How Do ADHD, Anxiety, and Panic Attacks Truly Affect Us? Revealing the Truth!

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  • Revealing the Truth Behind ADHD, Anxiety, and Panic Attacks
    Discover the truth behind ADHD, anxiety, and panic attacks. Learn about the impact of environment on behavior and the importance of holistic treatment for ADHD. From parenting to medication, we'll cover it all in this revealing video. Plus, we'll delve into the connection between ADHD and FASD. Don't miss out on this informative and eye-opening discussion!
    In this video, we delve into the truth behind ADHD, anxiety, and panic attacks. We'll discuss the role of trauma and mental health, as well as common misconceptions about these conditions. Plus, we'll touch on the intriguing conversation between Gabor Mate and Joe Rogan on the topic. Stay tuned for some eye-opening insights.
    In an interview with Joe Rogan, Gabor Maté discusses the myths around anxiety and ADHD. Dr Gabor Maté explains to Joe Rogan and the audience how these diagnoses may be the result of faulty research and how they are used to mask other problems, such as childhood trauma.
    Summary:
    00:01 🧠 Understanding ADHD
    ADHD is characterized by attention difficulties, impulse control issues, and hyperactivity, influenced by environmental factors like parental stress.
    02:14 🏫 Impact of Environment on Behavior
    Stress triggers coping mechanisms like tuning out, often misinterpreted as ADHD, influenced by classroom environment and parenting styles.
    04:16 🌱 Holistic ADHD Treatment
    ADHD stems from environmental stressors, emphasizing the importance of addressing family dynamics and reducing reliance on medication.
    07:50 🩺 Critique of Medication-Driven Approach
    Overuse of ADHD medication neglects underlying causes, driven by lack of physician education on brain development and trauma.
    09:31 😰 Understanding Anxiety
    Anxiety arises from environmental stressors and individual perceptions, serving as a natural problem-solving mechanism.
    12:03 🚸 Parenting and Anxiety
    Parental responses to distress influence anxiety development, highlighting the importance of fostering a sense of safety and support in children.
    🔔 Credit and connect: Very Special Thanks To Dr. Gabor Mate
    🌐 Website: Website: drgabormate.com/
    ►Spoken by: Joe Rogan and Gabor Mate.
    Full interview here: Physician Gabor Mate Gives His Analysis on ADHD and Anxiety: • Physician Gabor Mate G...
    Who is Gabor Maté? A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development.
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  • @user-ib2bt4ck7y
    @user-ib2bt4ck7y ปีที่แล้ว +148

    As a baby, I had frequent nightmares, cried a lot, and my stepfather would always pick me up because he couldn't stand to hear me cry.
    My mother would tell him not to pick me up, but he would because my crying sounded dreadful thanks to a flap of skin in my throat which I was born with.
    From what I understand, I was a child who didn't really "think" before I did things, so I frequently was in trouble. When I was in trouble, I would be locked in rooms to be alone for what felt like long time periods.
    I remember caretakers would often lock me in rooms, and not allow me to come out and enjoy the day with my other siblings. I was alone a lot. I was never taught how to regulate my emotions, and my parents were alcoholic, drug addicts. My mom started dating a new man when I was 3 years old, and she hardly hesitated to move us in with him in a new town away from my other step-dad who took care of me as an infant.
    My new step dad was abusive, to my mom and to us kids. He was 18. My mom was in her late 20's. She would leave us with him while she went to work, and he would always lock us in rooms for long time periods, again, and he would play cruel games with us (like locking us in dark rooms) he was more like a cruel older brother then a father figure. I still remember vividly this one time when I was hiding with my mom while he was giving me trouble, and he pulled me out of my mom's arms to probably spank me and lock me in my room for doing something "bad". I remember the moment my mother let me go, I remember I felt myself lose hope and trust for my mother because she didn't protect me.
    I remember not liking most of our caregivers because they thought I was a "bad kid" and they would treat me like there was something wrong with me. Even my siblings began to treat me this way, they would bug me, bully me and when I would react to their cruelty they would frame it like I was always freaking out. They frequently teased me and shamed me and tried to embarrass me because my step-dad made them think it was funny to tear people down.
    I was a sensitive child, extremely loving, but reactive to all of the cruelty that was leveled at me which made me a target for my two oldest siblings who became bullies. I remember when I was probably 6 or 7, my step-dad showed us all videos, graphic videos of real violence, a man getting into a motorcycle accident and his brain and remnants of his skull being stuck in a fence, a man getting his head cut off, etc. I was the only child out of myself and my 3 other siblings that cried every time I heard the music from that video. I don't know why my mom thought it was okay at all to have him show us that. Terribly negligent of her.
    My mom tried to kill herself in front of us a few times, because my step-dad treated her so terribly, cheated on her, abused her and her children. Thankfully she never succeeded.
    One time, my step dad duct taped my hands and feet together and my mouth because I told my friend about a fight he had with my mom, and police came. It was crazy, because when my mom found me like that my nose started bleeding like crazy I was crying so hard, a huge patch of blood formed on my bed and she freaked out.
    I started having panic attacks very young, I would hallucinate and not remember them, I would shake and cry and be incoherent. My step-dad was actually good at helping me breathe through these attacks, it seemed to be the only time my parents really took my emotions seriously.
    I am 25 now, I was diagnosed with ADHD and BPD. I have an extremely miserable life, I can hardly sustain employment or school. I can't seem to keep friends, I don't think well of myself and I have a very hard time trusting people. My sense of self fluctuates constantly. I never developed a healthy ego so I either feel superior or inferior to others. I feel understood by gabor, and I've not felt understood by many, hardly ever in my whole life.
    I have hardly felt validated for all of the incredibly difficult things I went through as a child. I keep repeating old cycles of suffering and abuse because of what happened to me and my siblings. I feel like an alien, I feel stuck. I just want to live in peace but everyday is a battle now. My inner voice is cruel like the ones that enveloped me growing up. I have tried extensively to educate myself about my condition but I don't know what to do anymore. I want to give up. I can't seem to love myself, or feel worthy of anything good in life. I keep hurting people and feeling exhausted by stress and worry.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +80

