@@rogeriopenna9014I still remember this day fourteen years ago, that baby stole my girl, my wallet, and my dog, I caught it running with them in it's grubby little demonic mits!
Real! My Mom did that with a toddler who was starting a fuss and she stopped right away to stare at my mom with such intensity it felt like she could actually understand her words! My mom was explaining to her why her mom was putting her back in her stroller. She then said to me that it was very important to explain things to young kids so that they understand we are not there to displease them just for fun, that there is a reason behind everything and that adults often think they are too young to understand, which is a mistake, because treating them like intelligent beings makes them learn faster!
Baby: "You're saying because I'm a girl I'm supposed to know about who the right one is for you? Who's the right one for me!? Wait, I don't want to know from you."
That was actually how I was raised. They didn't baby talk. They said they taught me to raise my finger like I was calling for a waiter whenever I wanted milk so that I didn't have to cry for attention. It apparently worked. And when I started talking, they said I never baby talked. They even had home videos of me at 2yrs old arguing about whether the sport was golf instead of tennis (I was wrong, it was tennis) like I was an adult, talking to equals, and expecting my opinion to hold weight. I was even expected to make promises and give my word was held accountable for it. They said I regressed once I started making friends my own age and turned into a big baby during my teens. They still bemoan about it.😂
When my baby cousins babbled at me a while back I responded “oh, well you have to pay taxes. I know, but there’s no loopholes when it comes to property tax. I don’t know man, IRS took down Capone” And everyone got a kick out of it
Did this to my niece one time and she started babbling and gesticulating like an old woman. In baby talk. But it looked like she had a full speech so I just nodded and kept answering like she was telling me some good gossip. Now she keeps looking for me whenever we visit, and she's way more articulate in two mixed languages with no grammar mistakes.
I did it with my infant sisters many years ago, when I realised they would stop crying and start engaging with you like this 😮😮😮 They looked so hilarious and cute.
I did this with my niece. She would have times when she would absolutely NOT STOP CRYING. "Whats the matter with you? Need a change? No, you're clean and dry. Hungry? You just ate. The bank raised the interest on your mortgage by 5% and now you don't know whether you'll be able to pay all your bills, your boss is a jerk, you lost hours at work, your kids never call unless they want money and you're not sure but you think your husband is cheating on you?..... or maybe you're just tired, but being tired makes you upset, and you're too upset to sleep?" The COMPLETE attention she gave to the crap I was saying got her to the point where she forgot to cry because she was too occupied with my nonsense.
Kids actually love this. Before i had my own I didn't have any experience with toddlers so i just talked to them like adults and they were obsessed with me 😅 Edit: Wow I've never gotten 1000+ likes 🙌
It's very healthy. It's perfectly ok to treat kids like kids, but there is a direct correlation to children who were talked to like healthy adults, (In a good way) and children who grow up with excellent social skills.
@@AndrewBreenComedysamuel l jackson (m'fffckr) once said: i talk to my kids in a normal voice, not all guey like how people try to speak in the "adorable" tone to pets and infants
@blessedaretheblessed1555 There is nothing wrong with not doing a baby voice with a baby. You shouldn't go make them open the door for you but that was just a joke anyway. Nothing bad is going to happen.
@blessedaretheblessed1555 I checked and while some sources claim it eases kids into talking a bit more nothing says that the kids' development is going to be stunted. Also all the babies I've met are doing good despite me not talking to them in a baby voice.
I always hated baby talk and didn’t do it with my son or daughter. They enjoy goo goo and gah gah, etc. but they actually do listen to you when you talk like a grown up. They might not know what you’re saying but it’s a different, more curious kind of attention you get.
It's worth noting that babies are proven to be able to understand phonologically complex words a lot earlier than they can say them. The latter requires a lot of practice with the speech muscles, and a lot of baby talk consists of attempts to say words they know the real forms of but can't articulate yet.
I was always like this with my daughter. At 2, I would explain at length the concept of aerodynamic downforce, or wether or not the Germans should have launched operation Barbarossa. Don't get me wrong, there were teaparties, tickles and cuddles, but literally the next second after blowing a raspberry on her stomach, i'd be like, 'aren't Radiohead good. You don't get craftsmanship in songs like that nowadays.'
