldn't mind, I'll just try to become friends with them and get to know them rather then reject them. Because then you can feel bad and want to apologize 😔. It's better to just say something nice and polite like "oh thank you, that's really sweet of you" or something like that. :)
@@saskia4219 aww, that's sweet. I think that it's nice letting your crush or someone know you like who they are and actually like them, rather then rejecting them and not wanting to them again or be friends. That's just rude.
@@saskia4219 That's so sweet that you keep the note with your treasures. I just feel sad now that you didn't ever find out who it was from and that they don't know how much their note meant to you.
The other day, my crush said someone should join him in a voice chat while he made ramen and I immediately dropped everything I was doing (I was working on a time-sensitive project, heh) to go join the voice chat, haha. And then we ended up talking for like the next three hours and it was awesome.
Crush: Stares at me Me: Sees her stare at me Crush: Still staring Me: *HOHO, SO YOU WISH TO KEEP STARING? THEN COME STARE AS MUCH AS YOU'D LIKE* Crush: Looks away Me: *Coward*
Yeah. I think I love my friends a lot because I have a few and they become like my family and this can be mistaken as romantic attraction. Because of that I always say to them : I'm not in love rn
This video is educational but I love how almost everything is "well this could be confused with just being a good friend" or "this is just basic human interaction techniques"
literally in a cycle of convincing myself to get over them bc they probably don’t like me and getting my hopes high again because they said 1 nice word to me lmao
Me slowly gaining feelings for someone: Me having no idea if they like me back: Me watching about 10 of these videos to help find out: Still don’t know man. Still don’t know.
These videos really help me as a writer. Showing emotions between the lines is a key component to keep stories interesting. Like this I know how to build a good hidden love
@@LiGHTProductions the plot of my book doesn't really revolve around the love. I don't really like whacking people in the face with it. I work it into the narrative as a subplot
Yeah same, me and my crush have both had the exact same reaction with eye contact for some time now of pull away as fast as possible and hope they didn’t notice, I’ve never noticed her do it with anyone else but same time I still ain’t certain if she likes me back
@@Charlotte-hq3el Worth testing too, if she smiles back or hides her face, she probably likes you back. Though this isn't mostly the best way to determine it, but hey, if she likes it, there's chance.
@@pro_scooterboy5000 I'ma throw in the slim possibility of them being differently-gendered (such as Transgender, demiBoy, non-binary, etc) I'm not say they ARE. I'm saying it's a possibility I do not assume genders, this is not an assumption
I added time stamps to Eman Zaidi list =) 1. They will pay lot of attention 00:58 2. Their body Lang will be different around you 1:26 3. Pay attention to eye contact and non verbal communication 2:06 4. They will do things to show care 2:56 5. They may be over curious about you 3:27 6. They may offer compliments and affection 4:08 7. They may act unusual around you 5:02 8. They show off 5:28 9. They will make excuses to spend time with you 6:01
@@hola-gy8te yeah you are right but a month ago I confessed my crush abt my feelings and he just said we'll see on future, so I was really happy cuz I thought he will reject me😃 So better speak abt ur feelings than hiding it cuz after you'll regret it
I was fine. I was alone. I was mining my own busyness. Enjoying my singleness. And here comes this girl who makes me feel this way and sadly she gave out signals like the 4th of July enough for me to pay attention to her and actually fall for her. Now, it's either she's way too nice, or likes me. And if either anyway, now I like her. F&@k. I was fine!!! Oh well, who dares wins, right?
Don't You just hate when that happens? Kidding, of course. Happened to me a few years ago. I found her intriguing ... and quite pretty, too. And that grew into Fascinating ... a d just BEAUTIFUL. And She is SMART ... like, super clever ... like, this Young Lady belongs in the CIA. No joke. She seems to enjoy screwing with man-boys' minds as a hobby. And She's really good at it. I try to provide enough of a challenge to keep Her interested. And I guess doing okay, 'cause the game's still going. And I'm loving it more each day. Actually, I think it's time for me to go on Offense. Have a Good Day! ~TD, Boston
@@Percival-kl9yy Much appreciated. Really. This Young Lady is quite clever, though, I assure You. I've been on this Earth for quite a while. Never encountered anyone even remotely like Her. Makes it interesting, and keeps me on my toes. She's crossed a few lines along the way, and was advised accordingly. All in all ... well, I'll say this: If I had a Daughter, I bet She'd have certain prominent traits in common ... if not a veritable identical character twin ... though, probably not for the same reasons. And I'll just leave it at that. Thanks for the note! ~TD
To anyone who survived this, how did you do it? Does it actually get better or do you just get better at managing it with time? Did you fall in love again and was it mutual? I’m actually so tired of the pain and I just want to go on with my life. It’s a prison
@@ft7037 to break the prison and the overthinking ....tell them. Idfc if their ur best friends from childhood and don't wanna mess it up . It's already messed up. U developed a crush on them there's no turning back. Plus if ur in pain like that bc of them they gaslight u or aren't at all clear in their intentions. Tell them. See their response. Move on w them or without them. Every time. U. Feel. Like. This. Yeah that's the cheat code ; ) and one day someone will make it super clear to u that they love u and u won't even have to wonder if they do
Guys do you have any advice for me? so, I have this huge crush on this guy. He's handsome, blond, smart and confident pretty much everything you could ask for. Even though I like him a LOT, I can't even confess to him alone. He's always near people and I can't seem to find a time where I can confess my feelings. I also feel like theres no way that he has feelings for me. Im the quiet nerdy girl and he's the popular dude.
1.They pay a lot of attention 2.Their body language will be different around you 3.Eye contact and non verbal communication 4.Do things to show that they cares 5.May be overly curious about you 6.Offer you compliments and affection 7.Act unusual around you 8.Show off in front of you 9.Find excuses to spend time alone with you
A few acquaintances of mine thought that a good friend and I had "romantic" feelings for each other, but after my friend and I discussed it, we came to the conclusion that we were just good friends, and that we didn't have any romantic feelings for each other. This experience just goes to show that communication is key.
Literally same. Had the exact same experience with one of my best friends. We met around the end of primary school and have been really close throughout all of highschool, and pretty much everyone in class knew we were super close and was absolutely positive one of us had feelings for the other. Years later, we discussed that topic, and agreed to stay the way we are.
Yeah ive talked to her and she said her crush was from a game (like a player) but im starting to think she actually likes me cuz i always see her staring at me and finds lots of reasons as to why she does that and also, her crush (not me) probably lives far away from her home cuz they only met in a game and she doesnt probably know who he rly is, there is a chance that he lives close to her house but i never know
i wish i had read this comment a few months ago. this happened to me too with my best friend. I just didn't think of this question. Could have had a chance at something more or atleast been better best friends. Even she stopped talking to me now :/
hey there's a guy in my class who's kinda taken but he keeps staring at me in class. We sometimes text and hold eye contact, but I don't wanna wreck his relationship. What should I do?
Additional signs: #10: You & they both laugh more often around each other than around others whom either of you are close to. #11: You and they are next level goofy and silly around each other when the two of you hang out.
