- It's hard to stop thinking about her. - Openness - Get on the priority list - Find something interesting in her - Start paying attention to appearance - Trait adjustment - Friends started saying her name in front of me on purpose - Feel when with him there will be a pleasant future - Often smile even laugh (when imagining) - Also feel happy for the happiness of others All of the above I have to admit that, I went through all of those phases. And it is very strong in my memory to this day. ❤ Do friends also experience the same thing as me?
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way. The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 The same way, by shared interest, hobbies, moral values, faith, similar upbringing. A lot fo thing can make people feel conected to others.
I was 3 years without falling in love. This year, it happened again. It took me a few months to see it, but when I finally realized that I was falling in love someday at 3am, I couldn’t stop smiling, my cheeks automatically turned red and I felt so good with myself. Love is difficult, but the feeling is great while it lasts! ❤
I given up on love after my previous rejection. I thought it would happen but it's just further proof that maybe a love life was never meant to be. I just know I'm too late for it and just time to live my life in a depressing single/divorced guy apartment
@@elliotthefennekin6506 Don’t worry it’s never too late to fall in love even if you don’t think so if you actually want a real relationship just be patient and try to get rid of that negative attitude
Remember a lot of these could also be mistaken for platonic love. You could feel these things for your best friend that you're really close with or someone you're beginning to grow a good friendship with. It can be hard to tell the difference so watch out
True. I go through a lot of these when I first become friends with someone, or when I make a close friend. It’s not always romantic to think about someone else, people!
▪︎TIMESTAMPS ▪︎ 1. 0:37 You often find yourself thinking about them 2. 1:07 Your suddenly open to exploring new things 3. 1:40 They have made their way to your priority list 4. 2:12 You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 5. 2:47 They boost your self-image 6. 3:14 Their traits become your traits 7. 3:50 Your friends are noticing 8. 4:14 You feel positive about the future 9. 4:44 You cant stop smiling 10. 5:18 You feel more love for others
I’ve never been in love either, so I wouldn’t know anything about loving someone when it comes to romantically. I get a crush and love very confused, because sometimes they feel very similar, butterflies.
@@PokidotGamerX I know how it is for me love is something deep that's why I wouldn't just tell anyone I love them crushes from my experience are just us romanticizing the person we have a crush on. It was before I met my girl I had a crush but when I found out my crushes personality I saw I have to be think with my mind not my heart.
@@siya___7776 that might be the same with me. For some reason, and idk why, I love my parents to death I do, but I sometimes struggle to say the words “I love you.” The “love” word gets stuck and can’t come out, but I know they know I love them because I show it in my actions. I do say I love you too when they say it to me but I think I’m order for me to say it first, I would have to really love someone. I guess when I say “I love you” I feel like I’m confessing I actually like someone. Because it’s rare for me to say “I love you” first. I see people say it to their parents so easily and I think, “Gosh, they make it look so easy.”
@@PokidotGamerX I hope it gets better for you as time progresses I understand how you feel I'm usually a reserved person who doesn't express emotions I'm starting to learn how to express myself take some time it will become easier as time passes but dont force it Goodluck
I didn’t know I loved him until a year later, finally noticing it wasn’t normal to constantly think of someone 24/7 and about his life, worrying about him because of his family, and always thinking of whatever he tells me. And everytime I talked with him I felt so happy, I was so excited inside. He’s got a girlfriend though… so yeah. I don’t want to interfere with his relationship with her so I’ve just kind of stopped talking with him, because I’m afraid I’ll do something to ruin our friendship. I’ve never told him I loved him, not even till this day, basically two years later.
It's okay to feel for someone and realise it later than what was needed. It's sometimes not easy to understand ourselves given that there are hundreds of things going around you. Be aligned with yourself and God, I am sure everything will happen for the best.❤
8 years of being together with my boyfriend and I still go through these phases sometimes.... What's really weird though is the amount of times I remember experiencing that 6th point. I don't remember being stubborn or ambitious prior to meeting him... A lot of what I do or experience (whether the traits are good or not) just feels natural to me now, and I don't even question it sometimes 😄
@@gossipgirlonwheels We're not together anymore.... we're also not speaking or keeping any open lines of contact. I made a decision to put myself first over him because there were certain qualities he had that just didn't mesh well with what I wanted from the relationship. I don't want to be married to someone who would continuously make me feel less confident in myself simply because he can't handle having serious discussions.
Falling in love is so special and so much fun. As much as it hurts to have your feelings reciprocated, but I find that feeling just as lovely as it's highs as it means that I truly cared about them and that it means we could be something else than lovers, and It gives me the time and space to recollect myself to be in a spot where we both feel the happiest
For me it's a nightmare that ruins my days, when I get a crush on someone I just can't stop those annoying feelings. And before anyone tells me "Woah, why are you so harsh?", its bc I'm not straight, and I live in a very close minded country. 99% of the time my "loved" ones are str8 and don't even care for my existence, while the other see me as nothing more than a friend. And I can never tell my feelings to anyone, either bc I'll be made fun of by them and my minimal reputation gets destroyed due to rumors, or they'll just avoid and ignore me at all cost. This time, however, it's different. I'm VERY sure he's also gay, but he doesn't care for me at all, nor has even tried becoming friends, and that fact is destroying me from the inside.
@@frenchrevenge6406 I can very much understand that as I also live in a very close minded country, while my country doesn't actively discriminate against Queer people, they do see us as merely "Entertainment" and not actual people that are deserving of the same rights unless you're rich and famous enough. I've had a couple of close friends that gets a crush on me, and it utterly crushes me that I can't reciprocate their feelings as Eros is cruel like that. All I can do is let them down slowly and just hope our friendship lasts, even though I know it won't. I don't know your life or your experience, but I hope that you'll eventually find someone that'll care and love you the way you deserve!
I absolutely agree! Even though most of the time I don't find my feelings reciprocated, i like to think that at least I was able to see the beauty on the other person, i was able to care about them, and that is conforting for me in some way. I wish more people could see falling on love in that way, a way that gives more credit to the one who's feeling in love
This is true for me. Earlier I used to think I have an aversion to fashion, but after knowing him I realised I have always watched fashion shows since my childhood. I have started loving my own body and giving time to my various interests and hobbies. Most importantly I have become much more helpful and grateful in my life. He's now a big part of my life
So I’ve known this guy for 3 years, we started dating nearly a year and a half ago. I’m scared of love, but I’m deeply attached to this guy. He makes me a better me, and supports me. Thank you for the video
i am in same position but with a girl known her for 3 years we like start hanging out these past 4 month alot. Same as you im scared of love. so i just look at her as friend from now on and want to see her happy with or without me doesnt matter as loong she is happy.
This reinforces a lot the mutual feelings that my girlfriend and I have, I couldn't stop smiling throughout the whole video. today is our 3 month anniversary hihihihihihihi
I think a great tell is when you’re talking with that person and you don’t want the moment to end. Even when you have to (awkwardly) leave for something, there’s always the lingering feeling of “Is there any way I can extend our time together?”
so I like this short kid since we were in third grade, and I lost contact of him when we were in 6th grade, but even tho we haven't met or heard from each other for three years now I stilm have these slight feelings for him. Until one day, I was walking around with my bff when she pointed at one handsome guy and told me he's her cousin and he's super handsome and the fact that he has the same name as him made me wonder why he looked so familiar. As I kept on seeing him walking around our school campus, I decided to show my friend my childhood crush's photos and that's where she started screaming as hell. IT TURNS OUT THAT HE WAS MY (NEW)BFF'S COUSIN. I nearly died that time because I never expected things like this to happen, and as days pass by, I started to grow my feelings for him especially on the day where I had a blind dance with him. It's this smile of his that makes me smile and often gives me butterflies and I started to notice that I was slowly falling for him, even tho he no longer remembers me💀 . But it still makes me really happy that after waiting for three years, I finally got to meet him again, and this time he's taller than me.
