- It's hard to stop thinking about her. - Openness - Get on the priority list - Find something interesting in her - Start paying attention to appearance - Trait adjustment - Friends started saying her name in front of me on purpose - Feel when with him there will be a pleasant future - Often smile even laugh (when imagining) - Also feel happy for the happiness of others All of the above I have to admit that, I went through all of those phases. And it is very strong in my memory to this day. ❤ Do friends also experience the same thing as me?
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way. The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 The same way, by shared interest, hobbies, moral values, faith, similar upbringing. A lot fo thing can make people feel conected to others.
8 years of being together with my boyfriend and I still go through these phases sometimes.... What's really weird though is the amount of times I remember experiencing that 6th point. I don't remember being stubborn or ambitious prior to meeting him... A lot of what I do or experience (whether the traits are good or not) just feels natural to me now, and I don't even question it sometimes 😄
@@gossipgirlonwheels We're not together anymore.... we're also not speaking or keeping any open lines of contact. I made a decision to put myself first over him because there were certain qualities he had that just didn't mesh well with what I wanted from the relationship. I don't want to be married to someone who would continuously make me feel less confident in myself simply because he can't handle having serious discussions.
I think a great tell is when you’re talking with that person and you don’t want the moment to end. Even when you have to (awkwardly) leave for something, there’s always the lingering feeling of “Is there any way I can extend our time together?”
This is true for me. Earlier I used to think I have an aversion to fashion, but after knowing him I realised I have always watched fashion shows since my childhood. I have started loving my own body and giving time to my various interests and hobbies. Most importantly I have become much more helpful and grateful in my life. He's now a big part of my life
I thought love was painful but your channel makes me feel that love is indeed something very beautiful. Love always stood as a hurtful and painful thing for me but after seeing how beautiful it is, it makes me question that if I am spending my time on the right person or not. Because usually the people I date hurts me a lot. And now I don't think love need to be painful or depressing. It's a feeling of happiness and joy!
I think people rely too much on feelings to determine whether they are in love, but feelings are so fickle, they are like a flame, as bright as it can burn, it can also be extinguished pretty fast. I think falling in love at its most basic foundation is a choice, it must be a choice.
This is actually true. I spent the last 3 years just staring at him and not even talking to him. I remember the first time we spoke and everything else. But...he dated one of my friends in the first year. They broke up a while later. Then in the lockdown I couldn't even see him for an year,but I couldn't stop thinking about him. In our final year,I told my best friends that I liked him and it was all fine, I even wanted to confess him about my feelings. But one my friends started dating him without even telling me again!! I felt completely devastated. I stayed strong and tried to get over him. Then on my birthday,he texted me!! Like I couldn't even believe it. Clearly I wasn't over him. Then he broke up. We only texted but never interacted in college. I told my friend that we've been texting a lot lately and she didn't care. And he moved away to a different city. He calls me atleast once a week and texts everyday and I don't even initiate the conversation. I don't know if he likes me or not but I really love him
As a cptsd surviver, falling in love can be hard and even harder when it gets real and you choose to go for a relationship. Insecurities, normal anxiety that is confused with traumatic, fear of abandonment, among other things that do not allow me to fully focus on being in love. Sometimes it even makes me question my feelings and intentions, but today I am happy to say that I am very much in love with my boyfriend. Thanks for and the extra help that keeps me grounded
I havent never fallen in love before and I still havent found feeling romantic attraction to anyone, which is why I researched into aromantic and asexual sexualities. But i wish everyone is happy and healthy being whoever they are and with :)
I fell in love while going through heaps of trauma, dealing with ptsd and depression. Sadly a lot of these things do not apply to me... But I'm grateful for where we are now, almost 2 years later, and I couldn't be happier about my relationship!
Huh...then I guess I was never in love all along. Just felt shallow attraction and went into flights of fancy of the ideal relationship backed up by what ifs supported by what I knew about the person and how that can apply to the possibilities of a serious relationship. As I'm glad many of the folks here are realizing they're in love, I'm gonna be with the rare few who realized the opposite. But a new perspective is always welcome.
I like your mentality 😇of thinking that a new perspective is always welcome. Many people lack this and hence decides to only hear & stick to their perspective & shuns other right away.