If this were me, these are mostly signs I DON'T have a crush on someone. I tend to be much more reserved and careful around people I (romantically) like. I feel very uncomfortable around people I like, because I feel like I A. don't want to embarrass myself and B. don't want to seem creepy or give them any hint I like them. If I like somebody, here's my usual telltale signs: 1. I talk about them to other people. Granted, I don't always do this, but if I like someone generally speaking I'll talk to other people about them more often. 2. Like the video mentioned, I try to get time with them, except I do it in a much more reserved, strategic, and non-obvious way. I'll observe things like where they sit, where they walk, stuff like that and attempt to do the same. The difference is tho, I don't go out of my way. If I can't easily be with my crush without a lot of obvious effort, I won't, with obvious being the operative word there. If it's obvious I am putting in effort to be with my crush, I'm not gonna do it. That way I don't look like I'm stalking them. 3. I'm much more verbally reserved around them. I give out fewer compliments because it feels awkward, I tend not to directly address them very much, and I just generally become quieter. 4. I try to catch glances of them. This is something that some of my crushes have actually noticed me doing. I try to catch as many brief glances of them as possible, without any prolonged eye contact. In fact, I will generally avoid eye contact at all costs.
Same! I've always told my friends that if they think I have a crush on them then I definitely dont. I feel bad but I feel like people I have a crush on don't think I like them. I just avoid them and am more reserved around them because I'm nervous lol
Same. It's kinda annoying when you have this little feeling inside you of not showing any vulnerability until you're 100% sure that person likes you back
THE TIMING OF THIS VIDEO BRO IS UNREAL! Well there's this girl in class, I'm not really into her but I admire her coolness a lot not knowing she admires how cool I am too. One time we got close because we took an exam that we missed together and she told me that I was different from the rest of my classmates. She told me "Your aura is different by the moment you start to appear in the doorway" and "You look really neat". Made me think that she does notice me and acknowledge my existence. She told me last time that she's more attracted to women than men but when it's me it's different just because I could make her laugh with no effort. For now I'm confused between "Does she really care about me" or "Is she just being friendly towards me".
One of the things about the "show off" point for me usually happens around social media. Whenever they post a picture of their selves, I get flustered and want to show off with a picture of myself.
Regarding point 3 and how couples in love look at each other more when they talk, it's so cute to see couples eagerly turn around towards each other when saying something, even when the other partner is in another room and they can't see each other. They'll still take their eyes off what they're doing.
Everyone else: Watching this out of interest, curiosity or because they want to find out if someone likes them. Me: Watching this for the sole purpose of writing something.
Honestly I don't need this for selfish reasons because I kind of gave up on romance :/ but I've been confused about whether or not my friend likes me, so thank you very much!
The unfortunate thing I've noticed these days is that most people want to be behind a screen. Most of these don't apply since we can't see those expressions in person. I've even tried hanging around some people in person, but they just all seem so awkward and under pressure. Loneliness is plaguing us in this online age. Especially since the pandemic is here.
I met that person because of spending time behind the screen. If I had the chance I'd spend time with her in person more but she's halfway around the world
Yeah. It's another day of making sure she likes me. I think it's been 30 day since I started doing this. Since then, I haven't made no progress in talking to her.
@@stephenstrange4314 i want to be positive about this and have hope in something again but you know. i saw so many things already, his crush probably is dating 20 different dudes and is a slut in the free time.
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
Knowing they don't feel the same way...just hits different..pretending to be happy for them when they found someone..but you just feel numb inside cuz it's not you..
She has a boyfriend, my homie told me that she was spoiled. Meaning she was low key cheating, entertaining other boys, that includes me. Although I'm aware of that, I just can't move on. Oh I love it and I hate it at the same time 😔
I came here to figure out if she’s hiding feelings for me, only to find out I’m definitely hiding *my* feelings for her. I lowkey want to send her this video and be like, “man, does this stuff sound familiar? 👀”
Well turns out my crush doesn’t like me in the same way, but I’d say to anybody thinking about confessing their feeling to their crush to go for it 100%. It can’t hurt anybody and you feel so much better afterwards regardless of the results. You can do this!!!
As a person Who didn’t confess their feelings because they were too scared of the outcome, definetly go for it 100%, because i still regret not telling her
I love the animation especially the clouds and the shadow of the clouds on them. I also like that it's all visual, so that it can easily be dubbed in different languages to get the same message across. Genius.
Damn your a real one i do the exact same thing, bad thing is that most of the time im just oblivious and dont catch any signs cuz of it, but it really makes my experience with women more relaxed and peaceful. On the other hand when i think that someone likes me or that i have to impress that person i just start acting akward af
I find all of these things also apply to someone I find interesting, not just someone I'm romantically interested in. Especially if it's getting to know someone new that I connect with, or if I feel a friend needs extra care due to their circumstances, I guess sometimes finding someone who you adore platonically is a little like falling in love!
I was interested into this girl. I first met her in my 1st year in my university, compared to my laxness in terms of school requirements and deadlines, she was the complete opposite of me and wanted a 90 (B+ to A for you Americans out there) for each subject. We originally met in a group project as these freshmen, barely knowing each other. You'd think that someone like me is very much wayyy out of her league, after all, in our class, she was the type of student that was always chosen to be the leading role. But, somehow, me (mind you, someone who throughout elementary was enrolled in an all-boys school with no prior interaction with women up to that point) after the project, we started chatting and talking to each other more and more for 1 year. Looking back at it now, she and I displayed these signs, and yet I never noticed because for all I'm geniunely just a nice and reliable person. After 1 year of this, it was Christmas celebration in our university and we both decided that we'd abandon our respective friend groups and meet up for the midnight performance of her favorite band. We were pretty nervous because we never really had a date or anything similar up to that point. At first, we were just standing, listening to the band. But as it went on, I built up courage to hold her hand, was pressuming that she'd rub it off and let go, but she didn't and never did. That hold eventually turned into a hug with her at the front and me at the back. Finally, just before the fireworks went up, I finally built up the courage to say "I love you", I was expecting her to just flatout reject and leave me there, but she said those 3 words as well as the fireworks went up. Those were and still are the happiest days of my life, one i'll never forget. Edit: Lots of people be doubting my story. Just gonna say it now, no, I'm no clout chaser or even desperate for clout. no, this is not a lie, but it's a rough summary of my romantic journey, if I could send screenshots, I would, but obviously for privacy reasons (and because I don't have her consent since she ghosts me :(( and hasn't seen my messages since). And if you're wondering, yes we lasted a year, and as of now, we have broken up. If I were lying, I wouldn't admit the fact that we'd broken up, but no, I ain't even gonna lie for that. Hope this clears it up, and please stop replying assumptions as if I'm a random troll, I'm not into that sht anyway. Edit 2: Quick update. Forgot this comment existed, but while I was in discord with my bois recently, I randomly get a reply to my message that I sent her from like a year ago. And I was having so many questions like "Why chat now when we're graduating?" or "Is this some hate message or something" but I digress. Turns out she wanted to reconcile on the hate I (and I wholeheartedly presume her) boiled over for about 1 year and we instigated some convo we hadn't done with each other for so long. We talked about our relationship, the cutesy and sorrowful moments, and that in the end, we were just plucky ol' sophomores that didn't know any better. And with that, we both finally got that massive chip we had for each other off of our chests. I suggested wanting to stay her friend and all, but she refused for now knowing our past. And I respected it and we haven't talked since. But hey, at least I got to experience the coveted "university sweetheart" story arc I never thought of experiencing in my entire life. Life is just weird ain't it?