      I'm sorry for your childhood experienced. Trauma in childhood can have serious and long-lasting consequences. When childhood trauma is not resolved, a sense of fear and powerlessness follows the kid into adulthood, laying the groundwork for future trauma. Even if your trauma occurred many years ago, there are measures you can take to overcome the suffering, reclaim your sense of emotional stability, and learn to trust and connect with others again.
      Trauma effects usually endure a few days to a few months, gradually decreasing as you absorb the upsetting incident. Even if you're feeling better, you may be bothered by painful memories or emotions from time to time, especially in response to triggers like an anniversary of the occurrence or something that reminds you of it.
      If your psychological trauma symptoms do not improve or worsen, and you are unable to move on from the experience for an extended period of time, you may be suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). While emotional trauma is a typical reaction to a traumatic experience, it progresses to PTSD when your nervous system remains "stuck" and you remain in psychological shock, unable to make sense of what happened or process your feelings.
      1st recovery tip: Get active!
      Trauma interrupts your body's natural equilibrium, causing you to become hyperaroused and fearful. Exercise and movement can assist restore your nervous system as well as burn off adrenaline and release endorphins.
      On most days, try to exercise for 30 minutes or more. Three 10-minute bursts of activity every day are just as effective.
      Walking, jogging, swimming, basketball, or even dancing are examples of rhythmic exercises that utilize both your arms and legs.Include a mindfulness component. Rather than focusing on your thoughts or distracting yourself while exercising, concentrate on your body and how it feels as you move. Consider the sensation of your feet hitting the ground, the rhythm of your breathing, or the sensation of wind on your skin. Rock climbing, boxing, weight training, or martial arts can help with this because you must concentrate on your body motions to avoid harm.
      Tip 2: Avoid isolating yourself.
      You may want to isolate yourself after a traumatic event, but this simply makes matters worse.
      Ad Face-to-face contact with others will aid in your healing, so make an effort to maintain your relationships and avoid spending too much time alone.
      You are not required to discuss the trauma. Connecting with others does not have to include discussing the trauma. In fact, for some people, this can make matters worse. Feeling engaged and accepted by others provides comfort.
      Solicit assistance. While you are not required to discuss the trauma, it is critical that you have someone with whom you can share your experiences face to face, someone who will listen attentively without judging you. Consult a dependable family member, friend, counselor, or pastor.
      Reconnect with old acquaintances. Make an effort to reconnect with people who were previously significant to you if you've drifted away from them.
      Join a trauma victim support group. Connecting with people who are dealing with similar issues can make you feel less isolated, and hearing how others cope can motivate you in your own recovery.
      Volunteer. Volunteering can be an excellent method to combat the sense of helplessness that typically accompanies trauma. Helping others might help you remind yourself of your strengths and restore your sense of power.
      Make new friends. It's critical to reach out and create new connections if you live alone or far away from trusted family and friends. Take a class or join a club to meet individuals who share your interests, join an alumni association, or reach out to neighbors or coworkers.
      I wish you all the best and happiness that you deserve in life. Praying for your fully recovery! Bless you!

    • @whygohome172
      @whygohome172 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You are suffering from narcissistic abuse and have a trauma bond. You can heal from it but you will have to go no contact with the abusers. You need to get a good trauma therapist and apply for disability. I hope things get better for you.

    • @mahlina1220
      @mahlina1220 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Thank you for sharing your story with us. It takes _courage_ to do so.
      I’m amazed of your abilities to be so resilient. Perhaps that’s the one thing I notice repeatedly about your situation. You are a fighter, and you don’t give up even though life feels impossible.
      I’m sorry for what you went through, but it sounds like you had a few influential and inspirational figures in your life who helped pull you through during those darkest times, during the times you were bullied, abused, and treated worse than an animal.
      Hold that person (or those people) in your heart. Sometimes nostalgia of those who loved us _when_ they loved us can also be very healing while we’re alone.
      Perhaps there is a song associated to those people that you can play, and play that music when you feel your heart hurt as your connection to _what worked_ in the past.
      Embrace the functional aspects of yourself from the dysfunctions you endured. That’s how you rejoice your strengths without seeking validation from others so you can find it within yourself. You are strong !!

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@mahlina1220 Very well said!, thank you for your encouraging words! We need more people like you in this world! Bless you and your pure heart! ❤🙏

    • @wiredforstereo
      @wiredforstereo ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I hear you. Stick with it. Healing will take a long time. Find a competent counselor. Make it your life's work to heal, because it is. And it is worth it. Even through the hard stuff, I still experience it on the regular, it is worth it. You can heal. It is within you.

  • @leighcecil3322
    @leighcecil3322 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I had attention deficit... because school was boring..I look out the window and see beautiful clouds passing by...& My sense of wonder was stimulated.. school only teachers children how to be individually competitive...!!..not how to live in harmony with nature & seeing themselves as a part of the beauty.. namaste 🙏

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    When my father died I had a nervous breakdown and landed in hospital. I stopped eating and sleeping. My life was hell. I couldn't understand why I'd be upset with him gone,.since he was a sadistic bully. I have since learned I had a breakdown bc I was all alone in the world...I was an orphan at 25. No other family. I am amazed I'm still alive...give myself huge credit for that.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you for sharing your story with us 💫💕🙏✨💖

    • @pantheranegra6348
      @pantheranegra6348 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Happy you're still with us 🫂

  • @Martina_Reiki
    @Martina_Reiki 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    More love to everyone here. Big hugs and warm touch from broken HEART to HEART 💜.

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I believe Joe's understanding of what they've classified as "anxiety" is fairly typical for people who haven't really been troubled by it. Being worried about how the future could turn out in general or feeling anxious in anticipation of anything is not anxiety.
    It's the constant, irrational feeling of impending death that you experience in the pit of your stomach. Your entire body feels as though it is being turned inside out when the rollercoaster tips. without good reason. It is twitching, itching, or excessively sweating. You're outside among people, yet there doesn't seem to be any other reason. Even though they intellectually understand that it is highly unlikely, they are continuously overcome with the thought that a family member will pass away every time they leave the house. Nobody who has dealt with it would characterize it as a normal aspect of life because it is a persistent and severely debilitating problem. However, it makes people into amazing actors.
    I'm sending positive energy to everyone else that has to get past that garbage every day just to get out of the home.
    Special thanks To Dr Gabor & Joe Rogan! Thanks for watching guys! Bless You All
    ❤🙏

    • @amandawideman8441
      @amandawideman8441 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very well said. From one professional actor to another, bless.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@amandawideman8441 , I agree with you, thanks for watching

    • @fractalofgod6324
      @fractalofgod6324 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Unless you have experienced anxiety panic disorder you have no idea, having suffered for 40 years I've had
      Heart palps
      Hands closing
      Impending doom
      Depersonalisation
      Derealization
      Night terrors
      Involuntary twitching
      Intrusive thoughts
      Hot flushes
      Frequent urination
      Memory loss
      Agrophobia
      Social anxiety
      Joe is well off the mark here.

    • @amandawideman8441
      @amandawideman8441 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@fractalofgod6324 fully agree. There's people who have experienced some nervousness here and there or are neurotic in general however a full blown panic disorder is a different can of worms and can feel like youre on an IV drip of pure adrenaline for chunks of the day.

    • @fractalofgod6324
      @fractalofgod6324 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@amandawideman8441 totally

  • @forsmanos
    @forsmanos 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I have severe ADHD. My parents were absent, I was always alone growing up. I never ask for help. I do everything alone, by myself, I have no family, no social life. Eventually I will need help, as you simply can't exist on your own forever. What I've realized is, that's when I will simply lie down and die. Because it will be easier to do so, then to change what I am.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I appreciate that you shared this with us. It takes a lot of guts to talk about such sensitive things. I'm deeply sorry to hear you've had to go through so much on your own, and I absolutely understand how you feel.
      Before anything else, keep in mind that you are not alone in this. Many others go through the same problems, and there are tools and networks available to offer help and understanding. I advise you to go get help from health professional if you haven't already. They can provide advice that is applicable to your situation. Change can be extremely challenging, especially if you've been dealing with ADHD and feelings of isolation. However, it is never too late to get assistance and make major improvements in your life. Over time, small steps can lead to significant progress over time. Consider sharing your feelings with someone you trust, a friend, or a therapist if you are comfortable doing so. You are not alone on this path. Sometimes simply discussing your difficulties might be the first step toward a brighter future. Please keep in mind that your worth is not defined by your past or current circumstances. You, like everyone else, deserve happiness and support. I truly pray you have the courage to reach out and explore possibilities for a more fullfilling life. You are valuable, and others care about your well-being including me.💕🙏

    • @jillgourlay4055
      @jillgourlay4055 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally same here it's living hell x

    • @johnroekoek12345
      @johnroekoek12345 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I recommend tracey marks short videos to watch. She helped me. I regularly watch the videos again, simply because I forget. It won't hurt to have a look right?