Awesome parenting 😎 .... I'm the same ... Just not so much about aerodynamic downforce ... More about the great vowel shift, how to transpose music into various keys and facts about space light takes 8mins from the sun to reach us
Just...don't assume your little one is listening, understands or cares. I am a science teacher teacher and I talk to a loooot of parents who are like 'my kid is really great at physics, I've been telling them about quantum physics since they were a toddler' Like, yeah no doubt you were, but unless your kid is some kinds supergenius and somehow got a k-12 maths and physics education before two, it was just word salad to them, and at most they might have an easier time learning the concepts if/when they reach them at that stage of their education. Your child is still having trouble with year 7 science because they are consistently not turning in work and goofing off in class 🙄
I've done this with my two kids...no baby talk, just normal conversation...you're raising adults, not children. That's not to say you don't have fun, but without the goo, goo, gaa, gaa.😅
Yeah I've heard people say that, but there is a reason evolutionary why people talk differently to kids, in every culture. Research shows exaggerated intonation and slower pace make it easier for babies to distinguish sounds and structure of language. Babies are more likely to pay attention to high pitched and sing song nature of baby talk. It's kind of akin to showing babies documentaries instead of shows geared towards early development.
@@richardbrown6594 well, my kids are grown with kids and grandkids of their own...we haven't done so bad...we had fun and their kids and grandkids have fun, and, yes, they all can speak proper English🥰
@@DeterminismisFreedomwhat? That’s objectively false. The only way you could see it as freedom is if you believed that you shouldn’t be held accountable for your actions because you were always going to do them. If that were the case though, they shouldn’t be held accountable for punishing your actions, since that was always going to happen. Determinism is an excuse for not trying.
jokes aside, i read somewhere that this is the healthy approach to raise a kid. if you infantilize a kid, they'd be childish until adulthood. same thing applies to us who infantilize them, we'd unconsciously never take them seriously, even until their adulthood.
This is fantastic for kids developmentally. Speaking to and around a baby in a variety of tones develops the language center of their brains much faster than only hearing baby-talk.
I don't have any of my own, but as the years have gone by watching soooooooooo many "adults" talk to their normal healthy kids like they are some kind of permanent disabled person ( in the most critical years of their mental and physical developing lives)
@@MR-MR-ud5oo It's true that adults tend to talk to their kids like they can't learn. I don't think this is a new problem though. In fact, it's probably as old as the concept of accidental, narcissistic, and absent parents.
I've done this many times. Lol I would talk to them about political news, astronomy etc. in a serious way. The look on their faces is always hilarious.
No joke kids love this. If its not all the time anyway lmao. My friend a few years back asked me how I won over all the kids and I was like... Man, I dont know. I just talk to them like adults.
Exactly. I don't have kids myself, but I talk to all of my nephews et cetera like they are my little peers. Kids don't want you to treat them like they're morons.
@kaleighwaffles obviously you would use less swearing than you would with adults. But kids straight up LOVE it when you hit them with the "ughhh Monday amiright," act like all their little problems are real and very serious, and give them the floor like you would an old, balding man. I did it because I was awkward, but now I've come to believe that a lot of kids feel pretty ignored, especially if there are a lot of adults around. So just using adult general politeness really makes them feel included and it's a short trick to being the coolest auntie.
Kids are actually geared to pick certain things up more. Their brain just works differently and it needs to develop. So treating them as adults can actually be detrimental. Not as detrimental as having them watch Teletubbies, but still not recommended nonetheless. Treating them 'too childish' also isn't recommended. The generation that grew up with these types of shows have the most mental illness out of any group. While the content they consume isn't the only guilty factor, it's most certainly one with a significant and noticeable effect.
I believe hearing actual speech instead of baby talk is actually helpful for the child’s speech development. Also that baby is unbearable levels of adorable ❤
@@noqueq9003Immaturity is something you want to grow out of as soon as possible, it helps you see the world more clearly and improves your life overall
Meh, I except zero maturity until my son hits adulthood and has life experience. I love holding more serious convos with him but I don’t parent him like he’s mature (he’s 1 1/2),
As an only child, I affirm and admire your approach ! I had been brought up by 2 formerly rich kid parents already in their thirties. They're very long gone; but, they helped condition and develop me superbly for the adult world. Keep on your path with your adorable, sweetest wittle 🍼 💕 ba-by !