@@verschleppt do I look like I'm talking bs here? Because I'm not that desperate for clout that I'd go so far as to write 3 paragraphs of a "fake story" just for likes and attention when it was very much true and factual and I remember it so well
Back when I was younger, I was seated next to this girl I liked since her previous seatmate was really loud. The moment I sat down the first thing that came to my mind was "Oh my- holy frick... don't screw this up. Make a first good impression"... ... we didn't talk that much that day. But every day after we started talking to each other more. It got to the point where I was more social around her. We were even brought to the same group for every science group activity and although I don't like leading because then they'll pay attention to _me_ , since I was grouped with her I was so much more active in helping her and the group, even to the point where if the group was too shy, both of us would take the lead and I'd feel more confident. I think the best move I did was when she needed to walk to a loading/unloading zone for jeepneys and it was raining hard and she forgot her umbrella. Me, being the kind person I am (back then at least), told her to walk with me under my umbrella. I couldn't stop screaming in my mind. And even if it was cold, I was slightly sweating. But that was years ago. She's in a different school and oh boy I'm glad since I am such a mess now and I wouldn't want her to see it. But what if... we were still in the same school, still friends, but maybe we'd talk to each other more and I wouldn't procastinate so much?
Thanks for sharing your experience. That's bittersweet but don't assume things. Usually people remember the kindness you showed them and want to return the favor. So you never know what she will think of you now or how she will act towards you. It would be nice to meet again and catch up :) Best of luck and don't worry too much
Weird that this video is a new one while I'm dealing with feelings for my friend and co-worker. I've done the online dating thing and it's easy to get past when someone you don't know rejects you. However, if my friend who knows so much about me doesn't think of me in a romantic way, that rejection will feel more personal. My friend and I have had so many conversations telling our deepest secrets. Since we work together, I tried not to have romantic feelings. I'm used to liking someone and as you get to know them they turn out horrible. However, this person impresses me more and more and I'm at the point that I will soon share my feelings even if I have to quit my job. Im taking it slow with sharing my feelings because I haven't given too many intimate hints until now. We are both friendly people to everyone so I do get scared that maybe she just nice to everyone and maybe I'm not special. But, we have shared our deepest truths and even disagreements on things and we still care about each other. I just hope she cares for me more than a friend. Wish me luck.
I feel the same way with my co worker but the thing is she has a girlfriend. Btw we are both girls and bisexual. We are both introverts and we play the same instrument like piano. I don’t know why I’m attracted to this person but I feel safe whenever I’m with her. I started to care for her lately. But I want to forget about my feelings to her because she’s already taken and I don’t wanna ruin someone’s relationship.
My long time friend of 11 years sent this to me a few hours ago, saying she got recommended by yt algorithm She noticed that i've been doing a lot of these things to her. Then she proceed to say "This vid is kinda pointless. They mention a lot of traits, but in the end they say that the trait could go either way (romantic/platonic). I mean you do display a lot of these characteristic, and we've been a close friend for 11 years without getting into romantic territory!" I have actually harbored feelings for her for the past 11 years, but i dont want to step into the wrong zone, risking our friendship. I'd rather accompany her as a friend, listening to her complaints about her new bf, rather than being potentially avoided by her forever. I know it sounds hopeless, but the thought of her leaving me, even just as friends, is just too much However, i felt like this is the right moment. I braced myself for any outcome it may give, no matter how bleak. I forced myself out of our comfort zone. I dared to confess my pent up feelings for 11 years, admitting that all of the behavior i did to her that was mentioned in this video was, in fact, due to a romantic feeling i have for her I replied, "Well, about that...", and proceed to tell her how i really felt Its been 4 hours since then. She asked me to give her some times to reply. I dont care if her feelings does not reciprocate. However, i am very afraid that i might have overstepped my boundary, and the thought of our relationship being broken haunts me more than ever Probably not a smart move by me :/
What's your favourite music genre? Comment below so we can see how similar we might be.
Electronic music
meme music
My music of taste hmmm.
Well right now it's either soft music or 80's artists like ice cube and eazy e BUT I do have to always love me some 2000's music.
Progressive house and melodic electro music
I have a pretty wide variety, but my favs are classical, (most) broadway/disney, and rap.
Someone potentially having hidden feelings for me is the funniest joke I’ve heard all week.
Lmfao same
Yes😂😂
same bro
Same😭
Yeah
"Theyre constantly paying attention to you"
Damn letsgooo I lost on the first one
And I keep losing, let's keep the grind
SPEEDRUUUUUN
@@damnation4562 brother
@@maxongameplayxd7607 I know bro, I know
ayo same here lets goooooooo
Got me crying after I realized no one has ever acted like this around me
Fr different kinda hurt 😕
🤝 same
Don't worry ur own company is a lot more valuable than u think 😁
same buddy..
I'm sure the person you find will be great
I love how whenever I watch these I relate more to the comments rather than the actual video
i know right
you were late@@POOPOOLIAM
@@SatisfactionVIP you were MORE late
@@NehaaNSY-ng8wt you were grammatically incorrect
@@SatisfactionVIPhow
*slams book shut*
"Like that's ever gonna happen."
**wakes up in a cold sweat**
*ALL STAR INTENSIFIES*
Somebody once told me the world is gonna roll me
@@SidsWorks she was looking kinda dumb
@@skullergaming2022 With her finger and her thumb
I love when two introverts have a crush on each other and end up together. There's something deep and personal about that kind of love. It's gentle and thoughtful. It's a cozy kind of love like two porch cats in a tree.
Hah….
Im an introvert. I like this guy and I think by now we are friends, we use non verbal communication a lot I think. Mainly eye contact but thing is he is more social with others than me I feel and I’m jealous of those close to him but I’m too shy to do anything about it and I don’t think he likes me back.
@@vinesbystitch-694 Possibly he could be shy around u if he’s mainly an introvert 😅 I had experienced the same thing
@@vinesbystitch-694 This sounds familiar. I was a shy guy too and I knew when shy girls had a crush on me. I was shy around them when I liked them back. He might not ask you out on his own but based on what you told me I think he likes you a lot. With me as a shy guy, this feeling of being liked was warm and fuzzy but I really had a lot of social anxiety. If you approach him publicly he may feel like a deer in the headlights. You may have to approach him in private. I don't know about this guy you're interested in but I know I was a bit complicated. An enigma to be certain. I hope this gives you some useful insight. Good luck young lady. Remember, we can be very affectionate and thoughtful as partners we just need to get familiar with the girl and our selves for that matter.
@@thecatsbackyard4833 thank you for your advice. I’m not giving up but it is a slow process. I really don’t know though because he is also taken but I heard he doesn’t talk with his girlfriend much at all. Thank you again. This helps a lot.
Rip to the people who always gets misunderstood for being so kind and loving to everyone (the parent friends)
Yep
This is me 100%
As a parent friend, I don't mind confessions. If someone confessed to me and it was a close friend, I'd make it as comfortable as I possibly could. I'd tell them that I don't feel the same way but that they shouldn't be ashamed. After all it takes a lot confidence and I'd be honoured to help them gain experience. I'm not the type to avoid nor ghost someone I'm close to just because I feel awkward with them. I'd rather comfort them and make them know that they are still my friend, my childe and that I won't treat them any differently nor make them uncomfortable. I'll tell them that I will give them alone time if it still is too much and tell them that if they need comfort to not hesitate to talk to me nor anyone else in the friend group. Communication is key after all.
Yes! Thank you.
There have been so many people who have liked me, but I haven’t got any feelings for them. They always end up being sucky though, (same with those I do like. My love life is a dumpster fire)
The problem is usually you watch these videos and all the signs apply to you, not the other person you’re hoping might have crushes on you 😂
😂
REAL SHIT BRO
So true
True
so true
My advice on this topic is simply :
Always assume people wants to be friends. And if they ask you out it's unexpected but good!
If it would be this easy
Keep your expectations low, and you will never be disappointed
@@chubchubpotatoes4983 EXACTLY!