    • @johnroekoek12345
      @johnroekoek12345 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      13:27 He's how I know he doesn't know what he is talking about

  • @ivana1153
    @ivana1153 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Remember this because it is mighty: "THE BRAIN CAN CHANGE IF YOU TREAT IT RIGHT" ! ! ! This man is a genious!

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:01 *🧠 Understanding ADHD*
    - ADHD is characterized by attention difficulties, impulse control issues, and hyperactivity, influenced by environmental factors like parental stress.
    02:14 *🏫 Impact of Environment on Behavior*
    - Stress triggers coping mechanisms like tuning out, often misinterpreted as ADHD, influenced by classroom environment and parenting styles.
    04:16 *🌱 Holistic ADHD Treatment*
    - ADHD stems from environmental stressors, emphasizing the importance of addressing family dynamics and reducing reliance on medication.
    07:50 *🩺 Critique of Medication-Driven Approach*
    - Overuse of ADHD medication neglects underlying causes, driven by lack of physician education on brain development and trauma.
    09:31 *😰 Understanding Anxiety*
    - Anxiety arises from environmental stressors and individual perceptions, serving as a natural problem-solving mechanism.
    12:03 *🚸 Parenting and Anxiety*
    - Parental responses to distress influence anxiety development, highlighting the importance of fostering a sense of safety and support in children.

  • @rjmoonchild777
    @rjmoonchild777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Mate's honesty and transparency is very refreshing. I have a great deal of respect for him and his body of work.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely! It's wonderful to hear that you appreciate Dr. Gabor Mate's openness and honesty. Comments like yours truly inspire and motivate people like him to keep creating great content. Your admiration and support mean a lot to Dr Gabor Mate and the entire community. Thank you for taking the time to give your comments, and we hope you like his piece of work in the upcoming!😊🙌

  • @kbs7340
    @kbs7340 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love Dr Gabor ❤❤❤ Thanks Joe ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lisbethbird8268
    @lisbethbird8268 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Someone could give a little credit to the interviewer. Hey, Joe. I must heard this clip 6 times. It's starting to sink in.

  • @jfranks1295
    @jfranks1295 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I couldn’t get past how obnoxious the interviewer was, then I realized who it was and it all made sense.

  • @patriciamorgan2501
    @patriciamorgan2501 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Just listening to Gabor Mate's voice is soothing to me. So go out into the world and cautiously find sincere and kind individuals. Find a very young photo of yourself. Sit it out and/or carry the photo with you. See your own innocence in a loving way. ❤️

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I couldn't agree with you more! Gabor Mate's wisdom is very calming, and your words of wisdom are heartwarming. Connecting with true and nice people, as well as recovering our own innocence, are wonderful steps toward a more compassionate world. ❤ Thank you for sharing your wonderful insights.

    • @xw6475
      @xw6475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, it takes 1 to see 1. Thank you for your comment, i hope there are more sincere, kind individuals in this world. We really need them. I love your comment, thank you very much 💗💐

  • @Sasquatchflow
    @Sasquatchflow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m on an anxiety med and I hate that I use it… but when you have an absolute panic attack out of literally know where that medication saved me, I’ve been “normal” for 20+ years

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you for taking the time to share your personal experience with us. Your honesty and willingness to talk about your experience with anxiety medication is greatly appreciated. You've clearly experienced great hardships, and I respect your determination and resilience. It's completely okay to have mixed feelings about using medication to treat anxiety. What important most is that you prioritize your well-being and get the help you needed to live a satisfying life. Your story is a powerful reminder that mental health is simply as important as physical health, and that medication can sometimes be a lifeline during stressful times.
      The fact that you've been able to live a "normal" life for over 20 years shows the strength of your determination and the effectiveness of your coping mechanisms. You've demonstrated that there is no one-size-fits-all answer for mental health, and it's important to do what works best for you. Keep in mind that you are not alone on this path. Many of us suffer similar issues, and your opinion may encourage others to seek support when necessary. Thank you for contributing your voice to this important discussion.
      Please continue to take care of yourself, and please share any insights or tips you may have gained from your experience. We're all here to help one another.
      Best regards from your inner child matters channel!💫💕🙏✨💖

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I'm amazed each time of how everything Dr Gabor says reasons with me 200%, HE'S SO METHODIC, CONSISTANT, ORGANIZED, and throws jokes at the right moments. :) I always watching his videos and trying to get my hands on the book he wrote with Dr,Gordon «hold on to your children» and Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder you can get your copy here: amzn.to/3rya32n . I just can't get enough of this... Can't wait to share new lectures of Dr Gabor in this channel. I believe Dr.Mate has high emotional intellegence,as a result of his ADHD he has a creative mind coupled with exceptional emotional understanding of human relationships and this I presume one gift of ADHD.As a child when you switch of under immense perceived stress, the mind starts to wonder and escape scanning the environment and the creatures in it creatively impressively and intuitively I am guessing.This is how I felt I became very insightful by overthinking and by over analysing circumstances,although this is exremely exhausting,it is I truly belive is the very productive but costly consequence of escaping from the stressful and unsafe environment. THANKS FOR WATCHING guys, please don't forget to LIKE & SUBSCRIBES it means a lot to me! Bless you all! ♥🙏

    • @ianmack5068
      @ianmack5068 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Correct there is too much misinformation surrounding this topic! Thank you for sharing!

    • @Yahman1969
      @Yahman1969 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is also very wrong

    • @DakinFerris
      @DakinFerris 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's very wrong. He got addicted to fame and $ associated therewith because of great work on addiction -- and then he made up a theory about ADHD that is harmful. I'm not responding to the medication issue in this video, just a general response to him. Of course, people with ADHD have experienced trauma but his conclusion that this is causal is medically unsupported. If you want science, try Dr. Barkley. th-cam.com/video/bO19LWJ0ZnM/w-d-xo.html

  • @Laura-xt9ch
    @Laura-xt9ch 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Anxiety is real and scary for a child who grows up in a violent alcoholic home. I’ve been filled with fear and anxiety my whole life. It sucks to white knuckle it through life. Today I’m doing so much better because of prayer, my faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and seeking knowledge and understanding of what happened to me. Going to Adult Children of Alcoholics really helped.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your bravery as well as your determination have truly impressed me. It's amazing to see how your faith and determination have led you to healing and understanding. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I'm glad to hear you're feeling better today. You are a source of inspiration for many people. 💙🌟

  • @DharmaChameleon333
    @DharmaChameleon333 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is an amazing break down of adhd in a real life way ♡♡♡ this confirms so much ♡

  • @general_zizi1156
    @general_zizi1156 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Psilocybin containing mushrooms saved my life. The drastically reduced my benzodiazepine withdrawal allowing me to quite illicit pill addiction after three years of heavy daily use before it would had became medically dangerous to quit. It has also helped me survive depression and anxiety

    • @dilara4130
      @dilara4130 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Trips I've been having really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @ellaaysun6181
      @ellaaysun6181 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Lillian Victoria I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across *dr.jeromespores* a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly

    • @ellaaysun6181
      @ellaaysun6181 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      On l G

    • @ryancihet555
      @ryancihet555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dilara4130 I feel the same way too. I put too much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels. I am also glad to be a part of this community.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad to hear that you survived depression and anxiety. Bless You!