I loved old boomer bastards being condescending to me when I worked in retail at that age. And by "loved," I obviously mean "hated with a burning passion." On more than one occasion had the spicy old fucks who were the types to get on you for saying things like "it should help a bit," "What do you mean a bit? It either does or it doesn't help, know what you're talking about." Same stupid energy as a teacher replying to a kid asking if he can go to the bathroom with "I don't know, can you?"
This is literally how I talk to babies😭I didn’t even know it was good for their development, I just found baby talk annoying so I decided to do the exact opposite
😂😅 Reading these comments are hilarious AF .... I TRIED this with my child, I TRIED this with my niece, I TRIED this with the baby I was watching .... WTF .... Like it's an experiment. It's REALLY the ONLY way. WHY would you teach your child made up words to replace the actual word ?? That doesn't even make sense😒
Everybody hating on baby talk in the comments, but I think it’s important to treat kids where they’re at developmentally. You’re raising an adult of course, but they need to work up to that. The thing is, they’re NOT adults, and before they learn about discipline they need to learn love first- specifically that they are loved. (Not talking about toddler age) Baby talk is ridiculous, yeah. It’s not fun for adults to listen to… but it’s not for adults. It’s for babies who have been proven to react more positively to the baby voice and being played with in that way, and there’s a reason we’ve been doing it naturally for yeeeeears. You got the majority of your life to be an adult. Your childhood is fleeting. I remember the very early moments of my life with great fondness and simply remember how loved I felt because of how my parents talked to me and treated me :)
Babies need to be communicated on their level. Make eye contact, and show interest. Use simply language, shorten sentences, and speak slowly, deliberately and expressionally. Baby talk can be used once in a while with babies. It does help them connect verbal expressions. Once the child is a toddler longer sentences and bigger words can be used. Language is developmental. Each phase needs to be added to. Start slow and build. Remember we can't multiply until we learn to count, and then add. Its the same with language. We start with sounds, words, phrases and work up to sentences.
You don't need to do this... It's proven that babies learn to talk earlier and in a better way if you speak to them normally, they won't understand everything at the beginning but when they'll understand they won't be only able to baby talk, they will be able to speak normally. It's for a reason that the best way to learn a language is to watch TV Shows/Movies in that language or to live in a country with people who speak that language, you learn faster and more than if you "start slow and build"
Lots of confused people saying ‘This is how I was raised’ - This baby is around 12 months - no adult is walking up to you at that age and saying ‘Whats up?’ W/ hand shake and peace sign! As mentioned in many other comments, there are ways to talk/sign to a baby that will encourage their communication. Including making good eye, contact, letting them see your full face as you are talking, getting down to their eye level … Using a ‘baby voice’ has it’s place. Though after first year there really is no need..
When ever this comes up on my feed, I have to watch it, I don't care how many times, it just brings a big-dam smile to my face, when the child raises the little hand & leaves it, in the air for a few seconds & the little puff sound that follows❤❤❤❤
The baby in purple *clearly* was trying to high-five you over the lack of wanting to raise kids. You left it hanging, no wonder it was so disheartened.
PLEASE make a part 2
@breencomedy on instagram!
Im sick of babies pretending to be so helpless. Its time we hold them accountable
Facts
They should be able to vote and go on trial to be judged as adults.
Ok psychopath.
@@rogeriopenna9014I still remember this day fourteen years ago, that baby stole my girl, my wallet, and my dog, I caught it running with them in it's grubby little demonic mits!
@@rogeriopenna9014trial by combat
I love it when babies look at you like you said something crazy and you realize you did.
@@mlbrooks4066 LOL
Presuming that’s your child. Telling your kid you don’t want to raise kids and them responding “whut?” Is golden
@@DeterminismisFreedom Determinism is evil. Anything is possible, nothing is predetermined. f u.
True lol
had me spilling my coffee Lmao 🤣
I work in a grocery store and I made a habit of adressing crying toddlers in a very serious tone. It baffles them so much they stop crying 😂
I like to tell them “dude, you’re causing a scene.. like, people are staring…”
@@TaySlayXOXO
An embarrassed young mom: pushing a pram with a baby that's basically roaring
Me: (sigh) Same, dude. Same.
They understand far more than we know.
