Sustaining desire in a long-term relationship | Dr. Petra Zebroff | TEDxSurrey

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  • @anasquadri7919
    @anasquadri7919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    We need more talks like this.

  • @allicedee
    @allicedee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Yeah after 2-3 years I felt the "spark" leaving the "game". But it came back, sadly only for me and not my partner, at 6 years around. Few years later it ended for the better.
    You only know if you are compatible for life, after you lose your Spark.

    • @patricew.4010
      @patricew.4010 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The spark debate is a tricky one. With that being said, the last sentence isn't something I thought about before. I don't want marriage, I want a long term relationship though. With that being said that means choosing to stay after the spark, while I always saw it as working through bad times like...the death of a parent.

  • @MultiSuzy13
    @MultiSuzy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely to be able to see your talk Petra, great job and you were amazing!

  • @simplysunmoon
    @simplysunmoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Very interesting topic, thanks for sharing would be nice to have more talks about that ❤️☀️🌙

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @datchinogreentgod420
    @datchinogreentgod420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO KISS FIRST!!! - DAMN THIS TRUELY HAS BEEN A GREAT MESSAGE TO MY EARS N BRAIN!!

  • @Lifeofsharmaji_
    @Lifeofsharmaji_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's a spark that one should keep between them always one should try things with required amount of time after all it's relationship it's about keeping it throughout your life ❤️🌍

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

    • @frufrujaben
      @frufrujaben 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this works folks!

    • @JCVarkey
      @JCVarkey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very good advice!

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@frufrujaben Thanks for sharing!

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JCVarkey Thank you Jay!

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When you realize that holding onto pain is so much greater than the pain of removing a toxic person out of your life, then you know that it is time to let go.
    💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @giftedgreen2152
    @giftedgreen2152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I retired from dating at 40. One of the best decisions I ever made.

    • @Devanshu2406
      @Devanshu2406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you please elaborate on that, I respectfully want to know more !!

    • @justinatkinson5265
      @justinatkinson5265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well that is a lie. If It was the truth you wouldn't be here commenting lol

    • @giftedgreen2152
      @giftedgreen2152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Devanshu2406 birthing people don’t get better with age. I got sick of the look of shame from birthing people who looked 10x better with clothes and makeup on.

  • @dustykappus8030
    @dustykappus8030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing, a lot of factors play into it, and the physical mental and spiritual

  • @iLoveChaiTea90
    @iLoveChaiTea90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Out here doing Gods work

  • @theolgasperezshow
    @theolgasperezshow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I talk about this all the time. It is my passion. Thanks for sharing!❤

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @JaeNiece55
    @JaeNiece55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you👍🌹. Wow! That was a big eye opener 👍👍👍

  • @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack
    @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an amazing talk I love the idea of communication with your partner. Too bad rvw is going to hurt so many lives.

  • @UnconditionalTruthKilluminati
    @UnconditionalTruthKilluminati 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It certainly helps if you have a gal that looks like the good Dr. Petra as the days go by, but actual commitment should be the eternal spark. Material stability, limerence, impulsiveness, societal pressure, and/or obligation("accidental" pregnancy...etc) should never be the foundation of a relationship that's expected to last.
    The days of survival dating are gone and hypergamy should be reclassified as a mental disorder.
    When Love becomes the only reason people are dating instead of relieving anxiety and fear? Alot of these issues will become rare rather than a societal norm...

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @tentanghukumkita6381
    @tentanghukumkita6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sustaining desire in a long-term relationship
    Thanks for explanation.

  • @Tacoman1967
    @Tacoman1967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've given up. It's less stressful.

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!Interesting to hear a theme to this nature!👍

  • @sicosico3426
    @sicosico3426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really helpful

  • @bfcbrad69
    @bfcbrad69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where do i find this Qtip questionnaire ?

  • @millig8980
    @millig8980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Very good topic although you forgot to mention a very small factor which destroys erotic brain: Toddlers. Two boys in my case 🤣🤣

    • @sihlemanana862
      @sihlemanana862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why I don’t want kids

    • @lifebeginswithaseed
      @lifebeginswithaseed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sihlemanana862 There's an upside to kids too. They are a blessing. I definitely was not a kid person b4 I had them. They change you in which you become selfless and actually care for the future(I actually started paying attention to politics and law making) They give you an opportunity to grow and give you joy that can only come from being a parent. It's like living life all over again seeing things through their eyes. The amazement and wonder over the simplest things. It's a beautiful experience.