„You feel more love for others“? When one of my friends fell in love one year ago, she seemed to forget me at the same time. We‘re even not at the same level of friendship today as before this boy… Hard, as I‘m actually in love with HER…
@@Psych2go I hope we can both be bonded together and know each others wants and needs. I am waiting for marriage and I hope that day can be the most memorable moment of my life. 🙏🏽
Scored a 10/10 so it confirms what I’ve known this past 2 months…but recently hit an obstacle with my partner because of emotional triggers that I have from betrayal trauma in me due to my previous relationship. Healing is not done in a month or year it seems but a constant vigil for it never fully erased but can be addressed in a positive healthy way when you notice it.
Love to me is knowing and accepting somebody completely and fully flaws and all and still loving them. Learning forgiveness. Wanting nothing more but their happiness and to see them succeed and grow. Not trying to change them in any way, shape or form
That was very well spoken. You nailed it when it comes to love. When you love someone it’s about giving and wanting the best for the person.. most importantly accepting them for who they truly are
i fell in love when i was 12. even at that age i was surprised how similar it was to its portrayal in movies and stories. constant giddiness just because they exist and having them on your mind 24/7. finding a way to make every little thing you do about them. losing control of your emotions while being fully aware of it and feeling like an idiot. it really is like a drug. i miss that feeling.
okay, this explains a lot. i didn't know why for the longest time but i had this one one girl where as soon as i got to know her everything just felt empty when i wasn't around her, i never really knew why but this explains a whole lot, i can relate to at least half of the signs on there
I thought love was painful but your channel makes me feel that love is indeed something very beautiful. Love always stood as a hurtful and painful thing for me but after seeing how beautiful it is, it makes me question that if I am spending my time on the right person or not. Because usually the people I date hurts me a lot. And now I don't think love need to be painful or depressing. It's a feeling of happiness and joy!
I have to say how much I appreciate this channel Only a few months ago I was watching you guys to find a partner in my life Nowadays, I watch you all in order to keep this fresh relationship strong You all are so amazing and I hope you keep this channel up for many more people to see
Love is the most natural thing someone can experience. it's so unexplainable how it just happens out of nowhere. That's also what makes it so sad at times, such as if they dont like you back or if you've never experienced it, it you can make you feel broken or something and worse off is experiencing it before and feeling like it may never happen again like me and so many others. I hope everyone will find something like it as it is so crazy complicated and strange, but it is also so fun, so natural, so real, so exciting, and life changing everybody needs it and cant live without it may God bless everyone and may there be peace in all.
Timestamps 1). You often find yourself thinking about them 0:37 2). You're suddenly open to exploring new things 1:09 3). They're made their way to your priority list 1:40 4). You suddenly find their quirky extremely attractive 2:13 5). They boost your self-image 2:47 6). Their traits become your traits 3:13 7). Your friends are noticing 3:49 8). You feel positive about the future 4:14 9). You can't stop smiling 4:44 10). You feel more love for others 5:17 Hope this helps you out. 💙💙💙💙💙
1. You often find yourself thinking about them 0:37 2. You suddenly open to exploring new things 1:10 3. They have made their way to your priority list 1:40 4. You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 2:14 5. They boost your self - image 2:48 6. They traits become your traits 3:14 7. Your friends are noticing 3:50 8. You feel positive about the future 4:14 9. You cant stop smiling 4:44 10. You feel more love to others 5:18
I like wording it as trying new things cause it doesn't sound like I'm just changing myself for someone. It just means I genuinely care about the persons interest and wanna open up for them. People refusing to look into something for there partner or even just friends is a red flag tbh
1. You often find yourself thinking about them 2. You‘re suddenly open to exploring new things 3. They‘ve made their way to your priority list 4. You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 5. They boost your self-image 6. Their traits become your traits 7. Your friends are noticing 8. You feel positive about the future 9. You can’t stop laughing 10. You feel more love for others Make sure to watch the whole video still!
Well I think I’ve fallen out of love with him now, but I was definitely in love. Everything about him made me smile. Even his “quirks”. He never returned my feeling buts it’s nice to know that it wasn’t just a little crush. I still love him, but in a different way now. How fitting 🥰
I think people rely too much on feelings to determine whether they are in love, but feelings are so fickle, they are like a flame, as bright as it can burn, it can also be extinguished pretty fast. I think falling in love at its most basic foundation is a choice, it must be a choice.
As a cptsd surviver, falling in love can be hard and even harder when it gets real and you choose to go for a relationship. Insecurities, normal anxiety that is confused with traumatic, fear of abandonment, among other things that do not allow me to fully focus on being in love. Sometimes it even makes me question my feelings and intentions, but today I am happy to say that I am very much in love with my boyfriend. Thanks for and the extra help that keeps me grounded
I don't know if I've ever truly fallen in love with anyone, but I can say I love the thumbnail! I just wish the show could pick up where it left off on that cliffhanger
I fell in love while going through heaps of trauma, dealing with ptsd and depression. Sadly a lot of these things do not apply to me... But I'm grateful for where we are now, almost 2 years later, and I couldn't be happier about my relationship!
Same :) First love as a Highly Sensitive Person, so there's a lot of big feelings there. My Discover Weekly playlist decided to give me allll love songs too, so it's hard not to notice
If you don't know about the term already, you are probably aro-ace. Aro-ace stands for people who are aromantic, (little to no romantic attraction to people) and asexual, (little to none sexual attraction to others)
@@Quackin24-7i dont mean to be rude but i feel like giving them a label based on a natural human feeling is not exactly a great way to help people explore.
@@sargentdandthesod U r totally right! I don’t do this anymore bcs like I now know how it feels to be labeled as something u aren’t by others and tbh there isn’t much of a point of telling someone who they are. I totally forgot abt this comment until now and I apologize to the original commenter.
@@Quackin24-7 I know you most likely meant well but thank you for understanding better. keep your empathy and greatness, keep being yourself, a great person.
all throught this video i have had a huge smile as i am knowing that boy i keep thinking about isnt just a thought and yes nearly all of them are connecting with me
This is actually true. I spent the last 3 years just staring at him and not even talking to him. I remember the first time we spoke and everything else. But...he dated one of my friends in the first year. They broke up a while later. Then in the lockdown I couldn't even see him for an year,but I couldn't stop thinking about him. In our final year,I told my best friends that I liked him and it was all fine, I even wanted to confess him about my feelings. But one my friends started dating him without even telling me again!! I felt completely devastated. I stayed strong and tried to get over him. Then on my birthday,he texted me!! Like I couldn't even believe it. Clearly I wasn't over him. Then he broke up. We only texted but never interacted in college. I told my friend that we've been texting a lot lately and she didn't care. And he moved away to a different city. He calls me atleast once a week and texts everyday and I don't even initiate the conversation. I don't know if he likes me or not but I really love him
This is Super accurate. Before i was with my girlfriend, i was scared to tell her what i feel and stuff, but i have watched all of your videos that you guys posted, and it maked me feel like a different person. When i finally got the courage to tell her that i loved her , she just jumped into my arms, and we huged for like 4 minutes. It was the best moment in my life for sure.❤
I havent never fallen in love before and I still havent found feeling romantic attraction to anyone, which is why I researched into aromantic and asexual sexualities. But i wish everyone is happy and healthy being whoever they are and with :)
@@saraannette8212 Sorry to hear that, but sometimes old sparks might die. But that doesn't mean you won't get to meet someone new who gives you even greater feelings.