I only just found out a while ago that a friend (who happens to be a girl) may or may not have a crush on me and I didn’t realize it until a month or so ago. I only just realized it after watching these videos.
she doesn’t understand. she sees me as a little sister. i see her as the older sister i never had. i just want to be with her forever and always. she literally lights up every room she walks in. she has the prettiest ocean blue eyes i’ve ever seen, she has the prettiest wavy locks of chocolate brown, almost dark chocolate brown/black hair you’ve ever seen. her 2 pairs of glasses are beautiful and they make her eyes pop. her black ones are like mine, and her clear ones, are just her style. and when she wears contacts, it’s like my eyes go to her eyes, immediately. and don’t get me started on her style. all of her outfits are always color coordinated, she has a collection of super cool socks, she loves music, she plays saxophone, she is in band, she conducts my schools band during marching band season, she’s in writing clubs, and photography clubs. i just love her so much. she’s 2 years older than me, and… she’s in a relationship. her girlfriend is the polar opposite of me. curly blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, skinny, and only a year younger. her girlfriend is in band, and also conducts with my crush during marching band. me? i’m short. i have green eyes, pin straight hair, glasses, i’m in band.. i guess. she works at an icecream shop i go to. she always makes sure she serves me when i stop in. she gives me the biggest hugs, even when we are both sweaty from band camp. she recongizes when i zone out, or when i am starting to het anxious, and she gets me out of my anxiety and panic attacks. her favorite color is purple. her car is red. she loves her family. her and i have similar health issues (blood sugar problems) her eyes, her nose, her ears and her ear peircings, her beautiful contagious smile, her freckles, her eyelashes, her adorable laugh, her humor, her amazing way with words i don’t know. do you guys have advice? how do i get over her. i’ve known her for a year now, and i’ve liked her since july of 2023. it’s now august of 2024.
I knew I fell in love already with a girl... I've already admitted that I like herrr. And I noticed something. I am thinking of her all the timee. .. And thanks for the video
I think it's time for you to confess your love to the person! Are you smiling or nervous when you are close to them making it hard to express your love for them?
@@Psych2go yup. I begin to choke on what I’m about to say then veer left to another topic before I can get it out. I plan to get over my anxiety of it and just let it out.
I have severe trauma and this often gives me bad trust issues. I trust my partner with my whole heart. That isn’t something I get often. I don’t trust anyone. Besides them. I really think I’m in love, the air just feels better when I’m with them. I want to be a better person for them. It’s not like I want to “fix” myself for them. They just make me feel better about everything. I don’t want to move too fast but I can’t decide if I should just rip the bandaid off and say “I love you.” It’s killing me.
I listened to every symptom throughout this video and every single one applies to me. Every. Single. One. I told ONE F**KING PERSON that I was gonna ask her to the dance, and 2 days later the whole school knew. She found out I liked her before I even got to tell her. It was her F**KING SISTER. I didn’t even get to tell her. Words cannot describe the level of depression I feel when I’m around her. She told me that she didn’t like me back. Then a couple months later she said she actually did beforehand but didn’t tell me. I hate the fact that I still love her. I just hate it. I’ve only ever truly loved one person on this earth. It was her. Sure, there were a couple girls before i thought I loved, but then she came along and my whole meaning of the word love changed. (Sigh) 😔😞😔😔
They may boost your self-image when they show signs of liking you back but nothing is worse for your self-image than when they don’t seem to like you back.
i tell you. my jaw DROPPED when u said "have you started to like how u look in skinny jeans?" THAT IS SO ACURATE. I used to put myself in baggy clothes for the past 1 year and all of a sudden this happens!
i'm having my first crush since 4th grade, and I dont even know him that well,i have terrible social anxiety too,but I actually plan on talking to him on tuesday if my anxiety can handle it lmao
watched this video as a test to see if I’m Aromantic (used about 3 others similar to it aswell) and was using a ratio counter for all that applied to my past feelings for some people… got a 1 out of 5 ratio on average so probably gray-aromatic or idk?