Not a great idea since they might be too shy to ask you, and if you like them but don't go on the initiative, it'll be regretful.
I have some memories of doing that and beat myself up over it lol
but it's not completely bad since you won't be too disappointed or heartbroken
Or very awkward…It is not always welcome.
pov: you’re the person hiding your feelings
Yess 🙈🤦
@@butwhy9254 can’t be telling on myself now
It’s true, I was. Until I told him last week. :)
Edit: whoa, thanks guys appreciate the support! 😅
@@joy1696 proud of you!!! wish i had the courage to tell her :, )
Me, i fuckin hate anxiety
Idk how to start a conversation or something
I can confirm that people see me as a friend.
Honestly having a friend is better than no friend at all.
Good conclusion.
true. but it would be nice to know that someone not directly related to you cares
I can tell you all about it. You dont want to be as lonely as i am. I havent received a single visit or phone call from family or friends in 18 months, other than my mom
@@simplyskrypt3914 the fact youre still around makes you more powerful than you think. Some people wouldn't survive a day without being able to constantly text someone.
So true
Hurts knowing not a single soul has ever done this
I feel like a lot of people are saying that.. maybe you just didn’t notice? Cuz I feel the same way soo ye
I can confirm no one is hiding their feelings for me
Same
Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣.....Well maybe I do after reading your comment😂😂😂😂
I get complimented by people a lot. So that's neat.
Same
@Isabella James a Nigerian?
When someone had feelings for you, but you didn't, then you developed feelings for them, and now they don't:
That's so heart breaking, I can really relate to this!😭
Awww
Sad truth 💔
The charades of life
Ikr🥲
1. They will pay lot of attention
2. Their body Lang will be different around you
3. Pay attention to eye contact and non verbal communication
4. They will do things to show care
5. They may be over curious about you
6. They may offer compliments and affection
7. They may act unusual around you
8. They show off
9. They will make excuses to spend time with you
He shows all the signs it’s been 6 months 😐
UPDATE he friend zoned me
time travel gang
Thx, time traveler
Fff time traveler
Time travel
thank u time traveler:)
Did anyone here just had a crush on someone, and you're just trying to know if they lile you back?
I've been lovesick for over 2 weeks and it's not getting any better 😭
I feel u mate
Same. But it's me who is showing those signs.😅
Yeah 💀 this is my first crush in years like 5 years and school ended so I am still trying to figure out if he likes me from all of the times We have communicated or talked to eachother so that I can work up the courage to actually talk to him in the fall bc rn I am fr getting mad at myself and upset because of this. 😭
like*
My problem is
1: a somewhat flirty personality.
2: never being able to notice these signs anyway.
3: always being afraid to make the first move because I hate awkwardness, rejection, or hurt.
That's literally almost all of us to be honest, and don't forget the degenerate part
NAH, WE’RE THE SAME 😔
It’s hard tbh
Whoever is reading this before it’s too late, don’t glare at Yahito Vlog’s Comment. ❌
same lol
I feel like not making a move is making me more awkward then doing it, just go for it, it will show great confidence and will clear up your mind and Heart
See, I don’t know. Whenever I’ve really liked someone, I would do this weird thing where I was very friendly but in a platonic way, wouldn’t say more than I need to and tried to not make it obvious I liked them at all. In some cases I wouldn’t say anything, and maybe I’d talk to people around them, but not them.
I do this
Same here
same
Why are we like this
@@Bruh-be6kv I was thinking the same thing
Crush: confronts me, and tell me that she has some feelings for me
Alarm clock: *ok dream times over*
Lol this hit hard!!😂😂😂
Oh no I feel your pain
FR 😂😔
😢 that just happened to me one day last week. Needless to say it was not a good day.
LOL
The fact that nobody talks about the book Womens Magic Truths on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
You know you’ve really got a major crush for someone when you start binge watching these kinds of psycho2gp videos 😩
this is my tenth one so far…
edit: i’m at around 30 now
edit 2: she said no
LMAO
Well these videos are relaxing. Her voice is really smooth
3rd, even if the signs are there, I'm still doubting myself so... here we go, trying to get 100% sure by binge watching them
Stop exposing meeee😅
Actually, I've noticed that sometimes when someone likes you they struggle with eye contact. Sometimes they look away because they're conscious of giving their feelings away if they look you in the eye. This is particularly true at the "crush" stage.
Well that’s great isn’t it. I was in the shop and turned to me and I looked away then looked at her.
Agreed. I think this video applies mostly to "extreme extroverts" and the opposite of the things in the video can be true with many people
Yes, sir!!! I agree. Like after I opened up to my crush, it eye contact did increase cause the nerves were gone, mostly anyways haha.
Autistic people sometimes struggle with eye contact.
So true
This whole list describes how I act around the person I have feelings for
Yeh lol
Sameeee
EXACTLYYYY
Bahahaha
yup samee haha
Great video! Now I know what to stop doing to further hide my feelings for someone!
You dont have to hide your feelings in the first place! No humans have feelings, it is close to year 2024, after all!
Aww is that because you are confident they don’t or wouldn’t feel the same way?
@@chloelouise1982 correct.
Same here.
I see loads of comments that are like “why would someone like me???” I used to be one of them people until someone admitted to actually liking me. It’s a special feeling to finally understand that you’re worth love. So, I hope you can all also understand one’s day that you also are all deserving of it too.
Yeah like some think its weird or gross, but its something that exists. For me I wouldn't mind, I'll just try to become friends with them and get to know them rather then reject them. Because then you can feel bad and want to apologize 😔. It's better to just say something nice and polite like "oh thank you, that's really sweet of you" or something like that. :)
Wish people weren't so rude 😒
@@saskia4219 aww, that's sweet. I think that it's nice letting your crush or someone know you like who they are and actually like them, rather then rejecting them and not wanting to them again or be friends. That's just rude.
This comment is a conspiracy theory
(that was a joke )
@@saskia4219 That's so sweet that you keep the note with your treasures.
I just feel sad now that you didn't ever find out who it was from and that they don't know how much their note meant to you.
The other day, my crush said someone should join him in a voice chat while he made ramen and I immediately dropped everything I was doing (I was working on a time-sensitive project, heh) to go join the voice chat, haha. And then we ended up talking for like the next three hours and it was awesome.
Congrats! Best of luck!
Awww
Hell yeah.
So uhhhh….did U get that project done?????
@@thegoldendendragon6754 yes, lol. It was a TH-cam video that needed to go up in a couple of days, but I got it done in time. XD
This wouldn’t be an issue if people would learn to stop flirting unnecessarily. Especially at work imo
or in prison
@@duckguy1984 what
@Flyswatter wdym what? Arent you in prison rn?
Hell no man. I'm a cook. Flirting with the servers is one of the fun parts of the job.
@‘*KittyOrDolly*’ imo means in my opinion. They meant what they said
It's funny cause these videos usually help me understand my own feelings more than they help me understand someone else's.
This whole video:
“Someone will do this if they like you…..unless they don’t like you.”
No one likes me 😊
@@legionnaire4878 mood
Lol
@@legionnaire4878 mood
"Flex why people are attracted to you"
They aren't.
Bahahaha, that was a good one
Really th-cam.com/video/RyPLVQoD3Uc/w-d-xo.html
Wakanda, what tf is that vid
@@jrrtoken9474 Paradox don't think I don't know this is u....u wanna dislike it....be my guest, I don't gv a shit, you'll still gv me the views
@@cluelessme1425 you know we can just remove your video from our watch history and that takes away your view?