@@TaySlayXOXO🤣 1000 missed opportunities on my part
Real! My Mom did that with a toddler who was starting a fuss and she stopped right away to stare at my mom with such intensity it felt like she could actually understand her words! My mom was explaining to her why her mom was putting her back in her stroller. She then said to me that it was very important to explain things to young kids so that they understand we are not there to displease them just for fun, that there is a reason behind everything and that adults often think they are too young to understand, which is a mistake, because treating them like intelligent beings makes them learn faster!
“So…Andrew says you work in tech?” perfectly delivered.
@@davidserlin8097 😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼
Can you fix my computer?
Baby:😮
He is an engineer. Building some stuff on the carpet
That rly did it for me
The rabbis give a fatwa saying "Kill everyone who is not a Jew, even if they are a baby." Why should everyone die and only the Jews live???
Dude: “You’re a girl you’re supposed to know about this stuff”
Baby: “😲”
Baby: "You're saying because I'm a girl I'm supposed to know about who the right one is for you? Who's the right one for me!? Wait, I don't want to know from you."
She was like "Dang! My legs are too short to get off this couch!"
wut?
wut?
“I work in tech, I don’t have any friends either!”
"wut?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why does this translate to "fury"?
yeah if translated from German, but maybe it was more like a "What"? 😅
@@Thomas_Zscheile Yeah I know. TH-cam translates things weird sometimes...
Hahahaha 😂 @@A13XLaircey
Google really makes a totally unnecessary translation and then is like “Translated by Google 😌”
When she said “Wut?” 😂 Absolutely out of nowhere. Honestly killed me. 😂
And you can hear the mom (or whoever is filming) burst out laughing for a second.
I was watching this at work and couldn't help but laugh out loud at that one. xD
RIP
0:23 'talk to the hand' moment
Wut?
I thought the baby was doing a king baldwin
@@deeclassdude4745hahaha very nice
@@deeclassdude4745identical twins
@@bumpersincapped is yours also a character or is that an oc?
Man: I like kids, I just--
Baby: I'mma need you to stop right there, sir. ✋👶
ffs
😂
Baby: Say man, I heard ya like em young. Better not ever go to Cell Block One.
“Let me stop you right there, save us all precious time- ✋“
@@Lilith_The_Earthling GET OUT-
That was actually how I was raised. They didn't baby talk. They said they taught me to raise my finger like I was calling for a waiter whenever I wanted milk so that I didn't have to cry for attention. It apparently worked. And when I started talking, they said I never baby talked. They even had home videos of me at 2yrs old arguing about whether the sport was golf instead of tennis (I was wrong, it was tennis) like I was an adult, talking to equals, and expecting my opinion to hold weight. I was even expected to make promises and give my word was held accountable for it. They said I regressed once I started making friends my own age and turned into a big baby during my teens. They still bemoan about it.😂
😂😂😂😂 LOL what a great story
This made my day😂
Same here. I had a 200 word vocabulary by the time I was 3 and was never spoken to in baby talk.
true i was there
that's hilarious 🤣
0:07 you can’t leave bro hanging like that.
Fr, where's the bro mentality
Right!!😂
I felt that too 😅
When my baby cousins babbled at me a while back I responded “oh, well you have to pay taxes. I know, but there’s no loopholes when it comes to property tax. I don’t know man, IRS took down Capone”
And everyone got a kick out of it
@@Skip2105 that's GOLD lol
Did this to my niece one time and she started babbling and gesticulating like an old woman. In baby talk. But it looked like she had a full speech so I just nodded and kept answering like she was telling me some good gossip.
Now she keeps looking for me whenever we visit, and she's way more articulate in two mixed languages with no grammar mistakes.
🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙 🤙
Wow these tech hires are getting younger each year!
@@Lily-dn3cz LMAO
You know how it is, 10 years experience and a master’s diploma is a requirement some companies have nowadays
@@AtlasNL got to teach them early, keeps them out of the mines.
0:20 “no i, i like kids, i just dont want to raise them!” “What?” 😂
I did it with my infant sisters many years ago, when I realised they would stop crying and start engaging with you like this 😮😮😮
They looked so hilarious and cute.
I've learned that's a good way to draw their attention, and it helps to stop crying.
@@hermessantos1601 helps stop crying for the baby or myself?
@@soralazammoa1770 Probably both!
I did this with my niece. She would have times when she would absolutely NOT STOP CRYING.