@@camillex5916 i think theres like 5 ppl op thought they had feelings for and 1 of them was in line with the video. im not sure tho. anyways i feel this too lol. thought i had a crush on this friend i have recently but nope, i just wanna be rlly close to them. (this has happened twice, this time i just speedran thru it lol)
I fell in love with someone but it wasn't romantically. He was my little baby bunny, he was meant to turn 1 in April but died on Sunday (I'm suspecting through shock after he escaped and got into a fight with his brother). Now, I don't know what to do without him, he could do one tiny little thing and it would make your week, I would be thinking about him so often and loved every bit of him. He wasn't like any other rabbit, he would jump on your bed to check up on you, he would like to sit in front of my door to guard it, he was obsessed with crushed hobnobs and gratted carrots, he would binkie when he figured out that you were getting him food, he would get very angry if you gave his brother food first (to the point of not even realising that he had food), he found a way to let us know when he would want fresh water, he (only just recently) would cling to you if he was in a new place by climbing up you and sitting on your shoulder, he would love to be held across so he could rest his head on your arm while you pet him, he loved cartoons, his ear would go up if you rubbed his cheek, he would also play a game with us where we would move a slipper side to side near him and he would either pounce on it or binkie and run a bit and lastly he would just act like a little baby all the time from the way he looked with his chubby cheeks to demanding us to help him. The last time I saw him alive was on Thursday, and he woke me up at 6:15, I had to pretend to be asleep while he climbed all over the bed, jumping on and off it while occasionally coming in to check on me and maybe giving me a face boop. Every few months we would see his personality get brighter and brighter as he got more comfortable with us, I just wish I could've seen it grow even more. I love you baby Belle Boos
@Artsy_Ally Thank you for your advice. Since then my other rabbit has died and the vets suspected that they caught a virus. I saw that we could get them cloned but I don't want to do that because it still wouldn't be them, they may look the same but they wouldn't have the same memories and they wouldn't be the same rabbits. We ended up getting them cremated and now they're in a box near where their pens used to be. I also don't know if I'm going crazy but on the month anniversary of my first rabbit dying, I saw a rabbit logo on a bag I had never seen before, someone in a rabbit costume, and near my house there was a long line of hay next to the pavement, all while going home.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
This was really hard to sit through while realising I'm in love with ex, we broke up barely a month and a few days ago. Acknowledging it is harder than I expected. We've been in no contact and always will be. I know he isn’t the right one but this whole thing is still pretty hard.
Realization that I've fallen in love came to me after a few moths that I've spent with her. Sadly, she has a boyfriend. Recently I told her what I'm feeling. She said, that she loves me as brother. That hurts deeper than I thought. Thank you for stopping by. Sorry for mistakes in grammar or spelling, or some other shit, English isn't my first language.
Okay but what about when you catch yourself thinking about the embarrassing time when you tried to talk to them and now you feel cringe about trying and you just don't wanna try anymore? Asking for a friend
Misa and Usui On thumbnail and the topic is about signs that you are falling in love just rlly match because misa dont know her own feelings about usui in the start of the anime.
I am in love. I have been for almost a year. The problem is, it's two people. Both of them being my best friends. The problem is they are dating each other, and don't want to include me in that. We are planning on spending the rest of our lives together. Which is nice, but it just reminds me I'm going to have to live with the rest of my life, that they love me, but not like that.
alright here is the deal...half of these say I'm in love with this guy, but guess what? we both are forbidden friends...cuz our gangs hate each other and idk if he feels the same way about me cuz he says he is very jealous when I give attention to a guy other than him but at the same time has a crush on someone else....boys, just so confusing
I was 3 years without falling in love. This year, it happened again. It took me a few months to see it, but when I finally realized that I was falling in love someday at 3am, I couldn’t stop smiling, my cheeks automatically turned red and I felt so good with myself. Love is difficult, but the feeling is great while it lasts! ❤
I given up on love after my previous rejection. I thought it would happen but it's just further proof that maybe a love life was never meant to be. I just know I'm too late for it and just time to live my life in a depressing single/divorced guy apartment
@@elliotthefennekin6506 Don’t worry it’s never too late to fall in love even if you don’t think so if you actually want a real relationship just be patient and try to get rid of that negative attitude
▪︎TIMESTAMPS ▪︎ 1. 0:37 You often find yourself thinking about them 2. 1:07 Your suddenly open to exploring new things 3. 1:40 They have made their way to your priority list 4. 2:12 You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 5. 2:47 They boost your self-image 6. 3:14 Their traits become your traits 7. 3:50 Your friends are noticing 8. 4:14 You feel positive about the future 9. 4:44 You cant stop smiling 10. 5:18 You feel more love for others
Remember a lot of these could also be mistaken for platonic love. You could feel these things for your best friend that you're really close with or someone you're beginning to grow a good friendship with. It can be hard to tell the difference so watch out
True. I go through a lot of these when I first become friends with someone, or when I make a close friend. It’s not always romantic to think about someone else, people!
I’ve never been in love either, so I wouldn’t know anything about loving someone when it comes to romantically. I get a crush and love very confused, because sometimes they feel very similar, butterflies.
@@PokidotGamer898 I know how it is for me love is something deep that's why I wouldn't just tell anyone I love them crushes from my experience are just us romanticizing the person we have a crush on. It was before I met my girl I had a crush but when I found out my crushes personality I saw I have to be think with my mind not my heart.