Crush: Stares at me
Me: Sees her stare at me
Crush: Still staring
Me: *HOHO, SO YOU WISH TO KEEP STARING? THEN COME STARE AS MUCH AS YOU'D LIKE*
Crush: Looks away
Me:
*Coward*
Mine seems to always make eye contact when talking to me. That's poggers.
@@MedicalMan917 i cant make eye contact with my crush lol im too shy or maybe nervous to even talk to him
No th-cam.com/video/RyPLVQoD3Uc/w-d-xo.html
All that buildup for nothing
The Jojo reference, I love it
THIS WAS THE BIGGEST CONFIDENCE BOOST I HAVE EVER HAD THANK YOU SO MUCH
How did it go bro?
i’m so happy for u that ur like the 1% that can relate to this video 😭😭😭
"Couples deeply in love looking 75% at the time."
Me: "Look at my friend for like 20 minutes to think about life even without noticing it"
consider rethinking.
Bro... You are in love with your friend.
@@angelspearl9974 my friend was a boy. And am a boy ಠ_ಠ
@@christiansaputra404 oh in that case he just a true g
@@christiansaputra404 you could be gay ya never know
The awkward moment in which you realize you're doing a lot of those things but you're just being friendly because you like helping people🤣
This is exactly why it’s still hard to tell. Some people are just friendly while other are trying to throw hints
@@junk_bear yes exactly.🙂😂
Omg I hope someone doesn't think I'm in love with them!!😶😶😶
@@JELLY-oy3oo exactly dr🙊
Yeah. I think I love my friends a lot because I have a few and they become like my family and this can be mistaken as romantic attraction.
Because of that I always say to them : I'm not in love rn
"I do not trust anyone, even friends, they know everything about me."
-A quote from a lonely dude in class
Lol
I do this, I don’t trust anyone there not real to me, there nice to me but I don’t think it’s true there hiding something that they don’t want to say.
@@ThatNervousGuy everyone has 2 faces and I can relate cuz I do too
@@ThatNervousGuy same
Sounds like a Dale Gribble quote
Let’s be honest, we clicked on this video cause we are lonely.
Hmmmm
Hmmmm
Hmmmm
Damn straight
Hmmmmmmmm
This video is educational but I love how almost everything is "well this could be confused with just being a good friend" or "this is just basic human interaction techniques"
Its a “trap” is what it is😂😂🤣
Cvnkl
well they dont want someone to be too confident that someone likes them, cuz there's a chance they may not
Well let's get my hopes high again
me
😀✋
literally in a cycle of convincing myself to get over them bc they probably don’t like me and getting my hopes high again because they said 1 nice word to me lmao
@@user-bn1hb3iw8t my situation right now
ME I know imma regret this bit ay why not im bored
POV: your friend does everything on this list
Then: “I’m just being nice”/your not my type/we’re just friends
same
Because they want the attention and will get it from anyone then when it’s reciprocated by the person they don’t truly want they pull back
@@DarthKater311 that’s a good point
Hmmm
no matter how many of these i watch, hints will go straight over my head
Same here
I don't remember, where i heard this but i did somewhere:
"Just asked my crush and got my first ever friend 😎 😎 😎"
2 birds 1 stone
@@N8-Feds Best way to ruin a relationship 😂
@@enoughwithandles 😐
are you guys still just friends?
Me slowly gaining feelings for someone:
Me having no idea if they like me back:
Me watching about 10 of these videos to help find out:
Still don’t know man. Still don’t know.
Same
🥲🥲🥲🥲💔💔💔
@@matthewtetley7048 Rip
There’s only one way to find out, right? :)
@@lesten2707 Never telling anyone but your actual crush but then also just saying “someone” because your too afraid to say “you”
EX: I like someone
These videos really help me as a writer. Showing emotions between the lines is a key component to keep stories interesting. Like this I know how to build a good hidden love
Woah seems interesting:]] where’d u write?
We'd love to read your stories if you don't mind! I'm a sucker for the hidden love trope.
Why would you want to even build a "good hidden love"? You've meant for your book, right?
@@LiGHTProductions the plot of my book doesn't really revolve around the love. I don't really like whacking people in the face with it. I work it into the narrative as a subplot
@@paulasmus4704 Good, I don’t like that kind of stuff either
I have a bubbly loud and funny personality but when the guy I like comes I literally stop talking and anything I say ends in awkward silence
Me but I'm a guy
“Eye contact”
Me who struggles with eye-contact: 👁👄👁
Yeah same, me and my crush have both had the exact same reaction with eye contact for some time now of pull away as fast as possible and hope they didn’t notice, I’ve never noticed her do it with anyone else but same time I still ain’t certain if she likes me back
@@poseidon808 if a girl likes a guy she will break eye contact. Try staring and smiling at her often, that’ll make her get butterflies. I think
@@Charlotte-hq3el Worth testing too, if she smiles back or hides her face, she probably likes you back. Though this isn't mostly the best way to determine it, but hey, if she likes it, there's chance.
I have a right lazy 👁💁🏾♀️. I hope that made your day. 😁
Same i don't want to talk with then by eye to eye 😆 but if I'm wearing a mask sure i can 😆
Now I can finally confirm that no one is hiding their feelings for me 🥺
Same
Hardcore...
Same bro
😂
LOL
This man entertain people without using any abusing words.
Your wording of this sentence made no sense at all.
@@thefbi5696 This man sentences without taking or leaving any words out.
@@pro_scooterboy5000 I'ma throw in the slim possibility of them being differently-gendered (such as Transgender, demiBoy, non-binary, etc) I'm not say they ARE. I'm saying it's a possibility
I do not assume genders, this is not an assumption
This whole section is definitely a highlight...a knee slapper for the day 🤣🤣🤣
I think you meant amusing
AHHH YES! Some content to daily feed my delulu.
ME REAL LMFAO
I added time stamps to Eman Zaidi list =)
1. They will pay lot of attention 00:58
2. Their body Lang will be different around you 1:26
3. Pay attention to eye contact and non verbal communication 2:06
4. They will do things to show care 2:56
5. They may be over curious about you 3:27
6. They may offer compliments and affection 4:08
7. They may act unusual around you 5:02
8. They show off 5:28
9. They will make excuses to spend time with you 6:01
Thanks
All but the last
@@clairelivefreeordie2551 same
Thanks
Thank uu :)
Me catching myself watching 12 psych2go videos in a row while trying to not overthink everything I've done with this person is just such a vibe
she makes ppl overthink and self diagnose
Hhdssghhj lol
Aaaa save me, its late, Tomorrow I have school and I dont wanna have a crush we are good friends, we are too small, we will screw up everything,
Nobody has been showing me these signs, I'm just watching so I know how to hide MY feelings better cuz I'm tired of being rejected my whole life 😃😃😃😃
@Alex Rodriguez I think u should confess ur feelings to ur crush:)
Cuz who knows if they like u back🤷♀️ so try to tell them:D good luckkk
@@shehara9736 that is something easier said than done
lmao same
@@shehara9736 not always I had crushes but never told them until it's like that and I'm watching this to know how many boys do these things around me
@@hola-gy8te yeah you are right but a month ago I confessed my crush abt my feelings and he just said we'll see on future, so I was really happy cuz I thought he will reject me😃
So better speak abt ur feelings than hiding it cuz after you'll regret it
I was fine.
I was alone.
I was mining my own busyness.
Enjoying my singleness.
And here comes this girl who makes me feel this way and sadly she gave out signals like the 4th of July enough for me to pay attention to her and actually fall for her. Now, it's either she's way too nice, or likes me. And if either anyway, now I like her.
F&@k.