"Whats the matter with you? Need a change? No, you're clean and dry. Hungry? You just ate. The bank raised the interest on your mortgage by 5% and now you don't know whether you'll be able to pay all your bills, your boss is a jerk, you lost hours at work, your kids never call unless they want money and you're not sure but you think your husband is cheating on you?..... or maybe you're just tired, but being tired makes you upset, and you're too upset to sleep?"
The COMPLETE attention she gave to the crap I was saying got her to the point where she forgot to cry because she was too occupied with my nonsense.
@@soralazammoa1770 both!
Saying “wanna grab that?” To the baby has me DYING 😂😂😂 she’s so cute!!! ❤❤❤ very sweet and perfect wholesome comedy
@@nicofelie 🙌🏼🙌🏼
I adore the idea of going "hey nice shoes" and when the parent goes "oh thanks" going "not you, dweeb" and talking to the baby
🤙 🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙
Kids actually love this. Before i had my own I didn't have any experience with toddlers so i just talked to them like adults and they were obsessed with me 😅
Edit: Wow I've never gotten 1000+ likes 🙌
SAME!!
Children love the genuine interaction with people
They literally just want to be a part of shit, especially that young.
It's very healthy. It's perfectly ok to treat kids like kids, but there is a direct correlation to children who were talked to like healthy adults, (In a good way) and children who grow up with excellent social skills.
Maybe it explains why children love me 🤔 I talk to them normally. Just more gentle 😊
Thank you for this genius idea, I shall now be testing this on all the children in the extended family this summer 😂😂
LOL love that!
@@AndrewBreenComedysamuel l jackson (m'fffckr) once said: i talk to my kids in a normal voice, not all guey like how people try to speak in the "adorable" tone to pets and infants
@blessedaretheblessed1555 There is nothing wrong with not doing a baby voice with a baby. You shouldn't go make them open the door for you but that was just a joke anyway. Nothing bad is going to happen.
@blessedaretheblessed1555 I checked and while some sources claim it eases kids into talking a bit more nothing says that the kids' development is going to be stunted.
Also all the babies I've met are doing good despite me not talking to them in a baby voice.
@blessedaretheblessed1555 Me too. Sorry if I was being a bit rude.
0:24 That sounded like a genuine reaction 😂
Yeah, she's like, "Well, someone has to raise me, dude. It's not like I can open the fridge."
I always hated baby talk and didn’t do it with my son or daughter. They enjoy goo goo and gah gah, etc. but they actually do listen to you when you talk like a grown up. They might not know what you’re saying but it’s a different, more curious kind of attention you get.
Exaclty. Even Samuel Jackson (mothhaaafuckaaa) says the same
Shitty parenting
It's worth noting that babies are proven to be able to understand phonologically complex words a lot earlier than they can say them. The latter requires a lot of practice with the speech muscles, and a lot of baby talk consists of attempts to say words they know the real forms of but can't articulate yet.
I think it has to do with the complex, new words and grammar, as well as the tone of voice-although, not sure how early babies learn that 😂
Works with cats also.
I was always like this with my daughter. At 2, I would explain at length the concept of aerodynamic downforce, or wether or not the Germans should have launched operation Barbarossa. Don't get me wrong, there were teaparties, tickles and cuddles, but literally the next second after blowing a raspberry on her stomach, i'd be like, 'aren't Radiohead good. You don't get craftsmanship in songs like that nowadays.'
Awesome parenting 😎 .... I'm the same ... Just not so much about aerodynamic downforce ... More about the great vowel shift, how to transpose music into various keys and facts about space light takes 8mins from the sun to reach us
It’s all about balance 😌⚖️
Just...don't assume your little one is listening, understands or cares. I am a science teacher teacher and I talk to a loooot of parents who are like 'my kid is really great at physics, I've been telling them about quantum physics since they were a toddler'
Like, yeah no doubt you were, but unless your kid is some kinds supergenius and somehow got a k-12 maths and physics education before two, it was just word salad to them, and at most they might have an easier time learning the concepts if/when they reach them at that stage of their education. Your child is still having trouble with year 7 science because they are consistently not turning in work and goofing off in class 🙄
My dad used to practice giving his chemistry lectures to baby me. He teaches postgrad.