@@siya___7776 that might be the same with me. For some reason, and idk why, I love my parents to death I do, but I sometimes struggle to say the words “I love you.” The “love” word gets stuck and can’t come out, but I know they know I love them because I show it in my actions. I do say I love you too when they say it to me but I think I’m order for me to say it first, I would have to really love someone. I guess when I say “I love you” I feel like I’m confessing I actually like someone. Because it’s rare for me to say “I love you” first. I see people say it to their parents so easily and I think, “Gosh, they make it look so easy.”
@@PokidotGamer898 I hope it gets better for you as time progresses I understand how you feel I'm usually a reserved person who doesn't express emotions I'm starting to learn how to express myself take some time it will become easier as time passes but dont force it Goodluck
This reinforces a lot the mutual feelings that my girlfriend and I have, I couldn't stop smiling throughout the whole video. today is our 3 month anniversary hihihihihihihi
What signs do you show when you fall in love?
Nervousness
Admiring everything he does
Being incredibly more joyfull and less sad with the said person
feeling the constant need to hug them and have them with me
The first sign only
this is accurate but it hurts when you fall in love with the wrong person and who doesn't feel the same way as you
Been on both sides of the coin!
Ikr
What if you fall for someone who doesn't feel like that for anyone? For someone who can't love
Same
How do you stop loving that wrong person?
I'm 100% in love
😂😂😂
UwU
With this channel :b
His/her name?
Same😇
- It's hard to stop thinking about her.
- Openness
- Get on the priority list
- Find something interesting in her
- Start paying attention to appearance
- Trait adjustment
- Friends started saying her name in front of me on purpose
- Feel when with him there will be a pleasant future
- Often smile even laugh (when imagining)
- Also feel happy for the happiness of others
All of the above I have to admit that, I went through all of those phases.
And it is very strong in my memory to this day. ❤
Do friends also experience the same thing as me?
No 😢
I don't want to experience these things.i am just so frustrated that I would falI in Love with an extremely interoverted guy.i don't want that.
I too have a checkmark in each box next to these signs and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Not one bit.
I love that woman so much
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships.
So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way.
The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 The same way, by shared interest, hobbies, moral values, faith, similar upbringing. A lot fo thing can make people feel conected to others.
8 years of being together with my boyfriend and I still go through these phases sometimes.... What's really weird though is the amount of times I remember experiencing that 6th point. I don't remember being stubborn or ambitious prior to meeting him... A lot of what I do or experience (whether the traits are good or not) just feels natural to me now, and I don't even question it sometimes 😄
get married girlll he's a keeper!
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@@gossipgirlonwheels We're not together anymore.... we're also not speaking or keeping any open lines of contact. I made a decision to put myself first over him because there were certain qualities he had that just didn't mesh well with what I wanted from the relationship. I don't want to be married to someone who would continuously make me feel less confident in myself simply because he can't handle having serious discussions.
@@amyli092oh noo
@@amyli092 oofff. apologies from my end, i didn't know.
I think a great tell is when you’re talking with that person and you don’t want the moment to end. Even when you have to (awkwardly) leave for something, there’s always the lingering feeling of “Is there any way I can extend our time together?”
This is true for me. Earlier I used to think I have an aversion to fashion, but after knowing him I realised I have always watched fashion shows since my childhood. I have started loving my own body and giving time to my various interests and hobbies. Most importantly I have become much more helpful and grateful in my life. He's now a big part of my life
I thought love was painful but your channel makes me feel that love is indeed something very beautiful. Love always stood as a hurtful and painful thing for me but after seeing how beautiful it is, it makes me question that if I am spending my time on the right person or not. Because usually the people I date hurts me a lot. And now I don't think love need to be painful or depressing. It's a feeling of happiness and joy!
I think people rely too much on feelings to determine whether they are in love, but feelings are so fickle, they are like a flame, as bright as it can burn, it can also be extinguished pretty fast.
I think falling in love at its most basic foundation is a choice, it must be a choice.
This is actually true. I spent the last 3 years just staring at him and not even talking to him. I remember the first time we spoke and everything else. But...he dated one of my friends in the first year. They broke up a while later. Then in the lockdown I couldn't even see him for an year,but I couldn't stop thinking about him. In our final year,I told my best friends that I liked him and it was all fine, I even wanted to confess him about my feelings. But one my friends started dating him without even telling me again!! I felt completely devastated. I stayed strong and tried to get over him. Then on my birthday,he texted me!! Like I couldn't even believe it. Clearly I wasn't over him. Then he broke up. We only texted but never interacted in college. I told my friend that we've been texting a lot lately and she didn't care. And he moved away to a different city. He calls me atleast once a week and texts everyday and I don't even initiate the conversation. I don't know if he likes me or not but I really love him
Ik I'm late but you really gotta tell him, it's very likely he likes you
Be active. How has being passive all this time worked out for you?