I fell in love like 100% fell in that deep pit. I never stood up the courage to ask her if she feels the same way because I thought we were too young but. I feel like it’s fate that we are not meant to be together because I had to change schools. I don’t see, text or even look for her anymore. I liked that feeling, I liked hugging her as a-a friend. I wish I gain up the courage to atleast ask her to see if she feels the same way, or she rejects. Thinking about it just punches through my heart.
Hey, this video is great, but I think there is such a broad definition of love and attraction; a note at the beginning saying that this explanation is geared toward general attraction and that this can be seen in any type of relationship could really help a few misconceptions in popular culture regarding relationship hierarchy and the overall misinformation about the different attractions and how they function. Again, this video is great, but the “your friends noticing” section in particular could warrant a note. I may not speak for the whole aspec community, but the broad implication that every person is gonna feel like falling in love this this…can really hurt people. Much love though, when I saw the title I was so worried, but it doesn’t fall into any hurtful traps I have seen so many times, and that in itself is quite and accomplishment: this is well-researched and well-put :)
And I still feel that way and I’m still working on myself it’s a journey for sure but I’m very proud of myself and if you want too attract better you first gotta do better ❤️💪🙏💯🌹
i kept watching these videos for the last 6 months, though i never really noticed it , both of us really loved eachother, a few days ago one of my friends sliped hima tiny wisper that i liked him, he came to me with the biggest smile ever and now wer have been dating, and it's true! the last conversation we had was about how we cant stop smiling for some reason, we meet every day and even went on our first date, everyone in my friends' group is now so happy and we feel like the two luckiest people in the world, the worst part is, our parents do not know, and he is my teacher's son so it been really interesting everyday
After seeing her for the first time in so long, all the memories of being an awkward mess around her came flooding back. It only took one hug and her joking about falling into my arms that I knew. I'm still thinking about her, maybe one or two people have noticed, the only reason we were both smiling so much is we were just having fun.
You know, I genuinely am glad that not being able to stop smiling is normal. Because anytime she comes into the room, I can't stop smiling and I start laughing randomly in excitement.
I saw this video a while back and began noticing these signs towards someone, and only then did I realize I had a crush on them. Already being friends, I knew she and I had many things in common. I admitted my feelings to her, and I was when she said she felt the same way. We had known each other for a long time, and knowing she felt the same way I did was great. I already have problems with avoiding intimacy, so while this may seem like a small step, it's a huge leap for me. We are now progressing in a relationship. And I'll say, I don't know how I lived the way I did before. Without love. I already knew my family members too well, and most of them were honestly annoying to deal with. Especially things like obnoxious little siblings and overly strict parents. But to feel love like THIS, I might as well class love as a basic human need. Or a drug that our brains can make themselves. Who knows? All I know is that I finally love someone.
Huh...then I guess I was never in love all along. Just felt shallow attraction and went into flights of fancy of the ideal relationship backed up by what ifs supported by what I knew about the person and how that can apply to the possibilities of a serious relationship. As I'm glad many of the folks here are realizing they're in love, I'm gonna be with the rare few who realized the opposite. But a new perspective is always welcome.
I like your mentality 😇of thinking that a new perspective is always welcome. Many people lack this and hence decides to only hear & stick to their perspective & shuns other right away.
I feel like it’s been so long since I felt this way about someone let alone have a love or care for myself, but one day while out hiking with them we had a falling out. I ran off to this little path that went off of the main trail bc of the little quarry that was filled with water had always brought me so much peace and helped clear my head. They found me there crying and upset with myself, and we almost fell out again until one of us made a joke. It shocked me so much I don’t even remember if I made the joke or they did. Then we just sat there, and I just instantly knew I had somehow fallen in love. A truly complex but lovely feeling
I remember watching 5 minutes of this video back when I was in denial. It’s hilarious watching it and seeing how oblivious I was now that we’re together
This is honestly more scary bc I’ve liked this person for six months and according to the millions of things on Pinterest apparently it’s love. I’ve now been in a relationship with him for only a few weeks but these are like too relatable maybe I’m pushing out the thought of love because I’m scared of it
There's this person I've been talking with and even now it's all the same. It's not just a little crush anymore either, i know this. I feel genuine love and care about them, they've made me feel someway that nobody else has made me feel before.
@@Psych2go i’m not sure, i’ve never had a crush before but lately i’ve been feeling more open and caring to someone, and that’s never happened before. it’s like i want to be near them all the time, and they’re the reason i’m excited to go to school now 💕
@@star-popIf you are watching videos to see if you like them, look forward to seeing them at school etc. Then you probably like them. Something I ask myself is often, would I enjoy holding their hand in a romantic way, would I enjoy being with them in a romantic way, do I want to cherish them romantically and be cherished by them?
Yeah, it’s annoying, but nice, how accurate this is. In one of the last couple days, I was so dang happy. I finally found someone who I felt balanced me out. Like 9/10 of these things apply. I talked with one of my friends about it and they had a lot of good things to say, as well as some happy news if they are right. Thanks Psych2go for making such great content!
I knew I fell in love already with a girl... I've already admitted that I like herrr. And I noticed something. I am thinking of her all the timee. .. And thanks for the video
Its so annoying falling in love with a celebrity because deep down you know that its not love and that in real life, you dont even KNOW them. No matter how kind or amazing they are, I've never even looked at them in real life before. I wish I could experience the feeling of having a crush on a real person that I actually talk to.
Oh she's both the biggest pain in my backside and yet the pain I couldn't do without me and her royally joke at each other and I'm noticing she's getting way better at it and I love that
I’m Aroace and I have no clue what love actually feels like since I’ve never really experienced it. I know this person who’s super nice but I have no clue if I like them or not. This video help a lot, thank you.
@@Psych2go I did after I realized she had a boyfriend. But I respected that and still confessed. She loved my confession and claimed that I can see her and that I see her light
@@Psych2go I’m not sure. Though it turns me off completely when people use another person to make me jealous. I think the best way is probably to focus on work and study. But in my current situation, once I’m done with my project… my thoughts fly to her again. And I’m afraid it’s not healthy. I am relentless, but I know when there’s zero chance. That’s not the same for her pretty boy, I think that’s the one she has a crush on. He’s a nice guy, good person. And good for her, and her family would approve too. I really want to see her happy and safe. I’m not him, and I don’t want to be. I’m nowhere near perfect, I have many flaws and thank god for that. But whenever I try to move on, it feels like there’s sth inherently wrong. Like it’s tearing my soul in half. But it’s also the only way to end this cycle of unrequited love. Both sides deserve to be happy, and to have the love that lasts for a lifetime. Thank you for responding to this. It helps lift the pressure of my heart a bit.)