Operation Barbarossa was the beginning of the end for Nazi Germany. Hope your kid knows that 😂
I've done this with my two kids...no baby talk, just normal conversation...you're raising adults, not children. That's not to say you don't have fun, but without the goo, goo, gaa, gaa.😅
Yeah I've heard people say that, but there is a reason evolutionary why people talk differently to kids, in every culture. Research shows exaggerated intonation and slower pace make it easier for babies to distinguish sounds and structure of language. Babies are more likely to pay attention to high pitched and sing song nature of baby talk. It's kind of akin to showing babies documentaries instead of shows geared towards early development.
You and your kids must be fun at parties
@@richardbrown6594 well, my kids are grown with kids and grandkids of their own...we haven't done so bad...we had fun and their kids and grandkids have fun, and, yes, they all can speak proper English🥰
@@mycollegeshirtyou're telling me you don't watch PhD level physics TH-cam videos with your babies?
@@mycollegeshirtBased on two kids who's speech development was way advanced, talking to then in a normal non ridiculous voice definitely works.
0:48 she is trying to copy him that's adorable 😂
🤙 🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙 🤙
@@DeterminismisFreedomwhat? That’s objectively false. The only way you could see it as freedom is if you believed that you shouldn’t be held accountable for your actions because you were always going to do them. If that were the case though, they shouldn’t be held accountable for punishing your actions, since that was always going to happen. Determinism is an excuse for not trying.
@@DetectiveWraith that's what they want you to believe.
@@DeterminismisFreedom Look, if determinism is true, it literally doesn’t matter. We can’t prove it, and either way life will continue as normal.
@@DetectiveWraith on the contrary. We can't prove free will, because it doesn't exist.
jokes aside, i read somewhere that this is the healthy approach to raise a kid.
if you infantilize a kid, they'd be childish until adulthood.
same thing applies to us who infantilize them, we'd unconsciously never take them seriously, even until their adulthood.
Wow. That actually makes sense. 👍
I have red the same thing. They can get smart on some things quickly. This would be maybe a little extreme, though.
@@eestaashottentotti2242 are you even trying to raise a baby if you aren't talking to them about taxes?
🤣 That is literally an infant.
You do realize that infants are the one group of people you actually...should treat like an infant, right?
This is fantastic for kids developmentally. Speaking to and around a baby in a variety of tones develops the language center of their brains much faster than only hearing baby-talk.
I don't have any of my own, but as the years have gone by watching soooooooooo many "adults" talk to their normal healthy kids like they are some kind of permanent disabled person ( in the most critical years of their mental and physical developing lives)
has made take the position that **IF** I ever get to have them, I will never talk to & engage with them that way.
No wonder our modern society is so full of dependent & inept people!
I made 3 coms b4 this 1, if any are missing, u know y.
@@MR-MR-ud5oo It's true that adults tend to talk to their kids like they can't learn. I don't think this is a new problem though. In fact, it's probably as old as the concept of accidental, narcissistic, and absent parents.
Lil one tried giving a fist bump...lol
"I like kids I just dont wanna rise them"
"Talk to the hand buddy"
@0:16 that baby was like “bruh for real? You walked into me.”
🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙 🤙 🤙
"So, I heard you're in tech" 🤣!
The “Wut?” Was just too funny and adorable ❤😂
1:11 “Hey! Where’d you get those flamethrowers bro?” 🤣🤣🤣
Best part is they have the same shoes
Then she literally points at him lmao, like "my dad bought 'em, you know him?"
Omg, the little hand tap, & how he raises his little hand, This is good for my soul!❤
I think it's a girl
Oh, so sorry.
I've done this many times. Lol I would talk to them about political news, astronomy etc. in a serious way. The look on their faces is always hilarious.
0:28 “I’m a baby, buddy, talk to me like one.” Is what that “wut” symbolized.
🤙 🤙 🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙
My mother is EXACTLY like this IRL. It’s what makes her so good with kids. .^_^.
lol its the best way
"So Andrew says you work in tech" sounds like something out of an animated movie
LOL
No joke kids love this. If its not all the time anyway lmao. My friend a few years back asked me how I won over all the kids and I was like... Man, I dont know. I just talk to them like adults.
Exactly. I don't have kids myself, but I talk to all of my nephews et cetera like they are my little peers. Kids don't want you to treat them like they're morons.