  • @kimbaka4364
    @kimbaka4364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s crazy that most general Doctors in this day in age do not know this stuff. No wonder we are experiencing a mental health crisis 😢

  • @utube11235
    @utube11235 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So absolutely beautifully explained by Gabor.
    The greatest responsibility parents have towards their children is not to create money or luxuries for them.. to build a Home and family in such a way that the child knows that if there is one place on the entire planet they can come back to to feel safe and be at peace, whenever they need it, it is Home. To create that Home, is a parent's greatest responsibility.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words and for for taking the time watching the video! ❤️💖

  • @franziphia2380
    @franziphia2380 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I can understand the argumentation of how adhd development Dr Gabor talks about. I somewhat agree even that a collection of symptoms may be caused by environmental and society issues. But... How could someone who had attentive, caring and loving parents and went to an alternative school system (waldorf) with emphasis on lots of movement and creative learning.... how could they still develop ADHD symptoms anyway? 🤔

    • @Tina-ip8tg
      @Tina-ip8tg ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Was there financial stability in your household. Did your parents stay together? Did you get on well with other kids or kids outside of your school. What was your parents relationship like with their parents, was it the same loving and understanding relationship that your had from yours. I think even the most loving and understanding envoirnment can have it's hidden stress and traumas. Children are very perceptive and can pick up on the slightest of things even if they can't understand what's going on. Loving attentive parents can be experiencing immense stress in their lives but want to protect their children from it. The child can still pick up on that stress and subtle signs being given and develops coping mechanisms. I believe that there is no real perfect envoirnment even if our home life is is near perfection our outside envoirnment might be difficult other kids can be mean other family members can be cruel. We are shaped by all we encounter not just our parents. This life is a journey of self discovery discovering who we are are where we have come form and we can't undo a generational lifetime of our ancestors in one life time bit I think we can release ourselves leaving less for others to carry forward and learning how to cope better express deeper and move easier through life so that the next generation has a.load that is lighter to carry forward. Just my musings and reflections on life thus far 😊🙏

  • @ianmack5068
    @ianmack5068 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Fantastic video, thank you for sharing and raising awareness! This is a serious subject and your channel is helping the world to learn more! Blessings

  • @ritareinecker7990
    @ritareinecker7990 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I figured out about 15 years ago that I was dealing with ADHD. I was born in Berlin in 1941. While in my mother's womb I probably felt her distress that war caused. The war years most likely had an emotional impact on my development. Growing up, she labeled me stupid. I fidgeted. "Why can't you sit still?" She'd say. Today I know that my inability to concentrate made it impossible to learn. Couldn't recite poetry from memory. My perceptions were/are visual. If I can't visualize something, I can't comprehend it. Try visualizing math!! I tried reading an audio book... impossible because my mind wandered. I'm still experiencing these conditions today. In short: ADHD sucks!

  • @DaveHawthorne-lk9mz
    @DaveHawthorne-lk9mz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Dr. Mate.

  • @gregwilder5
    @gregwilder5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Stranger danger is a huge contributor to this anxiety epidemic. I now live in NZ and have watched my little boy go through the most politically correct misguided kindness. We are ADD and have deep empathy we sense each other and those around us. Part of that grammar of empathy is touch, smell, sound etc.
    Such people tend to be super sensitive to one of the sensors. For me it was smell but for him it is sound. The schooling system over here values independence as the heights attribute and child abuse is a big issue down here. The result is student lead classes (out of control and noisy) and teachers are not allowed to touch kids at all. When my little boy got overwhelmed by the noise at after school care he ran away because he ran he got band. He just needed a hug

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts and observations with us. It's painful to learn about the challenges that you and your son have had in the New Zealand school system.
      You've mentioned a key facet of empathy: sensations like touch, smell, and sound have significance for many people, especially those with ADD and hypersensitivity. To build a more inclusive and supportive atmosphere, we must understand and meet these particular requirements. It's concerning that the focus on independence in the classroom can often overshadow the significance of emotional support and understanding. Every child is special, and what works for one may not work for another child.
      It's sad that the system's policies, which are meant to protect, occasionally have unintended consequences, such as your son's experience. During that stressful time, your son required support and understanding, not punishment.
      As parents, we must advocate for our children and explain their needs to educators. Hopefully, through discussion and understanding, we are able to work toward a more balanced and empathic approach to education that takes into account the specific needs of each kid. Your experience serves as a reminder of the value of empathy and adaptability in our educational institutions. Thank you again for taking the time to share your perspectives with us. Sending big hugs to your son ✨💖 🌟 bless you and your family 🌟

  • @mattmccracken1768
    @mattmccracken1768 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I just really love this guy. Would love to meet him. He places my anxiety and depression in a framework that I can understand.

  • @newdawnrising8110
    @newdawnrising8110 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The condition starts as a form of dissociation toward stressful environments and it causes problems with brain development especially executive functions where impulse control is reduced to various degrees. Kids with impulse control don’t jump up out of their seat and run around. They don’t act out at the slightest upset emotion or thought. That’s the difference and meds definitely help. To not use the meds and go untreated is stupid. Figure it out bc it will drastically affect your life outcomes.

  • @MfConnor
    @MfConnor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is the best interview ive ever seen. This is mind blowingly relatable thank you for posting this. Recently put on Adderall feeling less passionate calmer for sure sleeping better but just down and foggy. ❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words and for for taking the time watching the video! ❤️💖

  • @alexm1841
    @alexm1841 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “This is NOT a disease, it is NOT inheritable.”… two seconds later… “I HAVE ADHD AND A FEW OF MY KIDS HAVE IT TOO”… sounds pretty inheritable to me.

    • @OohlalaHolly
      @OohlalaHolly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

    • @FBAV
      @FBAV 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Describes how much faith I have in people generally but even more how less faith in psychiatry and mental health

    • @bradalfk
      @bradalfk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are completely misunderstanding what he is saying

  • @readwithme64
    @readwithme64 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As an ADHD person, self diagnosed I'm adulthood and seeing it in my mum too, this made so much sense!!!!!!!!!

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you for sharing your thoughts 💕🙏✨💖

  • @misterbd9641
    @misterbd9641 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sensitive animals of which humans are but one type require more care.
    Those who are sensitive think about the future and the many possibilities the future holds. Many of which are negative outcomes. Hence stress and anxiety. No matter how much of a supportive childhood they had.
    I am one of these sensitive creatures.
    I also, am working on myself especially my brain and how it perceives the world in order to be less stressed and anxious.
    Living life in ultra-hard mode for decades. I am now 53. Diagnosed with Aurism aged 45, Complex PTSD around that time. Last year Diagnosed with ADHD.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you very much for sharing your views and personal experience. It takes a lot of courage to open up about your sensitive experiences. Your thoughts on how sensitive people frequently consider the future and possible negative effects resonate deeply. It's clear that your willingness to work on yourself, especially in learning and managing how your brain interprets the world around you, is wonderful. Your story shows resilience, especially in light of the difficulties you've faced over the years. Diagnoses such as Autism, Complex PTSD, and ADHD can surely add layers of complication, but your willingness to face life's most difficult phase is truly impressive.
      Remember that the willingness to share your story might have a significant effect on others who may be going through similar challenges. Your bravery and dedication to personal development are not only admirable, but also a light of hope for people who may be suffering the same hardships.
      Thank you again for being open and sharing your story. The comments you made serve as a reminder that we are all on our own unique journey, and your courage in embracing it is truly inspirational. Continue your pursuit for a brighter and more meaningful future; your determination is a great strength. Have a nice day 💖💖💖

  • @dawnsabir4197
    @dawnsabir4197 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One thing I’ve seen is people w ADHD are usually true to who they are😌

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing your observation! It's always great to appreciate the unique qualities that individuals with ADHD bring to the table. They truly inspire us to be true to ourselves.