I know for sure I'm in love. She's the most incredible woman I've ever met and I've never felt more comfortable with another person, so willing to be vulnerable yet aware that I'm Totally safe in doing so with her. When we're together we're constantly laughing, to the point where our stomachs will start to hurt. When I hold her hand I feel at home, and when we kiss I swear I could rocket straight to the moon. At times I can hardly even believe my luck, that she loves *me* of all people almost feels like a dream.
I once thought a girl I had a crush on also had a crush on me at one point in school. I would do research on what signs to look out for if a girl had a crush on you (she fit most of the criteria, which intensified by beliefs), I would try to impress her by dressing differently than usual and putting on different body sprays, and generally she was all that I cared during those couple of months. I would have trouble sleeping because I was thinking of her, I couldn’t stop talking about her with friends, and I couldn’t stop fantasizing about how life would be like with a girl. Those times were blissfully amazing! Though, I eventually got to the point where I saw no signs of her liking me, and I thought it may have been a coincidence! Surprise surprise, it was. She never felt any sort of way towards me, and I as just a blissful and happy little fool for some short amount of time. I gotta say though, being blissful and naive like that helped me through so much stress and negative moments, because I was always happy (thinking of her). Now I look back to all those years ago and really regret being like that! But that has helped me change for the better. Just a other Eire episode in my life.... *sigh* I hope she’s alright
I think i am falling for a friendship, is not the romantic love. I couldn't understand how could i love that dude so much, but he's a great friend. Love is love, it doesn't need to be romantic 💙
That would mean hiding your feelings and never acting upon love to begin with. I mean for starters, there is a possibility that you are demisexual. Everything you described makes you demisexual because it is someone you know the longest. Think about this. You 2 never became a couple but stayed being friends. You aren't falling in love with any other random stranger. There are tons of people who can fall in love but never act upon them. Not everybody gets into any romantic relationship despite falling in love. There are some who just admire from afar. You are a good example of admiring your friendship from afar. I can give an example. I began to pick up love feelings from my next door neighbor back in March 2020 however, I never build a single bond with her. I only watched miles away when she picks up her amazon package. I don't talk to her. I stay distant.
I recently just got out of potentially being in love with two people. Everything was fine and then all of a sudden. Boom! I experienced almost everything in this video! Noone commented on any potential love though. The singing and dancing throughout my house was amazing to do for the first time
Falling in love is a serious thing.. you have special feelings for that specific person that everything they do is suddenly so attractive! It’s a whole new emotion lol
This happens to me all the time but I learned that it is only temporary so now I keep myself in check. Bad doggy has to stay in the dog house or else its gonna get outta control.
What signs do you show when you fall in love?
Nervousness
Admiring everything he does
Being incredibly more joyfull and less sad with the said person
feeling the constant need to hug them and have them with me
The first sign only
this is accurate but it hurts when you fall in love with the wrong person and who doesn't feel the same way as you
Been on both sides of the coin!
Ikr
What if you fall for someone who doesn't feel like that for anyone? For someone who can't love
Same
How do you stop loving that wrong person?
“You can’t stop smiling” oh NOO.
I’m smiling all the time when I think about her oh my godd. You got me
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I love that ❤❤❤❤
HAHAHA
@@dhirajkalidien4599 go confess silly
@@dhirajkalidien4599 how that go
- It's hard to stop thinking about her.
- Openness
- Get on the priority list
- Find something interesting in her
- Start paying attention to appearance
- Trait adjustment
- Friends started saying her name in front of me on purpose
- Feel when with him there will be a pleasant future
- Often smile even laugh (when imagining)
- Also feel happy for the happiness of others
All of the above I have to admit that, I went through all of those phases.
And it is very strong in my memory to this day. ❤
Do friends also experience the same thing as me?
No 😢
I don't want to experience these things.i am just so frustrated that I would falI in Love with an extremely interoverted guy.i don't want that.
I too have a checkmark in each box next to these signs and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Not one bit.
I love that woman so much
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships.
So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way.
The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 The same way, by shared interest, hobbies, moral values, faith, similar upbringing. A lot fo thing can make people feel conected to others.
I was 3 years without falling in love. This year, it happened again. It took me a few months to see it, but when I finally realized that I was falling in love someday at 3am, I couldn’t stop smiling, my cheeks automatically turned red and I felt so good with myself. Love is difficult, but the feeling is great while it lasts! ❤
Oh my god same. 2019 was the last time i fell in love. And now it happened again with someone. The feeling is great but it’s kinda wasting my time
I given up on love after my previous rejection. I thought it would happen but it's just further proof that maybe a love life was never meant to be. I just know I'm too late for it and just time to live my life in a depressing single/divorced guy apartment
mmmm
Happy to hear that you after many years, you come to found someone who makes you feel this way.
@@elliotthefennekin6506 Don’t worry it’s never too late to fall in love even if you don’t think so if you actually want a real relationship just be patient and try to get rid of that negative attitude
I'm 100% in love
😂😂😂
UwU
With this channel :b
His/her name?
Same😇
Remember a lot of these could also be mistaken for platonic love. You could feel these things for your best friend that you're really close with or someone you're beginning to grow a good friendship with. It can be hard to tell the difference so watch out
True. I go through a lot of these when I first become friends with someone, or when I make a close friend. It’s not always romantic to think about someone else, people!
this happened with mee
This is literally happening to me help 💀💀💀
how can I be sure that it's platonic? 😅
@@ЕкатеринаВладимировна-х2з ig you never really know until you two talk about it 🤷♀️
▪︎TIMESTAMPS ▪︎
1. 0:37 You often find yourself thinking about them
2. 1:07 Your suddenly open to exploring new things
3. 1:40 They have made their way to your priority list
4. 2:12 You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive
5. 2:47 They boost your self-image
6. 3:14 Their traits become your traits
7. 3:50 Your friends are noticing
8. 4:14 You feel positive about the future
9. 4:44 You cant stop smiling
10. 5:18 You feel more love for others
Thank you for adding the timestamps!
Hii
Thank you ❤
Someone I don't know if I like fits about 3 of these (definitely 1, halfish 2, halfish 5, halfish 9 and halfish 10)
Oh shi, I think I was in love with someone
I have never been in love before but watching this I was smiling the entire video because this is exactly how I feel about her.
I’ve never been in love either, so I wouldn’t know anything about loving someone when it comes to romantically. I get a crush and love very confused, because sometimes they feel very similar, butterflies.
@@PokidotGamerX I know how it is for me love is something deep that's why I wouldn't just tell anyone I love them crushes from my experience are just us romanticizing the person we have a crush on. It was before I met my girl I had a crush but when I found out my crushes personality I saw I have to be think with my mind not my heart.
@@siya___7776 that might be the same with me. For some reason, and idk why, I love my parents to death I do, but I sometimes struggle to say the words “I love you.” The “love” word gets stuck and can’t come out, but I know they know I love them because I show it in my actions. I do say I love you too when they say it to me but I think I’m order for me to say it first, I would have to really love someone. I guess when I say “I love you” I feel like I’m confessing I actually like someone. Because it’s rare for me to say “I love you” first. I see people say it to their parents so easily and I think, “Gosh, they make it look so easy.”
