ADHD: A Myth or Reality? Dr. Gabor Maté’s Controversial Claims

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    In this episode, I speak with Dr. Gabor Maté, a renowned author and speaker about ADHD and its impact on people's lives.
    Trigger warning: Controversial opinions on ADHD. Because I'm dedicated to helping as many individuals with ADHD as I can, I push myself to the limit and brought someone to this space who has been a contrarian in the ADHD world specifically, in the origins of ADHD. I'll leave it up to you to decide which viewpoint you agree with. But what is noteworthy is that we can all learn from different viewpoints as we continue to explore our experiences with ADHD, what is, what isn't and how it shows up for each of us.
    You don't have to agree with my guest's viewpoints to reach the benefits of what he shares during this episode. Trauma is a very real topic for individuals and up to 70% of adults have experienced at least one traumatic event in their lifetime.
    Do I agree with everything in this episode?
    Does it matter what I think?
    Listen to the end to hear my opinion.
    What We Discuss:
    • How Dr. Maté believes that ADHD is not a disorder, but a result of the environment in which an individual lives.
    • The impact of childhood trauma on the development of ADHD.
    • The role of parents in the development of ADHD.
    • The need for connection and relationships in managing ADHD.
    • The impact of stress on attention and the development of autoimmune diseases.
    • The importance of taking care of oneself and managing stress in managing ADHD.
    • The role of medication in managing ADHD symptoms.
    • The importance of understanding oneself and seeking help in managing ADHD.
    If you would like to learn more about Dr. Gabor Maté, visit his website, drgabormate.com
    Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Successful with ADHD. If you enjoyed this conversation, please +FOLLOW the podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review to let me know your thoughts.
    TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 - Introduction
    00:38 - A special message from Brooke
    02:27 - Dr. Gabor Mate’s background in ADHD.
    07:14 - ADHD doesn’t have to define you.
    12:24 - The architecture of the brain
    18:28 - The risk of addiction in ADHD.
    23:49 - If you want to get a two-year-old to behave, don’t get triggered…
    26:31 - How much do you have to motivate your kids?
    30:45 - What’s the difference between compounded trauma and trauma?
    35:51 - The importance of the attachment relationship in parenting.
    42:14 - If someone has a troubled childhood and their implicit memory is encoded in their brain, can we remove that memory over time?
    47:49 - Your body and your mind react when you put pressure on yourself.
    52:28 - Gabor’s book recommendations for parents.

ความคิดเห็น • 60

  • @ashleacutitta6372
    @ashleacutitta6372 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I’m so glad that I continued to listen to/watch this video, despite being in complete disagreement initially lol 😂 I actually learned a lot about a topic that I genuinely DO know a lot about. I love when someone can make me completely question what I thought I knew

  • @capgains
    @capgains 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Dialogue/Debate, Russel Barkley & Gabor Mate

  • @jencooper2200
    @jencooper2200 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He makes more sense to me than most regarding this subject and addiction... brilliant man

  • @georginagalanis210
    @georginagalanis210 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is how the standard is challenged and new perspectives and solutions are created . This is how love and wisdom clearly breaks through cyclical and old ways thinking -diagnosis dissected dismantled. Thank you Dr Mate. ❤

  • @nevvanclarke9225
    @nevvanclarke9225 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I work in addictions and oddly I possess ADHD...it sits in my pocket
    The wallet comment sits true for me....
    But it doesn't define me 😮
    I sit for hours and listen
    I go into nature as a photographer after work this is critical for my adhd

  • @DosBear
    @DosBear วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is exactly the reason I finally chose to go NO CONTACT with my family, after 60 years, as I will no longer allow this threat of abandonment to be used against me. It's neglect and abuse. Listening to this man is very helpful with coming to some understanding as to why they behaved in this fashion. It may not make it easier but it certainly helps to know that the issue was not mine to begin with & is not my fault.

  • @septemberdawn1
    @septemberdawn1 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I have just tweeted my senior school teacher to thank them for saving me. I can relate to the ‘clever’ comments of teachers but she was so kind and supportive as i wrote to deal with the pain

  • @maryebert4980
    @maryebert4980 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We have ADHD in our family. I am a sensitive child. Raised in the 1960s. I was hyper active and bored in school. My parents put me in swim team in middle school. The massive exercise made me sleep at night, straight A student. Captain of the swim team. I have asked to be tested for ADHD at age 66 and I do not have it. What is going on?

  • @jamie.777
    @jamie.777 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    DR. gabor absolutely 💯 speaks to me and his videos have brought me to tears 😢. Adhd all my life x ritalin 1982z and still fighting

    • @ClaireCelticMystic
      @ClaireCelticMystic 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I cheer you on. Fighting, to actually heal, may melt into grieving losses; please get support to name everything that harmed you, and then grieve, to heal, to let it all go, to move it through you and out.
      I wish you very well.

    • @Msmeohmy52
      @Msmeohmy52 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for a simple easy for my brain, technique to move on. I’m not looking forward to the grieving and coming to terms with my part in screwing up my kids lives. Better late than never

  • @drinkapavlovic
    @drinkapavlovic 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you Brooke, you did it great!

  • @jeangubar2132
    @jeangubar2132 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I'm now almost 63 and have been struggling since puberty. I had struggles in childhood as well but the stronger problems started later. I had racing thoughts and sometimes severe OCD. Iv not heard anyone mention OCD with ADHD.

  • @bayerdiko
    @bayerdiko 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Best doc ❤️üdvözlöm Dr Gábor ❤

  • @ekaterinabankevitch8513
    @ekaterinabankevitch8513 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Great material, as usual when listening Dr Mate.
    Great host as well.