  • @rowanstarling3816
    @rowanstarling3816 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm not an expert, but I have watched 2 dozen or more ADHD videos and read multiple websites. What people need to know, even though I love Dr. Mate, is that you can get a room full of ADHD exports together, and they won't agree on the causation. Some say it is inherited/genetic, and some a coping mechanism of trauma. There are significant brain differences, and there are dopamine issues, so supplements can help. I advise everyone to do their own research. Also, other mental or psychological problems can mimic ADHD. I have c-ptsd from trauma and have 18 of the 21 criteria for Inattentive Type ADHD, but I'm not ADHD.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for taking the time to watch my videos and read multiple websites on ADHD. Your dedication to learning and spreading awareness is truly inspiring. It's important to gather information from various sources and do our own research to understand the complexities of this condition. bless you💖🙏

  • @robertkrantz5004
    @robertkrantz5004 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Joe shouldn’t talk about mental health or anxiety, addiction. He’s the classic “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” guy. Part of the problem, really.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts about this topic and for taking the time watching the video! 💖🙏

    • @JasonLee-gr2eo
      @JasonLee-gr2eo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Think differently it may help

    • @bryanwilliams6032
      @bryanwilliams6032 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bull shit.

    • @TheJonafer
      @TheJonafer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some of us believe it is an experience not an identity

    • @kimbaka4364
      @kimbaka4364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheJonaferthat’s not how trauma works.

  • @mmoro143
    @mmoro143 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And the solution is not about focus on what the world, life brings, but how we HANDLE it😊

  • @redpilltattoo
    @redpilltattoo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its like a ocean wave washing away a thought. I realized that at three years old. Its like a wave

  • @gojiberry7201
    @gojiberry7201 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I figure that I was an egg in my mother when she was very young, being raped repeatedly by family members, and abused in a house with two horrible parents, one narcissistic, the other with severe PTSD from WWII, always screaming at each other. I don't remember anything from my own childhood, but my mother never addressed her wounds or acknowledged them, so she was controlling and erratic. I do remember her telling me that my brother cried a lot, and she was told to just let him cry himself to sleep. Both my brother and I have severe mental health problems.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm really sorry to read about your and your brother's painful childhood situation. It is very hard when parents do not treat their own traumas or offer the necessary assistance for their children's mental well-being. Your willingness to share your story is a courageous step toward healing and understanding.
      Childhood experiences can have an important effect on our mental health, and it is important to know that you and your brother are not alone in dealing with these difficulties. Many individuals can relate to what you're going through, and sharing your experience can give others hope that they are not alone. Remember that getting professional treatment and support can make a major difference in managing and improving your mental health. It's never too late to focus on healing and coping with the consequences of your childhood traumas. Your courage in addressing these difficulties is admirable, and I wish you and your brother the best on your journey to improved mental health. 💪💕

    • @gojiberry7201
      @gojiberry7201 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@yourinnerchildmattersThank you friend ❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@gojiberry7201 likewise beautiful soul ❤

    • @grantlandking4361
      @grantlandking4361 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. Understanding is key to being able to heal because it allows you to talk about all aspects of your trauma and its causes quite effectively. People who really need to hear your story will read it and instantly identify elements of it in their own life, thus sparking the ability to heal and share anew. Some will tell you how grateful they are for helping them through the process and thats truly a special thing of value in life! God bless you & PEACE upon your house.

    • @gojiberry7201
      @gojiberry7201 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@grantlandking4361 That is beautiful. Thank you, friend 😊

  • @tej6176
    @tej6176 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I think people with adhd are just wired differently, they are also very sensitive and have antennes that other people dont have( or they are not switched on) So depending on the state and energy of the surroundings and the world they can absorb and feel very restless cause of things going on in the world around them, or just in the world in general. Also people with this antennes are more sensitive to for excample the moon phase. Usually a lot of children in general react to the moon or storm in the air, i observed this cause i work with kids. The conflict for sensitive people is always, you want to connect with others, but you also need a lot of alone time to recharge yourself and be in nature or somewhere you like. This can sometimes feel lonely but is nessecary for those people to not get sick. People need eachother, but people can also be to much for eachother. Its like finding the right balance with socialising and not having alone time and not feeling weird or guilty about alone time. I found that if you are alone in nature and hear birds and see all the life there, you dont feel alone and you release a lot of stress among trees and plants.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It is well explained how people with ADHD have different sensitivities and experiences. Finding that balance between socializing and having alone time can be difficult, but it is important for general well-being. Nature has an amazing ability to provide peace and rejuvenation.🌿💕

    • @_Mogreal_
      @_Mogreal_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I Never saw a stranger describe how I feel so well and I also just realized that I have that so called ‘adhd’. For a long time I thought I’m different or just not worth it but the last couple of months I started to understand myself and care for myself. Stay blessed and healthy and thanks for your input🙏🏻

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@_Mogreal_ thank you so much for sharing your insights 💕🙏✨

    • @_Mogreal_
      @_Mogreal_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yourinnerchildmatters thanks to you for making sensitive people feel heard. Your changing worlds with your knowledge. Wish u the best with all my heart

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@_Mogreal_ Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful message. It means everything to me to know that my content has helped sensitive people like yourself. The things you said really touched my heart, and I am grateful for your encouragement and well wishes. Empathy and understanding are powerful tools, and I've dedicated myself to making everyone feel heard and respected. I'll keep doing my best to share knowledge and insights that can make a difference in the lives of individuals who connect with my content. Your warm wishes are greatly appreciated, and I send them right back with all my heart. Feel free to message us at any time if you have any questions, comments, or simply want to connect. We can all work together to make the world a more compassionate and understanding place. I wish you the best as well, and thank you again for your lovely message.💖🌠💖🌻💕

  • @clausthalerstudentin
    @clausthalerstudentin ปีที่แล้ว +4

    00:40 adhs 1:50 3:10 4:00 5:00 7:25 Trauma

  • @TS-xg4bd
    @TS-xg4bd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like dr Gabor Mate so much more than jordan peterson. Does any1 else feel overwhelmd hearing J Peterson

  • @Food4CriticalThought
    @Food4CriticalThought ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A coping mechanism. I agree.

  • @johndeipzvergara4685
    @johndeipzvergara4685 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is really true. Great explanation. I love it.

  • @anoniminpoezie8509
    @anoniminpoezie8509 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant, Gabor!!! This îs what I thought from the very beggining when I started working with Autistic Children: "The diagnosis describes things, but don't explain them!" Most of us get stuck in this vicious circle: the child behaves this way because He or She got ADHD or Autism, etc. What shows îs the Autism ore ADHD, but îs not the cause of the child's behaviour, îs just the description of IT, all under that label. Thank You for this clarification!!! This way se can free our mind and look for the real cause of what se lable as Autism ore ADHD. Beside dissociation caused by emotional and attachment issues, I would also take food and pollution ( including electromagnetic one) into account.

  • @KimSenior
    @KimSenior 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I understand this completely from my own childhood which was traumatic 😢

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for taking the time watching the video and for sharing your thoughts✨

    • @KimSenior
      @KimSenior 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yourinnerchildmatters You’re welcome. It took many years for me to work out the reason for my behaviours and illnesses were due to my experiences as a very young child and growing up. I wanted to be accepted and like until my 30’s then I decided to please and be myself, I felt a weight being lifted.