@@PokidotGamerX I hope it gets better for you as time progresses I understand how you feel I'm usually a reserved person who doesn't express emotions I'm starting to learn how to express myself take some time it will become easier as time passes but dont force it
Goodluck
@@siya___7776 thx
It’s all love for them until they tell you “I only see you as a friend”
It's when you can't imagine your own dreams and plans without them in it
Yes that is a sign too! You want to involve them in every aspect of your life
I didn’t know I loved him until a year later, finally noticing it wasn’t normal to constantly think of someone 24/7 and about his life, worrying about him because of his family, and always thinking of whatever he tells me. And everytime I talked with him I felt so happy, I was so excited inside. He’s got a girlfriend though… so yeah. I don’t want to interfere with his relationship with her so I’ve just kind of stopped talking with him, because I’m afraid I’ll do something to ruin our friendship. I’ve never told him I loved him, not even till this day, basically two years later.
Maybe you should
It's okay to feel for someone and realise it later than what was needed. It's sometimes not easy to understand ourselves given that there are hundreds of things going around you. Be aligned with yourself and God, I am sure everything will happen for the best.❤
8 years of being together with my boyfriend and I still go through these phases sometimes.... What's really weird though is the amount of times I remember experiencing that 6th point. I don't remember being stubborn or ambitious prior to meeting him... A lot of what I do or experience (whether the traits are good or not) just feels natural to me now, and I don't even question it sometimes 😄
get married girlll he's a keeper!
,, ,
@@gossipgirlonwheels We're not together anymore.... we're also not speaking or keeping any open lines of contact. I made a decision to put myself first over him because there were certain qualities he had that just didn't mesh well with what I wanted from the relationship. I don't want to be married to someone who would continuously make me feel less confident in myself simply because he can't handle having serious discussions.
@@amyli092oh noo
@@amyli092 oofff. apologies from my end, i didn't know.
Falling in love is so special and so much fun. As much as it hurts to have your feelings reciprocated, but I find that feeling just as lovely as it's highs as it means that I truly cared about them and that it means we could be something else than lovers, and It gives me the time and space to recollect myself to be in a spot where we both feel the happiest
That's true. When you find someone who reciprocates those feelings, it's like being in heaven.
For me it's a nightmare that ruins my days, when I get a crush on someone I just can't stop those annoying feelings. And before anyone tells me "Woah, why are you so harsh?", its bc I'm not straight, and I live in a very close minded country. 99% of the time my "loved" ones are str8 and don't even care for my existence, while the other see me as nothing more than a friend. And I can never tell my feelings to anyone, either bc I'll be made fun of by them and my minimal reputation gets destroyed due to rumors, or they'll just avoid and ignore me at all cost. This time, however, it's different.
I'm VERY sure he's also gay, but he doesn't care for me at all, nor has even tried becoming friends, and that fact is destroying me from the inside.
@@frenchrevenge6406 I can very much understand that as I also live in a very close minded country, while my country doesn't actively discriminate against Queer people, they do see us as merely "Entertainment" and not actual people that are deserving of the same rights unless you're rich and famous enough.
I've had a couple of close friends that gets a crush on me, and it utterly crushes me that I can't reciprocate their feelings as Eros is cruel like that. All I can do is let them down slowly and just hope our friendship lasts, even though I know it won't.
I don't know your life or your experience, but I hope that you'll eventually find someone that'll care and love you the way you deserve!
I absolutely agree! Even though most of the time I don't find my feelings reciprocated, i like to think that at least I was able to see the beauty on the other person, i was able to care about them, and that is conforting for me in some way. I wish more people could see falling on love in that way, a way that gives more credit to the one who's feeling in love
i could never possibly settle for something else other than lovers if i had my feelings not reciprocated
This is true for me. Earlier I used to think I have an aversion to fashion, but after knowing him I realised I have always watched fashion shows since my childhood. I have started loving my own body and giving time to my various interests and hobbies. Most importantly I have become much more helpful and grateful in my life. He's now a big part of my life
So I’ve known this guy for 3 years, we started dating nearly a year and a half ago. I’m scared of love, but I’m deeply attached to this guy. He makes me a better me, and supports me. Thank you for the video
i am in same position but with a girl known her for 3 years we like start hanging out these past 4 month alot. Same as you im scared of love. so i just look at her as friend from now on and want to see her happy with or without me doesnt matter as loong she is happy.
@@ROffan that is definitely true. As long as you are happy, that’s what matters. Remember, don’t always put others first, yk?
your love is a mental illness
What are you scared of in love exactly? Is it the commitment? Or the fear it won’t be returned the same way?
@@cleverclovercreates3249 Everything about it.
This reinforces a lot the mutual feelings that my girlfriend and I have, I couldn't stop smiling throughout the whole video. today is our 3 month anniversary hihihihihihihi
awh thats so sweet
Happy 3 months tgt 🥰 wish u guys happiness tgt :)
Awww
♡
@@divya_sancheti04 thank uuu ♡
I think a great tell is when you’re talking with that person and you don’t want the moment to end. Even when you have to (awkwardly) leave for something, there’s always the lingering feeling of “Is there any way I can extend our time together?”
I hope everyone reading this finds genuine love and have their feelings reciprocated!
Love doesn't exist
The same to you.
@@silverletter4551How?
so I like this short kid since we were in third grade, and I lost contact of him when we were in 6th grade, but even tho we haven't met or heard from each other for three years now I stilm have these slight feelings for him. Until one day, I was walking around with my bff when she pointed at one handsome guy and told me he's her cousin and he's super handsome and the fact that he has the same name as him made me wonder why he looked so familiar. As I kept on seeing him walking around our school campus, I decided to show my friend my childhood crush's photos and that's where she started screaming as hell. IT TURNS OUT THAT HE WAS MY (NEW)BFF'S COUSIN. I nearly died that time because I never expected things like this to happen, and as days pass by, I started to grow my feelings for him especially on the day where I had a blind dance with him. It's this smile of his that makes me smile and often gives me butterflies and I started to notice that I was slowly falling for him, even tho he no longer remembers me💀 . But it still makes me really happy that after waiting for three years, I finally got to meet him again, and this time he's taller than me.
„You feel more love for others“?
When one of my friends fell in love one year ago, she seemed to forget me at the same time. We‘re even not at the same level of friendship today as before this boy… Hard, as I‘m actually in love with HER…
I know how this feels…
Loving a lovers lover, oh pain shall strike you in the worst way possible
It is normal to disagree with some points when you already have your own experiences that say otherwise...
I hope to fall in love one day, but I enjoy being single. :)
Being single is great, that way you can learn more about your wants and needs. What are you looking forward to when falling in love?
@@Psych2go I hope we can both be bonded together and know each others wants and needs. I am waiting for marriage and I hope that day can be the most memorable moment of my life. 🙏🏽
@@Laniya. I wish you the best!
11. You start taking care of yourself more.
Fr I started taking care of myself more
I have been working on my mental health and self-love so I can feel something around the corner. Thanks for the help!
Be careful with all that self-love.
@@dorkarama3135 why be careful, if I may ask?
@@dorkarama3135 Trust me I don’t have an ego.
@@THANATOS-PRIME I was joking (I was talking about the other kind of self-love). All the best.
That's good! What are you doing to work on your self love?
Forget about 10 Things my brothers,
The person you think about while clicking this video Is the person you love.
Period.
Shit, you caught me.
r/angryupvote
Yep, and she's aromantic. I'm at that point where I'm just getting bored of falling in love. It just brings me problems and overall sadness.
dammit, you got me there
Damn you got me there lmao
Scored a 10/10 so it confirms what I’ve known this past 2 months…but recently hit an obstacle with my partner because of emotional triggers that I have from betrayal trauma in me due to my previous relationship. Healing is not done in a month or year it seems but a constant vigil for it never fully erased but can be addressed in a positive healthy way when you notice it.