  • @gir1258
    @gir1258 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I partially agree with Dr. Mate, primarily with his claim that the way in which ADHD diagnosis and treatment is most commonly done does not capture the full scope of the disorder. It is imperative for individuals to educate themselves on the disorder to fully understand how it manifests in their daily lives.
    I disagree with him on most other points, including his assertion that there is no genetic component. There is a large body of quality evidence which says otherwise. Aside from that, there is also ample data showing that there are structural changes within the brains of those with ADHD.
    As someone diagnosed over a decade ago, I still struggle with this disorder on a daily basis. While I am not a doctor, I have still spent countless hours researching and pouring over any relevant studies, listening to lectures, seeing various clinical psychologists with specialization with the disorder, etc. Dr. Mate’s views are quite at odds with the established science.

    • @jamie.777
      @jamie.777 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I have adhd since 1982, and Dr. Gabor speaks to me

    • @nicolegorden
      @nicolegorden 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Well said. Additionally, toxic and chronic stress can also have dramatic impacts on the developing brain. Understanding the differences between adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and ADHD is crucial. Both may have similar symptoms and presentations. You can have both and also have them separately. There is absolutely a genetic component to ADHD and now that we have mapped the human genome and with further advances in neuroscience we understand many of the genes that are associated with it and it’s high heritability . Trauma can also impact genes and there is more research showing how the epigenetic tags are prevalent often in the third generation of offspring. Trauma and ADHD are very different etiologies, but also have a complex interplay. We should question diagnostics because they aren’t yet a perfect science. However to say ADHD is a myth is not only wrong but as a doctor is dangerous and harmful to those who do have it. Here are some references to longitudinal and meta analysis peer reviewed studies and also a short video by Dr. Russell Barkley who is a leading researcher, author and neuropsychologist internationally renowned for his work in this field. wisesquirrels.com/articles/why-dr-gabor-mat-is-worse-than-wrong-about-adhd

    • @user-ib2bt4ck7y
      @user-ib2bt4ck7y 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I believe they touched on the genetic component very briefly, when they were saying how RNA is changed by chronic stress.
      There is a genetic component to many disorders though, traumatic experiences can change how DNA expresses itself. I think Gabor is right on the money here, when he says it is likely a result of chronic stress to the parent and to the child as well.

    • @Reddiscodancer
      @Reddiscodancer 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Established science is often quite at odds with the truth

    • @DocDreable
      @DocDreable 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree that diagnoses are incomplete, that our understanding of the probable swath of disorders that are all falling under the blanket of “ADHD” (just like ASD, schizophrenia, and all sorts of differently functioning brain labels ) are poorly understood. There’s a young woman doing a bunch of as-yet-unfunded research on metabolic differences in ASD that account for a lot of the comorbidities- this is hard science, such as an inability to utilize BH4 properly because of an underproduction of enzymes and subsequent lack of neurotransmitters…this is pretty hard science stuff. So, yeah, emotional, environmental, dietary stress can change gene expression, cause mutations, and result in a very physical problem that keeps brains from functioning optimally. So helping mothers to not be stressed, supporting them emotionally and financially, not letting countries drop bombs on hospitals because “terrorists” might be there, would help our future prospects for having enough functional adults to keep humanity’s head above the water. But right now we need better methods for treating brains that don’t work, which means a better understanding of the metabolic processes that cause them to be inefficient, and sometimes I wonder if this sort of rhetoric detracts from that.

  • @dmarynuk76
    @dmarynuk76 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Great talk, thank you both.

  • @bigantinsd
    @bigantinsd 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Brilliant! Thank you!

  • @DD-jm5ug
    @DD-jm5ug 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Also lessons at school are not interesting. If we incorporate individual interests they may be more motivated.

  • @noellecuisine8912
    @noellecuisine8912 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤ lovely conversation thank you for this!

  • @evaolsvoldsundar9325
    @evaolsvoldsundar9325 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you!

  • @zenakassab5455
    @zenakassab5455 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He’s very knowledgeable. i want to buy his book

  • @synchromystique
    @synchromystique 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Very interesting 👌

  • @joannegray8139
    @joannegray8139 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for this very insightful interview. Gabor's wisdom is so important!

  • @capgains
    @capgains 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Emotional lives of children
    As a parent, I see the importance of

  • @Seeking_Myself
    @Seeking_Myself 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Have read all his books, and I adore his wisdom

  • @HauptmannDE
    @HauptmannDE 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this

  • @samanthaheadland6005
    @samanthaheadland6005 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is wonderful and makes so much sense!

  • @barryhopkins292
    @barryhopkins292 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fan of gabor mate, you should interview Russel Barkley :-)

  • @fatimaarcaro8979
    @fatimaarcaro8979 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He is the best

  • @DocScience2
    @DocScience2 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    There is no consideration of the FACTS that no severe form of ADHD can be found in unpoked populations. and to say anything to that effect gets medical personal severely disenfranchised.

  • @salomekesselring373
    @salomekesselring373 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Gabor for your valuable and so necessary work. ♥️

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      His work is a guessing game..

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      His work is based on other people's knowledge.

    • @annelbeab8124
      @annelbeab8124 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      His work is based on what he experienced and perceives.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@annelbeab8124 that's right...we can all do that!

  • @Lola-AreaCode212
    @Lola-AreaCode212 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I'm so in love with this man.

    • @jamie.777
      @jamie.777 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Me too

    • @ekaterinabankevitch8513
      @ekaterinabankevitch8513 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      One of the best❤

    • @ellygarcia6986
      @ellygarcia6986 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That comment is CHILDISH! Suggest you grow up luv!

    • @ellygarcia6986
      @ellygarcia6986 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What? Grow up.

    • @kristinaciminillo9908
      @kristinaciminillo9908 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

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