  • @No-nl8jn
    @No-nl8jn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My way to healing was : massage every 2 week, microdosing psilocybin, L-Lysin, multi microbiom pills , multi vitamins A.B,C,D,E and lots of minerals copper, zink magnesium, boron, selen + intamitting fasting on keto and sport 2 or 3 times a week. And believing in Good.... blessings from Danmark 😊

  • @korbendallas2508
    @korbendallas2508 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you've indured such trauma consistently on a daily bases your lifestyle, your every action is a coping mechanism so you can avoid the problems you don't know how to solve and just try to ignore, then ignoring becomes a habit for all your problems. You develop a survival state of mind like your just getting through things repeatedly and repetitively till you get stuck on a loop with no escape depriving your self of change or growth and kills ones ambitions for goals or a future. Some just stop caring and drown themselves in self doubt and instant gratifications and distractions making one an addict in some way shape or form with or without the stereotypical hard drugs or alcohol because there's nothing you can't turn into a drug like for instance video games, 9orn, social media, delicious bad food, pot, masturbation and other terribly reckless bad habits

  • @kloebl10
    @kloebl10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How do u heal it now as an Adult? Because these coping mechanisms no longer serve me and now are hindering me in most areas of my life.

    • @NicolesNaturals
      @NicolesNaturals ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's what I want to know. I've been to therapy and it doesn't help me. What the heck are we supposed to do to actually heal and live a productive and happy life? Anxiety has completely destroyed me.

    • @blancachula
      @blancachula ปีที่แล้ว

      I took Bufo Alvarius and I’m a different person

  • @bernadettelampman6394
    @bernadettelampman6394 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is much more complex than be there for your child when they are upset. We are in an age of techno distraction like no other. The phone is set up to create compulsions and addiction and attention defeficet. Parents no longer can afford for one of them to be the parent at home. Most homes both have to work. Who’s watching the kids ? The teachers tv computer or phone. Parents are exhausted. And broke. It’s too easy to say be there for them. Pick them up when they cry. I was. I did. There’s no such thing as stress free parents. There’s stress free moments. It isn’t that I disagree it’s just the tip of the iceberg. And honestly this talk just feels like a guilt trip for parents.

    • @lisbethbird8268
      @lisbethbird8268 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't take that trip. This is taken somewhat out of context from an interview took place at least a year or two ago. Don't let them drive you nuts. Don't beat yourself up.

    • @alvinzamudio5126
      @alvinzamudio5126 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mate does not believe in blame, only assessment to enlighten for healing. What he is discussing is only one aspect of a larger problem. And it’s not just when they are upset. It’s when they feel overwhelmed and insecure. It’s a coping mechanism.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alvinzamudio5126, I do agree with you.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No worries, I am sure you are a very good parent, and you did and doing your best to be the best parent. Bless you dear!

    • @cristinacamero5289
      @cristinacamero5289 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree with you 100% till you take it as a guilt trip. I think this system in this society, is the problem, everybody is so busy and so ignorant of the importance of what dedicated attention to your children means. I see it as an investment. And when we don't do it we both ourselves and our children will pay the consequences of those actions. I have never seen any of the comments of Mate as a guilt trip, quite the opposite. Maybe you are very sensitive because you are dealing with that right now and overwhelmed, but I will suggest to hear it with an open mind, and gratitude towards this guy who has been studying and sharing this for the good of others. Something else, I have shared this with my daughter and she closed to it because she felt it as a guilt trip as well, too bad she is missing this important information because she was not open to received the valuable information that was offered.

  • @cliffordmartin8984
    @cliffordmartin8984 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brilliant …..I understand now…..Thank You……Cliff

  • @Mithras444
    @Mithras444 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I must share that micro dosing shrooms is NOT for everyone. I tried it and discovered I have a lot of surppressed trauma. It also freaked me out so much I lost my hair! So did six othef women in the group. It can cause alopecia. So its not for everyone.😮

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you very very much for sharing this, appreciated it much 💫💕🙏✨

  • @sheilabree1991
    @sheilabree1991 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But, this video doesn't so much as give a hint of How to cope with anxiety as an adult with a panic disorder. Do you know if Dr Gabor has a video on that topic ? Thank you.

  • @carynmartin6053
    @carynmartin6053 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Makes so much sense 🎉❤😮

  • @Tania-zn8pr
    @Tania-zn8pr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview!!❤

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish people understood that more than half my teachers tried to explain my introversion and stress thst showed up in the classroom

  • @lauragadille3384
    @lauragadille3384 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have terrible chronic anxiety and being diagnosed with ADHD makes it worse. I'm sorry but I disagree on your thoughts Joe on anixety. I believe it's inherited and is a diblating diease. Walk a mile in my shoes and you will see.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much fir sharing your thoughts.🙏✨💖

  • @andrewpipitone1572
    @andrewpipitone1572 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alot if this has to do with our food choices. We need to eats whole real foods. Alot of green leaves. Nuts, quality red meat, fish. Many of these problems would go away in kids. Not only kids but adults as well. We'd get rid of our diabetes and Cardiovascular and heart disease would be solved as well. We need change in our society. It starts here.

  • @cheezee555
    @cheezee555 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some ppl may have generational anxiety. Slaves , adult and children lived in a very unsafe insecure dangerous world. Parents had to instruct their children on what to do if you get sold etc. There were generations of children that could not really be comforted.

  • @annaeskilstunagruppen6236
    @annaeskilstunagruppen6236 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Actually adhd shows a biological lack of a geneexpression (DRD4-7R), dopaminefacilitator. This produces the hyper-and impulsiveness. It has been around since the development of homo sapiens and is the main reason people started to explore new continents. About 20% of humans have this, wich indicate societies need this expression to further develop. (Anders Hansen, dr of psychiatry).

    • @violent_bebop9687
      @violent_bebop9687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ok, what the other 40% diagnosed???

    • @marquisway6022
      @marquisway6022 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😊

    • @scarred10
      @scarred10 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Way over simplified,theres no evidence any single genetic mutation causes any disorder much less a brain one.What youve tead is an evolutionary psychology hypothesis for why such a trait would survive in human species

  • @joe-bg6ij
    @joe-bg6ij 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I get joes outlook and he is right its not unnatural it just doesn't work in this modern society

  • @jojozepofthejungle2655
    @jojozepofthejungle2655 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I write for Quora from time to time addressing issues in the family as a whole when it comes to adhd. I loose patience with parents who ask a question like (my child has been on adderol for 7 days and there's no change. I immediately know that the child has never been a child but more like the family escape goat 😢. I say, you must have thick skin being adhd.