    • @sicosico3426
      @sicosico3426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lifebeginswithaseed 100% true

  • @LarryP248
    @LarryP248 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This content stands as a testament to insightful and profound thought. A book with related material was a significant influence in my life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @Spectrumix
    @Spectrumix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    captivating presentation , does anyone know where this questionnaire is?...
    asking for a friend🤫

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you

  • @Chickadeebunny
    @Chickadeebunny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not sure why “the spark dies” for so many couples. I know for a fact, personally I remain just as passionate as I was for them as I was in the beginning.

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hotter chicks are one reason. Many men are visual creatures. December 31,2023. USA.

  • @정솜결
    @정솜결 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    영상감사합니다ㆍ솜결

  • @marie-christinerondeau3017
    @marie-christinerondeau3017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting talk! Where can we take the q-tip test?

    • @fillo1762
      @fillo1762 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can search it up on google

  • @champfisk5613
    @champfisk5613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People get tired of things they have access to overtime. Think of that brand new car that you no longer covet after 2 years and that brand new cell phone that you no longer baby after 2 months

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @irenesturk7283
    @irenesturk7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So how do you bring eg. sentiment and surrender together?

  • @mrevol8454
    @mrevol8454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought it was Helen hunt in the thumb nail

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you

  • @orwell_fan
    @orwell_fan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For any guy, man reading this comment, go read or hear the book "The Rational Male" from Rollo Tomassi. This will teach you a lot of women, and how to keep Genuine Burning Desire aka "the spark" women feel for a man. Thank me later

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @sadiakhan6449
    @sadiakhan6449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Second

  • @Jay-ef2ii
    @Jay-ef2ii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SPECIAL COMMENT: You as the man must have awesome chemistry to begin with so your relationship with your Woman does not fade away. You too (as the man) must be more beautiful than the Woman so she can listen to you. The man must have awesome chemistry! He too, if possible, must have Chemistry and Looks so all can roll well with the Woman. "The World is messed up love wise for the man who does not have any chemistry with a hot woman" December 31, 2023. USA

  • @user-el9sg5ns7p
    @user-el9sg5ns7p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Где перевод?

  • @maha_19991
    @maha_19991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    اتمنى توضعون ترجمه الكلام 🥺

  • @user-yp4nm3os8f
    @user-yp4nm3os8f 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1-2 years!😆

  • @susanridenour9758
    @susanridenour9758 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One and four

    • @beppobarrendero74
      @beppobarrendero74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Second

    • @susanridenour9758
      @susanridenour9758 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need to hear the choices again. Plus, it's been a long time since I've had an intimate relationship

  • @halilibrahim4830
    @halilibrahim4830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    erotic Brain is on our heart.

  • @schelliegris7481
    @schelliegris7481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 and 4 at the moment

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @Proud_to_b
    @Proud_to_b 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    any one is here who want to practice English?

  • @knaw35
    @knaw35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Interesting. Many advisers “how to live” recommend special techniques. They talk about points, steps, lists, types, etc. They are even ready to tell you what is important and what isn’t. Forget it. You are not a machine. Just try to understand who we are in perspective of millions years of developing. What is conscious, what is unconscious. Why we do something we know is wrong. To live a proper life is easier and accepted by society. But we don’t. Why?
    Read Carl Jung, listen Jordan Peterson, Douglas Murray and similar. Find out who you are. Understand yourself. Finally you will not need any technique how to turn someone up. It will be a part of your complex knowledge about the world and you.

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you

  • @wolfofmind8
    @wolfofmind8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Immortal😂

  • @johnmatthewbriones3447
    @johnmatthewbriones3447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

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    @emmahill7305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

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      @Dalio906 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @beuladegraffenreid4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @beuladegraffenreid4210
      @beuladegraffenreid4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @palesamalodi
    @palesamalodi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Third 😂

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @hempisnotpot4112
    @hempisnotpot4112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best way to do it is to keep bringing in younger women to the bedroom to share - he's already had u so

    • @skypinkidol
      @skypinkidol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m sorry that you believe this is true

    • @usernotfound5857
      @usernotfound5857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Try laying off the hemp / pot / whatever you're on

    • @hempisnotpot4112
      @hempisnotpot4112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You said it, you’re sad, hence the need for younger variety, you cant beat nature, younger its on every man's bucket list... this will never change, it dont matter how wonderful or accomplished , young skin will always be desired over anything else

    • @Skeletal33
      @Skeletal33 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Youre so full
      Of it. Hows your mom doing? Does she clean your room?