@kaleighwaffles obviously you would use less swearing than you would with adults. But kids straight up LOVE it when you hit them with the "ughhh Monday amiright," act like all their little problems are real and very serious, and give them the floor like you would an old, balding man. I did it because I was awkward, but now I've come to believe that a lot of kids feel pretty ignored, especially if there are a lot of adults around. So just using adult general politeness really makes them feel included and it's a short trick to being the coolest auntie.
I love how the toddlers are actually starting to sit like them! 😅
this actually helps with baby devlopment, if you speak to your kids normally they'll learn to speak much better and quicker
Can't agree more
0:35 he doesn't have single thought in that cute head, only vibing
We should all do this more. Kids like being treated as normal people 😆
100%
Kids are actually geared to pick certain things up more. Their brain just works differently and it needs to develop. So treating them as adults can actually be detrimental. Not as detrimental as having them watch Teletubbies, but still not recommended nonetheless. Treating them 'too childish' also isn't recommended. The generation that grew up with these types of shows have the most mental illness out of any group. While the content they consume isn't the only guilty factor, it's most certainly one with a significant and noticeable effect.
@@thenonexistinghero my comment said "normal people". Not "adults".
@@maestro69hz Ah yes and I suppose you can properly define 'normal people' then? Because I can assure you that you can't.
@@thenonexistinghero "I can assure you that you can't" 👆🤓. Geez 😆
Dude: “You got a problem little buddy?”
Baby: “😐”
I believe hearing actual speech instead of baby talk is actually helpful for the child’s speech development. Also that baby is unbearable levels of adorable ❤
Baby talk is also helpful for speech development. You don't have to mispronounce things to have baby talk--it's in the tone and speed you talk with
This makes so much sense people I work with cannot make a conversation the baby did crap so smart and awesome
this is how you help them matured early I also treat my dog the same way..so they'll learn to be adult at young age..this is the right thing to do..
Kids should also be kids though..at a young age.
@@noqueq9003Immaturity is something you want to grow out of as soon as possible, it helps you see the world more clearly and improves your life overall
Meh, I except zero maturity until my son hits adulthood and has life experience. I love holding more serious convos with him but I don’t parent him like he’s mature (he’s 1 1/2),
Why are you comparing your dog to a CHILD that will learn to one day communicate in the English language? Weirdo.
I hate Baby Talking but they're still young.
0:19 - 0:26 The baby's confusion is sweet, funny and relatable.
As an only child, I affirm and admire your approach ! I had been brought up by 2 formerly rich kid parents already in their thirties. They're very long gone; but, they helped condition and develop me superbly for the adult world. Keep on your path with your adorable, sweetest wittle 🍼 💕 ba-by !
This is how I talk to my young niece and nephew: no baby talk and speaking with my regular sounding voice!
She's so adorable!🥰
Meanwhile, me a 21-year-old who is treated like a child by strangers every day watching this. 😂
😂😂
I loved old boomer bastards being condescending to me when I worked in retail at that age. And by "loved," I obviously mean "hated with a burning passion." On more than one occasion had the spicy old fucks who were the types to get on you for saying things like "it should help a bit," "What do you mean a bit? It either does or it doesn't help, know what you're talking about." Same stupid energy as a teacher replying to a kid asking if he can go to the bathroom with "I don't know, can you?"
22 year old here, people treat me like a child too XD
Lil bro said "WUT" 😂😂
Forever going to ask babies “you wanna grab that?” when there’s a knock at the door😂
This is literally how I talk to babies😭I didn’t even know it was good for their development, I just found baby talk annoying so I decided to do the exact opposite
0:22 Baby is like "Talk to the hand" 😆
I have similar conversations with my German Shorthaired Pointer. She's not much of a talker, but she listens to me. 😁
😂😅 Reading these comments are hilarious AF .... I TRIED this with my child, I TRIED this with my niece, I TRIED this with the baby I was watching .... WTF .... Like it's an experiment. It's REALLY the ONLY way. WHY would you teach your child made up words to replace the actual word ?? That doesn't even make sense😒
I blame Dr. Seuss.
Everybody hating on baby talk in the comments, but I think it’s important to treat kids where they’re at developmentally. You’re raising an adult of course, but they need to work up to that. The thing is, they’re NOT adults, and before they learn about discipline they need to learn love first- specifically that they are loved. (Not talking about toddler age)
Baby talk is ridiculous, yeah. It’s not fun for adults to listen to… but it’s not for adults. It’s for babies who have been proven to react more positively to the baby voice and being played with in that way, and there’s a reason we’ve been doing it naturally for yeeeeears.