No one's talking about Kaichou wa Maid-sama but yes I came here because of that 😂 Nice art!
Bro I’ve been looking for a comment to see if anyone noticed but I didn’t find anything 😭 but yeah same I’m also here for maid sama
Me too 🤣🤣
The important thing is maid sama.
I have noticed that too😂
I watched like 3 or 4 episodes a year ago-
literally clicked on the video just cause of the thumbnail haha, misaki and usui
I just never thought I could actually love someone like that
Love happens in a mystery way! Are you falling in love with someone?
@@Psych2go yes and it’s like God made a woman just for me.
This is sooo helpful! I always question myself or try to "snap myself out" of liking someone. I can never tell if they like me back tho
Love to me is knowing and accepting somebody completely and fully flaws and all and still loving them. Learning forgiveness. Wanting nothing more but their happiness and to see them succeed and grow. Not trying to change them in any way, shape or form
That was very well spoken. You nailed it when it comes to love. When you love someone it’s about giving and wanting the best for the person.. most importantly accepting them for who they truly are
i fell in love when i was 12. even at that age i was surprised how similar it was to its portrayal in movies and stories. constant giddiness just because they exist and having them on your mind 24/7. finding a way to make every little thing you do about them. losing control of your emotions while being fully aware of it and feeling like an idiot. it really is like a drug. i miss that feeling.
same.
It's the same chemical process as certain drugs and then some.
@@struggler8532 nice berserk pfp:)
@@mestiez1532 thanks bro I live by the "struggle" ideology everyday. Peace.
I have like two voices in my head one effected by love but the other literally doesn’t care
okay, this explains a lot. i didn't know why for the longest time but i had this one one girl where as soon as i got to know her everything just felt empty when i wasn't around her, i never really knew why but this explains a whole lot, i can relate to at least half of the signs on there
I thought love was painful but your channel makes me feel that love is indeed something very beautiful. Love always stood as a hurtful and painful thing for me but after seeing how beautiful it is, it makes me question that if I am spending my time on the right person or not. Because usually the people I date hurts me a lot. And now I don't think love need to be painful or depressing. It's a feeling of happiness and joy!
I have to say how much I appreciate this channel
Only a few months ago I was watching you guys to find a partner in my life
Nowadays, I watch you all in order to keep this fresh relationship strong
You all are so amazing and I hope you keep this channel up for many more people to see
Love is the most natural thing someone can experience. it's so unexplainable how it just happens out of nowhere. That's also what makes it so sad at times, such as if they dont like you back or if you've never experienced it, it you can make you feel broken or something and worse off is experiencing it before and feeling like it may never happen again like me and so many others. I hope everyone will find something like it as it is so crazy complicated and strange, but it is also so fun, so natural, so real, so exciting, and life changing everybody needs it and cant live without it may God bless everyone and may there be peace in all.
Timestamps
1). You often find yourself thinking about them 0:37
2). You're suddenly open to exploring new things 1:09
3). They're made their way to your priority list 1:40
4). You suddenly find their quirky extremely attractive 2:13
5). They boost your self-image 2:47
6). Their traits become your traits 3:13
7). Your friends are noticing 3:49
8). You feel positive about the future 4:14
9). You can't stop smiling 4:44
10). You feel more love for others 5:17
Hope this helps you out. 💙💙💙💙💙
1. You often find yourself thinking about them 0:37
2. You suddenly open to exploring new things 1:10
3. They have made their way to your priority list 1:40
4. You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 2:14
5. They boost your self - image 2:48
6. They traits become your traits 3:14
7. Your friends are noticing 3:50
8. You feel positive about the future 4:14
9. You cant stop smiling 4:44
10. You feel more love to others 5:18
I like wording it as trying new things cause it doesn't sound like I'm just changing myself for someone. It just means I genuinely care about the persons interest and wanna open up for them. People refusing to look into something for there partner or even just friends is a red flag tbh
1. You often find yourself thinking about them
2. You‘re suddenly open to exploring new things
3. They‘ve made their way to your priority list
4. You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive
5. They boost your self-image
6. Their traits become your traits
7. Your friends are noticing
8. You feel positive about the future
9. You can’t stop laughing
10. You feel more love for others
Make sure to watch the whole video still!
Well I think I’ve fallen out of love with him now, but I was definitely in love. Everything about him made me smile. Even his “quirks”. He never returned my feeling buts it’s nice to know that it wasn’t just a little crush. I still love him, but in a different way now.
How fitting 🥰
omg how?? I also want to move on cuz he calls me his lil sister☠
That's sooo cute im currently sort of in the process of falling out of love
@@hellodontmindme9792lollll. Sorry I don’t mean to laugh at you 😅
@@andreafajardo8427 that's fine, i find it quite silly and stupid💀
@@hellodontmindme9792 did you move one from him?
I think people rely too much on feelings to determine whether they are in love, but feelings are so fickle, they are like a flame, as bright as it can burn, it can also be extinguished pretty fast.
I think falling in love at its most basic foundation is a choice, it must be a choice.
As a cptsd surviver, falling in love can be hard and even harder when it gets real and you choose to go for a relationship. Insecurities, normal anxiety that is confused with traumatic, fear of abandonment, among other things that do not allow me to fully focus on being in love. Sometimes it even makes me question my feelings and intentions, but today I am happy to say that I am very much in love with my boyfriend. Thanks for and the extra help that keeps me grounded
Cant believe after almost all my life, I felt love? I didn’t realize I was falling in love until i started thinking about her a lot.
I'm sorry to hear about your future suffering.
I’m Autistic so if I’m bending my rules and routines for you, you BETTER know that I adore you
I don't know if I've ever truly fallen in love with anyone, but I can say I love the thumbnail! I just wish the show could pick up where it left off on that cliffhanger
At least you fell in love with the thumbnail! ;)
I am a simple Woman, I see Misaki and Takumi in the thumbnail, I click.
US, I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT.
@@snakeau7175 SAMEE
same but I am a boy....my crush loved this anime...so I have to watched it
@@unusual10production58 thats so cute 😭
I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME
I don't certainly have a crush on anyone and these videos don't really apply to me, but your voice is so calming and I love watching these videos!
I fell in love while going through heaps of trauma, dealing with ptsd and depression. Sadly a lot of these things do not apply to me... But I'm grateful for where we are now, almost 2 years later, and I couldn't be happier about my relationship!
You are so blessed.. depression is so hard , i know.. i wish you'll be fine soon.
This actually arrived exactly the moment I started having all those signs...!!!
Psych2go is reading your mind! Are you smiling ear to ear being in love?
@@Psych2go I suppose so😁
Same :) First love as a Highly Sensitive Person, so there's a lot of big feelings there.
My Discover Weekly playlist decided to give me allll love songs too, so it's hard not to notice
never had a crush, never had fallen in love, i am going strong🗣🔥
If you don't know about the term already, you are probably aro-ace. Aro-ace stands for people who are aromantic, (little to no romantic attraction to people) and asexual, (little to none sexual attraction to others)
@@Quackin24-7i dont mean to be rude but i feel like giving them a label based on a natural human feeling is not exactly a great way to help people explore.
@@sargentdandthesod U r totally right! I don’t do this anymore bcs like I now know how it feels to be labeled as something u aren’t by others and tbh there isn’t much of a point of telling someone who they are. I totally forgot abt this comment until now and I apologize to the original commenter.