  • @barrybisson2847
    @barrybisson2847 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I grew up in a alcoholic home getting beaten up by my father as a child my mother would try to stop him from beating us up three boys I'm the middle you know the middle child syndrome i can tell you it's true my father would beat me the most i can remember back to being a very small child maybe 2-3 years old I'm now over 60 and i have had problems my hole life to many I'm to embarrassed to go get help i keep reliving things and can't stop thinking and bring it up i piss off my girl friend now because of it i try to stop talking about it but when i get sad it comes out i don't even realize it until she says it to me i need help i keep saying that im going to talk to someone about it and never do i have nightmares about what happened to me from the beatings i got i have tried to beat up my ex-wife and some girlfriends in my sleep because they touched or bumped into me or tried to wake me up my father used to pull me out of bed when i was a sleep and throw me across the floor some night's i would not sleep until he would pass out I'm sorry i feel sad I'm going to look into getting help and hope i don't back out im saying this because you can't see me and don't know me we all have a story good or bad thank you for listening peace your Canadian neighbour

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing such an intimate aspect of your life with us. It takes enormous guts to open up about your background, and you are truly inspiring for doing so. I want you to know that you are not alone in your journey. Many others have had similar difficulties and looked for help and healing. It's never too late to get help, and I'm happy that you're thinking about it. Remember that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Your story shows the resilience of the human spirit. You've been carrying a heavy load for far too long, and now it's time to let it go. Seeking guidance from experts can give you with the tools you need to navigate the pain and create your path to a brighter future. Choosing to share your experiences may also benefit others who are struggling in silence. You've already done an important step today by speaking out, and you should be proud of yourself. I sincerely hope you find the peace of mind and healing you so well deserve. You have my support, and I am confident in your ability to overcome these challenges.
      Take care, and please know that we are here to help💖🙏

  • @cliffcardinal9443
    @cliffcardinal9443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I first became a Professor in medical school I heard this man was coming from an Invitation of a Student Group, but not in the Faculty of Medicine. I walked out after half an hour hearing him talk about himself and the shortcomings of Medicine today in diagnosing mental Health Stressors that we normally grow out of (nature does that when we mature in a Natural Setting of most societal groupings)... He says he speaks the Truth, he says this in the books he writes, this is his truth not ours as Canadians as he has told himself, that, "most physicians are prescribers' of Pills." In med school there are classes about Prescribing Medications ethically, and to do no harm." But, by lumping all doctors as, "its not taught in medical schools," it is insulting as a professional!

    • @rhonnachurch6929
      @rhonnachurch6929 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get over yourself. He has more comprehension of mental illness than any doctor I've ever been to. There is nothing about healthcare that is ethical today, and there is not any part of the healthcare process that is caring. Doctors are not gods and going through medical school does not mean you know everything about people's ailments. They call it "practicing medicine" for a reason, and it's because until you see, experience, and successfully treat the same condition over a period of time you don't have the experience without the accumulated time or patients. Prescribing medications is not treating people oftentimes. For you to say you got up and walked out is just a prime example of a typical doctor that has no interest in learning things that would help patients, and will discredit anything that doesn't give yourself a feeling of superiority.
      If doctors are swearing to do no harm, then why is there some who are harming kids before puberty, by giving them hormones, and encouraging transitioning or doing the surgery, all in the name of " healthcare" and " gender affirmation"? Is it also " Canada's truth" to have the ability to end your own life at any age for any reason, with the assistance of the medical professionals?????

  • @montamiddleton9318
    @montamiddleton9318 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I wish the Dr would explain why ADD ADHD are so prevalent now. I was born in 1956 and this was not a thing. No kid was on medication. But we did have something the last generation or 2 don't have. Discipline and respect for figures of authority. But to be fair we weren't surrounded by technology the minute we came out the womb. I really think that constant technology is the culprit of so many kids being on the autism spectrum.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and raising an important point about the prevalence of ADD and ADHD today vs past generations. You've mentioned some important factors that have changed throughout time. You are completely correct that there has been an important rise in the diagnosis of ADD and ADHD over the last few decades. . To begin, it is important to note that our understanding of these illnesses has progressed greatly since the 1950s. There was less awareness and diagnosis back then, which could explain why it appeared to be less common. Today, we have a greater understanding of these disorders, which allows for more accurate diagnosis.You additionally pointed out discipline and respect for authority people, both of which are important aspects of child development. While technology has altered our interactions with the world, it is important to recognize that correlation does not always imply causation. Technology may be both a blessing and a curse for modern parents, and its impact on children's development is still being researched.
      Concerns regarding technology's influence in childhood development are true, and scientists are researching its implications. However, it is important to approach this topic with an open mind and take into account the many elements that contribute to the changes we see in youngsters of today. In summary, the growth in ADD and ADHD diagnoses may be affected by a variety of variables, including increasing awareness, changes in diagnostic criteria, and, definitely, the developing character of our society. It's a complicated problem, and I appreciate your insightful comment.
      Please feel free to share any further views or insights on this topic. We can only comprehend these difficulties if we have open and respectful discussions like this💕🙏✨💖

    • @FuriousEevee93
      @FuriousEevee93 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re right about technology being a culprit but there is also more to it. It’s the food that we’re eating now people are more unhealthy now a lot of obesity, diabetes, heart disease, and cancer. We have a lot of fast food places in the U.S. and they put chemicals in our food that can have consequences on us and our children which the FDA allows. These chemicals are also banned in other countries. Chemicals are in our water and prescription drugs and hygiene products. The air we breathe is even polluted. Parents nowadays are nothing like parents from back then kids get away with more now that’s why they don’t respect authority.

  • @rickrussell6188
    @rickrussell6188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can remember my 1st anxiety panic attack at the age of seven delivered by my father, I thought I was going to die. He thought this was good parenting. It has now been the main driver in my life, sadly. Do seek help as this will effect you all your life and will be passed down to your children and effect all of your relationships ... My dad was a bully and my mom had extreme anxiety and shared it with all the children..

  • @willytompkins8115
    @willytompkins8115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since kids are running the household they decide whats for dinner, what kind of phone they want, and what sports they want to do no matter who has time to drive them .. I would say they are stressed put from all the decisions thry are making.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for watching and thanks for sharing your thoughts.Bless You

    • @scarred10
      @scarred10 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True,half of them need a good kick up the hole

    • @Cuteemogirl94
      @Cuteemogirl94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They also need a bit of disziplin. I have two children. Me and my husband deside when they go to bed, brush their teeth, where we are goikg most of the time and much more things. Most of the time my husband and me deside what we are going to eat. They eat what's on the table (I consider what they don't like and don't put it on their plate)

  • @dagmarmedabrejlova8825
    @dagmarmedabrejlova8825 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👏👏👏

  • @scobrado
    @scobrado 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The biggest mistake I perceive in this clip is "The world is the same every day." It's not the same every day across the board, and it's not the same for any pocket in which we dwell an face are own, ever-changing unique world. Situation, among other things, drive attitude, anxiety and depression.

  • @xw6475
    @xw6475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does anyone know where i can find the whole interview? I would like to see that. Thank you very much in advance.

  • @DJK-cq2uy
    @DJK-cq2uy ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This host!!!!! Interrupt and subtly argue with the expert???? Really intellect 👦

    • @renakmans3521
      @renakmans3521 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Joe Rogan, famous and infamous…

  • @kristinahansen1
    @kristinahansen1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big no. My daughters adhd is a real disorder. Diagnosis at 17 saved her life. 17 years of hell.

  • @vintagebeliever5023
    @vintagebeliever5023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow!

  • @suzanneknight-om4dn
    @suzanneknight-om4dn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my life …at 65 ….therapy has got me , but I will fall into the dig… but I climb back out …. So much , thank god for my therapist, Tammy , in Nova Scotia , my bf murdered, then the22 murders.. in Nova Scotia , I am in trauma ..c4c5 spinal cord injury 20-23 yrs , it took a very long diagnosis.narcissistis adopted me , 1958… parents in world war ll my life was insane , I just knew I didn’t belong to these people .. , father had me so high
    Up in life. He never let me go until the day he died, freedom .. dig … OUR MEDICAL SYSTEM IS A MESS ..GOD HELP US .. CANADA ..

  • @tabtab9437
    @tabtab9437 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Saffron and choline supplements work for me better than stimulant medication
    They help balance my mood, help my memory and I have the best sleep I’ve ever had.