I was fine!!!
Oh well, who dares wins, right?
Don't You just hate when that happens? Kidding, of course. Happened to me a few years ago. I found her intriguing
... and quite pretty, too. And that grew into Fascinating ... a d just BEAUTIFUL. And She is SMART ... like, super clever ... like, this Young Lady belongs in the CIA. No joke.
She seems to enjoy screwing with man-boys' minds as a hobby. And She's really good at it. I try to provide enough of a challenge to keep Her interested. And I guess doing okay, 'cause the game's still going. And I'm loving it more each day. Actually, I think it's time for me to go on Offense.
Have a Good Day!
~TD, Boston
@tdesq
*Any girl that screws with guys minds is not smart.*
@@Percival-kl9yy Much appreciated. Really.
This Young Lady is quite clever, though, I assure You.
I've been on this Earth for quite a while. Never encountered anyone even remotely like Her. Makes it interesting, and keeps me on my toes. She's crossed a few lines along the way, and was advised accordingly.
All in all ... well, I'll say this:
If I had a Daughter, I bet She'd have certain prominent traits in common ... if not a veritable identical character twin ... though, probably not for the same reasons. And I'll just leave it at that.
Thanks for the note!
~TD
Your doing great then others bro keep up with info if you rlly want to...
@alliara289 You know my pain, too.
At this point I'm starting to believe I'm going to get stuck in an unrequited love loop forever.
To anyone who survived this, how did you do it? Does it actually get better or do you just get better at managing it with time? Did you fall in love again and was it mutual? I’m actually so tired of the pain and I just want to go on with my life. It’s a prison
@@ft7037 to break the prison and the overthinking ....tell them. Idfc if their ur best friends from childhood and don't wanna mess it up . It's already messed up. U developed a crush on them there's no turning back. Plus if ur in pain like that bc of them they gaslight u or aren't at all clear in their intentions. Tell them. See their response. Move on w them or without them. Every time. U. Feel. Like. This. Yeah that's the cheat code ; ) and one day someone will make it super clear to u that they love u and u won't even have to wonder if they do
@@ft7037 oh u posted that comment a day ago I hope what i said will help u in ur actual situation :))
@@ft7037 Honeslty just confess and get it over with, thats the easiest way tbh
Guys do you have any advice for me? so, I have this huge crush on this guy. He's handsome, blond, smart and confident pretty much everything you could ask for. Even though I like him a LOT, I can't even confess to him alone. He's always near people and I can't seem to find a time where I can confess my feelings. I also feel like theres no way that he has feelings for me. Im the quiet nerdy girl and he's the popular dude.
1.They pay a lot of attention
2.Their body language will be different around you
3.Eye contact and non verbal communication
4.Do things to show that they cares
5.May be overly curious about you
6.Offer you compliments and affection
7.Act unusual around you
8.Show off in front of you
9.Find excuses to spend time alone with you
This what one of my closest friend does
@@JamesBoard42 do u like her?
We did date but broke up since he moved
the fact that literally nobody shows these signs to me 😭
@@ivythealiencat male or female? Or maybe the better question, what's your age?
time traveller gang
Edit: omg I got likes I've never had this many before
How do people do that 😭
Wh-
Hello!
how-
Lol
0:45 no one is going to do that 😂
You'd be so surprised 😭
Ya never ever ever gonna do that but thanks for the advice
A few acquaintances of mine thought that a good friend and I had "romantic" feelings for each other, but after my friend and I discussed it, we came to the conclusion that we were just good friends, and that we didn't have any romantic feelings for each other. This experience just goes to show that communication is key.
Literally same. Had the exact same experience with one of my best friends. We met around the end of primary school and have been really close throughout all of highschool, and pretty much everyone in class knew we were super close and was absolutely positive one of us had feelings for the other. Years later, we discussed that topic, and agreed to stay the way we are.
I honestly have feelings for someone, and I show none of these signs
Cool story
Yeah ive talked to her and she said her crush was from a game (like a player) but im starting to think she actually likes me cuz i always see her staring at me and finds lots of reasons as to why she does that and also, her crush (not me) probably lives far away from her home cuz they only met in a game and she doesnt probably know who he rly is, there is a chance that he lives close to her house but i never know
i wish i had read this comment a few months ago. this happened to me too with my best friend. I just didn't think of this question. Could have had a chance at something more or atleast been better best friends. Even she stopped talking to me now :/
After following this
I found out that the girl with whom I had feelings towards also feels the same
I got into a relationship
Thanks a lot
I feel like the guy I have a crush on feels the same, but again gives me mixed signals. How do I start to talk to him more?
@@dostoljevski
Just start to get to know his interests,hobbies, etc!!
hey there's a guy in my class who's kinda taken but he keeps staring at me in class. We sometimes text and hold eye contact, but I don't wanna wreck his relationship. What should I do?
I salute you
Congrats!
I tried this with my wife just to found out we were just friends :(
🤣
:o
(･o･;)
What is a wife?
You have a wife?
This channel has given me nearly 4 years of advice, even when times were tough. Thank you for all that you upload.
Additional signs:
#10: You & they both laugh more often around each other than around others whom either of you are close to.
#11: You and they are next level goofy and silly around each other when the two of you hang out.
no fuckin way both are accurate
Yesss
how to uncrush pls
I still didnt get past first tutorial step which is talking
all these stuff kiinda happens to me around her, but she got a bf and she def not interested. this why it still hurts rn
If this were me, these are mostly signs I DON'T have a crush on someone. I tend to be much more reserved and careful around people I (romantically) like. I feel very uncomfortable around people I like, because I feel like I A. don't want to embarrass myself and B. don't want to seem creepy or give them any hint I like them. If I like somebody, here's my usual telltale signs:
1. I talk about them to other people. Granted, I don't always do this, but if I like someone generally speaking I'll talk to other people about them more often.
2. Like the video mentioned, I try to get time with them, except I do it in a much more reserved, strategic, and non-obvious way. I'll observe things like where they sit, where they walk, stuff like that and attempt to do the same. The difference is tho, I don't go out of my way. If I can't easily be with my crush without a lot of obvious effort, I won't, with obvious being the operative word there. If it's obvious I am putting in effort to be with my crush, I'm not gonna do it. That way I don't look like I'm stalking them.
3. I'm much more verbally reserved around them. I give out fewer compliments because it feels awkward, I tend not to directly address them very much, and I just generally become quieter.
4. I try to catch glances of them. This is something that some of my crushes have actually noticed me doing. I try to catch as many brief glances of them as possible, without any prolonged eye contact. In fact, I will generally avoid eye contact at all costs.
Same! I've always told my friends that if they think I have a crush on them then I definitely dont. I feel bad but I feel like people I have a crush on don't think I like them. I just avoid them and am more reserved around them because I'm nervous lol
Described me perfectly!
Same. It's kinda annoying when you have this little feeling inside you of not showing any vulnerability until you're 100% sure that person likes you back
Yea this is me
We’re legitimately exactly the same.
Better to hide your feelings than seeing them distance them selves after you confess😏
*🥺#💯😏❗!*
but if they like you back nothing will happen
That's honestly one of the worst feelings ever
Depends on how strong your feelings are.
@@dreadfulbadger !*#💯❗❕!*💪🏾💪🏾*
THE TIMING OF THIS VIDEO BRO IS UNREAL! Well there's this girl in class, I'm not really into her but I admire her coolness a lot not knowing she admires how cool I am too. One time we got close because we took an exam that we missed together and she told me that I was different from the rest of my classmates. She told me "Your aura is different by the moment you start to appear in the doorway" and "You look really neat". Made me think that she does notice me and acknowledge my existence. She told me last time that she's more attracted to women than men but when it's me it's different just because I could make her laugh with no effort.