An insipid delusion. Nothing more.
As a cptsd surviver, falling in love can be hard and even harder when it gets real and you choose to go for a relationship. Insecurities, normal anxiety that is confused with traumatic, fear of abandonment, among other things that do not allow me to fully focus on being in love. Sometimes it even makes me question my feelings and intentions, but today I am happy to say that I am very much in love with my boyfriend. Thanks for and the extra help that keeps me grounded
I havent never fallen in love before and I still havent found feeling romantic attraction to anyone, which is why I researched into aromantic and asexual sexualities. But i wish everyone is happy and healthy being whoever they are and with :)
I fell in love while going through heaps of trauma, dealing with ptsd and depression. Sadly a lot of these things do not apply to me... But I'm grateful for where we are now, almost 2 years later, and I couldn't be happier about my relationship!
You are so blessed.. depression is so hard , i know.. i wish you'll be fine soon.
Huh...then I guess I was never in love all along. Just felt shallow attraction and went into flights of fancy of the ideal relationship backed up by what ifs supported by what I knew about the person and how that can apply to the possibilities of a serious relationship.
As I'm glad many of the folks here are realizing they're in love, I'm gonna be with the rare few who realized the opposite. But a new perspective is always welcome.
I'm one of those who feel the same as you are.
it’s very humanizing to read that in the end, we’re all still growing and changing :/ ❤️
I like your mentality 😇of thinking that a new perspective is always welcome. Many people lack this and hence decides to only hear & stick to their perspective & shuns other right away.
Why fall in love with someone? When I'm falling in love with myself.
Always love yourself before loving others! Your happiness is the most important
This is exactly how I feel about my crush and I don't think I'll ever stop feeling this way
Everytime I fall in love, I always get rejected so honestly I don’t really bother with it anymore
Tomorrow I plan on telling my crush that I have feelings for him, wish me luck, I really hope he feels the same way about me.
I only just found out a while ago that a friend (who happens to be a girl) may or may not have a crush on me and I didn’t realize it until a month or so ago. I only just realized it after watching these videos.
she doesn’t understand.
she sees me as a little sister. i see her as the older sister i never had. i just want to be with her forever and always. she literally lights up every room she walks in. she has the prettiest ocean blue eyes i’ve ever seen, she has the prettiest wavy locks of chocolate brown, almost dark chocolate brown/black hair you’ve ever seen. her 2 pairs of glasses are beautiful and they make her eyes pop. her black ones are like mine, and her clear ones, are just her style. and when she wears contacts, it’s like my eyes go to her eyes, immediately.
and don’t get me started on her style. all of her outfits are always color coordinated, she has a collection of super cool socks, she loves music, she plays saxophone, she is in band, she conducts my schools band during marching band season, she’s in writing clubs, and photography clubs. i just love her so much. she’s 2 years older than me, and… she’s in a relationship.
her girlfriend is the polar opposite of me. curly blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, skinny, and only a year younger. her girlfriend is in band, and also conducts with my crush during marching band.
me? i’m short. i have green eyes, pin straight hair, glasses, i’m in band.. i guess.
she works at an icecream shop i go to. she always makes sure she serves me when i stop in.
she gives me the biggest hugs, even when we are both sweaty from band camp.
she recongizes when i zone out, or when i am starting to het anxious, and she gets me out of my anxiety and panic attacks.
her favorite color is purple. her car is red. she loves her family.
her and i have similar health issues (blood sugar problems)
her eyes, her nose, her ears and her ear peircings, her beautiful contagious smile, her freckles, her eyelashes, her adorable laugh, her humor, her amazing way with words
i don’t know.
do you guys have advice? how do i get over her.
i’ve known her for a year now, and i’ve liked her since july of 2023. it’s now august of 2024.
I knew I fell in love already with a girl... I've already admitted that I like herrr. And I noticed something. I am thinking of her all the timee. .. And thanks for the video
I’ve talked to him TWICE. OH MY LORD WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS-
I’ve known I’ve been in love for a while but I just can’t bring myself to tell them every time we’re together 😅
I think it's time for you to confess your love to the person! Are you smiling or nervous when you are close to them making it hard to express your love for them?
@@Psych2go yup. I begin to choke on what I’m about to say then veer left to another topic before I can get it out. I plan to get over my anxiety of it and just let it out.
I love how you choose usui and misaki for the thumbnail 😘
I never fall in love I don’t understand
I have severe trauma and this often gives me bad trust issues. I trust my partner with my whole heart. That isn’t something I get often. I don’t trust anyone. Besides them. I really think I’m in love, the air just feels better when I’m with them. I want to be a better person for them. It’s not like I want to “fix” myself for them. They just make me feel better about everything. I don’t want to move too fast but I can’t decide if I should just rip the bandaid off and say “I love you.” It’s killing me.