You got the majority of your life to be an adult. Your childhood is fleeting. I remember the very early moments of my life with great fondness and simply remember how loved I felt because of how my parents talked to me and treated me :)
Wut? Loll it’s so so funny.
I like how this implies babies aren't either normal and/or people.
It's the "wut" that got me😂
Babies need to be communicated on their level. Make eye contact, and show interest. Use simply language, shorten sentences, and speak slowly, deliberately and expressionally. Baby talk can be used once in a while with babies. It does help them connect verbal expressions. Once the child is a toddler longer sentences and bigger words can be used.
Language is developmental. Each phase needs to be added to. Start slow and build.
Remember we can't multiply until we learn to count, and then add. Its the same with language. We start with sounds, words, phrases and work up to sentences.
You don't need to do this... It's proven that babies learn to talk earlier and in a better way if you speak to them normally, they won't understand everything at the beginning but when they'll understand they won't be only able to baby talk, they will be able to speak normally. It's for a reason that the best way to learn a language is to watch TV Shows/Movies in that language or to live in a country with people who speak that language, you learn faster and more than if you "start slow and build"
you are wrong.
Blud being unable to stop laughing at some of the baby's noises is actually wholesome asf ngl❤❤❤
I would say the ideal baby talk is essentially just speaking slowly and clearly with exaggerated facial expressions and an optimistic tone
Most adults hate the babytalking cause their parents babytalked to them as toddlers
OMG the cuteness of the baby is on another level ☺️😍
i like that the baby started to adapt and respond in kind when you guys shook it's hand.
If you treat babies older than what they are actually makes them smarter.
You can do that baby talk , but not all the time
Lots of confused people saying ‘This is how I was raised’ - This baby is around 12 months - no adult is walking up to you at that age and saying ‘Whats up?’ W/ hand shake and peace sign!
As mentioned in many other comments, there are ways to talk/sign to a baby that will encourage their communication. Including making good eye, contact, letting them see your full face as you are talking, getting down to their eye level …
Using a ‘baby voice’ has it’s place. Though after first year there really is no need..
Yo those babies chill af
Actually babies talked to like adults end up with higher intelligence and better language skills
0:12 yo Xan get your boy, dawg
When ever this comes up on my feed, I have to watch it, I don't care how many times, it just brings a big-dam smile to my face, when the child raises the little hand & leaves it, in the air for a few seconds & the little puff sound that follows❤❤❤❤
0:45 buddy miraculously developed self awareness
"Work in tech" just cracked me up
That’s exactly how you make a genius baby 🤣
Side note that is the quietest baby in the world 🤣❤️
Omgg the ‘’ wut? ‘’ was soo adorableee😊
Even the baby knew those shoes were fire
That little fistbump at the start was so soft and cute. The baby looked so confused xD
The baby in purple *clearly* was trying to high-five you over the lack of wanting to raise kids. You left it hanging, no wonder it was so disheartened.
“It”?🤡
@@Rhileyn Yeah, babies are commonly referred to as "it" 🤡
hes like "whut? You better raise me bro!"
She looking at you like goo goo gaga😂😂😂 I want my mama😂😂😂
Should've been titled "Talking to babies like adults" lol it was cute and funny though 😂
Always talked in a regular voice to all my nieces and nephews. My doggy and cats too. Just had regular conversations with them all.🥰♥️
I died of pure cuteness
Some adults seem to have been exposed to 'baby talk' - all their lives! 😂
Missing those skills necessary.
😉
I wanna be a father with every cell of my body. I can't wait to spend time raising kids it's gonna be awesome.
I lost it at "so......andrew says you work in tech?" 😆😅🤣😂😁
Her reactions are adorable. I wish good things for your little girl.
0:24 I can’t that “wut?” Was just so cute 😭
0:19 i was so confused at first omg
She really said “Five fingaz to the facee”
Why did I read it as "Threatening babies like normal people" at first-💀
“Andrew says you work in tech” had me rolling
😂😂
Omg! She's so adorable!! Even if she was closer to the door! :3
the chirp at the end and the look he gives got me weak af
She is sooo chill! Love her 💙