For now I'm confused between "Does she really care about me" or "Is she just being friendly towards me".
I'm a girl, and I think she is actually attracted to you
One of the things about the "show off" point for me usually happens around social media. Whenever they post a picture of their selves, I get flustered and want to show off with a picture of myself.
aww that’s actually so cute!
@@troncat.t what if he was an abomination
@@afigaiskansalim2182 i dont know what your talking about but whatever it is its not changing the fact that this comment is sweet!
@@troncat.t how is it cute or sweet for somebody who wants to impersonate someone because they did it
Rock Post picture of himself I also get the urge to post my overwhelming fat body :)
Regarding point 3 and how couples in love look at each other more when they talk, it's so cute to see couples eagerly turn around towards each other when saying something, even when the other partner is in another room and they can't see each other. They'll still take their eyes off what they're doing.
For some reason I thought Sal from Impractical Jokers was your pfp
I always assume that no one has any romantic interest in me and if someone tells me that someone does then I assume they are lying.
It's sad that you have such low self esteem!
I like you ❤
Same..
Same
You actually look pretty cute tho
"the body never lies"
people like me who show a happy body language when feeling especially depressed "are you sure about that?"
My imaginary gf is hiding her feelings for me.. Blush Blush
Lmao 😆☺️
Ironically the most real comment here, lad.
I love your profile picture.
Death note fan spotted
This made me smile😁😁and it's true lol☺
Everyone else: Watching this out of interest, curiosity or because they want to find out if someone likes them.
Me: Watching this for the sole purpose of writing something.
me too hahah
me too hahah
me too
same
@@gardenGnostic4133 dude.
Honestly I don't need this for selfish reasons because I kind of gave up on romance :/ but I've been confused about whether or not my friend likes me, so thank you very much!
@Isabella James cringe.
So... you did technically need this lol
Kindvth-cam.com/video/RyPLVQoD3Uc/w-d-xo.html
STOP FEEDING MY DELUSIONS PLEASE I BEG YOU
The unfortunate thing I've noticed these days is that most people want to be behind a screen. Most of these don't apply since we can't see those expressions in person. I've even tried hanging around some people in person, but they just all seem so awkward and under pressure. Loneliness is plaguing us in this online age. Especially since the pandemic is here.
T_T
Eloquently spoken.
I'm an introvert (also with social anxiety) and I rather to talk to others online instead face-to-face
He's th-cam.com/video/RyPLVQoD3Uc/w-d-xo.html
I met that person because of spending time behind the screen. If I had the chance I'd spend time with her in person more but she's halfway around the world
*Sees a crush video*
“Here we go again”
Same!! Lol
"ah shit, here we go again..."
Fr
Yeah. It's another day of making sure she likes me. I think it's been 30 day since I started doing this. Since then, I haven't made no progress in talking to her.
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Hoping my crush doesn’t find this video, they will know immediately that I like them!😂 Amazing video as always!
hey they dont know this is you
maybe they have a secret crush in you aswell :)
@@stephenstrange4314 i want to be positive about this and have hope in something again but you know. i saw so many things already, his crush probably is dating 20 different dudes and is a slut in the free time.
@@Ralzone woah that deep 😯
"Them"? So u have more than 1 crush
it's been 6 years..i still remember that one compliment from a girl in class
Real
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
Aww TYSM Nat!! I hope you know all of that is true for you as well ☺️
Thank you :3
This made me tear up thank you so much you're so kind🥺💕💕💕💕
-Aline
Thank you Nat 😊 you're incredible too
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Knowing they don't feel the same way...just hits different..pretending to be happy for them when they found someone..but you just feel numb inside cuz it's not you..
felt 💯
Felt like this a week ago :
She has a boyfriend, my homie told me that she was spoiled. Meaning she was low key cheating, entertaining other boys, that includes me. Although I'm aware of that, I just can't move on. Oh I love it and I hate it at the same time 😔
yeah i like a girl and she likes my best friend but the suckey part is he likes her
I actually needed this, since I'm shy and the person I like is also shy. Thanks!! 🥰
You're welcome! Best of luck!!!
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It seems obvious that after what happened between me and my crush we're both too shy to even look at each other in the eyes.
As a homeschooler
I have nothing to say
I came here to figure out if she’s hiding feelings for me, only to find out I’m definitely hiding *my* feelings for her. I lowkey want to send her this video and be like, “man, does this stuff sound familiar? 👀”
Sending the video would be a big brain move
lmao yes i recognized every single one of those things as stuff i do
EXACTLY
Don’t send it to her bro…. That’s not the move 😂
@@Triannosaurus you are late. He sent it. Now 💀💀☠☠☠☠
Thank you for helping me hide feelings better!
Are u serious bro? U have a crush? Wow hardcore....
@@gaming_andfunnyvideos How is it hardcore? I have a crush. Someone I know has a crush... I don't get how it's hardcore.
@@Rendoingrandomstuff lol
@@Rendoingrandomstuff like real hardcore lol great now everyone hates me
@@gaming_andfunnyvideos No one hates you
Well turns out my crush doesn’t like me in the same way, but I’d say to anybody thinking about confessing their feeling to their crush to go for it 100%. It can’t hurt anybody and you feel so much better afterwards regardless of the results. You can do this!!!
Can't relate to the confessing part lol
I confessed to my crush and he told my whole high school I was gay
so no :)
@@yourfriendlysubaruoutback I am very sorry. You are authentic and he is a judgemental person.
As a person Who didn’t confess their feelings because they were too scared of the outcome, definetly go for it 100%, because i still regret not telling her
Can't. I'm scared of rejection.
“Don’t give me hope. Please don’t give me hope”
No ones hiding their feelings for me. Great to affirm that!
I love the animation especially the clouds and the shadow of the clouds on them. I also like that it's all visual, so that it can easily be dubbed in different languages to get the same message across. Genius.
I will always assume everyone has no romance interest for me. That way I'll feel more relax knowing that i don't have to act best in front of them.
Damn your a real one i do the exact same thing, bad thing is that most of the time im just oblivious and dont catch any signs cuz of it, but it really makes my experience with women more relaxed and peaceful.
On the other hand when i think that someone likes me or that i have to impress that person i just start acting akward af
came here to check whether someone likes me, but turns out I am the one doing all these things😂
That's an absolute hilarious joke of someone potentially having "feelings" for me I just can't 😂
Same here...
Same here
God… Same
Same
So you can tell you’re losers? Nice
“ if they lean toward you, they could like you!”
Girls looking at me: leans back
Get a bodyspray if that happens
Lean towards them and see if they run away lol 💀
@@lily-td5vq tried it, turns out they self destruct when I do that 😳
what a very normal looking comment.. so relatable
I find all of these things also apply to someone I find interesting, not just someone I'm romantically interested in. Especially if it's getting to know someone new that I connect with, or if I feel a friend needs extra care due to their circumstances, I guess sometimes finding someone who you adore platonically is a little like falling in love!
yes true!