@@Quackin24-7 I know you most likely meant well but thank you for understanding better. keep your empathy and greatness, keep being yourself, a great person.
all throught this video i have had a huge smile as i am knowing that boy i keep thinking about isnt just a thought and yes nearly all of them are connecting with me
This is actually true. I spent the last 3 years just staring at him and not even talking to him. I remember the first time we spoke and everything else. But...he dated one of my friends in the first year. They broke up a while later. Then in the lockdown I couldn't even see him for an year,but I couldn't stop thinking about him. In our final year,I told my best friends that I liked him and it was all fine, I even wanted to confess him about my feelings. But one my friends started dating him without even telling me again!! I felt completely devastated. I stayed strong and tried to get over him. Then on my birthday,he texted me!! Like I couldn't even believe it. Clearly I wasn't over him. Then he broke up. We only texted but never interacted in college. I told my friend that we've been texting a lot lately and she didn't care. And he moved away to a different city. He calls me atleast once a week and texts everyday and I don't even initiate the conversation. I don't know if he likes me or not but I really love him
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Your love story is so emotional! I think he loves you too, I'm sure he will return your feelings
Ik I'm late but you really gotta tell him, it's very likely he likes you
Be active. How has being passive all this time worked out for you?
An insipid delusion. Nothing more.
1:02 oh so im falling in love with chocolate.
THE MAID SAMA THUMBNAIL!!!
You won my like just because you put Misaki and Takumi for the thumbnail. I love it. I love them.
This is Super accurate. Before i was with my girlfriend, i was scared to tell her what i feel and stuff, but i have watched all of your videos that you guys posted, and it maked me feel like a different person. When i finally got the courage to tell her that i loved her , she just jumped into my arms, and we huged for like 4 minutes. It was the best moment in my life for sure.❤
You are so lucky. 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
I havent never fallen in love before and I still havent found feeling romantic attraction to anyone, which is why I researched into aromantic and asexual sexualities. But i wish everyone is happy and healthy being whoever they are and with :)
Seeing this makes me happy for my big sis, she’s in love!!! ❤❤
That is great! I'm so happy for your big sis too, what about yourself? Are you in love or experienced in before?
@@Psych2go I have but sadly it fizzled out during COVID. I still talk to him occasionally tho
@@saraannette8212 Sorry to hear that, but sometimes old sparks might die. But that doesn't mean you won't get to meet someone new who gives you even greater feelings.
I can't stop thinking about her please tell me I'm not the only one who thinks about someone constantly
as an anime fan ..i appreciate the cute fanart of misaki and usui at the thumbnail
I fell in love like 100% fell in that deep pit. I never stood up the courage to ask her if she feels the same way because I thought we were too young but. I feel like it’s fate that we are not meant to be together because I had to change schools. I don’t see, text or even look for her anymore. I liked that feeling, I liked hugging her as a-a friend. I wish I gain up the courage to atleast ask her to see if she feels the same way, or she rejects. Thinking about it just punches through my heart.
Hey, this video is great, but I think there is such a broad definition of love and attraction; a note at the beginning saying that this explanation is geared toward general attraction and that this can be seen in any type of relationship could really help a few misconceptions in popular culture regarding relationship hierarchy and the overall misinformation about the different attractions and how they function. Again, this video is great, but the “your friends noticing” section in particular could warrant a note. I may not speak for the whole aspec community, but the broad implication that every person is gonna feel like falling in love this this…can really hurt people. Much love though, when I saw the title I was so worried, but it doesn’t fall into any hurtful traps I have seen so many times, and that in itself is quite and accomplishment: this is well-researched and well-put :)
CONGRATULATION FOR 10M SUBSCRIBERS!!! You literally opened my mind with those videos. Thank you so much ❣️❣️❣️
Thank you so much! Hope you stick around when we hit 11 mil!
Obviously!
When I see her I blush get shy can’t stop smiling oh lord plus she finds her way into my mind and I’m changing myself in major ways ❤😊
That is cute! Heart flutters, rosy cheeks, you have been bitten by the love bug
@@Psych2go I believe so 🌹❤️
That's so cute 😀
@@divya_sancheti04 ❤️💯🙏
And I still feel that way and I’m still working on myself it’s a journey for sure but I’m very proud of myself and if you want too attract better you first gotta do better ❤️💪🙏💯🌹
OMG, the voice is... so good. I have always listened this channel only in Russian, and the difference between two voices kills me
i kept watching these videos for the last 6 months, though i never really noticed it , both of us really loved eachother, a few days ago one of my friends sliped hima tiny wisper that i liked him, he came to me with the biggest smile ever and now wer have been dating, and it's true! the last conversation we had was about how we cant stop smiling for some reason, we meet every day and even went on our first date, everyone in my friends' group is now so happy and we feel like the two luckiest people in the world, the worst part is, our parents do not know, and he is my teacher's son so it been really interesting everyday
After seeing her for the first time in so long, all the memories of being an awkward mess around her came flooding back. It only took one hug and her joking about falling into my arms that I knew. I'm still thinking about her, maybe one or two people have noticed, the only reason we were both smiling so much is we were just having fun.
You know, I genuinely am glad that not being able to stop smiling is normal. Because anytime she comes into the room, I can't stop smiling and I start laughing randomly in excitement.
I saw this video a while back and began noticing these signs towards someone, and only then did I realize I had a crush on them. Already being friends, I knew she and I had many things in common. I admitted my feelings to her, and I was when she said she felt the same way. We had known each other for a long time, and knowing she felt the same way I did was great. I already have problems with avoiding intimacy, so while this may seem like a small step, it's a huge leap for me. We are now progressing in a relationship. And I'll say, I don't know how I lived the way I did before. Without love. I already knew my family members too well, and most of them were honestly annoying to deal with. Especially things like obnoxious little siblings and overly strict parents. But to feel love like THIS, I might as well class love as a basic human need. Or a drug that our brains can make themselves. Who knows? All I know is that I finally love someone.
Huh...then I guess I was never in love all along. Just felt shallow attraction and went into flights of fancy of the ideal relationship backed up by what ifs supported by what I knew about the person and how that can apply to the possibilities of a serious relationship.
As I'm glad many of the folks here are realizing they're in love, I'm gonna be with the rare few who realized the opposite. But a new perspective is always welcome.
I'm one of those who feel the same as you are.
it’s very humanizing to read that in the end, we’re all still growing and changing :/ ❤️
I like your mentality 😇of thinking that a new perspective is always welcome. Many people lack this and hence decides to only hear & stick to their perspective & shuns other right away.
I feel like it’s been so long since I felt this way about someone let alone have a love or care for myself, but one day while out hiking with them we had a falling out. I ran off to this little path that went off of the main trail bc of the little quarry that was filled with water had always brought me so much peace and helped clear my head. They found me there crying and upset with myself, and we almost fell out again until one of us made a joke. It shocked me so much I don’t even remember if I made the joke or they did. Then we just sat there, and I just instantly knew I had somehow fallen in love. A truly complex but lovely feeling
This is exactly how I feel about my crush and I don't think I'll ever stop feeling this way
I remember watching 5 minutes of this video back when I was in denial. It’s hilarious watching it and seeing how oblivious I was now that we’re together
This is honestly more scary bc I’ve liked this person for six months and according to the millions of things on Pinterest apparently it’s love. I’ve now been in a relationship with him for only a few weeks but these are like too relatable maybe I’m pushing out the thought of love because I’m scared of it
There's this person I've been talking with and even now it's all the same. It's not just a little crush anymore either, i know this. I feel genuine love and care about them, they've made me feel someway that nobody else has made me feel before.