Aww misaki and usui!❤️
I listened to every symptom throughout this video and every single one applies to me. Every. Single. One. I told ONE F**KING PERSON that I was gonna ask her to the dance, and 2 days later the whole school knew. She found out I liked her before I even got to tell her. It was her F**KING SISTER. I didn’t even get to tell her. Words cannot describe the level of depression I feel when I’m around her. She told me that she didn’t like me back. Then a couple months later she said she actually did beforehand but didn’t tell me. I hate the fact that I still love her. I just hate it. I’ve only ever truly loved one person on this earth. It was her. Sure, there were a couple girls before i thought I loved, but then she came along and my whole meaning of the word love changed. (Sigh) 😔😞😔😔
They may boost your self-image when they show signs of liking you back but nothing is worse for your self-image than when they don’t seem to like you back.
i tell you. my jaw DROPPED when u said "have you started to like how u look in skinny jeans?" THAT IS SO ACURATE. I used to put myself in baggy clothes for the past 1 year and all of a sudden this happens!
Reminded me immediately of Labyrinth by Taylor swift 💗
I don't experience any of these but I know some who does these towards me
I wish I was in love someday
same
You will be! What do you look forward it when being in love?
Now that I've seen this video, I'm 100% sure I'm not falling in love 😂😭
😂fr , nothing here describes me
I do think of those thoughts almost about all the time
Did you relate to all the signs of falling in love?
@@Psych2go i think I mightve and didn't realize it, but I know my brother has, my dad does though
These animations are pretty genius.
0:10
I cant tell if thats a voice crack, heavy breathing of lust, heavy breathing of deppresion, or shes just laughing. 😅
i'm having my first crush since 4th grade, and I dont even know him that well,i have terrible social anxiety too,but I actually plan on talking to him on tuesday if my anxiety can handle it lmao
i watched this because i dont know if i ever actually fell in love.
i still dont know but good to know all this
the maid-sama cover it is so cute
I had 4 out of 10 signs.
So, in other words, I'm safe (and forever single).
watched this video as a test to see if I’m Aromantic (used about 3 others similar to it aswell) and was using a ratio counter for all that applied to my past feelings for some people… got a 1 out of 5 ratio on average so probably gray-aromatic or idk?
I feel this… 💚🤍🖤
What kind of counter do you mean?
@@camillex5916 i think theres like 5 ppl op thought they had feelings for and 1 of them was in line with the video. im not sure tho.
anyways i feel this too lol. thought i had a crush on this friend i have recently but nope, i just wanna be rlly close to them. (this has happened twice, this time i just speedran thru it lol)
If you're here Shanye Lecta don't ever try to steal my crush
I fell in love with someone but it wasn't romantically.
He was my little baby bunny, he was meant to turn 1 in April but died on Sunday (I'm suspecting through shock after he escaped and got into a fight with his brother). Now, I don't know what to do without him, he could do one tiny little thing and it would make your week, I would be thinking about him so often and loved every bit of him.
He wasn't like any other rabbit, he would jump on your bed to check up on you, he would like to sit in front of my door to guard it, he was obsessed with crushed hobnobs and gratted carrots, he would binkie when he figured out that you were getting him food, he would get very angry if you gave his brother food first (to the point of not even realising that he had food), he found a way to let us know when he would want fresh water, he (only just recently) would cling to you if he was in a new place by climbing up you and sitting on your shoulder, he would love to be held across so he could rest his head on your arm while you pet him, he loved cartoons, his ear would go up if you rubbed his cheek, he would also play a game with us where we would move a slipper side to side near him and he would either pounce on it or binkie and run a bit and lastly he would just act like a little baby all the time from the way he looked with his chubby cheeks to demanding us to help him.
The last time I saw him alive was on Thursday, and he woke me up at 6:15, I had to pretend to be asleep while he climbed all over the bed, jumping on and off it while occasionally coming in to check on me and maybe giving me a face boop. Every few months we would see his personality get brighter and brighter as he got more comfortable with us, I just wish I could've seen it grow even more. I love you baby Belle Boos
@Artsy_Ally Thank you for your advice. Since then my other rabbit has died and the vets suspected that they caught a virus.
I saw that we could get them cloned but I don't want to do that because it still wouldn't be them, they may look the same but they wouldn't have the same memories and they wouldn't be the same rabbits. We ended up getting them cremated and now they're in a box near where their pens used to be.