Lol
Yo sis you got such a calming voice it’s incredible, I like looking at your vids when I’m stressed because your voice calls me down lol
I was interested into this girl. I first met her in my 1st year in my university, compared to my laxness in terms of school requirements and deadlines, she was the complete opposite of me and wanted a 90 (B+ to A for you Americans out there) for each subject. We originally met in a group project as these freshmen, barely knowing each other. You'd think that someone like me is very much wayyy out of her league, after all, in our class, she was the type of student that was always chosen to be the leading role. But, somehow, me (mind you, someone who throughout elementary was enrolled in an all-boys school with no prior interaction with women up to that point) after the project, we started chatting and talking to each other more and more for 1 year. Looking back at it now, she and I displayed these signs, and yet I never noticed because for all I'm geniunely just a nice and reliable person. After 1 year of this, it was Christmas celebration in our university and we both decided that we'd abandon our respective friend groups and meet up for the midnight performance of her favorite band. We were pretty nervous because we never really had a date or anything similar up to that point. At first, we were just standing, listening to the band. But as it went on, I built up courage to hold her hand, was pressuming that she'd rub it off and let go, but she didn't and never did. That hold eventually turned into a hug with her at the front and me at the back. Finally, just before the fireworks went up, I finally built up the courage to say "I love you", I was expecting her to just flatout reject and leave me there, but she said those 3 words as well as the fireworks went up. Those were and still are the happiest days of my life, one i'll never forget.
Edit: Lots of people be doubting my story. Just gonna say it now, no, I'm no clout chaser or even desperate for clout. no, this is not a lie, but it's a rough summary of my romantic journey, if I could send screenshots, I would, but obviously for privacy reasons (and because I don't have her consent since she ghosts me :(( and hasn't seen my messages since). And if you're wondering, yes we lasted a year, and as of now, we have broken up. If I were lying, I wouldn't admit the fact that we'd broken up, but no, I ain't even gonna lie for that. Hope this clears it up, and please stop replying assumptions as if I'm a random troll, I'm not into that sht anyway.
Edit 2: Quick update. Forgot this comment existed, but while I was in discord with my bois recently, I randomly get a reply to my message that I sent her from like a year ago. And I was having so many questions like "Why chat now when we're graduating?" or "Is this some hate message or something" but I digress. Turns out she wanted to reconcile on the hate I (and I wholeheartedly presume her) boiled over for about 1 year and we instigated some convo we hadn't done with each other for so long. We talked about our relationship, the cutesy and sorrowful moments, and that in the end, we were just plucky ol' sophomores that didn't know any better. And with that, we both finally got that massive chip we had for each other off of our chests. I suggested wanting to stay her friend and all, but she refused for now knowing our past. And I respected it and we haven't talked since. But hey, at least I got to experience the coveted "university sweetheart" story arc I never thought of experiencing in my entire life. Life is just weird ain't it?
Saying ILY on your first date tho...
This is amazing i want it to
well,
good for you... . . .
@@swordchaos1181 they were in a relationship for one year so who cares
@@verschleppt do I look like I'm talking bs here? Because I'm not that desperate for clout that I'd go so far as to write 3 paragraphs of a "fake story" just for likes and attention when it was very much true and factual and I remember it so well
Back when I was younger, I was seated next to this girl I liked since her previous seatmate was really loud. The moment I sat down the first thing that came to my mind was "Oh my- holy frick... don't screw this up. Make a first good impression"... ... we didn't talk that much that day. But every day after we started talking to each other more. It got to the point where I was more social around her. We were even brought to the same group for every science group activity and although I don't like leading because then they'll pay attention to _me_ , since I was grouped with her I was so much more active in helping her and the group, even to the point where if the group was too shy, both of us would take the lead and I'd feel more confident.
I think the best move I did was when she needed to walk to a loading/unloading zone for jeepneys and it was raining hard and she forgot her umbrella. Me, being the kind person I am (back then at least), told her to walk with me under my umbrella. I couldn't stop screaming in my mind. And even if it was cold, I was slightly sweating.
But that was years ago. She's in a different school and oh boy I'm glad since I am such a mess now and I wouldn't want her to see it. But what if... we were still in the same school, still friends, but maybe we'd talk to each other more and I wouldn't procastinate so much?
This is one of the best things I've ever seen awh
Thanks for sharing your experience. That's bittersweet but don't assume things. Usually people remember the kindness you showed them and want to return the favor. So you never know what she will think of you now or how she will act towards you. It would be nice to meet again and catch up :) Best of luck and don't worry too much
Do you still keep in touch?
@@greatwavefan397 well... we did text to each other talking about our different schools and I complained about my homework...
That was a year ag-
Well I hope things get better for you!
Either I’m the most clueless dude in the world or she’s that good at hiding her feelings. So many questions, very little answers.
Not everyone is the same so don't think about it too much
you might just be an anime protagonist and you don't know it yet
@@ronissen 😂😂
She might be good at hiding her feelings😂
I also do that a lot
People might worry that if they express their love, the other person won’t feel the same way, which can lead to embarrassment or hurt
I like how none of these apply to me but I watch these videos because it makes me feel better about myself
Ha me to
Bro how they make me feel worse
@@lunchtime_mmmmmmm Ikr; same- I hate having unrequited crushes 😔💔
Weird that this video is a new one while I'm dealing with feelings for my friend and co-worker. I've done the online dating thing and it's easy to get past when someone you don't know rejects you. However, if my friend who knows so much about me doesn't think of me in a romantic way, that rejection will feel more personal. My friend and I have had so many conversations telling our deepest secrets. Since we work together, I tried not to have romantic feelings. I'm used to liking someone and as you get to know them they turn out horrible. However, this person impresses me more and more and I'm at the point that I will soon share my feelings even if I have to quit my job. Im taking it slow with sharing my feelings because I haven't given too many intimate hints until now. We are both friendly people to everyone so I do get scared that maybe she just nice to everyone and maybe I'm not special. But, we have shared our deepest truths and even disagreements on things and we still care about each other. I just hope she cares for me more than a friend. Wish me luck.
Good luck. :)
Best of luck! Hope you'll be okay if things don't turn out the way you hope
good luck! May Aphrodite guide your path :3
Good luck brother❤
I feel the same way with my co worker but the thing is she has a girlfriend. Btw we are both girls and bisexual. We are both introverts and we play the same instrument like piano. I don’t know why I’m attracted to this person but I feel safe whenever I’m with her. I started to care for her lately. But I want to forget about my feelings to her because she’s already taken and I don’t wanna ruin someone’s relationship.
My long time friend of 11 years sent this to me a few hours ago, saying she got recommended by yt algorithm
She noticed that i've been doing a lot of these things to her. Then she proceed to say "This vid is kinda pointless. They mention a lot of traits, but in the end they say that the trait could go either way (romantic/platonic). I mean you do display a lot of these characteristic, and we've been a close friend for 11 years without getting into romantic territory!"
I have actually harbored feelings for her for the past 11 years, but i dont want to step into the wrong zone, risking our friendship. I'd rather accompany her as a friend, listening to her complaints about her new bf, rather than being potentially avoided by her forever. I know it sounds hopeless, but the thought of her leaving me, even just as friends, is just too much
However, i felt like this is the right moment. I braced myself for any outcome it may give, no matter how bleak. I forced myself out of our comfort zone. I dared to confess my pent up feelings for 11 years, admitting that all of the behavior i did to her that was mentioned in this video was, in fact, due to a romantic feeling i have for her
I replied, "Well, about that...", and proceed to tell her how i really felt
Its been 4 hours since then. She asked me to give her some times to reply. I dont care if her feelings does not reciprocate. However, i am very afraid that i might have overstepped my boundary, and the thought of our relationship being broken haunts me more than ever
Probably not a smart move by me :/
Im nervous for you
Any updates?
Gotta let us know how it went my man
Good luck! Remember to stay calm, and never imagine the worst outcome. I'm hopeful it will all be alright.
Bro what happened?