“you just know” that doesn’t help 😭 people need to stop saying that
- person who doesn’t know how romantic love feels like
Sometimes it's just the feeling that's why it's hard to explain! How do you know if you are in love with someone?
@@Psych2go i’m not sure, i’ve never had a crush before but lately i’ve been feeling more open and caring to someone, and that’s never happened before. it’s like i want to be near them all the time, and they’re the reason i’m excited to go to school now 💕
Tbh it feels like something stupid but you really know or realize after 2 weeks that you are in love
@@Psych2go ur, done fool
@@star-popIf you are watching videos to see if you like them, look forward to seeing them at school etc. Then you probably like them. Something I ask myself is often, would I enjoy holding their hand in a romantic way, would I enjoy being with them in a romantic way, do I want to cherish them romantically and be cherished by them?
Yeah, it’s annoying, but nice, how accurate this is. In one of the last couple days, I was so dang happy. I finally found someone who I felt balanced me out. Like 9/10 of these things apply. I talked with one of my friends about it and they had a lot of good things to say, as well as some happy news if they are right. Thanks Psych2go for making such great content!
I knew I fell in love already with a girl... I've already admitted that I like herrr. And I noticed something. I am thinking of her all the timee. .. And thanks for the video
Its so annoying falling in love with a celebrity because deep down you know that its not love and that in real life, you dont even KNOW them. No matter how kind or amazing they are, I've never even looked at them in real life before. I wish I could experience the feeling of having a crush on a real person that I actually talk to.
I have low hopes about this happening for me, but these are very useful for me as an author. Very interesting information. Thanks!
Oh she's both the biggest pain in my backside and yet the pain I couldn't do without me and her royally joke at each other and I'm noticing she's getting way better at it and I love that
It's comforting to listen to this, and I knew I felt all of this too, even though he's no longer here.😊
Always great to have more in depth clarification into the love topic. Thanks, Psy! You do awesome work
Thank you! Do you have a follow up topic you would like us to tackle?
I’m Aroace and I have no clue what love actually feels like since I’ve never really experienced it. I know this person who’s super nice but I have no clue if I like them or not. This video help a lot, thank you.
Love will rip you apart count your blessings
My crush is the woman of my dreams. We just have so much in common but the difference is that she’s more expressive about it
Hopefully, you confess to your crush one day!
@@Psych2go I did after I realized she had a boyfriend. But I respected that and still confessed. She loved my confession and claimed that I can see her and that I see her light
It’s nice seeing ppl in love. I wonder if there’s a healthy way to cope with unrequited love. Great video as always. 😄
For sure, people in love are like in another world. How have you dealth with unrequited love in the past?
@@Psych2go I’m not sure. Though it turns me off completely when people use another person to make me jealous. I think the best way is probably to focus on work and study. But in my current situation, once I’m done with my project… my thoughts fly to her again. And I’m afraid it’s not healthy. I am relentless, but I know when there’s zero chance. That’s not the same for her pretty boy, I think that’s the one she has a crush on. He’s a nice guy, good person. And good for her, and her family would approve too. I really want to see her happy and safe. I’m not him, and I don’t want to be. I’m nowhere near perfect, I have many flaws and thank god for that. But whenever I try to move on, it feels like there’s sth inherently wrong. Like it’s tearing my soul in half. But it’s also the only way to end this cycle of unrequited love. Both sides deserve to be happy, and to have the love that lasts for a lifetime. Thank you for responding to this. It helps lift the pressure of my heart a bit.)
I know for sure I'm in love. She's the most incredible woman I've ever met and I've never felt more comfortable with another person, so willing to be vulnerable yet aware that I'm Totally safe in doing so with her. When we're together we're constantly laughing, to the point where our stomachs will start to hurt. When I hold her hand I feel at home, and when we kiss I swear I could rocket straight to the moon. At times I can hardly even believe my luck, that she loves *me* of all people almost feels like a dream.
I once thought a girl I had a crush on also had a crush on me at one point in school. I would do research on what signs to look out for if a girl had a crush on you (she fit most of the criteria, which intensified by beliefs), I would try to impress her by dressing differently than usual and putting on different body sprays, and generally she was all that I cared during those couple of months. I would have trouble sleeping because I was thinking of her, I couldn’t stop talking about her with friends, and I couldn’t stop fantasizing about how life would be like with a girl. Those times were blissfully amazing! Though, I eventually got to the point where I saw no signs of her liking me, and I thought it may have been a coincidence! Surprise surprise, it was. She never felt any sort of way towards me, and I as just a blissful and happy little fool for some short amount of time.
I gotta say though, being blissful and naive like that helped me through so much stress and negative moments, because I was always happy (thinking of her). Now I look back to all those years ago and really regret being like that! But that has helped me change for the better.
Just a other Eire episode in my life.... *sigh* I hope she’s alright
I think i am falling for a friendship, is not the romantic love.
I couldn't understand how could i love that dude so much, but he's a great friend.
Love is love, it doesn't need to be romantic 💙
That would mean hiding your feelings and never acting upon love to begin with. I mean for starters, there is a possibility that you are demisexual. Everything you described makes you demisexual because it is someone you know the longest. Think about this. You 2 never became a couple but stayed being friends. You aren't falling in love with any other random stranger. There are tons of people who can fall in love but never act upon them. Not everybody gets into any romantic relationship despite falling in love. There are some who just admire from afar. You are a good example of admiring your friendship from afar.
I can give an example. I began to pick up love feelings from my next door neighbor back in March 2020 however, I never build a single bond with her. I only watched miles away when she picks up her amazon package. I don't talk to her. I stay distant.
This :DD platonic love so valid
I recently just got out of potentially being in love with two people. Everything was fine and then all of a sudden. Boom! I experienced almost everything in this video! Noone commented on any potential love though. The singing and dancing throughout my house was amazing to do for the first time
Falling in love is a serious thing.. you have special feelings for that specific person that everything they do is suddenly so attractive! It’s a whole new emotion lol
Oof this is definitely me when I’m in love. I get so giddy and so positive. No better feeling ❤
I love that feeling! Your heart flutters and you feel like you are floating on clouds haha, it's such a beautiful feeling to experience
I’ve talked to him TWICE. OH MY LORD WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS-
After watching this i feel like my current relationship is a good healthy relationship, this videos always help me figure out my problems ty!!
I love how you draw and keep the thumbnail of maid sama !! my all time favorite anime romance 😍😍
The last one is so accurate. I always get way more cuddly with my family when im in a relationship.
When your in love but have to shove those emotions away because they don't reciprocate.
So painful
If someone popped through your mind, then you are probably in love.
Yeah… maybe I’m in love after all😊
@@roofogato I mean, she was based on a real person I guess?
@@roofogato Wow. Don't blame you 💀
if anyone wants to know what love feels like, its like that spark of joy you feel when you’re excited for tomorrow. except, it’s happening right now.
This happens to me all the time but I learned that it is only temporary so now I keep myself in check. Bad doggy has to stay in the dog house or else its gonna get outta control.
Oh no! How can you tell that it's only temporary? Do the signs slowly fade away for you?