I also don't know if I'm going crazy but on the month anniversary of my first rabbit dying, I saw a rabbit logo on a bag I had never seen before, someone in a rabbit costume, and near my house there was a long line of hay next to the pavement, all while going home.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I think hes still protecting you from up there
Me? In love? Phfft... no, not anymore I'm over them... wait... why are they in my dreams??
This is actually really useful, I’m autistic and I have no idea how to interact with humans so instructions are really helpful.
This kinda helped me figure it out a bit more, but now I’m just sad because I know it’ll never work out.
I’m not in love I’m in something more deeper than love ….
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Well im glad I realized I actually truly like him.
This was really hard to sit through while realising I'm in love with ex, we broke up barely a month and a few days ago. Acknowledging it is harder than I expected. We've been in no contact and always will be. I know he isn’t the right one but this whole thing is still pretty hard.
Realization that I've fallen in love came to me after a few moths that I've spent with her. Sadly, she has a boyfriend. Recently I told her what I'm feeling. She said, that she loves me as brother. That hurts deeper than I thought. Thank you for stopping by.
Sorry for mistakes in grammar or spelling, or some other shit, English isn't my first language.
Oh man, I'm in love... And I'm finally feeling good about it
So many of these are true for me. I think I'm in love with a good friend of mine, but I'm nervous about asking him out.
Gotta go tell someone I love them
everything this video said is whats going on with me so i guess im falling in love ,and i guess I was kinda dumb for saying falling in love is dumb 🙃
I was indeed in love with her, and it hurts me a lot as we don't even talk with each other now..
This very helpful because i never felt like that or even had crush
I’ve given up on love, it’s clear I’ll never find someone
"You're friends are noticing." I can relate to that 😂
(0:28)
"Scientifically backed science"
I'm sorry is there a non-Scientifically backed Science I don't know about?
These animations are adorable
Okay but what about when you catch yourself thinking about the embarrassing time when you tried to talk to them and now you feel cringe about trying and you just don't wanna try anymore?
Asking for a friend
Perfect, chocolate helps me to reach my goals! got it^^
welp, i guess i cant call my feelings for my crush a crush anymore
Misa and Usui On thumbnail and the topic is about signs that you are falling in love just rlly match because misa dont know her own feelings about usui in the start of the anime.
I fall in love within minutes, trust me, I would know.
Underrated channel frfr
I've fallen in love twice!!!!!
I think universe can help me find this person ❤
I’m 1000% in love
not the misaki and usui reference in the thumbnail ;)
What do you do if you love someone but they just aren't ready yet
I feel ALL these signs… and he doesn’t love me back! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Now I know That I actually fall in love with the wrong person
Wow
Instead I will feel specific muscles that makes up my heart suddenly and idk why I feel this when I think of them
I love the fanart in the thumbnail. Kaichou no Maid Sama 😆
Falling in love seems healthy
Not the thumbnail reminding of Adrian. 💀
im in love with the thumbnail
I said yes to all of these, I think I got my answer ☺️
What is Love? Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me. No more.
I am in love.
I have been for almost a year.
The problem is, it's two people.
Both of them being my best friends.
The problem is they are dating each other, and don't want to include me in that.
We are planning on spending the rest of our lives together. Which is nice, but it just reminds me I'm going to have to live with the rest of my life, that they love me, but not like that.
I LITERALLY CAME HERE FOR USUI AND MISAKI OHMY
alright here is the deal...half of these say I'm in love with this guy, but guess what? we both are forbidden friends...cuz our gangs hate each other and idk if he feels the same way about me cuz he says he is very jealous when I give attention to a guy other than him but at the same time has a crush on someone else....boys, just so confusing
“You can’t stop smiling” oh NOO.
I’m smiling all the time when I think about her oh my godd. You got me
fax
I love that ❤❤❤❤
HAHAHA
@@dhirajkalidien4599 go confess silly
@@dhirajkalidien4599 how that go
“The more you smile, the more you become happier”
Me: 🙂
I was 3 years without falling in love. This year, it happened again. It took me a few months to see it, but when I finally realized that I was falling in love someday at 3am, I couldn’t stop smiling, my cheeks automatically turned red and I felt so good with myself. Love is difficult, but the feeling is great while it lasts! ❤
Oh my god same. 2019 was the last time i fell in love. And now it happened again with someone. The feeling is great but it’s kinda wasting my time
I given up on love after my previous rejection. I thought it would happen but it's just further proof that maybe a love life was never meant to be. I just know I'm too late for it and just time to live my life in a depressing single/divorced guy apartment
mmmm
Happy to hear that you after many years, you come to found someone who makes you feel this way.