  • @htttppppp
    @htttppppp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "It`s a coping" not "cool thing" mechanism

  • @pablodiablo765
    @pablodiablo765 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Poverty of the spirit"

  • @KaterinaPieroua
    @KaterinaPieroua ปีที่แล้ว

    Soooo true

  • @rozsakyshki1930
    @rozsakyshki1930 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How come the subtitles are wrong? It’s „ritalin“ and „coping mechanism“ for example…

  • @macunz111
    @macunz111 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Children are healing the family and are being scapegoated anyway 😒

  • @mmoro143
    @mmoro143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Substances (illicit, legal, natural) can save a life, not heal the disorder of the non physical aka soul. The good news is that there is a remedy..available for free if you know (learn) how to feel and use it. Anxiety is a symptom of a disorder. The unbalanced way of thinking, absence of inner peace, a natural and healthy state of human mind.❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, i really appreciated it. Bless you!💕 💫

    • @loopink123
      @loopink123 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Talking about your own experience?

    • @mmoro143
      @mmoro143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @loopink123 yes, my personal life experience and measurable positive results. If I can (and did) improve my life..anybody else can too, right?;)

  • @Paolo8772
    @Paolo8772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now that Im almost 53 I forgive my mom for trying Ritalin on me. Since I didn't know it had no effect so they stopped it.

    • @Paolo8772
      @Paolo8772 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for appreciating my comment. I hope this comment doesn't disappoint, but I'm on a daily micro dose of Dexedrine. About a year or two after having finally battled the the worst of a heroin and cocaine habit in 2002 In 2003 I had a mental heath doctor that tried pushing EVERYTHING onto me, and nothing worked until Dexedrine, which I only know because he tried it. Then he didn't let me use it!
      Then in 2004 my circumstances led me into the most insane manic phase of my life; I was on 60 MG of Methadone every day and dealing with intimate relationships lasting longer than a week, which I didn't have yet at the time, (even though I was only 34 years old) which led me to believe I had all the answers when I wasn't actually accomplishing anything despite my over inflated feeling that I had the secret that would change the entire world for the better. Dexedrine helped calm that, with me being allowed to determine which the best dose was. I picked 3/4 of a 5 mg tablet after having determined that any more wasn't helpful, yet any less wouldn't have had any effect. (But I'm no saint: if it were heroin or even crystal meth I'dv'e probably wanted as much as I could get my hands on!)
      Now I have one doctor telling me to increase my dexedrine dose and another telling me to keep it where it is. Considering I've been OK the last two times I travelled and forgot to bring Dexedrine within the past 3 years (resulting in me going without it for over a week then STILL being ok without it) is the best reason for me to not only keep my dose as low as it is, but is also the best reason to entertain the possibility of not using Dexedrine at all.

  • @joelyazell7380
    @joelyazell7380 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is ADHD trauma showing your fight or flight primal brain,creating a world of your own to pour your energy into so misunderstandings can’t condemn you. It my super power,

  • @IAMSEYMOURMUSIC
    @IAMSEYMOURMUSIC 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Joe is a complete cretin on anxiety. No, I'm not thinking about anything at all, my face has just gone tingly, my chest is hurting like crazy, i soaked through three layers of clothes, spent a few minutes dry heaving into the toilet, and now im lying in a puddle of my own sweat while the room spins, and all i was doing was watching tv chilling out

  • @boxingfit
    @boxingfit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What book is he referring too with regards his address book please ?

  • @crunchybroll4731
    @crunchybroll4731 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Diagnosis describe things but they dont explain "

  • @michaelglass9604
    @michaelglass9604 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My hearing is not so good, so when he said ADHD, it sounded like he said "idiocy." Really, it might be more accurate that it is idiocy that professionals are slamming that label on people, especially children, at an alarming rate.

  • @silentbliss7666
    @silentbliss7666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't fully agree with what Joe said @ 9:43 about anxiety

  • @karstenburger9031
    @karstenburger9031 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Nazis promoted the author Johanna Haarer, a woman with a medical education but none on pedagogy. One of the books " Die deutsche Mutter und ihr erstes Kind " (the German mother and her first child) contained also advice like letting the baby cry and not pick it up. The target was to get harder children. After the war the Allieds forbade it's publication, but this book was published later again in a slightly modified way and sold until 1987! I heard myself from professional nurses that it was still used in their training.
    Up to now there is still this diffuse fear in Germany to raise children ' too softly ' and thus to create small tyrants.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for sharing

    • @karstenburger9031
      @karstenburger9031 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yourinnerchildmatters and some really do it in a way, by not setting any borders to the child ...

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@karstenburger9031 🙏✨💖

  • @matthewcallaghan1512
    @matthewcallaghan1512 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yeah nah yeah nah the good Dr is wrong. What he is describing is Cptsd caused by childhood trauma. The symptoms often overlap and Joe not understanding of anxiety disorders. Other than that I like both of them

    • @susan7414
      @susan7414 ปีที่แล้ว

      You sound like a kiwi

    • @kristinahansen1
      @kristinahansen1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is bad information.

  • @lynnegullion-realtor2880
    @lynnegullion-realtor2880 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great interview always with GABOR MATE …….but the background music is distractful and depressing

  • @susan7414
    @susan7414 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok I’m going to have to think about this theory. I have four siblings I’m the only one with attention deficit. I have had five children only one has attention deficit 🤫

  • @TnSn5
    @TnSn5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When the interviewer tries to sound like he knows better than the interviewed

  • @phileagle2834
    @phileagle2834 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To late for me natures cruel

  • @JohnnyUtah168
    @JohnnyUtah168 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Joe’s need to have the doctor agree with his personal view despite inviting the doctor on his show is palpable and distracting. At least sometimes Joe invites experts on his show to validate his own views for his listeners, not to educate his listeners from the mouth of the expert. I guess that’s why it’s named after Joe Rogan.

  • @michaeldelgiudice1057
    @michaeldelgiudice1057 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    please correct the wrong words in the subtitles.

  • @katekolbeck401
    @katekolbeck401 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to completely disagree with this guy. I’ve had undiagnosed ADD since childhood and have learned to become functional without medication. In no way, shape, or form, does that have to do with any “trauma” or parental relationship, or lack of whatever. I fear he is just trying to explain the uptick in “diagnoses” and not truly looking at the brain function. He is stuck on childhood trauma. So what then explains inability to focus when there is nothing absent in parental relationships?

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have ADD...never been hyper.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ✨💖

    • @tommyfishbone1303
      @tommyfishbone1303 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its internal sometimes not external .Anxiety depression

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tommyfishbone1303 I used to have panic attacks...not anymore!

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tommyfishbone1303 thanks for sharing

  • @real3125
    @real3125 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very interesting interview. But I don't like, how the questioner is interrupting his interview partner. This has become a more and more uprising behavior in so many shows like this. Very sad . The today's society has become so cold and aggressive mass ...

  • @Jack-il3qv
    @Jack-il3qv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have, like everyone else, the freedom to obey the freely given, direct instruction to, 'Have no anxiety...' In this way, I avoid paying for books, therary treatment or medications to, 'Cope or deal with anxiety difficulties.' My life today is far too precious to waste re-hashing yesterday or inventing possible tragedies for tomorrow.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights! It's great that you've discovered a technique to manage your anxieties and cherish each day. Everyone's path is different, and it's inspirational to see how you've prioritized your health and the present moment. We all have different paths, and your words remind us of the importance of living in the moment. On your journey, I wish you continued peacefulness and happiness💖🙏

  • @briancoyle5838
    @briancoyle5838 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s a disorder. It’s literally in the name

  • @Mithra53
    @Mithra53 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The result is that thousand of those kids are now on streets on Fentanyl. Thanks daddy, thanks mummy.