@@elliotthefennekin6506 Don’t worry it’s never too late to fall in love even if you don’t think so if you actually want a real relationship just be patient and try to get rid of that negative attitude
▪︎TIMESTAMPS ▪︎
1. 0:37 You often find yourself thinking about them
2. 1:07 Your suddenly open to exploring new things
3. 1:40 They have made their way to your priority list
4. 2:12 You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive
5. 2:47 They boost your self-image
6. 3:14 Their traits become your traits
7. 3:50 Your friends are noticing
8. 4:14 You feel positive about the future
9. 4:44 You cant stop smiling
10. 5:18 You feel more love for others
Thank you for adding the timestamps!
Hii
Thank you ❤
Someone I don't know if I like fits about 3 of these (definitely 1, halfish 2, halfish 5, halfish 9 and halfish 10)
Oh shi, I think I was in love with someone
No one's talking about Kaichou wa Maid-sama but yes I came here because of that 😂 Nice art!
Bro I’ve been looking for a comment to see if anyone noticed but I didn’t find anything 😭 but yeah same I’m also here for maid sama
Me too 🤣🤣
The important thing is maid sama.
I have noticed that too😂
I watched like 3 or 4 episodes a year ago-
literally clicked on the video just cause of the thumbnail haha, misaki and usui
Remember a lot of these could also be mistaken for platonic love. You could feel these things for your best friend that you're really close with or someone you're beginning to grow a good friendship with. It can be hard to tell the difference so watch out
True. I go through a lot of these when I first become friends with someone, or when I make a close friend. It’s not always romantic to think about someone else, people!
this happened with mee
This is literally happening to me help 💀💀💀
how can I be sure that it's platonic? 😅
@@ЕкатеринаВладимировна-х2з ig you never really know until you two talk about it 🤷♀️
Forget about 10 Things my brothers,
The person you think about while clicking this video Is the person you love.
Period.
Shit, you caught me.
r/angryupvote
Yep, and she's aromantic. I'm at that point where I'm just getting bored of falling in love. It just brings me problems and overall sadness.
dammit, you got me there
Damn you got me there lmao
I have never been in love before but watching this I was smiling the entire video because this is exactly how I feel about her.
I’ve never been in love either, so I wouldn’t know anything about loving someone when it comes to romantically. I get a crush and love very confused, because sometimes they feel very similar, butterflies.
@@PokidotGamer898 I know how it is for me love is something deep that's why I wouldn't just tell anyone I love them crushes from my experience are just us romanticizing the person we have a crush on. It was before I met my girl I had a crush but when I found out my crushes personality I saw I have to be think with my mind not my heart.
@@siya___7776 that might be the same with me. For some reason, and idk why, I love my parents to death I do, but I sometimes struggle to say the words “I love you.” The “love” word gets stuck and can’t come out, but I know they know I love them because I show it in my actions. I do say I love you too when they say it to me but I think I’m order for me to say it first, I would have to really love someone. I guess when I say “I love you” I feel like I’m confessing I actually like someone. Because it’s rare for me to say “I love you” first. I see people say it to their parents so easily and I think, “Gosh, they make it look so easy.”
@@PokidotGamer898 I hope it gets better for you as time progresses I understand how you feel I'm usually a reserved person who doesn't express emotions I'm starting to learn how to express myself take some time it will become easier as time passes but dont force it
Goodluck
@@siya___7776 thx
Never tell your friends your crush they will ship you madly 🔫😭
literally my biggest regret is telling them 😭
Literally why I didn’t tell my friends about my crush for years.(they still don’t know who it is)
My friend actually shipped me and my crush and we both found out we liked each other 🤯
So excited for our first date!
My ‘friend’ knows I have a crush on a guy and she still decides to like him after me and get all jealous if we interact
To true
It's when you can't imagine your own dreams and plans without them in it
Yes that is a sign too! You want to involve them in every aspect of your life
I am a simple Woman, I see Misaki and Takumi in the thumbnail, I click.
US, I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT.
@@snakeau7175 SAMEE
same but I am a boy....my crush loved this anime...so I have to watched it
@@unusual10production58 thats so cute 😭
I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME
11. You start taking care of yourself more.
This reinforces a lot the mutual feelings that my girlfriend and I have, I couldn't stop smiling throughout the whole video. today is our 3 month anniversary hihihihihihihi
awh thats so sweet
Happy 3 months tgt 🥰 wish u guys happiness tgt :)
Awww
♡
@@divya_sancheti04 thank uuu ♡
I’m Autistic so if I’m bending my rules and routines for you, you BETTER know that I adore you